All of us will inevitably hit a road block a long the way, and finding a great Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby doesn’t normally happen overnight.
“… I am relatively new also (less than a month) and have waded through LOTS of pot SDs. However, I am now seriously talking to 2 amazing men and will be meeting them shortly. These 2 slowly but surely pushed the “relationship” forward- I was able to tell within 2 days of emails and IMs that they were for real. I’ve now learned to cut ties with those all those time wasters a lot sooner than I did at first….. saved me lots of time.
I guess I trying to say real SDs know what they want and make it clear early on.
While it may take some time to figure out the best approach for you, here are some tips to navigating the SD/SB playing field with minimal time/effort loss…
Messaging: Create a magnificent introductory message and tailor it to each potential you see fit.
Monitoring: Feel free to observe your inbox… but tread carefully the waters of the ‘Sent’ box. It’s a useful tool perhaps, but if you’re like many, you may be slightly discouraged to see an unread message (indicated by a red X) even though the message recipient has logged-in post-delivery. There are many, many reasons why someone may choose not to open a message, and I’ve learned it’s simply best not to speculate on the matter.
Profile Text: This is your chance to introduce yourself, make your pitch, stimulate interest, and set the terms for all potential dialog. This is your territory, your world, and you make the laws. Anyone contacting you will do so on the conditions you set here and being vague or vivid is totally up to you.
Photos: Make them clear, recent, and gorgeous. If you opt out of posting them on your profile, be ready to explain why and provide off site…
Do you have a preference for Sugar Daddies who post a photo, or not?
Are you hesitant about showing your face in your profile? How do you determine which pics to show in your profile?
Are you ever asked for XXX pics? How do/would you respond?
Whether you’re married or single, do you think twice before telling a Sugar Baby your real name?
Do you plan on dating numerous Sugar Babies, or are you seeking just one great girl/boy?
Have you ever been questioned by a potential Sugar Baby as to your wealth? How does/would that make you feel?
Do you prefer giving set allowances, or ‘open/negotiable’ support?