(Anonymous Sugar Baby)
I have a question about how to handle meetings with several sugardaddies. I seem to get them in waves, a couple weeks I get no response and then I get a few at a time. I am limited in my time (I have a couple days off during the week but never weekends)and I want to make the most of my time. I find myself shuffling guys and making excuses for why I can’t meet this week or the other (usually because I have already set up a meeting with another that contacted me first). More than once I have put off meeting a potential sd in order to meet another one that either stands me up or flakes out at the last minute (cancels an hour before meeting). These time wasters kept me from meeting the other potential sds because many times the ones I put off meeting end contact with me or stop replying to my emails.
How can a sb organize her meetings of potential sds so that she can meet all of them and not have to keep rescheduling meetings or getting stood up by game players?
(Stephan from SeekingArrangement.com)
It sounds like you’ve noticed a disturbing pattern here. My first questions is: why do you think your getting responses in waves? Are these waves happening on weekends? The end of the month? I think the first step is to ascertain why, when, and how these waves are rolling.
Are YOU messaging hard during the beginning of the week, and not so much during the middle or end of the week? Basically, are your efforts consistently implemented or do you concentrate more energy into your Sugar Daddy dating at a certain point in the week (which might explain a ‘wave’ of response afterwards)? Once we remove this variable —you— we can start wondering why then, Sugar Daddies respond in waves.
Perhaps most Sugar Daddies have similar gaps or openings in their schedule? I’d assume weekends would be the most popular…
POLL: What Day of the Week do You Make the Most Arrangements? (please answer y’all)