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Upgrade Your Spring Break

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Bye-Bye winter— hello spring! Flower gardens are coming to life, and the weather is warming up. I hope your body is swimsuit ready because … spring break is quickly approaching! Don’t panic. SeekingArrangement knows just what you need for the perfect spring break upgrade.

Ditch the typical “college kid”  mindset, and join a Sugar Daddy for an unforgettable spring break getaway. It’s no secret that Sugar Daddies love introducing Sugar Babies to the finer things in life. What are you waiting for? Go ahead and add a little Sugar to your Spring Break.

Top-Notch Destinations

Skip Venice Beach this year, and let your Daddy take you somewhere lavish. There are beautiful beaches all over the world, so why settle for something basic? Lanikai Beach, is one of the most scenic beaches in Hawaii. Go ahead and let your toes sink into the warm sand while you catch unlimited rays of Hawaiian sunshine.

Perhaps your Sugar Daddy wants a taste of the Caribbean. Puerto Rico is the perfect destination with a breathtaking variety of landscapes. Ranging from the tangled jungle of El Yunque, to the beautiful caves of Río Camuy. Make this spring an adventure!

Travel like a Movie Star

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Dump your friends, and their creepy kidnapper van. Road trips are fun, but why split the cost of gas, when you can fly first-class? It’s way more efficient, and a lot more comfortable. Plus, you don’t have to worry about getting lost, or driving for extended hours.

A first class flight is the perfect opportunity for a little cuddle session with your Sugar Daddy. If you’re too excited for cuddling, take time to express your excitement, and discuss activity ideas instead. You two will have quite the adventure ahead meaning there’s plenty to talk about.

Dine like a King… or Queen

Drop the value menu, and acquire a taste for something out of the ordinary. One of the best parts about traveling, is the amazing food that comes with the territory. Why settle for cheap fast food? Your trusty Big Mac can be found everywhere, go for something new!

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If you’re a sushi fan, Honolulu, is known for having some of the freshest sushi in the world. Not just the city— the world! The fresh off-the-boat mouth watering sushi is sure to leave a lasting impression on your taste buds.

For those craving some latin flair enjoy a taste of Cuba in South Beach, FL. The Atlantic offers pristine, crystal clear beaches. So why not enjoy the water in Florida, and an endless supply of Cuban cuisine?

Food choices can honestly make or break an entire vacation. Ask locals for their favorite places to dine, you can rarely go wrong with a locals perspective.

Take Home Experiences of a Lifetime

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Drinking is a must during spring break. But If you’re searching for an upgrade, drinking to the point of no return simply won’t suffice. And forget about spending your entire vacation laid out on the beach. Yes, it’s free, and yes, it’s relaxing… but there is so much more you can do! Save the sunbathing for your backyard, and explore your spring break destination with your Sugar Daddy!

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Sunburns are expected regardless of how much sunscreen you slather on. So long as you’re living it up, and making memories your travels will totally be worth it!

Let your sunburn tell a story. How could anyone ever resist the opportunity to swim with Dolphins? A marine life tour is an unforgettable experience. Oahu, Hawaii offers amazing tours, that include scuba diving, and snorkeling. There’s an activity for everyone to enjoy. If you’re feeling really adventurous, the thrill of parasailing and jet skiing will be the perfect combination.

Water adventures aren’t for everyone. So if you prefer to stay on land, give mainland adventures a try. Take a walk-along tour, or zip-line above the sights of paradise. Hilo, Hawaii offers a sky tour that will have you cascading through the plush native Hawaiian rain forests. You will be sure to get the thrill of a life time.

If Hawaii isn’t your first choice, the Bahamas is a beautiful destination as well. Take a Jeep tour in Nassau, and explore the wildlife and jungles. You’ll come home with more pictures than you know what to do with. You won’t be able to resist the water, because the Bahamas offer beaches with water temps that average from 80 degrees. If that doesn’t sound like heaven, I don’t know what does.

Stay In Luxurious Resorts

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Make low-budget hotels, and couch surfing a thing of the past. You deserve comfort while on vacation.The Holiday Inn just won’t cut it, but the Ritz Carlton, or the Four Seasons, could change your life.

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If you’re searching for an unforgettable stay, the fabulous city of Las Vegas offers top notch hotels and resorts! Why stay at the Quad when you can enjoy a penthouse suite that overlooks the Strip at the Cosmopolitan!? Las Vegas is filled with high end resorts that offer 5-star service, fine dining, and on-site spas for a little R&R. The setting is perfect for your spring break getaway.

An upgrade sounds better and better, doesn’t it?

If the glitz and glam of Vegas, isn’t your style for spring break. The resorts in Mexico, are to die for. Tijuana, doesn’t exactly scream glamourous, and chances are Cabo will be flooded with belligerent college students. Cancun however, offers a variety of luxury resorts that will give you the space you’re searching for. Expect spectacular ocean views, and impressive architecture all from the terrace of your suite.

If you can dream it… chances are your Sugar Daddy can make it a reality. Whether you’re craving, the Vegas nightlife, or a Luau in Hawaii, anything is possible if you have the right funds to back it. Sugar Daddies enjoy a nice vacation from time to time, but a little company makes it that much sweeter.

Where will you jet set this spring?

 

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1,166 Responses to “Upgrade Your Spring Break”

  1. colesterol alto says:

    good blog

  2. Myles32 says:

    amazinggg

  3. Thanks SA for write about my country Puerto Rico in your Top Notch destinations; is a beautiful Island for sure. Glad to live in here; Paradise!

  4. Dakotafr says:

    Hey,
    I’m a young french SB looking for fun ….., traveling is not q problem. Give me a sign if you’re interested….

    missendei at outlook dot fr

    xoxo

  5. Jayne of all Trades says:

    The sights screams “Gentleman” to Me.

  6. Jayne of all Trades says:

    You ever say “Lobster”, I would be insulted.
    – Where the hell are you getting these girls
    What about those, who aren’t trying to play out of their league

    If you’re PimP’N the Ladies out, Good Market – I’m not Hating
    I just think every Lady deserves the actual finest & this is misleading
    .. really more so in ways that leads them right to the path of Dirty Pimps
    I am not going to think that’s part of your Business, such a Nice Sight ~(=
    I just don’t want Good-Things to waste, even lives, over miss-direction
    <>

    Lots of this should be “red-flags” occasionally
    Be careful with the ones who are too “in tune” & “on key”
    BLOCK the “dumbasses” on contact, if you mean real Business.
    Don’t even pay no mind to matter over the sleeze-balls trying to
    “Take advantage” of their position and situation, pay No Mind – Unless
    You want to play rough,.. maybe even shipped in a box over to Temple of ISIS
    .. for all “we” know, you know. This is a great sight, keep it that way plz
    300$ is not worth yo life, NOTHING IS. heh if need it THAT Bad, I’ll give you 300$ and all you have to do is – whatever, perhaps even get lucky enough you enjoy yourself. You are Priceless, for whatever it’s worth.

  7. Jayne of all Trades says:

    You take me to Sushi, saying “Adventurous”, I might just .. go home.
    – It’s not creative either, the same as saying Chinese or Lobster
    It’s more like an insult to someone who is actually adventurous. Wow

    Acting like all men have to do is drop their trousers while girls worship
    I’m not going to be around someone who has no mind of their own, yeah-sure
    Selling how Successful they are, when they can’t think of anything but Sushi

  8. Jayne of all Trades says:

    Sushi ? That’s Not New, or Adventurous o.O
    – Is that REALLY all you could come up with

  9. newbysof says:

    @LadyScarett I saw in anothers posts that you are getting big allowances ,thats being full of wisdom, I have been struggling myself trying to find a sugar daddy, my situation is pretty desperate as i find just poor pots with small allowances, being in another country ,not being able to work legally, leave me this as one of my only one options,would you mind to share some of your tips to find a worth sugar daddy, hightly appreciated in advance for your response,thanks so much! and please help me

  10. CanadianSB says:

    Hello I’m fairly new and I’m Canadian.
    Wondering if there are any other Canadians on here?

  11. KennaKenna says:

    @southern I heard about Empire but haven’t watched it yet. I’m going to check it out- thanks.

    Yes, I tried to explain to her that I just naturally have a slender frame but she kept going on and on saying I will have a malnourished child.

    @Georgia thank you for reaponding. I’m sure I will have questions as I get closer.

  12. Lainey says:

    @FubDude AGREED! I have friends that are COMPLETE jersey chasing groupie party girls and wonder why none the the ridiculous number of men they sleep with wants to wife them up.

  13. SouthernSB says:

    Oh @Kenna, have you seen “Empire” yet? You have to see that show. It’s a well written, star studded, hot mess of a TV drama. Way better than the so called “reality” show “Love and Hip Hop” that it’s based off of. Once you see it you will be totally hooked. Great for binge watching. Just watch the first episode if you don’t watch it already. Believe me, you will come away saying, “WTF, was that, and when can I see the rest?”

  14. SouthernSB says:

    @KennaKenna-There is no way you can “starve” your baby short of not eating at all. After all the women in Syria and Sub-Saharan Africa have healthy babies in both war and famine zones. That woman was a bitch and probably fat too. Jealous fat women love company and will do anything to bring more women into their “fold.”

  15. LadyScarlett says:

    Sure, any of those dates will work…(;

  16. a latin opinion says:

    There is a new post everyone.

  17. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @LadyScarlett
    “Gapeach, don’t forget about picking a place (:…”
    Yikes! Next week won’t work for me. I’m leaving for VA on Tues the 31st and won’t be back here until the following Monday night (Apr 6) Any chance we could meet April 8,9, or 10? Or any Wed – Fri after that? Sorry.
    I haven’t seen my Dad since Christmas and he’s having a difficult time since my Mom passed last June. I’ve got to get back up there and check on him.
    Let me know. I really want to meet you (and the ATL SD!)

  18. FunDude says:

    Typical women at Spring Break these days:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=97&v=L-OGvZIccmo}}

    When most women are this way (including SBs) then why pay anything BUT p4p?

    These chicks have sex like its nothing anyway.

    Never marry lol

  19. LadyScarlett says:

    Gapeach, don’t forget about picking a place (: AtlantaSD said next week would work fine, if you can still make it 😉 We should totally get AtlantaSD to take us to Stoney River for lunch…hehe..

  20. DarkHorseSD says:

    “But remember that the SD population is a tiny slice of mankind”

    Whereas the SB population is turning out to be a fairly “wide” slice. 😮

  21. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    “The goat thing is so fucking lame. I guess women are assessing their “worth” through similar processes. :(”
    LOL. Haven’t you ever taken a “test” just for fun. You know it’s a worthless piece of crap, but it’s just an interesting read, something different for fun and may give you an idea or two for new approach to something? I thought the Goat Test was a real “hoot.” I’m still laughing.

    @ Kenna
    Honey, you should know that when you are pregnant and give birth, it is typically something that most women NEVER forget. My son’s 28th birthday is today. I remember my pregnancy like it was yesterday. I can tell you where I was when I first” felt the “flutter” of him inside of me and God help me when it came time to deliver. He was quite a happy baby staying precisely where he was, kicking the crap out of my ribs, etc. He was so active, you could watch my stomach just roll. LOL. As hard as it was with morning sickness for the 9 month and crazy labor, I would have had several more. My late husb. didn’t want any more. So. But I will tell you not to worry. I was in labor for over 24 hour before my Dr decided to do a C-section- he finally realized that an 8 lb baby wasn’t not going to come thru these legs. Though I have a small scar, I think of it in a good way. I did something right and I didn’t have to deal with an “episiotomy” or other painful issues that can sometimes occur. Keeping a journal may help guide you through all this and it will give you an opportunity to not only keep a record of your first baby, it will allow you to keep your own thoughts and remember clearly for the next one. Hope this helps. If I can help in any way, just let me know. :)

  22. flyR says:

    “”So is she fat? Or is she fatbulously hot? I think most men around the world think she is hot.(-:”” NOT^100

    I can not think of a single attractive feature …More like a Yugo with 250,000 miles on unpaved roads………. driven by those wanting to get even with the rental car company.

    But remember that the SD population is a tiny slice of mankind

  23. KeKe says:

    I scored tickets to lollapolooza, but now that I saw the lineup I dont want to go…

  24. KeKe says:

    @Anyone..bored out of my f#cking mind at work. . Any fun plans for the weekend?

  25. Josh says:

    The goat thing is so fucking lame. I guess women are assessing their “worth” through similar processes. :(

  26. DarkHorseSD says:

    (She’s not IN California however)

  27. DarkHorseSD says:

    Josh says:
    March 25, 2015 at 6:55 am
    I like sweaty women…is that good or bad?
    —–
    She’s also from California where apparently the girls all like to take things slow.

    BMI measured from photos is good, but the goat level is in question.

  28. Josh says:

    I like sweaty women…is that good or bad?

  29. a latin opinion says:

    “DarkHorseSD says:
    March 25, 2015 at 6:05 am
    @Latin, no, not consciously. Does it apply to you? It applies to someone I met recently.”

    ok sorry, never mind (-:

    It didn’t make sense any way because I’m always cool with everyone and I think you are a lot of fun.

  30. DarkHorseSD says:

    Shit I read from someone yesterday:

    “I can’t meet you today because I’m moving furniture and don’t want to show up all sweaty.”

  31. DarkHorseSD says:

    @Latin, no, not consciously. Does it apply to you? It applies to someone I met recently.

  32. a latin opinion says:

    DarkHorseSD says:
    “March 25, 2015 at 3:22 am
    By the time a “women” finishes working out in the gym and working 7 days of $100 restaurant shifts, she has no time for a relationship.

    How much is that worth to an SD?”

    Hi baby, I want to know something, are you referring/making fun of me in this post?

  33. Josh says:

    @KeKe: “@Josh you don’t think you’re reaching by comparing an obstetrician health recommendations to her fiancé request?”

    It would be like comparing apples and oranges if women were forgiving enough to men when they forget their stupid birthday or anniversary or whatever the hell day. 😉

    @KennaKenna: “@Josh geez it was a joke!”

    As long as “it was a joke”… :)

  34. peeps says:

    @fundude
    go to gravatar.com and add pictures attached to the email address you use for the blog

  35. FunDude says:

    How do we put pics of just the body in the sidebar?

    I want to put a pic flexing to add the male perspective to these pics lol

  36. a latin opinion says:

    Lol For a woman* I will…

  37. DarkHorseSD says:

    Shit I heard on my dates yesterday:

    “I had to move a lot of my online selling to another website because I got in trouble with PayPal.”

  38. DarkHorseSD says:

    By the time a “women” finishes working out in the gym and working 7 days of $100 restaurant shifts, she has no time for a relationship.

    How much is that worth to an SD?

  39. KennaKenna says:

    @Catcher thank you, I will check it out.

  40. Catcher-22 says:

    @KennaKenna. I highly recommend “Homeland”. Really awesome series!!

  41. KeKe says:

    @UnCommon.. thanks for the heads up!

  42. UncommonSB says:

    Wow… I’ve gotten messages lately that I could tell within a few exchanges were not from legit sd’s. Out of curiosity, I did a web search for a couple of their usernames and found one that was listed on an sd blacklist site for already scamming and mistreating several women. Thank god my bullshit meter hasn’t failed me thus far, but I’ll definitely be cross checking from now on. I recommend others do the same.

  43. a latin opinion says:

    Kim Kardashian

    38/26.5/42 in

    34D breast

    5 ft 2½ in tall

    63 kg

    So is she fat? Or is she fatbulously hot? I think most men around the world think she is hot.(-:

  44. a latin opinion says:

    @VitesseSD, @Lainey, @fundude

    [http://www.leighpeele.com/body-fat-pictures-and-percentages]

    I also think is not as easy as vittesse and fundude say, not for the woman neither the man.

    The two times in my life I was a litte bit overweight is when people found me more attractive. I have always get “stop exercising you look better with a little bit more weight”

    I do believe that for some people (regular people not artists) is possible to look better with a few extra pounds of what their average should be.

    Marylin Moonroe case: [http://www.todayifoundout.com/index.php/2012/04/marilyn-monroe-was-not-even-close-to-a-size-12-16/]

    For a women I will used a different method, instead of asking how much she weights and how tall she is, I will take in consideration how many inches does she has on bust/waist/hips and then how tall she is.

    For instance 5’8 should be 34/24/34 to be perfect on camera/tv (since we all know it will ad you some pou ds).So a regular gal have to make the maths to know how close is she to this perfect shape, taking in consideration her height/ background/what she likes/what his man likes etc etc etc

    btw if you think tv/camera doesn’t add pounds [http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-109161/TV-does-pile-pounds.html]

  45. KennaKenna says:

    @Josh geez it was a joke!

    @Keke will check it out.

  46. KeKe says:

    @Kenna
    I heard secrets and lies was good.

  47. KeKe says:

    @Josh you don’t think you’re reaching by comparing an obstetrician health recommendations to her fiancé request?

  48. Josh says:

    *during your pregnancy?

  49. Josh says:

    Will you also “cheat” on what your gynecologist recommends what to do dying your pregnancy?

    If the answer is yes, then more power to you. You’re out there…

    If the answer is no, then you consider your man’s request less worthy of respect than than physician’s.

  50. Josh says:

    @KennaKenna

    “My man wants me to wait to watch the third season with him.
    Maybe I’ll cheat lol”

    Do you not have self control on even such a trivial matter?

  51. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey @Keke

    I watched the first 2 seasons of House of Cards. My man wants me to wait to watch the third season with him.

    Maybe I’ll cheat lol

  52. KeKe says:

    Just started watching House of Cards. Love it!

  53. KeKe says:

    @Lainey.. definitely doing it for me. I have two kids who model me. I need to get healthy for me and them.

  54. Lainey says:

    My Fave shows are Hannibal and House of Cards

  55. KeKe says:

    @Kenna.. They are not. My epidural didn’t work with my daughter and I had back labor. I was praying. It hurt so bad at the ended. I just kept thinking, ” Why the f#ck would anyone want to do this without meds”. I don’t need a medal. Give me drugs!

  56. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey

    Yip.

  57. Lainey says:

    SO I’m guessing you already watch Scandal and How to Get Away With Murder.. I don’t watch them but I hear they are good.

  58. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey

    Dramas.

  59. KennaKenna says:

    I’ve been watching delivery videos all evening and now I think I’m traumatized. I think doing everything natural may be a bad idea :(.

    @Keo
    Tell me these women are over exaggerating the pain and it doesn’t hurt that bad.

  60. Lainey says:

    @Kenna what genre do you like?

  61. Josh says:

    My very first girlfriend was 5′-6″ and 135 lbs. What an amazing body she had. Mmmmmmm.

  62. KennaKenna says:

    Help! I need a new series to start watching.

  63. Lainey says:

    @Keke YAY thats great! and I’m with Josh, there is no reason to tell him you’re losing weight. DO it for you, not to be aesthetically pleasing to a man. The moment you do it for yourself is the moment it lasts longer and isn’t some fleeting task

  64. KeKe says:

    @Lainey..I agree. I’m 5’6 and under 150. I look like a lollipop.

  65. Lainey says:

    @VitesseSD What you consider obese my world renown internal medicine doctor doesn’t, so I’m quite alright with that. Plus, you can see by my comments to Fundude and Kenna that I am by NO means defending being obese but I do not believe what you believe which is that everyone would look good at the same weight.

  66. KeKe says:

    I see why you call yourself Guru, oh wise one.

    It’s for health. I had borderline hypertension. I don’t anymore with losing weight and exercise. But I just want to be on the safe side… I’m losing the weight

  67. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    If 10 lbs weight loss is for health, do it. If it is for some kind of challenge to yourself then you can postpone it for a bit. Who knows how long he is going to last.

  68. KeKe says:

    @Josh. He doesn’t think I’m fat now. He has blinders on though. He’s really into me

  69. Josh says:

    @Keke

    After losing 10 lbs, find an appropriate outfit and ask him “do I look fat in this”?

  70. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    “He did ask me not to lose more weight. @Josh is that self sabotage if I don’t listen and lose another 10 against my SD preference. I just want to be healthier.”

    You don’t need to tell him that you have lost 10 lbs. Health is bigger priority. If you have to choose between YOUR health and/or your children’s well-being and him, then he can go to hell. :)

  71. KennaKenna says:

    @T

    I’m telling you I am 5’5.5 and people have seen photos of me standing beside my man who is 6’0. Thunder thighs? No girl- my legs don’t even touch- I have what some call a “thigh gap”.

  72. Josh says:

    There are lessons to be learnt by SDs in these videos.

    MGTOW – Primer on Female Nature 1
    [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sCRE8ugDfYc]

    MGTOW – Primer on Female Nature 2
    [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRbm75IAuAI]

  73. KeKe says:

    @Lainey
    Me and the SD are great. We adore each other and are having a lot of fun. I’m trying to not get too invested. He just asked his company around Christmas to move him from Chicago because he hates the we weather and has an office in L.A. well now he has to go back and say he wants to stay. Lol. It’s all weird. It would be easier if we meet on SA.

    He did ask me not to lose more weight. @Josh is that self sabotage if I don’t listen and lose another 10 against my SD preference. I just want to be healthier.

  74. KeKe says:

    @Lainey
    @Georgia

    Sorry I fell asleep on you girls yesterday.

  75. KeKe says:

    @Lainey…No honey. I’m over weight. I would also like to add that I use to be an X ray tech..EVERBODY bones are similar size. There is no such thing as big boned.

  76. T says:

    Okay, but I can say I am 100 lbs and 5’9”. We’ve seen photos where you have thunder thighs and look 5’0” tops.

  77. DarkHorseSD says:

    True value of a woman is the inverse of her BMI::Goat ratio.

  78. FunDude says:

    flyr doesn’t appear to have any respect for the guru lol

  79. DarkHorseSD says:

    Shit I heard on my dates today:

    “You are in X? Oh, then you must be a Jew.”

    “I’ve never been to Tel Aviv, but I hear it’s a really fun place.”

  80. Josh says:

    @Guru has method to his madness. :)

  81. FunDude says:

    Joshie better defend his honor.

    FLYR appears to be scaring Joshie off the blog.

    The Guru can’t allow this level of disrespect from FLYR!

  82. DarkHorseSD says:

    Since I joined SA I thought women came in the following Bone Trims:

    Substantial Boned
    Moderate Boned
    Practical Boned
    Minimal Boned
    Negotiable about being boned.

  83. FunDude says:

    Damn FLYR is shitting on “Joshie” lol

  84. flyR says:

    @ Joshie – Let me try this one more time.

    I think women are wonderful creatures put here for our mutual pleasure. No my mother never said anything remotely negative about my father nor did he ever say anything about her other than the most positive. Those with whom he interacted with were treated with respect where due regardless of their “social stature” , race or religion. He practiced great medicine regardless if the patient was the child of a future president or a difficult welfare case which the county asked him to assist with.

    You and I have a difficulty communicating because you are filled with negativity and insecurity. You remind me of a lot of the vacuous Wall Street folks I have met over the years. They would slit their mother’s throat for an extra eighth of a point. They are desperately trying to fill an empty life with the pretenses of happiness.

    The difference between our approaches to sugar is not the allowances or P4P we offer but something much more important. I’m not interested in an SB whom I do not respect, value their intellect, enjoy their orgasms and want them to look back on the relationship as something that was good for them. I’m not looking for 1 hour sperm dumpsters but rather an SB who comes through the door knowing that we are going to enjoy a number of hours of mutually great sex along with some good food, wine and conversation.

    I’ve talked a lot about SB’s differentiating themselves from the “competition” , defining their brand and identifying what’s important to them. My experience over the past decade is that a large % of the women involved in sugar or considering sugar are more than willing to trade allowance for a better relationship. If you listen to some of the most enthusiastic SB posters you’ll see a lot of comments about I would be with X with NO sugar because my other needs are met. Of course it is not universal.

    Don’t expect a better outcome from the same behavior.

    I realize you probably come from a very different world. That’s your problem and unfortunately the problem of the people with whom you interact.

  85. KennaKenna says:

    @Vitesse

    I’ve always been this weight- Doc says I could gain a few more pounds to be ideal weight but it’s not a concern.

  86. VitesseSD says:

    @SD55

    I wouldnt swear off women who are 22, one of my biggest worries is always that a woman will try to get pregnant for child support. I’d expect college girls are far less likely to want a child.

    The I’m still in school no children thing does seem to wear off the moment she graduates though, so be careful.

  87. VitesseSD says:

    @Kenna

    Being realistic I’d say waist size is a better measure of fitness, 23.5 doesnt sound malnourished, Marilyn Monroe was 22, and the 50s housewife was 25, you’re right in the middle.

  88. Josh says:

    Estrogen Based Parasites #killallmen
    [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5pGLNeov2VM]
    Not All Women Are Like That Estrogen Based Parasites Critic by Stefan Molyneux
    [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QgUR4OLhvXY]

  89. MissLady says:

    Yeah @kenna, I think I probably graduated from that category a couple of years ago after playing with the numbers

  90. SD55 says:

    Just when I swore off 22 yr olds, I had a beer with a local uni student this evening after work. She is SUCH a nerdy girl. I have a THING for nerdy girls. I will spend way more than usual on this nerdy girl and won’t regret it.

  91. KennaKenna says:

    My BMI is under 18.5 which means I’m technically underweight.

  92. VitesseSD says:

    @KennaKenna

    I can confirm 5’5 and 103lbs is not thick

  93. KennaKenna says:

    @T

    Yes, I am black- so I have curves but I am not thick- My waist is 23.5 inches.

  94. MissLady says:

    Lol I’ve never checked, my bmi is 18.95

  95. FunDude says:

    Finally we have some intelligent SD contributors on here.

  96. KennaKenna says:

    @T

    I am thick???? Ummmm no! Thick is 103 lbs and 5’5.5?

  97. VitesseSD says:

    @Lainey
    “I’m sorry but my boobs weigh a lot. Lol. I’m a 34/36H and do not have huge boobs because I’m “fat”. I started getting boobs in first grade and they have only changed one cup size since highschool. I was a DD at 13 and a G by 18 and I had actually lost weight between 13 and 18. SO lets not make that a universal statement. There is always an exception”

    Your breasts weigh at most 3 lbs each. Go ahead, google is right there.
    Compared to a woman who has smaller breasts (1 pound each), you get 4 free pounds, congratulations.

  98. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    It depends on your waist size and body fat percentage.

    That is the true measure.

    If your tits weight a lot but you have a small waist and overall body fat percentage, then I will believe its mostly the “tits”.

    Without that, I can’t make that decision.

  99. T says:

    Kenna, are you really trying to play like you are underweight? We’ve seen photos of you before. You are thick.

  100. VitesseSD says:

    @Lainey
    “thats BS because some people have more muscle mass than others. Would you make that same argument to Serene Williams?”

    Hell yes I would. That woman is in the gym every day training. I wouldn’t disrespect her by saying her muscle just magically appeared on her. I also wouldnt say that she’s the same as someone who’s fat.

    She’s 5’9 and 155 lbs. Do I doubt she has 35 lbs of muscle on her? Not at all, look at her pictures.

    Dont go around comparing obesity to athletes, especially not the best athletes in the world.

  101. KennaKenna says:

    You learn something new everyday.

    Anyways, I got into a heated discussion with a woman who is also pregnant. I told her I will not overeat because I am “eating for two”. She accused me of focusing too much on my body and starving my future child. Then I tried to tell her, even if I did overeat- I probably won’t gain weight either as my metabolism is crazy. She went off on me lol.

  102. Lainey says:

    @Fundude I’m sorry but my boobs weigh a lot. Lol. I’m a 34/36H and do not have huge boobs because I’m “fat”. I started getting boobs in first grade and they have only changed one cup size since highschool. I was a DD at 13 and a G by 18 and I had actually lost weight between 13 and 18. SO lets not make that a universal statement. There is always an exception

  103. FunDude says:

    Breasts are a small amount of overall female weight.

    Furthermore, women are given acceptance for 5 percent higher body fat indices than men as “normal”.

    Ergo, some normal extra fat on the female frame is ALREADY accounted for in the measurements.

  104. VitesseSD says:

    “Ergo, the BMI is notoriously underestimating female obesity and overestimating male obesity.”

    Even then the average male american is only overweight according to BMI charts, while the average woman is obese.

    Nobody in their right mind (without being blackmailed politically) would say that a woman and a man who are the same height can/should be the same weight. Even then women are incapable of keeping their obesity below male weight standards.

    Women eat as much as men (there are no women’s portions anywhere), they do not work out, (I’ve spent years in gyms, there’s always 10x more guys, the few women who are there seem to wear skin-tight crap and tons of makeup to pick up men). What do you expect? Imagine if all men doubled their food intake and stopped going to the gym or working physical jobs?

  105. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    How many women are built like Serena Williams? That is EXTREMELY rare for a female.

    Most females haven’t developed much muscle mass.

    Ergo, their weight is largely dictated by extra fat rather than muscle.

    That is why BMI will frequently overestimate male obesity and underestimate female obesity.

  106. Lainey says:

    @Fundude 5’3 166 is not cute

  107. Lainey says:

    @Fundude but they have to factor in the difference between men and women because we have breasts.

    @VitesseSD thats BS because some people have more muscle mass than others. Would you make that same argument to Serene Williams?

  108. FunDude says:

    @Vit

    Its even worse than that. the BMI is notoriously inaccurate for females and males.

    I truly believe the BMI UNDERESTIMATES female obesity and OVERESTIMATES male obesity.

    I see this EVERYDAY in practice.

  109. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    “Big Boned” can’t explain the 5’3″ and 166lb weight as the “average” American female.

    That is basically obese.

    I find BMI to be inaccurate for women as well. I will very often see women who are within “normal” BMI ranges having a good amount of excess fat on their frame.

    Often, men with higher than “normal” BMI have extra muscle with only a slightly increased fat level.

    For instance, I am 6 foot and 210 to 215lbs. According to my BMI, I would be either considered overweight or even obese.

    However, my body fat is relatively low. My weight is mostly due to working out 4 times/week and adding muscle mass.

    My ex gf had a BMI around 23, which was considered “normal”. She was 5’6″ and 130lbs or so.

    Yet, she had significantly more abdominal obesity that I have.

    Ergo, the BMI is notoriously underestimating female obesity and overestimating male obesity.

  110. VitesseSD says:

    ok here’s the link I was having difficulty posting in my prior post:

    https ://www. nhlbi.nih .gov/health/educational/lose_wt/BMI/ bmi_tbl.pdf

  111. VitesseSD says:

    @Josh
    “You are dead WRONG about @Lainey. She is beautiful.”

    I’m not saying she’s not, there’s always some wiggleroom when it comes to weight, that said I disagree that she would somehow look horrible if she weighed less, odds are she would be more attractive.

    ‘“Half of america is obese, what nobody says is, its the women.”
    Now this is interesting. Shhhhhh don’t tell @FunDude. He will have a field day with that one.’

    According to the CDC the average american woman is obese. The average man is not.

    For some reason the blog keeps blocking this post so I keep trimming it gah.

  112. VitesseSD says:

    @KennaKenna

    “I just always assumed some people were bigger boned, well that’s what they said anyways. So you’re saying- it is possible for every woman who is 5’10 to be 120 lbs and look healthy?”

    Yep, thats just biology.

    Calories in calories out. Nobody has magical giant skeletons. Its a matter of putting the effort in. Yes as obesity gets worse weight loss becomes harder but its not impossible. Short of being on medication that causes severe weight gain, there is no real excuse for obesity.

  113. FunDude says:

    @Vit

    Very good contributions.

    I have been arguing that the “obesity” epidemic is FAR greater among the American female population.

    The Marilyn Monroe statistic just hits it out of the ballpark in its accuracy considering she is considered “curvy”.

    MM had a 25 inch waist, weighed approximately 118lbs at 5’4″. That is truly “curvy” not these fat slobs.

    Men’s weights are more deceptive because of muscle mass. Many “heavier” men aren’t really fat but have extra muscle with only a little extra fat.

    Women’s increased in weight is SOLELY due to fat not muscle (unless she is a bodybuilder, which is VERY rare).

    Ergo, the obesity epidemic in America is a far bigger issue with women rather than men.

  114. KennaKenna says:

    @Vitesse really?

    I just always assumed some people were bigger boned, well that’s what they said anyways. So you’re saying- it is possible for every woman who is 5’10 to be 120 lbs and look healthy?

  115. VitesseSD says:

    @Lainey

    “@Kenna You sister probably has a small frame similar to yours and your mother’s. If someone with a larger frame was 126 they’d be underweight. Also, muscle weighs more than fat”

    I regret that I must inform you that there is no such thing as a “large frame”.

    Feel free to ask any doctor, skeletons are in fact the same size regardless of a person’s weight.
    See this xray as an example
    http :// i.imgur .com/ kX7Hyv8.jpg

    The muscle weighs more than fat excuse is also quite false, while it does weigh more, outside of women who are bodybuilders/weightlifters, women do not have enough muscle to impact their weight significantly. Feel free to ask any bodybuilder how “easy” it is to gain 10 lbs of muscle, and if they could do it without setting foot in a gym’s weightroom.

    Weight from muscle also would not affect a woman’s waist size.

    These things are simply rationalizations, you weigh what you weigh, losing weight is almost never easy for anyone, maintaining a healthy weight takes effort. Do not dismiss it as impossible, the majority of the male population does it. Women from most countries do as well.

  116. KennaKenna says:

    SD: Do you have a full body pic?

    SB: Are you a pic collector? I’m quite slim, 5’4 – 5’5

    SD: No just want to see if you have a nice body worth fucking to be honest

    SB: Hah- do you have a full bank statement?
    I just want to see if you have a nice income worth fucking to be honest

    hahahahahahaha! These tumblr SBs… wow.

  117. Josh says:

    @VitesseSD

    “Half of america is obese, what nobody says is, its the women.”

    Now this is interesting. Shhhhhh don’t tell @FunDude. He will have a field day with that one.

  118. Lainey says:

    @Kenna I read somewhere that the average waist was a 36

  119. Josh says:

    @flyR

    I read this somewhere on the Internet.

    “A Mangina will be told so often by his mother how bad his father was that he will feel that he has to go the extra mile for the female population to make up for his fathers absence in his mothers life and be extra subservient to women even at the detriment to his sanity, usually a Manginas mother will not mention how she chased the father out the family home…”

    How much of it can you relate to?

  120. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey

    I’m actually underweight, but for some reason I have a hard time gaining weight- my metabolism is crazy. I actually work out to build a bit of muscle so I could be a bit heavier.

  121. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey

    The average size is a 16? Wow… I was thinking the average is maybe a size 12.

  122. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey

    Yes I know- that’s what I was trying to say- some people are naturally thicker/curvier.

    Curvy does not equal fat.

  123. Lainey says:

    @Kenna yea.. isn’t the average size like a 16? ICK

  124. Josh says:

    @VitesseSD

    You are dead WRONG about @Lainey. She is beautiful.

  125. Lainey says:

    @Kenna my sister and I are built differently.. She’s built like my moms side small frame, 5’10 double zero, b cup , narrow hips and little booty. I’m built like my dads side larger frame, 5’11, big boobs, wide hips, big butt, solid curvy muscular frame. We will never look the same at the same weight, if my sister was 140 she’d look sloppy and gross, if I were 119 I’d look sickly and gross. Bodies aren’t one weight fits all

  126. KennaKenna says:

    @peeps yes I’ve met a few guys who I have verified and they were cheap. I found that divorced guys are sometimes bitter.

    I’m different though, I only went out with single guys so I was a bit picky.

  127. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    “Josh you have such a way with words.”

    Don’t make me repeat yet one more time…I am the @Guru. 😉

  128. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey yes I know some people are bigger boned as well but on average American women are way more overweight than anywhere else.

  129. Lainey says:

    @Kenna You sister probably has a small frame similar to yours and your mother’s. If someone with a larger frame was 126 they’d be underweight. Also, muscle weighs more than fat

  130. peeps says:

    @kennakenna
    Thank you for your comment:) I know there are the 1%-ers, I have met a one, but I think that is not the majority of men on this site. And sometimes a man with lots of $$$ will be cheap and one with much less will be more generous.

  131. KennaKenna says:

    @Peeps

    I agreed with most of what you say :). I just want to add though that although SA is relatively middle class, there are a few here in the top 1 percent and more than a few in the top 2 percent.

  132. KennaKenna says:

    @Vitesse agreed. My sister is 5’11 and 126 lbs and she just had a baby a year ago.

    Americans overeat and the portions here are too large.

  133. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    @Peeps “…but like some of the other interesting blog SBs you just let it all hang out, and I respect you for that.”

    Josh you have such a way with words. LOL. I think I need to find a photo to “let it all hang out” too. LOL Did anyone else catch that play on words?

  134. peeps says:

    @josh I appreciate that, thank you-:)

  135. Josh says:

    @peeps

    What I like about your posts is that you are honest in your contribution. I may or may not like one or more parts of your posts, but like some of the other interesting blog SBs you just let it all hang out, and I respect you for that.

  136. peeps says:

    Just a quick comment on the market issue: I actually created a male profile to see and it’s true there are TONS of women “demanding” high allowances. Like A TON wanting “substantial” and up.

    The thing that escapes most men here is not that this is out of pace, it’s that this is the price women tell themselves they’d sleep with a much older, less attractive guy for. They are OK with no one as they can get regular decent dates (unlike some of the FUG seniors 30+ years older on here who would never get dates with women 30 years younger in the real world) otherwise. Yeah I guess most of them aren’t getting anything because there aren’t that many men offering a lot (moderate and up) on this site. Those that do will be REAL picky.

    If you guys are 30-35 you are not on the same boat as the much older men wanting younger, I honestly don’t think you’re representative many of the men here. You are still naturally desirable to younger women, without needing to shell out money as an incentive.

    I have a “negotiable” profile precisely because I don’t think my value is all that high and that isn’t the ONLY reason I am here. I also happen to live in an expensive area and I calculate allowance value based on price of hotels , meaning if a married man wants to be with me because i can “host” well and is offering me less in calculated meetings than the average price of a hotel room then I am really not interested. I’d feel used.

    I have a motto of sorts for here which is “you can’t need me more than I need you”. In other words, if I sense that the man is too interested and gets a lot more out of it than I do, I pass. It has happened several times. Mostly married guys who can’t afford to live in my neighborhood and want me to “host”. I don’t have a discussion on allowance amounts until after the first date. It’s not written on my profile. But I can tell based on comments, where they live, etc…if they are above or below the line.

    I have connected with a great SD I am attracted to who offered 2k AND does not need me to host, as he stays in hotels for work trips into the city. I have met others and continue to meet others but I have a unique real estate situation so that is what the value idea is based on. In a lot of cases, it’s not worth the risk for me.

    I know what I have to offer, other than great location, kindness, a sweet disposition and intelligence: pretty face, perfect boobs, full lips and ridiculous oral skills bordering on obsession (I don’t post THAT on my profile lol, I just say I am very giving…) , high libido, imagination, playfulness and openness to kinky situations. Since @josh is always so supportive, I’d love to offer him a dt bj for sake of our friendship-:). JOKING. LOL.

    @Fundude I said the thing about marriage because I think even if a woman marries a guy without money, she still has more advantages than a single woman. I did not say I WILL marry a rich guy, I am not all that myself, honestly, and I am older, I just think it’s so obvious that marriage is the way to go for a woman, even if the man does not make that much money or they make the same amount. Marriage is a BUSINESS DEAL that benefits and protects women. Any woman who thinks that this SD/SB thing is the way to go vs marriage isn’t thinking long-term. This is ONLY a short-term band-aid situation.

    All the top-looking women i.e. supermodels have access to the richest guys naturally…if we have to be on the website that means we aren’t all that attractive, not THAT attractive. SD/SB is a relatively middle class way of doing things.

  137. VitesseSD says:

    @DarkHorseSD

    “SB changed her profile pic and blocked her private pics on the way to the meeting with me. Pretty sketchy Russian anyway, so, although I didnt bolt, I headed for coffee and she bolted.”

    Too bad, some of those russian women are hot as hell.

  138. DarkHorseSD says:

    Pretty poor first meet today:

    SB changed her profile pic and blocked her private pics on the way to the meeting with me. Pretty sketchy Russian anyway, so, although I didnt bolt, I headed for coffee and she bolted.

  139. VitesseSD says:

    @Lainy
    “If I were 120lbs I’d be grossly underweight. I don’t think actual weight is the issue I think the unhealthy appearance of weight is.”

    There’s a bit of an elephant in the room, so I guess I’ll be the rude one and point it out.

    Click my name for the relevant link.

    The average height for a man in america is 5’9.3
    The average height for a woman in america is 5’3.8

    The average weight for a man in america is 195.5 lbs
    The average weight for a woman in america is 166.2 lbs

    The average waist for a man in america is 39.7 in
    The average waist for a woman in america is 37.5 in

    A man can have clearly defined abs with a waist size of 36 inches.
    A woman’s ideal waist size is 22 inches.

    Now before you go off on me about how weight doesn’t matter and Marilyn Monroe was a size 12, her waist size was 22 inches. She weighed 118 lbs. Google it, I dare you.

    The average waist size for an american woman in the 1950s was 25 inches. The average woman today has a waist that is 12.5 inches over what is was in 1950.

    Thats a 50% gain over the ideal waist size.

    A man who is 5’9 and weighs 195 lbs is not obese, he’s probably not even fat if he’s got any muscle on him. (210 lbs with abs is attainable, abs seem to be the definition of ideal.)

    A woman who is 5’4 and weighs 166 lbs is obese. Keeping the feminist ideal of Marilyn Monroe as the perfect healthy woman (who was coincidentally 5’4), the average woman is 40.6% over her ideal weight.

    Applying feminist “accept us as we are big is beautiful” standards:

    If a man’s waist was 50% over the ideal (34-36 inches) he’d have a waist size of 51 to 54 inches.
    If a man’s weight was 40.6% over the ideal (180 lbs-210lbs) he’d weigh 253-295 lbs.

    The standards men are kept to are insanely strict compared to what women are held to. The average man in america is about 15 lbs and 3 inches over ideal.

    Come back when you have a 25 inch waist (3 inches over ideal), and you’ll just barely qualify as keeping fitness standards of an average man in america. Come back with a 22 inch waist and you’ll be at the ideal that you hold “hot” men to.

    So if your definitions of “hot” are that strict, shouldn’t men’s standards for women be just as strict? Especially when there’s money involved? Feel free to google women who are 5’10 and 120 lbs, I assure you they’re quite attractive.

    Half of america is obese, what nobody says is, its the women.

  140. DarkHorseSD says:

    $1050?

    I don’t have enough SBs then.

  141. Josh says:

    @MissLady

    “@josh, worried your helpfulness concerning ladies allowance expectations might get you a highlight on someone’s tumbler??”

    I am also worried if there is a comma, period or coherent thought missing in the sentence above?

  142. Lainey says:

    Lol @Josh. So many people on this blog us “the market” theory and are WRONG 98.9% of the time

  143. Josh says:

    I am sure most of the women have no clue what VitiesseSD wrote above, but clearly understand what the resident mangina has to say.

    Note: I am curious what discipline @peeps received bachelor and graduate degrees in. I hope that she does not have high student loan while securing those “degrees”. 😉

  144. flyR says:

    “”””“The notion of fair market price (I come from the art auction perspective) is not related to averages meaning is 20 men will offer 1k and 1 will offer 5k, the price will be set to 5k because one buyer was willing to pay and therefore set the price). There was something my boss used to always say “a thing is worth whatever someone is willing to pay for it”.”””

    Assuming it is an auction with competitive bidding against other bidders (vs sealed bid sale ) the price should be $1,000 + the minimum amount to bid over that amount i.e. $1,050 if the min increase is 50.

    The wise SB works hard on not just the product, but branding, packaging and targeted marketing.

  145. AmusedSD says:

    “…I am currently a student at a pretigious well known cosmetology school.”

    Well, as long as it’s a pretigious one.

  146. Josh says:

    I believe that the resident mangina is fond of the phrase , “help hath no fury like a woman scorned.”

    It doesn’t take much to “scorn” a woman.

  147. FunDude says:

    One last thing. Most of the dudes profiles look like dorks.

    Many of them are “investors” or “self employed” aka unable to prove assets and/or income.

    This makes me feel EVEN better about my competition lol

  148. FunDude says:

    That Tumblr shows basically a bunch of entitled SBs that want money for a “platonic” relationship.

    The SDs on the site basically said BULLSHIT thats not worth it.

    Ergo, I support almost all of those “blacklisted” SDs.

    I think a lot of those guys are bullshitting about their salary and assets. Many of these guys are “self employed” where there is no ability to verify their assets and/or income.

    I think a lot of them are full of shit. They are worth a lot less and make a lot less on average.

    Ok back to work! Fun lunch break.

  149. Grammatical Correction:
    The ones who are typically worth your time do not seek (and accept) first date funds and the ones who do accept the funds are not the type that will submit to Sir.

  150. FunDude,
    “SDs here are usually too smart to give “money” to a SB on the first date.”
    I agree with you. The ones who are typically worth your time do not seek and accept the first date funds are not the type that will submit to Sir.

  151. Denise says:

    Thanks for help. I was just looking at the guidelines for pictures where it says bikini or lingerie and I thought hmmm.

  152. FunDude says:

    @Miss

    I have seen that Tumblr page.

    Its mostly entitled SBs that are “angry” that dudes won’t pay them an allowance without sex.

    One is about some guy “Sam Katz” who basically said he won’t pay an allowance without sex. She found this “rude” and basically wanted him blacklisted lol.

    This is a common theme on that Tumblr. Its a joke.

    These guys basically represent almost all SDs.

    Ergo, these dumb bitches would have to blacklist basically every SD lol

  153. MissLady says:

    I am curious about SBs posting photos of SDs on their blogs. I need to check it out

    @josh, worried your helpfulness concerning ladies allowance expectations might get you a highlight on someone’s tumbler??

  154. MissLady says:

    I am curious about SBs posting photos of SDs on their blogs. I need to check it out

    -public profile photos. The hash tag is blacklist

  155. Josh says:

    “Denise, would you put that on a Match.com profile? If not, don’t put it on SA.”

    Rare and useful post from @chitchat. :)

  156. Josh says:

    I am curious about SBs posting photos of SDs on their blogs. I need to check it out.

  157. FunDude says:

    @Miss

    Sounds like they’re looking for chumps on that Tumblr Page.

    SDs here are usually too smart to give “money” to a SB on the first date.

  158. DarkHorseSD says:

    Denise, which type of SB are you trying to be?

    What is your meaning of “area”?

  159. DarkHorseSD says:

    “If I’m not mistaken, aren’t those the kinds of comments made here??”

    Looks to me like you managed to find two places with humans.

  160. Rebecca says:

    Denise, would you put that on a Match.com profile? If not, don’t put it on SA.

  161. Lainey says:

    @VitesseSD If I were 120lbs I’d be grossly underweight. I don’t think actual weight is the issue I think the unhealthy appearance of weight is.

  162. Can anyone please tell me how to get a photo to show on the blog page when you post?

  163. “sexyrockstar says:
    March 23, 2015 at 5:49 pm
    @fun

    You’re so much cuter when you don’t talk.”

    This made me laugh.
    I love the personalities in this blog.

  164. MissLady says:

    @FD
    What they categorized as salt:
    -“I don’t believe in paying an allowance”
    -“I’m not paying/gifting anything for a first date”
    -offers of p4p only
    -“you’re not that hot anyway” (those usually followed the refusals for p4p, or not interested replies from SB’s

    There are more, you can go through tumbler and find them though. If I’m not mistaken, aren’t those the kinds of comments made here??

  165. Denise says:

    I meant to say every area is covered.

  166. Denise says:

    Hello SDs and SBs I’m trying to find out if lingerie pictures are too risque for a profile picture? Everything “area” is covered but I’m wondering if it will attract the wrong type of attention.

  167. FunDude says:

    @Miss

    How do some of those comments sound “eerily” like SD comments?

  168. MissLady says:

    @josh several of them do, it’s not just one in particular

    @darkhorse I’m an observer only, never really got into using tumbler as a social media platform, but I do like to peruse it and pintrest from time to time.

  169. DarkHorseSD says:

    The existence of grifters in groups, blogs, secret societies, forums, circles of friends…what-have-you…has been well known to me for many years.

    A significant amount of it is actually a spin off of THIS very blog.

  170. DarkHorseSD says:

    “Some of those postings sound eerily similar to SD comments here”

    Are you on the same level as the women posting reviews there?

  171. Josh says:

    @Misslady

    Which blog is sharing photos?

  172. Josh says:

    I don’t know first-hand but rumor has it that green tea made with urine tastes really good.

  173. MissLady says:

    so I goofed around on tumbler last night and it was highly entertaining stuff on the sugar world, these SB’s stick together that’s for sure and they network. They have salt/splenda daddies lists and a blacklist. Comes complete with profile screen shots, message screen shots and texts…. Some of those postings sound eerily similar to SD comments here

  174. DarkHorseSD says:

    VitSD: “Lets look at things from the water perspective.”

    I spent a few months drinking my own urine and then two weeks ago paid the municipal water bill so now I have running water at the tap.

  175. SouthernSB says:

    My HMG count-said I am almost the most beautiful one here. It must be the fact that I would throw everyone off the boat but my relatives. Hey family comes first.

  176. DarkHorseSD says:

    “FunDude says:
    March 23, 2015 at 6:40 pm
    Going to lay down shortly. Long day at work.

    This blog is starting to get boring. You people need to come up with new ideas lol”

    Start putting some flesh on the bones of that market/econometric analysis and things will get interesting real fast.

  177. DarkHorseSD says:

    “FunDude says:
    March 23, 2015 at 6:24 pm
    @DarkHorse

    I am trying to compare the dating/marriage market to economics.”

    What are the adjustment factors for:

    1. Obtuse
    2. Boastful
    ?

  178. DarkHorseSD says:

    KeKe says:
    March 23, 2015 at 7:23 pm
    @Dark.. why do I have to be a booty call sir?

    Not you, your blackitude that you’re leaving at home.

  179. Josh says:

    @batshit

    Since @VitesseSD makes a lot of sense, is he my proxy now?

  180. FunDude says:

    I find it amazing how so many third rate women think they can demand supermodel wages.

    I think its the result of the media. Things like Sex and the City and Meghan Trainor as the major cause of this problem.

  181. FunDude says:

    @Vit

    Correct assessment.

    Once again, Peeps has given no evidence she has the ability to marry a top tier man anyway.

    I haven’t heard anything she is bringing to the table besides demands.

    1K/month is more than sufficient for the VAST majority of the SBs these days.

    Considering the quality of most of the SBs, 1K/month is too much.

  182. VitesseSD says:

    @Mars
    “Hahah i mean who wouldn’t want to spend their spring break like this. but who really gets a chance like this?”

    Women who are attractive (not a butterface), fit (max 100 to 120 lbs depending on if they’re short or tall), and 18-23.

  183. VitesseSD says:

    @peeps

    “The notion of fair market price (I come from the art auction perspective) is not related to averages meaning is 20 men will offer 1k and 1 will offer 5k, the price will be set to 5k because one buyer was willing to pay and therefore set the price). There was something my boss used to always say “a thing is worth whatever someone is willing to pay for it”.

    You’re making a staggering number of false statements.

    Most markets are not art, where there is one and only one.

    In the case of art if you’re looking at prints of a photograph for example (limited to 20 perhaps), if one man is willing to pay 5k and 19 are willing to pay 1k, what would you advise a seller to set the reserve at? What would you expect the prints to sell at? Be honest, the median value is 1k.

    Lets look at things from the water perspective.

    A man dying of thirst in a desert may offer everything he owns for a bottle of water. Thats a pretty high price isn’t it?

    So why don’t grocery stores charge ‘everything you own’ for a water bottle? Because they’d sell none. One person being willing to pay ‘everything’ does not increase the price, because he is not buying the entire supply at that price. If anyone else wants to buy they’ll pay what they think the item is worth, and that is the market value.

    Location affects pricing, competition affects pricing, future expectations affect pricing.

    Prices may rise due to a shortage but they’ll come right back down after.

    “Since this is a market place situation”

    Yes this is a marketplace situation, like a stock market. Where there is a bid and ask value. Private transactions sometimes happen at values away from current the bid and ask but the market disregards these as anomalies.

    “commodities are not in the position to set fair market values”
    No, you’re right the traders on both sides set those.

    “Again this is not related to how many men offer less, and how many SBs there are, but to what ONE person HAS paid for it.”
    I can think of a few stocks that have crashed and never recovered, I would be willing to sell you as many shares as you want of these at peak price, since you’re so convinced that peak price is actual value.

    I’ll also note that a SBs market value tends to depreciate. Youth, fitness, and an unjaded attitude are valued, and decrease with time. A SB who is 20 will get better offers than one who is in her mid 30s, period.

    “In other words, the SB not wanting sex will exist as long as someone will pay for what she has to offer, even if it seems that to YOU that is insane. You don’t set the market, others do.”
    I’m sorry to inform you that he is as much a part of the market as she is, and as long as other SBs are willing to have sex, she will never sell what she is selling (which is oddly nothing).

  184. NubianSB says:

    How do you send someone from the blog a private email? I would like to send @Sexyrockstar a message. I need help and advice from you @sexy please.

  185. flyR says:

    SS is right ……. for many the option is n hours at x-tax = 1,500

    N means that she has 20-40 more hours a week to work or play .

  186. NubianSB says:

    Hello everyone. New here and to SB lifestyle. Just wanted to say Hi. :-)

  187. Josh says:

    @flyR

    At what age did you develop the guilt of being a man (if you are indeed one)?

  188. DarkHorseSD says:

    Josh says:
    March 23, 2015 at 7:33 pm
    Re: I know my worth.

    Where exactly are these women getting appraisals of their “worth”?

    ———-

    47th bet. 5th and 6th

  189. DarkHorseSD says:

    ss1959 says:
    March 23, 2015 at 7:55 pm
    @DarkHorseSD, I have the impression a fair number of SBs don’t really understand the difference between gross and net, or if they do they haven’t really perceived how great the difference is, so no it’s not just a division problem. If it were, the answer would be 100, but the real answer is much higher than that.

    ——–

    Don’t kid yourself that cognitive dissonance isn’t a tactic.

  190. DarkHorseSD says:

    “Mars says:
    March 23, 2015 at 8:19 pm
    Hahah i mean who wouldn’t want to spend their spring break like this. but who really gets a chance like this?”

    Venus?

  191. Mars says:

    Hahah i mean who wouldn’t want to spend their spring break like this. but who really gets a chance like this?

  192. GeorgiaPeach says:

    Night All.
    Interesting evening.
    Keke & Lady, I am excited about meeting you both in May and perhaps Lady also in April! Early, busy day for me tomorrow. Sweet, erotic dreams to all, even Dr FunDude. :)

  193. Josh says:

    Dating older men for 10, 15, or 20 hours per month is like working 100 hours a month for $100/hr.

    Therefore, her “worth” is 100 x 100 = $10,000/month.

    That’s why SBs want Substantial allowance.

  194. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Darkhorse
    @gPeach: how many other SBs would you allow me to retain in addition to yourself?

    As many as you feel you would need Darlin. But after a couple times with me, you may not want to retain any more. 😉

  195. ss1959 says:

    @DarkHorseSD, I have the impression a fair number of SBs don’t really understand the difference between gross and net, or if they do they haven’t really perceived how great the difference is, so no it’s not just a division problem. If it were, the answer would be 100, but the real answer is much higher than that.

  196. Josh says:

    @DarkHorseSD

    It is a multiplication problem. $10/hr. x 1000 = 10,000/month.

    That’s why SBs want Substantial allowance.

  197. DarkHorseSD says:

    “How many hours would she have to work in a month, at $10/hr or even less, to take home $1,000 net after taxes?”

    This is a division problem, right?

  198. ErikTheRed says:

    A lot of brain damage to women is done by the fantasy tales. I’m teaching my daughter all the “Prince Charming” in all the fairy princess tales are the same guy: a very busy prince named Charming, whose baby photo is on the toilet paper package. The fairy tales epitomize women’s hypergamy fantasy and men’s polygamy fantasy. The lesson is skip the Prince Charming nonsense, but find a good enough mature man that can take care of her and her children, then build a career of her own after the babies and not having to count on him. Shorten if not skipping the early recreational sex phase, and thereby minimizing the risk of landing a loser for life while having her brain filled with fantasies.

  199. Lainey says:

    @DarkHorseSD Just ask. If they get huffy, oh well, its only the internet. I’ve been open about my diagnosis in the past. Lol. Who gives a fuck? Lol

  200. DarkHorseSD says:

    What is a sensitive way to ask someone online what their mental health diagnosis is?

  201. Lainey says:

    @Keke How are you and the boo?

  202. Lainey says:

    @Keke Good my love. I’m digging that gravi!. Trying to tell us you’re fat. I call COMPLETE BS.. Lol.. <3

  203. KeKe says:

    @Lainey! How you been?

  204. Josh says:

    Big hug. :)

  205. Lainey says:

    Random but I don’t agree with the lease thing. Leasing is SO much smarter. We bought all our cars even the ones for the business are all brand new and it was one of the dumbest decision we’ve ever made. When buying for business we should have done used and for my personal vehicle we should have leased because I’m a fickle bitch. He bought me one car and a month later I liked a different one so he bought me that one and then when the custom order Porsche is done in 6 months we will have that one.. LMAO. But I think we will lease it because I love my car so I’m sure that will be more his car but he is fickle too! he might not even want that in 6 months when its ready because now he’s talking Ghibli or Tesla.. UGH!. Lol. I say if you have the credit lease rapidly depreciating assets and buy appreciating assets.

  206. sexyrockstar says:

    Joshy.

    I need a hug

  207. KeKe says:

    @Josh.. I thought there was website @FunDude posted to calculate your market value as a woman. Maybe they looked on there. Lol

  208. LadyScarett says:

    Yeah, but depends on the man. There are men that I would rather dig ditches, in 100 degrees, than spend time with. It all depends, doesnt it?

  209. Josh says:

    Re: I know my worth.

    Where exactly are these women getting appraisals of their “worth”?

  210. Josh says:

    @ss1959

    “How many hours would she have to work in a month, at $10/hr or even less, to take home $1,000 net after taxes?”

    Logic is a foreign language for a big number of women. Add some egging on from SA, for example, the very blog article, most women have problem with reality.

  211. LadyScarett says:

    Oh yeah, will be either mild warm, or pretty hot, or combination. Weather is so weird here, especially, in winter. It usually is not as humid, in May as July and August, though…

  212. KeKe says:

    @Scarett.. chi-town baby :-). I love hot weather. After all this snow I’ll welcome it. I’ll get some braids, otherwise my hair will be a afro. Lol

  213. ss1959 says:

    @peeps: I don’t expect the allowance I give my SB to be her sole support, nor do I expect sugar to be her life-long career. She’s not my kept woman, she’s a student. Her schooling is her number 1 priority, and she also has a part time job where she earns far less than she gets from me, and I treat her a lot better than her customers do at work.

    How many hours would she have to work in a month, at $10/hr or even less, to take home $1,000 net after taxes?

  214. KeKe says:

    @Dark.. why do I have to be a booty call sir?

  215. LadyScarett says:

    Yes, it is good city, sometimes…(: Lots of outdoor activities in Spring and Summer, so good time to visit…

    Are you up North? I think I heard you say on here(sorry, if it was someone else, and if you do not want to say, then totally understand). It can get really hot here by May, too..Hotlanta

  216. DarkHorseSD says:

    Keke when you say leave your blackitude at home, does that mean at your parents?

    If not, I’ve never had a booty call with blackitude, should your home be suitable for hosting.

  217. KeKe says:

    @Scarlet. Yes! It will so much fun. I’ve never been, so maybe we can do some touristy stuff..pretty please.

  218. DarkHorseSD says:

    “sexyrockstar says:
    March 23, 2015 at 6:57 pm
    I want to see Chelsea handler tomorrow”

    I want to see tomorrow.

  219. DarkHorseSD says:

    @gPeach: how many other SBs would you allow me to retain in addition to yourself?

  220. LadyScarett says:

    Okay, keke…(: hehe…would be fun! I have a good friend, named, Keeya, and she calls herself, keke, sometimes?

    Sure, Gapeach, will email you…

  221. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KeKe
    “I’ll be there 8-11.”
    I’m guessing you mean 5-11? LOL
    At this point, that should be fine.
    We need to see if anyone else would like to join us. We could have our own SA meeting. LOL

  222. KeKe says:

    @Georgia Sweet! I’ll email you. I’ll be there 8-11.

  223. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KeKe
    I would love to meet you. That would be great! My email is listed above. Contact me and we’ll make plans, perhaps we can all get together.

  224. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @DarkHorse
    “I’m worth 9 goats. My former SB, only 6.”
    Now Sir, what does that say about “us” since I’m worth 9 goats too. LOL

  225. KeKe says:

    @Georgia @Scarlet.. I’m going to be in Atlanta in May. I would love to meet up with you guys and I promise to leave my blackitude at home (okay okay I couldn’t help myself. I’m done. I swear. Lol 😉 j/k)

  226. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @LadyScarlett
    “Georgiapeach, so glad you posted…Actually, I owe you an apology for accusing you of proxy-ing the other day.”

    So, how did you decide that I’m not Guru Josh’s proxy? I am rather curious now after all that chaos.

  227. sexyrockstar says:

    I want to see Chelsea handler tomorrow

  228. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @LadyScarlett
    I am sure that would be an interesting meeting.
    Email me at foamrock50@yahoo. and we can chat more.

  229. DarkHorseSD says:

    I’m worth 9 goats. My former SB, only 6.

  230. ErikTheRed says:

    LOL. This HMG test is meant for college age kids. “Home” means parents’ home. In any case, does this test give everyone a 9 regardless answers?

  231. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    Why don’t these BBW have BBM in their videos?

  232. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    Why don’t these BBW has BBM in their videos?

  233. FunDude says:

    Going to lay down shortly. Long day at work.

    This blog is starting to get boring. You people need to come up with new ideas lol

  234. FunDude says:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_Wud59E8jU}}

    Alpha Males in Fast and Furious 7.

    It appears the testosterone has blown off all their hair.

  235. LadyScarlett says:

    I meant to say, since all three of us live so close…

  236. DarkHorseSD says:

    Ok, I’m stuck. Question 2 : Do you live at home? Of course I fuking live at home. Who doesn’t?

  237. LadyScarlett says:

    Georgiapeach, so glad you posted…Actually, I owe you an apology for accusing you of proxy-ing the other day. Would you be open to meet for lunch/dinner/coffee(whatever you wish), and it is on me, of course, as a good will gesture to you(in fact, will even gift you $200, since all the SD’s speak of hating when girls ask for that, hehe 😉 Hey, and AtlantaSD has been wanting to meet for awhile now, too, so, maybe, he can come, too, and we have a ‘blog party’, of sorts?

  238. FunDude says:

    @DarkHorse

    Megan Trainor videos perfectly define the problem with modern American females.

    Megan basically DEMANDS men overlook her BBW status because its “cool” and “men like junk in the trunk”.

    Men liking BBWs (on average) is categorically false but she appears to be very demanding that men overlook this attribute that most men find very important.

    Her next video is called “Dear Husband” where she is rejecting a bunch of fit, buff looking successful dudes over petty issues.

    The implication is that she is some kind of “prize” that successful men should fight over. She is so “in demand” that she can reject successful guys over trivial reasons.

    She also tells the men “I don’t cook and clean” and basically won’t do shit for them. But she expects prizes, a nice ring, etc.

    Ergo, it projects that successful men are so desperate that they will run after a BBW to throw money at her/marry her despite her not doing anything for the man.

    With media images like these, no wonder low value women overrate themselves by orders of magnitude.

  239. FunDude says:

    @DarkHorse

    I am trying to compare the dating/marriage market to economics.

    Value on the market is dependent on the attributes each sex ascribes to the other sex.

    Ergo, valuations can be made by this simple methodology.

    Kinda like supply/demand curves for any product in the free market.

  240. DarkHorseSD says:

    “Its like a Meghan Trainor video. Basically even if she’s a BBW, elderly, etc she is “special” and “knows what she is worth”. ”

    It’s the women that don’t know their worth that cause all the trouble.

  241. DarkHorseSD says:

    FinDude: “Unless a sugar baby is exceptional, 1K/month is a VERY good allowance.”

    I can’t evaluate $/month in isolation.

  242. GeorgiaPeach says:

    []www.howmanygoats.com[]
    Cute. LOL
    Drum roll… My score: 9. You’re almost the most beautiful girl here.
    Yes, I’m still laughing and I did tell the truth on all questions. Well, mostly.

  243. LadyScarlett says:

    Well, I hate to see others insulted, but hey, if you cannot bet them, join them, right? That is why I finally broke down, and took the HMG test…was nervous, at first, but was not as bad as thought..

  244. LadyScarlett says:

    Luckily, the wall question was equaled out by other redeeming factors for HMG count?…phewww…

  245. FunDude says:

    @Lady

    Wow you are actually being funny and not starting shit.

    Bravo Scarlett. I am surprised lol

    Hope this lasts.

  246. LadyScarlett says:

    Question 1:

    Question 1: How old are you?

    13-15 years old (the awkward years)

    16-18 years old

    19-21 years old

    22-24 years old

    25-27 years old

    28+ years old (the desperate years)

  247. Josh says:

    Mine is 9 goats. Whatever that means…

  248. LadyScarlett says:

    wait! no way, my HMG count it said I was worth a ‘fair amount of goats’? whaaaa??? Perhaps, should take the test again….

  249. FunDude says:

    Scarlett, there is no need for you.

    SMV for you has been about zero for at least ten years. Ergo, your bitterness.

  250. LadyScarlett says:

    Well, it has been posted here many times…perhaps, she should take the HMG test. I didnt understand for a long time, but it really clarified things! So glad it was mentioned by some on blog 😉

    I encourage everyone to determine their HMG value(even men can!). Thank you fundud, for opening my eyes…hehehe

    w w w dot how many goats dot com

  251. FunDude says:

    Fucking great song from Vegas show Absinthe:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=closer+bradley+hale+remix}}

  252. FunDude says:

    Considering the number attractive women far exceed the number of successful/rich men that are SINGLE, I have to question an assertion that you can just “marry a rich guy” instead of sugar dating.

    Most “rich” men are older and married already (50s-70s).

    Younger successful/rich men are in low supply and have very HIGH demand on the marriage market.

    Ergo, its not so easy to “marry” one without having very high standards yourself.

  253. FunDude says:

    @Sexy

    Anyone can claim anything on a blog.

    Peeps made a claim that she can just “marry a rich guy” and sugar is “nothing” at 1K/month.

    Big claims require evidence.

    Ergo, I am trying to determine how she is so confident a “rich/successful” man will marry her so readily.

  254. Josh says:

    @sexyrockstar

    “@fun

    You’re so much cuter when you don’t talk.”

    Hahahahaha!!!

  255. sexyrockstar says:

    @fun

    You’re so much cuter when you don’t talk.

  256. Josh says:

    @FunDude,

    Believe it of not, I just got a message from a girl who used the “I know my worth” line. LOL!!!

    As far as @peeps, I take it back. She’s pretty much everything going except the wall. :(

  257. FunDude says:

    @DarkHorse

    Its all bullshit that 1K/month for an allowance is “nothing” as some SBs claim.

    Unless a sugar baby is exceptional, 1K/month is a VERY good allowance.

    Obviously, every sugar baby thinks they are “special”.

    Its like a Meghan Trainor video. Basically even if she’s a BBW, elderly, etc she is “special” and “knows what she is worth”.

  258. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    What evidence are you presenting to validate that assertion?

    Is she a 10 in looks? What is her age?

    What is her level of education? Success level?

    Does she come from a rich family?

  259. FunDude says:

    Also, many guys who are already established aren’t looking to marry so fast. You better be very high quality to marry a rich/successful man if you aren’t coming from money as well.

    Rich people often marry other rich people with similar levels of assets.

    Jared Kushner married Donald Trump’s daughter as just one example.

    Most men who present with asymmetry in wealth are also getting PRENUPs these days (if they even get married).

  260. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    I have a feeling that @peeps can pull it off.

  261. FunDude says:

    @Peeps

    Thats assuming you could marry a top level guy (considering your level of education, looks, etc).

    I see no evidence you could pull this off besides you yapping on this blog.

  262. LadyScarlett says:

    @peeps, it can be a good way to not only access short-term financial gains, but a way to access connections for long term business goals…I haven’t used it for this yet, but have a friend who has and has worked out very well for a new business venture, in addition to an allowance.Also, a couple of girls on blog have mentioned getting access to very good jobs, in past, due to connections they made.

  263. peeps says:

    SD: DarkHorseSD

    Women who need extra money for short periods of time. (My case). The idea that the sugar “lifestyle” is some kind of grand wonderful thing is a fallacy. It’s a way to access cash coupled with pleasant experiences with men you might not have considered dating otherwise. AND if you can stomach the looks downgrade, as far as no-commitment relationships are concerned, it’s much better than Tinder.

  264. DarkHorseSD says:

    @peeps: Which leaves SA with a membership of….?

  265. DarkHorseSD says:

    Going back to the date that asked to see pictures of my XSB, ladies, what might have been going through her mind and what might have been her purpose?

  266. peeps says:

    @flyr
    “In the old days it was also accepted that some were hired with an unwritten job description that included sugar….”

    The issue is that most jobs pay more than sugar. The reality is that a career will pay more than “sugar”, if some of you say you give 1k a month, that is very little. Maybe somewhere in the countryside…It’s great pocket change, but that is a going nowhere number.

    A smart woman will gravitate towards a good job and education and access to high earners who will marry them. Common knowledge that marriage pays more than sugar and that truly attractive women in large cities who are also educated will attract high-earning men to marry them within their educational level and class background.

  267. DarkHorseSD says:

    When the girl arrives for that first meeting, is it a bad idea to say, “Is that the best you could look for me?”

  268. DarkHorseSD says:

    sexyrockstar says:
    March 23, 2015 at 10:27 am
    @dark
    Those girls are banging multiple men daily.

    I give those girls credit tho

    Xxxxxxx

    So some similarities CAN be found 😉

  269. DarkHorseSD says:

    sexyrockstar says:
    March 23, 2015 at 11:36 am
    …..so what happens if you [don’t] find your perfect match? Do you get a refund

    xxxxxxxx

    Funny!

  270. Josh says:

    @Sexy

    The two of you are great for each other. I am happy for both of you. :)

  271. LadyScarlett says:

    “sexyrockstar says:
    March 23, 2015 at 11:36 am
    …..so what happens if you find your perfect match? Do you get a refund?”

    Hmm, good question…would be curious of this as well….

  272. sexyrockstar says:

    Eh. Im lucky. He is so respectful. He’s sexy.

    And I see him tomorrow. Im gonna die. We didn’t see each other this week and it hasn’t been easy on either of us

  273. gentleman soul says:

    sexyrockstar says:

    @gentlemen

    I’ve mentioned a million times. Drummer isn’t the richest man I’ve been with, but he’s the greatest. I’m lucky to have him.

    I’m sure he’s a lucky guy to have you !

  274. sexyrockstar says:

    @gentlemen

    Pretty sure you missed my point.
    Exactly. A Cadillac. He bought it. That’s a good sign for me.

    I’ve mentioned a million times. Drummer isn’t the richest man I’ve been with, but he’s the greatest. I’m lucky to have him.

  275. flyR says:

    In the old days it was also accepted that some were hired with an unwritten job description that included sugar…. Some of the job placement services understood these jobs came with special requirements and would send fully qualified applicants. Good client married one after she worked / played for a couple of years. But most of that is long gone due to the threat of lawsuits and shame for being politically incorrect

  276. gentleman soul says:

    @Sexy

    ” Notice the car they drive. What year is it? ” Warren Buffett drives a 7 yr old Caddy . A better assessment of an SD’s potential is how much he will pay you for your services .

    “Quality” Sugar person : What is that ? My budget is around the same as ss1959. I know none of you ladies here would dare consider that paltry amount ,but there are plenty of SBs who do. While some of you sit at home pounding the computer keys trying to find Richie Rich, your competition is having knockout sex and making $12000 -15000 after taxes . What would Buffett or the Millionaire Next Door ” authors say about that ?

  277. Josh says:

    The porn star is now banned. Brandon’s mom has taken charge of the operations, it seems. 😉

  278. FlyBoy says:

    @KennaKenna; Thank you darling. I will comment on Perfect Arrangement in another post.

    @a latin opinion;

    That’s exactly how it should be. A man who happen to be well off is dating a women who will naturally benefit from his abilities.

    It’s no different from a man dating a first class cook. He will eat well lol

    Cheers :)

  279. sexyrockstar says:

    …..so what happens if you find your perfect match? Do you get a refund?

    Hey kenna. Hope pregnancy is treating you well.

  280. DarkHorseSD says:

    The prices I see are 6,000 for 5 matches and 10,000 for 10 matches

  281. a latin opinion says:

    I can speak just from my personal experience. For us it used to be something natural. A successful guy that either was married or didn’t want to settle down will go around with his daily life. When he see/meet a woman he likes he will approach to her in the same way he will do for a regular relationship.

    If he manage to get/keep his attention, he will set up a first date in which he will let the woman know he is married/not looking for a regular relationship.

    Of course during this time he will show you that he has money/the means/can and will/ take care of you.

    Then is up to the woman to decided if she wants to play the game.

    Extremely different from here, I personally like that way a lot better than this one. (Used to be like that in my country, and there is a lot of sugarmamis too lol)

  282. KennaKenna says:

    Hope everyone had a great weekend! @Sexy I’m glad you’re back.

  283. KennaKenna says:

    @FlyBoy

    Introductory Package: $3,500 for 5 first dates ($700 per vetted match)

    Perfect Ten Package: $6,000 for 10 first dates ($600 per vetted match)

    Premium Package: $20,000 unlimited matches. Annual payment method. ($400 per vetted match: 40 minimum matches in one calendar year)

    Mixer Package: Starting at $20,000 a personalized mixer with 10 girls based on your preferences. (Covers all costs involved in arranging the mixer, as well as each match)

    VIP Arrangement Package: $45,000 unlimited matches/annual payment (40 match minimum in one calendar year plus one custom mixer for up to 15 matches)

    Custom Package: Beginning at $25,000 (Includes additional add-ons or special cases for discretionary purposes i.e. marriage, public figures, celebrities)

  284. FlyBoy says:

    @DarkHorseSD;

    Based on its pricing structure, at what combinations of net worth and income level can an SD consider Perfect Arrangement a reasonable value?

    Can you run the numbers by me. I haven’t seen them.

    Thanks :)

  285. DarkHorseSD says:

    Based on its pricing structure, at what combinations of net worth and income level can an SD consider Perfect Arrangement a reasonable value?

    Assume high end girls with serious intentions can actually be provided.

  286. ErikTheRed says:

    Take advantage*

  287. ErikTheRed says:

    I suspect the banks underwriting the car leases and car makers offering those lease residual support will lose their shirts and need taxpayer bailout in a few years. The car I bought in the summer pretty much drives itself on the highway, making for much more relaxed road trips, and making me reluctant to drive the other car. The self-drive technology will only accelerate in the next few years, combined with high non-driver rate among the late teens and early 20 year olds (due to insurance rates skyrocketing due to exploding medical cost in bodily injuries), used car prices without self-drive capability will tank. I will probably lease when I get the next car and take advance of the unrealistic lease residuals. The 1-3% effective APR that those underwriters are scraping is a little like picking up dimes in front of an oncoming steam roller. Good candidates for shorting in a few years.

  288. ss1959 says:

    Has anybody else gotten an invitation to OpenMinded? I’m a bit surprised I haven’t seen it mentioned here yet; though I might have just missed it.

    SB’s, I’m curious what your take on it is. Would you get involved?

  289. DarkHorseSD says:

    “In its purest form, money given to an SB is an act of domination. Its you peacocking … ”

    In my case I feel it’s an act of apology.

  290. ss1959 says:

    And I expect the relationship with my current SB to last a very long time.

  291. FlyBoy says:

    @DarkHorseSD;

    I did not mean you DarkHorseSD. I should have use one as in:
    “If one one wants to compare SBs to whores”

    Just for the record, I hold SBs in higher esteem than girlfriends. They are at least smarter.

    Cheers :)

  292. ss1959 says:

    @Rebecca: I’m not sure it’s any of your business but what the heck, I’ll play. I’ve had basically the same arrangement with each of my SBs but one; I give her a $1,000 allowance at the beginning of each month. I also help her out with unexpected expenses that might arise or gifts now and then. I think I probably average $1,300 – $1,500 per month altogether, but I only ever promise the $1,000 allowance.

    I had one other SB that I see very occasionally; like once every 3 or 4 months. We would meet for an intense kinky play session then part ways with a “let me know when you want to meet again” and wouldn’t even communicate for months at a time. In her case it was on a P4P basis.

  293. sexyrockstar says:

    @dark
    Those girls are banging multiple men daily.

    I give those girls credit tho

  294. FlyBoy says:

    @FunDude;

    So getting “value” in sugar relationships is a bad thing these days?

    I should just throw money at any chick and hope things go well?

    No, but you shouldn’t equate the money with an act or an attribute. You should ‘get’ what you want from the woman by using your personalty and game not money.

    In its purest form, money given to an SB is an act of domination. Its you peacocking by showing her that you can remove her life difficulties effortlessly. This is highly attractive to a women BUT you still have to do your bit and game her into your grasp.

    Only an escort hired by your buddy who told her how awkward you are is going to jump on you the moment she enters your house. All other women have to be fucked by YOU.

    One more thing, you always say that an SB has to be super pretty to warrant an allowance. If you tell an SB (or any woman for that matter) that the only reason you are giving her money is because she is beautiful, she will RESENT you. Why? Because you like her looks not *her* lol.

    Pay attention to @Josh’s lessons about self sabotage. They are not that bad lol.

    Cheer :)

  295. flyR says:

    What’s ironic is that the yield to the leasing company is far higher than the cost for a reasonably sound person or company to borrow.

  296. DarkHorseSD says:

    I don’t want to compare them to whores. You Brought up the comparison without any context.

    At this point in this blog’s life, anyone that’s been around a while that brings up comps with prostitution in an off hand manner is being ridiculous.

    But I invite anyone that wants to argue the subject to try backpage or other such things and come back and let us know from experience how they’d price things here and there.

  297. ErikTheRed says:

    @Sexy,

    Agree with most of your comments moat of time. The car lease issue is somewhat more nuanced: for people who can write of car expenses and update cars every three years or so, lease makes tax and economic sense. I currently own both my cars, but if not for planning to hand them to the kids and the amicable ex-wife in a few years I would have leased the latest one.

    Also with the 1% interest rates being offered, leasing and financing make financial sense: I’m paying close to $1000/mo on the latest car, but the cash equivalent to the car’s cost invested in my business is generating a few times that, making the car essentially free due to the yield differential. Heck the yield differential can accommodate the allowance of an SB.

  298. FlyBoy says:

    @DarkHorseSD;

    In NYC backpage starts with $60 specials, and those girls pay for their profiles(ads)

    I don’t care what anybody says about the girls on SA. Without a doubt they are a cut above the average American girl. Let alone some backpage whore.

    If you want to compare SBs to whores, then compare them to high class low volume whores who incidentally would scoff at $1,200 a night.

    Cheers :)

  299. DarkHorseSD says:

    The backpage girls also don’t cost you for coffee first and they have sex on the first date.

  300. sexyrockstar says:

    Drummer will be here tomorrow. We were gonna be all cute and shit holding hands and walking around. Fuck. Oh well. See if he wants to watch me do an open comedy mic.

  301. FunDude says:

    @Flyboy

    So getting “value” in sugar relationships is a bad thing these days?

    I should just throw money at any chick and hope things go well?

  302. DarkHorseSD says:

    ” These low numbers are indistinguishable from backpage, at least for a beginner.”

    In NYC backpage starts with $60 specials, and those girls pay for their profiles(ads)

  303. flyR says:

    “So how is a new SB to determine whether she is dealing with mid tier SD who is consistent or a cheap John who just want a one pop party.”

    A couple of suggestions
    The POT who must meet right away is probably short term or just one night

    Self filtering through management of expectations

  304. flyR says:

    @FB

    “The ones who want “value” for their money, or want to see their buck bangs are not going to enjoy sugar nor bring joy to others. “

  305. KeKe says:

    @Sexy
    . I hate how we got teased with that one day of 70 degree weather. Ugh! Now snow. Really!

  306. FlyBoy says:

    @flyR;

    There are a lot of women on SA for whom a $1,200 allowance or 4 consistent, $300 P4P dates a month would make a huge difference in their lives. There are others appealing to 1%-2% of the population who are willingly given allowances 10-20 times that amount.

    Anyone who can give $1,200 a month on consistent bases is not poor by any means.

    Incidentally this takes us back to @DarkHorseSD’s comment about literature. These low numbers are indistinguishable from backpage, at least for a beginner. So how is a new SB to determine whether she is dealing with mid tier SD who is consistent or a cheap John who just want a one pop party.

    Cheers :)

  307. KeKe says:

    @Sexy. Every winter. I feel like moving!

  308. sexyrockstar says:

    I’m beautiful and awesome.
    It’s a rough life.

    And I’m so mad at this fucking snow. I’m going to die.

  309. FlyBoy says:

    @ss1959;

    Re: Sugar being for rich men only. I disagree. I’m not rich; far from it. I work for a living, and I manage my money carefully. I’m past the stage in life with a mortgage and car payments and pets and all the stuff children need and want. I don’t owe a penny to anyone, anywhere; I live on a cash basis. And I carve out a budget for sugar. There are certainly those with a bigger sugar budget, but what I give is enough to make a difference in a young woman’s life, and I’ve never had a problem finding an SB when I wanted one.

    You are not a debt peon. Ergo you are rich :)

    Here is my thinking on the subject; A sugar relationship requires money outlay. If that is true and it is, then the question that emerges is, what kind of man can do it.

    I submit there are two types:

    1. The rich. The amounts involved are so small, he doesn’t really care.

    2. The mentally rich. With this man the money makes a difference but he is the kind that says; F it, you can’t take it with you so I am going to have fun with it.

    The ones who want “value” for their money, or want to see their buck bangs are not going to enjoy sugar nor bring joy to others. This is true no matter how rich or not they are.

    Cheers :)

  310. KeKe says:

    My SD drives a company paid jeep 2012 maybe

  311. flyR says:

    @Sexy – there are a lot of people who drive very understated cars for a number of reasons.

  312. FlyBoy says:

    @Josh

    Let’s take this as the male side of the equation. What’s the female side of the equation?

    Younger,
    Prettier,
    In shape,
    Elegant,
    Sophisticated,
    Available,
    At ease in fine surroundings,
    etc, etc.

    Cheers :)

  313. FlyBoy says:

    @DarkHorseSD;

    SA has never taken an approach of developing talent. You don’t put millions of people into a situation and say go ahead be the dirt bags you came in as.

    It’s inexpensive to put out “literature” for the betterment of the membership, yet instead tons of good talent runs away, deleting their profiles.

    I am in 100% agreement with you sir!!! SA won’t even install a proper forum software allowing information to build up gradually through user contribution. If one writes an elaborate post on a important subject (ie allowances), then it’s only a matter of days before its lost. This prevents knowledge from accumulating, thus dooming the user base into flying blind without the benefits of instruments and charts. Under this regime accidents are a feature not a bug!

    Cheers :)

  314. Josh says:

    Hahahaha!!!

  315. DarkHorseSD says:

    Any way, Rocky, I know what you mean.

    I tell the ladies what they are going to get. Eventually. If…they…behave…long…enough…to…get…told.

  316. DarkHorseSD says:

    FunDude has had more years blowing money on hookers and antibiotics.

  317. DarkHorseSD says:

    @Josh – she may have been a samurai of sabotage if I review the whole date in my mind.

  318. sexyrockstar says:

    @dark horse

    Nah. I think maybe you misunderstood where I was trying to get at. I could lease a fancy car too. There are men on here that look the part, but aren’t.

    For instance, fundude is in the medical field. I know he has more income vs this doctor that tried chatting me up awhile back. Here’s why.

    Fun works at a practice and has been out of school for awhile.
    Doctor who “wants to spoil me like crazy” only graduated two years back. AKA massive student loan debt.

    There would be more of a chance that fundude is able to have a longer sugar run. He has more ‘buying power ‘ if you will.

    Sure, doctor could take me to a few nice dinners but would tUrn away from monthly allowance.

  319. DarkHorseSD says:

    ““I don’t want to wish I had done sugar on the day ISIS gets a dozen Paki nukes.” If you watch the news it sounds like we are dancing on the deck of Titanic, ignoring the slight list.”

    I don’t wanna end up on the Poseidon with Shelly Winters neither.

  320. Josh says:

    @DarkHorseSD

    “what was in her mind?”

    Sabotage through nosiness?

  321. DarkHorseSD says:

    Had a date last week who asked to see pictures of my prior SB (longterm major)

    Surprising one…what was in her mind?

  322. DarkHorseSD says:

    So SexyRock, you go for the six figure guy with the junkiest car who inevitably has the most money left over.

  323. a latin opinion says:

    @sexy

    Exactly, that’s is why you are one of the best in here. Thank you.

  324. sexyrockstar says:

    I think also basic com sense about not asking how much money people make. It’s rude as fuck.

    Ahhh lovely weather we have today in Chicago. Totally ruins my plans with drummer for tomorrow.

  325. sexyrockstar says:

    When girls realize it’s about the amount of disposable income a POT has rather then looking at the other numbers, things may be easier. Doesn’t matter if a guy has a six figure income when his lifestyle is six figures. If he doesn’t have much leftover, he can’t be that generous.

    I kind of figure this out by asking a few basic questions. Notice the car they drive. What year is it? Show an interest in cars. How long did they have it? What did they have before. ….. and when did they switch. If they are leasing these cars. ….heh. I normally wait till second date to bring up the allowance talk.

    I don’t know how much money my Sd makes, but know that there is enough throw away money that does not affect his lifestyle.

  326. flyR says:

    @FD re future rulers of Europe coming to a city near you.

  327. flyR says:

    The mistake is to think of sugar as the equivalent of a single “market” or outlet appealing to one economic class. Better to think of it as a shopping center with individual operators catering to different market segments.

    There are a lot of women on SA for whom a $1,200 allowance or 4 consistent, $300 P4P dates a month would make a huge difference in their lives. There are others appealing to 1%-2% of the population who are willingly given allowances 10-20 times that amount.

    Yes, it’s not for the 90%, but rather for the next 8%. But the real qualification hurdles are discretionary cash and desire; income is only a proxy for discretionary cash. There are lots of $250K+ per year income earners living month to month.

    If you listen carefully to the news about the growing cohesion and expansion of the violent, radical Muslim world and their intentions sugar sounds like a better investment by the day. As a friend noted, “I don’t want to wish I had done sugar on the day ISIS gets a dozen Paki nukes.” If you watch the news it sounds like we are dancing on the deck of Titanic, ignoring the slight list.

    I totally agree with the comment that asking someone their income is both rude and meaningless.

    From the standpoint of the SB the two questions are capacity and willingness. The best indicator of both is history.

  328. DarkHorseSD says:

    (On notifying my SB of something I got her without regard to any obligation…)

    Me: Are you ready for something special?

    SB: Oh, yes! You’ve already done and are doing a lot for me. Yes, I’m ready, I’m a girl, love surprises and care :)

  329. DarkHorseSD says:

    “I don’t know about here. But where I came from asking a guy how much he make is the equivalent of asking a woman about how many guys she has sleep with.”

    …and if you ask net worth, you are asking like every physical act she can perform, with what level of technique and experience. 😀

  330. a latin opinion says:

    I don’t know about here. But where I came from asking a guy how much he make is the equivalent of asking a woman about how many guys she has sleep with.

    Some people won’t take it bad, but it supposed to be something you don’t ask.

  331. Rebecca says:

    ss1959, I’d be interested in knowing your amount.

  332. ss1959 says:

    Re: Sugar being for rich men only. I disagree. I’m not rich; far from it. I work for a living, and I manage my money carefully. I’m past the stage in life with a mortgage and car payments and pets and all the stuff children need and want. I don’t owe a penny to anyone, anywhere; I live on a cash basis. And I carve out a budget for sugar. There are certainly those with a bigger sugar budget, but what I give is enough to make a difference in a young woman’s life, and I’ve never had a problem finding an SB when I wanted one.

  333. Josh says:

    @SD55

    Women go about their business in real world just fine as long as they are by themselves. As soon as a man comes into their space, it transforms into a fantasyland. Nature of the beast, my friend.

    Therefore, wise men have learned since eons ago that a man operating in reality is not going to be able to woo a desirable woman. He needs to transform himself into the fantasyland and improvise.

    For her it’s natural and automatic behavior. For him, it is a learned behavior.

  334. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy

    “Sugar is a rich mans game. It’s not suitable for the masses. There is no way around this limitation.”

    Let’s take this as the male side of the equation. What’s the female side of the equation?

  335. SD55 says:

    I have been slow to realize that “negotiable” often doesn’t mean “negotiable.” It often means, “This is what I’m worth and if you disagree you should go down to the corner and hire a $50 streetwalker. You are now blocked.” (I do think it’s useful to get such communications early in discussions with a POT; it saves a lot of time.)

  336. FunDude says:

    @DarkSD

    The one issue I have with that article is about the concept that they shouldn’t deal with “men over 40” unless there is a “good reason they are single”.

    I don’t agree with that assertion.

  337. DarkHorseSD says:

    {as DayDreamDisbeliever}

    ” If you are single, over 30 and getting fat, you are pretty much screwed. At best you will have to settle for a sloppy man who doesn’t respect himself, doesn’t attract you, and doesn’t find you attractive.”

    Or you could settle for the food, as noted above.

  338. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Back to posting as DeviousSW}Q

    ” By staying (or getting) in shape while most other women are starting to fall off the fitness cliff, you will crush the competition. Unless you are already a nutrition, diet and exercise freak, staying in shape will almost certainly require that you become one. But the satisfaction you were used to getting from food will soon be replaced by satisfaction from your relationships with men.”

    Stick to the food. It will be far more reliable, consistent and available.

  339. DarkHorseSD says:

    So I’m reading this rules revisited for 30yr old women article and I realize the only men it says they should consider dating are ones who lost limbs failing to save their original wives from dying of natural causes.

    So even though they are apparently physically worthless, if they can find some useful other attribute they are warned to stick to about .00000003% of the male dating pool.

  340. DarkHorseSD says:

    Ok, Josh, I’ve toned down the graciousness in my on site message replies to those truly challenged losers.

    Just doing my part.

  341. DarkHorseSD says:

    SA has never taken an approach of developing talent. You don’t put millions of people into a situation and say go ahead be the dirt bags you came in as.

    It’s inexpensive to put out “literature” for the betterment of the membership, yet instead tons of good talent runs away, deleting their profiles.

  342. DarkHorseSD says:

    FlyBoy says:
    March 22, 2015 at 9:27 pm
    Sugar is a rich mans game. It’s not suitable for the masses. There is no way around this limitation.

    Cheers :)

    XXXXXXXX

    I’m sorry, but with the right people behind it, instead of running a skank empowerment operation, inspired (and barely-inspired) SBs can be shown better, and SDs with varied means can be shown better, and SA can have sugar members somewhat down the percentile ranks.

  343. flyR says:

    and all this time I thought Joshie had taken up flying with his fixation
    on MGTOW

  344. flyR says:

    @Sexy – I’m honored

  345. FlyBoy says:

    Sugar is a rich mans game. It’s not suitable for the masses. There is no way around this limitation.

    Cheers :)

  346. sexyrockstar says:

    @flyr

    SA. Even if drummer and I split up, I would never reactivate my account. I’d stick to freestyling. Too many salt daddies or shitty SBs that destroyed the concept of sugar. Blah.

    So flyr watch out. If drummer and I split up, I’m snatching you. Haha. Orrrrr josh, or online.

    Or just get out of the bowl all together…..or finally marry Axl Rose

  347. Josh says:

    Do MGTOW Have Sex?

    [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nxRrTiIcWE4]

  348. a latin opinion says:

    DarkHorseSD says:
    March 22, 2015 at 1:28 pm
    Josh wrote: “There is no reason whatsoever that you cannot find an SD like some of the blog SBs have.”

    “Josh, you are truly cruel. ;)a”

    Yeah I know @DH he was being condescending, is still sweet though (-:

    He is a good person, are you jealous papi? I met him first amor, that’s all.

  349. FunDude says:

    Got to teach the British Police whose boss:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SrH66PtYCOE}}

    Thanks feminism

  350. FunDude says:

    Future rulers of Europe:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=axgxyrBB31Y}}

  351. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    I have 2 questions for you. Honestly meant in a nice way and I am sincere.
    1. Do you regret using your name here (“FunDude”) since so many screw with it and make “fun” of it?

    2. Are you really a “fun” guy, ie, dude?
    Just curious.

  352. flyR says:

    @ sexy ”

    I just don’t understand it.
    Wtf happened. ”

    are you referring to SA in general or the blog

  353. FunDude says:

    FLYR as the resident mangina, this is a refreshing thing. Even you aren’t taken advantage of by these types. Bravo.

  354. flyR says:

    @ Funduddie – just for the record I have NEVER advocated or practiced allowance or other consideration (other than reimbursement for travel and parking) prior to POF and most of the time it is later.

  355. Josh says:

    Oh la la à celle 😉

  356. Beach_Girl says:

    @Josh~non, je suis Francaise

  357. Josh says:

    Vous utilisez Google translate. Oh la la !!!

  358. Beach_Girl says:

    @ DarkHorse~ ah, vous parlez Francais!!!! Oh la la!!!
    comment as ete ta conversation avec la jeune demoiselle? hope it went well

  359. Beach_Girl says:

    Hello Sugars!
    hope everyone is doing good. I haven’t been here in a while…

  360. DarkHorseSD says:

    sexyrockstar says:
    March 22, 2015 at 3:25 pm
    Pat Sajak is the dream SD.

    I hate the fact that the sugar bowl is filled with a bunch of dumbassess. Girls who are naive or entitled and men who take advantage as such.

    I just don’t understand it.
    Wtf happened.

    Only quality SBs will get the good SDs….. hopefully before a bunch of sb wannabe get to them and ruin the bowl.

    SA decided McDonalds was the way to go.

  361. FunDude says:

    @josh

    So? He’s the dude that wrote the sexodus article

  362. Josh says:

    This video is rigged. The guy with golden hair is gay.

  363. FunDude says:

    Great video about feminism:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9KASgSBfY1k}}

  364. FunDude says:

    Great video on feminism:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9KASgSBfY1k}}

  365. FunDude says:

    Why are women from Slovenia emailing me?

    They are hot but come on man!

  366. sexyrockstar says:

    Pat Sajak is the dream SD.

    I hate the fact that the sugar bowl is filled with a bunch of dumbassess. Girls who are naive or entitled and men who take advantage as such.

    I just don’t understand it.
    Wtf happened.

    Only quality SBs will get the good SDs….. hopefully before a bunch of sb wannabe get to them and ruin the bowl.

  367. Josh says:

    Just go contacted by a porn star from Florida.

    Is that a good thing or a bad thing?

  368. DarkHorseSD says:

    “SD: Unfortunately, you are too far, too short and too big for me. :(”

    Girls like capable men. Listing your weaknesses, failings and inadequacies is a turnoff.

  369. Josh says:

    SB: So what do you do for a living when your not taking selfies in your drive way.

    SD: I watch women’s selfies in their minivans and bathrooms? 😉

  370. DarkHorseSD says:

    “The only difficult ones to find are QUALITY SBs.”

  371. Josh says:

    SB: Request to view your private photos.

    SD: Unfortunately, you are too far, too short and too big for me. :(

    SB: Hey thanks for not holding back. Jeeze

    SB: ALL girls want “honest” men don’t they? 😉

  372. DarkHorseSD says:

    “The younger ones that attempt the “platonic” nonsense and “chemistry” game but want to be paid IMMEDIATELY likely don’t last. I think the good majority of SDs have figured this one out.”

    Can you blame a girl for trying?

    “Even really old dudes won’t tolerate that shit too long.” 😀

  373. FunDude says:

    I think the Dr Phil segment of women come onto SA after seeing his show (or similar shows).

    They see average looking women supposedly getting THOUSANDS of dollars from older desperate dudes just willing to “hang out”.

    That is why they think the “platonic” and “chemistry” game works.

    They quickly drop out because they found out most these “creepy” dudes demand sex before considering an allowance.

    I hear them complain to me about it.

    I will ask the “chemistry” females how has their time on SA been going as my initial question.

    They often tell me: “It hasn’t gone well, most of these guys are creepers who just want SEX”.

    They invariably fall of the website within a few weeks of not getting anywhere. I saw at least 5 women like this in the last week that have fallen off the website and deleted their profile.

  374. FunDude says:

    I still find there to be enough “escort” level SBs around that men never really need to play for “platonic” or “chemistry” finding SBs.

    The only difficult ones to find are QUALITY SBs. I find that difficult in Western Michigan.

    I see much better prospects in some of the bigger cities. I will be checking out the Chicago scene in a few months.

  375. FunDude says:

    @DarkHorse

    I think the “escort” ones that do p4p (depending on looks) do fine in terms of getting money for sex.

    I think very attractive/easy to get along with women who trend on the younger side do very well with allowances if they are willing to make it into some kind of “relationship” where intimacy is involved.

    The younger ones that attempt the “platonic” nonsense and “chemistry” game but want to be paid IMMEDIATELY likely don’t last. I think the good majority of SDs have figured this one out.

    Even our resident mangina FLYR wouldn’t tolerate that “game”.

    That is why you will see these women off the site within a few weeks. They are often replaced by a new batch of these type of women lol.

    A few inexperienced SDs might play the “chemistry” game for a month or two but will likely stop it once they realize it isn’t going anywhere. Even really old dudes won’t tolerate that shit too long.

    The other SBs that probably don’t do well are older/nagging/BBWs type women that demand high allowances. I highly doubt many are taking up those offers for any period of time.

  376. DarkHorseSD says:

    Josh wrote: “There is no reason whatsoever that you cannot find an SD like some of the blog SBs have.”

    Josh, you are truly cruel. 😉

  377. Hazel says:

    Someone please kidnap me this spring break!!! :)

  378. Josh says:

    “More likely they would remove it from the bag, and gather their fellow gropers for a test”

    @flyR’s caricature of men continues. :(

  379. flyR says:

    “Would the TSA require she demonstrate it works so she can carry it on?”

    More likely they would remove it from the bag, and gather their fellow gropers for a test,

  380. DarkHorseSD says:

    “Hopefully the older woman has taken the time to perfect her sensual skills like the 35 year old quarterback who is a step slower but 10 years more perceptive of opportunities”

    And, still, the 43 year old QBs are in the broadcast booth.

  381. flyR says:

    @ Darkhorse – good thoughts

    I would be very hesitant to dive into a naked encounter with a woman when all she knew about me was that I promised to pay $x that’s pretty much hooking. That doesn’t mean that you can not get to the point were you are 99% certain it is going to work prior to meet.

    Personal view is that the answer to “waiting for chemistry to develop” is a very clear understanding that there will be no sugar PERIOD. That saves wasting time for both.

    I think it is reasonable to want to meet once or even twice before intimacy BUT NO SUGAR. One of the nice ways to handle it is for the SB who is really on the fence to invite the SD out for the second meet with a clear statement that it is her treat because she is interested and that she expects nothing.

    If someone is having problems with rinsers then add a line to their profile to the effect that while you are certainly prepared to provide sugar it is reserved for the start of the actual relationship and please don’t contact me if you expect gifts for simply showing up for what is really a sales call.

  382. Josh says:

    The TSA in her dreams is virtually cooperative.

  383. DarkHorseSD says:

    “Josh says:
    March 22, 2015 at 8:46 am
    @faythe

    Take the dildo to Hawaii (in your dreams).”

    Would the TSA require she demonstrate it works so she can carry it on?

  384. DarkHorseSD says:

    “YES, profile reporting is anonymous.”

    MAYBE!

    I was with an SB about a year ago who received notice from SA she had been reported. She said the notice included some parts of messages between her and the SD, and she could tell who he was.

  385. Josh says:

    @DarkHorseSD

    My approach is 180 degree opposite. I use medical technology to know what is going on in my body, and tell the doctor how I choose to treat my ailments, and not how the Big Pharma wants to “treat” what ails me.

    I just got rigorously tested for one such chronic ailment. Instead of taking the “preventative” pills, with serious side effects, costs $6/pill without insurance, for the rest of my life, I went through a series of tests and now I am on an “as needed” medicine, which costs me less than 15 cents per pill without insurance, and has significantly less side effects.

    Since I take it as needed, it has little of no effect on my liver, which I guard religiously from all these Big Pharma medicine. The only thing my liver needs to worry about is alcohol. 😉

  386. DarkHorseSD says:

    “I highly doubt this is working that well for the vast majority of SBs unless she is really hot and younger.”

    My guess is they do somewhere around as well as they do on escort sites. I’ve seen countless SBs on SA for years essentially escorting. It does look like SA took a broom to it at some point recently and there are fewer now.

  387. DarkHorseSD says:

    “Do you think they tell the SD this fact? Of course not. They will string him along for an “allowance” while pretending she is waiting for “chemistry” because she isn’t a “prostitute”. ”

    Simply educate SDs about why it is so foolish to provide significant benefits early on and in advance of receiving benefits.

    Educate less confident men – or perhaps men having other issues – that women do not need a significant amount of time* to decide if they will sleep with you or not.

    * Women that do need time almost certainly don’t belong in the sugar game. Participating in the Sugar World is not an inalienable right for all…the Sugar World is a mature and demanding one, and demands people strong enough to handle it.

  388. a latin opinion says:

    @josh

    lol ok papi copiado!

    Thank you, you are a sweetheart.

  389. DarkHorseSD says:

    “My newest interest is the falsity of the saturated fat hypothesis. I am reading the “Cholesterol Con” written by an MD/PHD and “Heart Myths” by another MD.”

    I no longer go to the doctor, and I hope to just drop dead without ever seeing it coming.

  390. Josh says:

    @latin

    You avoid three types of men like a plague:

    1. Financial deadbeat. A man pulling his own weight is not good enough. Many women fall for that. He needs to pull his weight, his woman’s weight, his children’s weight and his extended family’s weight. Then have some for the old age.

    2. Cheater. A man who can’t keep his dick reserved for his woman when she is proactively meeting his sexual needs and fetishes. As soon as the woman starts sabotaging him through sexual rationing and blackmail, all bets are off.

    3. Physical abuser. Yes, you are going to sabotage and mind rape him. It’s a given. But you proactively don’t want to deal with a man who believes that violence is an option.

    The others you work with…

  391. DarkHorseSD says:

    FunDude says:
    March 22, 2015 at 7:55 am
    @Dark

    Peeps takes the typical female mindset. She believes if a woman can get away with fooling a sugar daddy into giving her money, there is no “problem with it because the market dictates it”.

    I would suggest the business model needs to consider all the sugars missed out upon in the long gaps created by certain attitudes.

    An SB is not a painting. Should I get a chance to pay one price and chain her to my bed to be passed on to generation after generation of my offspring with nothing more than a little cleaning every few decades, I may bid.

  392. a latin opinion says:

    @Josh

    Papi you are soooooooo sweet, thank you for all your kind words.

    You know I’m not looking to get married/settle down/live happily ever after/catch a millionaire, just try to find one guy that I like, respect me, be go in bed, doesn’t get emotionally depending or try the whole “gilded cage” thing.

    I was just trying to find out for what amount do I have to aim if I decided/found the time to get back to the SA thing.

    Again, thank you for your words, I will try to work in improving my English, I just haven’t found a way to make it that work for me now.

  393. DarkHorseSD says:

    When newly contacting her for my current search, I asked an SB with a hot looking profile that had displayed “attitude” several months ago what her experience on SA has been and how her outlook has changed in that time.

    My alternative to the lecture approach since I’m still a little afraid of missing any pussy.

  394. flyR says:

    FSV = Fair sugar value

    The same steak served in NY, Santa Monica , Bakersfield, or a little diner in the middle of Kansas has a very different value based on location, presentation, competition and those with an appetite for steak.

  395. flyR says:

    @Joshie – “”@flyR

    “pathetic specimens of men”

    Have you ever used term “pathetic specimens of women” in your posts.

    1. If you have, why/when?

    2. If you have not why?””

    As someone who claims to have the wisdom of the universe you must already know the answer……. I had family visiting last week including 5 year old who would periodically yell that she wanted something NOW . Most people grow out of that phase of their life.

    Perhaps what is causing the difficulty is that in choosing friends including SB’s (for me there must be a friend component) I focus on what I like, what attracts me and what I will pursue rather than relentlessly focusing on what I do not like. It might be considered to be part of SA ……. filtering out what’s not relevant and focusing on what is.

    In sugar when I detect something that’s indicates a problem it’s time to focus elsewhere rather than wallow in the negative. If I am interviewing a potential an architect or other professional I know that what I want is 5% of the population and filter accordingly.

    (in the real world SA = situational awareness)

  396. Josh says:

    “I just want to understand my “fair worth in the market” lol (I think that’s how you call it)”

    I don’t use that term other women do, as in “I know my worth.”

  397. Josh says:

    @latin

    One potential matrix for female attractiveness is:

    “Physically attractive women
    Sweet girls
    Women that have no hair on their bodies
    Sensitive girls
    Peaceful girls”

    This is from [http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2011/08/why-most-women-dont-know-what-men-want.html]

    So it is not just “looks”, which you clearly have, but a combination of a lot of things. It is unfair to assign you a number because my opinion of you is highly nuanced based on having seen your numerous photos, and reading how you express yourself.

    You are one of the most educated and intelligent women on or off the blog. I love intelligent women. Such women are able to deal with men without the cliché crutches. Unfortunately, your lack of English skills prevents you from expressing with the best of your intellectual abilities, which is a shame. This is one area that you need to focus immediately and persistently.

    When you relate stories of men falling in love with you, they are not stupid. But they may not be able to appreciate you with their wealth, because they may not have much. You are a great catch, you should appreciate that, and use it to secure a man who can appreciate you for a long time until YOU ultimately sabotage that relationship.

    That’s why I had asked you to stick around SA until you find a respectful and generous man. There is no reason whatsoever that you cannot find an SD like some of the blog SBs have.

    Another good thing about your situation is that you are not financially desperate, and are able to screen, screen and screen some more.

  398. a latin opinion says:

    @josh

    Could you please tell me what number I’m? in that male scale (I think is from 1 to 10)

    I ask you before and you didn’t answer, I know you avoid to answer people when you don’t want to be rude but you can answer me without hesitation, I can take it.

    I just want to understand my “fair worth in the market” lol (I think that’s how you call it)

  399. Josh says:

    “husband who ran off with the paperboy.”

    Alas…@flyR’s caricature of men continues…

  400. a latin opinion says:

    Good afternoon everybody.

    To the guys that were defending the sexguide blog, until this point I still think you guys didn’t show me an equivalent blog/website/online source in which the dubious SB get together to brag and share information in how to deceive more SD.

    Nevertheless your last comments have help me to understand more your point of view. Thank you, I have already said I like when a man take the time to explain me his male point of view.

    have a good day.

  401. flyR says:

    @ Peach – “@FunDude I know you seem to prefer the very young SB’s but haven’t you noticed how immature they are at that age? (You seemed surprised when a young female acts the way the she does at 19 or such.)”

    There are a lot of 19-24 year olds who are far more mature than their older sisters and mothers. For one thing they are like grandparents or great grandparents , who grew up during the great depression, unless they are the daughters of the wall street banksters they were pretty lean times.

    today’s youth culture (especially that heavily influenced by rap and hip hop) treats women essentially as disposable sperm dumpsters. A thimble of sugar in a genuine arrangement goes a long way. Yes it’s a 2 way arrangement.

    Younger means you are not going to be punished for the transgressions of BF 1-10, a couple of serious relationships which poofed and a husband who ran off with the paperboy.

    Younger women are less likely to see Hillary and Michelle as goddesses at the front of the struggle for equality and more as frauds who sold them down the river. I think technology has helped them communicate as peers across sex and age boundaries.

    That young women can be great SB’s should not intimidate older candidates , they also come with some advantages. One of the secrets is to leave the baggage stored well outside of SA. Remember that the SD is looking for something he missed in his past life or something missing from his current life . Very few men are looking for more complaining whinny women just as few women are looking for abusive , cheap , uncaring men.

    Hopefully the older woman has taken the time to perfect her sensual skills like the 35 year old quarterback who is a step slower but 10 years more perceptive of opportunities.

  402. Josh says:

    @flyR

    “pathetic specimens of men”

    Have you ever used term “pathetic specimens of women” in your posts.

    1. If you have, why/when?

    2. If you have not why?

  403. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    “this was in part of my discussion with date last night”

    Don’t sabotage your budding relationships with silly discussions.

    “Are there many “real” virgins left now? Particularly the younger ones?”

    From time to time girls show up who claim to be virgin. I don’t even care to wonder if they are or not. “Virgin” is NOT a turn on for me. “Virgin” equate drama. I dated one girl in her late 20s who claimed to be virgin, but with ease she spread her legs for me…either I was too suave or she was lying…I lean toward latter.

    Another one never explicitly claimed to be virgin, alluded to it, but did it first time with me during her periods…I wonder why.

    Neither of the were good at sex.

    As far as your question to @FunDude regarding 19 year-old girl, women deal with men through cliches, and idiotic advice given to them from other women. Women’s advice to women in the area of how to deal with men is disastrous. Women who seek out men’s advice in a relationship situation fare a lot better than those who seek women for advice in a similar situation, but most women don’t.

    Why? Women want to talk about shit, and not have a resolution. Their communication with men is pretty straightforward. There’s no “feelings” juice in it.

    Since men are problem solvers, if they are unsuccessful with women, they go to PUA training, learn how women roll, and have more luck. There are not a whole lot of “dating quality men” training for female because they don’t have trouble attracting men. The real question is what type of men they are attracting? Since younger women typically go for bad boys, it does not really matter until they hit the wall somewhere in their 30s.

    The article posted by @FunDude above is pretty good primer for women in their teens, 20s and 30s.

  404. flyR says:

    “”In other words, the SB not wanting sex will exist as long as someone will pay for what she has to offer, even if it seems that to YOU that is insane. You don’t set the market, others do.””

    This situation is so easy to avoid I wonder why it consumes so much blog space. YES there are pathetic specimens of men who feel they must have a desirable woman to display in public. The no sex splenda babe fills this role. An intelligent SD understands that he BENEFITS from the presence of these women on SA because they increase the illusion of excess supply of quality sugar.

    Three little letters are such a simple solution to the issue P O F . Making it clear that other than helping with travel and paying for a cup of coffee, glass of wine or light dinner nothing happens. Is it paying for sex – no – it is simply defining that you are not looking for a relationship without intimacy. Really no different from inviting someone you meet at a party to go to Vegas next weekend, yes as long as I have my own room is not yes.

    Lookers on SA – some of the types

    WMV-Many of us with investments take a peek at the stock market news not because we are going to buy or sell but out of curiosity, sugars no different-just checking her portfolio value

    OTF ( on the fence) I’m thinking about this but it is pretty scary

    MMFW (Make me feel wanted) Her male counterpart walks into the Ferrari dealership and wants to talk delivery times, maintenance costs and performance. He has the money to buy but his mother would chide him for his extravagance.

    OSV (On Shelf Voyeur) – Her male counterpart fearlessly flys under the Golden Gate bridge, in the safety of his flight simulator but would have damp shorts and the thought of doing it in real life.

  405. Josh says:

    @faythe

    “@idiotjosh thanks for answering my question so flawlessly.”

    Thou art welcometh…the @Guru doth taketh care of trolls liketh thou “flawlessly”.

  406. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KeKe
    Thanks Hon for the info! I’ll remember that. I think I would enjoy the Spin Class, so I’ll bet the FlyWheel is a wild ride. LOL

    @Josh
    Thanks for the Pussy Burial story. Between you and Dark Horse last night, I couldn’t stop laughing. Glad you found out more about her and all is ok.

    Question for SD’s or I suppose SB’s (this was in part of my discussion with date last night). Are there many “real” virgins left now? Particularly the younger ones? I know that’s a crazy question, but I am curious. Also,

    @FunDude I know you seem to prefer the very young SB’s but haven’t you noticed how immature they are at that age? (You seemed surprised when a young female acts the way the she does at 19 or such.)

  407. Josh says:

    *As I had thought…

  408. Josh says:

    I done good. As I had through, X turned out to be someone I had given my cell phone number to two weeks ago, had not given me her real name on through SA messaging, is not active on the site since then, and decided to just text me with her “dead pussy” messages.

    As I had said, I should have just asked who she was when I saw the new number, but since I goofed up, I had to go through all those probing questions to figure out. 😉

  409. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    I like a wide variety of women.

  410. Josh says:

    And you will not get any money from me since paying you spicifically for sexual act would be illegal.

    But if you can cook a delicious meal afterwards, I will pay you for that. But the requirement is that you stat naked and bare foot while you cook the meal.

    Hmmm, come to think of it, you may put on some heels. That would be equally acceptable.

  411. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    I could have her doing that. I wouldn’t do it with her though, I have my standards bro.

  412. Questron says:

    @Josh Thank you very much.

  413. Josh says:

    @faythe

    I don’t know about @FunDude, but if you suck my dick you will have to use a condom.

  414. FunDude says:

    @Fay

    I fuck hotter women than you regularly. You’re nothing special.

    I’d have your dumbass sucking my dick within 5 minutes.

  415. Josh says:

    @faythe

    Take the dildo to Hawaii (in your dreams).

  416. faythe says:

    @idiotjosh thanks for answering my question so flawlessly. I can’t engage in any trolling here as I have better things to do (like board this flight to hawaii for the week) but it’s okay that you can’t manage to find a girl to fuck you, even if you did offer what peasant amount of money you can put together. I’d tell you to fuck yourself, but I wouldn’t wish that upon my worst enemy. Toodles.

  417. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “@Josh

    How often do these “chemistry” SBs see some older SD and know right away they will NEVER have sex with him?”

    It takes women 30 seconds give or take 5 seconds to know if the new man in her life is “sex worthy” with her. The rest is female bullshit.

  418. Josh says:

    @Questron

    “@Josh So (for clarity) if I report someone’s SA profile, they will know that it was me who did so? I apologize if this is a stupid question, but I couldn’t find an answer in the FAQ.”

    Sorry, I misunderstood your original questions.

    YES, profile reporting is anonymous. Report whatever you have to support@seekingarrangement dot com. Your identity would not be revealed to the profile owner, UNLESS you were foolish enough to threaten the profile owner by telling them that you were going to report them.

    Keep in mind that SA does not take immediate action on “he said she said”. They will wait for X numbers of “he said she said” against a person before they will take action. They do take IMMEDIATE action when a law is clearly broken, such as, an underaged SB is reported, someone makes overt money-for-sex messages on SA messaging, which they can read, etc.

  419. FunDude says:

    The problem with this situation is that the MAJORITY of SDs are onto this “chemistry” game and won’t do an “allowance” until that basic fundamental finding is there FIRST.

    That is why you get a new crop of younger SBs every few weeks with the same “chemistry” tactics that have taken down their profiles within 2 weeks due to the lack of suckers.

    I highly doubt this is working that well for the vast majority of SBs unless she is really hot and younger.

  420. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    How often do these “chemistry” SBs see some older SD and know right away they will NEVER have sex with him?

    Do you think they tell the SD this fact? Of course not. They will string him along for an “allowance” while pretending she is waiting for “chemistry” because she isn’t a “prostitute”.

    Meanwhile, she is LAUGHING her ass off to her friends about some OLD SD that she is getting money out of FOR NOTHING.

    SBs would love to game Older SDs out of their money on a quite frequent basis.

  421. Questron says:

    @Josh So (for clarity) if I report someone’s SA profile, they will know that it was me who did so? I apologize if this is a stupid question, but I couldn’t find an answer in the FAQ.

  422. Josh says:

    @faythe

    Find a nice, firm dildo and fuck yourself silly.

  423. Josh says:

    @peeps

    “a lot of women here are VERY young and getting messages from men who are much smarter than they are. It’s rife for exploitation, on both sides.”

    If men are “much smarter” and “women here are VERY young” then how is it “rife for exploitation, on both sides”?

    That sentence does not make sense…

    What DOES make sense is that younger women attempt to exploit youth, more power to them, and some do succeed because of the package (age + looks + ability to make a man happy) they bring to the table, and the market rewards them handsomely for that.

    The rest get frustrated and leave due to their unrealistic expectations vis-à-vis the package they are offering. Their unrealistic expectations are based on what their “friend” received from someone.

    The reality of the male-female interaction is that such interaction instantly activates fantasyland in women’s minds, and the promise of proverbial moon works a lot better than what a man actually is able and willing to deliver.

  424. faythe says:

    wow. people actually troll on this blog. are any of you actually a part of this site or just a bunch of awares?

  425. FunDude says:

    Since most SBs never “cry” for SDs who are “taken advantage of” by SBs and ACTUALLY support those exploitative SBs, then I will not SHED any TEARS for SBs who are pumped and dumped.

    All is FAIR in love and war.

    SD need to take an equally militant response to SBs as the SBs are OBVIOUSLY attempting against SDs.

  426. FunDude says:

    @Peeps

    Yet most of these sugar babies don’t “enter” contracts with sugar daddies honestly. They PRETEND there is a chance for sex but NEVER follow through. This is how they obtain allowances from “older SDs” by essentially playing them.

    If a woman tell the SD that she will NEVER have sex with him but they can just hang out so that he can give her money, then it would be fine.

    They rarely approach things this way. They PRETEND they need to wait for “chemistry” which NEVER COMES. Its “exploitative” in its approach.

    This is analogous to a Sugar Daddy pretending that he will give a woman allowance after a few “test drives” but NEVER following through.

    There is ZERO difference.

    The only issue are the hypocritical double standards from SBs crying about the SDs but NEVER about their fellow SBs.

  427. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    I read medscape everyday, read economics stuff everyday, go to the GYM 4 times/week, eat well, etc. I will also be doing an MBA shortly.

    Its possible to do many different things.

    My newest interest is the falsity of the saturated fat hypothesis. I am reading the “Cholesterol Con” written by an MD/PHD and “Heart Myths” by another MD.

    I keep abreast of the medical literature in my field as well and am currently attempt to publish an article, which is in the review stage.

    The most difficult task I have is finding a “loyal” attractive female.

  428. peeps says:

    @fundude
    I think there is a fine line between real exploitation (i.e. men who will have sex with them and leave and never give an allowance they had agreed to initially) and market. This is wrong on both sides. From women taking money and leaving AND from men never giving allowances when they promised to. That is different between entering a contractual verbal agreement and following through. When both parties are honest, there are no issues.

  429. FunDude says:

    Or are we going to have the typical feminist bullshit double standard where anything that benefits women is “fair” and we will pretend its due to the “market” but anything that benefits men is “exploitative”?

    Even if both actions are basically the same thing from a moral standpoint, some women try to hypocritically call the SD’s “exploitative” when they take advantage of “market” conditions.

    Double Standards much?

  430. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “Good article about the “rules revisited” for women in their 30s

    {{http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2013/02/female-game-for-women-in-their-30s.html}}”

    You do come up with some good shit @FunDude. What kind of physician you are? Do you spend any time learning new things in medicine? :)

  431. FunDude says:

    @ Peeps

    If the Player SDs are able to fuck and chuck women for little to no money there is ZERO problem with this because it is dictated by the “market”.

    Wasn’t your argument that anything that occurs in the “market” is fine since the “market” dictates terms?

  432. peeps says:

    @fundude

    “@Peeps why are so many SBs complaining about “Player SDs” who take advantage of women for sex then?”

    Because they are not aware of their condition as commodities. They have no deals in place before becoming physical? Because they are dumb? Granted, a lot of women here are VERY young and getting messages from men who are much smarter than they are. It’s rife for exploitation, on both sides.

  433. Josh says:

    @Questron

    “Is profile reporting anonymous?”

    Yes, we will anonymously see your profile id. 😉

  434. FunDude says:

    Why women lose the dating game:

    {{https://danielmiessler.com/blog/the-dating-power-flip-at-age-30/}}

  435. FunDude says:

    @Peeps

    Incorrect, I have gotten multiple sexual offers for minimal or no money. I have only taken a FEW of them up on these offers.

    I don’t even want to bang some of these SBs lol.

    The only problem I am having is finding a HIGH QUALITY SB. Banging women off of this website is quite easy.

    Peeps why are so many SBs complaining about “Player SDs” who take advantage of women for sex then?

    If the market dictates that, why is there a problem? Who cares if they have a blog that brags about having sex with these women for 200 dollars or less.

  436. peeps says:

    @fundude you and the 19 year old aren’t that different, you are just pushing product in different ways. Women send you messages because they are looking for buyers but can’t find (m)any. You send them offers for nothing and get no action or strong resistance.

    Market is not about morality, it’s not about “good” or “bad”. Anyone can get away with anything…as long as there are takers.

  437. Questron says:

    Is profile reporting anonymous?

  438. FunDude says:

    Ergo, my perspective that you should basically fuck and chuck the mediocre SBs until a good one that is worth an “allowance” comes along is a good method that is totally congruent with sugar “market” conditions.

    Yet I appear to be getting some resistance from SBs around here on that issue.

    Don’t see anything wrong with that perspective since it is determined by the “market”.

    If 3/20 SBs bang for free or minimal cost, then the “market” dictates banging SBs for nothing or minimal amounts of money DICTATES that this is FINE!

    Ergo, I will continue with that methodology.

  439. FunDude says:

    @Dark

    Peeps takes the typical female mindset. She believes if a woman can get away with fooling a sugar daddy into giving her money, there is no “problem with it because the market dictates it”.

    The same female will complain about the Sugar Daddies who bang a bunch of Sugar Babies for free despite these men having some level of success on SA. She will never argue that the “market dictates this therefore it is fine”.

    By her logic, a sugar daddy who bangs a bunch of SBs for minimal to no money is good because it is dictated by the “market”.

  440. KeKe says:

    @Georgia.. FlyWheel is like spin on speed. Lots of resistance and high RPM (80-100). It was my first class but I loved it. Going back Monday.

  441. DarkHorseSD says:

    I keep coming back to the point that being sloppy with money pollutes the sugar environment. Chumming for chicks fills the waters with sharks.

  442. FunDude says:

    I straight out rejected 3 Sugar Babies already today.

    I am quite blunt with them now lol.

    47 y/o “single mom” from Texas with one picture: Response to her was “no thanks, too far away, out of age range and only one picture”.

  443. FunDude says:

    Also, if they are getting so many “offers” then why are they messaging me? Also why do their profiles come down in under 1 week from signing on?

    Sounds like most of them don’t get much and sign off the site. These women often “bitch” to me about “broke SDs” who won’t give them money.

    Ergo, they aren’t doing well in the market and leaving the site because they can’t get this type of “arrangement” for the good majority of them.

  444. FunDude says:

    @Peeps

    The same argument about “value” can also be made about “player SDs” who get sex with women but give them no money.

    Sugar Babies are at “fault” for these types of Sugar Daddies who “play” them because obviously they are having some level of success.

    Ergo, the market dictates this and they are “not wrong” either.

    Why do women complain about them so much then?

  445. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Those kinds of conversations usually devolve into “shaming” language ala Scarlett.

    You’d be surprised how many women will argue from an irrational perspective like Scarlett.

    They will try to “bully” you into accepting a bad deal. You can talk to them till the cows come home about “value” etc but it usually devolves into “I’m not a prostitute but give me MONEY for nothing”

  446. peeps says:

    @fundude
    These women do this because they can, because they will find one person who will give them what they want. They are not wrong for doing that, just the same way that you are not wrong for not wanting to give her an allowance. There are buyers and there are sellers and as per fair market value practices, value is a function of market conditions, as long as there is ONE buyer there is a set market price. The notion of fair market price (I come from the art auction perspective) is not related to averages meaning is 20 men will offer 1k and 1 will offer 5k, the price will be set to 5k because one buyer was willing to pay and therefore set the price). There was something my boss used to always say “a thing is worth whatever someone is willing to pay for it”.

    Since this is a market place situation, and commodities are not in the position to set fair market values, if commodity SB got X from buyer A, she can say her fair market is ___ . Again this is not related to how many men offer less, and how many SBs there are, but to what ONE person HAS paid for it.

    One time a man asked what my allowance expectation was. I told him SD A had offered me __ and SD 2 had similarly offered me __ which set my fair market value at X. I told him, as a person, I agreed to the value x.

    I have said “no” in the past because I have minimum requirements of a connection, some attraction and of personal safety. I have a risk-assessment equation where, if a sense a man is not worth my risk, I will cancel the deal. Because I am not desperate and because I live in a nice area and I am not interested in anyone who is a step down. That went beyond my commodity “value” and went into my value system which will override any market conditions and so forth.

    In other words, the SB not wanting sex will exist as long as someone will pay for what she has to offer, even if it seems that to YOU that is insane. You don’t set the market, others do.

  447. Josh says:

    When the girls contact me and have “no sex” or “platonic” or “just friendship” in their profiles or messages, I ask them if they are virgin or celibate.

    If the answer is negative, and most of the times it is in negative…with virgins lurking here and there.

    Then I ask them if they have a bf or a fb. I give them the lecture according to their looks, sugar expectations and sexual situation.

    That’s my public service to SDs as well as SBs.

  448. FunDude says:

    I think enough SDs have been “burned” by these types of SBs who are looking to find “chemistry” before becoming “intimate” but would like an ALLOWANCE from day one.

    Most men appear to be taking my approach. No allowance until “chemistry” is determined. We can meet up a few times to determine “chemistry”.

    Basically calls their bluff. These women appear to be rinsing off the site quite regularly with a new crop every week.

    Some of the women I have messages from literally delete their accounts the next day lol

  449. FunDude says:

    Its pretty clear in my comment that she didn’t offer any value from her profile. I can’t see how she wouldn’t understand my evaluation of her condition.

    She didn’t respond back. If she did, I would elaborate for her further.

    Other times I have done that, they start using the “shaming language” about how they are not a “prostitute”.

    I will ask them what “benefit” are they offering me considering they want a hefty fee.

    They will say “having fun together, going to dinner once in awhile, etc”. They will often talk about finding “chemistry” first before anything intimate.

    I will tell them that this is insufficient benefit for the cost they are demanding.

    I often tell them I will go out with her to “dinner” or movies without paying an allowance. After we determine “chemistry”, then we can talk about allowance.

    They will often not want to meet after that point. They expect money without anything.

    I notice these profiles will disappear within a week because they can’t find any suckers.

  450. Josh says:

    Did you lecture the 19 year-old or not?

  451. FunDude says:

    I got “favorited” by an attractive 19 year old yesterday. After viewing her profile, it stated that “she would like to meet only for a platonic relationship once a week because she is too busy”.

    She had an expectation of “moderate”.

    Of course I told her “no thank you, your profile shows you present nothing of value sufficient to give you a moderate allowance”.

    These women will interestingly give you shaming language about “prostitution” when they are BLATANTLY attempting to get significant money out of SDs for NOTHING in return.

    A woman who wants a “platonic relationship where you meet less than once a week because they are busy” is NOT a sugar baby.

    She is a sugar PARASITE

  452. FunDude says:

    Good article about the “rules revisited” for women in their 30s

    {{http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2013/02/female-game-for-women-in-their-30s.html}}

  453. FunDude says:

    @All

    The women who come up front and say they will NEVER have sex with a sugar daddy are “honest” about their intentions.

    However, you will often see these sugar babies giving very MIXED messages trying to seduce sugar daddies. They will wear very seductive clothing in their pictures giving the illusion of SEX.

    These women are as bad as any “player SD”

  454. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @DarkHorseSD
    “Josh – just don’t tell her about the blog.
    The last thing we need is yet another SB with a dead pussy posting here.”

    That Sir is the funniest thing anyone has said here in quite a while. And
    @Guru Josh Thanks for leading him to that response with your “possible X” details and her dead pussy. Made my morning… so far. LMAO.

    Yep. Spring dun sprung in Hot’lanta! Gonna be a fine day here.

  455. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    I think men’s idiocy is more due to cultural brainwashing and feminism. Men in other countries don’t act like “manginas”.

    Also, I wouldn’t say most SDs “jumped on me”. I would venture to say that the majority have supported my comments (outside of a handful of manginas like FLYR).

    SD who attack my comments are FOOLs who are fighting agains their own interests. Some of them believe the “mangina” act will get them more pussy which is patently FALSE.

    Sugar Baby who leads guy on about sex but only takes his money= Sugar Daddy who leads woman on about money but only gives her sex.

    I see ABSOLUTELY no difference.

    @Latina

    Women brag to each other all the TIME about how much money they get from SDs without sex. The last female I met off this site had her “friends” show her pictures of money she got from guys after claiming “they didn’t have to have sex”.

    I questioned if they didn’t really have sex and she felt they were bullshitting BUT they were trying to brag they got money with no sex.

  456. DarkHorseSD says:

    BTW, you didn’t specify the place pointed to had to be even and fair, nor contemporary.

    You only said you’d retract if it were even and fair.

    You didn’t specify what even and fair means, although you’ve given some parameters in later posts.

  457. DarkHorseSD says:

    I’m not all over the Internet reading these things, so I can’t recommend something. You won’t have a hard time finding them.

    “*MOST OF PEOPLE IN THIS FORUM, HELP THE REAL SB/SD TO GET THE BEST OUT OF THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIP RESPECTING THE OTHER PARTY SB/SD?”

    nope

    “*MOST OF PEOPLE IN THIS FORUM BELIEVE THAT IN ORDER FOR THIS SA THING TO WORK BOTH PARTIES HAVE TO GIVE SOMETHING THAT BENEFIT THE OTHER PART OF THE ARRANGEMENT. AND THAT IF YOU DON’T DO SO YOU ARE NOT A REAL SB/SD, RIGHT?”

    nope

  458. Josh says:

    *The bottom-line is that women out of habit, sincerely believe that their whining is legitimate and men’s whining is unfair and even misogynist. Men typically don’t retaliate against women in these situations. Why? because as dumb and dumber they LUV pussy, don’t want to upset women, and want their share of pussy. This gives women courage to whine even more. It’s a viscous cycle.

  459. Josh says:

    @latin

    “@josh
    You in fact didn’t defend that site.”

    Because I am the @Guru. I know better. 😉

  460. Josh says:

    Here is one

    [http://www.graziadaily.co.uk/2014/11/20-000-women-sex-lies-rinsing-guys#.VQ5du47F8f0]

    The SBs who mention “going slow”, platonic relationship, money for first meeting, demanding upfront money and defending such practice, etc., are more likely than not fraudsters. Such language is not banned by SA.

    The flip side is if an SD mentions that he will need to “test drive” an SB, such language would not be allowed by SA. Also, when @FunDude talks about not paying to any woman unless she meets his criteria, most everyone objected to his position.

    The bottom-line is that women expect that their whining is legitimate and men’s whining is unfair. Men typically don’t retaliate against women in these situations, but as dumb and dumber they want their share of pussy and don’t want to upset women, which give women courage to whine even more.

    And that’s why blog women (along with manginas) jump on @FunDude en masse.

    They tried to jump on @Guru in the past, but have largely given up on him because the @Guru lowers their panties and whoop them good. 😉

  461. a latin opinion says:

    @josh

    Papi you are right but….. the question wasn’t for you.

    You in fact didn’t defend that site. And if you believe that the final result of what they do is “fair” give me a site where fake SB do the same.

  462. Josh says:

    [with some corrections.]

    @latin

    That particular forum has several types of posts:

    1. Posts to defraud SBs. This is immoral but may or may not be illegal depending on how they do it.

    2. Posts about getting SBs to sleep with them for the lowest allowance possible. There is nothing legally or morally wrong with it.

    3. Posts about warning their members about problem SBs. SA should take legal action against that site.

    @FunDude called what they are doing at that website equivalent to SBs stealing from SDs by leading them on without ever having any intention of doing anything for the SD.

    I took it as an exaggeration to make a point, which he succeeded in making.

    This is how discourse goes in the Anglo countries:

    1. You get a horrible news of man cutting a (especially) White woman’s boobs off. This is an international news about women’s rights, and correctly so. Rallies are held. Resolutions are signs. New laws are enacted on tops of hundreds of existing ones to protect women from beasts aka men. Everyone MUST act somber.

    2. You get a horrible news of woman cutting a man’s penis. This is an international comedy event without any mention of men’s rights. Everyone is either giggling or feigning somberness. Comedy routines are developed. No new laws are enacted against beastly women. “He must have deserved it” is the underlying message.

  463. Josh says:

    @latin

    That particular forum has several types of posts:

    1. Posts to defraud SBs. This is immoral but may or may not be illegal depending on how they do it.

    2. Posts about getting SBs to sleep with them for the lowest allowance possible. There is nothing legally or morally wrong with it.

    3. Posts about warning their members about problem SBs. SA should take legal action against that site.

    @FunDude called what they are doing at that website equivalent to SBs stealing SDs by leading them on without ever having any intention of doing anything for the SD.

    I took it as an exaggeration to make a point, which he succeeded in making.

    This is how discourse goes in the Anglo countries:

    1. You get a horrible news of man cutting a (especially) White woman’s boobs off. This is an international news about women’s rights. Everyone MUST act somber.

    2. You get a horrible news of woman cutting a man’s penis. This is an international comedy event without any mention of men’s rights. Everyone is either giggling or feigning somberness. “He must have deserved it” is the underlying message.

  464. a latin opinion says:

    Going to bed, GN.

  465. a latin opinion says:

    @DH papi I said “even and fair” so of course it have to be something that is still alive now.

    Plus in that blog every person SD or SB who try to said what they do is wrong get eliminated and his comments blocks so again the SA blog doesn’t qualified.

  466. DarkHorseSD says:

    ” So tell me please guys one place where FAKE SB (the ones who stole, abuse, use, misstreat to good real SD) get together to brag, share and advice in how to use, abuse, ripp off more SD.”

    Read THIS blog before Josh arrived.

  467. a latin opinion says:

    @EVERYONE

    SB who take the money/use SD/stole/ are bad or crazy people to his SD are WRONG!

    WE CAN ALL AGREE IN:

    *MOST OF PEOPLE IN THIS FORUM, HELP THE REAL SB/SD TO GET THE BEST OUT OF THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIP RESPECTING THE OTHER PARTY SB/SD?

    *MOST OF PEOPLE IN THIS FORUM BELIEVE THAT IN ORDER FOR THIS SA THING TO WORK BOTH PARTIES HAVE TO GIVE SOMETHING THAT BENEFIT THE OTHER PART OF THE ARRANGEMENT. AND THAT IF YOU DON’T DO SO YOU ARE NOT A REAL SB/SD, RIGHT?

    SO PLEASE HOW IS THAT BLOG OK WHEN THEY DO/CONTRIBUTE/SUPPORT/ENCOURAGE THE EXACT OPPOSITE OF WHAT YOU GUYS DO HERE?

    They are all about ripping women. So tell me please guys one place where FAKE SB (the ones who stole, abuse, use, misstreat to good real SD) get together to brag, share and advice in how to use, abuse, ripp off more SD.

    Thank you guys, GN

    BTW If there is a place I will again retract my self because in that case will be even and fair.

  468. a latin opinion says:

    @jacob I want to apologize because I thought bad about you and as I saw you as a bad person without giving you the opportunity to defend/explain your self.

    My bad.

    I hope you are not what I thought about you, sorry again if I was wrong.

  469. Josh says:

    @latin,

    Sweetheart, you may want to write your question(s) in the morning. :)

  470. a latin opinion says:

    @josh

    OMG sorry Josh!!! I’m trying to do this fast.

    second intent…

    [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSWcTFReMWI]

    @josh.

    Tell me your opinion, more than all, about what he said from the minute 06:00.

  471. a latin opinion says:

    @fundude,@gentelman and I don’t remember who else more who said that the guys on the questioned blog (sexguide whatever whatever) are the same as SB ripping off guys:

    I Think that you went there and at least read a couple of pages for your self before giving me your opinion, at least that is what I do with someone post some information in here concerning an non SA source/link/video/reference.

    I try to keep an open mind, and go and read, and analyzed before answer.

    Since it didn’t take you guys long to answer back to my comment I can’t stop my self from wandering if you guys did read what most of the guys support there.

    (I prefer to do that to think that you guys didn’t need to go and read about that blog because you are part of it and already knew completely what I was talking about)

  472. Josh says:

    @latin

    What’s the question, sweetheart?

  473. a latin opinion says:

    @kenna write me down in the list of people who like our resident doctor aka fundude.

  474. a latin opinion says:

    Sorry to put you guys in the same group but I’m trying to go to bed.

    @Darkhorse and @Georgia you guys have been so cool during this days, so much fun, the only post that I really enjoy lately because they put a smile on my face, (-:

    For that thank you.

  475. Josh says:

    @DarkHorseSD,

    Hahahahahaha!!!

  476. a latin opinion says:

    Hi guys sorry to be so blunt, but I’m kind of restless.

    @josh.

    Tell me your opinion, more than all about he said from the minute 06:00.

  477. DarkHorseSD says:

    Josh – just don’t tell her about the blog.

    The last thing we need is yet another SB with a dead pussy posting here.

  478. DarkHorseSD says:

    My new SB is so practical. She lives in a rent stabilized janitors closet which runs her about $700/mo less than a comparable free market janitors closet.

  479. Josh says:

    I asked for another full photo. She is not responding. She needed an emotional toilet to shit on, and she did. Oh well.

    At least this is not my X, and I did not mess up by carefully asking leading questions.

  480. DarkHorseSD says:

    @josh, eliminating monthly cat expense should lower her expectations, or am I thinking like a man again?

  481. Josh says:

    Sends me a photo with the cat who died. The cat is fully focused. Her face is half cut. At least she is not my X. Phew!!!

    Now I can ask her why she contacted me to tell about stupid dead cat. Women’s communication is usually so fucked up, I like to just spend measured amount of time with them.

    If this were my X, whom I was with last night, I would have no problem listening to the cat burial story, family showing up, etc. But a POT texting me out of the blue and talking about the depressing stuff?

  482. DarkHorseSD says:

    The thrill of occasionally getting into Josh’s sort of predicament makes it all worthwhile for me.

  483. DarkHorseSD says:

    I have one of those SBs that phases in and out of my time-space continuum as well.

  484. DarkHorseSD says:

    Je vais vous mettre les deux insomniaques ensemble

  485. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach.

    She’s texting so I am fairly safe from the Sienfeldian awkwardness whe Jerry either forgot or didn’t even know the name of the girl he was with.

  486. Josh says:

    “When you are in the mood send me new photos.”

    Let’s see what happens. This will clarify who she is. :)

  487. Josh says:

    I am pretty sure this is not my X. Phew!!!

    Now I have establish which X is she. 😉

  488. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh Guru
    LOL.
    Mon ami.
    I am so sorry. It is not I.
    There are a few cats in my neighborhood that should find homes elsewhere, but I have not buried any since I have been here. All I can say is to keep asking her leading questions and get her to talk as much as possible, placing your phone down when necessary, to give your hands a rest.

    And I would never disappear like that on you. LOL
    Then again. POOF.
    Night.

  489. DarkHorseSD says:

    hunk de quoi?

  490. Josh says:

    I am on Hushed with a woman I have no clue who she is. She said that she was X, who is one of my SBs who disappears and shows up whenever she feels like it. I wish she stays in contact more often but she’s a free spirit.

    Anyway, the number she is texting me from is not X’s regular phone number, but since I made a mistake of not telling her that I did not recognize the phone to clarify which X is that, I am now fucked.

    I am just making up conversation to establish if it is my X, or is it one of the POTs I may have given my phone number to in the past few days/weeks, and she decided to text now.

    She was complaining about rough day due to burying a neighborhood cat. I have no fucking idea who she is at this time. I will just keep it going until she establishes who she is. :)

  491. GeorgiaPeach says:

    Sombre Cheval Sucre Papa
    Par ailleurs, maintenant que vous parlez avec les deux insomniaques

  492. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @DH SD
    Oui, j’ai fais Sir.
    Cependant, je pense que vous êtes un chaud et guy hunky, moi-même
    😉

  493. DarkHorseSD says:

    Bonsoir :) Vous pensez je peux trouver d’autres femmes françaises à telle heure ci. Ne pas sauvages mdr :)

  494. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @DH SD
    That sounds like fun.
    Des conversations sont bonnes, Monsieur?
    Oh mon. Vous ne devriez pas rester debout si tard le chat avec ces femmes sauvages Français!

  495. DarkHorseSD says:

    I’m well; on the line to France with an insomniac.

  496. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @DarkHorseSD
    Hello Honey!
    How are you this fine evening? It’s a “rainy night in Georgia.” Not me, the state. LOL I am HOT tonight. LOL

  497. DarkHorseSD says:

    Hi, Georgia!

  498. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KeKe
    Thank you too. It was nice to get out with a guy. Been a LONG time. Hey, I love your new gravitar – that corset is gorgeous! Ok, what is “flywheel”? I’ve lost about 15 lbs so far now, working on lots more, will take all the ideas I can get to get more off!

  499. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    “@Georgia Have fun”

    Whoa, did the earth suddenly move? Sorry, I was just so surprised by your comment, Doc. Thank you very much. I truly appreciate it. And Yes, I did have a nice time.

    He seems to be a pretty cool guy, (so far), a good “kisser” and he said he likes “boobies.” Can’t be all bad. Plus he wants to see me again this week! LOL Thought I was back in college. (We were kissing in the parking lot! LOL)

  500. DarkHorseSD says:

    I got no complaints right now.

  501. FatB'StardSD says:

    @flyR

    “minimum of bandwidth”

    This comment comes from a person who wrote paragraphs about the OODA loop and one of the most idiotic posts I have ever read concerning kicking soccer balls compared to kicking a man’s balls.

  502. KeKe says:

    @Devious lmao.. Have a good night bloggers!

  503. Josh says:

    First lesson from true guru. Google “karma”, learn what it means and re-write the sentence with the proper word. 😉

  504. DarkHorseSD says:

    @Devious Unfortunately it’s only black and white attire otherwise I’d take a look at your calender . Lol

    Awesome!

    I’ll go in my underwear.

  505. DarkHorseSD says:

    *List

  506. DarkHorseSD says:

    Lost of Sugar Moaners needed as well.

  507. flyR says:

    if there was a true guru amongst us he would walk quietly and carry a large karma .

  508. KeKe says:

    @Devious Unfortunately it’s only black and white attire otherwise I’d take a look at your calender . Lol

    ..

  509. DarkHorseSD says:

    Josh- make a list is SPs

    Sugar Pussies

  510. Josh says:

    @Joeywerk

    “Are there any Sugar Mommas on this site??”

    @flyR is a Sugar Momma.

  511. DarkHorseSD says:

    Joeywerk says:
    March 21, 2015 at 2:49 pm
    Are there any Sugar Mommas on this site??

    Why don’t you spend 3 mins and look?

  512. DarkHorseSD says:

    {DayDreamDisbeliever}

    1,000/mo is just one zero away from 10,000/mo

  513. Joeywerk says:

    Are there any Sugar Mommas on this site??

  514. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as: Devious S W}

    “I see my SD tomorrow. I have a black and white party to go too”

    Anyone needing a cracker for such an event in the future, please check my availability.

  515. KeKe says:

    Oops I added FlyWheel

  516. KeKe says:

    I see my SD tomorrow. I have a black and white party to go too.

    @Josh like my gravi? Add flywheel to my workout routine!

  517. KeKe says:

    @Georgia. Yes have fun!

  518. KeKe says:

    @Josh. I guess so. It’s probably for the best. I hope there’s no more arguing when everyone checks in.

    Maybe everyone is having a successful sugar weekend!!

  519. flyR says:

    “minimum of bandwidth”

  520. FunDude says:

    Gym time shortly for me. Haven’t seen much drama today lol Pretty silent when I checked in this morning. Its already evening time and still silent lol

  521. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Have fun

  522. Josh says:

    Someone challenged “get a life” and the rest got it. 😉

  523. KeKe says:

    Everyone has a life but me at this moment.

  524. KeKe says:

    Quiet on the blogs today..

  525. DarkHorseSD says:

    This one

  526. DarkHorseSD says:

    Date 4 with this went great.

  527. Josh says:

    @flyR

    “A true guru does not need to, nor would he out of vanity, proclaim to be a guru, his actions and words convey the quiet message in a minimum of bandwidth ……”

    The true Guru empathizes with your frustration.

  528. GeorgiaPeach says:

    You guys are so funny this afternoon. What no golf game to play or sports to watch? Well, I have a date this evening Gents. I’m off for bubbles and a soak. :)

  529. Josh says:

    That’s 200% to 400% better odds than with marriage roulette. 😉

  530. Flyr says:

    It’s useful to remember that 5 of 6 Russian roulette players are also successful.

  531. Josh says:

    @gtt

    “The only real estate Josh touches is building a Sim’s house on his computer.”

    Don’t make @flyR upset with your snarky remarks. 😉

  532. gtt says:

    The only real estate Josh touches is building a Sim’s house on his computer.

  533. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy

    “@DarkHorseSD;

    I am glad you still have Internet. I was afraid that your bank account was severely depleted by the $70 disaster the other day.”

    Be warned, @flyR don’t like no snarky remarks, genius!

  534. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    I make money in commercial real estate years in years out. I wish I had done things a bit more conservatively during the last boom, not had too much of an exposure, and had known the real estate laws a bit better.

    BUT it is what it is. I am doing fairly well in that part of my business life.

  535. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy

    “SA management; Am I to understand that you are OK with a mentally ill clown sending unsolicited messages to SBs “lecturing” them on their expectations.”

    I am sure that @flyR did not see an iota of snark in “mentally ill clown”, but think about it genius…would I be posting on this blog using my SA email address?

    PS: I don’t need to send unsolicited messages. I get enough incoming unsolicited messages locally and globally, as most SDs with decent profiles and photos.

  536. FunDude says:

    @FlyR

    Unfortunately, I have to agree with you on the commercial real estate stuff. Its very difficult to make money in that sector.

    I prefer to put money in REITS and TIAA Real Estate ( a fund with direct investments in commercial real estate).

    The SB comment was nonsense though.

  537. Josh says:

    @flyR

    “snark”

    One’s snark is another’s hilarious!!! Get used to it. I am about to deliver a snarky remark to @FlyBoy. 😉

  538. KeKe says:

    Lmao @FlyR

    Morning everyone!

    @Lainey… Nooo don’t cut your hair. As @Josh said it’s more feminine. Women buy hair to look like you. And wait until your 35 😉

  539. flyR says:

    The power of vision – I can visualize a happy blog filled with snark free contributors of humor, advice, history and honesty …….. The way it used to be…..

  540. Josh says:

    @flyR,

    I can’t imagine a blog existence where we don’t have access to your massively developed Wisdom of Solomon. 😉

  541. flyR says:

    In today’s market about the only investment with a guaranteed long term return is a quality SB. Very few people go to their grave wishing they had gone for lower quality sugar.

  542. flyR says:

    Most of those who have real life experience in commercial development and investment are very concerned about the current market as prices have been bid up by investors and those who make money investing funds searching for yields. Many of the smart folks are either trimming their exposure or hedging their bets with more financing.

    The backdrop is a continuing squeeze on disposable income and increase in internet sales, technology allowing many businesses to become virtual, operate out of the home or operate with significantly reduced SF/body. Years ago virtually every attorney had a secretary and a large office. Today you often have partners sharing a secretary.

  543. FunDude says:

    If anyone questions me on the “racism” of the White female feminism movement, maybe you should look at its founders.

    {{http://thoughtcatalog.com/janet-bloomfield/2015/03/5-feminist-heroes-who-were-actually-terrible-people/}}

    Interesting stuff huh?

    @Josh

    Might be an interesting idea

  544. Josh says:

    @FunDude,

    Buying a large commercial property and depreciating it over 27 years has been a surefire way of deferring tax hit every year. Possibly mix it with 1031 Exchange and you are golden. 😉

    Talk to a commercial real estate broker and a competent CPA versed in real estate, or a real estate lawyer.

  545. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh @FunDude
    I WASN’T volunteering to help either of you. I was just saying it could be part of a solution. LOL. Course, I’m sure an excellent accountant/tax guy might help with some of that too. When husb was alive, we were heading in that direction too (paying lots of taxes), between the two of us and with son above dependent age. It’s crazy. I know.

  546. DarkHorseSD says:

    Just caught a glimpse of the curriculum packet for the SB Summit coming up in NYC this June 12th.

    LAWS OF ARRANGEMENT PHYSICS

    1. For every action, there is an equally repulsive reaction.

  547. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    $3,950 x 3 = $11,850 per year is NOT an enough amount to endure mind rape induced by the wife, year after year after year.

  548. Josh says:

    As I told you. Stop making money. You won’t have to pay taxes.

    OR you can ask @flyR to give you tips on how to work off books.

  549. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    I am so sorry. Perhaps a wife and a couple children would be preferable to your paying all those taxes to our lovely govt. :)

  550. FunDude says:

    Dude, its painful.

    Taking out zero dependents EVERY MONTH, then PREPAY taxes, then PAY MORE ON April 15th!

    Crazy man!

  551. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    I have an idea. Stop making money. You won’t have to worry about taxes. 😉

  552. FunDude says:

    Just want everyone to know:

    FUCK TAXES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  553. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as: No one’s mother f’in proxy}

    When you are about to be “with” a woman and she asks you to wear a condom and you say, “come on, no one else asks me that.” …

    What happens next?

  554. DarkHorseSD says:

    I’m too old for booty.

    {sans proxy}

  555. flyR says:

    Lainey – longer is better

  556. Josh says:

    Check this out.

    Freedomain Radio
    [https://freedomainradio.com/about/]

  557. Lainey says:

    @Josh @Georgia thanks. I’m rethinking it now. Maybe I’ll wait till I’m 30 to make such a drastic change. Lol

  558. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    Unless they live in Hot’lanta where it is SO humid and SO HOT. Even today with the rain we got, it was still close to 70 deg.

  559. Josh says:

    And I am logical. Long hair could be cut short in an hour-long hairstylist appointment. It will take months to grow them back if cut too short.

    Longer hair is more feminine as well. Most women in the world keep longer hair if they are able to do so.

  560. Josh says:

    @Lainey is beautiful. Long hair would look good on her.

  561. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    I gather you prefer long hair?
    Hmmm. Any particular reason?

  562. Josh says:

    @Lainey, I agree with @GeorgiaPeach to use the site.

    The other option is to go waist length and decide if you want to go higher.

    The next step would be right in the middle of waist and shoulders. Don’t go higher than that. If you got hair flaunt them girl. 😉

  563. DarkHorseSD says:

    {posting ass: DayDreamDisbeliever}

    Well, Lainey, in answer to your next question, yes I think it will make your ass look fatter.

    {Proxy off}

    I will be getting ready for a booty call and off for a while.

  564. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Lainey
    Have you tried the site where you can see how you look with different hair styles/lengths? Those are quite helpful when trying to make hair cut decisions.

  565. Lainey says:

    @DarkHorseSD I have a man. I just want a more mature cut. With this booty, 36Hs and ass long hair I look like a sex kitten or stripper (whichever works). Lmao

  566. DarkHorseSD says:

    Earlier today an SB asked for a meeting place. I had a gut feeling that she would cancel if it wasn’t someplace she could order something expensive.

    As is my usual policy, I gave her one of my standard meeting places, which is an open public space with many choices nearby.

    She perceptively asked if it was a chance for us to escape. I said yes. She didn’t cancel.

    {not a proxy}

  567. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @DarkHorse
    “Surprising, but first time this has happened.
    Someone I had past dealings with that resulted in my marking them down as trouble just gave me their phone number from a new profile – the old profile is deleted. Thinking how I will tell her I won’t be meeting her.”

    Take your pick Honey:
    Honey, I can’t meet you now because…

    My dog ate my car keys.
    I don’t know which restaurant to choose.
    I don’t like wine.
    My cat just puked all over my new phone.
    My ex-wife said she’ll be here that day.
    The gym called, they want my membership back (the appointment is the same time as our meeting)
    My doctor, (Dr. F. Dude), said I only have a few days to live on this site, so I won’t have access to your address.
    My best friend, Joshua has been calling me names and I’m so upset, I can’t leave the house now.

    More? Let me know.

  568. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as America’sSB}

    Lainey says:
    March 20, 2015 at 5:47 pm
    Thinking of cutting my ass length hair to my shoulders. Opinions?

    AAAAAAAAAAA

    Precious Lainey:

    You must’nt go above six inches below the shoulders when seeking a man.

  569. DarkHorseSD says:

    Oh Georgia, Yes! I’m stuck for what to do!

  570. Lainey says:

    Thinking of cutting my ass length hair to my shoulders. Opinions?

  571. DarkHorseSD says:

    FlyBoy says:
    March 20, 2015 at 3:23 pm
    @DarkHorseSD;

    I am glad you still have Internet. I was afraid that your bank account was severely depleted by the $70 disaster the other day.

    ————-

    Nah, after you had drinks with my x-wife, she was able to send a couple of the back child support checks. 😛

  572. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @DarkHorseSD says:
    What would be some good names for my proxies? I want to get in on this.
    OpaqueStud
    Hellion Stallion
    SableMount
    ChestnutSteed
    Also:
    “Thinking how I will tell her I won’t be meeting her.”
    Need some help with that Honey. I’m at your service. 😉

    @KennaKenna
    “Maybe I’m the only one who likes @FunDude?”
    Oh Kenna Honey, I now find myself in LUST with Dr. Fun. 😉
    He’s a changed man!

  573. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as America’sSB}

    Dear DarkHorseSD,

    Oh my! No SD has ever blocked me, so I just don’t know where to begin. I blocked a fellow once by accident and when I realized it I just couldn’t live with myself until I sent him a note of sincere apology.

    It’s such a shame and I’ll keep you in my prayers tonight.

  574. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as bATsHITsd}

    @DHSD Block her and report her prior profile. Post her phone number on the warning sites. She’s too dangerous.

  575. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as DeviousSD}

    Set a meet and don’t show up.

  576. DarkHorseSD says:

    Surprising, but first time this has happened.

    Someone I had past dealings with that resulted in my marking them down as trouble just gave me their phone number from a new profile – the old profile is deleted.

    Thinking how I will tell her I won’t be meeting her.

  577. ErikTheRed says:

    @flyR

    Here’s a thought: if someone could hold the planet still for half a minute, the Northeast snow would fall harmlessly into the Atlantic, whereas the rain over the Pacific would land on California instead of California transforming into something like the Nevada desert. The weather patterns seem to have shifted westward by a hundred miles or so this year, compared to “normal.”

  578. DarkHorseSD says:

    {posting ass: DayDreamDisbeliever}

    SouthernSB says:
    March 20, 2015 at 3:53 pm
    I need a scorecard. I can’t keep up.

    uuuuuuuuuuuuu

    Try scoring

  579. FunDude says:

    I think names should be linked to specific SA accounts. That way there can be no “proxies”.

    It appears to be very easy to change your name title. If this blog was limited to members who ACTUALLY signed up in the past (by paying for at least 1 month of membership), then we wouldn’t have any issues with “proxies”

  580. FunDude says:

    Above post was by Fundude lol

    Dunno why my name thing got screwed up lol

  581. rfjskz xcv says:

    @Catcher 22

    We should strictly limit some dipshit like yourself. You sound like a “proxy” for Scarlett anyone.

    @Kenna

    I think there are a substantial amount of people on here that agree with my assessment of Scarlett, It appears that Erik, Josh, Georgia, etc all agree with me.

    Ergo, I would venture to say I’m definitely more liked by the SDs than Scarlett.

    @FlyBoy

    Are you proposing to limit my statements on this blog?

  582. flyR says:

    Kenna Kenna – Blame it on global warming . Actually we are having lots of sun in CA.

  583. flyR says:

    What we really need is not a moderator but rather “concealed carry for bloggies”

    A button by each poster’s posts which allows all of their posts to be hidden from the button pusher for a brief period , perhaps two or three centuries……

  584. SouthernSB says:

    I need a scorecard. I can’t keep up.

  585. ErikTheRed says:

    @Kenna,

    Agree with you on both posts. At this rate, salt might just become more valuable than sugar. Not even the edible kind of salt. LOL.

  586. ErikTheRed says:

    And the religious zealot would be quite thoroughly mistaken: most girls showing up on SA are remarkably innocent.

  587. KennaKenna says:

    I can’t believe it’s still snowing, it’s supposed to be Spring dammit! :(

  588. peeps says:

    Guys seriously…when the blog becomes ALL about personal attacks, the thread and conversations lose focus…I wish SA would add a moderator to the blog, it is going downhill at this rate.

  589. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as America’sSB}

    Hey y’all!

    Long time lurker, first time poster.

    I just loooooove that there’s a blog we can all share in and benefit from. Next to peace on earth, that’s what I want most.

    I’m not new as an SB and I’ve picked up a few tricks that always seem to help when landing that perfect SD. First I always think, ‘What would my mama do in this situation?’ – oh and I’m soooo glad for Brandon’s momma in all this.

    On a first meet I always bring something I’ve baked myself. A simple ribbon holds together the cellophane which reveals the goodies.

    I never mention money first. A gentleman either is or is not. You can’t change him.

    A print dress let’s him know you’re what he’s been searching for in that blue jean jungle.

    There’s never sex on the first date, that’s for the second. When you meet the one, schedule the second date to start 3 minutes after the first one ends.

    Well, that’s all for now, but I’ll be back-a-plenty to share.

    Best regards,

    A’sSB

  590. Petite says:

    @Kenna
    Hey girl, hope all is well with you

  591. FlyBoy says:

    @DarkHorseSD;

    I am glad you still have Internet. I was afraid that your bank account was severely depleted by the $70 disaster the other day.

    Good Night everyone :)

  592. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as bATsHITsd}

    DarkHorseSD says:
    March 20, 2015 at 2:51 pm
    {Posting as DeviousSD}

    Which one is KeKe and which one is Kenna?
    zzzzzzz
    I’m having trouble keeping straight whether I can’t tell which one is keo and which one is Kenna or which one is kenna and which one is KeKe.

    Plus, where should iOS put the caps?

  593. KeKe says:

    @DSD..DSW is a way better proxy name

  594. KennaKenna says:

    @Petite missed you girl!

  595. KeKe says:

    @Josh. I’m joking! Lol

  596. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as bATsHITsd}

    F-boy when you’ve completed the third grade level ELA your reading comprehension will enable you to answer for yourself.

    “Are you sending the SBs unsolicited messages when you “lecture” them about their expectations?”

  597. FlyBoy says:

    SA management; Am I to understand that you are OK with a mentally ill clown sending unsolicited messages to SBs “lecturing” them on their expectations.

    What is next, a religious zealot to tell them that they are nothing but dirty whores!!!!!!

  598. DarkHorseSD says:

    @DSD don’t you wish @keke would call you DSW so lots of women would go to you?

  599. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy,

    @Catcher-22 is @Josh’s proxy, genius. :)

  600. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    “Of course you are @Josh. He’s your proxy.”

    Are you serious? Without an iota of proof you are choosing to believe @batshit?

  601. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy

    “Are you sending the SBs unsolicited messages when you “lecture” them about their expectations?”

    Are you using your dildo?

  602. FlyBoy says:

    @Catcher-22;

    This blog is fast going downhill in terms of interest and helpfulness. The constant far off topic personal vitriol and nastiness by a very few people who seem to use the blog as their personal rant forum 24/7 is ruining the value of the blog.

    Completely agree with you sir!

    f SA is actively monitoring this blog, could you please do a favor to the vast majority of blog readership and to the integrity of the blog by shutting down or limiting the postings of @Josh and @FunDude. This would be greatly appreciated by me and many others.

    They don’t need to go this far. All they have to do is deploy a forum software and link access to it with access to SA itself.

    This solves the problem of “proxies” and forces the mentally ill to stick to their own thread(s) which we all can avoid.

    Quite frankly, I don’t understand how SAs management tolerates this state of affairs!

    Cheers :)

  603. Petite says:

    Well… Nice to see I haven’t missed much in recent months…

    @Sexy
    Comedy is so sexy. If you want to fall in love with a Pakistani guy, check out Kumail Nanjiani (though I’m sure you probably know his stuff already).

  604. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as DeviousSD}

    Which one is KeKe and which one is Kenna?

  605. FlyBoy says:

    @Josh;

    So far all but one SBs, who received my allowance expectations lecture, has lowered their budgets to either practical or negotiable.

    Are you sending the SBs unsolicited messages when you “lecture” them about their expectations?

  606. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as TuTu-Catcher}

    Blog management please increase the postings of @josh and @fundude and @atm

  607. KeKe says:

    Of course you are @Josh. He’s your proxy. Lol lol

  608. flyR says:

    The list was just a quick list of what has worked for me and what has not worked for me. If someone has different objectives, tolerances or angst triggers the lists might be reversed.

  609. Josh says:

    I am with @Kenna on @FunDude. :)

  610. KeKe says:

    @Dark. . It’s hard work being a proxy. Don’t forget to respond to yourself!

  611. KeKe says:

    @Dark I like my name better. I want to call you @DSD

  612. KeKe says:

    @Kenna.. that might be a real possibility.

  613. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as: DayDreamDisbeliever}

    Justin: You are obviously a cheap sd on here trying to get polygamy for nothing.

  614. KeKe says:

    @Dark.. DeviousSD

  615. KennaKenna says:

    Maybe I’m the only one who likes @FunDude?

  616. Catcher-22 says:

    If SA is actively monitoring this blog, could you please do a favor to the vast majority of blog readership and to the integrity of the blog by shutting down or limiting the postings of @Josh and @FunDude. This would be greatly appreciated by me and many others.

  617. KennaKenna says:

    @DarkHorse

    Hahahahahahaha!

  618. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as bATsHITsd}

    * different * in a good way.

    Too late I f’d it up :(

  619. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as bATsHITsd}

    “says:
    March 20, 2015 at 10:40 am
    I never said I am better, I said we are different. Just like women from Spain don’t like to be grouped with Latinas.”

    … Better in a good way 😉

  620. Catcher-22 says:

    This blog is fast going downhill in terms of interest and helpfulness. The constant far off topic personal vitriol and nastiness by a very few people who seem to use the blog as their personal rant forum 24/7 is ruining the value of the blog.

  621. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as: DayDreamDisbeliever}

    @DH – I totally agree on the mortgage brokers, but some of those realtors really stay in shape. They are on the move all day and not just behind a desk/phone. Realtors can be hard to resist.

  622. DarkHorseSD says:

    What would be some good names for my proxies? I want to get in on this.

  623. Josh says:

    So far all but one SBs, who received my allowance expectations lecture, has lowered their budgets to either practical or negotiable.

    So gentlemen, perform your civic duty in your respective geographical location, and tell some of these women to snap out of it.

  624. Josh says:

    * Wisodm of Solomon list

  625. Josh says:

    @flyR made a Wisodm or Solomon list from thick smelly air from his nether region and now SBs are cconcerned about making or not making the list. Good job @pimp.

  626. KeKe says:

    @Melissa.. no need to gloat! Lol

  627. flyR says:

    I would add to disaster group anything more than casual use of small amounts of weed….. Of course to the hollywood crowd if you can not lay down a long like of coke you’re not a true member of the gang.

  628. Melissa says:

    I made group A..twice lol

  629. KeKe says:

    @FlyR.. okay. I was feeling a little left out

  630. flyR says:

    KeKe – The list was not intended to be all inclusive unless we are talking about the brass pole…….

    I actually received a picture of an SB in what looked like a typical bedroom other than the brass pole

  631. flyR says:

    @ Gentleman ”

    AMEN Brother ! Listen ladies .I hate to tell you this but most guys on any Sugar site are looking for what they want from a selfish POV . they don’t start out wondering how they can change a girl’s life. This does not mean they want to cheat or abuse an SB. But it also doesn’t mean that the are there for the sole purpose of making a Baby’s life better . Hopefully the relationship will improve the quality of life of both . Babies are pushing to get the highest allowance they can -right ? You are the first to complain that a guy is a cheapskate and a fake daddy if you don’t get what you want .Well ,Daddies (being businessmen) are negotiating the lowest they can. We want the biggest bang(pun intended) for our buck . If you are young and handsome enough(maybe Justin) to have babies offer themselves for free–well ,that’s their business .””

    It is pretty much the way most people go through life. On the road at zero dark thirty I want coffee and a bite to eat, minimum complications, certainty of expectations being met, reasonable cost and especially if I am flying nothing internally risky.

    The prospective SB passes the shoe store. There’s a beautiful pair of something in the window and although she knows she is not going to buy she is not deterred from sticking her head in the store , fondling them and perhaps trying them on just to see how they look. When she goes to lunch she looks for that which is good for her/ sastifying/ within her budget. When she and the girls go out they want to go to a place which balances cost with rewards.

    Like most others in business I work pretty hard and searching for a new SB is like having to put down productive work and look for a new employee. “Recruiting” is work not play for me and I suspect many. Others find it a fun game where they can play with their economic power. Thus, I put more value in sustained . Also being a positive influence is important to me especially as there is usually an age gap.

    I think it is important that both go into the recruiting , interview process focused on what is important to them , what’s negotiable and what is not acceptable. Recruit to win goes for both.

  632. KeKe says:

    Well damn @FlyR I didn’t make either!

  633. MissLady says:

    Lol, awww I made group A

  634. NC Gent says:

    Hey FLyr — I seem to have the best luck with teachers, older students (24+), nurses, real estate agents, and recent divorcees. Uneducated, “separated”, married, or 22 and under have usually been very high risk for me.

  635. ss1959 says:

    Holy crap! This place sounds like a kindergarten at recess time today. Quit pulling each other’s hair and go sit in the corner, the lot of you!

  636. flyR says:

    Ranking prospective SB occupations by probability of successful relationship

    Group A
    Nurse
    Teacher
    Kinky Attorney
    Grad student ( excluding Stupid studies )
    Engineer
    Mother +23 ( educated)
    Tech
    Artist (you;ll have to deal with some blank canvas angst)
    Still has a 2008 campaign bumper sticker
    Krav Maga instructor
    Skydiver , Sails

    DANGER or HIGH RISK OF WASTED TIME
    Most attorneys
    Social Activists and community organizers
    Dancers where a pole is involved
    Uneducated mother
    Separated where there is anger rather than relief
    Activist
    Pilates Instructor
    Lists shopping as an occupation

  637. gentleman soul says:

    @Justin

    “Once I see them in real life they are hooked, no arrangement gets discussed, and while closing the deal is not a problem, they want to get a monogamous relationship out of it. ”

    Nice problem to have but as you are finding out ,there is no free ride . They have strings attached. So pay them something to keep it an “arrangement” and set the NSA bar where you want it . No guarantee,no monogamy if that is what you want .

  638. gentleman soul says:

    FunDude msays:
    @Latin

    Sexguide is the male version of “platonic relationships” for SBs

    They are allowed to attempt to get sex with little to no money just as women can attempt to get Money for no reason.

    No difference.

    AMEN Brother ! Listen ladies .I hate to tell you this but most guys on any Sugar site are looking for what they want from a selfish POV . they don’t start out wondering how they can change a girl’s life. This does not mean they want to cheat or abuse an SB. But it also doesn’t mean that the are there for the sole purpose of making a Baby’s life better . Hopefully the relationship will improve the quality of life of both . Babies are pushing to get the highest allowance they can -right ? You are the first to complain that a guy is a cheapskate and a fake daddy if you don’t get what you want .Well ,Daddies (being businessmen) are negotiating the lowest they can. We want the biggest bang(pun intended) for our buck . If you are young and handsome enough(maybe Justin) to have babies offer themselves for free–well ,that’s their business .

  639. ErikTheRed says:

    @Latin,

    I do not post under different proxies concurrently or pretend to be multiple different people. When I started posting more than a year ago, I used a blog ID identical to my SA account name. After a while, someone else used an ID that has substantial string-match to my blog ID, so both that person’s blog ID and my blog ID became inoperable. That’s when I started using Jacob. Then KMS2014 started the defamation campaign against me, and that led to the blog battles. KMS complained to the management, and the management expressed the wish to have both suspended for a time. Since the filtering mechanism doesn’t seem to work against me, I made a deal with the management: so long as they keep KMS from off the blog, I will refrain from posting myself. What followed was a few months of quietness last fall. Then KMS started posting as “Scarlett”; I waited for a few weeks to see if the management would take any action. When no action was forthcoming, I started posting under my current blog ID.

    Like I said, I do not have any desire to use any proxy or pretend to be someone else. My different ID’s are logistic successions; in fact, when some other poster did not know I was Jacob, I clarified the identity for him by making a couple posts under “Jacob” to make it clear. OTOH, I have suspected for some time that KMS/Scarlett may have a few proxies.

  640. gtt_envy says:

    *blackittude lol funny and he’ll yeah it’s true too. It doesn’t make me racist !!

    I dated a black girl in college and two SBs were black…..you can add Pakistani, Japanese, Mexican, Cuban, and Swedish to the list too.

    Ghetto attitude is very real so what if someone used blackittude or ghetto etc?.

  641. FunDude says:

    @DarkHorseSD

    How often do SBs lead on older more desperate SDs into “arrangements” where they think they will get sex only to get NOTHING in return for their money?

    I am very confident this happens often. You will see younger women trying to “brag” about getting a bunch of money from some older SD without having to do ANYTHING for him.

    I see no difference between that behavior and the “sexguide” behavior where SDs game SBs into sex with little to no money.

    Both groups are lying with their intentions.

    The difference is that the SBs only complain about the guys who “just want sex” without looking at their own hypocrisy in terms of offering nothing but expecting to “get paid”.

  642. FunDude says:

    @Erik

    She sounds like a total whack job. She needs a psychiatrist ASAP lol

  643. KeKe says:

    @Kenna.. no one said that. I was talking about not agreeing with the brown SB blog.

  644. Justin says:

    Hey Guys,

    It’s Justin. You might remember me from the negotiating allowance thread and the whole 300k/month discussion :) I made a gravater so it’s easier to recognize me in the future.

    So I wanted to report back on my progress. I totally love this site, and I wish there were more days in a week, I’m fully booked with a new date for the next 2 weeks. But I have the issue that most of the girls I’m dating with just want me as a serious boyfriend and not have an allowance anymore. Once they know my age and that I look pretty decent, they all change their tune to “Why would you even be on a site like that?”. And then I have to explain that I’m there cause I have limited time, and that I don’t want to join a “normal” dating site cause you are 1 in a million etc. Once I see them in real life they are hooked, no arrangement gets discussed, and while closing the deal is not a problem, they want to get a monogamous relationship out of it. I never thought I would say this but that actually creates some issues. Part of an arrangement is that you get freedom in return, and the last date I had hinted that I should delete my profile from the site. Obviously its nice not to have to pay for them, but it’s a problem cause it enters relationship territory. My solution right now is to say that I’m not ready for a serious relationship, and we will just take it slowly. But it’s still limiting in a way and I prefer to be honest. I have no plans to settle down any time soon.

  645. DarkHorseSD says:

    KeKe says:
    March 20, 2015 at 10:31 am
    @Dark..pretty good.
    Is redneck
    White trash
    Cracker… correct.?
    Xxxxxxxxx
    I don’t know. I’m following along.

  646. DarkHorseSD says:

    “Sexguide is the male version of “platonic relationships” for SBs

    They are allowed to attempt to get sex with little to no money just as women can attempt to get Money for no reason.”

    That’s what it sounds like. At least this blog is more balanced now and not just an SB grifter’s guide anymore.

  647. ErikTheRed says:

    @Southern,

    I have no idea KMS/Scarlett is internally racist at core or not, but she is certainly not above throwing around racial epithets when she suspects she has something to gain or can hurt her perceived opponent in some what. Racial slurs roll off my back like water on a duck, as my ancestry is quite mixed: from European to Jewish to Asian to Native American, all of whom initially came out of Africa some 120,000 years ago. However, I also recognize that opportunistic racists are no less dangerous than ideological racists: most participants during the Inquisition and Pogroms were after personal economic gains; South Africa and the American South both initially had blacks voting, and it was the desire for cheap labor in the mines and in the fields that enacted laws of apartheid and disenfranchised blacks in both countries.

  648. KennaKenna says:

    I never said I am better, I said we are different. Just like women from Spain don’t like to be grouped with Latinas.

  649. ErikTheRed says:

    “she doesn’t even take asperine for a headache.”

    How would you know? Since you allegedly live in Europe whereas KMS/Scarlett in the US. Are you claiming to be first-hand witness and thereby admitting to bodily co-locating with her; i.e. being her proxy? Or are you impeaching your own qualification as a witness due to your propensity to rubber-stamp and repeat whatever she tells you?

    Every single claim I made about KMS/Scarlett was thoroughly researched based on her own writings. She went beyond admitting using drugs by showing Intention/Propensity to Distribute! as she recommended on this blog that I should take some. Calling her a druggie is not only factually correct but also an understatement. I’m willing to wager $5000 to get her a drug test within the next 48hours, and have the result coming out positive; i.e. I’m willing to wager that she has illegal drugs in her system as we speak!

    She likes to make up false allegations. She is the one who has been consistently endangering her own child through her own behavior; and she knows it! I have consistently expressed my personal preference for genuine long term relationships, the likes of which Kenna and her SD have made into reality. KMS/Scarlett was extremely jealous of the opportunities that LTR SD’s offer to younger SB’s. When she accused me of being immoral for hoping to build genuine long term co-parenting relationship, I simply asked her to look in the mirror and examine her own behavior against what DSS would uphold as community standards (“community standards” being the Supreme Court’s interpretation of morality). That’s when she went bat-shit crazy and falsely accused me of trying to out her and endangering her child. Her accusation is prima facie evidence for self-contradiction and admission of her own guilt: if DSS knowing what she’s been doing would result in taking custody away from her, then she has indeed been conducting herself in illegality and immorally.

    Then her proxies got in on the act, and advocated murder, torture, and gruesomely graphic sexual violence against me, while KMS/Scarlett accused my aspiration of forming genuine long term relationship with women in their 20’s (like Kenna and her SD have done in reality) as “exploitation of immature women,” which is a crime. So I asked her, by that logic, wouldn’t her introduction of her own under-age son to her SD’s be interpreted as sexual exploitation of minor? That’s when KMS/Scarlett complained to the blog hosts and made up a bunch of ridiculous charges against me. I never endangered her 16yo son; she was the one who has been consistently endangering the welfare of the minor.

    The bat-shit crazy apparently has no self-awareness, and is a habitual liar. Frankly, I doubt her drug-addled brain is capable of a semblance of grasp on reality. Let that be a lesson for the younger generation of beautiful ladies who still have a chance at avoiding that self-destructive path: no, your youth and beauty do not last forever; make the best of your talent and endowment while you can, translating them into an enduring investment, whether in a successful career of your own or/and a stable family life. In a few years, when you are not treated special but only the same as a normal person like nearly all the men as well as women who are not especially pretty, you’d better be emotionally and materially prepared to handle the reality on the ground.

  650. KeKe says:

    @Dark..pretty good.
    Is redneck
    White trash
    Cracker… correct.?

  651. SouthernSB says:

    You know what’s the nicest thing about turning 50 and having the best therapy money can buy? You learn how to figure out a situation is really worth your time and how to pick your battles. Reading through this recent blog drama I have figured out that it is neither worth it nor do I really give a damned about it. I’m pretty sure that @Lady is not a racist and I have never heard the word “blackitude” in my entire life. I have been called the “N” word more times than I can count, I have been on this planet for 50 years after all, and I do agree with KeKe about the general attitude of some people from the Islands that they are “better” than AA that were born here (that is NOT to disparage you Kenna) due to cultural differences. But like I said the whole war that is going on really isn’t worth my getting my thongs in a bunch so I’m going back to just lurking and wishing that the board would go back to its pre-Josh days.

  652. DarkHorseSD says:

    Tracking the hierarchy (and trying to be social enough to join the conversation of others,) so it’s…

    B-Tude
    N-Word
    Spit on

    From best to worst going down the list?

    Can we flesh out where other terms lie? (Lay?)

  653. KeKe says:

    @FunDude.. has this happened to you or someone you know? I can believe. There are always going to be people on both sides who abuse the system. I would not encourage, post about it, say one is okay over the other.

  654. FunDude says:

    Plenty of SBs attempt to take advantage of SDs by taking big money from them and claiming they need to “wait to see if there is chemistry” before sex.

    They make them feel that there will be sex in the future but in the end they just take that SDs money.

    There are also plenty of women that take a month’s allowance and literally RUN.

  655. FunDude says:

    @Latin

    Sexguide is the male version of “platonic relationships” for SBs

    They are allowed to attempt to get sex with little to no money just as women can attempt to get Money for no reason.

    No difference.

  656. KeKe says:

    @MissLady…Guess I was feeling a little ratchet and hood! Lmao

  657. MissLady says:

    Lol @keke yes it was, but I will go there with you this time lol

  658. a latin opinion says:

    Bye, Is late for the REAL things in my life LOL. (like making lunch and do laundry lol)

  659. KeKe says:

    sorry guys, posting from ph. Hope you understood that

  660. a latin opinion says:

    About the sexguide thing.

    those people have been posting advice in how to use women, how to get sex from them giving anything in return, they post the links to their profiles, they post the SB pictures even the “private” pictures, brag about how they fuck them giving them just nothing or a 20 bill for a cab, brag about how they lie to them, brag about victimizing the youngest and less experience women, how to get a room in cheap hotel and bang several SB on different times so they can get more value for the $150 they for the room.

    Those are truly the bad guys, they target new and naive SB, lie to them until get to have sex, don’t give anything to the SB and then go again to the website brag about all the thing they did to the SB on bed, brag about manage to don’t give anything in return and even share the link to the SB profile advising the guys close geographically to the relate SB to do the same.

    JUST IN CASE SOME OF YOU THINK I WAS TALKING BAD FOR NO REASON.

  661. KeKe says:

    @MissLady *fist bump* (wonders if that was blackitude).. I agree all those terms are offensive.

    And think this race crap is getting out of control.

    @Elaine ..blackitude was offensive but I believe we ALL say things that are not…politically correct when we are comfortable around others of our own race. Let’s keep real people. Whether it’s intended to be racist or just plain ignorant. So whateva.. What is private should not become public.

    @Kenna we actually disagreed about the most recent blog on brown SB’s and made comments I also considered cringe worth being that you are a sister regardless of what Island you come from. Because when people see you all they see is a black women honey.

  662. sexyrockstar says:

    Ugh. Racism.
    I made a post that I think Indian men are ugly. I cringe when they message me. Am I racists? No. I just have preferences. Only Indian man I find attractive is Aziz.

    Do I think it’s annoying when a sd on sa won’t message me back because I have curves? No. Do I think he’s shallow? No. There are men that throw themselves at me.

    Saying the N word is wrong. Even when black people say it. There are slang words for every race.

    People are people. If you don’t like them, don’t talk to them.

  663. sexyrockstar says:

    Dude. I wrote a long ass post and it’s not on here

  664. FunDude says:

    Whats up with all this proxy bullshit? I see almost no evidence of any proxies around here.

    Am I missing something?

  665. a latin opinion says:

    Hi,

    I started a new job as a hostess in the nigh shift so I’m pretty tired, reason why I will try to be brief.

    1.- This is the internet and I’m a real person, what people on here think about me won’t really change anything on my life.

    2.-Again I was the one who “crafted” (wrote) the “crazy conspiracy mail”.

    3.- the mail basically said, that I (latin opinion) think jacob/erick and I don’t remember how many others were the same person as Scarlett stated before, reason why I was saying over and over (in that email) that I though she (Scarlet) was right.

    It also stated that she (Scarlet) was also right about the sexguide.info people and that I believed those MOTHERFUCKERS were posting in here (the SA BLOG) under jacob and other proxies names.

    I also asked @ygtbk and @josh to don’t post it or share that information in here (the SA BLOG) in case I was right. (when you say something here who concern them, they talk about it on that site)

    that’s it.

    I’m sharing this information now just because is being use to harm other people and I think that is not proper.

  666. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    I agree with @MissLady’s comments, this “blacktitude” term is not in the same category as the “N” word, hell you had never even heard of it before last night. Now that you are an AA woman, I would recommend you learn all the history behind the “N” word, then I think your opinion would change.

  667. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    This blog has become more amusing. Comedy gold. Good thing to check out during my lunch break.

    @Scarlett

    Are you saying saying I don’t like older or BBW women as SBs is equal to saying one doesn’t like Black SBs or Brown SBs?

    That is ridiculous. A BBW can lose weight. A black person CAN’T change color.

    Ergo, there is no equivalence.

    @Gtt

    Why do you say Josh has no life outside of this blog? He can post every 3 hours or so and do plenty of other shit.

    Yesterday, I went to the gym for over an hour for a chest workout, did MBA stuff, work schedule, etc and still was able to post stuff on this blog.

  668. KennaKenna says:

    @MissLady

    Everyone is entitled to their opinions, I disagree though.

  669. Josh says:

    @batshit

    When you call two living people blog proxy of @Guru, you take away their voice. There’s not rhyme or reason in your “arguments”. Do you think that I expected to “win” an argument with you? It’s just not possible.

    All I am doing is exposing your batshit style based on gossip, assumption, accusations and shear illogical nonsesne. 😉

  670. LadyScarlett says:

    Yes, you certainly own up to all your proxy bloggers, hehe…sure, yeah, since you own up to everything, tell the ladies on blog again how you feel about rape in US, and domestic violence/men hitting women? And, these are past posts as public record that you actually posted as Josh. As NCGent said, what woman would want anything to do with such a misogynistic creep? On or off the blog. Do tell us again how you feel about violence against women, while it am away…as I actually have work to do, but just popped in earlier and noticed you started your BS while I was away and not even posting. Yeah, you are a good peacekeeper. Enjoy speaking ill of me while away today..as that is what you do as blog guru of poo entertainment, since you did warn me I ‘would be sorry if I called out your proxies on blog’. Maybe, take a break for a few days and reflect, out of the basement on how you have ruined blog. Toodles GP.

  671. gtt says:

    You guys have to remember when fighting: Josh has no life outside of this blog. He is chronically unemployed, so he posts 24/7. He has nothing to do other than argue with people on the blog. He tries to “control” the blog because he has no authority any place else in his life. Many people over the years have called him out. He is never going away.

  672. MissLady says:

    There is no “step below the n word” that’s as demeaning as it’s gets outside of being spit at.
    Blacktitude is right up there with being called ratchet, ghetto fabulous or whatever other stereotype you want to attribute to urban women, all of which are thrown around here.

    As an AA woman that’s my take on it and I’ll leave it that.

  673. KennaKenna says:

    I’m not on anyone’s side, I like @LadyScarlett a lot, I just have a slight problem with that term that was used.

    Would it be okay if I called someone a “cracker”?

  674. KennaKenna says:

    Yes, I have said I don’t like to be grouped with AAs because AfroCaribbean people are so different. I have never used an offensive term though. “blacktitude” is one step below the “n word”.

    Anyways, I’m done with this race issue.

  675. Josh says:

    @batshit

    Deflecting again? Answer the question asked by other bloggers.

    I have no problem revisting the other issues as I OWN everything I write.

  676. LadyScarlett says:

    “MissLady says:
    March 20, 2015 at 8:48 am
    And really people, race baiting aside, don’t act like this is the first time that “black attitudes/ghetto black women” characteristics have been thrown around this blog by Sb’s AND sd’s in the past…. I’m just saying

    *lurk mode*”

    Exactly, Josh is very seasoned at baiting or deflecting from his own BS, lol.

  677. KennaKenna says:

    Yes that’s true, I have not spoken to Josh off blog since my engagement, more than a month ago.

  678. LadyScarlett says:

    I want nothing to do with this convo on race. I am not racist and have dated more men outside of my race than it it. I would appreciate if Josh could not deflect and stick to the fact that he has fake blogging proxies and enjoys stirring poo and being entertained.

    How about, ladies, did it bother you last week, when Josh, posting as Josh, made light of domestic violence? He emailed a girl that said she had been abused and Josh bragged on blog that he asked her if she ‘asked for it by biting his head off’. Struggles and I promptly called him out for this.

  679. MissLady says:

    And really people, race baiting aside, don’t act like this is the first time that “black attitudes/ghetto black women” characteristics have been thrown around this blog by Sb’s AND sd’s in the past…. I’m just saying

    *lurk mode*

  680. RookieSD says:

    Damn, I think KennaKenna just became an African American. You go girl.

  681. MissLady says:

    (sorry phone) lumping all of us vs this fight elaine was having with lainey.

  682. Josh says:

    @batshit

    “and reporting back to Josh.”

    Yet another of your baseless accusations. :(

    @Kenna and I have not communicated, away from this blog, for weeks.

    Can you please confirm that @Kenna?

  683. Elaine says:

    @Kenna

    “old whore, “old hag” and “maffia granny” is nicer to say as “blackitude” ?
    Hmm here we disagree I am afraid..

    It is both not very nice.

  684. MissLady says:

    *blows the whistle* ok, now wait @kenna, you’ve said or alluded to far more offensive stereotypical stuff about AA people that personally made me cringe (back to the discussion you and another afro carribean young lady were having about the benefits of not being seen or lumped into the AA category). The stuff you guys said was just as offensive with you guys lum

  685. Melissa says:

    @Lady
    Elaine confirmed she used the word so I don’t think Josh ‘made it up’. Take racism out of it. The question now is did you or did you not use the word? Someone is lying here so who is it?

  686. LadyScarlett says:

    Kenna, I already sent you a private email on this matter. You are playing both teams here and reporting back to Josh. I have no desire to entertain any accusation that I am racist. That is all he could come up with, to deflect his proxy nonsense and you fell for it. Thanks.

  687. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Dr FunDude
    Looks like we may need more popcorn, even this morning… the “fun” continues here. Grab a beer (or perhaps some juice) and come on over to watch. “Scarlett” is still out of her cage this morning.

  688. KennaKenna says:

    @lady did you use that word? Yes or no?

  689. KennaKenna says:

    I don’t care if someone calls me a fantasy writer, that does not equate to using “blacktitude “.

  690. LadyScarlett says:

    Josh, the only one who is batshit is you. Please leave me out of your false BS. You are not going to stop because you are that crazy. Just stop. I did not even post this morning but yet here you are, posting away…and enjoying every minute if your entertainment. You are sick.

  691. DarkHorseSD says:

    I don’t think realtors or mortgage brokers are going to work for me as SBs.

  692. LadyScarlett says:

    Josh, stop stirring shit. Anything you say is made up and total BS. Perhaps, I shall post the email where you called Kenna. ‘Out there’ and fantasy writer…and that was not but a month or so ago….

  693. LadyScarlett says:

    Really Kenna? Am really disappointed you took Josh’s bait. If you want to believe fake emails crafted by Josh, who is an expert at crafting fake bloggers, too, then go ahead. I have gotten some of his fake emails, but I know better.

  694. Josh says:

    @batshit

    “Get a life and prove anything you claim I have said, besides your BS.”

    OK, when I am on big screen I will search your email referneces to “blackitude” and post them verbatim.

  695. KennaKenna says:

    Latin said more than once she is the one who sent that email.

  696. LadyScarlett says:

    Anyway, I am done with this speak, so stop continually bringing it up, Josh. You have been exposed with your multiple blogging nutty identities, so those who want to believe can, and the ones that do not, fair enough. But, I will warn new people if they get out of line, if the occasion a calls for it, and am around.

    And yeah, right, you were so considerate when you asked me to instigate things with SunshineSD. Sure. You did say yesterday you tried keeping the peace, right? So, keep it now? Anyway, you are just lie after lie, so am ignoring you at this time because others do want to post about arrangements now. Not anti feminism, not anti marriage agendas(that is why you wanted to get rid of Jacob on blog because you have your own agendas). So, let others talk about things related to SA.

  697. DarkHorseSD says:

    Today’s assignment:

    Compare and contrast the predicted nature of 4th wave feminism to @SunShineSD Franchise LLC

  698. KennaKenna says:

    How can you compare “blacktitude” with someone saying you’re “old”.

    Blacktitude is offensive and racist. Yes, I am black and I’m doing way better than most SBs on this site. Yes, I am black and you’d be surprise how much the men you sleep with would pursue me.

    The fact that you guys used that word to describe others is offensive and racist. Ghetto is different but blacktitude???

  699. Josh says:

    @batshit

    That email was written without my knowledge and had @latin only sent it to me instead of sending it to multiple people already, I would have advised her not to send it to anyone.

    Now you are creating rift between @latin and @Erik and blaming it on me. You continue to invent shit and blame others for doing it.

    I marvel you batshit level. Simply amazing. 😉

  700. LadyScarlett says:

    I am not upset, at all…Josh seems to be the one going batshit and getting bent out of shape, or he would not have made up or insinuated that I am a ‘racist’ just to get others to see me in the wrong light. It is just crazy and needed to be said because Josh really has turned blog into negative place. He has been emailing me privately lately, too, demanding apologies. So, that is even why I brought this all up the other day. Just like yougottbe and others have tried pointing out. He is getting pretty upset for an innocent person, too. Me think he doth protest too much.

  701. DarkHorseSD says:

    Elaine – what did that last part mean?

    “Finding a succesful sugar relationship, against all odds SA is creating when Brandons mother forgets to keep an eye on him? 😉 ”

    ———–
    The latest on below is I’m not joining.
    PS. Anyone news about Perfect Arrangement?”

  702. Josh says:

    @Kenna is our princess. I may have called her fantasy writer in the beginning bit the more she posted the more I believed her. @Kenna does not write fantasy.

    As far as @SunShineSD, I have the intellectual honesty and integrity to acknowledge that I did ask your help responding to his incessant talk about babies. That was destroying the blog.

    However, have the intellectual honesty to also acknowledge that I subsequently asked you many many times to stop engaging with him because I was sorry that I had helped unleash your crazy batshit against him, and the blog was not better off with your batshit on top of his babytalk.

    Later on @SunShineSD was gentleman enough to refrain from such talk unless someone else brought it up. Bit you continued to needle him unprovoked.

  703. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Scarlett
    “The only problem this blog has is that I have watched it turn toxic with his BS.”

    Then why stay here and listen to all this? You’re just creating high blood pressure for yourself and giving yourself mental anguish. Not worth it. True I haven’t been here this long and I don’t know the past history of everyone but I don’t see the relevance of it for today. Why bring up something that is painful or useless? Josh is who he is, just as you are who you are. It’s time to let it go and move on. If you don’t like Josh and this blog, then find another place to chat and play.

  704. LadyScarlett says:

    Get a life and prove anything you claim I have said, besides your BS. One only has to look at your daily posts telling others to go ‘fuck themselves’ or insulting others constantly. I have a two page long email that you claimed Latin sent me the other week, which pretty much stirs more shit about Jacob, and blames him for YOUR proxies. You are crazy and am done with you. You thrive off stirring trouble. You have ruined blog.

  705. Josh says:

    @batshit

    “it was Josh who often insulted some of the black SBs who came on blog, saying they were having some issues finding someone. He would say they might be acting in a stereotypical manner, or something of that nature…he would call them whiny and to not act ‘ghetto’ or have one of his cronies say that, anyways.’

    Making stuff up yet again? PROVE IT.

  706. LadyScarlett says:

    Yeah, like when you called Kenna a fantasy writer…yeah. How about when you told me to instigate things with Jacob on the blog? Interesting. Will you admit to that? That is really what started a lot with him. Do you have the emotional integrity to admit to that? I even have an email of you apologizing for causing that trouble. You email people to get information or to stir shit. Just like you emailed Kenna to find out things, or cause trouble and told her lies.

    Besides, I don’t even need to post much, you show your true colors daily.

  707. DarkHorseSD says:

    Is it safe to post here today?

  708. Josh says:

    @batshit

    I have not turned anyone’s words around. I just quoted one word, and you are even denying the use of it and accusing me of making it up. That’s dishonesty…plain and simple.

    At least @Elaine has the intellectual honesty to acknowledge her use of the word. I was not going to even bring her up and was careful to not to reference her gender.

    That’s called intellectual honesty to deal with what IS instead of inventing shit from thin air and stirring it, which is YOUR expertise.

  709. LadyScarlett says:

    Exactly, flyR, and if I remember correctly, it was Josh who often insulted some of the black SBs who came on blog, saying they were having some issues finding someone. He would say they might be acting in a stereotypical manner, or something of that nature…he would call them whiny and to not act ‘ghetto’ or have one of his cronies say that, anyways.

    And, speaking of racism, I find that those who are ageist and insult other’s ages, and weight, CONSTANTLY on blog are just as offensive as the shade you are trying to paint me with racism, or someone who really is racist.

    The only problem this blog has is that I have watched it turn toxic with his BS.

  710. PimpinSD says:

    I think someone may have finally stepped in to fill the role of “crazy bitch” recently vacated by my princess who turned into a buffalo. Could it be I’m falling in love…

  711. flyR says:

    “”With some help from @Guru and others, Black SBs are killing it on SA, and some angry, aging White females are not liking it. :(“”

    Joshie – long before you entered the blog there were a number of black SB’s here who did very well. Intelligent, fun, funny and successful they found their lives too busy for the blog. Others have left due to the incessant anti female posts .

    A true guru does not need to, nor would he out of vanity, proclaim to be a guru, his actions and words convey the quiet message in a minimum of bandwidth …….

  712. LadyScarlett says:

    Thanks Keo, and agree, Elaine…some just want to turn your words around because they are obsessed, as you called them out for things. Who rolled over, probably didn’t even wipe the drool from his lips, yet is starting his 6th grade stirring of shit, or asking someone to fuck themselves with a dildo, just as southern said, this early? When he cannot win an argument, he has to result to such low level BS and accuse someone of racism, just to deflect what he is doing daily. I haven’t even been on here this morning, yet how many times has Josh mentioned my name? So much for trying to stop drama, Josh. Nuts.

    And, as for the person who accused me of being anti Semitic. Interesting,as that is the faith myself and family practices.

  713. Josh says:

    @NC Gent

    Why don’t you use the dildo for a few weeks and come back when things have calmed down a bit? 😉

  714. Josh says:

    *Also, who taught whom what “blackitude” was?

  715. NC Gent says:

    Just when I thought things couldn’t get any worse…

    SA Staff – maybe consideration should be given to shutting down the blog for a few weeks? I am 100% certain that this blog as currently operating is not meeting its original intent.

  716. Josh says:

    @Elaine,

    Would you please read my post above at 5:43 am in relation to @batshit’s accusations. Please enlighten me with your take on her accusations.

    Also, who taught whom what “blackitude”. When I heard the word from both of you, I can’t help but wonder who among you taught the word to the other. Or did you two independently knew it, whereas almost all of us on the blog had to look it up.

  717. KeKe says:

    @Melissa. Lol okay

  718. KeKe says:

    @Southern… lol. Yup that’s about right.

  719. Josh says:

    @Erik

    You have participated on the blog in a fairly gentlemanly manner, except when you made certain comments that violated the blog policy that got you in trouble.

    I don’t know if you recall it but I had warned you that @batshit has uncanny ability to get under people’s skin by using what @FunDude outlined above, such as, gossips, exaggeration, ridicule, going on tangents, recruiting other clueless bloggers (at least one other blogger) to tag-team, using private information, etc., to name a few.

    Sit back, relax, and watch how @Guru’s handles @batshit (and others if they tried tag-teaming with @batshit).

    Why so cocky? Cuz me the @GURU. 😉

  720. Elaine says:

    My God, now this blog has turned again into a toxic place…
    So, just for the record, since so many new bloggers comment but have no idea of the background:

    @Scarlett, we are friends, please take my advice, show them the lady you are and stop this.
    It is useless, you cannot fight windmills and people are trying to put words in your mouth to make you bite. I know you are not crazy and not a racist.
    That is how they try to portray you, and bloggers who don’t know you will believe these -out of context- comments.

    @Erik, yes you have been called names by Scarlett, but you too have said horrible, most unappropriate things about her kid and accused her of being a “druggie” whereas she doesn’t even take asperine for a headache.

    @Fundude FYI ; Scarlett is a stunning beauty (even Josh has mentioned this several times here!)! 35y old, slim and with a background in finance. So yes, a lot of SDs are very interested in her as their mistress, even if she is not on your wishlist. Maybe you should be less narrowminded, and accept there is more outside YOUR world.

    @ Josh, we too have been emailing in the past, and you know a lot about me. I have to admit that you have never used anything I told you against me. I lost you though when you started this whole “Guru” thing.. Me too finds this “ruling blog” obsession a bit creepy.
    If it was me you were referring too about “other blogger using the word blackitude” Yes, I did!
    To describe another female blogger, after her calling me on blog an “old whore, “old hag” and “maffia granny” when I called out on her fantasywriting.

    Racism? Hmmmm, don’t really think so…

    I am now going back again to my flourishing sugar and business life. :-)
    Please continue here talking about Sugar instead of fighting private wars.
    Isn’t that what this blog is about?
    Finding a succesful sugar relationship, against all odds SA is creating when Brandons mother forgets to keep an eye on him? 😉

    PS. Anyone news about Perfect Arrangement?

  721. MissLady says:

    Lol @ southern it’s not even about sugar anymore

  722. Melissa says:

    @Keke
    Hey! I didn’t say anything negative, just acknowledging what was said lol

  723. SouthernSB says:

    I was wrong. It’s not High School around here, it’s 6th grade. Damn can’t you people act like the adults you profess yourselves to be?

  724. KeKe says:

    @Melissa
    Keep it positive sista! Hehe

  725. Melissa says:

    @Kenna
    Lol! we do don’t we?

  726. Josh says:

    @LadyScarlett

    You owe me five apologies (and counting):

    1. Accusing me of being a violent man in real life, WITHOUT ANY RHYME OR REASON WHATSOEVER. First acknowledging that the accusation was based on “gossip” and then reinstating the accusation.
    2. Accusing @FunDude (a legitimate paid member) to be my proxy.
    3. Accusing me of “crafting” the email, which was actually written by @latin (another member who posts fairly frequently).
    4. Accusing @GeorgiaPeach (yet another flesh and blood member) to be my proxy.
    5. Accusing me of lying about your diatribe on “blackitude” through email.

    The pattern is VERY disturbing. You need to retract and apologize and then participate on the blog in a civil manner and not based on “gossip” or hearsay.

  727. KeKe says:

    :-) :-).. I predict today will be a great day! I feel love brewing on this blog. Lol

  728. KeKe says:

    This whole blackitude has me feeling like my gravi! You can have your preferences. Not knocking it. But everything else. Just calm down with all that other BS. It’s not needed here.

  729. KeKe says:

    @Erik.. I really hope that’s not the case. One of my closest friends is Jewish and lives in Israel. And everyone knows when you start talking about jews…n****r isn’t far behind those comments. Lord what is going on with these blogs!

  730. Josh says:

    @LadyScarlet

    Hmmm, are you claiming that you never used the word “blackitude” in your emails to me?

  731. KeKe says:

    @Lady.. I have no problems with you. I like you. Just ignore them. :-)
    @Dark..Good for you! I’m getting laid quite regularly also. It’s awesome!!!!!

  732. ErikTheRed says:

    @flyR

    Yes, if the shoe fits indeed. It would not be her first time indulging in racism. KMS/Scarlett previously lashed out with racial slurs when she thought I was Jewish, and then again when she thought I was Asian. Something about a leopard / hyena and its beastie spots.

  733. DarkHorseSD says:

    I got laid recently.

    (This isn’t a complaint.)

  734. flyR says:

    if the shoe fits

    a person with a psychopathic personality, which manifests as amoral and antisocial behavior, lack of ability to love or establish meaningful personal relationships, extreme egocentricity, failure to learn from experience, etc.

  735. LadyScarlett says:

    I agree, keo…and, only posted the one where he threatened me to “not mess with him on the blog, as he is the blog guru and controls the blog”. I have never posted any private messages from anyone else, and agree it was in poor taste…and, to be honest, I only posted it because it was very creepy, but he says it all the time on the blog, too, so….I just wanted to warn others of his fake blogging obsession and not to trust him as he is a snake in the grass. It got out of hand and apologize to the other bloggers, but NOT Josh. He has done the same with yougottabe and SugarySpicey before, so should have known better.

  736. KeKe says:

    @Lady. Your right. People expect a certain behavior from @Josh and @FunDude. So watching you go at it with them is like watching a train derail.
    As far as the emails. Yes my personal opinion is it should stay private. It’s all, ” she said he said now”. This isn’t adding anything but possibly anger from other bloggers.

  737. LadyScarlett says:

    They are all true, except number 5….

    Lol, at Rebecca, hehe

  738. KennaKenna says:

    @Rebecca hahahaha

  739. Josh says:

    @LadyScarlett

    You owe me five apologies (and counting):

    1. Accusing me of being a violent man in real life, WITHING ANY RHYME OR REASON WHATSOEVER.
    2. Accusing @FunDude to be my proxy.
    3. Accusing me of “crafting” the email, which was actually written by @latin.
    4. Accusing @GeorgiaPeach to be my proxy.
    5. Accusing me of lying about your diatribe on “blackitude.”

  740. Rebecca says:

    http :// i.imgur. com/9YjEcoL. png

  741. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Scarlett
    WHAT? It’s more like you’re never up this late. LOL.
    For the past couple weeks, I’ve been heading to read earlier than tonight, but so what? No sense to your comment. Some nights I’m here far later than right now. You don’t have a “case.” Duh. How many times do you have to be told. Josh has no proxies. Wow you are headstrong. Bet you didn’t listen to you Momma about always wearing clean underwear either, huh?

  742. Josh says:

    @flyR

    “@Josh
    “YOU are NOT capable of that mutual courtesy. Therefore, take a break for a few days ”
    Josh – you should try this in the mirror”

    Say what? Try what in the mirror? At least you showed up to support @batshit, but make some sense before I can attempt to follow your Solomonish “advice.” 😉

  743. Josh says:

    Don’t blame others if you pull Jerry Springer on the blog. Why would the good doctor and lovely GP would not enjoy the crazy entertainment you are providing them, and the others. 😉

  744. FunDude says:

    Got to get to bed for work tomorrow, shit is funny as hell in here tonight lol

  745. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Are you confirming my assertion that some of the older white feminist women don’t like the “uppity” darkies?

    Don’t those bitches know their place? Fucking blackitude around here.

  746. flyR says:

    @Josh

    “YOU are NOT capable of that mutual courtesy. Therefore, take a break for a few days ”

    Josh – you should try this in the mirror

  747. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    Golly I just adore you when you tell Scarlett what she needs to do.
    BTW, I really want to play “Doctor, Oh Doctor” with you.

  748. LadyScarlett says:

    Let’s see, it is BEYOND disgusting to not only make up lies, but try to deflect intimidate me, and turn others against me with your made up Lies about racism. Also, I find it pretty obvious that all three of your proxies are attacking me at once Exactly, they are all YOU and they usually never post this late, but they are up and ready to give your “guru revenge”. I rest my case, and you have made it even more obvious. Well done.

  749. Josh says:

    With some help from @Guru and others, Black SBs are killing it on SA, and some angry, aging White females are not liking it. :(

  750. FunDude says:

    Scarlett needs to get out the big guns:

    1) Up the Shaming Language
    2) Increase the Gossip
    3) Release private Emails: shit that might be backfiring!
    4) Call Josh a sexist
    5) Call Josh a nerd

    Running out of options her Scarlett. Got to come up with some ideas ASAP!

  751. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    “@Scarlett
    Honey, unless Sweet Josh is now an editor or write for Urban Dictionary, I don’t think he “made up” that word, “Blackitude.” I’m just sayin…”

    I have not read those emails for a while now, but @batshit’s definition is very different. :(

  752. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    I guess the Black SBs are getting too “uppity” around here.

    Don’t they know their place around here? Fucking “blackitude” behavior!

  753. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    Honey, you are so welcome.

  754. Josh says:

    @LadyScarlett

    “that’s his ‘thang’.”

    Do you use ‘thang’ in daily life at work or is it because I exposed your racism, and you are trying to be “cool” about it?

    And “he made it up” is totally wrong. Your diatribe on “blackitude” spans many emails, dear batshit. :(

  755. FunDude says:

    lol thanks for the definition georgia. didn’t know what that meant

    apparently, fhe black SBs have “blackitude”

  756. LadyScarlett says:

    He is full of shit, Kenna. I will tell you that. Is it not obvious what he is doing…sheesh…

  757. Josh says:

    @Melissa

    “@Kenna
    I’m still waiting for what it’s supposed to mean”

    Sorry dear. You will have to wait. I am not into outing private communication/information/data. It is all up to @batshit. If she continues on her current path then you will learn EXACTLY how @batshit defines “blackitude” in gory details. :(

  758. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Scarlett
    Honey, unless Sweet Josh is now an editor or write for Urban Dictionary, I don’t think he “made up” that word, “Blackitude.” I’m just sayin….

  759. KennaKenna says:

    The freaking closet racists on this blog!!!

    @Keke @Melissa girls we need to stick together!!

  760. LadyScarlett says:

    I’m keeping him up past his bedtime because usually he retires his proxies earlier….

  761. GeorgiaPeach says:

    Hello
    According to []www.urbandictionary.com[]
    “Blackitude: attitude most often adopted by black people to demonstrate a total lack of enthusiasm or care for any task undertaken. Usually accompanied by a noise produced by sucking of the teeth to further illustrate a lack of regard for virtually any situation which requires effort or verbal communication.”

  762. LadyScarlett says:

    Ask Josh, he made it up. He likes to discredit others….that’s his ‘thang’. Is so very alpha of him 😉

  763. Melissa says:

    @Kenna
    I’m still waiting for what it’s supposed to mean lol

  764. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    Could I at least hold your hand while we watch this from the sidelines? I don’t get the feeling that sweet Josh is easily intimidated by anyone and certainly not Scarlett. I don’t think he likes her outing those private emails, but we can all understand that. I wouldn’t like anyone publicizing my confidential emails either. She’s definitely wrong on that point. And he did ask her not to do that and she did it anyway. No, she’s not screwing around at this point, but he isn’t either. Should I get you a drink or perhaps some unsalted popcorn? We can watch together here. 😉

  765. FunDude says:

    HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!

  766. KennaKenna says:

    “Bleacktitude”????

    “Waitttttt a minute… So some bloggers have a problem with us black folk??? LOLOLOL

  767. LadyScarlett says:

    Go fuck yourself, Josh.

  768. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Dunno, Josh appears very intimidated by Scarlett.

    She is using all of her “tactics” to defeat him. She’s bring in the heavy duty shaming language, gossip, private emails, etc.

    She ain’t fucking around this time!

  769. Josh says:

    @LadyScarlett

    “But, it is getting too crazy now, so please just ignore me, and I will do the same.”

    YOU are NOT capable of that mutual courtesy. Therefore, take a break for a few days and come back and ignore me all you want. But if you called @FunDude or @GeorgiaPeach (two respectable independent bloggers) my proxy, then that does not constitute ignoring me.

    Take a break and come back with clear head. That’s the best I can do for you at this time.

  770. LadyScarlett says:

    Really keo? Yeah, because what Josh does and says is never below the belt…and, yes, it probably does make me look crazy but it isn’t looking so good for him either. But, that is probably just expected of him on blog, anyways.

  771. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Dr. FunDude
    “Scarlett is going to run Josh off this blog. She has focused in on him and will not stop until Josh disappears from this blog.

    Josh better run away”

    I don’t think there is anyone, except maybe Brandon who could “run” Josh off from this blog. And if they did, it would be a shame. He obviously contributes a lot, in his own way. I don’t think “Scarlett” has the “balls” to stay. LOL. If she pushes Josh to “run away” Dr Honey, you better run too because I would suspect you’re next… However, I’m not going anyway. I always did enjoy a challenge, Sweetie. 😉

  772. FunDude says:

    @keke

    She obviously has a few screws loose lol

  773. Josh says:

    Another figment of @batshit’s “gossip” imagination. I did not “out” anyone.

    However, it is right in front of the rest of the bloggers that TODAY I requested @batshit again and again and again NOT TO out private information on public blog, but she would not listen.

  774. KeKe says:

    @Lady. The more you argue with @Josh the more you seem unhinged. I know that’s not the case but you are making yourself look a shall we say cray cray.

    I would also like to add that I know you are trying to prove your case but bring up private emails seem below the belt blog stuff should stay blog stuff. Stuff that happens off the blogs should stay that way unless by mutual consent.

  775. LadyScarlett says:

    “Josh says:
    March 19, 2015 at 9:01 pm
    The @Guru’s crystal ball tells him that either @hogwash or @psychopath or both will soon descend on the blog to help @batshit. ”

    See, he thinks everyone is out to get him. Crazy paranoid. I am not like you, Josh, I don’t need to ‘summon’ other people to help me. I can handle you all by myself. But, it is getting too crazy now, so please just ignore me, and I will do the same.

  776. Josh says:

    @StruggleIsReal will definitely show up to help @batshit soon. 😉

  777. LadyScarlett says:

    I am totally for ignoring him because he is scary at this point. He actually found out the identity of a past female blogger and ‘outed’ her in real life, so the story goes. Who knows if that is true, but at the amount of crazy he is doing right now, because I exposed him, am not surprised. How about taking your own advice and ‘ignoring’ me Josh. You were the one who is going mad because you think everyone is out to get you off the blog. Nutso.

  778. Josh says:

    The @Guru’s crystal ball tells him that either @hogwash or @psychopath or both will soon descend on the blog to help @batshit. 😉

  779. KeKe says:

    *sigh* wishful thinking. .

  780. FunDude says:

    Scarlett is going to run Josh off this blog. She has focused in on him and will not stop until Josh disappears from this blog.

    Josh better run away

  781. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    I guess Scarlett has Whiteitude or Femitude?

  782. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    “@Josh and @Lady… just stop talking to each other. Ignore one another. Please!!! I still like you guys.”

    The @batshit is not physically capable of letting go. She did exactly the same to @SunShineSD. She thinks that she can crawl under my skin like she did to @SunShineSD.

    It ain’t happening. I am THE @GURU and I am not bashful about it. 😉

  783. LadyScarlett says:

    You get ridiculed because you are easy to make fun of…many make fun of your blog addiction.

    What are you, some sort of wannabe blog moderator? You are not and a shitty one at that, lol.

    I would say, someone who posts, 24/7, lies, tries to intimidate, and threaten to not ‘go against the guru’ on blog, speaks of hate towards women and is a blatant misogynistic creep is the one who is batshit crazy.

  784. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “What the fuck is “blackitude”? And who was this in reference to?

    Sounds like a term for a bad black person’s attitude lol”

    I had never heard of the term dude, the batshit @LadyScarlett “educated” me on it. There is another blogger involved BUT I am NOT going to divulge their identity because they did not bring private communication to public.

  785. Melissa says:

    @Keke @Fundude
    I want to know what it means too…

  786. KeKe says:

    @Josh and @Lady… just stop talking to each other. Ignore one another. Please!!! I still like you guys.

  787. Josh says:

    @Ladies and @Gentlemen

    Did I or did I not ask this batshit crazy woman not to bring private communication to public blog?

    Did I or did I not get ridiculed by @FB about such request?

  788. FunDude says:

    What the fuck is “blackitude”? And who was this in reference to?

    Sounds like a term for a bad black person’s attitude lol

  789. Josh says:

    @LadyScarlett

    I politely asked you NOT to bring private communication in public again and again and again, and even got ridiculed by FB about it, but you would not listen.

  790. LadyScarlett says:

    @keke, he is trying to cause trouble because I outed him.

  791. FunDude says:

    This shit is getting worse than Jerry Springer lol

    I am becoming addicted to this blog lol

  792. Josh says:

    @LadyScarlett,

    For your kind information, I have helped more AA/black SBs than I have helped all the other races combined.

  793. LadyScarlett says:

    You are soooo full of shit. That is just a lie. You were constantly saying rude things about other bloggers to me in private email. You are really trying to intimidate and whatnot now. What happened to ‘ignoring’ me….you are sick. Like scary sick. You did warn me to ‘not mess with the blog guru because you control the blog’. You are nothing but a coward hiding behind your computer. You know who I am and have always been pretty upfront, but what you do when people go against you on blog and your blogging addiction…you need help, like I said.

  794. FunDude says:

    Josh, no way! Scarlett just said she loved Black people!

    Don’t lie! She would never say that!!

  795. KeKe says:

    Sh*t about to get real up in here!

    What is blackitude? Hmmmm

  796. FunDude says:

    I think LadyScarlett has some psychological issues.

    She might need to get a psychiatrist ASAP. I am sure she is already on Zoloft and Trazadone.