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Loading ...Did you like our “Sex & Sugar: WTF Sex Tips and Erroneous Zones” blog? Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies are known to be adventurous, so the usual missionary or cow-girl can get redundant. It seems every other issue of Men’s Health or Cosmopolitan is coming up with the “New Sex Position Banned in X Amount of Countries” or the “New Sex Position He’ll Never Forget”, which end up being a newly illustrated version of the 64 Kama Sutra positions. If you ask a non-Sugar Daddy about the matter, the usual response is that all sex positions are made the same—the crazier, the better, as long as he can tell his friends he did it. (Now, aren’t we glad for the mature and sophisticated Sugar Daddies of the world?) Ask a woman and you’ll receive a full list of funny and horrific stories about exactly how “sexy” some of these really are. Below are the sex positions that can ruin the mood, but don’t fret Gentlemen there are alternatives to your favorite position that she may hate.
(Please note that we decided to use non-Kama Sutra names for the positions)
This move is supposed to stimulate her vaginal walls, but all it really does is miss our sweet spots. And unless his member is Mini-Me sized this can even hurt!
Try the pretzel instead you get the coveted walls, while allowing for a tighter grip and the freedom to adjust.
According to Men’s Health, “She’ll have full access to your scrotum, buttocks, and anus for adding teasing and pleasuring”. True, as well as your hairy legs and feet in her face. We’ll let the illustration speak for itself…
Reverse Cowgirl
If you are a submissive Sugar Daddy looking, let your dom-Sugar Baby take control with a reverse cowgirl. She can still get access to your manly bits for extra stimulation.
The Boogey Man of sex positions, even athletic Sugar Babies can’t seem to get with this one. Maybe it’s the all the blood rushing to your head while trying to brace yourself for each thrust, then landing on said blood filled head when he loses himself mid-orgasm.
Simple enough, everything you love in the Wheelbarrow minus a trip to the first aid kit!
Unless you enjoy stoic sex, let’s toss this one out too.
This will allow you the eye contact and multiple points of skin contact you yearn for.
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Ooh! 2, 3, 4, 5 and 7
Am i first?
Feet in face? Ummmm, NO! And I will reserve my favorite position talk for a more intimate setting, thank you so much!
I’m private about certain things, although I will have to say that sometimes even just a small twist on an old favorite can steam things up 
No, it is need to be discussed, so many fairy tales about what women love in bed.
Squatted Kneeling and Reverse Cowgirl is quite good. Everything else technically hard task and need big equipment.
And Pretzel – let’s leave it to lesbian .
I don’t care about process,I care about it’s happy ending
My favorite is anything with a skillful lover. I like to be licked the right way and that my friends….. it’s very hard to find. A big equipment with a skillful tongue… r-a-r-i-t-y.
WTF?! … Man on top facing AWAY?! No thank you.
Um…Russian? I think its ‘scissors’ with the girl on girl action…not pretzel. I like the pretzel variation – ie. she needs to swing that left leg back up over his thigh. Sorry, I don’t want a guy sitting his sweaty ass crack on my inner thigh – I’m too little, he would crush me lol
I agree with CaliforniaSB, “anything with a skillful lover.”
Looks likes scissors foreplay.
How sex position can ruine the mood, anyway ? If something going wrong, we just change to another sex position, and so on.
Nothing ruine the mood better than empty promises
aint that the truth
…… well you are kinda between his hairy feet when he’s standing and you are on your knees to aren’t yah?,lol. Besides in # 2 his weight isn’t on you, he is supporting himself with the elbows and is all about the angle………nice switch up
It’s election day! Please get out to vote and then come back here to discuss your favorite positions…
The Guru strikes again…….
Hi all! The third one made me kind of cringe too, and I can say I have never done that one and probably never will…. they left out one of my faves though… having your female partner on the kitchen table
I hope everyone’s sugar is sweet!
I couldn’t agree more about #3….no too flattering. As for the kitchen table…I like the dining room table better, or the kitchen counters (when you just can’t finish making dinner and just have to RIGHT NOW).
The absolute worst position for me (and I cry inside whenever a guy sets up to do it) is when both legs are straight, he’s on top and trying to thrust into me.
No matter the size, it has never been enjoyable to me. It misses all my spots…and especially if you’re not well endowed, I end up feeling NOTHING. Then one has to start pretending…
Guys seem to love it, which is why I let them have their fun for a while…but it’s just such a turn off for me. I might as well be checking the news or writing a few emails in that position.
Cowgirl…now, that is one of my favorites.
One of my favorites for long and langorous with deep penetration is me lying on my side, her on her back at roughly 90 degrees, my legs around her far leg, her near leg over my butt. Good Sunday morning wakeup sex–low impact but lots of connection. Have had several ladies request that as a regular part of the repetoire once they get used to it.
Greetings everyone!
Hope all is well.
A new topic! Must quickly catch up.
x
VASD – this position is for next blog topic – 10 positions that making good mood
Lady V. , How are you ? Sound and healthy ?
HI RussianSB
I am much better thank you. Took all weekend and I was no fun.
Ready for action now
Oops that may be taken a bit naughty 
How are you?
I am fine, thanks, made today my 14 mezotherapy, next week 15 and final. From 16 November will party hard in the quest of Sugar. Need to find SD to spend X-mass and New Year vacation with. It is quite real – only few men who write me are married. And they have more issue with money, time and sexual needs (very spoiled). I am very surprised, I accept that sucsessful men are married guys , but they bring so much problems to the table and not ready to compensate that $$$. They cut short my allowance,
becose they need spend a lot for their family… so they better f…ck their family and I better will have romantic connection with sucsessful DIVORCED SD, who have plenty of time/affection/sexual energy for me
I don’t know about you ladies …but I’ve always seen sugar slow down after Halloween when people spend more time with their families. Then again, I’m spending more time with my family around that time, too.
Yes Russian, Lots more emails from unmarried SDs for me, as well. Many of them with profile created mid-October. Was there some SA advertisement mid-October to get more people to join? Hmmm I wonder.
Sounds like an excellent Plan RussianSB
Go for it and find someone that will spoil you properly.
They are indeed hard to find without too much baggage but they are there – little diamonds waiting
I adore Christmas, lets hope all the good wonderful SB’s and SD’s get what they all deserve from Santa
Only 3 weeks tomorrow and I fly on my holiday yippee!! Count down is on.
Goldfish: “I might as well be checking the news or writing a few emails in that position”.
ahahaha best line ever.
ok…I just had the THIRD phone call in a month from a guy searching out ‘new talent’ for the porn industry on SA. Theres my ‘wtf’ for the day: wtf are they doing on SA looking for new talent porn stars? Whatever.
Obama won. Hope all you liberals are happy with another 4 years of third world country style government.
Yay!!! Four more years of birth control. Phew!
We are very happy indeed!
@CaliforniaSB
Like it or not, you do some very “liberal” things. Be proud of your country, and your president no matter what. I haven’t always liked or approved of every action of every president, but he’s the leader of MY country. He’s in power because of the democratic process of MY country. And I have stood behind the idea of CinC since my first civics class as a boy. This is real patriotism, not some tea party bullshit. Many of you have lost your way. Whining because your candidate didn’t win. We are a country divided, and THAT is the real problem. Put on your big girl panties and stop crying, you live in what is STILL one of the greatest countries in the world.
@Ellen
Well, I guess theyre trying to find all the professional sex workers we always talk about on the blog.
Yes CaliSB, I am. let us liberals gloat…SOMEBODY had to lose. Better luck next time.
Same sex marriage rights!!! Religion and Politics don’t mix. Remember the Salem witch trials? Or did some here vote for Romney for the morality clauses implied?
@EllenSugarB,
Yay!!! Four more years of birth control. Phew!,
Uhhh, I don’t think they go hide all the birth control whenever a Republican gets elected.
“Put on your big girl panties and stop crying” – Yeah! Take your big girl panties off and start partying! woo hoo
Phone Guy, that was kind of a joke carried over from the prior blog topic. But I speak for many women my age when I say threatening to control what we do with our bodies is going to lose votes.
I gotta say, Romneys concession speech was heartwarming.
i’m not Rep. or Dem. — This was the first time in my life that I voted
CaliSB: I’m sure you know what I’m talking about!
I woke up at 6 AM (in France) to see the results. I, for one, am happy for 4 more years with the Obama administration.
Can’t say I’ve always been happy with his actions or choices, but I knew he was better than the alternative and should have his shot at two terms.
Anyways that’s my politics for the day. I have been so jazzed about the American elections over the past year that I feel like I can finally take a breath, at least for today.
How the heck do I link my avatar? i went to gravatar and tried to paste the icon…now it’s awaiting moderation….hmmmm…technology
YAY…there I am
This election was like Libya…. an inside job. But moving on….
Romney was not going to do anything to control what you do with your body. I’m sure he said what he thought he needed to to get the nomination. Nothing horrible was going to happen to your choices if he got elected. Unfortunately a Republican can’t be pro-choice and get to a national election.
Hi All!
BTW….I voted OBAMA!!
Be interested in a poll. I bet most Sugar Daddy’s voted with their pocketbook and pulled the lever for Romney
I carry my DFL card in my pocketbook.
@EllenSugarB
“November 6th, 2012 at 4:52 pm
ok…I just had the THIRD phone call in a month from a guy searching out ‘new talent’ for the porn industry on SA. Theres my ‘wtf’ for the day: wtf are they doing on SA looking for new talent porn stars? Whatever.”
Solicitaion is not allowed on SA. Please feel free to email me this users profile name or number, so I can have support address the matter. Thank you and I hope he didn’t bother you too much!
-Angela
PR Manager
angela@SeekingArrangement.com
@Nawty Molly
Hey lady, many of us are still waiting for an update, if you feel like giving one. Glad to see you blogging again.
@CaliSB
Inside job? Conspiracy theories, again? Mitt let it go, and I think he had more vested than you. Be part of the solution, not the problem. “These are critical times.”
@EllenSB
Yup, there you are. Welcome to the avatar zone. One day I’ll put mine up there and see how many people run away screaming “Oh noooooooo”
Sex positions and politics – things of the same nature
phoneguy – Yeah ok. Regardless, I don’t have to like it when someone threatens these things. All I said is that he isn’t going to get the young woman vote with that attitude, and that much is true. See, this is why I think politics is a bunch of bs and lies – you have to cut through a lot of bs to get to the truth. Kinda like sugar dating lol.
And again, his concession speech is heartwarming, “I ran for president because I am concerned about America.” I think people will remember that last image of him.
Tina…where are you? I see you ran for cover with this heated convo lol Come back and make me laugh
Hi Angela – It’s all good, I don’t feel the need to rat anybody out for what they do on the site. Just thought it was kinda wierd for someone to look for that stuff on here. I’ve also been contacted by a guy who writes algorithms for Adult Friend Finder via SA …no biggie. They didn’t harass me or write anything too offensive. I just think it’s odd. With a message title like “Are you ready to submit to Daddy?” I was prepared for an unsavory proposition when I opened the message.
Sex positions and politics – things of the same nature
It’s all about the passion baby!
Glad to hear that Obama is in again. I’m Canadian and the thought of Romney and Harper getting chummy, scares me!
A funny story… My mother (Canadian) is married to an American. She would have voted Obama, had she been able to vote and her husband voted Romney. She just spent several days visiting with me – thank goodness she’s gone! LOL
Re positions…
Favourites: me facing and sitting on a man who is sitting on a chair, me on my stomach with man laying on me, holding me down and whispering sweet nothings in my ear.
Least favourites: Backwards cowboy and classic doggy (on the knees). I prefer doggy standing up!
sassyteacher
I lied! I said ‘sweet nothings’ in my previous post but I would actually prefer erotic, and down and dirty!
Way OT some man wants me to open an acct so he can send me money. I told him to send it through my pay pal but he is saying that he can’t and I should open a bank acct. Is he scamming me. It doesn’t sound right. It sounds like some kind of way to either get to my money or to launder some illegal money. I shouldn’t do it should I? Help!!
@Theresa – I’m not savvy on money laundering but I would think that he doesn’t want any sort of paper trail, whether it’s because of taxes or a wife. Pay Pal takes money from either a credit card or bank account which is visible/traceable. Depositing money into your account leaves no traces on his accounts. I’m not sure of the laws in the States but he may not even have to show an I.D. to deposit the money into your account. Anyway, that’s my two cents!
@Sassyteacher -Thanks it’s just that I don’t want to get caught up in something illegal or fishy. You know how it is, you start to trust someone and “wham” your in trouble.
@Theresa
He can get a green dot card that can be used to load paypal. He can pay cash for it and then give you the info to load your paypal.
@Ellen: sorry, I was at work all day having an absolutely disastrous day. So, I think some tequila in the form of a margarita…..or two…..or three…..or more…..is in order. I promise I will return to give you giggles either tomorrow or the next day. And if I’m lucky I might have some more fodder pop up on the blog between now and then
@Nawty: HEEEEEEEEEEEEEY! What are you doin’ girlie! Gimme all the details!
@Tina
Ohhh you mean the actual drink….nevermind…
I go well with orange juice also, until the sunrise.
Oooh fun topic! I’m in agreement with everything…except I kind of enjoy spooning sex facing each other every now and then…does that make me boring?!
I’m back from a wonderful vacation with my guy and am dreading going back to the real world tomorrow. Ooooh well. Hope you’ve all had a wonderful week so far!
@Theresa – I would want to really know the individual before giving them access (even deposit slips ) to an account.
One easy way is for him to open a new account at a place where he has an account, have a debit card issued (the banks insist on offering these cards) in his name. He can then sign on to his single financial institution and transfer money between his accounts. You simply manage to either use the money in the account or take it out in cash according to your level of trust.
It eliminates the “transactional” feel of cash when you meet , is elegantly simple and is easy for the sd to perform and the SB to audit.
Election – I am deeply saddened at the results even though it will probably benefit me financially. I think our grandchildren will not look favorably upon our decision to inflict upon them the burden of our excesses and our unwillingness to defend what’s made us great.
Theresa- One easy way is for you to open an account under a DBA…or use the square app. Another easy way is to tell him to sent you a “signature required” envelope via FedEx, cash included, Yes, all of the above are possible.
oh, btw, Theresa, he wants your account information so he can have your full name — and stalk you at his discretion. Sorry bloggers, if Theresa is a newbie, she needs to know.
Let the tomato throwing begin lololol
Hello Sugars!!!
I am glad Obama won…Romney scared me with his.. platform. Not that it would have affected me much, I’m Canadian, but I totally agree with @SassyTeacher, it would of been scary to have Romney and Harper being chummy… Harper is a snake and it would of been disastrous for our Canada!
As for the topics, there are many positions that are fun and enjoyable. Any position that has me resting on my hands only is a no-no for me… I broke one of my wrists multiple times and the last time I broke it, it was misdiagnosed by the Dr and now I have to have it broken and reset… not going to happen, but now, it’s sensitive … or fragile I should say..
AM~ Girlie, how are you? how are you doing, please give me some news about ya… you got my email right?
Another storm hits NY, NJ … I feel so bad… I hope everyone is getting what they need. Thoughts and Prayers go out to everyone that was affected by this disaster
Good night Sugars!
@Flyr
Call me an optimist, but I will always believe that it will be the people that continue to make this country great, not strictly the government. I never worry about socialism overrunning this country, as long as we can raise our own children.
Flyer.
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One easy way is for him to open a new account at a place where he has an account, have a debit card issued (the banks insist on offering these cards) in his name. He can then sign on to his single financial institution and transfer money between his accounts. You simply manage to either use the money in the account or take it out in cash according to your level of trust.”
1.if a guy is married or a big boss – would not that leave a huge Trail ? In case of divorce / any audit ?
2. If you do not know the guy too good; if he did not invest any significant money in you – he might just want to know your full name (address) by asking your banking account .?
@Theresa — if you don’t know this guy very well, it is very likely that he wants you to open this account for money laundering or illegal transfers. There have been reports were people have done things like this and got caught up into supporting things like drug smuggling or terrorism.
Here is how it works. You open a bank account and give the person your name and account number. Money is wired into the account either domestically or internationally. Someone with a fake ID with your name on it shows up to the bank and withdraws the money. You have just unknowingly supported an illegal transfer of money. Even worse yet, the government thinks you are associated with it. Don’t ever give someone your bank account information that you just met.
Tell them to open an account and send you an ATM card to withdraw the money. See how quickly you hear back after that
@NC Gent – Good advice!
@NCgent Do you really think it is likely? I would say it is more likely that he just wants a way to pay that is easy and discrete for him. Cash these days is not always the easiest.
In business the last thing you want to do after going through all the work of making a sale is to make it hard for your customer to pay!
But Theresa I would just trust your gut. Tell him cash up front for at least the first couple of transactions but after that? There are a lot of ways to safeguard a account now. (just set up with the bank to email you real time with transactions)
Hi everyone,
Thanks for the good advice. I guess I should have been a little more specific. This guy who wants me to open an acct. is overseas and he told me he needs the money to pay someone to get his team back to America or something like that? I already blocked two other guys for telling me the same story, that’s why I was so suspicious. I’ve never met this guy in real life and I’ve never even talked to him over the phone, we’ve just been e-mailing and chatting for about a month. I told him that I would like a present in lieu of a cash payment but he kind of blew that off and insisted on me opening a bank acct. I’m a total newbie, but I don’t consider myself stupid, which is why I came to you all for advice. I think I will take your advice @NCGent and ask him to open an acct and send me an ATM card. That way I can see if he is scamming me. And again Thank you all.
oh, btw, Theresa, he wants your account information so he can have your full name — and stalk you at his discretion.
it is very likely that he wants you to open this account for money laundering or illegal transfers.
Seriously, how loud are the black helicopters from where you are standing?
Then any of these other options are fine.
You people are going to scare the heck out of newbs with your overly sensitive safety concerns. I’d say suck it up and go with cash or greendot until you are no longer worried he has your last name and are not worried he’s with any cartel.
@NorthernSD — I actually have knowledge of it happening to the friend of a former SB. Her friend talked to someone she met from SA for a few weeks. He was going to wire her money to pay for a plane ticket and the first months allowance($10k — huge red flag). Her friend opened a bank account, money was wired into the account from overseas, and another woman went into the bank with a copy of the wire transfer paperwork and a fake ID and withdrew the money. There are so many other ways to transfer money – why risk being a part of something illegal?
@Phoneguy – not trying to scare people, it is just reality. There are a lot easier ways to transfer money until you at least meet the person face-to-face. It amazes me that people are willing to give bank account information to a person they have never met in person before and have only known them for a few weeks at best — doesn’t pass the sanity test IMHO.
Let’s wait and see what we hear back from Theresa – anyone want to make a friendly side wager on whether she hears back from him?
@Theresa
“This guy who wants me to open an acct. is overseas and he told me he needs the money to pay someone to get his team back to America or something like that?”
You see how little details like that can make all the difference in how we evaluate the situation? This is most likely a scam. There is no reason why someone from overseas needs to send money to a stranger for the purported purpose.
A note to everyone, the more details you can provide when asking for advice, the more helpful the blog can be.
@NC Gent: I’ll take the bet that he poofs.
@Theresa: You have advice from one and all on this blog. Block the dude when you can. That’s just me.
@Tequila: my Texas sized margarita was quite enjoyable. I don’t like drinks with orange juice in them because the sugar from the juice makes my tummy hurt. No bueno.
Wow, it’s an absolutely GORGEOUS day here today. I can’t wait for Turkey Day! (Just talked to my Mom about a few plans, and need to talk to her about a few more……)
Hi Guru!
@Theresa
“This guy who wants me to open an acct. is overseas and he told me he needs the money to pay someone to get his team back to America or something like that?”
SCAMMMMMMMMMMMMM!! And I would report these guys. (They would get as much money from you as possible, even while they were doing other illegal stuff using your acct.) This one is called the “mexican prisoner” scam if I’m not mistaken. Help me use your money/credentials to rescue my friend is the theme. As we get closer to holidays, the emails/requests/tactics will increase. Almost all of these will involve another country, so if you’re in the U.S., this serves as a warning flag. And don’t feel bad, before I got into internet marketing, I got scammed twice. Here are a few more scams:
Loan Processing: Holidays are coming. You’ll want extra cash. I fell for this in my 20′s. Company was in Canada. 48hr turnaround, paperwork looked legit. 300 for express processing, 5k loan with decent interest rate and decent payback and holidays were very close. Called the office talked with these people, found the company on the internet. Paperwork sent, POOF gone. SCAM.
Foreign Prince: “I need your help. I am a prince/dignitary/politicalprisonerwithinternet and I need your money/bankacct to get the money from my overthrownbank/allies needed to restore my throne.” SCAM.
No Duty Tax: “I can ship these heavily taxed items to you in a way where you can avoid the taxes. Think of the money you save.” I knew someone that would have save 800 on 2 heavy items. Didn’t the stuff. They got more money because there was a “problem.” Never got the stuff.
Go look up some more of these gems, because your holiday dollars are in danger.
I voted for a third party candidate, my state was a solid republican non swing state.
YEAH! I just ordered the last of my roses for the front garden! Now all I need are some arbors for the climbing roses, and the purchases (except for the compost and new mulch, but the mulch isn’t until the spring when I plant) are done for that area! I’m so excited!
……now I just have to wait until the first part of February when my roses actually come in. NUTS!
LOL, I didn’t catch up on anything! I’m too lazy. Anywho, my trip to Atlanta was awesome and my ex was even better.
Heading back to Atlanta on the first…I’m nuts I suppose, but, it’s fun and having fun in life is what it’s all about….right??!! I haven’t had this much “fun” in a while!! Enjoying the single life!!!
However, I’m pissed I’ll miss The Walking Dead…I love that show! Best thriller/drama on t.v.!
@Nawty: girl, have that fun! Just guard yourself, and know that it’s all about fun right now, and no expectations. Let yourself have a blast, let go of any baggage, and that way you’ll be healthier when you’re ready for it.
i try all position , because i like sex.
JustATequillaSD and everyone on the blog,
Thank you all you are life savers!! I will block him and report him and the other two men who tried to scam me. It is just ridiculous. I think I must have bad luck picking. I’m sure one of these days I’ll figure out how to find someone that isn’t a fake or a creep. Now on to something more lighthearted:
Positions, my favorite is doggie style with my head in the pillow so no one can hear my screaming. Yes, I’m one of those loud girls. You can’t thin walls if you with me. The only thing I really really hate is having my butt slapped. I’m not a porn actress and having my butt slapped just plain hurts. But if I am in the mood I might go for some booty action. Now don’t go clutching your pearls…it’s not something I do all the time, just when I’m feeling really, really naughty.
@Theresa – Don’t bury your head in the pillow! There is nothing better than hearing that screaming. Fuck the neighbors…if they don’t like, they can turn up their music!
@JustaTequilaSD it may be a bad thing, but I feel a bit relieved that I am not the only one who has been scammed. I’ve posted about it before, totally different travel scam. Full Skype, talking, communication for weeks. Then payments for Visas, Passport applications, health checks and certificates, actual flight. Then missed flight, and had to go through some stuff again. It was elaborate. I actually got a call from the Embassy asking questions about her visit etc. for her Visa.
The net is a bit dangerous for sending funds to people. And this one got past my little screening method with Skype. I think I intentionally ignored the little warning signs because I found her so attractive.
what ya gonna do?
As for sending money? If you are OUTSIDE the United States, there actually aren’t that many ways to send money. Creating a bank account and “sending” a Debit card also won’t always be a viable option from outside the US in some place that doesn’t have robust online banking facilities.
I think in all instances, caution is recommended but at some point decisions must be made.
@WCSD: I’ll agree with you; the best sex if where I can just let go and not have to worry about what anyone else thinks (neighbors, house mates, other partner…..)
Why force yourself to be inhibited? Sex should be about letting it ALLLLL go!
oh, btw, Theresa, he wants your account information so he can have your full name — and stalk you at his discretion.
Another easy way is to tell him to sent you a “signature required” envelope via FedEx,
@Ellen -So your advise is to ensure that she’s also stalked at home/work? Apart from supplying someone with your bank A/C info, this…giving your address ANY address to a perfect stranger….looney. One time visa cards – much safer…all that is required is the card number, expiration date, and code at back…all can be sent via email or text.
He says he’s in England but I know that the UK has excellent banking qualities. I’m in the states, so it shouldn’t be all this drama if he really wants to send me money. As of sending it to my address, I live in an apartment and anything that doesn’t have an apt. number on it is sent to the front office. So I can give someone my address without giving them my apartment number. That’s a way I thought I could keep things a little private. Anyway, I said I would tell him today whether or not I would send him the money, but so far he hasn’t e-mailed me back.
Gift visa cards are a good idea especially for international encounters.
Holidays are coming. Keep your eyes open and your guard up.
@Twiceshy
Happens to everyone at some point. You be careful too.
@Theresa
Keep looking, but surprises come when/where you least expect it.(See “surprise” definition.) Be careful.
As for “FDAU” (Face down…) use your own discretion. Do what makes you comfy in that pillow or out of it. However, a little well placed slap on the ass does not make you a porn star. And if it honestly hurt enough to sour you on it, then I think that was too hard. Try to establish a safe word next time (just joking.)
@Theresa – Do not send him money unless you’re the Sugar Mama!!!
I live in England Theresa and it all sounds very strange to me.
I would listen to what the others are saying.
On to the next nice person x
Throughought the whole election results coverage, I had to check in on Fox news ( rarity). It was quite entertaining, funny even, lol!
I like spanks… I think saying spank instead of slap is the difference between pleasure and pain
@Lady Vuitton
Yeah that’s what I’m going to do, just move on with no regrets and my money safely in my hands. I’m nobody’s SM, I already raised my own kid, I don’t want to raise a 20 yr. old.
Spankings can be quite nice in the right circumstances – sexy or playful
@NC Gent,
I will not take the bet with the extra info added.
Try to establish a safe word next time
I’m not a porn actress and having my butt slapped just plain hurts.
@Theresa, I think someone is being a bit overzealous.
Spankings can be quite nice in the right circumstances – sexy or playful
@Tina, Reaaaalllyyy?!?
@ Phone Guy: Oh yeah, most definitely! I quite enjoy a playful spank, say, while I’m cooking dinner, or a sexy one when going hard and strong in doggie style……
@Tina
0_o **Daaaaaaaaaaaaaang**
@Theresa
Even if you were the SM, you still don’t want to get scammed.
@CaribSb
Spank or slap or smack it’s all context and perspective. Just make sure it feels right and you wont use the words at all.
@JatSD: well if I phrased it correctly it should be mire like *booooing*
*more, not mire
@Tina
Actually that time i was trying to convey the near speechless reversion to country boy causing a jaw drop followed by my favorite country boy werd.
@JaTSD: awww shucks! You offering any spankings while talking all country like? Hmmmm?
@Tina
A few spankings. Maybe an occasional “Ride the pony”, “yahoo”, “git er done”, and “thahnku, thahnku vurry much, unh-huh” if that’s country enuff fer ya.
@JatSD: only if you ride the pony hard and put it up wet…….
oooohhhhh…”one time Visa card” …Great idea! Thank you for that little nugget of advice, it will come in handy ::rubbing hands together in excitement::
But Jessie….the question remains: Where do they SEND the Visa card (looney)?
btw i wouldn’t give a stranger my home address. I use a p.o. box for my mail. With that said, I’ve never given a stranger ANY address of mine. And I don’t think i would even accept money from a foreigner, or travel to a foreign destination for a first meet.
Hey sugars…i got this email from this SD .(1720370)
I love your profile and pic and would like to get to know you. will be traveling to Columbus on business tomorrow (thursday) evening and would love to meet you for a late dinner or drinks. No expectations except for good company and conversation…
My e-mail address is (INSERT EMAIL). E-mail me and I will send pics and would love to see more of you…
based on that message,you would all think that he sounds like a genuine guy,well,that’s not the case..we ended up exchanging few messages back and forth and decided i was going to meet him after i was done with my classes later that evening..even though it was on a very short notice! i sent him my number which was easier than thru inconvenient messaging system..i ended up driving for 20 miles just to see him.when i reached our meeting place he made me wait at the lobby for 40 mins dint show up,i decided to give him a call…he wouldn’t pick up my calls..i realized that i was punked so i left.
he ended up calling me as soon as i got home and apologized saying that he dozed off!!!!
seriously? he wasted my time just to flip 180dgrees out of nowhere.do some guys get off fuckin with people like that or something? its unthinkable!