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Break Out Of Your Comfort Zone This Valentine’s Day
  • Posted Feb 10, 2015

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Many relationships at SeekingArrangement are of the “May-December” variety (or perhaps May-September), so there may be times when the younger Sugar Baby wants to do something fun but the older Sugar Daddy is being, well, an old fuddy-duddy. A stick in the mud. Not a lot of fun. And sometimes a Baby just wants to shop shop party shop party party shop shop. This can be tedious and tiring even to the most generous and patient Daddy.

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Usually this is fine and follows the dynamic of most every relationship, traditional or Sugar. —But on Valentine’s Day, each member of an Arrangement should want to go the extra mile to show their opposite number that they are special. What is expressed may not be love in the usual sense, but Valentine’s Day is a time for Sugar partners to show how much they care.

One of the best ways to show your affection is by getting out of your comfort zone. For SDs, this may mean going to a club with the loud music and the shenanigans on the dance floor. For SBs, this might mean that you go play golf with your SD. (Maybe you don’t know how to play golf, but you might enjoy being his eye and arm candy as he golfs with his pals. He will definitely enjoy you making them envious every time you dote on him.)

Eat Your Heart Out

Activities are great, and so are romantic dinners at swanky eateries. But what cuisine to choose? Ladies, if you usually want champagne and caviar—as a Sugar Baby should!—maybe give a bit of thought to sharing a meal that your gentleman might find special. An Irish pub is fun, with hearty food and lots of old-school games like darts and billiards, thus  letting him be just a guy instead of the big man for an evening.

That’s great for the gal looking to show she’s a good sport on Valentine’s, but what about for the Sugar Daddy who wants to take his baby to eat her favorite food? This applies to those dining establishments she might be shy to suggest because it doesn’t fit the “Sugar” ideal. I’m talking about short ribs or epic pancakes, food that’s messy and fun. What better way to show you care than by letting her be her non-Baby self for one awesome meal? (You two can always burn off those extra calories later in the evening.)

Make It Like Your First Date

Remember how, no matter how accomplished or beautiful you are, you got butterflies before your first Sugar rendezvous? That is really taking things out of both parties’ comfort zone, and that means it’s a great way to make your Valentine’s Day an unforgettable one.

What can couples do to get those butterflies flapping around again? Sugar relationships are often built on the generous member showing the attractive member amazing sites and experiencing exotic places. The attractive member, too, commonly “wows” her Daddy with getting even more fit or sexy or wearing a new outfit or lingerie to excite him.

Maybe an adrenaline rush is in order. Go bungee jumping. Try a zombie 5K. Or visit a nudist beach! That will probably take you both wayyyy out of that boring comfort zone and into a time you’ll always cherish and laugh about. Bonding and loving are what Valentine’s Day is all about, whether you’re a married couple, a Sugar couple, or anything in between.

How do you plan to spend your Valentine’s Day?

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2,365 Responses to “Break Out Of Your Comfort Zone This Valentine’s Day”

  1. Sugar Baby says:

    Hey Everybody, This is Azis and I’m a new and confused Sugar Baby.. Is there a Lovely Sexy and Exciting SUGAR MOMMY that wouldn’t mind ‘Showing Me The Ropes?’ Not really sure how to do anything on here.. Azis Wanted. Look me up and spread the word that, The Wait Is Over.

  2. THEATLSD says:

    @Struggles is back. Wahoooooooo
    you are killing me. 😉

  3. StruggleIsReal says:

    And t seems that @FatBastard has pissed off @Josh, and all the proxies are descending upon him. Hahaha.

    This was called out via email (to me) previous to its occurrence by a valued blog member. So so silly. Oh goodness. Welcome to the shit show.

    @Newbies
    Welcome to proxy land.

  4. StruggleIsReal says:

    Hey guys!
    Things have been busy lately for me. I hope you are all well! Catching up here, please forgive me if I have missed a LOT! I have missed you!

    @Sexy
    I’ll email you about when I’m in Chicago! :)
    I’m so happy you and Drummer are doing awesome!

    @Kenna
    Don’t worry you’ll gain! My mom lost weight at first too.
    The fatigue is massive. You’re only creating a human. No big. Hehe

    @ONSD
    Dangit about the poofers and no word on the card drop!

    @ATL
    One of these days I will exit this daggum airport and we shall have a drink or two! Ps. I’m submissive (re:50 shades). Lmao

    @PI Wolf
    Welcome to the blog. So far liking your perspective and what you add to the blog.

  5. KennaKenna says:

    Thank you @Southern.

    @Coffy
    You must be new to the blog – I don’t fantasy write, my SD and I love each other, we’ve had issues like regular people but we’ve resolved them and now we’re making a life together.

  6. SouthernSB says:

    @Coffy-I saw the ring!!! Kenna’s not lying!!!

  7. Coffy says:

    @Josh

    I knew I couldn’t be the only one who saw it that way.

  8. Josh says:

    @Coffy

    “Such a fantasy teller…”

    Who @Kenna?

    No one knows if anyone is telling the truth or making things up as they go along. Her posts are logically consistent. So we enjoy them.

    If you don’t then so be it.

  9. elle_em says:

    @OnlineNewbieSD – Can you please clarify in what you mean by under promising? Unfortunately I don’t know how to turn off my brain so that’s not even option that would ever occur. So I guess I should just focus on getting back to my size 5/7 any smaller than that and I look fake and ridiculous. Not to mention I don’t want to be in a perpetual state of fear that I might tip forward.

  10. Coffy says:

    Such a fantasy teller…

  11. KennaKenna says:

    @Promise yes!

  12. Promise says:

    I’m confused. @Kenna, you’re engaged? To your SD? Also are you pregnant?

  13. flyR says:

    Kenna – sounds like you are exceeding his expectations in a good way……

  14. KennaKenna says:

    @FlyR even though I’ve doubled my budget, I’m still spending less than what he would have expected me to spend.

    I’m also using my contacts to score luxury villas for his friend at a 1/3 of market price. And surprisingly, he will be inviting more people to the wedding than me even though most of my family lives on the island(I had no idea he had so many friends).

  15. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    “Better yet, eliminate community property and invest marriage ceremony waste in a safe investment vehicle to be awarded to the wife who makes it to the 25th anniversary?”

    Yeah, that might be better. LOL. KISS method works for weddings too.

  16. flyR says:

    @josh “Then…once the D-day arrives, those photos and videos (of the wedding) would be promptly trash canned as they don’t feel good anymore.”

    Eureka – Josh and I agree on something …. very few will ever want to watch the endless video (unless it is condensed to 5 minutes by a professional) .

    Wedding Planners – usually great at spending money and poor at managing the event…… Perhaps Kenna should hire Sexy Rockstar with her Marine background and take no prisoners attitude.

    Failure to manage costs for the wedding may be taken as a sign of disrespect by the mate….. just a warning..

  17. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    “@Kenna
    Keep it simple, enjoy yourself, let him enjoy himself and spend more on the honeymoon. LOL”

    Better yet, eliminate community property and invest marriage ceremony waste in a safe investment vehicle to be awarded to the wife who makes it to the 25th anniversary?

  18. PI Wolf says:

    @Rebecca, thank you for providing details. Looks like you have met a WHALE (as the Casinos would use the term). Good for you and for him!

    @Promise, your question – can one make over $1 million when their net worth is $1 million? The answer is YES. NET WORTH is all your assets minus all you liabilities. For example: I have $10 million dollars cash. I have a loan from my bank of $9 million. My net worth is $1 million. However, I have $10 million dollars as a bankroll for my INVESTMENT (let’s say I am a profession gamer at Las Vegas casinos, I can make/earn $1 million or more, per year).

    @flyR, So True – that a woman in her mid-30s (or older) will fit into all social occasions – providing she behaves accordingly. She could be an executive (or personal) assistant to the Rich Man … which is what usually comes to mind of the people around, in the social events. That she could be a Mistress (or SB) is not the first thing that would enter people’s minds.

    @Lana, that is really funny. The SB states – No, I will not have sex with you, I am not a prostitute – then sets her expectation as HIGH (Over $10,000) – is really saying – I am not a CHEAP WHORE. I am an expensive CALL GIRL – You call, I come over anytime. I am not having sex with you – I am allowing you to have sex with me …. (I will just lie down like a dead fish, while you (the man) do all the work)! LOL.

  19. MAI xoxo says:

    Love This

  20. “KennaKenna says:
    February 25, 2015 at 7:45 am
    @YGBKM my sister is helping me and I’m working with a planner but I can’t decide on a venue. The issue is everyone works on “Island Time” there so they take so long to get me quotes, etc.”

    Ah, I follow. That’s what bribes are for!

  21. @Josh

    You’re so sweet to me, dear. Thank you for that :).

  22. KennaKenna says:

    @YGBKM my sister is helping me and I’m working with a planner but I can’t decide on a venue. The issue is everyone works on “Island Time” there so they take so long to get me quotes, etc.

  23. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Kenna
    Keep it simple, enjoy yourself, let him enjoy himself and spend more on the honeymoon. LOL

  24. Josh says:

    “Besides…
    There’s always hogwash…which apparently no one understands but me :).”

    That’s a great baseline to start with. Now you might want to attempt to make yourself more comprehensible. Easy does it. Baby steps… 😉

  25. SouthernSB says:

    Oh @Kenna-Bring him along for the food and cake tastings. That’s the best part and men love tasting the cakes and all that food.

  26. SouthernSB says:

    @Kenna-The fact that he wants to be left out of the planning is a plus. Get your best girlfriend make her the maid of honor and make her help with all the planning. That way your can let a little bit of your “bridezilla” out without torturing your poor man.

  27. Josh says:

    ‘help from him, he said “do whatever you want, don’t spend too much and leave me out the planning.”’

    Hahahaha. Smart man indeed. Planning the wedding together is the worst activity a man is sucked into.

  28. “OnlineNewbieSD says:
    “February 25, 2015 at 5:49 am
    @latin & @Maggie – using a different language does not hide the conversation…much of what you’ve said is exactly what others have listed as success tactics already.

    Not very nice, when others are willing to be open…that’s all I’m saying…”

    Many things can be lost in translation (sentiment, tone, idioms etc). I see no problem with posting comments in the language in which one is best able to articulate. SA is, afterall, an international site with an international, multilingual consumer base.

    Besides…

    There’s always hogwash…which apparently no one understands but me :).

  29. @Kenna

    Can anyone back home help you plan?

  30. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KennaKenna
    The main thing for you is to keep calm. Most guys never want in the planning. “Just tell me what tux, etc to wear and the time, and I’ll show.” LOL Have you thought about working with a Wedding Planner? She might help you work through everything a bit faster and on budget? Just a suggestion…

  31. KennaKenna says:

    My venue is now gone on my date. When you snooze, you lose :-(

    Back to square one… And of course no help from him, he said “do whatever you want, don’t spend too much and leave me out the planning.”

  32. FlyBoy says:

    @FunDude,
    “Good story but my perspective is based on reality”

    The good Doctor always tells like it is!!!!

    Alas some will probably not like it :(

    Oh well :)

  33. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    I guess the one bright spot to the “50 Shades” crowd joining, at least it’s pulling attention away from the “co-ed-arm-candy” crowd…I’d rather see profiles that KNOW sex is a part of the equation than a ton of profiles that think they are worth 10k+ to be in the same room…

  34. Lana says:

    An SB’s profile I came across:
    “I am a smart, hard working & independent girl looking to meet someone & have a good time. Also wouldn’t mind being spoiled a little bit 😉 NO I WILL NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOU FOR MONEY, I AM NOT A PROSTITUTE.”
    Meanwhile her expectations are ‘High’

  35. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @latin & @Maggie – using a different language does not hide the conversation…much of what you’ve said is exactly what others have listed as success tactics already.

    Not very nice, when others are willing to be open…that’s all I’m saying…

  36. FunDude says:

    @FLYR

    Good story but my perspective is based on reality.

  37. Josh says:

    @flyR

    “Few will remember the physical things , all will remember how they felt”

    The “feel” crowd typically does not spend any money. For example @Kenna has no problem doubling the budget, the end result of which is photos and videos, which will be watched ad nauseam by the feel crowd and almost zero times by the pay crowd.

    Then…once the D-day arrives, those photos and videos would be promptly trash canned as they don’t feel good anymore.

    Weddings are yet another female-centric idiocy. A more practical celebration is 25th anniversary to celebrate that they made it this far.

  38. Maggie S says:

    @A Latin Opinion: mi correo es agalychnis23 en hotmail punto com, por supuesto que me gustaría conversar con vos, abrazos!

  39. flyR says:

    @ Kenna

    Flyer’s rules of weddings
    No matter what you do you will offend some

    A good wedding in one where the marriage ceremony is completed and the celebration held without bloodshed.

    Few will remember the physical things , all will remember how they felt

  40. flyR says:

    Sounds like some of the SB’s are dispelling the belief held by the peanut gallery that SB’s over 32 are condemned to sub practical allowances and 55+ YO SDs.

    My observation – Many of the sub 25 SB’s have never had a competent, patient lover and consistent (or even regular) real orgasms (not the little ones that sort of sneak out) . Their sex is more driven by social pressures, and meeting expectations rather than the knowledge that their lover (boyfriend, SD, bar pickup) will, if encouraged, leave them satiated.

    Somewhere between 25 and 35 most sexually active women begin to learn which men are capable of satisfying them (if properly motivated) . Of course that does not prevent them from offering hopeless rescue sex on occasion.

    As others noted the 35+ yo sugar baby also fits better into many social situations. For some SD, especially those who are married, it makes a significant difference. Of course for those whose focus is primarily on arm candy the 20 YO may be the only thing that is capable of doing the job.

    If I were advising an SB it would be to first be the very best at what you are. If you are 38 don’t try to compete as a 20 yo airhead even if you only weigh 110 pounds . Above all be without anger, leave your politics at home unless you are willing pay the price.

  41. KennaKenna says:

    No nausea for 24 hours but the insomnia has started… Time is moving sooo slow!

  42. KennaKenna says:

    Geez! Weddings are so expensive… I originally told SD I needed $x for my budget, and I had to double it on Monday after I realized how expensive everything is and of course I forgot many things in my budget so need to go and ask for more money.

    I hope he doesn’t get mad! :( I honestly feel like just eloping, the planning is driving me crazy. :(

  43. a latin opinion says:

    @Maggie de verdad me encanta la forma en que lo vez! Pues que lindo ver a alguien por aca tan linda y comedida. Pues nada ahora entiendo tu punto de vista y lo tendre en cuenta. Quisiera q me contactes de una manera mas privada, deja tu email para escribirte. Es algo que creo quisieras saber.

  44. Keo says:

    @Josh didn’t know you had to have had an arrangement to understand there are bad people out there. Everything is not just a sugar matter.

  45. Keo says:

    Hey I finally have a POT meeting Saturday

  46. Josh says:

    Seconded by the person who has not have many (any?) sugar arrangements either…

  47. Josh says:

    Of course, so opines a person who has never had any sugar arrangement.

  48. Keo says:

    I agree @YGTBKM people are vultures and certain people will try to get over on you any way they can

  49. I think that person who wants to track you down will try to track you down despite your status.

  50. Josh says:

    If I were married, I would never tell SBs that I were.

    If they did not know that the man was married and had something to lose, they would not invest as much time in tracking his house information.

  51. Josh says:

    Blackmail of married SDs is pretty common. Some of them take precaution and rent cars for their sugar dates.

  52. Keo says:

    @YGTBKM Thanks for the compliment! @Rebecca I wonder how often that happens, especially to married SD’s. Very sad. But not surprising. Bad apples in every bunch.

  53. Rebecca says:

    PI wolf: Yes, I did enjoy it. I was surprised we had such a connection. Even though we had a large age gap, it was easy to sit around and have a conversation. The 5k was for 1 weekend a month. He wants me to visit again soon, so it might be 2x a month. He said he’d rather spend money on people around him than buy a new Bentley for himself. (His analogy)

    He was open about the allowance amount before we met. Everything was upfront. Concerning sex in my early 20’s, it wasn’t that great. I am more comfortable and know what I want now.

    He told me some horror stories from the site. Again, women were showing up 50 lbs heavier than their photos or using photos that resemble themselves, but isn’t really them. I heard that from another SD too. He had a woman blackmail him by getting his license plate number and figuring out his identity. She demanded $36,000. She was even calling his home. Her account was eventually deleted. Scary stuff.

  54. Josh says:

    Whatcha gonna do when she comes for you, bad boy bad boy?

  55. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Pimpin
    How ’bout it?
    You’ve got my wet dripping down my legs. Whatcha gonna do about it now?
    (I can just tell you are a mess. LOL)

  56. Maggie S says:

    @Maggie soy un poco cuidadosa con mi información personal y aunq no se de que parte de Colombia eres pero por lo menos te puedo decir que somos hermanas. Me interesa mucho lo que dices, en tu opinion he de alguna manera denigrado o ofendido a la mujer latina en alguno de mis comentarios? siendo un poco mas especifica a la mujer sudamericana?. Solo para poner a un lado la preyorativa de si soy una mujer sumisa dominada por el hombre, te explico que no, no lo soy. Siempre que escribo lo hago con un tono de broma, haciendo un chiste de los argumentos con que aqui se hablan. Me entiendes? Nunca ofendo ni intimido, solo bromeo.

    Mi muñeca, al estar en este sitio, sobre todo nosotras que somos latinas y más aún, colombianas, debemos cuidarnos MUCHO de que no seamos tildadas de prostitutas, prepagos, o estafadoras. Por lo tanto, hay que cuidar más que cualquier cosa nuestro lenguaje, sobretodo las que tenemos la capacidad de ser bilingües, que sabes que somos muy pocas mujeres quienes lo logramos, y lo logramos gracias a nuestra inteligencia. En qué parte no estuve de acuerdo? Vos decís que nosotras logramos mucho teniendo sexo. Tengo un lema, que estoy segura, también aplicará a vos y te será más útil para evitar malentendidos: “una madre dedicada en casa, toda una dama y señora en la calle, y una puta en la cama”, esta última parte no la deben saber a los cuatro vientos, que se enteren los SD poquito a poco…y vas a ver cómo caen… :)

    No hay necesidad de demostrar cuán “ardientes” somos en la cama, también hay que demostrar lo inteligentes y bien educadas, y si bien no somos muñequitas de vitrina, de vez en cuando es bueno dejar a nuestro SD que nos enseñe cositas…que tenga el “control” de la situación (que crea eso), porque lo último que quieren es alguien diciéndole qué hacer

  57. GeorgiaPeach says:

    “@PimpinSD”
    Darlin I don’t even know where to begin here.
    I do read a lot.. all kinds of kinky books. Positions, things to devour or have devoured. A bit of BDSM tossed in for fun. One of those situations where if I’d only known years ago, I’d have been here while I was much younger thing. NOW, I want to try it all, Honey.

    So, Mr. PimpinSD, what does turn you on?

  58. PimpinSD says:

    “GeorgiaPeach says:
    February 24, 2015 at 4:38 am

    “If you can somehow wrestle the “crazy bitch” title from YGTBKM, I will consider it.”
    I don’t think I’d attempt that one, nor would I even think about trying to take away her title. She just seems to fit it so well. However, I do have a bit of a kinky side, if you’re interested.”

    Tap that, Pimpin.

    @YGTBKM
    Now that’s my girl, when your star player assists the team in recruiting free agents.

    @GeorgiaPeach
    Hit me up, see if your kink meshes with my kink.

  59. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    Could that “hogwash” be used to clean off her nasty tongue? Or would that be bad for the hogwash?

  60. Josh says:

    Sweetheart, if you can disappeared forever, I wouldn’t miss a beat. However, your hogwash will be cherished for its fertilizer quotient. 😉

  61. “Josh says:
    February 24, 2015 at 5:30 pm
    @yougottabekiddingme
    “You miss me too much when I’m away.”
    There was a psychopath on the blog who used to say things like this. ”

    Says the man who just referenced me 5 times for no apparent reason. You’re funny, sweets.

  62. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    “Of course. Making $1+ million dollars is the easiest on SA. All you have to do is to choose net worth= $1 million and income=$1.1 million.”
    Yep. You just have to be careful, though being truthful is not a one-sided thing. I’m sure there are just as many gals who lie too. On other sites, I’ve had guys ask me for +$20K and other crazy things. Those are the fun ones; the ones you can “play with” and surprise. The guys who are truthful are the ones you really have to watch. You have to acquaint yourself with the “red” flags, Will Robinson’s robot, “Danger, Danger.”

  63. Josh says:

    SA is the easiest get rich quick scheme out there. 😉

  64. Josh says:

    @Promise

    “Can someone whose Net worth is 1 million make over 1 million when their occupation is investor?”

    Of course. Making $1+ million dollars is the easiest on SA. All you have to do is to choose net worth= $1 million and income=$1.1 million.

    Next questions?

  65. Promise says:

    Can someone whose Net worth is 1 million make over 1 million when their occupation is investor?

  66. Josh says:

    @yougottabekiddingme

    “You miss me too much when I’m away.”

    There was a psychopath on the blog who used to say things like this. :(

  67. Josh says:

    My now favorite question to fat SBs is “Do you eat a lot?”

  68. Awww…Joshbabe…I just wanna take my tongue outta my nose, and kiss you all over. You miss me too much when I’m away. Perhaps you need a script for an extended-release y-patch…hold ya over.

    @Keo

    Nice photo, lady.

    Don’t mind mine. Pimpin made me do it.

  69. Josh says:

    Disclaimer: Try @y’s hogwash on SBs at your own risk. Maybe you want to try it on SBs you want to mess around with and not necessarily date.

  70. Josh says:

    @Promise

    I have a bad news. The girl I tried @y’s hogwash at closed her account. I am not sure if @y’s hogwash caused her to close the account, or was the hogwash last straw that broke the camel’s back.

    I will find out the potency of @y hogwash, when/if I try that with other SBs.

  71. Promise says:

    @Josh any responses yet?

  72. FlyBoy says:

    Game = Weaponizing ones inelegance for seduction :)

  73. Josh says:

    I will let you know how it goes from my end.

  74. Josh says:

    Epiphany?

    I knew @y’s hogwash had some purpose in life.

    Since many blog SBs seem to dig her hogwash, I have an idea. Take some of what she writes and just randomly send it as an opening message to SBs…

    Let me know how it goes. 😉

  75. Keo says:

    Thank you PI Wolf for that comment!

  76. PI Wolf says:

    @Rebecca,

    The question is – Did you enjoy the weekend with the SD? The $5k allowance that he gave, was it for a steady monthly allowance OR was it pocket money for the weekend you spent together? What was the expectation that you expressed OR did he make the offer without your needing to specify (or negotiate)?

    I apologize for my questions … as I am curious. It look like you have a promising future ahead, as you stated. I am in my 50s and in my experience – women in their late 20s through their 40s are more fun to Make Love With – as they seem to also want to enjoy the lovemaking session as much as I do. I have been pleasantly surprised at waht they were willing to do – on their own volition (without my asking) – and it all seems to be normally FUN (while others would consider kinky). The 50 shades of grey book and movie is just a tease (if that)! Either I am too decadent, or ??? LOL.

    Women younger than 24 seem to be an empty slate, with little experience in life. Unless I really like her and want to take time and effort to mentor and shape her, I would prefer to have sex and fun with a woman who has a little experience in life (mid/late 20s thru 40s). I would even have fun with a woman in her 50s, as long as she looks desirable in my eyes?

  77. Josh says:

    @THEATLSD

    “even Josh”

    What the fuck is that suppose to mean?

  78. Josh says:

    @Rebecca

    “Also, I saw a photo on my SD’s Ipad of Josh’s icon. I worried for a second it was him, but he later said he has no idea how these images are being saved :P.”

    Your SD is a government agent. So be careful how/where you spend his traceable bills. 😉

  79. FunDude says:

    @Rebecca

    Yeah older SDs would be open to women that are 26-32 as well. Dudes in their 50s to 70s are probably the most open to that arrangement.

    Guys in their 30s to mid 40s would probably like early to mid 20s on average. I am sure if the woman is extremely hot, easy to get along with, etc. there will be some exceptions.

    A guy who is 70 will probably pay a lot more than a guy who is 35. That is the nature of things.

  80. flyR says:

    “”Haven’t connected for the next meeting…one poofed…the other I’m about to declare as a poof…it was consistent communication, then crickets. Nothing changed for the words used, or the sharing, just quit connecting.””

    Not really too different from a lot of employers, customers etc ….. lots of attention until they pick someone else and then silence. Over the years we have tried to debrief suppliers and potential employees(finalists) about our decision. Essence of message which works for sugar – I think you are great; but I found another (sb, supplier, employee, etc) who was a slightly better fit …..

  81. THEATLSD says:

    @Promise

    At least someone has. I have not watched them yet. I’ll have to check them out.

  82. Promise says:

    @Theatlsd I actually have seen all of the videos on it. Even the newest series.

  83. THEATLSD says:

    @Josh
    “Has anyone noticed that this thread has the dubious honor of being the most popular in 5+ years?”

    Yes and it take forever to load on my phone.

    Come on JennSA time for a new Blog. How about a blog on taking your SB on spring break trip!!

    BTW, do y’all know SA has a Youtube channel now. I believe JennSA made a video for that.

  84. Promise says:

    @Theatlsd I noticed that too. An SD viewed my profile so I decided to check his as well, and all he talked about was being a Dom and looking for a Sub. Idk if it’s because of 50 Shades or if he thinks this is an escort service.

  85. THEATLSD says:

    @Rebecca
    ” I have a female friend on SA who is having an aging crisis since she is 26,”

    Tell her not to worry that is the beginning of the respect age. As coined by ONSD. I look for 25 -32 myself so tell here not to worry. Plus some of our very on Blog SD are in that age range and are doing extremely well for themselves.

    That is scary having Josh’s ICON on someones Ipad. Josh works for the NSA, he is everywhere. In fact, he has a Drone outside YGBKM’s window right now. The buffalo tongue is turning him on.

  86. Josh says:

    Has anyone noticed that this thread has the dubious honor of being the most popular in 5+ years?

  87. THEATLSD says:

    @all AS predicted the “50 shades of grey” is changing the profiles here.
    In the last week, 3 new profiles have popped up with “I’m submissive” in the profile. Also, a few older profiles that I went back to changed or added “submissive” to the narrative. And of course a few new ones with where is my Mr. Grey or I want to be slammed against the wall of an elevator. (apparently that happens in the book/movie)

    I let my premium lapse again, pickins are slim and the few I have been interested in and responded, tell me they don’t sign in here a lot. Then why did you sign up? I do have a kind of, not sure, maybe a POTSB. I guess that’s better then none.

  88. Rebecca says:

    A little update. Spent the weekend with a SD and he gave a 5k allowance. My highest yet. We have a promising future together.

    I have asked my recent SDs about the other women they have met and had arrangements with. The majority of the women were 27-30+ which was shocking. I assumed men only wanted 21 year olds, but I guess when you’re 70, going out to dinner with a 21 year old is too much attention. I have a female friend on SA who is having an aging crisis since she is 26, but I am not as worried anymore. >_>

    Also, I saw a photo on my SD’s Ipad of Josh’s icon. I worried for a second it was him, but he later said he has no idea how these images are being saved :P.

  89. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Rookie…good, I didn’t want to think you were, but you know how text can disguise emotion 😉

    @Promise – thanks for the thought…you should do well, though…just don’t get too discouraged by the D-Bag trolls that inundate some profiles!

  90. FlyBoy says:

    *committing not commuting lol

  91. FlyBoy says:

    When I read a profile that says no sex, I don’t read it as an absolute proclamation. I take it as just a stupid shit test. The girl is apprehensive about being here. She can’t resolve her emotions on whether this is prostitution or not. So she writes the “no sex” clause to enable herself to check the bowl without commuting to anything.

    The best way to approach such a girl is to do it as if this site were a normal dating site. The level of game needed is not as high as IRL, however you do have to game. She will not jump on you easily.

    You are Welcome

  92. THEATLSD says:

    Hey everyone, sorry for late follow up to my travel question. Crazy work schedule is killing me.
    ONSD, Resop, Struggles and even Josh you all made good points. It was not real life yet,more wishful thinking planning. @Struggles really nailed it depends on situation/arrangement. I get the the whole pulling someone from work and their income that is why I gave 2 very distinct trips. One glamorous and one not so glamorous.

    Hopefully it will be real life someday!!

    @ONSD sorry to hear about you POTSB going POOF! I was also hoping the gift card girl would have contacted you.

    @resop Did you decide on getting the plumbing turned off? That was you, correct?

  93. Promise says:

    @ONSD If we lived in the same place I would try to help you out. Hoping you have better luck in the future.

  94. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    Haven’t connected for the next meeting…one poofed…the other I’m about to declare as a poof…it was consistent communication, then crickets. Nothing changed for the words used, or the sharing, just quit connecting.

    No word from the card I gave out either…thought about giving out another one just yesterday, but didn’t really have the opportunity to be discreet about it.

  95. RookieSD says:

    ONSD

    No sir, I was referring to the blah, blah, blah language that’s in at least half the profiles I’ve viewed.

  96. KennaKenna says:

    @ONSD what happened to the 2 POTs you had?

  97. KennaKenna says:

    But I’m not a princess- I don’t ask or demand, I’m a good submissive slut for my man.

  98. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Rookie – I hope that wasn’t meant to be accusing me of complaining…those were just the thoughts through my head as I looked at profiles today while some analysis processed, and while I was on a phone call for business. No time wasted, just random thoughts and observations…

    I’m WELL PAST the complaining stage…I’m not even paying here anymore…just like to see what “new” things are happening with recent profile additions.

    I’ve moved on to the IRL approach…

  99. Josh says:

    @KennaKenna

    “1. Stop calling me princess lol.”

    You know how critical I am of SBs using “princess” in their profiles. So if proactively call you a princess then you should know I mean it. It’s NOT sarcastic.

  100. “OnlineNewbieSD says:
    February 24, 2015 at 10:47 am
    The things I ponder when I peruse profiles:

    Is it classy to call yourself classy?”

    I think that demonstration goes farther than proclamation! Have always appreciated Scarlett’s and Elaine’s expression and embodiment of that :).

  101. RookieSD says:

    @ONSD

    How about wasting time complaining about your time being wasted?

  102. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    The things I ponder when I peruse profiles:

    Is it classy to call yourself classy?
    Is there a difference between a Sugerbaby and a Sugarbaby?
    If you don’t want a sexual relationship, why are all your profile pics with just bra/panty, tiny skirts, significant cleavage, obvious nipples or halter tops?
    If you want to take your time getting to face-to-face, why would you think it’s okay to ask for allowance to email, online and phone? Isn’t a virtual relationship worth a virtual allowance?

    There is more, but I’m busy with other things…

  103. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna

    I’d say if we took a vote, you would win the “princess” title in a landslide, lol.

  104. KennaKenna says:

    @Josh

    1. Stop calling me princess lol.
    2. Almost everyone emailed me, except you! I’ll email you now.

  105. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @flyR – yeah, and it’s the end of the month…so…rent is due.

    BUT…without even a “sorry, I’m already exploring something with someone” message 4 months ago, I’m certainly not looking to engage with someone who has been online every time I have throughout that 4 months and is NOW reaching out to me…

  106. flyR says:

    “”I sent an email to a profile over 4 months ago…no response…TODAY, I get a response from the profile. Now, I’m not able to see the message or respond to the message.””

    Usually indicates she (or he) is back in the hunting mode

  107. Josh says:

    @Kenna

    Princess, you have not confirmed so far if you are pregnant. If you are, then I am sure it has to do with pregnancy.

  108. KennaKenna says:

    Why am I so tired all the time? :(

  109. Promise says:

    @ONSD I will remember your teachings.

  110. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    Funny thing…I sent an email to a profile over 4 months ago…no response…TODAY, I get a response from the profile. Now, I’m not able to see the message or respond to the message.

    This is why it is important to at least respond to messages promptly. Even though she’s quite a cutie, and profile seems to fit my desires, she’s NOT going to get a response from me…

    I would say this goes for the SDs as well…when you get a message, and you are able to respond, it would be important to be prompt, but that’s not as important, since there’s “so many” other profiles out there to engage with (note sarcasm)…

  111. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Promise – as has been mentioned before…be careful about the Skype or online video meeting…there are ways that can be recorded and then it will be posted and/or shared on many sites…I’m not one to share a phone call or number until after I’ve met someone for coffee…but I’m married, not in my basement…

  112. Promise says:

    @flyR thank you.

  113. Promise says:

    @Josh all I did was thank her. :( Meanie.

  114. flyR says:

    Sexy – how did it go

  115. a latin opinion says:

    Awwwww @y eres muy dulce, gracias. (‘: y si, muchas veces me tildan de loca simplemente porque soy diferente.

    I’m with what people think, I respect and try to nourish my self with those who are different, and actually I really really enjoy that. What I care the most is in kindness in people and while someone can decided to be rude sometimes I wont care, even less when I know that that person is a kind hearted person as are most in this blog. (I admire that you guys are always there to help the new SB that reach out for knowledge).

    Have to go. Good day to everyone.

  116. flyR says:

    @Promise – Normal progression would be messages , email , phone.
    Might stretch over a week or two or a day or two. An exception might be where the pot sees something that is special and attractive.

    Other comments about a red flag are good. Perhaps a diversion to email with promise of a call if things continue.

    There are also lonely guys sitting for hours in their basements , looking for the sound of a voice.

  117. Tina says:

    he lives alone and brats about his house how it has five bedrooms ,talks about long term and one no monthly allowance -watch out SB and monthly allowance 1000-1200 when in fact he wants a lot of girls for overnight visits and for this fake

  118. “GeorgiaPeach says:
    February 24, 2015 at 4:38 am
    @Pimpin
    “If you can somehow wrestle the “crazy bitch” title from YGTBKM, I will consider it.”
    I don’t think I’d attempt that one, nor would I even think about trying to take away her title. She just seems to fit it so well. However, I do have a bit of a kinky side, if you’re interested.”

    Tap that, Pimpin.

  119. Tina says:

    not crazy at all a fact

  120. Josh says:

    Isn’t it fascinating to see how women roll? @Tina comes up with a crazy ass warning and @Promise thanked her for it.

    Hahahahahahahaha!!!

  121. NC Gent says:

    @Tina — I find it shocking that an SD on this site would lie about an allowance AND that he would be seeing more than one woman, especially since it would be almost unheard of for an SB to lie about her intentions.

  122. Promise says:

    Thanks for the warning@ Tina

  123. Tina says:

    be carful of a SD on here e is a liar and offers a monthly allowance of 1000-1200 he won,t actually give you that and sees you just once or twice in a month and he is seeing a lot of ladies .

  124. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @elle – I’m not sure why the SDs are not responding to you either. I think you’re underpromising and overdelivering with your pics (especially if you’re still losing weight), your text is almost error free…I think there could be two issues:
    1. Location – you could be competing with too many “pros” in your area, causing the SD to consider the “younger, thinner, airheadier” version of you.
    2. Maybe a little bit of what @FlyBoy said – you’re being favorited and photos from the shallow end of the SD pool…looking just at those pics (and probably just the breast of those pics – I mean best of those pics). Then, they are hit with brains and not just boobs and they are the proverbial “deer in the headlights”.

    It’s too bad you’re not local to me…I think you might have luck, if you’re a baseball fan, with the Spring Training crowd!

  125. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Pimpin
    “If you can somehow wrestle the “crazy bitch” title from YGTBKM, I will consider it.”
    I don’t think I’d attempt that one, nor would I even think about trying to take away her title. She just seems to fit it so well. However, I do have a bit of a kinky side, if you’re interested. 😉

  126. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Southern – I wasn’t “really” asking if you were using Stay at Home Mom as your occupation…I figured you weren’t…however, the profile I brought up with the whole kid issue DID use Stay at Home Mom as the occupation…didn’t make sense to ignore the kid question if you’re admitting your SAHM in occupation!

  127. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Promise – I think the SD who will ask for your number immediately falls within two or three types:
    1. The guy who knows he wants a quick fuck, pump-and-dump style, and doesn’t want there to be any evidence on SA to his tactics when you try to report him for being an asshole.
    2. The guy who is very close to his membership expiring that doesn’t want things to be “lost” when he isn’t paying for the site anymore.
    3. The guy who thinks women don’t want to be on the site messaging, so he thinks the SB wants to get communication off the site.

    In any event, if you can’t exchange at least a couple of messages on SA, I’d question motivation of the SD!

  128. @Latin

    Comprendo su perspectivo pero estoy muy cuidado porque tengo que miedo que estas poco más loca que mío ;p.

    Honestly, people will understand what they wish to understand. Most default to majority or dominant perspective as relative to their own experiences. Some simply don’t know any differently. What I know of the Latin experience and many other experiences is starkly different from what’s spewed about this blog. Candidly speaking, it saddens me to read some of the comments on blog as I feel that there comes a point where ignorance is a choice. But alas, bliss is in the eye of the beholder, says the crazy water buffalo bitch :).

  129. PimpinSD says:

    @YGTBKM
    “Yes, daddy. Face-fuck me, please.”

    I don’t think I’ll ever be that drunk.

  130. a latin opinion says:

    Lol good nigh Neo

  131. RookieSD says:

    @Latin
    Good night legs…

  132. a latin opinion says:

    Hi everyone, hope you all had a great day!

    As I have said a million times, what I said in here, is my opinion, and nothing more. Of course my opinion will be intrinsically link to my background and beliefs but I already know that’s not important.

    So again, if an OPINION that differs from you guys is stupid, wrong etc so be it, (-: sorry again, I personally try to hear other people out for more that my opinion differ from theirs.

    @Maggie soy un poco cuidadosa con mi información personal y aunq no se de que parte de Colombia eres pero por lo menos te puedo decir que somos hermanas. Me interesa mucho lo que dices, en tu opinion he de alguna manera denigrado o ofendido a la mujer latina en alguno de mis comentarios? siendo un poco mas especifica a la mujer sudamericana?. Solo para poner a un lado la preyorativa de si soy una mujer sumisa dominada por el hombre, te explico que no, no lo soy. Siempre que escribo lo hago con un tono de broma, haciendo un chiste de los argumentos con que aqui se hablan. Me entiendes? Nunca ofendo ni intimido, solo bromeo.

    (-;

    Good nigh guys.

  133. RookieSD says:

    @YGTBKM
    I think your face has been fucked up enough.

  134. crazy bitch says:

    “PimpinSD says:
    February 23, 2015 at 9:52 pm
    @YGTBKM
    No, holy buffalo. Her words should inspire you.”

    Yes, daddy. Face-fuck me, please.

  135. flyR says:

    @SEXY – good luck

  136. PimpinSD says:

    @YGTBKM
    No, holy buffalo. Her words should inspire you.

  137. sexyrockstar says:

    I can’t wait to see drummer tomorrow.

    I am going to let him face fuck me so hard tomorrow.

    I hope everyone is having a fun sugar filled week

  138. PimpinSD says:

    @YGTBKM
    “Wanna play glory hole?”

    I’m not sure we could find a booth large enough to accommodate your dimensions, maybe a stable would be the right setting.
    But to be honest the circumstances that have exposed you as a fraud has caused my manhood to go limp.

    @GeorgiaPeach
    “Perhaps we should chat/text sometime. I can think of a lot of better places to place a tongue. I’m just sayin’.”

    If you can somehow wrestle the “crazy bitch” title from YGTBKM, I will consider it.

  139. Josh says:

    Gift from a POT?

  140. ErikTheRed says:

    Are we talking about Kevlar implants or distractions that might the other side pause for a moment and thereby giving our warrioress an edge in pumping bullets delivering hydrostatic shock?

  141. Maggie S says:

    @Pimpin needs a hard sexting now to take all his frustration with YGBKM!!! hehehehe!!

  142. Maggie S says:

    @Josh: baby, well…these days I received a first gift… guess it’s something good :)

  143. Josh says:

    We were talking about women in military…check this out.

    Women can get boob jobs if you can convince your primary care doctor that you have esteem issues related to small boobage…

  144. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Pimpin
    Perhaps we should chat/text sometime. I can think of a lot of better places to place a tongue. I’m just sayin’.

  145. @Pimpin

    Wanna play glory hole?

  146. Josh says:

    Hahahahaha!!!

  147. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Pimpin
    “don’t believe I’ll ever be able to get past that face. My hopes and dreams of having a sexting relationship with you have been destroyed.”
    So, you prefer sexting with those who do not have their tongue in their nose?

  148. PimpinSD says:

    @YGTBKM

    Damn, I was so in love with your persona, but don’t believe I’ll ever be able to get past that face. My hopes and dreams of having a sexting relationship with you have been destroyed.

  149. Josh says:

    @y do you have tongue in your nose?

  150. “PimpinSD says:
    February 23, 2015 at 5:18 pm
    @YGTBKM

    I used to imagine visualizing you something in the likeness of your current gravatar, but upon analysis of your recent comments me thinks you probably look more like a water buffalo.”

    Whatever turns you on, daddy.

  151. Josh says:

    @Maggie S

    @joshie!! even if you’re a proxy’s proxy of yourself, I don’t care, I’m still thinking you’re God hehehe!!”

    Awwww!!! and how are your sugar happenings dear?

  152. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “@FatBastard

    Are you the male “proxy” of Y? You two sound similar in your incoherent comments.”

    That would be a great insult to @FB, but a great honor for @y.

  153. Josh says:

    yougottabekiddingme says:
    February 23, 2015 at 3:48 pm
    The ineptitude…how is it possible in such abundance, in such dense consolidation? What wastes of carbon. May the octopii rule the world.

    SouthernSB says:
    February 23, 2015 at 4:16 pm
    @y-not having much luck, huh?

    yougottabekiddingme says:
    February 23, 2015 at 4:50 pm
    @southern
    What do you mean?

    @SouthernSB means that you are not having much luck writing coherently. 😉

  154. PimpinSD says:

    @YGTBKM

    I used to imagine visualizing you something in the likeness of your current gravatar, but upon analysis of your recent comments me thinks you probably look more like a water buffalo.

  155. “FunDude says:
    February 23, 2015 at 4:53 pm
    @FatBastard

    Are you the male “proxy” of Y? You two sound similar in your incoherent comments.”

    I find it intriguing that you are a brain surgeon and rocket scientist, and Josh is Guru Lord of the Flies, yet both of you struggle with comprehension. How did you ever achieve such status?

  156. “Rich and wealthy are relative.”

    Very true. Am sometimes surprised by what some consider rich and wealthy. Though poor is also relative.

  157. FunDude says:

    @FatBastard

    Are you the male “proxy” of Y? You two sound similar in your incoherent comments.

    @FlyBoy

    Good analysis. I’ve noticed that “slut” women will often try to play the asexual act when a dude has money.

    They think if they “look good” they will obtain the man’s interest. Crazy stuff.

  158. @southern

    What do you mean?

  159. KennaKenna says:

    Rich and Wealthy are relative.

  160. KennaKenna says:

    @FlyBoy you share similar point of views to my SD- you guys speak in that cocky, jerky way which I admit is somewhat sexy.

    I will say this though- Rich and Wealthy is relative.

  161. FlyBoy says:

    I have no idea why I used “misnomer”, I should have used “myth”.

    Sorry guys :)

  162. FlyBoy says:

    @Catcher-22

    There is a funny misnomer that is widely subscribed to by the unprivileged classes. That misnomer is as follows; If a man is wealthy, he shall induce a “pussy riot” in front of his dwellings.

    Alas, that is not true at all. I say alas, because I myself am a wealthy man, yet I have not seen this “riot”, nor have I seen it in front of any dwellings occupied by my many wealthy friends.

    As strange as it may sound, wealth is a complicating factor in dating that must dealt with delicately. Case in point, a slut who has been riding the cock carousal for years will cross her legs as soon as a wealthy man says, hello. A good girl will start wearing a chastity belt. Why? Simple, they will want marriage, therefore the whole good girl Shtick! The best a wealthy man can do, and I say this as a successful alpha man, is to trap a woman for several months who will fuck him when he want in the hopes that something emotional will develop. Also, dating a normal, middle class girl by a wealthy man, is indistinguishable from sugar. The girl has to be provided for to keep up with the lifestyle.

    But there is something deeper here. It is well known that women are animated by their emotions. However what is little known is that men are animated by their insecurities. And there is no grander male insecurity that money.

    So here we are. Let’s make a pact, you little ones can continue to berate the girls for wanting stuff, and being “entitled”. However, have the common courtesy to let us big ones tell them that there are some of us on here, although admittedly not many. DEAL!

    You are Welcome :)

    PS BTW, you inadvertently made my case. If this was a proper forum platform, you could have linked to this “Beck” thing and demonstrated to the others that our style is identical. Alas, no such thing exist. So all the others are left with, is the sicking suspicion that your are nothing but an envious city bus driver :) Or perhaps, a sanitation worker!

  163. SouthernSB says:

    @y-not having much luck, huh?

  164. elle_em says:

    @FlyBoy HAHA thanks for the boobies comment that was a bit hysterical. Yes of course I do have a healthy dose of patience I just get annoyed with an SD who has the balls to favorite someone yet not actually want to communicate.

  165. The ineptitude…how is it possible in such abundance, in such dense consolidation? What wastes of carbon. May the octopii rule the world.

  166. Maggie S says:

    Hey guys! long time no see!!
    @a latin opinion: dear…where are you from?
    I’m worried about the way you express yourself about latinas… I’m a latina, and I’m sorry, I disagree… but maybe knowing a little bit from you can help me to understand why did you say all of those things…
    @joshie!! even if you’re a proxy’s proxy of yourself, I don’t care, I’m still thinking you’re God hehehe!!
    @FunDude: kisses for you!!! :* :* :* :* :*
    @Rookie: hi…(wink, wink)

  167. Promise says:

    @Catcher-22 What’s a Pussy Riot?

  168. elle_em says:

    I’m headed out for now but if you have any advice on what to improve profile wise or even improve what I initially say to an SD through messaging I would appreciate it. My full length picture I have on my page is only from November and I have lost 14lbs since then and I keep losing more so that is something I am currently working on.

  169. FlyBoy says:

    I can tell @elle_em why you are not doing well.

    They favorite you because you are irresistible, especially to a man who likes hefty women (Those boobies of yours are just heaven :) Then they read your profile and BOOM!!

    You are too fucking intelligent. Meaning the BMW is in the shop and that’s why I’m driving a 1999 pickup truck, or telling you he doesn’t like money int the relationship, that he wants to pamper you in normal way while inviting you to Outback on a GroupON coupon is shit that will probably not work on you.

    Your choices are:
    – Write like an airhead to attract the little ones.
    – Wait for BigBoy who is not intimidated by a little nurse, even though she’s cute and intelligent.

    You are Welcome

  170. FatB'StardSA Proxy says:

    @Catcher-22

    It seems that Beck has decided to start posting on the blog again :-).

    Have a nice day :-).

  171. elle_em says:

    Neither can I, I went back and checked they are all paid profiles and two of them also gave me access to their pictures. Yet nothing has come to fruition. As I stated before when I contact them I in no way ask for anything. I just really want to try get to know a little something to see if we have that initial connection to move towards a phone call or more.

  172. FatB'StardSA Proxy says:

    @FlyBoy

    “Was your education of lower class, I wonder?”

    Yes.

  173. FatB'StardSA Proxy says:

    @FunDude

    Unfortunately I can’t shut up since I am not SPEAKING to you. I am POSTING on an Internet blog comments area. I can be asked to ceases posting, which I won’t, but I can certainly NOT be asked to shut up. Something that can NOT be done by design.

    Was your education of lower class, I wonder?

  174. Josh says:

    @elle_em

    I can’t put a finger on why they are favoriting you and then not responding.

  175. elle_em says:

    Thank you here it is. ec1daa0d

  176. Josh says:

    @elle_em

    The bold part would be your profile id.

    []https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ecfa967b/view?conversation-inbox[]

  177. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Kenna
    But of course, PLEASE check with your doctor first to make sure that the Ginger stuff is ok. I am not a doctor, nor have I ever played one on TV. LOL

  178. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KennaKenna
    You might also search for a non-alcoholic Ginger Beer.. Ginger is known for it’s anti-nausea qualities. If I get an upset stomach, many times a warm Ginger Tea will settle things down. Years ago one of my friends was carrying twins, she about lived on Ginger Beer and crackers, only way she stopped tossing food.Ginger, be it in the form of ginger ale, tea, or even raw, is almost a guarantee to help stop nausea in its tracks. Ginger promotes the secretion of various digestive juices/enzymes that help neutralize stomach acid. It also contains phenols that relax stomach muscles and act similar to a sedative on irritated stomach tissue, reducing over activity of the stomach. At the same time, the phenols are helping your intestine move digested food and toxins through your system quicker, getting any bad stuff that may be making you feel ill pass faster. You can take it in capsule form, nibble the root raw, or grate some into a soothing soup. Personally, if it’s possible, I find fresh tea or ginger ale (the real stuff) to be the best way to calm an upset stomach. []www. http://everydayroots.com/nausea-remedies%5B%5D

  179. elle_em says:

    @online – Okay I have no misconception on thinking every SD I contact will want to respond but as of late I have only been trying to contact those that have “Favorited” me. Thank you also for the information on to which one can message. I was unaware of that, now I know.

    @Josh I am unsure exactly what the profile ID is, would it be something unique in the address?

  180. Catcher-22 says:

    @FatB: Hey, what do you suppose ever happened to Beck, the NYC SD who claimed on the blog that his practice is to present POT SBs $1500 at first meet dinner dates and that he spends about $20 K to $25 K a month on his SB. He also claimed it was normal for him to spend $1500 for dinner for two at a good restaurant.

    The last I heard of Beck was that after his blog postings a full battalion of NYPD had to be sent to his residence to quell a Pussy Riot at his front door :-)

  181. FunDude says:

    @Fatty

    He is right to complain about the message boards.

    Shut the fuck up if you have nothing productive to add to the conversation.

    Thanks

  182. RookieSD says:

    “Coast Guard”

  183. RookieSD says:

    @Southern
    “saltine crackers”
    That must be an old Navy trick for sea sickness, cause back when I was in the Cause Guard last century that’s what they told me to eat when I got sick the first time out on the ocean.

  184. FlyBoy says:

    Fatty, unfortunately I can’t shut up since I am not SPEAKING to you. I am POSTING on an Internet blog comments area. I can be asked to ceases posting, which I won’t, but I can certainly NOT be asked to shut up. Something that can NOT be done by design.

    Was your education of lower class, I wonder?

    In all seriousness though, and after you have confessed to your low origin and current status, I shall ceases to engage with you, even when you do. You know, pigs, wrestling, mud and all that.

    You are Welcome … <- Is this what gets on your nerve lol

  185. SouthernSB says:

    Kenna-try switching out the bread for saltine crackers, crackers work better than bread for nausea. Eat the crackers with nothing on them.

  186. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy

    “but I thought I’d spare the ladies!!!”

    Hmmm, what does that mean?

  187. FlyBoy says:

    Of course, I could have used a sanitation worker instead, but I thought I’d spare the ladies!!!

  188. FatB'StardSA Proxy says:

    @FlyBoy

    Seems like you have identified a big error in the SA marketing strategy. You could create a SA competitor with the added marketing power of a forum and take over the SD/SB online dating market for yourself!

    You could also just STFU!

    Have a nice day :-).

    P.S. I am low class (financially and socially), but you are an unoriginal asshole!

  189. FlyBoy says:

    God forbid, josh. God forbid … :)

    It was merely an example .. lol

  190. Josh says:

    Are you saying that FB is more like a city bus driver?

  191. KennaKenna says:

    @Georgia Feeling the same, hired a trainer today and went to the doc. I’m basically living on ginger ale, bread and fresh fruit right now.

  192. SouthernSB says:

    @Kenna-Hi girl, how’s the morning sickness?

  193. FlyBoy says:

    Come to think of it Josh, Fat is whack. I should have taken my time to answer him, but the name calling which I thought we took care of amicably in the clown suit incident, got to me.

    A city bus driver does indeed think of paying for things and whether it’s a waste or not. However, an investor ALWAYS thinks along relative lines. To wit, an investor would have asked; Is a community of users and a growing searchable database of knowledge about the bowl worth an hour of my sysadmins time. My whole post was say ….. DUH

    Off course, let’s not forget that Fat might have been thinking about money junkies who are indeed, penny wise and pound foolish.

    You are Welcome :)

  194. FlyBoy says:

    @KennaKenna, Thank you darling :)

  195. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KennaKenna
    I think @FlyBoy knows this, ie, “FatB'”… LOL
    How are you feeling this aftrn?

  196. SouthernSB says:

    ONSB-No, I’m not putting stay at home mom as my occupation. That would be hilarious though.

  197. KennaKenna says:

    @Flyboy waste* not waist

  198. Josh says:

    Knowing the kinds of numbers he throws on the blog, you can call him low class as he will not stop calling you an asshole. 😉

    Have an nice lay!

  199. FlyBoy says:

    Sorry Fatty, I misread your post.

    A real investor would not waist money according to you, even if it were an hour of his sysadmin time. OK, fair enough!

    What about all the bandwidth that is being wasted every time someone hits the refresh button. A forum software is designed to mitigate this problem. Bandwidth is cheap, but not free.

    Yes, You are Welcome :)

  200. Josh says:

    Hahahaha!

  201. FlyBoy says:

    How would you know Fatty, after all if you were a REAL investor you wouldn’t be here according to your logic, and if you are not, how would you know what a REAL investor does, or doesn’t do?!!!!!!!

    You are very Welcome

    PS I don’t know who you are, but calling people names is a behavior associated with the lower classes.

  202. FatB'StardSA Proxy says:

    @FlyBoy

    A real investor would not bother spending money/effort on a forum to satisfy the 10 or so OCD blog posters who constantly ask for one.

    Have a nice day :-).

    P.S. You really are an unoriginal asshole.

  203. Josh says:

    @elle_em

    Building on what @ONSD said above, unless you post your profile id, we will never know if there’s anything in your profile that’s causing them not to respond to you.

  204. Promise says:

    @ONSD What does it mean if they ask for your number right away?

  205. FlyBoy says:

    There is something that has been bugging me about this place!!!

    To the management of SA: Why aren’t you using forum software?

    I have not sysadmin since I sold my first business years ago. Therefore, I checked the web to see if anything changed. Sure enough, like I suspected, it is much easier to setup a forum than it was back then. Even a mediocre sysadmin can set one up in a hour. And it’s free software to boot (The one I checked is phpBB).

    So why haven’t you set up a forum for SA?

    Verily, this is mismanagement on an unfathomable scale. Companies spend millions in advertising and incentives to create a community around their brand and product. Yet here we are struggling with shit software that was meant to handle a few comments on a specific blog article.

    More to the point, this format encourages trivial banter. For I am not going to spend an hour writing something of substance, only to have it buried when a new blog article comes out. Only to then see new users asking about, what I and others have already answered. Lacking this capability means we always go back to the beginning with each article. Rendering this community ineffective to all the other users. After a while, dealing with the same subjects without the ability on build on what came before, leads to the blog becoming very boring to those who participate in it. Thus, you lose your senior members who are most capable of helping new ones.

    Again, this is mismanagement on an ginormous scale. If I were an investor in this company, I would be at the headquarters putting people down the trash shoot.

    You are Welcome :(

  206. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @elle_em – first thing is to take a look at their “status”…if they are a “Standard” SD, they have no messaging capability, they can’t even read the messages you send them, until they purchase a membership.

    If this is the case, you may have a ‘fine’ profile, it’s just not enough to make them compelled to rejoin the site to connect with you. If they are paying for membership and not responding to a message you send them, it’s that they’re not interested…sad, but it happens…

  207. Promise says:

    @ONSD LOL Yeah.

  208. elle_em says:

    I would like some advice if possible. How does one go about contacting a POT SD? I am getting profile views and having SD’s favorite me yet when I reach out to them all I get back is crickets. No I am not asking for anything either. I just mention something in their profile that may have caught my eye. Is it possibly something in my profile or am I just not saying what they want to hear initially?

  209. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Promise – that has little to do with anything…my comment was about representing yourself with clothes for your shape/size. There are very attractive women who could be considered “plus-size” who look like total whores with the way they dress…or they just look like complete idiots because they dress for the 10+ years younger their friends tell them they look.

    You should ALWAYS endeavor to underpromise and overdeliver in Sugar…better to advertise yourself as “A few extra pounds” and have someone say, ‘you’re not really that big, I consider you average’ than to list yourself as “Average” and have a ton of people scream “HEY FATTY, CHANGE YOUR PROFILE!!! YOU’RE FAR FROM AVERAGE”

    See what I mean?

  210. Promise says:

    @ONSD The lighting in my house is horrible which is why I don’t have a full body photo up yet even though I have a full length mirror. Next time my cousin comes over I’m gonna ask her to take one for me outside. Idk if this means anything, but I can definitely see my vagina when I look down with zero effort.

  211. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Southern – Your issue is easily fixed…if none are at home, you have no kids (in my opinion)…if a SD asks how you got to your age without having kids, you can talk about your kids being grown…but my guess is that issue won’t come up.

    If that is too dishonest for you, you can list your kids, and in your profile make a comment about feeling happy they are well adjusted and out of your hair so you have no childcare commitments…that might go a long way for a SD who would view no kids at your age as a “yeah, right…what else is she lying about”.

    You’re not listing your occupation as “Stay at Home Mom” are you?

  212. SouthernSB says:

    I signed up for the Selective Service when I turned 19. I’m not sure if the application still has it, but back when it first came out every Selective Service application had a box for both male and female. My sister, my cousin and I all filled up the application at the post office, back in 1982. I come from a big time Army family which is why when my time came to sign up I went for the Navy. They ended up kicking me out due to the fact that I had a congenital heart condition, but I still signed up, just like my sister did (she went Army and was in the first gulf war).

  213. SouthernSB says:

    @ONSB-I never know how to answer the children question as my only child is grown. If I say I don’t have children I’d be lying, if I put down the number of children I have I feel like it would be a liability due to the fact that whoever is looking will think I have a teenager in my house, and if I say, “Prefer not To Say,” they will still think I have a kid and I just don’t want to talk about it. So I wish SA had a button for “Adult children not living at home.”

  214. FunDude says:

    @ Latin

    Yes “machismo” culture is VERY alive in Latin society. There is no “chivalry” or other type of concepts that is common in the Anglo world.

    They are far more “male” dominated

    @Sexy

    I think women should be signed up for selective service as well.

    To say women are too “weak” is demeaning. If we are trying to establish that women are “equal” to men, we can’t coddle them and call them too “weak” to be in the

  215. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    Finally, as far as specific weight to height ratio…THIS is why a full body picture, without being a weird angle, is so important!

    I’ve seen a 5’6″ 165 pound woman look hot as hell with muscle tone as an athlete, but I’ve also seen a 5’6″ 165 pound woman look like she should be shopping at Lane Bryant. Muscle definition can be sexy, but Hans & Frans body builder is far from it…

  216. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    If your occupation is “Stay at Home Mom” why would you list children as “Prefer Not to Say”…you’ve told the pot you’re a mom…OWN IT!

  217. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    Just saw a profile, new to my search…

    “I don’t do tricks without treats” — really? nothing SCREAMS escort like that statement!

  218. sexyrockstar says:

    @y

    I know that as I mentioned that at the end. But Latin said if women go, they will die because they’re not strong. It was pretty offensive. Also like saying how every one who died in war, they died because they weren’t strong.

    Pretty sure my friend will that died at 19 years old didn’t die because he wasn’t strong. He died from carrying two men to safety. And was shot.

    A lot of people come on this blog and wonder why they are not having success in the sugar bowl. All it takes is one ignorant comment for a POT to say ‘ bye Felicia ‘

    She understands what she said was wrong and disrespectful.

  219. “Josh says:
    February 23, 2015 at 9:13 am
    @y, say what?”

    Don’t worry about it, babe. All is well that ends well.

  220. “Josh says:
    February 23, 2015 at 6:56 am
    @Sexy

    “In the military, we don’t die for our country, we fight for our country. The ones who go to die, will die. It’s a mind set.”

    Correct. Mind set or attitude is the key.”

    With all due respect…

    People go to war to fight for their country, they go in with the mindset to win, and some of them (too many) die anyway.

    When it comes to mindset, it’s more to do with the mindset of the government who sent them to war in the first place.

  221. Josh says:

    @y, say what?

  222. “yougottabekiddingme says:
    February 23, 2015 at 6:32 am
    @Sexy

    Careful…Josh might mistake you a feminist, and hold you accountable for the decline in civilization.”

    “OnlineNewbieSD says:
    February 23, 2015 at 6:47 am
    @YGBKM – @Sexy isn’t a feminist, she’s an empowered woman…with a brain…there’s a HUGE difference”

    “Josh says:
    February 23, 2015 at 7:18 am
    @OnlineNewbieSD

    “@YGBKM – @Sexy isn’t a feminist, she’s an empowered woman…with a brain…there’s a HUGE difference”

    Bingo! And she rocks…”

    It matters not how one comes to understand, but that they understand. Way to go guys :).

  223. ErikTheRed says:

    @kenna

    This might be a unique time in life when ingesting extra carb and animal fat thereby gaining a few pounds would be advantageous: the developing fetal brain needs fat and will scrub fat from the mom’s rear end. That’s the evolutionary purpose of that beautiful rear end and why men are attracted to round ass on women and its proxy the big boobs. Take care :-)

  224. Josh says:

    @OnlineNewbieSD

    “@YGBKM – @Sexy isn’t a feminist, she’s an empowered woman…with a brain…there’s a HUGE difference”

    Bingo! And she rocks…

  225. Josh says:

    @Sexy

    “In the military, we don’t die for our country, we fight for our country. The ones who go to die, will die. It’s a mind set.”

    Correct. Mind set or attitude is the key.

  226. a latin opinion says:

    @fd I think I miss something, the gringas open the door for guys? I dont know about that, What I know is about my close experience. Being a latin person living in a latin country for 30 years before coming to the US. And yes machismo is almost plural of latin males in lot of our countries. What do you think I always say over and over, machismo is as bad as feminism, they both make no sense to me.

    When did I said that machismo has died in our society?

  227. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @YGBKM – @Sexy isn’t a feminist, she’s an empowered woman…with a brain…there’s a HUGE difference 😉

  228. @Sexy

    Careful…Josh might mistake you a feminist, and hold you accountable for the decline in civilization.

  229. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    WOW…missed a lot over the weekend!

    I’m very surprised and disappointed in the SB bloggers for missing my original comment about @Kenna and taking what seems to be days to key in on the issue…but it seems there was some major debate happening, so forgiven.

    I also think there is a much more base argument to be made about SUGAR…women who are well put together publicly (dress properly for their size, activity, environment, etc), take care of themselves, have a smile on their face, exude positive energy, can be flirtatious without being a whore, and understand the concept of discretion will do VERY WELL.

    It doesn’t matter about RACE, BUILD, AGE, HAIRCOLOR, LOCATION, etc.

    What does matter is that you understand your potential audience, build your profile for that audience and don’t get discouraged by the assholes that degrade you about any of the classification issues above.

    While it does go both ways in this situation, it is the sole responsibility of the SB to make things “perfect” for the SD. I say it like this because the financial portion of the ‘mutually beneficial’ has more to do with life than the sex…it’s blunt, but it’s true.

    Here’s the skinny, ladies…

    FIX YOUR PROFILE OF TYPOS, BAD GRAMMAR, PUT SOME ACTUAL THOUGHT INTO THE WORDS, SAY SOMETHING TO YOUR POTENTIAL SD. THEN, FIX YOUR PICS BY ELIMINATING SLUTTY PICS, MORE THAN ONE HEADSHOT, OBVIOUS MAGAZINE PICS, GET AT LEAST ONE FULL-BODY STANDING PIC.

    Sorry that was all caps, but it needs to be said in as blunt a way as possible.

    And, if you think the SD needs to be “perfect” for you, more power to you…but understand you may wait longer than you’d like for perfection…there’s probably another SB out there just like you that has done things “perfect” and will get the ‘mutually beneficial’ thing started before you.

    Okay, busy day today, but I’ll try to check back to see the barrage I’m going to get about this post!

  230. Josh says:

    @GradGirl

    Please allow me to introduce the current lay of the land here.

    It is very easy to make “blog buddies”. Type something that supports the fantasy SBs live in. You’ll get you instant accolades and buddies.

    On the other hand, if you posted something that is based on ground reality and makes logical sense, then…you will accused of being yet another @Josh proxy. 😉

  231. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “the WOMEN hold the door open for the men in that part of town.”

    This his how most of the world is.

    Personally, I have no interest in either men or women opening door for me or me opening door for men or women. This idiotic concept of men opening door for women is just that, idiotic.

    That said, I have no problem opening door for little children, elderly, sick or handicap, whether they are men or women.

    This idea of men opening door for women and…drum roll please…women even EXPECTING that men do that for them is one of the areas, I was referring to earlier, where women expect men to cut them slack.

  232. FlyBoy says:

    Hi GradGirl, welcome to the circus! enjoy :)

  233. Promise says:

    I gotta leave for school in 20 minutes. So here I am

  234. FunDude says:

    @Latin

    What you say about Latin countries is basically nonsense.

    The “Machismo” culture is alive and well. In Texas (Mexican areas), I have “gringo” female patients that actually have informed me that the WOMEN hold the door open for the men in that part of town.

  235. GradGirl says:

    Just saying Good Morning. I have been on SA for awhile, but never made blog buddies. Now I am sitting here avoiding a Pharmacology paper and thought “well why not”.

  236. a latin opinion says:

    got you @sexy, sorry again.

  237. sexyrockstar says:

    @Latin
    No one cares about your background. Yes, women should and do have the same responsibilities as men.

    Man or woman. …. if they are obligated to go to war….heh if they don’t have the right mind -set they will die. In the military, we don’t die for our country, we fight for our country. The ones who go to die, will die. It’s a mind set.

    I have many friends who died in the war, none of them were female. None of them were weak. But they never went to go die for their country. I hope this makes sense.

  238. a latin opinion says:

    Sorry I have to go to bed, hope you understand what I was trying to said and that’s never my intention to ofend. I talk from a place of love lol I swear! (-:

  239. a latin opinion says:

    @sexy sorry, it wasn’t my intention, I was meant to be funny for the @fd comment about being a mistake giving the right to women to vote without asking then to the mandatory military service. I got your point, when I say weak I don’t say it in a offensive way. Me myself tried to going the oficial part of the army in my country (wasn’t accepted because a tatto I had at the moment) and personally dont allow any guy to mistreat me because he is stronger but what FD was saying was that women should have the same exact military responsibilities as men because they can vote. When we have a better and greater roll, we are the only ones bless with the gift of have descendes. Which after a war thag by the way will be most of the time men fault, will come handy. You understand my point now?

    Im so sorry if in some way I offend you. Is not my intention, less than all to you.

    If I talk I do it from my heart and I try very hard to be respectful. Im latin, black, I have kids, I have been call and take for gay just because I wont likely show weekness. To give you an example, in all my life I have been involve in around 6 physical fights I believe, they have all been with guys, (less 1) and they ALL have been because those guys were harming inocent/weaker people. I dont see my self as weak for being a woman but is a physical thing that if I go to war because my country obligate me, most of us will die and wont we a faster way to fix things back after war is over. (Guys knows about wars not about families, see my point?)

  240. sexyrockstar says:

    @Latin

    Your last comment was really offensive. I was in the Marine Corps. Women who are weak are weak in the head. I know females that would destroy any man.

  241. a latin opinion says:

    Hi guys! Enjoyed the Oscar? Good conversation today guys! Keep up with the good work. (-: lol

    Legend and Common are sooo sexy!

    Color and Religion are subjects with a high complexity, so I try to be as respectful as possible and don’t mess with things I don’t fully understand.

    That being said:

    *50 pregnant women waiting for the check up, 37 are hispanic, 7 black, 2 whithe and the rest other ethnicities.

    *Most Hispanic think that showing respect to other cultures/ways of living/ religions is the correct thing to do, actually most of the time the lack of respect/understanding will be link to a lack of edation. ( We REALLY believe you can be whatever you want, our food, women and music will be better lol, we poor bastards)

    *Venezuela in this moments gets along with whoever hate US, most of Venezuelan people, not government people, don’t like that fact.

    *Latin like love, food, party, Islam is to oppressive for us. @josh Hispanic will go and show their our women and then of course make love, then some drinks, party, food, more love, you know where Im going lol soner than later they will forgot about war.

    *Love fix everything guys, if you believe you are the best and only one, you will be always fighting.

    *If you accept others with an open mind will be most of time too worry fucking and eating to thing in war.

    I love Sean Peann so fu&#@ sexy!

    *I know a couple of latin women married to muslins in around 3 years those guys become WAY less extremist and a lot more respectful and open to other cultures. (You should already know how we do it) we fuck them, we feed them and yes, about the salsa they wont learn how to dance but I assure you they will starting to like our music (we translate those sweet words of love and sing then close to their ears and dance around while cooking and cleaning lol)

    *I will never ask jews to forget and forgive, neither I will do that with blacks, gays, Muslims etc I just go show that I respect them, smile to them, so far always work.

    *If we send woman to war, they will die first because we are weaker, then less posibilities to repopulate. Societies that had tried that approach have failed.

  242. KennaKenna says:

    @Josh

    I have no appetite and nauseous all the time. Eggs are a no-no right now, even though I usually love eggs but just the smell of them makes me what to throw up.

  243. Promise says:

    @Josh I was just about to offer her my weight.

  244. Josh says:

    @Kenna

    Your weight challenge is easier than @Promise’s.

    To start off, eat as many eggs and bananas as you can eat.

    Then comes steak, fish and chicken. 😉

  245. sexyrockstar says:

    @kenna
    I’ll fatten you up. Lol.

  246. Promise says:

    @Sexy Since December. I didn’t go on for about a week because I was working on a possible internship (still am), but I’ve been more free for now.

  247. KennaKenna says:

    I’ve lost 6 pounds, I honestly look like a stick. :(

  248. sexyrockstar says:

    @promise

    How long have you been on SA? I think in my first month I had like two dates a week

  249. KennaKenna says:

    @Promise even though I have a license, I don’t drive. It all depends on where you live, I use ubers, taxis, etc.

  250. Promise says:

    @Josh Thank you.

  251. Josh says:

    @sexyrockstar

    “@Georgia
    Yes actually. Josh had a lot to do with it. I’m forever grateful.”

    Awwwww. 😉

  252. Promise says:

    @Sexy I haven’t met anyone yet, but I’ve spoken with a few people. Haven’t spoken with anyone recently though. Thank you for the concern and advice.

  253. Josh says:

    @Promise,

    Explore something like this []http://drivingfearhelp.com/[]

  254. sexyrockstar says:

    @Georgia

    Yes actually. Josh had a lot to do with it. I’m forever grateful.

    @promise
    I just hope you’re not letting POTs pick you up. Huge mistake. Safety first

  255. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    I made the revisions. 😉
    Waiting for approval now.

  256. Promise says:

    @Josh I’m aware. My mom talks to me about getting my license everyday. My school is gonna teach lessons in the Spring and after talking with y’all I’m considering it.

  257. Promise says:

    @Sexy I do fine when I’m in a car with a driver I know and trust. Crossing streets is the hardest thing for me. I can only do it while holding someones hand.
    @Georgia Peach I also do Blogilates. Cassey really kicks my ass.

  258. Josh says:

    @Promise, many potential SBs don’t realize that this is NOT a dating site. SDs here, whether they are married or just tired of other types or relationships, want something easy and fun.

  259. Promise says:

    @Josh even if I had a license my mom is a single mother so we only have one car. If you knew all the other shit in my life you would drop my friend. Lol

  260. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Sexy
    Hi. Sounds like you’re back with Drummer?

  261. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Promise
    Have you checked internet to see if there are some free exercise videos or such that might help? Or one of your gf’s maybe could come over and be a weight loss buddy with you? My local church has a weight loss thing going on now called The Daniel Plan… anything you do will help, but you gotta move and you gotta cut back. This isn’t my first weight loss rodeo, so I know it’s not easy but I know you can do it!

  262. Josh says:

    Eggs are your friend…one of the best forms of protein there is. 😉

  263. sexyrockstar says:

    @promise
    Sorry to hear that, but how are you going to meet POTs if you’re scared of cars?

  264. Josh says:

    Hmmm, so the SD not only has to pay you allowance, he will have to give you a ride every time you me him. You’re dealing with a lot of physical, mental and logistic shit girl. It’s NOT going to be easy.

  265. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    “I’m not a doctor, I just play one on TV
    Really a male giggalo that is looking for a woman to support me.”

    Cute. Wow, you do have a sense of humor. Now I am really impressed.
    Now if we could just teach you to spell, “gigolo.” LOL
    And look no further. I’m your lady. When can you fly back to Atlanta?

  266. Promise says:

    @Josh I had eggs this morning.

  267. Promise says:

    @Josh I honestly don’t have a license. When I was about 3 or 4 I was hit and run over by a car. Since then I’m not comfortable in cars.

  268. Josh says:

    Are you allergic to eggs?

  269. Josh says:

    Are you telling me that you don’t have the ride to go to the mall?

  270. Promise says:

    @Josh That protein part is actually kinda funny because I actually have anemia. At the same time the meat within my budget has some preservatives that I’m allergic to so it’s hard for me to get the protein I need.

  271. FunDude says:

    I’m not a doctor, I just play one on TV

    Really a male giggalo that is looking for a woman to support me.

  272. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    I changed that to the first one you said. Just approved.

  273. Promise says:

    @Josh I actually typically walk about twice everyday, but because of all the snow and also people just not shoveling their sidewalks I really can’t. I tried, and got splashed by a lot of cars driving by.

  274. Promise says:

    @Georgia Peach Something brand new.

  275. Josh says:

    That’s great.

    Walking is another good one. Go window shopping in the mall for hour or two…

    You need to reduce carb and increase protein intake. Also the quantity. 😉

  276. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Promise
    Are you saying you want to try something “brand new”? Or simply something you haven’t tried in a long time? LOL. I can think of several things in either category for myself. LOL Where’s a good doctor when you need one? He’d be a good one for this.

  277. Promise says:

    @Josh Snow shoveling is a great workout that I’ve taken up since yesterday. Also giving up what I usually reach for for Lent.

  278. Josh says:

    @Promise

    “I think I’m gonna try and change the subject now. What’s something you think new SB’s (such as myself) should try doing?”

    Lose weight?

  279. Promise says:

    I think I’m gonna try and change the subject now. What’s something you think new SB’s (such as myself) should try doing?

  280. Josh says:

    @Dr Ergo cannot be an cardiologist, as he has no heart…

    @Dr Ergo could be a urologist, as he likes to piss people off.

  281. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh @Y
    Hey, I’m trying hard to be nice to FunDude, though I am having a little fun teasing him. I can see he’s trying to be nice, so I will to be nice to him.

  282. FunDude is a brain surgeon. Ergo.

  283. Josh says:

    GeorgiaPeach

    Since he likes to anal-ize, and is independently anal on top of it, my guess is proctologist? 😉

  284. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    If you don’t mind my asking or I apologize if have said before, but exactly what is your medical specialty?

    @Josh
    I’m still working on that other thing. 😉

  285. @Josh

    Thank you, dear.

    Am going to meet some friends (yes, babe, I have a few). Will love you again later. Kisses.

  286. Josh says:

    Awesome babe. That’ll teach him a lesson. 😉

  287. sexyrockstar says:

    Hello guys. Missed you.
    My personal life got a bit hectic.

    @josh
    Miss you

    @struggle
    When will you be in Chicago

    Drummer was so sweet to me this week. We had the best night in together.

  288. @FunDude

    &$&#=%*^£€¥!!!

  289. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “She sounds like she’s out of the psych ward when I did my psych rotations.”

    Ouch!!! But I am confident that you have a psychotic comeback for Ergo, yes babe? 😉

  290. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Yes the pope is afraid of the Muslims. That is why the Muslims will win. They will continue to take over unless there is a massive change in mentality in the West.

    With a feminist Western world, there really is no chance left. The muslims are already putting out videos discussing the “takeover of Rome” and they will “flood the West with Muslims”.

    Qadaffi talked about how there are “signs Islam will take over Europe”. Qadaffi was far less radical compared to ISIS.

    @Y

    I am going to basically ignore you. Are you a female? You are the most irrational poster I have ever seen.

    She sounds like she’s out of the psych ward when I did my psych rotations.

  291. Josh says:

    @yougottabekiddingme

    “Does it frustrate you that you know not how I know what I’m talking about, only that you know that I know what I’m talking about? Don’t fret, babe, real talk.”

    If I felt that you know what you are talking about, I would not worry about it. But you don’t, and your incoherent “advice” can only confuse SBs.

  292. “Josh says:
    February 22, 2015 at 4:00 pm
    @y, you have no experience with sugar.

    Ergo, what’s your reference point when you “advise” SBs about sugar?”

    Does it frustrate you that you know not how I know what I’m talking about, only that you know that I know what I’m talking about? Don’t fret, babe, real talk.

    “Josh says:
    February 22, 2015 at 4:03 pm
    @yougottabekiddingme

    “Yes, the Hispanics should teach the Muslims salsa dance so that the dwarfs can take over the world.”

    ERGO, this makes a lotsa sense indeed.”

    I’m glad that we can agree on something. This is why I love you, and would recycle my virginity for you in a heart beat. Take me, I’m yours. Condoms. No dental dam.

    Don’t tell PimpinSD.

  293. Josh says:

    @yougottabekiddingme

    “Yes, the Hispanics should teach the Muslims salsa dance so that the dwarfs can take over the world.”

    ERGO, this makes a lotsa sense indeed.

  294. Josh says:

    @y, you have no experience with sugar.

    Ergo, what’s your reference point when you “advise” SBs about sugar?

  295. “@y

    “In other words…
    You’re still an idiot, babe.”

    Figures…ERGO…when you don’t have an answer, insult the questioner for daring to ask the question. ”

    Ha. Nice try, babe. It was your dismissive “questioning” that was the attempt to undermine. That you are an idiot is evident in this and many other examples.

    Anyway…

    Yes, the Hispanics should teach the Muslims salsa dance so that the dwarfs can take over the world.

  296. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh @ FunDude
    The first attempted assassination of Pope John Paul II took place on Wednesday, 13 May 1981, in St. Peter’s Square at Vatican City. Two bystanders were also hit by stray assassin’s bullets; Ann Odre, of Buffalo, New York, was struck in the chest, while Rose Hill, of Jamaica, was slightly wounded in the arm. Çelik panicked and fled without setting off his bomb or opening fire.

    Juan María Fernández Krohn is a former Catholic priest and former Spanish lawyer who tried a 2nd attempt to assassinate Pope John Paul II. This time with a bayonet in Fátima, Portugal, May 12, 1982. It is unclear whether he managed to wound the Pope or not

  297. SouthernSB says:

    @FunDude-I don’t understand how people think they can make fun of other people’s gods without the people they are making fun of getting royally pissed off. Hell the Vatican sues Charlie Hebo on a regular basis.

  298. Josh says:

    @y

    “In other words…
    You’re still an idiot, babe.”

    Figures…ERGO…when you don’t have an answer, insult the questioner for daring to ask the question. 😉

  299. In other words…

    You’re still an idiot, babe.

    Pardon me for interrupting your inner dialog.

  300. Promise says:

    @FunDude my mom actually said something similar, and she’s a heavy duty Christian.

  301. “Josh says:
    February 22, 2015 at 3:21 pm
    @yougottabekiddingme

    “I think that the sooner Hispanics start teaching Muslims salsa, the better the world will be.”

    I hope you are talking about the sauce and not the dance. The ISIS savages denounce dance, especially the sexy type AND women cannot mix with men, except those within the extended family.”

    Yes, dear. The dance. You’re almost there. You’re almost there…

  302. Josh says:

    In other words, you have no experience with sugar?

  303. “Josh says:
    February 22, 2015 at 3:10 pm
    @y, how many, if any, sugar arrangements have you had in life and on SA?

    [crickets, yet again????????] ”

    Josh, babe…allow me to share a little of my sugar history.

    I was conceived in a sugar arrangement. Yep, I was born for this. Ever since then, my milkshake’s been bring the boys and their wallets to the yard. I recycled my virginity 17 and a half times, and lost it to a different sugar daddy each time. The half time was P4P. Fifteen thousand dolla holla, mile-high club.

    [whispers]

    but don’t tell PimpinSD.

  304. Josh says:

    @yougottabekiddingme

    “I think that the sooner Hispanics start teaching Muslims salsa, the better the world will be.”

    I hope you are talking about the sauce and not the dance. The ISIS savages denounce dance, especially the sexy type AND women cannot mix with men, except those within the extended family.

  305. SouthernSB says:

    And to think, when I was 15 my mother tried to marry me off to a Middle Eastern dude.

  306. flyR says:

    The feds have a vested interest in population growth in that it is the foundation of the ponzi schemes designed as social welfare programs. Social security, the federal budget , Obamacare all collapse without increasing numbers of productive young people. Unfortunately the most productive are often the lease likely to procreate . Just when you think that’s all the bad news, the rate of folks working off the books is increasing rapidly . In LA it is estimated that 40% of the people are working for cash and it’s not just the illegals.

  307. Josh says:

    @y, how many, if any, sugar arrangements have you had in life and on SA?

    [crickets, yet again????????] 😉

  308. “Hispanics will likely concert to Islam. Look at Venezuela and Iran. Get along very well.”

    I think that the sooner Hispanics start teaching Muslims salsa, the better the world will be.

    I’m picturing Ricky Martin in a hijab. Is that wrong?

  309. “Josh says:

    Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!”

    Try Ha^15 next time. Save yourself a few strokes.

  310. Josh says:

    @Fundude

    ‘He said that if you “insult someone’s religion or mom, expect a punch in the face”. Very Jesus like lol’

    I sympathize with the Pope. I don’t know much about Pope’s security details. The ISIS savages may attack one of them Popes, one of these days. :(

  311. Fellas, fellas, foolish fellas…

    It’s the little people (dwarfs) who will reign. While the idiot pectoralises of the world are pillaging, and tripping over their own pelvic appendages, the little people will be laying low (see what I did there?). Yep. Ergo, your theory is debunked. Next topic.

  312. Josh says:

    @Fundude

    “Y you really don’t say much around here besides illogical gibberish.”

    Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!

    “I’m really trying to understand what you are talking about half the time.”

    You are doing better than me brother. I don’t understand what she is talking about most of the times.

  313. Josh says:

    @y,

    “What I am saying is if that is, in fact, your position, then why such hard-ons when FunDude posts profile info…instead of the reprimand that was delivered to another blogger just recently?”

    What are you referring to, Ergo?

  314. Fundude says:

    The pope even cam out after the French shootings saying that he can understand the Islamic perspective. He said that if you “insult someone’s religion or mom, expect a punch in the face”. Very Jesus like lol

  315. Fundude says:

    Hispanics will likely concert to Islam. Look at Venezuela and Iran. Get along very well.

    As it is, most Hispanics believe in liberation theology. The Hispanic pope is very pro Islam.

  316. Fundude says:

    Y you really don’t say much around here besides illogical gibberish. I’m really trying to understand what you are talking about half the time.

  317. “GeorgiaPeach says:

    …I try to stay off meds and just work thru them, ergo, they don’t often interfere with “other” activities.”

    [whispers]

    don’t tell PimpinSD

    Ergo

  318. Josh says:

    When the kamakazi Muslims eventually invade patriarchal Hispanics, would the latter be able to defend? 😉

  319. “FlyBoy says:
    February 22, 2015 at 2:03 pm
    @Y darling why are you including me in the exposing of profiles. I said it’s impolite and NEVER did it to anyone.”

    “@FlyBoy,

    Methinks, @y now has migrated to @FunDude = @FlyBoy. Ergo that… ”

    What I am saying is if that is, in fact, your position, then why such hard-ons when FunDude posts profile info…instead of the reprimand that was delivered to another blogger just recently? Seems a little hypocritical. No? Or is it a matter of agenda?

    Also…yes, Flyboy. I have already accepted your proposal for GFE, and raised you a mile-high bj. Fifteen thousand dolla holla, love. Where shall I board?

  320. Fundude says:

    When there is no benefit in working for the “beta” male, he will stop working or fighting for that society.

    ERGO, that society declines into poverty and low birth rates with bastard children. Other patriachal societies eventually surpass that society.

    In America, it will be patriachal Hispanics. In Europe, it will be Muslims

  321. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    “To wit, have you ever seen a woman having just simple headache? It is most always migraine of oddest variety.”
    Ask Dr Funguy…. Bet he knows about Vascular headaches. I went down the whole bit with MRI, PT, etc, neurologist. I would almost rather give birth again. I try to stay off meds and just work thru them, ergo, they don’t often interfere with “other” activities.

  322. Fundude says:

    @georgia

    Be similar to the fall of Rome. Foreign people outbreeding the domestic population until the fall of that society. It will be replaced by a patriachal society.

    That’s just the nature of things

  323. Fundude says:

    All societies go through cycles. Feminism is the end cycle for the society into poverty

  324. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    You are correct, Sir. I’m afraid there are times when “we” exaggerate pain, etc., though I will tell you my tossing what little I could eat, was not a pretty site and it was well documented, at my office, etc. LOL Hmmm. Epsom salt sounds like a nice bath to me… Regardless, I could also point out the men who tend to exaggerate about things they are involved.. ergo, “Now long was the fish you caught?” “How long did you say your HmHm is?” I could continue, but I won’t. And yep, you’re right about those nasty headaches. LOL. I tend to get vascular ones at times, particularly during changes in barometric pressure (I predict storms, etc.) LOL. Made fun in my bedroom when a real storm was approaching.

  325. Josh says:

    *To wit, have you ever seen a woman having just simple headache? It is most always migraine of oddest variety.

  326. Josh says:

    GeorgiaPeach

    “All the men leave the country?”

    Negative, why the hell would they move out of country? How many Japanese men leaving their country?

    Some men will go MGTOW, the others will move to gaming women, and will avoid longer term relationships. Thus causing population decline.

  327. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach,

    I am sure that for some women’s childbirth is painful, and I sympathize with that completely. But knowing women propensity for exaggeration and need for being center of attention, you need to take it with a grain of Epsom salt.

    To wit, have you ever seen a having woman just simple headache? It is most always migraine of oddest variety.

  328. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Fundude
    So, Dr Buttercup,
    Where do you see all this heading? The Fem’s take over? All the men leave the country? Disaster looming for all of us? What’s next in your crystal ball(s)?

  329. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach,

    I think FlyBoy is much younger than I am, so he goes for “pump and dump”. I go for pump and pump and pump some more. If they want to dump me, which they eventually do through eventual sabotage, then Ergo. 😉

  330. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy,

    Methinks, @y now has migrated to @FunDude = @FlyBoy. Ergo that… 😉

  331. FlyBoy says:

    @Y darling why are you including me in the exposing of profiles. I said it’s impolite and NEVER did it to anyone.

    On a lighter note; if you are including my name without reason, it can only mean that you are thinking about me, fantasizing about me … hmmm I find this quite interesting!

    Cheers :)

  332. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FlyBoy
    “PS: I bet some women will read this and think that I hate women. lol
    You can’t reason with them lol”
    Ah, to the contrary, Monsieur. I believe you LOVE women. You just have no need or use to have a real relationship with any. You prefer the “pump and dump” method, I believe you said. I also suspect Monsieur “Josh” has a similar feel for any woman he meets. And yes, it is said that women were “made” to give birth, because the men could never take the pain (I was in labor for over 32 hours, after having “morning sickness” consistently for 9 mos. Yeah…”Whack work”

  333. Josh says:

    @y, say what, Ergo?

  334. FunDude says:

    Also, giving women he vote was a big mistake without forcing them to sign up for selective service.

    Men were ONLY given the vote due to their OBLIGATION for selective service and defense of the society in times of war.

  335. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    I think feminism is natural occurrence of an overly affluent society. This happened when Rome declined as well.

    When a society is growing and becoming powerful, there is no room for feminism.

    After a society has excess wealth (created by men under a patriarchal system), humans dabble in false theories such as feminism.

    This could never occur in a society without excess wealth to play with.

  336. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    []http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2013/02/12/us-births-decline/1880231/[]
    The drop in U.S. births to their lowest level since 1920 is sounding alarms about the nation’s ability to support its fast-growing elderly population.

    As public concern mounts, a growing number of books, reports and columns are laying out challenges the United States will face because of this demographic upheaval: Fewer babies are being born while the wave of 78 million older Baby Boomers have only begun to retire (the oldest turn 67 this year)…….

    The slowdown is worrisome to many because of the growing gap between working-age populations that fund social programs and the elderly who rely on them.

    The imbalance between children and retirees is growing. The economic burden on a child born in 2015 will be nearly twice that of a child born in 1985, according to the USC study…..

    There’s more on that site. Hope this one helps.

  337. @FlyBoy and @Josh

    I recall you two stating that it isn’t polite to post people’s profile info. Had babies out of your ears most recently. Interesting, though, that FunDude’s posting of profile info strokes your tweedles, and gives you back to back orgasms.

    Ergo.

  338. FlyBoy says:

    FunDude, They do it because they think emotionally not cognitively.

    If it feels good to leave her husband, she will do so. Asking her why, as in what reason made you do so, is an exercise in futility. This does not make women bad, it’s just their nature. The good thing about their nature, is it gives them the ability to care for babies. Think about it, caring for babies is whack work lol.

    Conversely their nature makes them immune from discussion. Therefore, it’s impossible to reason with them. That’s why traditional societies used emotions to reason with them. You leave your husband and babies and you are an irredeemable and disgusting whore that no one will ever want. That works!!

    So the question is: what made society commit suicide. hmmmmm …

    Cheers :)

    PS: I bet some women will read this and think that I hate women. lol
    You can’t reason with them lol

  339. Josh says:

    or more specifically Federal Government’s “concern” over declining birth rate.

  340. Josh says:

    GeorgiaPeach,

    I am not sure how those reports are relevant to the declining birth rates?

  341. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Fundude
    “Women are too irrational at mating”
    So, why do you think this has come about? The Feminism aspect? Is this a cyclic thing or what, good Doctor?

  342. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    I think this one is even better:
    []http://www.population-security.org/rockefeller/006_government.htm[]

  343. Fundude says:

    Ergo people

  344. Keo says:

    @YGTBKM. I’m fine girl. Not the least bit worried. But thanks for your concern :-)

  345. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    Here’s one link Honey.
    []http://www.dol.gov/dol/aboutdol/history/herman
    /reports/futurework/conference/trends/NewTrends_.htm[]

  346. Fundude says:

    Fly, why do these women destroy their families regardless of having very young kids?

  347. Josh says:

    Ah…I knew I was missing something…I think it was the sound of “Ergo”. 😉

  348. Fundude says:

    Georgia, the low birth rate among the west will lead to its destruction. This is why feminism never lasts for more than two generations.

    Monogamous patriachal societies are the most functional. It forces women to marry young and while virgins, so they don’t waste their youth on “bad boys” then bitch later that there are no good men.

    Women are too irrational at mating. Ergo, traditional societies that hold them accountable. Has been always this way throughout history.

  349. FlyBoy says:

    Peach Darling, I do not disagree, it’s an ugly state of affairs.

    However, taking a chance on a woman who will divorce you for no reason, even when the children are babies because she’s not happy, is the quintessential example of a being a chump.

    Until society start shaming women (and men, just to satisfy you, even though they don’t need it) for destroying their families, we are on a firm path downward :(

    Cheers :)

  350. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    “the Fed Govt is wondering why the “womenfolk ain’t birthin no babies.” From what I’ve read thus far, the Feds are concerned about the declining US population.”

    I know that this is an issue, but I have not read exactly where US Government has shown its concern. Do you have any reference link?

  351. Fundude says:

    I agree with that analysis of game and money.

    Good job fly.

  352. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach,

    @FlyBoy was referring to the female fantasy that they want their man to be desired by other women (validation), but he sticks into them only.

  353. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FlyBoy
    And from your comments, this must be why the Fed Govt is wondering why the “womenfolk ain’t birthin no babies.” From what I’ve read thus far, the Feds are concerned about the declining US population. Now I know why. What was it you said “Pump and Dump”? Wow. No babies gonna get here that way, unless you have one of those “ooops” moments.

  354. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    “What part of “women live in a fantasy world” do you not understand?”
    From the chatter around here, it looks like many continue to live in the fantasy world. They may understand; they just don’t want to accept the real world. Which is why, according to FunDude, so many potential SB’s mysteriously disappear each month. (Fantasy disappears into reality of life.)

  355. FlyBoy says:

    Pick Up Artistry is like rote memorization without any understanding of the underlying mechanisms. Game, on other hand is understanding the nature of the opposite sex (in my case women) and using that knowledge to develop strategies that maximize the results of your hunting.

    In this day and age, every girl must be gamed. Even the good ones who want to be wives. Otherwise one will get nothing, or get offered the bottom of the barrel if they are lucky. That is the shitty environment of dating these days. Game 20 chicks, succeed at last with one, pump and dump. Repeat! Even if you want to keep her, you have to continue gaming to keep her attention. A more pathetic exercise one may not imagine. This continues until they are old, where the women and most of the men become invisible. The men who stay relevant can then use their considerable resources to pump as many young ones as they want. With game of course.

    PS: Unlike many ‘Artists’, I do not believe that using money to your advantage is cheating or just sugar coating P4P. Money is a legitimate advantage, and if used correctly can make insertion of penis in pussy a far easier and more pleasant undertaking.

    Cheers :)
    Cheers :)

  356. Josh says:

    @Promise

    What part of “women live in a fantasy world” do you not understand?

  357. Promise says:

    *confused

  358. Promise says:

    @FunDude wow…I’m sonfused as to why she persued you when you’re younger. I thought the Daddy (or Momma) was suppose to be older.

  359. Josh says:

    Ask her in which year she was 42 in. LOL!

  360. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    She claimed “42” while I’m 35. So its technically only 7 years.

    But I don’t believe her “age”.

  361. Josh says:

    *”minutest details” in response to @Promise.

  362. Josh says:

    @FunDude,

    “She decides to email a guy at least 8 years younger than her? Why not email a 70 y/o male?”

    I am sure it has to do with either she loves “GOING to the movies, not renting them at home,” OR that she like to “drink coffee, not tea”.

    I can’t think of any other “logical” reason for her wanting $2500-$5000 from a man 2 decades younger than her. 😉

    Note: She’s in her fifties and you are in your thirties. She is around 20 years older than you.

  363. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    I agree. The “provider” position in the Western world is the WORST position to be these days. This wasn’t true about 50 years ago when the country demanded fidelity from women towards their husbands.

    People got married at young ages as VIRGINS. They married for LIFE.

    These days, the “provider” is a chump.

  364. Josh says:

    @Promise

    PUA stand for Pick Up Artists. They supposedly teach how women roll, and break down the interaction with women in their minutes detailed from how women think, to how to approach them when they are alone or are in “sets”, to how to separate them from their environments, to how to fuck them.

    All for free, or for the cost of drinks, as most of these men don’t intend to stick with these women for long period of time. Women claim to “hate” PUAs but regardless if the man went through training or developed his own pickup game, women fall for pickup ALL THE TIMES.

    Men are basically divided in to two groups; lovers and providers. Women claim to want providers, but go for lovers again and again. PUAs are either true lovers or fake lovers. Providers are typically nice men screwed by women.

  365. FunDude says:

    Another “winner” that just emailed me lol. ” 42 y/o” divorced woman who looks about 50 by her pictures. I am highly skeptic about her age. She was probably told she “looks 42” and decided to write that as her age.

    Her expectation for allowance is “moderate”.

    Profile below:

    About Me

    Im a fun-loving, spontaneous, sassy, sexy, single, intelligent woman who has a titillating mind and knows how to use it. You must make love to my mind first and stimulate THAT, before you will get even CLOSE to 1st base with me. I’m looking for someone to share life’s laughs with, some good, fun, memorable times, and a little bit of finanacial help from time to time. I have a Bachelor of Arts degree in English Lit with a Creative Writing Emphasis from Western Michigan University. I love dogs, not cats, I love GOING to the movies, not renting them at home, I love to golf, not frisbee golf. I’m a strong swimmer and a helluva second baseman. I drink coffee, not tea, I will choose the ocean over the mountains, and the beach over the ski hills everytime. I have never fired a gun in my life but want to, as well as go to Hawaii and learn how to surf before I die. I love to gamble and travel, as well as do pretty much anything else that is exhilerating, exciting and addicting. I’m a music person and despise tv. I eat cake, not pie,(with the exception of pumpkin on Thankgiving and Christmas,) and I’ll choose ice cream over a popsicle anyday of the week. Sense of humor is huge to me, and mine is a very dry wit, sarcastic kind, and I appreciate the same kind of dark comedy in people and in movies, books, etc. And oh yeah, I also have been told that I’m a GREAT kisser. 😉

    What I’m looking for

    I would like to spend my time and attention with and on you and only you in exchange for financial assisitance in the range of $2500-5000 per month.

    So she won’t go to “first base without attraction” but expects “2,500-5,000 per month”.

    She decides to email a guy at least 8 years younger than her? Why not email a 70 y/o male?

    Also, considering she is an “English major”, she appears to be illiterate with multiple words that were spelled totally wrong.

    Crazy world.

  366. Promise says:

    @Josh PUA training? What’s that?

  367. Promise says:

    At the same time I probably shouldn’t be laughing since mine is probably the same.

  368. Josh says:

    “Let me introduce you to this lovely lady”

    Ain’t that a classic!!! :)

  369. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    ‘The few remaining ones might not want to date a “woman with 2 children”. She said “I can’t believe this, how depressing!”.’

    Women live in a fantasy world. That’s why PUA seems to have a lot of fun with them.

    Has anyone gone through any of the PUA training? Thoughts?

  370. FlyBoy says:

    FunDude
    I met a female who was recently “divorced” with two children at the age of 33 y/o. The kids were 2 and 4.

    She was demanding a guy that wasn’t much older than herself, made over 100K per year and had “no children of his own” because she didn’t want the “drama”.

    Someone thought it would be good to hook her up with me lol.

    I get this all the time. Let me introduce you to this lovely lady … Ahhhh no thank you :) I am doing OK by myself, thank you very much.

    On a more serious note, it seems somebody is telling the women that they remain top shelf, no matter what they do. They better stop listening or face the ugly consequences.

    Cheers :)

  371. Promise says:

    @FunDude You’re right! Some of these profiles are hilarious. X.D

  372. Josh says:

    @Promise

    “@Josh Please tell me you made her up.”

    Of course…along with “missing the point”, all I do, all day long, is make up proxies and profile. :(

  373. Josh says:

    @Lana

    “Oh dear! She’s a moron”

    The correct spelling is woman. 😉

  374. Promise says:

    @Josh Please tell me you made her up. I’m basic as fuck compared to her. What kind of expections are those?

  375. Lana says:

    “@Matt, I have a perfect SB for you then. NOT! 😉

    “What I’m looking for

    I am looking for a very discrete relationship with someone wealthy. I am looking for some one who ‘gets it’. The whole point of this is to form a private, mutually satisfying arrangement.

    The reason I’m here is for college. It’s REALLY expensive. And I need help I am looking for a kind man who can provide an allowance between 5k-20k a month and to whom money is not an issue.

    You should want to spoil me because you love the attention I give you and my company and the fun times we share together.

    I prefer to talk on the phone first or text and then meet with no strings attached-lunch preferably. If we like each other, we can proceed with the arrangement on the second date.

    Please be a true gentleman as I am a class act. I will not tolerate any disrespectfulness or craziness.

    Desired gifts: Wine and Champagne: All things French… Chateauneuf Du Pape, Dom Perignon and Veuve Clicquot; And I love a beautiful, dry rose during the summer

    Jewelry: Diamonds are a girl’s best friend :-) and I love rose gold, and adore Hermes bangels

    Shoes: I go crazy for Christian Louboutins

    Handbags: My favourites are Celine and Chanel

    Accessories: Hermes scarves and the latest designer sunglasses always make me smile

    Perfume: I love the scent of Clive Christian No 1 and Chanel No 5 as well as Chance by Chanel

    Artwork: Ask me please :-)

    Flowers: Classic red roses

    Colors: Pink and Red :-)””

    Oh dear! She’s a moron

  376. FunDude says:

    @FLY

    I met a female who was recently “divorced” with two children at the age of 33 y/o. The kids were 2 and 4.

    She was demanding a guy that wasn’t much older than herself, made over 100K per year and had “no children of his own” because she didn’t want the “drama”.

    Someone thought it would be good to hook her up with me lol. I spoke with her on the phone and we decided it was better not to meet because “I’m not Christian enough and don’t go to Church”.

    This was my most diplomatic way of getting out of the situation. I found it very amusing that she frivorced her husband but claims to be “very Christian”.

    I gentle explained to her the number of single men in their 30s who made over 100K was less than 2% of the overall population. Most of those men were already “married”.

    The few remaining ones might not want to date a “woman with 2 children”. She said “I can’t believe this, how depressing!”.

    Funny times.

  377. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    That is NOT what I said at all.
    I said I’ve never cut slack, why would I expect my guy to do that?
    Geez, get some glasses, Sir.

  378. FunDude says:

    @Southern

    Yes or a man who is significantly older than yourself is a good idea as well. Those men might be open to a decent allowance.

  379. FlyBoy says:

    FunDude
    So I guess “God” comes first in her life but she is willing to make an “arrangement” with a guy despite being “married”.

    Oh my God, I can’t stop laughing …

  380. Josh says:

    When I say that men oscillate between “dumb and dumber”, I am not kidding. 😉

  381. SouthernSB says:

    @FunDude-I’m totally realistic. I know that in my situation that I wouldn’t get more than a high minimum to a low practical allowance. I guess I could negotiate for more if I went on a date and he had an unusual fantasy like wanting me to “nurse” him (yeah someone actually wanted me to do that).

  382. Josh says:

    You just proved it. You want men to cut them for you. 😉

  383. GeorgiaPeach says:

    Why would I expect my guy to do that?

  384. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    “Women expect men to cut them slack in EVERY field of life.”
    Now, Now… EVERY Field?
    I’ve cut shirts and shorts, but not sure I’ve ever cut “slack.” LOL

  385. Josh says:

    @FlyR

    “I think miss lady had it right The decision is a mutual one ( there used to be that if you were collecting unemployment you had to accept work or loose benefits but that was too mean spirited).”

    Hmmm, I had thought that you were Obama-phobe!

    “The right allowance is the one that makes sense to both in light of the other components…”

    Unless the SB puts her best foot forward, what makes “sense” to an SD is what he sees in her photos and/or profile and/or messages. Most SBs choose to provide below-average photos, profile and message exchange, and expect SDs to cut them slack…

    …which is not new to women. Women expect men to cut them slack in EVERY field of life.

  386. FlyR says:

    I think miss lady had it right The decision is a mutual one ( there used to be that if you were collecting unemployment you had to accept work or loose benefits but that was too mean spirited). The right allowance is the one that makes sense to both in light of the other components..

  387. Josh says:

    @FlyR

    “But it is not about risk but rAther about relationships.”

    I also marvel your ability to write like a woman.

  388. FlyR says:

    But it is not about risk but rAther about relationships.

  389. FunDude says:

    Profile of 40 y/o “sugar baby” that emailed me:

    “About Me

    Sensual outgoing Latina have a goal oriented mindset, love life to fullest. Great personality, loving, fun, can be a great friend, companion. Love real conversations about all topics. God comes first in my life, have a humble heart, poetic, and driven in all I strive to accomplish. Strong minded, open hearted.

    What I’m looking for

    Wanting someone who wants a great companion, best friend, one who enjoys taking care of me as I would them. Great personality, spontaneous, one who treats a women with respect, and is giving in all aspects. Great smile, positive attitude goes a long way, and though physical attraction good to have, a great intellectual mind holds more to it. Adventurous, full of energy, open to try new things.”

    So I guess “God” comes first in her life but she is willing to make an “arrangement” with a guy despite being “married”.

    Interesting rationalization.

    Also, her listed expectation is “substantial” lol.

    She is 40 y/o, maybe a 6/10 with some chub lol

  390. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    You can’t make some of these profiles up lol.

    Its ridiculous. I haven’t renewed my SA account for this month. I am waiting until there is a new crop of women on SA.

    Every month or two, about 90% of the women turn over. I figure this is because the vast majority of them don’t get an “arrangement” due to delusional ideas such as that.

  391. Josh says:

    @MissLady

    “Yes I know @southern, but the only person that can really determine your worth is you and the individual your dealing with…”

    I am sure that you will make Oprah proud, if you don’t already. 😉

    This is like saying, when you apply for a job as a skilled-level person in an XYZ field, “the only person that can really determine your worth is you and the individual your dealing with…”

    …and the learning process and the feedback process, to prepare you to be face to face with the person who is going to make decision to hire you, does not matter a bit.

    That is, if you want to work as, say, a dental assistant, then instead of going through the training, testing, resume preparing, getting feedback on resume, properly emailing resume, etc., all you have to do is to keep harassing dentists until one takes you on.

    And wait…please allow me to apologize in advance as I may very well have “missed the point”, which I routinely do. Sigh!!!

  392. Josh says:

    @MissLady

    “lol @ flyr, that almost sounds like a 4 quadrant risk analysis…”

    @flyR is learning 4 quadrants risk analysis. He will repost an updated comment when he has figured it out at a bit deeper level.

  393. MissLady says:

    lol @ flyr, that almost sounds like a 4 quadrant risk analysis…

  394. Josh says:

    But keep in mind @Matt, the SB says: “The reason I’m here is for college. It’s REALLY expensive.”

    She has a plan. You buy her stuff, she will resell it on eBay and pay her “collage” tuition. 😉

  395. Josh says:

    @Matt, I have a perfect SB for you then. NOT! 😉

    “What I’m looking for

    I am looking for a very discrete relationship with someone wealthy. I am looking for some one who ‘gets it’. The whole point of this is to form a private, mutually satisfying arrangement.

    The reason I’m here is for college. It’s REALLY expensive. And I need help I am looking for a kind man who can provide an allowance between 5k-20k a month and to whom money is not an issue.

    You should want to spoil me because you love the attention I give you and my company and the fun times we share together.

    I prefer to talk on the phone first or text and then meet with no strings attached-lunch preferably. If we like each other, we can proceed with the arrangement on the second date.

    Please be a true gentleman as I am a class act. I will not tolerate any disrespectfulness or craziness.

    Desired gifts: Wine and Champagne: All things French… Chateauneuf Du Pape, Dom Perignon and Veuve Clicquot; And I love a beautiful, dry rose during the summer

    Jewelry: Diamonds are a girl’s best friend :-) and I love rose gold, and adore Hermes bangels

    Shoes: I go crazy for Christian Louboutins

    Handbags: My favourites are Celine and Chanel

    Accessories: Hermes scarves and the latest designer sunglasses always make me smile

    Perfume: I love the scent of Clive Christian No 1 and Chanel No 5 as well as Chance by Chanel

    Artwork: Ask me please :-)

    Flowers: Classic red roses

    Colors: Pink and Red :-)”

  396. flyR says:

    “Ok I’ll bite @flyr,explain the partner vs doormat..”

    Think of arrangements as a large square

    At the lower left corner it’s primarily about sex and money. Weekly 2-3 hour meetings at a hotel, minimal social exchange but hopefully good to great sex and reliable allowances. However, sex may be more centered on taking care of male needs and male taking care of her monetary needs.

    Diagonally across the square are relationships where there is more social involvement, perhaps more emotional involvement , etc.

    There is no right or wrong but it’s important that both are comfortable with where they are.

  397. Josh says:

    @SouthernSB says: “@FlyR-Awwww thanks…comments like yours are why I stick around.”

    @FunDude says: “@Southern
    I would figure it would be much more difficult to obtain a higher allowance with your physical properties.

    This is being honest. Not trying to be “mean”.”

    @FunDude, please don’t interfere with @SouthernSB’s orgasm. 😉

  398. Josh says:

    While I was away, @flyR has been on a roll. Well done @flyR. I marvel your ability to provide mental (and possibly physical) orgasms to blog SBs.

  399. MissLady says:

    @Keo I’ve never used hush and I’m not sure how google voice runs on apple, but I’ve had it for the past 3 or 4 years and it’s fine for me. You just have to be sure you read carefully during the install/setup cause a lot of carriers now allow wifi calling and will let your phone default to that number if you’re not paying attention.

    As for apple, most people I’ve dealt with use that textnow app, which is about the same as the google voice and it’s free as well, but I couldn’t tell you about the install or ease of use. Only thing with both of these is that you can’t send pictures in the text message, just links to pics (I use dropbox).

    end of my geek moment, back to sugar.

  400. @Matt

    I understand your comment to mean that you agree that Keo might be playing with fire. No quotes.

  401. Matt says:

    yougottabekiddingme says: great comment on the “bitch” run like he’ll is my first thought. False, plastic and airhead!
    @josh. Your on the spot there
    It seems that the “feel” crowd is a bit confused. Please all me to say…

    1. SDs are not here to right the social wrongs.

    2. They are here to have fun with the kind of women they choose to have fun with.

    3. If you are not going to do/be what the SDs want you to do/be, then I have a friendly advice for you. Find a…
    There are enough sb’s and sd’s for there to be a match for anyone. The ladies that are not being selected should look at their profiles and pics. “I love champagne and expensive gifts” does not do it for me. What is in her head, in her heart, in her dreams. if I’m going to spend time with a woman then I would prefer to not just sit in some restaurant sipping champagne (I don’t drink, least of all champagne) talking about her next expensive gift! But, if she had a dream to start a business, great, I love funding and guiding startups. A car to get around with, a flight to see family.
    So many girls here have no idea what they want in life. All good but say so and I’ll gladly help to find your passion and show you how to achieve success.
    Pretending is what it looks like bs!

  402. @keo

    I think you might be playing with fire :/.

  403. FunDude says:

    @Southern

    I would figure it would be much more difficult to obtain a higher allowance with your physical properties.

    This is being honest. Not trying to be “mean”.

  404. Promise says:

    @Keo I’m in a somewhat similar dilemma. Living with my mom and brothers for the time being.

  405. Keo says:

    And Good Morning all

  406. Keo says:

    @Lady I need a throw away number. I read the previous post about hush and Google voice. I’m confused about which one to go with. If anyone else had something worth adding to my dilemma I’m all ears. By story.. have a hubby. Going through difficult times. He knows I don’t love him. We are playing nice for our kids. But don’t want him to find out.

  407. SouthernSB says:

    @FlyR-Awwww thanks…comments like yours are why I stick around.

  408. MissLady says:

    @promise, I hated when they would do that. Even if you were chatting in a bar/coffee shop, you had a bit of conversation before they asked for your number. But there’s always the case to be made for the guy that passes his card cause he’s running late for another meeting… Lol

  409. Promise says:

    @Miss Lady Alright I think I made the right choice then. A POT messaged me and for my number in the very first message. It seemed a bit fast to me. I may be new, but I’m not a pushover.

  410. MissLady says:

    Yes I know @southern, but the only person that can really determine your worth is you and the individual your dealing with…

  411. MissLady says:

    @promise,i always used a throwaway number. I always let them ask. Sometimes you can get a good vibe from a few messages, sometimes it takes exchanging a few emails.

  412. SouthernSB says:

    @Miss Lady-When it comes to dating (even without sugar) life is a marketplace and everyone has a worth.

  413. Promise says:

    When is a good time to give a POT your “number”?

  414. MissLady says:

    Ok I’ll bite @flyr,explain the partner vs doormat..

  415. MissLady says:

    Good Sunday morning everyone. I see we’re still trying to determine someone else’s worth…

  416. flyR says:

    Southern – I don’t see shortcomings You have class , sensuality and a take no prisoners attitude. My guess is that you do quite well……

    There’s another dimension to the allowance issue – and that’s how you are treated from “partner” to doormat…..

  417. Josh says:

    @SouthernSB

    If you tried to play mind games with a cat, she would tell you in cat-speak…”Find a…”

    Dog, on the other hand, would be confused and even devestated. Most men are like dogs whose owner is on crack.

  418. SouthernSB says:

    @flyR and @Josh (when he wakes up)-I have no problem asking for a practical allowance due to my “um hum” shortcomings. So should I be asking for a minimum allowance due to the fact that I’m older, black, and not a size 0, despite the fact that I am intelligent, fun, and sexy as hell?

  419. flyR says:

    @ PI – adding to your note – the “job” of 99% of the SB is at best a 50% part time job, even allowing for “Hangar Queen ” levels of maintenance time .

    Several years ago I had a first meet for coffee with a POT who let me know that she was not sure she really wanted become an SB and probably not at the allowance discussed. Rather than discuss a specific allowance I got her to describe her part time work- 20 hours a week. Three nights and one day.

    Converting to a mid practical allowance would “give ” her 7 nights and three days a month to do as she pleased…. study, go to the beach, travel , she would have a mentor, enjoy a great dining,learn to fly, have a sensual partner who believed in ladies first plus enough extra spending money to afford a nice car and a couple weeks in Europe over the summer or graduate with $36,000 less debt.

  420. StruggleIsReal says:

    @FlyBoy
    Very nice! Hopefully you at least get extra shots for free in your lattes. Hehe

  421. SouthernSB says:

    @Josh-if I want a pet to play mind games with, I’ll just get a cat. 😉

  422. PI Wolf says:

    @flyR,

    What you just said is so true. Sex is a requirement for a SD/SB relationship (or arrangement) from the SD’s point of view. If there is no sex involved, I will not provide an allowance, or even spend any time with her. My time is valuable and I would rather spend it (and the money) on someone else who is willing to let me enjoy her “charms” together with her.

    And the majority of the profiles are asking for Moderate ($5,000) Level of expectations! Don’t they think that in order to receive $5k/month (after tax) money, you are already at the $100k/year income level? If you work for a company and make $100k/year, how much time and effort do you have to expend – for the company to pay you that salary? You better have Technical or Management Skills and work your butt off too!

  423. flyR says:

    @ Peach

    I think the foundational issue is that

    For a lot of SD’s sex is foundational to the arrangement…… Without sex there’s no reason for the allowance.

    That does not mean that it has to be handled in a disrespectful manner. Sex is supposed to be fun.

    There are a lot of people who think their money entitles them to treat others like trash. You see them all the time….. If you watch the Oscars you’ll see a whole lot of theme.

    If you are not meeting the men you seek on SA then change your profile, change your screening , forget numbers look for the one SD who is the perfect fit.

  424. flyR says:

    “She is complaining that men want women half their age and not the experienced and interesting ones like her. ”

    Just the SB of my dreams , someone I can provide with an allowance and entertainment so that I can hear her complain.

  425. flyR says:

    At the risk of turning over the wrong rock……….

    Rule #1 – Life is unfair, deal with it

    Rule #2 – The folks with the most reasons for failure have the most reasons for failure but they are usually not the ones which they identify.

    Yes there’s no doubt that there’s discrimination present, but there’s a whole lot of other factors involved over which the SB does have control.

  426. KennaKenna says:

    21 more days… :'(

  427. FlyBoy says:

    At 138lbs it says BMI = 22.3. Normal Weight … Not a fatty :)

  428. FunDude says:

    @Fly

    Look at BMI weighs. She is in the “overweight” and close to “obese” category at 166

  429. FunDude says:

    Im going to bed myself. Long day in the airport. I was supposed to get in way earlier today

  430. FlyBoy says:

    Doc, what is the optimum weight for a 5′ 6”. Just want to see if mine is a fatty .. lol

    Cheers :)

  431. FlyBoy says:

    I know Kenna, and the guy was one. I know things … lol

    Cheers :)

  432. FlyBoy says:

    Fucking this cute barista – 20. She knows I own the company next door, so I don’t know what she hopes to accomplish. We will see :)

    No allowance per say, just a credit card for when she needs it. She is been spending about 1.5K/month (together for three months). I am sure this will climb as she gets more comfortable. I have placed no specific limit on her.

    Planning on returning to the bowl after I get done with a big deal in a couple of months. I know myself, if I am active, I’ll take it to the extreme lol, and I don’t have time these days.

    Just for background, I sugar dated on here and on another web site for three years, but I have been inactive for a year now.

    Cheers :)

  433. KennaKenna says:

    @FlyBoy not all people on Forbes are billionaires. My SD is on Forbes and not a billionaire, close there but not quite… Many people who worth 250 million+ are on Forbes, not the billionaire list but other lists… E.g. Top 100 People in Entertainment, etc.

  434. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    I am going to bed. You can post away. 😉

  435. FunDude says:

    Josh and Fly are killing it in here.

    Don’t need to say much lol

    FUCK VIRGINIA’s inability to DE ICE a PLANE! Just got back!

  436. StruggleIsReal says:

    @FlyBoy
    I see. Interesting. What is your dating / relationship / sugar status currently ?

  437. FunDude says:

    5’6″ and 166 is too heavy. You need to attempt to diet down more.

  438. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    I think “fault” is a nasty word. Things happen whether we like it or not. They usually happen as a result of other things that we may not like. It is what it is. I couldn’t possibly place blame or fault men for situations that simply “happen.” I’m a pretty religious gal. I’ve learn I had no choice with the shit I’ve been thru in that past several years, with more to come (my Dad is 86). I have this “what is meant to be” thing going. I truly am a believer of “God has this plan” thing. Why would I blame anyone else for things that just “happen”? Night Josh et al. Sweet Dreams to you.

  439. FlyBoy says:

    And when they did go to the web .. sorry :)

  440. FlyBoy says:

    And when did go the web, it killed the advantage of those with access to them. Indeed it changed the equation completely. Who wants the groupie who fucked the entire team and the visitors, when he can get a fresh college cutie that wants to experience what she had never seen!

    Cheers :)

  441. FlyBoy says:

    She was there in NYC. She could get invitations to parties where she can meet celebrities and rich folk. She was in the scene. Very few knew about, or wanted to dabble with online SBs. They went with what is available, but just like ‘normal’ dating, people discovered that the web is much better. Of course, it’s only better for the haves, not have nots.

    The haves in ‘normal’ dating are the girls. She puts a profile and gets 100s of messages to choose from.

    The haves in sugar dating are the rich boys. He puts a profile and gets 100s of messages to choose from. So like the girls on ‘normal’ dating, the SDs learned quickly to accept online sugar as preferable, at least from their vantage point.

    Cheers :)

  442. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    You read the “what” in all kinds of media outlets, but you read the “why” in MGTOW type of spaces. Women have themselves to blame, but blame they will not.

    The reason is from women’s perspective, “anything that happens or does not happen in a woman’s life is a man’s or a group of men’s fault.” 😉

  443. StruggleIsReal says:

    @FlyBoy
    “The carebares of the bowl had access to the rich which many girls didn’t, this enabled them to be as flaky as felt good. Now all it takes is a profile and there are a lot of us reading.”

    I don’t understand this. Can you please explain?

  444. FlyBoy says:

    StruggleIsReal,
    The examples I gave were the norm a few years ago.

    The FrenchSBs of the bowl, could play with thirsty betas all day long. As of now, those have either given up or started using their money more effectively.

    The carebares of the bowl had access to the rich which many girls didn’t, this enabled them to be as flaky as felt good. Now all it takes is a profile and there are a lot of us reading.

    Cheers :)

  445. StruggleIsReal says:

    *ever been saying, regarding the race topic here.

    Not complaining (I mean, I am white and consider myself beyond fortunate in my lot… What should I complain about?), but stating facts.

  446. StruggleIsReal says:

    @FlyBoy
    “There is no slack in this market anymore. In other words the situation continues to approach natural distribution across the board. That natural distribution is as simple as: Too many SBs for the number of SDs. The first to feel it were the black girls, next to feel it were the hispanic girls with the white girls coming right behind them.”

    Thank you. Yes. This is all I have ever been saying.
    I don’t know about the examples you provided as I do not remember these people who you reference, but still these are decent examples, regardless.

  447. Keo says:

    One last thing @resop.. not laughing at any type of addict. Just the fact that “I” was going period and the fact that it was during the day. Any addiction is no laughing matter5. This I know.

  448. Keo says:

    @Kenn no need to answer my question. I’m logging off this blog tonight. I am not about to have a race war with Josh. Nite all

  449. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    It’s funny.. I was thinking about my young “party girl” days.. when most of you were not even a twinkle in your parents eyes… mid 1970’s or so. It didn’t take long for me to realize that there was a “cycle” that the men went thru. From about their mid 20’s or so until early 30’s they could care less about getting married, they simply wanted sex. But, older guys, they had decided they wants kids and to settle down. Now, if I look at that in terms of today’s guys, it seems I’ve hit another “cycle.” LOL. Guys who have done the married with kids thing and are now divorced or even those who chose to remain single – they now choose to be single but want the benefits. They don’t want to get married, they simply want their libido’s stroked, among other things. It’s back in the “playpen” for more fun, without any obligations. I have to wonder what happens when they hit their early 70’s? Any ideas? Maybe I should move my age range to 75. LOL

  450. FlyBoy says:

    The reason black girls do not do well, or as well as they think white girls are doing, one word, Arbitrage.

    Let me tell you the story of two white SB bloggers form a few years ago.

    One was named FrenchSB (don’t quote me on this :) who is in her late thirties. She went on a dinner date with this pot, whom she described as tall and attractive. He gave her $400 without her asking for it, just for coming. Also, he was 40, so a couple years older than her. What was the problem then, well you see, … how do you call it …. I dunno … He just … you know, … wasn’t smooth, like, je ne sais quoi, what do you call it in English, he wasn’t suave. Yes he wasn’t fucking suave. Got that!

    Second one was named carebare. She was OK looking, on a good day a 7. She was 23. Nothing bad, but nothing to brag about either. She went to dinner with a Forbes List member (If you don’t know; it means he is a billionaire). He gave her a present, a Hermes leather bracelet, which was in back then. And she thought he was attractive. So what was the fu*king problem. You see, he was into her. I kid you fu*king not. He was into her, that’s why she didn’t want him. (By the way this story is real, don’t ask me how I know .. lol and NO I’m not him)

    OK, you know the lay of the land; how many white -or any color for that matter- SBs can get away with this these days. Zero!!!

    The reason is information arbitrage. There is no slack in this market anymore. In other words the situation continues to approach natural distribution across the board. That natural distribution is as simple as: Too many SBs for the number of SDs. The first to feel it were the black girls, next to feel it were the hispanic girls with the white girls coming right behind them. Once they get there, it’s game over. The rules will then be set in stone.

    The only way to play this game, is to accept scraps for what amounts to prostitution light, or hunker down for the real deal -if you are lucky- and jump on him without hesitation. Even if he had a hump.

    Accept this, or back to the shit show named Match and the like.

    Cheers :)

  451. resop2 says:

    @Keo “I suck at gambling.”

    Everyone sucks at negative expectation games. People who think that they are good at it are mentally ill.

  452. Josh says:

    It is unfortunate, but like no other time in the past, I don’t see any urgency among men to get back into relationships anymore.

    I am NOT talking about MGTOW men. I am talking about regular men. Regardless of age, it’s all about hookup it seems. It is what it is dear. Make the best of it, based on your wishes and desires.

  453. resop2 says:

    On weight gain/loss:

    Once you are fat you have a huge problem:

    * Fat cells don’t go away, you can only shrink them or have them surgically removed.

    * Diet modification without exercise will not work because reducing your calories will slow down your metabolism.

    * Eating right and working out will work, but it will not be easy and it will involve substantial amounts of pain. You will also have to gain muscle since muscles burn calories at rest.

    * Staying fat will eventually involve 100 times more pain than working out due to diabetes, heart disease, etc.

    Moral of the story is to not get fat in the first place.

  454. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    Thank you. I do appreciate you saying that. Honestly.

  455. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    I think that you are realistic in your approach. However, the relationship trend in not in your favor. I hope and pray that you find the man you are looking for.

  456. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FlyBoy
    You are just too cute and funny. But a couple things…
    For example, “you rejected the poor guy before he entered the restaurant. I knew from the moment our eyes met, it likely would not work out.”
    I knew it wasn’t going to work because of the look in HIS eyes. He didn’t look at me or my eyes, it was like he was looking through me. He changed his stance, he shifted a bit, like he really would prefer to just turn and run back out the door.

    “Why did you reject him, looks?, his beta like demeanor?. Most likely the latter. a sparse peck on the cheek good bye.”
    I didn’t reject him, even after the way he looked at me, by the time he got to the table; I had hopped up, slightly hugged and greeted him with a nice southern, friendly, “hello.”

    “Yes you wanted him to manhandle you, to put his tongue down your throat, to take you back home, put your legs behind your ears and hammer away … taka … taka … taka .. tak .. lol. Alas expecting a little beta to turn into an alpha in the span of a date is as realistic as reviving a dead horse in the morning only to win the Derby in the afternoon. It ain’t happennn.”
    Cute analogy. And no. I knew that wasn’t going to happen. All I expected was a bit more friendliness, like when we were walking on the beach. I had taken my shoes off and there were lots of crushed shells, etc. WHY couldn’t he at least hold my hand part of time? Would that be asking too much? During our very involved email discussions, I was led to believe at least that would be possible. I mean, this guy even showed me photos of items he enjoyed using in the bedroom, ie, a blindfold, silk ribbons/ties. What was I supposed to think when he acts the way he did? I wasn’t asking him for anything except good conversation between us, a hand hold and a nice kiss. Was that too much on a first date, after conversing with him for over 3 mos online?

    “The twist is your sense of entitlement that goes something like that; I’ve done my job for 30 years, now it’s my turn to be rewarded. Reward me damn it…”
    I have no feeling at all of entitlement, nor do I feel that it is simply my turn to be rewarded for the crap I’ve been dealt. I simply do not want to end my remaining years on this earth, alone and lonesome. Is that so terrible?

    “Your ailment is incurable. The only thing you can do about it is learn to live with it. This can be done in one of two ways.
    1. Buy a cat and a call it a day.
    2. Lower your expectations. Yes, way lower. As in, somewhat healthy, and doesn’t need my money.”
    And WHY does this have to be “incurable”? Why should I have to settle? As a healthy middle aged guy, with much to give, to a guy (and not just sex), would you just give up and get a cat?
    1. I hate cats.
    2. I did lower my expectations, I met a very talkative insurance sales guy. I’ve never gone after the Drs. or lawyers, etc. I do know my limits and see the expectations at my age. And I would date a healthy, reliable guy, who isn’t with me for the money. But do you have any idea those special guys are hard to find? It’s not my expectations these days, it’s “his.”
    3. My expectations are to meet a “gentleman” (is that even asking too much?) between the ages of 57 or so and 68, but those are not even in concrete.

  457. Josh says:

    *Please allow me to say…

  458. Josh says:

    It seems that the “feel” crowd is a bit confused. Please all me to say…

    1. SDs are not here to right the social wrongs.

    2. They are here to have fun with the kind of women they choose to have fun with.

    3. If you are not going to do/be what the SDs want you to do/be, then I have a friendly advice for you. Find a… 😉

  459. resop2 says:

    @Keo “On my way to the 4 Winds Casino. I feel like an addict going during day light hours. Lol”

    Gambling is addictive behavior. It’s hardly something to laugh about.

  460. Josh says:

    @Promise

    “@Josh a bowl of cereal. One piece of toast. One bagel. One packet of ramen.”

    I am sure. Have a good night.

  461. Josh says:

    @Struggle

    This is not what I hear when the black SBs come here and complain as to why they don’t get sugar dates.

    My apologies, I guess I have a Phd in “missing the point”?

  462. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Josh
    Who ever said anyone OWES anyone else a date?! Other than you?!
    Seriously get a new agenda already. This one is so old.

  463. Promise says:

    Oh wow do I really need a distraction. Please distract me!
    @Josh a bowl of cereal. One piece of toast. One bagel. One packet of ramen. Thank you for the advice.

  464. Josh says:

    If a black woman wants a date with white man, she needs to show respect to him. He does not owe her a date.

    Similarly if a white man wants a date with a black woman, he needs to show respect to her. She does not owe him a date.

    Those who wants to use the race card choose not to “understand” the simple requirement in the dating space.

  465. PimpinSD says:

    @YGTBKM
    “Keep in mind, mind-numbing exercise routines are secondary measures.
    Lifestyle; and quantity and quality of food consumed are the primary factors contributing to weight gain.”

    True story!”

    Is this a confession?

  466. StruggleIsReal says:

    Stating experiential facts is “white shaming” only to those people who feel shame within, usually rooted in their own faulty beliefs. To respectfully discuss actual history and the current state of things in no way diminishes a healthy and happy human, regardless of race, gender, ethnicity, social/cultural background, or even personal experience.

  467. a latin opinion says:

    Lol @struggles yes, If they keep it nice, not bad words, nor bullying while putting their point out, I will have their backs or whatever Georgiapeach recommend (-;

  468. Josh says:

    @Keo

    “@Josh Are you seriously trying to saying I’m “white shaming” by asking a “black” girl what she meant. Are you kidding me? !”

    It’s you prerogative to continue with such posts. They don’t bother me a bit. 😉

  469. Keo says:

    @Josh Are you seriously trying to saying I’m “white shaming” by asking a “black” girl what she meant. Are you kidding me? !

  470. a latin opinion says:

    @georgiapeach a good one indeed!

    Is my humble opinion that we all have the power of choice. History has proved that as humans we tend to dream with positive but created negative.

    So be different, be positive, take what you have and made the best of it, if you keep it positive sooner or later good will come back to you.

  471. Keo says:

    When the lights turn off

  472. Josh says:

    Re: Blending in?

    Don’t think that you are going to be as successful with white shaming as some of the very talented black comedians are.

    Those folks are providing something of value to the society, that is, entertainment…so people put up with them, and even reward them with more bookings.

  473. Keo says:

    @Struggle Yes. Which is why I go with the philosophy of liking those who like me. Why in the world should I limit myself. I’ve learned a lot by dating someone who was different from me in terms of culture. There are people of all races that I have been attracted to. Currently crushing on this Asian guy. We are basically all the same we the lights turn off :-)

  474. Josh says:

    Re: Blending in?

    Here is one of the starts…

    The word is A S K not A K S. 😉

  475. Josh says:

    @Promise

    First, you are eating crap. Mostly carbs, and a little bit of fat and protein. So the quality part of equation is accounted for.

    How about the quantities of what you are eating throughout the day?

  476. StruggleIsReal says:

    Oh good. @Latin has @Josh’s & @FunDude’s backs. This is not at all surprising, or new information.

    @Promise
    Rourke?

    @FunDude
    I guess I could agree. Most girls are annoying to me. But so are most men. Bummer that the few you mentioned before didn’t pull through.

    @Keo
    You’re right. “Discrimination” may not be the right word… Attraction is attraction and can’t really be held against anyone. However, an open mind leads to more of an open mind in attraction. I can speak from experience with that. But, anyhow, things are what they are. Not meaning to belabor an issue. Just feel that there is something there worth pointing out.

    @YGBKM
    Agree.

  477. Keo says:

    @Kdnna what do you mean by blend in?

  478. FlyBoy says:

    @GeorgiaPeach,

    As a man I have faced rejection many a times. This is true for all men. In a man’s world, there are two choices, hunt or go hungry. I might not know how it ‘feels’ since only women and simpletons ‘feel’, but I assure you I know the situation all too well.

    Having said this, let’s now discuss your situation. That blind date you had proves that it’s not very dry in your world. However it also shows us where your problems lie. For example, you rejected the poor guy before he entered the restaurant.

    I knew from the moment our eyes met, it likely would not work out.

    Why did you reject him, looks?, his beta like demeanor?. Most likely the latter.

    a sparse peck on the cheek good bye.

    Yes you wanted him to manhandle you, to put his tongue down your throat, to take you back home, put your legs behind your ears and hammer away … taka … taka … taka .. tak .. lol. Alas expecting a little beta to turn into an alpha in the span of a date is as realistic as reviving a dead horse in the morning only to win the Derby in the afternoon. It ain’t happennn

    Your diagnoses is this: You are an ‘Alpha Widow’ with an extra problem to boot.

    -Once you were young and cute, you went after the bad boys. The rebels .. lol
    -You were luckier than Ms Gray in that you lived in a more conservative society which frowned upon unmarried women running around. So you settled for a man. He wasn’t the best looking or the richest but he wasn’t the bottom of the barrel either.
    -You were faithful to him, and took care of him at the end of his life.

    Now you are back in the market. Your hypergamy is out of control, but with a twist. In your mind it’s very logical and fair, but to the outside world, it’s strange and irrational. The twist is your sense of entitlement that goes something like that; I’ve done my job for 30 years, now it’s my turn to be rewarded. Reward me damn it….

    Your ailment is incurable. The only thing you can do about it is learn to live with it. This can be done in one of two ways.

    1. Buy a cat and a call it a day.
    2. Lower your expectations. Yes, way lower. As in, somewhat healthy, and doesn’t need my money.

    Cheers :)

  479. Promise says:

    @Josh I typically have some sort of grain for breakfast. I don’t typically eat lunch becausnever really never really get hungry during that time. When I do eat it it’s typically a little of what’s left over from breakfast. For dinner I typically have ramen or a bagel with cream cheese.

  480. “What else is new? ”

    Nothing, dear. Nothing at all.

  481. Josh says:

    @Kenna, I guess you “missed the point” as well. I don’t feel alone anymore. 😉

  482. “Keep in mind, mind-numbing exercise routines are secondary measures.

    Lifestyle; and quantity and quality of food consumed are the primary factors contributing to weight gain.”

    True story!

  483. Josh says:

    yougottabekiddingme

    “I think you missed the point.”

    Absolutely dear. “missing the point” made by idiotic, tongue-lashing women seems to be the prime aspiration, purpose and goal of my life. What else is new? 😉

  484. Josh says:

    GeorgiaPeach,

    I prefer not to be grouped with other bloggers here. I can’t speak for FlyBoy, but personally, I don’t give a shit about “relationship” with even a 20 year-old supermodel. I want interaction with women on a limited-time basis; few hours at a time is ideal.

    Relationships work for women, as they provide them with a captive pet to play mind-games with.

    Relationships also work for men, who are interested in having children.

  485. @josh

    “She’s seems like an Oprah-inspired orator-ish idiot making a mockery of high-achieving black women by comparing them to “average black girl.””

    Ha. You always find a way, dear. I think you missed the point.

  486. KennaKenna says:

    Are we on this race thing again?

    It is simple- Educated, black SBs who can blend in do great in sugar, and in general interracial relationships with men in the top 1%.

  487. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh and @FlyBoy
    Please know that I am not so crazy or stupid that I don’t get what guys of most any age, ok, legal age, want in a female. Certainly the younger, great looking, smart ones will get the best guys first.

    What I am saying is that I don’t understand why I get the rudeness and “in your face” crudeness I’ve experienced. Most often, prior to our date, I send him a full photo yet when we do come face to face, it’s like they didn’t even bother to look at my photos or read my profile.

    And what’s so wrong with enjoying the company an experienced, mature, intelligent, nice looking (though not skinny) female? Are looks SO important that you neglect to see her “inside” too? Or is it really just about the sex and nothing more than perhaps the fact that she’s skinny and has long hair? If that’s the case, why bother with a relationship at all? I mean, no offense, but didn’t the term “dumb blondes” come about for a reason? How superficial are you guys?

  488. Josh says:

    If you share what you eat everyday, I will tell you want to change.

    Keep in mind, mind-numbing exercise routines are secondary measures.

    Lifestyle; and quantity and quality of food consumed are the primary factors contributing to weight gain.

  489. Josh says:

    Stop eating junk. That’s all I can tell you. 😉

  490. Promise says:

    @Josh I’m 5’6.

  491. FlyBoy says:

    @Josh
    “Stella Gray” will fit right in here. She will provide tall, handsome young daddies the honor of dating mature-ish yet immature-ish, deep-ish yet shallow-ish, clued-in-ish yet clueless-ish, non-game-ish yet game-ish granma-ish idiot-ish woman.

    That :)

  492. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach,

    Good one…hahahahahaha!!!

  493. Josh says:

    @Promise

    Sweetheart, I don’t think that you have shared your profile id here, yet.

    I have no idea how tall you are. Therefore, I would not know if you are fat, “a few extra pounds”, “average” or skinny.

  494. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Latin
    I don’t think that’s the part they want you to have. LOL

  495. Promise says:

    @Josh I’m not very smart when it comes to Math. You’ve confused me. I’m fat right?

  496. Josh says:

    She’s seems like an Oprah-inspired orator-ish idiot making a mockery of high-achieving black women by comparing them to “average black girl.”

  497. a latin opinion says:

    Josh, Fd… I got your back guys! (-;

  498. @all

    Re: Brown sugar and related comments

    I posted this on the previous blog, but thought Id post it here as well. Hope some find it helpful.

    Regarding categorizing…

    Want I really want to be taken from my comments is that you will be categorized whether you like it, know it or not. It is an unfortunate truth. Realize, though, that beneath the socially inscribed and projected categorization is also a neurological categorization linked to biological identifiers, adaptability, survival and self preservation. In short, we categorize essentially to have a handle on how to navigate our space and motivations in the presence of others.

    So, that you will be categorized is without question. How you will be categorized is more essential. The key to survival at large is adaptability. Versatility. This doesn’t mean abandon all that you are in an effort to appeal. You do, however, need to know how to navigate other realms, other spaces, other territories if you wish to survive and be successful within them.

    I think the problem with “basic” as it pertains to the *sterotypical* “average” black girl, is that it is not reflective of the average black girl at large. It is presumed that these stereotypical categories represent the majority of black women, and it’s not an accurate depiction. When I speak of categories, I am speaking of these stereotypes that put women at a disadvantage for survival outside of the realm in which they may have become accustomed. Ultimately, the average black woman that I know falls into none of those categories. It is the definition of average itself that has become convoluted, bastardized, marginalized and trampled upon when it comes to black women.

    The lady in the video link below captures the discourse in spoken word. I hope this helps explain, and brings about understanding a little better.

    []http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2tN4Zulagb8[]

    Despite one’s versatility, there are some things that are concrete…things you can’t change about yourself. Race in terms of skin tone and physical attributes is one of them. If someone qualifies your worth merely based on attitudes projected onto a concrete attribute, then it’s probably not the type of person you want to associate with anyway. Please know, though, there may be some who might not be attracted to you regardless, and it has nothing to do with their perception of worth based on your race. Ultimately, people will like as they wish. It is my opinion, however, that trivial disqualifiers are to ones own disservice.

  499. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach,

    You are honest about your date. She’s playing games and telling the whole world how men are not responding to her games as she wants to. Men may have responded to her games when she was gorgeous-ish and younger-ish, not anymore.

    Even her male “friend” would not respond to her mind game positively.

    I spoke to my friend Jack about this.

    “Men online are the same,” I told him. “They say they’re after true love but really what they’re after is the 25-year-olds.”

    “Maybe they think they can have both,” Jack said.

    “You’re not like that, though, are you? Given a choice, you’d pick the older, more interesting woman, the passionate, well-read, intrepid, low-maintenance woman.”

    “Nice of you to think so,” Jack said. “But I’d go for the firm arse and tits, always, without question.”

    I expressed mild disgust.

  500. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh-ish
    Sometimes I think you should just go “Ish” yourself.

  501. Josh says:

    @Promise

    “@FunDude now I’m worried about my weight XD Is being 166lbs. skinny for a 20 year old?”

    If you are 6′-6″ tall then you may be considered “skinny”. 😉

  502. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Flyboy
    “I will return shortly to this fascinating subject!”
    I’m here waiting with baited breath.

    And “Henry” – I agree she got what she deserved there. But I don’t recall ever doing that to a guy. But then, hey we all play games. No one wants to admit it, but its there. I also suspect that “Ms. Gray” learned a valuable lesson from that incident.

    What I was referring to is her relationship with the first guy she mentions, “Peter.” In fact, I was recently in a similar situation last fall. The closer I got to the time when we were to meet, the more I felt I might be losing his interest. I brought 5 outfits with me to change into before we met. I was so nervous, I couldn’t decide which was best to wear on this blind date. He told me we’d have lunch and perhaps go for a walk on the beach. I got to the restaurant first, our table was near the front, so I could see him as he entered. I knew from the moment our eyes met, it likely would not work out. He seemed so distracted during lunch; chattering about everything he could think of at the moment, except us. When lunch was done and he did ask me to join him on a long ride to the beach, which I did. Then, I, too, wondered if I was getting into a vehicle, never to return. LOL It was nice but as we walked, he talked about his job the entire time. But he wouldn’t hold my hand or get close to me at all. Those very indications were the reasons I began to ask myself why I had even bothered to meet him. Almost like a Jekyll and Hyde thing with his personality. He kept looking at me, as if he wasn’t listening to anything I had to say. We ended the evening with his dropping me back at my car, and a sparse peck on the cheek good bye. A subsequent email told me he didn’t want to pursue anything until I actually moved to the coastal area, as I have been planning, but it was obvious he wanted nothing more. Do you have any idea how that feels? All this energy is built up and then, I could have had a better date with my dog. (if I had a dog.) So, yeah, I understand “Stella.” I’ve been there.

  503. Keo says:

    @FunDude.. “Can’t figure that out yet?” Look Dude, no need to be an ahole about it. I do realize that. You just can’t have a conversation without being a smart ass. Damn!

  504. Promise says:

    @FunDude now I’m worried about my weight XD Is being 166lbs. skinny for a 20 year old?

  505. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy

    “Stella Gray” will fit right in here. She will provide tall, handsome young daddies the honor of dating mature-ish yet immature-ish, deep-ish yet shallow-ish, clued-in-ish yet clueless-ish, non-game-ish yet game-ish granma-ish idiot-ish woman.

    Right FatB’StardSA? 😉

  506. FunDude says:

    @Southern

    The only reason I speak about that is because of the delusional nature of many SBs in terms of their allowance “requirements”.

    Being in good shape is important to the vast majority of men. Chubby chasers are a rare breed of males.

  507. FunDude says:

    @Promise

    I will continue to find whatever I find to be a significant value on here. I have given my value points.

    I bet most men think like me (for unmarried men). Most married men are just looking for a mistress on the side.

  508. Promise says:

    @FunDude So Keo was right?

  509. SouthernSB says:

    @FunDude-OK those are your terms and it’s your right to have them, and they actually make sense. However some women are a little less in shape than others and some men don’t give two bits about that. In fact some men embrace women with a few more pounds. They like cuddly. Be that as it may. You don’t want to give allowance to women outside of the traditional SB/SD dynamic. That’s all and good, but you don’t have to convince the whole world that your way is the only way or I’ll start to believe that thou protesth too much and you really are a closet chubby chaser.

  510. Promise says:

    @FunDude Since you sound nice I would definitely help you if I could. I don’t know if my profile is one of the ones you’ve laughed at, but if it was I hope it was a tear jerker. :)

  511. FunDude says:

    @Keo

    Different people have different purposes. Can’t figure that out yet?

    Married SDs probably just want someone on the side to have fun with (sexually) and to probably go on trips with. That is a significant population on here.

    Other non married SDs just want an “arrangement” to have someone to bang, have fun with, etc.

    Some non married SDs are looking for a longer term relationship but will accept just a “fuck buddy” relationship for an allowance if necessary.

    I highly doubt anyone is looking for a “platonic” relationship that involves exchanging money.

  512. Keo says:

    Oops meant becomes

  513. FunDude says:

    @Promise

    I don’t need “luck”. I will just keep booting SB potentials until I get my goals. Until then, I can laugh at their profiles and watch them log off within 1 to 2 months.

  514. Keo says:

    Oh! You are hoping your SB because your GF? I’m confused. I thought guys wanted SB’s because they didn’t want GF’s. You may need explain it again if I’m still misunderstanding.

  515. FunDude says:

    @Keo

    I said turns into a long term relationship. Read it again.

  516. Promise says:

    @FunDude Good luck man. You seem to definitely need it. Have you weeded through the newer accounts yet?

  517. Keo says:

    @FunDude okay so you want a long term SB that’s young, fun, sexy and sexual. That understands that it won’t turn into a relationship. I missing anything?

  518. FunDude says:

    @Keo

    I don’t really want an “escort” type of relationship. I was looking for a TRADITIONAL sugar daddy/baby relationship.

    However, an “arrangement” that doesn’t really involve a long term relationship is really just an “escort” that you have fun with.

    I mean do you honestly believe men are going to pay thousands of dollars per month to have a “platonic relationship”?

    Women who come on here expecting men to give them thousands of dollars because they have a kid they want me to pay for, or don’t want to do “anything sexual” are really just delusional.

  519. Keo says:

    @FunDude why don’t you look up an escort service. And I’m not trying to be funny. You need something more to the point.

  520. FunDude says:

    @Fly

    That kind of shit happens all the time with women lol. I block that type of woman regardless of age.

    If she “flakes” out on me, unless its a really really good reason, I’m done.

    No point in dealing with flakes.

  521. FunDude says:

    Don’t understand the concept of an “arrangement” that is basically just hanging out a few times a month. That is an illogical concept that has no value to me, regardless of the age of the female.

    I categorize types of “relationships” as:

    1) Most valuable: Younger attractive female who is easy to get along with for a serious relationship with. This would include vacations, restaurants, etc. I could help financially as well (likely would live with me eventually). This would be the highest order “sugar daddy” relationship.

    2 a) Actually relationship with a woman in her early 30s that is fit, attractive and easy to get along with. Vacations, restaurants, etc would be part of the deal.

    b) Valuable: attractive female in her 20s that will “hang out” a few times a month for basically sexual relations. This can be an allowance as well for this type of behavior.

    3) Less Valuable: attractive woman in 30s and above to “hang out” with a few times a month in a sexual arrangement. This would require a lower allowance than the number 2 arrangement.

    4) Useless: “platonic” relationship with a female of ANY age regardless of looks. She could be a damn supermodel that is 20 years old but I won’t pay to just “hang out in a platonic” manner.

  522. FlyBoy says:

    It’s going to be mostly games played with betas

  523. FlyBoy says:

    @GeorgiaPeach take a look at this “Stella Gray” of yours:

    She was messaging online with Henry who is,

    An ex-policeman, Henry was tall and upright, broad-shouldered, and had a knowing look around the eyes, as if he’d been bashed by life and survived, and wasn’t going to be a pushover. He was also near bald, but a woman of 50 who has issues with hair-loss had better go and buy a stack of jigsaws in readiness for the long nights alone.

    Good so far, she got distracted by, a better one I am sure,

    While I was pondering, I received a surprise invitation to dinner. I emailed Henry and said that I thought it best to tell him that on Saturday I was going out to dinner with a man I vaguely knew. He didn’t reply, and when I went back on the site I discovered that he’d blocked me, so that I couldn’t send him another message. The man who was going to take me out to dinner realized on Thursday afternoon that he was still in love with his ex-wife, and cancelled.

    If you are 20 and drop dead gorgeous, you can play games and get away with it. And even then, it going mostly games played with betas. However at 50!!!!!

    I will return shortly to this fascinating subject!

    Cheers :)

  524. FunDude says:

    The value in dating me within a relationship would be obvious. That is the type of “arrangement” that I would consider valuable longer term.

    An “arrangement” that is just basically hanging out a couple of times a month would be more of an escort type of thing for me. That type of relationship would usually only be a few months with constant sex during each visit at a minimum. What else would I really be paying for in this situation? Company? I don’t need platonic “company” and definitely not going to “pay” for that.

  525. FunDude says:

    @Southern

    Huh? Yeah my inbox gets filled with these types of women.

    Also, I do a search and find notice their profiles.

    I am not “against” a woman over 30, just has to be added into the overall value picture.

    If a woman is basically my age, I don’t see why I would pay an “allowance”. Not logical.

    I don’t even like the concept of an “allowance” per say but I can only see that for a significantly younger woman (almost 10 years and more younger than myself).

    A traditional Sugar Daddy/Baby relationship is largely a real RELATIONSHIP. She can obtain money through gifts, trips, rent, etc while we are actually in a real relationship.

    An “arrangement” is more of an escort type of thing. If I am paying for that type of “arrangement”, I expect sex on demand and other things.

  526. SouthernSB says:

    @FunDude-Do you have a problem with women over 30 as a whole or do you just have a problem with women over 30 in the sugarspace?
    You seem to complain a lot about “delusional” women who are either fat or old and are looking for “substanial” or “high” amounts of money for “platonic” relationships.
    Why are you bothering with these women? Is it just that your inbox is being filled with these “crazy” people? What on earth are you doing to attract these woman?
    Are you 50, look like Bradly Cooper, worth 100 million dollars and love kittens and puppies? Do you have some charity that feeds starving children overseas? Are you an exiled prince? What is it?
    Or do you just look up these profiles for shitz and giggles?

  527. FunDude says:

    My month is coming up shortly for SA subscription. I am debating whether I should renew again or just wait and watch for newer ladies coming onto the website.

    There appears to be a steady flux of women on this website. Every month, a bunch appear to fall off with a good number coming onto the website.

    I will notice a SB on the site constantly for hours each day for about 1 or 2 months, then immediately disappear. It appears that most of them are failing at the sugar world because they want money immediately and offer nothing in return.

  528. Keo says:

    @Candi your welcome!

  529. Keo says:

    @Struggle yes bedbugs. But they are everywhere. Not just Chicago and at some of the best hotels. There is a bedbugs registry that you can check.

  530. Candi says:

    Thanks @Keo. I looked on raveable.com they have the Omni and Drake Hotel as not having any reports of bedbugs in the last 12 months.

  531. Keo says:

    @Struggle… the struggle is truly real for the AA SB’s huh. Lol I don’t know if it’s discrimination though. A lot of SD’s are white and married. So it’s hard to play us off as a relative if they are out and about. AND they don’t just us attractive. That’s cool. I have many friends who would never date a white person because they don’t find them attractive. To each their own. But for me.. I like who likes me. Lol

  532. Promise says:

    @FunDude have you been doing this a while? I’m looking for someone to critique my profile and since you’re an SD who better to ask? Unless you know someone better I should ask?

  533. Bedbugs…pesty little assholes that demand substantial allowances, or they bite you.

  534. FunDude says:

    @Struggle

    I’m not looking for drop dead gorgeous either. Just somewhat attractive.

    Can’t be a BBW.

  535. FunDude says:

    @Struggle

    Going decently but not sufficiently impressed.

    Just looking for a normal, relatively attractive female in her 20s that isn’t annoying as hell, somewhat sophisticated, etc. Not as easy as it sounds.

    Eventually I will find something I find acceptable.

    Taking my time and enjoying my time laughing about delusional SB profiles.

  536. FunDude says:

    Here is one looking for a “moderate” allowance:

    32 y/o “separated” female. At least she is thin.

    “Seeking thrill seeker! I HATE roller coasters! However, my daughter has never been to an amusement park. I am looking for someone to have fun with, who may or may not have kids, I just ask you be a gentleman and patiently wait for moments to show us a good guy we can blush and talk about. She tries to meddle in my heart these days and frankly I just need to show her to HAVE FUN! Kids grow up so fast. Help us all stay young and screaming our heads off in holy cow heaven! Being on the water is also new to her so….here’s to fun in the sun!”

    So you get the baggage of her telling you about her kid and supporting her while “going slow” like a gentleman!

    This can all be had for 5,000 dollars/month!

    WHAT A BARGAIN! Where do I sign up?

  537. StruggleIsReal says:

    @FunDude
    How did the messaging process go with the good prospects you mentioned a few days ago?

    @YGBKM @Josh
    There is no debate here. The less hot, cool, and smart the girl, the less of a man and allowance she is going to get.
    The only area I do think is just unfortunate is the one of African American ladies, because I believe they are discriminated against regardless of how adequately they fulfill all of those aspects. That said, there are certainly many success stories and there are many men who do target them specifically. There is definitely a good market for them.

  538. FunDude says:

    Whats up PEOPLE!

    I’m back.

    Checking out the Search for today while in the airport since getting stuck in ATL. Don’t go to Virginia when it snows, they can’t handle it!

    At least I got upgraded to first class for my flight tonight.

    Search Results for SA today:

    1) 44 y/o who is seeking “substantial” allowance
    2) 51y/o BBW looking for a “moderate” allowance
    3) A handful of hotter younger ladies. Unfortunately the first one asked for money “upfront” before meeting lol

    Oh well.

  539. a latin opinion says:

    Watching The Matrix marathon on TNT! Fuck@&$ awesome!

  540. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Keo
    Oh gross. Are you serious (about the bedbugs)?! Yack.

  541. Keo says:

    @YGTBKM….And so it is written. ..

  542. Keo says:

    @Candi both are great hotels right on Michigan Ave. But the Drake is right across the street from the Nordstrom building and Michael Jordan Steakhouse ( the food is phenomenal) is in the Drake. Just check to make sure neither has had any bedbugs recently. Chicago is really dealing with an problem on that front.

  543. Before the war starts again, please allow me to throw the first bomb :).

    In the mainstream and grand scheme of things…

    The older, rounder, browner, frowner (uglier), less sounder (stupiderest) you are…

    The more you suck, and the less you’ll be “paid” to do so.

    If anyone has any reason why this should not be law, speak now, and stroke Guru’s and friends’ subsequent erections :).

    Ain’t that right, babe?

  544. Keo says:

    I suck at gambling

  545. Oh lord (you, too, Guru), please not this debate again.

  546. Lainey mentioned a phone that stores two SIM cards, and can text, send and receive calls from two different numbers.

  547. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Flyboy @Josh and other SD’s
    I read the 2015 series of articles written by “Stella Gray.” I’m with her. In fact, I’ve been where she has been, several times now. If either or both or all of you could simply walk in my shoes for a day, maybe then you would understand. Most women, do have a wonderful,smart mind. Shame you feel its such a waste of your time.

  548. Re Go*gle Vo*ce

    I think it works pretty well for receiving calls. Have not tried it for dialing out.

    I’m not sure, though, that there is a way to set up voicemail so that the caller doesn’t hear the Go*gle Vo*ce greeting.

    Anyone?

  549. Candi says:

    This is for @KennaKenna and @Keo. I plan on visiting Chicago next month. I am treating myself to a weekend of relaxation. I heard that The Drake is on Magnificient Mile in Chicago. Is it better than the Omni hotel. I have stayed at the Omni in Indianapolis Indiana back in 2009. I really did like it there did not want to leave. I am just doing some research. I want to be near shopping and sightseeing destinations.

  550. Every time I think of making an illogical comment, I stop and think, “What would the almighty Guru say?” And then, I refrain from making the illogical comment, and instead I take a nice firm dildo, and fuck myself silly.

    As a woman, my thoughts are so illogical that I find it easier to just leave the dildo in place…Tickles me pink.

    What I’m trying to say here is that Ive taken my hands off the wheel because my Lord JoshGuru is my co-pilot. That is why he showers me with holy praises such as Princess Hogwash Highest Priestess of Hogwashness. Well, that, and because he loves me. Ain’t that right, babe?

  551. Promise says:

    @Struggle I’m actually from Miami. You’re so lucky. Say hi to Mickey for me if you get the chance.
    @Keo and I actually bought a lot of hot pack (little packs that have some sort of black stuff in it that gets hot when the air hits it) I remember one year I saw some being sold at Wal-Mart and Target. I also see them being sold in little convenience stores.

  552. StruggleIsReal says:

    I don’t have central heat where I live (I could, but I dislike it.). I have one space heater. One of my dogs always sleeps with me (he’s about 50 lbs). A couple nights ago, I woke up and he wasn’t there. He is my other space heater 😉 But I looked to see where he was, and he had pulled his pillow out of his crate, dragged it right next to the space heater, and was curled up on it literally right next to the heater, possibly even touching it. Haha
    I made him come back to bed, and for the first time, he actually let me put him under the covers, which he would NOT do before. He didn’t trust it. Now he is a huge fan of being under the covers.
    It’s been really cold. I head to Miami next week for work for a day and a half, but then up to Chicago to see SD. I’m going from quite cold, to beautiful and warm, to FREEZING cold. I am someone who hates cold in general and loves warm and sunshine. I must have lost my mind.

  553. Keo says:

    @Southern It’s been -9 and higher. I hate this weather.

  554. Keo says:

    @Flyboy Riiiiight! But we are talking about @Josh. Lol

  555. SouthernSB says:

    *sigh*

  556. SouthernSB says:

    @FlyBoy-I have nothing to say…

  557. SouthernSB says:

    Whoops I meant it’s been in the teens and twenties at night here. Way too cold, some of the people here don’t even have heat in their houses. They keep warm with space heaters and their fireplaces. It’s been so cold that I’ve had to crank up my window unit to 88 and turn my oven on. I live in the most drafty apt. known to man.

  558. SouthernSB says:

    @Promise, Keo and Kenna-I’ve been feeling so bad for you all. I live in GA and although the weather has been bad for us, temps in the 20’s and 30’s at night and the 30’s and 40’s in the day, I can’t imagine what you all have had to go through with the temps. in the negative lower digits. Brrrrrr…
    Stay warm, and don’t let the snow get you down.
    I saw a flock of robins today so spring can’t be that far away.

  559. FlyBoy says:

    @SouthernSB

    We may have to look in mirror from time to time but it’s not very often. This is the picture included with the article above.

    []http://tinyurl.com/q946xtc[]

    No one looking at this picture, will conclude that the optics are not right. Indeed they all look beautiful.

    Cheers :)

  560. SouthernSB says:

    Oh, the Second City and the Miracle Mile. I always wanted to visit Chicago. I went one time for a week but I didn’t have time to see anything as I was visiting my cousin’s family.

  561. FlyBoy says:

    Yes @Keo, It is illogical to follow an illogical conversation .. lol

  562. Promise says:

    I live in Massachusetts. I know your struggle. It especially sucks when you use to live in a place that was hot, humid, and sunny most of the time.

  563. Keo says:

    @SSouthern I live in Chicago. @Josh Why are you even following our conversation if it’s so illogical. Lol

  564. SouthernSB says:

    @Josh-What….NY is a fantastic, exciting city but the weather sucks!! I like being warm.

  565. Josh says:

    Fresh off the press example of typical female “communication”.

    Keo says:

    “@Kenna Every year I ask myself why do you I still live here. It’s been arctic here!”

    The key basis for complaint; fucking ass-freezing cold 8-9 months out of the year.

    SouthernSB responds:

    “Keo-Do you live in NYC too. I know why you live in the City even though it’s cold. It’s the greatest place on the planet!!! I miss the City and I’d move back if it weren’t for the weather.”

    Then they get upset when someone points out “female ‘logic'” or “circular logic”.

    Hahahahahaha!!!

    One more reason to not engage in oft-touted “communication” with women.

  566. SouthernSB says:

    Keo-Do you live in NYC too. I know why you live in the City even though it’s cold. It’s the greatest place on the planet!!! I miss the City and I’d move back if it weren’t for the weather.

  567. Keo says:

    @Kenna Every year I ask myself why do you I still live here. It’s been arctic here!

  568. SouthernSB says:

    @FlyBoy-It’s a shame she can’t see her own hypocrisy. She really has no reason to complain. If she wants James Bond she really needs to look like a Bond girl. Here’s what I think the real complaints come from, especially on this board, men who are 50 and wayyy above who are less than the “silver” fox who are only will to keep a SB in a “minimal” lifestyle and they expect them to be 22 and look like a supermodel. Really? Seriously? That’s just as bad as the 50 yr. old “SB” who had 4 kids didn’t take care of her herself, only went to “collage” and is trying to find a “George Clooney” to give her a “substantial” amount every month to just exist.
    Look at my situation, I’m 50 (happy birthday to me-just turned last Monday-blowing own horn), with no wrinkles (good genes), I’m just a little overly curvy, I’m smart-I went to college and I’m a prolific reader. I’ve had a lifetime of experience. I’m still cute. I have a sarcastic sense of humor. I’m highly sexed. I love to travel and I love excitement. Now just because I hit some invisible wall back in 2000, all of a sudden the men on this board don’t want anything to do with me? I know it’s a sugar site, where men pay to date women younger than themselves. Well guess what every man from the age of 52 to 90 are younger than I am. I’m realistic and I am willing to wait for “the one” but I expect you to be fair and stop shoving us into the ground without taking a good look in the mirror also.

  569. Josh says:

    @latin,

    “2.- again your stament shows that all that knowledge is used in a non positive way, that kind of doing made people save theirself a LOT of troubles but at the same time made them loose some very beautiful and special moments.”

    There is method to @Guru’s madness. 😉

  570. KennaKenna says:

    @Keo it just started snowing here! -_-

    I’m just so glad I won’t be here next February. Woohoo.

  571. Keo says:

    @Kenna it’s actually a warm day in Chicago. A nice a balmy 31 degrees

  572. StruggleIsReal says:

    @YGBKM
    Thanks dear.
    Me likes yer brain too :)

    @Kenna
    Welcome home! Rest up buttercup!

  573. KennaKenna says:

    Hey Blog folks!

    I’m finally back in NYC, it’s freezing but it feels soooo good to be home in my bed, well his bed… I hope everyone is great and staying warm!

  574. Keo says:

    On my way to the 4 Winds Casino. I feel like an addict going during day light hours. Lol

  575. Keo says:

    @Kenna. How the hell did I miss that!! Congratulations! Now get thee to Maternal Fetal Medicine. I’m pretty sure you’re high risk on your meds.

  576. @Struggle

    I like the way you think :).

    “@josh and @Ygbkm is soooo cute and rewarding see mami and papi expressing their love to each other. Awwwwww”

    He does know the way to my heart. Ain’t that right, babe?

  577. a latin opinion says:

    @josh

    1.- correct answer; there is, now and then, exceptions to the rule
    (-;

    2.- again your stament shows that all that knowledge is used in a non positive way, that kind of doing made people save theirself a LOT of troubles but at the same time made them loose some very beautiful and special moments.

    3.- thank you. (-: that meant a lot.

  578. StruggleIsReal says:

    @FlyBoy
    “very nice to you, but will NOT hesitate to call you on your bullshit.

    Note, there are two distinct qualities. Nice, and firm. These two opposing qualities only exist in strong and secure men.”

    So so true!!
    That is a lot of the reason I tend to like older, successful men. Usually it is these men who have the confidence and experience that lends to these qualities.

  579. a latin opinion says:

    @josh and @Ygbkm is soooo cute and rewarding see mami and papi expressing their love to each other. Awwwwww

  580. a latin opinion says:

    @flyboy yeahhhhhhhhh coliooooo thank you you are a sweetheart (-:

  581. FlyBoy says:

    Very, very simple, latin. The man you want is:

    very nice to you, but will NOT hesitate to call you on your bullshit.

    Note, there are two distinct qualities. Nice, and firm. These two opposing qualities only exist in strong and secure men.

    In the beginning you will have to remind yourself to look for them, after a while it becomes automatic.

    Cheers :)

  582. FlyBoy says:

    StruggleIsReal Your thinking is right on the mark. Don’t let your emotions sway you from the right path. If you want a rich and successful man to commit to you, be young and healthy. It’s a simple formula.

  583. a latin opinion says:

    Sorry…

    For me is easy to identify the good womans from the masses, some pointers on how to do it with guys?

  584. a latin opinion says:

    Lol @flyboy my logic less brain is getting fried for the extra work but are you saying to keep the ones strong ones? Im trying but can’t get it right from the begging. How can I know if they will be “C” from the start? Some help please?

    For me is easy to

  585. StruggleIsReal says:

    @FlyBoy
    I guess I am in the minority, because I tend to find older men more attractive than younger men and men my age. This doesn’t represent my current situation, which has presented itself completely unexpectedly, but that truly is my norm.

    In previous generations and even still, there has been propagated some sort of negativity on a younger woman going for an older man. That is frustrating because, to me, it makes a lot more sense. Regardless, I do what I want and don’t care what others think enough to alter my way of thinking and interacting.

    That woman’s blog article is just her outlet, and that particular post is her whining. It does represent a broad way if thinking if many women around her age right now. Generations past have put forth the model of similarly-aged individuals marrying and spending their lives together. Sure this is fine for some and even great for some. But I think it is not best for most.

    I told my SD that in order to make him “perfect”, I would add at least 10 years to him. He’s really smart and he understands what I am saying. I’m actually grappling a good deal right now with exclusivity with him, for this very reason.

    I will say that for me to date an older man though, he is going to have to be quite successful and to put it bluntly, rich. I won’t date an older man who is nice, handsome, and not somewhat wealthy. This to me is the trade off and is why I am drawn to Sugar. But I have my standards and others have theirs.

  586. You mean a real sugar baby?!?! 😀

    Confetti and balloons! Congrats, Kenna.

    Can I be the nanny?

  587. FlyBoy says:

    Read this article by an old fatty. She is complaining that men want women half their age and not the experienced and interesting ones like her. That unlike men, she is not shallow and only looks at, you know, that 55yo silver fox who is tall and handsome. Yes no shallowness whatsoever!!! lol

    At least it’s better than the sugar bowl where old and wrinkled complains about handsome, successful and generous guys not paying attention to them.

    []http://tinyurl.com/m8w7tc8[]

    Cheers :)

  588. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Promise
    I have used Hushed. It kind of sucks. Pretty bad voice-call connection and delayed/ never delivered texts.
    I do not know about Google, but will check it out at some point just out of curiosity.

    @All
    I have removed my profile. What is happening. Ahhhhh haha

  589. ErikTheRed says:

    @Kenna

    Congratulations! That’s wonderful!

  590. Promise says:

    Are there other things like Google Voice? Is Google Voice the best option out there?

  591. StruggleIsReal says:

    Methinks we are correct in this assumption. Good job @Online. You nailed it!
    Okay so if she is already having morning sickness, and she came off BC after her last period in December, we guesstimate our princess to be about how pregnant? 7 weeks?

  592. Josh says:

    @Guru thinks that @Kenna is pregnant.

  593. Oh wait…that’s right!

    Labor Day wedding. It’s perfect 😀

  594. @kenna

    Here…

    Pee on this stick.

  595. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Josh
    I googled it just now.
    I think it must have been Scop. I didn’t think I would have motion sickness, but on a ship that big, I did. Fortunately my mom had taken others’ advice ahead of time and got a prescription for the patches in case any of us did get sick. Most of us ended up needing them after a while. They make you drowsy and loopy and I drank wine with mine on (dumb I know but hell I was on vacation. LoL), and passed the fuck out. Hard! Probably the sun all day and stuff also had something to do with it.

    But I don’t think Kenna has the same kind if nausea, if I understand correctly!

  596. Josh says:

    @Struggle

    I don’t know if Dramamine is available as behind the ear patch. I am familiar with OTC tablets. Scopolamine, however, is a behind the ear patch and is available with prescription. I have never used it.

  597. StruggleIsReal says:

    Just catching up here.

    @ATL
    The scenarios need much more relevant info to give a proper assesment. It all depends.
    Offering allowance already or not? Age/appearance disparity? What her needs are v. what SDs needs/wants are? How long/ involved in relationship already? Etc.

    @ss1959
    Re: TextNow (textnow.com)
    Thanks for that! I’m going to check it out.

    @MissLady
    I need to check out Google voice. I have been meaning to. Thanks!

    @Josh
    Is Dramamine that patch that you put behind your ear? I can’t remember, but I had to do that patch on a cruise a few years ago. Do not drink alcohol with that patch on! It will knock you out! Haha

    @KennaKenna says:
    February 19, 2015 at 12:57 pm
    @ONSD you were right. I’m so full of mixed emotions right now.

    Whaaaat?!?!?!

    @FunDude
    I think sex with a willing, attractive female sounds like a great idea. Why would this be a question for you?

  598. Josh, my love…

    Had I known that all you’ve wanted all this time is for me to be exclusively yours, and serve you peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, I would’ve left your balls intact. Allow me to repair things, dear. One stitch at a time.

    Thank you for your loving words this morning. Brace me as I swoon.

  599. Josh says:

    @latin

    1. I knew you were a woman because you claimed the @y knewwhat she was talking about.

    2. The more I know about women, the more I don’t want to have an exclusive woman for me.

    3. You’re are a good woman. So do what’s best for you.

  600. FlyBoy says:

    *than —> that … duh

  601. FlyBoy says:

    A tweet from a intelligent man:

    “Ever notice that the guys than complain about “gold diggers”, don’t have the kind of money where they would ever be a gold digger’s target”

    Yep, so true

  602. FlyBoy says:

    latin, do not feel bad sweetheart. All men have been bitten by the snake. Their reaction will tell you what they are made of.

    Some will,

    A. Run away and never come anywhere near anything that looks like a snake.

    B. Run away and be very careful about which snake look-alike to approach.

    C. Slap the snake and tell it to make them a sandwich.

    I know logic is not a girl’s best friend, but trust me as I tell you; you want to stick to C type guys.

    You are Welcome

  603. a latin opinion says:

    )-: you made me feel bad, I was happy after reading the blog lol and then being silly leaving you the small test and now you made me feel sad.

    I know Im not as bad as they think, I could have chosen to stay for my own benefits but I can’t! When I see my feelings or theirs are going over the bord I stop it. Why keep going with something you know will end bad for some of us? If I found one that goes on my same path I will happily go with him all the way! (-:

    I won’t harm/use nobody.

  604. a latin opinion says:

    Is not that )-: don’t make me feel bad. I can’t have good, passionate sex, multi orgasmic sex unless I care/respect/ admire the guy. But if at the same time he isn’t able to gave me what I need/will stop me from reach a goal/ is not in my current plans I go straight and tell him the true that is basically about sex and me not being able to really enjoy unless we are kind of good friend and respect each other. They are always ok the problem is always when they demand more of what I can give and Im in some way force to stop seeing them )-:

  605. a latin opinion says:

    @josh guru, two questions.

    1.- what rule applies to me? I chose a non sex definition name but explicitly when and get a picture of my legs so people could see I was a woman. (Don’t disappoint me, think hard lol)

    And 2.- I will think you know how women roll even better that we do ourselves when you do. So far you dont baby. You know how the majority of us work but haven’t show me that you know how to weed them, how to take out the bad ones, find a nice, strong and good one and make it yours! that’s the real deal.

    (-:

  606. Josh says:

    @latin how did you decide to mindfuck your current guy?

  607. a latin opinion says:

    Oh guys you are sooo cool! You don’t know how much fun is to end my day and take some time to read all the satirist comments and the irony in the all way this blog work. I love you guys you made my day a little bit more fun.

  608. Josh says:

    Hmmm, your attempt on being “fair and balanced”? 😉

  609. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    God. Sometimes I think I must have an “inner blonde” in me. You were talking to Promise. LOL. I think it’s time for me to go find my warm bed. Evening folks.

  610. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    Who said I want INSIDE your briefs? LOL I was just asking the question. LOL And I suspect there are more here who realize that you are indeed that “basement-dwelling-idiot” than you know. Plus I know CPR. 😉

  611. Josh says:

    GeorgiaPeach

    “you must be a smart guy because of the language you use and your interpretations of the comments made here…”

    Shhhh…don’t say it out in the open. Few people here–who have spent many months trying to convince others that I were a basement-dwelling idiot–would have a collective heart attack. 😉

  612. Josh says:

    @Promise

    “@Georgia Peach I’d perfer to stay outside of his briefs or boxers for the time being.”

    You don’t need to worry. I don’t share the inside of my briefs with blog SBs. Sorry. 😉

  613. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    “Subtle Josh. Real subtle.”

    Huh!!!!?

    “Boxers or briefs?”

    Inny or outy?

  614. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    Subtle Josh. Real subtle.
    Thanks. So? Boxers or briefs?

  615. Promise says:

    @Georgia Peach I’d perfer to stay outside of his briefs or boxers for the time being.
    @Josh How high are we flying. I don’t really like heights.

  616. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach,

    I do like having human fans, along with the Big Ass fan. 😉

  617. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    Let’s see… likely you’ve been thinking of all this logic stuff for a long time.. I mean the female rules, explanations, “logic” things you’re so clever at saying. You’ve either had the experience or you are just smart and witty enough to cum up with these clever little things you tell us. And you must be a smart guy because of the language you use and your interpretations of the comments made here…. Maybe the SB’s here should consider getting into your briefs… or is it boxers?

  618. Josh says:

    Women live in a fantasy world.

    Men interact with women in a fantasy space because they either want to screw them (plus their men) financially or screw them (typically minus their men) in one or many of their orifices.

    Women interact with other women in the fantasy space because they love flying about in that fucking fantasy.

  619. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    “@Josh
    Damn you are good. Been doing this a long time, huh?”

    “Been doing” what for a long time?

  620. Keo says:

    @Promise: How are you doing? Good luck with the friend thing. The denizens of this blog reply thing can be pretty blunt.

    Truer words have never been said. Lol And thanks @Resop2 for your prospective! I will keep in mind that SD’s might not even know I’m viewing them.

  621. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    Damn you are good. Been doing this a long time, huh?

  622. Promise says:

    @Josh well your law is correct. I am an SB. I BSB to be specific.

  623. Josh says:

    @Promise

    “@FlyBoy: I guess Josh has a good eye then.”

    @Josh understands female bullshit fairly well, and calls it out frequently.

    The female “logic” behind gender-neutral monkier is that they ass-u-me that by choosing a gender-neutral moniker and talking in gender-neutral style they can speak from both sides of their mouths for both SBs and SDs. Which is yet another figment of female imagination. 😉

  624. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Y
    Josh has one cock eye, one lazy eye, and a third eye…of “wisdom”. His third eye really is wise, actually…Wiser than his cock eye, anyway

    LMAO. Spit out the stir-fry I was nibbling on. You got that one exactly. I love it… Where is Joshy-boy? Hmmm

  625. Im gonna be good now. Im sorry for my naughty ways.

    [whispers]

    please dont tell pimpinSD

  626. Josh has one cock eye, one lazy eye, and a third eye…of “wisdom”. His third eye really is wise, actually…Wiser than his cock eye, anyway.

  627. Promise says:

    @FlyBoy: I guess Josh has a good eye then.

  628. “@Y So do I get GFE included in the fifteen”

    Yep…total GFE and mile high bj. Fifteen thousand dolla holla, bitches.

    You ready, flyboy? Put this pussy on ya…

    Im sorry. That was completely inappropriate.

  629. Promise says:

    O-O Well wow…

  630. FlyBoy says:

    The law says, if the username does not positively indicate the sex the owner, then it must be an SB. It seems to work every time lol

  631. Promise says:

    @FlyBoy: Thank you. What are these laws?
    @resop2:I’m fine, and you? It’s ok I think I really need it since I’m feel I’m to sensitive to criticism.

  632. resop2 says:

    @Promise: How are you doing? Good luck with the friend thing. The denizens of this blog reply thing can be pretty blunt.

  633. FlyBoy says:

    I am going to use Josh’s Law of SB Usernames and bet that Promise is an SB :)

    Welcome Promise

  634. resop2 says:

    @Keo: If a SB favorites my profile then I usually send a message asking if there was anything in my profile that caught her eye (unless she is too far away from what I am looking for).

    I will do this even if I know that the SB has not seen my profile, just to show her that the profile is live.

    It is important to replay in a timely fashion since 2/3rds of the time the SB profile will be dead within a week.

    I have turned off alerts for SB’s just viewing the profile. If they view it and do not message or favorite that is a really good indicator that they have zero interest.

  635. Promise says:

    Hello SB’s and SD’s. I’m new to this thing, but hope to make some great friends here.

  636. Lana says:

    @FlyBoy
    Thanks! Avoiding it is.

    @GeorgiaPeach
    I know I checked Google but it was confusing b/c different sites had different takes on it.

  637. FlyBoy says:

    @GeorgiaPeach … EVERYTHING … <- Yes lol

    @Y So do I get GFE included in the fifteen

    lol

  638. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FlyBoy
    Hmmm. I suspect you do kiss EVERYTHING…and more. 😉

  639. “FlyBoy says:
    February 20, 2015 at 2:32 pm
    I do sweetheart, it’s the whores that don’t. Hence some of them offer GFE as an added service … lol

    Ohhh .. I kiss a lot, and I kiss everything”

    Ten thousand dolla holla.

    @FlyBoy

    My profile pic is like twenty thousand dolla holla. I’m more like fifteen thousand dolla holla. You wanna? :p

  640. flyR says:

    In this world of social media and relentless application of facial recognition there are real privacy concerns for both parties.

    You and MZ jiggles are photographed at a restaurant together , no harm-no foul until the little mz and her next boyfriend are stopped with 4kg of coke. Her booking photo just happens to match a photo of the two of you on a long forgotten photo that never left a computer or so you thought. But google was prowling around the photo album and suddenly found a picture with you and mz . Ever wonder why google’s biggest customer is the feds ? The next thing you know is that two DEA gumshoes are at your door 7am Sunday morning . If you are not cooperative that little picture of you and mz wonderful will suddenly fall into the Smoking Gun inbox.

    If you are with someone you should not be with no photos but even there you are not safe from security cameras.

  641. FlyBoy says:

    I do sweetheart, it’s the whores that don’t. Hence some of them offer GFE as an added service … lol

    Ohhh .. I kiss a lot, and I kiss everything :)

  642. FlyBoy says:

    Don’t tell me; this isn’t a work of art!

    []http://tinyurl.com/mco4ndk[]

    Absolutely beautiful.

  643. Josh says:

    GFE is something women do in the beginning of their relationship with a man until they learn enough of their deep dark secrets to hit them over the head with.

  644. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FlyBoy
    So, you don’t kiss when you fuck?

  645. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Lana
    urban dictionary says it’s is ” Girl Friend Experience”

  646. FlyBoy says:

    @lana
    GFE = Girlfriend Experience. In other words he is a john looking for a whore that will fuck him as if she were his girlfriend, kissing and all.

    Avoid

  647. Keo says:

    @Josh what GeorgiaP said…

  648. Lana says:

    what does the GFE mean?

  649. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    But you make it so easy for us to do that.

  650. Josh says:

    @Keo

    “@Josh I would do that but last I checked you were hoarding them all. No tears I hope.
    Now learn to share”

    To ass-u-me comes so naturally to women. :(

  651. Keo says:

    @Online Thanks! :^*

  652. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @FlyBoy – nice pic link you shared…redheads are the best, aren’t they?

  653. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Keo – gravatar.com create profile and choose pic…

  654. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    Sorry all…I’ve been business busy, not Sugar busy…wish it were sweeter work, but it’ll all wash out in the end…

    If @YGBKM needs a bunker, it’s up to her to find it 😉 and there’s a stiff “tax” for even short-term residents 😉

  655. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – REALLY?!?!?!?!?

  656. Keo says:

    How do you make a avatar?

  657. Keo says:

    @Everyone else. Thanks for the advice. Will follow!

  658. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    Are you having a bad day, Honey?

  659. Keo says:

    @Josh I would do that but last I checked you were hoarding them all. No tears I hope. :-)
    Now learn to share

  660. Josh says:

    @Keo

    “Hey! No one answered my question! What’s up with that?!”

    I would not know but if I were to guess, maybe some of us were waiting for you to find a firm dildo and fuck yourself to make you less demanfing?

  661. Keo says:

    Thanks. I meant to ask weeks ago. I was favorite a few times but I was waiting on them to send me something a then I guess they unfavorite’d me :-(. You snooze you lose I guess. Damn!

  662. ss1959 says:

    @Keo, email the POT SD. That’s what I would want you to do. And don’t just send one or two sentences. Write something that could pique his interest and provide fodder for a conversation.

  663. FlyBoy says:

    @Y is that you in your gravitar?

  664. @keo

    Favoriting is sometimes used to make a note of someone you’d perhaps like to follow up on at a later time…if someone better doesn’t come along first.

  665. @Keo

    If someone favorites me, I send him an email. I thank him for his interest in my profile, and add a thoughtful note to pique his interest.

  666. Keo says:

    And to add to the two question.. Why am I getting favorited but but no follow up from SD’s.

  667. Keo says:

    Hey! No one answered my question! What’s up with that?!

  668. Keo says:

    @YGTBKM Absolutely!

  669. “a latin opinion says:
    February 20, 2015 at 10:13 am
    Lol @josh and @Ygbkm are my idols, you guys made laugh a lot! Thanks for that.”

    Josh and I are soulmates…true loves..separated by miles and miles of bubble wrap and dental dam.

    Ain’t that right, babe?

  670. Keo says:

    @YGTBKM.. your secret is my secret. SB’s stick together 😉

  671. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy

    Sounds about right. 😉

  672. Josh says:

    @latin,

    Understanding women is one thing. Agreeing and/or going along with what they do is totally different. 😉

  673. @Keo

    Shhhh…..

    You know what they say…

    What happens in the bunker…is billed by the quarter hour.

    [whispers]

    but don’t tell PimpinSD

  674. FlyBoy says:

    []http://s18.postimg.org/4k6b19kt5/redhead10.jpg[]

    If I found an SB that looked like this, I would not hesitate to give her a 10K allowance. Indeed, I would spoil her so much that I will end up spoiling the relationship … lol

  675. Keo says:

    @YGTBKM. .FLateline. lol

  676. Joshysweets,

    I think you have a great idea for a tv show. How do you feel about “Eradicate the Bunker” or “The Thunda from Unda” or “Hell Hath No Fury Like a Flaming Vagina” or “Bunker Wars” or ooh ooh ooh…”Pimp my Bunker” or “My Bunker Your Bunker Sittin’ in a Tree, B.U.R.N.I.N.G”

  677. PrivateSB says:

    @ygtbkm lol they are interchangeable

  678. Keo says:

    @YGTBKM Does Online know your pimping him. Hehe

  679. No worries…

    The bunker lined with bubble wrap and 3-layers of dental dam. Eat up, cowboy.

  680. “PrivateSB says:
    February 20, 2015 at 9:54 am
    @ygtbkm does the guy come with the bunker?”

    Lemme check.

    @Online

    Do you come with the bunker?

    @Private

    Would coming *with* the bunker be the same as coming *in* the bunker? The guy I know requests that you clarify.

  681. Josh says:

    @PrivateSB,

    “@ygtbkm does the guy come with the bunker?”

    If bunker is a code word for STD, then yes.

  682. Keo says:

    Good afternoon my blog peeps!

    Quick question to the SD’s. If you favorite someone do you want them to send you an email?

    SB’s what do you normally do?

  683. a latin opinion says:

    Lol @josh and @Ygbkm are my idols, you guys made laugh a lot! Thanks for that.

    @JOSH since I think we woman are awesome, telling you that you understand us better that you want to show, was in all means a compliment. In other words, thank you for the advice yesterday and I love you. (-;

  684. FlyBoy says:

    Yes, I must agree with you @Josh. I don’t think @PrivateSB is going to get fucked :)

  685. FlyBoy says:

    @Private

    understood. If he took a video of you, that does not mean he is entitled to publish it without your consent. If you have the resources to sue him for breach of contract (NDA), then you can always sue him for using your likeness without your consent. In other words an NDA is simply redundant.

    As for myself, I would think you are bad news if you asked for an NDA. I would think that you will intentionally release something and accuse me of doing it. Hoping to make me pay you to go away.

    So no NDA form me :(

  686. Josh says:

    All @latin is saying is that @Josh understands how women roll better than they think they do themselves. Is that true sweetheart? 😉

  687. PrivateSB says:

    @ygtbkm does the guy come with the bunker?

  688. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy

    “@PrivateSB: What are you trying to protect yourself from?”

    Getting fucked? Neither any SD will sign the NDA nor she will get fucked. 😉

  689. @Private

    If you need a place to hideout, I know a guy with a bunker.

  690. PrivateSB says:

    @flyboy basically what @flyR posted “…no pictures, no identifiable internet posts etc. Probably more important IRL given the number of revenge porn posts”.

  691. FlyBoy says:

    @PrivateSB: What are you trying to protect yourself from?

  692. No pienso que sabes que lo se.

  693. a latin opinion says:

    @Ygbkm tu le dijiste a escarlata?

  694. PrivateSB says:

    @josh they should be more concerned about his mental state

  695. a latin opinion says:

    @josh it was meant to be that (-;

    @Ygbkm I truly think es verdad, leyendo cosas de enero? De verdad? The more I leo lo q el dice mas q creo that Im right.

  696. @Latin

    Nope, nope. No es verdad.

  697. Motherfucker needs to keep his blood to himself.

  698. Josh says:

    @PrivateSB

    “How do SDs feel about an SB asking you to sign an NDA?”

    How do SBs feel when an SD pulls his nine mm out, right in front of them, and shoots himself on his left foot?

    Are they more concerned about the deafening sound of the gunfire?

    Are they more concerned about his audacity to carry a concealed weapon?

    Are they more concerned about possible blood on SBs’ clothes?

    Or are they more concerned about his foot?

  699. flyR says:

    NDA – All depends on the wording and the consequences.

    Reasonable NDA no problem including no pictures, no identifiable internet posts etc. Probably more important IRL given the number of revenge porn posts.

  700. Josh says:

    @latin,

    “Im starting to think you are a woman lol you understand a lot more of what you admit, all under that machista cover.”

    I take it as a compliment. 😉

  701. Jj says:

    “Guuurrrrllllssss!!!!” need to think… new profile… new to area and just want to hang out and meet new people… with a photo of her “project, beer on the 60″ tv and all” clearly taking the photo in the background mirror!!!! YGTBKM!!!!! just say’n…. “Doh!!!!” ‘Homer S.”

  702. PrivateSB says:

    How do SDs feel about an SB asking you to sign an NDA?

  703. a latin opinion says:

    Lol Yes you are sooooo right! You see? Guys also made mistakes, all that has happened to me, (less the part about the money, I know better than to put my self to depend on other person).

    Women and men make mistakes, at least in the sociaty where I come from. (-:

    Have a nice day sweetheart, Im starting to think you are a woman lol you understand a lot more of what you admit, all under that machista cover.

  704. Josh says:

    @latin

    If your stomach is empty and your man is not doing anything about it, then he may be taking you for granted.

    If you’re sick and he is not doing anything about it, then he may be taking you for granted.

    If your kitchen faucet is leaking and he’s not doing anything about it, then he may be taking you for granted.

    If your car needs repairs and he is not fixing it or getting it fixed, he may be taking you for granted.

    If your libido is high and he’s fat or drinks too much that reduce his libido and/or refuses to take viagra or similar drugs, he may be taking you for granted.

    Random shit tests and unrealistic expectations are the basis for female sabotage. That’s why most divorces are filed by women all over the world and NOT men.
    If your man diddles with other women without your knowledge and/or permission, he may be taking you for granted.

  705. Jj says:

    @sexy!!! Guuurrrlll you need to write a song for your routine…. ” I luv this blog”… “my kinda place” ….. “everybody knows your space” … “I luv this blog!!!” I!!!! realllyyy neeed to catch your act somewhere!!! seriously I do!!!

    “SexyRockstar says:
    January 25, 2015 at 7:13 pm
    @Josh

    Ladies going in the bathroom together. It has to be done. It’s like fucking Noah’s Arch. What if the place gets flooded? We need to be with someone who we can share outfits with and shit like that. dddduuuhhhhhh

  706. Jj says:

    “The McRib Is Back!!!”

    I had one of these today for the first time”

    omg. Lol. Haven’t eaten one of those in I-can’t-even-tell-you how long! Were you impressed with the faux grill marks and shaped bone?? ”

    Kinda like Fun’Dud’s … molded “meat” without the bone!!! Give it up “dud” and get a grip… and possibly a life!!! will ya!!! just say’n…….

  707. a latin opinion says:

    @FD if you made her to be super clear that is a one night stand kind of thing it could maybe work good for you but be careful people sometimes tend to be a little “sicopatas”

    Take some of your time to use your brains (not your “best friend”) and try to find out what kind of person does she is before getting your self in troubles. Good night
    everybody.

  708. a latin opinion says:

    believe or not! Funny situations that have happened to me in regular relationship when seeing each other is too frequent.

    Me asking for sex to relax and go to sleep better every night and being told I overvalued sex. (Really? lol)

    A boyfriend who after a while of ending our relationship came and tell me that he felt sexually used by me. (yes of course I did but shouldnt you be happy?)

    A guy who got so comfortable from me surprising him every now and then than once fall asleep during the pre play lol (I was like good that you always take all those pictures to remember because this was your last surprise asshole)

    So in my experience sometimes when guys have their pussy next to them every night they also stop working on getting it, they also made the mistake of taking it for granted.

  709. Jj says:

    @sex!!! I adore you!!! guuuurrrrlll;l!!!! just say’n…..

    have curves and such, I am beautiful…but I keep SDs around because I am fucking awesome. Sex is mind blowing, I have a fantastic personality.

    There will ALWAYS be another girl thinner/hotter then your current SBs…has there will be always a man who is richer. What keeps an arrangement going is the bond two people develop. It always starts off as a purely physical, but then it moves into something deeper.

    Girls: men, are more then ATMs. And Men: women are more then sex objects. If you can find someone who will add an ACTUAL BENEFIT to your life…then yes. That’s success

  710. FunDude says:

    What is everyone’s opinion on having sex with a device rep that works with me? She doesn’t work directly under me or anything.

    She’s a true hot cougar lol She is one of the rare chics that works out often and has a good physique despite not being in her 20s.

  711. a latin opinion says:

    @josh I see your point but (and please tell me if I’m wrong) Isn’t that the way things have always been? Women needing less sex than men.

    Im really playing with their minds? There is not money involve in the relationship. I have a very limited schedule, from 4 days off a month Im giving him 2! That’s 50%! Is a lot not? And Im not asking for anything in return other than that, good chemistry on the time we enjoy together and very good sex.

    I think guys should also put something in the table to add to a regular relationship, if some of this guys start showing me that they care about me enough to for example try to help me in personal areas besides or short time together I WILL be happy to give him more of my time. But I won’t ask them to do it neither I will stop using my time on my behalf, a lot of bills to paid (-:

  712. Josh says:

    Re: Honeymoon Period.

    The reason many men choose to deal with women for short periods is that the honeymoon periods extends for quite some time.

    When you stay with a woman for a longer period of time, a time comes when the honeymoon period ends, and sabotage begins.

  713. flyR says:

    @ATL -It is a wimp answer but it depends.

    Major trip where I paid everything from doorstep to doorstep and we did a lot of things besides get naked, spa , entertainment etc ….. More of a surprise gift at the end. She was in it for the fun and not in need …

    Different woman living in northern CA, she met me at the airport, drove us out to the coast for a winter weekend at a great place . Most of the time in bed enjoying the crashing waves, fireplace, etc… Great dinners and then shooting pool with the local fishermen inner in a bar catering to the fishermen . She’s divorced mother starting her tech company – nice contribution at the end of the weekend because she was great fun,was determined to have me carried out on a stretcher , quality and because it would make a difference in her life and that of her child. Extra points because she was genuinely nice to the people at the place who had gone out of their way to make our stay special.

  714. Josh says:

    *I think that women want to live in la la land.

  715. Josh says:

    @LadyScarlett,

    “Rent is due” is a great motivation to meet. Otherwise, it seems that “something came up” is the norm after they set up meeting when the rent is not due.

    I think that women don’t want to live in la la land. Reality on the ground bothers most women. Can someone please start the Lubes talk please. I promise I will not interfere, like I did in the past. 😉

  716. LadyScarlett says:

    ‘Josh says:
    February 19, 2015 at 6:27 am
    I am not into quick exchanges unless I am meeting someone out of town, which happens very rarely as I am not into such “arrangements”.

    I really don’t want to deal with too many women at one time. I use these “rent is due” situations as an opportunity to bring them to meet&greet.

    I prefer someone who is needy, relatively relible, good actress and decent liar.’

    wow, Josh, really?…looking for needy girls who have ‘rent is due’ desperate situations…kinda reminds me of that forum I posted awhile back, on the usasexguide link about ‘sugar babies, amateurs or not’ and how to scam the desperate SB’s who are in need of rent money or in bad situations..

  717. Josh says:

    *Men oscillate between dumb and dumber, when it comes to dealing with women. 😉

  718. Josh says:

    Of course SouthernSB. Men oscillate between dumb and dumber. 😉

  719. SouthernSB says:

    Oh no @latin I wasn’t speaking to you in particular, I was just noticing all the birth control talk and thought that I would mention the fact that I don’t no longer have to worry about such things, but due to my age most men think I am totally washed up and too old to be a SB. It’s a myth. I’m as highly sexed as I ever was and I’ll never have a pg scare, but in the sugar world, I was “past my prime” 30 years ago. Too bad, they don’t know what they are missing.

  720. Josh says:

    @latin,

    You are playing with your guys’ minds but are not able to see that you are. Don’t feel bad. It’s not just you. Many women do and are oblivious to the fact.

    For men sex is like eating food to fill his stomach on a regular basis. For women sex is like sit down dinner, where all kinds of things need to be in place before a sit down dinner would be considered enjoyable.

    Sure, both men and women claim that they like sex, but the disparity of the need tilts the equation in women’s favor.

  721. Josh says:

    @a latin opinion

    Can’t speak for @FD but I am superrrrr extraaaaaaaa special and sweet. 😉

  722. a latin opinion says:

    Lol I see, that means you and @FD are superrrrr extraaaaaaaa special and sweet lol that’s what you guys go there often. Lol got you, you didn’t told me how to sugarcoat it for him but at least you made me think is possible. (-: thank you.

  723. Josh says:

    Every sweet and special man needs to go MGTOW or at least MGPTOW to conserve his resources and maintain his sanity.

  724. resop2 says:

    Okay, another installment of “SB who writes dumb things” of the week:

    One SB who I saw has in her What I’m Looking For section:

    “Something like Christian Grey but not quiet as rough.”

  725. a latin opinion says:

    Omg! Lol that was hilarious! Lol I don’t see him getting that site, he is sweet and special, that’s why don’t want to lose him.

    @southern you wasn’t referring to me don’t you?

  726. a latin opinion says:

    Got you @josh thank you! Some advice in how to sugar coated when I tell him?

  727. Josh says:

    Another option is to get him going with MGTOW. When he listens to enough of Sandman’s lectures then he will say “fuck that women shit. I am going without them.”

    At this point you can suggest 1-2 times a month as his guilty pleasure. So he would be MGTOW 28 days of the month but the two days would be his escape from MGTOW and Sandman’s bulshit in gay nasal voice.

    That may work?

  728. KennaKenna says:

    @ONSD you were right. I’m so full of mixed emotions right now.

  729. Josh says:

    If he has other things that keep him busy, then 2 times a montht may not be bad. If sex is the most interesting thing in his life then you have a problem.

  730. SouthernSB says:

    Upside when you are 50 you no longer have to worry about having a period, which frees you up to have sex whenever you want.

    Downside is when you are 50 you pretty much get ignored. Feel free to ignore this post.

  731. a latin opinion says:

    Lol omg Im cracking my self up! I like this one! He is 50, Is really that imposible? Come on good times and very good sex every other weekend! Its that crazy? So there is no way I can tell him? is not like we live together or something like that lol

  732. Josh says:

    Dump this guy. Find another one like him but about 70 years-old. He would be fine with once every other week. 😉

  733. a latin opinion says:

    Lol @ josh you are extremely funny! You are right I don’t know how to deal with men that’s why I would really love a good advice! Please lol Im dying in here lol!

    In simple words, I want this guy Im seeing now to don’t be so demanding of my time, I already told him I dont have a lot of time off, that I was just looking to have some good company and sex for those times, he said is ok but is always demanding more and more of my time. What can I do to make him understand will be perfect just one day every other weekend. ?

  734. Josh says:

    @latin

    You’re still all over the map…no worries you are a woman and when it comes to dealing with men, women’s mind fries. So don’t feel bad. 😉

  735. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Miss – yeah, I remembered all those preferences from the “pitch” to use Google Voice originally…but never found the settings to make changes, and didn’t remember any decisions during the initial “install” of Google Voice to the email address.

    I always found it odd that I could not make a call and use GV as caller id, but could not get away from calls in on cell number being rerouted to GV box, so I just dumped the email address it was connected to and used Hushed (or similar) service for text only…claiming phone calls no bueno at any time.

  736. a latin opinion says:

    @josh lol sorry, you are right, I want to know how to handle this guy in the present (lets call him Tim, I really like him, there is very good chemistry and although we haven’t had sex yet he is already very demanding of my time) to don’t get the same results I got with other guys in the past like the guy I was telling you about (lets call him Chris, the guy I told you I tried the lets just fuck approach).

  737. Josh says:

    *any other service…

  738. Josh says:

    I like how Hushed works. It’s just too fucking unreliable.

    I don’t plan to use any other device unless they work the way Hushed operates but with better reliability.

  739. MissLady says:

    @online, when making a call, mine always popped up asking me if I wanted to make this phone call using Google voice or my number. It was a condition I set during set up, eventually I went back in the settings and said never make calls with Google voice (calling someone from a number they never knew you had, no bueno) . I also chose the option to not have it ‘merge’ with my current number, which would make it the default no matter which number was called and never used the voice-mail. It was an acquired taste, but I liked being able to block folks, no call or text quotas, and browser compatible.

  740. Josh says:

    *How many guys…

  741. Josh says:

    @latin

    You’re all over the map.

    How any guys are you talking about?

  742. a latin opinion says:

    @flyboy sorry: i told him and he said he was ok with that* but still he is always asking to see me and we haven’t even had sex yet )-:

  743. a latin opinion says:

    A female friend in my country told me that my problem was that although I told them what I want in the beginning the time I share with them I treat them as kings, that I really make them believe there is not other thing in my self that me being theirs, I kind of understand her point but never paid that much attention because is the only way I know, like if I dont treat the guy like that how can he gave me his best performance in bed you know? Plus since she is a woman I don’t know if she was right (I tend to ask about something to the most similar person I can)

  744. a latin opinion says:

    @flyboy I told it to this new guy (I kind of do always in my own way) and he said as all them than he is ok but he still is always asking to see me )-: it make me feel bad and we haven’t even have sex yet. (And I really like this one)

  745. a latin opinion says:

    @josh what do you exactly meant? To try the “why we dont get together just for sex” approach? If is that I had with the same results, we went from work to friends and going out for a little bit less than a year as just friends but I always knew the sexual attraction was there. In some point the guy comes and tell me why can I use him for sex as he knows I have done with other, I explained him that I care for him that I consider him my friend and for that reason didn’t want to use it. He said he insists and that he will be able to handle it. We ad sex to the equation, everything went perfect but hagainhe started being demanding with the time too )-: Feelings also got a little involve so I cut him loose, (we both state from the beginning we wont mess with our feelings). Then he went ballistic with me, telling me that I play with his feelings, that I was trying to manipulate/control things before they grow, and that I use him (I got this ALL the time )-:) and that why it have to be JUST when I want it?

  746. FlyBoy says:

    latin,

    Why does he want to see you? To fuck!!! Or to love and all that crap.

    Just tell him to get a steady and think of you as a treat to be had from time to time.

  747. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @ss – it was coming from a pot SB…do I really want to try to walk her through that by text, or start off telling her what to do before we even meet?

    @Miss – I never found a way for me to easily choose between calling FROM the Google Voice number, it always came up as my cell phone number when I called OUT…HOWEVER…I also never found a way to keep it from forwarding calls to my cell phone number to Google Voice for voicemail! This meant that wife calls my cell phone number to tell me she needed me to get something on the way home from office and she gets shipped to my “throwaway” voicemail…not cool!

  748. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – It’s still close…is it morning sickness 😉 May need to elope and get the “real” ring on it soon!

  749. Josh says:

    @Kenna

    Try “home remedy nausea” on Google or Bing. 😉

    The over the counter medicine I use is Meclizine HCL 25 mg. I costs a few bucks and works like a charm.

    For brand conscious people…Bonine, Bonamine, Antivert, Postafen, Sea Legs…

    and Dramamine, which is a less drowsy formulation.

  750. KennaKenna says:

    I have the worst food poisoning ever. I’ve been throwing up all day, I’m hungry but every time I eat, I feel nauseous.

    I think I’m going to tell SD I don’t want to go dinner, I hope he is not mad! :(

    Any home remedies for nausea?

  751. Josh says:

    Correction. Yes female company is great during the honeymoon period because that’s when she is putting her best act on. 😉

    With shorter fuck sessions with the guy, you have more opportunities to spend quality time together with your girlfriends and children.

  752. MissLady says:

    Google voice,have always used my throw away for dating initially. You can disable the calling option by telling it to never use for calling. And the app does the texting or you can do it through your browser. Only drawback is you have to remember who’s what number if you don’t want to add them to your contacts.

  753. THEATLSD says:

    @RookieSD

    Yes I have. I called the Doctor. “Doctor feel good.” He gave some good stuff. I felt no pain and the procedure was literally 15 minutes. I knew I was done with kids so it was a no brainer. Glad I did it. It’s the only time men get to put there feet up in stir ups. SB know that well.

  754. Josh says:

    @latin

    The best thing if you want to keep him around is to have short fuck sessions. If that makes you feel like “only a sex object” then take your chances with your current mode of operation.

    The reason is that regardless of how wonderful women think their “company” is, it ain’t. At his age, he wants to see you more because it gives him the opportunity to fuck you more.

    If he needs you to do things then he might be a boring guy himself.

    If women can get over themselves, then they can provide better company to men.

    NONE of your girlfriends will give you straightforward advice like above. 😉

  755. ss1959 says:

    You can turn that “Sent from Textnow” msg off in the preferences.

  756. KennaKenna says:

    @ONSD definitely Chicago-style.

  757. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    RE: Google Voice – I’ve used this in the past (years ago)…now, I can’t even put that email address on my Android smartphone or it causes conflicts with sending calls to the Google Voice mailbox when someone calls my “real” number. That’s a problem when the phone is not a burner for playtime only!

  758. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    RE: Hushed – I’ve never had the delay issue expressed. I have had the delay issue with messages on SA though…I’ve not had conversations through Hushed and have heard the call quality for conversations can be bad.

    I started texting with someone who used TextNow…sucks to exchange with them through Hushed, because it creates TWO TEXTS per message. One the message, the second “sent from TextNow.com” burns through the allowed texts on Hushed pretty quickly when you get two messages at a time!

  759. ss1959 says:

    @THEATLSD: Is this an existing SB to whom you are already giving an allowance? If so I wouldn’t offer her extra allowance to go on the trip other than some spending money, and if she asked for it I’d be quite offended and likely dump her.

    If she were losing money by accompanying you — missing some work hours, for instance — I’d make that up to her.

  760. ss1959 says:

    Re: Hushed. I’ve never used Hush. I just use the free app TextNow (textnow.com). It gives you a free number to give out from which you can send and receive texts using the data connection of your phone, or via their website. You can also apparently send and receive voice calls using that number, but I’ve never tried that.

  761. RookieSD says:

    Speaking of birth control, have any SDs here had a vasectomy?
    After a recent scare with one of my lady friends(she has babies on the brain syndrome), came to the conclusion I’m not looking to have any more children. We had been using the aforementioned ‘pull out’ method successfully for a time, but our last time together she was on top and gained considerable leverage over me with the fat bubble booty of hers, preventing my exit.

    I’m pretty certain that I will have the procedure, just would like some first hand experience with the process and any possible risks or complications others may have had with the procedure.

  762. a latin opinion says:

    Hi everyone, a question for the guys, in a regular, not sugar dating scene, how can I make a guy to understand I don’t want to see him as much as he do, I have a busy schedule, just every other weekend off plus one night a week. Usually the guy want to see most of those times off. I understand this but those being my only days free I also want to do my own things.

    So how can I make them understand I like them, Im happy with the relationship but that it will perfect if we just see each other just one whole day and night every other weekend. (For example)

    Maybe you need this info for a better understanding. Both divorce, both with kids, me middle 30’s guys lates 40’s early 50’s, guys americans, Im latin as you know lol and yes of course sex is involve, but usually after having sex they become even more demanding of my time.

    What I usually do is giving them the time that works for me and then when they ask for more time I explained them the other things I have to do. But sooner or later this ends bad.

    I don’t want to go just next and next, because for example I really like this guy Im seeing now. )-:

  763. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – since you’ve been Chicago and NYC, are you a Chicago-style pizza girl or a NYC-style pizza girl?

  764. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @ATL – I think @Sexy and someone else talked about this in a previous post…here’s how I remember it:

    If she works a job that pays $XXX per day, and you are taking her away from workable hours by whisking her away to the island or the ghetto-tundra, she should be compensated for that time she could be working the other job. I agree, partially, with that assessment. Because, if you’re giving her spending money to cover her costs while on the trip, she is getting different compensation than the allowance.

    Talk to her about if she’s stepping away from work, how her expenses are changing with the trip and what you’re planning on “spending money” – maybe that will be enough for her? (I couldn’t help but laugh when I was typing this last bit)

  765. KennaKenna says:

    Awwww @Josh.

    *hugs*

  766. Josh says:

    I never count any of the expenses part if the allowance. Doing so goes against female mind and also against labor planning.

    Let’s take the business scenario. One can argue that super duper health insurance premiums and employer half of FICA are benefits to the employee, but one cannot argue that the costs to maintain employee’s