Many sugars go into in arrangement knowing that, on some level, they will be expected to provide a certain type of spoiling, which ideally, will be reciprocated…
“Sex on the first date, no sex on the first date, I don’t subscribe to rules like that over situations or people. Sometimes it’s appropriate, sometimes it’s not. There has been no correlation to the timing of sexual activity and relationship quality in my experience, although I will say that sex on the first date is is very unusual for me, and more often than not, I am not the initiator. I am not a one night stand kind of person, so that’s not a reason to have sex for ME, but others prefer that approach and I see nothing wrong with it as long as they are safe and not out of control.”-SAM
While arrangements may have unlimited potential, freedom, and flexibility, the only true ‘rules’ for a SD/SB arrangement might be those that protect the non-obligatory aspects of sugar seldom found in conventional relationships – but everyone has there preference.
Do you know any guys or gals who should stop playing games in committed relationships and start being honest and upfront as born-again sugars?
Does being a Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby feel like a ‘sweet taboo’?
What’s your prototype for a perfect arrangement?