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Why Fling with a Ring?

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Why fling with a ring? Is there even a real answer? Some argue it’s just biology, that “men will be men,” or that monogamy isn’t natural. For women, they must be unhappy. Maybe it’s as simple as they want to feel the excitement of being intimate with someone else for the first time again. The list goes on. Here are some more common reasons to why men and women decide to fling with a ring.

To Avoid Confrontation

Affairs can grow out of couples not wanting to face confrontation and differences within their marriage. After too long, avoidance can cause distance. Distance can then lead to loneliness, pushing a spouse to seek out closeness elsewhere. It becomes a domino effect. A person might not have a personality prone to cheating, but something about their environment coupled with their vulnerability puts them at risk for infidelity.

Just Sex

It’s no secret that men have more testosterone running through their bodies, which contributes to the stronger desire to have sex. Thus, they are often the more likely gender to cheat. Intimacy is a large part of any successful relationship and when a spouse doesn’t feel as if their needs are being met, they may stray. In other cases, factors like alcohol, and tempting surroundings lower will power. Infidelity in these such situations, may not be intentional and can sometimes lead to regret, or on the contrary, what began with just sex may lead to longer term affairs.

Exit Strategy

Sometimes in a marriage men and women want out but do not want to carry the burden of ending the relationship, so they cheat in an attempt to be found out–in hopes the non-straying partner will be the one to end it. These are common with those who have more time invested in their marriage, where kids may be involved. Perhaps the spark has fizzled past the point of repair, or a spouse is bored. Researchers find that couples experiencing severe dissatisfaction, unfulfilling sex, and high conflict more often are at higher risk for cheating. With the cost of divorce on the rise, plus the stress of dividing assets, and splitting up the family dynamic, it is sometimes easier to simply stay married and engage in side activity. Time is a funny thing. It’s what we need to heal, but can be what holds us back from starting over.

Have you cheated on your spouse? What was your reasoning behind it?

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1,394 Responses to “Why Fling with a Ring?”

  1. spirit_greywolf says:

    I’ve been reading these posts for a little bit and I have to say this…

    Dave. If you are for real, pray I never meet you in real life. Pray that our paths never cross. You are the dirtbag anathema to every honest SD out there on this site. To take a woman for a drive and say “do me or get out” is reprehensible. Oh and in most places is also illegal. Lookup “Reckless Endangerment”.

    I feel like you are no better than the average scumbag girl beater…

    I assure you that were we to ever meet? This “beta” would drop on you and work you over like a bag of hammers. Come hither my little meat puppet, while this Wolf eagerly turns your worst nightmares into a happy place!

    I know! Let’s you and I go for a drive, shall we? Oh, and don’t mind all the plastic sheeting covering the seats and dashboard. It’s there “for your protection”… 😉

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  3. Anonymous says:

    Cheating is not acceptable in our society. Once you go down that rabbit hole you will face the consequences. Right or wrong. Fair or unfair. It also changes you forever.

  4. Missy says:

    Is there a website that is limited to us girls where can possibly compare notes on prospective daddies and avoid time wasters and cheapskates?

  5. Bill says:

    It isn’t cheating if (s)he has permission.

    It is naive to think that one person can provide all the needs and wants in a relationship with another.

    How many times does it happen where a husband sleeps with some other woman, and the wife immediately files for divorce? Why? They have a home together, they are business partners, they probably have kids together, they each have their separate interests and friends, they are team members. Then what happens, the wife gets her divorce, a third of the assets go to the lawyers, and she is soon sleeping with another man and wishing she had her previous life. Ridiculous. It all could have been avoided with a, “OK, have a nice time, see you in the morning.”

    Allowing another person into one’s life does not mean all other people have to get out. Having more people in one’s life enriches life. The destruction comes from jealousy. No jealousy = no problem.

    I know some couples who have their girlfriend join them in bed. I don’t suggest everyone go that far.

    • BP says:

      If you truly believe it’s not possible to commit to one person, don’t make that commitment. Pretty simple.

    • Holly GoLoudly says:

      Amen

      • Holly GoLoudly says:

        Amen! “We have a romantic ideal in which we turn to one person to fulfill an endless list of needs: to be my greatest lover, my best friend, the best parent, my trusted confidant, my emotional companion, my intellectual equal. And I am it: I’m chosen, I’m unique, I’m indispensable, I’m irreplaceable, I’m the one. And infidelity tells me I’m not. It is the ultimate betrayal. Infidelity shatters the grand ambition of love.” Nothing has to be shattered… I believe that you can find a true life partner but that it doesn’t mean you have to define yourself strictly through that relationship and close yourself off to the pleasure of connecting with other people. If you don’t use mistresses as an escape from a bad situation but as a complement to a generally healthy marriage, there is no reason why everybody can’t be happy.

  6. Sugar Daddy says:

    i think cheating is relative and its a bad experience, especially if your spouse is more committed in the relationship..it leaves you with a sense of guilt that takes time to heal..not so good experience especially when the trust is broken. every woman and man choose whom they want to relate to, it is not given and therefore choices sometimes have consequences that you mus live with .

  7. Sugar Daddy says:

    i think cheating is relative and its a bad exprerience, especially if your spouse is more cimmitted in the relationship..it leaves you with a sense of guilt that takes time to heal..not so good eperience especially when the trust is broken. every woman and man choose whom they want to relate to, it is not given and therefore choices sometimes have consequences that you mus live with .

  8. PrincessMai says:

    @Dave

    I think it’s funny how some people’s brains stop working as soon as they focus on money. In my opinion, as an SB, money shouldn’t be the only thing you think about when being with a SD. SDs are usually older, mature men who know the world as it is and can provide useful knowledge to a much younger SB. Also, SDs can be an excellent reference for ambitious job goals as well as good friends. Those SBs you scammed obviously weren’t thinking about having a meaningful relationship and was just interested in the money. However, that doesn’t mean I side with your actions. All I hope is that you stop taking advantage of naive women and move on to do something else with your time.

  9. CJnTexas says:

    Yikes almost afraid to comment here .. I enjoy reading the blogs .. I’ve been here for a year and a half no dates no SD .. I’m just trying to figure out what I’m doing wrong. Am I too old at 38?!?

    • Anonymous says:

      Sorry…black women don’t fare well here on SA…and the 1.5 years of “experience” is not atypical for black/mixed/other women.

      You can stick around but we get tons of black women coming here, especially from Texas, that they are not not have much luck. You seem to be in good physical shape but your age is not helping you either.

      • Madison93 says:

        Damn, that sounded pretty rough. While I can agree that your age might play a factor, the rest is nelly willy. I’m Haitian and I’ve had my fair share of dates with POTs, they’ve all been with white men who appreciate black woman so don’t lose hope. Have you tried sprucing up your profile?

      • Magic mark says:

        CJnTexas – ignore some of these comments. 38 is a wonderful age. You are attractive healthy and sound smart. Maybe the problem is with Texan men?

    • Lilly-Elizabeth says:

      You look a lot younger tbh, if I was a SD and not a SB and also in Texas I’d think you’d be a catch!

    • Anonymous says:

      Age is not a matter I think what a women. Want matter maybe she asking too much on a date and trust me I’m Indian I had 36/dates they say they don’t want one women they want to keep on fishing and have you been on other sister site what’s your price u will get guys there and also if u live in small city there’s not much there sometime I have to drive 60miles for my date but they cover my gas

    • Jaybird923 says:

      lol I love how you’re pretending we haven’t been down this road before. You posted before asking the same question and we gave you advice that you ignored. The same advice still applies.

    • Anonymous says:

      Yes you are too old for 38 but that is not why you are not getting any bites. If you still have to ask, then you can also add “too stupid” to your list of negatives.

    • Bill says:

      It is all about numbers. The pool starts at 100%, then it gets whittled down.

      You are older than what I would normally pick. It is rare that I would seek out someone over 30. If we lived near each other, I wouldn’t mind meeting up with you and see where it goes.

      But yes, age is your first negative.

      I will point something out about older women (30’s here, but that is still younger than I am). I have noticed that many women here over 30, particularly if they are divorced, are not looking for an allowance at all. They want FWB without the pressure or entanglement of lives of a traditional relationship. In your discussions with potential SDs, if you are asking for a significant allowance that a 20 year old Miss America contestant might get, you are not recognizing your direct competition. If you are not looking for an allowance, then say it is “Allowance is not important” in your profile.

      As you point out in your profile, being black in Texas is a negative too in terms of your dating pool. Personally, I don’t care about race; I do care about personality and class, which are often correlated with race. If I see ghetto, I hit the block button. I don’t see that in your profile. You look like you could be living next door to me in the tony suburbs. That is a good thing.

      A positive you have is that you don’t have kids or an ex husband. That means less drama and that is a good thing. Another positive is your education. You don’t say what your field is. If you did, you might be more likely to get a bite.

      You seem really into athletics. That is going to turn some guys off and other guys will like that. If you are really looking for a guy into athletics, then keep what you have. If it isn’t important to you, then you might want to swap out the muscle pictures. You can hint that you take care of yourself, such as the running a couple of times a week, without making it sound like you are going to arm wrestle your SD and win (even though you very well could).

      Your profile does come across as a bit harsh. It is usually better to come across welcoming of everyone, then filter out the flakes yourself. Read each sentence you wrote: Is it positive and uplifting or is it negative and demanding?

      And re-take the picture in the red dress without the camera in front of your face and without the pricetag dangling from the dress; and the one in the yellow shirt while looking into the front of the camera (through the mirror), not at the back.

      Good luck.

      • Bill says:

        An afterthought. You might keep your running picture no matter how you are with trying to attract fellow athletes. If you can change the caption, add, “I did it!” at the end. This will show that you can set a goal for yourself and accomplish it, more than give a potential SD the impression that he is going to have be running with you.

    • Summerkisses says:

      I don’t mean to be offensive but your profile does translate as very negative and defensive. As soon as I began to read your text I thought Whoa, this woman has baggage. Also,you only talk about what you want and not what you have to offer.

  10. AnonymousBaby says:

    @Dave Tricking women into thinking you are a S.D simply to deceive them… Remember something called KARMA. KARMA is real whether or not you believe in it. Before you call me a “whore”, a “cunt” or whatever names you call the S.Bs remember, YOUR MOTHER’S A CUNT/WHORE FOR GIVING BIRTH TO YOU. You are a deeply disturbed soul and hopefully you get some professional help for all your unresolved issues.

  11. Niicolette 21 says:

    @Dave you are a terrible person

  12. Anonymous says:

    @Kore13

    “@Dave Wait – how are you different from a woman again?”

    I don’t think that he cares, really.

    • Kore13 says:

      I figured it was worth a shot to warn him. Obviously, he hasn’t shared this with anyone IRL since he’s not shat his pants yet.

  13. Anonymous says:

    @Kore

    “average guys with little money still manage to charm women into bangs for free.”

    Yes, it’s possible but time consuming. It’s much better to spend some money and get chicks through SA, and use the time saved to increase the income potential.

    • Kore13 says:

      I know and there’s nothing wrong with that. I just don’t like Dave’s pride in scamming – guys like him make it harder for everyone else.

  14. Anonymous says:

    A good number of rape allegations are what can be called the “morning after rape”, which is when the woman assesses her situation and redefines what went down the previous night.

    The reasons could be many:

    1. He promised me X and now he is reneging on his promise. I was raped.

    2. Even though I consented, he didn’t make me feel special. He just used my pussy for his own pleasure. I was raped.

    3. He belongs to X ethnicity and I never do it with anyone outside of my ethnicity. I was raped.

    4. I am married/engaged/spoken for but I slept with that guy anyway. If I acknowledge consent the my live would get shifty. Let’s sacrifice that motherfucker. I was raped.

    5. The list goes on and on as to why false rape allegations are made.

    • Anonymous says:

      Besides number 1, the others are fake rape allegations. Know the difference. And I haven’t seen anyone claim or pull out number 3.

    • Anonymous says:

      How is #1 rape?

      • Kore13 says:

        If it’s consent only specific conditions? 

      • Anonymous says:

        Write in English please?

      • Kore13 says:

        If it’s consent only under specific conditions .*

        Is that written in English enough for you, darling, or should i also hold your hand?

      • Anonymous says:

        Let me try to understand further. So if he promised $200 or a LV purse in exchange for sex. They had consensual sex and he reneged on his promise.

        Now the consensual sex turns into rape?

      • Anonymous says:

        I can totally understand that if she allowed entry in vagina and he entered anus or vice versa, then it’s totally rape in the forbidden hole. No problem there.

      • Kore13 says:

        Strictly speaking, yes. If you consented to paying a person for intimacy but they reneged, would they not have stolen some, if not all your money? Or perhaps the reason they did it for changes that?

      • Kore13 says:

        Strictly speaking, yes, it is rape.*

        If a person says that only those with whom they are familiar, find attractive (in their personal aspect) and has a certain degree of respect from can have access to their body, a stranger on the street can’t reneg if one of these is violated.

      • Anonymous says:

        As Shakespeare wrote in “Romeo and Juliet”: At lover’s perjuries they say Jove laughs.

        Yet the SJW types want the government bureaucrats to be more discerning than Jove. The real solution to this problem is legalizing prostitution, there by making “conditional consent” legally enforceable as commercial contract. Not paying after act would be just as legally liable as not putting out after being paid: breach of contract and/or fraud, solving the problem for both dumb SB’s and dumb SD’s, who cry foul to government nannies.

      • Anonymous says:

        Does that mean then the government enforcers would hold down the rinser found guilty and let the plaintiff enter her (or him if male prostitute)? hmm, as in enforcing the delivery of a contract? instead of cash settlment. Perhaps only at the Abu Gharaib prison.

      • Kore13 says:

        Thank you! Finally, we strike gold with an anon!

        Yes, and they can sort through all this under legal accountability.

        As for rape itself – that is seriously subjective.

      • Kore13 says:

        That wasn’t long lived.

        Well, I never heard of a man wanting to kill himself over his disposable income…

        Hmm, imagine yourself in that situation.

      • Anonymous says:

        Exactly my point, Kore. Does any of us really want to live under a jurisdiction that actually enforces physical rape per contract, or to borrow another Shakespearean plot element, the cutting of a pound of flesh (“Merchant of Venice”), or retroactive rape charges?

        Working girls used to bring their “drivers” to make sure payments are made after service is delivered. Burly “drivers” tend to be less costly than the police. Just like SD’s worried about losing the advance money should never have given the money ahead of time to begin with, girls finding the payment so crucial to her consent probably should either demand payment upfront like an escort does, or wait for second date and let the guy charm her some more.

      • Kore13 says:

        That wouldn’t happen. Yes, the law typically works in the favor of the victim, as it should. Still, they don’t make it easy for a supposed victim to get away with a false accusation. The accuser can either pay or be put in prison for it, but I am finding it hard to find info about that concerning rape accusations in German.

      • Kore13 says:

        Here’s one of the reasons why it’s hard. This is supposed to be one sentence, haha:

        Als im Bereich des Sexualstrafrecht spezialisierte Strafverteidiger und Fachanwalt für Strafrecht wird jedoch nach unseren beruflichen Erfahrungen in der überwiegenden Anzahl der Fälle aus leichtfertigen, durchsichtigen bis hinsichtlich des erstrebten Ziels z.B. der Beziehungsaufnahme oder Fortsetzung nicht erfolgversprechenden Motiven, aber auch über Jahre verfolgten raffinierten Plänen unter Beweismanipulationen falsche Vorwürfe mehrfacher sexueller Nötigung oder Vergewaltigung erhoben, die nach Einleitung des Ermittlungsverfahren teilweise mit ganz erheblichen unter Umständen über Jahre erstreckenden Verteidigungsmaßnahmen wegen tatsächlicher oder mit hoher Gewissheit erwiesener Umdeutung einverständlichen Sexualverkehrs oder Totalfiktion gemäß § 170 StPO eingestellt werden, nicht angeklagt oder angeklagt im Hauptverfahren nicht eröffnet werden oder mit Freispruch enden.

      • Anonymous says:

        Yes…some may attempt to commit suicide over real rape. Which is twice as horrible. First the rape and then the (attempted) suicide.

        However, no one tries to commit suicide over consensual sex, which they later reinterpret as rape to try to make the alleged rapist’s life miserable.

        That’s what the German text is alluding to as well.

        The problem with women is that they cannot (or don’t want to) differentiate between the actual rape charges and fake rape charges.

  15. FatB'StardSA says:

    The majority of SB’s in their mid twenties or older on SA have spent their entire adult lives trying to lock down the sexy guys every other woman wanted with no success. These disappointed SB’s join SA and then try to lock down a SD like @Dave because they have “standards” and “know their worth”. Is it any surprise that these SB’s end up getting played by a guy like @Dave?

    The danger for the regular SD is to pair up with a SB who has already been @Dave’d on SA. Young SB’s are they key to SD happiness. The exception is to find the older unicorn SB who actually has the ability to respect and like an older SD.

    • Jaybird923 says:

      “I have had a few in my car after I pick them up on a date (between 17-25 years old) and when they ask for the money I say I have none and tell them to either fuck me or get out on the side of the road (about 2/3 will have sex with me so I don’t sump them out on the side of the road at 11 PM”

      Sure it the older SBs not the younger ones who put in their profile that they are looking for 35 year old SDs that will go for Dave.

    • Dave says:

      Women are manipulative and vapid these days . Their loyalty is limited to what they feel like on certain days or hollyweird tells them to like . Doesn’t matter if the SD even invested in them . They will turncoat if they “feel” like their vagina isn’t getting tickled or if said SD isn’t satisfying them at the moment . They will run this game until their looks deteriorate and then have 0 options . Them they will complain that there are no nice guys .

      • Kore13 says:

        @Dave Wait – how are you different from a woman again? 😀 😀 😀

      • Dave says:

        I don’t understand your question whore. I don’t use whore logic . With my game I get what I want with very little money invested . I’m not complaining now . I complained when women would screw me over . Now I’m running the show and hope other guys do it too

      • Kore13 says:

        You are manipulative and vapid these days . Your loyalty is limited to what you feel like on certain days or highschool told you to like . Doesn’t matter if the SB even invested in you . You will turncoat if you “feel” like your dick isn’t getting tickled or if said SB isn’t satisfying you at the moment . You will run this game until you deteriorate and then have 0 options . Them you will complain that there are no willing women .

        1) You’ve defined what women are like.
        2) You behave like your own definition of women.

        Therefore, you behave like a woman by your own definition.

        If you didn’t understand that, I doubt you’ve been very successful with education or vocation.

      • Dave says:

        A mans game never deteriorates . A mans sexual market value increases with age whereas a women becomes increasingly worthless as she ages . You are on SA seeking gentlemen with value aren’t you ? And aren’t they typically older ? Or do you not understand this concept because you watch too much tv . You sound like an airhead if you’re trying to compare men and women . Like I said before my act us a response not because I want to scam . It’s financially and emotionally safe . I’d women had loyalty and respect for men I wouldn’t need to act like I do . Then again I’m taking to a near- prostitute on a hooker website . Many of you have no education and are as dumb as rocks

      • Anonymous says:

        If you need a lesson on dumb as a rock Dave? I would point you to your last post, which is completely unreadable with all its misspellings and improper grammar

      • Kore13 says:

        You’re slamming the door shut in your own face, though – you don’t realize? Your wallowing in self-pity will make it next to impossible for you to attract a decent woman. If you somehow manage, you’ll never be able to keep her if you can’t let go of petty issues. You’d just be prolonging the feeling of being ‘not good enough’ that you had back then.

        No woman will feel ok with a man who’s stuck in the past, regretting that he never got to bang those pretty girls.

        Your chance came and went. Over. There’s NOTHING you can do to change the past. Your method of getting payback since it won’t change your surroundings to adapt to you.

      • Kore13 says:

        Your method of getting payback is useless since it won’t change your surroundings to adapt to you.*

      • Kore13 says:

        Oh, and one more thing – average guys with little money still manage to charm women into bangs for free. What you’re doing doesn’t put you on top – it makes you delusional.

      • Dave says:

        who says I don’t get free bangs every once in a while? I get that at work and when going out, however it is infrequent. With SA scam I get much more in a shorter period of time. thanks for your concern though.

  16. CurvyNessa says:

    Communication is always key!! 😉

  17. Anonymous says:

    If more women wished to have logic surgically implanted in their minds instead of boobs in the chests, then we may have a bit more women who can behave and communicate logically.

  18. Anonymous says:

    @Dave From a Cave

    “I sure do hope your future kids get raped though. Do I have a rape fantasy too?”

    As if @Dave’s children have anything to do with his actions?

    There are two possibilities as to how @Dave could ever have offspring.

    1. He marries/hooks up with a woman outside of SA.

    2. More likely than not, based on his stated track record, he will impregnate one of his SBs.

    So are you suggesting that a child born out of “rape” (as you understand it) should be raped just cuz you don’t agree with @Dave modus operandi.

  19. Anonymous says:

    SA is full of Tumblr girls. But look at the female brouhaha over a Tumblr guy doing the opposite.

    • Dave says:

      Newton’s Second Law: for every action there is an equal but opposite reaction. They want to rules to benefit them only.

      • Anonymous says:

        I don’t see how the tumblr ones are advocating scamming and raping anyone you shithole subhuman.

      • Dave says:

        When you pretend to like a guy , it’s scamming . When you hand out the cell number but don’t reply that’s scamming . When you use a guy for gifts , dinner , money then turncoat on him , that’s scamming . When you marry a guy then divorce him when you don’t “feel” in love with him that’s scamming . When you lead a guy on that’s scamming . When you procreate with bad boys then expect a guy to clean up the mess when you hit age 30 that’s scamming . Welcome to your world that you created .

      • Anonymous says:

        Your definition of scamming is fucked up idiot. Why not browse the encyclopedia more often?

      • Anonymous says:

        It might not work once you get a lawsuit of rape allegations. That’s when you wish you hadn’t done anything or cum inside their pussies, while you’re getting assraped from behind with the guardians watching. By the way, what kind of idiot let’s you run back to your car, isn’t that an old technique already? And what about money upfront?

  20. Horndog says:

    The entertainment value of SA blogs is truly priceless. Please continue. Like reading an online version of the National Enquirer!

    • Josh says:

      I am glad you are enjoying it too. 😉

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        Of course our self-proclaimed GURU makes it all the better.
        Along the many things he has done like bringing fire to mankind and finding a cure for cancer, he has also invented the word collage and brought the word rinser to the blog. Astonishing, isn’t it?

      • Josh says:

        Come up with something interesting…Yawn!!!

  21. FatB'StardSA says:

    @Dave’s comments piss me off!

    I pay a mechanic to fix my car, and I pay a SB to blow me when I can get hard. I could ask a friend to fix my car for free or beg an ugly woman to suck my cock for love but I want the best and I am willing and able to pay for it! I am not a delusional ass like @Flyr who thinks he is Charlie Sheen and is “paying them to leave” but how does being able to afford blow jobs on demand make me a loser?

  22. elaine says:

    Come on guys, It was funny for a while, but this persona is a complete lunatic!

    He is most probably an adolescent who is looking for some other entertainment as squeezing his pustules and cursing at his more attractive peers, who DO get girls’ attention. 😉

    Stop feeding this trol before he starts further infecting this already so infected blog!

  23. Kore13 says:

    @Dave, what you’re doing isn’t good and your attitude is quite frightening. Yes, I don’t think any decent father is going to care if his daughter’s a hooker if her life is at risk. Or brother or cousin or friend or neighbor.. These anti-patriarchal, femninazi ego issues will disappear in the blink of an eye when she’s been damaged and calls for help. And people will help her.
    It’s one thing to scam a woman, but it’s another if you mislead someone to believe that they are safe with you and they come to harm instead.

    Although you can’t change what happened in the past, you can forget that shit ever happened and enjoy life now. Otherwise, it’ll only be a matter of time before you run into trouble. Weakness + wrongdoing will never end well.

    • Dave says:

      save your lecture for the women who embraced the shitty culture that is prevalent, the instagram attention whoring, the consumerism, and feminazism. all SA whores are perfectly safe with me, they get fucked and enjoy my penis. shouldn’t that be enough? and if they are nice they get a meal. THey have every option to leave whenever they feel like it or not go on a date with me at all. again, save your lecture. You women embraced your so called freedoms now deal with those consequences.

      • Anonymous says:

        Idiot consumerism was created by the new age and digital media and it involves most people of the world including celebs and yes, men too (see Dan B.)
        Unless you live in a cave or an Amish tribe, then you’re part of it too.

      • Anonymous says:

        Freedom means getting scammed and/or raped and these are the consequences?
        Well, then maybe black people shouldn’t be free, women and other minorities. I guess freedom was made only for the white man (the so called devil).

      • Dave says:

        I repeat, you women play games, you mess with mens finances, you fuck bad boys but expect a “nice guy” to clean up your mess, and all your modern day values have been derived from the television.. therefore you created the blowback ..enjoy it, that’s why so many of you are miserable and on depression meds.

      • Anonymous says:

        So according to you, the blowback is getting raped and scammed on SA by some STD infested sociopath named Dave, who at first is seemingly innocent but in the middle of the road threatens to throw out the sb if she doesn’t obey him and turns violent out of the blue?

      • Dave says:

        Dear cunt, that scenario only happens if the sb whore asks for it in the car . I have other scams that are more frequently applied , like the fake money and telling them I have surprise waiting to meet me somewhere and I don’t show up and like I’ve said before there’s the proverbial free sample SA women give me then I bail on them .

    • Dave says:

      you call it weakness, I call it a smart business decision + strength. Ever time I’ve tried to be nice, even to SA girls, it never ends well for me and I get the short end of the stick. Every time I scam, I got what I wanted. touche’

      • Anonymous says:

        How does it not end well? How do the other SDs do it? This is simple, have money check financial compatibility along with chemistry and enjoy the arrangement. If you can’t afford it then you should not be here. Scamming someone is not allowed. Or maybe you’re the male version of tumblr, or a sociopath or both?

      • Anonymous says:

        “Or maybe you’re the male version of tumblr, or a sociopath or both?”

        That is an incorrect assessment. When woman does it…it’s tumblr…if a man does it then he is a sociopath.

      • Anonymous says:

        Didn’t you read the male version of tumblr part?
        What he is suggesting is rape, which is obviously illegal. You should know that. The sociopath comes from the fact that he stated he had a bad and abusive past/youth and that he wants to make ALL women pay for it, that peeps is how a sociopath is made. I don’t see how the tumblr drama talks about this in this manner. Platonic arrangements don’t make one a sociopath.
        Lastly, why did you have to pull out the gender card?

      • Anonymous says:

        What tumblr women are doing is the financial and emotional rape of a man. Of course it is not a crime.

      • Anonymous says:

        I don’t think it’s financial rape (sheesh findom) if one is actually wanting a platonic arrangement for 20k. If it’s the opposite then it’s a scam. Learn the term rape. Then come back and discuss with logical and real deductions.
        Don’t forget to read the term sociopath too. It might be under the term rape.

      • Dave says:

        women cry rape every time they don’t get their way or when a man can outsmart them. It’s the standard cop out. If it was rape, I’d be in jail already, but I’m not, since I have successfully worked my game at least 10 times in the past 3 months. I hope other guys do it it, it takes balls of steel and the first time I had second thoughts but I’m glad I do it because these women deserve it and no I was not abused. I’ve played far too many times and it’s payback time.

      • Anonymous says:

        It is rape like many have stated here but you know that it has to be reported for an action to be taken and you must also know that in the wide world there are many criminals, murderers and yes, rapists, who roam around freely. Justice doesn’t always prevail.
        If you don’t end up in jail some day, you’ll end up like that Hayes dude or even fighting a pimp’s gang for pulling that shit up. That’s when it’ll turn ugly.

  24. anonymously anonomous says:

    The reasons for no guys commenting is obvious, cheezits, so fk’n obvious. Please continue ladies, feed’m…

    • Kore13 says:

      This one’s special. 😉 And some guys did respond to him earlier, I believe.

      Oh well, think I’ve already said all I’ve had to say to him though.

  25. Lola says:

    Dave you are lying we get what we want all men are not like you. i met a guy he is not married a diplomat that gave me an 1800 usd/month allowance plus i could shop whatever i wanted yes if the guy likes you he pays that’s it.Stop spraying your venin here because 20 women ignored your contact requests look at how you exchange with people , human being are primitive and can feel your anger , why would you guve fake money?drive her to a dark road and tell her to fuck you or to get out?and you wonder why ppl don’t want to be around you?Shame on you

    • Dave says:

      lola..thanks for the morality lesson you whore. the diplomat is married thats why he gave you 1800$ to shut your pie hole up. I dont have to worry about blackmail. I get lots of messages per day and I made a business decision to screw women over because they deserve it and it saves money. My only investment is the $60 per month I pay on here. I fuck 2-4 different SA girls per month. Your diplomat is a fucking beta chump

      • Anonymous says:

        PSYCHOPATH KILLER ALERT! FUTURE ISIS LEADER ALERT!

      • Lola says:

        Finally , i only pittied you after i read your message.it wasn’t as funny as your other comments anymore.you cannot afford A SB , sorry but he wasn’t married as we many times stayed in his residences together. You are even stupid in your own logic, if a guy is married how could a potential SB blackmail him since he will hide his life?
        i do not date married one sorry that’s my choice.You must talk to someone and build yourself a social life for the sake of our eyes.lol

      • Dave says:

        thanks for the advice whore.

  26. clea says:

    Take note that not a one of the regular male posters will condemn Dave. The reason being is that a part of them identify with his deeply manipulative, predatory behavior.

    • anonymously anonomous says:

      don’t feed’m… they starve!!!

      • Anonymous says:

        Are you fucking kidding me?

        Women here love trolls and drama…and can’t just ignore then. Of course they like the kind of trolls and the kind of drama that causes men to squeal and cry foul…

      • Anonymous says:

        Well we can easily assume that the one creating drama is a man.

    • Dave says:

      oh yes, and pretending you like a guy to get an allowance is not predatory or manipulative … sure ..sure..

      • Anonymous says:

        Obvious idiot. SA is for adults, not children like you. Those that have an IQ of at least 40. You think a married sd likes the sb other than her body just because he gives her an allowance? It’s a different thing to care for someone and a different thing to like/love them. The latter is reserved for irl relationships and not SA an obvious sugar daddy website. But going around scamming people is actually illegal, it’s in a different realm and yes it is predatory and manipulative and don’t deny it. You exposed yourself sub human.

      • Dave says:

        it’s not illegal cunt…state the law where it says to scam a hooker is illegal…

      • Anonymous says:

        The basement sociopath who doesn’t read the papers wants to know how threatening one for intimacy is rape. I guess having dropped out of high school to live in your redneck mama’s basement wasn’t a good move on your part.

    • Kore13 says:

      @Clea I have to agree with Anonymously Anon. The men here don’t have time for this. 😀

  27. Dave says:

    It was so nice talking to you loser so called “sugar babies ” . It was also wonderful to read your idiotic conclusions and predictions but I got 22 unread messages on SA to catch up on . I don’t think I can fit all the discounted pussy I’ll get all in one week . For all the beta chumps who actually pay the hookers on this site , re think your strategy you can get more “bang” for your buck by using the same manipulation tools that so called modern day women use . It’s a lot more fun that way !

    • Anonymous says:

      You know you’re gonna get raped in the big house once you’re in there, right?

      • Dave says:

        Are you trying to solicit me ? I’m not interested ! Haha

      • Anonymous says:

        You’re gonna get raped from behind by some black dude while you’re doing time for rape charges. You’ll have plenty of time to think about what to do next when you’re out, shoot up a school or sell kiddie porn.
        Tough choices, huh?

      • Dave says:

        You’re a racist …. I thought you SJWs took up the minority cause ?

      • Anonymous says:

        How is he a racist you idiot? Are you a racist for preferring white women over black or asian? Rape fantasy writing fat loser.

      • Dave says:

        why would a black guy have to rape me in prison? why couldn’t have been just a guy? SOunds like the only one with a rape fantasy is you because you throw the word out on every post!

      • Anonymous says:

        Do you know what stereotyping is? No, it’s not a stereo.
        Well, what you described means rape, rapist landing in jail cell means being raped by your neighbouring jail cell. Simple no?

      • Josh says:

        @Anonymous

        “You’re gonna get raped from behind by some black dude while you’re doing time for rape charges.”

        That is racist alright…as if the Brotherhood would not have any interest in some fresh ass.

      • Dave says:

        she specifically stated it would be a black guy who would rape me; profiling are we ?

      • Anonymous says:

        Well then I guess the movie director of let’s go to prison is also racist for profiling. So is the one who used an arab as a terrorist. It’s all racism to you idiot, so you have to play that card.

    • Anonymous says:

      Is this Josh? I think I detect him as my radar went off by some of his vocabulary.

      • elaine says:

        Don’t believe this is Josh…

      • Dave says:

        Are you trying to “out me” ? what business of yours is it that I am “Josh” or whoever? I guess when you cannot win a logical argument, you want to take this to a personal level where you can punish me for my views? FUCK YOU CUNT. you’ll never know who I am. Go mind your own business, fucking loser.

      • Josh says:

        Fuck off you idiot cunt implicating the suave sugar GURU into something like this.

        I know that what @Dave is suggesting works on dimwitted princesses, and @FB has acknowledge that, but it is legally questionable.

        I stay millions of miles away from anything which even resembles R-A-P-E. I have not worked so hard for so long to be taken away from me just because some woman could cry rape on me because I was stupid enough to swindle her for a few bucks.

        As far as “vocabulary”, wake up you imbecile…the Men’s Rights Movement is not a laughing matter feminists can giggle over anymore.

        @Dave seems to be a different kind of ATM for dimwitted SA women.

      • Anonymous says:

        Both using cunt and idiot as a female derogatory term ^

      • Lola says:

        This is the same idiot he proved it by showing-up as Josh right after being recognized on Dave’s name as being Josh

      • Josh says:

        How about using “bitch” along with “idiot” and “cunt”?

        Do you know why @Dave is successful at SA as he claims to be? Because most of the SBs are as dimwitted idiots as the two bloggers who posted above.

      • Anonymous says:

        Do you really believe this fantasy sociopath Dave? If you do then I feel sorry for you. Dave is neither successful (well in his own mind he is) in sa nor irl, because he’s a nerdy fat fiction writer writing from his mom’s basement.

      • Josh says:

        Yes I do because a good number of SBs on SA are dimwitted princesses, divas and queens wishing to be spoiled by accomplished men…just cuz.

        A man, careful with the law, would not be able to pull off what @Dave claims to be achieving…but he is a reckless PUA type…and most likely is achieving good level of success with the dimwitted princesses, divas and queens.

      • Dave says:

        Josh, I succeed not because I have “PUA game” . I’m in really good shape as in my body. I played college sports and at the semi pro level. The women see me as getting the package deal. A man with a high income who has a great body; they tell me so. I am not anymore charming or throw out anymore bullshit than the next guy. I just work really hard on my looks. The game works, I hope all you guys do the same and you are absolutely right, the mens rights movement is not onlyh working, mens mentality toward marriage and being a “nice guy” have changed and it is the women who are suffering. They asked for it !

      • Jaybird923 says:

        “I’m in really good shape as in my body. I played college sports and at the semi pro level.”

        ROTFLMAO Sure you were. You spent yesterday complaining about how the girls would fuck jocks and not you. Today not only are you Ivy league educated but now you were a college jock too. At a semi pro level no less lol. What will it be tomorrow? You’re being inducted into the hall of fame…. LMAO

      • Dave says:

        Gawd you’re fucking stupid..in college I played a sport which was beneath the so called “high value women”. the FOOTBALL (american football) players were stacked 3 deep in hot chicks. I was in a sport that had very little value, but I got a GREAT education that enabled me to get a good job. In my 40s my body is on par with a 20 year old male and my income level is high because I studied and didn’t party you dumb cunt. If you cannot read correctly that is your problem. When did I claim to be a hall of famer, I do well on SA and specifically in my city. I attract women from SA . Their first message is usually “You are gorgeous.” I am neither bragging nor gloating. Mere fact, then I play them. Formulate your stupid theories all you want to, but I’m in control bitch.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Lmao you do well with woman on SA because you pwutw pictures of your car and etc. In your profile and promise them large sums of money you have no intention of giving them. Now if you put in your profile just a picture of yourself and state in your profile that you don’t give an allowance and the women still flock to you, I’ll be the first to congratulate you on how awesome you are.

      • Anonymous says:

        You are not in control, you control freak. Repeat after me: I am a criminal. Wanna get raped by me? Call me at 911RAPIST.

      • Dave says:

        You know it doesn’t work that way you silly whore . A typical college girl goes to enough parties and can meet a boatload of attractive guys . They will have sex with them too because these college men are also fun . However , then they realize the student loans are adding up and they need a benefactor. . They seek him on SA . They come to me because of all the factors I mentioned . Women will never get on SA solely for the looks in fact they complain to me how unattractive most men are in here . Primed for the scamming ! We know you dumb cunt don’t care just about looks .

      • Anonymous says:

        Dave little piggy, why don’t you join my pig farm at least that way you’ll be useful? PIGGY

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Well I guess that proves my point doesn’t it. No one wanted you then and no one wants you now. All they want is the money you promised.

        You are an ignoramus of mammoth proportion. Any one with a modicum of intelligence can see that with every sentence you write.

        Ivy league education my ass. If you are in possession of a college degree that you didn’t purchase from an ad in the back of a porn magazine, I’ll eat my favorite red pumps for breakfast.

        You have ceased to be amusing therefore you no longer worth my time so I’ll ignore like the other undesirables.

  28. elaine says:

    My God, how have I ever missed the posts of “Dave” before?

    This guy is hilarious!

    Haha you are right @Jay, not enough letters in the alphabet to describe the inmense fits of laughter coming up while reading his posts!

    He is so pathetic the only thing you can do about it is:
    bduhdlqieuòqehfliehoueypruèojlifhgkhlihjqpojèokjroflmao

    Can someone please pass me the popcorn in the meanwhile? (or would that be too dangerous, like risk of choking?)

    • Jaybird923 says:

      @Elaine I don’t recommend eating while reading his post. This is the most I’ve laughed in a long time. I though for sure my neighbors were going to knock on my the door to tell me to keep it down. The sad part is the more he post the less I believe him. He probably made up the whole thing he’d still be a loser but at least he wouldn’t be a rapist.

      • elaine says:

        @Jay

        In any case it is very entertaining! :-)
        But either he has a big fantasy, or he really is a pathetic loser.
        Not sure about what it is yet.

        About one thing I am very sure though; the guy has some (lack of) selfesteem issues!

      • Dave says:

        We now have a self proclaimed psychologist that got promoted from her position of Internet whore . Congrats !

      • Anonymous says:

        It’s better to be a psychologist or even an internet whore than a future rapist. ?

      • Dave says:

        I thought you said I already was a rapist, so now I am a future one, make up your mind ! fyi, you can’t rape the willing ..

      • Anonymous says:

        The get outta my car threat is rape.
        The fake money is rape.
        Since this is all a sick fantasy, it makes you a future rapist.

      • Dave says:

        I have the right to throw anyone I want to out of my car, it’s called rejection. DEAL WITH IT.

      • Anonymous says:

        I’ll be slow with you since I know that a retard with an IQ of 0.1 cannot comprehend legal terms and the articles.
        Throwing someone out of your car in normal circumstances=totally acceptable.
        Throwing someone out of your car in a deserted place with the threat of being intimate=illegal and rape.

        Normal intimacy requires given consent. Consent cannot be given if one is threatened beforehand.

      • Dave says:

        no threat sweetie feminazi cunt…THey got 2 choices, let me repeat, they can leave the date or exit the vehicle at any point after I give them the offer. When you women make a date with a guy and you play games or stand him up then thats a breach of contract and financial rape then. whats good for the goose ….

      • Anonymous says:

        Oh gosh you male pig chauvinist sociopath.
        Throwing someone out of the car in a deserted or dangerous place with no means of getting back under the threat of intimacy with you constitutes rape. The code word threat, same as putting a gun to your head. You cannot twist the law to your liking, everything is concluded by analogy. Get it through your thick head.

    • Anonymous says:

      He’s a fake writing fantasy on the blog to push his agenda and a sick in the head individual. Just ignore him or report him to SA.

      • Dave says:

        You’re even dumber than I thought . I sling with every other man pay on this site . We are Brandon’s bread and butter . He’s a businessman he knows who pays the bills . You’re delusional

      • Anonymous says:

        I don’t think having Dave on the blog (or even site) would be a good business move. There will be a lack in the number of Sb’s who sign up and the less Sb’s, less genuine Sd’s. A fantasy writer like you will only do harm. Though it’s a fun read, if you’re into sadistic rape shit.

      • Dave says:

        no, there will never be the lack of delusional, brainwashed women who think there is a plethora of wealthy men wanting to pay for their so called companionship.

      • Anonymous says:

        Well Dave, believe it or not, there are wealthy men here who do pay for women as they’re fucking 70 years old, fat and bald. They compensate their shortcomings with money. If the sugarbowl is so tough for you to understand, maybe you should not be thinking about joining it. It is made specifically for wealthy men, now if you cannot afford it then I’m sorry, maybe you should have worked harder and gotten a better paying job.

      • Dave says:

        I’m 41 and have a good job, but I’m not paying for time. Scamming is much easier and the return on investment is higher. I’ve see nthe wrinkly guys over 60 pay for it. I see it at the Ritz Carlton every weekend. It’s funny to watch. the girls seem so insecure to be seen with such an old sapp.

  29. Anonymous says:

    @Dave

    “I am actually glad I didn’t get much in my 20s, instead I focused on my goals , college, MBA from a prestigious school”

    Bingo!!! This is exactly what men need to do. Bang as many women as you can or not while you are making something out of your life but don’t get a woman in tow to wreck your life.

    • Anonymous says:

      IDIOT RINSER DETECTED ^

      Repeat after me: SB does not equal Escort does not equal Pro.

    • Dave says:

      Does that make your little feelers feel bette me ? That you’re higher up the food chain than a street hooker ? Well breaking news for ya : you’re not . You’re a fucking prostitute, just embrace it

    • Anonymous says:

      Says Dave, your local rapist guy from across the block.

    • Dave says:

      I think you have a rape fantasy and you secretly desire it. Don’t project !

    • Dave From a Cave says:

      I sure do hope your future kids get raped though. Do I have a rape fantasy too?

    • Dave says:

      amazing how this vapid female now wishes my kids would get raped….her imagination and fantasies are off the chain !

    • Dave From a Cave says:

      It was demonstrate that not everyone who claims that you are a rapist, has a rape fantasy.

      But since you are a rapist, I am sure you’re gonna rape your kids too or an idiot at SA will and that is only fair, because you do it too, and if you see nothing wrong with it why not? Then they will end up fucked up in the head like you and out to get more victims to rape and/or murder. It’s a never-ending chain.

  30. FatB'StardSA says:

    @Dave

    Finally someone is posting valuable SD tips…bravo!

    Leaving fake money in an envelope is a bit nasty though…I usually give my SB’s their allowance foreign currency like HK dollars. It makes me seem exotic and most SB’s have no idea that they are getting much less money than they think!

    • Dave says:

      I love how women on this site are fooled by the promises they see on TV and the stupid marketing ploys used to advertise it. I can see after joining this site, as in real life, women never get what they want and 99% are over-inflating the value of their pussy. To get a substantial amount of money from a wealthy guy means they guy is married, or wants BDSM, or to do freaky stuff with women. I can guarantee you only 1% of 1% of women on here actually get their tuition paid for and those are sucking on hairy old Hugh Hefner man scrotum.

    • Dave says:

      also…in your profile write a few tidbits about starting a company and such … really pour on the “I’m about to hit it big” persona. They will fuck you just thinking that you are about to become the next Bill Gates or something. You know how stupid women get when they THINK you will be famous soon. Just like in college, when they would line up to have sex with football players (I went to a DIV I school) thinking those guys would go NFL pro in 3 years.

    • Dave says:

      one more thing to do. These dumb women typically give you the same cell phone number they signed up on Facebook with. With that information, plug in the cell# into facebook and their profile comes up. Great material so if they try to pull bullshit on you and tell you that they will report you on SA, you can fire back with “I will will tell your mother ________fill in the blank with FACEBOOK FRIEND NAME_____________ that you are a fucking hooker”

    • noname says:

      fatb HK dollars thats different easy to get those too how many times were you able to use those this is very interesting

    • elaine says:

      @Noname

      Come on! I never thought you would be the kind of person who would try to scam on an SB with HK dollars!

      That is so sad.

    • noname says:

      no elaine i wouldn’t do that i just thought that was clever idea just like the guy who paid his SB in choalate coin its wrong but it amazes me what people will do

    • Anonymous says:

      I hope you’re joking Fat Bastard.

    • Dave says:

      @noname…quit caving in like a mangina.

    • noname says:

      well dave first of all im not a american citzen so the posts on this blog is entertainment for me im not going to critize you for what your doing i beleive in different strokes for different folks so if these methods work for you good for you there are sites out on the internet that list scammers and once your name goes on there it stays on forever and all the sugar babies on this site are against you so i don’t need to say anything they are saying it very well but this site is founded on the idea of paying a lady something thats agreeable to both parties and the SD gets something from SB thats agreeable to both parties

  31. Jaybird923 says:

    @Dave It doesn’t matter how you try to spin it you’re a fucking rapist plain and simple. If a man points a gun at you and tell you to blow him or he’ll shoot you in the face… he might not be holding you down and face fucking you but your sure as hell aren’t doing it because you want to(unless you enjoy sucking cock under duress) You’re doing it because you don’t want to get shot in the face.

    Same thing with the women you’ve raped in the last 3 months. They didn’t sleep with you because they wanted to but because you threaten them. It’s rape even if you’re not holding them down.

    I love how you mention that you grew up with both parents. Good for you! I’m sure the would be very proud of how you turned out

    • Jaybird923 says:

      My parents are very proud of me Thank you. Like I said you can spin it how ever you like you’re still a rapist. It’ll catch up with you though. One day you try it with the wrong chick and end up knifed in your car by the same side of the road you were planing on leaving her. :-)

    • Dave says:

      that knife is no match for my H&K VP9 with slide mounted laser light combo, that is holstered next to my seat. Your parents are proud you’re on hooker website?

    • Jaybird923 says:

      Very proud. When I was a little girl I remember how they would tell me that one day I would grow up, move to the big city, and suck old man scrotum for cash. I’ve lived up to their expectations. They include the news on the yearly family holiday news letter. ROTFLMAO

    • Anonymous says:

      DAVE IS A RAPIST!

  32. noname says:

    two wrongs don’t make a right

  33. Jaybird923 says:

    “I wouldn’t play games with women at all if they didn’t do the same with me for the past 15 years! WHen I was in my 20s I was polite to women and would ask them out only to get the cold shoulder and watch them fuck “bad boys’ So Now it’s payback time and none of you like it!”

    The equivalent of “I was abused as a child. Now that I’m an adult, I’ll conveniently forget how traumatic that was for me and do it to other children. After all if I had to suffer, it’s only fair that I get my chance to make children suffer too.”

    • Dave says:

      Sorry cunt, not the same thing. abuse is illegal, beating you at your own game isn’t. nice try though..go back to jezebel.com

      • Jaybird923 says:

        The pathetic part is that actually think you’re accomplishing something. You have to use coercion, threats, and out right deceit to get women to sleep with you. Now if you could accomplish the same end by just being you I’d say you had something to be proud of.

        But as we’ve already establish being you isn’t good enough. It wasn’t good enough when you were younger and it isn’t good enough. That’s why you’re so upset.

        This only makes your more pathetic than before. “WWWAAA nobody would fuck me when I was younger and still won’t unless I force them or deceive them” ROTFLMAO

      • Dave says:

        this coming from an SA hooker …. I am sure you signed up on SA to meet men with charisma…Secondly, you think I talk like this in public? as I said to the other feminazi cunt, I can chit chat and throw game down like any other man, I play soccer 6 hours per week and I make quite a bit of money, so I have no problem wooing females out in public or on this stupid site. I only deceive the ones who think they are moderate-high with golden pussy syndrome. WHy should I waste my hard earned money when those same women, like yourself, slut it around with guys who didn’t pay a dime? However, having a successful career means I have no time to be around women all of the time, so I use this site. I have all the means to be a SD but I’m not going to pya for cunts like you. fuck that, you don’t deserve. I am actually glad I didn’t get much in my 20s, instead I focused on my goals , college, MBA from a prestigious school, unlike you who is pretty much a whore on a hooker website.

      • Dave says:

        lets compare notes. I am college graduated with a masters degree and am in upper management in a large corporation. you’re a loser whore on a hooker website. There we go.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        I play soccer 6 hours per week and I make quite a bit of money, so I have no problem wooing females out in public or on this stupid site.

        ROTFLMAO Sure 😉

      • Jaybird923 says:

        “I am actually glad I didn’t get much in my 20s, instead I focused on my goals , college, MBA from a prestigious school”

        “WHen I was in my 20s I was polite to women and would ask them out only to get the cold shoulder and watch them fuck “bad boys’”

        ROTFLMAO Of course 😉

      • Jaybird923 says:

        “I am college graduated with a masters degree and am in upper management in a large corporation.”

        ROTFLMAO I could tell right away that was the case

      • Dave says:

        I’m sorry you ended up a loser whore in your life whereas I graduated college, and with a masters degree. What I am supposed to use my hard earned money and actually pay you cunts ? get real. THat money is for MY FUTURE that I created for myself but I don’t mind giving dumb idiots like you the illusion that I will pay. Why do you think women on this site don’t even think twice about me coming to pick them up on a first date? because they’ve seen my car and pictures of my house and my NET WORTH on this site. fucking idiot whores.

      • Dave says:

        definition of pathetic: a whore joining this site thinking they will make a shitload of money but instead suck on hairy old man scrotum instead for very little money once they reach age 30. So do you put hooker on your resume ?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        “…because they’ve seen my car and pictures of my house and my NET WORTH on this site.”

        ROTFLMAO Oh my God that’s even more pathetic! You have to use pictures of your possessions to get a message.

        There has to be another acronym for how hard I’m laughing right now! I don’t think ROTFLMAO is sufficient.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        ” suck on hairy old man scrotum instead for very little money”

        I happen to love old man scrotum I do it for free

        LMAOROTFBTCSTCNDBFOOTWIFOAGWLLBGWTHROOTSAIAKBAYB

      • Jaybird923 says:

        The penis too by the way…

      • Dave says:

        yes I graduated from a DIV-NCAA school and have an MBA from another prestigious university. What have you done in life besides being a call-girl ?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        “yes I graduated from a DIV-NCAA school and have an MBA from another prestigious university. ”

        It gets funnier every time you post that. Keep repeating it! Also tell me how you make more than enough to be a SD again. Pleeeaase ROTFLMAO

      • Dave says:

        you refuse to answer the question. you’re a full time whore then ?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Of course I’m a full time whore! If you’re going to be successful you can’t half ass it. 40 hours a week minimum. Some times I have to put in some overtime but that’s okay. Old man scrotum don’t suck themselves :-)

      • Anonymous says:

        Dave are you really that fucked up in the head? I am sure you lack quite a few social skills… you seem like the kind of person to gun down a school just because you were abused as a kid and it’s payback!

      • Jaybird923 says:

        “Don’t be jealous of me because I actually accomplished something of substance in my life while pretty much all youve managed is to get a boob job”

        Sure I’m totally jealous of a pathetic bitter rapist who can’t get laid on his own merit. The only thing you’ve accomplished is providing me with entertainment and showing everyone else how big of a loser you are. ROTFLMAO

      • Dave says:

        again, you fail to define how I am a loser. as if getting laid is the determining factor in that. who wants your used up hooker vagina other than for a freebie? what do you even have to offer a man besides what is in between your legs? big deal you can spread your legs for a living. Who can’t do that? Again, I repeat, lets compare who is the biggest loser. I graduated from a solid university with a solid education, then went onto to my masters then onto corporate America where I climbed the ladder into upper management. I mean that is what appeals to you whores doesnt it ? lets see what have you done with your life? oh I am sure your profile says you are “educated with a great sense of wit” and you “are sexy, with a flair of sultriness and a wonderful personality” Looks all you show are your boobs on your avatar . THats all you have to offer? until what you hit the wall at age 30 and then you are begging for Mr Right to come along. SO who is the loser here ?

      • Anonymous says:

        You tell us Dave, since you claim to have raped so many stranger women so far and take pride in that, then please do the world a favor and do an STD and HIV test, and check for crabs down there too. Who knows what’s lurking between that jungle? Who would wanna touch you even with a 5 meter pole?

      • Dave says:

        I thought these women were innocent snowflakes? why would they have STDs ?

      • Anonymous says:

        Dave call me at 911688RAPIST.

  34. TVC15 says:

    Ladies and gentleman, the “nice guy”, exhibit A. Directly below.

  35. Anonymous says:

    why would you pay them the fake money upfront, so much easier to pick them up take them to a hotel, fuck them, then make an excuse to go to your car and just drive away, this works like a charm, leaving them no ride home

    • Dave says:

      Some ask for it upfront and you wouldn’t believe how excited they get when I stuff a thick envelope in their purse

    • Anonymous says:

      oh, i would tell them only hookers get money upfront, get out

    • Dave says:

      then I wouldn’t get laid. With all my methods I get laid one way or another. I’ll use your hotel method next time. You know they will drastically reduce their rate once they are already at the hotel. stupid cunts.

    • Anonymous says:

      Well Dave, let’s jsut say it’s good you haven’t met me yet. Not only would I steal your money, your car and all other precious belonging that you have (which I’ll always do), but if I found out your true intention I am gonna be less merciless and actually force you to lick my shoes, you male pig.

    • Dave says:

      again, not calling the cops speaks volumes about who is in the right! Ever heard of a street hooker calling the cops? same thing.

    • Anonymous says:

      You’re really this stupid?
      SA is perfectly legal, moron. They can call the cops on you anytime for sex without consent while you end up in jail. They can claim platonic and forced intimacy in a million dollar civil suing. They will make sure that during intimacy they scream and hit you so they have proof and land you in prison. Want more scenarios?

    • Dave says:

      It is obvious you only graduated from the feminazi school of wisdom. Please stick to your day job as a whore, law is not your strong strong suit.

    • Anonymous says:

      Says so a dangerous sociopath. Where did you graduate from, the male chauvinist school with a minor in raping at SA?
      I await the day some woman will scream for help while being intimate with you, bite you, smack you, leave marks and if you don’t kill her right then, testify against you in the court of Law when the hotel staff comes to her rescue while they handcuff you and escort you to your jail van.

  36. TVC15 says:

    Wow, you were telling the truth. You really ARE a nice guy!

    • TVC15 says:

      And I appreciate the list of scams to look out for. Thanks!

      The car one’s easy. I’d walk home and then get the cops on your ass for coercion and attempted rape. Hope you’re arrested soon, I think you’d fit in great in prison.

    • Dave says:

      You are a lying woman . Since you’re the legal expert , please state the code or law I broke . Attempted rape ? Haha you fucking liar . I don’t force anything . I told them they are free to leave and get the fuck out of my car . You fucking lying cunt

    • TVC15 says:

      It’s attempted rape, scumbag. And when you’ve succeeded, it was rape. You’re a rapist; and while I think prison rape is a terrible thing, I do wish it on you.

      Wikipedia: “Rape is a type of sexual assault initiated by one or more persons against another person without that person’s consent. The act may be carried out by physical force, or where the person is under threat or manipulation… Consent is… considered invalid if obtained under duress”

      {https://www.ksl.com/?sid=36774025&nid=148}

    • Dave says:

      You just contradicted your own post you feminazi rotten cunt . The key word is forced !!! Read your own post you idiot . The power is in a mans hands and always will be that’s why you’re pissed off now . Feminism has done more harm than good to women . When you hit the wall between 30 and 36 nobody wants you and at he end of the day men still do the hard jobs and invent the most ! Sounds like you’re miserable . Not one woman on SA has Ben forced to do anything with me . I love it . I’m in control and you hate it . I get what I want with very little investment . In fact my scams are cheaper than real dates and I get easy sex !

    • TVC15 says:

      Consent is vitiated by DURESS, idiot.

    • Anonymous says:

      It is rape, they can really REALLY put you into jail. Don’t you read the papers dumbass?

    • Dave says:

      Is that where you get your education ? The corporate media ? If it was rape the SA hookers would have called the cops . Guess what they haven’t . I met one that wanted $900 per date !! After I applied my usual discount , she got a red bull and vodka and I got to slip it in her ass . Funny how they never complain after .

    • Anonymous says:

      They do, read the papers you idiot. They will either blackmail you, put you in jail or do the classic Hayes move.

  37. Dave says:

    Women are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to dating. In the dating world, live or online,. they will give out their number express interest, then play games or string you along. On SA if we guys do it, or we keep stringing them along or we take time to decide, then these women get all upset that it “is a sugar daddy website” and therefore we should pay up. Women speak with a forked tongue.

    • TVC15 says:

      Men stringing women along = just taking time to decide
      Women stringing men along = lying hypocrites

      Got it.

      • Dave says:

        We are only reacting to YOUR games. I wouldn’t play games with women at all if they didn’t do the same with me for the past 15 years! WHen I was in my 20s I was polite to women and would ask them out only to get the cold shoulder and watch them fuck “bad boys’ Now that I have looks , great shape, in my 40s and money, they get mad when I reject them. You think I wanted it this way? NO I wanted to be the nice guy with a wife and kids. So Now it’s payback time and none of you like it!

      • TVC15 says:

        Yes Dave, you are the classic nice guy. Scroll down a bit for further discussion of your kind.

      • Dave says:

        what does that mean? How do you know if I am nice or not. I HAD BOTH my parents growing up and a nice family and i have always been respectful toward women. I love it how you are deflecting the blame for WOMEN’s BAD behavior back onto me !

      • TVC15 says:

        I can tell you’re a “nice guy” by reading your posts, sweetie.

        Maybe if you keep being resentful, and rage about women’s behaviour a whole lot more, they’ll change just for you? It’ll certainly make them want you more.

      • TVC15 says:

        Oh, and be sure you let the women you date know how you feel about women. You want to make sure they know how insightful you are, and that you won’t put up with any nonsense.

      • Dave says:

        DO you think I talk like this in front of women? Do tell me how should I act then? so I am responsible for women treating me like shit when I was younger ?

      • TVC15 says:

        No, I’m sure in front of women, you hide your anger and resentment, and put on a “nice guy” face. You probably even fool some of them.

        Not going out with you =/= treating you like shit. Anyone’s entitled to reject someone they’re not attracted to. Even women.

      • Dave says:

        do tell…I have had many hit on me in public tell me to call them, then radio silence after I politely call them and ask them out. SO how is that game my fault ?

      • Dave says:

        Those same women come to me asking for a “future” after they have ridden every penis on the planet. You’re right, they are allowed to reject me, the shouldnt be allowed to play games thought, that does fuel resentment and anger. A woman can simply say I am not interested, but that doesnt happen. you play games. However you dont realize in this REALM called SA I can play games too and I do. Now after talking with you, I am glad I do.

      • TVC15 says:

        No, it’s not your fault. It’s also no reason to despise more than half the human race.

        You think men don’t do that kind of thing? Pretend to be interested and then, nothing? It happens to me, and I don’t fly into a rage about it. I just say “oh well, your loss” and move on.

        “Men” aren’t the problem. “Women” aren’t the problem. PEOPLE are the problem.

        If you let rude and thoughtless people dictate how you feel, then you’re going to feel bad most of the time, because there are a LOT of them out there.

      • TVC15 says:

        “However you dont realize in this REALM called SA I can play games too and I do.”

        Hey, don’t let me stop you. Smart women will just ignore you when you do.

    • Anonymous says:

      i find that shoving my dick in their mouths shuts them up for a few mins

    • Dave says:

      Smart women ? Good one they only make decisions based on emotions not brains . Every woman o know plays games very few men do .

      • TVC15 says:

        Wow, what a seething pile of poisonous vermin your brain is. It cheers me up immensely to think how tormented and unhappy you must be.

      • Dave says:

        Not at all. I’ve fucked 10 women from this site alone in 3 months spent maybe $800 total some of them self proclaimed “high” expectations haha .. I’m Very happy with my methods . And no divorce rape or consequences . #winning

      • TVC15 says:

        How ironic that you would use the hashtag of another tortured, unhappy slimeball.

      • Anonymous says:

        That’s why you use brains not in a singular form. Because you mostly or actually all the time use your microscopic brain down below, your teeny weeny.

      • Dave says:

        you’ve been admiring my penis? how do you know the size? you perv.

      • Kore13 says:

        Come on girls. I’ve noticed some men still carry the pain of certain things that happened long ago… no need to throw salt at wounds?

      • Kore13 says:

        Oh, I just read some of Dave’s scamming BS. Yep, he sounds like a sorry jerk. Dave, I hope you change. It’s not nice to dump a 17 to 25 year old on the side of the road at 11pm. One day, you might have the shit beaten out of you by some girl’s father.

      • Dave says:

        father ? haha…that would be bowing down to the patriarchy which you women stopped having respect for years ago. If a girl turns to being a hooker on SA you think her father is going to care about her at that point? get real.

      • Anonymous says:

        First of all SA is nothing illegal, it’s an arrangement with an older established man which is actually a pretty good move on her part rather than wasting her youth fucking bad boys. Many people know that their relative or friend is on SA. It’s harder for the men actually since they’re mostly MARRIED and too old for the girl. That’s where the social stigma lies.
        Otherwise what goes on between two consenting and single adults is nobody’s business. Why are you coming here with that puritanical religiously influenced shit?
        And believe it or not, parents support their kids no matter what, no matter if they’re a junkie or gay, let alone SA which is perfectly normal. Still better than AM.

  38. SB TVC15 says:

    Wrap it up, kids!

    {http://jezebel.com/cdc-says-sexually-transmitted-diseases-are-at-a-record-1743189406}

  39. Anonymous says:

    The $3.7 M virgin’s name is Natalie Dylan. Look at her pics online. If she was on SA, her face and body would struggle to get a Practical allowance.
    Why would anyone pay that amount for her hymen? She is no longer a virgin the 2nd time you fuck her. Do you know how many 10/10 SB’s you can get for 4 million bucks?

  40. SB TVC15 says:

    {http://www.buzzfeed.com/hnigatu/13-reasons-why-nice-guys-are-the-worst#.iiyv5gKKZX}

    • Jaybird923 says:

      Any man who tells you he’s a nice guy should be immediately be nexted. They are the worst. If you truly are a nice guy you don’t have to inform people they’ll come to that conclusion on their own.

      • Anonymous says:

        shut the hell up. Why is it that women love bad boys when they are overtly bad boys ?

      • Anonymous says:

        In every conversation i have ever had on sa the woman will tell me at some point, you are a nice guy, and every time i text back, i am not a nice guy, but i am a sweetheart

    • Anonymous says:

      Let all beta manlets see what women think of them, maybe that will motivate them to lose the skirt and man the fuck up and join the rest of us in pumping and dumping.

      This has been FlyBo!

      Cheers :)

      • Jaybird923 says:

        No one has a problem with genuinely nice guys. It’s the one proclaiming to be nice guys that should be avoided. They are almost never truly nice. They are good at pretending that they are but you can only keep it up for so long.

        I rather deal with an asshole any day of the week. At least you know what you’re getting. You can either take it or leave it.

    • Anonymous says:

      Any woman who tells you that she’s “virgin”, “not that kinda girl” or that she “wants to take it slow” should be immediately nexted as well?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        That’s for you to decide. I don’t see how being a virgin or wanting to take it slow is comparative to the “nice guy” but hey If it’s been your experience that the women who say these things are liars then by all means next them.

      • Leo says:

        Nice guys finish last.

      • Anonymous says:

        I do not agree about the virgin and not that kinda girl part, because it may be true on so many levels, and I have encountered virgins who are great, beautiful and shy. On the contrary, those who tell you they want to take it slow may be a sign of foul play.

      • elaine says:

        Haha shy, sure!

        And then you have your face all over by selling your virginity to the highest bidder?

      • Anonymous says:

        Most of the biddings and consummation process is anonymous.

  41. Anonymous says:

    @Kore13

    “Well, typically women don’t mostly have sex with jerks, so why would it be stupid to lose your virginity with someone you like in the heat of the moment?”

    Please allow me to correct you dear…

    “Well, typically women DO mostly PREFER TO have sex with jerks…” it is the “nice guy” they typically avoid.

    • SB TVC15 says:

      Urban Dictionary, you just keep giving.

      “Nice Guy Syndrome

      A annoying mental condition in which a heterosexual man concocts oversimplified ideas why women aren’t flocking to him in droves. Typically this male will whine and complain about how women never want to date them because he is “too nice” or that he is average in appearance. He often targets a woman who is already in a relationship; misrepresenting his intentions of wanting to be her friend and having the expectation that he is owed more than friendship because he is such a good listener. He is prone to brooding over this and passive aggressive behavior.

      He is too stupid to realize the reason women don’t find him attractive is because he feels sorry for himself, he concludes that women like to be treated like shit.”

    • Josh says:

      Great. Your use of Urban Dictionary clearly proves my point.

    • Kore13 says:

      The more mature a woman gets, the less she should feel the need to bang a jerk…

      • SB TVC15 says:

        There you go, Anon. Hit up the over 60’s crowd.

      • Kore13 says:

        SB, I have no idea what you mean by that, but if you’re screwing jerks at your age, I don’t envy you.

      • SB TVC15 says:

        This is what I meant: if Anon doesn’t like women screwing jerks, and if you’re right that more mature women are less likely to screw jerks, then Anon should go for women over 60.

        Further clarification: I’m not over 60, and I’m not screwing any jerks. Thanks for your concern, tho! :)

      • Kore13 says:

        Not concerned about who you screw, but you’re not helping with this attitude. Maturity doesn’t necessarily have as much to do with age as to do with experience.

        Just, a person who has made a mistake once and has a functioning brain will avoid the same mistake a second time around. If that means being over 60, ok, I am over 60.

      • SB TVC15 says:

        Sheesh. It was a JOKE.

      • Anonymous says:

        Sarcasm and text don’t mix very well.

      • SB TVC15 says:

        Really? Nobody gets it? Oh well, you can’t win ’em all.

      • Anonymous says:

        Many women think that sarcasm = intelligence…not!

      • SB TVC15 says:

        Yeah, Dorothy Parker was a moron.

  42. Josh says:

    @elaine

    “Pity the GURU has not yet managed to kick those ones off…”

    Sorry dear the GURU is not interested in any such endeavor. It is a thankless undertaking to start off with…

    Anonymous could be eliminated by the owners of this blog in 5 seconds or less. If they chose not to do that then it is their prerogative. So be it. The GURU kinda like Anonymous anyway. 😉

  43. SDaddy says:

    To change the subject ,I decided to change my screening criteria for age from 18 to 29 to 30-50. What I noticed was a jump in expectations to Moderate on up . Older women seem to want/need more than their younger competitors . This is another reason why women have a harder time getting an arrangement at an older age . A 20 yr old 10/10 might be able to pull it off if she finds a Daddy loaded enough,but A 4O Yr old is an entirely different matter altogether

    • Kore13 says:

      A 20 yr old 10/10 could pull off marrying a millionaire… Did you notice any change in the self-entitlement area? That would interest me more.

    • Anonymous says:

      Right now I have let my membership lapsed. I will try this criteria now:

      Age 25-35: Relatively more mature…relatively less delusional with the “golden pussy” syndrome…relatively less suitors as most men are chasing younger than 25 crowd…

      Fitness junkies of some kind. Healthy eating junkies of some kind.

      No children: Less expenses…less baby-dady related drama…more free time.

      Some kind of job: Not total dependence on Sugar.

      Non smoking: Less personal expenses…absence of shitting breath.

      Living by themselves: Ability to meet at their place if they lived in a decent apartment…to avoid hotel cancellation issue if they don’t show up…give them money saved on hotel.

      I am not giving up on the younger pussy…I just want to try the above demographic for some time.

  44. SB TVC15 says:

    Another take on the sexless marriage issue, from a letter to Dan Savage:

    “If my ex-husband wrote to you, he’d say I didn’t want to have sex with him anymore and he was going crazy. The truth is, I wanted to have sex — but I didn’t want it to be in one of the same three positions we’d been doing it for seven years. I was bored and asked for some variety, and he refused to do it. My boredom turned into frustration, and frustration turned into anger. At a certain point, the idea of having sex with him made me want to beat the living shit out of something. Was I supposed to continue satisfying him when my needs weren’t being met? Our mistake was waiting until I hit the angry point to get into therapy. We should have gone when I was bored. He wound up having an affair and blamed me because I didn’t want to have sex with him. But there was a good reason why I didn’t want to have sex with him. Maybe before you advise people in ‘sexless’ marriages to have affairs, you could tell them to do some self-examination first?

    Husband’s Always Right”

    • Anonymous says:

      Same ole same ole . Sex gets boring after –5 -10 -40 yrs ? I don’t care how many positions you try, and how many times you have read the Kama Sutra. A properly done Sugar relationship -not emotional affair–would preserve a marriage . Actually I am happy in my marriage except for the variety issue . Therefore my Sugar dalliances knock the edge off my Lusting for Strange and I’m good for the next week . It gives me something to look forward to ,and Ican enjoy my family in the meantime . I know I will tire of my SB after 6 mos ,and the good thing is –I can get another one . I can try a different color -size-shape -the sugar shack is open Yo

      • SB TVC15 says:

        If you can’t satisfy your need for variety by trying different things with your spouse, why get married at all? Or have an open marriage, if you want to have your cake and eat it too.

      • Anonymous says:

        Are you an apologist SB ? Do you take a contrarian position because you can ? And are you against married Sugaring ? Perhaps that is the issue ? Because you are an SB –or a wannabe anyway, and maybe are threatened by men who can break your heart because they get bored with the same ole with you ? IDK -just guessing .

        But ,if your question is serious and not a snide remark for the sake of controversy I will give you an answer .

      • Anonymous says:

        @SB TVC
        “why get married at all?”
        Ah -THAT is the question . When we humans fall in lust mixed with a simultaneous respect for the person we ultimately want to spend much of our time with ,we come to the point in time where it makes sense to couple up – The familiar arguments are had–why pay for two places when we are together all the time ,etc. At THAT moment we can not imagine life -or our bed –being without that person .And since humans do not have the ability to learn from our mistakes (see any history book ) we marry. Fast forward years later and those sexy moves,cute little facial tics,adorable little comments become boring ,obnoxious ,and tiring . It is inevitable ,but we do not learn. Look at how many marriages smart people get into after disastrous divorces-over and over again .

        So why did I marry ? I didn’t know any better before the fact .

      • Anonymous says:

        @SBTVC ” Or have an open marriage, if you want to have your cake and eat it too.”

        Finally ,part 2. I will not tolerate any girl that I am sleeping with doing the same with someone else. It is for safety as well as security and that is the way it is . I want what I want and can do it because I have the dough.

      • SB TVC15 says:

        What I really meant is, why get into a *monogamous* marriage if you know you want to keep sleeping with different people? Why promise someone else your sexual exclusivity if it isn’t what you want to do? It’s 2015, nobody needs to lie about these things anymore.

      • SB TVC15 says:

        “I will not tolerate any girl that I am sleeping with doing the same with someone else.”

        That’s fine, as long as you’re honest with her about what YOU’RE doing. If she’s willing to accept such a deal, that’s her business and yours.

        On the other hand, if you’re sleeping around and lying about it while she remains faithful to you, that’s repulsive.

        “It is for safety as well as security”

        Oh, I see. So she might pick up an STD and bring it back to you, that’s the problem. But it’s OK for you to cheat, because you’re immune to STDs, right?

        Better wear condoms, if you have even a shred of respect for yourself or your partner. Any cheating person who gives their faithful spouse an STD deserves the worst.

        “I want what I want and can do it because I have the dough.”

        Really? It would be interesting to hear your wife’s take on that.

      • Anonymous says:

        You slayed this piece of garbage SB TVC15.

      • Kore13 says:

        @SB 😀 Well done! XD XD

        @Anon You’re lucky you didn’t post through your regular moniker. :)

      • Anonymous says:

        LOL -sensitive are we girls ? Don’t like being cheated on ? Too bad, because until you have THE MONAY you will continue to be dependent on THE MAN with the dough

      • Anonymous says:

        Who’s sensitive?

        Good luck with being immune to STDs and spending all of your money on that expensive pill to survive. That’s when you’ll realize that you suddenly can’t do shit even if you had all the money in the world.

        I am sure you wife cheats on you with the pool boy too, just like you do, and I am sure she doesn’t tell you either.
        Cheers!

      • Anonymous says:

        @SB TVC

        Grow up Sweetie. This venue might be too challenging for you emotionally . Try eHarmony to find that verified bachelor who might not need to have sex for a dozen dates or so .

        Good luck !

      • Anonymous says:

        How do you advise her to grow up when your reply doesn’t even make sense? You may have an IQ of 1 so I’m not judging here.

  45. Anonymous says:

    I have been in an open relationship for yrs. And will not leave my hubby. But I need a daddy and he is great with it..should that be an issue?

    • Anonymous says:

      Depends where you live. If there are a lot of SDs near you I’m sure some of them won’t mind – unless you want to bring hubby along. Then there would still be some who would like that as well.

    • SDaddy says:

      What do you mean “issue” ? Do you mean would an SD have a problem with you being married ? NO for most of us –actually better than having hubby not aware since discovery can create drama .

      What else could be an issue ?

    • cindymay says:

      Marred SD myself. I go for the married SD that is not looking for a change in his relationship either. My hubby is open to the idea, which makes the whole situation easier. It works for us, and I don’t have to worry about someone wanting more than an arrangement. As long as my hubby still gets the attention at home (which is more with an SD in the picture) he is happy.

  46. Anonymous says:

    Anyone seen the sell your virginity auction? One grossed at least 3 million.

    • Anonymous says:

      More power to her.

    • elaine says:

      @Anonymous

      I don’t know…..
      A virgin SELLING her virginity?
      …That rings some alarmbells to me.

      I mean, ok you want to save your virginity for whatever principal reason.
      But then one day you just wake up and think: “Know what? Today I turn into a uberhooker and sell my precious virginity to a stranger!

      Or maybe she is only SAYING she is a virgin?
      We all know the practice of the bloodcapsules and the hymen reconstructions…..
      Haha, for 3 million you can do some intern repair work now and then! LOL

      • Anonymous says:

        Uberhooker? Precious virginity? You cannot be serious.

        I think it’s a great investment idea, after all it isn’t ‘precious’ and it’s just a hymen. Might as well put it to good use.

      • Anonymous says:

        No they have a guarantee for virginity because if by their doctor you’re found to not be one, you have to pay your plane and the medical expenses yourself.

        A never penetrated vagina even without an intact hymen can be easily proved by an examination while a surgery can too be proven.

      • elaine says:

        no @Anonymous, I was not serious, that was called irony….

        But don’t tell me YOU are serious now?

        You really think a 15yo will think in the heat of the moment; Hey, you know what? I will not have sex with my highschool sweetheart now we are both and heated halfnaked.
        Nooooo! I ‘ll keep my virginity for a complete stranger who somewhere in the future might want to pay a fortune for that….Now, THAT is a good ROI!

        Yeah…sure…makes sense!

        ps. And yes, uberhooker!
        Without any sexual experience (she’s a virgin, remember?) selling your body and virginity to the highest bidder makes you not a normal, but an uber hooker! :-)

      • Kore13 says:

        Taking pride in being first is kind of weird. So many teenaged boys manage. I don’t understand the appeal of having a startfish in bed who will remember you only for your money.

      • Anonymous says:

        Well apparently some girls do, it may be their strict upbringing, never having had a sweetheart or found true love, religion, or whatever other reason they had not to have sex until they are 25. These people do exist, even though in today’s age it is hard to believe it. It is more prominent in the EU than the US though.

        I do not think not having any experience in the sex department makes someone an uberhooker. I think it makes them smart, and I am sure it’s going to increase in numbers in the upcoming years.

      • Anonymous says:

        Losing virginity in the “heat of the moment” is a stupid thing to do. If certain thing has demand…make the most of it…somehow.

        But getting tattoos, piecings, etc., on the spur of the moment are stupid things to do as well.

      • Kore13 says:

        “..it may be their strict upbringing, never having had a sweetheart or found true love, religion, or whatever other reason..It is more prominent in the EU than the US though.”

        The EU is getting more strict, loveless and religious? 😀 Yeah, sure, the women here will sell their virginities to support their parents, the hole in their hearts and god… 😀 What other reasons would there be?

        “I do not think not having any experience in the sex department makes someone an uberhooker.”
        If you find a way to sell virginity without having sex, I could agree that it’s not being a hooker.

        “I think it makes them smart.”
        Does intelligence decrease with the number of sex partners a person has??

      • Kore13 says:

        “Losing virginity in the “heat of the moment” is a stupid thing to do. If certain thing has demand…make the most of it…somehow.

        But getting tattoos, piecings, etc., on the spur of the moment are stupid things to do as well.”

        Well, typically women don’t mostly have sex with jerks, so why would it be stupid to lose your virginity with someone you like in the heat of the moment?

        It’s kind of silly, especially coming from a man, anon (I guess that is what you are?). Most boys are so horny by a certain age that they’d rather stick it in almost any girl than continue fapping alone.

      • Anonymous says:

        Well believe it or not, you having lost your virginity in college to some loser, and now being intimate with many SDs is even more hookerish than selling your virginity, which some men enjoy more than a used up loose p.

      • SB TVC15 says:

        Remember ladies, penises don’t get used up. Only pussies.

      • Anonymous says:

        It makes them smart as in I will profit from this rather than loose it in the heat of the moment.

      • Kore13 says:

        “Well believe it or not, you having lost your virginity in college to some loser, and now being intimate with many SDs is even more hookerish than selling your virginity, which some men enjoy more than a used up loose p.”

        I didn’t get paid to lose my virginity and having sex with a loser with money doesn’t make it much better, sweetheart.

        I’ll take men who enjoy sex with women and not almost pubescent girls, thanks.

      • Anonymous says:

        A 25 year old virgin isn’t a pubescent girl.

      • Kore13 says:

        😀 Fuck. So explain instead why it’s appealing to claim a girl’s virginity when she demands 3 mil for it?

      • Anonymous says:

        She doesn’t demand, it’s an auction. The winning bidder gets the girl. I guess some men like having deflowering a girl, probably the older ones, and those who haven’t had a chance ever to do that, since they married sluts.

      • Kore13 says:

        Interesting. I like being a slut though. Even if I weren’t, I’d rather not be with an annoying man.

      • SB TVC15 says:

        Yup! Better a slut, than a good girl screwing a jerk!

      • Kore13 says:

        Yep, i’d rather sleep with more than one man than sleep with one POS.

    • SDaddy says:

      Moron buyer. If he is that loaded he could put a profile up on SA and offer $5000 and he would be swamped in virgins. He would have more virgins in this life than Jihadists would get in Paradise

    • Anonymous says:

      That’s why I’d never say “More power to him”. He just reduced his potential power over countless virgins by bidding $3.7 mil. I don’t know what the bidding process is if he withdrew his bid.

      But this auction has been going on for a while and whether or not anyone pops her allegedly virgin cherry…she has reached her Kardashian moment. Let’s see how she cashes in.

      • Anonymous says:

        If someone is worth 1 billion, 3 mill is spare change for a pleasure. Plus not many virgins are looking for much less, well maybe those African ones but they don’t count. These men want a cute, petite girl who at 25 is still a virgin and to deflower her. ??

      • Anonymous says:

        $3.7 is still a lot of money AND the girl is not that petite or great-looking either. But whatever floats his boat…it’s his money…I guess that he is going after the Kardashian effect as mentioned elsewhere on the blog earlier.

      • Anonymous says:

        I agree, she might do for a million, but for 3.7 she would have to be really cute and pretty.

      • Anonymous says:

        For 3.7 Mil she would have to be made of gold so that you could melt her down after the deed

  47. Anonymous says:

    @flyR
    I think most of us are reasonable ppl. I, for one, think that all flowers should bloom. Whatever women want to ask, is fine.
    Your “research” however does not go deep enough to tell us whether or not there is any correlation between the allowance and the quality. If there is none and it is just a reflection of someone’ greed or delusion, it is worth trying to approach those who request lower allowance. That is the “minimal” argument – when it is not taken to the extreme…

    • Anonymous says:

      There are two types of Minimal:

      1. Escorts quoting their per session rates somewhere under $1000, and

      2. Reasonable women who appreciate what SDs do for them.

    • Anonymous says:

      The argument that is always made by resident SBs that with high allowance comes quality. You want quality, you want a Porsche, pony up the cash.
      As someone who spent a few month on SA, I think nothing is further from the truth than the sentiment above.

      • SDaddy says:

        In my experience , price has nothing to do with quality except to say that some of my best experiences have been with minimal allowance seekers . When expectations are low ,anything higher is appreciated and a treat . Basically if you are looking for a pleasant, sexy 20 yr old girl to recreate with ,I don’t care if she went to Harvard or won the Miss Stanford Beauty Pageant.

        OTOH ,if you are looking for an intellectual equal with whom to watch and play Jeopardy ,go for the Harvard Student

      • elaine says:

        @Anonymous

        Really wonder to what resident SBs you referr when talking about the high allowances vs quality discussion?
        I never heard any of the resident SBs about this!

        I only see ONE “Anonymous”,most probably female, poster stating this every now and then. And since the Anonymous option is only available since some months, I wouldn’t even talk about a “resident” in “its” case.

      • SDaddy says:

        @Elaine

        The question of allowance always comes up in most Sugar discussions . After all,the dilemma for us all is to get a Sugar Person at the best “price” and of the highest “Quality”. Girls want mo Monay ,and guys want more pussy.

      • Anonymous says:

        Women’s arguments are typically ass backwards. That is…if you give more you get better quality.

      • elaine says:

        @SDDaddy

        I agree that this is a topic that always comes up, which is also logical on a sugarblog, But I was only wondering what residents SBs “Anonymous” so explicitly was talking about?

        “The argument that is always made by resident SBs that with high allowance comes quality.”

        Because I never see one of us stating that quality only comes with high allowances…

      • SDaddy says:

        I think it is more the implication that low cost SBs are more of the “escort” ilk and not ladies of class and quality demanding-nay -deserving a high allowance.

      • Anonymous says:

        It’s interesting that @elaine is attributing it to a solo nameless Anonymous.

        That’s EXACTLY what’s erroneously and fairly unanimously implied by women here.

      • elaine says:

        Well, since the total amount of posts linking quality directly with high allowances by “Anonymous” , were maybe 10 in total, so yes I guess it was only one person.
        But even if it were 2, what are we talking about anyway?

        Ha!….resident SBs…..

        As long as some prefer to hide behind “Anonymous”, any kind of discussion loses it’s value anyway.

        Pity the GURU has not yet managed to kick those ones off……

      • Josh says:

        You’re continuing your incorrect assessment of the issue. There have been only whopping TWO blog SBs who have consistently refrained from making fun of Minimal SBs…@Jay and @Sexy. I know for a fact that @Sexy is an awesome SBs for her SD and I can only guess that @Jay is a great catch as well.

      • Anonymous says:

        Just because they have never made fun of them which after all is the polite thing to do, doesn’t mean they are minimal themselves.

      • Josh says:

        Both of them are hot enough to demand whatever they want to demand…that is not the point.

        The point is that shaming Minimal SBs and the SDs who seek them is a pretty frequent phenomenon on the blog and pretending that it is limited to one Anonymous SB is utterly incorrect.

      • elaine says:

        Well, still waiting to hear which resident SBs are always making fun of minimal?

      • Kore13 says:

        Me too.

  48. FLYR says:

    Having nothing better to do during a boring conference call I went searching for knowledge

    Sample size 20,000

    Minimal 2%
    Negotiable 48%
    Practical 14$
    Moderate 17%
    Substantial 11%
    High 7%

    The primary populations were affluent communities on the California Central Coast I would expect the high and substantial to be less other than perhaps NY

    This gives a clue as to why those who search minimal come up empty handed

    • Anonymous says:

      Quantity does not equate quality…that’s why.

      • Anonymous says:

        These Lifestyle Expectations don’t mean diddly squat to me. You will find gems in all categories. You will find duds in all categories. Everything is Negotiable. If you really like a woman message her and meet her regardless of what $ category she put in there. You both might be surprised.

      • Anonymous says:

        Never say never but it would be very difficult, if not impossible, to bring Moderate/Substantial/High down to Minimal or even in the lower range of Practical.

      • Anonymous says:

        And even if she did go low for you she would forever think that she settled for less and will try to nudge you to go higher due to special needs that will keep popping up.

    • Anonymous says:

      @flyR
      And “negotiable” is what?
      You have a magic ball telling you whether they mean “High” or “Minimal”?
      Maybe you should have focused on you conference call?
      Women are always best at doing simple things well.

      • Anonymous says:

        He’s not a woman you idiot. Seems like you haven’t been on this blog long enough to realize that.

        Women are always best at doing simple things. Well maybe sending your mom and sister to be raped by some bcb would be pretty simple.

      • elaine says:

        @Anonymous

        If you would have been long enough on this blog, you would have known @Josh is always calling Flyr and @Fly women. 😉

      • Anonymous says:

        So if he says it, it must be true? I have seen those, but haven’t cared enough as I know that he’s not a woman, lmfao.

      • elaine says:

        @Anonymous

        No of course it is not true, and Josh knows that too!
        He just tries to piss him off by calling him “woman” or “mangina”.
        But @Flyr is wise enough and doesn’t give a damn.

        Believe me, I know @Flyr and there is really nothing female at him! :-)

      • Josh says:

        @flyR is not just a woman…she’s a madame.

    • Anonymous says:

      “Having nothing better to do” would have sufficed. There was no need for “during a boring conference call”.

  49. Kore13 says:

    “Some men will cheat regardless of what their women provide or not provide, but most men won’t cheat if their wives did not equate having sex with doing chores. Men go for strange when their wives start acting strange about sex with them.”

    Never tell a woman that. What reason should the woman have to not counter with, ‘I stopped having sex with you and started having sex with someone else because you treat dealing with my emotions as if it were a chore?”

    I lost all my lust for one of my exes because the relationship wasn’t what I considered good.

    • Anonymous says:

      Dealing with man’s sexual need is defined in scope. Dealing with a woman’s emotional need is a moving and fairly impossible target.

      There are only two ways of dealing with a woman’s emotions…submit to her unconditionally (globally legal)…or whack her (super illegal in the Western world).

      • Kore13 says:

        😀

        Depends on the woman. If you go for someone who is generally happy, positive, confident, etc, this shouldn’t be too hard. Obviously, if you go for the crazy-but-prettiest-chick-interested-right-now, it’s no surprise.

        I think a of men end up settling for less than what they could get.

      • Kore13 says:

        Also, what does, ‘defined in scope,’ mean?

      • Anonymous says:

        Defined in scope means that a man’s erection is always in present. He sticks it in a pussy, pumps a few time and he sleeps like a baby.

        A woman’s emotion has no time and space. It could be based on what he/his family/his friend did or did not do 20 years or could be based on what he/his family/his friend may or may not do 20 years in the future.

      • Anonymous says:

        So dealing with emotions would be to ‘whack her’. I don’t think that super illegal only in the Western world. It’s illegal in the CIVILZED world. A criminal in making.

      • Kore13 says:

        Women are complicated, sure, but it’s BS that men are not. They find it easier to forgive and forget, but they have them too.

        If you deal with a woman in the right way, it could work out..

      • Anonymous says:

        “They find it easier to forgive and forget”

        Bingo…keep digging deeper and you will figure out why it is impossible to please most women. Most women CAN’T forgive and/or forget so as time passes the things needing forgiveness keep piling up until one fine morning she can’t put up with the man.

      • Anonymous says:

        “If you deal with a woman in the right way, it could work out..”

        There’s NO right way to deal with most women. One hour’s right way would be worthless in the next hour. To deal with women “in the right way” is a fulltime occupation, which uber pussy lovers practice…the regular Joe is SOL.

      • Kore13 says:

        With a bit of charm and positive attitude, you can teach a woman how not to be insecure. The reason that these problems show up is because typically, most (especially younger) women are insecure (when you have to compete with others over looks, personality, intimacy [not sexual] etc) and we are designed to compete, man or woman.

        If you counter an argument with a woman in a way that builds trust, but especially her self confidence, it should work out. Most men can’t read between the lines.

      • Kore13 says:

        For example, when a woman bitches unreasonably about another woman, it doesn’t mean anything besides that she is is looking for confirmation that she is dominant to the other for you. If you defend the other woman, you’ve lost. If you tell her instead, ‘Yeah, could be true – I’ll keep an eye out because I didn’t really notice.’ That should suffice.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        @Kore WTF? Anyone with that much issues should be single and have the decency to not burden others with their weaknesses. If you’re that insecure it will never matter what any man says. You need to be a whole person before you try to be in a relationship or it will never work.

      • Kore13 says:

        @Jay I agree, but it’s simply not what’s happeing. It’s not what women and men care to realize, when they are looking for someone (anyone) to spend the rest of their lives with or in being secure in the long term.

        I think what the man does wrong in a relationship, is that he takes things word for word. He doesn’t want to or can’t understand the deeper levels (cause) of emotions that ‘make women nag.’ It requires an incredible amount of tact for any man to really match up to a woman, but it’s just a matter of practice. What the woman does wrong is not wanting to really change. It’s easier to have your feelings justified and accepted than to let things slide (and it’s not always easy, depending on the circumstances). It’s a two way street..

        But as some on the blog have put it, a woman can be trained. I’m not opposed to it since it makes complete sense to find someone who’s skilled in a certain area for guidance. If it’s control over emotions, I’d ask a man (I know few women who take emotional problems as light heartedly as the average man). Some girls just want to hear how unfair or retarded it was that s/he ‘place reason here.’

        Some men succumb to it. They do what they can to build security with the woman – and even if they realize that it’s her own insecurity, they don’t help her gain self-security, which is the real issue. Just to be loved. When it comes to the woman, there’s simply less fear since the chances of finding a replacement isn’t as narrow.

        I don’t like the idea of being a burden to others, sure, but how else is a person supposed to learn except by actually trying? If two people are open to self-improvement, it’s not impossible to have a nice relationship.

    • elaine says:

      @Kore

      Personally I think the biggest lustkiller for women in longer relationships is simply “being taken for granted”

      I personally have a very high sexdrive, but during my marriage I lost all feelings in that department for my ex husband.
      Not because he was not attractive, not because he was not a good lover, but because I felt neglected by him in so many other fields.

      And I know this is not what the cheating husband wants to hear, but it is NOT a decision wives consiously take : “so, from now on I won’t have sex with him anymore”.

      It is a proces where she gradulately just looses all lust and interest in sex.
      That is: if not another man starts giving her this special attention and make her feel like an attractive woman again, instead of a commodity.
      Then you loose her. Because she will discover feelings she thought have died long ago.

      So guys, go ahead, shoot me, the messager, but if you really want to know why your wife doesn’t want sex anymore, here is your answer.
      And I know, because I was one of them.

      I know it is much more popular to think she just has decided to “not put out anymore” because that is “what women do”.

      But the painful truth is, if your wife doesn’t want to have sex with you anymore, there is always a reason.
      Is it your fault?
      Not necessarely.
      Can you do something to it?
      Yes you can, if you think it is worthwhile.

      Sex is in most cases not the main reason to stray, not for men, not for women….

      • maineman2.0 says:

        I agree with much of what you say, however it’s a two way street.

        I can only speak for my own experiences with women, never seem to be satisfied, always wanting more, give more, expect more. That is where the chore begins.

      • elaine says:

        @Maine

        Of course, making a marriage work is always a two way street!

        But I think most men think about it in a much too complicated way.
        Making her feel appreciated is the key to keep MOST women happy.

        And that shouldn’t be as complicated as you guys seem to think it is. It is not rocketscience!

        But it’s a lost cause when you prefer to stick in silly prejudices, as most here prefer to do.

        Which is fine, but then please stop whining about your wives, find yourself a nice SB, let your wife fuck the poolboy, and as a family live relatively happy after all. :-)

      • Anonymous says:

        Most men don’t have to worry about poolboys. But if there’s one…who gives a shit.

      • noname says:

        elaine i agree somewhat with what you said but the bottom line its not sex that breaks a marriage its the fact that one day you realize your not loved anymore can we do more to save a marriage sure we can but in the end we all want to be wanted once thats gone the marriage is dead

      • noname says:

        thanks for sharing this with us i don’t know you well we all have our own different pathways in life but i love the sugar life its so much better than marriage

      • elaine says:

        @Noname

        That is what I said; sex most often is not the main reason for cheating.

        It more often a lack of attention, a search for feeling desired, to feel attractive again, feeling special, feeling loved, feeling wanted…
        For both sides!

        The big difference between men and women, is that a man still can desire sex with the woman that is witholding him all of this, as sex is a physical thing for him.
        Women can’t, as sex for us is more a mental thing. We block and don’t get aroused anymore.

        Not because she wants that, it overcomes her. It is not a “I’ll pay you back by witholding you sex, buddy”

        Her lust just disappears, and she in most cases is not even being aware about the exact reason.
        Check some articles in female magazines and see what a hot topic it is for a lot of women who have lost their appetite for sex.

      • Kore13 says:

        @elaine. Well said. To me, it’s the as having to deal with emotions. They neglect or take forgranted and think everything will work out.. Then wonder why she left. Pfft. Most women don’t have a problem telling their partners what’s ‘wrong.’

      • Kore13 says:

        @noname If a woman doesn’t want to have sex with you anymore, it’s probably because she felt that she isn’t loved first. It’d make sense if we’re we’re the more emotional gender. 😉

    • Anonymous says:

      @elaine

      I know that you are going to get pats on the back from usual suspects but…

      It’s a lost cause…to keep a woman “emotionally satisfied” is more than a full-time job…which men don’t have much energy for after spending 8-10-12 hours per day to put food on the table.

      When men settle with their women, technically they are giving you exclusivity on their lives. Men don’t settle with women to work increasingly hard to keep them “emotionally satisfied”, which is an impossible undertaking to start off with.

      Most women are control-freaks…not because they want to rule the world per se…but they fear whatever the fuck they are fearful of…and want to control their immediate environment.

      What men end up doing…little by little…is to give their women control over their lives. Some women’s fear gets under control with that…many are still miserable with their fear of whatever the fuck they are fearful of…

      Short version…it is impossible to emotionally satisfy a woman on an on-going basis…

      Marriage is more beneficial to women (which men should avoid), regular bf/gf relationship is more beneficial to men (which women should avoid)…the best approach to deal with women is in short bursts…sugar is a perfect setup for both…

      • maineman2.0 says:

        Amen

      • elaine says:

        @Anonymous

        I didn’t post this to get pats on the back, nor for being killed as the messager.
        I posted to give you guys some insight in how most women roll.

        Do with it whatever you want.
        Stick to your prejudices, or try to understand and do something with it.
        Up to you. :-)

        I don’t care, I am single and happy with my sugar and sexlife now. :-)

      • Anonymous says:

        Based on what I gather from your posts you don’t have a boyfriend…therefore you should be happy…that is you have limited sex and limited access to your SDs’ life/time to piss him/them off and make both of you miserable.

      • elaine says:

        @Anonymous

        Yes, that is more or less the situation indeed.

        Me and my SDs see only the best of each other, we enjoy each other for some days and then we both go back to our normal lives.

        And indeed; we don’t have time to piss EACH OTHER off!

        So yes, for both a perfect situation.
        Apart from the fact that I would like to have sex more often.
        But that is where poolboys come in handy. 😉

        Yes, I am generally quite happy with this situation.
        (This should also answer the question of some why I am in sugar at my age)
        Because I like it, not because I have to.

      • Kore13 says:

        @Anon Pats on the back for telling the truth? I’ll even give her a back massage for that. 😛

        If only it were that simple – if only enjoying a few thrusts would resolve issues. But when a woman tell you, that there could be a cause for dissatisfaction in a relationship, i don’t see any reason to ARGUE. Either understand and make efforts to improve a situation or separate. Trying to justify logically when emotions are involved will never work with anyone, including men. (Who are not as robotic as your gender would like to believe.)

        Control over a man’s life will never solve anything. Any woman who has had any success doing that will realize. It’s about being clever and adapting to the situation to achieve the desired outcome. We can generalize and we can give each other tips, but being defensive is a bit stupid.

    • Anonymous says:

      If a man gets a few good years out of a woman…he should be happy and move on to the next…trying to drag the “relationship” unnecessarily will cause him pretty penny…

      Most women behave as unmotivated employees who only perform when they are in need of X…and as soon as they get the “tenure” they stop performing.

      Most “successful” marriages have a little boy in emotional leash by his momma.

    • SDaddy says:

      This entire segment is a thoughtful aggregate of truth.

      Bottom line as I see it : 1)men want sex over everything else, 2)women want emotional security as well as financial, 3) Pleasing women emotionally is a full time job and impossible ,hence 4) marriage is ill advised for men and necessary for women

      • SB TVC15 says:

        Bah.

        {http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/science-news/11668417/Marriage-is-more-beneficial-for-men-than-women-study-shows.html}

      • SB TVC15 says:

        From Wikipedia:

        The health-protective effect of marriage is stronger for men than women.[2][3] Marital status — the simple fact of being married — confers more health benefits to men than women.[2] Women’s health is more strongly impacted than men’s by marital conflict or satisfaction, such that unhappily married women do not enjoy better health relative to their single counterparts.[2][3][11] Laboratory studies indicate that women have stronger physiological reactions than men in response to marital conflict.[2][3]

        These gender differences may be partially due to men’s and women’s relative status in a relationship.[3] Research in humans and animals suggests subordinate status is linked to greater physiological reactions to social stress.[3] Indeed subordinate spouses show greater physiological reactions to arguments with their partner.[12] Both husbands and wives show stronger physiological reactions to arguments when making demands for change from their partner.[13][14] Women’s heightened physiological reactions to marital conflict may be due to their relative subordinate position in marriage.[3]

      • SB TVC15 says:

        suga4lyfe

      • Anonymous says:

        BS “science” = worthless. I have been reading this BS for decades.

      • SB TVC15 says:

        Thanks for letting me know. No point debating people who prefer their own opinions to hard evidence.

      • Anonymous says:

        Denying willing wife variety is hight of idiocy.

      • SB TVC says:

        You’d think. But men seem to get stuck in a rut more easily than women do.

        That’s just my opinion, and I have no hard evidence for it. 😉

      • Anonymous says:

        The last comment was response to your comments in a different thread.

      • SB TVC15 says:

        I knew. :)

      • Kore13 says:

        “BS “science” = worthless. I have been reading this BS for decades.”

        The copy paste she posted didn’t state anything that wasn’t obvious. If you want to say that unhappily married women are doing better than their single counterparts, your opinion of science wouldn’t matter – you can’t grasp common sense.

  50. ... says:

    Slim pickings in the SB World eh? What is ebd32c821 thinking? She has the audacity to call herself a hot mama!!

    • SDaddy says:

      Well, at least she’s honest about being curvy and a few extra Lbs .

    • Anonymous says:

      That is one of the scariest looking woman I have seen in a while.

    • Anonymous says:

      OMFG and she wants Moderate?

      • Anonymous says:

        She wants a Moderate amount of Big Macs and fries.

      • Bruce Wayne says:

        Repeat after me:

        There is no correlation between requested allowance and desirability

        There is no correlation with net worth/income and generosity

        There is no correlation between

    • Jaybird923 says:

      SHe has private pictures! Some one please request them and report back.

    • Kore13 says:

      Audacity? Tumblr influence rubbing off on you?

      She’s not pretty, whatever. You don’t need to link her here to shame her for her looks.

      • SB TVC15 says:

        I agree. There’s no need to tear someone down just because she’s not pretty enough for you.

      • Frank95 says:

        +1

        There are guys who find larger women attractive.

        Just because someone is not my style does not mean that the next guy has to feel the same as I. Nor that a woman is any less attractive because I don’t think so.

        If she finds a guy on this site who appreciates her, she can have the last laugh. At least she can say she tried.

      • Anonymous says:

        Jeez…are we in the junior high?
        Where everyone is, like, special? Where, like, everyone can become a rock star or, like, an astronaut? If you only put, like, your mind to it?
        Please…if you are 3 feet tall, you will not play in the NBA…deal with it.

      • Kore13 says:

        It’s in junior high that it’s important what game cards you have, which books, music, looks are in trend… Yes, everyone is special in their own way, but being an adult doesn’t have anything to do with sharing with the public something that is this obvious. It’s petiful.

    • SouthernSB says:

      I have nothing to say.

  51. Anonymous says:

    I think it is possible that both parties to a marriage have their libidos decline simultaneously. That – if all other things are going well – may ensure the success of this marriage.
    However, if she wants to eat her Doritos and watch Netfix and he wants to bang that hot college student… I am sure Josh Duggar would suggest that man turn to His Lord, to fight the temptation.

    • SDaddy says:

      Libido decline worked until Vitamin V–THE Blue Pill. Older women everywhere were cursing the Company that brought their husbands penises back to life. Unfortunately nobody have brought Mama’s vagina -and brain -back

      • SouthernSB says:

        WHO ARE THESE WOMEN????? I am 50 and I have not lost a bit of my libido. I don’t curse viagra I celebrate it!! At least now those old geezers can keep up with me. The only thing menopause did to me is turn me from a babymaker to a playstation. I don’t think these men are doing it right, because nothing, not one thing has happened to me. All the time I hear you guys bitch about women your own age, and I just cannot relate. I don’t know about you but I am horny most of the time and I am still tight as I was when I was 20. Maybe you all aren’t any good at making love and your wives are frigid. It’s a shame that the men in this place think that I have more than “hit the wall” because I could give you all a run for your money.

      • elaine says:

        Hi @Southern!

        “The only thing menopause did to me is turn me from a babymaker to a playstation”

        You’re not only horny, you are funny too! :-)

      • SDaddy says:

        @Southern

        Well said ! There are exceptions to every rule . I forget whether you have mentioned before ,but I believe you are single ? And have you had kids ?

        The thing is, Biologically ,women who are menopausal have completed their destiny to reproduce, and as such have lost much of their hormone support that drives libido. Plus,many are married to guys who are not making an effort anymore to appeal to her sexuality. They have gotten fat,slobby,drink too much,and do not romance her anymore . Couple that with her massive weight gain,depression ,and loss of effort it is a nightmare.

        Plus guys just get tired of the same pussy. They might still love their wife but sex is just not interesting anymore . Hence the 20 yr old sex machine ! Voila’

    • Anonymous says:

      @SouthernSB
      I want to say it very kindly…but I will say it anyway.
      An overweight woman in her 50s may think she is in her prime…but, how can I put it…she is not.
      So even if she thinks she can start fires….a 20 year old picking her nose or scratching her butt…is way way way way better positioned.
      No offense. But my mum always told me not to eat food beyond its expiration date…

      • Jaybird923 says:

        well damn! I wonder what you would’ve said if you weren’t trying to be kind

      • Catcher 22 says:

        @Southern. More power to you. Your line about menopause transforming you from babymaker to playstation should be in the next edition of “Bartlett’s”

        @Jay. LMAO. :-)

      • SB TVC15 says:

        If you would rather get with Lindsay Lohan than Helen Mirren, then there’s nothing anybody can say that will improve your taste.

  52. Josh says:

    Married women would try to argue that they don’t want to have sex with their men IF they are not nice to them. Yes it may be true in some cases…some men could be real assholes in dealing with their wives…

    However, most women lose interest in sex, which basically becomes “physical labor” for them. Then the law hand them their husband’s balls as 50% ownership of his assets and in many cases current and future income…THAT is recipe for them to go on strike at will.

    • Anonymous says:

      Divorce laws are women-centric in this country. A man works his ass off to earn a net worth of 2 Billion dollars. His wife divorces him and gets 1 Billion dollars? Her pussy must be solid gold and encrusted with rare diamonds! What pussy is worth 1 Billion dollars? You don’t need to work hard. Just marry well and find a great divorce lawyer.

  53. AIDS says:

    I heard that Charlie Sheen is looking for sugar babies.

    Any takers? He is offering a High allowance.

  54. ANunaMoose says:

    Married women have flings as well. While a married SD is being a Minute man with his SB. His wife is probably getting her black blown out by her young, handsome next door neighbor who no doubt lasts more than her limp dicked straying hubby.

    • Minute Man says:

      Yeah, but that minute is fantastic ! Better 1 minute in a nubile 20 yr old vagina than 40 minutes with a 50 yr old menopausal hormone deficient crankster. YMMV

    • Anonymous says:

      Shaming language doesn’t work here. If he cared about his wife’s vagina he wouldn’t be seeking a different one.

      The real loser is the young next door neighbor who has to settle for a woman his mamma’s age instead of chasing a younger pussy.

      • ANunaMoose says:

        It’s not settling if he enjoys it. It takes two to tango and it’s his choice to bang an older, more experienced woman.

      • Anonymous says:

        I would rather fuck two 20 year old pussies than one 40 year old vagina.

      • Anonymous says:

        I am with you on that.
        Moreover, I would rather fuck three 20 year old pussies than one 60 year old…

      • Kore13 says:

        “I would rather fuck two 20 year old pussies than one 40 year old vagina.”

        😀

        Well, I don’t get what the big deal is. So many older men don’t cheat on their wives who are around the same age as them. I don’t get how there’s so much shame attached to all this.

      • Anonymous says:

        I would prefer five 20 year-old pussies over that thang.

      • Anonymous says:

        Some men will cheat regardless of what their women provide or not provide, but most men won’t cheat if their wives did not equate having sex with doing chores. Men go for strange when their wives start acting strange about sex with them.

      • Anonymous says:

        Yeah just like his wife would rather fuck two 20-30 year olds rather than him, likewise.

      • SB TVC15 says:

        Remember, if a man cheats, it’s always the woman’s fault.

      • Anonymous says:

        I would rather fuck five 20 year old girls than one 100 year old hag.

        I am good at math!

      • Anonymous says:

        It’s correct that a new man would keep a woman engaged for a while and she may perform some robust sex to “get even” with her older man.

        But it is a myth that women would enjoy sex with younger men without giving him cold shoulders after a short while.

      • Anonymous says:

        A younger man is on autopilot…so it may not be his woman’s fault. But when an older man cheats most of the times it is woman’s fault.

      • SB TVC15 says:

        Naturally.

      • Anonymous says:

        SB, we got your point
        Men are pigs.
        It is never a woman’s fault…

      • SB TVC15 says:

        Actually, that’s not what I said, OR meant. The guys here don’t have much trouble saying the converse, though.

  55. SB/SD says:

    Do the Admins answer requests? Provide a general a SB/SD Forum, instead of this blog format!!

  56. Anonymous says:

    “In the US you are guilty until proven innocent.”

    USA is now United States of Gossipistan. If you’re not able to cash in the gossip about you then someone else will.

    • Anonymous says:

      Gloria Allred, Nancy Grace, Al Sharpton, Twitter, TMZ, Facebook, etc.
      You are tried, convicted, and executed in the public’s eye long before the ink on your court papers is even dry. There is no consequence to the people who filed against you if you were found innocent of any charges. But your life is over anyway.

  57. Gentle says:

    @Bill Cosby

    I know everyone zipped around that topic in the rape discussion ,but what do you all think about this ? Somehow this profiteering decades later smacks of BS to me . What IF -20 years down the road you get a call from SB #18 stating you did this -or that ? There is a statute of limitations for a reason .

    • Anonymous says:

      There is no statute of limitations for coercion, extortion, legalized blackmail, and publicity seeking. If you noticed these women are not filing criminal complaints but civil complaints. They want MONEY !!!!!
      If you did not file a complaint within 3 days of an alleged rape, why should you be able to file one 30 years from now? In the US you are guilty until proven innocent.

      • Anonymous says:

        If a homeless person “raped” them, they file criminal complaints. But if a celebrity or professional athlete “raped” them they file civil complaints. Can’t squeeze money from a homeless man can they? It is all about the money. Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise. They don’t care about “justice”. They want to get rich.

    • Bruce Wayne says:

      I think he abused his power and is guilty. I am having a hard time believing so many women came forward with similar stories. There is also the deposition that confirms some things.

      • Anonymous says:

        I have no problems sending a rapist or a molester to prison. PRISON!!!!!! Let him be raped and molested by his cellmate.
        I have HUUUUGE problems about filing a civil case against that same person 40 years after the fact to extort money. Like I said, there is no interest in justice. Only MONEY!!!!!!

  58. enila says:

    Hello Love
    I’m call girl, who wants too much sex and yummy, send my e-mail;enilamorena07@gmail.com
    am from the Brazil, paying off well
    I travel up to you

  59. elaine says:

    OK, to get away from the rape issue and satisfy my curiosity:

    How many of you blog Sds find it important your SB enjoys the sex and gets an orgasm?

    • Kore13 says:

      @Elaine good quesstion. I’m interested in the answers as well. :) I’m guessing that most won’t care that much?

      • Gentle says:

        I deeply care but will tolerate willingness to do whatever to get my “O”. I have that now and am looking for a replacement. My current SB admits to anhedonia. It sucks for her but my partners reaction is so enjoyable for me . Also her reaction guides me to the next step necessary to pleasure her even more .

      • Kore13 says:

        Anhedonia? I wouldn’t be able to tolerate that. Sounds like a total turn off. A part of sex being pleasurable is knowing that the other person is receiving pleasure from me. If they can’t/don’t, I would run for the door.

    • Josh says:

      I enjoy my SB’s reaction to my doings more than my ejaculation.

      Whether it’s sugar or non-sugar, that’s just me.

      That said, sugar is SD’s party and SBs should focus on him…to entice him back the for the next round on a different day.

      However, since many women are self-serving entities for the most part, they would want their SD to open doors for them, provide money and gifts to them…AND care for their orgasms more than his ejaculation.

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        You last only 1 minute dear, it’s hard to concentrate on you with your disgusting, disease ridden and ‘salty’ in a literal sense, ejaculation coming out of that thing.

        But I am sure Brad Pitt would let you lick his butt for free.

      • Josh says:

        @Batshit

        If you think that you can harass me, through your idiotic rants, into posting as @Anonymous then you can’t. Keep trying.

        The GURU posts as he wishes.

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        Thank GURU everyone knows you’re crazy and a looney, my humble GURU.

        I will continue to harass you until you go back to the mental institution from where you escaped.

    • Anonymous says:

      elaine a more important question is are there any SB that are interested in sex that arn’t pro’s on this site what i see on the profiles are not promising if they are pro’s disgused as SB then who cares they are getting paid but if they are real sugar babies then yes you want them to enjoy it and not be a one way street

      • elaine says:

        @Anonymous

        Wait, no you lost me:

        “elaine a more important question is are there any SB that are interested in sex that arn’t pro’s on this site”

        So you are saying pro’s are interested in sex and SBs not?!

        Well i think a lot of SBs are interested in sex, and most pro’s not (that is; other as a being it their source of income.)

        @Bruce @Bob

        I completely agree with you, but sometimes I hear different sounds here?
        ….Probably the same guys that complain their SB is a “dead fish”? 😉

    • Bruce Wayne says:

      It is very important to me. It is hard to have great sex if both people aren’t having a good time.

    • Bob says:

      Elaine
      Yup. I figure the more she enjoys it [and I do want her to] the more enthusiastic she will be, so it ends up going well for both of us. This has been my experience. After the first orgasm she is always very, very keen for another and goes for it full tilt.
      The only proviso is that I am in a LT arrangement, so that approach may not work with an occasional romp where there is little to no emotional investment.

    • noname says:

      yes elaine why wouldn’t you want your sugar baby to have as much fun as you are having it is suppose to be mutually beneficial

  60. Albert pena says:

    I have caught a lady trying to defraud money from myself. I find this to be quite chilling that she won’t get caught. I won’t her kicked off this site permanently to never return. The severity is a direct reflexion on your site to allow such illegal activity. Scarlett Peavy is the lady and I need to clear this matter up. I told her this morning no but kept up with her nasty remarks which is totally not at professional. Please contact me in the morning as I’m going to thevpolice

  61. Anonymous says:

    Arrangements vs.pursuits

    I have great arrangements, but I miss pursuits. The chase, the messaging, the first dinners.
    It seems foolish to look for new ones, once you found the good ones and you know they are good ones. But now I can not take a New One on board without giving one of my current SBs a pink slip. And I do not feel anyone should get a pink slip, I like them all…
    I mentally go over my existing lineup and think that any man would – and should – be content with one. Any one. But I cannot decide which one and so I look for more…
    I hope it makes sense.

    • Maybe says:

      Maybe you’re an idiot?

      • Maybe Probably Likely says:

        Maybe. Probably.
        But it is a lot more likely u are plain jealous? Probably jerking off to whatever porn site?
        At least I am an idiot with three different hot chicks I rotate weekly.
        Jealous much?

      • Probably says:

        Maybe not.

      • Anonymous says:

        How much are you paying these chicks on rotation?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Either you’re young or you’re a woman. I have never heard a heterosexual man utter the words “jealous much” And if you’re neither of those I kindly suggest you drop that from your vocabulary.

      • Anonymous says:

        @jay, why because men don’t use jealous, can’t be jealous? Who are you to suggest someone drops a word from their vocabulary…

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Why is it always mental midgets who insist on starting arguments with me?

        1)Show me where I said men don’t get jealous or use the word jealous.

        2)That’s an absolutely ridiculous question. It’s like asking someone who are they to suggest the fish instead of the chicken. Someone with a little more gray matter would probably ask “why did you make that suggestion?”

        3)Who are you to take exception to my suggestion?

      • Anonymous says:

        I made an assumption of your suggestion bolt-on tits. Learn the difference.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        1) That makes even less sense it probably would’ve been better if you didn’t say anything at all. 2) We’ve already established that you don’t have the mental capacity to do so, but at least try to come up with your own insults and jokes. Or at very least quote them properly. The car as a net worth thing, this …

      • Jaybird923 says:

        3) Don’t use words you don’t understand assumption does have more than one syllable but it’s not difficult a word to understand

      • Anonymous says:

        BOLT ON TITS (quote borrowed from F’Bsatard).

      • Probably says:

        As @Jay alluded above, the @Anon is probably a woman posting as a man…her responses are too catty.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        They really should make people take an IQ test before issuing internet services. That way we can limit the number of people who are subjected to the rampant stupidity that plagues online communities.

        @Anonymous Fat bastard calls me bolt on boobs or Jay boobs not bolt on tits hence the reason behind telling you if you’re going to “borrow” other peoples stuff quote it correctly.

      • Anonymous says:

        And the difference is? It’s still bolt on. Why not go natural?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        They are natural you fucking idiot lol I always get a kick out the whole implant thing. Maybe you guys should elect a representative to come examine them and report back on what he finds LMAO

      • Bruce Wayne says:

        I will take one for the team and volunteer to inspect her “bolt ons” I promise to promptly report back on their autenticity :)

      • Bruce Wayne says:

        I will take one for the team and volunteer to inspect her “bolt ons” I promise to promptly report back on their authenticity :)

      • Jaybird923 says:

        @Bruce It is so brave of you to volunteer to perform such an arduous task. You should be commended :-))

      • Anonymous says:

        Its good to stay abreast of things

    • SD says:

      You are a sex addict,as much as an alcoholic craves it ,you do so with sex. I get it -and probably am one as well. The compulsion to acquire more and more is a sign. If it is not interfering with your life/relationships/work productivity then have at it . Dumping an admitted satisfying relationship to get a new one is sign #2 . I could go on ,but you get the point .

    • Bruce Wayne says:

      No problem — I am very selfless :)

      I might need to confirm that you are female also

      • Jaybird923 says:

        LMAO I have been accused of being a proxy for a lot of the male bloggers. We might as well kill two birds with one stone. :-)

      • noname says:

        bruce its good of you for trying to resolve this problem i would suggest you look at this from many angles to make sure you have a clear view of the of the problem and make sure you have a firm grasp of the problem to make sure you don’t get deceived into any false pretences im sure jaybird will give you her fullest coopetation in resoving this dispute good luck into your investagation and i expect a full report to blog members to lay this to rest

      • Jaybird923 says:

        @noname Of course! He has my full cooperation. But maybe we should make it a two person team…for a second opinion. I want to lay this matter to rest once and for all. :-))

      • noname says:

        jaybird id be happy to give a second opinion if bruce has any doubts

      • Anonymous says:

        I am a double arm amputee so I need to use my mouth to examine them.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        ROTFLMAO Okay Mr double arm amputee you win. No point in continuing the joke I can’t top that. Hats off to you my friend :-)

  62. Anonymous says:

    Probably we should get off the subject of rape?
    Probably nothing good will come out of it?

  63. Probably says:

    Probably you’re secretly yearning to get fired?

  64. Jaybird923 says:

    Sorry that last anonymous was me. I’m on my work computer

  65. Another Anonymous says:

    @ Jay

    Many European jurisdictions take or used to take quite different approach. For example a lady intoxicated with regular alcohol could not claim a lack of consent, because an otherwise healthy adult woman should know the effects of alcohol. Or visiting a man in his hotel room in late evening hours was considered a de facto consent.

    • Anonymous says:

      You said some of them used to take that approach. Do you know of a nation that use to take that approach and has stopped? If yes, do you know the reasoning behind the change in their policies?

      The alcohol thing makes sense not sure about the going to the hotel room equals consent. Even if she went once she changes her mind and says no as frustrating as it may be you should stop otherwise you’re committing a crime.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Sorry that last anonymous was me. I’m on my work computer. It would help if I posted in the right place :-))

    • Anonymous says:

      De facto consent to go to a hotel room? Lol

  66. Anonymous says:

    @jay- it’s also possible that there wasn’t anything sexual at all and the SB was turned down or he didn’t agree to her demands so she now claims rape, doesn’t go to the police but notifies SA.

    • Anonymous says:

      Go to the ER, get examined, DNA samples collected, police notified = RAPE.

      Go online, complain to SA, call the guy a “salt daddy”, cry boo hoo to your Tumblr and Instagram social network = NOT RAPE.

  67. AnonMan24SD says:

    Lol! e848b1421
    Not a chance honey! Just another scammer!

    • Horndog says:

      What is wrong with this profile? She is explicit about what she is not offering. The ones who are sly, coy, devious, and tricky are the ones you need to watch for. I just look at this profile and hit the back button. She will go to Tumblr University and learn about effective rinsing. She will come back with a more “subtle” profile.

  68. Josh says:

    So many women claim this blog to be unimportant but still try to bump off bloggers they don’t like. Interesting indeed. 😉

    • SB Monkey's Sister says:

      The only blogger who most of the anons, former bloggers, sb monkey and me dislike is the self proclaimed full of shit GURU. I hope this blog is enough to compensate for that shitty, lonely life you fattie . I love seeing this Brad Pitt avatar, it gives me the joy to respond to it.

    • Josh says:

      Whatever floats your boat @LadyScarlet = @SB Monkey = @Batshit

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        I am not Lady Scarlett but she was right about your proxies.

      • Josh says:

        Of course you are not…wink wink.

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        What an enormous idiot our GURU is. He still doesn’t know that whenever he comes out, many ill wishers do too. It’s cute and naive. (blows kisses)

      • Anonymous says:

        @Batshit

        The GURU shows up from time to time for reasons. And as far as “still doesn’t know” bit, you are incorrect.

        The GURU made statements about this specific issue recently. So eat your heart out…you insignificant ill wisher.

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        The GURU should know it’s stupid to refer to oneself in the third person. Have you escaped from the asylum these days and found an internet connection?

  69. Josh says:

    @Jaybird923

    “Rape isn’t a joking matter and to use it as a way to get even/hurt some one is inexcusable. Any one proven to be making false claims should be prosecuted.”

    How many district attorneys have interest in prosecuting women for false rape claims? Not many.

    • Anonymous says:

      There are false accusations but many more rapes that go unreported, due to shame or because rape is not taken seriously like victim blaming.

      • Kore13 says:

        @Anon Isn’t anyone trying to change these policies?????

      • Anonymous says:

        Or this woman can wait 40 years then hire Gloria Allred and go on public and accuse this SD of “raping” her. That seems to be the latest fad nowadays. I can’t even remember what I did yesterday and I was sober but these women have a clear recollection of what happened 40 years ago while drugged and drunk.

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        @Anon it’s a traumatic experience. If one can prove it, it’s a very serious matter.

    • Kore13 says:

      @Josh Last I checked, the U.S. still used the death penalty. If they can allow the risk of killing innocent people, why don’t they prosecute false accusators as well?.. What’s the worst that can happen to a woman who falsely claimed rape? And if it turns out that she wasn’t lying, she’ll be ‘free.’

    • Jaybird923 says:

      @Josh It would be an unpopular fight with very little support. It would draw out the “feminist” and the Nancy Grace types. He’d be the one put on trial. Any District attorney who even attempted to would probably find him self out of a job.

      • Anonymous says:

        What is your opinion of alternative? Is there a country or system that you agree with in how they handle rape cases?

      • Josh says:

        Functionally-speaking Common Law (innocent until proven guilty) is the best justice system out there. It is the political use of Common Law that is the problem.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        I haven’t really looked into how many other countries handle these situations. But probably will tonight when I get home. Now that you’ve brought it up I’m curious. The way handle things in the US is flawed. Either the suspect is treated as guilty until proven innocent or the victim is put on trial and treated like she was asking for it. I think claiming rape when it didn’t actually happen should be treated like a crime. Just look at that Duke University case that chick ruined those guys lives for no reason and nothing happened to her.

    • Josh says:

      I though about writing a response to @Kore’s post but then I say @Jay’s post…well said…

      I would add…since logic has nothing to do with dealing with women…going after lying women would soon be equated with harassing women so that they don’t report rapes that actually happened…that as @Jay wrote would cause the district attorney to lose his job or elected position.

  70. Kore13 says:

    @Gentle “Do any of you bi-chicks ever get a “lady” to answer?”

    I am not exactly bi. I am not physically attracted to women, but I am not opposed to recreational activities with them (the sexiest thing about a person is their mind). I’ve exchanged messages with one SM. Also, a SD contacted me on behalf of his bi wife.

    • Gentle says:

      @Kore
      That’s cool ! I see it on a lot of profiles in my area and I was not aware that there were SMs available . Actually ,I would love to play with 2 women who were into group sex.

  71. Anonymous says:

    I believe that this one lives in Transylvania ed06cf721…married…seeking High allowance…no sex, just friendship.

  72. Josh says:

    I thank those regulars who heeded GURU’s request to refrain from giving advice to SBs on this blog.

    Most of those SBs had bad attitude to start off with…bad attitude toward men in general, bad attitude toward SDs and most obnoxiously bad attitude toward the advice givers who tried to help them in good will.

    • Anonymous says:

      GURU my ass. Fuck you!!!

    • Jaybird923 says:

      Now that you’ve mentioned it there has been a reduction in people asking for help. I don’t know if that’s because there’s been an improvement in the new stock of SBs or because they weren’t brave enough to subject themselves to the “help” of SA blog participants :-)

    • Josh says:

      Allegedly this blog is not read by a whole lot of people…

      Therefore, logically speaking…

      If women just stopped asking for advice then it would not affect the quality of the crop.

      If the crop were better, it would definitely affect the number of SBs asking questions.

      The only way this blog can affect the crop is if a whole lot of SBs were reading it and decided to shape up instead of getting shipped out…

      Who knows…

    • SB Monkey's Sister says:

      When the cat is away, the mice come out to play.

  73. Anonymous says:

    Can someone do photo search to see ebd4e7721 using some celebrity photos off the Internet? The photos are just too professional-looking to me.

    • Anonymous says:

      the second pic in the red dress comes back as a “meet the kartrashians look a like” so more then likely they are off the WWW

      even if that is actually her who in their right mind would want a SB that aspires to look like a fat assed piece of used up filth

      big bulbous asses like that are not attractive they are just fat and they look all the worse when you are running around sticking them out all over the place

      • Jaybird923 says:

        If you’re naturally born with one there’s nothing you can do about it but embrace it and accept and love yourself the way you are. But what I don’t get is the people going under the knife to reproduce the look.

      • Kore13 says:

        @Anon If she’d put effort into keeping her body that way, it’s probably not because the men around don’t like it. (Well, if she’s open to intimacy, anyway. Attention grabbing could also be a reason.)

        Don’t see why she might be fake. Just because a girl is pretty doesn’t mean she can’t be real.

  74. Josh says:

    For those SDs who were disappointed in the quality of women at SA…rejoice.

    The current crop is behaving fairly well. So if you let your membership lapsed then you might want to give it a go for at least a month to see if the GURU’s assessment is correct.

    Note that we don’t have SBs after SBs coming here asking for the reasons of their lack of sugar success. The new crop is reasonable in their expectations and most likely is getting arrangements/allowances from SDs.

  75. Josh says:

    Happened to see August: Osage County last night. As soon as I saw yelling women I knows that someone was going to be nominated for Oscars…lo and behold both yelling women get nominated…as if the Academy is on autopilot to do such things.

    By the way…did Julia Roberts puffed up her lips as well? It seems as if every single one of them envys AJ’s lips.

  76. Jaybird923 says:

    SB on Instagram says a “salt” raped her. She didn’t report him to the authorities because she didn’t want any one to know she was a SB. But she did report him to SA. She deleted her account and opened a new one on SA so she could start “fresh”.

    This is a direct quote “I will report that individual again for being a salt and a disgusting person who thinks taking advantage of young person is a brilliant idea”

    This makes absolutely no sense to me. For some reason I’m getting the feeling that in this case rape = I slept with him and he didn’t give me what he promised…

    • Anonymous says:

      yes, that is more like it, not exactly rape, just a dickhead

    • Probably says:

      Probably she changed her mind, after the fact, when the amount slipped in her purse was not enoungh.

      • Anonymous says:

        Maybe there was no amount at all. Still doesn’t excuse his awful scammer behaviour.

      • Maybe says:

        Maybe there was too.

      • Anonymous says:

        @not enough $
        So I wined and dined a Pot, asked if she would like to enjoy some private time-which she answered Yes. I asked her what she was expecting allowance -wise –several times,and she answered “whatever”. We did the dirty,she seemed to enjoy herself according to the decibel count and I dropped $200 in her purse on leaving . The next day I asked for a regular arrangement and she said $800. Needless to say we never met again. I guess the big dog was not enough to override her basic greed .

        The point is – ladies need to be clear about their expectations, or be satisfied with “whatever”. She might have been disappointed but it is her fault for not being assertive.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Well at least it wasn’t chocolate coins…

    • Anonymous says:

      Like the alleged “SB’s” on IG are known to tell the truth? $15K anyone?

    • noname says:

      jaybird she didn’t report the rape because she didn’t want anyone to know she was a SB why is she one then people are going to find out eventually and i agree with the other anons with what they wrote sugar dating is no different than any other online dating with all the risks that come with it and did SA delete this SD account i think what happened she didn’t receive what she thought she was going to get maybe im old fashion i don’t think you should be talking about a SB or a SD on a public forum

      • Jaybird923 says:

        She said SA contacted her to discuss it after she reported the “incident” but that was all. They probably came to the same conclusion that we did.

        A lot of rape victims don’t report the crime so that didn’t ring any alarm bells for me what did was the fact that she started a new profile. Who gets raped by a SD and start a new profile so you can continue your search for another one? Plus she keeps calling him salty which led me to believe this whole thing is just about money.

        You “SDs” have to stop being stupid if you promised a certain amount just deliver. This guy is lucky she didn’t go to the authorities but the next one might. Is scamming a woman out of a couple of dollars really worth the potential destruction of your life? Even if it doesn’t make it to court the investigation alone is enough to ruin you.

      • noname says:

        jaybird i agree with your observations if a SD promises something he should deliver but i think he promise her a sum he couldn’t pay so that he could get what he wanted that would be fraud

      • Josh says:

        No amount of money is high enough to risk women’s rape allegations in the fucking western world where governments are proxies to female agenda and men…especially white and black men are fair game.

      • elaine says:

        Well, the question is if it is to be called “rape” when an SB has sex with an SD who promised her money in return and doesn’t deliver it?
        Her calling him “salt” instead of what names most people would call a “rapist”, leaves me the impression this might have been the case?

        Or was it sex against her will? Did he forced himself upon her?
        Would she have agreed upon having sex with him without an allowance?
        Did she had sex with him because she felt it was the only way to get out?

        I have mixed feelings on this one, it is a thin line.
        Personally I wouldn’t call it rape, but bad luck or bad screening, and I would be majorly pissed off, but try to learn from it and move on.

        But if indeed it was rape, I couldn’t care less what an officer would think, and I would report him.

        To avoid ever feeling “raped” (or better “scammed”) , I only date men in sugar whom I find attractive and like to have sex with in any case.

        It happened to me once, at my very first SA date, being scammed that way.
        But he was very attractive, we had a great night, so I just shrugged my shoulders and moved on.
        Lucky for him, because he is married and quite well known. I could have caused him a lot of trouble, but for me it was just not worth all that negative energy.

      • Josh says:

        In a society where wives can accuse their husbands of rape…no man is safe. Men who choose to take this reality lightly are idiots.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        A bigger problem is the women who cry wolf. They make it that much harder for actual victims to get justice. Rape isn’t a joking matter and to use it as a way to get even/hurt some one is inexcusable. Any one proven to be making false claims should be prosecuted.

      • Kore13 says:

        I’m guessing she must’ve started out platonic and he managed to convince her otherwise after a few drinks? Maybe she even got her money and can’t report it because it’d be prostitution? We can speculate..

        I just don’t understand how rape wouldn’t be reported. It’s a pretty serious thing and no one in their right mind would let a rapist get away with what he’d done – at least they’d make an effort that he doesn’t repeat what he’d done?

        @Elaine Sorry to hear that. That was what I mentioned before about attitude making a big difference. :) He must’ve been an extra special butthole, though, for pulling it off while putting his marriage at risk. 😛

      • elaine says:

        @Kore

        Well, as I said, it was not a big deal, as I had a lot of fun and great sex that night.
        But it would have been even more fun if he would had kept up his part of the agreement.
        BTW, he is still on SA, listed for “high”.

        But it was a wise lesson!

        And yes, it was a stupid move from him, he is quite a public person with some strange “habits”, so I could have harmed him badly.
        Which, lucky for him, is not in my nature.

      • Anonymous says:

        @Josh believe it or not even in marriage rape can occur. It has nothing to do with it

    • Kore13 says:

      @Jay Don’t they provide identity protection to victims?..

      Being raped and not reporting it is absolutely stupid, if that is what really happened.

    • Anonymous says:

      I think this goes back to something I commented before and why I give advice about how rare it is to find a guy that actually CAN give large amounts per month ($6,000+) consistently. You get these girls that start to believe that “if he can’t or won’t give that much well plenty of others will” and they start to think it will be easy to find a guy that will pay that much. They end up getting all excited for the money and letting their guard down and it turns out what there actually are PLENTY of is guys that will scam those stupid girls and leave them with $500 dollars and a situation where it would be next to impossible for them to claim rape or do much about being scammed. So their only defense it so run around claiming rape on the internet and screaming salty and eventually they will probably come back with some stupid made up story about the “perfect” SD that is giving them a ton of money each month for next to no expectations to save face. And Repeat with new naive stupid girls that are greedy and financially challenged. As Elaine wisely said if you stick to guys you actually have some interest and attraction to starting out and let the money only be a part of the deal you will be a lot better off. When it is all about the money just admit that, accept it and stop pretending you have one or two super generous SDs and instead just admit you have 6-8 weekly SDs that adds up to a nice income.

  77. Pliny the Elder says:

    WTF is @yougottabefuckinkiddingme ??

    • Probably says:

      Probably hiding from you.
      Stalker much?

    • Maybe says:

      Maybe not.

    • THEATLSD says:

      At least someone knows good beer Pliny the Elder. Can you get me a case of it?

    • yougottabekiddingme says:

      Babe got me in trouble with the blog flashlight police.

      Told ’em I was a force to be reckoned with, and that I do what I want.

      Lies, I tell ya! All lies!!! Except for that last part, kinda mostly.

      Flashlight blog cop said not on his watch, and not at the expense of humanity (the blog).

      And then blog flashlight cop put me on restriction…punished me real good…like a good daddy would. Put baby in the corner.

      So now…

      yougottabekiddingme can only post from her phone.

      And well…

      Ain’t nobody got much time for that.

      Most specifically when I’m busy trying to master the art of blowing perfect spheres of translucent love-juice, and un-using my vagina so that I can sell my virginity for the highest million-dollar bid.

      Uh huh…

  78. Anonymous says:

    Everybody can be a sd now. e1e660821

  79. Cryptic Anomaly says:

    Assumption or Observation based on my own experience here.

    Seems the Troll is making their own assumptions and is too stupid to realize.

  80. AliceS says:

    What about Salt Babies :) or Salt Daddys ?

  81. Cunning Linguist says:

    Taste the Bush!

  82. Cryptic anomaly says:

    @Beuce Wayne “Sounds like he had learned that is about a 50:50 proposition that the SB will show up. It is also about a 50:50 proposition that she will be some semblance of the women represented in her profile, yet some of the blog SBs here want the SD to make a big effort to plan a first date under risky circumstances.”

    Agreed, many of the SB’s think a Man Should chase them, impress them and then then beg them to accept their money.

    Given SB’s can be flaky short first meets are great as well as making them close in case they don’t turn up.

  83. Anonymous says:

    SBs should read SM’s profiles, which will make their head spin.

  84. Anonymous says:

    Apparently he wants a small breasted, 420 friendly, bi, party girl who’s looking for Christian Grey. Seems like the majority on SA, he won’t have no trouble. e3a2754

    • Anonymous says:

      I found a platonic, awesome. Here he is: eb5603f3

      • AliceS says:

        What’s that code?

      • FormerAnon says:

        if you look at the link to a profile (SB or SD) there will be a series of letters and numbers similar to that in each profile link

        if you copy those above and paste (replace) them into some other profile link it will take you to the profile of the person they are talking about

        it is an alternative way to post a “link” to a profile on a forum that is so dated and stupid that it does not allow you to paste links (without some [ ] or other end caps to make it look like it is not a link)

      • AliceS says:

        Last looks very happy. What’s wrong with his profile? And he was verified, so I think he is no pedophile or serial killer

      • Anonymous says:

        Nothing’s wrong with that one, he’s platonic too.

      • AliceS says:

        We don’t have such in France. Just SADOmasostyle crazy Christian Grey attitude be alike assholes, that think having 20k in their account is equally to real Grey fortune lol. Since I’m not Anastasia or a virgin… I’m not interested :)

      • Anonymous says:

        Sorry for what happened in France. Are you located in Paris? ?

      • AliceS says:

        No. Thank God I’m not. Very sad indeed, though I’m afraid it’s not over yet :/

      • Gentle says:

        Where does he say platonic ?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        He didn’t say platonic. Never make assumptions. Just because he wants to treat you to dinner/wine doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to fuck you after.

      • Maybe says:

        Maybe not.

      • Kore13 says:

        @Alice You have a very pretty picture. :)

  85. Another Anonymous says:

    @ Kore

    It is not only about funding. If you look at say comments published in NYT about Charles Murray, you really start to wonder whether publishing in controversial areas is worth enduring vicious personal attacks by vile barely literate biased hacks in media. One can easily study more fulfilling areas where nobody will attack him ad personam.

    Should be digress to emails? :-)

  86. Another Anonymous says:

    @ Gentle

    Maybe she means gentleman already accompanied by a lady. 😉

  87. Gentle says:

    “I’m seeking a gentleman (or lady)”

    I see a lot of this type of thing. Do any of you bi-chicks ever get a “lady” to answer? That would be a Sugar Momma-which is a rare breed indeed . So if there are virtually Zero SMs out there ,why bother to muddy the waters ?

  88. Probably says:

    Probably a woman in her late 20s or 30s but without any kids is a great demographic to work with?

    Probably with her own apt if you’re married so that you can meet here there?

  89. Anonymous says:

    “My LT SD since 1,5 year is 10 years younger and 100000 x wealthier, so am I supposed to give him an allowance and be his sugarmommy then? LOL”

    Is Zuckerberg cheating on his pregnant wife with Elaine? A “successful” person in his or her late 40’s should have at least half a mil net-worth (especially considering how the 35+ pro’s on the blog routinely make fun of “salty” and “cheap” SD’s). 100000x half a mil is $50billion! Zuckerberg doesn’t even qualify, must be Bill Gates, Warren Beffet or Carlos Slim, none of whom is in his 30’s. LOL indeed!

    • Elaine says:

      Wel, that tells more about my actual finances as his, doesn’t it? …Or….maybe it was just a way of expressing something?

    • Probably says:

      Based on what you wrote your SD is probably a billionaire?

      • rembidler says:

        @Elaine….
        Maybe say you were exaggerating a bit? Or just making a point he is a lot wealthier than you, not meaning for that to be a “hard” number?
        Cuz if you want to stand by what you said…sorry, this isn’t very credible. You should know.

      • Horndog says:

        Well if elaine’s net worth is 10K and her young BF is 100K X wealthier than her, then he is worth 1 Billion dollars.

        If her net worth is 100K, then he is worth 10 B. And so on and so forth. But my guess is she is just saying he much wealthier than her.

      • Elaine says:

        My God, guys come on! I was just trying to say that he is much wealthier as I am!

      • Probably says:

        Probably you should write more carefully?

      • Anonymous says:

        Probably learn to not take everything so literally and use your brain.

      • Probably says:

        Probably you should mind your own non-existent business?

      • elaine says:

        Probably I would if English was not my only my third language ?

      • Anonymous says:

        Probably you should take your fist, put it in your mouth and choke on it.

      • Probably says:

        Probably you should raise your hairy butt a bit to get som spanking.

      • Anonymous says:

        Probably you should take that fist out after choking yourself and put it in your hairy butt now, eh, I’m sure you’ll like it.

      • Gentle says:

        Children ! Get a grip LOL @Elaine is one of the good guys

      • Probably says:

        100000 is probably the same in English as it is in French, German or Italian.

      • elaine says:

        @Probably

        Yes it is the same in all languages, but my ways to express in myself in English are somewhat limited and I used this to try to say he is much wealthier as I am…..
        Don’t know the difference between literally and figuratively, genius?

        Gosh….what a lot to do about nothing….

      • AliceS says:

        Taking this logic any sd is much wealthier than sb lol. I have only 10 euros on my bank account my sd can have only 1000 euros so he is muuuuuuch more wealthier than I am 😉 correct me if I’m wrong

      • elaine says:

        @Alice

        That was exactly how it was meant, but not understood.

        Must be our female logic.

      • Probably says:

        It would have probably been accepted without much odo as AliceS sounds like an entitlement-free woman.

    • Anonymous says:

      None of whom are in their 30’s.*

    • Probably says:

      Horndog your numbers are probably (nay definitely) jacked up by a zero.

    • AliceS says:

      @Elaine anyway if potential SD would be less wealthier than potential SB, he can’t call himself SD or she can’t call herself SB. It would have to be Sugarmomma feat Poorer Guy lol. Or something more of kinda bf and gf relationship.
      Who knows. :) I had just 3 dates. Bad dates. Lmao guess I still can’t judge here

  90. Anonymous says:

    SD advice: you fuck women…You don’t let them fuck you.

    Rinser advice: You fuck men…you don’t let them fuck you.

  91. Anonymous says:

    @Elaine is a great example of why more money does not necessarily mean better quality.Or she is simply a liar.
    According to her, she has this great super young super wealthy SD. And she is still on SA, looking for more. Makes sense to you?
    No, not to me either…

    • Anonymous says:

      She might just be lurking on the blog don’t you think, or at least not having deactivated her account because she isn’t exclusive. There are all kinds of possibilities.

    • elaine says:

      @ Anon

      It doesn’t have to make sense to you, as long as it does to me and the people who know me. :-)
      And what do you know about my qualities anyway?

      If you would have been longer on blog you would have known I have 2 non exclusive LT and LD arrangements. if you find any inconsistence in the years I have been blogging here, feel free to point that out. :-)

      So yes, I keep my profile up, they are both married so I want to keep my options open.
      But it allows me to be very selective and only react if a real gem comes by. I am not active and only react on messages I receive.

      Sorry if my advantaged situation doesn’t match your vision on the sugarworld dear.

      Cheers :-)

      • rembidler says:

        I treat everybody here as blog personalities – unless they login with their SA profile.
        I have mine, Elaine has hers. We both could be fakes, telling the truth or somewhere in between. That is what the blog is, a bunch of characters telling stories.
        If you want truth, read The Daily Mail or The Sun.

      • Elaine says:

        @rem, I have no problems revealing my profile, as a matter of fact, some of the regulars know it already. I just don’t feel to publish it on a public blog.

      • rembidler says:

        I would not disclose my identity here, for sure. There is no point, if ppl do not want to believe what I say, why do I care. This is just a way for me to talk and to listen what others have to say.
        Honestly, some of my SA endeavors have been quite interesting – to a point that if I were to read about them here from another blogger, I would call him full of shit. Funny, that.

      • Probably says:

        Probably you should post them here anyway for shits and grins.

      • Elaine says:

        @rem, yes often non fiction is even more unbelieveable as fiction …

      • Anonymous says:

        @Rem it’s a way for you to talk nonsense and get away with it probably or not probably?

      • THEATLSD says:

        Elaine is real and credible. If you want some good fiction go back to the old blogs and read Kenna’s stories/posts. Now that is some good storytelling.

      • Anonymous says:

        OMG Kenna was so FOS it was ridiculous. And so many suckers fell for it, LMAO.

      • elaine says:

        I was one of those suckers who believed Kenna in the beginning.
        Even neglected some obvious red flags when she privately mailed me.

        Being accused of being a liar myself, probably because some prefer not to want to believe I am real , I just believed her.
        Also because I cannot even immagine why people would want to make up fantasy stories?
        Who are they kidding?

        My God, one must be really unhappy with ones life -that must be a really boring one- if you feel the need to create a complete fake fantasy world !

        I agree with @Rem: better NOT talk about personal sugarlife experiences.
        You will be accused of being full of shit, and why bother; as long as long as you are happy with your life, that’s all that matters.

    • Horndog says:

      There really is no way of verifying the veracity of what people say here so I take everything with a grain of salt. Or maybe sugar.

      But my penis really is only 5 inches.

      • elaine says:

        Well @Horndog, some bloggers are in contact with each other outside the blog….

        The “fantasywriters” that have passed in the years I have been here, all sooner or later have been “outed” by their inconsistency or over the top stories.

        I never told anything about my SDs, apart from the age difference between us (-10 and +1) and the fact they are wealthy business men.
        It is normal they have to be, because LD arrangements are quite costly.
        That’s no breaking news.
        I have never told anything on blog about what they give me or what they do for me. That is called “discreet”!

        But nonetheless I have regularly been told to be a liar. So lying about what exactly?

        Is it sour grapes for those being “old” and have to pay for their young SBs?
        Whereas I am “old” and still get paid, even by younger men?

        Haha, so transparant and amusing :-)

      • Horndog says:

        Well like I said, I just come here for the free entertainment. I don’t take anything here seriously. A lot of people get too involved and start arguing with each other over the internet. We could all be 49 year old morbidly obese guys living in a basement pretending to be a hot 18 year old blonde girl.

      • Anonymous says:

        yeah ,but 12″ around

  92. Gentle says:

    “I want to be wined and dined. Nothing in the bedroom though, please. My ideal arrangement would involve lots of good conversation and making you look good in front of your friends or colleagues.”

    Unfortunately ,here is a delusional 7-7.5. Not all know their place .

    • Bruce Wayne says:

      There is an attractive SB in her early 40s near me. She is looking for a hot guy in his 30s. Recently, she added a complaint about getting used and not getting any compensation. Shocking to read that happened!

      • Horndog says:

        A woman in her 40’s looking for a guy in his 30’s is technically a “Cougar” and would be the one doing the compensating, not the other way around.
        She should sign up as a Sugar Mommy.

      • Anonymous says:

        You know there are older SBs here right? Elaine is one of them.

      • Horndog says:

        Of course there are some people to the left and right of the Bell curve. I was talking about the norm, not the exception.
        The traditional definition is a male, usually married, in his 50-60’s looking for a female, usually in her 20’s.

      • Anonymous says:

        Actually, a quick research over the SBs in my area shows that there are older SBs by 10% than the younger ones (-35 years of age).

      • Bruce Wayne says:

        @Horndog — ignore the anonymous troll and maybe it will go away.

      • Horndog says:

        I wouldn’t know because when I filter my search, the cut off age for me is 35.

        I am 47.

      • elaine says:

        So what if guys in their 30’s, for whatever reasons, want a mistress in her 40’s then?

        My LT SD since 1,5 year is 10 years younger and 100000 x wealthier, so am I supposed to give him an allowance and be his sugarmommy then? LOL

        And call it “fantasywriting” or not, I couldn’t care less, but at least 50% of the pot’s contacting me are younger.

        And @Anon, I don’t really call myself a “Sugarbaby”, would be quite ridiculous at my age, eh? 😉

      • Gentle says:

        Yes Elaine is a Courtesan

      • Horndog says:

        Well elaine you just answered yourself. You technically are not a SB but more of a “mistress”. The operative word being “baby”.
        Someone younger than you. So if a 30 y.o. guy is involved with a 40 y.o. woman good for both of them. But the hair in the back of my neck will stand up if she called herself “sugar baby”.

      • Anonymous says:

        “You know there are older SBs here right? Elaine is one of them.”

        Elaine is a poster who claims to juggle multiple paying clients. So far the only recent evidence she has provided is the alleged transcript of a loser 32yo offering her $100 for an hour.

        $100/hr is good pay for a 9 to 5 office job ($200k a year), but not for sex work, where travel and prep are not billable hours.

      • elaine says:

        Haha, you are obviously new to the blog.

      • Anonymous says:

        I am not sure if the anon above is joking or just a plain loser.

  93. Gentle says:

    Do you go after the 10’s ?

    An earlier post brought up the question of courting the less appealing Pots . I agree that a 7 in the looks department is sometimes a much better treat and better value that the spoiled brat 8-10s .I do care about a slender figure but don’t need Loni Anderson look-alikes. Give me a less confident, more appreciative girl who will enjoy what I give her. After all ,I am not trying to impress my friends. Most of our activities will occur behind closed doors and in the candlelight .

    I can not do dumb or trashy though.

    • Bruce Wayne says:

      I typically go for the 7s and 8s. I would consider my current SB to be a 9, but she grew up on a farm in a small town and is very down to earth. I agree that the 7s and 8s are typically a lot more fun to hang out with, but occasionally you meet a hotter one who isn’t high maintenance.

    • Anonymous says:

      Give me a less confident…

      Ok, that is disturbing. Who likes insecurity and insecure people? Confidence is sexy!

      • Horndog says:

        Less confident does not always mean insecure or submissive.
        On the other hand, over confident always means arrogant and cocky.

      • Anonymous says:

        How about just confident? Not less confident which isn’t an asset by the way, or overly confident, but someone confident in their own skin?

      • Anonymous says:

        We don’t have any 10’s in my country, if there were they would be platonic as 95% that reply are platonic.

        Past 10’s have used stolen pics.

      • Gentle says:

        Less confident is charming -meaning they have room to be taught and therefore to learn what you have to offer them . Overly confident-cocky is unappealing to me . Horndog said it .

      • Anonymous says:

        @Above Anon gosh, where do you live?

        Saying that less confident is better since they require less is the same as that sb rinser’s guide to take advantage of less confident and insecure guys because they are easy to impress.

      • Kore13 says:

        It could also be that he’s just into something that’s not common where he is. Maybe he’s surrounded mostly by these, ‘strong and independent,’ women as some like to call it.

        I would understand his example of ‘less confident’ as ‘shy and sweet.’ Doesn’t necessarily mean she doesn’t have a spine.

        Confidence is sexy, sure, but the sweetheart types can be very cute.

      • Anonymous says:

        Maybe he should have chosen his words differently then. Strong and independent are not the same thing as being confident or even overly confident/arrogant. Less confident if we’re talking in the looks department as he says is the same as insecurity, nothing to do with ‘sweetheartness’ or with having a spine or in this case the lack of. That is called being shy, about the sugarbowl and certain things. But as he was talking strictly about the looks department, we can clearly assume he meant a less confident girl.

      • Anonymous says:

        More simply, they are fucking ugly where I reside.

  94. Bruce Wayne says:

    I am officially no longer replying to the anonymous troll.

  95. Anonymous says:

    Probably something strictly platonic, I’ve been celibate 5 months and counting I want to do a year! What about you?

  96. Anonymous says:

    Check out these lips!
    Chloe_1995

    • Horndog says:

      They’re called DSL’s.

    • Probably says:

      Some kind of lip puffing treatment I guess.

    • elaine says:

      My God, what did this kid to herself? And she even seems to be proud of this malformation, as on every pic she is putting focus on her “assets” with a sort of duckface!

      She is/was beautiful without these, completely out of proportion, puffed lips!

      I hope for her they have used temporary stuff to fill them, because now she is 20 and it looks already ridiculous, immagine what it looks like at 50! :-(

      • Gentle says:

        Does any guy like these bloated puffed up blimpies ? Meg Ryan -who I always thought was a super cute girl next door -did the puffies and it ruined her IMHO . I hope she has let that stuff wear off .

      • Horndog says:

        Very few women have naturally beautiful lips. Angelina Jolie, Megan Fox, Mila Kunis are some of them.
        Going to the doctor to get injections of lip fullers and silicone will mutilate your face forever. They are not easy to enhance like breasts. Plenty of actresses found out the hard way.

      • elaine says:

        @Gentle

        That is what I am asking myself too!

        Meg Ryan, Melanie Griffith, Priscilla Presley, Nicole Kidman, Donatella Versace etc, etc…

        What are those women thinking??
        That looking like a duck makes them younger, sexier, more attractive, or what?

      • Bruce Wayne says:

        @Gentle — I was a huge fan of Meg Ryan until I saw pictures of her early in her career. She had A LOT of work done even when she was younger. I lost interest after that. I haven’t seen the lip work look good on anyone yet — they haven’t figured it out yet. All those Bravo Housewives ewwwwww

      • Horndog says:

        elaine: the women you named are poster children for what not to to do with your lips. Perfect examples of naturally beautiful women who ruined their faces with Botox and plastic surgery.

        Not as easy as going from 30AA to 34C

      • Kore13 says:

        She’s also wearing colored contacts.. :/

        I think a few women pull off minimal surgery. The mentioned examples are pretty extreme and the most noticeable.

        I am pretty sure that Angelina Jolie had her lips reduced over the years.

  97. Anonymous says:

    New to this but willing to work a suitable arrangement out depending on the situation.
    New to this but willing to work out a suitable arrangement depending on the situation.
    New to this but willing to work a suitable arrangement out depending on the situation.

    Three different profiles :-)

  98. Anonymous says:

    I know when we are looking for online victims, a lot of times we want a POT to be really good looking because hello if we are going to sleep with them, it would be nice if they were hot too.
    My advice: don’t automatically throw out the awkward looking guy or the guy who could lose a few pounds. These guys could be your PLATONIC SD’s, so why do you care how they look if you don’t have to sleep with them?

    Take advantage of this guys inadequacy as a chance for YOU to run the show. If he’s not a perfect 10 (or 8, or 5…) chances are he is somewhat insecure. This gives you power over them. Meet with them for a first date, and at dinner say something like “I really enjoy the company/mentorship of those older than me. It’s refreshing to go out with intellectuals than guys my age. Guys my age just want sex right away, and I’m not into that.“ This helps set the idea you are not an easy lay. Then, talk up how fascinating he is and how amazed you are by his success. This gives you the chance to kind of knock down their hopes and dreams of sleeping with you, but still keeps them liking you because you shower his inadequate ass with compliments.
    I almost prefer the online victims who are not as good looking because rich, hot, good body, confident = cocky. Those are the guys who expect sex right away. If a POT isn’t as good looking, he probably gets less messages from girls, letting him focus on you more.

    • Anonymous says:

      Always respond even if they’re fugly! This process takes time, and you should be kind enough to respond. This could be your future platonic SD. Feel them out, if they aren’t overly suggestive or mention sex, if they aren’t all charming or lead with an allowance offering, respond. These are the awkward, under confident guys that makes amazing platonic SD’s.

      • Anonymous says:

        As a disillusioned SD, I posted this to make sure rookie SD’s know what they are up against!

      • closeforbusiness says:

        Anonymous says: “As a disillusioned SD, I posted this to make sure rookie SD’s know what they are up against!”

        Well put…I am normally careful but I got rinsed because the SB was too hot. Kept giving allowance and getting nowhere. Each time I was led to believing “to get some” the next time.

      • Anonymous says:

        It was your fault for not discussing it in the beginning with the expectations. Well believe it or not there are platonic arrangements out there, so you need to be clear on what you’re expecting.
        Did you deactivate your account on SA yet?

      • Bruce Wayne says:

        @closeforbusiness — as suggested above, it is indeed your fault that the SB didn’t fulfill her end of the deal.

    • SexyRockstar says:

      Hot older men don’t need the internet to find Sugar babies.
      You sound like a horrible human.
      With your fugly personality, you won’t have much luck.
      Go ahead and say I’m wrong, but, you’re posting as an annon. Therefore, I’m right.

      Your post seriously made me throw up.

      • Kore13 says:

        @SExy Haha. Thanks for replying to this anon. I was planning on saying something about this manipulative BS as well, but figured there was no point since they probably won’t get far in sugar if they need this kind of advice to fake their fakeness.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        That wasn’t written by that Anon. It’s from one of those tumblr SBs teaching women how to rinse guys. I posted a link to it a while back.

        [http://chisugarbabe.tumblr.com/post/56481629660/how-to-land-a-strictly-platonic-sugar-daddy-or]

      • Horndog says:

        This is basically part of Rinsing 101. Taken from the Bible of Rinsing, a book called “Ho Tactics”. It is mandatory reading before you can sign up for Tumblr. Sadly, a lot of men fall prey to it. Insecurity can be a very expensive thing.

      • Anonymous says:

        That is almost the same that the Gentle character above is trying to induce. Find the less confident girls and guys so they can give you what you want without you lifting a finger, and requiring less so you can ‘teach’ them.

      • Gentle says:

        Yepp -I like a clean slate . Give me a young ,naive ,inexperienced ,sweet girl who has not been to Rinser or Tumblr Uni and I can make her into my sex machine for an allowance that she is happy with .

      • Anonymous says:

        What you’re describing up is definitely making you a rinser yourself. Are you sure you haven’t been to the sd rinser encyclopedia?

      • Horndog says:

        I don’t think Gentle can be described as a “rinser”. He did say he was willing to provide an allowance that the SB would be happy with. A rinser is someone who uses the false promise of intimacy to string along the other person to gain their money. If the SB is happy with the allowance she is getting from Gentle, that does not make him a rinser.

      • Anonymous says:

        SB Rinser: Take advantage of this guys inadequacy as a chance for YOU to run the show. If he’s not a perfect 10 (or 8, or 5…) chances are he is somewhat insecure. This gives you power over them.

        Gentle: Yepp -I like a clean slate . Give me a young ,naive ,inexperienced ,sweet girl who has not been to Rinser or Tumblr Uni and I can make her into my sex machine for an allowance that she is happy with . Less confident is charming -meaning they have room to be taught and therefore to LEARN what you have to offer them .

      • Gentle says:

        @Anonymous
        I like to get the best value for my investment. If you are too intimidated to deal with the facts then return to your fantasy land and dream about Men gifting helpless girls $thousands just because they need it or want it . SBs can say “no thanks” to my offer ,but seldom do.

      • Anonymous says:

        @Gentle see the resemblance? Your post doesn’t make any sense.
        It has nothing to do with you getting the best value, but it has everything to do with you wanting an insecure, naive girl as you put it yourself. Why do you go in circles? Who was talking about men gifting helpless women thousands because they want it? Nobody is talking about allowance, so why sidetrack from the point made.

  99. Anonymous says:

    Nothing serious, meet couple of times a month, whether that be out for a meal, coffee or once we’re more comfortable a night in with a film!

    Next!

    • Space Cruiser says:

      Yeah, but she’s an “easy-going Irish girl”, who says she’s “very open minded” and whose photos show her in a bikini and a low slung little black dress. So she may be totally hot and up for it, but just a bit shy about saying what she really wants. Probably had a conventional Catholic upbringing but now she’s away in the big city of Newcastle she’s going to let her hair down. And who wouldn’t want a lovely girl whispering in a sweet Irish accent in his ear?

      • Kore13 says:

        @Space Cruiser I can imagine it, “What?” ..”Sorry, could you repeat?”..”I didn’t quite understand?” 😀 😛

        She can get away with talking very dirty, probably. That’s kind of sexy. ^^

      • Anonymous says:

        How did you get on?

  100. AnonymousGal says:

    Why do men always just say hey lets go grab coffee or a drink at a bar?

    Like you can’t come up with a more creative way to do a meet and greet? Just so boring and I just don’t want to get all cute and ready for that.

    Try again…

    • Anonymous says:

      Do you want an arrangement or an interesting date? These people are busy and don’t have time to fresh up on pick up artist skills. It is YOUR job to entertain them NOT the other way around.

      • Horndog says:

        A first meet and greet is your chance to make a good impression with a POT SD. If you can’t impress him at Starbucks, you are not going to impress him at Mastros Steakhouse Beverly Hills Penthouse restaurant.

      • Bruce Wayne says:

        There is nothing preventing you from suggesting an alternative when the SD suggests coffee or a drink. In fact, it would be refreshing. The SD is paying; why does he have to do all the work too?

    • Probably says:

      If they had time and interest in PUA they probably would be banging you for free.

    • IHF2030 says:

      A first meeting is an AUDITION where a woman has to prove her self worthy of sugar.

      • Anonymous says:

        I think that goes both ways, Mr. I hate females.

      • Another anonymous says:

        Of course it goes both ways. It is essentially a job interview. But it usually pretty obvious whether it is a no name canadian football league team interviewing Tom Brady or New England Patriots interviewing an undrafted prospect.

    • Kore13 says:

      @Gal What would you rather have as a first date?

    • Anonymous says:

      I agree, all these POTs out there don’t even try. At least try to impress one POT who you might be into and start an arrangement.

      • Kore13 says:

        @Anon Men will typically try to impress any girl they are into. I haven’t really come across a man who hasn’t tried… Or who was able to hide it.

        When my SD first picked me up, he couldn’t stop looking at me. He kept veering to the side and ended up having to center the car on the road a few times. 😀 😀

      • Horndog says:

        A simple meet and greet actually gives both parties “an easy way out” if it turns out you 2 can’t stand each other. What if both of you posted fake pictures and turn out to be 350 lbs each? If the coffee meet is great, what stops both of you from going to a nice oceanfront restaurant later and have a nice lunch?

      • Anonymous says:

        @Kore — your SD probably couldn’t stop looking at you because he was trying to figure out if you are transgender. You look like the Indian version of an Asian lady boy. Get over yourself.

      • Kore13 says:

        Go ahead and show us your profile, ‘Lana.’ I’m still waiting…

      • elaine says:

        @Anonymous

        What is wrong with you?
        Does it make you feel better about yourself to attack other bloggers their race or looks, without even knowing them?
        Safely and cowardly hidden behind your Anonymous screen?

        I know @Josh, @Bastard, @Rem, @Fly and @Fundude sometimes do the same, but at least they are not anonymous and at times they are even sharp and funny.
        While you are only nasty, repetitive and boring!

        Gosh…., you’re sad..
        Why don’t you go and fetch an SD to keep you busy?

        Maybe IHF is still available? Something tells me the two of you are a match made in heaven! :-)

      • Kore13 says:

        For all I know, you’re a male weirdo pretending to be a SB.. After all, none of the female bloggers have absolutely no picture. Even the Self-Entitleds aren’t as afraid of posting through their accounts.

        In the case that you actually happen to be female, then go ahead and show us. TBH, I am curious to know what your kind of scum looks like on SA.

      • Kore13 says:

        @Elaine It’s my fault. I triggered that with my post suggesting the new female Anons being neither pretty nor smart. ^^

      • Lana says:

        That wasn’t me, since you were referring to my moniker. There are many anons here though, don’t assume immediately it’s me. I said I haven’t talked about your looks yet, and that is still going.

      • Lana says:

        Plus, why do you guys assume immediately that it’s an SB. It could be anyone. Just a thought.

    • Anonymous says:

      @AnonnymmousGal

      If they put no effort into planning the date or ask where would be a good place to meet first then I next them.

      It is all about how they ask and what way they suggest for the date.

    • Gentle says:

      I’m not searching for the love of my life -just the next sweet girl to dazzle me until I get bored. ERGO the M&G at Starbucks . Hopefully we will move directly to the Hotel from there .

  101. Anonymous says:

    Why do so many women have broken cell phone screens?

  102. Anonymous says:

    A weekly Three-chick puzzler: a Fourth Chick

    Well, you discover that Three Chicks – if they are old-fashioned about their birth control and shy about being “on maintenance” – are really Two Chicks. And as soon as they do not have their Auntie visiting on the same week, you can still accommodate two out of three weekly and play your golf on Friday.
    It goes without saying, Chicks still get paid, RedRum or not. Time, on the other hand, is precious. Your golf buddies already give you looks…
    However, suddenly out of nowhere, that One Special Chick finally says “yes”. You know she is flaky, moody and not very reliable. But she is honest, she will be monogamous, she has no sexual inhibitions and she feels guilty for stringing you along. So she offers: “you can do whatever you want, I am yours” option. And she means it.
    Do you say:
    1. No, I am all set (and you, really, are).
    2. I will see you tomorrow, my place.
    3. Let’s think about it.
    The third option lets you get out of one of the three previous arrangements.
    Your thoughts?

    • Anonymous says:

      Huh?

    • Jaybird923 says:

      Well the fact that she has no sexual inhibitions is definitely a plus but she’s flaky, moody, and unreliable. There’s no guarantee she’ll follow through so I’d go with option #1

      • Anonymous says:

        @ Jay
        I am contemplating that. It will make me feel good, while I am texting these words back, for a minute.
        However, once I start thinking about “you can do whatever you want, I am yours” …I get – not so sure. And option #2 feels a lot more viable.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        lol I went with option 2 a first but then my brain took over. So I erased my answer and went with the not so fun one. :-)

      • Probably says:

        These two probably understand each other well. Get a room…will you?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        @Probably I would gladly do so but he already has a harem and is contemplating adding one more to it. I don’t willing share what’s mines :-))

  103. Anonymous says:

    Has anyone had a problem that when you have quite a few messages on your inbox and a few other saved then you seem not to be able to check out on the new messages?

  104. Another Anonymous says:

    @ Kore

    As to the examples – treatment of national socialism vs. communism by historians, discussion of genetic vs. social factors in explanation of differences in performance by ethnic groups, discussion of crime rates by social groups, discussion of “value” in arts, just to name a few.

    But we really digress. :-)

    • Kore13 says:

      We can digress. It’s not like the trolls on the blog don’t. Rather that it’s for more meaningful discussion.

      Information is information. Whatever it may be. How does pressure from society today change actual data? The only thing people can do is misinterpret or misinform. Otherwise, scientists can’t really get away with publishing false information. The only thing they can do is to criticise accurate data, should they have some hidden agenda.

      • Another anonymous says:

        @ Kore

        But there is no need to falsify data. Say at at the historian, she is starting her career and grants are plentiful in the area of holocaust and transatlantic slave trade. If she has good luck, her books will sell and she will write the screenplay for the next Amistad or Schindler’s list. If she wants to study genocide in Ukraine in 1930s or slave trade in Meditterenean where white christians were the victims and Muslim slave traders, there are nearly no grants and no fame to come. And pretty soon the general public will remember only the former two events, not the latter ones.

        Or take the example of no smaller a person than James Watson. He was fired from his job for saying he believed in racial differences in IQ. How many PhD candidates will study the topic and attempt to publish the results, when they know that a Nobel prize winner can get fired on the spot for holding unpopular opinion about the topic. And you can easily find the articles published in general media after his firing. It is essentially a collection of personal attacks.

      • Kore13 says:

        @Another Oh, I understand better what you mean now.

        Yes, for sure there is this type of social pressure, but science is supposed to be unbiased. There will probably be neutral parties that are willing to fund certain projects.
        James Franklin was able to conduct research and publish his findings. I am not sure exactly how he determined intelligence and race being linked together (I am guessing it went something along the lines of something being present/lacking in DNA?)..

        But the IQ test, in general, isn’t a good method to evaluate intelligence. It’s typically used for working with people who have Austism, etc.
        It can quantify logical thinking at a certain time for a person. It doesn’t show if social influence played a role. It doesn’t show a person’s potential. From the one short article I read on the internet about a couple of his quotes, I don’t have enough information to judge the situation well to have solid opinion of it.

        What I can say, though, is that it looks as if he didn’t sugar coat things enough to make it easy for the public to swallow.

    • Another anonymous says:

      @ Kore

      Well I have tried twice to send direct links pertinent to our discussion, but my comments seem to be moderated out.

      So it seems no more digressing. :-)

  105. Anonymous says:

    Where does one prefer the first meet and greet to take place, in your city or the other person’s?

    • Anonymous says:

      I prefer it to be in my city at first. Who wants all the troubles of having to send money to a person across the world to buy a ticket and come and meet you..

    • Anonymous says:

      I could never understand the need to go so much out of one’s way. There is plenty of fish in my city. Which makes it easy to get a bit of fun even on a busy day…and if it is a last minute cancelation, it is not a big deal.

    • Anonymous says:

      All my first meets are in my own city a few blocks from my work during my lunch break. This way if they fail to show up its no big deal for me.

      • Anonymous says:

        The effort you make is remarkable

      • Anonymous says:

        Lmao yes do not go to too much trouble there fella. Maybe, they will want the women to cook them lunch and bring it to their workplace next?

      • Horndog says:

        He is probably married and has a tiny window of opportunity to meet POT SB’s.

      • Anonymous says:

        Or he is a lazy dater. Even the married ones can make a little effort or meet somewhere convenient for both of them. The married ones I have known do.

      • Bruce Wayne says:

        Sounds like he had learned that is about a 50:50 proposition that the SB will show up. It is also about a 50:50 proposition that she will be some semblance of the women represented in her profile, yet some of the blog SBs here want the SD to make a big effort to plan a first date under risky circumstances.

  106. Probably says:

    This post is probably from?

  107. Anonymous says:

    @Elaine

    That man showed you your worth.

    • Anonymous says:

      You’re a little disrespectful subhuman brain aren’t you? I take it you’re a man.

      • Anonymous says:

        It’s a troll.

      • Anonymous says:

        the market has spoken

      • Anonymous says:

        Well, I guess the market at this time with all of this influx of platonic arrangements means that platonic is in.

      • Anonymous says:

        LOL. Yes, that’s what the market says if it is the Nth highest bid this week, and she is offering a supply of N sessions this week.

        That’s why, if it is a timeshare, men strive for the lowest winning bid. All the N-1 bids that are higher would just be wasting their money.

      • Anonymous says:

        The platonic offers and the super low bids are both outside the market, not being picked up by counter parties.

      • Anonymous says:

        Don’t you know, a karge number of platonic SDs have magically appeared in the UK?

    • elaine says:

      Yes, sure.
      But you know; I DO KNOW MY WORTH!
      And fortunally my regular SDs too :-)!

      As a matter of fact, you’re reaction was quite predictical. I knew exactly what was about to come. Most here lack so much on creativity…..
      But I still have the ability to laugh on myself and not take myself too serious, so I just shared it because it made me laugh.

      Of course I knew what would be the comments of some! LOL
      Btw, it was the “love” part that made me laugh, about the rest I just chuckled and shrugged my shoulders.

      See, I am no coward, so I just share experiences here without hiding behind “Anonymous”.
      Because I think real experiences help to keep some variation in the blog, without the usual name calling and negativity. :-)

      But you, of all people here, must know how easy it would have been for me not to post under my own name and thus avoid the usual comments of the usual suspects.

    • IHF2030 says:

      That “Elaine” character is one obnoxious, dumb bitch. And even 50 bucks p4p would be overpaying for her. But then it seems that there are far too many hard-up, desperate sucker dudes with too much money and not enough self-esteem.

      • elaine says:

        Haha, and yet another one with a crystal ball who seems to know who and what I am without knowing me! 😉

        Your statement is so incredible ignorant, same if I would say you are a John paying only 50 bucks for p4p. whereas I don’t know you.
        I might be a dumb bitch, but I am not that dumb to judge people I don’t know.
        I gladly step aside and leave that up to other, obvious more intelligent people here. :-)

        I know I piss off some of those self proclaimed “Alpha’s” males here, and you cannot immagine how that amuses me! :-)
        Didn’t someone earlier said here that shaming language was a female tactic?
        And didn’t I say then that only weak losers (male or female) need to use shaming language to make their point?

        Cheers :-)

      • Anonymous says:

        I Hate Females we know you do

      • elaine says:

        @Kore

        He is just a grumpy old man, completely lacking sense of humour and taking himself soooo serious…. YAWN, so boring …… zzzzzzzzzz

        As far as myself: I prefer being absolutely ridiculous to absolutely boring. :-)

      • Kore13 says:

        @Elaine I think it might be because he’s Canadian. They take things even more seriously than the Germans. 😛

        Think he’s stopped talking with me since I asked him a certain question once.

      • noname says:

        kore canadians have a excellent sense of humour eh!

      • Kore13 says:

        @noname Don’t know yet – haven’t met that many that made jokes. 😉

      • noname says:

        kore most of our comedians go to the US because they get paid better there thats likely why you havn’t heard our funny guys

      • Kore13 says:

        @noname Ah, maybe you can drop me a name or two? I always thought they were funny when I saw videos of them. :)

        Just the people I have known personally (very few here) were ones I had joke-free discussions with. ^^

        Didn’t realize you were Canadian. Thought you were Brit?

      • noname says:

        jim carrey i like british humour but i like american better

      • Kore13 says:

        @noname I was hoping for someone newer, but I’ll google it myself. I like some American stand up comedians. :)

        …The videos I mentioned earlier were just some I’d seen on YT a long time ago. So, why are the Canadians so politically correct, if I may ask?

        Germany’s had a ‘special’ history, but what about the Canadians?

  108. Anonymous says:

    Has anyone gotten the message ‘1000 roses’? I assumed what this meant but then emailed back and asked anyway. Yes, he meant $1000 per meet or whatever.

    Is that code inn the escort and prostitution world or something?

  109. elaine says:

    Delusional “SD” (32 yo, quite handsome) of the day:

    After some messaging up and down came this gem :

    He: I really want you! But please don’t ask too much money.
    Me: It is simple, my allowance range (moderate) is in my profile. :-)
    He: Sorry, I can’t afford that, can I offer 100 for a meet of an hour?
    Me: Sorry, my profile is very clear I think? Wish you succes in your search!
    He: Such a pity! Anyway, in case you are interested, for me 5 min. of oral sex will do.
    Me: Why don’t you search on BP? I am a courtesan and I don’t even move for less than (…..)
    He: I don’t want to, I am looking for love.
    Me: And I am looking for someone to “keep”me. But I have no doubt you will soon find someone to offer you “love” for 100 per hour! :-)
    He: Sure, I will find also at 50, even a girlfriend of mine does 20 and one for free. But for one reason or another I feel so attracted to you, so if you want to get to know me without exchange of sex or money, please let me know?

    WTF? I blocked him.

    • Anonymous says:

      Talk about negotiating a deal. From 5k as moderate he went to 100 per meet for an hour let us not forget. For him 5 min. or oral will do. Might as well have send him the backpage link or a pro’s profile. That would shut him up.

      • elaine says:

        Yeah, well I told him to go to BP, but he is looking for “love”! LOL

        Blocking did also shut him up now.

        It was a good laugh anyway. 😉

    • Anonymous says:

      What a delusional prick. Looking for love while giving you 100 for 5 minutes of oral in a back alley.

      You should have told him for that much I will let you lick my clit and only that. It would have been entertaining. He seems to have quit ea few girlfriends, probably come to see him every night in his sleep and offer oral for free, or was that his blow up doll?

    • Anonymous says:

      Oh my that is a new low even for this site. How can anyone say something like that?

    • Bruce Wayne says:

      I don’t see anything wrong with it. He probably really cares for his SBs and has a really big heart.

    • Kore13 says:

      Interesting. Beauty but not much brain.

      • Anonymous says:

        Don’t judge. He’s a zombie.

      • Probably says:

        The comment was for @elaine.

      • Kore13 says:

        @Probably I was speaking about the man she’d messaged with.

      • Probably says:

        But probably not.

      • elaine says:

        @Probably

        Not for a moment I thought Kore was talking about me.
        She has never seen me so she doesn’t know if I am a beauty 😉

      • Kore13 says:

        You should probably stop speaking for others.

      • Kore13 says:

        @Elaine I am sure you are beauty – you are definitely brains. :)

        Can’t say if either one of those applies to these new female Anons, Probablys and Monkeys OTOH.

      • SB Monkey's Sister says:

        Kore honey before you talk about me or the other bloggers around here, better wash your mouth with soap old style. Stop riding Josh’s dick.
        We are not ‘new’ bloggers, we have been blogging before you even had the idea to join SA as a SB. I don’t if that Probable is even a woman, but probably not. Happy?

      • Kore13 says:

        Monkey, sweetie. I’ll let you know when I care, ok?

      • Anonymous says:

        @Kore13 if we speak honestly then you are neither beauty nor brains. You’re ugly and write stupid shit most of the time, as has been the case and as most bloggers have admitted to. At least us ‘female Anons’ don’t care if you’re a male or female, because both can write stupid shit, but no one could surpass yours.

      • Kore13 says:

        My feelings are so hurt now. 😀

      • elaine says:

        So irritating those “anonymous” cowards ….
        So easy to insult and judge behind that disguise, I really wished SA cancelled that option!

        I am not gonna say blog was friendlier or less hostile and villein before the Anonymi made their entrance, but at least when you were insulted you knew who was behind and could react adequately.

        Probably because I am a stupid and ugly bitch, but as far as in my opinion Kore is pretty and I enjoy reading her posts, in contrast with the plain stupid nonsense some of the cowards post.

      • Anonymous says:

        I noticed that out of all the other pics you have where you’re showing your face, the one you have posing awkwardly on the couch is the only one where you have concealed your face. Must be really embarrassing even for you. Could appear on a BP site. I know you can easily take a pic and call it rightfully done nowdays so don’t worry. I am sure you’ll find a SD too. You look like you literally smell of curry.
        http: // s2.quickmeme.com/img /51/519a0b9046009eeeb8fdef134e7917ca6121c7b4317caa0bf3be2eb6fe830300.jpg

      • Kore13 says:

        @Elaine Thank you. :) And you’re right – I feel many of these Anons are cowards since they don’t even have the little courage it takes to claim responsibility for words posted under a moniker.

        @Anon You so badly wish that were true, don’t you? This honestly sounds like a classic case of jealousy.. How about you post your profile here, and we have a competetion on who’s prettier – you or I? That way, we can compare the smell of curry to the smell of shit. :*

      • Anonymous says:

        I never commented on your beauty depending on your pics. I just said that you look like you smell and that you took a shitty awkward pose on that couch where you concealed your face whereas on the other pics you have your face seen. I did not comment on anything yours actually until your take on these ‘female anons’ like the gender makes a difference. So not my fault you started running you mouth. If you can’t take it, don’t dish it. And like I said, I am sure you’ll find a SD someday, until then you’re not competent to comment on anything sugar related. Goodbye!

      • Kore13 says:

        Here, have a bag of attention, Monkey. Josh hasn’t replied to your last posts, so I’ll hand you some.

        My food is typically French or something European. If you think I smell like anything from the way I look, it’s probably because the garbage you shove into your mouth has had some serious effects on your brain.

        Yes, gender does make a difference. I’d like to know which post belongs to which gender. It gives me an idea of what a woman or man could think or feel and why.

        So, what about putting your profile up here? Trying to back out now, are you? Don’t worry, I won’t be too harsh on your 10 layers of foundation or pushups. 😉

      • Anonymous says:

        If you’re talking about the SB Monkey’s Sister a post up or Josh, I don’t even know those people. They do seem to have a problem with you since you really write stupid shit sometimes as Jay pointed out once in the earlier blog. And I am only referring to Real SD’s words, you really smell like curry, must be your origin from a 3rd world country. You were really defensive there.
        You still didn’t answer my question which was why did you hide your face in that awkward stupid pic? And again, if you can’t take it, don’t start it. I don’t post my profile (and neither do most bloggers here as I have seen, in fact it’s only you and in a way we’re all ‘anonymous’ but if you’d like for me to address, then please simply call me Lana) because unlike you I have had quite some arrangements. But, you’ll find a SD, stop pushing it. Do you feel awesome by interfering other blog anon’s that have neither beauty nor brains, but you would know, since they’re anonymous right?
        You’re ignorant, and thus will be ignored.

      • Kore13 says:

        You can’t think of a single reason to stay anonymous on a dating site, except to hide ugliness? ‘Lana,’ you’re not a very clever ‘girl.’ And if you’ve never had a stalker, you’re probably not much of a pretty girl either. 😉

        You were and are always free to ignore me. Just because I reply to you, doesn’t mean you have to reply to me.

      • Anonymous says:

        This is not a dating site smarty, it’s a blog (we aren’t in the ‘dating’ part of SA here) and if you haven’t noticed everyone is anonymous except you here, are you that dumb not to notice? Who else last logged in with their profile in this blog? Kore13, you’re not a clever girl. If being anonymous is synonymous with hiding ugliness then I bet all of us here are guilty, except you.
        I am not sure what you mean by the stalker part, but as always I’ll leave it that you’re talking nonsense again. How does having a stalker confirm you’re pretty and how does that even relate to the topic?

        I notice you’re very insecure about your looks, thoue gh I haven’t mentioned a thing, besides having asked you the same question over and over again, but you like to play in circles. Hopefully you don’t show this insecurity of yours in real life, it can be very unattractive and might be one of the reasons you haven’t found a SD yet. Nobody likes a girl who wants confirmation every time that she’s ‘pretty’. Also my post was not related to that, it was mostly related to smell, but alas I’ll leave that out too. Ignorance is a bliss.

    • noname says:

      elaine i was surprised you engaded with him for so long was this enterment for you well you blocked him that was the right thing to do i don’t understand why people waste so much time trying to talk people down from what they want when they’re is lots in the range he’looking for

      • elaine says:

        After my “succes in your search” message, he kept coming back with his nonsens, and for two more messages it was amusing, then I got bored and blocked him. :-)

        So I have not wasted much time.

  110. Anonymous says:

    @Kore13

    “@Josh So the man offering €100,000 will have less respect from the woman than the one offering €1? And still, she will have the most respect for the project that offers her €0?”

    That’s fundamentally correct. However, in order to understand the statement you need to have good grasp of cause vs. effect.

    • Anonymous says:

      Clarification…my comparison was 100,000 vs. free. We must get the “feel like prostitute” factor out of the equation first.

    • SB Monkey's Sister says:

      JOSHY!!

    • Kore13 says:

      I figured that the more such a SB spends time with someone who greatly improves their lifestyle, the less respect they will have for the couchpotato project.

      • Anonymous says:

        @Kore

        I’m afraid the reality is exactly the opposite. Women are biologically programmed to be unappreciative of her parents who provide her with everything, and love her baby. She is a resource conduit transferring resources from her parents and her husband to her babies. That’s how the human species perpetrate itself.

        The combination of delayed reproduction and female brain operating on feelings instead of logic is causing “strong and independent” women to run projects as a stand-in for her baby. If it is a four-legged kind, it’s all right. If her project is a 2-legged male slightly younger than herself, she should be reflexively nexted in sugar, as nothing good can come out for any one of the 3 people involved: the enabler, the girl, or the pot-smoking xbox player/project.

      • Anonymous says:

        Women are biologically programmed to be unappreciative of her parents who provide her with everything, and love her baby.

        Wow. I have no words.

      • Anonymous says:

        “Wow. I have no words.”

        Because that is the truth. Between her parents vs. her baby, a woman chooses her baby almost every single time. That’s how the human species survived. Just like almost every man eventually leaves behind the woman who makes him into a man, in pursuit of a younger woman of his desire. That’s why running a project is disastrous for everyone involved.

      • Anonymous says:

        You have to realize that an offspring comes first and foremost, that should not be exclusive to women only.
        But obviously you said it in a wrong way, without including the baby, since it’s not true that women are unappreciative of her parents, even though it’s a parent’s duty to raise his children.

      • Anonymous says:

        The context of the discussion should have been obvious: the SD is the stand-in for parents who give her everything, and the project is the stand-in for her baby.

        Even you agree the baby comes “first and foremost” in a woman’s mind. This displacement afflicts women far more severely than men because women operate by “feelings” not by logic. The SD gives her the “feelings” of her parents, whereas the project gives her the “feelings” of her baby. Men-like use of logic to control and set correct priorities should not be expected of women.

      • Anonymous says:

        I was talking about her offspring not some project or whatever which might be a grown person who can take care of him/herself and is not her kid.

        Men may have control over a few things in their life and generally that but too bad in a sexual context they have no control, as their logic is taken over by their urge and the ‘little brain’ operating.

      • Anonymous says:

        You are attempting to sidetrack the discussion, as usual. Are you “bat-shit”?

      • Kore13 says:

        Motherly instinct isn’t a good comparison for sexual/romantic attraction. Not every woman wants to be her partner’s mother.

        I think it could happen – she was attracted to the SD by that which her boyfriend could not provide. Assuming they are monogamous, it’d be disrespectful towards him to have another man provide what he couldn’t.

      • Anonymous says:

        I am not trying to sidetrack anything, I am just stating a fact that a baby and a project are very different from each other. While the first one is and should remain natural and obviously a priority, the second one is not excusable.

        And since you wrote this: Men-like use of logic to control and set correct priorities should not be expected of women. I wrote that men have no control over one part of their life, it wasn’t sidetracking it was also just a fact since you also stated another fact. If anything, you sidetracked in this topic. And is that even a word?

      • Anonymous says:

        I agree with Kore13, if setting correct priorities means that the offspring is somewhere there on the list but not the first then we better not have a correct set of priorities. That kid wouldn’t stand a chance.

      • Anonymous says:

        The phenomenon is called displaced emotions. It’s the same reason why women often adopt pets when they don’t have babies. In the case of an SB having a project, which is more common than most SD’s realize, she has adopted the project as her baby and the SD as her parents. Whom do you think the typical teen girl or early 20’s young women love more? the parents or her pet animal? Of course her pet animal. The parents are lucky if she doesn’t have a rebellious attitude towards them.

      • Kore13 says:

        Sure, it makes sense, but I doubt every woman is like that. 😉

      • Anonymous says:

        Is that behavior excusable? of course not, but that’s how many women tend to row. That’s why SB’s with project should be nexted right away unless you are using her as an escort.

      • Anonymous says:

        Thank goodness not every woman is running a project. Otherwise, there would hardly be any healthy pair-bonding relationship left; traditionally, the man gives the woman a project, called their baby, not too long after being together and learns to be content with the woman shifting her focus to their baby. It’s all good, and why we are here today :-)

        The modern world of delayed reproduction and “strong and independent women” propaganda confuse the heck out of the women’s feelings.

      • Anonymous says:

        the man gives the woman a project, called their baby, not too long after being together and learns to be content with the woman shifting her focus to their baby.

        I would hope that the father does the same thing though it has been proven than most men don’t have strong fraternal instincts compared to the maternal one.

  111. Bruce Wayne says:

    SB Profile of the Day:

    Heading:
    “I’m yours if your heart is bigger than your wallet”

    Expectation:
    Substantial

    must be a pretty big “heart” she is seeking.

    • Anonymous says:

      I am sure that she fits some anthropological model of women having high sex drive.

    • Anonymous says:

      I don’t see nothing wrong with it. She chose an expectation just like she rightfully can. Are we bashing substantial sbs now?

      The heading was used as a metaphor for: Be kind, generous, because you can’t win me over only with your money. It’s not meant for taking it literally.

      • Bruce Wayne says:

        Her heading implies that she is more interested in the SD’s heart than his money. Her expected allowance suggests otherwise. I wasn’t bashing the expectation, but rather pointing out the paradox.

      • Anonymous says:

        So you think if she had asked minimal she would have cared for the SD’s heart or maybe you think all those who ask for substantial or high would not care for a SD at all?

      • Bruce Wayne says:

        I think if she would have listed minimal, negotiable or practical, it would have been less paradoxical and it would have been more believable that she was interested in the SD’s heart.

      • Anonymous says:

        Well, believe it or not, there are high and substantial SBs out there who care for the SD, while there are also minimal, practical or moderate ones who do not care at all for the SD. The main reason for this is that it depends on the person. It doesn’t have anything to do with her heading because that actually meant that he has to have a bigger heart than his wallet, in terms of kindness and personality.

      • Bruce Wayne says:

        ok — you are right — where do I send the prize?

      • Anonymous says:

        Thanks, please send it to 27 St. Transylvania.

      • Anonymous says:

        Thanks for the clarification. You did sound like a Transylvanian.

      • Anonymous says:

        And you would know? Elm street sounds more like your playground.

    • Anonymous says:

      You can read anything in it that your female mind desires. A careful man would read some variation of “you’re a piece of shit in my book regardless of what you give me.”

      • Anonymous says:

        I am not sure how you can draw that conclusion just from a heading and an expectation budget. But then again you can draw any conclusion in that male mind of yours that you’re so proud of. After all, you’re a man and you like to generalize. I’ll give that to you.

      • Anonymous says:

        Lol

  112. Anonymous says:

    Thats good. I’m finding it good thank you, very busy! Yeah i’m seeing a platonic arrangement, one with no sexual interaction what-so-ever.
    Cool, I am seeking an arrangement without any monetary interaction.

    Success!
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  113. Leyla1016 says:

    How do I change my “about me” and “what I’m looking for”

    • Cryptic Anomaly says:

      Top Right Hand side of the screen where it says your name, I think that would only be on the main part of the site not the blog. Click the down arrow, select Profile then go down to Bio.

  114. Anonymous says:

    Check my profile out and message me :) looking forward to talking with you.

  115. TheTrina says:

    Uggh, my anthropology studies leads me to believe you don’t actually know much gender and sexual needs, or at least haven’t been keeping up with the research. Surprise: Women have high sex drives, and all cultures dictate how sexuality is expressed for different genders. (Sure, biology has a lot to do with sex, but citing as a means for *why* something happens is very dismissive of the entire story, and is usually better for explaining why something is *expressed* in a certain way.)

    • Cryptic Anomaly says:

      That was so carefully worded it almost didn’t say anything. :-)

      I also believe sexuality is far more complicated than people like to think it is, especially in terms of male sexuality, the whole “men cheat” or “men are horny dogs” etc it just serves to place people into neat little boxes so it makes others feel better and more secure about their place in the world.

    • Anonymous says:

      @TheTrina
      That was funny.
      Women have “high sex drives”???? If that were the case, Mr. Wade would be sleeping on the couch @his mum’s.
      The whole reason for SA existence is that men have high sex drives and are willing to support women who need rent and the phone bill paid and who do not really care about sex, as soon as the above is fulfilled.
      High sex drive…puhaleeze.

      • Anonymous says:

        She forgot to mention that women also have high control of themselves, and can get off with whatever they can without having intercourse.

    • Anonymous says:

      @TheTrina “Research” in non-hard science subjects goes like this nowadays: Select a contrarian conclusion to established view, then shop for “evidence”! Every year hundreds of thousands of PhD and Master thesis papers have to be written about something. The culture of contrarian theses started in fine arts and history in the early 20th century, as those were the first government subsidized over-fished ponds facing publish-or-die risk. Over the past few decades, all the soft and pseudo-“science” fields have caught up on the band wagon as millions degrees were churned out.

    • Kore13 says:

      @TheTrina “but citing as a means for *why* something happens is very dismissive of the entire story, and is usually better for explaining why something is *expressed* in a certain way”

      Yes, that’s true, but to most, ‘why’ and ’cause’ are typically interchangeable. But not everyone cares to be that politically correct – I think most will understand that cheating is an expression of dissatisfaction anyway.

      Also, what is, “Women have high sex drives?” If you generalize that much, it wouldn’t be ‘high’ sex drives. It would be the norm. Just ‘sex drives’ would work. If you’re going to state something like that, you should follow it up with an explanation if you don’t want replies like those previous.

      • Anonymous says:

        Who cares about the replies? She has studied the field, is a woman herself and knows what she’s talking about. Though there certainly are women who have no sex drives because of different reasons and/or are asexual, the majority of people have high sex drives.

      • Kore13 says:

        So, your logic is, ‘Let’s not contradict her because she studies the field, even though I contradict her, despite her studying the field.’

        Well done.

      • Anonymous says:

        The reason men advance in any endeavor is because they tend to beat each other up.

        Women tend to go for groupthink UNLESS they are trained by men to think like a man.

      • Anonymous says:

        Do you think contradicting a doctor with the knowledge he gained while studying the field would be smart? Do we have his knowledge?
        Then how are we supposed to contradict him if we have no idea what he’s talking about.

      • Kore13 says:

        Holy crap, the amount of BS on the blog is at an all time high! Haven’t seen this much of it since participating.

        OK

        1) A scientist has access to previously acquired information. We are continuously gathering information, some of which will lead us to believe something other than what we had previously believed to be true.

        2) A scientist will also tell you this. If you contradict him with absolutely no information on the topic, yes, you will come across as stupid. Nevertheless, you will still come across as stupid to blindly believe anything he says, since being a doctor doesn’t stop him from being a normal human being than can err or have secret agendas. A scientist can only go so far as to say ‘we haven’