Sugar newcomers have lots of questions about how to approach potential Sugar Daddies (SD’s) and Sugar Babies (SB’s)…
“What is the etiquette for sending a message to a SD? As an SB, am I supposed to wait for someone to message me? I don’t know if that would be too forward.” – Vanessa
“Vanessa – welcome to the blog, and go for it. Point out something in his profile that you like and ask him a question — that will increase your chances of getting a response. Also, there will be some rejection, but don’t take it personally, we ALL get rejected in the sugar world.” –NC Gent
The SeekingArrangement book echoes NC Gent and other sugars who know that discouragement and sugar go together like water and oil: “You want to avoid being blindsided by emotions like resentment and anger, as they can poison any relationship. Far too many marriages are eroded by hidden resentment; wouldn’t it be ironic (and sad) if your Sugar arrangement turned into something like a bad marriage?”
sugar babies: Do you have to initiate most of the time with Sugar Daddies? (question by TXSB)
Do you have any statistical requirements for potential sugars (i.e., age, height/weight, smoker/non-smoker, etc)?
Are your stat requirements different for sugars than non-sugars? More or less strict? If so, how? Why?
Do you have any sugar plans in your weekend? Care to share some miscellaneous sugarwisdom with the blog?