I emailed you awhile back and have made some of the changes you suggested and I am still getting nothing. You said that there were SD on this site that don’t want the young barbie doll types. If this is true where are they? Come on Sugar Daddies be honest with me can any of you see yourselves making an older woman ( but young at heart ) feel worth spoiling? There are a lot of older woman out there that can give you the same things as the young ones can that aren’t looking for that long lost love. We all want to have great times right? I have already paid for my prem. membership so no one has to worry about losing money so Please just give me some up front answers I can take it. lol
Thanks for every ones time that reads this and a gives any type of feedback. Have a great day all.
(Stephan from SeekingArrangement.com Writes)
Regarding my input about your latest memo- The most upfront response I may be able to give you is that finding a sd/sb arrangement is often the result of countless episodes of rejection, defunct negotiations, several first dates that turned out to be the last, and many, many profile and photo adjustments. The benefits of securing a mutually beneficial relationship of this nature is usually worth the effort (according to most seeking arrangement girls). Usually, with Sugar Daddy dating, the ends do justify the means. It’s a question of commitment, and where you are spiritually as an individual. Has this search become to emotionally taxing? Are you able to treat finding a Sugar Daddy more like finding a good job, rather than a loving, monogamous, long-term relationship? Lastly, can you manage all of the ups and downs of finding a real Sugar Daddy without giving up prematurely? These are things you should ask yourself, and do so often. In taking another look at your profile, here are some suggestions I have:
Photos- Your first pic is from a distance, showing your entire figure. This is good, but the photo itself is of poor quality. The picture is blurred, and this might cause some to believe it’s not recent, or of low quality (not a good first impression). You’ve got a great figure, gorgeous brown/blond hair, and as represented in your second photo, many other physical aspects herds of Sugar Daddies would appreciate. Let’s try to represent these qualities to the fullest (this is already successfully done in the second photo). Keep the concept of the first photo, but take another wearing a more form-fitting, colorful outfit- something young, fresh and fun. Again, make sure the picture is CLEAR! A clear photo counts for a lot, even if the person IN the photo isn’t a cookie-cutter Jessica Alba type. A clear photo can give the impression of a clean, responsible, honest, young and generally ‘with-it’ person. So, clear, GOOD QUALITY photos are a must.
Another photo mention: It’s great that you have a photo with your dog, it shows that your a down-to-earth, warm and caring person. So, let’s now use this concept and take a better quality photo- one that exemplifies this strong point you have; of being a slightly older but still hot, warm, caring, honest and open minded person. This is an example of ignoring what society tells us we always have to do, which is to play up the strong points of what the generic prototype of what ‘good’ or ‘better’ means to a mainstream, commercial audience, instead of our own unique individual qualities, which if capitalized upon, can enormously outweigh the benefit of playing up the generic, commercial qualities of the ‘typical hot girl’, or doing what everyone thinks a girl has to do to be hot. Doing what everyone silently believes to be the ONLY way to do something (in this case, being perceived as hot), is the most common mistake made among online daters. By the way, the latter parts of this paragraph were not specifically addressed to you alone, but I kinda got rolling and couldn’t stop the sermon.
Profile writings– Firstly, your profile section reads well, and you come off again as honest, caring, and real. Though you also come off as possibly seeking more than just an arrangement. Here’s one reason why:
“If you like a woman that will really appreciate you with NSA ( but you never know what the future holds.)”
Rosie, I don’t think there is anything wrong with believing this, or realizing the very real possibility of a Sugar Daddy relationship eventually turning into more, but this might not be the best time to mention anything outside of your first goal- securing a mutually beneficial relationship with no strings attached (unattached strings, at least initially).
I say this because when your being given a first look by a prospective Sugar Daddy, you have to think of it like pure and simple marketing. Your trying to GET a specific result: an arrangement = money. To get THAT, make sure your profile exemplifies how YOUR arrangement will be great! No, your not under 20, but unlike the girls who are, you can actually laugh at a joke and get the joke at the same time. You can understand the importance of being humble, when you need to be, and being loud and in-your-face, when the time is right. Plus, you’ve got a great set of jugs and you now how to have fun lol :o)
NOTE: We know how much of a catch you are, and the Sugar Daddies will know this too…but don’t play up any “Lifetime Network” qualities in your profile pitch. Keep it relatively simple, and brag about how your a hot, smart, down-to-earth, woman, who’s ready to have some fun and knows how to not take things personally.
Keep us posted, Rosie. If anyone else out there has something to say, please leave your comments here.