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Sugar Daddy Date Preparation
  • Posted Nov 17, 2015

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At this point in life, you’ve hopefully been on a few dates. A few bad dates, to be more specific. Let us go over the best ways to make your next date a smashing success.

Phone calls

There are a couple phone calls that need to be made prior to the date, preferably the day before. The first one is to her, confirming times and making sure she’s still up for it. This is also the time to make sure she doesn’t have any qualms or allergies with the cuisine. Always have a phone call before meeting someone, it can help you decide whether you really want to take her out.

The next call is to the restaurant making a reservation. Don’t show up without one, even if the place is empty, she’ll feel good knowing you took the initiative to prepare for your date. Finally, call or text anyone who might decide to blow up your phone during the date, and kindly ask them not to. You don’t want her to be on her phone, so try to stay off yours.

Arrive early

Nothing says you don’t care like arriving more than 15 minutes late to a date. I suggest arriving early, and sitting at the bar to wait for her. That way, you get a head start on drinking so you’re loose, and you can text her saying “I’m the devilishly handsome man in the black shirt at the bar.”

Cash in

Make sure to stop and get some cash, so if the credit card machine goes down or the street vendor doesn’t accept Amex then you’re covered. It’s always nice to have a little extra on hand if you want to throw her a token of your appreciation, or if you leave your card at the bar on accident and need to pay the cabbie.

Free your expectations

The best advice you can take on a date is to be disassociated from the outcome. This date doesn’t mean anything until it does. Go in with zero expectations, that way you won’t set yourself up for disappointment. Never go into the date with the expectation of sex. With that said…

Bring a condom

It’s probably not going to happen on a first date, but if this is a few dates in you surely want to have a little protection handy. Sometimes men who have been out of the game for a while forget this little lifesaver. It makes for a much less awkward chat when the moment arises if you have one, or even better, paves the way for no talking about it at all.

Self check

Look in the mirror, shave your face, iron your shirt, and brush your teeth. This is the final step in turning a date into an arrangement. Dress for the occasion, and be someone she’s proud to be seen with.

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862 Responses to “Sugar Daddy Date Preparation”

  1. Lifeforce02139 says:

    A naïve question for the Sugar Babies. I had a first meeting over dinner with a woman and I thought things went pretty well. But she did not send a thank you text that evening or the next day. I assume that means she isn’t interested in pursuing an arrangement with me. And don’t want to come across as needy by contacting her again. I am new at this and could use some advice.

    • Anonymous says:

      Did you send a “had a great time -hope to see you again” text ? If no then do it and if she doesn’t respond forget her. If you did then forget her .

    • TVC15 says:

      Did she thank you after dinner? If so, a thank you text (although nice) would be superfluous.

      Many women still expect the man to be the pursuer, even in the sugarbowl. I would never contact a man after the first meeting. I like to give him space to poof if he wants to, and I always assume that if he wants to see me again he will contact me. If you are interested, don’t hesitate to contact her; there’s certainly no harm in asking her out again. If she thinks that’s “needy” it’s her problem, not yours.

  2. Catty says:

    I think someone missed the memo.
    ‘Sugar is a lifestyle choice, not a profession. A sugar baby is a woman who wants to date financially secure men who can provide her with the lifestyle she desires. She’s selective about who she dates; a prostitute isn’t picky about who she takes on as a client. The risks involved with prostitution are countless, and include exposure to crime, abuse, sexually transmitted diseases and theft of service. Many prostitutes are also subject to physical and emotional abuse, especially when involved with a pimp. And in Sugar, sex is never a requirement, only an aspiration.’

    Sugar babies are not whores. They are also not guaranteed to ‘spread their legs’ for you, as you so eloquently put it. There are a number of reasons women lead a sugar lifestyle, a different scenario for each individual.

    To demean women, to put forth the sort of abuse I’ve seen to complete strangers, is both disheartening and sickening. It shows a poor character, as well as a lack of compassion for fellow human beings.

    At the end of the day we are all one human family.

  3. Missy says:

    Is there a website that is limited to us girls where can possibly compare notes on prospective daddies and avoid time wasters and cheapskates?

  4. Lavender R says:

    “no discussion at all” surrounding sex??? nuh huh!!! consent consent conseeennnttt!!! just a casual “can I touch here?” or “is this okay?” or even a simple “how’re you doing?” is sooo sexy to me!! it shows you really care about whether or not I’m enjoying (which makes it more likely I’ll sleep with you again) and can help avoid you doing something which might trigger bad memories for someone! (e.g. I hate having my hair pulled during sex because I have a traumatic memory linked to it, but soo many men think it’s okay to just yank it if we’re having rough sex, and it just means I have to ask them to stop!!)

  5. Bob says:

    *surprised, lol

  6. Bob says:

    Nice :). Always be smelling lovely (not cologne) in clean things. You’d be surpeised who didn’t!

  7. NotDave says:

    I guess Dave has issues with women. Probably started when he was a little boy and his mother used an Englush pin on his pipi so he does not touch himself…

  8. TVC15 says:

    Thanks for the clarification, rapist.

  9. Dave says:

    For every one of you over-the-hill “educated”, literate, and eloquent whores, there are tens of thousands of young, nubile pussies majoring in some useless crap like art history and philosophy. Then they realize they wasted their time and money but the greed for cash never abates. This is where guys like me come in and provide them the only education they will ever need. You are only as good as your pussy.

    • Dave says:

      thumbs up brother !!!

    • Dave says:

      Two thumbs up!

    • Anonymous says:

      Useless crap like art history and philosophy.

      I stopped reading at that.

      • Dave says:

        how does art history contribute to mankind’s progress ? please do tell.

      • TVC15 says:

        It helps give people the ability to appreciate things other than money and pussy. You wouldn’t understand.

      • Dave says:

        wait a second..you’re on this site to extract money from men and yet you say there’s more to life than money$$$ ??? WOW

      • Dave says:

        feminism double speak, in plain sight.

      • TVC15 says:

        Yup. Just like I could be on an art history site, and yet say there’s more to life than art.

        Did you learn something today?

      • Dave says:

        I’m sure you consider yourself an intellectual with that logic.

      • TVC15 says:

        With or without, kiddo.

      • Dave says:

        I can summarize the history of art in 30 seconds. Cavemen drew on walls. Then modern man painted on canvas. Then sprayed graffiti on walls. Then programmed computer images on a screen. The end. But you idiot whores needed 4 years and 125K in student loans to figure that out. No wonder you are selling your pussy on SA.

      • TVC15 says:

        Actually, I know about art without having studied it in school. That’s because I have intellectual curiosity.

        You, on the other hand, can’t see past the end of your cock. That’s why you’re frothing with rage about all the women who’ve said no to it.

      • Kore13 says:

        You forgot to include language, Dave. Art is a form of communication. I haven’t spent a cent on figuring that out either, but I guess you’ve been too busy fixing the hinges on your car door to realize.

      • TVC15 says:

        Or care

      • Dave says:

        LMAO. The only “art” you whores are interested in is the portrait of dead presidents on greenbacks.

        At least it is the only “art” that matters.
        Spare me the “intellectual curiosity” on a pussy to the highest bidder website.

      • TVC15 says:

        Why exactly should I spare you?

        And no, it’s not going to the highest bidder. I would have to like him and I would have to want it, and that’ll never happen with a guy who can’t keep up with me mentally. Like you. :)

      • Kore13 says:

        Which is why so many men with tonnes of money on SA get absolutely any girl they want, right?

      • TVC15 says:

        Again, think about it, fool. I already TOLD you I did not study art history.

        I have a good job. That’s why sugar is not a necessity for me, and why I can be picky and reject mouthbreathing imbeciles like you.

    • Dave says:

      Who gives a fuck if you stopped reading at wherever. You’re going to respond again and again without even reading. LOL

  10. Promise says:

    Is anyone doing anything interesting for the holidays?

  11. Anonymous says:

    Feeding the troll is counterproductive. Look how fat he got off all your attention…
    Just ignore the lowly prick… Let him fuck his 60 year old momma.

    • Dave says:

      There’s just no way the strong independent women can NOT feed the troll. Never did it never will…ignore the troll that is.

      Troll is drama and these women love drama.

  12. Dave says:

    @ DAVE 2.0 .. there’s a second Dave in here…but I’m glad we see things eye to eye…I love it how the female sperm receptacles on this site are attempting to teach morality. Then there’s the white knight who just gave me a lesson in evolution, as if I give a shit. To the whore who wants to give me grammar lessons; I graduated with 2 degrees; one in architecture, the other in engineering. I really did not give a 2 shits about low paying majors, such as the ones you prostitutes majored in; now you have to sell your smelly vaginas in order to pay the bills.

    • TVC15 says:

      Wow, a rapist with MPD.

    • Anonymous says:

      @Dave,

      Unless and until you have some loved ones to spend your money on, the so-called high-paying degree only gives you a large W-2 income subject to taxation. Your tax payment will go to the low-earning women with children, and you don’t get to choose to which one! Your proud “pump and dump” action will just make you a tax mule committing genetic suicide, no different from being cuckolded.

      Women have been gaming resources from men using their vagina and uterii since before the human species evolved into existence. As a man, you choose to which woman (women) you bestow your resources and time, just as a woman gets to choose to which man (men) she bestows her eggs and reproductive space.

      • Dave says:

        I choose who I want to scam..been a win-win so far…as for the liberal state that you praise, it is beta manginas such as yourself that have been the enablers of low class trash. The only difference between them and the whores on SA is just fluff..The fluff are on a website with a fancy name, the street hooker single moms just don’t add the fluff to their trade.

      • Anonymous says:

        The socialist welfare state is enabled by women pumped and dumped by wannabe “gansta” like you. How are you any different from a hood rat never having gone to any college but destroy young women’s pair-bonding abilities? You call those pump-dumpsters “alpha”? What a joke. I call that degeneracy!

      • Dave says:

        every whore on SA I’ve fucked has NOT been a virgin. I’m sure their discerning tastes before me have been ‘gangstas’. wake up you are clueless! The hottest women pro-create and bang losers of all kinds then jump on a site like this and find chumps like you to save tghe day. How many times have you been to a bar where a coked-up cover band lead singer gets more pussy than you do? It happens all of the time and you know it. Alphas in most cases are losers and serial killers and women write them letters. Charles Manson just got married? Do you remember the Menendez brothers and how one of them got letters from Playboy models?

      • Anonymous says:

        It’s fairly obvious that your perverse-selection mechanism has not landed you any virgin or “hottest women.”

        Most women do most things for social proof. While a few female losers have pushed the envelope as far as romancing death row inmates, most women have not gone that far in search of their own validation.

        With your alleged educational background and decades of hard work, you could be a prize for some higher quality women, yet you choose to join the loser boys making no more than $40k/yr whining about women all day and committing genetic suicide.

        If you are afraid of being divorce-raped, just don’t get married. Use your new-found game skills to keep her devotion as long as you can; if she ever strays or if you ever get tired of her nagging, child support is inexpensive for a man making sufficient amount of money. It’s a lot cheaper than hiring lawyers to fight off a string of even false rape charges, and you will have something to show for your money.

        I’m close to 40 myself, and I don’t understand Why you want to forfeit all the fruits of your own labor over the past decades, and reduce yourself to equal footing with a bunch of 20-something fraudsters. If every top 10% or top 1% single guy like you and I did what you do, what incentive would there be for women to be on their better behavior?

        Frankly, what you said just doesn’t compute. If the backpage price is only $200 each, why would you want to waste the time to go on 5-10 dates in order to net 3 “free” lays each month under contencious conditions in a car? You could have had 5-10 lays each month just by paying $1000-2000 (minus the cost of dinners and drinks that you are paying now), without any of the risk or hassle, if sex is the only thing what you are after.

      • TVC15 says:

        It’s not sex he’s after. It’s rape.

        He’s out to punish women for having rejected him. He’s like Elliot Rodger, but he’s using his cock instead of a gun.

        The solution you propose won’t work for him because it results in the woman’s satisfaction. He wants to make them suffer.

      • Anonymous says:

        Well Dave did you really expect a virgin for your minimal allowance? The stakes are high there mate. LOL

      • Dave says:

        You whores do appreciate art. You fuck the starving artists between the ages of 16-25 while high on meth, then once Jeff Spicolli can’t make anymore money painting naked Satans you try to latch onto an SA chump or civilian chump between the ages of 26-35 . While on his dime you sip the glass from Bordeaux’s finest wineries while pretending you have the innate ability to “sense the abstract” at expensive Sotheby’s art galleries. When you get dumped by said rich man, you latch onto wrinkly scrotum chump or mega beta/omega male between 35-45 and hope he’s weak enough to sign over a life insurance plan. The last thing on your small emotional minds is fucking art.

    • Anonymous says:

      Paypig you graduated in your mind, from the school for rapists and now are working at the Ministry of Paypigs.

    • Jaybird923 says:

      “I graduated with 2 degrees; one in architecture, the other in engineering. ”

      “I am actually glad I didn’t get much in my 20s, instead I focused on my goals , college, MBA from a prestigious school,”

      @Dave your’re such a fucking fraud LOL you can’t even keep your story straight

    • I Love Dave says:

      Ha! I love how ur such a Troll Dave! Keep Wasting your time trying to justify yourself hahahah!

  13. Anonymous says:

    @Dave,

    You are on SA because Brandon (or his mom) came up with the brilliant idea of applying capitalistic free market reward/motivational system to dating space. So far, this enterprise is literally vacuuming young and pretty girls from POF, OKcupid, Match.com, and perhaps even college student centers and fraternity houses. Why would you want to ruin such a system with fraud? It’s as silly as putting dead bugs into a delicious dish at a restaurant, for what? so you can skip out on the tab? It’s ridiculous.

    The fraud game that you are so proud of is something that most men in the bottom 90% can pull if they want to. It’s not exactly something worth bragging.

    If you really are as successful at your core competence, which I hope is some kind of productive professional endeavor not pick-up artistry, do you think it is more desirable to have:

    A. a familiar/safe 9/10 or 8/10 girl at your beck and call when you want it; and keeping her exclusive to you too if you can inspire that kind of devotion with a good alpha game after choosing a proper low mileage non-greedy girl and fulfilling her logistical needs.

    vs.

    A. 5-10 first-dates a month resulting in only 3 contentious one-night-stands in a month like you have been doing?

    • TVC15 says:

      Dave’s problem with your first A option is that the woman would get her needs fulfilled, and she might even enjoy herself. That’s unacceptable to a sadist.

      • Anonymous says:

        Good catch, the 2nd “A” should have been “B”

        I think Dave is working through his Anger Phase after the mainstream college and graduate school taught him Denial Phase for so many years.

        Female hypergamy is real. It is the driving force that made monkeys evolve into human beings, and also the fundamental reason behind today’s societal inequality. Women want to rank men, so they can mate with the top half and eliminate the bottom 1/4 or so from the gene pool. Gene death is a little more humane than physical death, which is what men used to inflict upon each other and turned women into weird combination of hypergamous trouble-maker and helpless Stockholm Syndrome embodiment (aka “resilience” staying alive at all cost) at the same time.

        It is what it is. Dave needs to get over the Anger Phase, and move into Acceptance Phase. Even if he is into Sado-masochism, exploring between two consenting adults familiar with each other can be a lot more in-depth and a lot more fun when ultimate safety is assured than a random pick-up game between strangers under fraudulent circumstances.

      • TVC15 says:

        Totally agree with your last paragraph.

        Unfortunately for the women he meets, though, Dave doesn’t like consent.

      • Dave says:

        Spare me the psycho babble Dr. Sigmund Freud.
        I provide a valuable service to these whores. They learn to shut up and submit. They learn how to please men. They learn their place in society.

      • TVC15 says:

        In your dreams, rapist.

    • Promise says:

      Ok I’m confused, and curious. Who’s Dave?

    • NotMarkyMark says:

      Dave sounds like a real jerk-off. Perhaps that’s what he should do.

    • Dave says:

      LMAO at all the feminazis, XX chromosome-apologists, and the White Knights in shining armor posting here defending these whores. Women have been playing these games against men for thousands of years. It’s time somebody returned the favor. I am not The Rapist.
      I am a Therapist.

    • Dave says:

      “A. a familiar/safe 9/10 or 8/10 girl at your beck and call when you want it; and keeping her exclusive to you too if you can inspire that kind of devotion with a good alpha game after choosing a proper low mileage non-greedy girl and fulfilling her logistical needs.” — Dear Mr White Knight, since you’re a busy SD, how do you know she is exclusively with you and fucking the REAL alpha who doesn’t give a shit about her ?

  14. Promise says:

    “This website is proliferated with young greedy pussies ripe for the taking.” Hey! Young, greedy, p**sy with feelings here. :(

  15. elaine says:

    “I spent mine getting an education and working hard”

    You know Davyboy, just change the “t” in spent in the “d” of spend (as we all know you have some spelling and grammar difficulties) and we will say: “Now THAT is a proper thing to do, this kiddo is eager to learn, he wants to learn the difference between your and you’re and work hard, isn’t THAT’s a good boy?”

    Now, if you could also stop using ugly words, your mom will be so proud. :-)

    • Dave says:

      My mom is younger than you are and 100X prettier.

      • elaine says:

        Of course she is younger, otherwise she wouldn’t have a teenager living in her basement, and of course she is prettier, otherwise she couldn’t have such gem of a son!

        Wahahaha, please go on, you are making my day! :-)

      • Kore13 says:

        I’m pretty sure that I know who you are, Dave.

      • Dave says:

        My mom is 60. I am 40. What are you elaine pushing 62 and still passing herself off as a sugar “baby”?

        LMAO.

      • elaine says:

        Awww, you poor little thing! 40 y and still living in your mothers basement, jerking off on 50 shades……..trolling on a adults blog and passing yourself off as a sugar “daddy”?

      • elaine says:

        @Kore

        Like to share?

      • Kore13 says:

        Had to block the guy on SA first. Wouldn’t have traveled to his country for a first meet anyway (for no allowance, perhaps a gift, if that means anything).

        I’m not 100% sure, of course, but a SD from Europe contacted me a while back. He said he was bipolar and you could definitely hear it in the way he spoke and what he said.

        He’d found me on the blog and said that he actually never wrote here. He did most of the talking and he told me a bit about the way he lived – inheritance, banging bi girls, etc. He also thought that most people talked shit and effectively portrayed them as imbeciles.

        I might not be right, but I could imagine a character like that, easily posting such comments on the blog.

      • Kore13 says:

        Sorry, “He’d found me on the blog,” meaning that he’s been here a while already before he decided to contact me. He hardly let me speak a word and knew quite a bit about me from my posts on the blog.

      • elaine says:

        @Kore

        Hmmm, something comes up in my mind, was he also telling all the time how ashamed he was about being on SA?

      • Kore13 says:

        No, he was one some kind of trip. He told me a bit about how there were so many lesbians where he lived, which is why he ended up on SA looking for straight and bi girls.

        Yeah, the type of guy who will transfer the airlines gifts of dried fish in exchange for a flight. 😀 😉

      • Dave says:

        @ DAVE 2.0 .. I didn’t realize this Elaine is a used up – post wall hooker…that explains why she is on every Blog post. Nobody wants to pay for her time. If she’s over 40, I would demand payment just to show up for a date with her.

      • Dave says:

        the dumb fucking retarded curry spice here thinks she knows who I am. Don’t give up your day job as a whore and go into forensics or detective work. Stick to buying red bottoms.

      • TVC15 says:

        A racist rapist!

    • NotMarkyMark says:

      Or you could alter his quote and probably be accurate:

      “I spend mine getting hard and working an education”

  16. Dave says:

    @ KORE. I think you are obsessed with me at this point. Perhaps you’re vag is thoroughly excited in the presence of a Dark Triad man. How many copies of Fifty Shades of … do you own?

    • Anonymous says:

      Dave did you attend collage, or perhaps you just don’t know the difference between your and you’re?

      • Dave says:

        I went to COLLEGE. I graduated from a top ranked university and worked hard to get to where I am now. You are just an uneducated whore. Nothing but a sperm dumpster.

      • elaine says:

        @ Dave

        Haha, a TOP ranked college and the poor thing doesn’t even know the difference between your and you’re.

        Keep on squeezing pimples in your basement and masturbating on the Fifty Shades of Grey copy you stole from YOU’RE mums nightstand kiddo. 😉

      • Dave says:

        elaine you are nothing but an old hag trying to relive her youth. You are past your prime by about 20 years. Nobody is going to pay for your wrinkly hairy geriatric vag. Go troll some senior citizen nursing homes for your SD.

      • elaine says:

        Haha @Dave, at times you are even funny.

        I mean, in the sense of laughable that is :-)

      • Jaybird923 says:

        After sending in your money order, how many weeks did it take to receive your diploma from this “top university” and which website did you purchase it from? LMAO

      • Dave says:

        Ironic coming from a has been (elaine) and bolt on tits (Jaybird) who spent their youth fucking losers. I spent mine getting an education and working hard. Now I pump and dump these young whores. Maybe thirty years ago I would have considered fucking either of you but not today.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        ROTFLMAO I’m pretty sure you’ve considered fucking a lot of people who wouldn’t consider fucking you. I never fuck idiots I have a strict policy about that. Don’t want to risk accidently passing on those genes. You can drop the pretence no one here believes you have a college degree. GED maybe…

      • Bruce Wayne says:

        I personally inspected them, and I can attest they are not “bolt ons” 😉

      • Dave says:

        Whores like you don’t need to go to school. All you have to do is spread your legs. Unfortunately your vag has an expiration date. Yours probably smells like spoiled curdled carton of milk sitting in a fridge after the power has gone out for over a week.

      • Kore13 says:

        Dave, here; [http://www.7cups.com/]

        You can tell them all the BS you want and they have no way to force you to take meds, so I think it’d be a good start for you.

      • Dave says:

        Right on you here comes @Kore. Why don’t you take your smelly Indian pussy back to the Third World where it belongs and have all those nasty countrymen of yours gang rape you.

      • Kore13 says:

        Dave, just wanted to know. I’m sure some of the SBs must’ve been in a hurry to leave you once they realized what you are like… Did your boner ever get caught between the door when they slam it shut on you?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Your continual use of derogatory terms is another sign of the uneducated. You’ll notice that I’ve managed to insult you many times in several different ways with out calling you several terms that would aptly apply to you.

        You don’t come close to my level I can run circles around you all while exerting very little effort. The harder you try the dumber you look. And fyi I smell like orange blossoms on a warm summer day.

      • Dave says:

        An old used up smelly whore who can quote Franz Kafka and Friedrich Nietzsche is still a whore. Go flaunt your edumacation someplace else. This website is proliferated with young greedy pussies ripe for the taking. Jealous much?

      • TVC15 says:

        Whatever, rapist.

      • Promise says:

        @TVC15 That’s not cool to accuse someone of something so serious like that. :(

      • Jaybird923 says:

        You’re the anonymous troll from the other day, November 15@ 8:19pm That persona didn’t work so you tried this one. ROTFLMAO How pathetic are you?

      • Kore13 says:

        @Promise You should read how he thinks on the previous blog.

        I am not sure if what he’s doing isn’t rape, if he’s truly succeeded.

      • TVC15 says:

        Promise, I have no problem with accusing someone of something they’ve admitted to.

      • FatB'StardSA says:

        @Jay…

        ” You’ll notice that I’ve managed to insult you many times in several different ways with out calling you several terms that would aptly apply to you.”

        Your insults are weak. Quantity is not a substitute for quality.

        Have a nice day :-).

      • FatB'StardSA says:

        @Dave

        You are too old to be @Elaine’s SD!

        Have a nice day @Elaine! :-)

      • elaine says:

        @Fatbat

        Nah, he is not to old to be my SD, he is too young!

        Because you see @Fat, he is a frustrated teenager, trolling around on an adult blog, and getting a hard one everytime some woman is answering him.

        Have a nice day you too! :-)

      • Kore13 says:

        @Fat I liked it better when you were insulting yourself.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        @FatB’StardSA you called me Jay :-) so I’ll be nice. You have a nice day also

    • Promise says:

      “You are just an uneducated whore. Nothing but a sperm dumpster.”
      Dang Dave!

    • Dave says:

      @ KORE … you come from a backward culture that worships cows. I eat them. Ponder that for a few minutes. Indian pussy is not a valuable commodity on the market of vaginas. You overvalue your axe wound.

  17. SomebodyTookMyAnotherAnonymous says:

    What are these SB’s thinking? Apparently educated, working in the education field, posting topless private pictures. I get the impression that it is almost a ‘drunk posting’ instead of actually looking for companionship. I understand she needs the money for child support, but do people actually think that posting topless pictures says anything except escort or webcam? Does it help you find, in her words, a “great friend, mentor, and someone who appreciates my intelligence, wit, and beauty. So far, no luck.” I have to question the intelligence.

    • Kore13 says:

      So who’s going to be the ‘jealous/anti feminist’ troll and take one for the team?

    • Dave says:

      this is modern day fucked up women’s mentality. They stick their tongue out on their profile pics then state that they want to be respected and treated like a woman and BE SUBSTANTIAL. It’s best to scam, fuck ’em and chick ’em. You blow your load in them and take off. that’s what they deserve.

    • Anonymous says:

      @Kore

      Where are you seeing jealousy in the above post?

      • Kore13 says:

        @Anon Ok, instead of ‘complaining’ about it, suppose you tell these girls that you don’t find their picture appealing. On SA, they will block you. Suppose you did the same on FB – you’ll invite the majority of their friends to such accusations as what I’d previously stated.

        If a guy tells a girl that her duck face looks retarded, he’ll get called antifeminist. If a girl says the same, she’ll get called jealous. (To leave out some of the nicer

      • Anonymous says:

        Good explanation. Thanks

      • SomebodyTookMyAnotherAnonymous says:

        I did question her about the appropriate nature of the photos given our past chats about her work with children, etc. She then read me the riot act about lack of support from her kid’s father, her 50+ hours a week with disadvantaged children, and I quickly apologized for being judgmental and quietly backed away.

      • Kore13 says:

        😀

        Ey, but you know, sex is supposed to release hormones that make you happy. Maybe you should’ve banged her as a selfless act. 😛

      • Kore13 says:

        “Disadvantaged?” You mean physically/mentally handicapped?

        I overlooked that last time – I take back what I said. :/

      • SomebodyTookMyAnotherAnonymous says:

        She was helping mentally challenged (autistic) children. Like I said, seemed like a ‘drunk’ post from a sweet women, and I wanted (figuratively) shake her and make her think of the consequences once the pictures hit the net (there is nothing private on the internet).

      • Kore13 says:

        Well, if she can handle the consequences of her actions, why not?

        A few men will jerk off over her pics. Big deal.

  18. Another Anonymous says:

    @ Jay

    About two weeks ago we talked about changes in some European jurisdictions. The answer is that many central European jurisdictions were looking for what they thought were more advanced laws and unfortunatelly ended up applying American examples in situations, that were quite different. For example the different approach to alcohol I have mentioned, but also alimony for ex-wife in the society with 95% females having full time jobs and also changes in age of consent. But those changes were actually much broader, included consent for medical procedures, tort reform etc.

  19. Anonymous says:

    Cisco is a married cheap guy! and wants you to host the liaisons at your place….fyi

  20. jreedley says:

    Question?? is it harder for “mixed” and african american women to attract men? i’ve found it a bit challenging.

    • Rookie says:

      Uh oh..

    • Anonymous says:

      Yes it is but if these are you own photos you can do good. Drop FEP and change it to Slim (if you are a couch potato) or Athletic (if you work out regularly).

      • Kore13 says:

        I agree, that this is probably the biggest reason, atm, given that you have no personally written text written on your profile.

        If you really think that race/ethnicity could be a reason, just do an experiment and list yourself as something else (that isn’t hard to believe) for a day, haha.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        “that you have no personally written text written on your profile.”

        I was surprised but maybe I shouldn’t have been, that not one of the SDs last night mentioned that. But they all said she would do fine.

        They have no idea what her personality and attitude is like, if she asks for a gift before meeting, is she literate/educated, looking for platonic, etc.

        And not one dug any deeper to find out why a girl who is obviously very attractive had so much problems the first time around finding an SD. So much so that when she decided to start her search again she created a new profile instead of reactivating the original.

      • elaine says:

        @Jay

        Most here only look at pictures Jay…..

        They browse pics like they would on BP. That is their only selection criteria.
        The general opinion here is that women are too stupid to have something interesting to mention, cannot think or decide for themselves and are only after men for their money.
        anyway.

        And after that thourough selection proces, they got rinsed, scammed or the girl poofs and then they come here, complaining about the SB bad personality.

        Reading a profile and get to know her a little before, is obviously too much of an investment, for what is supposed to be a future relationship.

        PS. The girl is beautiful indeed. Should use another profile pic though and not bleach her hair to look “blonde” 😉

      • Kore13 says:

        @Jay Exactly – it came across as fishy right off the bat, but they’re already under her boob spell. Notice how one anon even encouraged her to pick ‘white,’ instead of the most accurate option.
        I’ve dealt with this enough times to know that the best way to help men out in this situation is to make sure that their cashew and beer reserves are emptied before the expiry date. 😀
        Given, I’ve replied to her too – but that was before I read her other post and I dismissed her ‘woe is me’ BS to focus on the problem at hand.

        @Elaine I don’t even think that that’s actually her – unless she’s anorexic and just moved out of a convent.

        Also, I can’t really blame SDs for not reading through every profile. The repeated disappointment of plats, hookers, poofs, and the like are probably not worth the time. I’m sure they do that once you reply to them, though.

      • elaine says:

        @ Kore

        “The repeated disappointment of plats, hookers, poofs, and the like are probably not worth the time”

        Well, I think it is exactly the opposite.
        I think a clever person can read between the lines and weed out a lot of those, just by reading well her profile.
        And would probably save a lot of time, and maybe even money, by doing that..

        You really think a hooker would write a thoughtful and original profile?
        Most probably she would just post some sexy pics and two clichè sentences.

        It is not really rocketscience, you know.
        It is the discrepancies that will tell the whole story.

        A intelligent and educated teacher looking for an intelligent man, a mentor?
        Posting topless pictures?
        But really?

        And here the circle is round again. 😉

      • Kore13 says:

        @Elaine

        Some of the fake SD profiles I’ve seen seemed original and elaborate just for some nudes. So, yes, I think a scam SB would have to come up with something if she’s not going to get caught through the SA profile text search.

        You’re right, it shouldn’t be that hard, but I think they just don’t do it because they hope against hope. They’re optimistic.

        Take that one anon who said that his POT had blocked him and ‘forgotten.’ He accepts that she’s on SA even though she has a strict family that doesn’t allow cellphones. Accepts her crazy profile mirroring and that she’s willing to go on a date with a stranger without a phone. We can imagine the x number of realities behind this, but the odds are against a happily ever after. If she’s a scammer, he’s prepped for the trap.

        This kind of denial is a bit extreme, but I’ve seen it happen again and again with men. The boob spell works on this basis – a pretty girl is almost an angel in the eyes of a man. The only person that can ruin this image is that woman herself.

        Well, you’re right that it helps to spot discrepancies, but that sort of mistake is a one timer.

    • Jaybird923 says:

      How are you finding it to be a bit of a challenge when you just joined today?

    • Michael1125 says:

      Honey the short answer us “yes”

      Sorry

      If asked how to overcome this, I would have to state the obvious, You must be a talented lover. (Or at least that’s why my current SB is mixed:)

      You have some great pics and are stunning, I hope you have success here…

      • Jaybird923 says:

        What difference would it make if she’s a talented lover? In order to find that out people have to be willing to meet you. so if you are having trouble getting messages/meets….

      • Michael1125 says:

        Absolutely Jay I don’t know anything about this issue…

        Forgive me for intruding…

      • Jaybird923 says:

        No need to apologize lol your advice made no logical sense. If her problem was how to keep an SD then being a talented lover would be sound advice. But when your issue is getting people to meet you, message you or return your messages it’s pretty useless advice.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        “Or at least that’s why my current SB is mixed”

        If mixed/black girls aren’t normally what you go for why don’t you tell her what was different about your SB. What made you reach out or respond when she reached out to you?

    • Anonymous says:

      Darlin… no worries. You will attract man, aplenty. Just be reasonable.
      She is hot.

    • Anonymous says:

      Who else thinks that @jreedley got her lips puffed?

    • Anonymous says:

      Use the 4th pic in your current public gallery as your cover photo; the current cover photo is better viewed as a full body photo in the gallery instead of as a facial crop.

      Consider changing your profile location from Tracy to somewhere closer to the SFBA, and be willing to drive an hour.

      You will do fine; good luck!

    • THEATLSD says:

      Good Question jreedly. That’s a topic that has never been broached here on the blog.

    • clea says:

      You will do fine jreedley as long as you know how to communicate with the guys!

    • Amber B. says:

      Honestly,

      It is a bit more challenging. Such is life. Majority of the men on here are white.. Many have specific requirements for “Caucasian only”… I’ve literally read profiles like woah we are totally synced… And see “Caucasian only”.

      On the bright side, there are men out there willing to date you.. Just have to try harder.

  21. Anonymous says:

    @SDs…this holiday season play the disappearance game to save some money for 2016 sugar. I have explained the process below. If you have specific questions then ask. I will elaborate further.

    • Jaybird923 says:

      looks like I inadvertently opened a can of worms again…

    • Anonymous says:

      Early @Jaybird gets the can of worms.

      • Anonymous says:

        Holiday Sugar

        It was this Holiday time…eh…two years ago when I completely abandoned the idea of the monthly allowance and switched to weekly.
        Everybody wanted to meet at times convenient for them and ignored the time that was good for me. If you are a Mr. Nice Guy and pay in advance, you get very little in return around that time of the year for the allowance (that they now consider God given) and you have to spend extra on gifts. Doing weekly allows you to concentrate on people who need you, are willing to make time for you… and weed out those who have other “resources” or priorities. Once the allowance is hers…she will try to meet you once, before Christmas, to get her gifts. And will give plenty of excuses why she is MIA between Thanksgiving and January.
        I admit that this advice only applies to those who maybe have one arrangement too many and are somewhat on a budget as a result. If, on the contrary, you have yet to find someone you like and have $$$ to invest – this is the absolutely best time of the year to secure one or two absolutely top notch SA member(s). Forget platonics, escorts and all tis crap – you can get some great deals around this time of the year that you will congratulate yourself for many months to come…

      • Rookie says:

        @Jay
        I see you’re still moving that needle…

      • Anonymous says:

        “this is the absolutely best time of the year to secure one or two absolutely top notch SA member(s). Forget platonics, escorts and all tis crap – you can get some great deals around this time of the year that you will congratulate yourself for many months to come…”

        And care to explain…HOW EXACTLY?

      • Anonymous says:

        The above long-ass post sounds like one written by a woman.

      • Anonymous says:

        “…And care to explain…HOW EXACTLY?”

        Not that I really care, but I will explain. This is the time of year a lot of new profiles are generated (similar to July-August, before school starts). This is the time of year a lot of profiles that were dormant suddenly come alive. No miracle. Just…numbers are better.

      • Anonymous says:

        So you think that these women who need some quick bucks are good prospects? How do you screen the fly-by-nights from the keepers?

      • Anonymous says:

        I do not mean for this to be highly philosophical, but my experience is that there is no genetic disposition for someone to be a good prospect and a keeper.
        It sounds cynical…but sugar is addictive. A woman (just your normal average Jane) who kinda lazily thought about it, put her profile up, pontificated and contemplated, finally decided to throw herself into the game. It is Holiday time and she is somewhat overwhelmed. She sees your messages and decides “Why not…”.
        Then, all of a sudden, she realizes that a few things she thought were a problem, are no more. You are a source of this miracle, her magic wand. All she has to do, is be nice to you once a week and she does not have to tolerate her pesky manager at the department store four days in a row, including Sunday. And actually this thing you do with your tongue and then fingers…is not unpleasant either.
        I hope I make sense and you no longer think I am a woman?

  22. Jaybird923 says:

    Do you any of you guys exchange gifts for the holidays with your SBs/SDs?

    • Jaybird923 says:

      *Do any

    • Anonymous says:

      I avoid my SBs during holidays. They ALWAYS have to buy shitload of stuff for 20,000 people and expect me to bankroll the unnecessary expenses. I meet them afterwards and give them something just for them.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        lol I can see that being an issue.

      • Anonymous says:

        And I save money for the next few months of sugar with her if she is cool with my disappearance…or with someone else, if she goes berserk over it.

      • Anonymous says:

        They’re ALWAYS trying to do “something special” for some fucktard(s) in their lives, as if…

      • Jaybird923 says:

        How many months do you disappear for?

      • NotDave says:

        This is a great idea – disappear over X-mass. Kinda like wars solve the overpopulation problem.
        I should certainly try it this year…

      • Anonymous says:

        Not for long. I give them some shopping money for the Black Friday. They can waste it on trimmings. I don’t care.

        Then I disappear sometime between Thanksgiving and Christmas I give them warning of my disappearance. Then depending on their “special something” plans I make some family/friends program that takes me out of pocket until Jan 2. After then it’s all good.

        Some try to pull the “I am so broke” card on me but I ignore that. It is not as powerful as what they need to do “something special” for some fucktard.

        Then I give them soft lecture on how not to miss meeting schedules so that they can get out of the financial hole they claim to be in.

        These are some of the mind games women play, and I play it well against them.

      • Anonymous says:

        what do you do about that allowance? If you’re paying you have to see her.

      • Anonymous says:

        I don’t think it’s a mind game. Who doesn’t love gifts, Louboutins and a new Chanel handbag to look good and feel great?

      • Anonymous says:

        You ALWAYS take care of your SBs when you’re unavailable but they are.

        You ALWAYS take care of them when they can’t meet because of genuine health related issues.

    • Bob says:

      Yes but they are low dollar value gifts, just something between friends and in keeping with the holiday. After all it is something I do with all my friends, and she is certainly a good friend.
      As an aside after reading the blogs for some time I feel lucky our arrangement is so drama free compared to some of what I read here. She never asks for more than what I give her [she has actually refused more when offered] and she is very conscientious about living up to her side. So my Christmas wish for all sane SD’s and SB’s is that you also find the same.

  23. Anonymous says:

    Who the fuck is Dave?
    – Are you Dave?
    – No. Are you?
    – Me neither.

  24. Anonymous says:

    Here’s another SB who thinks changing her ethnicity/race is going to improve her chances of success in the sugar world.
    If she is Asian then I must be Justin Bieber.

    e09e6925

  25. Kore13 says:

    @Charlotte Just wondering if you got back in touch with the SD and how it went.

  26. SD says:

    Blogs all pretty much deteriorate to a handful of the most prolific posters arguing over each other online. People rarely behave like this in real life but anonymously over the internet? All bets are off. Name calling, insults, personal attacks, etc. Like children saying “Mom she touched me!” No he touched me first”. Amusing at first but gets old quick.

    • Anonymous says:

      Some amount of douchebaggery is acceptable, as soon as it does not overwhelm the legitimate, useful and interesting posts. However, any attempt at moderating a completely anonymous blog are bound to fail. Still, I prefer this to over moderated blog where one cannot even say “duck”, for the fear of it to be a code word for dick or fuck.

  27. Anonymous says:

    @Kore

    “Also, quite a few male bloggers are clever men.”

    Who specifically? All I see are dumb men here.

    • Kore13 says:

      Well, there’s a lot frustration here, but it doesn’t mean they are stupid at all. Some are for sure, what I consider a bit more close-minded, but just because I disagree with them doesn’t mean I necessarily think less of them.

      Many men here actually have good reason to feel the way they do – they don’t always express it in the most well-mannered way, but the internet isn’t that formal. 😉

      Not going to say any specific names and it doesn’t really matter.

    • Anonymous says:

      Which ones do you think are dumb and stupid then?

      • Kore13 says:

        The posters of batshit crazy comments that don’t make sense any which way you might look at their text. There are a couple that require meds/counselling, but that’s something different since they’re too far gone to qualify as normal.

        These are extreme examples. Then there are those who can’t seem to put two and two together (including some women, nonregs), but I wouldn’t jump to calling them stupid people. Maybe they’re good at being intelligent in a different way. 😀

      • Anonymous says:

        Which “couple” are you talking about?

      • Kore13 says:

        Such as Dave (he needs to work through his past, clearly) and the MPD troll that has been posting as Monkey, Lana, Real and now ODaddy. They all popped up out of the blue at the same time and swing between the same mood swings I’ve mentioned earlier. I wouldn’t be surprised if I’ve attracted some BS from ‘them’ just by posting this… The beast is semi awake now.

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        I come here to monitor and keep Josh our resident and self-proclaimed GURU under the control sweetie. Otherwise he’d be running around this place, throwing his words of wisdom and pissing people off. What’s in it for you?
        #whydoIgiveafuck

    • Anonymous says:

      You are absolutely right! The dummies here do not understand the benefits of being with findoms and platonics. Every time you come here to read dumb posts from males who want honest arrangements, you can get infected with a dumb bug.
      I suggest you stop reading and posting here. Why waste your intellect and time on a bunch of idiots. Go back to your wise platonic SD, 10k is waiting…

      • Anonymous says:

        Tell that to Dave. Apparently all he wants is an honest arrangement lol.

      • Kore13 says:

        Dave is at the border to rape. If you’re the same anon as the OP – how on earth can you compare him to the other SDs here?

      • Anonymous says:

        No, I am not the OP. I didn’t compare Dave to the other bloggers, I just countered above Anon’s try to be sarcastic and funny, which he failed. That is the same comparison he made, or maybe generalization, thus concluding that all female bloggers here must be platonic and findoms.

  28. Anonymous says:

    @Anonymous

    “It was a fair equation and counter-argument. The same thing would have been if it was men that have no clue what they want… and the like. This comment section would have probably exploded if that were the case.”

    Insulting men is one of the most favorite female pastime here or elsewhere.

    Men thinking with their “little head” is used so often that it is not even considered an “insult” anymore.

    • Anonymous says:

      I haven’t seen regular female bloggers say that. In fact, I believe it was a man who has said that men need to think more with their brain than with their ‘other’ part.

  29. Josh says:

    @elaine

    “@Anonymous

    No I didn’t introduce that word, I repeated it from someone else.”

    I guess that would be @Kms2014 = @LadyScarlet = @Batshit who brought the term “blackitude” to the blog then? 😉

  30. Anonymous says:

    Can any provide me tips for my profile? I am not having much luck meeting someone I would like…

    • inthegarden says:

      don’t know why its anonymous

      • Anonymous says:

        Poor grammar and spelling.

        involved in community?

      • SDaddy says:

        Are you mixed Asian or Latina ? You look mighty fine to me from th one view . I would definitely contact you if we were in the same time zone .

        eliminate “I get a lot of messages. Make it interesting… If I message you, then ;)” Sounds arrogant. I get it that you are cute and every SD will contact you at least for the initial exploration

        ” Lets keeps this classy ” omit ! Classy guys might be offended .Rednecks don’t give a shit .

      • Jaybird923 says:

        well there you have it… proof that some guys are into platonic.

      • SDaddy says:

        Where do you get that she is platonic @ Jay ?

      • DaddyO says:

        Get out of Balcones Heights TX. You might as well be in Butt Fuck Egypt. I sincerely doubt if your town is crawling with men with lots of disposable income.

      • noname says:

        jaybird you and dave have been missing from the blog for awhile i almost thought you two made up and went on a date

      • Kore13 says:

        @SDaddy It could be one of those words to look out for. Who knows? With all the shame associated with women having sex in a relationship that involves money, I wouldn’t be surprised if class equated to platonic.

        Also, how can you tell if she looks pretty from a picture of her from the back, wearing a shirt that throws off her proportions?

      • DaddyO says:

        Dave drove jaybird to a dark alley at midnight and told her to either suck his dick or walk back the long way home.

        I think Jaybird has blisters on her feet now.

      • SDaddy says:

        @Kore
        ” how can you tell if she looks pretty from a picture of her from the back, wearing a shirt that throws off her proportions?”

        Legs are nice,beautiful hair (a thing of mine) and proportions appear appropriate-but you’re right . I would meet her on that one pic. But then again ,I wouldn’t travel cross country or fly her in on that alone . If she were in the same town -absolutely !

      • Kore13 says:

        @Sdaddy Thanks for giving me a decent reply. :)

      • Jaybird923 says:

        “Where do you get that she is platonic @ Jay ”

        @Sdaddy “I am looking for that great connection with someone. I would like a mentor/friend. Lets keeps this classy and Lets chat.”

        She specifies exactly what she’s looking for friend/mentor. Great connection is the part that throws you guys off. You assume it means intimacy. The keep it classy is to deter men from bringing up sex. Contact her if you can and see if I’m right :-)

      • Anonymous says:

        She can expect a great connection b/w my penis and her anus.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        @Noname

        I’ve been working crazy hours lately. Busy time of the year for me. There’s so much old man scrotum to service :-)

        I post infrequently but I do post. It just gets lost in the threads. I irritated @Dave enough. He ceased to be amusing after a while though so I moved on.

        @DaddyO I would never be in @Dave’s car. Anyone who post pictures of their cars and other possessions in a profile are automatically nexted plus he’s and idiot his profile is probably riddled with the same errors as his posts. And he’s not in the right age group for me..

      • SDaddy says:

        @Jay

        You may be right about code words “mentor,friend,connection” ,but I get right to the meat of the issue pretty quickly Jay .Tastefully of course ! I will not accept anything but “yes” when I ask her if she is open to a physical relationship.

    • Anonymous says:

      Maybe because profiles with no face pics get less messages and genuine offers than those who have them.

    • Anonymous says:

      And you won’t…

    • Anonymous says:

      For profile and pictures, you should probably follow general suggestion about having at least 3 pictures, one full face, full body then third one maybe while doing some activity. Honestly there is a confusion, for the last one as in if you put a picture of yourself in a sexy lingerie, you can be confused being a pro. Then if your full body picture doesn’t show your body type well enough it is a turn off.

      If I were a SD I would want you to have a picture where I can see your face clearly, then in a picture with a nice black dress ( you can try a long black knit dress from a soft fluent fabric, they are very flattering ) in heels, and maybe a picture from a boat or beach party. It is better to wear understated accessories for pictures as you want your body and your face to draw attention.

      For the profile text, keep it short, describe what you are looking for, what you can offer in return, show your willingness to compromise but don’t give up your principles.

      They rarely read your profile text actually….

    • Anonymous says:

      Black, mixed, other have difficult time getting sugar here.

    • Customer Service says:

      In your picture you are making a ” Y” as in the song YMCA. So SD will think you are gay. Good luck.

  31. FunDude says:

    Fat women demanding that men pay of them as “sugar babies”:

    {{http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3325073/Single-women-looking-sugar-daddy-online-prove-not-blonde-big-breasted-daring-calendar-shoot.html}}

    Reminds me of half the women on the comments section lol

    • elaine says:

      He!…pffff what a relief.
      There was something so important missing in his previous post, but here it is!

      FAT!

    • Anonymous says:

      Well, we also have 65 year old married men demanding women be their SB’s for a minimal allowance and p4p. Ironic, isn’t it?

      • FunDude says:

        LOL depends on how much they are offering for the p4p at that point.

      • Anonymous says:

        Are you saying that 65 year-olds should offer Minimal and p4p to fatties?

      • Anonymous says:

        At least that is more realistic and they have a better chance than wooing the young hotties with a 40 year old gap.

      • Anonymous says:

        First of all thanks for volunteering the fatties to take one for the team. LOL!

        But that ain’t happenin’ my dear.ist men would rather increase the amount offered to woo such young, slim hotties than go for fatties.

        Then again, there are always exceptions.

    • Anonymous says:

      @FunDude is the resident BMI monitor of the blog LOL.

    • Kore13 says:

      @FunDude Still a better marketing tactic than SA’s. They only have ‘attractive’ looking women on the front page – who are probably plats.

      • FunDude says:

        LOL I highly doubt having unattractive fat women who want “rich, successful, older guys” pay them money is a good tactic.

        Rich, successful dudes don’t want to pay for that lol

      • Kore13 says:

        I thought some pussy was better than paying for no pussy? 😛

      • FunDude says:

        Don’t get the logic of this last statement in reference to my previous comment.

      • Anonymous says:

        This is the first mistake these idiotic women are making here, and their profiles show it.

        They assume that men here are as desperate as the awkward boys they jack around with in their own age group.

      • Kore13 says:

        @Anon No, don’t really think so. I think the SD’s success is a good indicator of that being untrue – despite what I’ve read about the men here being socially awkward, etc. I’ve experienced the contrary. Also, quite a few male bloggers are clever men. I have already mentioned that these scammer SBs are kind of sad because they think they can manipulate men like they would the random guy at the bar.

        That being said, the majority of the blog still talks about sugar in how much bang they get for their bucks. And I have heard of stories from some men who have ended up sleeping with women with their eyes closed (non sugar). So, when it comes to standards, I will be more likely to think that desperation might lead to rash decision making. The question is, which man would admit to it? We hear this expressed differently, something more along the lines of, “Quality SBs are hard to find.” I’m assuming some’ve already paid for less quality.

        My first SD ultimately wanted exclusivity, which I could not offer, but that didn’t stop him from meeting with me. Yes, he could’ve afforded other women, but I wonder what it was that brought him to it? He told me that most girls ask about the money straight away, and that was a turn off.

      • Kore13 says:

        @Josh

        “Rich, successful dudes don’t want to pay for that lol”
        “I thought some pussy was better than paying for no pussy? ?”

        Because being rich and successful doesn’t guarantee that you’ll never be in a desperate position. You’ll have to wait it out like many women if you don’t want to lower your standards.

      • Kore13 says:

        Sry, that was supposed to be @Fundude, not Josh. 😛 Must be the picture of chest that had me confused. 😀 I’m worse than a man, lol.

    • SDaddy says:

      I’d give up sex

      • Anonymous says:

        OK…more pussy for the rest of us then.

        It’s a dirty job banging all them pussies…but someone’s gotta do it, right?

      • SDaddy says:

        I should have finished the thought-“I’d give up sex” -if the only options I had were obese women. You can have them all .

      • Anonymous says:

        Don’t assume I want them just because you can’t write intelligently.

  32. Promise says:

    @FunDude Do you still look like your gravatar? Also do you still talk to Georgia Peach?

  33. Anonymous says:

    A “normal” woman has no fucking clue what she wants at a given time and is typically expecting the man to know what she wants.

    If a woman says “I know what I want” then next her. You have just been warned that she is going to use you and she expects you to “understand”.

      • noname says:

        lynnae are you looking for a platonic arrangement

      • Anonymous says:

        Yes she is looking for platonic…and she can go fuck herself.

      • Anonymous says:

        Yes but she’s not looking for anything in return, dumbass ^.

      • Anonymous says:

        Yes but she’s not looking for anything in return, dumbass ^.

      • Anonymous says:

        She can go fuck herself still, you dumbcunt.

        There’s no woman here who is not going to sneak some monetary requirements to you once you meet her.

      • Anonymous says:

        Well at least she’s not fucking you or anyone for that matter, why would she want your nasty diseased self.
        Are you Dave by any chance, retard?

      • Kore13 says:

        Sneak? There’s as much guarantee that a man won’t try to sneak his member closer to her either. How hard is it for a man to say, ‘no, goodbye,’ especially if he’s not getting any?

    • Promise says:

      I want candy.

    • elaine says:

      So sad to know some people are so narrowminded (or plain stupid) to live with such prejudices….

      Where and when did it went wrong in your grey masses?

    • Anonymous says:

      A little control freakish, aren’t we anon? It would suit you, to be able to direct someone’s wishes under your command. Apparently, and according to you, women don’t know what they want, have no desires, cannot express that…

    • elaine says:

      I wonder what would happen if we would put the word “black” instead of “women”….

      “A “black ” has no fucking clue what he/she wants at a given time and is typically expecting the master to know what he/she wants.

      If a “black” says “I know what I want” then next him/her. You have just been warned that he/she is going to use you and he/she expects you to “understand”.”

      I think everybody here would start screaming “racism”, right?
      And they would be right, because it would be plain racism!

      It shows that the person who is stating this is feeling superior and don’t see “blacks” as normal human beings with intelligence, thoughts, feelings and emotions.

      Still it was common practice among most “whites” 200y ago to think in such ways.

      So what does that tell about an “Anonymous” coward, stating this about “women” in the year 2015?

      PS. Before the usual suspects start screaming again I am a “hardcore feminist”.
      No, I am not, I just can’t stand ignorance or one gender feeling superior over the other.

      • Anonymous says:

        Mysogyny is in full force on this blog. No wonder these people are at SA, having to pay others for company.

      • elaine says:

        Oh, I forgot the ususal suspects would even try to twist it and call me a “racist” now.

        Silly me….

    • Anonymous says:

      That was a stupid comment trying to “color” (pun intended) argument and you went all the way and even brought slavery into the mixed for extra effect.

      Aren’t you the one who introduced the pejorative term “blackitude” to the blog?

      • Anonymous says:

        It was a fair equation and counter-argument. The same thing would have been if it was men that have no clue what they want… and the like. This comment section would have probably exploded if that were the case.

      • elaine says:

        @Anonymous

        No I didn’t introduce that word, I repeated it from someone else. We don’t even know that expression here in Europe. Colour here is not an issue as it is in the US.

        If you have not understood -or trying to (purposedly) twist- my words and the point that I was trying to make , well I guess it tells more about your intellect as it does about me.

        Maybe just missed this part?

        “I think everybody here would start screaming “racism”, right?
        And they would be right, because it would be plain racism!”

        But ok, it’s clear:
        People can say the most discriminating and insulting things about women here without anybody feeling to react.

        At least my post brought the attention I wanted to this ignorant statement.

      • Kore13 says:

        I have to admit, the blog is contributing to my U.S. English vocabulary.

  34. Anonymous says:

    Let’s talk sugar 😉

    Demerara or muscovado? These are realistic expectations :-)

  35. Anonymous says:

    SB Duo of the week! – e2ad3aa21. These are hotties!

    Well their photo is widely available on the web so they must be real 😉

    • SDaddy says:

      SB Duo of the week! – e2ad3aa21

      Killer bods ! The lumbar arch enables fantastic standing penetration from behind. Some girls do not arch like that,and as such can not effect rear entry unless they are on their knees

  36. THEATLSD says:

    Going back on topic for SD prep. Here is a real blog from a stylist.

    Gentlemen for your consideration:

    [https://www.trunkclub.com/mens/advice/style-guides/the-six-wardrobe-essentials]

    • Kore13 says:

      That’s a good link. :) I’d like to mention, for what it’s worth it – not to leave your cuffs unbuttoned if you don’t roll your sleeves up. Also try not to wear sporty, non leather shoes with button ups.

  37. Anonymous says:

    If some of the bloggers devoted an equal amount of time to a professional career like collecting aluminum cans along the highways they could be entertaining “substantial” range SB’s

  38. elaine says:

    SA homepage:

    “4 SUGAR BABIES PER SUGAR DADDY
    The odds are in your favor with thousands of attractive women looking to meet now.”

    There seems to be a big black hole where SBs disappear!
    SA has just lost 50% of their SBs !

    Where, oh where, did they go?
    Are they abducted by aliens, disappeared in the Bermuda triangle?

    Or maybe…..just maybe! ! They only existed in the fantasy of SA’s marketing geniuses before? 😉

    • Anonymous says:

      I think the truth is that there are no more SBs here or very few anymore. It’s like finding a needle in a haystack.

      • Anonymous says:

        I have 3 atm, speak for yourself

      • Anonymous says:

        I’m talking about traditional, quality SBs. They are few and far between. I wasn’t talking about escorts, flakes, or platonics.

      • Anonymous says:

        I can’t even find an escort to reject, they are all scammers, rinsers, and platonics :-(

      • Anonymous says:

        My latest email:

        If I’m totally honest with you, I’m not wanting physical intimacy. I am more than happy to share intelligent conversations and go to the opera, ballet or whatever you would rather. Seeking is a very different experience, I’m very new to it and finding it rather intimidating in some respects. What are your thoughts? X

        My thoughts are private, I was suspended the last time I made thoughts known 😉

      • Anonymous says:

        My*

      • Anonymous says:

        Well, at least she’s honest about being platonic.

      • Anonymous says:

        Not on her profile, and only after I asked whether she was comfortable with a sexual arrangement.

    • Anonymous says:

      4:1 is more like it. I guess SA marketing realized that the bloggers here are just too vocal and their 8:1 is not believable anymore.

      • THEATLSD says:

        SA could care less about the bloggers. Only a small percent hang out here.
        I’m thinking the Ash Mad hack may have influenced them to be more honest.

    • FunDude says:

      Problems with this include:

      1) How man are rinsers?
      2) How many are too old/unattractive to be a real SB?
      3) How many have unrealistic expectations for their looks/age/etc.

      When you remove the HIGH quality SBs to SD ratio, its 1:1 at best.

    • SD says:

      Ratio has never been 8:1 and never will be. The truth is probably closer to 2:1 or equal ratio. And a vast majority of them have this in their profile:
      Looking for someone laid-back who doesn’t have a sexual expectation; just someone who wants to spoil me and occupy my time and can keep up a good conversation without being creepy.

      • SD says:

        Another one:
        What I’m looking for

        Just looking for someone to give me money with nothing physical in return!

        (this is basically online panhandling)

      • Anonymous says:

        Report this profile for panhandling.

      • SD says:

        Not my job to be the police force of SA. They are the ones who encourage and approve these profiles. If they cleaned up the membership, there would be exactly 350 SB’s for millions of men. Does that not remind you of another website that recently got hacked and exposed?

      • SD says:

        Here’s another one. Expectation: HIGH

        “….so I don’t have a lot of time to meet. I will do my best to make time but people will have to understand it’s really hard for me.”

        This is the shit that proliferates the website now.

      • Anonymous says:

        I am not sure where you are, what your situation is and your engagement methodology…I am in hole in ground type of place but I have more than enough women at the minimal level.

        If I increased my allowance I can set up a harem. Lol!

      • Anonymous says:

        Yes, but you answered it yourself. You live in a shitty place some part of the world, while someone living in NYC or London will require a much higher allowance, because of the standard economy of that particular place.

    • Kore13 says:

      Maybe someone from the gov is going to check them soon? Aren’t there laws that state you can’t advertise something that isn’t true?

    • Anonymous says:

      I have three SBs and one in holding. There are plenty.

    • Anonymous says:

      The real ratio between Quality SB (youth, beauty and willingness to contribute both to an honest relationship) vs. Quality SD (resources and willingness to contribute that to an honest relationship) is at least 8:1, in any major metropolitan area.

    • noname says:

      or maybe the overall numbers are falling off thats why SA is pushing so hard to get interest in the site again and new products that don’t seem to work to generate more revenue to keep brandon’s mother happy

      • Anonymous says:

        Bona fide SD numbers might be declining, but SB numbers are certainly climbing, as the middle class implodes and college education get more expensive.

  39. Anonymous says:

    im will be your sugar baby come and get me sugar dadies hahaha :*

  40. Goddess says:

    Findomming is a thing but you have to know what you are doing to some degree to be successful. Some SDs do enjoy it, yes. Some SBs might try to feign it, sure. Also the whole “rinser” thing is painting with broad strokes. Some men are fine not having sex, in fact, encourage it. I have been busy with life. Hope all are well. :)

    • Anonymous says:

      I enjoy Unicorn riding in the magical forest.

    • Anonymous says:

      Why don’t you try findom some NBA player.

    • Anonymous says:

      Yes, true that there are men into findom and platonic or only companionship men in here. But they’re at a very small number compared to the others (findom is).

    • Kore13 says:

      “Hi men of SA! I was seeking an SD until recently and decided to greenlight my projects after realizing the lack of prospects and my own unwillingness to compromise on my happiness, LOL.”

      This is written on your profile. Do you think that being platonic and findom might have anything to do with it?

      I will never suggest that you compromise your happiness – by all means, please do what makes you feel best.

      • THEATLSD says:

        She has a great body. I think she used to live here in THE ATL.

      • Kore13 says:

        Yes, that is one fit lady! And very lucky – she has fat in all the right places. :)

      • Sherlock says:

        @Goddess is a former blog regular, then known as @toohototrot. .

      • THEATLSD says:

        @Sherlock. Yes I remember her posting. What I don’t get is why make she made her profile a goodbye message. Just hide it or deactivate it.

      • FormerAnon says:

        I always love these “Well I am just going to go be successful without you” post. Especially the ones with silly buzz words like “green lighting” and it is always “projects” as if they went from doing nothing and looking for a SD and really not having the means to start a single project to suddenly having the means to start multiple projects. Then there is always the requisite “moving to a new place” because nothing helps you get “project(s)” “green lighted” faster than uprooting yourself from where you are currently and moving to a new place and getting started there. Nothing helps you save money and demonstrate stability like spending money to move before you launch your amazing new “success”. Even better is the contradictory “building this with my own two hands” (you did not build that the government did) while also building that “with your own two hands” “with the help of a couple of friends”. Then there is the always amazing “promo events”…

        I wondered for a bit what these amazing “projects” might be then I decided it would be better to just hit myself on the head with a hammer and I would gain more from that.

      • Anonymous says:

        @FormerAnon

        I think what she meant was that she and her friends started an escort service of their own, after not being able to find any SD’s. That’s why they had to relocate.

      • FormerAnon says:

        that would be “red lighting” a new project wouldn’t it?…..and I figured multi-level marketing

      • Anonymous says:

        Goddess Hototrot. They write different type of nonsense. @Hototrot was obnoxious blogger. @Goddess is a narcissistic idiot. Regardless of what anyone talked about @Goddess would find a way to talk about herself. Just Googled “Seeking Arrangement @Goddess” to find this gem of a thread for those who would prefer to waste their time here.

        [https://www.seekingarrangement.com/blog/blog/2015/07/01/six-lessons-six-sugar-babies/]

      • Anonymous says:

        *Goddess NE Hototrot

      • Sherlock says:

        Yes, Goddess IS @Toohototrot. The profile pic of her standing outdoors wearing sweater/shawl and holding clutch was on BOTH profiles. .

      • Jaybird923 says:

        hototrot was an ignorant bitch who was always playing the race card whenever people called her on her bullshit.

        Goddess likes to write a bunch of nonsense that makes no sense any one but her. She always found a way to make any conversation about herself.

        they are two separate people. hot has her own profile. If I remember correctly it’s diamond sky or something similar.

      • Sherlock says:

        @Jaybird. Check her pics. That one pic I referred to in my earlier post appeared in BOTH profiles. @Goddess IS @Toohototrot.

      • Sherlock says:

        Correction. @Goddess IS @hototrot.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        @Sherlock I’m referring to the the middle aged blogger who went by the name hototrot on the blog. Was there a blogger before her who used the moniker toohototrot? The one I’m talking about has only 3 face pics in her profile.

    • Anonymous says:

      @Kore

      This woman is grandmaster of writing nonsense.

    • Anonymous says:

      SA claims that it has millions of SBs. There are whopping 29 SDs that have “findom” or “financial domination” in their profiles.

      • Anonymous says:

        No you are wrong, SA marketing claim there are over 4 million paypigs 😉

      • Anonymous says:

        Good for you…LOL…I guess that SA sent these “paypigs” to slaughterhouse without their knowledge…so don’t be surprised that they have no clue what findom or financial dominance is to start off with.

  41. Anonymous says:

    @clea

    “Take note that not a one of the regular male posters will condemn Dave. The reason being is that a part of them identify with his deeply manipulative, predatory behavior.”

    Are you fucking kidding me?

    Women here love trolls and drama…and can’t just ignore then. Of course they like the kind of trolls and the kind of drama that allow women to gang up on the trolls, and to successfully round up the men as well to beat the trolls together.

    However, if the troll is able to fend off the offensive then women cry foul…and regardless of how preposterous the trolls’ assertions…without fail at least one of the “geniuses” predicts that the troll is actually @Josh.

    • Kore13 says:

      I don’t love drama, I hate it – even from men. But it’s normal to test a person’s views and it’s not bad that it comes from different angles.

      Dave is weak and promoting something that’s not correct. He’ll be attracting these kinds of reactions IRL and on any platform where he expresses his motives.

      As for thinking it was @josh, you’re giving random bloggers too much credit.

    • Anonymous says:

      What do you mesn by “you’re giving random bloggers too much credit”?

  42. Anonymous says:

    While we enjoy the journey, what is the end?
    There must be an end. There is an end to everything good. I know that because my bottle is almost empty.
    After being with so many beautiful intelligent young women who shared with me what should rightfully belong to their loved one, what should I do? At some point opening the door to yet another young and pretty lass, thinking of taking her upstairs in a few minutes…has to get old. I will see her out in a few hours or in the morning. I will see her again next week.
    If she is gone, I will not cry. Because, tell you the truth, I have others. Or I know I can get others. I know how to get them.
    One day, my doctor will tell me that she is really sorry and she wishes she had better news…my cancer is back. Will I think – I have no regrets? I have been with so many women… Some men (who walk straight and narrow) only saw that many on their computer screen, while their homely wives were asleep. You can tell me I never dived deep – but trust me, I’ve probably seen more of a landscape. The world is full of beautiful women and they come in all types and colors. Wasn’t that every men’s dream – that the women you saw in passing, on the subway ride in Japan, in the coffee shop, in your gym, in the airport – each of them could be yours? SA, for all its shortcomings, helps us to live that dream.
    One day that dream must get old, probably before one has to finally meet his Maker. I worry about it because… well, because I cannot think of anything better to do than open the door and let her in.
    And do not tell me to take my meds…;-). That is my doctor’s line; do not steal it.

    • Anonymous says:

      If it’s getting old then do what’s not getting old yet. When that gets old then come back to this again.

    • Anonymous says:

      1. Women don’t love men; she loves how he makes her feel.

      2. Her sex belongs to no one except herself. It’s her tool for garnering resources for her offspring and herself; if you make her feel good, you get your turn.

      3. If by doting on them, each for a while, you have made her into a better mother of her future children (say, helping paying for her education or paying off her student loans), be proud of yourself for your contribution to society. There is no need for apologies :-)

    • Kore13 says:

      “One day that dream must get old, probably before one has to finally meet his Maker. I worry about it because… well, because I cannot think of anything better to do than open the door and let her in.”

      I’m sorry to hear about your cancer.

      Why do you dream of having many? I’m asking because the love of one person doesn’t get old, whereas the bodies of many might (in the end every woman you will sleep with is just a variation of physical characteristics if you don’t provide room to enjoy her personality as well).

      Either way, you shouldn’t worry about this – if it does get old some day, you will only have sped up the process of it getting there by being anxious.

    • Gentle says:

      Beautiful ! The hobbyist’s Lament–or Ode to a Sugar Daddy. I feel youe pain -and pleasure . And I will keep opening the door to the next beautiful girl as well.

  43. Anonymous says:

    We are looking for a sugar daddy who wants to get to know us for who we are ,but can also help us financially. We would love to travel as we enjoy exotic places and the finer things in life. A kind hearted gentlemen with a down to earth personality with a kind heart, and a wild side 😉 we would love to meet someone who is genuine and caring as we both are. As we know there is two of us, we wanna have fun and make the most of this site so please serious people message us. We only want time with genuine and great men. *****WE ARE NOT HERE FOR SEXUAL FANTASIES OR THREESOMES OR KINKY MEET UPS NOR ARE WE ESCORTS!!!! ***** IF that’s what YOUR LOOKING FOR then please refrain from messaging us. Seems as though there ain’t no real guys on here after all

    There is no pleasing some people lol

    • Anonymous says:

      real guy = idiot man? I guess there aren’t many after all.

    • Charlotte says:

      You cannot get your expectations if you turn your head off these men’s expectations.

      It isn’t about ‘babies’ it is about them. They are paying for this. We are providing a service, obviously you don’t have fulfill any sexual fantasies but it is very unlikely to find an arrangement with whom you are searching for.

      I said providing service but I am not talking about escorting service.***

      • Anonymous says:

        I did not understand that at all, try it in english next time with proper grammar

      • Charlotte says:

        I am sorry for the bad English.

        I tried to say if a sugarbaby wants to be pampered, she should be ready to pamper her sugardaddy in return.
        It is very delusional to expect him to be a “dream guy” without any fantasies and to pay for spending time with a girl.

      • Anonymous says:

        Haven’t you checked Brandon’s SA ad? He advertises platonic otherwise this would constitute prostitution, exchanging money for intimacy alone.

    • Anonymous says:

      OMFG…these two motherfuckers are short and ugly and want Moderate allowance.

    • Anonymous says:

      I pissed them off, and they are now inactive.

    • Anonymous says:

      Good job. I am inactive. Otherwise I would have done the same.

  44. Anonymous says:

    Hello,

    It has been a while and I am finally back to looking for a SD and I have just realised one POT that liked me maybe a while ago is also looking for a SB, back then it didn’t work because I found his terms too demanding, but actually he was the one of the nicest guys I have ever met on SA, so I want to message him saying, I want to try again but I am unsure.

    Well, I embrace uniqueness of every person, but I would like to hear sugardaddies suggestion upon this.

    If possible please

    It didn’t work back then because I didn’t want to make a phone call everyday with him.

    • Anonymous says:

      Go for it. You have nothing to lose. The higher opportunity cost is in not reaching out to someone that you want to have an arrangement with, especially one that you are already familiar with. Check and make sure you have not blocked him in your own profile settings; otherwise he will not be able to reply to your reaching out to him.

      • Charlotte says:

        I don’t set an allowance in the beginning, for the first couple of times I accept gifts, gifts and lieux self-explain his budget. I find it displeasing to talk about money.
        But if you want an allowance, make sure they are ready to deposit enough money for covering your expenses. You can ask for other things as gift but if he is taking you high scale places, he would probably won’t mind to spend some time and money on your style to make it match.

        In this case, we met twice in my city and he took me very nice places. Mentioned he was going to deposit enough money in my bank account to cover my expenses and money would be out of conversation untill I needed something. I didn’t ask for any gifts because talking on phone every night was too much for me. But he was a real gentleman, I believe I can rely on his support and we work in the same field, he can help me with an internship.

      • Kore13 says:

        @Charlotte. If it’s phone sex you’re talking about – it can get fun with practice. Who doesn’t want to sound like they could sing, “je t’aime?” 😉

        Otherwise, I can relate well to the pressure of having to stay in touch. Maybe you can make a compromise? Maybe discuss the length of the conversation and the days beforehand?

        I also don’t like discussing allowance and in this case, it shouldn’t really matter since you said you liked him. :)

      • Kore13 says:

        Try and see what happens. Like anon said, you have nothing to lose. You can stop any time you want.

      • Charlotte says:

        Kore,

        No it wasn’t phone sex, it was only small talk but I felt too much pressure because I wasn’t mentally ready and he it as an rejection.

        I will write him on monday, let’s see how things will evolve this time :)

    • Anonymous says:

      What was the allowance amount he was willing to pay at that time?

      • Charlotte says:

        Sorry used wrong “reply ” button.

        First anon, thank you very much. I have his phone number and email address I will reach out him privately as he preferred to communicate in this way before.

      • Anonymous says:

        Based on your reply I gather that the allowance was in thousands of dollars.

        1. What more important things were going on in your life that you could not spare few minutes everyday to this man?

        2. Did you not like him enough to extend that courtesy to him?

      • Charlotte says:

        Actually it was a few thousands of Euros but by back then I was very new to sugarworld, the whole concept was too stressful.

        But I was scared of the age difference and it felt awkward to date with a guy who was older than my own father.

        Now having closed two arrangements, I understand things better.

        It isn’t even only because allowance is high but it is like only a few SD will take 10 minutes to check how you are feeling, how your day was, whether or not you need something.

      • Anonymous says:

        That’s what I was trying to assess. I think that your head is screwed in correctly to be a good SB. Try to rekindle the flame, so to speak, and go for it.

        Good luck!

      • Charlotte says:

        Thank you very much!

    • THEATLSD says:

      Hello Shar-o-lett,

      Good to see you back. :)
      I think you should try it again work with his terms. After a few weeks you will know if you like and want to continue or not. At that point you can ask to change the terms or move on.
      I only have two terms, one is ” No taking my picture”!! I don’t want to end up on IG.

      Good luck and keep us posted.

  45. AliceS says:

    I’m bored :)

    • Anonymous says:

      Set your phone to make a movie…masturbate, record, upload and share…you will not be bored anymore and we will have some amateur porn to watch?

      • AliceS says:

        I’m not desperate, lol. Just bored. And I don’t understand one thing too, since when seeking arrangement blog became pro fuckers blog? There’s nothing else to talk about anymore. Fisting, porn, pooping on someone, cash fetish, makeup fetish, dressing like female thing. I think the only pervert we are missing is some crazy pedophile

      • Anonymous says:

        I never said that you were desperate. No one is going to pay you or anything. You said you were bored and I gave you my two centavos. That’s all. Take it or leave it.

      • Anonymous says:

        I think she left your two centavos anon. She will only take a high allowance from you.

  46. Anonymous says:

    What did Dave say that we should have ignored?

    • Anonymous says:

      @Dave dared to post his Tumblrisque scamming of dimwitted SBs.

    • Jaybird923 says:

      Rinser: Woman who pretend to like/care for a man to get money with no intention of actually being/sleeping with him

      Male equivalent: Man who pretends to like/care about a woman just to sleep with her with no intention of offering anything more

      Dave: Rapist who drives women to dark roads and coerces them into sex.

      I love how you guys are pretending not see the difference and which part of what he’s supposedly doing that the women on the blog really had a problem with.

      • Anonymous says:

        Don’t try to educate these extremist low IQ men commenting above Jay. They think the male equivalent is someone who should rape and or scam the other person. Not a rinser. Anyone with an ounce of brain will realize this is illegal and dangerous and actually fucked up in the head.

      • FatB'StardSA says:

        “Dave: Rapist who drives women to dark roads and coerces them into sex.”

        Unless he is driving her to the middle of Yellowstone national park she can get out of the car and call for a taxi in between updating her Tumblr page.

        You need to find something else to be outraged about.

      • Anonymous says:

        Fat Bastard are you promoting scamming? I thought you were the one to bash on tumblr ones.

      • FatB'StardSA says:

        @Anon

        How much effort does it take to choose a username ffs?

      • Anonymous says:

        Staying Anonymous is big part of the blog fun.

  47. FunDude says:

    Chicago FUCKING sucks tonight

    Too much snow and closed roads due to a parade!

  48. Promise says:

    You guys I’m finally 21! 😀

    • Anonymous says:

      Congrats…are you virgin still?

    • FunDude says:

      Good job woman!

      Don’t waste your sexuality like your older, used sisters who have little/no marriage worth.

      They spent their 20s getting banged out by “bad boys”, then want a “nice guy” when they hit around 35 lol

      • Anonymous says:

        They still want a handsome stud to be the Father of the child if they haven’t conceived yet. Strangely, AI sperm donees prefer nerds and intelligent doners. So I am all good if I want to cum in a cup :-)

      • Anonymous says:

        I am also a virgin at 20. Thank you. There’s a lot of social stigma around virgins and peer pressure but common sense tells me it’s better to find the right man and marry earlier than at 35 having slept with a ton of guys and having little chances in reproducing.

      • Anonymous says:

        What…you’re not into fighting patriarchy by sleeping around “like a man”?

    • Gentle says:

      Happy B-Day Promise !

  49. THEATLSD says:

    A new hope.

    In a galaxy far far away…. Never mind. I rejoined SA at the beginning of the month since my IRL POTs were not panning out. There were 7-8 good prospects and out those 4 that I was really interested in. They all had good profiles and pictures and we’re not Tumblr girl types. After sending initial messages, one didn’t want to deal with Married guys, 2 of them after a number of messages went poof, one (grad student) was messaging a little sporadically and I gave up on her. So I messaged more and had a few POT meets that were not going good then grad student texted me again. We set up a meet and it ended up being the best first meet I have had. Normally my first meets are an hour this was 3 hours. I
    wasted no time for the second get to know her meet, we had an awesome lunch and sealed the deal. She knows nothing of the Tumblr/IG girls, Most importantly she is totally chill and just go with the flow type with lots of class. Totally knows how to act in public and around me. So there is a ray of hope out there on SA just have to wade through the delusional and Tumblr girls.

  50. Anonymous says:

    The following comment was posted and then @rem extended the argument further. Women took them in all different clueless directions. It is uber fun to see women grapple with coherent thought, logic, cause/effect, etc.

    Anonymous says:
    November 20, 2015 at 2:56 pm
    @elaine

    “Once I was messaged by a very short guy (1.60 or so) who wanted to go shopping with a very tall woman.
    Meh!…Sort of fetish I guess…”

    Next you’re going to suggest that a:

    1. bald guy wanting to date a non-bald woman fetish?
    2. fat guy wanting to date a non-fat woman fetish?
    3. poor guy wanting to date a rich woman fetish?

    rembodler says:
    November 20, 2015 at 5:22 pm
    @Elaine
    Why don’t we talk about a few other fetishes…once we are at it:

    1. old women attracting much younger rich men, giving them 20K platonic allowances fetish?
    2. old women making tons of money on SA fetish?
    3. old women having infinite choices on SA fetish?
    4. old women “deserving” better allowances because they “know their worth” fetish?

    All of these are fair game… don’t you think?

    • elaine says:

      Don’t really understand what you’re saying and what it has to do with women and clueless directions?
      As far as I see it was MEN taking this in clueless directions!.

      I spoke about a fetish (as it obviously was) and then we get all sorts of clueless and dumb “fetish” suggestions that really have NOTHING to do with fetishes , and then it is WOMEN lacking logic and grapple with coherent thought, logic, cause/effect, etc.?!

      You lost me….

    • Anonymous says:

      “You lost me…”

      Is this something new?

  51. THEATLSD says:

    The level of douche baggery on the blog has reached EPIC proportion.

  52. Anonymous says:

    Is the tide kinda sorta maybe turning?

    “What I’m looking for

    I’m not a princess or self-absorbed twit.”

  53. clea says:

    Take note that not a one of the regular male posters will condemn Dave. The reason being is that a part of them identify with his deeply manipulative, predatory behavior.

    • anonymously anonomous says:

      copy paste much… no traction on the fling blog? Here ya go…
      don’t feed’m… they starve!!!

    • THEATLSD says:

      I just read it. I’ve been busy with my new SB 😉
      The whole diatribe Dave put out is obviously bs but I see a bunch of bloggers got sucked into it. I can speak only for myself but Im not wasting time confirming obvious cow manure. You all should have just ignored “Dave”.

      • THEATLSD says:

        Condemning not confirming

      • elaine says:

        Hey @ATL, good to hear you have a new SB!

        Finally something positive! :-)

      • Anonymous says:

        Are you trying Minimal or still paying too much like a “gentleman”?

      • THEATLSD says:

        Yes Elaine something positive :)

      • THEATLSD says:

        I’m paying 13,423.18 a month allowance. It’s platonic of course.

      • elaine says:

        Damned ATL, I wanna be your SB!

      • noname says:

        theatlsd 13423.18 a month is that Micheal Jackson money lol glad you had a good time this weekend i didn’t watch any movies last night because this dave thing was so weird i couldn’t stop looking at it and yes its bs any your advice to ignore it was the best course of action as for me it time to have some fun with my sugar baby take care everyone

      • Jaybird923 says:

        I couldn’t resist poking the idiot. It was the most fun I’ve had since that Trina character on the other blog. “I graduated from an Ivy league school” “you’re a whore” LMAO

      • Anonymous says:

        i just found 3 19-22 yr olds i am paying 300 a week and am rotating on fri sat and sun, so sb’s are out there, ya just gotta do the work

  54. Anonymous says:

    Whenever you criticize a woman here she turns around and tries to claim that the man was merely seeking her attention…which she had the power to give or withhold.

    Delusional female minds continue to amaze me indeed.

    • elaine says:

      Yes, when you critize on things she never said and you personally made up?
      Yes, that is the attention seeking of a nagging little kid.

      What other reason would someone have -who doesn’t even know me- to make up stories or putting never said words in my mouth ?

      Delusional “SD” minds continue to amaze me indeed. :-)

    • Anonymous says:

      You cannot criticize someone you don’t know personally or irl. That is called being delusional. While a character on the blog cannot be criticized because it’s not based on facts.

      • THEATLSD says:

        Of course one can criticize someone they don’t know. Happens everyday in all parts of life. The “characters” on the blog are still real people posting thoughts, ideas, and comments. Which most certainly can be
        criticized. You are a delusional douch bag.

      • Anonymous says:

        Douch bag huh?
        I wad talking about criticizing someone’s sugar lifestyle moron, not their thoughts and ideas expressed which was the case with elaine. How do you know/not know she’s real and criticize her without an ounce of facts?

      • THEATLSD says:

        Maybe I have facts.
        Plus I have the force on my side.

      • Anonymous says:

        What are you going on about?

  55. Kore13 says:

    “So if Elaine says something every woman wants to believe in – it is true, just because she is a woman?
    If I say something every men wants to believe in – it is a lie, just because I am a man?”

    @Rem No one can know if anything anyone on the blog is saying is true, Elaine or you without exception. But I do have reason to think that she wouldn’t be lying:

    There are men in Europe that aren’t as sex driven, especially in the north. There are quite a few here that’re not that passionate in general and more than you think have a sexless wait until they find the right woman to call ‘partner.’ It’s a place where you wonder how often some men even jerk it. If that’s hard to imagine, it’s no surprise that what she’s saying come across as unbelievable.

    In a LT relationship, I could imagine one of these men paying a monthly, for example, but not always wanting to have sex. If it’s more like a traditional relationship after a while, why not? SA makes everything look like it’s just intimacy for money and everything outside is impossible, but that’s not necessarily always what it’s like.

    • elaine says:

      @Kore

      Thanks, but my wish to have more often sex with my SDs has nothing to do with their -or mine- sexdrive, it has all to do with the fact that they both live at circa 2000 km distance. :-) So in general we can only meet few days per month.

      So I don’t know where this nonsense comes from that I am getting an allowance without sex. Never said such thing.

      But we know how some here like to twist my words. :-)

    • Anonymous says:

      Generalizing European–especially Northen European–men much?

      • Kore13 says:

        “Generalizing European–especially Northen European–men much?”
        @Anon Last seen Germany’s birth rate, much? Been around northern European men in every day life much? Know how to differentiate between generalization and topic specific info much?

        I haven’t generalized. I’ve said that there are men here are a certain way, not that all of them are like this. If I said there are men who’re doctors in northern Europe, would you think all men here are doctors?

        @Elaine TVC mentioned that you posted once that you wished you’d had more sex. I just assumed then, that the reason was this since for me, it was a likely one for me. I didn’t realize that you lived so far apart since the sentence was about sex and not just, ‘I wish we’d meet more often.’

      • Kore13 says:

        I just assumed then, that the reason was this since, for me, it was a likely one.*

    • elaine says:

      “So if Elaine says something every woman wants to believe in”

      Would also very much want to know what exactly I am saying that every woman wants to believe in?

      That you don’t necessarely have to be “past the wall” at my age?
      That there is men who wants a mistress my age?
      That there is quite a lot of younger men attracted to woman my age? (google the word “milf”)
      That there is men selfconfident enough find the selfconfidence attractive of women my age?
      That you can look good at my age?
      That you don’t have to be fat at my age
      That you can do “kegels” at my age?

      Because that is basically all I am saying here.
      And that I have 2 LD, LT SDs. Now THAT is breaking news!
      Never once have mentioned my allowance, gifts or whatever.

      So if this is something every woman wants to believe in……
      Well, maybe it is a more healthy belief as what the IG girls are spreading! :-)

  56. clea says:

    The men here love to gang up on woman. It is ridiculous. For such powerful, wealthy men you’d think they’d have less time to troll on a blog.

    • Anonymous says:

      Didn’t you know, there are no SD’s on this blog? The true ones are out there with their SB having fun or messaging on SA not wasting time on this blog.

    • Anonymous says:

      Don’t you know men are either making money, trying to get laid or perennially fucking…cuz men either can’t and/or don’t like to communicate what matters to them?

  57. FunDude says:

    Women, here’s a tip:

    If you’re not attractive enough to DATE normally, why the FUCK would I pay for it?

    • Anonymous says:

      Is this your monthly rant against old, fat, unattractive SBs again? You’ve become boring. Why not include some humour or wit in there, or does that require too much thinking?

      • elaine says:

        @Clea

        Maybe they are a little less powerful and wealthy as they want us to believe? 😉

        @Anonymous

        Humour requires an open mind, that is too much to ask from our narrowminded small town doctor.

      • FunDude says:

        Its not to be humorous though. Its kinda annoying actually

  58. Mister Roberto says:

    Hello. Roberto here. Can someone please translate this for me?
    ************
    About Me

    I’ll be as blunt and honest as I can possibly verbalized with words in a such a way that the message that I hope to convey is properly transmitted and received. 18 years of age.. What that could mean is entirely up to the gents who ever so chooses to present theirselves. I’m entirely sure of who I am and who I choose to be as far as any of that may be of a concern to any of you who may be viewing this page. I would like to invite you to being a sugar daddy.. The actual definition. Someone who is finacially, mentally, and emotionally manufactured.. So to speak.. For this particular desire that one may come across in any given moment in their life.. So.. I’ll leave that as it is

    ************
    Thanks

  59. Anonymous says:

    Getting back to the blog topic I’m a new SD and I’d like some advice – do I part my hair on the left or the right to attract SB’s?

  60. Anonymous says:

    Every woman is looking for an “honest” and “truthful” man who is versed in telling the lies she wants to hear.

  61. rembodler says:

    @Elaine
    Why don’t we talk about a few other fetishes…once we are at it:

    1. old women attracting much younger rich men, giving them 20K platonic allowances fetish?
    2. old women making tons of money on SA fetish?
    3. old women having infinite choices on SA fetish?
    4. old women “deserving” better allowances because they “know their worth” fetish?

    All of these are fair game… don’t you think?

    • Horndog says:

      Lost interest when I read “old women”.

    • TVC15 says:

      It’s wonderful how much Elaine’s success irritates you guys.

      • rembodler says:

        Elaine’s success could and should be messaged as per her own words…
        “once I was messaged…”
        It is all here.

      • TVC15 says:

        Actually, Elaine has said she has a younger SD, and that her only complaint is that she wishes they had sex more often.

        Apparently that really bothers you, given how much effort you put into denying it.

      • rembodler says:

        @TV15
        “Elaine has said…”
        So if Elaine says something every woman wants to believe in – it is true, just because she is a woman?
        If I say something every men wants to believe in – it is a lie, just because I am a man?
        Convenient…

      • rembodler says:

        What I am trying to say, will you consider “rembodler has said” = “truth”?
        Probably not.
        So why is that suddenly “Elaine said XYZ” = “truth”?
        @Elaine has said a lot of things…some of which she herself admitted to be a gross exaggeration and had to back out of it.
        Just saying…

      • Anonymous says:

        This is how females bond @rem…that is…you call me pretty and I will call you gorgous.

      • Anonymous says:

        *gorgeous

      • FunDude says:

        I highly doubt most of Elaine’s stories on here.

        Rem is probably correct on his analysis.

        But its really not that important. She will keep some of the ladies delusional about their “worth”

      • elaine says:

        @ NotSoFun

        Ahhh, sweetie you also want your part of my attention?

        No problem dear, I am here for you to let out your usual baby burps and then you will feel relieved and hopefully leave us alone again, ok?

    • elaine says:

      @rembodler

      Gosh I must be really important to you, seen the effort you, a reasonable intelligent man, put into purposedly misunderstanding and twisting the words of whatever I post.
      Otherwise maybe you will be so kind as to tell us wherever I had to “admit to be a gross exaggeration and had to back out of it”?

      Was it that time I made a mistake in inches and said i was 8.10 instead of 5.10?
      Or when I used the metaphorical text “100 000 times richer”, to state that my SD is much richer as I am? (which should not really be a surprising fact, right?)

      But it doesn’t matter sweetie, I am used to men being fascinated by me, and craving for my attention.
      So here I am, you got my full attention now, i am writing a post for you alone!
      Happy now you got 5 minutes of my time darling? And even for free!!

      Because I think THAT is what is irritating you (and not you alone) so much.
      We are in the same age group but the difference between you and me is that:

      You have to pay young girls to impress, support your company and feel yourself a real Alpha man.
      Whereas I GET paid for my company, yes sometimes even by younger men, and I don’t have to pretend being an Alpha, I AM.

      Cheers luv’ :-)

      • FunDude says:

        Cool story Elaine, sounds mystical.

      • elaine says:

        @Fundude

        What do you know dear?
        We all know your experiences and perception are a little …uhm…let’s say … limited.
        You have never been an SD, your only connection with sugar is annoying most of us here on blog.

        But if you have a minute in between driving to the gym with your 20 something, thin blond, (free!) GF in your Mercedes, or rattling on your Alpha chest, (Ha.Ha.!) bashing REAL SDs here by telling them they are Beta’s, then please surprise us with some cool stories?

      • clea says:

        Elaine, cease responding to remlooser. He is clearly baiting you at this point. The more information you give him, the more ammo used against you.

      • elaine says:

        @Clea

        I find it highly amusing to play with those suckers and see if they come back with an intelligent answer on my responses to them.
        Or when I ask them to explain where exactly have I said something, when they are “quoting”me again with their own figments.

        They never come back btw….

        As @Flyr use to say, they are like little chihuahua’s, barking and snarling safely from their hiding place under the porch.

      • Dave says:

        alpha female is like having a guard cat…doesn’t exist other than in her (in this case your) head.

      • Anonymous says:

        But Dave, the local SA rapist guy exists. He had a very good perception at writing fiction and fantasy.

    • Anonymous says:

      How about we talk about your toys fetish and how you like it up the butt with a dildo?

  62. Anonymous says:

    @elaine

    “Once I was messaged by a very short guy (1.60 or so) who wanted to go shopping with a very tall woman.
    Meh!…Sort of fetish I guess…”

    Next you’re going to suggest that a:

    1. bald guy wanting to date a non-bald woman fetish?
    2. fat guy wanting to date a non-fat woman fetish?
    3. poor guy wanting to date a rich woman fetish?

    • Anonymous says:

      elaine has a point. That is definitely a fetish, if a guy that short was actively and only looking for tall/much taller women than him.
      It’s also a fetish to date a very large and obese women, which some men actually pay to see them eat and all kinds of weird stuff.
      It ‘may’ be a fetish if the opposite occurred, a non-bald guy wanting to date a bald gal.
      There ya go!

    • Kore13 says:

      Don’t take so much offense. It’s easy for a guy to get a boner over most women, so I don’t think you can relate well to such a comment.

      You could look at it the other way around. You don’t think it might be out of the ordinary if a few tall women rejected average and tall men for short ones?

    • elaine says:

      @Anonymous

      Ahhh ok, so you think it is quite normal to actively search for women at least 20 cm more tall as you are (30cm with heels) to take them out shopping and be humiliated in public for your shortness?

      Well dear if you think that is not a fetish but normal sexual behaviour, I am very interested to hear what you would consider a “fetish” then?

      Here, I will make it easier for you:

      “fetish
      ˈfɛtɪʃ/

      1. a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc. “a man with a fetish for surgical masks”
      synonyms: fixation, sexual fixation, obsession, compulsion, mania”

    • FunDude says:

      Jason Statham, Vin Diesel and the ROCK dating non bald women is a fetish these days?

      • Anonymous says:

        No but the opposite is since there aren’t many bald women around and it’s not the norm

        Same with much taller women as the norm is for the man to be much taller than his female counterpart.

      • SouthernSB says:

        There are quite a few black women with bald heads. It looks good on us.

      • Anonymous says:

        This became a trend just now. It’s the latest fad along with the half head shaving thing.
        I personally do not think a bald head complements anyone (I’m talking about a full bald head not with some hair, not with short hair) man or woman.

  63. BamWamGazam says:

    I’m finding it a bit difficult to find anyone on this site that’s serious about a SD/SB relationship. I keep getting “salt” daddies, maybe my profile only attracts salt..? Can someone help me out by telling me what the first impression of my profile gives them?

    https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ec5d80921/view

  64. Cryptic Anomaly says:

    @the poster who asked about having a mix of pro pics and normal ones, you could have both and many women do probably the best way to hedge your bets. Although if your pro pics make you look way hotter than your true self than that could put SD’s off as well. In the end it will be the non pro pic you that we will be meeting.

    • Anonymous says:

      Yes I suggested that since it’s a better bet. Since it seems that some prefer this one before the other, it is better to maximize your chances. But again, aren’t the true self/selfie photos edited out too?

  65. Josh says:

    @noname

    “thanks elaine i understand collage is a on going buzz word on here”

    That’s yet another observation initially made by the GURU. 😉

  66. Anonymous says:

    Smb please help.

    I’m new SB here and I have a question – could anyone can explain me how I should react?
    Many ppl favorite my profile on SA very often they even share privet galleries with me and they in the same time are not sending me any massage. Could anyone tell me how I should react?
    I’m asking bc i tried few scenarios:
    1)I send 1 msg;
    2)I fav them back;
    3)I fav them back and I shared access to my pics;
    4)I fav them back, I shared my pic and I send them msg;
    5)I shared my pics;
    6)I shared pics and I send them msg;
    7)I fav them and I send msg;
    8)I did nothing

    As you can see I tried every possible scenario and still 90% did not respond at all, however I’m still on fav list of them and they are still checking my profile quite frequently. So I’m clueless- why they fav me in first place when they do not wanna contact me?

    Dear SB’s- do you have same ‘situations’? How you react for that?
    Dear SD’s- why/what for are you fav girls? I’m not sidekick- pls help- should I do smt with that or should I ignored it?

    Kisses,
    F

    • Horndog says:

      A lot of people here just use SA as a form of quick free entertainment and are simply picture collectors.

    • Gentle says:

      Use Google translate to put that into good English. Maybe SD Pots don’t get pidgin English

    • Anonymous says:

      Are you non-white, look older than 27, fat and/or located in a shitty part of the world?

      • Anonymous says:

        White, young, average, Berlin.

      • Anonymous says:

        are you checking to see if the SDs are premium members?

        they can’t respond otherwise

      • Anonymous says:

        This what you’re competing against in Berlin, sweetheart

        [http://www.citylab.com/tech/2014/04/now-you-can-hire-prostitute-you-hire-uber/8941/]

      • Horndog says:

        You are competing with legally available escorts in Germany. You need to move to a hypocritical/puritanical country like the US where what happens b/w 2 consenting adults is considered a heinous crime by the government and heavily punished.

      • Gentle says:

        “Mein Berliner klingt gut” white ,young -that’s a good start for me! Give me an SB over a Pro anytime since I want a low(no) volume partner . I don’t want to where others fear to tread. You know -lick the toilet bowl thing . I want a pure ,clean as a whistle pussy that has been preserved and waiting just for me to pleasure .

      • Anonymous says:

        Is that because your cock is pure?

      • Gentle says:

        Yep ! My Cock is pure as the driven snow-more like a blizzard ya know ( ;

      • Anonymous says:

        Oh, good. I’d hate to think of you tainting pure women with a dirty, used-up cock. Would be like licking a urinal.

      • Anonymous says:

        Why do I have the feeling you have a crabs infested herpes genital area?

      • Anonymous says:

        Because you love the double standard but you know it’s indefensible, so your only option when people point it out is to insult them?

      • Anonymous says:

        Hi Gentle. What double standard? You mean that your genital area is probably more used up, and resembles a wrinkled trash can?

        ..Yes I can see that now.

      • Anonymous says:

        Thanks for proving my point.

      • Anonymous says:

        Use of condoms protects penis from getting used up. You get less pleasure though. Now if female condoms were more popular…

      • Anonymous says:

        Convince me that he has used condoms during all of his intimate redezvous.
        Convince me that you’re still pure and clean if the partner uses a condom.
        Convince me that there are no female ‘condoms’, not the conventional ones.

    • Kore13 says:

      The answer could be that they don’t have premium. Only premium SDs can write messages. You can see which ones are premium in search – these have a gold bar on the left side. On their profile, it should say ‘premium’ next to their username.

      @Gentle I doubt she’s a native English speaker.

    • Maggie says:

      Oh sweetpea! If only we were all a little more ‘sidekick’ the world would be a much better place 😉

      But on a serious note, English English English….and patience x

  67. Maggie says:

    Asked a little question earlier to see if there are any other tall SB’s. I guess I was just curious about whether or not tall women are having any success because so far my conclusions are: Shorter men are either 1) intimidated by height (6″1…plus heels!) 2) Want the attention a tall woman brings them or my favourite 3) An Amazonian woman fetish

    I love this world haha 😀

    • Josh says:

      Don’t you worry…

      “Every woman has the inalienable right to blame a man, a group of men or all MANkind for anything that happens or does not happen in her life…especially love life.” – GURU

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        GURU are you back to your former antics? Spewing wisdom left and right.
        Oh mighty GuRu, where would we be if we did not have you to teach us the ways of life?
        Please accept this humble response to your enlightening and heavenly reply.

      • Josh says:

        I am sure that your other proxies will launch their boring attacks as well soon. :(

      • Josh says:

        As boringly, you will rearrange my words, add some insulting words/phrases and post an idiotic response as well? :(

      • Maggie says:

        Ha ha! This made me chuckle indeed. Being curious about finding other tall women and wanting to know their experiences is a little different to me complaining or pulling the “Woe is me” card 😉

    • elaine says:

      Hi @Maggie

      Aren’t you the girl that lived in Milan?
      Anyway, I am 1.78m (5.10, yes yes I know….. 😉 )

      There is SDs explicitely searching for tall women, I have never met one so I don’t know their motivations.

      Once I was messaged by a very short guy (1.60 or so) who wanted to go shopping with a very tall woman.
      Meh!…Sort of fetish I guess….

      • Maggie says:

        Hi @Elaine ,

        Yes that’s me! I’ve moved back to a little quiet town near London :) Good to hear from another leggy lady. I met one who wanted to ‘hire me’ as such for business events as he knew a 6’1 woman in heels would bring attention, and then this attention would then be directed to him. Very interesting guy actually

    • Anonymous says:

      Maggie, how did you make that last pic? Did you just put your face onto a previous pic?

    • Anonymous says:

      That is Maggie’s out of body photo. She had an out of body experience and her second out of body self captured that photo of her with her first out of body self. A different type of selfie…ya know.

    • noname says:

      well maggie short men do want to date tall women its the ladies themselves that prevent this from happening how many women say they won’t date men shorter than them selves doing this leaves them with a much smaller pool of men to choose from

    • FunDude says:

      No one is intimidated by you. But keep bitching, I hear it’s attractive for SDs to hear all that nagging.

      Shit, where do I sign up for this type of woman? And I get to pay her too for this luxury!

      • Anonymous says:

        You have no sugar money, you are not a SD (according to you) so what exactly will you pay anyone and more importantly why are you on SA’s blog?

    • THEATLSD says:

      Clea there are successful tall women on here. Like everything else it’s all in presentation. I know SB that is 6’0 and has a few SD.

  68. The Minion says:

    Why does virtually every new profile state “Meeting new people”?

  69. elaine says:

    “bisinessman with spare time and money”

    Collage SD?

    At least he doesn’t expect sex….. 😉

    • noname says:

      bisinessman with spare time and money. collage SD;at least he doesn’t expect sex elaine who are you refering to with that comment i havn’t had enough coffee in me to make sense of that

      • Horndog says:

        I think it is a typo. I am forgiving of mistakes when the letters are next to each other on a keyboard such as the “u” and “i”. Maybe he has fat fingers and typing on a cell phone?

      • elaine says:

        @NoName

        Oh, it was just text from the profile of someone who send me a message and it made me laugh. That’s why I shared.

        And “collage” is a running gag here, used for people ( most SBs) who claim to be in college but write like unlettered idiots.

        @Horndog

        I can understand such typo in a message, but in a profile!?
        Don’t like men with fat fingers either 😉

      • noname says:

        thanks elaine i understand collage is a on going buzz word on here

      • Anonymous says:

        Men with fat fingers aren’t that bad. During fingering they can pretend it’s their microscopic penis that is doing the deed. Uh huh

      • Anonymous says:

        @Horndog

        Who dyed and made jew a grammer natzi?

    • Better Call Saul says:

      @Elaine, et. al. You are hereby restrained from using the term “collage” without a proper credit reference to @Josh. He owns copyright on “collage”, and I will personally sue your sorry asses for using the term in an uncredited manner.

  70. Anonymous says:

    I just got back on SA after being suspended for breaking the terms and conditions, what I did was never explained but I apologised never to do it again which will be hard as I don’t know what I did lol. Having been suspended before for sex for cash, all of these conversations are held off site. Was I sarcastic to a few hidden platonic’s, yes. Well I joined SD and found someone quite quickly, they are a bit too conservative in the bedroom so it may not work out. As usual, my only SA pot is platonic. Bizarre as SD seems more dating than arrangement site now.

  71. Cryptic Anomaly says:

    @ALice “Some say pro-pictures are best in our profiles, some say it’s the worst thing to do. Who’s right?”

    It’s one of those things where no one is “right” it all depends on the person looking at the pics.

    For me I find Pro Pics stale and cold, they make everyone look the same and also given all the fakes and scammers on here it makes you appear to be non real as well. A few good shots even selfies can be far better and as Remodeler mentioned Pro pics don’t provide an accurate representation of what you actually look like.

    No point in waiting to meet a guy who won’t recognize you when he arrives!

    • Anonymous says:

      How about having both in your profile?

      • Gentle says:

        Good point . I saw a profile where the SB looking fantastic–then private pics looked dismal-like 2 different people . Maybe the good pic was pirated .

      • Bruce Wayne says:

        There have been several cases that I have encountered where the public pictures are for a very attractive woman. When you get access to the private pictures, it is a completely different and less attractive woman. I don’t know if this was recommended on Tumblr somewhere or it they are finally starting to figure out it is a waste of time…. wasting less time this way I suppose but still annoying as hell.

  72. Jaybird923 says:

    Has anyone else received an email from SA about a nee web documentary they’re doing? They are looking for suagar couples willing to appear on camara together and tell their story. You will be generously compensated.

    • Horndog says:

      Define generously compensated.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        This is all the email said….

        Dear there,

        We are currently seeking Sugar Babies AND their Sugar Daddies to be part of a web documentary where together they share their experiences as a couple.

        Your Sugar Daddy must be willing to interview and appear on camera with you to be considered. This is a generously paid opportunity.

        If interested, please submit the following information to Casting@seekingarrangement.com

      • Jaybird923 says:

        his is all the email said….

        Dear there,

        We are currently seeking Sugar Babies AND their Sugar Daddies to be part of a web documentary where together they share their experiences as a couple.

        Your Sugar Daddy must be willing to interview and appear on camera with you to be considered. This is a generously paid opportunity.

        If interested, please submit the following information to [Casting@seekingarrangement.com]

      • Horndog says:

        Considering majority of SD’s are married, well good luck with that!

      • Kore13 says:

        They were offering the SB 300 before for going on TV, so I’m guessing that they mean 500 when they say that they’ll be, ‘generous.’

    • Anonymous says:

      $300 for SB and free annual diamond membership for SD?

    • rembodler says:

      “Sugar couples”…how presumptuous…
      If I wanted to be “couples”, I’d get married…

    • Anonymous says:

      As always, SA will cast some sleazeball and some escorts and call it good.

    • Cryptic Anomaly says:

      As we saw with the SA Calendar and various other SA “promotions” they won’t attract decent women with this as it’s not exactly socially acceptable or seen as glamorous to be a Sugar Baby, any woman who is aspiring to make something of herself will not be keen to talk about how she charges men for her affection.

      Likewise any decent man, with a career and a profile worth anything will not want to talk about how he pays younger women for their “time”.

      So cue the usual Dr Phil episode featuring women you wouldn’t date for free making claims that can’t be or won’t be verified.

      • noname says:

        good point about Dr Phil as he said in one of his shows are you all hookers anyone looking at these videos thats not into sugar will think thats all these arrangements are about not in a positive light

      • yougottabekiddingme says:

        The SD in that episode of Dr. P was in the audience, but bolted during commercial break before appearing on stage. Changed his mind…wised up, maybe.

    • elaine says:

      Always good for a laugh those SA marketing geniuses! ROFLMAO

      I am sure their mailbox will be flooded with mails from married, successful and wealthy SDs who want to appear on camera with their SB in exchange for some spare money!

      • Horndog says:

        There are plenty of $50K/yr “millionaires” who would be interested in this promotion.

      • elaine says:

        @Horndog

        Yes true!
        And since that seems to be the new target audience of SA, maybe they should indeed present one of these…

        The “generous” payment will probably provide them with enough cash for 5 one hour “arrangements” with “SBs” who take a “allowances” of $100 for one hour of her “company”. 😉

      • Horndog says:

        I have seen lots of SD profiles claiming an annual income of $100K and offering High Expectation. That’s $120K/year. Since it exceeds their total annual income, they are probably going to their local credit union or bank to borrow the extra 20K. Maybe these are the target SD’s of the new promotion.

      • elaine says:

        @Horndog

        Haha, yes that is so true!

        I mean, what are those guys thinking??
        Me thinks they are in more urgent need for a calculator as for an SB! 😉

      • Anonymous says:

        I don’t think princesses care if the math works or not as long as someone is willing to spoil them.

        We have seen that with the $15k/platonic lunch scammers.

        Women felt horrible because the story was not true and were scrambling to hear that it was still true somehow.

      • Anonymous says:

        i have about 10 sb’s willing to take 300 a week, not sure what the problem is with the rest of you on this site, but more for me

      • SDaddy says:

        I have the same for $200 avg. $150 -250 is thee range forcollege girls who know their worth. Before the naysayers start degrading the “quality “of SB who will accept such a “paltry” amount , they are Sugars who actually appreciate the money and are reasonably fulfilled with what they can do with it .And are filling their bank account instead of sitting on the sidelines hoping for the Golden Goose to come lay that egg–and them .

      • Anonymous says:

        Please describe age, weight, height, ethnicity, location, etc., of the 10 SBs who are willing to take $300 per week. Thanks in advance.

      • SDaddy says:

        I know that was directed to Anon about his $300 girls ,but i’ll weigh in on my $200 ones . My search(and find) criteria are 18 to 29 ,slim -avg-athletic ,all are HWP or they will not get a bid

  73. rembodler says:

    The problem with really good pictures is that you will probably not look like that on your date. The old rule – underpromise and overdeliver. Works like a charm.

  74. AliceS says:

    Some say pro-pictures are best in our profiles, some say it’s the worst thing to do. Who’s right?

    • Anonymous says:

      Photos with idiotic poses are bad…bathroom/car photos are bad. The best thing to do is to get some photos taken outdoors in good lighting.

      • Anonymous says:

        Best pictures are taken in front of the toilet bowl, preferably unflushed. Then pucker your lips and try your best to look like a 3 day old smelly carp kissing the cell phone with a peace sign on your other hand. If you have large tattoos on your neck, shoulders, and chest, even better! SD’s love that shit.

      • AliceS says:

        I’m guessing you know it from your own experience

      • Anonymous says:

        How do you think I managed to snag my SD? He was so impressed with my bathroom picture as described above that he offered me 20K/mo for a platonic arrangement during our first meeting!

      • AliceS says:

        I’m sure you can sell it to the BBC station, as their most valuable headline story.
        Now, if you don’t mind, I’ll move on, on your so expensive poop. I’m sure your parents are proud. Such brilliant mind.

      • Josh says:

        Did you actually have to meet your SD for the $20K/month? That does not sound like a good deal to me.

      • Anonymous says:

        You mean like Kore’s couch pic?

      • Anonymous says:

        BBC station

        Big Black Cock?

      • Kore13 says:

        @Alice I’ve gotten more “I’ll be in this city for just one night very soon,” messages since removing the ‘pro’ pics from public. I’ve also received less photo requests with an accompanying open message.

        “You mean like Kore’s couch pic?”
        Upset that I’m not a collage prude, are you?

      • Anonymous says:

        Photos with idiotic poses are bad and yours qualify.

      • Kore13 says:

        Ok, then look at some pictures you like instead.

        troll

    • Josh says:

      Go to a place with good background scenery, architecture, landscaping, etc. Hand your phone/camera to the fattest woman in sight to take your photos. They would be the best photos.

      • AliceS says:

        :) Josh what if she steal my phone and run away. I just wanted to know what’s yay what’s nay. Nor sure, if I’m going to change my pictures though I’d like to be prepared :)

      • Josh says:

        Hello!!! I specifically told you to find the fattest woman in sight. 😉

      • Josh says:

        But you may be right. I was think fat as in US/UK fat.

      • AliceS says:

        On Judge Judy I haven’t seen so many obese, I mean really obese people. A little bit fat here or there won’t hurt. I need around 15lb more to have my perfect weight 😉 Maybe finally I can see my rear in a bigger size :)

    • AnonymousReturns says:

      Do what you wish but please ditch the damn bathroom selfies.

  75. Maggie says:

    Are there any other tall SB’s around? I am 6’1 and would love to compare thoughts :) x

  76. SB TVC15 says:

    Here’s a horrifying word combination:

    “peplum crop top”

  77. Anonymous says:

    So I guess I should add “pantie fetish” to my profile

  78. Madison93 says:

    Is there a way I can search for men who have a specific type of fetish?

  79. Anonymous says:

    I come to bury Guru, not to praise him.

    • Josh says:

      Take a number and stand in the queue…it’s long. 😉

    • SB Monkey's Sister says:

      Welcome my friend, come join the #noGURUinthisblog party.

      Joshy, I am number one in your list, right? #1

    • Josh says:

      @LadyScarlet

      Don’t know about #1. But you’re the one and only batshit…that’s for sure.

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        Nope Joshy, I feel you’re in denial. Lots of people dislike the crazy GURU syndrome. Do you have anything else in life, besides this blog? It might be hurting your chances to loose your virginity…

  80. Jaybird923 says:

    Question: How many of you guys have had a SB sleep with you on the first meet? If you have, did you pursue an arrangement with her after? If no, Why not?

    • Josh says:

      I go for longish arrangements. I don’t try to sleep on the first date per se but if happens it happens. I don’t sleep with women on ONS basis so it immeterial if she sleeps with me on the first date or the third date.

      That said, one time I let it go past the third date and realized that she had no intention of sleeping with me ever so I stopped seeing her.

      The other one kept stringing me along for intercourse but allowed me to do everything else. Even though she is gorgeous, I let her go as I consider denial of intercourse a for of disrespect for the man.

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        No surprise she denied the GURU intercourse, seeing how you don’t look like Brad Pitt and your breath smells like shit.

      • Josh says:

        @LadyScarlet

        I am “glad” that you found an opportunity to put your two @Batshit cents in. 😉

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        How many times do I have to tell you I am not Lady Scarlett. But don’t mind me, I know your IQ doesn’t allow you to think outside of your own realm of conceited existence, GURU.
        All praise GOD!

      • Josh says:

        If it quakes like a duck…

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        If it has an avatar of Brad Pitt…

    • Gentle says:

      ALL sleep with me the 1st date. 50% I establish a long term relationship with (defined as over 3 mos weekly meets)

      • Jaybird923 says:

        For the ones that you didn’t establish an arrangement with, why didn’t you?

      • Gentle says:

        One wanted a one time cash infusion and bolted with my advance for meet # 2 . She was cute and I’m sorry that didn’t work out.

        Another was GPS who wouldn’t negotiate up front ,but wanted too much for a continuing relationship

        One I did not feel a connection with after we took a test drive

        I think that’s all that didn’t work out

        Another lived too far away and I couldn’t make it work LT.

      • AnonymousSSSD says:

        Only slept with one on first meet. Ended up lasting about 3 months. She liked me a lot and started giving it up for free. I did her once for free and then said goodbye. I just wasn’t attracted to her anymore. She was ditzy. This lady worked for a hotel but every time I gave her the room number of the hotel room I was in, she had trouble finding it. A few times she knocked on other people’s hotel room doors down the hall by mistake. It was annoying.

    • Anonymous says:

      I do sleep on the first date, only if the arrangement has been established, not up for a ‘test drive’.

    • noname says:

      yes i have i don’t look for it because most don’t want it on a first date but those that do its a good sign because they turn out to be the best arrangements

    • Anonymous says:

      Agreed with @noname.

    • Bartolo says:

      *raises hand* I have . . .

      Oral on the first date a few times . . . full sex on the first date only once.

      The full-blown sex on the first date — we are still in an arrangement. We met for coffee, I drove her back to her apartment, she invited me in, and we certainly hit it off. (no funds exchanged)

      The oral on the first dates . . . some progressed and some did not. The one I’m thinking of that did not was because she was a bit young and a bit too needy I was afraid. Over time, I’ve shied away more and more from the ‘too needy’ syndrome.

      • Bartolo says:

        @noname — yes, very often sex on the first date simply means they are hypersexual and frankly that can be a good thing. All things equal, a (young) woman who LOVES sex is much more fun.

    • Accidental SD says:

      I sleep with my dates on every first date. There has only been one who didn’t and she turned out to be the one who liked sex the most and had the most other partners..totally polyamourous, pothead and a smoker, but fun…go figure…She is now gone as she expects too much allowance for almost no time together and all her various habits…like $5k/month. The others I still am seeing as they want their fridge filled, some extra spending money, trips and shopping sprees.

  81. Anonymous says:

    Most women are attention-seeking robots.

  82. Anonymous says:

    The beauty of a sugar arrangement is that if either party starts asking stupid questions you know it’s over and you get ready to move on.

  83. Anonymous says:

    @Kore13

    “Another fine example of men not being able to read between the lines.”

    “Reading between the lines” is exercise in futility for the most part. Her expectation is for the man to fill in because she is having brain farts. Most men are neither smart enough nor interested enough in such mental exercise.

    “My ex asked me in the beginning if I was with him just because of his cock. ? He’s a pretty clever, so it could’ve just been a way to entice feelings out of me.”

    That was a dumb question…most women are not interested in a man’s cock unless it is something of a legend…this is because most women require clitoral stimulation, which neither small nor big cock can provide. Such stimulation is provided through fingers or tongue.

    “As much as women are illogical, men are as tactless.”

    Correct…most men are tactless…even if they were tactful in the beginning of the pussy access they give up…because dealing with women’s on-going drama gets tiring after a quick while.

    • Anonymous says:

      *either having or feigning brain farts…

    • Kore13 says:

      “this is because most women require clitoral stimulation, which neither small nor big cock can provide.”

      Yeah, if that’s what it primarily depended on, we’d have more lesbians.

      “because dealing with women’s on-going drama gets tiring after a quick while.”

      Sure. Do what you think is good for you.

      • Kore13 says:

        We were talking about achieving orgasm, I thought?

        Sorry, I didn’t assume that this: because most women require clitoral stimulation, which neither small nor big cock can provide. Such stimulation is provided through fingers or tongue.

        Meant this: women want men primarily for their resources.

        I’m getting tired of circling back to the same sentences with you, Anon. I won’t reply to them any longer if you can’t express yourself in a different way.

    • Anonymous says:

      Wrong deduction again. Men want women primarily for their pussy and uterus…women want men primarily for their resources.

  84. rembodler says:

    @Jay
    next time I meet an SB that offers to “test-drive” her, to test compatibility, for free…
    I will buy ONE lottery ticket and donate all the 10 million of proceeds (I am bound to win!) to a Humane Society.
    Jay… all of us occasionally say dumb things. I am no exception…
    But that one was yours. I hope you have enough humility to own it and to acknowledge it.

    • Kore13 says:

      On the contrary. All I understood was, ‘Should I care about what he feels or should I not?’

      Another fine example of men not being able to read between the lines.

      My ex asked me in the beginning if I was with him just because of his cock. 😀 He’s a pretty clever, so it could’ve just been a way to entice feelings out of me. Still, that he even brought it up says a lot.

      If it’s important that you find the right SD, you don’t waste time making mistakes. Rather ask to find a general opinion instead. It influences how a woman is selective.

      • Kore13 says:

        Kind of stupid. If you want to find a woman who treats you like you’re worth more than the next man, you’ll have to show for it besides through your cock and money. How’s it smart to answer this way to a woman who’s even bothering to ask?

        You can be honest.. And then you can be insulting. As much as women are illogical, men are as tactless.

      • Anonymous says:

        Kore… Women are never with men because of “his cock”. Any man asking this question is an idiot. Any woman seriously considering being with a man asking this question is worse than an idiot.

      • Anonymous says:

        I think that @Kore just made that cock anecdote up.

      • Anonymous says:

        How many men have you been with @Kore?

      • Kore13 says:

        “Kore… Women are never with men because of “his cock”. Any man asking this question is an idiot. Any woman seriously considering being with a man asking this question is worse than an idiot.”

        When I first started dating him, it was kind of true. He had a great personality, but if he was the average guy, I would have really continued to see him only for the sex.
        Like I said, I think he was trying to coax an answer out of me since he want me to be his girlfriend. He’s been otherwise “manipulative.” Why would you think it’s idiotic? He had unlimited and exclusive access to my body in the end. It’s was strategic.

        “I think that @Kore just made that cock anecdote up.”
        With what aim? The blog’s fun to discuss on, but I will probably never meet you, Anon – ultimately, what you do or think will not have a direct impact on me.

        “How many men have you been with @Kore?”
        Three serious relationships. The first was as asshole. The second my husband. The one I referred to was the third.
        If you’re looking for a number a number of sex partners, you must be kidding?

      • Anonymous says:

        The question was to know how many men you have been with, for you to be able to confidently assess how men roll.

      • Anonymous says:

        Well then, how many women have you been with, for you to confidently assess how women roll?

      • Anonymous says:

        The more men you have been with the more you…@Kore makes utterly silly statements from time to time…that’s why the question was asked.

      • Anonymous says:

        How many women? Quite a few.

      • Kore13 says:

        What does number have to do with it when the woman chooses the personality? It’s nice to be reminded how men might not care about such details like being rejected after a test run for the sake of even having a free bang at all. It’s not new.. Just, there are men out there who would be upset by this kind of thing.

        Another example: I danced with a gorgeous man when I was pretty drunk once. I felt shy and avoided looking into his face. A week later, I saw a gorgeous man again, but I didn’t realize that it was the same one. He was so insulted that I’d forgotten him – I even found his number in my phone when he reminded me. His reaction was as if someone had just told him that he’s the worst in bed.
        It was sad, and I didn’t think it would bruise his ego that badly, but it did.

      • Kore13 says:

        “Kore makes utterly silly statements from time to time”

        errare humanum est

      • SB TVC15 says:

        “My ex asked me in the beginning if I was with him just because of his cock.”

        How did you manage to resist the urge to say “yes”?

      • Kore13 says:

        @SB It wouldn’t have been true – I already mentioned that he had a great personality. I just didn’t feel the urge to reveal my feelings before I was sure I wanted to be in a relationship.

    • Jaybird923 says:

      LoL I don’t know why everyone keeps saying that. I wasn’t thinking about the typical SB when I posed the question. And she would be test driving you not the other way around. I still don’t think it was stupid but I’ll admit that I’m guilty of over estimating you guys and forgetting rule # one for most guys… sex is sex.

  85. Anonymous says:

    People are always posting profiles here of alleged rinsers but when I check them out, they are pretty straightforward about what they are or not offering.
    The profile text below is the perfect example of a rinser:
    What I’m Looking For….
    Looking for someone who knows how to treat a princess and who I can spend time with occasionally. My lifestyle is very busy so fitting in time may be hard in the beginning but the better you treat me the more I can see you:)

    • Josh says:

      As the one who introduced the term to the blog, please know that rinser is used pretty loosely here.

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        Of course you did, you introduced the blog here too, you made Brandon, took SA from the stars, and brought bliss upon all of us, GURU! You are our true savior! Who needs Jesus?
        Your conceited nature is a gift to the world. Behold…

      • Anonymous says:

        Josh — did you make earth and rest on the 7th day too? You are so batshit delusional it isn’t even humorous anymore.

      • Anonymous says:

        GURU don’t rest.

  86. Anonymous says:

    How is one supposed to know which one he is, in a picture with a thousand people around?

  87. Reverend Jesse says:

    Attention all black SBs:

    Exercising the mystical powers bestowed upon me by the Almighty Lord Above, I hereby magically transform all black SB’s into AA SB’s.

    Congratulations! I look forward to seeing you all Sunday morning. In the meantime, happy sugaring.

    Reverend Jesse

  88. Jaybird923 says:

    Question: You make a SB an offer but she tells you before she accepts she needs to make sure you guys are sexually compatible. 1) would you be offended and rescind your offer 2) would you let her audition you for the role

    • Jaybird923 says:

      1) It wouldn’t bother you that she doubts your ability to please her. 2) Sure it’s free sex so you’d go for it but would you still be interested in pursuing her after the “audition”

    • SDaddy says:

      Rhetorical question @Jay.

      I’m looking for a sex partner ,not a wife

    • Anonymous says:

      Congrats for winning Dumb Question Of The Day.

    • SDaddy says:

      Also ,that would NEVER happen in a million years . No girl gives it up for free unless it is a peer date situation

      • Josh says:

        Correcto!!!

      • Jaybird923 says:

        That’s not true. There are plenty of girls who give it up for free thinking the SD is genuine only to never hear from him again after he’s had her.

      • Kore13 says:

        Maybe it’s like the minimal syndrome. Maybe they equate minimal and free with cheap. :(

      • Jaybird923 says:

        @Kore I think that might be the case.

      • Anonymous says:

        I’ve had sex, for “free,” on several first dates arranged here on SA. I did not cross-examine the women to ascertain their true intentions among (1) “I’m investing in him by giving him a freebie so he’ll hopefully come back and pay, (2) “he’s attractive, I’m horny, let’s do it,” some combination of the above, or other reasons.

    • Anonymous says:

      wouldnt bother me at all to audition, i know my worth in the bedroom

    • Anonymous says:

      It will be the best 56 seconds of her life!

    • Kore13 says:

      It translates to, “I’ll take an allowance from you only if you’re good in bed.” Doesn’t come across well. That’s how I’d understand it.

      Even if I didn’t enjoy sex with a person, I wouldn’t let them know – especially if I don’t know them well. It’s simply impolite.

    • Cryptic Anomaly says:

      It still translates as free sex for us whether she is satisfied or not. So we wouldn’t care and if she doesn’t like it, we move on.

    • Josh says:

      Only @flyR would rescind such offer because she is a woman.

    • Jaybird923 says:

      It translates to, “I’ll take an allowance from you only if you’re good in bed.”

      @Kore that’s what I was thinking also but apparently all the guys see is free sex…

    • Jaybird923 says:

      Congrats for winning Dumb Question Of The Day.

      Thank you! I do try to excel at everything I do. I’m glad you were able to recognize the effort I put into that question :-)

    • Josh says:

      When it comes to pussy men don’t give a shit about intellectual stuff.

      If men were as finicky about sex as women are…many women would die of hunger.

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        Back so soon crazy GURU? The only woman here (if gender were to be defined as a lack of a penis) is you.
        Go back to your asylum.

      • Josh says:

        @LadyScarlet,

        You can’t refrain from writing crazy…the GURU didn’t name you @Batshit for nothing.

      • Dr. Laura says:

        @Josh and @LadyScarlett:

        You two silly lovebirds seem to be regressing to your former selves. We need to meet ASAP for remedial therapy sessions. To rectify the strain you are putting on your wedded bliss and put you back on the path to tantric love and sexual harmony. Have faith. Dr. Laura is up to the challenge

        Dr. Laura
        Love Doctor to the Stars

      • Josh says:

        Proxies posting in concert. Whatever floats your boat @LadyScarlet.

    • Kore13 says:

      @Jay I think we’re taking their feelings too much into consideration. Like @Cryptic said, it’s probably not something they even care about… Ah.. Hard to choose. A guy who thinks that this might matter vs the guy who doesn’t care…

  89. Anonymous says:

    Yesterday I had the unexpected opportunity to meet my SB’s bf at her apartment (near miss, but we covered). I have been with my SB for six months and she is very attractive. I was surprised that her bf is less fit than me and a little better than average looking. When I spoke to my SB a few hours after the near miss, I politely mentioned that my image of him was much different. Almost apologetically, she said he has a steady job, he is nice to her, and he is fun to be around but that he wasn’t life partner material. Two things came to mind — is there something wrong with her that I am missing? Is the bar really that low for 20-something guys?

    • Anonymous says:

      You must like sloppy seconds. Did she at least use baby wipes to freshen herself?

    • Kore13 says:

      I don’t take it well when a guy tells me that my partner is less than what he’d imagined.

      Sounds like he’s got a nice enough personality, but the sex isn’t great. My guess is that she’s still with him because she feels guilty.

  90. Josh says:

    Read this again and again and again until it becomes second nature to you:

    [http://www.avoiceformen.com/miscellaneous/how-to-avoid-a-false-rape-claim/]

    • Anonymous says:

      So Josh ,who do we have sex with ? Who’s left ?

    • Josh says:

      Keep in mind the bias of the source this information is coming from.

      Once armed with the knowledge…play safe…think first…hump later…instead of humping first and thinking later…that’s all. :)

  91. Anonymous says:

    I agree with the article but it forgot to mention 1 item to have with you.

    Do not forget to bring Vitamin V. The pill has a blue color.

  92. Josh says:

    Who else thinks that this profile is creepy from the prose to the public photo?… lookingforthebetter

    • Bob says:

      Not so much creepy as suspicious to me. A couple of mistakes with pronouns that don’t “jive” with the grammatical ability of the rest of the narrative – and given that this is SA and not OKCupid it struck me as fishing for emotionally vulnerable men to scam.

    • SB Monkey's Sister says:

      The only creepy thing here is your obsession with being a GURU and that Brad Pitt avatar.

    • Anonymous says:

      There is nothing creepy about this profile. Sounds very romantic and idealistic and is probably better suited for match.com or eHarmony instead of SA.
      There are truly creepy profiles on SA. This is not one of them. Cute and a little naive but not creepy at all.

  93. Anonymous says:

    Moderate-” Looking for a man into fin dom . Preferably online only, but if I like you, you may be lucky enough to meet me (; Bow down to me and obey my every command.”

    Good luck with that. If you guys are really good today and post some salacious things I will share this treasure’s contact info .

    • Josh says:

      What “contact info” were you planning on sharing about Princess Kristina?

      • Anonymous says:

        Just kidding -she has a real profile but I won’t spoil her parade. Just another FOS wanna be rinser

      • Josh says:

        Are you saying that she has another profile beside Princess Kristina?

      • Anonymous says:

        Oh LOL -you are right on. I should have known you are “all knowing”

      • Anonymous says:

        Profiles like that are not really rinsers. Quite obvious what she is not offering. Anybody with an IQ of 50 will know you are not going anywhere with her and NEXT her. The rinsers are the profiles that mislead you with promises of the moon and the stars while you shower her with money.

      • SB TVC15 says:

        +1

        There’s no point complaining when people tell you exactly what they’re offering. If you don’t like it, move on. It’s the liars who are the problem.

  94. SDaddy says:

    Re:phone calls

    It is a good idea to have a conversation with the Pot before meeting ,to make sure she is a “she” and not some teeny bopper playing a prank. Also if she doesn’t sound right you might want to pass.

    The day of the M&G you must text to confirm she is still conversing with you . Many flakes will not respond at this stage. Then OTW text saying you are almost there, This is another flake point. Then when you are there text “I am here” where are you ? I doesn’t matter what the answer is as long as you get an answer . Only then do you know she will show .

    Re: Arrive early

    Yes ,but position yourself in a hidden location to observe what she looks like and who might be with her . Get there at least 15 minutes early. I usually sit in the car where I have a view of the door-unless of course she is already there early and beat you to the punch .Any good secret agent will do this before meeting a contact,why shouldn’t we ? If anything seems off you can back away and text her that you got tied up and can’t come -or will be late . Gather all the data you can .

    • Josh says:

      I live about certain distance away from the venues I tend to meet POTs. I tell them before-hand that I will text them at certain time before the meeting and they have to respond before I will leave for the meeting. The meeting time gets adjusted based on her response time.

      I don’t usually go to the restaurant. I go to other places nearby to get other chores out of the way. Fifteen minutes before the meeting…I send something like “how far?” Usually they are running late or “lost.”

      Based on the response I decide if/when I want to head over to the restaurant. I never plan to show up before they do. I never disappear if they are not what I expected them to be.

      I typically go to places I like so I have to eat anyway…another person sharing the table and few dollars of my money won’t kill me. As far as I am concerned…if she showed up AT LEAST she gets a free meal as a common courtesy from me. If nothing else I get to hear her story(ies) while I am working on my food.

      I have stopped serving alcohol on first few meets until we get steady. Most women have a tendency to drink idiotic girly drinks that seem to cost more than a light meal and if I am ever so lucky to get a server that eggs her on for “another”…there goes more of my heard-earned money down the piss pot.

      • Anonymous says:

        Is alcohol an idiotic girl’s drink now?

        Even if she drank henessy, dom perignon and the alike it still may equal to some sparkling champagne.

      • Josh says:

        Only one woman in my whole life has ever ordered whiskey. Watching her drink it was pretty entertaining…in a good way…that was before I came up with no alcohol policy.

        Saving money is just one of the reasons I don’t allow alcohol until we go steady…the policy works for me…too bad that you have problem with it.

      • SDaddy says:

        I get around the alcohol issue by seeing 18 to 20 yr olds if I am mainly looking for a sex buddy . If I am looking to find a companion then I look over 20 -usually 22 to 27. My previous SBs have not been big drinkers thankfully. The bar bill can double the cost of dinner easily,and I do not like a drunk sex partner.

      • Josh says:

        The second reason for not allowing alcohol is rapport. There are good many men who would like to see women drunk. Most women seem to appreciate that I have no interest in even trying to get them drunk.

        I don’t care for drunkards. First, there is no guarantee that getting her drunk is going to work. Second, I play it safe. I don’t want to have any alcohol in her body or mine if at the end of the date we end up rolling in the hay, and for whatever crazy reason she decided to make life difficult for me.

      • Anonymous says:

        Drunk sex -I had a surreal experience years ago . A regular(once monthly) came to town and I had a hotel room. She was a FWB but I got a bottle of wine in the room. We drank it down and she started acting really loopy-only 2 glasses ? WTF ? Well ,I moved in and we did our thing -mostly me since she was not comatose but impaired . After we finished she sat up and accused me of raping her. I’m like -blown away. This girl has screwed me at least 10 previous visits and came for that purpose this visit . I’m speechless,but she got it together and came to her senses and we parted friends. Needless to say I never saw her again and will not attempt to bed a drunk girl . An “impaired” girl can claim anything no matter what you discussed before the fact and the burden of proof is on you. Scary

      • Anonymous says:

        She will have a hard time convincing that she was raped if she voluntarily came to your hotel room. You can just as easily say you gave her $300 bucks. I would rather be charged with solicitation than rape. A rape charge requires that you register as a sex offender. Solicitation does not.

      • Josh says:

        “I’m speechless,but she got it together and came to her senses and we parted friends.”

        Sorry pal…depending on which state you are in…she has years, if not decades, to come after you.

        Too many men take this shit too lightly…repeat after me…

        “I a Western court of ‘law’, man is the responsible party…woman is a retarded child” UNLESS the woman involved in dumb enough to mess with the authorities or the judge. Then all bets are off.

      • Anonymous says:

        Rape is very hard to prosecute. The DA will have a hard time in a case like the one above. Unless you are a famous celebrity or athlete and it was so egregious and obvious like a violent rape or serial acts, it is not worth their time. She may try a civil suit and try to extort money from you instead.

      • Josh says:

        “She may try a civil suit and try to extort money from you instead.”

        As if?

  95. maineman2.0 says:

    Well, reading these posts certainly shows diversity on “how it’s done”…..

    For me, first, I prefer off site communication, email, text, or phone prior to meeting. Off site communication has guaranteed at least a show up…..requires a little more skin in the game.

    Secondly, find a very quiet and private place that is comfortable with her, some place she chose, comfort level is vital for a successful date. Once she is comfy with you, the trust will come. Lunch is certainly a more relaxed setting.

    Listen to her, give her the respect you would expect for yourself.
    No phones, if you must have it, silence it!
    Again, just shows respect. Always pay with cash, always.

    Finally, never expect more than her presence…….you’ll know if she’s receptive to more.

    • SDaddy says:

      Re: letting her choose the M&G

      My experience, since I am in a large multi-college town ,is that they want to meet at the local watering hole where their homies hang out . It is very awkward as a 60 yr old gentleman sitting in a college hangout full of 20 yr olds being eyed like a bug on the wall. Also it is crazy busy,loud, and not conducive to a “getting to know you ” talk .

      So I direct the M&G location . Many college girls don’t have cars ,so that also makes it difficult ,so I only see those with transportation

      • FormerAnon says:

        “Clubbing” is one of the things you have to be careful about with college girls. I have no interest in sitting alone at a bar or a table while the SB butterfly goes around and teases up all of the dude brahs that are too broke to take her home (or worse yet she pretends that is the case)……even worse is her trying to get their drinks onto the tab.

  96. Anonymous says:

    An ex-SB uploaded a new profile, on our “anniversary,” practically tailored for me, going so far as to using an anagram of my old profile name as her new profile name. Then she forgot that she had blocked me last year in a fit. Until she remembers and undoes the blocking, I’m not able reply to her. Such is the unintended consequences of momentary over-reaction.

    I’m actually content in my current arrangement and not even actively seeking; however, since the ex-SB wasn’t asking much last year and she had a real need, after reading the shy girl’s new profile reaching out to me and thinking it over, I was going to just give her a helping hand and not even asking for anything in return. So I re-subscribed premium membership (after several months of lapse as I already found my arrangement) in order to be able to reply to her; what did I see after subscribing, still blocked! ha! SA 1, SB 0.

    Lesson for SD’s: handle your SB with care; some are quite fragile and temperamental;
    Lesson for SB’s: be patient and don’t jump to conclusions.

    • Anonymous says:

      Lesson for SDs: If you want to communicate with someone who has blocked you…then create a new profile altogether to circumvent the block.

      • Anonymous says:

        I don’t want to come across like “stalking.” Besides, there is a small chance, less than 10% chance, like Kore mentioned below that the ex-SB is doing it for “revenge”/”validation,” for some twisted reason. She has to make up her own mind on what she wants, and unblock on her end.

    • Anonymous says:

      Do not jump to conclusions.
      If she wants to reach out to you, unblocking takes 5 sec.
      If she is just using whatever she got from you, to move forward – she is just using you to move forward.

    • Anonymous says:

      Metaphorically fuck her and move on.

    • Anonymous says:

      Don’t you have any other means, a number, an email to let her know you’re still blocked?

      • Anonymous says:

        The wonders of gmail and GoogleVoice throw-away contacts. She also had a very strict family that did not allow her to have a cellphone. I’m reluctant to contact either her home address/phone where her parents reside or college address, which is an institution populated by enough SJW types that may well bring undue risk for anything resembling “stalking.” She is not an SJW type, but a girl’s behavior under peer pressure can be unpredictable. Not a risk worth taking, especially given that I’m not even trying to sleep with her, for the time being anyway 😉

        A side question for SB’s: would you be more jealous if your SD sleeps with someone else on the side vs. giving free money to some other girl? then the same question if he is your boyfriend instead of SD.

      • Kore13 says:

        Which do you care about more? If you tell your Sb that money is more important to you than sex, she will feel more jealous about you giving away ‘free’ money. If you tell her sex is more important, she is more likely to be jealous if you have sex with another woman.

        I think… 😉

      • Anonymous says:

        you need to move on, you are a a disturbed individual, no wonder she blocked you, loser

      • Anonymous says:

        @Anon5:57pm

        Your comment is exactly the sort of SJW knee-jerk reaction that makes me wary about going out on a limb to help her without her initiating direct contact or at least unblocking first. I highly doubt her pride would allow her to reach out more than she has already done in her new profile and new name; will just have to wait for her to discover the blocking/unblocking.

        In case it’s not obvious, I have long moved on in my personal life; the concern about possible jealousy/drama is in regard to how my current SB would react/feel. Many young women seem to be unable to process the fact that they’d become “ex” some day too; my generosity towards ex-wife and ex-SB’s will work in their own favor someday when it is their turn. Sometimes the reaction can be as vitriolic as if a guy had been told his girlfriend still giving sex to the ex-boyfriends; the two are not at all the same, yet that seems how many girls are wired to feel about these things. Hence my earlier question.

    • Kore13 says:

      Ha. Play the same game and tailor your profile to attract her. Wait to see if she contacts you first. Maybe she unblocked and blocked again in the months between and expected you to write her, not knowing you couldn’t.

      This drama wouldn’t be worth it for me though. Why do you think that her remaking her profile couldn’t be another momentary over-reaction? And what makes you think she is reaching out to you? Maybe she’s doing it to get revenge because she’s still mad.

      • Anonymous says:

        She wasn’t very familiar with the real male-female dynamics outside the feminist equalitarian indoctrinations, and was perhaps surprised and shocked by her own reaction to my actions then ran away. The new profile seems to indicate that she has made peace with that discovery about herself and willingness to accede to my parameters. On top of that, the anagram is practically a call-out to my own profile name.

        You are of course correct, that it could just be a ploy for “revenge,” as in “a tease is one who doesn’t sleep with you, and a bitch is one who sleeps with everyone else except you!” LOL. I doubt it though; probably an honest mistake on her part not realizing that I’m still blocked.

        I’m not interested in playing a mirror profile game. I write profile according to what I want.

      • Kore13 says:

        Hmm. How could she not realize in the months’ time? If she cared, she would’ve reread your messages – at which point, she might’ve noticed the bottom of the page, where it says she’s blocked you.

        Sorry, but it sounds like you are in denial and also like she has a lot of pride.

      • Anonymous says:

        If she deleted the old messages, she will have to discover the block list in her profile settings.

      • Kore13 says:

        Again, if she cared, she would’ve figured out a way to unblock you. She still knows yourusername.

      • Anonymous says:

        No, she doesn’t know my new username. I changed my profile name after the breakup. She would have to go into the blocked list in her own profile settings in order to see my new profile name and unblock.

      • Kore13 says:

        Then good luck getting into contact again. Post back here and let us know what you find.

  97. rembodler says:

    I think, pretty sound advice overall.
    The restaurants are normally cool if you cancel – they want you to make reservations and so they do not mind if you cancel. Same as hotels.
    I never call SBs before I meet them, but once they call, it is fine to have that as an option.

    I would add:

    1. If you think she is a keeper, check in before the date (not with her in the car!), make sure the room key is working, the shower is in order and put champagne in the fridge.
    2. have your cash ready. Also, have some small change for housekeeping.
    3. I always bring a few toys and my condoms.
    4. If you do not have time for dinner, get some takeout. She should not be hungry.

    • Anonymous says:

      A few toys?

      • Anonymous says:

        What’s with the toys ? She is going to have all she can handle with my built in toy ,tongue ,and fingers/toes -you get the picture. If you need toys the bloom is off the rose and it’s time to do a trade in .

      • Anonymous says:

        A guy who goes to a date with a dildo in his pocket is creepy.
        Is that a cucumber in your pocket or are you just happy to see me? It’s like an admission of failure. I know I can’t pleasure you with what Nature has given me but don’t worry. I brought an eggplant and a banana to finish the job.

    • Jaybird923 says:

      See now that would probably have me reconsidering. It’s one thing if we end up at our place and you happen to have toys there. But quite another thing for you to travel with a kit just in case.

      • Anonymous says:

        I have no idea what you mean by “just in case”.
        The case is pretty clear.

      • rembodler says:

        @Jay
        Do not be silly. Of course, I am not going to do anything early on, to “spook” you.
        I know that it is normally guys who feel awkward if a woman is using a dildo (a guy views dildo as “competition” and “disrespect” to his dick, tongue and fingers). Same as women feel awkward if a guy is watching porn while inside her (again, she views it as competition). I think all of this is childish, but I respect the boundaries and only play vanilla till we know each other well.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        @Remmy I don’t say anything about vanilla sex just that it was weird to travel with toys for a first meet. There’s lots of non-vanilla fun to be had with out the use of toys.

      • Anonymous says:

        Yes Remmy, toys are so 00’s and weird if a guy introduces them into the bedroom. There’s a whole lot to be done that is exciting without using them.

    • Kore13 says:

      It’d be out of the question for me to use a toy that has been previously used. Even if it were as simple as a rope (let alone a dildo!).

      I agree that it’s hard to focus on anything besides the person and their body to have toys in mind in the beginning.. but hey, if it’s as close as you can get to a threesome and it’s less complicated, then it’s not a bad idea.

      It’s nice to have a man who thinks about pleasuring you past what he is bodily capable of. I don’t like when people act as if they are completely without fault. A bit of humility is attractive as well.

  98. ILikeOlives? says:

    OK, pretty much everything written in the “Phone Calls” section is dead wrong; do the exact opposite of the advice given above.

    Call the SB before the first meet? I can’t think of a better way to creep her out more. When is the last time you called someone instead of texting them before meeting for a date? Why not add in the part about making sure that your buggy whip is oiled and shiny? 😀

    Call the restaurant to make a reservation? Do this only if you want to very quickly get on the “don’t take a reservation from this number” list at restaurants. SB/SD dating is extremely heavy on no-shows. So for a first meet you should stay away from reservations period, but if you do, you should only do so at a place that allows you to make them online, so that you can similarly cancel them online, that way you won’t get penalized.

    The other items are on point, but as someone already mentioned, all of these things should be obvious.

    • Anonymous says:

      I disagree with You.
      I like when my date is calling to me the day before and reservation ‘thing’ it’s also nice..

      ‘I can’t think of a better way to creep her out more.’ – tell her that You will pick her up from her house 😉

    • Anonymous says:

      I picked my most recent SB from home. She asked for either an Uber or pickup from house because she did not have a car. I chose the latter. Alone time in car is priceless to discuss the arrangement details on the way back from restaurant.

      My experience with the pick-me-up-from-home girls are eager to make an arrangement. She agreed on the arrangement terms as proposed. I asked when she wanted to start the arrangement. She said she was on-board as she felt comfortable with me. We kissed in my car and had sex in her bed. We will be meeting again soon.

      • Kore13 says:

        That is just creepy. Aren’t they afraid of having an exSD stalk them?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        How is that creepy? What’s the difference between having a traditional date know where you live an a SD? I don’t understand why you’d trust someone with your body and not your address…

      • Anonymous says:

        Well the SDs don’t trust you with their name, let alone their address.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        I’m going to take an educated guess here and say maybe that’s because they have a lot more to lose than the typical SB…

      • Kore13 says:

        Sugar is more formal to me since it’s planned and not spontaneous. Besides that, I don’t have the ‘trusting a man with my body’ issue since I feel like I fuck HIM. I don’t want to always care about his favorite color, what his exes did or didn’t do, etc to enjoy his body. If he’s a nice guy, if there’s some chemistry, I don’t always wait until I know for sure how he reacts in bad situations. Most likely, it won’t stay a ONS, but I keep my distance so that we can still be on good terms when we part ways.

        There is a risk of not anticipating how a person might react, even if you’ve been very selective and followed your instincts. So, if it’s one of the first few times, I’d rather that it’s not at my place.

        My first boyfriend shamelessly stalked me. He’d go to every place I would visit and ask people there if they’ve seen me. He’d even call the contacts he’d stolen from my phone.

      • Josh says:

        I like @Kore’s unique perspective, which is usually original and is waaaay different from a US/UK feminist playbook, and more often than not does not contain typical shaming language used against men in the dating scene.

      • Kore13 says:

        Thanks @Josh.

    • 40SWM says:

      Absolutely agree. Calling before a first meet when you already have the first meet setup is unusual and off putting.

      Picking up someone from their home is even more creepy.

  99. Jaybird923 says:

    “In case the credit card machine goes down”

    LoL I love how they try to play down the real reason they want you to get cash

  100. Anonymous says:

    Throw her a token of appreciation. Here slut, have some cash like the Whore that you are.

  101. Anonymous says:

    Last

  102. Kenneth says:

    actually I was the first here… I just typed with invisible letters…..

  103. MissLady says:

    Successful, grown men need to know this?? Or is this for the 20-35 SD’s in the bowl now?

  104. Kore13 says:

    !dammit. second. ^^

  105. Jaybird923 says:

    Second

  106. SB TVC15 says:

    First!

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