While having fun is at the heart of what SeekingArrangement is for, the joy isn’t meant to be one-sided. There have been reports of sugar dating game-players on both ends of the spectrum, and for the victims of some players, it’s not until the game’s over until they knew they were playing.
Yet having a “playa” mentality isn’t the same as playing games according to many sugars. In fact, having a “playa” mentality in Sugarland is thought to be one way of keeping the heart-strings from developing in a no-strings-attached arrangement…
“Lets just take it as a learning experience…. for my self… I am really becoming a little hard in heart. Almost “playa” mentality. Sounds bad, but it protects me from the “what’s wrong with me” mentality. I am confident with me, I think a am absolutely “Fierce”. A lot of these jokers want looks and no brains. I am the first to say lets have fun… but they seem to get it twisted and expect more just because they have $$$, or just dismiss. Just as there will always be women sweating them, there will always be another CM sweating me.”-2Chic
Do you think it’s wise to have a “playa” mentality to avoid becoming too emotionally attached with a sugar?
Have you ever felt like you got ‘played’ by a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby? Care to share?
What have you found interesting about a sugar lately?