All About Reporting

Reporting an inappropriate member is highly encouraged and available to all Seeking users.  If you are having a conversation with another member and they ask you for personal banking information, use derogatory language or send unsolicited private photos it may be time to consider reporting them. Seeking takes user reports very seriously and wants to be notified of any inappropriate activity taking place on the site. How To Report: To report a member look for this icon at the bottom of your message thread: Once you click “Report Member” you will be able to provide details regarding the incident. What Happens …

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Setting Boundaries

All healthy relationships, whether platonic or romantic, require clear boundaries in order to function seamlessly. Often times people think of relationship boundaries as a controlling set of rules, but the reality is that boundaries aren’t about the other person, they are about you. Relationship boundaries are about setting your own limits and learning how to work with the limitations  of your partner in order to effectively work together to maintain a healthy relationship. Below I will outline some guidelines to help you establish clear boundaries in your relationship. Know what you want It’s important to know what you want prior …

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Why She Ghosted

By seemingly disappearing into thin air, the act of “ghosting” has become the newest phenomenon in dating. Let’s face it, being ghosted sucks. You meet a girl and instantly connect, exchange texts with playful banter, have a few dates where the conversation never slows, you start getting serious feelings for her and then the next day, she’s gone. Calls aren’t returned, texts aren’t responded to. She’s vanished. Below are some reasons why she may have ghosted.   Too Aggressive Did you text her right after dropping her off? Did she wake up to three missed calls from you? Did you …

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