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Different Types of Sugar Dates


Have you ever wondered what a date in the Sugar World is like? Truth be told, the dates themselves aren’t much different from what you would encounter in the typical dating scene. However, the benefits of an Arrangement go far beyond what vanilla dating has to offer.

Here are a few popular first date ideas if you’re stuck on what to do:


Whether it’s grabbing a delicious cup of coffee or a swanky cosmopolitan, drinks are a pretty safe starting point for first-timers. It offers the opportunity to meet in person for a short period without the pressure and commitment of sharing a meal together. Once you know there’s chemistry, and you’re sure you want to see that person again, then make plans for something more intimate like dinner.


They say the way to a person’s heart is through their stomach. Many great first dates begin with dinner at a slightly upscale, yet non-intimidating restaurant. The key to making dinner dates a success is picking the right venue with excellent menu options. Be proactive and book a reservation so your table is guaranteed. You can even go the extra mile and request a table with a spectacular view and use it as an icebreaker to get the conversation going.

Most of the time, dinner also includes dessert. Dessert is the ultimate way to see if your date is into you. If he/she accepts dessert, it’s a definite yes!


For those who are more adventurous, dates that include an adrenaline rush are usually more exciting and favored. Going skydiving or taking a helicopter ride over the bright city lights can be an excellent experience to share and will also create lasting memories of one another. There’s nothing easier than making the mutual activity the focal point of the date if you’re more of a doer than a talker. Even something simple as ice skating or hiking can be quite romantic and makes for a great opportunity to get up-close and personal with your date.


Who doesn’t love a little art and culture? Having your date at a museum or an art gallery can be quite fun as well. Explore each other’s tastes in high brow or low brow art and have plenty to talk about. Bonus: you’re almost always guaranteed to be supplied with unlimited wine there.

Special Events

There are occasions where special events such as operas, military balls, or fundraising galas can become ideal dates. These are wonderful opportunities to get to know your date in a social setting. These events are often paired with delicious hors-d’oeuvres, wine, and/or dinner.

Ultimately, no matter which type of date you decide to partake in, it’s the company you keep that makes or breaks the experience. Chemistry is chemistry is chemistry, and it cannot be forced. Relax, be yourself, and most of all, have fun! Good luck!


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43 Responses to “Different Types of Sugar Dates”

  1. Anonymous says:

    Every year my ages goes up but my sugar babies ages remain the same. How cool is that!

  2. Anonymous says:

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  3. Anonymous says:

    I have made a few comments as Anonymous since this blog does not allow me to post under my name.

    Yours truly!

    Shawn Freeman

  4. Anonymous says:

    After meeting a hot young woman through SA at Starbucks and closing the “sale” and after saying goodbye to her with a kiss, a young man, who was staring at us all this time, approached me and asked how can he meet such hot women. My answer to him was, “make a lot of money!”

    His answer was, “damn, I knew it, I knew it.”

    Cherish what Brandon Wade has created for you. Your age goes up, the sweet assess’ age remains the same. How cool is that! 😉

  5. Anonymous says:

    Thank you SeekingArrangement to bring me more young women to sugar date than what I could’ve ever done on my own. You have saved me months if not years of mankind trying to find the kind of young ass I like to sugar date with.

    Thanks to Branden Wade and especially his mom!

  6. alternatedating says:

    So … I know age differences in dating have been around for centuries. And, when I’m in the Flagship lounge at Miami or LAX with a younger GF, its pretty obvious that I’m not the only one.

    But lately, I’m getting a lot of comments and trying to figure out the best way (or if) to respond. For example, was in Nordstroms the other day and we were looking at some outfits and the woman waiting on us tells my GF, you have the coolest dad! And, then I’ve had a couple of check in agents at hotels while traveling repeatedly ask if we only want a king. Then there was the waiter in Malibu who runs over to the table as soon as hit the bathroom to ask my date whether she was really old enough to drink.

    I’m a pretty below the radar guy, not acting or dressing flashy, and the women I’ve been with are super smart, classy, and not flashy either but I’m sure they’re a little embarrassed by these comments even if they are laughing at the time. Not sure if there is a good to respond to the people making comments or the women I’m with that makes them less embarassed. Open to ideas.

    • Anonymous says:

      Make no snide remarks or disparaging comments to service providers. Make casual comments beforehand that clarify the relationship, such as, “my friend and I…”

      Any remotely rude comments from you will go against you. Most people are jealous of you to have young and in your arm. Enjoy!

  7. Feddy Uppy says:

    All I am getting is platonics, fin doms, cam girls or scammers. Occasionally a genuine girl appears but then reveals she’s got two full length sleeves or minimum 40 tattoos.

  8. duh says:

    Here we go again, and as someone remarked in the comments why a company of SA supposed stature in the marketplace employs these naff writers I do not know… more unrealistic totally fantasy situations like helicopter rides and belive me no man of stature takes a completelyunknown sugar date to a masked ball or big ticket event; you want to reserve those occaions for quality women you 100% know you can rely on socially, dressing the part and also rewarding intimate behaviour on the day. I have spent literally thousands on first date dinners in London and other cities at hundreds of pounds of expense per evening and the stories I could tell as an experienced SD would blow the illusory lid off the ‘dream world’ that SA writes limply try to create about the sugar bowl. The man who said what about the date when the girl takes cash and vanishes is far more acurate to the truth, believe me. I have had more scams than I can list. The odds are this post liks almost any I make here which criticise the illusory world created by SA writes will not be publicised or will be censored as I have seen how paranoid they are about the real truth of the sugar bowl. Why don’t you let some really experienced SD and SB write about the REAL world not the The Matrix worl you want us all to think we can inhabit….if there was a feedback forum on this site you would soon see the more grim reality

  9. No ideas says:

    You forgot about the dates when she takes the money excuses to go to the toilet and neber comes back.

    • Anonymous says:

      No advance money. Period! Even if you’re in a room about to get hot and heavy. As soon as she gets the money, she’s thinking about how to use that money, and NOT about you.

      • Eve London says:

        Oh it’s sad to read about all this paranoia, I am a genuine sb, I would never run out on someone, unless I felt like they were deranged or psychotic…but then I’m sure that’s an acceptable exception…and I would certainly never scam money- from anyone. I think when one becomes bitter and disillusioned with the site then it’s time to take a break (this is directed at both gentlemen and ladies) <3

  10. Rebecca says:

    Really wish they would contract freelance writers (such as myself) who are SB’s. Content needs work!

  11. Anon too says:

    I prefer a simple lunch date. Low pressure, public/safe, and not too obvious.

    • Anonymous says:

      Coffee date is the best. The most she will cost you is $15-$20, if she decides to get a meal out of the date. No issues related to serving alcohol to a minor if she turns out to be one.

  12. Anon says:

    What is the point of articles like this?

    • Anon too says:

      These articles, with terms like “upscale” and “art”, are intended to portray the sugar bowl in the best possible light. They run pictures of a relatively young SD wearing a tux. I wish they didn’t feel the need to recruit this way. Some potential SB fall for it and have wild expectations that end in disappointment. Good times can be had, but one has to be realistic.

    • Anonymous says:

      Search engine fodder…

    • Anon_SD says:

      To bad truth in advertising isn’t followed. This definitely tries to put the idea into the heads of the SB’s that a luxury lifestyle awaits them. Very, very rare if that happens at all. Probably makes it harder to deal with when trying to negotiate a realistic relationship.

      • Anonymous says:

        also explains the quick drop out rate when they realize it’s not what they thought

      • alternatedating says:

        I’ve paid a few semesters of tuition, MCAT/LSAT prep courses, and many months of rent in the couple of years I’ve been on this site but… had a coffee date the other day with a women who was very upset that I wouldn’t agree to provide a 3K a month allowance to meet once a week …

      • Anonymous says:

        SA is doing fantastic. They bring hoards of disillusioned and not so disillusioned women as leads. It’s up to you to close the “sale.”

    • Anonymous says:

      To make the SBs feel that they will get AT LEAST $3,000-$5,000 monthly allowance plus other perks.

      • Anonymous says:

        that’s what they want but i doubt they get that much

      • Anonymous says:

        They don’t get anywhere close to it.

      • Anonymous says:

        No they don’t.

      • alternatedating says:

        Thankfully in my area there are occasionally smart and interesting women who realize they aren’t going to get that kind of allowance, but the ones over 30 always have crazy expectations. For example, there was an attractive 40 year old who insisted she always received 3000 a month for once a week meetings and would never spend the night or take trips.