There are some things everyone in Sugarland agrees on, like always being upfront about your expectations, keeping the fun in and the drama out, and ensuring mutual benefit.
Yet when it comes to choosing a potential sugar, some say that a ‘test-drive’ is the best way to go. As you might have guessed, not all sugars agree…
“I just got an email from a potential but he wants to test drive his sb for awhile before he decides if she’s the one for him. No thanks” – Lisa
“No way! No free test drives! Just coffee. I will leave if anything else comes up.” – Christina
“I would offer help along the way while getting to know someone, but, I would not agree to that kind of monthly payment without a “test drive” (and I don’t necessarily mean sex when I write that). But, getting back to my car analogy, I can’t buy a Rolls…but, I can find something that I can enjoy that fits my budget.” – D-Dubs
MBA’s (Mutually Beneficial Arrangements) appeal to many because they can be initiated relatively quickly by means of negotiation – the Ying to chemistry’s Yang here in Sugarland.
Are sugar test-drives a good idea? Why or why not?
When and how do you establish trust for a potential sugar before an arrangement? Do you have a trust-test?
Are Test Drivers the worst types of sugars, or are they the smartest?
Has anyone got any good sugar-songs to share? What songs evoke the Sugar-Life for you when you hear them?