Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies are often at a loss for how to prevent arrangement failure, or abuse. You don’t want to spend so much time preparing for, covering for, scheduling for, and in many cases, risking everything for an arrangement that suddenly turns singularly beneficial, rather than mutually.
Hats off to Gregory Westin for giving the following nuggets of:
“Lisa: let me first apologize for some of us being such dumb asses. 4 dates and 15 dollars ? Dinner at Chili’s? Coffee and you don’t even get a cup ?
Sure. Let’s meet for coffee at (insert trendy coffee shop name here) I love their Iced, whipped, low-fat, soy milk, decaf frozen macchiato.
Make sure you get there ten minutes AFTER him (you are worth waiting for after all) and if he has not already ordered your drink, his first question had better be can I get you one of those iced, whipped, low-fat, soy milk, decaf frozen macchiato’s that you love so much.
His first question had better not be would you like to go somewhere else to talk ? Then why did you ask me to meet you here, Brain Boy?
No, I don’t really drink coffee. How about if we meet somewhere one early evening for a cocktail.
And then depending on his response:
No, I don’t know Ben Dover’s Saloon & Billiards Emporium. How about (insert nice lounge-y place name here) instead?
Sure. If you would like to meet somewhere to get a bite, that would be nice.
Again, depending on his response:
I have never been one for Chilis. To tell you the truth, how about if we met at (insert nice bistro-y place name here) instead?
Drive the bus, Lisa. If he is not willing to step up for a decent location and dinner suggestion, then my guess is he is never going to step up when you really need him to.”