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Gentleman’s Weekend: Fun, Support, Ideas…

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Sugar Daddies and Babies are big on independence, but when it comes to making arrangements, it never hurts to get advice from fellow sugars, especially if you’re a discreet SD or SB, or new to the sugar bowl.

Gail:

“I JUST LOVE TO HEAR ALL THE GOOD THINGS THAT HAPPEN IN SUGAR WORLD…one good experience gives us hope and its easier to forget all the other fools:)”

Sugar Daters rejoice when a successful matching is made. As most of us here know: the path to creating a mutually beneficial relationship is not always a straight one. You may be concerned about safety, privacy, morality, or any number of ‘unknowns’.

What questions are most important to ask a potential SD or SB?

What would be your ultimate SD/SB dream date?

Does anyone have some sugar in their weekend plans?


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486 Responses to “Gentleman’s Weekend: Fun, Support, Ideas…”

  1. Gasque says:

    This is an excellent article! I hope to check back for more

  2. Keneipp says:

    Thanks for posting such great info

  3. Delorge says:

    Great blog! You have some real quality information here. I’m usually not one to spend too much time reading blogs but I spent the last two hours here, LoL. Keep up the good work

  4. Facio says:

    So my husband has found a new hobby. I think its pretty cute, hes now into rock tumbling. He bought all these ugly rocks, and turned them into something fabulous. Well my question is, when is someone too old to be playing with these things? I mean wouldn’t you think it sounds kinda wierd that my husband plays with rock tumblers? Anywho, he got the idea from one of his buddies at work. I get a chance to do girls not out with my girlfriends now more often so I guess im not really complaining cause I missed hanging with my friends ever since we had the baby in all.

  5. Ketron says:

    I agree with you 99% but wonder if you have really looked at the whole picture. DOn’t mean to be critical just food for thought.

  6. TheMan370 says:

    How in the world did I miss that?

  7. BerkshireSD says:

    Ostrich steaks.

  8. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    ohhhhhhhh boy… look who’s back!!!!! :)
    what does “car tier” mean?

  9. He'sAHotSB says:

    HenriLouis, lol

    >>>
    The spread of STD continues, it seems to have become “no big deal”.
    Always protect yourself. No Gucci bag or Luis Fuitton is worth it…
    So girls tell me, give me some sound advice.
    What if one day a girl chooses to be my SD. Give up my life as a monk ?
    My slogan is CARPE DIEM, also in this respect ?
    HenriLouis

    hmmm…I’m no girl…might be in bed…? lol
    hmmm…my advice…?
    Always protect yourself HenriLouis! protecting yourself is protecting us :)
    My slogan is Car Tier, also in this respect ?
    He’sAHotSB

    lol hugs 😛

  10. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Ya, Berk – what should we talk about now? What did BerkSB fix for dinner?

  11. BerkshireSD says:

    Next customer in line…

  12. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Sleep well! Have good dreams 😉

  13. aj says:

    yeah…interesting to say the least! THANK YOU villacypris, suthrn, and berksd for talking me down from this insanity! I’m going to hit the hay now. (and check my inbox just as soon as i wake up!)

  14. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    A HA HA HA

    i think Suthrn has a good point… your man probably hasn’t thought twice about it… while you’ve been agonizing over it all day… i wouldn’t worry :)

  15. aj says:

    lol thanks villacypris! i don’t expect i will hear back from him until tomorrow..if at all.. hopefully i will and he will be cool.

  16. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    No, it’s cool as is. If I were an SD I’d fly in to see you as well 😉

  17. aj says:

    Thank you! So I will just wait for him to respond…

    Thank god for the sugar family :)

  18. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    I agree! Great email. Honest, up front, considerate of his preferences and both your safety. Brava!

  19. aj says:

    alright. so no ammendment necessary.

  20. SuthrnExec says:

    If he respects you, he will have no problem with the email.

  21. BerkshireSD says:

    Sounds like a pretty good email to me. I’d fly in if I were “single”

  22. aj says:

    SuthrnExec – good point. perhaps i will do that . do you think this is stern? (attempting the cut and paste!)

    “With regard to dinner on Friday, is there a particular type of cuisine that you prefer? There are several places that I have been wanting to try so just let me know your preferences and I will pick the place!

    On another note and just to be certain that we are in agreement in respect to our bedroom time… I really enjoy sex and consider myself to be a very good, passionate partner. However, I will not compromise my safety or health (physical and emotional) in anyway at anytime. You seem quite respectful and legit in your emails, however, it would be very naive of me to assume.”

  23. BerkshireSD says:

    Meanwhile SB helps Teenager to study for biology test while I answer questions like how many sequels does Final Destination have?

  24. SuthrnExec says:

    aj, if you think it was too stern, just shoot him a note and tell him so – I bet he will dismiss it and probably hasn’t thought anything about it. Afterall, he is going to see you.

  25. BerkshireSD says:

    Well, you won’t get in trouble with me for whatever that is worth.

    How about a tastefully edited selection of the greatest hits that we could analyze?

  26. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Cool – I’ll email Stephan and ask him…

  27. aj says:

    BerkSD – there were many emails…can i cut and paste or will i get in trouble?

  28. aj says:

    OC…lol! yes he is flying to meet me and told me I can pick the restaurant…

  29. aj says:

    VillaCypris, yes lets see if we can exchange emails.

  30. OCSugarBaby says:

    I need to type faster! That is great news he is meeting you this week. :)

  31. aj says:

    Lol! I used to think that way as well…then I had my own and suddenly mac and cheese and hot dogs are not so bad…

    Free and dangerous is good! I miss that!

  32. OCSugarBaby says:

    Aj-You are moving at record speed. Remember that you are in the drivers seat. He may be busy, but I believe that he should make your first meet up on your terms and in your home town if at all possible. He should make you feel completely comfortable with who he is and what he is like. Talk to him on the phone a few times. Meet for lunch or drinks or even progress to dinner if it goes well for either of the first two options.
    I personally do not wish to feel like a business deal. Just my two cents…
    It feels great for it to build from good chemistry and trust. The rest is all about good communication and a lot of laughter. No ones perfect! Slow down and enjoy the process. You are in control! :)

  33. BerkshireSD says:

    What did the email say?

  34. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    I can help you if you want… we could ask stephan if we could exchange emails. Or, if you’re not comfortable with that, as I don’t know what was contained in the “stern” email, it’s difficult for me to say … if you feel it was TOO stern, then yes, I’d amend it.

  35. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    No children. I’m completely free and dangerous 😉

    My brother’s wife is going to have the first ‘grandchild’ in about 6 weeks. So I am already on the hunt for baby stilettos and la perla diapers. HA! That alone gives away the fact that I have no children, eh?

  36. aj says:

    so do I “ammend” the somewhat stern email about sex or just let it be?

  37. aj says:

    yes he’s coming to see me :) three is cute, but very exhausting. and you? no kiddos?

  38. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Great! He’s coming to see you, as you desired. That’s a good sign! Awww… three… how cute :)

  39. aj says:

    jeez i never though this much about regular dating…this sugar bowl stuff is messing w/ my head…lol!

  40. aj says:

    BerkSD, yes we have talked on the phone. I also work from 5am – 3 or 4pm and then have my son on most days so I can’t just up and leave at a moments notice.

    VillaCypris – Yes I have a son! He’s 3. Yep I’m meeting this one on Friday night…as of now.

  41. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    AJ – you have a son, right? or one child at least, I’m sure that makes it more difficult to travel. I’m completely free and could leave tomorrow, so that makes a difference in one’s ability to meet. If you flew to meet him, I assume he would book you a hotel in your own name… so perhaps you could make it work on your terms.

    Is he one of the dates you have this week?

  42. BerkshireSD says:

    ????????

    Schedules

    ????????

    Distance? How ’bout telephone?

  43. aj says:

    He has offered to fly me or have his driver pick me up to meet him, but I’m not comfortable with that…I would like to be on my own terms/turf the first time meeting…

  44. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    AJ – nothing is set in stone… you could “amend” your answer to include what you said above , that chemistry, trust and respect make all the difference.

    Hello BerkSD – I haven’t been in that situation yet, but I believe my inclination would be to meet someone first, to determine if there is any reason to progress further. If it were possible, given the location of each party.

  45. aj says:

    BerkshireSD – of course, but distance is an issue…as are schedules.

  46. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Of course not. One’s health is priceless, and should never be sacrificed; for sometimes, one can never regain it, even the wealthiest man alive.

  47. BerkshireSD says:

    Do any of you giys consider meeting over a drink or at least talking on the phone before going in depth about the sexual aspects of the relationship?

  48. aj says:

    Yes, not sure I handled that the right way. chemistry, respect and trust make all the difference. obviously we don’t have that at this point as we have not met….Now what do I do? Just leave it?

  49. aj says:

    VillaCypris – that’s what I thought. So I may have been quite upfront about it. But I’m not going to sacrafice my physical or emotional health for $…

  50. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    or you could leave it more open-ended… for your willingness to be more open would potentially change if you two really have great chemistry, like each other, have respect and trust… and that’s hard to discern at this point in time.

  51. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    *and therefore, should be…

  52. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Well…. if you are discussing in depth details about money and expectations… I assume that sex will be one of the expectations, the therefore, should be discussed, on a level which you feel comfortable. It’s better to be up front, in my opinion, for in this instance, what if he likes certain “types” of sex which you would absolutely not partake in…. it’s better to know it now, than later…

  53. aj says:

    Also has made it very clear that he is extremely busy and that is why he is seeking this type of arrangement.

  54. aj says:

    VillaCypris…thanks! I don’t really know what to think! One SD, the one who wanted the photos, seems legit and is treating this very much like a business transaction…lol! However, I emailed him this am in response to one of his previous emails and he has not responded. If a sd and sb are discussing in depth details about money and expectations…is it right to bring up sex? I just mean concerning safety and what one is comfortable with? Or should that be brought up later?

  55. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Hey aj – i’m excited for you! hope your dates go well thurs and friday nights!!!

  56. aj says:

    So, normally I am the first to exercise my Miranda Rights. However, in regards to nude photos I think it depends on the situation and the context in which they are taken… In many ways, if they are not suggestive, this seems less personal to me than discussing details about my personal life. If the SD is treating it as a business arrangement I can see why he would want them. 1. he thinks that he is making some sort of “investment’ and would like to be be certain he is getting what he is paying for. 2. most men are very visual. Also I think depending on what the offer on the table is, often times the benefit outweighs the risk…maybe I’m wrong? My deal is not sealed so I’m still learning. Hmmm…

  57. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    No, HotSB…. I’ve not gone to bed. It’s only 7pm here.. nearly time for dinner!

    hi Hgirl – study hard!

    hi JustMe…. relax :)

  58. BerkshireSD says:

    Woke up from a lovely late aft. nap to a marvelous dinner – BerkSB always at her very best.

    Teenager just found out the new TV gets all the networks in HD as the family’s favorite series comes on.

  59. JustMe *193017* says:

    Hi All,

    Just in from a long, exhusting day at work… feels good to relax!

    How is everyone tonight?

  60. Hgirl says:

    Hi guys!! Wow, lots to catch up on.

    I was at the library until 2am, planning on the same for tonight…boo :(

    Things will get better after tomorrow, though :)

  61. He'sAHotSB says:

    VillaCypris!!!

    hmmm…everybody’s going now right? to sleep! :(

  62. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    I’ll be back in awhile… stay out of trouble here in cyberspace while I’m gone He’sAHotSB… ;

  63. He'sAHotSB says:

    HenriLouis!!!

    1:00am there???

    :) you know what time it is!!!

    time for your medication!!!

    hugs hehehe 😛

  64. He'sAHotSB says:

    SuthrnExec

    the SBs are heading for the hills with you! hehehe

  65. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    HA HA!!!!!! HotSB! I knew you’d be happy to see me and OC here at the same time!!! 8)

  66. He'sAHotSB says:

    HenriLouis!!!

    watched Desperate Housewives yesterday…
    now
    watching LOST !!!
    are you? lol
    😉

    gaaaaa!!! VillaCypris and OCSugarBaby!!! HUGS :)
    hehehe how cool!
    I went to bed at 3am…couldn’t sleep…looked at the time 5am!!! :(
    thinking and thinking and thinking…

  67. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    I don’t do well in humidity either… it was like that when I lived in Palm Beach, from mid-May til mid-november. Honestly, I’d rather have twenty below zero, sunshine and dry air than 95, sunny, and humid. Must be my Norwegian heritage bringing out that penchant for cold…

  68. lisa says:

    Spring is my favorite season but I don’t care much for summer as it is just too hot here. You can’t walk down the street without being soaked in sweat. The heat just hits you when you leave an airconditioned building. I used to like to go to Astroworld (it’s gone now) in the summer but it was so hot that all I could think about was getting home and taking a shower.

  69. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Well….

    good night, Henri ~

    suthrn… perhaps they went over the hills and far away….
    OC and lisa…. it’s 20 but feels like 8 with the wind chill. I am SO ready for spring… *sigh*

  70. OCSugarBaby says:

    Mommy this….Act disrespectful and you WILL have an angry SB on your hands.

  71. lisa says:

    sun in Texas but a cold wind. Might get into the 80’s this week though. I hope the rain is gone here for a while, I got tired of planning my outings around it the last couple weeks. lol

  72. OCSugarBaby says:

    Villa-Nothing but rain here in California. :(

  73. SuthrnExec says:

    Apparently all the SDs read Henri’s post and have headed for the hills! lol

  74. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Yes Villa,
    Mommy is very angry !
    Bad boy !
    But I still think this exchange of nude fotos is not done !
    As for my friend Euro, she is a great dancer !
    I really admire her.
    She knows I am a genuine fan.
    It is one oçlock over here and I wil sign off now.
    See you early in the morning,
    HenriLouis

  75. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    So, what’s new? Anything exciting?

  76. lisa says:

    Good evening Villa

  77. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    A-ha-ha-ha-ha …. so I read…

  78. OCSugarBaby says:

    Villa! Henri can’t talk right now he is in the corner…

  79. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Good evening…….

    OC! He’sAHotSB will be so thrilled… here we are… me and you… at the same time! :)

    Hola Lisa.
    Bonsoir Henri….

    :)

  80. OCSugarBaby says:

    What said is said and lets just let it go. No harm no foul. Just a minor party foul. :)

  81. lisa says:

    I thought that comment about SweetEuropean and the lapdance was really cheap Henri. Someone needs to put on the dunce hat and stand with his nose touching the wall

  82. OCSugarBaby says:

    Henri-What the hell is in that pipe you are smoking? Your comment last night was questionable as well with asking SweetEuro for a lap dance.
    Notw put down the pipe and stand in the corner for a time out. :)

  83. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    OC,
    I am so sorry that you read my questions as inapropriate.
    I just react to comments on the blog earlier on.
    I appologize for any inconvenience caused to you.
    Let us smoke a peace pipe,
    HenriLouis

  84. lisa says:

    I agree with OC about your comments Henri. :(

  85. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hi Zen Hedonista,
    Welcome I consider myself also to be a hedonist.
    Thanks for you contribution.
    I feel good, that I have introduced the subject here.
    It concerns all of us.
    HenriLouis

  86. OCSugarBaby says:

    Henri-I think that your question and comment are boardering on being…well lets just say that they are not coming across as gentleman like.

  87. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Since I am being bold, I will ask for some advice on the other problem.
    This is about photos.
    You are supposed to exchange photos.
    It seems to be part of the “seeking package”.
    From a remark earlier on this subject about stress marks, I gather that girls send nude photos.
    Am I also supposed to send such photos ?
    In what postion then ? Full frontal , side ways ?
    Is it that I stand there as the statue of David sculpted by Michael Angelo that stands in the central square in Florence.
    You see David there in the formation “at rest”.
    Or should I send a photo of me, myself and I highly irritated ?
    As for myself, the word hugely is more appropriate.
    It would not even fit in the photo with those sixty inches.
    Could she handle that, or should I say is it swallow that ?
    The audence here would cry loudly “Ahw mi God” Calvin Klien is so right
    “a hard man is good to find “.
    Recently there was a woman who asked me several times “send me your photo”. Only now I understand what the meaning is.
    She must have been a “collectioneur” then. Henri for porn or so ?
    Preposterous.
    Joking apart, I would never ask a girl to send me such photos. In my opinion it is offensive behaviour.
    I had rather unfold the package myself and gasp at the beauty of you !
    It is so much nicer to see a girl in a photo tastefully dressed. After all there should still be some mystery in the realm of the boudoir.
    As for me, myself and I, of course this was our little joke, the sixty inches.
    I take that back, it is just fifty.
    Now girls, my question is:
    Am I really supposed to send ask you for your full frontal nude pics ?
    If you ask for photos of me, am I supposed to send you my nude picture standing proud ?
    Help please, this is beyond me.
    HenriLouis

  88. Zen Hedonista says:

    Hi all,

    This is my first time posting (on this or any other blog actually). I just started really reading the blog last night and I really like that it’s here. It’s such a nice idea to be able to talk to friends openly about this side of life, I certainly don’t share this info with most. I also like that interacting this way gives a nice feeling of living the sugar life though I have yet to find my SD.

    I’m intrigued by the safety concerns. It is such a difficult thing. I agree that testing is really not very effective in an open relationship, though I don’t think it could hurt. Since we really do open ourselves up to anything that our partner’s partner’s, partner’s, partners might have perhaps regular testing would be a good idea anyway. This is of course not limited to SD/SB relationships, it’s probably a good idea for anyone having open sexual relationships to be tested occasionally. If someone got something the cycle could be stopped rather than continuing to pass it around and as with any disease it’s best to have it detected and treated as early as possible. I think most STD’s really aren’t that big a deal, they’re treatable and although a little yuckier than the common cold, not that much worse if dealt with immediately. There are however those few out there that never go away and will kill you. I think it’s best to be as cautious as reasonably possible without completely denying yourself or your partner as full a range of intimacy as you both desire. I say use a condom every time, limit your partners to only those you really want to be intimate with and especially limit the number of partners you do the riskier stuff with. And just get tested, there’s nothing wrong with asking your partner or partners to get tested regularly and keep you informed if you’re going to do the same for them. Even if it’s not part of an agreement for a relationship get tested yourself, make sure you’re aware of your body and your health

  89. lisa says:

    Good afternoon everyone. Just got home and am catching up on the blog. Long tiring day. Nice weather but a cold wind.

  90. OCSugarBaby says:

    Jennifer-I am dying to hear what the “short stack” has been busy doing, has he been causing you grief? I love hearing stories from his world! What a joy he must be on a daily basis. Nothing stops me in my tracks faster than the uncontrollable laughter of a child.

  91. OCSugarBaby says:

    Henri-These questions dont make be blush or feel awkward. My comment was that it is a conversation that I feel is comfortable sharing with the person sharing my bed. It is a dialog, not a question in my mind. This topic is not to just be discussed one time and one time only with that person in your life or persons. For it does not have one answer.
    Oh don’t be sad for my high school days Henri, I am not.

  92. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    OC,
    Thanks for you wisdom.
    The question is simple, is there another option to avoid danger than I have
    written about.
    I would like to have that healthy dialog indeed, but don’t they run of scared then ?
    Anyway I have openly laid it down in the blog, so the whole community knows.
    Don’t write if the conversation will make you blush or feel awkward.
    Would be great, if I got an invitation now, please come and count the beacteria on my body. I will bring the champagne to desinfact the area.
    I believe I am getting wicked now.
    So sad to read of your high school days. We have that in common.
    How were your student days at university ?
    HenriLouis

  93. SuthrnExec says:

    Henri, I’m sort of like OC – I’m not sure what your question is. Or, are you asking a question or attempting to give fatherly, sage advice?

  94. OCSugarBaby says:

    Henri-I think after reading your delightful comment…depression has set over the village. What exactly is your question? I think you will find all the answers when you find that special SB which you can confide in and have a healthy dialog with. With that said, I did not have sex in high school…

  95. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Sorry about the “typing error” in the last few lines.
    It should have been SB !!!!!!
    “What if one day a girl chooses to be my SB”.

  96. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Earlier on I had asked for some advice from all the girls.
    I cannot describe it in soundbites, so skip it if you are not able to cencentrate for more than 45 seconds.
    Some find the subject a bit awkward, but I’ll handle it with impeccable taste and a bit of humour, this question protected or not.
    It really comes in the category “father knows best”.
    Years ago when the HIV problem arose I was asked to sit in a panel at university. Others could not talk openly about it. So right from the start
    I have seen it grow in all kinds of proportions. So many innocent girls got hammered by the desease. That is why I open my mouth here.
    You know at High School you went steady, but is does not count if you are on holidays. You have 4 holidays during the year, keep it modest 4 different intimate contacts makes over a dozen. Also when you are drunk it does not count. Friday, Saturday, Sunday remember ? This makes over 150 casual contast a year. So all in all you had over 200 times casual intimate contatcs. All those casual partners also had the same experience. If in the end you could count all the bacteria on your body, you seem to have slept with the whole village.
    This is the reason why I never date in my village, too dangerous (smile).
    What you say ? You live in town ?
    Sleeping with your SD is also a form of casual intercourse. You are not the only one in his bed. Some girls say they have more than one Sd running at the same time. Your SD might also have a few SBs.
    So you see, you are back to the highschool days.
    Then I saw the advice “ask him to take a test”. Sounds great, but this is just a photo of one particular moment in life.
    Next day it might have changed. No trust here in a test.
    I am very much in statistics. If I have a group 50 students before me, Sixty percent labour from an STD. I need not sum up the whole range.
    Fourteen girls have Chlaemidia without knowing it. I will cause them to be barren. No children for her then. Everybody knows the dangers of STD.
    At this day and age you have to be scarred to death of LOVE !
    The spread of STD continues, it seems to have become “no big deal”.
    Always protect yourself. No Gucci bag or Luis Fuitton is worth it.
    Willingly you will open yourself to danger in an SD/SB relationship.
    Please, do not deceive yourself.
    Precautions ? Hardly possible. A medical check after your Sb week-end might be the only sensible course to steer.
    So girls tell me, give me some sound advice.
    What if one day a girl chooses to be my SD. Give up my life as a monk ?
    My slogan is CARPE DIEM, also in this respect ?
    HenriLouis

  97. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Jen.. you have the most positive attitude!! I hope things get brighter for you tomorrow! :)

  98. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Good Afternoon to everyone and Good Evening to our friends across the ocean.

    Just wanted to stop by and say hello. Not been a very good day for me. I will stop the complaining at that. Things will get better. They always do.

  99. Nico says:

    Thank you Kitty *grin* Hey Bettie….I know right…soooo many new names in only a few days :)

  100. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    Bon chance Nico!!!

  101. BettieGirlDD*273192 says:

    Wow I go away for four days and I’m SO lost. Hi everyone I’m Bettie.. been on since November…

  102. Nico says:

    Hello family ~ too many posts to read through. Been HYPER busy lately and no chance to stop in. Have some pot SD news brewing…keeping optimistic and walking with my fingers crossed :)

    Hi to all the new faces 😀

  103. aj says:

    Thanks! I can’t wait! :)

  104. bob says:

    thanks will try that

  105. SuthrnExec says:

    Bob, pull up any SB’s profile and then replace the number at the end of the URL with Lisa’s profile number.

  106. Beach says:

    Bob, open a profile and then replace the number in the url with the number of the new profile.

  107. bob says:

    how do you look up a profile by number only please

  108. OCSugarBaby says:

    Laughing @ Suthrn – thank you…. ~Blushing~

  109. SuthrnExec says:

    I will give you credit – you do the Sugar very well. Spying – not so much!

  110. OCSugarBaby says:

    I would make a horrible spy. I better stick to the SB thing instead. LOL

  111. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    ooo silly OC

  112. OCSugarBaby says:

    Busted! Forgot to change my name back to OC!!!! I am sucha goober.

  113. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    FairyBlogAngel… is this an alias?….

  114. TheFairyBlogAngel says:

    Aj, you first need to see what chemistry is there. Having dates on thursday and friday are not a bad thing. You are beginning a process of elimination. Take it slow. Feel 100% confidant that they are true gentlemen and will follow thru with their offers. But first take care of the chemistry issue. Nothing beats it. Also, no one wants to be made to feel like an ATM. You also have to be 100% real to them. They need to count on you too. Keep us posted!
    Thursday can’t come soon enough for me too, it is gonna be a sugar weekend! :)

  115. BerkshireSD says:

    Aj if you are finding this hard work, that means you are doing it right.

    I worked my tail off to find someone wonderful like BerkSB.

    Good news. SB says lots of bills typically come in the end of the month so I am welcome to stay a few more days.

    Sugar is the gift that keeps on giving.

  116. TheFairyBlogAngel says:

    Bob, Miss Lisa’s profile number is 261545. I love that you are both in the same city!
    Lisa, Hope you don’t mind that I passed it on. We only want the best for you!

  117. bob says:

    lisa what is your profile name or number please

  118. aj says:

    OC – yes I’m a little worried because I have dates on Thurs. + Fri. night with different pot. sd’s. Honestly so far I like them both…in different ways…What to do if they are both real?

  119. OCSugarBaby says:

    Aj-I have found that the more I get to know my sugar, the more I appreciate him. The spoiling can be in many different forms. Choose the ones that are most important to you and be flexible with others. :)

  120. aj says:

    OCSugarBaby! Thanks! You are my kind of sb! It is exciting!!!! And this one pot. sd is offering me everything I asked for AND MORE!!!! Yay! I hope he is for real.

  121. aj says:

    BerkshireSD – thanks…staying cool…staying relaxed. This sugar game can be a lot of work – lol! I think i’m just nervous for my two “first dates” this week.

  122. OCSugarBaby says:

    Aj-I was the same way, when Suthrn and I started communicating outside of the blog. I would send my reply and then check my in box like crazy! lol
    Girl, you are totally normal. Obsess away, I know I would. It is fun, like christmas morning when you see that email in your in box. You watch that pot all you want, it will eventually BOIL!

  123. BerkshireSD says:

    A watched pot never boils. aj don’t set up you expectations for a big disappointment. Stay cool and relaxed. Be prepared to do what you’ve been doing – offer value – to whoever interesting inquires until the right one commits.

  124. ~*kittylainy*~ says:

    FIRST OF ALL:
    those black curd clams DO NOT look appetizing…

    What questions are most important to ask a potential SD or SB?
    ~What you want out of an arrangement and why are you in an arrangement. When you know the person’s purpose, it is much easier to gauge the type of arrangement it will be.

    What would be your ultimate SD/SB dream date?
    ~One filled with laughter, fun and great chemistry. Wouldn’t help if the meal was delicious and the service was good too :)

    Does anyone have some sugar in their weekend plans?
    ~It’s monday now but had a little sugar meet on Sunday. Went well :) He was charming, intelligent and “real.” which was a very nice change from jerks and creeps.

  125. aj says:

    Good Morning!
    Note to self – staring at email inbox will not make an email from my pot. sd appear.

    I am losing it :)

  126. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Thanks, Suthrn! Encouragement is always appreciated :) congrats on the weight loss! I agree with you, though, since muscle weighs more than fat, it’s not the number on the scale which matters, but rather how you feel!

  127. SuthrnExec says:

    Greetings Henri – yes, Clint is one of my all-time favorites. I’m down 6 kilos (@ 13 lbs) since I started, but I am more concerned about losing centimeters around my belly and being better fit than losing the weight – but any weight lost is nice! I was a bit lazy today due to some late night activity last night so i will workout this evening. Keep up the good work my friend.

    Good morning Villa! Good luck with your job search. There are jobs out there – it’s not all gloom and doom, so remain positive.

  128. He'sAHotSB says:

    LOL

    HenriLouis calls me Hotass hahahahaha

    good night for real now!

    :)

  129. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Yes, rather busy….. working… looking for another job, powerwalking, appointment at 15h30, food shopping, etc. Typical Monday ~~~

  130. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Good job, Henri… I’m proud of you for going to gym! Keep up the good work. I’m been mostly powerwalking… hoping spring will finally hurry up and melt all the snow. x

  131. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hotass,
    No do not surmise that I am of your denomination.
    In fact, I am the complete opposite.
    I am a staunch Lesbian. My desire lies with girls.
    Hello Villa, do you have a busy schedule today ?
    HenriLouis

  132. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Awwwwwwww hello He’sAHotSB!!!!!! Good to see you as well… I’m having coffee and that delicious vanilla soymilk now :) sleep well.. have good dreams!! x

  133. He'sAHotSB says:

    LOL @ SuthrnExec :) poet convention lol

    2:30am in Sydney here…!
    At least I got to see my best friend VillaCypris today…
    lol today’s nothing compared to yesterday! hahahahaha
    I guess because it’s Monday!

    Good night every…one? two? ah Good morning for America!

    hugs :)

  134. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hello Suthrn,
    I love your remark about Dirty Harry, great movies by the way.
    Great pistol 9 Parabellum.
    Bounces almost out of your hand when firing.
    Also the reference to Poets Convention really made me laugh.
    I believe we really have much in common, such as humour.
    Everyone seems to be at work.
    That is the reason why it is silent in cyberspace.
    Within three hours comments usually start to get in.
    Also got a hectic day ?
    How is the slimming coming along ?
    I believe coming Wednesday I have been going to the gym for a week now.
    Looks like I will be 2 kilos lighter by that day.
    I try to still the hunger with fruit.
    HenriLouis

  135. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Good morning SE :)

    Trying to use your secret powers to call us up eh 😉

  136. SuthrnExec says:

    Good morning – anyone out there?? I feel a little like Dirty Harry caught in a Poets convention here…

  137. He’sAHotSB says:

    Oh!!! HenriLouis,

    this part from my poem…

    Lisa gave SweetEuropean an A…
    as HenriLouis forgave…
    Lisa said she was paying attention
    Pizza? don’t even mention!

    was connected to what you wrote! :)

    HenriLouis: “More training for my pot SB arrangement. They all seem to like pizza. Yuck”

  138. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hi Lisa,
    I wish you a nice day at work.
    Perhaps your pot SD is a busy man.
    He might not find the time.
    Just relax, it will be o.k.
    HenriLouis X

  139. SuthrnExec says:

    Good morning Henri, Lisa and AHot…

    Henri, I look forward to reading the question you pose to the ladies…

  140. He’sAHotSB says:

    Oh HenriLouis!!! Hugs!!! hehehe

    Yes…I loved your friendship writing!
    (here for the people who don’t want to scroll up! :) )

    “Your friend is your needs answered.
    “He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.
    “And he is your board and your fireside
    “For you to come with your hunger, and you seek him for peace.
    Sunday for me is a powerwalk along the beach and I’ll tell my black lab about you, he is still walking beside me.
    Carnival this evening ? Well I’ll see how fast I get my work done.
    I offer you all the sunhine of my smile,
    HenriLouis

    Yes…my imitation of yours…hehehe :) Thank you for the compliment HenriLouis,

    “Your friends need your answers!
    “S/he is your field which you sough for love and rede on thanksgiving!
    “And s/he is bored by your fireside!
    “For you? two come with your hunger, and you sic her/him for peace!
    Sunday for me is a powerwalk along the beach and I’ll tell my black lab about you, he is still on my wish list.
    Carnival this evening ? Well I’ll see how fast I get my work done.
    I offer you all the sunhine of my smile,

    hmmm…HenriLouis…
    you detect the Australian…Kokabura? :) Kookaburra? hehehe

    from KOOK burra…to…KOK bura !!!
    from He’sAHotSB…to…AHOTASS !!!

    hmmm…you know…I detect…hmmm!!! :) hehehe

    hugs HenriLouis!!!

    Thank you! :)

  141. lisa says:

    Good morning everyone. Cold morning in Houston. Heading out to work soon. Still no return email from that potential sd. Another game player I guess.

  142. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Calling all SBs,
    Ladies I would like to ask a favour from you.
    I need some serious advice on two points raised here in the blog.
    They are
    – photos
    – unprotected ……….
    No, no, she is not pregnant ! Not by me anyway.
    But I will save my questions till later in the day.
    I do not want to unfold it yet. It is still too early for you.
    Might damage the American economy, because you do not concentrate on your work . Your mind wanders off and like in the Oprah Show you cannot help yourself but say in a whisper “Aw Mi God. Aw mi God” !!!! all day long.
    Hope you are with me later in the day !
    HenriLouis

  143. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hi AhotAss,
    I had always thought you were a young man instead of an Eastern living doll. You create nice poems with some humour, my compliments.
    There is nothing to forgive.
    In fact, I was flattered.
    After all, imitation is the greatest compliment !
    Feel free to continue, but put in a bit more of yourself or some Aussi touch.
    The hehehe series is I suppose an onomathopeic lexial item, a word imitating a sound. The nicest I know is the German, “bumsen”!
    I detect the Australian bird the Kokabura. By the way, a great Novel “The Kokaburra laughs” next to Nevil Shute’s “On the beach”
    I believe you are the only one from down under contributing to the blog.
    Keep it up.
    HenriLouis

  144. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    This ol’ countryboy just got back from my outing.
    I am a naturefreak , or is it a freak of nature, let’s setlle on a natural freak. I got there and it was dark.
    Set up some 7 plastic decoys before me.
    Hid among the rushes along a canal. It was drizzling softly.
    As it became light a few geese showed in the sky. Then at 9 oçlock the heaven’s opened and thouands of thousands of geese approached.
    The choir of water fowl was on full blast. So impressive. Flock after flock passed high overhead. Some wanted to come down, but flew on since the plastic decoys did not call back.
    Now and then I stood up to scare them away.
    Problem is geese from Scadinavia arrive here in the millions. But these birds are intelligent, have read Steinbecks “Of Mice and Men” living of the fat of the land. So they decide to stay here multiplying every year. There are now over 2 million resident causing enormous damage.
    A cow will clip the grass but a goose pulls out the plant. In no time the wheat field turns into a mud field. A Canada goose weighs several pounds and eats his own weight every day, in fact a loaf of bread, day in day out.
    Two million geese make 2 millions loaves of bread. Enough to still the hunger in Malawi, where people starve.
    So you see, the government decided to control the number of geese.
    Eggs are shaken in spring, but where do you find the volunteers to vist 1 million goose nests ? Impossible situation really.
    I just try to protect my wheat fields, as often as I can. in the hope of chasing them on.
    Lovely idea, now they visit the neighbours.
    Sometimes I bag one, but what do you do with a freezer full of birds ?
    Make some pate’ etc. and given them to friends is what I do.
    But to be out there on my own and to feel one with nature, a miracle.
    I am indeed blessed.
    HenriLouis

  145. He’sAHotSB says:

    NoPointWhatSoEver :)

    “Simple pleasures is what I love. Especially the hot french fries at Mickey Dees”

    any hot french guys at mickey dees? hehehe

    now that’s!!! simple pleasure!!! LOL

    hugs

  146. He’sAHotSB says:

    *************************************************************

    *** “The male tale” ***

    my name was changed
    the game was deranged
    as fame became flames…

    Gail was confused!
    I was amused!

    one was mean :(
    one was mien :)

    claim?
    or blame!
    we all aim…

    as one explained
    I exclaimed

    I told Gail
    I am gay-le
    not a female

    Lisa gave SweetEuropean an A…
    as HenriLouis forgave…
    Lisa said she was paying attention
    Pizza? don’t even mention!

    the mean?
    has been…
    to jail?
    or bail…

    we wait :)
    as they date… :(
    oh mate :(
    we still have fate! :)

    hate :(
    or great! :)

    SBs wait for their mail :(
    or male
    (or female :))

    this is the male tale…

    By He’sAHotSB

    *************************************************************

  147. He’sAHotSB says:

    :)

    I slept well!!!

  148. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    He’sAHotSB ~~~ hola!!!

    I’ve just arrived back to my place. Was watching the Oscars…. you can choose any name you like… OC is cool, we won’t be throwing things at each other.

    Hope you slept well. x

  149. He’sAHotSB says:

    *************************************************************

    *** “Maybe! Baby?” ***

    I walk here and peep… :)
    no talk and everybody asleep… :(

    I read the blog :)
    and there’s a clog :(

    one’s cheap and creep :(
    one’s heap and deep :)

    I’m choosing! :)
    the rich amusing? :)
    or the bitch abusing? :(
    this is confusing! :(

    hitch one :)
    ditch done :)
    how fun! :)

    again I peep :)
    no talk and everybody asleep :(

    free! hugs! :)
    flee! thugs! :(

    …By He’sAHotSB

  150. SuthrnExec says:

    Good morning Henri – enjoy the geese.

  151. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Good morning,
    It is a quarter past five over here.
    Yesterday I was late all day long, so I have to compensate.
    This morning will be spent in nature. Lots of geese from Scandinavia caus untold damage on wheat fields.
    Have got something to do about it.
    Will be sitting in the dark for geese to arrive and chase away.
    The sound of hundreds of birds coming into my direction awakes the Neaderthaler in me. Have to go now. Will report later.
    Have not even found the time to read up the blog.
    Anybody for some home made “rillette des oyes”. I am realy good at preparing it.
    Have a fascinating day, just like I have,
    Luis

  152. lisa says:

    Good night NoPointWhatSoEver
    I can’t stand fries anymore, I had a latte, parfait,and a sundae

    I can’t stand anymore of this cold wind, no rain, just cold wind.

  153. NoPointWhatSoEver says:

    Hey Lisa:) Hip, Hip Hooray for all the struggling ladies that manage to make it through another day!!! Simple pleasures is what I love. Especially the hot french fries at Mickey Dees:)

    You didn’t miss anything Lisa. There was no point.

    It’s raining here in Calif. I am hoping it will clear up as I will be traveling to 3 cities in the next couple of day. As long as I don’t hit fog…I will be fine:) Ok…closing up for the nite to get rest:) Good nite Sugar Family:)

  154. lisa says:

    Good evening everyone. My friend just left. We had a nice visit and I kept her off the boyfriend subject. Treating her to mcds, she works hard too but struggles.
    Did I miss something? What was your point BerkshireSD?

  155. NoPointWhatSoEver says:

    Her chilld has flipped you off and you think its cute.

    While shopping she selects the most expensive items and you cringe and complain on the blog.

    She sleeps while you watch her, as she has no desire to give it up to you.

    The 15 year old tv was replaced by you and your credit card.

    Your SB request you to stay another month, so that her mortgage is paid.

    You choose to be mean to others on the blog, because of???

    How are you feeling now? Not too good I suppose.

  156. NoPointWhatSoEver says:

    Suthrn,
    Bershire SD has been thoughtless and unkind. To think thoughts is one thing, to be mean on the blog is another. Hopefully you have reviewed your post and you should feel badly.

  157. He’sAHotSB says:

    Wooo…SuthrnExec…sounds very

    “Dude, what’s your point?”

    muscular LOL

  158. He’sAHotSB says:

    OCSUGARBABY!!! LOL :)

    When you’re here, VillaCypris (made my HotAussieSB name) isn’t here…and when VillaCypris is here…you’re not here!!! hehehe

    Lisa and SweetEuropean! hahahahaha hugs

    Ok, I’m not changing my name anymore…I’m scared now…
    I don’t want to see VillaCypris and OCSugarBaby throwing soy milk at each other!!! hehehe

    I woke up, turned the computer on straight away and came here LOL

    hahahahaha and BirkshireSD yes, I’m looking for SDs too…not STDs hahahahaha

    Group Hug

  159. SuthrnExec says:

    Berkshire, dude, what’s your point?

  160. BerkshireSD says:

    After a series of childhood pet tragedies, your boyfriend mysteriously takes up residence in the cemetery.

    Now your friend is over with notes and photos of her boyfriend’s movements.

    All you’ve eaten today is chicken strips and you’ve already run afoul of the authorities in your favorite virtual community.

    Someone’s stabbing people in your apt. complex – presumably because there are no more buildings left that will burn easily.

    The sun has gone down and you are trapped inside with this agitated stalker chic who won’t leave or listen to advice.

    The school system just left your daughter in the middle of the night at the mercy of the region’s cab industry while your mother gives you up to the bills collectors you’ve managed to evade for years.

  161. OCSugarBaby says:

    Dang, shhhh we were gonna let that one die out! Don’t get them started!!!

  162. BerkshireSD says:

    And so far none of the males have dissected or dug anything up.

  163. OCSugarBaby says:

    BerkshireSD- Safe Sex goes for Gentlemen as well. Some SB’s are male! :)

  164. BerkshireSD says:

    Girls you are looking for SDs, not STDs.

  165. SuthrnExec says:

    Hang in there BadBB – there are some real wackos out there – just be patient and don’t lower your standards.

    jj, by all means be careful – as OC said, your safety comes first – if you don’t watch out for yourself, no one else wll.

  166. OCSugarBaby says:

    BadBB-Those types of emails give the good true SD’s a bad name. Not all the guys on here are loosers. Just takes some fine tuning and weeding thru the profiles and emails that are not your cup of tea so to speak.
    With that said, remember to keep a positive outlook and your goals in mind. You seem to have a really good head start on this. Keep us posted we love to hear good news! Yes, venting is necessary too.

  167. Bad BB says:

    Thanks for the warm welcome AJ!! And goodluck with your potential SDs! It’s good to know there is some kind of “suport system” because with the amount of loosers on this thing a girl really needs to vent!! I actually got a mail from a creepy guy asking me if I was prego so he could drink my babies milk!!!!!!!!!!! WTF!!!!! Lol!! I had to laugh it off but I really felt like sending him a virus of some sort.. WtvI have been e-mailing a SD back and forth today and he’s so freekin hot it makes me nervous! Why the hell is a rich man that sexy and rich single? But he hasn’t been wasting my time and he answers my mail in record time so ill keep my fingers (and legs) crossed and see what gives!
    Ciao bellas! xoxo

  168. OCSugarBaby says:

    Jj-All questions pertaining to safe sex should and can be discussed with your SD. Nothing in my book is off limits to discuss. I brought it up and found the conversation to be very easy and necessary. Treat it as you would any other relationship. Your safety and concerns come first.

    I am so glad your meeting went well. I was think about you all week! Great news. :)

  169. OCSugarBaby says:

    Henri-For shame, did you just ask SweetEuro for a lapdance! I hope you mean does SweetEuro like to dance. That would be the more appropriate question. :(

  170. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    And if he refuses to use protection, you have every right to refuse him your…ummmm graces lol

  171. jj says:

    Thanks lisa and redhead. :)

  172. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Late in the morning too late all day long. Yet it was an exceptional day.
    Car did not start, battery dead. Called the road service of the Automobile Association. His judgement, battery completely terminated. Where do you get a new one Sunday morning ? Solved this too. Went to the beach and walked ! Got back telephone rings, client urgent problem, is leaving tomorrow for Singapore. So I showered and blazer and tie and went there. Nobody at the meeting point. What a nice Sunday. Waited and waited at last client shows up.
    Talked his problem through, decided on a course of action.
    Drive back and here I am. All my plans to read and write will be on the list for tomorrow then. Had a miraculous discovery about the Da Vinci Code. This novel is all about the question Jesus married Maria Magdalena ? Well I opened a brochure of the museum in Kherson – a town in Ukraine – There is an icon (painting of a sacred person, itself regarded as sacred) and on it you see Jesus and his 11 disciples at the “last supper “. (again Leonardo Da Vinci)
    A twelth person is added, it is a woman, must me Maria Magdalena.
    It proves the theory of Dan Brown to be true. Will write the author tomorrow . He can use it in a sequeel ! My take 20 % royalty, will invite all of young to Monte Carlo. SweetEuro can you lapdance ?
    An extra ordinary day it was for me, this cataloque opened at random.
    I will now read up on the blog and sign off, since it is half past eleven in the evening. See you tomorrow.
    HenriLouis

  173. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    jj you can ask for a STD test, But you can also make sure you use protection. You can’t ever be 100 percent sure. Like with Aids it doesn’t always show up right away. just play it safe and use protection is my best advice.

  174. lisa says:

    jj I think it’s the same as in any relationship. Take precautions. And don’t even think of getting intimate till you have the allowance/spoiling talk as sds are quick to push intimacy. I don’t want you to get used.

  175. lisa says:

    She doesn’t want to watch a movie or go online, just pull out all her notes where she is keeping track of her boyfriend’s every move. She will take all that stuff out of her purse and read everything to me, what time he came in, and where he ate at what time,etc. SHe would save herself alot of trouble if she just dumped him, when you don’t trust someone, you don’t have a relationship.

  176. jj says:

    Hi all! I met a potential SD today and it went pretty well (he likes me), and when I got home I researched him and he’s legit. One thing I was wondering is when it comes to the point where you get intimate, how do you keep yourself safe? I mean does anyone ask for a std test before? Please give me your experiences on this, I REALLY appreciate it! Have a good day sugars!

  177. lisa says:

    Yikes my friend just called and she’s coming over here soon. SHe is hard to get rid of too. I like her but get tired of hearing about her loser boyfriend whom she should dump. She goes on his cell phone and writes down all the numbers and expects me to look up the numbers online to see who is calling him. THe guy is a loser, illegal allien that does nothing but use her.

  178. lisa says:

    Here is my orrignal post with forbidden word removed, lol
    I love big cities. Spent my early childhood in unmentionable city, lol. When I moved from the Rio grande valley to HOuston I thought it would be exiting but Houston is sto spread out it lacks the city feeling. I live 10 miles from downtown and it’s more of a low level suburban setting than a city. And Houston has NO hotdog venders downtown or anywhere, no newstands, and every skyscraper downtown is on a single block so it’s just to open. I love downtown unmentionable city but haven’t been in 25 years when I was a young 18 years old.

  179. lisa says:

    uh oh I got moderated, said the windy city word. oops
    I had said that moving to Houston was a disapointment. It’s so spread out and we have no hotdog venders, newsstands, flower vendors, nothing like in most big cities. My neighborhood is more low level suburban. I spent my early years in the unmentionable city and it was great, Houston sucks.

  180. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    When I was 18 I lives on long island. I went into NYC every weekend. Also took the train to CT to visit my parents. Visa Grand central station.

  181. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    NYC is a great place, I have been there many times. I think you would like it.

  182. lisa says:

    Thanks Sweetredhead. I’m itching to go to Europe but New york sounds great. If my daughter likes it , i’m sure I would as she is very hard to please. lol

  183. lisa says:

    I just want to go some place fun, see something new, be able to walk around and go places. I love vacations. Haven’t been since 2003 and have actually only had 3 vacations in the last 17 years.
    Having some coffee, trying to stay awake now. Housework about wiped me out. lol Birdseed seems to get everywhere.

  184. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    If I ever win the Lottery Lisa I will send you a plain ticket to any where in the world you would like to go.

  185. Gail says:

    lol…never ever Lisa?…I doubt that:) You just need to scratch harder my friend!

  186. lisa says:

    Just finished cleaning the house, tired now. Daughter sent me some nice pictures she took in NewYork. She says Houston is a let down since visiting such an exciting city. Back to the road construction mess and lack of safe walking. I’m itching for a vacation but i’ll probably never get out of this ugly city again.

  187. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    Stoped in to check on the blog, cooking dinner. making chicken and biskets. (northern girl does southern cooking lmao)

    Just know what you want from the relationship, what your expectations are. Remember to be safe!! meet in a public place.

    I am nervous on a first meeting. I was so nervous the first time I ever met a pot SD, I was sick!! But after that it got easier :)

  188. aj says:

    Bad BB – Hello! Welcome, I just joined this blog a few days ago and it is amazing! My advice to you is know what you want. Most SD’s, but not all!, will try and get away with as little as possible I think. That has been my impression of my that I have communicated with anyway. They just want to pay for sex instead of going all out with the allowance and shopping. Decide exactly what you want and stick to it. I don’t have my SD yet, but I have 2 pot. that i’m seeing this week and they both know what I expect. Likewise I know what they expect and that’s the beauty :)

    Good Luck!

  189. Bad BB says:

    Sorry !!!! I didnt refresh my screen and I didnt notice I had gotten replies!! You ladies are so nice for actually helping me out! Im from Montreal Canada… u know that lovely place where the polar bears hibernate! lol Guys here are just so Blazé!! They bore me they really do! Originally I’m from the Carribean though… I swear I make bigger connections with men I meet on vacation that guys I date out here… It sucks!

  190. Bad BB says:

    OOHHHLALA!!! This is starting off grrreat! I know I shouldn’t get too excited but I cant help it! I’ve actually been chatting it up with some (hopefully!) real SDs and they seem like really cool guys! Where has this site been all my life? I’m thinking llol! I’m young though… I know some of these men will try to take advantage of that and think I’m naive… I just gotta learn the rules and fast… I haven’t really sat down yet and made a game plan… Is that the first thing I should do or just go wit the flow and have a good time? I wonder… Any more experienced SBs wanna share some past experiences or advice with me I would really like that. This Seeking Arrangement thing is not for the faint at heart!!

    xoxo

  191. lisa says:

    I’m going to clean my apartment now. Be back later

  192. Natty*296451 says:

    Sweet Euro: Really? I’ll send it again, I sent to your private email address!!! :)

    Lisa, I know! I’m always nervous before meeting a guy. I just never know what he’s thinking, if it’s just about judging my appearance, or trying to turn the arrangement into something conventional, I mean power to people who find love on here and meet people for that, but I believe this website for me personally is not what its circumvented for.

  193. lisa says:

    Natty I’m a nervous wreck before a meeting but have always relaxed as soon as we meet. I haven’t met anyone in months though so if I ever meet anyone ever again it will be hard because is has been a while. I know about those guys who talk sex right away. I once talked to one guy that kept asking me about lingerie, not about what I like but if I would be some on and walk around for him to look it, kind of tacky for some stranger on the phone. I have found the best way to get rid of a guy like that is to bring up the allowance and other activities. They will be gone like that because they aren’t looking to pay an allowance or to take you to dinner or dancing, just looking for sex.

  194. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Natty, I haven’t received an email from you, did you send it to my email address or on SA? Send it again! :)

  195. Natty*296451 says:

    Just me: I know what you mean. I’m gone for a few hours and I come back and wow, it’s like loads has been going on!!!!!!!!!! Need to do a blog recap in the middle. Sort of like the sports highlights. That way I know what is up.

    Sweet Euro: I sent you an email via your address, did you not get it or are you just ignoring me LOL? Not to worry, not to worry……………..

    Does anyone else get nervous before a SD/SB date? I almost had another potential date, but he blew it on the phone during a chat. He just starts off with “hello, now tell me what you like to do in the bedroom. I mean bloody hell! Did the guy really have to start a conversation like that?

  196. lisa says:

    yikes I need to stop googling my apartments. Just found out there was as fatal stabbing on valentines day. Some guy got stabbed to death.

  197. lisa says:

    full of chicken strips, lol

  198. JustMe *193017* says:

    Hi All…Hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend. Love reading all the posts in the blog this morning, but takes wayyyyy tooo long!! I need to take a speed reading course!! LOL

  199. BerkshireSD says:

    Full of what?

  200. lisa says:

    Back from whataburger, full now. lol

  201. OCSugarBaby says:

    Good Morning!
    Name,He’sAHotSB,Desperate- I think we have narrowed it down with your blog name. I like He’sAHotSB, it first and foremost lets others know that you are in fact a MALE. You are only one a very few male SB’s that have blog’d with us.

    Speaking of male SB’s…

    Hey Jj! We miss you. Check in and let me know how your meetings went this week. I think you mentioned that you may have had one coming up.

    Back from church, prayed for a better day and a better way! :)

  202. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Hey BadBB :), where are you from?

  203. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    Never limit yourself. You never know where you will find the right person for you :)

    Back from my work out, taking 5 before I hit the shower.

    LMAO@BerkshireSD I know what you mean yips lmao. It’s all good (I think lol)

  204. Bad BB says:

    Hello Sugar Bowlers and fellow Arrangement Seekers!!!! Hope your week end was Fabulous!! I’m the newbie for now and today was my first day of intense sugar daddy searching! My profile got approved @ 7:36 am my time and I got viewed 8 times and messaged twice! I’m loving the ratio!! The rookie has a question: What are your thoughts on over seas Sugar Daddies? Am I being too ambitious? Should I focus on my own territory? I just see it as being a potential set back but the men in my area are BORING!! The whole point of this arrangement for me is to find something new and exciting… Then again I don’t want my plane ticket to be considered a date or a spoiler… Any comments?

  205. BerkshireSD says:

    I don’t want to know you people.

  206. lisa says:

    Going down to Whataburger now, be back later.

  207. lisa says:

    Brr it’s a cold morning in Houston.

  208. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Aww I never got to dissect a frog at school, I got to dissect a heart once though and a liver I think…. lol

  209. lisa says:

    I’m going to water my plants and walk down to whataburger for my chicken strips workout, lol

  210. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    ahahaha…. yuck…. no animal parts are going on this body…

    i’m going to go work out as well… talk to you later lisa~

  211. lisa says:

    Sweetredhead, while working out, lift a skull in each hand

  212. lisa says:

    you could have put the snout on your face someway, you never know about men, they are into weird stuff sometimes, lol

  213. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    I am going to go work out and get the image of dead pets out of my mind. (shaking head)

  214. lisa says:

    When I was younger my boyfriend and I used to park out by the cemetery, and a few months later he became a resident of that cemetery, kinda creepy now. He is burried in a mausoleum that plays music.

    I haven’t been to a cemetery since Highgate in London. Nothing in Houston compares. Highgate is all grown around and creepy, old tombstones. Very interesting.

  215. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    LOL. God, that would be CREEPY!!!!! Hey baby —- come over here — me and the snout are waiting to give you immense pleasure… ahahah

  216. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    I have never had a wild side, I guess that I am due!

  217. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Yea, he never forgot about that! I still remember the look on his face. As W said… “shock and awe”… ahahah

  218. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    I failed that section in science, I refused to touch the frog lol. and it smelled HORRIBLE!!

  219. lisa says:

    You laid on tissue paper with the snout, what a nice surprise, lol

  220. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    Your first meeting can be in a pet cemetery digging up dead things. Ok that just creeped me out even to type LMAO

  221. lisa says:

    I remember dissecting a frog in school and I lost the eyeballs on the floor. That was a nice thoughtful gift, VillaCypris, unforgettable, lol

  222. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    laid IT on tissue paper

  223. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Lisa, that is FUNNY! The skull pencil holder… that reminds me of when I was in college, taking anatomy, and we had to dissect fetal pigs. I cut off the snout, and laid on tissue paper in a little box with a clear lid. And then gave it to my boyfriend as a surprise. ahahha

  224. lisa says:

    We need a section on this blog where we can post profile numbers of sds and ask them publicly why they didn’t write back, lol kind of blacklist them, lol America’s most wanted for not responding.

  225. lisa says:

    I just get tired of these fakes. He sent me a nice long email. I wrote him a reply and I didn’t say anything negative, just asked him more about himself, etc. If you knocked on his door, his mommy would probably come to the door and say, “he can’t come to the door,he’s digging up his pets” lol

  226. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    Wow Lisa your scaring me.

    Sure I will just knock on his door and say HI, Lisa wants to know why you have not replied to her.

    Headline…. girl gets arrested for being out of her mind!!

  227. lisa says:

    Good someone else was paying attention is class. An “A” for SweetEuropean.

  228. lisa says:

    I had a pet cemetery in my back yard. I would also dig them up after awhile. Put their skulls on the living room shelf with a candle. I used to take my cat Tom’s skull to school and use it as a pencil holder. Tom got killed by a snake.

    I haven’t heard anything from that potential sd. I sent him a nice reply and told him about my interests and asked him what his was looking for in an arrangment. He read my message yesterday but has yet to reply. I reallly think he is the same guy who wrote and disappeared before. He is in Florida, maybe you can go knock on his door, lol

  229. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Lisa I recognised 19 Asian too!! The hehehe gave it away LOL :)

  230. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    I didn’t carry a boombox. I was the sweet innocent girl with the secret wild streak. You only knew My wild side if you knew me lmao.

  231. lisa says:

    I wish we had vcrs and ipods when I was a young girl, lol. I used to carry a huge boombox.

  232. lisa says:

    Good morning everyone. I’m off today so I slept late. My daughter didn’t get home till after 11 and the taxi didn’t take her credit card, mom had to scratch around for the cash. Taxi drivers in Houston are very rude. She is tired but not getting any rest, up early to go to church.

    Am I the only one that sees that HotAussie or Desperate housewife or whomever is Asian 19, he chatted with us a few subjects down. I recognize his hehehe, lol.

    Hope your sore fingers get better Jennifer. I always get blisters on my hands when I try to put something together.

  233. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    It is amazing. Wish I had the internet when I was a young girl.

  234. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    ahaha. Me, too, sweetred. when you think about it, the internet is AMAZING! we’re all communicating and yet live so far away from each other… cool :)

  235. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    One of the side effects of wearing a nicotine patch is night mares. I didn’t have any BUT I woke up several time with the strangest dreams.

  236. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    Hi Jennifer. Congrates on the cabinet. Always feels good when you accomplish something :)

  237. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    Get to bed HotAussieSB NOW MR!! lmao. I can just see him jumping all over the place all hyped up lmao. GO TO BED!

  238. HotAussieSB says:

    Oh

    Jennifer!

    we have bandages top shelf in the kitchen! :)

  239. HotAussieSB says:

    VillaCypris LOL

    You can work out…

    I’ll just…watch…

    LOL

    SBs here are confused LOL Gail! LOL

    GROUP HUG

    reaaally sleeping now…lol

  240. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Ok, fingers are all in tack. Just finished putting together the second cabinet. Boy, I am good if I do say so myself. Only had my dad help me stand it up!

    SweetRed… good for you. Just take things one hour at a time.

    AJ.. What wonderful news, as everyone has suggested just do a name search. You will be surprised of what you may find.

  241. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Sleep HotAussie!! Pry yourself away from the computer screen!!! hahaha

  242. Gail says:

    oh….I got it now….!!! LOL….need more coffee:)

  243. HotAussieSB says:

    sweetredhead

    I don’t drink coffee… :(

    Look at me…not sleeping…talking here with my best friends…at 3:10am Sydney time…lol

    I have to force myself to sleep!

  244. Gail says:

    What!!!! I don’t understand what happened…please clarify…(smile) Nevertheless…you are part of our Sugar family…LOL…hugs to you!!!

  245. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    good night HOT AUSSIE SB! What a great name. ahahha

  246. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    that is hilarious. we can work out, drink soy milk and channel positive thoughts :)

  247. HotAussieSB says:

    Hi,

    I’m new to this blog…

    mmm…it’s 3:05am in Sydney…

    I’m going to sleep now…

    :)

    Free Hugs

  248. He’sAhotSB says:

    I just can’t stop dreaming… :)

    flying to the US…meeting everybody here drinking american soy milk…

    at where?

    HenriLouis’s Gym

    lol oops…

  249. He’sAhotSB says:

    LOL CHEERS!!! with our soy milk in our wine glasses hehehe

    Gail ! :) I made a poem for you!

    Gail,
    I’m Gayle,
    not a female.

    HUGS! LOL SURPRISE SURPRISE!!!

    LOL SweetEuropean!!! HUGS!

  250. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Ciao AJ! Keep us posted :)

  251. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    I don’t think she could… soy milk cannot be grasped, it would just slide thru her fingers and end up on the floor…. hahaha

  252. He’sAhotSB says:

    VillaCypris…

    I want you to get OCSugarBaby’s approval first…

    LOL she hasn’t been here after she named me! she might throw soy milk at you…lol

    so now my name is APPROVAL PENDING
    Please edit your name only if you absolutely have to. Making changes to your name (if it is already approved) will place your profile back onto our name Approval process. Approval may take up to 24 hours after you make any changes to your name.

  253. aj says:

    Thanks Everyone…must actually work now.. bummer :)

    Cheers to soy milk!

  254. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    I actually purfer dounkin donuts coffee to starbucks. But I do the the ones in the bottle.

  255. Gail says:

    Hot Aussie SB…I am Asian too:) that would be fun to have your here!!!HUGS to everyone!!!

  256. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    He’sAhot SB, it’s hard to keep up with your names haha…when you first started blogging were you under the name Nineteen Asian? (or something similair I can’t quite remeber!)

  257. Gail says:

    Ooooh Villa…I like that name for Desperate…or HotSB…lol…HotAussieSB she is!!!!

    AJ…lol….yes, how dare them….

  258. He’sAhotSB says:

    ooops… :(

    I’m deleting the (MADE IN OCSugarBaby…not Asia) part…

    But I’m Asian! lol

    oooh…my dream is to meet you guys in the US drinking american soy milk together!!!

    time for our group hug!!! :)

  259. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Woo Aj that’s great!!! I’m taking a leaf out of your book, I love how you handled this SD and the results are great! I’m going to be more direct in future and state EXACTLY what I want and what i’m looking for… he can take it or leave it! :)

    lol, silly customers! Tell them you have important sugar blogging to get on with!

  260. Gail says:

    LOL…I get Starbucks bottled coffee by the cases, 4 different flavors, 12 packs… I just microwave them…and wallaaah!!!! It saves me bunches. I wish we had the ability to transport items to each other in our virtual world…I would share and we would all be drinking them. Caffeine out!!!

  261. aj says:

    VillaCypris – I contacted him first.

  262. aj says:

    SweetEuropean…I’m in! Dinner on Friday. Said he would pay for the surgury if I want too:)

    Sorry, I’m at work and trying to blog in between customers …

    Lol how dare they interupt my blogging…

  263. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    How about this…. HotAussieSB

  264. He’sAhotSB (MADE IN OCSugarBaby...not Asia) says:

    OOOH…AJ…
    So you’re meeting a Question Mark SD on Friday?

    VillaCypris!!!
    hahahahaha

    I

    A
    M

    N
    O
    W

    He’sAhotSB

    :) hahahahaha let’s all do positive thinking like VillaCypris :) !!!

    HUGS!

  265. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    AJ – did he contact you first? or you him? just curious :)

  266. Gail says:

    lol @ aj….how exciting!!!

    Desperate…I agree with Villa..a more positive name..

  267. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Ahhh I remember that lack of starbucks in Monaco…. and then the joy, when I was in Vienna, turned the corner, and VOILA! There in front of me…. there it was…. funny, because I hardly ever go to starbucks here in the USA.

  268. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Gail, i’m planning on sleeping a whole day before I leave to stop myself falling asleep on the plane, I don’t want to arrive in Vegas looking a hot mess haha, i’m too vain for my own good! I’m so happy that my first trip to the US is with the sugar family! 😀

    Hmm i’m craving Starbucks!! There isn’t a single Starbucks in France or Monaco :(

    Aj, I agree with Sweetred about the strech marks thing, I think confidence is the key! I have some stretch marks too (I was a chubby child LOL) but I have alot more confidence in my body now so I forget they’re there and just get on with it! I’m dying to hear what happened with the email!!

  269. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    SweetEuropean

    So…you love oranges but not mandarins?

    :) hehehe

  270. Gail says:

    Desperate…you will find a job…it took me awhile. The economy is pretty bad. I am doing contract work for now. It has been good in that my schedule is more flexible. I was able to travel he entire summer
    and have met wonderful SD friends. This coming weekend I will meet all of my Sugars in one destination.

  271. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    WOW!!!!!!!!!! Wooooooooooooo!!!! how exciting!!!! :)

    Google him if you have his full name, find out about him , it’ll give you more to talk about perhaps…. or help you understand him better… ?

  272. aj says:

    I feel like I could throw up I’m so excited and nervous…lol!

  273. aj says:

    If he is real, his offer is outstanding!

  274. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    sweetredhead

    “One more day smoke free and exercise, I feel GREAT!!”

    you mean you’re trying to give up smoking?

  275. aj says:

    jeez, i must have been so excited i deleted it? anyway, YAY! he is flying in to meet me for dinner on friday evening, anywhere i choose! :)

    Also, said he would pay if I would like to have the stretch marks removed!

    But, no pic of him…just a full name.

    now what? ) ) )

  276. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    aj – what happened with the email!!!!????

  277. aj says:

    Did my post not show? hmmmm i can’t see it on the blog…

  278. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    I agree sweetEuro…. I’ll drink cow milk in a latte, but i try to stay away from it, based on some of the chinese medicine i’ve studied. Dairy in general is not good for a person.

  279. aj says:

    SweetEuropean…lol I feel the same way about cows! too funny.

  280. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Good morning SweetRed… keep up the good work!!!!!!!! :)

    Think about this HotSB…. “desperation” and “desperate” do not have positive connotations attached to them, literally or figuratively. There is some truth to the mindset that we become what we think… you want to be projecting POSITIVE energy and positive thoughts about yourself out into the world, including on the blog. Go do some reading on how impressionable the subconscious mind is… you sound like a really cool, funny, happy, up beat person… you don’t want people to be associating you with the concept of being “desperate”, even if they don’t realise they are doing it…

  281. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    HAHAHAHAHA VillaCypris (god it’s hard typing our names here isn’t it lol)

    hmmm…the soy milk I’ve tasted here in Australia
    tasted like Plain-white-flour-mixed-in-water lol…
    I hope I can go to the US and taste the soy milk you’re drinking!!!

    hehehehehe but…what if it still tastes like plain-white-flour-mixed-in-water…? :(

    SweetEuropean! SAVA!!! :)

  282. aj says:

    sweetredhead – you are sweet. thank you!

  283. Gail says:

    Morning Sweet E…(Ms.USA Here I Come)….I am so excited that you will be stepping on US soil. And what a place to start in the city of Sin with all your Sugars:) Make sure to rest and sleep on the plane if you can. What kind of American food will you be cravng when you get there?

  284. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Salut VillaCypris! Hmm soy milk, I may have to try that… I can’t stand cows milk for some reason! I can eat ice cream and drink milkshakes because they don’t taste like milk but anything that tastes like milk makes me feel sick… same goes for cheese lol, although i’m ok with pizza… eugh i’m so strange lol

  285. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    Good morning everyone.

    No one has the perfect body, or at least no one thinks they do. We are harder on ourselves than any man ever will be. Embrace you flaws, it’s what makes us all unique :) My stretch marks….I call them war wounds lol I earned those lol

    Hope everyone is having a wonderful day.

    One more day smoke free and exercise, I feel GREAT!! Ok so I lie but I will feel great after I get through this week :)

  286. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    aaaaah hugs VillaCypris hehehe

    I am more desperate than I am hot right now though! :)

    LOL I’ve been looking for a job for…months!!! :(

  287. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Salut SweetEuro!

  288. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    HA! Maybe in Australia it tastes like white flour. Westsoy makes an “unsweetened vanilla” flavor, so less sugar and tastes really good.

  289. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    LOL Desperate you’re so funny!

  290. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Thanks, Gail!! Awwww… you made my day…. you know what Mark Twain said… “i could live for two months off of one compliment”. :) :) That photo was taken while I was standing in the Dead Sea, on the Jordanian side. I went to Amman back in June 2007 for a couple of days. Was interesting and the people are lovely.

    I’ve been drinking soy milk for years, it is good for you!

  291. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    *Refreshing the page every 5 seconds for AJ to comment*

    LOL :)

  292. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    ooooo…soy milk…

    doesn’t soy milk taste like plain white flour mixed in water 4:6 ratio?

    :( sorry to the soy milk lovers!!!

  293. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Well, hopefully he’s genuine and not playing some sort of game with you, to give you false hope of a wonderful arrangement and then he’ll disappear. That would be rather sociopathic.

    HotSB- who cares what people think of your name? You can be confident without being arrogant. And once someone communicates with you, your sense of humour will come thru and they’ll realise you’re not full of yourself…

  294. aj says:

    holy S#$! I have an email…stand by…

  295. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    Yea! the people who don’t send photos…but expects the other person to send them photos hehehehehe

    oops…I think that’s me…

    naaa…I have three photos posted on my profile…so no sending required! hehehe

  296. Gail says:

    Villa…I saw your new pic…that you posted on our World…wow….you are so pretty…and what an attractive background and pose…(smile) I am so envious. I wish I was a little bit taller with longer legs…

    By the way soy milk is suppose to be great for you. I have just been turned on to Kosher meat…like chicken and beef. The taste is so much better. I even ate Soy Barbque hot wings…LOL…and didn’t even know the difference.

  297. aj says:

    VillaCypris – yeah, who knows? i normally do not send a lot of pics of myself before meeting however in this case I found the pot. benefits to far outweigh the risk – he had his offer in the email. so…i did it. now here i sit…lol

  298. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    VillaCypris! hahahahaha I like the name OC made for me too! but…the people who don’t know the history of the name…will think that I’m walking around here with my body 180 degrees straight with my head tilted back 135 degrees! :( won’t they think like that? hehehe

    how about…the name…”VeryKindSBactuallyTooKind” lol or is that worse than “He’sAhotSB” hehehehehe

    Gail!!! Yes! the blog is addictive and I’ve gone through two name changes lol

  299. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    hi Gail! I’m drinking coffee as well! with soy milk, and waiting for the steel cut oats to finish cooking…

    no pix, eh, aj? What is it with men…. some are so reticent to send their photos….

  300. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Regarding the time…. i don’t know what time zone they use. It’s not Eastern Standard Time… that’s one hour behind what shows up here. Maybe some time zone off in the ocean somewhere.

  301. aj says:

    Gail – lol SA Blog addict! well it’s nice to have people to talk to that get it:)

  302. Gail says:

    Oh by the way…GOOD MORNING EVERYONE!!!! I am have coffee this rainy Sunday morning…may I pour anyone a cup?

  303. aj says:

    Desperate House – no, it’s 9:11am here.
    VillaCyris – no pix of him.

  304. Gail says:

    Lol…Desperate when do you plan to sleep? You must be addicted to the BLOG. It gets like that….SA Blog addict…(smile)

  305. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Hmmm… ok. Have you seen any pix of him?

    mr. wolf creek… i like OC’s name for you… hotSB :)

  306. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    mmm…AJ…when you post…and the time says 11:00 am…is that the real posting time there?

    because when I post…it says 11:05 am…but my time is really 2:05 am (sleeping time!) :)

  307. aj says:

    Interesting though…I have not received a pic of him. Yikes.

  308. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    oooh AJ!!! :)

    I was “Name (required)” then OCSugarBaby made me a name “He’sAhotSB”

    but…lol…I didn’t want people to read my name and think…”who does he think he is???” lol…

    so I changed my name to “Desperate House…..wife?”

    Hugs! It’s 2:00am here in Sydney!

  309. aj says:

    I have not gotten a reaction yet. Although he does not always respond instantly, sometimes waits 6-8 hours…

  310. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    good morning ~~

    aj- what was his reaction after you sent the photos?

  311. aj says:

    Good Morning! Name – you are too funny…
    I think it’s important for both parties to express their expectations from the start-lol-but i don’t know that that tactic works for everyone?

    i’m on pins and needles right now! pot. sd requested more pics and i obliged. BUT my body is not perfect as i’ve had a kid and have stretch marks on my stomach…willing to get rid of them if the sd will pay:) oh well i guess that is beyond my control…

    jeez talk about being upfront about what’s expected.

  312. Natty*296451 says:

    Hi guys!!!!!! We had wonderful weather in London :)
    Had a charming visit with friends and family, and organising a holiday with friends as we are due for one. Hope the weekend was great to all the sugars as well.

    Cheers

    x

  313. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    oooh…sin city is Las Vegas!!! :) lol…i searched on google maps and it said

    Did you mean:
    Sin, Afghanistan

    LOL

    Oh…I’m too curious after SweetEuropean and HenriLouis’ comments…

    because I’m not in the US too!!!

    How does an SD buy a ticket for the SB?

    seekingarrangement.com>>> lol
    IMPORTANT – DO NOT SEND MONEY BY WESTERN UNION
    IMPORTANT NOTICE – FRAUD WARNING
    WARNING – BOUNCED OR BAD PERSONAL CHECKS
    WARNING – IDENTITY THEFT

    I’m too curious!!! :)

  314. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hi SweetEuro,
    As to not sounding greedy or deluded, scroll here to the beginning and read what Hot Mama and AJ had to say and how they tackled this question.
    Knowing you, value yourself at a minimum of $ 10.000 per month and a nice BMW series 3 Cabriolet. After all you live on the Riviera where you need such a car to go shopping. You make yourself available when he comes to the South of France.
    Then you will stay together in a 5* hotel in Monte Carlo.
    The great thing is, that when he comes to visit you in MC he will not be overdemanding the first few day, jet-lag you know.
    Did you also get the return ticket ?
    Is it First class ? Is it Business class ? Don’t tell me it is Economy !
    If is does not work out, you should be able to fly back as quickly as possible. Read up all the advice your sister SBs gave on the blogs.
    Got the hotel confirmation also ?
    Ask the others from NY, if it is a star hotel or a dump.
    Make an appointment to meet the others in NY. Nice to talk to someone thre, after all you will be all alone.
    Check and double check.
    You cannot be careful enough.
    HenriLouis

  315. BlkButtafly~264118~ says:

    Sin City is the elusive never-sleeping Las Vegas! :-)

  316. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hi SweetEuro,
    I wish you lots of fun with your pot SD and your first meeting.
    Yes, America is a very exciting place to go to.
    Of course you will get all the help and support from all the experienced SBs on the blog.
    You will make it into a great success.
    Who wouldn’t like be together with you ?!
    All of the gentleman here of course.
    HenriLouis

  317. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    Good Morning America!!! hehehe

    It’s 12:30am here in Sydney…now Monday!!! I’m living in the future…how weird…hehehe

    Gail where’s sin city? New York?

    Jennifer! “We have bandages top shelf in the kitchen” (from Desperate Housewives Episode 2 lol I love Desperate Housewives)

  318. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Sorry, I missed BerkSD. good morning to you! and BerkSB

  319. Jenniferbbwsb says:

    Good Morning Sweet European, Gail, Desperate House, HenriLouis and most of all SuthrnEx.

    How is everyone this morning? I am about to put more cabinets together. My hands are all tore up from the one I put together last night. Adding more storage to my bedroom. You all have a great day, I am off to hurt the rest of my fingers!!

  320. Gail says:

    LOL…Sweet European….lucky you!!! Are you headed to Sin City? There will be alot of potential SUGARS waiting to meet you…(smile)

  321. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    I think I’ll be the best at that…hahahahaha

    how do you tell them exactly what you want without potentially sounding demanding, greedy or deluded?

    “mmm…I think…you should tell me what you’re looking for first…because…you know…hehehe…it’s a privilege really…for even being able to fly here (US) to meet you for this (arrangement)! mmm…don’t you think? hehehehehe :) so…what did you have in mind…? hehehe :)”

    I don’t know SweetEuropean hehehe
    I would want the SD to tell me first what he was looking for, because he’s the “giver”…if you know what I mean…Unless the SD reaaally keeps asking…like…”you have to tell me what you wanted in terms of $ so I have a certain idea” like that…then I guess I would tell him…but in a very very short worded sweet way…:)

    lucky you!!! hehehehehe is he flying you to the US ($)? or are you flying there…?

    :)

  322. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    LOL I’m exited, it’s my first visit!

    A question to all SDs/SBs….. When a potential SD asks you what you want from an arrangement, how do you tell them exactly what you want without potentially sounding demanding, greedy or deluded?

  323. SuthrnExec says:

    Good morning everyone! I hope your sunday is a great one!

  324. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    oooh SweetEuropean!!! LUCKY!!! hehehe

    lucky lucky lucky!!! :)

  325. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Hey Desperate! I’m not, I will be in 4 days though! :)

  326. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    SweetEuropean!

    Are you in the US now? hehehe

    :)

  327. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Good morning everybody! I’m completely shattered today, I went out last night to a salsa club! LOL
    I’m going to get ready soon and go the beach, the weather’s wonderful here today! :)
    Hope everybody had had a good weekend, any sugar news?!

  328. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    Oh HenriLouis,

    I’m desperate looking for a job!…

    :(

  329. BerkshireSD says:

    I hope there are real men on this site too.

    Those of us who retired already should count their blessings as well in this economy. Heck, I’m thinking of coming out of retirement being a bit of a vulture myself.

    BerkSB’s business is hurting. Her profession (not the oldest of…) is largely a luxury or discretionary on some level. More time for me!

    If a certain state atty general has his way, the biggest employer in her region may end up doing time.

    LV? BerkSB’s been telling me stories about her ex-husband’s claims that she blew his millions at the Dollar Store.

    I love a woman that knows the value of a buck and respects how it is used. Makes me feel genuinely appreciated.

  330. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    HenriLouis!!! :)

    I read your usual wake up call!!! did you read mine? hehehehehe

    hehehe yeees it’s the only free thing in life :) but sun protection isn’t free! :(

    From the No-Brand SPF 30
    to the Chanel UV Essentiel SPF 50+++

    Are you learning or earning?

    Are you loaded or loaning?

    We Live…
    and
    we leave or we love…

    Desperate House…..wife

  331. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    Good night every one,
    Here is my unusual wake-up call!
    It is going to be a right Sunday and dizzy because I do have to catch up with a lot of writing.
    The night ended by reading the blog.
    It had everything in it to create a great blockbuster.
    I found the Good, the Bad and the Ugly.
    But most of all Friendship !
    On a Sunday night I would like to offer you this wisdom on friendship
    “Your friends need your answers!
    “S/he is your field which you sough for love and rede on thanksgiving!
    “And s/he is bored by your fireside!
    “For you? two come with your hunger, and you sic her/him for peace!
    Sunday for me is a powerwalk along the beach and I’ll tell my black lab about you, he is still on my wish list.
    Carnival this evening ? Well I’ll see how fast I get my work done.
    I offer you all the sunhine of my smile,
    Desperate House…..wife

    :)

  332. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hi desperate,
    Yes indeed, it is the only thing free in life, tomorrow the sun will shine again.
    By the way why are you desperate ?
    Off to the beach now,
    HenriLouis

  333. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    hmmm…so when the sun goes up in the US…it’s going down here in Sydney…hehehe

  334. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Good morning every one,
    Here is my usual wake-up call.
    It is going to be a bright Sunday and busy because I do have to catch up with a lot of writing.
    The morning started by reading the blog.
    It had everything in it to create a great blockbuster.
    I found the Good, the Bad and the Ugly.
    But most of all Friendship !
    On a Sunday morning I would like to offer you this wisdom on friendship
    “Your friend is your needs answered.
    “He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.
    “And he is your board and your fireside
    “For you to come with your hunger, and you seek him for peace.
    Sunday for me is a powerwalk along the beach and I’ll tell my black lab about you, he is still walking beside me.
    Carnival this evening ? Well I’ll see how fast I get my work done.
    I offer you all the sunhine of my smile,
    HenriLouis

  335. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    :(

    Profile Not Available

    Copyright © 2005 – 2006 SeekingArrangement.com – All Rights Reserved

  336. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Oops. what the hell.

    So, when you look at someone’s profile, at the end of the search string there is a number… all you have to do is replace that number in the browser line with the profile number you wish to see , and hit “enter”. It will show up. Hope that helps! x

  337. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Look up

  338. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Look up

  339. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    AmberMarie:

    I’d love to know how too!!! hmmm…

    and I’d love to know how people look at a profile by knowing a person’s profile number! hehehe

  340. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    hmmm…when I’m sleeping…everybody’s here…
    and when everybody’s sleeping…I’m here…
    :(
    Is everybody here in the US? hmmm…

  341. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    Wolf Creek, McIntosh, GA 31305, USA
    Wolf Creek, Sutton, Braxton, WV 26601, USA

    I did hear though…there is Wolf Creek in Australia…but…hmmm…it’s not on oogle.com maps…

  342. Bad BB says:

    Is anyone still up?? Thanks for the feed back on the pics… I finally just decided to leave my initial one that shows off my frame but leave something for the imagination. I’m checking out these so called SD’s profiles and I must say I’m NOT impressed! I can believe some of these guys have 2 profiles running at once and its so obvious ! I’ve never laughed so hard in my life! What is the point of running 2 identical profiles but with a different name? LAME LAME LAME!!!! I really hope there are some real men on this site that are honest about who they are ( or at east how much they make! lol) Well I wanted something new and this is definitely unlike anything I’ve done before… Wish me luck guys cuz I feel like I’m definitely gonna need it! Big Kisses xxx!!!

  343. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    oh good… i was worried there for a moment… xx

  344. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    hahahahaha VillaCypris!!! I love the movie Wolf Creek!!! I don’t live in Wolf Creek though!!! hmmm…I’m going to see if the suburb?…Wolf Creek exists…hehehe

  345. Desperate House.....wife? says:

    Oh…and…do you know how you ladies/men have the profile numbers…how do you actually…like…..go to the site (profile)?

    Sorry OCSugarBaby! I changed my name because the name you made for me…I didn’t want people that don’t know (that you made me the name)…would think… “who does he think he is…David Beckham?”
    hehehe

    Hugs :)

  346. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    the 2005 australian horror film???????? ahhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!

  347. He’sAhotSB says:

    hehehe Australia! :)

  348. He’sAhotSB says:

    I’ve read profiles like this…it’s very…hmmm…LOL

    Budget: Less than US$1000 monthly

    then you read…

    “I love to spoil”

    what?

  349. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    HotSB ~~ Wolf Creek… Colorado????

  350. AmberMarie says:

    LOL @ me just saying picture twice. Hopefully you understand what I meant. Maybe I should read my posts before pressing the submit button, haha! =x

  351. AmberMarie says:

    & how do you put a picture in your little blog picture? :]

  352. AmberMarie says:

    Aww, thanks everyone! =D

    So, I’m REALLY bummed. I updated my profile a little bit earlier & it’s STILL pending approval. There’s a SD I really wanna talk to and write, but wow, this is taking forever. :\

    & hey Berkshire SD. . do you have any friends? haha =P

  353. He’sAhotSB says:

    VillaCypris!
    OCSugarBaby made it for me hehehe :)

    Oh and VillaCypris

    I’m in Wolf Creek!

    :)

  354. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    HA! HotSB! I like it! :)

  355. He’sAhotSB says:

    Hi !!!

    LOL!!!

    OCSugarBaby

    :)

  356. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Ugh. I agree, OC. It seems like the United States as we have known it is unravelling in front of our eyes. I’m glad you were spared, but you’re right, we are in a vicious cycle of fear, uncertainty, unemployment, etc. A lot of my friends are at Goldman, Citigroup, wachovia, and no one has anything positive to say… it’s quite disturbing, and makes me nauseous everyday, when I read and/or listen to the news. Anyone who has a job should count his or her blessings.

  357. OCSugarBaby says:

    Ok, now lets get back to happier subjects!

    Name- If you do not assign or enter a blog name I may be forced to give you one! I am thinking HeSB or He’sAhotSB… lol

  358. OCSugarBaby says:

    Villa-Thanks for the work well wishes. Yesterday was both a good and bad day at work. My company announced a 500 person layoff about two weeks ago and yesterday was the D-day. I was spared, which I am so very grateful that my hard work payed off. Not sure it was all hard work, maybe some luck as well. But yesterday my companies three building complex had women in tears and men distraught both wondering how they are going to provide for their families. I felt sad to say goodbye to them. I had a huge mix of emotions. I felt so drained yesterday and relieved at the same time. I hate this, the state of the economy touches us all. Yesterday it touched some very close friends. Sucked…

  359. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Name, you’re funny. I don’t love Louis Vuitton. i prefer Hermes. Understated luxury, and top quality. I do like Chanel as well. Where are you located again ? Sorry, I forgot…

  360. Name (required) says:

    oooh thank you Sweetredhead!!! hugs! :)

    hmmm

    so that means every lady in here loves Louis?
    (Not HENRILOUIS, I mean Louis Vuitto…lol of course we love our Mr HenriLouis!)

    So…I guess the SDs won’t think SBs are crazy…when they want to shop at Louis Buitton…or Chaner? Because it is cheaper than asking for a European Car…right AJ? :) hehehehehe

    Oh AJ…you double L…(Lucky Lady) hehehe

    I don’t think SDs are interested in SBs that are overseas…

    Sigh and fly high~

  361. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    I know… I’m willing to meet… anywhere! It’s the men who discount me because i’m in Minneapolis and not NYC/LA/Miami or wherever. oh well, their loss, for falling prey to stereotypes et al. I like Beach, he’s my neighbor :)

    Sorry about work troubles, OC. Hope things get better ! It helps to have such a great support network :)

  362. SuthrnExec says:

    Yup…

  363. OCSugarBaby says:

    Villa- Suthrn and I still laugh that he never would have considered someone in CA! We have had fun making it work. It has not been a problem. I have had some really stressful things happening at work the past three weeks so he offered to have a hometown visit instead of us meeting somewhere neutral. Again, he is so wonderful to put me first! I am sure I have made him blush… :)

  364. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    Name (required) your too funny :)

  365. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    VillaCypris location is just a minor problem. If you met the right person you can find a way to met. I know the person I met is very far from me, he was looking for someone in his state. So was I.

    I think eventually Sd’s and SB’s will realize they must widen their horizons to find the right person.

  366. Name (required) says:

    OOOOO!!!

    A
    J !!!

    HUGS!!! hehehe

    hmmm…If I’m questioned “how are you do you have messenger etc?”
    >I’ll answer, “I’m good…yes my messenger is…you? etc”

    BUT…If I’m questioned “hi there, how much were you expecting?”
    for the first email???
    >I’ll answer like AJ did!!! :) !!!

    And…

    Lisa:

    “I’m mad she didn’t get me a fake Louis, lol I don’t think she got me anything.”

    I was curious…If you had an SD…would you want to go shopping at Louis Vui…? or would you buy a fake Louis Vui…?

    Oh…and if the SBs want to go shopping at Louis Vui… would the SD think…”SIGH…CRAZY!!!” or would they think “Ok :) let’s go!”

    hehehe

    group hug!

  367. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    Very true OC I met someone right here on the Blog as well. If it wasn’t for the blog I probably would have never talked to him.

  368. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Yea.. but in the middle, it is “fly over land”!!!!!!!! That irritates me, people on the coasts who rule me out based on location… we do have a major airport hub here! And I love to travel, want to travel… *sigh*.

  369. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    Or maybe get more SD’s to join the blog and see what true Sd’s are form the wonderful ones we have here on the blog. And also know that there are Real and genuine SB’s .

  370. OCSugarBaby says:

    SweetRed-We need to remind the blog’ers that it IS possible to meet someone via the blog! So, is meeting someone who lives on the opposite coast (North to South or East to West). You never know! :)

  371. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    Maybe they can teach a SD training class.

  372. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Ehehehehe… yes… cloning… if only…. that would be COOL! :)

  373. OCSugarBaby says:

    Villa- I knew what you meant! I was just sass’n with ya. I think that we need to clone the wonderful SD’s. What a wonderful world that would be.

  374. sweetredhead *269443* says:

    I have to admit I am cheating a little I am using the patch.

    Lisa I am sure you daughter will be fine, she is a strong girl like her mom :)

    SuthrnExec and OC are a perfect example that this can work out and you can have a great relationship. We can all find what we are looking for.

  375. BerkshireSD says:

    We are home now. BerkSB stuck the VS bag inside one of the larger store bags – she’s a bright one ;). Teenager of course wanted to know what we bought, so she looked inside anyway. I don’t have further details at this point.

    BerkSB had just about the worst picture of any SB on the site. I wasn’t especially attracted to her. I never asked for another picture of her before we met.

    Now she always berates me for how my jaw dropped the instant I first saw how stunning she is. She says she thought ‘what a loser’ and nearly ran away.

    Of course this is where it came in handy that she bought her ticket and I was to reimburse her on arrival.

    Sometimes things work out the way you hoped and sometimes not.

  376. OCSugarBaby says:

    Hello Bad BB, I only show some skin on my profile (276895), the third picture I am actually wearling a turtleneck! Everyone has their own personal twist on their photo’s. You need to shoot for what shows you in a few different ways, possibly dressed up and one a bit more casual. I think that the SD’s feel the same way we do about photo’s…”Are they going to really look like their photo” when you actually meet them in person! I love seeing the SB profile diversity, skin vs no skin? I think you need to choose what makes you happy. In the end it is chemistry that makes it work or not work.

  377. SuthrnExec says:

    Thanks Villa, but I am the one that is fortunate – extremely fortunate. She is one incredible lady – I see it more and more everyday.

    Hang in there Sweetred – you can do this.

    Lisa, she will be fine if she stays at the airport – she may not be as comfortable as she’d like, but she will be safe. I’m pretty sure the cabs that pickup at the airport will take a credit card – I’ve flown out of both a number of times and used a credit card before. She can always ask before she gets in the cab. Most cities require cabs to take a credit card.

  378. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Awwwwww… OC… you’re the best! he wouldn’t be with you if you weren’t… you’re BOTH luckY!!! :) :) :)

  379. OCSugarBaby says:

    Yes, OC is a lucky sugar, however Suthrn is as well! I am an awesome sugar. Dang, tough audience. :(

  380. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    That’s right, sweetred! No pain, no gain… i think that’s a misnomer, however. I used to run/lift/bike thru the pain, but no more… it’s there for a reason… rest day! :) keep up the good work!

  381. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    Welcome Bad BB, glad to have more sugars in our little sugar family here on the blog. Sit back and enjoy the ride with us :)

  382. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Yea SE… I want someone like you, who would respond to the profile, not the pix… :) OC is lucky girl!!!!

    Lisa – hope your daughter gets home safely!!

  383. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    Ok I feel GREAT! now…NOT!! lol, now all my muscles hurt. No pain no gain right?
    Seriously it feels good to be accomplishing my goal. one day at a time :)

  384. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    HA! BerkshireSD… great minds think alike, eh? I enjoyed your minute-by-minute postings of the shopping trip with BerkSB. Funny.

  385. SuthrnExec says:

    Bad BB, welcome – I will defer to the SBs to answer your pic question – I got no response when I had the pic of me in my bikini up there! Seriously – and for what it’s worth – having a revealing photo would not be the determining factor as to whether I would respond to a SB profile or not. I would have to be persuaded by what you say in your profile.

    Welcome aboard – and get ready for an interesting ride!

  386. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Hi Bad BB…welcome!!!! Of course there is “room” for you, don’t be silly. Regarding the photos of people wearing very little… put up photos which show you in your most favorable light… clothes or barely clothed, whichever the case may be. I don’t have any showing me wearing very little, perhaps that has affected the number of persons who contact me, but whatever. I want someone who will appreciate my intellect, inquisitive mind, loyalty, etc. and not just my body. So, I guess it depends upon what elements of yourself you feel necessary to expose in order to attract someone.

  387. lisa says:

    just heard from my daughter. she’s stranded at the airport. the teacher that accompanied them to New york was going to bring her home but due to some stupid rule, she can’t drive her home, I think the school principle told them that so she’s stranded. There was only one girl from my daughter’s school that went on the trip and she has already been picked up so my daughter is stuck. The teacher can’t bring her home so I dont’ know how she will get home. There isn’t any bus service this late on a saturday that would get her from their airport to home and none of us have any cash for a cab. She has her debit card but doesn’t know her pin so she uses it as credit card. Even though the taxis say they accept credit cards, I have yet to find one that does, everytime I have ever taken one, they have refused credit and required cash. I hope she gets home safe. She has all that luggage to drag on her own. they had a bus that took them to the airport when they left but they are on their own to get home, so i’m worried.

  388. BerkshireSD says:

    Serious business. You bet. If you don’t take your interactions with your fellow humans as serious business, you’ll miss an awful lot in life.

    If you post a bikini, you’ll get guys that want skin. Post pictures that will attract the type of men you want to attract.

  389. Bad BB says:

    Greetings to all!! I am a new comer into this Sugar world and I’m still waiting for my profile to be approved! Serious business this arrangement site huh? lol!! This blog is seems so delightful and honest! I hope you have room for another sugar baby :-) I must ask, I did take the liberty of skimming through some of the competing sugar baby profiles and I noticed most of them were wearing very little… lets be honest… how do you think that will affect my responses? Should I have put a photo i a bikini as well?

  390. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    You can do it SweetRed!!!!!! Think of all the benefits of not smoking…. you’ll look 25 forever!!!!!!!!!! :)

  391. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    Just did a half hour of cardio workout. Not helping. Yoga ball next. This keeps up and I will be in shape and smoke free lol.

  392. lisa says:

    It runs much faster than my laptop. I’m waiting to hear from my daughter, she just arrived at the airport a little while ago.

  393. Gail says:

    Hello Lisa,
    You must be loving your new computer:) I am sure it loves you back too:)
    (smile) I love your sb stimulus idea…lol….

  394. lisa says:

    Good evening Gail

  395. BerkshireSD says:

    All good relationships involve give and take. SB tells the sales lady ‘I’ll take this and I’ll take that one,’ and then I give her my credit card.

  396. SuthrnExec says:

    BerkshireSD, thanks for doing your part to turn this thing around!

  397. Gail says:

    LOL@Berkshire:) She’s happy, your happy…Happy for the both of you:)

  398. BerkshireSD says:

    Oh yeah, the economy just got stimulated again tonight.

  399. BerkshireSD says:

    If Starbucks raises prices any it’ll become worthwhile for SBs to meet SDs there for coffee – could turn the company around.

    BerkSB is coming out of the dressing room now.

  400. lisa says:

    wow 2 cups but I think starbucks is raising their prices. almost 2 cups

  401. BerkshireSD says:

    Fortunately with the fall in commodity prices you’ll have a shot at two cups.

  402. lisa says:

    I don’t know about sds, by potential sbs should get 5000 each to stimulate the economy, lol I don’t know what I will do with that extra 6 or 7 dollars a week I will be getting soon, wow. maybe a cup of coffee

  403. BerkshireSD says:

    Ha! Yeah Lisa, we are stimulating the economy.

    Was there anything for SD’s in the Obama plan?

  404. Missy says:

    ::::New to this site.. still no SD here… but I’ve got the evening with my Girls at a super chic lounge… time to pop the champagne!!! heh heh… hope everyone has a fantastic Saturday!!! :)
    xxxooo
    Missy

  405. lisa says:

    I drink water, as long as it has cola or coffee beans and caffeine, sugar, etc lol I drink tea in the evening. I only drink when I go out on dates, so the last drink I had was in september.

  406. BerkshireSD says:

    BerkSB is a tea and water girl.

  407. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    I don’t drink soda. I drink coffee and water. I drink alcohol very rarely.

  408. lisa says:

    As long as I have my coffee, my soda, and my internet, no one gets hurt, lol. I can be very cranky without them. My bird likes my new computer, if I let him out he flies over to my chair and sits on the back and looks at the screen, lol

  409. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    Thanks Lisa…non smoker and six pack abs gotta love it lol

  410. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    Thanks for the support NC :) I know I can do this. every time I get the urge I will exercise. Looks like I will be working out A LOT!! lol

  411. lisa says:

    you can do it Sweetredhead, just subsitute it with another habit, lol
    In those years I didn’t have sex (over a decade) I shopped, ran up 30k in credit card debt. I still shop but my cards are in collections darn. Now I use the blog as a substitute for shopping, lol
    I don’t have any addictions, oh well, if I don’t have a few cans of soda a day, you don’t want to get near me, lol

  412. NC Gentleman says:

    Heya sweetred — hang in there — take a walk if the urge hits you. SV quit so you can do it too, but I had to motivate/bribe her with an airplane ticket!

    You know your sugar family supports you!

  413. lisa says:

    My fingers are tired. I got used to typing on the laptop for 6 months and now i’m getting back into using the desktop keyboard. My fingers are getting a workout. lol
    I’ve got to go to the mall later this week and get two new pillows. That will be akward getting on the bus with 2 kingsize pillows,lol I once had a bus driver that wouldn’t let me get on his bus because I had a comforter and it would take up too much room. Hope I dont run into him.

  414. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    I quit smoking a few days ago and I am climbing the walls ughhhh. Help!!! I need encouragement. Go red go lol.

  415. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    Oops in a more positive light. My mind works faster than my fingers :(

  416. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    Lisa Lisa Lisa THINK POSITIVE!! Not all men are alike. They are very different, just because a situation is the same or the wording doesn’t mean they ARE alike. Have a more open and positive mind, you will be surprised what comes your way when you look at things in a more positively.

  417. lisa says:

    I don’t consider it spening money, I considerate it helping the economy, lol.
    My daughter did some shopping in New york, got some good fake stuff she said. I’m mad she didn’t get me a fake Louis, lol I don’t think she got me anything. She’s on the plane now, headed back to my mom’s but I won’t see her till I meet her after work thursday. I am anxious to see her pictures

  418. lisa says:

    I just sent him a nice email telling him more about myself and mentioning my work schedule to some extent, well I made it sound more flexible than it is, lol. Also mentioned I loved travel but left out the fact that I can’t get time off from work to travel. I asked him more about what he was looking for,etc. Unfortunately as I look at his message, I know he has written me before as after looking at his profile and the wording in his message to me, it sounds familiar.

  419. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    lmao@Berkshire awww. get a bunch of woman together and we know how to spend money :)

  420. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    Welcome Ambermarie. I have met 2 SD’s and both were totally different relationships. That’s why I say to keep an open mind and always be willing to negotiate a little. They both were wonderful kind and respectful men.

  421. SuthrnExec says:

    You don’t KNOW about this guy (or any guy) until you ask. Don’t assume – there will be one that’s different – you’ll see.

  422. BerkshireSB says:

    Hi y’all SB and I are out shopping tonight. I know the stores she likes so I parked near the Victoria Secret in the same group of stores. When we got out of the car I said let’s start over there. SB said sure baby, anything for you. :) But you know you deserve so much more than VS, you deserve Gucci. 😉

    I think the blog is giving her ideas. :(

  423. lisa says:

    my dad had cataract surgery. He is having lasar surgery next month for a hole in his retina.
    I try to be open but then the subject of coming down on a weekend always comes up. Everyone just seems to think everyone is off on weekends. Well I never am and if I need a sat off, I need to let my boss now a few weeks in advance as saturday is a rough day. I’m not good company when i’m tired and overworked. I like to be at my best when I meet someone new, and after a day at work, that’s not me.

    The last guy who wanted to come down a meet me on a weekend, disappeared when I told him I worked weekends and would prefer to meet during the week. I am off every friday along with 2 other days, so I have the time, just not on the weekend.

  424. SuthrnExec says:

    AmberMarie, welcome to the blog. We’re all at various stages in our journey. I don’t know if anyone ever gets it all figured out!

  425. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    My new Job is great! I really enjoy it. Seen a cataract surgery the other day. It freaked me out!! I have watched surgeries before but some how the eye is just ewwww lol. Everyone was laughing at he faces I was making. I didn’t even realize I was making faces.

  426. SuthrnExec says:

    Lisa, it’s not an all-or-nothing proposition – let him know just waht you said here. See what he says. Don’t give up or assume that he is not willing to do anything but what he said in his email. Give it a chance!

  427. AmberMarie says:

    What questions are most important to ask a potential SD or SB?

    I honestly believe the most important thing is, saying the obvious, to make sure that you’re both looking for the same thing and with that being said, have the same expectations out of the whole SD & SB relatonship. Once all of that is discussed & figured out, you need to figure out how often you’ll see one another and so forth.

    Whats would be your ultimate SD/SB dream date?

    I’d absolutely love to fly to NY together, do a little shopping and then fly somewhere in mexico or paradise island(i’ve heard it’s amazing!) and just spend a week together. Both of us getting away from everything and being able to relax and enjoy one another’s company. Having an incredibly romantic, relaxing and amazing weekend. I think it’s really about finding the right chemistry and with that, it makes the whole experience incredible.

    Does anyone have some sugar in their weekend plans?

    Unfortunately, no. I’m so new to this site and figuring all of this out(hopefully it isn’t that obvious! haha! :P).

  428. lisa says:

    I’m still setting up this new computer, trying to remember all my passwords that I had locked into my laptop, lol

  429. lisa says:

    He just sent me an email, no plans yet and I am going to take some time to answer as I’m tired and cranky right now, lol
    The problem I have is that when these guys are from out of town, they seem to want to come down on weekends. I work every weekend very hard (actually sat is the hardest day of the week, unloaded the truck, etc) so I don’t feel like going anywhere or meeting anyone for the first time, i’d much rather meet on my day off when I look presentable and my nail polish isn’t all ripped off from getting security tags on them when i’m tagging merchandise. I don’t their vision of meeting is to come down and wait around all day till evening and then meet someone is exhausted and looks like hell and who’s feet hurt so bad, I have to take my shoes off immediately.
    I like to be relaxed and somewhat presentable at meetings. I’m a wreck on weekends.
    Anyway I will write him back tonight and see what his ideas are.

    How’s your new job going ?

  430. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    Lisa GF you think to much, just go for it lol. have a little fun, be spontaneous. It’s not going to kill you and you might find out it’s fun! What is it going to hurt to meet him and see how it goes?

    Go LISA GO LISA you can do it.

  431. aj says:

    BerkSB – Hi! Welcome! I just mean that I am only physically available to him 50% of my time. I have a child that I have 50% custody of and do not mesh my son with my SD… that’s all!

  432. lisa says:

    Good afternoon everyone. Just got in from work. Got a message in my inbox but not sure what to do. I have grown kind of tired of waiting and my enthusiasm has dropped. He is from out of state and is looking for a serious relationship it sounds like. He travels to my area a couple times a month. He wants a nsa relationship for starts but I don’t know if I want to get involved with someone who is in town for several days each time as I’m not looking to give up all my free time to a nsa relationship. He mentions intimacy and all but no mention of an allowance. I guess I will wait to respond till I think about it.
    Worked hard today, sitting down to dinner now, chips and dip and soda, lol

  433. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Just got back from some hot sweaty carnaval time in a large hall filled with hundreds of beer smelling people. Loved all these girls bumping into me.
    Wasn’t it one of the sugar family some blogs ago, that explained the technique of getting the man’s attention by brushing your breast lightly against his arm ? Well forget the word lightly at carnival. Anyway a nice warming-up till the moment my pot SB comes along.
    By the way I believe I shed some more pounds hopping and dancing around. It is already past midnight here, so I turn in.
    Hope I will wake up with a smirk on my face,
    Keep up the fun.
    HenriLouis

  434. gurlnextdoor*274735 says:

    For me there are two important questions I always ask a potential SD before we meet. 1) How many times do you expect to see me per month and 2) why do you want to be a sugar daddy? Once those are taken care of on our first meeting I try to get to know them better and ask them what they expect to get out of the arrangement and wait for them to bring up money. Like Hot Mama said, if they don’t then ciao. More than likely they aren’t for real and I move on.

    Now for me the perfect date would be taking a weekend holiday with my SD to his favourite locale. Touring the city/town and then doing some fun activity with my SD (ex. surfing, kayaking, skiing, snorkeling). After that we’d head back to the hotel/resort we were staying in, I’d cook him dinner and we’d watch a movie together in bed. Then in the morning we’d order room service and enjoy a lazy day together in our room.

  435. Gail says:

    Welcome BerkSB!!! It’s nice to hear from the SB who has Bershire grinning to death…LOL….I am glad you decided to join us and look forward to you being part of the Sugar family:)

  436. BerkSB says:

    Hi babies!

    Aj what do you mean by 50% of your time?

    HotMama how did he propose to you when he was already married? What did he tell you?

    Got to go, BerkSD is calling.

    Thanks

  437. SweetEuropean*264271 says:

    Aj, congratulations!! That’s great news I really hope it goes well for you!

    Hot mama you’re a breath of fresh air, I love your style! It’s nice to have some new perspectives on here! :)

  438. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    You’re welcome! Keep us up-to-date if you like… I’m excited for you!!! :)

  439. aj says:

    Thanks VillaCypris and BerkshireSD! It should be an interesting week for me…I’m feeling cautiously optimistic :)

  440. Hgirl says:

    This is why I love the sugarbowl- hearing people’s perspectives and their unique take on the SB/SD relationship is so refreshing. Hot Mama, I love that you know exactly what you want and what you expect from the relationship.

    Personally, no amount of money could entice me to be totally at someone’s beck and call- my personal freedom and desires are too precious to me. I would prefer receiving less money but feeling spoiled by my SDs respect of me and my time. That’s just me though and I know that’s not the case for every sugar.

  441. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Congrats AJ!!!!!!! Very exciting news… wish you the best!!! x

  442. BerkshireSD says:

    Way to go aj. You did one of the most important things there is to do. You offered value and asked for fair value in return. Lo and behold you nailed it.

    Thank goodness for some fresh air from Hot Mama. No question the SD/SB world is broad, and lessons from the high end are useful for the rest of us playing in the msinstream.

  443. BlkButtafly~264118~ says:

    Yes I can tell you have a photographic memory. I do as well but so far I haven’t had anyone tell me they found it irritating….I’d love to join you for a glass of champagne! With which champagne are we pleasing our tastebuds today?

  444. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hello BlkButtafly,
    Thanks for the compliment.
    Yes I like writing and it is a miraculous gift.
    But then I am well read in different languages and have a kind of funny brain with a photographic memory. For some people highly irritating.
    My brain is constantly multi tasking throughout the day.
    My life is like a comic strip and I find all the incidences during the day hilarious.
    Please laugh a lot, it shakes up the liver.
    Time for another glass of champagne.
    You are welcome to join me.
    Henri Louis

  445. BlkButtafly~264118~ says:

    Awww HenriLouis, you always type the most intriguing posts. It’s almost like getting lost in a movie or a book. Are you an author?

  446. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Hi family,
    What fun it is to read all the comments.
    Today was for me a special day.
    I had decided it would be a day of training in anticpation of my SB.
    Went to the gym this morning and was really motivated.
    Started doing things like “biceps dumbell workout” Feel good, as Arnold started this way, I might be the next guvernor of California.
    Then I went to see the kiddies paegant and helped a mom struggling with two little kids by taking one little boy by the hand and saw to it he had a good time. Telephone rang, a client wanted an emergency meeting.
    After the pageant went away to another city. Had a business meeting.
    Since I was in that big city, I decided to go shopping for myself, great training for my pot SB arrangement. Bought some nice shirts for summer.
    I sorely need her as a fashion personal-shopping-counsellor.
    At the end of the day got back.
    More training for my pot SB arrangement. They all seem to like pizza. Yuck
    I made two different versions and ate them. Can’t say I was delighted with this meal, but her wish will be my command. But I will absolutely refuse eating fast food at a place like MC. In the same 20 minutes and with the same money I can conjure up a meal fit for a king.
    So you see, it was a day well spent in anticipation of her coming into my life. For the rest of the evening some more training at carnaval.
    I will join the melee, take a deep breath and emerse myself in the crowd dancing and hopping about and hopefully burn some more calories.
    No beer, just mineral water.
    Now where is that SB ? Getting to be impatient like many others here.
    Things we do for love,
    HenriLouis

  447. aj says:

    Alright SugarBabes – there is HOPE! I’ve been emailing this pot SD very short and to the point emails. He asked my requirements and I thought, wtf, I’m going to get aggressive here. (Hot Mama – you inspired me :) So I emailed back and said $10,000/month minimum allowance and a European car that I am insured under. I also spelled out that I would be physically available to him 50% of the time only. I fully expected his response to be that I am insane HOWEVER this was his response:
    “Now THIS is something what I was looking for, not the cheap trash that have been responding to me.
    Since we seem to agree, I’ll email you a few details a bit later, I am about to leave for a meeting. I will get back to you”

    Hmmm…ladies…let’s not sell ourselves short! We shall see…

  448. BlkButtafly~264118~ says:

    Good day my sugar fam. I’m just sitting here petting and spoiling my canine sugar baby Pixie LOL. I’d have to say that my dream date would just to be with him anywhere at anytime. I would ask my SD how often he would like to see me or how often he can. All other questions would be based on the individual. No I don’t have any sugar in my plans this weekend :-(

  449. OCSugarBaby says:

    HotMama-Nothing wrong with asking for what you want. I do it all the time with positive results. I like your style! :)

    Try not to be creep’d out too much by the “Baby” term. It is just a word. I myself have deemed the word “Sugar” to label myself. I really don’t allow others to label me.

  450. Sugga bebe says:

    Afternoon Lauretta!

    I know it’s a bit late to get into your convo but trust me I feel the same way. I’m also black and after so little responses I actually started limiting the profiles to guys that look like they would be open to any race!! I know it’s stupid isn’t it!?! It’s just that any other dating site I have tried, I was literally bombarded with constant e-mails day and night! I was like wtf? Have I lost my online mojo lol! The 5 messages I got were not even responses but initiated e-mails and then some of them didn’t reply to my reply *%! I just dont understand men I guess… Has that ever happened to anyone else?

  451. OCSugarBaby says:

    Good Morning! Love this positive topic.
    Dream Date….
    “An evening in a beautiful hotel suite locking away the rest of the world! Start with a drawn hot bath with lots and lots of bubbles. A wonderful glass of my favorite wine, ahh the smell of flowers in the air (from the exquisite bouquets that my sugar had delivered to the suite), music playing, the fireplace roaring, room service ordered, great conversation and kisses shared, then…” Hey, you don’t have to know all my secrets! And Yes, my sugar made this one come true a few weeks ago. He knew that spending time together was fun no matter what we did, so he gave me the gift I requested, which was locking out the world for an evening. It was heaven! It recharged us and we then spent the rest of the weekend exploring the city. I have the best Sugar in the world. Thanks babe for the wonderful times we spend together.

  452. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    Now there is a gentleman :)

  453. NC Gentleman says:

    HotMama wrote:

    “With all due respect, sweetie NC Gentleman, you’re not a Sugar Daddy. A SD is a man with a GREAT deal of money who talks openly about money with his Mistress. He gives her a great deal of cash on a weekly or monthly basis and expects her to be at his beck and call because he’s paid for it.” (comment from Sugar Daddy Dating: On Again, Off Again)

    Ok, I respect your opinion, and maybe I am not a sugar daddy by your definition. However, I must disagree that an SD expects ANYONE to be at his beck and call. They prohibited slavery in this country in the 1800s, as you know. May I suggest you read the definition of sugar daddy on the main web page of seeking arrangement. That is the one I go with. You are entitled to go with yours though, in this free country.

    Best wishes in your search.

  454. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    We all have our reasons and arrangements we are looking for. Everyone has different opinions on what they want and what we seek.

    I don’t thinks it fair to say one way is wrong or right. As long as YOUR happy then it’s right for you.

  455. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Thanks for your post, HotMama ~~ not shocking, in my opinion ~~ you hold yourself in high-esteem and expect respect … as it should be.

  456. HotMama says:

    I’ve had two men in my life who paid me very substantial amounts of money on a weekly basis, paid my rent, took me shopping, took me on fabulous trips. One I met through a man who was the gigolo for the guy’s wife and the other one came to me when I was a Pro Domme and I stopped doing that and became his Mistress (in the traditional sense). I haven’t met anyone from this site yet. I do get the feeling that this site, despite the fact that it gives you an opportunity to say exactly how much cash you expect for your sexual attentions, is not exactly grounded in reality. I see a lot of men and women here kind of looking for romance, but with a couple of bucks thrown in, maybe some shopping, a couple trips, nice restaurants, etc. Basically NOT a SD/SB relationship…but that’s my take on things.

    I’m kind of old school about this. A SD expects a HUGE amount of attention from his Mistress (why do you insist on calling her a sugar baby? women, don’t you find that insulting?…you’re not babies…that’s even kind of creepy to me.) Affluent married men want somebody who schedules herself around his needs, NOT the other way around.

    The most important question to ask is “Do I turn you on?” and secondly, “How much cash are you putting down on the table for our first week together to see if this works.” If you find a really wealthy guy, he’s probably done this before. A woman who hesitates to talk about money is SURE to be taken advantage of. Do NOT give it away for nothing; why should he pay, if he’s getting it for free.

    I’m sure people will be shocked by my approach. But you see, I’ve actually done this twice, for substantial periods of time, with very wealthy married men. If he doesn’t bring up the subject of money, he’s not for real. Yup, I’m tough as nails. You have to be, if you want to really make this work financially and romantically. Otherwise, he won’t respect you.

  457. VillaCypris *276489* says:

    Hi Sweetred!!!!!!! Glad to hear your job is going well! Miss “hearing” from you during the week :)

    In answer to your question, I would have to assume the men are as frustrated as the women…. for they most likely deal with the same level of BS that we do.

  458. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    If you know what your looking for, not everyone is going to meet that for you. I agree that it is rude not to respond to an email, but if you think about it. How many do they get? Are SD’s as frustrated as the Sb’s? I have been guilty of not responding on occasion myself. The search can be frustrating, but well worth it when you meet the one person that is good for you. Hang in there everyone. The best things in life are worth waiting for :)

  459. Lauretta says:

    Why paying for membership if what they do is only open messages and not reply?
    Well I guess i shouldn’t take it seriously and there is not that many SD in the UK anyway. The ones here are not generous.
    Thank you for you advice guy!
    love you all!

  460. sweetredhead....269443 .... says:

    Good morning every one.

    My perfect date hmmm, I like to do so many thing. When you are with someone that you enjoy their company it really doesn’t matter what you do. Humor to me is very important. Someone who doesn’t take life so serious when we are together.

    Henriluis you date sounds wonderful! I hope you can tell us all about it when it does happen.

    A walk on the pier and a picnic at the beach sounds like a perfect way to get to know each other. I prefer not to get all dressed up and be uncomfortable, both are able to just be themselves. You can even choose to eat at a restaurant on the pier. I love the beach. There are so many to choose from where I live.

  461. Name (required) says:

    OOOH

    Lauretta ! hugs !

    I’m on the same boat as you!!! 25 read messages, 1 reply, 1 email
    and the first email I received? LOL!!! read above hehehe

    I love vanilla ice cream and chocolate and others!!!

    I felt that…it’s just that each person has their own type…i guess…
    when I look at 100 profiles, I’ll have 10 I love!!! like south/exec said…
    so…when 100 people view my profile, it would be the same i guess :)

  462. aj says:

    Lauretta, I have the same thing. No worries I would not take it personal. Many SD just are not serious I believe, but from what I’ve heard and read in the blog the ones that are are truly amazing!

  463. Name (required) says:

    God…

    I was wondering!!!

    I didn’t send an email to this SD!!!

    So more than a reply, it’s an email!!! my first email…! lol

    first the worst they say?

    who knows!

  464. Lauretta says:

    Hello guys

    I’m new to the blog but I have beed on the site for 3 weeks now.
    I have one question. Why is that SDs hardly reply to messages?
    I’m beautiful and fun and my profile have been viewed so many time by no messages. I had one only. It is fustration to be honestly.
    I do want to sound bizarre but it is because I’m black? Please tell me is not.
    Hope you here from you.
    Love you all.xx

  465. aj says:

    Name – lol! i’d trust your initial instinct!

  466. Name (required) says:

    LOL

    the second reply compared to the first reply?
    100000% opposites…

    first reply is love :)

    the person (second reply)…hmmm…If I take just two words out of the profile? “porn collection” so he’s a seks lover…

    I love the fact it’s my second reply…hahaha but I don’t like the reply…!
    who knows…the profile can just be a profile?

    group hug!

  467. aj says:

    Name – you never know! :)

  468. Name (required) says:

    Hi everybody…!

    I finally received my second reply out of…now…25 read, messages…lol

    very happy buuuuut…

    hmmm…

  469. aj says:

    Also, maybe I’m a little over the top as I was the main breadwinner in my marriage. I worked sooo many hours and now I’m just ready for a little break to figure out what to do next…another business? school?

  470. aj says:

    BerkshireSD – good point and thanks for the feedback! To be quite blunt I’m in the process of divorce and giving him everything (house + business) just to be done. Long story…but that’s the reason.

    Maybe I should word things differently?

  471. BerkshireSD says:

    Aj, you have a great smile and look cheerful.

    Now, what is it about you that is worth 10-20K? Why would a woman with a successful business need to be taken care of in a substantial way, even if you are exclusive to one SD?

    Those are my first two questions when I read your profile.

  472. SuthrnExec says:

    aj, it sounds like you’re taking the right approach regarding the SD and your kid. And the ladies and gents here always give really great feedback on profiles.

    Lisa, congrats on the computer! Good for you.

    Good morning Gail and Henri! Henri, how was your workout?

    Greetings everyone else – great weekend to everyone!

    Now for the questions…

    >What questions are most important to ask a potential SD or SB?
    The most important questions to ask are those that will indicate the level of chemistry that you might have. The specific questions vary depending on the individual, but the goal is to determine if there is chemistry. The level of chemistry will then help both of you determine if the relationship is worth pursuing given the specifics of each person’s situation (how often can we meet? How far apart are we from each other?, etc.).

    >What would be your ultimate SD/SB dream date?
    Not sure – my “dream date” is still just to be with her – no matter where, no matter what we’re doing – we just enjoy being together. Of course, the most memorable date we’ve had is the first time we met – that will always be the most memorable because it is when we both took a chance – and it was such great fun just being together. Not quite sure yet what the ultimate dream date would be – still working on that one!

    >Does anyone have some sugar in their weekend plans?
    Sure! It’s always in my plans – the plans may not get executed over the weekend, but we stay in touch and chat about the next time we’ll be together. This is truly an amazing time!

  473. aj says:

    By the way, I am totally open to suggestions on my profile #295654. I know I need to get a full body pic on there and will hopefully be doing that today. Otherwise helpful tips are always appreciated!

  474. aj says:

    Gail, thanks that is good to hear. It is always tough to determine when and how to explain that I have a child. He’s 3 so this part of his life is very important in his development and it is a huge responsibility and joy! I am pretty selective as to the people I let my child become “attached” to and would never expect a SD to want to be a part of my childs life, just understand that I have a responsiblity to this child and his well being, for the rest of my life! My son already has a wonderful father who is very active in his life so that makes being a SB much easier for me :)

  475. lisa says:

    Thanks Gail! It’s so nice to not be on that slow computer anymore. It took me 30 minutes to get online with that thing. lol
    My daughter is having a great time in NY and is coming home (well to my mom’s place) late tonight.

    Gotta go now, saturday bus service sucks, have to leave early so I can sit at work till 8.

  476. Gail says:

    Morning Lisa,
    You have the computer you were wishing for…I am gonna wish you a SD…he is gonna come soooon!!!!

  477. Gail says:

    That’s the beauty of Sugar dating…you can ask upfront al the questions if you wish, so hopefully there are no surprises in the end. OK, I take that back, surprises but the best kind that make you smile and happy.

    Yes, next weekend I will be in SUGARWORLD…it’s going to be wonderful!!!

    Henri-What a beautiful date you write…now make it all come true:)

    aj-My children are very important to me. I am fortunate they are at an age do not need me all the time. By the way, it is possible to find a SD that will embrace your child. And I don’t mean by meeting them, just the fact that they admire you being a mother, and will understand and respect your responsiblity toward them. My SD friend decided to fully support and educate a SB’s daughter thru college. The SB and him are not together:) Imagine that!!!

    I have to get ready. It’s volunteer day!!!!

    Good Morning all in SugarWorld…thinking all sunshiny and wicked fun thoughts!!!

  478. lisa says:

    Good morning everyone. Getting ready to leave for work.

    I think it’s important to ask direct questions about what the other person is looking for in an arrangement, if that hasn’t already been discussed before meeting. Also discuss the arrangement and expectations. If the other person is reluctant to discuss it, it sounds like they aren’t serious.

    The ultimate date to me would be one where we met, had a nice dinner, conversation and got to know each other and what we were looking for. I feel it very important that the sd provide some kind of proof that he is serious whether it be some shopping or a cash gift by the end of the date. The worst sd date is a coffee date as that is no different than a regular dating site date and sd dating is supposed to be more exciting than that.

    I have no sd plans for the weekend, just work as usualy

    Have a great day everyone.

  479. aj says:

    Morning Everyone!
    First off I think questions are super important in the beginning so as the relationship does not start out with expectations that are not met on either side. I always would like to know 1. How often they would like to see me (I have a child that I have 50% of my time, so obiviously that is an important one…) 2. What are their expectations of me? I take this SB thing pretty seriously and want my SD to be happy:) However, I don’t know how to read minds so I like to know exactly what is expected of me …at least in the beginning until I really get to know him, then I can figure much out on my own.

    BerkshireSD, I like your thinking..I ask myself both of those questions everytime I’m in contact w/ a pot SD.

    No sugar this weekend. But there will be some next week! Yay!

  480. Name (required) says:

    Leivonen:

    I’m not sure about no sex arrangments…(ah…i dont like using the word arrangement here)

    but in the male SD/male SB world…there are no SDs out there Not Wanting Sex!

    I think there will be SDs out there in the male/female SD/SB world not wanting/needing sex… hmmm…

    hugs

  481. BerkshireSD says:

    The most important question is the one I ask myself…

    What can I bring to this arrangement that is of value to the other person?

    Second most important question…

    Is this person good for me?

  482. Leivonen says:

    No sugar, new in this thing. :) Its just proplem that i live in Finalnd and here is not many sugardaddys, and no mommys.
    Ive been wondering, its there any arrengements whitout sex? And how they been? Good, bad…?

    I hope i find my daddy or mommy soon.

  483. Name (required) says:

    Natty: There’s exactly 1038 profiles in the US hehehe male SD/male SB hehehehehe :)

    so…i guess it’s…more…harder…! :(

    :(

  484. Natty*296451 says:

    Name (required)
    Should be more than 1200 profiles in the US!!!!!!! Loads more

    Morning HenriLouis!

    What questions are most important to ask a potential SD or SB?

    * how often they intend to see you

    *what they (the SD/SB) are looking for out of the situation

    * what is their favourite ice cream LOL!!!!!!!!!!

    Whats would be your ultimate SD/SB dream date?

    * Obviously SD/SB dates are different (but not far from) a regular date but I guess my dream date would be, I don’t know………I guess just a relaxed fun low key holiday somewhere really really cool. Just a week away from both of our regular lives.

    Does anyone have some sugar in their weekend plans?

    *No but I have a sugar week coming up so spending the weekend getting ready!!!!!!!!!!! :)

  485. Name (required) says:

    HenriLouis! Off to the gym!!!? hehehe

    I’d love to see my SD in the gym hehehe

    >>>What would be your ultimate SD/SB dream date?
    >>Does anyone have some sugar in their weekend plans?
    <I’d love some sugar…!
    I have salt in my weekend plans…
    looking for work…!!! :(
    emailing SDs…there’s 1200 profiles in the US, and I’ve read hundreds!!!

    hmmm…

  486. HenriLouis*294522 says:

    Good morning everyone,
    It is week-end, for most of us a change from the hectic working days.
    Great, a new subject to comment this Sugar Daddy Week-end.
    What questions are most important to ask ?”
    There are so many, but first and foremost I wish to find out if she has a sense of humour. Sometimes misunderstandings will occur and I like to laugh them away. I cannot talk for someone else, so I start telling what I myself would like it to be in time, space, enjoyment.
    On my ultimate SD/SB dream date I would like to stroll the beach with her,
    then sit somewhere for coffee.
    If the weather is sunny and warm I’ll surprise her with a picknick, starting of course with a nice glass of champagne.
    In the afternoon visit to a museum or take a shopping spree for her, after all I see the week-end as splendid opportunity to pamper her. I intend to make it for her in fact an SB week-end.
    In the evening a boattrip through the illuminated canals of Amsterdam followed by a dinner in my favourite Indonesian restaurant Samma Sebo.
    Stroll to the hotel, take a shower and love her to distraction.
    I have plans a-plenty, but now for that SB !
    This week-end all over Europe there is carnival. Untill Wednesday it is one fine party with lots of music, singing and fun and hopping around. So this week-end I would have loved to take her on a trip along eleven small bars, as is tradition here, emerging her in an unforgettable experience.
    I do hope that the weather stays dry for the children in my village who take part in the pageant for kids. I like it, you adopt a child and walk with it hand in hand in the children’s pageant. My SB would like to see this side of me as well, kindness.
    Off to the gym now.
    HenriLouis

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