- Sep 28, 2010
- SD Guru
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995 days ago
Sugar Baby Photo Advice
On SB photos: each has to be comfortable with their own preferred degree of discretion, revealingness or lack thereof. I know there are many different perspectives of SDs on what a good photo profile looks like — some guys want to see all skin and lingerie, some don’t want any of that, and some in between. Here is just ONE SD’s perspective (mine), take it for what it’s worth:
1. The best picture profiles have at least one clear, unblurred, unblocked, unfuzzed, non-headless face photo, and one clear full body photo. Some SBs’ need for discretion precludes this, which is understandable, but it does dampen interest, generally speaking. 8 out of 10 times if I can’t see the SB’s face I just ignore and move to the next. I have grown tired of having to ask for photos, which as often as not leads to some huffy response (“so I guess you’re just shallow” or accusations of being a picture collector). Or more awkwardly, I get a photo, don’t particularly like what I see, and then what do you say? I have several clear face and full body photos of myself on my profile and if the SB has none, I generally just pass. Again, for many SDs this isn’t an issue at all and they don’t mind the “ask for photos” routine.
2. Some SDs absolutely detest photos of SBs in lingerie or less, considering it borderline sleazy. I think one provocative or semi-revealing photo is just fine, if tastefully done. At the other end, some SDs are really looking for skin, skin, skin. Query whether that’s the type of SD you want to attract.
3. There’s a debate about professional or quality photos vs. your amateur, cellphone, self-photo. The benefit of the latter, for some SDs, is it proves you are real and not fake. On the other hand, some self-photos, e.g., those taken in a messy room next to an unmade bed, do not put your best foot forward.
4. The best photos, IMO, are candid ones of the SB alone, e.g. on vacation, with a pet, out on the street actively doing things, etc. If you appear with drink in hand, in drunken stupor at a party, with some unidentified guy’s arm wrapped around your waist, it sends the wrong signal.
5. There should be at least one recent photo, and the older ones shouldn’t be 8-10 years old.
6. When in doubt opt for class and quality over the opposite end of the spectrum. You generally won’t go wrong and won’t turn anyone off.