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Loading ...Newness and change is respected if not embraced by most sugar daddies and sugar babies. The question of how long to see a particular sugar doesn’t always come up naturally, and perhaps doesn’t need to.
Some prefer one arrangement at a time, while some arrangements involve more than one sugar…
“[...]YES, it is a YES from the twins.
We are scheduling the first week-end.
Probably the last week-end of March
They are as excited as I am, so soon !
We exchanged mails and talked openly about our expectations.
I formulated the sugar offer for each of them.
Travel is easy. It is just a short direct flight for 2,5 hours.
Found this marvellous 5 ***** Hotel, and ancient chateau now renovated.
[...]” – HenriLouis*294522
How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
Ever wanted to show off your sugar? Why/why not?
What qualities of a sugar daddy or sugar baby make you proud of them?
I prefer to only see one person at a time, however I also see different people until I have been asked otherwise or we come to some sort of agreement. Then, I like to focus my attention all to one place.
On the flipside, I am ok with having a partner that sees other ladies. It’s not ideal, but I think it comes with the territory and as long as I don’t have to hear the gory details….haha….I’m a happy girl.
It’s NSA so I wouldn’t mind if he was seeing someone else (don’t want to hear about it though).
And yes, I’d juggle more than 1 (even if it’s a little more work). I like variety and it’s sure way of not getting attached if you’re seeing just one.
I don’t think I’d show them off. I’m very private and would like to keep it discreet.
*if you were to see just one.
How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
I wouldn’t feel bad about it. If it’s NSA then who cares. Its not like I’m in a committed relationship.
Ever wanted to show off your sugar? Why/why not?
Yes I would love to show off my current SD. He’s so hot, intelligent, interesting, and talented. I’d love to show him off to the world.
What qualities of a sugar daddy or sugar baby make you proud of them?
Intelligence, being well accomplished, and talented.
How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
They both have different personalities and have different things to offer so they work out pretty good.
I have 2 now and it feels pretty good
Ever wanted to show off your sugar? Why/why not?
I haven’t. Who would I show them off to? I keep my non-sugar life away from my sugar life.
What qualities of a sugar daddy or sugar baby make you proud of them?
Their manners, attitude, work ethic, and success.
How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
If I had multiple SDs, I don’t think I could be the best SB to all of them, they would just get juggled around and I would not have a life. They would probably lose interest after awhile. But, until I find the right one, and I’m sure he is the right man for me, on top of him starting to give me allowance, then I will not stop meeting new potentiel SDs. Put yourself first ladies.
Ever wanted to show off your sugar? Why/why not?
When I do have a SD I will not advertise what type of relationship we have, I will simply call him a friend, because that is what he is first and foremost.
How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
I wouldn’t be opposed to having more than one SD. If it were someone local where it were easier to set up dates, I would probably stick with one. If I had an SD that required traveling to meet up, it would probably not happen as often and so having multiple SDs wouldn’t be too much of a hassle.
What qualities of a sugar daddy or sugar baby make you proud of them?
If he is attractive and successful without becoming arrogant, I would be so proud. he is showing respect to himself and others. But I think any SD that treats me well is worthy of my pride because he has chosen me. I would be proud of a SD that gave me his time and attention because he thinks I am worth it.
I should be reading…but I’m bored.
How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
If it’s NSA, and I could fit it into my schedule, I don’t see the problem.
Not what I want right now, but I can see the appeal.
Ever wanted to show off your sugar? Why/why not?
Of course. I think he’s attractive, funny, and even though I hate when people smoke, I love his ease with a cigarette. So bad and twisted, I know. He also has great style. I’m not sure why I wouldn’t want to show him off, lol.
What qualities of a sugar daddy or sugar baby make you proud of them?
Well, being intelligent, attractive, and successful doesn’t hurt. I enjoy hearing how he got to where he is today and that also makes me proud of him. Knowing that he has worked really hard.
Anyways, still procrastinating on this book reading…there’s always wikipedia…I don’t even think Spark Notes can help me tonight lol.
SD sent me roses for a job well done on some tests I had. The sweetest surprise ever. Much needed after an insanely busy day/week.
Omg, everyone. I got an email back from the Millionaire’s Club (I want an internship with them) and they told me to send in a copy of my resume and try to read Patti’s new book on matchmaking so I could get a better feel for the business. Yay, that email made my day! There is hope for me yet.
Aww Atalanta that’s so sweet of him. You’re a really lucky girl.
How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
Like Girlie said, I prefer one at a time, though I will/would see more than one until we solidified our decision to be one another’s sugars.
Yet, if a sugar daddy wanted an NSA or non-exclusive sugar fest, I might pursue other SDs so long as they were interested in the same and we’d established that they did not care.
Ever wanted to show off your sugar? Why/why not?
I haven’t had opportunities where I would show off my current SD, who is not set in stone yet (we’re still in the grace period) and I’m not sure I would.
What qualities of a sugar daddy or sugar baby make you proud of them?
Okay so here comes in extra stuff. Soooooooo, as Mina was saying last night, SDs come in waves. I gathered about 5 pots today, and 2 yesterday/last night. Just from basic elimination, I am guessing I can easily narrow it to 5.
BUT, there is one I am particularly keen on. If he decides to be my SD, I am very certain I would want just him. As in only one. He sounds wonderrrrful and I’m trying not to get too excited because I feel like I might end up feeling like a popped balloon.
ANYWAY, I brought that up for the purpose of answering the question, because if he were my SD, I would be MOST proud, because he so far seems:
1. Generous
2. Very intelligent
3. Kind
4. Genuine
5. Surprisingly attentive, given time and work constraints
Generally, these traits would make me proud (I don’t think proud is the right term… more like, appreciative) of an SD.
Hahaha I’m obviously in lala land tonight.
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
roooOOOOooOooOoseeeeeeeees
GND – I’m so glad your heard back from them!
Atalanta, that’s so sweet of your SD! He really knows how to treat you well.
GurlNextDoor– that’s awesome! If you become an intern, you know who to hook up with the rich beautiful men! *hint*
Yeah so am I Mia. I’m just like bouncing off the walls now lol. And I’m pretty sure this book should give me a good look into what goes into searching for someone else’s perfect mate. So I’m happy…it’ll be here Friday.
Ummmmmmm, you should def. pass on the info from time to time once the book cones. And FRIDAY???? DId you ship it express?
Yeah I got the next day shipping service. Definitely Mia. I’ll post the daily sugar dating tip of the day on the blog, lol. Hey this will help me in my search too, hmm never thought of it like that.
To kind of extend the topic further, for those of you with current local SDs.. do you ever think about the chance that you see him randomly on the street? How would you react? What if it were discreet (bc of marriage or his or your preferences, etc)?
Mmmmm I’ve traveling tomorrow. So bed time for me.
Night!
Night Mia…hey Jamisen.
Just answering your question, Jamisen, before I run off.
Nope. I’m just outside of a big city, in an area with a huge population still. I haven’t run into anyone by chance in the two years I’ve been here unless I’m on my college’s campus, so no, it doesn’t bother me.
Even in my home city, which is a LOT smaller, it wouldn’t have worried me. I don’t run into people often.
I personally would not want a local SD. At first I thought I would but then I thought about it. I’m the type of girl who likes to have her own space and having a local SD would not be the ideal situation for me because of what you just said. I would not want that awkwardness of walking down the street and seeing him out. Nope, not my cup of tea.
It’s funny that you mention college campuses because that’s how I came onto my questions. I got a message from a pot SD. In addition to his full-time occupation, he’s also an adjunct professor in the area. He said he does it for several schools.. My school has a lot of adjuncts and it got me thinking what would happen if I already had him as a professor or if he becomes my SD and I run into him on campus..
hahaha
Gurlnextdoor, I am soo jealous!!! If you meet Patti, I will die!!! haha
LOVE IT!
Funny, GND, because when I first signed onto the site I thought I wanted a SD that I would travel to go see in order to be more discreet. But the only pot leads are all within the DC area. Non-local men don’t return my messages.. How do you do it?!
Haha yeah that would be awkward Jamisen.
Atalanta if I meet Patti I will be doing backflips, she is so awesome! And somewhat brutally honest when it comes to people…kinda reminds me of myself.
Alright, good night everyone! See you all in the morning!
Well as I said before, for some reason all the guys I message here in NC (or at least in my area) tell me they’re looking for an “out of town” SB. So I started looking for an “out of town” SD. Found a couple of potentials so far. Which reminds me, I need to look up this one SD who I never wrote back to, lol.
Night Jamisen.
Somebody shoulda told me we had a new blog going! I thought everyone left! I was still on the other one lol. I had a question though…how do you know a SD is a premium member? And why do some have blue profiles and some have orange?
My SD is close, but not local. He’s not a professor…Not sure how I’d feel about it though, to be honest. There are some really hot professors at UGA…
But to avoid that awkwardness, I’d say keep it far enough away so that you won’t have to think about running into them. They’re busy men so you might not even have to think about running into them on accident, but in the case of college professors, etc…I would think it’s a bit different. You very well might have his class and as sexy as that may sound now…Maybe not so much later? lol I don’t know about that either. Sounds kinda hot and hopefully a nice grade? LOL.
Premium members are orange and standard members are blue.
Yeah what Atalanta said, lol. I dated a teacher assistant at my college last semester (and no he didn’t teach any of my classes), but he forewarned me not to take any of his classes this semester. It would’ve just been awkward and I think with a SD it would be even worse.
Posting rules r unfamilar: all switch 2 newest topic 2 post?
From other thread: Nico/SG2, I don’t care about spelling etc. if intent clear. I’m fin investor, used 2 quick short info xchange. Prefer it.
Henri, u r my opposite. Long posts.
Gail et al: “our vegas sd?” does it mean a bunch of u shared an SD? How’d that work? N u met for 2 hrs? not sleazy stuff? No offence. I 2 want privacy, how’d he do that?
I think I’m going to change the wording in my profile a bit. But first I’ll wait to see if this potential SD writes me back.
Hey fellow, your up and back to the blog. Umm I think what she meant was he paid for all of their expenses while in Vegas and they all got to meet him and hang out with him for 2 hours.
If you already work FT and have a busy life, juggling more than one SD can be tricky, but I’ve done it before!
So long as we agree to be non-exclusive and nobody’s feelings or health is getting damaged, then, why not?
I agree that the lady should always keep her options open and continue meeting with potentials while in an arrangement, because you never know when a sugar daddy will decide to move on, sometimes with little or no notice. So ya gotta look out for yourself first!
Yes I agree Caroline, I see no problem with it if both parties agree to NSA.
Fellow write some more, I love your choppy, note taking like posts. Reminds me of my old best friend who everyone thought spoke in riddles, lol.
guys I just got a reply from a pot i emailed a couple of days ago. He even gave me his home # and office # and email and told me to contact him. What do y’all think?
Call him Ebony
Haha Rancho I like the choppiness. It sounds mysterious and that is what Fellow is, the mysterious SD who has recently arrived.
Welcome to the blog Fellow!
Changed little bits of my profile to make it sound better. Hopefully more SDs will give it a look.
hello everyone!!!!!!!!
Hey Tony, hmm lots of people up tonight. Where’s Joules???
i just got here is it busy???
NoT BuSy aT AlL GoOd nItE
Good morning Sugars,
That was a shock, it really had the adreline rush !
I am the one guilty of the new subject today !
Off course I am also expected to answer the questions.
Hope all the girls now look in awe at me (I love this joke).
Will come back to it later.
Have to rush now.
TwinnyHenri
Night Rancho….yeah it’s pretty dead tonight
hey everyone, i’m a sugar baby looking for my sugar daddy and I’ve been on this site for almost a year, maybe more–i can’t even remember LOL.
All the guys that i’ve bet have been flakey. I met one guy who has emailed me before from this site using another email address pretending he has never met me before! The nerve of him!
anyways, if a sugar daddy is seeking a male sugar baby in dallas, email me!
Call him at this time of night? Though he did say I could reach him till 2.30am lol.
Haha well if he said you could reach him till 2:30am then that sounds like an invitation to call to me, lol. Go for it and if he gets mad tell him you thought because he gave you a deadline at which to call tonight, you thought he wouldn’t mind, lol.
Welcome DallasKev
GND I’m so glad to hear you got a letter back from Millionaire Matchmaker!!! Good luck with the resume…is that already made?
Joules: we’re thinking of you (GND posted earlier and I’m sure we’re not the only ones). How’s the new SD-life treating ya?
Ebony: I feel your pain lol, I kept refreshing that old blog wondering when people were gonna come back. But..low and behold you’re all here!
oh, and ebony, g/l with the call!!!
Yeah Kat they left me hanging on there for the longest! Man either I don’t know how to search for pot SD’s or I’m not doing it right….do you just keep going on search and emailing in hopes of finding that dream one?
yay I’m not the only one awake.
Yep where is Joules??? The resume is already done, I just have to tweak bits and pieces of it and update it some. I was so happy when they emailed me back, I even texted my SD but he’s sleep now lol. So wasn’t expecting any response from him tonight at least.
ah. learned a key tip about the emails from Henri. Should have been common sense.. but.. a friendly reminder never hurts! In your emails are you explaining what you liked about them/their profile? Why you’re taking the time to send them a message? Or are you just saying, “hey, your profile piqued my interest” etc etc? I’ve been in the latter category a couple times and can just say “oops”, but now I’ve learned lol
As for your question though, I’m just going to keep searching. And let each day bring new members that haven’t seen my profile, or older ones that gain an interest in what I’ve wrote. If there’s one thing people on the blogs have said it’s that PATIENCE is Key.
oh, GND, may I ask how old your SD is? You’ve mentioned him wanting a real relationship with you, and I’m curious as to the age bracket. You don’t have to say if you don’t want to, just curiosity killing the cat
I wonder what the stages are to being hired as a MM (mill. matchmaker). Patti seems picky, but there are prolly many more jobs than are advertised just on the show
Lol I just go with the I’m interested approach. Is that wrong? Am I supposed to say what I liked about them and stuff?
Yep Kat I’ve learned that. You need alot of patience to find the right SD.
Oh no problem Katherine. He’s 31, which for me is pretty much perfect.
Hi sugars! Gonna go back and read, but wanted to let you all know I’m *lurking*!
Oh hey Victoria, good you can join our little nightly Sugar bon fire.
Yeah apparently they are hiring, or at least that’s what the email I got from her assistant said. You have to go through screening and lots of training before you can actually be a matchmaker, so if I get to that I’ll still be excited. It’s good to learn about a business by actually working in it before you try and start your own business in that industry.
Jamisen: I liked your question, here is my answer:
My pot SD is local and if I saw him on the street randomly, even with his wife, I think I would just look him right in the eye and smirk while I keep walking…if he was walking with a young woman of my age, I’d know it wasn’t his wife and I’d ask about it later…I’d just keep walking.
Also, if your pot SD becomes or is your prof, rememeber that you get an automatic A++++ in that class
Ebony: nono it’s not wrong at all that you just say you’re interested. It’s just that–from Henri’s approach, and prolly many others… an SD is more likely to respond if he realizes why we’re taking the time to single them out.
Like…if some SD sends you a message saying “Hey, you seem like a really nice gal, i’d like to get to know you” and another sends you a message saying “Hi *nickname you put*, I think it’s awesome that you like to ___, as you put in the profile.”-and picks out other things you wrote.. are you more inclined to respond to the second or first? I know I tend to have a tough time writing back to the ones that merely say “Gee, you seem lovely, wanna meet? xxoo” lol
haha hi Victoria
and GND that is the perfect age. My eyes are always more open for the profiles of men who are in their 30s!
hahha CAT i love your answer to Jamisen’s question! But make sure that smirk’s not too obvious
Yep same here Kat. I’m naturally attracted to men who are in their early 30s anyway, so us having a traditional relationship wouldn’t bother me in the least bit. Plus he’s hotter than any other college guy I’ve seen around here, lucky lil me.
Hm. I think I’ll answer the questions from the Blog Topic.
How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
I can see the appeal in having more than one SD: more allowance money, more spoiling, each SD has their own interests & experiences that they want to share with you, there’s more to learn from more than one, it’s easier to remain NSA, etc.
But I can also see the advantages of having a solitary SD: you are more committed to him, you can spend more time with them, the free time can be used to travel with him
Ever wanted to show off your sugar? Why/why not?
I haven’t had a sugar yet so I can’t really answer this question too well. I agree with Cat’s response, though: I’d probably introduce him as a friend. Good friend, of course. & If I come into the good fortune of having an ideal SD, I have no doubts that I’d be wanting to show him off because of his intelligence, sense of humor, attractiveness, attentiveness & generosity.
What qualities of a sugar daddy or sugar baby make you proud of them?
Ah, see above. But also being well accomplished. I tend to really admire people who are well-to-do because it means they KNOW how to set their goals and go after them, and never take no for an answer. And if there is an obstacle, they’ll find a way to get around it.
Hey, Ebony’s been silent for a bit, I wonder if she made that call!
If that’s the reason she’s gone quiet, all I have to say is: YAY!
And Henri and the twins are meeting up??? I had no idea till I read the topic! Isn’t that great! I love how they are now the 2nd ones I know of that have met as a result of the blog.
Hold on he met the twins on the blog??? (looks confused)…
Ebony if you called that SD I wanna know how the phone call went.
Kat: It would be sort of obvious on purpose! I would smirk and look away…And nobody would notice anything but me and him
I’m sure it would turn his crank.
haha sorry I confused ya GND. There were (I think they were twins at least) 2 girls who were best friends, and they came to the blog asking for advice (as we all do), so we gave, and HenriLouis ended up helping out. But I didn’t know they were arranging a meeting, It’s so cool to learn
seriously. Cat, I’d prolly do the sammmme think. And the thoughts afterward (for either person!) would be seriously entertaining. lol
Lol i was quiet for a while. Yes I did make that call (lol) and we spoke for a bit. He didnt seem mad that I called so late lol. He seems promising but he might be leaving the country for a couple of months in a few days and he said it would depend on how things went with me and him and he would decide whether to leave at a later date lol.
ouhhh, you may be in luck girrrrl! leave it to the rich to be able to postpone & change airplane tickets lol. It took so much debating for me when I wanted to come home early from england!
I have a good question: What would you do if you were with a married SD, out of town, walking around in public and someone he knew came and said hi?
Lmao! Knowing me i would die!!!! Lol. I don’t do well in embarassing situations.
Cat: I have a feeling if he’s a true SD that he’ll know how to handle it. As in he might have an explanation already build up in his mind “just in case.” Liiiike… this is my friend’s niece that I’m giving a tour of the town to? Who knows, I can’t come up with anything legit. I’m leavin it to the others to answer. But I’ve thought of it too, so thanks for asking.
Ok I’m out. Night
Okay, posting from the other blog (because no one’s there):
>I was texting and chatting with a pot SD, and he wanted to meet sometime next week. But then we started to discuss the sort of arrangements we’re looking for, and apparently he’s more interested in long-term, ACTUAL relationship, marriage-in-the-future stuff… So, needless to say, we aren’t meeting anymore. I did, however, refer him to a millionaire dating site and wish him luck, because he really is a NICE guy. Just my luck for not wanting a serious relationship… Okay, headiing to the new one now!
On to THIS blog:
How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
>I wouldn’t mind it, I mean, it’d probably be kind of nice. (It’s worked for Mina, right?) And if he had more than one SB, I’d be fine with it too…even if he wants us to meet! lol… I’m weird like that, but I’d probably prefer to meet other SB’s anyway…
Ever wanted to show off your sugar? Why/why not?
>Haven’t had one, and can’t honestly say I KNOW whether I’d want to or not.
What qualities of a sugar daddy or sugar baby make you proud of them?
>Well, if he’s super sweet, treats me like a queen, has a wonderful personality (gets along with others well, doesn’t get pissed too easily, can have fun with most things), and is highly successful, I’ll be proud and probably WILL wanna show him off!
To my 2 cents:
*hint hint*
>Congratulations and good luck, GND! I really hope you get the job/meet Patti/hook up friends with rich guys!
>Good luck with your call, Ebony!
>I miss Joules too!
>Annnd…HI to everyone!
Umm Victoria what’s his profile number, lol. I’ll give him a try. And thanks for the luck, I’ll be sure to get some of you dates with them if I get the job, haha.
Cat if that happened to me I’d wait for him to (or maybe not) introduce me to whoever said hi to him. I’d smile and pretend like it was just two innocent old family friends walking together. No biggie, lol.
I thought about this scenario because my local SD wants us to get away for weekends or days at a time pretty often and he has businesses and knows people in most of the places where he wants to take me.
So, I thought that if someone he knew randomly saw us and came up to him to talk, I would just excuse myself and say that I really had to get to work, that it was nice to run into him after so long, that I would let the girls at the spa know he was still alive and just walk away. He could just text me when he was done talking and we could find each other again. Make sense?
or maybe not to*
Cat that sounds like the perfect cover.
Lol Cat I would still feel so awkward. that approach might just work actually.
Night, Katherine!
And to Jamisen’s Questions:
>do you ever think about the chance that you see him randomly on the street? So far, most of my pots have been local, and I kind of just wonder if I already HAVE seen them somewhere…
>How would you react? It would depend on his reaction… If he acknowledges me, I do the same, if not, I keep walking.
>What if it were discreet (bc of marriage or his or your preferences, etc)? Same as above.
To Cat’s question:
>What would you do if you were with a married SD, out of town, walking around in public and someone he knew came and said hi?
Grin, wait to be introduced (cause he’d probably have to), and let him handle the conversation… I’m a bit of an actress (not too good) but good enough to handle any questions that may come my way.
GND: Ya…a 40yr old man with a 22yr old girl…innocent? Nope! lol.
Lol… He deleted his account, GND… guess he took my advice?
Hmm lol, yeah that wouldn’t fit too well lol. Then again you could always say your a potential client of his, lol. Depending on what it is he does. I dunno I don’t have to worry about that stuff with my SD. He was parading me around, holding hands, wrapping his arms around me, etc. But that’s just my take on things.
I know Cat thats what am saying. There is no way if i’m walking with a 40yr old white guy he’s gonna introduce me as any part of his family lol.
Aww Victoria, lol. Oh well the search shall continue I guess.
Victoria: I started talking to a local guy on here, clearly a SD site, who wanted to find a real girlfriend!? He was always talking about cuddling and all this and that…Never about allowance or anything…What a waste of time. I mean, there are sites to find your soulmate…go there buddy!
Ebony: LMFAO!! As he introduces you as his niece, you can say yeah, I’m adopted?…lol
Haha, Ebony…even though you meant Cat, I must say, I’m really not a big cuddler…
Ouch* Vic what do you have against cuddling lol
Before I can cuddle, I want to talk business and get it over with.
Oops *Cat
I’m big on cuddling at the right time, I don’t know I’m more of a PDA person haha. Too bad you can’t have that with most SDs.
GND, the guy I was talking about did kind of equate this with prostitution, so we’re all better off that he deleted his profile…
I like PDA…and sometimes cuddling… but it depends on the person. Like, I just thought about it, I cuddle with my friends profusely… and with my almost bf…but that’s his fault, I never asked him to cuddle… O.o
Ok maybe it’s me, but something that really irks me is when a SD puts the same thing down in the “describe yourself section” as he does in the “describe your ideal arrangement” section. They are two different things! You are not your arrangement! Sorry had to get that out there.
Lol Cat I doubt that would work esp if its a close friend of the family hahaha. I think at that point I’d just assume the game was up and wait to see what he’ll do.
I mean, I would love a SD who was affectionate but let’s be realistic here, I still need the allowance. Even with one of my pot SDs, who I just love until now, I can’t let myself fall for him just because he’s a great man…I have to remind myself that no allowance=no loving. It’s hard.
Haha yeah well in that case, be gone Mr. would’ve been SD.
For me PDA is great! I’m an overly affectionate person when it comes to guys I am seeing so it comes naturally. Cuddling on the other hand is only good for watching movies on the couch and after really great sex. Other than that, I’d prefer my own space.
GND: I don’t even bother with those guys. I spent way too much time getting my profile to be almost perfect, I expect the same.
Ebony: Just use my idea of the “have to run to work” thing
Yeah Cat it is hard. For me right now the perfect SD would be a guy who wants a LTR but still wants to spoil me rotten, hehe. Probably not going to happen, so I’ll take the spoiling and lose the LTR. I’d rather have money for later on, than have “love” and be broke lol.
GND I hear you! I’m tired of being in-love and broke lol. Whats love got to do with it!!
I don’t either Cat. I’ve come up with a system when checking profiles. It goes: 1) look at height 2) look at monthly budget 3) look at net income 4) scan page for copy and pasteness (in other words, the stuff I was ranting about before) and 5) read page. I do those things in order and if I find something I don’t like in one of those steps I move on.
Haha money is nice. But when you have love and money, now that is a beautiful thing. My ex boyfriend called me again today. He wants me to pay for him to fly down to come see me since he just recently lost his job. WTF??? This is why I’m done with college boys…I’ve graduated to men.
GND: I second that! My lovely pot wants a LTR and he’s metrosexual, so he wants to take me with him to the spa when he goes and for weekends “away from it all”. He hasn’t totally agreed on my allowance amount, but I’m pretty sure he will. Let’s just say he’s good for it. At lunch I told him I liked his watch and he told me he had just gotten it on his last trip, at a steal of 7500$ because the watch is worth like 10 000$ because it’s “special edition”. Don’t tell me why he told me the price…I found that tacky myself…So when we got to talking about allowance, I upped the amount I was thinking of asking! lol. I’m so bad…
OMG GND! We do lead parallel lives! My ex just called me like 30 min ago but i didnt answer and he left me a voicemail sounding like he was crying apologizing for the fight last night. Stupid! Man I am tired of college boys coz they aint men…they’re just oversexed teenagers!
Right on, GND! Of course, I used to always have random money coming from unknown places…I wonder if I made someone in the Mob REALLY happy at some point… Anywho, I used to be kind of a sugar mommy for some exes, but now I want to be the baby! Plus, I’m really not interested in any emotional investments at this time… It’s only been a little over a year since my last relationship and I wanna take a good, long break.
Haha yes I don’t like men who flaunt their wealth like that. My SD actually kept trying to hide the prices on stuff from me, lol. But I now how to add and guestimate.
Yes Ebony I agree. My ex keeps trying to trick me into going back out with him. He’s like “I’m not rich yet, but I make you happy and that’s all that matters.” Well he does make me happy, but all that drama he brings into my life cancels out any happiness he can add. So sorry little boy, you are now too young to ride this ride anymore.
“Oversexed teenagers” is so right, Ebony! Of course, my ex from my most recent relationship (ex fiance), is almost 26 and wasn’t in college when we met… But, I still know what you mean, cause the guy I’m seeing now really IS an oversexed teenager! … Did that make sense? Sometimes, I ramble…
GND: Ya, I think we have similar screening processes. I look at income first, then budget..sometimes it just doesnt add up and it’s a sign they are lying. Then, the age…what type of arrangement. No use ready his intro if he isnt looking for that same as you are.
Spa trips sounds nice though, hey maybe I can drop a hint to Superman, hehe. We could both use some massages, him more than me of course.
Geez, I don’t think alot of the guys here realize that this is a Sugar Daddy site and not a “FIND ME LOVE NOW!” site… Because, as nice as those guys may be, they might just end up with cold-hearted golddiggers that take advantage of their sweetness… Case in point: 299549 this guy. He seems sweet, but would probably get far more emotionally attached than what, I’d assume, a traditional SD/SB relationship calls for…
Yeah like this one “SD” (I say that with the greatest sarcasm) who made $75-$100k a year and was offering a monthly allowance of $20k. Made no sense and so I moved on. Plus his spelling was horrible, even though he claimed to be a business exec.
So Vic, Cat, GND y’all have SD’s? I feel so left out!
My pot said he gets facials twice a month, laser hair removal, pedis, massages…holy hell, I haven’t had a facial in 4 months! He’s more of a woman than I am! So, next time, I’m tagging along lol
Haha I have a pseudo SD. He isn’t too comfortable with that title, haha. He’s looking for a girlfriend and he’s made that quite clear time and time again.
Vic: Wow…he sounds like he cries himself to sleep!
Wow! I need to find a guy like that lol. I wanna go to the spa!
I don’t have an SD, Ebony…still searching! And, I’ve given up searching for locals, I’m just searching through the most recent logins now…
Victoria I read his profile and he seems…lonely. He says he’s married but hasn’t had much luck in the love department at 30? WTF!!! This man needs an intervention, a love intervention. Hey maybe I should start a love intervention service for lonely, desperate men instead of a matchmaking service, lol.
Lmao Vic me too though I had one pot in south beach tell me he was looking for someone closer lol. Boo hoo
I hate that lol. I’ve found though that most SDs in the States live in one of three places: New York, Florida, or California.
I call it the Sugar Daddy Triangle, lol.
Haha, I was reading a REALLY good profile of this guy in California… And then he ends it saying he only wants white girls…
lol
No, I don’t have one but I have 3 pots… one of them I’m just ga-ga for, and I’m afraid I’ll fall in love with him. The only thing missing is him saying here you go babe, and hand me the envelope of cold hard cash. The 2 other ones I don’t quite know what to make of them. One txted me and when I didnt respond because I was at aerobics class, he called! Which I told him never to do after a certain time. He wanted to meet up for coffee at 9pm…wtf?
I should move to one of the Triangle states!
Lol Vic I was reading one of a really good pot until i saw at the end he said you have to be the hottest redhead in texas lol.
guess that rules me out! And Cat whats wrong with coffee after 9p.m? I know Satrbucks si still open at that time.
Lol GND…SD triangle…
Haha Victoria that’s what I’m trying to do…Florida here I come. But then again I wanted to move there before I even knew what a sugar daddy was lol.
Wow, Cat, hope he’s not a stalker! Calling all hours of the night, *needing* to see you at 5 a.m. (to watch the sun come up together), keeping a shrine with your picture and a chunk of hair stolen from your hairbrush in his closet…
Ebony: Meeting a stranger at night? Uhh…not for me!
Yep Cat, it’s like the Bermuda triangle in which all other SDs seem to dissappear in all States within that area. All while appearing in the three points of interest (NY, CA, and FL). Lol, that’s my theory for the day.
I want to move to Italy… I should totally start looking for SDs there who might someday at least have me visit there! lol
Haha Victoria that sounds like Helga from Hey Arnold! Sorry that was way off topic…
Vic: LOL. When I got to my phone I saw he had called and left 2 msgs and like 3 txt msgs…I was pissed.
Oh Cat I totally blanked on the part where you said he was a pot. I though he was already an SD. He sounds like he was once someone’s clingy bf!
Oooh, Helga! That reminds me… I wanted to watch Daria yesterday…
Yeah Victoria good idea…you know what my SD told me (and this is why I know he’s not looking for a SB). He told me to find a SD in whatever city it is I wanted to visit and get him to fly me out to him after meeting him first of course. That way I could go visit wherever it is I wanted to go for free. Lol.
Yea, the stalkers are always the romantics…lol
See, GND, that is a fabulous idea! Free trips to Paris! lol
Oh I used to watch that show, I loved her. She was so drab and sarcastic and hilarious (at least I thought so).
Cat he sounds like he has more stalker potential than SD potential.
I told the obsessive pot that I wasn’t a prostitute. Because he just txted me saying “I want to see you tonight”. When we had talked earlier today for the first time on the phone I told him I wanted to see his pics first. He only sent one with sunglasses…how shady!(pun intended)
GND:That guy is an idiot. Block him…
Haha that’s what I told him after I almost died out laughing on the beach. Free trips to Paris sounds nice, but I think I’d rather go to London so let me find a SD in England.
Hmm very. Yeah I would leave him alone if I were you, unless he changes big time and comes up with some pics and a legitimate reason as to why he wanted to see you after hours.
I’m now just randomly emailing pots in far off states lol.
Ebony: when we talked on the phone he told me such random stuff..like him giving money to women because he didnt want to see them starve but then he would never get anything out of it, so he just gave up and tried the site and he told me about this offshore business he has to hide money…what kind of man tells ppl that? Real rich people don’t tell, it’s hush-hush…I’m kinda weirded out by him. And him being weird make my lovely metro SD look even better!
Yeah Cat the weirdness, shady shades, and asking to meet up after dark sounds sketchy.
Lol Ebony you never know, you may find someone. I’ll do that when my profile gets re-approved. Whenever that will be…
Me too, Ebony!
By the by, I mentioned before (on another blog) a guy that wanted to meet and kept asking me if I’d give him a blowjob and all that grossness… Just thought I’d share him with you SBs here: 258869, so you’ll know who NOT to contact!
How DO you block someone anyway?
He seems like a creep, Cat… Bad bad vibes there!
I think too many man want to feel like they’re big men with money bags when they’re just regular poor shmoes…it’s sad.
Vic: You know what’s worse? He’s a cutie…I feel like sending him hate mail for being an ass to you
We should all send 258869 a piece of our minds
He is a cutie… Made me all sad too…lol… But, no hate mail!
We’re much more civilized than he is, knowing that is enough for me.
Aww he is cute, what a waste of a man. Hmm I’m not sure how you block people.
Lol he’s lucky my profile is still pending so i cat send any emails but al check him out tom. Man I was just reading this one guy’s profile and it is LOOOOOOONG! Golly!
I just ran across this sexy guy’s profile in Baltimore and I wanna email him but can’t because I’m still not approved.
Want to feel better? Look at the beak on him! Tell Tucan Sam to buy himself a nose job before he offers women money for sex.
Man there is this Sexxy! SD in Dallas and he is hot. Shoot! If he wanted a relationship I would not mind!! lol
Haha I just read the funniest thing in one guy’s profile. He said “I need an all access pass to your backstage area if you know what I mean.” Wtf?!?!? lol
Can you favorite him, GND? Then email him after you’re approved?
Lol…Ebony, what’s his name, cause I just emailed a really cute SD in Dallas…it’d be funny if it were the same guy!
Lol Cat that was too funny, I think I woke my roommate up laughing so hard.
Aw, thanks, Cat! It does make me feel better! lol
LOL @ GND…not my cup of tea! lol…isn’t he just oh so subtle?
Yeah I already did favourite him Victoria…will get on that email ASAP tommorow after I wake up lol.
Lol Vic its this 35yr old attorney and has a pic of his face and another one of his torso..hhmmmm!….
GND: Lmao!!!!
Ahh I found a SD with advice to SBs on his page. Profile numero is 230544.
GND: I don’t know about you but nobody is getting a VIP to my backstage! lol
GND: *pass…and I’m glad you enjoyed that…now someone needs to say it to him!
Vic: Glad I could make it allll better
Lol..yep…same guy! Email him… then one day he’ll look at the blog and see that we were talking about him… It’d be funny!
Also, I’m considering doing a “sugarmony”… are they still doing those?
I know, especially not like that. Sorry backstage area has been roped off.
Haha! I bet he wouldn’t allow access to HIS backstage…
Hey could y’all look at this profile and tell me if you get the joke? Coz I didnt.
GND: Lol wow that guy has some nice and weird advice!
Yeah I know Ebony. I was like well someone is being very blunt and apparently somewhat spiteful today.
Victoria I think they’re still doing sugar mommies, not sure.
Omg Vic that is so funny! But isn’t he sexy though?! Lol he would feel dumb if he looked at the blogs hahaha
Oh am dumb i forgot to put the profile number for y’all to check…302317. His attempt at humour eluded me.
Nice….I liked his advice! I think I will e-mail him saying thanks for putting it out there.
I got the joke but it was corny as hell, lol. Other than that he seems nice and I think I could change his mind on the whole “only white girls” thing. I’ve done it before and I can do it again.
Lol…its kinda corny…but at least he tried…made me laugh!
would you guys go for someone who has this in their profile?
I like high heels and sexy panties. I need a good challenge sexually and mentally. She should driven and passionate. I love a good long kiss. I think kissing is very important and very erotic. I have a great sense of touch. I love to touch a womans body slowely with two or three fingers in the areas that are sensitive to touch. Your neck, belly, back of your knees and inner thighs. It will feel soooo good. Bottom line is I live well and I can would like to do the same for you w/o strings attached. Call it off when you like. I am the one that you are looking for.
No Ebony I would run from someone like that. Run very far away.
Lmao GND. You funny!
Maybe it’s just me, but the crazies/arrogant assholes/fake wannabe SDs all seem to log on late at night? Because I’m noticing a pattern in the “recent logins” section.
He’s lots of the sexxi! lol
Sugarmony’s, GND, like a testimony…only…with sugar?…
309559….this couple sounds retarded
oh…no those ended on Valentine’s Day. Or at least that’s what stephan wrote…I dunno if they’re still taking them.
Ebony: No. Maybe he only has 2-3 fingers! lol jk
Haha…that guy with the “white only” thing…thats one of the guys I’d mentioned earlier! lol
They need to go to that seekingfantasy website and join. I’m sure they can find someone there.
Aww Victoria, yeah he seems like a dorky, nice guy. I’m gonna email him and see what happens, hehe. I did that before to one guy and he magically “changed” his mind (or as he put it, made an exception for me) lol. So try him and see what happens.
The white guy is looking for a wife…simple as that and he wants a beautiful wife to make him look good…it’s what any banker would want…
Now how can you be e “true sugardaddie” and be earning less that $100,000 a year? some pple on here are just dumb
Lol…he should check out the sister site then… SM…
Aw, I wanted to do one… maybe I’ll just do a vlog on youtube… or, ooh, myspace…or I’ll just create my own website…
Go for it, GND… What he’s looking for seems pretty good to me!
That’s what I’m saying Ebony. You can’t even afford an allowance of $1k a month with less than $100k a year. *shakes head
Yeah probably so, but I’ve seen strange things happen in my lifetime. And who knows, maybe someone can change his mind. That’s it, I’m gonna make him my personal project. I’m gonna see if I can make him bend on the whole “only white girls” thing, hehe.
Ok I’m tired of hitting the search button! That SD can come look for me! lol
Well, I’ve done it… I grew up in the south, and I think I mentioned before, I was a number of guys’ “first black girl” experience…lol
Haha so was I Victoria, therefore I know it can be done. It just takes the right girl to come along and voila! No more “only white girls” for him, hehe. Although I must say I tend to only date white or European guys. Don’t really know why (well with Europeans it’s their accents, I love a nice accent).
Well I was my ex bf’s first black gal and I think thats why he won’t let me go lol.
121765 << Check him out… not really my type, but nice enough.
Hehe…when I find guys I like, but not enough, I like to offer them to others… It’s like finding shoes you just KNOW your best friend would look great in!
Cool…I pretty much only find myself attracted to white and European guys as well… And Italian…they are on such an entirely different level. Oh, and I LOVE Irishmen! My great great grandfather was Irish, so I blame him for that Irish love!
Oh I had already checked him out but am not bi so…..gosh this is exhausting! Why cant my dream SD just fall on my lap?
For me Victoria it’s Italians and Englishmen *sigh* Hence why I want to go to Italy and England so badly, check out the local scenery, hehe. But no, I love both of their cultures and heritages too, so that probably plays a big part in it as well.
I think that everyone is bi…they just don’t know it yet…hehe
Lmao Vic! Ok if your analogy rings tru…then I haven’t found the right gal yet hahaha.
I want to live out the rest of my life in Italy… I’ve always wanted a gorgeous villa in Venice where I could spend long days writing books, reading books, going on picnics, doing pottery, eating amazing food, and laughing with the locals as if I’d been there my entire life! *sigh*
Oh she’s out there, Ebony! lol
In the words of Patti Stanger “that Peter Pan needs to learn to grow up.” Sorry but your travelling with an entourage at 50 and looking for a SB although you just got married??? Looks like someone is doing nothing more than trying to chase the Playboy dream. But even Hugh Hefner travels deep with an entourage of women and not men, how frat-boy college-like of him.
I’ve always wanted to move to Italy, marry a sweet, intelligent, and highly entertaining Italian man who is older than me. Write novels while I spend my days going down to the local market to pick up food to cook for my hubby while he works from home in his office. Long sensual nights full of romance and trips to Milan for the latest Italian fashions.
Lol can y’all believe this guy?
To all my black lady friends out there, sorry, but my taste is for white ladies only, but thanks for the interest. It’s not a prejudice, just my preference.
Ooh, so many cuties…most of them across the country…
Oh my goodness freaks do come out at night! Check out this guy’s photos!! 99057…..is that his butt or a gal’s? Lol what a turn-off!!
Ebony I’m not gonna hate the man. I would never put something like that in my profile, but I have a preference for white guys. Nothing against black men, but I just usually go for Caucasians.
Well, it is a preference… I almost put that I wasn’t interested in African American men…but that’d've been rude…
Ooh, GND, we could hang out in Italy, meet up for lunches! You can discuss your hubby and I’ll discuss my lack thereof, forever wavering between happily unmarried and depressingly in need of sex… We could get two more girls and it’d be Sex in the City: Italian style!
Umm wtf Ebony? Why is his butt on display??? See I told you the crazies come out at night, lol.
Me! Me! I’ll be Charlotte coz I just wanna get married! Lol. I am not hating on the guy coz I only go for white guys myself but I think its tacky to put that on there. I mean he already said he was only interested in white gals but he doesnt have to apologize for his choice like he’s ashamed or something!
And after seeing 99057′s butt….he just turnedme off black guys for good!! lol
Yes it would be great, then we could start our own hit series and get rich off of it. No need for SDs then!
GND:LOL.
I’m writing this local guy…he seems like a sweet man who just wants to take care of a lady 163365…sweet right?
I’m still trying to figure out what was the purpose of showing the world your butt??? Was that supposed to be sexy or something, lol.
LOL…but that could be the premise, we all met on SA, and so it’s SBs in the City! Oh, I’m gonna go pitch this to my director friend right now! lol…not really…He’d throw me off the property…lol
That butt was…sick…
I’m sticking to my usual preferences… lol… And now, to search in Italy!
He sounds real sweet Cat and am loving the stetson hat.
Oh yes Cat write him! He seems so sweet and down to earth, kinda of like one of those old southern country singing superstars I see on TV.
Awww, Cat, he seems like the sweetest cowboy! Gotta love those cowboys!
I often wonder what a SD means when he says he wants a “drop-dead gorgeous gal”. Does that mean his wife will drop dead at the sight of you or what?
Oooo Victoria that sounds like a great idea. And I want to join you on your search for sexy Italians.
Aww only 15 SDs in all of Italy…hmm perhaps I will have to move there and import a SD afterwards.
Haha…Imported SD, comes with your choice of red roses or box of chocolates…
Man I’m tired of searching.
Aw, and most of them haven’t been on SA in months…
I’ll take the chocolates any day Victoria. Godiva chocolates being preferred.
Ebony I’m tired too, but the search must go on. Think of it this way (ok this is now officially my favourite analogy): you are a hebrew and life with your SD is the promised land. You shall overcome!
Lmao!! Canaan! Ok I shall strive harder…..i shall overcome if it kills me!!
LMAO…that’s my new favorite analogy!
Yes you will, and in the meantime you can just laugh at all the crazy new profiles up on SA. I know I do, lol.
Yeah it can be easily changed to fit any situation, hence why it’s my newest favourite analogy. It started out with me walking across campus with my friend when I told her that the street was the Promised Land, she was a Hebrew, and then I said “We shall overcome!” Everyone around us died out laughing, it was pretty funny.
104479….y’all check out this guy…is he looking for a wife or what? He wants someone to move with him to nowhere, Colorado?
Haha…he could actually be describing me… But, he does seem to be looking for a WIFE… to have his babehs…
But…HORSIES!
Yep he’s looking for a wife…and first of all there were a few red flags in his description. “Not looking to pay a monthly allowance” was the first one. But he said he’s looking for someone to raise his kids with??? Ok time to pass go and collect my sanity thank you.
Ebony: I laughed so hard at the drop dead comment, I had to cover my mouth cause I burst out laughing.
Ya, that Stetson man sounds sooo sweet!
As for SBs in the city, I am so Samantha lol…I don’t care about men, I can take care of myself, but if a nice, successful man wants to treat me right and shower me with gifts, I’m all for it!
Hmm looks like we have a cast going.
SBs in the City Episode 1: The night of the crazy SDs
Ok so Cat’s Samantha, I’m naive Charlotte, Vic seems pretty cynical so she’s Miranda and since GND you dealing with a crazy-won’t-go-away-ex a.k.a Mr. Big….you’ll be Carrie. We have a full cast!! Yay!!
Then I must be Carrie! Doing all the writing…perpetually single (no matter how hard I try to land a man)… and quite possibly insane….yea that’s about right! lol
Miranda works too…lol
Ok we might have to recast lol!
Lol, I can be Miranda and Victoria can be Carrie…I think her ex is crazier and more annoying than mine, lol.
Haha…my ex wants me to move in with him…
Ciao bella !
Si, si es vero !
European men molto, molto, molto sexyyyyyyyyyyyy !
Me included,
DoctorFeelGoodHenri
P.S. just having a laugh.
Hey Henri, yes European men are sexy and therefore since your opinion your included in that sexy list, lol.
Then we can have an episode called “Tucan Sam” where this Italian stud enters the room from afar, all hot with his over-waxed eyebrows and you spot him and we’re like you go girl! You go up to him and start talking and he’s like shhhh and lightly puts his finger on your pretty mouth…he asks, will you give me a BJ? And then we burst in and break his beak!
Henri is bringing sexy back, Euro-style! lol
Haha sounds good to me Cat. Let’s start filming ASAP.
Cat: LMFAO!!!!!!!! Oh my God! Tears are literally running down my cheeks…..omg you are too funny!!!!
LMFAO @ Cat…it’d be my favorite episode!
Allo, Henri! Glad to see you here! And yes, you’re sexxi just by being European… Of course, I’d find you sexxi if you weren’t thanks to your poetic genius!
Henri you speak Italian??? Haha your hotness meter has just skyrocketed.
Haha, Ebony, I think I found the guy wanting that all access pass to the backstage…lol
Haha Victoria is he like this goth rocker looking guy? Half of his stuff is in all caps?
Yep…it’s the same guy!
Haha yeah, I just “loved” his profile Victoria. Especially how he says he doesn’t get involved with groupies, might as well since that’s basically what he’s asking for in a SB.
The Italian word for Princess is Principesa
Could you imagine an Italian stud coming next to you, smelling all good and whispering in your ear “Bonjourno Principesa…” 
And then you turn around an it’s Tucan Sam!! …and we could call that episode: The revenge of Tucan Sam 
Okay…so, I usually have an age limit…buttt, when it comes to Europeans (especially British men), I tend to love them older… Like, Hugh Laurie or Jeremy Irons… so I may break my limit for men in London and the like… think that’s an okay idea?
Lol ok Cat you are about to make me cry.
Wasn’t there a cereal with a Tucan Sam??? Can’t remember the name of it…anyway Cat you are too funny. lol
I swear, if this whole SD\SB dating catches on more, a show like that could be popular…because people are intrigued by it…they judge but they really want to know how it is. It would be a guilty pleasure…like Desperate Housewives
LMAO….that would make me swoon! And then, I’d fall…cause I do that when I’m startled…lol
Hey Vic you are entitled to your own preference. I’m the same way though. Europeans are just plain sexy and seem to get better with age like a good wine.
That’s just my take on things.
Desperate Housewives is MY guilty pleasure…lol
Toucan Sam is STILL the spokesbird for the Froot Loops! That’s still my favorite cereal…lol
I have director friends, they could make it happen! lol Anyone ever hear of Zev Braun?
Don’t fall, you’re ruin your couture from Milan!
you’ll*…I’m a bit of a ‘tard when it gets late…I can’t spell…
Oh gosh, Jeremy Irons is so yummy! And Anthony Stewart Head…can’t forget him…he was a big part of my life growing up… mmmm…Giles…
Hey we should pitch this to some network execs, wonder if any are lurking out there in cyberspace and reading the blog??? If so we can have a show that’s like Sex and the City meets the Hills, it’ll be a pseudo reality TV hit and I want to be a cast member!!! lol
Lol… I’d so watch that show, even if I couldn’t be in it…lol
Vic: Nope, but maybe my friend who’s in film school would…
Oh yeah fruit loops….Zev Braun sounds vaguely familiar.
Well, start writing some emails! There are tons of directors out there! lol… Go to MTV, they’d take it! I’d say fox, but that may not be a good idea if you want a *successful* show…
*disclaimer* SORRY TO ANY FOX PRODUCERS OUT THERE! Really, I LOVED Dark Angel!
So would I Vic, so would I.
Maybe, since he seems to work with film classes and what not… That’s how we met him, anyway. We made videos for him.
Yep MTV would definitely take it lol. Especially if you said it was somewhat controversial with lots of potential for drama and gossip, they would gobble that up.
Look him up on Wiki…
He’s an awesome guy!
Oh man, I gotta get to bed! It’s 4:50AM here and my pot is picking me up at noon to hang out…I’m going to be half awake…how impressive!
I’d put the link, but I got moderated…lol
Oh wow…well, sleep well and good luck tomorrow, Cat! Had fun discussing made-up tv shows! lol
Hmm…guess I’ll be lurking till someone comes along…
*yawn* I think Joules’ insomniac behaviour is rubbing off on me…it’s 7am here. Oh well no classes today so I can sleep in all day.
Night Cat
oh and good luck on your date today with your pot SD
Argh when is my profile going to be approved so I can start writing this emails….
When did you update it?
A few hours ago, but it’s still not up
Hmm…well, it does say that it may take up to 24 hours…
yeah unfortunately, oh well I guess I’ll wait around and listen to Katy Perry till either I fall asleep or it gets re-approved.
Ooh, I love Katy Perry!
Enjoy!
Yeah my roommate has her cd and I kinda “borrowed” it the other day lol. I’m just stuck on Thinking of You right now though.
That song almost made me wanna cry for some reason…
Good Night you all! You’re awesome by the way
So are you Cat! Night!
Night Cat…yeah the video made me almost want to cry. The song though reminds me of this guy who was my best friend where it says “comparisons are easily done when you’ve had a taste of perfection.” Don’t know why since he was the farthest thing from perfect, well he was a perfect friend I guess.
I’d prefer a perfect friend over a bad bf anyday…
Haha yeah so would I Vic…ok now my music selections are getting random, now listening to Kings of Leon…speaking of bad bfs, my ex did the corniest thing and sent me the lyrics to some song. It was to that song “Whatever you do, I’ll be right here waiting for you.” Argh! The only reason I’m sticking around is cause I care about him and I know he’s going through alot right now. I hate college boys.
Bonjour les toutiefruti amies a la recherche d ‘un arrangement,
Ah oui, bien sure.
Les Europeennes sont les meilleurs reves dan la vie des SBs Americains.
Le Francais est le langue de l’amour.
Yes pretty, pretty let me elope with you to Europe.
Un avonture plein de romantisme et qualite’ de la vie.
Just walked in again and had a peek at the blog.
It don’t mean a thing, if it ain’t got that swing (Duke Ellington).
And indeed, the blog is full of swing again.
You might break the soundbarrier with 1500 posts on this one !
If I don’t have a look now and then, it would take ages to read up.
To be honest, the time spent reading the blog during the past month brought me much pleasure and insight.
There is indeed a delightful cultural difference on what goes on in your minds and myself.
I will make time to sit down, take pen and paper and write something nice on the subject of the blog. Then I will hone it till at last it is worthy of you.
Hugs to you all,
HenriLouis
P.S. you just handed me the title for my novel GUILTY PLEASURES.
Guilty Pleasures is about this twin sharing a European SD.
Lots of sugar in it and the good life, travel and subtle surprises (a rose next to your plate, when I bring up the tray for breakfast in bed), Bentleys and so on.
Jealousie flares up, hatred even “who is Sugar Daddie’s favourite”.
In the end they pace thjeir peace. They do not want to loose him and hatch a plot against him. They both get pregnant on purpose.
Now he is forced to do the honourable thing “marriage” (typical European thinking). The ultimate outcome of the test: “who is favourite” ?
In the Life of a European there are never any problems, just solutions.
He converts to Islam, marries them both on the same day and returns to SA to have multiple SBs. Of course his two wives will be out working bringing in extra money. SBs don’t come cheap, you know.
All is well that ends well !
Any comment ?
So, I’ve been sending out messages alot tonight… And, many of them are quite similar… I usually start out with a basic cut and paste message that I fill in with actual personalized things. Like: “I was just browsing and your profile caught my eye. You seem like a very interesting man. Plus, your pictures are HOT! So, here’s hoping you like what you see and that we have chemistry, because I’d love to get to know you more! Hope to hear from you soon!” can become: “I was browsing and your profile caught my attention. I must say, you’re very attractive! Your description is witty, your mentioning scary old men gave me quite a giggle! I noticed that you mentioned that you aren’t interested in ladies from far off countries, but what about other states? I live in Chicago, for now. I must admit, I always feel like I’m taking a bit of a risk emailing southern men because I’ve dealt with some really rude/prejudiced men. But, you seem like a nice enough guy, and I decided the risk is worth it! I must ask, though, what you mean by “looking to trade favors”? What sort of favors? Well, I hope to hear from you soon!”… What do you think?
Haha Henri sounds like a wonderful novel.
Vic that sounds like a good email. Especially since you mentioned something they wrote in their profile, it shows you actually have an interest in them and not just their monthly budget, lol.
Your book seems like something I’d devour, Henri! Especially if you throw in a little French! I was glad I understood that!
Those twins are SUPER lucky with you, monsieur!
Victoria,
You are really Victorious here.
First prize from me, a kiss.
HenriLouis
Could I have you also in Guilty Pleasures ?
Thanks, GND! I’d like to show that I’m not just in it for money! That’s important, but I want companionship, too!
Of course, Henri!
It’d be an honor for me, really!
Yeah same here. I’m not into just going to see a SD for sex, getting some allowance and shopping, and then leaving. That’s not an arrangement to me. At least not my ideal arrangement.
Haha I wonder when I’ll go to sleep today…hmm.
79845 <<< Dunno what the deal is here… half of me says “RED FLAGS! SUSPICIOUS! NO!”…and the other half says “oooh, money cultism…”
I’ll probably be up ALL day, because I got absolutely no homework done yesterday…
Haha you found it Victoria…the profile that looked like an ad for The Real World Meets Girls Gone Wild, lol. Yeah the heading was a red flag for me. And it’s written like an ad for a timeshare, lol.
Haha today is my lazy day, nothing to do…except be bothered with my ex and his never ending text messages.
Have to rush now to do some work.
I really am busy writing (you may have already quessed it).
Should you have some sparkling ideas, please let me hear them.
For instance, you would also like to figure in the novel, nurse, nanny, mother in law, girl next door, cleaning lady, confidente, minister, shrink,
wedding consultant, best man, bridesmaid, dog handler for Tiffany, groom for the horses, bungy, jump instructor, investment banker, Bentley chauffeur ?
Would love to hear from you.
Be back soon.
Ooh, who would I be?!
See you later, Henri!
Oooh Henri I can be the wedding consultant…the thing I wanted to be before I wanted to be a matchmaker lol.
Lol…that’d be an awesome job!
It’s weird really, I want a huge wedding…but I don’t actually want to ever get married…
Lol Vic don’t worry your just a contradiction like me, I want to get married one day but I have a huge fear of commitment haha.
See how that works? I bet there are hundreds of people like that! We should have more non-commital weddings…
Yep
Well I’m off to sleep my ex should be texting me in about 2 hours, so be back then lol
Sleep well!
Hi Everyone! I’m new to the SG/SB arrangement but have been lurking this site for a while. I have a question that I hope all of you gurus can help me with. I have a first meeting with a pot SD. What are your feelings/experiences with a guy who expects/wants a “test drive” on the first meeting? How much allowance do you expect on the first meeting? Thank you thank you! I feel like such a fledgling…
….and back to lurking….
Wish I could help, K, but all I can offer is go with your gut. I, personally, wouldn’t allow a “test drive” on the first meeting. As far as allowance, I’m not COMPLETELY sure how that works, but I’ve so far never heard about anyone getting an allowance at the first meeting…
Thanks Victoria! I appreciate any help I can get. I guess I need a mentor while looking for a SD!! Haha. I have so many questions, but I don’t want to bother you all with them, as I’m sure they’ve been asked in response to previous posts. Hmm – it would be really helpful if this blog had a FAQ section with questions/answers from readers that are often asked about SD/SB arrangements…not the site features. So – maybe I can ask this question? What do you all expect from a first meeting?
HUGS
I expect coffee! lol
Some shopping, food, and a chance to actually conversate… But, I haven’t had a first meeting yet, so… Also, it’s highly possible I’m the only one here for now… Though, I’m sure others will be here soon!
Hey there, HAHSB… I should find a way to shorten that…
Good morning everyone – too many new folks to keep up with! When I went to bed last night there were SIX comments under this topic – My, we have been busy!!
Morning, Suthrn!
oh…
ma god…
I just learnt there’s 10,000 SB profiles…(in the US)
wow…
…and…only… 1000 SD profiles…(in the US)
wow…so that’s 10 SBs to every SD… 1000 SDs can aspire to be like the Hef!
Good Morning Suthrn and everyone-Looks like there was a all-niter here….Just waking up:)
Good morning, Gail! How are you?
I’ll just ask those that were up all night – were there any pertinent discussions such that I need to go back and read the entire blog from the top or am I ok just starting right here, right now??
I’m…not sure… Don’t THINK so, but there were a few newbies asking for advice that I don’t think I’m totally qualified to offer…
Mostly, though, we discussed SDs and a tv show….that doesn’t exist…
YET
Morning Victoria:) You need rest sweetie…you don’t need wrinkles:) I wish you a great day!
Suthurn. I skimmed it, they organized a new cast of Sex and the City:)
(smile)
Oh…and I have a message from Lisa that I will post when I get back from volunteering this morning:)
Ok…need my caffeine fix and I am off:)
I’ve figured out how to add the blog to my RSS Reader, so now, I’m alerted whenever there’s a new blog! Yay!
Annnnndddd…. back to lurking…
Gooood morning Family! There are so many members blogging now it is near impossible to catch up on everything.
I did see a post from Fellow re: spelling. Please note what I said was a general statement, as are most on these posts. Spelling, in general, typically shows a SB is educated and articulate and not just a piece of arm candy.
As for the Topic: How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
To each his own, I Judge no one. It certainly depends on the parameters set by the parties and how often you get to spend time together. I happen to know somebody only able to meet once every 6 weeks….well, from an intimacy standpoint, that will not cut it for me. So each situation is unique.
Ever wanted to show off your sugar? Why/why not? My sugar, as in my gifts? No. I do not feel as though Sugar should define a person only enhance who they already are.
What qualities of a sugar daddy or sugar baby make you proud of them?
Proud of them? I don’t think for me it’s being proud of somebody but more of having a profound respect. They’ve already achieved greatness and that right there is a reason to be proud but respect goes much further. It’s simple really, show me the same level of respect you would expect in return ~ in all regards.
Morning, Nico! How are you?
Southern ~ Gail ~ Victoria ~ GOOOOD morning. Since I quit working in the legal field I have not had to read much so, the thought of having to read through last night’s blogging scared me *winks* Thank you for the summary and *HUGS* to you all.
Gail, thanks for the Bloggers Cliff Notes!
That Sex in the City thing would be awesome…lol
*hugs* Nico!
Good morning everyone!!
Good morning Tony
Was anybody ever able to give you profile feedback?
Good morning, Tony!
Good morning sugars.
SE – I share your sentiments. When I checked last night, there were only four comments. It’s becoming way too time consuming to keep up lol.
yes i solved it, i’m going to paste it on here for everyone to read. Did u see my profile? or my myspace?
Summary:
Great Company , Laughter and Fun
Description:
I enjoy cooking at home or dining out, conditioning, jogging, cycling, partying, comedy, sports events, movies, reading, love fireplaces, boating, animals, motorcycling, traveling, spending time in, long walks, playing volleyball, tennis and camping. I’m in transition and would enjoy someone lovely and caring to help me through the tough times until i get back on my feet. Seeking a mutual beneficial relationship.
Arrangement I am Seeking
I’m Seeking:
Sugar Mommy
I Expect
Open – Amount Negotiable
Description:
I want to be there to complement your life style. I am very discreet and respectful. I’m seeking a financially secure lady that enjoys and appreciates a male gentleman companion while traveling, attending shows or events, upscale dinners, or simply relaxing at home. I’m completely open to travel, meeting arrangements and financial assistance.
Good morning, CSB!
Top ‘o the morning to you CSB and Tony!
good morning SE
OK Tony, I am not a SM and can’t give you a woman’s perspective on this, so i will ask the women – d you think Tony should re-word or eliminate the statement “I’m in transition and would enjoy someone lovely and caring to help me through the tough times until i get back on my feet.” Seems like is obvious since he is on here as a SB and also, from a woman’s perspective, it may sound a little too superficial?? Just thinking out loud here – help me out ladies!
How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
I’m open to having more than one SD at a time but only if it can juggle them with school and work. Since the arrangement is NSA, I won’t mind if my SD had more than one SBs.
Ever wanted to show off your sugar? Why/why not?
Hmmm…I only have pot SDs right now but I’d rather keep my SD life as private as possible.
What qualities of a sugar daddy or sugar baby make you proud of them?
Well-travelled, cultured, intelligence, passionate.
That and the statement about how he’s seeking a mutually beneficial relationship… It seems a tad redundant considering, as you said, it’s obvious since he’s on SA as a baby. That’s my opinion on it…
Oh, intelligence is so important, CSB!
Mornin’, sugar fans.
He’sAHotSB: where have you been, man?
Yah, nice numbers…cue “Under Pressure”
I don’t have a problem with the statement but it should be under the section “Arrangement I’m seeking.”
Hey there, raine!
“Under Pressure”?
I personally like the mutually beneficial relationship statement….I have it in my profile. I keep it in there because although the site does cater to the SD/SB relationship, I do find there are people that are seeking the love of their life. This helps eliminate that confusion.
As for the ‘transition’ part, I would have to agree with SE and, only one typo that I caught……”Compliment”
That is true… I recently had a pot tell me he was looking or a “legitimate” relationship… Maybe I should clarify as well… hmm…
I like the mutually beneficial statement simply because there are many SBs that are not really seeking that and so stating it indicates that you’re at least familiar with the term and hopefully the concept as opposed to a rather one-sided arrangement.
Tony: co-signing with Victoria/csb. Are your photos up?
~I would not rule out having more than one SD; it’s called having a backup plan. If my SD(s) had other SBs, not a huge deal, but as others have stated, I don’t wish to know about or even meet them.
~Although I’ve yet to have a SD, all signs point to no: my civilian and sugar lives are mutually exclusive.
~The qualities of my SD – respect for self/others, positive attitude, tenacity, resilience, and others previously mentioned – won’t make me proud, per se, but rather enhance my respect/admiration for them. [hope that made sense.]
This is interesting.. I am glad something else has been done with this site.
I like the idea of a mutually beneficial relationship, to each his own. At the same time, what I don’t know won’t hurt me..
Made perfect sense, raine.
Hi, Ally!
^Vic: Queen & David Bowie. [perhaps I must clarify as well.]
Ohhhhh…. That reminds me… I want to listen to some music… and now “Somebody to Love” is in my head…
Oh, good; the cold’s finally breaking and thus my thinking isn’t as clouded.
Hi, Ally; are you new as well, or is your search still a work in progress [perhaps -egad!- both?]?
Glad your cold’s breaking, raine! Tea helps, too!
Hello all — been very busy these days and not much time for blogging. Caught my first bass of the year in Orlando yesterday. Also caught a tilappia (not sure I spelled that right) wasn’t quite sure what it was at first…. obviously my first time fresh water fishing in Florida. Not a whole lot of news on the sugar front — have a possible in Texas but not sure that is going to work out.
To answer the question — I am a one SB at a time kind of guy — it takes too much time and emotional energy to have more than one, but if you have the time and energy for more than one sugar at a time, more power to you!
Woo! Bass! The Largemouth Bass is the state fish of MS… Tilapia is DELICIOUS! And, Hi there NC!
NC, good to see you stranger! Yes, the old Tilapia – for those in the environmental sciences, it’s considered an “indicator species” for pollution in the environment because it grows rather quickly, has a short life-span and eats vegetation. They are quite tasty too! Did you catch any sheephead or striped bass?? Gotta watch those teeth!
Victoria, the large mouth bass may be the state fish of MS, but the catfish should be! lol
I agree with that… there are catfish EVERYWHERE…and it’s absolutely delicious, as well!
I was fishing a small lake on the developer’s property we are working on. We didn’t catch any sheephead or striped bass (not sure they are in there). They actually put the tilapia in the pond to control vegetation, cause as you mentioned they are vegans — I actually snagged it on my hook when I dragging a plastic lizard along the bottom trying to catch bass. It weighed about six pounds, but I threw it back.
I love to bass fish — there are some monster bass in this pond, but I only caught one
maybe next time I go down I will snag the big one!
*HUGS* NC ~ good to see you back
Hugs Nico — almost was late on Wednesday morning lol
Good morning all!
Just popping in for a sugar hug before work….got a bit of the PMS blues today
I thought you were….had no idea it had gone on so long…..sounds like it was still a productive trip…even if you did part of the fishing with your eyes closed and snoring *winks*
TMI Suzie but *gives hugs*
Yeah I know..sorry! But thanks for the hug, feel much better now
Off to work for me then…chin up! The clouds are temporary and all will be wonderful again tomorrow. Have a great day everyone.
*hugs* bye, SQ!
Hi again, folks.
Hoooo boy. These SD profiles…the dozen or so I’ve just browsed are hurting my feelings, man.
Why, raine?
The typos, the blatant disregard for sentence structure, neglect of proper nouns…gadzooks! I can understand if you were in the blog pulling this (a la Fellow), but the actual profile?! Come on gentlemen! You want all this “flawless”, but I’m using an imaginary red pen to figure out what kind?!
£end rant.
Ooh, that I totally understand! It hurts my eyes/heart/soul! I’m a grammar nerd (sometimes), and those profiles are instant turn-offs.
^I am becoming the change I want to see. I will be writing a revised version of my profile to reflect same, thereby producing an influx of quality SDs for all as well as myself. [okay, feeling a little better now.]
Good!
Lather, rinse, repeat. Yeesh. *lol*
It’s so quiet this morning…
i’m here everyone….waitin on the cable people to upgarde my cable and gimme some high-speed i-net!
how’s everyone doin?
NCGent-Did you go skiing? I thought you were meeting a new SB to go skiing? I need to catch up. Did I miss that update?
Morning All! Welcome to the 24 hour blog. Yea I choose to skim last nights posts. Far too many. Not too sure but it looked like a lot of profile bashing.
sorry, upgrade
just woke up
had a really great time last night with my “this is not a date” date last night lol
Yay! People! Glad your non-date date went well, Joules!
Not bashing…or not too much… Or I don’t remember…we were just pointing out things that were questionable/interesting/etc…
Hi OC — good to see you. No, you didn’t miss an update… but here it goes…
I was supposed to meet a new pot SB from Texas, but when I landed in Denver, I had a text message that said, “sorry I am not going to be able to make it. I got scared about meeting someone for the first time away from my town.” I tried to call her but she didn’t answer so I sent her a text message that said I was bummed but that I understood but wish she would have called me to tell me.
I ended up meeting with someone in my hotel bar, and went skiing and dinner with her, so it was still a fun trip.
When I was at the airport the next day, I called the pot SB and she picked up this time. I told her again I was bummed but that I understood and I had no hard feelings. She said that she was about to board the plane and had a panic attack and just couldn’t get on. They had to get her bag off the plane. She apologized profusely and said she still wanted to meet me. I was a little surprised that happened because we had talked for hours on the phone and were extremely comfortable with each other. She wants me to come visit her in her home town for a first meeting, and I likely will soon.
Sorry you asked yet??? lol
Hey Everyone, just woke up from a mini power nap. Wow Victoria you’re still up, lol. Any luck in the SD department…and my profile finally got re-approved so I can send out emails now.
Haha I emailed that guy from last night (Mr. white girls only) and sure enough he emailed me back asking for “fun, sexy pictures”. Lol, I don’t think so…time to move on.
Bonsoir!
Wow, took me a while to read through all the posts! How is everybody tonight?
Hey SweetE, oh nice blog pic…you have that sexy, mysterious model like European thing going on. Doing good though, how are you?
Well, I woke up a little after midnight, so I’m not sleepy yet! (Slept forever yesterday…didn’t even get any homework/studying done…) That guy’s….interesting, GND…lol
Allo, SweetE, how are ya? I’mmmm…pretty good!
How’d you sleep GND?
Your pics are adorable, btw, GND!
I slept good Vic…yeah I emailed him back saying that I had pictures on my profile already and for him to tell me about himself. Then he said “do as I ask, send the pictures.” Haha, I don’t think so…not to mention he had like 4 different young women on his myspace page that he sent me a link to, all of them “modeling” for him. Umm no thank you.
Aww thanks Victoria, so are yours. I hate taking pictures.
GND – Thanks! I’m ok thanks, feeling slightly miserable today for some reason though… i’m not sure why. Very out of character for me!! LOL
Hi Victoria!!
Hola chicas
Just checking and spreading some sugar hehehe.
Aww SweetE hope you feel better…maybe it’s the weather. That can have an effect on your mood.
Aw, I hope you feel better, SweetE!
Howdy, CSB!
You don’t like taking pictures, GND? Aw…I love it! I’m a bit of a camera-whore! lol
Haha nope, I don’t think I’m very photogenic….I take like 50 pictures with my camera and get about 10 at the most out of them, lol. I guess I’m really picky and a bit of a perfectionist when it comes to taking pics.
Ohh, I’m a bit of a narcissist, so most of the pictures I take, I’m all like “oooh, that’s cute!…that’s my favorite!…no THAT’S my favorite!… Oooh, I’m gonna make a collage of my face!”
With some 200.000 SBs on the site, there must be thousands lurking in cyberpace following the posts on the blog. For many I will have become a familiar figure over the past month.
Now this is to all of you out there.
Let us have some background music to get in the mood. It is the Dave Brubeck quartet “some day my SugarPrince will come”.
My theme for this contribution is Cindarella.
In essence the SA concept is a modern version of the Cindarella fairytale.
Some day your Prince will come and take you to Sugarland.
Then all your worries will be over and you will live this wonderful life. It is not only about heels and designer bags and hotels and dinners.
No it is esentially the quest for somebody who is genuinely interested in you and who thinks the world of you and let you take down that mask and lean on him for comfort against the rigours of life. That is SugarCindarella.
Every time that I receive a mail from one of you, I stand in awe.
It takes a lot of courage to go up to a stranger and win him for you.
Now here were two lovely girls who wrote me. I was deeply moved.
It is a sign of trust. Gradually we came to know each other.
Not for all the riches in the world, had I the dream that it would happen to me. Absolutely stunning girls who had talked it over and after long deliberation had chosen me. Yes, miracles are possible !
I take it very seriously as I look upon myself as a kind man.
How would you feel about having more than one SB ?
BEWILDERED is my reaction.
Ever wanted to show off your sugars ?
I do feel uncomfortable about “show off”, as if SBs are a trophee.
Of course I would love to take them out and enjoy the pleasure of their company. No doubt about it. And if we came across an acquaintance of mine, I would introduce them. I am always relaxed in any situation.
What qualities of my SBs make me proud of them. Well their courage and their grace and intelligence and especially their drive to pursue their ideals in life. And last but not least the way they treat me with humour and a twinkle in their eyes, both flirting and make me feel like a Prince.
Yes I feel grand with my two Cindarellas and they know.
Hope I touched your heart,
HenriLouis
Haha…I second hating photos. I take new ones maybe 3 times a year. That’s at Christmas, Thanksgiving and my birthday. Sometimes I’m forced into the occasional ones at a club or wedding. I’m soooo not photogenic.
Aww Henri, yeah I think the Sugar concept is like a modern day Cinderella story. The young woman (Cinderella) searches for her dream SD (prince) to sweep her off her feet and treat her like a princess. Now where’s my dream SD, lol.
And all the media and everyone else who puts SDs and SBs in a bad light are the evil, jealous stepsisters. hehe
Right on about those jealous stepsisters!
I want my SDPrince Charming! :’-(
Must be patient…
Yep, patience is key…but waiting still sucks.
Hi again, sugar fans. Forgive my abrupt exits, but this site sometimes eats up my BB’s memory.
Uh…yeah, the fairy tail angle. Henri, you make it very hard to put on the cynic’s robe! (haha)
I did mark a few favorites, so that’s a start, right? I’ll browse again later on. Not a big fan of taking pics, either, but they’re mandatory for this! [arrrgh, so getting agitated now]
But taking pictures is sooo fun! lol
Ooh, I have a photo shoot next weekend, yay!
*tale. [Dang, how'd I do that? Yeah, I'm a wee po'ed.]
Cool Victoria, tell us how it goes.
^May have been Freudian, actually, having read some of those profiles earlier. [Boy, imagine if I had a laptop...]
I will, GND! Hopefully it goes very well and I’ll be replacing at least one of my pictures with a professional one!
Hello sb’s and friends, so what should i change about my profile? there was so many opinions that i’m confused
Yep Vic, that would be nice. Maybe I should do a photo shoot…they do look like fun, lol.
Tony find the common denominator on all the opinions and change those things.
lol there were none!! and yes my pics r up but for some odd reason no one can see my profile, that’s why i gave my myspace page to everyone. Has stephen been on here today??
Tony ~ what is most important is that your profile best represents YOU…it’s like having somebody else write a love letter to your girl on your behalf. Make it sound like you and BEST communicate what you’re looking for.
The recommendations as you may have noticed went back and forth between opinions and not because anything clearly stood out as bad or wrong.
Hi, gnd! Yes, Victoria, you must tell!
Anyone else in here?
Yes, Tony, what Nico said [hi.] and may I implore you to relax? You’re making me look zen right now.
uhhh testing testing! i think i have HIGHSPEED NOW!!!
Yay Zenness!
Yay! Hi Joules!
HOLY CRAP!!! that was sooooooooo super-fast! now i can post post post… you all are gonna hate me! lol
here come all my replies i’ve been typing out since i’ve been waiting on the cable guy to finish lol……….
Thank u for the input
How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
I fully plan on having several! I honestly don’t think that I would be able to find JUST ONE SD that could (or would) get me the monthly allowance I need. I have a lot of business, personal and school needs (financially). More often than not, you see SD profiles with a limit of 1-3k per month for allowance. More often than not, the SDs that say they can spend more than that fall into the lower bracket of ‘high income’ so you know they don’t know what they’re talking about. Mainly, I need all the help I can get; as soon as I can get it. I simply can NOT AFFORD to wait around to find that ONE SD that is capable of offering me the allowance that I need. If I ever find that ONE, then I will be more than happy to to only have one SD as juggling SDs CAN be a challange; especially when you also have non-SD relationships to juggle.
Ever wanted to show off your sugar? Why/why not?
I understand discression to its fullest! I refer to my current SD is my ‘business investor’. I have a lot to juggle in life (including non-SD relationships and very closed-minded friends/family), therefor a lot to lose in life if I went around ‘showing off’ my SD.
What qualities of a sugar daddy or sugar baby make you proud of them?
BEING LEGIT! (aka follow-through)
I would be proud of any SD as long as he can ‘put his money where his mouth is’. I’m looking for a NSA SD/SB arrangement with a monthly allowance; NOT a LTR where I keep having to bring up via email exactly what it is that I want/need and wait around for a response and then figure out exactly how it is that i’m supposed to get what i need/want (will HE order it, will he send me the money, will i have to keep asking?!). I’m not in these type of arrangements to friggin be beggin for my stuff!
As for Jamisen’s (very good!) extention to the topic’s question:
do you ever think about the chance that you see him randomly on the street? No as he lives 3-4 hours away (depending on which direction of travel because of the time zone lol). I DO, however get concerned about me running into someone i know when my SD is HERE visiting me
How would you react? If i ran into someone i know while my SD was here visiting me, i would keep it short and sweet, say hello to the person i knew and politely (AND QUICKLY) excuse myself from their presence lol
What if it were discreet (bc of marriage or his or your preferences, etc)? SHIT HAPPENS! lol what are you gonna do??!! laugh it off in the end!
damn, commented too quickly! lol
it told me to slow down
LMFAO!!!!
GND & Vic, thanks for your comfort yesterday. It was really tough getting that email from her in regards to my husband. The wierd part though is that I’d actually recently come across some old emails I sent to her (telling her to back off my husband lol) and actually considered getting in touch with her to tell her what happened but there is still too much resentment there as it took me a while to ‘convince’ her that my husband was not her b/f lol . Anyways, I guess the thing that caught me so off-guard is that supposedly she loved my husband *rolls eyes* but yet she couldn’t even spell his name right!!! How disrespectful!!!
My friend DID come over last night (from like 10pm – 2am) and things went VERY well. All there was to do was just hang out in my room, listen to music and talk. I have a very boring life when I’m not in front of the computer lol He was really cool with it all though and insists he will be coming back to see me again soon *shrug* Eh, there’s a lot more to it than that but, ya, we will just see where it goes from here. my friend was just such a ‘life line’ for me when we first became friends and he’s just such an inspiration (as he’s been through A LOT more than I have and is headed down the right road still in life). anywho, he may be broke but he’s in school and works and wants more school in the near future; so he’ll be able to make some money one day lol
Kat, i’m definately already frustrated with my SD as you can tell in my blog topic response ^above ^. i don’t forsee it working out very long though
Damn Joules you’re fast
Yes indeed, Joules, you ARE fast! Topic response: right on! *raising fist*
woohoo!!
oh ya, and hey everyone!!!
hahaha and i’m not THAT fast; just typed all of that out while i was waiting on the cable guy to do his magic lol
Glad things went well last night!
Oh joy…arguing with my ex fiance about my own sex life…fun…
Hey Joules, glad to hear your friend helped you feel better last night. We missed you on the blog…it was a very interesting night, lol.
How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
I don’t think I need more than one unless I wasn’t getting enough money to buy Christian Louboutins every other week.But seriously it depends on the situation I am in at the time.
Great to see you bouncing back harder than ever!
Haha Vic, yes sounds like loads of fun.
Hey Lauren, don’t think I’ve seen you on the blog before. Welcome.
GND, ya, i noticed several people askin about me last night. i was busy chillen with my guy friend. looks like it was busy in here!
Welcome, Lauren! Hiiiii!
We created a tv show, Joules! lol
Yep it’s called SB’s in the City, haha. Wanna join the cast?
Vic, uh, whaa–?
Hi, Lauren! These much-ballyhooed Louboutins you all speak of…they look as painful as they cost. [I'm a 10, so what do I know?]
It’s set in Italy! lol… Read some of the posts from last night! It was creative and fun! lol
Yep, especially Cat’s idea for episode “Tucan Sam” lol.
I want some Louboutins and raine you are a 10, a perfect 10.
so I am having trouble here girls, I am getting hungry waiting for one of these guys to work out for me, does this ever really happen?
Yeah lovey it does…I think OCSugar and SuthrnExec are proof of that.
And I found a SD, too bad he wants more of a girlfriend than a SB. 
Still a great guy nonetheless.
Yea, I found a great guy, but he wanted a gf, too…future wife…
yeah Iam getting really frustrated. I am starting to think there are only weirdos and fakes on this site
Haha, well it takes time lovey. Its not like you sign up and presto! You get a SD. Gotta have patience.
Oh my goodness Vic and GND do you guys not sleep?? Lol I just woke up.
its been months
How would you feel about having more than one sugar daddy or sugar baby at a time?
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I have currently have three SDs and it’s working out quite nicely for all of us (but especially for me
Ever wanted to show off your sugar? Why/why not?
While my SDs are handsome, charming, and so much more, they certainly aren’t some prized livestock I want to “show off” to the world. When we dress up and look our best, especially to go out, we do it for ourselves and each other. When you look great, you feel great – simple. And I always feel marvelous.
What qualities of a sugar daddy or sugar baby make you proud of them?
Honesty, a kind heart, and the ability to look incredible in a tailored suit, ha.
I slept yesterday, Ebony… looooong time…. lol
HI MINA!
Lovey: Many here on SA have found matches. My advice is stay positive, present yourself as a total package (Manners, class, life/career/school goals). Just as much as you want to admire an SD for his hard work and achievements, I am sure they find those same qualities in an SB *uber* attractive! Many SB’s have stated this very important fact… Sugar Dating is not all about the $$$. There are many factors to consider. If an SD talked non stop about sex and sex acts and nothing more you would be turned off. Well, SD’s are also turned off by SB’s who only have $ on their mind. No one person wants to be made to feel they are an ATM. Turn the situation around and think of it from the SD perspective.
Sugar Dating is an Art form. It takes time and effort to make a wonderful creation. Read the really old blogs, you will learn far more then you ever imagined.
well shyt, i just emailed all the things i needed to all of my clients in just a couple minutes lol….nothin to do right now (ya rite! lol)
time to start uploading a TON of pics to myspace and all lol
Yay Myspace! Anyone wanna add me?
email: demonaluv@yahoo.com <<<search on myspace
thanks ocsugarbaby
Lol Ebony I slept some this morning, then my roommate’s loud phone woke me up.
Since my profile’s up now am emailing all the ones I favourited last night. Lol do y’all remember mr. Bigbutt? Lmao!!
lmao, noooo ebony…don’t tell me your emailing him??? That had me on the verge of tears last night, lol.
NC Gent: RE: Your ski trip with Texas SB. I can totally understand how she may have felt. I am sure it was nothing you did, you are so understanding as to the comfort and feelings of an SB. Cool that you are willing to continue on and make your first visit a home town visit.
Awwwww, gurlnextdoor, thank you! *bear hug* I needed that!
Hi lovey! The key word here is PATIENCE. You’re going to sort through a lot of ‘notties [fakes/flakes/plain ole fools]‘ before reaching the ‘hottie [your dream SD]‘. *Hope that makes sense! I’ll let the vets take it from here…
LMAO….Ebony, if you email him I will CRYYY
Ewww! GND ofcourse not. I just remembered him. I just had a SD respond to my email and tell me I was darn near perfect….except geographically. I have never felt better after a rejection lol!!
These are desperate times Victoria….desperate times! Lol!
Aww your welcome raine.
And yeah Ebony I’m with Vic on this one, if you email him you have to tell us if he replies, lol. And ask why he has a pic of his butt on his profile.
Aw, Ebony, that’d make me smile, too!
Oh ok Ebony, just making sure, lol….aww yeah it sucks when distance is a problem. That’s happened to me a few times.
Ebony: You could say with that SD out goes the class in comes the A$$. LOL
LOL @ OC… very nice.
Hi guys! Im new. Your chats are brilliant ive just had a quick read thru.
Im ria, nice to meet you all !!!!!!!!
yes raine it makes sense, its just hard waiting, I know I am a total package but they just dont get it yet.
^Ebony, are you emailing the one who was rhymes-with-snitchin’ about the ungrateful ex who’d blown his $$ on designer handbags & such in the profile-and wearing shades to boot?! Oh man, classic! XD
Yay for crying over SB stuff…joy
wow… crying over ex fiance BS* …I have no idea why I typed that…^^^
Very nicely put OC!
Welcome to the blog Ria.
Hi, Ria! Welcome! Everyone here is great to me!
Welcome Ria. Omg Raine I am not emailing him lol….but his butt was so offputting and i think its the same one who was bitching about his ex lol.
amazing!
I only joined yesterday.
Its like a whole new world in here!
I just had a guy tell me I needed to convince him of why he should give me money! what? does he know what site he is on? does he not get the whole SD/SB thing? I said thanks anyway, good luck
a guy put his butt on his page? wtf?
Victoria: Contrary to popular belief I am pretty funny…
Ria! Welcome to the blog. Pull up a chair and stay a while.
Lovey: My mom gave me a tidbit of very good advice years ago. You can make a man the simplist meal for dinner (standard meat and Potatoes), it may be what he loves, but the presentation is what will what will have him asking for more. Basic marketing is the key, presentation of that package and follow thru. This is not typical dating.
Yeah lovey, lol…omg you gotta see it. And the weird thing he doesn’t even explain why it’s there??? wtf???
Goodness Lovey that was an idiot. As for the butt you need to see it! If you scroll up to late last night i put his number on there. Its disgusting!
thats great! maybe I should put my butt on my page (;
Hi, ria! Welcome to the blog!
. How goes your search thus far?
*Don’t worry, lovey, we’re all drillin’ for the sugared oil, lol. It works if you work it! Somebody will get it.
I believe you’re funny, OC…there’s no doubt!
Maybe he thought it was a great looking ass, just as women put up scantaily clad photos of themselves.
So guys im pretty new at this, so any advice would be gold dust to me!
Whats the oldest guy you’ve dated? do you get nervous before you meet them for the first time…
im no sure how id feel, ive never been in the situation.
Idk I don’t think a huge butt on a man is sexy….not at all!!
searching going ok, ive only been on since yesterday! ive been looking through some hilarious profiles though
im in the UK so i dont think i get as big of a pick as you guys! x
Huge butts on men AREN’T sexy… it’s weird…
And I like nice butts!
Ria: These are questions you need to ask yourself. What age range would make YOU comfortable, what YOU are looking for in an SD/SB relationship. We can not answer these for you. You need to give it some thought. Write your profile and if you want to have me take a look at it let me know.
Ria – There’s tons of great advice on the blog, just browse through the topics and you’re surely to find useful information.
One of my SD’s in his mid 50′s. When it came to dating I had it in my head that I wouldn’t date anyone older than mid 30′s but this type of dating has really changed my perspective on things. Infact, he is in MUCH better shape than a lot of men I have come across.
There’s a difference between being nervous before a meeting and being anxious. If you’re nervous, then you probably have doubts about the situation/him and shouldn’t go along with it. A lot of women on here question whether to meet a guy after a few brief emails/fly to him/etc, obviously not the best choice – trust your gut! If you’re anxious and giddy to meet someone, that’s a good start
Ria – Don’t discount someone because of their location. They have planes for that, after all
My most recent SD is based in Europe and we manage to get together every two/three weeks!
Mina: So true, age is something that depends on the person. It is actually just a number. How he or she really acts/looks is also my determining factor. Flexibility of set ranges.
However I do have a ick factor when it comes to too old.
sweet thanks!
Im by no means shy, just havnt really spoken to anyone about it, its good to get others opinions.
I will def think it all through. cheers girlies.
If the person looks sooo much older than myself and it would be obvious that we are not father daughter. lol
Mina- serious, thats amazing. good point. i have so much to learn right!
who’s talking about my butt?
OC – Oh yes, there are certain lines that neednt be crossed when it comes to age, lol.
Ria – You’ll pick up a lot of things along the way, and guys & gals on the blog have great information and tips to share too
Hello everybody! How’s everybody mood today?
Is anyone watching Dr phil on tv right now?
A classic case of “…and the purpose is what, exactly?” the credibility? Is just gone.
*It looks to me, ladies, like our work is cut out for us. [Scroll up a few notches or so, and you'll know where my frustration lies.] the income/net worth/budget discrepancies? Not gonna take it there right now…
Packing for a weekend trip! How are you, Jasmine?
Ohh ria, I have a guy whose profile you should check out. He’s a sweetheart.
Hi hi Jasmine! How’s kicks?
Tony:Does the Dr Phil show have anything to do with Sugar Dating? lol
yes its about millionaire match maker
Lol that’s not Sugar Dating, thats marriage.
Hey everyone!!
I’m a new Sb on here…..I have been reading this blog for a while, and decided to finally say HI. Im 22 in Toronto….enjoying life! I meeting a pot SD tomorrow for lunch, and I am nervous!
oh my god!!! for real!!! I gotta watch that!!!!
Hi 214597! How’s it goin?
it was about both so check it out.
Hey…umm 214597 you need a nickname lol.
can you watch it online??? I think it’s went off around here.
I refuse to watch Dr. Phil…grrrr
Hi 214597, u need a nic name
Hi Jasmine! My mood’s a tad off, but always feel better coming in here; thus not too shabby. Yourself?
Hullo, Tony; nope, just missed him.
ahahha ya I just realized that!! lol Hi girls!!
GND are u east coast
yeah Tony I am.
Hey a SD I emailed last night just sent me his ## and asked me when we could meet….should I call him? Lol am nervous
Carrielu is such a cute name!
Call him, go for it, Ebony!
214597: Maybe something to do with Music? Like HighNote or Sonota
Hello,
My pigeon is doing ok. Still trying to hit on me. If I let him out, he will sit on the back of my chair and pick at the spagetti straps on my camisole. He is named after his dad, Percy. That just sounds like a pigeon name to me, lol
i’m not sure when u can see it again check on line GND, I like the name carrielu it’s cute
Is Patti Stanger on there??? I get her book tommorow.
Thanks Victoria…..Victoria is actually the city where I was born in BC
What do ppl think about the age of your SD?
I think that age is just a number…..but the pot SD that I am meeting tomorrow is quite a bit older than me….not too sure how I feel about it.
Personality matters more I think though.
Vic…..walk me thru this…what exactly do I say? Lol
yes she was
Call him Ebony…hey Lisa’s Spirit…and welcome to the blog Carrielu
LISA’s SPIRIT!! Good to see you!
Carrielu most SDs are alot older than their SBs, so it’s no biggie. As long as you feel comfortable with him it’ll be ok.
Hi Lisa’s Spirit!
Ebony…first, say hi…then…”so tell me about yourself”…then, build up from there!
That’s what I’d do…
Victoria is a GREAT name for a city, Carrielu!
GND: cool ok……I guess I am just nervous!!! I have never met a pot sd before…yikes! **deep breath** lol
I’m sure I’ll be fine though…..haha
has anyone ran into the issue, of what you say to your friends/family?
Carrielu just say your going on a date or going out with a friend. That’s what I always say.
good idea gnd…..I’m going to try and get some much needed hmwk done
thanks for the advice,…..and i’ll let you all know how it goes !!
ttyl
oxoxoxo
Carrielu,
My family does not know. My daughter does now. I had to answer to her because I was flying off during the entire summer. She was surprised but understood it was Mommys time to enjoy her life. I tell her where I am going and when I will be back. She calls me to check in.
My Sugar family knows:) and they have my phone number to call me at all times. If I am going to meet someone new, I have them call me when we are out. I answer to let them know I am okay, and to let him know that someone knows where I am and who I am with.
For those that have been on the blog awhile… we all agree Saftey is FIRST!!!!
Break out he WEJI board we have made contact with Lisa! Whoohoo
I like to think that it was because I was channeling thru Percy the pigeon
lol…great channeling, OC!
3/18/09
I’m getting ready to go to bed as I am very tired from unloaded the truck today and stocking all that stuff. Have a good night and say hi to OC and the others.
OC, it had to have been you – her spirit called you by name! Nice job!
Night Lisa’s Spirit…ooo can you channel the spirit of some SDs for me OCSugar. Tell them to check out my profile.
aw you guys are so much fun! It took a while to read up on these but I certainly enjoyed it!
Joules: I’m sorry to hear about the frustration with the current SD. I guess the bright side of that is that it’s one down turning the ration a little bit more in your favor (hey, I tried. lol)
Mina: I love every bit of your advice, especially since you’re dubbed the “SB extraordinaire.” But it’s all helpful.
Gail: That’s a great idea about having someone call you during the first meeting with the SD. Is this the general word of advice? Is there anything else that’s small yet important to keep in mind as to the safety 1st-meeting? (besides meeting in a well populated place, of course)
Victoria: Am I going to have to come over and read you a bedtime story to get you to get some rest?
haha GND. no word back from any of the florida sd’s yet?
Nope Kat, none.
But it’s all good, my current “friend” is in Florida so I’m in no rush. 
oh, that’s true. so you have a haven no matter, which is good news. And hopefully even employment with MM!
Wooo Lisa’s Spirit!!
aw drats. that was a short lived time on here. time for dinner, but you can count on me being back later!
p.s. GND I’m totally turning to you when I need advice about whether or not certain things in a profile or message are red flags!!
and I’ll leave a question for whoever: how do you create an avatar?
Katherine-Yes. If you are not comforable in your first meeting you do not have to stay. Try to stay polite, and get out of there:)
Both Jennifer and myself checked up on AJ when she was on her date. We checked on her on her drive up, during her date, and on the drive home. LOL…I am sure she was sick of our texting and calls:) But the good thing was that she was safe.
I believe it was Lisa that wrote the name of her potential SD’s name and address somewhere in her apartment….Lisa!!!! is that what you did?
Others here have plenty of safety tips to share. Its time to post a new topic discussing saftey again Stephan. We have so many new SBabies….this would be very beneficial.
Oh…by the way…did I tell you that Lisa spirit comes thru by the way of me:) LOL….. now ya know….
Instead of a repost: Stephan can just give the link to the old one!
Does everyone know that you can send a request to Stephan to share your email with someone that you want to communicate with off the blog. It makes it easier to exchange infomation without filling the blog.
Ummm…I think i’m gonna study some…and then nap… So many people telling me to sleep…and now…I wanna… Talk to you lovelies later! This little princess is gonna go…
Sleep Well Victoria! Sweet Sugar Dreams…
Victoria…have you slept at all? Good nite princess!!!
OC….just you and me? oh yeah….Lisa’s spirit:)
Night all! … and, no, haven’t slept yet….
Gail: Yup just you and I and the others lurking. I remember when Stephan would keep us all on topic! Those days are long gone!
Lol I’m here too! Just trying to gather up some courage to call a pot SD! lol
Ebony: When I am nervous about a first call I will txt first…
Lol lemme try that.
Lol I did and I’m just waiting on a reply…where did everyone go?
i’m lurking…just busy busy busy!
just finished uploading a ton of pics to my sites online
Ebony: We are here. Gail and I im off line to each other, it saves on the crap build up on the blog. Hehe
See txting him lets him know you are ready to call and to see if it is a good time to talk or not.
Lol Oc what if the number he gave me was a house phone??
Hey everyone just got back from dinner…Ebony I doubt he gave you a house phone. But if it was I think your phone should send you a text back saying your message was delivered to a land line. At least that’s what mine does.
Ebony: True! But why would he give out a house phone? I dont think a house phone txt will go thru. Give him a call and just make it light and breezy, like you just had a few minutes before class or whatever (you fill in the blank), and wanted to touch base and say hello. Let him know that you wanted to make it a quick hello. If it goes well keep talking!
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Is there a way or process to know if your profile is showing up as a featured profile? Do you get notified or something first? Is it just random?
of course, the night i AM here, it’s all quiet in here lol
OMG – I just wanted to say a quick hi before I attempt to go through all these posts
GND – thats awesome about the internship!! If I lived out in LA I’d totally go to her if I were looking for a husband…..she knows her stuff (even if she can be a tad annoying)
Vic – I will Amen you on the Italian and Irish guys!! Every guy I’ve ever been serious about has been either all Italian or part (i.e. half korean/half italian) well except the African American guy I dated when I was 19 – he was a little too serious. I’m irish catholic so i guess as I get older thats the ideal “type” I’m looking for
hi Alicia
Hi Sugars!
Just letting you all know my pot SD, said he would call next week!!
Hi everyone! Hope you all had a good day today!
So I just got my first offer from a pot SD. He says he’s budgeting 1000-1500. I was thinking along the lines of 1500-2000. Tips on how I tactfully negotiate?
And I asked him if he had any thoughts on what’d we do together.. he says he’s married, so low-key is the deal. Any ideas on low key things to do? We just have coffee every time we see each other.. he’s paying wayyy too much for that!
Jamisen~ he probably wants to get to know you over coffee, married men are looking to have affairs, so really discrete… hotel rooms, maybe a vacation here and there when he’s on business.
What does he have in mind as too the arrangement?
how many times a week does he want to meet?
did he tell you anything?
He says he thinks the hotel thing is kinda inconvenient, so he wanted my opinion on where to meet up too. My place is out of the question since I have two other roommates and we’re all kind of homebodies.
The frequency is perfect- 3-4 times a month. So I don’t know how I’m going to push for 2000 in allowance if he believes that meeting 3-4 times a month is worth less than that. Should I settle for the medium (1500)?
Jamisen~ push for 2000$ , you might get less
and he is gonna have to settle for a hotel, he won’t really take you out for dinner and stuff… Hey if you get 2000$ for meeting him 3-4 times a month that is awesome!!!!
Lmao Jamisen this better not be the 1.30am guy?
haha wasn’t it 2:30?
lol
i agree with beach. go high. they’ll wanna bring it lower.
Hello Sugarland!
I know 214597 is gone, but if you see her back on, tell her I would like to get in touch with her. Remember the rich surgeon who wanted me to fly to him without giving me any of his info and I could not track down any info on him even having been issued a medical license? Well, I think he might contact her because she is local for him, and I want her to be cautious. I know she is meeting someone tomorrow, so I was kind of worried for her…
Thanks and Good Night!
Jamison: Couldn’t help but put in my two cents…never got for less than 2000 for meeting once a week. That’s only 500 per meeting…escorts charge 500-1000 and they don’t give men special attention, or care about them. Don’t sell yourself short (pun intended)!
Cat~ what guy would say he’s a doc and not be one!!!! what’s his name ? or profile>
Good Evening.
A “new” SD to add to your mix, so to speak. Seems this blog is SB central and there is little voice from the SD’s out there. So rather continue being a lurker (com’on – we’re all a little bit voyeuristic are we not?) I figure I will poke my head every now and then so that some people can hear from another voice as it were.
to the topic: would I have more than one SB?
I have other commitments (euphemism alert!!) so the prospect of “juggling” more than one SB at any one time is not something that is practical or feasible. SD’s like myself rarely have time to do things during the day for ourselves and just having one SB relationship takes a lot of work and subterfuge in order to pull it off. But I can see it. Definitely. After all, many SD’s are looking to date someone else from their regular life because they want the change/variety that dating someone other than their SO provides. If I didn’t have those commitments, then I can say yes, I might.
Would I show her off?
Everybody likes to be shown off in one way or another. It shows that the person you are with is proud to be with you. If they weren’t, then they would hide your relationship as well. If there were concerns on how it wold affect my privacy than I would be reluctant, but if not, I see no reason why your SB would be treated any differently than your girlfriend.
What qualities appeal to me?
Intelligence (yeah I know, sounds canned, but really) grace more than style, how she wants to present herself to me as a show of her desire to be with me rather than just going thru any motions. You see, many of us on both sides of this game, can detect the insincerity from their partner, and if it is there, then it takes the fun out of the time you spend with them. You suddenly find yourself checking your watch every 15 minutes and your relationship becomes an obligation. No one wants an obligation. That is what we are all running away from, no?
hey OPOV welcome!
Cat~ i need to know just got a mail from an SD and he’s a surgeon
Yeah, I’m going to push for 2000 when we discuss decide on it in person. BG, I think what he is looking for is really just some dinners and movie dates which is why I feel bad asking for more. But I’m still going to push after what Cat said!
Ebony, no worries, there’s no 1:30AM booty call on my list. I’m too classy for that sh*t.
Hello OPOV. An SD’s presence is always welcome!
Good evening all… and thanks OPOV for being an “SD” voice on the blog… x
Welcome OPOV….and being a voyeur isn’t all that bad *wink *wink
Jamisen~I hope it works out that way for you! wish i had one SD like that!!! woooo
hehe, villa, agreed. I enjoy the balance as well
welcome to the blog opov
jamisen, do you knw when you’re meeting yet or is that still in the planning stages?
Always good to have a balance of opinions…
Yes it is! VC how you been?
BG: Well, I don’t know for sure, right? but I had someone look into it and they never found anything, neither did I…so fishy! And he says one minute he works at a hospital ER then tells me he’s over on a business trip for a week…? I don’t know! I don’t want to call him a liar until I know for sure…that’s why I want to collect info
His name is only a nickname on here and it starts with the letter M…
OPOV: Welcome! It’s always nice to hear from other SDs. So you’re a bit voyeuristic!
What else do you like? jk! lol.
beach_girl… been well, thanks for asking.
Jamisen, 3-4x a month for 1.5k is really kinda cheap if you ask me. And I don’t mean that as in putting a price on you but rather I think he’s being kinda cheap in his approach.
Hiya Joules!!
BG: Income above one mil, resident of To.
OPOV: YAY! an SD that understands our value as SD’s
Jamisen. Good luck, you now know what to do <3
Cat~ ok then it might not be the same guy, the one that mailed me is Jim
in TO wow i got scared there…. Well if you tell me his name , i’m taking medical training so i might have someone there look into him if you want
i can send you my email
holy crap! you all are talking again! lol
i’m talkin to my “i swear it’s not a date” guy on the phone right now
OPOV: Thank you! Now, set some standards for all the new SBs on here
lol, lovely joules haha
alicia: how did you know she was readin the blogs??
Cat~ not premium , i don’t know how to search for him
gonna look anyways
now i’m curious lol
hey I have a random question: why do some profiles not show the SD’s last login date whereas other profiles (even orange ones) sometimes include it? Is that an extra upgrade option for them?
OPOV its good to see an SD that sees our value as Katherine said
I am sooooooooo tired and yet I don’t want to go to bed =)
Katherine~ i think premium members can have the option to hide their last login
BG: Let’s do it! I swear, if he’s for real, I will jump off the third floor balcony…that’s how much I believe he is full of it.
Katherine – do you mean joules?! well I thought I had seen a post where she said hi to me, but now I can’t see it lol
Cat is it MDforThee?
OPOV- I really enjoyed reading your POV. It always seemed from the SB’s side that having more than one SD is ok. But I (and maybe other SBs) do forget that some of the men we are courting do have other commitments. I look forward to hearing more of your wisdom! And thank you for your advice. I really think it is because I am new to this that I am too shy to ask for anything over modest. But now that I have a SD’s view, I feel better in asking for more.
Katherine- meeting is in the works. We just wanted to get over with the awkward questions so that it would be easier to approach them in person when we do meet. What we’ve been discussing is by no means set in stone, it was a way to feel each other out to see if we’re on the same page. For me, a lot of the messages with pot SDs have been about “Do we have chemistry?” that I lose sight of the fact that at the end of the day it is an arrangement, and this pot SD is overcoming that.
BG- Hey, he’s not my SD yet so don’t so hopeful on me! You’ll find one in time. Like SuthernExec said yesterday, he was on the blog (not the website, but the blog) for about 7 months before he discovered OCSugarBaby!
Cat~get me his profile #
hahaha yeah, sorry bout the vagueness alicia. I did indeed mean joules.
Jamisen~ i know it’s in the works all in due time. We will all find someone soon enough
Jamisen~ my pot SD from yesterday will be calling me next week so… i hope it all works out!
LOL its all good, I can just be slow sometimes
yes it can be slow!!!
I know I should be happy about this pot SD, but I’m still lamenting from not having heard from the original pot SD I mentioned- the one who had tons of chemistry but fell offline.. yea, I e-mailed him today saying how I really had a good time talking to him. No response.
BG: love the optimism & hope/sort of agree with “soon enough.” We’re definitely being proactive in our searching & messaging, so we’re bound to come across an ideal/really good SD in due time
annnnd, in the meantime (plus after we find SDs), we get to have some fun convo’s on this blog!
I love this blog… lol
Jamisen…you just emailed today so hopefull given a bit more time he will respond. Otherwise I guess it just means a better SD is bound to be found (oh look! I rhymed…I think I’m getting tired haha)
Joules: are you enjoying your high speed internet or what??
Katherine ~ this blog is cool i enjoy being here too! i go to school online and i’m still here
I know we will all find our SDs soon enough… you have to be optimistic , life is way too short for Bull shit!
Jamisen-It’s not about asking for more. It is about validating why you are asking for a specific amount. What are your financial needs vs your availability make sure you have data to back that amount up with.
Katherine, I hate typos. I e-mailed him yesterday. But you’re right, if it doesn’t happen then I need to just let it go. Thank you for keeping me on track!
Joules, for someone who now has high speed internet (I heard through the grapevine/blog), I haven’t gotten to hear from you much. Are you still on the phone with that guy? I miss my late night partner in crime!
Jamisen ~ Katherine is right and she rhymed lol!!!
hells ya! lovin it! lol
and ya, Alicia, I said hi to you earlier
jamisen, lol, ya i’m on the phone with him *grin* he’s makin fun of me cuz he can hear my typing
Hey everyone, I’m going to be joining the blog tonight again. Oh and welcome OPOV? Do you already have a SB or are you still searching???
Yes, orange members can block log on information if we desire. The only way that you can see it then it to put that profile in your favorites folder and there in the list is the last log on date.
Also, someone mentioned in one of the other threads about seding out emails and getting no responses or the emails not even opened yet: some of the new people may not be aware that SD blue men (group…sorry couldn’t help it) don’t have the ability to read emails from SB’s. In order to read your note, we HAVE to be orange. So if you see a blue profile and are thinking of sending them a note, think about this.
Katherien~ i’m still talking to the first SD that said i lived too far, we email back and forth!!! and he’s so cute and he was so upfront with everything… but i live in Quebec and him BC …:(
but if i do get this job i interview for yesterday!!! i might just go and see him anyways lol
And the one from here, well he will call next week , he’s younger than i am too!
Add the premium member on as a favorite. If you are a standard member or premium you can see their last login time and date.
OVOP~ really???? they can’t open their mail?
i got a message back from a blue ( sounds like blue collar lol)
Aww BG maybe he will change his mind on the whole distance thing. Sometimes if the chemistry is great enough it can overcome things like distance.
OPOV: WOAH. Had NO idea about that! Blue profiles = can’t read messages. Dude. No more sending them anything!! No wonder why there are a couple big red X’s in my outbox. lol Dude. What’s the point of having a profile if you can’t read any messages from anyone?
Thanks for telling us/me!
BG: WOAH! That’s great to hear!! I would hope distance isn’t too much of a deterring factor considering if they’re a true SD they will have the money to travel to ya! <3 Quebec to BC is quite the distance, but maybe once he really gets to know you like we have, he’ll wanna spend that money to com see you.
And –the younger one is calling you? I’ve been trying to figure this out. How do you know when to give your phone number to them versus get theirs so you’re in control of calling them?
OPOV~ sorry messed up your name lol, your right he is orange now!!! i didn’t know that thanks
Villa! I am so glad you are on the same time as I am. What I am sad about is that the blog has become a meca for random messages. Stephan has worked so hard to provide a place for SD/SB’s to go to for stellar advice, yet they are getting lost in the 500 random posts. Etiquette seems to have gone away.
aw drats. Boo that blue thing, but it’s good to know for sure.
gnd~ i so hope so, he’s amazing really!!!
Katherine~ i got a disposable phone at Walmart yesterday, so i didn’t have to give out my regular #
Now i got 2 cells lol, I know he’s 34 and want to meet says i’m really hot !!! It’s better than another guy, called me …….A DRAG QUEEN!!!!!
really do i look like a DRAG QUEEN
OPOV~ i can’t see their last login though even if i Faved them!
oh, BG.. or anyone really: now i’m fully aware that this is a naive question but I still have to ask: why is it bad to give out my number?..
I like that disposable idea…but I hadn’t even heard of them lol
and no, you do NOT look like a drag. hellz no.
do you
verify their names and such before you meet? or go along with the good instinct that you got along well via the messages?
Aww BG I hope it works out for you too.
Katherine~ with the # he can get your home address and other info on you
it’s easy, 20$ will get you even a credit check and all that stuff…. and you do not want your ID stolen… I had mine stolen and it was a hassle
disposable phones are about 60$ and you buy air time when you run out of minutes. Where are you at again? in Canada and US it’s called Virgin Mobile you can check out their website
If blue, I can send you a message, up to 10 free emails. And that’s only if a picture is on file. When I was blue, I could never open a msg.
gnd~ i really hope it works out for me too…. it would be awesome. either one really ,,,,
Fav listed – look at his info in the list, don’t open the profile in a new window.
OPOV~ That sucks for you SDs
for SBs it’s free!!! YAY
lol
OPOV~ you are right ,,,,
Katherine ~ i hope i don’t look like a Drag Queen!! look at my profile you’ll see
Lisa’s Spirit! Hello! You have been missed!
I hate applications. It’s for a conference thing, and thank goodness it’s short, but still…not ideal.
Yeah that would be cool BG
I’m in the US. And wow. I should have known that about the phone number. I just followed the advice but didn’t really know why. Thanks.
Re: Katherine, what’s the point of having the profile? This site makes it’s money on subscriptions. If someone is “thinking about joining” having an inbox filling up with msgs will entice a SD to spend the bucks. Sometimes all someone needs is a little push.
ahhhh, good point OPOV. I didn’t know you could see that the inbox was fillin up!
Hey Atalanta, good to see you on the blog tonight.
Ok Question for you all here
I had a few messages from this other SD , said he wanted to meet now nothing???? do i mail him back? do i wait? what to do?
Hi being new to this I have a question….what do you guys think about a married SD? I have a pot who looks really good and we’ve been emailing back and forth and might meet up in a couple of days. I guess it would be that much harder dating a married SD than a single one but are there added complications? I am hesitant about it. Are there any precautions i should take?
Doubt it. If they say you are too far, listen to them. You are a penpal right now, and tommorrow and the next day. Move on.
All of you SB students sound like you don’t have a nickel to your name right now. So sad. You need mentoring from one of the real sugarbabies. They blog and shop during the day and are being wined and dined in the evening. Kind of OPOV to help you, but real life experience sharing is worth the listening to if you want to do it right.
Good evening sugars. Pleasure to have you on the blog OPOV. A man of your intelligence is much appreciated.
BG yeah that happens…I’d say to wait awhile and then send him an email asking if he still wanted to meet up. If he doesn’t email you back then move on.
Ebony~ for me married is better, no hassle , no i want more later
single : all of them on here want to meet the miss right , i just think it would be harder. just my opinion
hm. well, with a married SD you are forced to be much more discreet, and you may likely get more gifts versus an allowance. But some perks are the fact that because they’re married it makes it easier to remain NSA, they can’t be clingy… Not sure what else there is. I’m just going from what I’ve heard.
When you guys call for the first time, you always use *67 and it’s free, rght?
BG: yeah i’ve been seeing that too–a lot of “SD” profiles are looking for more of a relationship versus what this site is actually meant for. hm.
bla bla bla bla!!
Rancho SB~ i do work, and have my own money! I’ve never did the online thing before so it is hard when you don’t know what your supposed to do! As for the guy that said i was too far, it’s cool with me if he want to be pen pals, i like him..And, i have had an SD in the past , and i was with him for 15 years
gnd~ thanks , wasn’t sure i should mail back at all but i’ll give it a week
To go back on something that was mentioned earlier:
I know here in the sugar fam we tell each other that if the SD is the right one, he travel to you if you asked. I still believe that is the ultimate, but here’s a POV from a pot SD. He told me that he’s speaking to a pot SB, but she’s in NYC. He’s contemplating whether or not it’s worth it. He’s not contemplating her, but he sees it as a waste to spend $1k+ to travel/hotel, etc. where for a local SB he would add those funds for what he’s already budgeted on an allowance for a faraway SB.
Katherine ~ i know , and a lot of profiles for “threesomes”
Married SD’s are GREAT!
BTW, thx everyone for the welcome. And CSB, I ain’t no smarter than the next guy.
yap, just one of those nights; didn’t really have much to talk about on the phone lol
Jamisen~ yeah it’s a lot of money for them! and less for us!
OUCH Rancho SB!!
OPOV~ are you married?????
Hey sugar family! Haven’t had time to blog here in awhile, hope everyone is doing great!:)
I can feel NCGentleman’s pain about being stood up at the last minute by a potential SB who panicked and couldn’t get on the plane. It sucks to get your hopes up for someone and have them let you down. We’ve all been there.
On the other hand, I can also understand the SB’s fear of traveling to meet a potential SD she doesn’t know from Adam. (But she really shouldn’t have agreed to it in the first place if she wasn’t comfortable with this).
I NEVER travel for a first meeting – I make it clear in my profile that I expect the gentleman to make an effort if he wants to know me – and that means getting his butt on a plane to show me he’s sincere and interested.
In my experience, this has never been a problem. Had two long distance SD’s before, and both of them were here in a flash as soon as I issued the invitation for them to come meet me!
Not only does the effort show you his level of genuine interest, it also shows that he respects your safety.
If a guy starts testing your safety boundaries right off the bat, what other boundaries of yours will he attempt to violate further down the line?
The guys who try to convince a potential SB to fly to them for a first meeting usually say they’ re just “too busy” to fly down and meet you in your home city. Well….ask yourself…if they are too busy now, how do they manage to find time in their lives to spend regular time with their SB?
“I’m too busy – fly to me” = big red flag for me. Answer is always no.
Joules and all you lovelies, I am hitting the sack. Hope everyone has a wonderful night!!
thanks for that word of advice, Summer!
night Alicia!!
Summer~ thanks for the advice, your right how do they manage to find time in their lives to spend regular time with their SBs?
I didn’t think about it that way!
night Alicia! I’ll MySpace you
Beach_Girl*306486 Says:
March 19th, 2009 at 11:42 pm
OPOV~ are you married?????
yes.
Beachgurl. Good that you work. After reading comments from everyone overall, SB are struggling. With first meetings, negotiating allowances, balancing chemistry, communication,profiles, understanding email, etc.
Try to be open to suggestions, and not be so close minded. We are not hear to judge, just to help. Joules your bla, bla, bla, is not real communication. It shows you immaturity. How attractive is that?
OPOV~ so i guess your Great , my last SD was married, we split when his wife found out!!! but he was local and he did lots of things that , if i was married, would not have done
Since everyone’s usually off topic anyway
I’m a standard member (since I over drafted my bank card and can’t use it lol) and even so I’ve still gotten a lot of profile views and a good amount of mssgs. However I like to be approached and pursued rather than making the first move (online, especially) because I feel silly and a little embarrassed when they don’t respond so when I’m approached I feel more in control and everything’s usually on my terms and the choice is mine whether I wanna go any further but I respond to all of my messages even if it’s declining.
I’ve only been on this site a few days and already have stories to tell lol…So what’s the problem here…is my profile suggestive or open to (different) interpretation?
Check out my profile and let me know what you think and if you don’t have anything nice to say send a message.
On the flip side
We talked about what we expected and we pretty much wanted the same thing and I asked for a pic (he took 20 minutes to send me one-which seemed fishy to me-and he said he sent me a pic and to have a good night) and I sent mine in return.
and forgot to tell him what area I live in and he saw the message but hasn’t responded. He’s not married or in a relationship…his profile didn’t say so.
I met one good looking guy! And I usually don’t see myself making out with anyone, but this guy!
So today I reread his email (to look at his pic
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Rancho: you’re saying SBs should be more open minded to suggestions. Are you saying there have been suggestions that we have been closed to thus far? Do you have any advice that we might not have heard already?
Rancho SB~ i wasn’t being closes minded… I am here for advice and sometimes i do ask stupid questions..I am open to help and suggestions ,thats why i think we are all here!
agreed, beach. but there are no stupid questions when it comes to something you’re new to doing…otherwise i’d be way guilty of that tonight =/ thank all of YOU for your patience!
Katherine~ a helping hand is always needed ! we all have questions that we don’t know the answer too, i think that’s why we are here, right? so we can help each other out!
and i thank you all too, for your patience and help
Beach_Girl: You have 15 years experience of being an SB?
S.B*308878
profile looks good to me , but i’m new here too. one thing that caught my eye was the smilie faces, i think personally they have to go. just my opinion .
S.B*308878~ oh and i’m new here too so maybe someone else can help!!!
Ok, sorry I just disappeared…I had to run out and get water…
BG: The name the you mentioned was exactly the man I was telling you about! Did he contact you?
alright, I’m heading to bed. Have fun staying up to all hours of the morning!
BG and Katherine, I am really being in sincere in saying that you will get alot of help and ideas from some of the bloggers that are on during the day.
Stupid questions are never stupid. And as simple as it is, the advice is “Listen.”
You are all here for one common thing, a SugarDaddy. How you conduct yourself and speak on the blog, speaks volumes to others that read and follow. You profile numbers and names represent SA. Read your past entries from the days some of you started to now. Are you really understanding what a true sugarbaby is and can be?
Cat ~ he’s a fake …. don’t jump lol
He told me he was a Dr i asked where he said and ER and he did marketing or something like that! i answered him you market and a Dr. he said his name was mickeal or something like that , I told him i worked in the medical industry and he never answered again!
FAKE!
Lol SB 308878 you profile looks great and great lingerie *wink *wink but i think you shouldnt have put the last line on there since any pot SD of another race will feel as if they are second pick….but thats just my opinion and am not that knowledgeable.
Rancho SB~ I know what my relationship was before, as for knowing all there is to know ? no i don’t .. We ask advice. we get an answer. we try are best!
I’ve never been online before, as i said, i had an SD for 15 years and my relationship was different than what is said here. so i am learning.
And as for ” listening ” i am! i wouldn’t be here if i didn’t want opinions and help! as for my past entrees : i know what i wrote here , not ashamed of anything and yes i do listen!
BG: OMFG!! He told me his name was Bryan, a surgeon and working at an ER and when I asked for more info, he told me he had someone stalk him at work before and wasnt comfortable giving out too much info…he had given me his hotmail but said he rather use this site because the hospital blocks access to hotmail…yet he said he had a blackberry at the hospital…maybe he isnt a surgeon, maybe he watches too much House lol
Cat~ wow. i don’t know ,i really don’t think he’s real so…
well he said he did marketing too , i don’t know it’s fishy your right.
Rancho…..everyone in here knows EXACTLY what my maturity level is. i was bla bla bla’ing cuz i was on the phone and if you would have been paying attention you would have figured that out. you are a newbie to me; an unknown. so who do you think you are trying to start shyt with me?
BG: It’s difficult to know, he just doesnt explain himself…either he is real and is a medical professional who is also a part of marketing team for his hospital, which it totally possible, because many hospitals have lotteries and such to raise money, but the fact that he is so secretive, is scary. We have exchanged many e-mails and he even sent me photos, but doesn’t reply often. Which could make sense if he works way too much. I want to be understanding and all but he’s not giving me anything to go on…his last e-mail to me, he apologised for the late reply and told me he was going to be away for a week on business, among other things, so…tough call…I will just keep being patient…We have already agreed on allowance and everything. If he had provided me with legit info that I could verify, I would have gone to see him.
Greetings in Sugarland! How are my lovelies?
Allo, OPOV! Warm welcomes!
Hello, everyone!
Atalanta- I hope you’re reading this because with the influx of posts/me going to bed last night after making the professor comment I missed it until now!
I would never think hooking up with my professor with be sexy. And definitely not with a SD who was my professor. I would not be comfortable with him knowing me one way only to have it destroyed once he has to read my horribly written research papers.
I’m sure everyone at UGA is attractive. I’ve never met a professor from UGA, but I’ve met students.. and yeah.. you can figure it out.
Its about to be a what?! CATFIGHT!! Ok Rancho and Joules…lets all take a calming breath…..
Jamisen: I’m sure your writing style wouldn’t matter as much as being a good, caring companion to him. If you had a SD for a prof…
see, it’s shyt like this that keeps running off the good bloggers. i won’t put up with it either….Stephen needs to be puttin some rules out for everyone so they can be followed….and better moderating ‘terms’
Cat~ that is possible he might be on the marketing team but i don’t know
maybe he didn’t like my pics and wanted me to F-off not sure
I don’t know at all!!! ask his name and i’ll have him check out
that’s all i can do!
Hey, Joules! I had similar thoughts (about Rancho being *kinda* hostile)…
rancho ~ you said we should listen and read the blog???? DID YOU!
joules was on the phone and commenting on the conversation i got that , i’m sure everyone else did too!
I agree with Joules and Victoria… way hostile!
thanks guys
cursive*
Jamisen i thought you left
dotindotcursive
at
gmail????
Hi hi Jamisen! How are all my sugars this evening?
yes Joules.
Sorry everyone for the extra posts regarding this.. I just don’t know how to send Stephan a message to give Joules my info! Stephan, if you’re reading this, feel free to delete it after Joules gets in touch with me!
good you?
Well good night Sugars I’m off , gotta work tomorrow!
talk to you all soon
Hey Victoria, thanks for the shoutout. I’m doing good tonight. If you backtrack a little bit you’ll see that I’ve found new potentials. Don’t worry.. none of them are actually my college professors. Oh and the dream pot SD? Wow. That’s all I gotta say.
How are you this evening?
hahaha i didn’t even put a subject in
my bad jamisen
Aw, take care BG!
well, it didn’t work, tried to email you to double-check it
nite Victoria and all sugars see you all tomorrow
I’m great, studying for a midterm tomorrow…and I did read up, and congrats on the new pot SDs!
i forgot part of the addy lol
i think it went thru this time
Joules: Rancho is not a newbie. Etiquette is posting comments that:
1) Are a valid question pertaining to Sugar Dating
2) Not your personal diary
3) Not vulgar or full of swear words.
4) Venting is normal, again pertaining to Sugar Dating
Bla Bla Bla or informing the blogers that you are on the phone is somewhat random and not needed.
nope, didn’t work lol
mine is
joules0101
at
sysmatrix
dot
net
Thanks, good luck with the studies!!! i’ll catch you tomorrow
Ok sorry guys, The Lakers are playing. Goodnight to all my lovely sugars. Keep your heads up. A handsome, sexy, caring, thoughtful, wealthy SD is waiting in the wings for all of you.
Thanx Ebony and beach gurl.
I thought about not putting my ethnic preference but after the messages started rolling in I realized what I wanted in a persons physical appearance. And guys have asked if I’m open to an interracial arrangement so that’s partly why. I actually wish all guys would put their ethnic preferences so no one wastes their time or wonders why they didn’t get a response…I mean they are blunt and frank when asking for sex or a female of a certain size or any other physical characteristics.
Victoria- thank you so much! I understand your pain about midterms, ours was two weeks ago, and now it’s the calm before the storm known as finals!
Goodnight, CSB!
I wonder what exactly does “epicurious” mean?
lol…I’m dreading finals, but at the same time wanting to get them over with because that means the semester’s over… Then I can begin summer classes! Yay! ~End Sarcasm~
google it Ebony!
“It’s a made-up word, from a mashup of “epicure” and “curious”.
Epicurious is a website giving information on food, wine and restaurants. The name is a mix of epicure, a person with discriminating tastes in food or wine, and curious. It is a pun based on the name of the Greek philosopher Epicurus, the origin of the word epicure. ”
Stolen from a site on the intarwubz.
Epicurious means really curious, Epi =lots
that works too… I was gonna (jokingly) say that it meant someone who’s epically curious…and I know epic curiosity!
Ebony~it’s slang
just having my last cig , b4 bed
V~ yeah that works too lol
Oh wow ok thanks…am tiredof searching for SD’s lol. And I bet we’re in for some more weirdos tonight huh?
here in MTL we use the epi a lot lol
Ebony~ lots of those , the right one will come for all of us!
we are all here for the same thing, a good SD that is right for us
Weirdos make my day, Ebony!
So, where’d everyone go? Joules? OPOV? GND? Jamisen? Summer? etc…
BG: Is your friend only familiar with one hospital?
Everyone is gone! and i finish my cig and i’m off to bed
i have to work in the morning and it’s almost 1:30am
i’ll talk to you tomorrow though
have a great night!
http://www.myspace.com/blondy_lyane
If your on myspace … let me know it’s from SA site
cat~ no it’s the main database. i’m taking medical transcription, so i can have him checked out for you.
It’s like the medical directory or something
Goodnight, BG! Sleep well!
well now i’m really off Sugars
good night to all and good luck!
Sweet Dreams!!
Have I been reduced to lurking again???
Hey Everyone, I’m finally back and talking to my SD who has been busy with work all week. Working on another trip down to Miami (personally I’d rather go see him since Florida is way better than NC). Who’s up tonight?
Well…not reduced…but…like…I have to lurk…and then forget I’m on here while studying…then in like 2 hours I will see that I’ve accidentally ignored people…
Hiya, GND!
Yes…I said hiya.
Ok I have another question….whats a trifecta? Y’all check this guy’s profile 65400…am confused.
Rancho SB – “All of you SB students sound like you don’t have a nickel to your name right now. So sad. You need mentoring from one of the real sugarbabies. They blog and shop during the day and are being wined and dined in the evening. Kind of OPOV to help you, but real life experience sharing is worth the listening to if you want to do it right.”
You make it seem as if the only thing true SBs due is shop and dine-out.
Communicating
Making a decision
Having ambition/goals
trifecta the 3 subject i guess
He means having all three of those characteristics he listed…what does he mean he’s not interested in anyone whose ad has a price tag on it??? If he means an expected monthly allowance then maybe he should check the name of the website he’s on: Seeking Arrangement: The Elite SUGAR DADDY Website for Mutually Beneficial Relationships!!!
sorry had to look one last time
you go Mina!! your right!
now i’m really off , i was lurking but now too tired~~
Hey Victoria, Ebony, BG, and Mina
Yeah Mina I agree, but maybe she was being sarcastic.
Lol GND tru dat!
Yep Ebony, well I’m talking to Superman and he’s half sleep/working. I swear I don’t think he ever stops working lol…well then again yeah he does, hehe.
What’s everyone else doing tonight?
Thank you for stepping in, Mina. <3
i’m still here, just talkin in private wit an SB that was rather disturbed by rancho’s comment to me
Hey Kat, your up too awesome…time for another nightly sugar bon fire.
Rancho never explained the hostility, either…
Hi Mina!
I’m studying social science…midterm’s tomorrow night.
I’m actually a little offended by that, lol. If you spend every day shopping, then you should own everything your little heart desires. And if you don’t… Then you’re doing it wrong.
Being an SB isn’t just about being materialistic. And yes, while a lot of it has to do with living in the now, a smart SB would plan and save for her future because these relationships could end at any time for any reason. A true SB helps not only herself but those around her – I donate a fair amount of my allowance to various charities, support local artists, and attend events and auctions because I have the means to help others. That’s much more important than adding another pair of Louboutins to the pile.
No, she just up and outted! Ah well, I certainly don’t mind there being no heated words otherwise. We all realized she was out of line and stood up for whoever was “attacked.” I just wonder if there’s a way for things like that to get moderated before they get put up… cos that wasn’t even beneficial!
Joules I’m glad you’re talking to another SB about it. You’re cool. We all knew what you meant.
And I love our nightly sugar bonfires haha No one’s ruining that!
Umm yeah Joules I just finished reading up on that…hmm…ok I think I’m going to go back to trying to get my SD to set me up with a pole dancing class.
Right on, Mina! I kinda wish Rancho would explain… Is she saying that being a little short on money, especially seeing as so many of us are brand spankin’ new, we’re BAD SBs? Because we haven’t found an SD yet? Or what?
Mina, I seriously admire you in the short time I’ve seen your posts.
Been meaning to ask you though. I read about the hefty allowance that you get–all totalled–what do you do with the money you’re saving for the future? are you keeping it in cash? is there a way you’re getting it into an account but not getting reported to the feds? i always wonder!
Yay for pole dancing!
Ooh and bon fires!
And random nightly excitedness! I’m always so randomly happy! lol And I’m such a nocturnal being!
I need help! Somebody stop me from dialing my ex’s number!!!! Gosh I can’t stand being alone!!!
Meet a mommy. And we chatted and then she asked me what I was working with? My package!!!
Actually I was just reading to catch up with no intention of posting (because I’m busy being wined and dined apparently, lol) but felt compelled to do so after reading her post. Good for her if that’s her idea of a true SB, but personally I think it’s shallow, materialistic, and selfish.
Yes Mina is a great example of what a SB should be, her and OCSugar and all the other wonderful SBs on the blogs with SDs (sorry trying to IM and type this at the same time, lol). I couldn’t find a reason as to why Rancho attacked you Joules, me little head is confused?!?!?
Maybe its just me….but maybe Rancho got jealous we didn’t include her in SB’s in the city-the series!!! Lol I love these nightly bonfires meself!!! (said with an irish brogue)
aw ebony you have us, dearest!!!
Tony did you really respond with that?
GND that pole dancing class would be awesome to take, wouldn’t it? especially if you’re not the one paying for it…
Ooohh happy to hear that Tony. Tell us more, never heard any SM stories before.
Ebony…put the phone down and keep your hands on the keyboard at all time, then breathe.
Haha… I love old Britney Spears songs…I love new Britney Spears songs… I’m unabashedly a lover of Britney Spears…
“city-the series”? What do you mean?
Hello all. Another sleepless night.
I’m watching pretty woman and remembering why Julia Roberts is my favorite actress, and trying to decide how many SDs I am willing to take on as I look over my messages. I feel so torn-ish, but in a goooooood way.
And what’s all this nonsense about true SBs???? How can you say there’s a “true,” singular definition to any group of people?
She wants a pic of the hammer
Ebony! what’s your profile number? Also…does anyone here live in Chicago?
Yeah I know Kat, but with him I feel like I’m pulling teeth sometimes lol. I think he likes direct hints or just seeing me get frustrated before he gets me what I ask for. But then again he also gets me what I want alot of times without me asking, so they cancel each other out lol.
Ebony, i STILL find myself doing that and my husband is passed away now
it’s ok to feel that desire for companionship. he’s your ex for a reason sweetie; no need to make things worse by calling. my husband and i BOTH did that way too many times (split then reconsile cuz one of us called the other). it doesn’t help anything except that moment in time
Ooooh, SM stories.
Any suggest???
Hmm Tony, interesting…keep us posted on what happens with her.
Oh yeah Kat we’re starting a new series about SBs in the City. It’s based in Italy though. Wanna join the cast?
tony, just tell her you’re uncomfortable sending provocative pics til AFTER the initial meeting
Well…ya gotta talk to her Tony… Ask her what she wants… Like, do you know for sure she was asking about your *ahem* package?
??? ladies
Tony – I agree with Joules.
I’m in Chicago.
lol what is it with men and needing to give them blatant hints? haha otherwise they turn it as “I can’t read your mind or clues… Just tell me straight out!” <–of which the latter option I don’t tend to mind, as long as it’s reasonable. and this pole dancing thing? Well, I think he’ll enjoy that boost in sexual self confidence on your return home! *wink, wink*
too bad there isn’t an option to automatically put someone on your “I’ve looked at this guy’s profile and am not interested” list. Like a bin or something…just like we do with favorites. I keep seeing some of the same ones and discarding them all over again.
You’re sweet, Katherine
In regards to your question: I have a bank account my SDs use to deposit my allowance that is seperate from my personal bank account my parents use for my allowance. A portion of my allowance is immediately transferred into one of my savings accounts, the amount depends on what I have planned (travels, spa days, etc) for the upcoming month. I have a financial adviser that was recommended to me by one of my SDs that basically takes care of everything. I have CoDs, stocks, bonds, and even a bit of real estate here and there. I don’t know the details, I just say what I want and sign and initial where he tells me to, ha.
Sending nude pics online…not a good idea.
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Yea, Kat! Join us!
Yeah I gotta agree with Victoria on this one, ask her what she wants out of the arrangement. See if you two mesh before you go sending her pictures of your “hammer”.
And Vic I love Britney Spears too, was dancing to her music for about an hour this morning when I woke up.
Lmao GND am trying!!
Vic its 308127
Kat remember last night when i think vic and/or gnd started talking about italy and we all said we’d move there and start a series like sex and the city only it would be sb’s in the city lol
Cool, S.B….buttt, I forgot why I asked…
ahhh, SBs in the city, eh? Florence or Venice?
A financial adviser… that’s a good idea.
She wants a guy that’s younger that she can be intimate with. Yes she was talking about my tool. She’s 49
I vote for Venice, I’ll import my SD though lol…S.B nice profile
I don’t remember why I asked for your profile number…but it may have been important… I also don’t remember why I asked if anyone was in chicago… Either way…if you guys have myspace or facebook, feel free to add me!
VENICE for sure!
Mina: thanks! So as long as the “gifts” aren’t too sizeable, you don’t have to worry about reporting that money? Like…whatever allowance I get is going to go towards repaying my loans. That’s my first hope…unless the SD offers to help with them straight out. But I don’t know how to justify to *whoever needs to know* where I got that paying money from.
Do you know what I mean? Is it something i don’t have to worry about cos I can just account for them as gifts?
p.s. consider me joined. SugarBabies in the City!<33 YAY!
Does she want anything else Tony cause right now if that’s all she wants then a blog entry I read is slowly coming into focus in my mind…it’s entitled Cougar. *disclaimer: not all older women looking for younger men are cougars in my personal opinion*
Kat/GND: Venice is sinking……lets go to Florence
Listen ladies, and i’m not picking, but how is it fair that we tell one another to NOT send a pot SD a provocative pic b4 the first meeting but we’re kinda hinting to Tony that’s it IS OK to do so with his pot SM???
*shrug*
just food for thought
Aw I love venice!
Mia – One of the best/smartest decisions I ever made. I have closets full of designer everything, but if things were to end between one or all of my SDs, a Gucci dress isn’t going to help me survive financially.
Ok
It’s not from this site just some SD’s personal blog
Hmmmm, I’d thought the gist from everyone was that Tony should not do it…
hahaha but Ebony has a good point.
Wait…we were hinting for tony to send the nude? Babe nawww. Let her see you in person. We automatically size it up then lol. But then you can give her what she wants
If you two hit it off!
LOL I’ve gotten good at sizing things up in person too.
That’s what I wanna do Mina…but first gotta pay off these student loans.
Hey, I’m pretty sure I flat out said no nudes… Whether it’s to a pot SD or SM…
Let it sink! I’ll go with it, as long as I’m there! *sigh* I can’t wait to go to Venice for real!
Kat, as far as “whoever needs to know”, well who does?! I mean, do you HAVE to tell anyone where your money comes from? I used to get random money from unknown sources (I still think I somehow pleased someone in the mob), and my family didn’t know about it for months…
How about we stay in Florence half the time and Venice the other half? Now everybody is happy
She just wants to make sure she’s not wasting our time, her words
GND we’re in the saaaaame boat. Ain’t it fun?? lol
Man, look at this SD’s profile: 270852. Why does it have to be BLUE??
See I get a good vibe from it/like it… any reason I shouldn’t? bummmerrr
I’m so freaking bored. I’m an insomniac, can’t sleep.
So how’s everybody’s night going?
Katherine – Like I said, I don’t know the details, sorry I’m not much help with that. I’m sure I do have to report it because on the surface I’m an unemployed student who has very nice amounts in several bank accounts – surely it doesn’t look right to “whoever needs to know” lol. Repaying loans and debts is a great idea. Again… Preparing yourself for the future and taking care of what’s important
Mina: I absolutely agree with you about what we want as SBs. There may be some SBs that is interested in the latest Louboutin. Though that’s my weakness, I have much more goals and ambitions that just materialistic items. Right now, the decline in the economy may cause an influx in memberships but such is life. We need to know what we want and, regardless of age, race etc, and go and get it. This blog has been helpful for me and I’ll continue to be a source of advice if needed. Good luck to everyone especially the new SBs.
I dunno Vic, did you see Casino Royale when the building went down in the water and the girl died? I don’t wanna be drowning and staring at my own personal James Bond, plus that will be a sucky ending to the show.
Tony, then tell her to send you a copy of her bank account…fair’s fair.
Ah. We travel via gondola from florence to venice.. MM i like :p
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW
She’s a bold one. If it were me, like if a dude wanted to justify my sending a pic of my boobs so “he doesn’t waste either his time or mine,” I would just tell him what it is and that he can either take me for my word, or leave me be.
Then again, I understand SMs are a lot more limited than SDs, but I’m weary and easily annoyed.
Ah, the only debts I’ve ever had to deal with are my NM card!
So??
Mina: thanks. sorry for the bombard of questions, I just figured I would ask in case you knew. This will figure itself out when the time comes.. I have to find an SD first!
Hey CSB, didn’t know you were up. My SD just went to sleep, said it was past his “bedtime” lol.
Kat I looked at his profile and he looks promising, too bad he’s not premium. Hey maybe he’ll join the blog and you can talk to him then, lol.
Mina I would love to chat with you. I’m sure I could learn some pointers.
and plus i’m bored tonight lol
Tony, the general consensus is NO!
No face pic with penis pic if it would make me feel better?
That would be a depressing ending… Gondola trip to Florence it is then! lol…
But, I’m still going to Venice at least for a little while. 
Katherine – No need to apologize on your end, I’m sorry I couldn’t offer any useful advice. Just throwing this in – my parents deposit my allowance to a bank account and while it is a fairly large sum (though nothing near my SD allowance) it has never been questioned by the bank.
lol gnd wouldnt that be my luck??!! haha i’d wanna snatch him right up!
Send him a message anyway, Kat! That way, he’ll see that you messaged him, and maybe make an effort to contact you! And maybe, yea, blog joining…stuff…with…yea….I make words terribly sometimes…
Lol Tony, I think a pic like that would make her feel much better than it would you.
Haha and I’d be there to help you right along, hey maybe I should become the SD/SB matchmaker lol.
GND: I’m here. I can’t seem to fall asleep. LOL, sexy pot SD is quite the character. Hmmm an LTR is interesting isn’t it. I will visit when you move with Superman lol.
There’s really not much to learn or teach – Just be yourself, trust your instinct, and have fun with this.
Tony, how do you know she isn’t a picture collector???
No pic no t interested in. Talking
Wow didn’t think SMs would be as bad as SDs, lol.
mina- that’s a bit calming and easing of my nerves. well enough for me!
random: there are so many news articles popping regarding these sort of arrangements!!! woah. And the general consensus is that people frown upon them. Hm. Ohhhh well.
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO leave me aloneeeeeeeeee. Let me post.
you need to talk to your pot SM and figure out exactly how serious she is with such an arrangement. i understand that she (like a lot of SDs) want to know what they will be ‘working with’ sexually….none of us want to waste our time. maybe you can tell her that you’ll meet for a cup of coffee and see if you two click or not and then you’ll show her.
HOWEVER, this is all up to you! what ever you feel comfortable with
Mmmmmm… sorry for my sketchy post, ya’ll. Posting issues and a sleepyhead, obviously.
I guess my problem would be that I don’t really like sending mssgs to guys I might be interested in. I want and sometimes expect them to contact me lol…
Haha ok CSB…yeah I didn’t want a LTR until we met in person and then somewhere between the airport and going out for dinner my mind changed completely, haha.
don’t know if she is or not
and i guess honestly tony, if you think your package is up to par, and you think it would work AND ARE COMFORTABLE WITH IT, maybe you should
hahaha i know i’m changing my mind every minute here but i’m female! i’m allowed to!
i guess we all just have to remember that the world of SMs are totally different than SDs
I have the same problem S.B, I like the thrill of the chase sort to speak. I like to be pursued by a potential SD, not the other way around.
Hey Vic our sexy guy from Dallas logged just a couple of minutes ago lol. I’m mad at him. Did he reply to you?
Katherine, about your questions regarding gifts – I know over the past few years, gifts under 10-12k do not need to be declared. I know right now it’s either 11k or 12k, but the law might be changed soon, for obvious reasons.
This includes cash and a gift’s worth.
Nudes over the intarwubz=bad business… I’d meet her FIRST if I were you, Tony.
Tony if I were you before I’d even consider sending some very personal pics like that to her, I’d get some verification on who she is.
S.B, i’ve NEVER had a problem approaching men; for real or here on SA. why not try being a little more pro-active in your search? i could give you PLENTY of pointers if you like
S.B*308878 – Take the initiative and go for it, you never know what may happen. I initially contacted my most recent SD and he was glad I did; he said he had “given up” contacting SBs because so many seemed to be either fakes or flakes.
Nope, Ebony… How sad…and I put alot of thought into that message.
I let it go
heyoooo. Somewhere along the lines I had heard of that. I think SuthrnExec was helping me out, sharing his awesomeness in expertise (no, I’m serious, I love his advice).
*Just in good hopes that I will find an SD that will pay a substantial amount of these off for me, so I like to know ahead of time what that would involve*
Joules that would be great!
It’s like this…when the guy contacts me, I feel in control because I know that they’re interested in me but as far as me contacting them..I guess i’m just afraid of be rejected via internet lol…
I’m kind of aggressive when it comes to men (and sometimes women)… I like to chase sometimes!
Being chased is fun, but not as challenging!
Mia – If that’s the amount for cash AND gifts then I suppose I can expect to be audited very soon, lol.
Maybe not “lol” is it really happens, ha.
Yeah I remember that from earlier today/yesterday (I’m starting to experience time vertigo lol)
Vic: what do you mean getting money from unknown sources in the mob? You had a mafia boss SD? lol. I’m just acting dumb…but please specify, I’m intrigued!
*IF it really happens. Still a little jet lagged
Tony: If you’re serious about this arrangement, I would do what feels best. Maybe she’s attracted to something this personal but asking for those sort of pictures is unnecessary IMO. Then again, I haven’t met an pot SD that has requested more photos than those on my profiles.
Nite ladies
Alright. enjoy the s’mores & campfire
been a lot of fun tonight!!!
Woohoo Mina and Mia on the blog at the same time
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Night Kat and Tony
Lol CSB – and I believe Mina is Mia’s sister’s name, no?
Yeah it is isn’t it?
S.B, i totally understand you but at least you’re not being rejected face-to-face; it makes it much easier to deal with *grin*
Mina: Lol. I don’t really know. This blog is hard too keep up with especially if the names are so close.
I must admit, I feel a tad creepy for retaining that bit of information.
S.B, do you have any way we could chat outside of here? well, if you want some tips and stuff
Night, Tony and Kat!
Cat, I have no idea actually…I just know that sometimes I’d check the balance on my debit card (to see if I can afford like soda or something) and there’s a few hundred dollars that weren’t there before… It was always fun, though!
Ahhh sleep is starting to creep up on to me and my SD just texted me telling me to go to sleep lol. Guess he woke up and saw I was still online.
There are so few guys who I’m attracted to and they’re usually wanting a prostitute. Hmmm do many cool guys visit these blogs lol…
Haha Vic I need some luck like that. Random amounts of money in my account lol.
I would really appreciate men replying with “sorry, not interest, but good look in your search” at least. I do. I don’t waste their time if I’m not on board, regardless of how many e-mails I have to answer or how busy I am. It’s simple and considerate
Gurl : Does Superman lurk on the blog? How does he know you’re online?
S.B*308878 – Two of my SDs didn’t have a photo posted and I was very pleasantly surprised and pleased once I them! (And out of the two, I didn’t see a pic prior to meeting) My third had a pic posted but with most of his face blocked out. You never know…
Umm Cat I can’t say anything because I myself am guilty of not replying to emails of guys I’m not interested in. Now if they email me more than once I reply, but if not I usually don’t reply.
*Once I SAW them.
Two typos in one night, my new record.
Cat – I do agree with you on that note. I think to send a response like that rather than to just ignore it shows both manners and class.
Haha no CSB he doesn’t…at least I don’t think he does. He saw I was on yahoo messenger still and I usually either sign out or put up that I’m sleep when I go to sleep, but since I was available he guessed I was awake lol. He’s a sweetheart, we need more SDs like him. A Superman, SuthrnExec, Henri, NCGent, and SuthrnExec2 for every SB on the blog, lol.
Luck…mob payouts…who knows? I like the latter cause it’s much more fun to think about! lol
Haha maybe you had a secret “godfather” or something in the mob, lol.
Okay now I feel much better! I’ve been kinda skipping over the profiles without pics.
Mina IS also my sister’s name.
Okay, Mina, I’m on my way to following in your footsteps. I may have 4 SDs by the time the month is through, depending on how I end up feeling about it.
Expect for me to ask you questions, like in regards to scheduling issues, lol.
Oh ok. I’m such a nerd with this stuff. I know I’m in the age range but I’m don’t have any Facebook, Myspace, Twitter profiles etc.
I’d love a poetic Henri-type SD!
Or someone like Suthrn, with all the smarts!
Or someone like a mixture of all the good ones…who’s British or Italian…
SB – I’ve found that the ones without pics are more attractive than the ones with pics, surprisingly.
Oooo Congrats Mia on all the potential SDs, all of mine have seemed to have disappeared. Oh well one great SD is better than three shady ones.
Cat i had one who sent me the sweetest rejection email lol that i emailed him back to tell him thanks lol. We were just not compatible geographically. We ended u exchanging emails and chatting just for kicks and he said if he was ever in the area he would surely look me up lol.
Four? Shock, that’s a bit much! Kidding, of course
I’m all for long(er) term arrangements, be it with one SD or more (but you have to draw the line at some point because a gal can only juggle so many men at once, lol)
Traveling with and to them helps tremendously.
Victoria – I would DIE of bliss if I ever had an SD with a British or Italian accent. he might grow annoyed with speaking to me because I’d always close my eyes so I could focus on the intonation more than the content!
Oh CSB you gotta make a facebook page (personally not a big fan of Myspace or Twitter, although facebook is going down hill pretty quickly on my list at the moment).
That’s so awesome Ebony!
Haha Mia, accents are nice except for when you’re in loud, crowded hip restaraunts. Then some stuff seems to get lost in translation but makes for a great laugh later on.
I’m always unsure of what to say when first contacting someone…POINTERS? lol
My profile explains everything I would say so I usually have writer’s block lol.
CSB – I just learned what Twitter is and I still don’t understand the use of and need for it.
Mina, I agree with longer arrangements to, and so does the one who I’ve gotten hold of so far, and so the other 3 seem to as well. I’m meeting them all after I finish this mini-vacation, return home, and then go back north.
Haha, I’m sure 1 will fall off my bandwagon sooner rather than later, or me off his.
Thanks for the traveling tip. I plan on traveling with one in a week or two and to him eventually.
GND: I rarely take photos so I don’t know that a Facebook would be useful. I’ve seen too much people fall into addiction with this website.
S.B*308878 – A little wit and dry sense of humor nevers hurts. Perhaps there’s something his profile you could poke fun at in a playful way? Most men I’ve contacted are the type-A CEO and are used to being surrounded by “yes men/women” and find it refreshing to have someone tease them. They can’t fire you, after all. Lol.
LOL Mina me and you both!!!
What exactly is Twitter???
S.B., you could probably let them know what it was about their profile that made you want to contact them, and tell them about yourself, and maybe ask any questions you may have… Just some ideas?
Mina – Twitter is great for synchronizing travel/movement/events with a large group of people (ie “I’m outside” “I’m on my way” “I’m parked in the black jeep” “What theater is it again?” updates in matters of seconds, that don’t need to be navigated, like Facebook.) It is also great for marketers, particularly online marketers (I believe Henri knows a bit about this), and business executives or artists in general who rely on networking. It is more of a streamlined networking tool great for shameless self-promotion.
S.B just tell him what you liked about his profile (ex. his love for the outdoors, sarcastic humour, whatever it may be) and then ask him to check out your profile and email you back if he’s interested. Or better yet if his profile is kind of vague on what he’s looking for in an arrangement ask him what his ideal arrangement would be. I always think it’s best to include some type of question in your initial email since it gives him something to work with if he writes you back.
The concept of Twitter is just weird.
uhhhhg, men (non-SD thing here) are a pain in my cutie booty!
this one dude; we talked on the phone several hours a couple weeks back and not since then. now he’s askin if he can hit it
LOLOLOLOL
just had ta break it to him; he’s just toooooo immature
Just be sure to take every and all precautions when going to meet someone. If you’re in a “neutral” city with friends and are somewhat familiar with it – great! But make sure you have a backup plan if things fall through or don’t go as planned.
As far as length of arrangements… I think it’s just fun to go with it and see what happens rather than putting a time frame on the relationship. If two people have fun together and keep within their boundaries, why end it? Just my opinion on it
wow, i always wondered WTH twitter was lol
CSB yeah I was addicted to the week before I left for college because I was stuck in my house and that’s all I could do all day for fun lol. But in my opinion facebook has more use than myspace or twitter. Plus it just looks better, less clutter…although with the new layout that looks like it might be changing soon.
I agree with you again, CSB! lol
Joules – What a charmer he is!
lol..Joules, men like that are sooo annoying!
Joules I know what you mean…an acquaintance of mine that usually only calls me on Thursday through Saturday to see if any local parties are going on, texted me the other day asking if I wanted to hang out at 2am. I laughed and never wrote him back.
Mina: Haha I have a pot SD that I’m meeting in a few weeks. He’s not coming to my city but I have family in the city we’re meeting (tentatively). That what I know I have backup contacts.
Btw, Joules, your pics are adorable! I loved the long hair!
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CSB – You can never take too many precautions. Someone may seem great on paper and say all the right things on the phone and in emails, but turn out to be completely batty in person.
Works both ways though, lol.
Yep true true Mina
Ooh…Batty… I wanna watch Ferngully… word association, something I can’t help but do…
I’m off to bed, darlings. I have an early morning flight to Cabo
Mina: Exactly but there’s only so much precautions you can take. I’ve called *67 and verified their information etc. Regardless, I still think meeting is the deciding factor in an SD/SB relationship.
Enjoy your flight and sleep well! Night, Mina!
uhhhg, its just been a wierd night for me. think i’m gonna blog and see if that helps
Have fun in Cabo Mina…wish I could go lol
I love the tree full of oil in Ferngully, great movie lol…my favourite book is being shipped to me and should be here in a few days, yay!
Vic, thanks! i can’t wait til my producer gets around to finalizing my newest pics from my last shoots in KC. there’s like 200 of them! it’ll prolly be like 6 more months tho
Yeah I don’t think any amount of emails or phone calls can replace the experience of meeting a SD in person. Like Mina said earlier they can be two entirely different people in person and on paper.
Aww Joules just lean in closer to the sugar fire and heat yourself up a smore. We’ll help to take your mind off of whatever weirdness you experienced tonight.
Been a while since I been up at this time. How’s everything Joules and GND? Ohhhhh and Victoria.
FERNGULLY!!!! That is my M.O.V.I.E.
I’m late, but goodnight Mina.
Everything’s pretty neat, CSB! Just…*studying*…in between here and facebook…
Aw, Joules, that’s sooo far away! And, I hope the weirdness doesn’t last…unless it’s good weirdness…I like that.
I wanna watch that now…like right now…
Good good CSB, I think my SD has finally fell asleep and so no more texts saying “go to sleep” haha. I’m a little nocturnal junkie, the moon is my friend and the sunset my alarm clock lol.
i’ll be back in a few…gotta reboot. my puter hasn’t been adjusting very well to the high-speed i-net lol
Well I’m on a random old music kick now…I had All the Things She Said by T.A.T.U stuck in my head so had to give that a listen.
Vic, both good and bad wierdness; i’ll explain in a couple min when i get back online
Ok Joules see you in a bit.
Ditto, GND! …Which is bad for my morning classes on Saturday and Sunday…
Haha the sunlight through my blinds is my alarm clock. LOL and today (technically) is the first day of spring.
Eeep! t.a.T.U! yaaaaay….I’ve gotten listen to them now….
*gotta*
I was trying to sleep but alas! it was not to be.
Haha yeah Vic I started having flashbacks of two girls running through the rain and banging on gates with steel bars, lol. Then the music started and it was over, had to listen to it.
I didn’t know today was the first day of Spring CSB. It’s been pretty warm down here, what about up there?
I didn’t know that, CSB… annnd, I want veggiedogs…
Hey Ebony, welcome back.
hahaha you all would just die if you saw this monsterous bowl of ice cream!
big huge warm brownie at the bottom (with walnuts) covered in liquid caramel, banana split icecream on top, vanilla crunchy things, choc. crunchy things and nuts on top of all that!
FRIGGIN HUGE!! lol
Gurl: Well the weekend was great but I was too sick to enjoy the warmth. The weather is not too bad right now. At least it’s not snowing.
Omg…Joules…I’m drooling over here…Iwannahasicecreams!
Haha… Joules I had my Mayan Chocolate ice-cream fix yesterday.
Vic….
so, my wierd night…well, i just hit a bump in the road with my business. no biggie, just a distraction. and one of my clients has to put his cd release on hold as a close friend died yesterday, i gots ta deal with pervs every corner i turn, haven’t heard from SD today, gots all kindsa relationship drama (which i brought on myself honestly lol)
and then, i dunno if i mentioned but several years ago my husband and i split up, he started seeing another chick and then he and i got back together and i EVENTUALLY ran that chick off and got her out of the picture.
well, this chick sent me a msg on myspace yesterday and it was the first she’d heard about my husband passing away. getting that msg from her threw my brain into some depression, but then my “this is not a date” friend kept me company that night so all is well now.
however, this chick emailed me AGAIN. so the last several hours; strangely enough, she and i have been talking and catching up on our lives. i mean, how did i all of a sudden come to not hating her so much? that’s just the main thing that’s throwin my head for a loop tonight
Hmm Joules not a big fan of ice cream…but I will take the chocolate crunchy things.
Chocolate makes me weak, it’s my kryptonite lol.
Hmm that is weird Joules, reminds me of that old movie about that male r&b singer who married like 5 women and they all ended up catching up with each other at the lawyer’s office while looking over his will. What’s that movie’s name???
Why do fools fall in love
this chick even told me that if it would help with my closure any; in dealing with my husband’s death…that i was more than allowed to ask her whatever i wanted in regards to their past relationship.
she thanked me for sharing with her everything that i did (just a lot of chit chat stuff, but some stuff in regards to my husband).
she was just super-nice to me; very comforting. i thanked her for listening and we added each other as friends on myspace
Aww well at least it ended good for you Joules.
Thanks Cat, yeah that’s the name of it.
Well, forgiveness could be playing a big part. I mean, over time, people see that they’ve let go of things that even they didn’t know they’d let go of. Like, now that you’re messaging her, you realize you’ve come to terms with things?
Sorry for the setbacks with the business, but I’m sure it’ll get better. And I hope relationship drama dies down… As far as pervs everywhere, well, I can’t help you…lol…they will always be hiding in the woodwork…
Woohoo I got mail from a potential SD, and he’s British.
GND dang gurl u makin me laugh soooo hard!
That’s one of my favorite movies!
Well, good luck, Joules… Being friends with her will probably be good for you in the long run. I’m a very forgiving person and I’ve found that it’s good for my stress level…
Aw…I want a British SD…
Awesome, GND!
Hi sugar fam!!!! Catching up on the blog…I feel like I haven’t been on for weeks….*l0l*
ya Vic, i think thats it. she was the first to apologize about what happened between the 3 of us in the past. she even said somethin like..’and i think we all 3 were not in a healthy place in our lives at that time…’
which is so true and i agreed with her
maybe i’ll try to talk her into goin to the cemetary with me next time I go out to KC lol it’d just crack my husband up to see She and I together lol
Yeah I agree with Vic on everything she said, lol. And Joules laughter is the best medicine and the thing I try to make all my friends do. Keeps their stress levels in check and helps to keep me in my constant chill mode.
uhhhg, made it half-way through the brownie crap….i tried to cover up the banana flavored ice cream but it didn’t work lol
gotta toss it out now lol
ya, definately a huge fan of laughter here as well *grin*
Yeah Joules I think that would actually good for your psyche, a joint group to the cemetary. I would think it would help with closure on the whole situation.
Yeah Vic he’s a married SD which rocks cause I could probably have two SDs
Two European SDs at that…I feel so giddy, lol. Oh and hey Y&F.
Hi Y&F!
Married? Is his wife sick?
Haha no, he called her “boring” lol. Plus he said he likes black girls.
I think I may have hit the jackpot.
I meant trip not group, wow how did I get those two words mixed up lol
thanks everyone for listening…i still gotta blog though
bbiaf
hey YF!
Aw, drat… He does seem pretty cool!
Lol, I was only wondering cause I’d recently emailed an Englishman with a sick wife and 2 kids…
lol GND, it made sense to me though; somehow!
GND & Y&F: Thanks for all the ideas. I above all want chemistry between pot SDs and I. How’s everyone tonight tonight.
I’m good CSB, and no Vic he has no kids. Just him and his wife and he does seem pretty cool, plus from his pics he looks super hot.
Lol ok well Joules if you understood my craziness then that’s all that matters.
Why can’t I just have Johnny Depp and be done with it?
I’m good CSB, and I totally agree with the chemistry thing. I mean, you want to actually enjoy the person you’re spending time with, right?
Yeah I agree Vic, chemistry is a big part of it…no chemistry and it won’t work. Aww Victoria we will find you a sexy British Johnny Depp lookalike, how about that?
I’m not at all attracted to Johnny Depp’s especially when it’s definitely about my progression.
Haha CSB, I personally prefer George Clooneys and Daniel Craigs. Tres sexy.
Oh, CSB, I’m okay with you not being attracted to him…I wish more women weren’t…like that Vanessa Whats-her-name…
A look-a-like would only cover the surface…but I suppose that’ll do for now, GND…lol I wanna go on tv…talk about how much I adore him, then maybe meet him…then I can die happy.
Haha maybe his fiance/wife (don’t know if they’re married yet) will decide he’s not the one for her and then I can use my matchmaking secrets to get him as your SD.
Ha, a girl can dream! (And dream I shall…)
Meanwhile…I haven’t gotten any new emails in a while and, well, it’s a bit sad… I’m being impatient, I know…but my impatience entertains me. lol
I’ve checked him about. We’ll expect about what’s observing?
Lol don’t worry we all get impatient every once in awhile. I personally think I’m going to start narrowing my search to Europeans in the USA. Any European SDs out there feel free to leave me a message.
Well everyone I need to be heading off to sleep soon, gotta actually wake up in about 3 hours for classes. Argh! Then off to the bank we go…take care everyone.
eh, i just dont think i can chat anymore tonight; got a lot on my mind (the relationship drama that i brought on myself lol). i’m thinkin i’m just going to have to take a couple sleeping pills and crash out *shrug*
Gurl: I enjoyed living with an open mind. I love a European but would appreciate all my sugars regardless of the situation.
Aw, g’night Joules and GND!
Goodnight everyone. I’m off to a peaceful sleep.
i’ll be lurking a few more min tho
All that reading made me a bit tired…*l0l*….Everyone decides to go 2 sleep when I finally get on…tehehe….It’s 3:45am where I am….& I really should go to sleep…but I got a couple of e-mails 2 reply 2… =) One I have yet to see a picture but no biggy & the other is very cute!!!
Well, I’m still here, Y&F. Kinda lurking, willing to chat…
still here too
Joules – I’m sorry about everything your going through….Maybe we should make our shopping trip earlier….*l0l* Everything will get better I promise….
This is my favorite song to listen to when I am down & in a bad mood.
Hope – The rain don’t last …..Here are the lyrics also…Just so you could see why. =)
Could it be the world’s gone colder?
Baby, I’m a losing soul
The more I try it just gets harder
And my pain is getting old
Somebody said that nothing lasts forever
Just the storm so I’ve been told
But it seems that when it rains it pours
CHORUS
And you know the rain won’t last forever
And you know the storm won’t always flow
But if the sun don’t shine forever
You gotta let it go
2ND VERSE
Sometimes my burdens get so heavy
And it seems too hard to bear
Sometimes I feel so empty
And it feels like no one’s there
Somebody said that nothing lasts forever
Just the storm so I’ve been told
But it seems that when it rains it pours
CHORUS x 2
And you know the rain won’t last forever
And you know the storm won’t always flow
But if the sun don’t shine forever
You gotta let it go
And you gotta let it go…
And you gotta let it go…
sounds like a cool song, i’ll have to d/l it BUT it sounds like it’d make me feel worse lol
i’m not very much into anything that has such a down and out (aka whiney) tone to it lol
i’m thinking maybe i’ll have to find my “What I’m Greatful For Today…” notebook (the one i mentioned to Lisa a while back)
You can hear it on playlist.com
It’s really pretty, Y&F!
Of course, when I’m in my down moods (which I think I’m heading to…), I prefer to listen to depressing stuff…give myself a good cry…
It’s a really good song….she’s got an awesome unique voice…very soothing….I have a song for any kind of mood any kind of situation. It’s crazy how many songs I actually have & know. I’m like a music dictionary. *l0l*
She has some other really pretty songs to….bring me flowers…who am I to say…& a couple others
Have you ever heard of Sia?
Not until just now…I just looked her up…I’m not to sure if I like her or not…I’m on the fence…*l0l*….Normally I don’t listen to alot of music like hope, sia & others of that type of genre. I just so happen to have a couple songs by feist & some others.
My favorite music is r&b & rap. But I love music just in general…I even have sets of music notes tattooed behind my ears =) Music is a big part of my life. When I have a bad day or something bad happens or even good things I always turn to music.
Yea, I’m the same way…music is life….
Of course, my preferences are very different!
I’m more of a soft rock/hard rock/metal/alternative/etc. (rock) type girl…with a healthy dose of R&B thrown in the mix and classical and foreign music (Japanese, French, little German)…
My range is pretty open. If it’s good it’s good! *l0l* Well sugarland…I’ve got to send an e-mail to a pot. then take my butt 2 bed….Gotta long day 2mor….I will probably be back on 2mor night or sunday….Talk to ya’ll soon!!!!
Night, Y&F!
alrighty, i’m going to lay down now.
for those of you that have me on ur myspace friends, i just wrote quite the disturbing blog! it’s beautiful in its own way though.
it’s the first time i’ve written so freely like that in YEARS
sorry everyone else, it’s not quite something i plan on sharing with the blog; too personal and too many people that will interpret it the wrong way!
i’m ‘happy’ to be alive; just have a lot of death surrounding me anymore *shrug*
Anyone that wants to keep an open mind though and read it is more than welcome to ask me and i’ll get it to you in private.
i’m goin to sleep though now and will check the blog responses to this comment i’m posting when i wake up
goodnight everyone!
Night, Joules!
Hey, I’m changing my summary line and I want you guys’ opinion about what would attract the right kind of man…
Something that includes beauty…maybe looking past looks or something showing that I’m genuine…
I think it’s hard to write a profile in complete proper English without sounding all philosophical or like a robot. I want the person who reads my profile to see me for me, not good grammar and a pretty, cliche description of myself.
Hmm… “The greatest treasures are those invisible to the eye but found by the heart.”
Wow…that’s nice. I don’t know if that would make them think i’m looking for a bf though…
“Pretty is something you’re born with. But beautiful, that’s an equal opportunity adjective.”
“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it may be necessary from time to time to give a stupid or misinformed beholder a black eye.”
“We live only to discover beauty. All else is a form of waiting.”
Maybe I should just write “Cause I keeps it real…” I’m sure all the CEOs will love that…
I’m not good with words…not tonight anyway!
“The true beauty of a woman is her inherent ability to make better a man in every way.” <<< one of my favorites…
Lol… Cause I keeps it real… Whatever floats your boat!
LOL I love the 2 one about the black one
Too ballsy maybe?
Yea, that may be a little to violent…lol
I’m just being stupid…I’m overthinking it and i’m only coming up with…blah. You seem very good at this!
Oh I know where I got “I keeps it real” from…you have to see this videos…too funny…well, I dont know if you’d be offended by rich conservative white guys rapping…
“Beauty is not caused. It is.”
Tell them dear, that if eyes were made for seeing,
Then beauty is its own excuse for being
~Ralph Waldo Emerson
I’m rarely ever offended by anything…except really mean gay-bashers… they make me sad.
YouTube: “Tea Partay” by new england gangsters…:)
Are you gay?
Beauty comes in all sizes, not just size 5. ~Roseanne
I don’t like standard beauty – there is no beauty without strangeness. ~Karl Lagerfeld
Beauty – in projection and perceiving – is 99.9% attitude. ~Grey Livingston
Is it obvious I’m having fun with these? lol
No, but I have lots of gay friends, and I am bi.
LMAO! A thank you note in cursive… Niiiiice…. I want a tea party…lol
I can’t use the Emerson quote…too long
It was my fave…
LOL. I know! I actually love tea…I’m like an old lady in that I love tea, a antiques and pearls lol
I don’t even label myself…I like women, but I love men! It’s nobody’s business who I play with
I’m the same way…except for the pearls…I LOVE tea and antiques, though! Ooh…I should get some tomorrow…
That’s awesome! I used to not label myself…then, everyone else decided to label me…so I was just like, what the heck, sure! But generally I’ll tell someone “I’m an equal opportunity lover!” lol
Have you ever tried Lavender tea? There is this brand called Revolution, and they make Lavender-Bergamot tea…add a bit of honey and it’s amazing!
LOL I lover the politically correct term! I can’t stand how everything has to be so politically correct now…nothing can just be what it is.
Wow…look at my spelling…I type like a retard…I mean I write similar to a mentally challenged individual