9 years ago
What to Get Your Sugar Daddy

9 years ago
What to Get Your Sugar Daddy

Having a Sugar Daddy might be your way of avoiding the Walmart gift rush (and possibly saving your life 😉 ), but everyone has a different set of needs and wants with their Sugar Daddy arrangement…

MSH:

“What do you buy the man who has everything?    I have recently acquired a SD.  He is wonderful.   I know that Christmas is literally around the corner and I have no idea what to get him.   He’s already started asking me and believe me, I have a list!   So can any of you girls help me come up with the perfect gift for a Married SD who literally has everything?    Obviously since he is married, I need to carefully consider this gift so not to raise any suspicion by the wife…”

Maybe the answer to finding what a Sugar Daddy wants most isn’t about what you can buy him, but like ‘MSH’ suggested, about an “experience”, or as ‘V’ might add; his fantasy.

Sex is sex, but if that’s all a Sugar Daddy wanted, he could easily find it on one of those ‘other’ sites… Mr. Sugar Daddy seeks a more fulfilling experience…

What kinds of arrangement fantasies, events, or experiences do Sugar Daddies savor the most?

How do you plan to spoil your Sugar this X-mas? To make ’em go wild?

“Come on, put your  heads together and let’s figure out the perfect thing/event/experience to give our SD’s (Babies, or Mamas)…..”

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  14. sweetredhead269443 says:

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  15. Tiara says:

    I figured out what I’m going to get my SD for xmas! since he’s single and will be in town for the night we’re going to rent a hotel. he thinks i’m going to just model some sexy lingerie for him, but i plan to light candles and give him a sensual massage since he’s in desperate need of one (his job is pretty stressful).

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  20. sweetredhead says:

    If your SD is married you need to be careful what you choose for him. If not, then you are able to have a lot more options open.

  21. sweetredhead says:

    I always no matter who it is give a personalized gift. My Dad looks forward to my gifts every year because it something just for him. He like a kid, so excited to see what I got him this year. Be it something silly just for him or expensive it don’t matter. Its for him personally. I spend months thinking and looking for the perfect gifts. Because it truly is the thought that you put into it that counts :)

  22. LadyKimberly says:

    I just wish I had a SD for the holidays….

    LadyKimberly

  23. chrisohbabyy says:

    Well, Sig….that’s why i guessthat’s people are different. The two of you had a clear cut understanding as to how the relationship was going to be carried. For me i think i think it was the one major flaw & i’m glad you brought that up. He wanted marriage & children asap. That was unrealistic or even damn near impossible for me considering i’m still in school pursuing a PharmD.

    No matter how much security he offered me, i just couldn’t see myself putting school aside to raise a family. For me school is my security and i wasn’t about to drop out of a 6 year program to have children at 21.

    But anywayyyyy given the situation i felt i should return the car eventhough he didn’t want me to…..whether that’s good or bad is another story.

  24. Sig (Seeking traveling companion) says:

    A shared experience is by far the best. Material goods are not important. Of course a thoughtful gift of any kind is always appreciated, but the experience, the memory, the interaction, and in particular the attention and care… this is what I would treasure as the best gift from a SB.

    I gave a car to a former SB (heck, I gave a condo!) Since we parted by mutual pre-arrangement, I would have been insulted to have had any gift returned.

  25. ...a keeper...xo says:

    Hello all and happy holidays! Im enjoying all the creative SD/SB gift ideas and once established, my SD will enjoy all the best I have to offer on all levels. The sexy duds, special meals, thoughtful gifts, quiet relaxing moments and anything else I can provide that he wants and will enjoy. I agree that the best gifts are those given from a thoughtful and open heart, not a black amex. The car gift however that chrisohbabyy received…WOW thats an open heart! How nice was that?… a pinto would work for me right now, or a bus pass… Very admirable that you chose to return it. My holiday wish for all SD/SB’s here…happiness wherever you find it. We could all use some more of it and to smile a bit more.

  26. Gail says:

    dreamer-LOL…Keep Nick’s boots knocking and bells clanging….LOL….Good morning sunshine!!!

  27. dreamer says:

    i would make a connection with mr nick immediatly i think.. Bc im a kid at heart and he just seems like a sweet guy.. Lets just hope his wifey doesnt have the ability to see who is naughty or nice too lol

  28. Gail says:

    Ahhh dreamer, but those who take the time to know you would ignore your sarcastic side, and give you only all good stuff…hehe….Your Daddy’s name will be……Santa Claus!!!!….LOL

  29. dreamer says:

    you two make me smile.. Thanks for always having a positive personality, Gail.. It helps me when Im feeling down. Hehe.. who knows how many cars I would have sitting in the drive way. And im sarcastic too, so I may end up with many things I dont like hehe

  30. chrisohbabyy says:

    Haha @ Gail, you wake up with the good ones!

    dreamer, have to agree with you on that one. I’ve had this happened to me once before…Lorddd that was one ugly sweater.

    I was being sarcastic & i guess in an effort to be sweet he got the darn thing.

  31. Gail says:

    Dreamer-(smile)…Mercedes,Rolls Royce,VW bug,Porshe Q7, entire car dealerships parked in your driveway…LOL…..hmmm…which will I drive today?

    Good Moring everyone…it’s Saturday..I wonder what the world has to offer? Coffee first thing:)

  32. dreamer says:

    wow thats amazing.. An sd would have to be careful with me though, im bad about blerting out about how pretty cars are.. But it dont mean i want it lol.. But i do like suprises like that.. And the pj story, that is so sweet!

  33. BlkButtafly says:

    Wow! Now that’s an experience! Should have been in the blog under T.I.’s video LOL

  34. chrisohbabyy says:

    *oh well it was good while it lasted..2 years i can’t complain*

  35. chrisohbabyy says:

    Welll i only have one SB wish list item & ofcourse…that’s to meet a genuine SD who’s not looking for an artificial *pay to play*, relationship. I’ve had wayy too many offers & nothing has materialized. Everything from fakes to undercover dominants. No i don’t want you to spank me…jeez. ok well not that hard. haha

    Am i asking for too much?

    But to answer the question before i start rambling again. The best gift i’ve ever had from an SD….we were driving a long the highway in about October & i saw this beautiful electric blue BMW z4 & i mentioned i liked it. Topic ended there & i thought nothing of it. About a month later driving down the Z4 was gone.

    It was in my driveway Xmas morning with the keys in my mail box….i didn’t see him cause he had to fly back home to his family but i thought i was so sweet. We separated and i gave it back because i felt kind of awkward after.

  36. SFByTheBay says:

    Regarding the perfect gift from my SB. Although we are not currently together, last year, my SB at the time, gave me a pair of warm pj’s, slippers, and a robe. I mentioned in passing that it was cold in my house at night and in the mornings (live in a older house near the ocean). The sweetest thing to me was that she was listening and went out shopping for me with much thoughtfulness. It was very touching. Perhaps others will think this is “corny”, but it meant a lot to me.

  37. Gail says:

    Wishing you a bucketful of real Sugardaddies, HopefulGrlNY for the holiday!!!

  38. HopefulGrlNY says:

    Hey everyone!
    I’m a new SB…I’ve been reading a lot on the blogs, it’s been very helpful everyone! Wish me luck on finding an SD…sure would make a nice Holiday gift. :)

  39. MegaDeath says:

    I bought my sd a pair of awesome gucci shoes that i know he will love…and of course, he has it coming to him in the bedroom…Good luck, ladies! This is a good time to show it isn’t one sided

  40. GothicNC says:

    Thank you, SuthrnExec, it’s nice to be here.

  41. Miss T says:

    Well for Christmas I’d like a sd who can spoil me a little, maybe some nice jewelry, a nice bottle of perfume, a day at the spa. As for what I would do for my sd if I had one? Well since I don’t I can’t say anything super thoughtful, it will just have to be something general.So it would probably be an evening/weekend at a nice hotel with a big tub and a big bed. Some massage oils, bubble bath, lingerie, candles, a nice dinner with a nice bottle of wine. Or if he’s interested he could join me at the spa for a massage.

  42. SuthrnExec says:

    Welcome GothicNC – good to have you aboard!

    Welcome Bettiegirl – nice to have you here as well.

    Tammy, we’re out here – just busy!

  43. bostonTerrier says:

    luckily, my sd doesn’t have a wife.

  44. dreamer says:

    its very hard to give a wife back to a man who doesnt want her, but i always try to help out their relationship when i can :)

  45. Anonymous says:

    Give him his wife back. Obviously he married her because he loved her and he haven’t left because he still does. And give yourself back something your self respect.

  46. GothicNC says:

    Nice to meet you all too. :-\

  47. dreamer says:

    oh and i miss my texting buddy! come back lol

  48. tammy says:

    where are all the good sugar daddys?????…..any advice anyone????

  49. dreamer says:

    all i want for xmas is the economy to get better! i spent all yesterday and this morning job hunting. There isnt even anyone hiring :(

  50. NC Gentleman says:

    Hi Brunette Barbie — welcome back! I will see if I can find it and give you some pointers. If not, I might need a State to narrow you down.

  51. dreamer says:

    is that secret code andrew?

  52. GothicNC says:

    Oh, I guess I should do that too, hmm? 😉

    I’m GothicNC, and I’m new to the site and the SB life. Contrary to what the name may make some people think, I don’t do the black nail polish or lipstick; I’m more the old-fashioned gown kind of Gothy. Fortunately my former home in New Orleans had several good Goth shops to feed my fondness. ~L~

    Anyway, there’s not much more to tell except what I’ve already posted here. I look forward to talking with you all. :-)

  53. dreamer says:

    no, not any SD in particular :) just any who want to answer, i see where the sbs are going with their ideas but i think most of those things are what sbs are supposed to do normally.. Thats the impression I had anyway. I mean something special lol.. I never do ”normal” or ”common” xmas things…

  54. NC Gentleman says:

    Welcome to the blog, Bettie! There are a lot of really nice SDs and SBs here. Best wishes in your search :)

  55. BettiegirlDD says:

    Hi all,
    Just wanted to introduce myself. New SB so excited to start the adventure! I look forward to gabbing with you, and wish me luck!

  56. GothicNC says:

    The guys have a point about the thoughtful, sweet sort of gifts. Sometimes the best kind of gift can be something that’s not expensive, but shows you pay attention and care what your partner wants. For example, I had a boyfriend who was very fond of strawberry-kiwi Snapples. So from time to time I would bring him a couple of them, just to show I thought of him. And he once bought me a sapphire pendant which wasn’t nearly as elaborate or pricey as most of the other jewelry in the store, but I loved it better because sapphires are my favorite gemstone and I prefer simple, elegant designs over loud and showy. It showed that he knew what I liked.

    The thing of it is, though, is that it’s very personal. For those of us with no SD yet, it’s impossible to guess what a future SD’s “warm-fuzzy things” might be. So that’s probably why many of the SBs here are thinking more along the smexy side- it’s usually a safe bet that your man will like sex. 😉

    Oahu Mistress, thanks for the tip on massage. I’m going to look that one up myself!

  57. BrunetteBarbie says:

    I had a sd last year and I bought him a lovely money clip with a solitaire diamond in it from Cartier, he loved it and we only ended our relationship as he wanted marriage and I didn’t.

    Havent been on here long but am looking forward to seeing what happens. though wish someone could look at my profile and tell me how it looks.

    Its brunette barbie if anyone has any tips I would be grateful

  58. lovelyfifi says:

    so far i have 3 potential sd’s and they are all serious one is flying in this weekend from ca to have dinner with me..the second one is going through a tough divorce but we are good friends now and he appreciates my company and for some weird reason i have so much chemistry with him ..the third one lives in my area and he says his attracted to me..i bet he tells that to every sb’s picture on here..
    Back to the topic if i have a good sd by christmas i think i would just have a quiet dinner at home ,probably cook him his favourite dish that is if he has no family..and i would do this in his shirt and a lil help from him wont be an issue then i would light up my house with candles and soft music lots of champagne ..listen to christmass carols and after dinner we probably dance a lil before i change into something sexy.thinking of ordering a santa clause lingerie with a wrapper and words saying am his gift .definately he will be ready to unwrap me..now that is my dream christmas for some lucky sd somewhere..oh my christmas wish list is
    updating my wheels, dont have enough diamons ear rings(those are our best friends),i can use another perfume though i pretty much have a lot but what a heck there is room for more.i have always wanted to visit paris and with a wonderful sd that would top it off..

  59. SuthrnExec says:

    My SD wish-list – because of the time constraints of the holidays and the amount of travel required to “check-in” with family over the holidays, my wish would be simply a quiet evening alone with my SB, nice dinner, and an evening of relaxing. With everything else going on, all I want is what I would be missing otherwise – some TLC – and it would gladly be returned – and then some!

  60. NC Gentleman says:

    hmmmmm any SDs in particular you are talking about??

  61. dreamer says:

    im not sure what i want for xmas yet… I do wish some sds would write on here what they want this year, not what theyve gotten before hehe

  62. V says:

    oh Lisa- it’s like giving head! You have to WANT to do it!! LOL

  63. V says:

    hmm. what would I do?
    well, I’d cook for him- of course, bathe him, lotion him up, groom him while he watches some t.v. or reads the paper. no lingerie for me…t-shirt and panties.
    I think I’d set a full length mirror at the foot of the bed, prop myself up on pillows while he leans back against me, and stroke him to his maximum while he watched in the mirror. Afterwards, I’d put on some music (sade, maxwell, otis redding, etc) and tell him what I think about when I’m “getting there”, he can choose to create it or not- it’s mostly just to get his curiosity aroused. If he begins a conversation, we can speak of explicit things over a game of chess (before I ride him backwards…and oh yeah baby, I like to tease when I’m up there 😉 )…if he’s quiet, and interested, then I might let him hang my behind off of the edge of the bed and watch himself make me come…for starters.

    you never know what Ms. V might do in a situation like this. Wine and candles and stripper sh*t is fine and dandy, but I want to give my man something to cause a distraction from everything else until he can get back to wherever I’m at. I’m going to make him want to hunt me, to posses me at all costs. Surely it will all be worth it 😉

  64. Oahu Mistress says:

    Ok… I know the best gift you can get for your sd:

    A new partner (if he likes that)…

    Convince your cute girlfriend, even if you just make out in front of him, even better if you both devour him. I am a sucker for fulfilling fantasies, and many guys have this on their mind. Get matching santa lingerie from VS, and be the sexii twins:)

    Thats what I will do if I get a SD before xmas…

    and Lisa. I am a massage therapist. Stop using your fingers and hands… use your forearms, elbows, and if you are not too big, put your whole body on him. You Tube Tantra Massage for some good ideas…

    happy holidays!!!

  65. GothicNC says:

    Did you know: No, but it doesn’t surprise me when you consider what the housing market is like at the moment. :-\

  66. salty kisses says:

    my SD took me to Mexico last month. While we were there we got these AMAZING massages every days. He called them Hands Of Steele. For X-mas i will have a massage therapist come to my place and surprise him. And of course, lots and lots of champagne..

  67. lisa says:

    My nails are short, can’t grow them because my job rips them.
    My hands just get tired easily. Also my hands are very small (my ex husband said I had hands like a little kids, lol) my daughter on the other hand takes after him and has long hands and fingers, long arms and long legs. she is like a little core with limbs everywhere. lol

  68. bostonTerrier says:

    lisa –
    i have abnormally large hands so i guess that’s why … it takes a lot to tire them out. plus i scratch-massage (but with gel nails) a lot, my sd loves that, and it doesn’t tire my hands at all. and changing speed/pressure up might help.

  69. Did you know says:

    Has anyone else noticed how many realtors have been joining this site as new SBs?

  70. SuthrnExec says:

    MishBocaRatonGrl, sometimes you have to hit us guys over the head to get our attention – we miss the obvious TOO many times!

  71. lisa says:

    my ex liked me to give him massages. My problem is that my hands get tired to easily. How do you give a thorough massage without your hands going numb? My hands get tired after a few minutes and it was very uncomfortable for me to continue to do it.

  72. bostonTerrier says:

    my gift to my sd is simple – a massage. he loves getting them so i figure i’ll give him a nice long one as soon as i get lotion (i don’t think he wants to smell like bath & body works’ “country apple”). this way it saves him a trip to the spa and provides quiet quality time.

  73. lisa says:

    I haven’t gotten anywhere these last few months. Still waiting to reset the date with one i’m talking too. bothers me though that he says he is busy with work but is on this site several times a day, but hasn’t yet answered my last email.

  74. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    *ahem* There was a certain SD from the blog site that I had my eyes on. Shame he never called.

    I swear I just keep getting disapointed this year, maybe I’m on santa’s naughty list.
    *pouts*

  75. lisa says:

    oh no, I can’t find the perfect sd under my tree because I don’t have a tree. where else might I find him?? 😆

  76. BlkButtafly says:

    awww suthrnexec, that was so sweet!

  77. SuthrnExec says:

    Speaking as a SD, I like lulugirl’s idea – it is the little things that matter – showing that you pay attention to the little things is HUGE and will be long remembered after the batteries have run-down in the choo-choo train! I have my short-comings but one thing I am good at is remembering the things that are said in conversations that mean a lot to people. For example (sorry to give a personal example here, but those are the only ones I have!), I was seeing a SB some time ago and one time she mentioned that when she was little and visited her grandmother, whom she adored, her grandmother would let her play with her “button jar” – a jar filled with hundreds of colorful buttons while her grandmother sewed. So for Christmas, I found an antique candy jar with a lid and I filled it with hundreds of colorful buttons. She loved it – she cried for joy all morning! We correspond occasionally and she tells me it still sits on her night table.

    The bottom-line, for me at least, is don’t over think it, SBs! Simple is perfect!

    MishBocaRatonGrl, so sorry to hear your bad news – keep your chin up! And may all you SBs find the perfect SD under your tree!

  78. sugarb23 says:

    I’m hoping for a SD for christmas too. I think I’ve actually finally met some potentials. Still have to see if there’s chemistry though.

    I do enjoy reading all your racy ideas though. 😉

  79. azNominal says:

    I don’t know about other guys, but for me, it’s the little things that mean more. When someone puts their heart into a gift. It’s easy to just wear lingerie or a santa hat, but if I wanted that, it wouldn’t be very hard to get. Sometimes, it’s something that was brought up in conversation a few months back, etc. In other words, money can’t buy happiness. Now that’s cliche!

  80. Bubbles4u2me says:

    Come on SBs’ this is too easy!!!
    Why waste money on lingerie…. I am sure he has been there and done that. All you need is a sexy santa hat, some whipped cream and red food coloring. Instead of putting on Victoria Secret, make this gift more unique and create it with whipped cream. Your SD will lick it alot!!! lol I mean he will like it alot. lol

  81. Seraphina_Star says:

    You know, I don’t currently have an SD yet, however… if I did have one, this is what I’d do.

    I would in fact dress up in the sexiest lingerie I could find, do an amazing strip dance for him give him something to look forward to :) I would also make sure that before hand, I’d make sure he gets a wonderful massage from me, and cook his favorite foods. I agree that if I had an SD, he would be treated like a king, because he would help look out for me… Hmm.. that’s what I want for Christmas an SD! :)

    But that is just my two cents :)

  82. WickedKisss says:

    Well ladies and gentlemen, I have a date set with a potential SD this week. I actually met him on this site over a year ago, but due to other SD encounters going particularly wrong I have put off meeting SD’s until now. We have become very great friends, and he has been eager to meet even if it is platonic, so we shall see where things go!

    As for a holiday gift, I am excited for all you sugar babies on here that get to dress up for your guy!! I am going the friendly route and bringing a box of bordeaux’s from See’s candy.. can’t go wrong with those! Men love them =)

  83. CARTIER says:

    WOW 4 CHRISTMAS I JUST WANT A SUGAR DADDY THAT WANT ME FOR ME! I MEET ONE GUY OFF THIS SITE THIS YEAR AND HE’S A SWEET BUSINESS OWNER BUT HE JUST STARTED HIS BUSINESS UP AND HE’S IN ALOT OF DEBT. AFTER POURING MY HEART INTO HIM, IVE COME TO FIND OUT HE’S NOT VERY FINANCIALLY STABLE….. AND HE REALLY JUST WANTS A HIGH CLASS PROSTITUTE THAT WILL SPEND THE NIGHT….

    SO MY HEARTS CONFUSED AND HURT…. I MEANING THE BEGINNING HE SEEMED SO PERFECT BUT AFTER THE FIRST NIGHT HE DIDN’T WANNA GO TO NICE RESTAURANTS OR ANYTHING OUTSIDE THE HOTEL ROOM, THEN HE WASNTED TO STAY AT MY APARTMENT BUT COULDN’T OFFER ME AND STABILITY…. ITS LIKES THE WORSE RELATIONSHIP EVER…… I DON’T HAVE A PROBLEM HELPING MY SD SAVE MONEY ESPECIALLY IF UR GONNA SPEND IT BACK ON ME BUT HE JUS CHEAP AND…. I DUNNO I DON’T NEED MUCH…. I JUS NEED HONESTY AND HAPPINESS…. I MEAN I THOUGHT THAT WAS THE POINT… PLUS HE DOESN’T EVEN LIKE GIVING ORAL…. AM I ASKING TOOO MUCH… I AM A IT AGGRESSIVE AT TIMES BUT I NEED A SUGAR DADDY WHO’S TIRED OF RUNNING THE WORLD WHEN HE COMES HOME TO ME… AND WANTS TO LOSE CONTROL… AND I MEAN COMPLETE CONTROL…..

    SO ONCE AGAIN A LONELY CHRISTMAS AND BIRTHDAY, UNHAPPY SEARCHING 4 THAT RIGHT GUY!!!!

  84. Zabreena says:

    ooh I seem to have been particularly generous this year with my gifts, lol

  85. Zabreena says:

    Well its obvious what a SD wants for Christmas from his SB, sugar of course. that’s why he is on this site and if he is a SD worth having there aint anything else he will need . give him something wifey wont be!

    I know what I will be giving my SDs for Christmas. They will all get a special dinner served to them in a private hotel suite by their adoring SB dressed in the slinkiest, skimpiest, not to be worn in a public restaurant, bright red, fur trimmed little Santa’s elfess dress with red lingerie, stockings and heels and of course it will be a light meal with a very very generous serving of the sweetest sugar after coffee. and of course they definitely rely on something lacy landing on the floor…..grin

  86. Zabreena says:

    well I recon Goddess has got it spot on there. I know what I will be giving my SDs for Christmas. They will all get a special dinner served to them in a private hotel suite by their adoring SB dressed in the slinkiest, skimpiest, not to be worn in a public restaurant, bright red, fur trimmed little Santa’s elfess dress with red lingerie, stockings and heels and of course it will be a light meal with a very very generous serving of the sweetest sugar after coffee. and of course Goddess I think you can rely on something lacy landing on the floor…..grin

  87. Goddess says:

    All I want for Christmas is a new SD! LOL! No luck on here yet, but I’ve got a couple of meetings lined up and hoping for a spark!

    Seems that the SD man is usually more impressed with gifts with gifts from the heart that involve time, effort, and thoughtfulness, rather than gifts purchased at the store. Bonus points if the gift exchange ends with something lacy landing on the floor, of course. Am I right, guys? :)

  88. GothicNC says:

    I read once about a woman making a very nice dinner and serving it to her gentleman while wearing nothing but thong panties, stockings, and high heels. Naturally ‘dessert’ was not permitted until after dinner was done. I would have to add a nice bra to the outfit (going braless can become painful to the busty), but that sounds like a lot of fun to me! I’m wicked and I like to make my man squirm a little. 😉

  89. dreamer says:

    damn. She stole my idea haha

  90. BlkButtafly says:

    awww NC you had a sweet SB!

  91. NC Gentleman says:

    Hello All — my first SB gave me wonderful Xmas gifts — I still have them locked in my desk drawer…. she would take a picture that I knew was just for me and put it in an Xmas card with a long note of how much she appreciated everything about our relationship… even though we have amicably parted ways, I still look at them every few months or so… it didn’t cost her much but it meant a lot to me… best things in life are still free I guess…

  92. lulugirl says:

    For my SD I was thinking something more along the lines of what he doesn’t get at home with his wife. I’m just planning an entire evening where we sit, I make him a small christmas dinner, I got a nice bottle of wine, sexy lingerie, candles, massage oil, and I’m picking up his favourite type of eggnog (which believe it or not is IMPOSSIBLE to find). I just put a night together of things he loves to show I pay attention and care, and I’m not just in our relationship because he takes care of me. I like to take care of him too. I think it’ll prove to be a nice evening 😉

  93. MishBocaRatonGrl says:

    I bought the cutest little santas helper outfit lingere of course, because I thought I had a good SD but he turned out to be quite the opposite, I might just bring it back or give it to one of my girlfriend I have no use for it now :(

  94. GothicNC says:

    I meant ‘hypothetical’, of course. I can spell, I just get ahead of myself in typing sometimes. 😉

  95. GothicNC says:

    My Christmas list this year is very short: deposit money for an apartment. That’s it. I appreciate my family giving me a place to stay, but ye gods and little fishes, I want OUT! ~laughs~

    As for what my hypothetic future SD could hope for from me, well, that depends on the man. But if he could make my Christmas wish come true, he would most assuredly get a great deal of spoiling from me! (And I’m told I give very good massages!) 😉

    Now that I think about it, I imagine it will be fun to have a SD even aside from the money aspect. I like spoiling the people close to me, coming up with little things to do to make them happy, and I would enjoy turning my creativity to figuring out ways to ‘appreciate’ a kind SD. I relish a challenge!

  96. MSH says:

    I think that I will definitely go the Event/Experience route. Something for the office just seems too Un-SB like for me! This is our first Christmas together and since we both are married our arrangement is all about this secret fantasy life we have built. I am truly the “beck and call girl” that I’ve always wanted to be.

    We even have a secret little love nest that I have created (and he pays for, of course) where everything is pure indulgence for the two of us. Of course, our arrangement includes a definite Sugar aspect for me since that is part of what is missing with the husband.

    So event/experience it is…….now on to building and creating this…….feel free to give here girls…..

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