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How To Date Like a Modern Woman

Modern Woman Looking to Date

Ever since Carrie Bradshaw and her fierce foursome took NYC by a stiletto-clad storm, the “rules” surrounding traditional dating have been challenged.  We take that back. They have been completely redefined.  So long to passive princesses waiting to be rescued. Goodbye to antiquated rituals and three-day waiting periods. Women off the screen began taking charge of their dating lives and savoring every second. Today, this trend continues to gain momentum as the modern woman digs her red-soled heel even deeper into the dating world.  As the world’s leading luxury dating site, Seeking knows the modern woman like Hermès knows handbags. …

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6 Essential Online Dating Tips for Men: A Guide to Success

Seeking Couple after Receiving Advice from other Members

As you may have noticed, Seeking has an entirely different angle than most dating sites. On Seeking, we don’t swipe, we don’t settle, and we Date Up. In other words, we are a luxury site composed of like-minded Attractives (female members) and Successfuls (male members) who want to elevate their dating lives. Yet Seeking has more than 44 million members around the globe so it’s fair to wonder what it takes to really stand out from the crowd and find those magical connections. We already asked the ladies for their thoughts, so now let’s turn the tables and get the …

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Data Privacy & Online Dating: What You Need to Know

Seeking Member practicing data safety

There are dozens of things you do every day to keep your private property, well, private—and safe. You probably have a passcode on your phone, lock away items at the gym before hitting those weights or a class, or stash important documents in a safe deposit box. When it comes to putting information online, privacy is just as important. Why? Any information that gets into the wrong hands can turn a movie like Enemy of the State into a real-life drama, and it may not wrap up as nicely as it does on the big screen. Many websites and big …

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Selfish Dating: Why Singles are Putting Themselves First

Seeker Practicing Selfish Dating

We all know that being self-centered is a bad thing. Or is it? The newest dating trend, “selfish dating,” encourages singles to be a little self-centered – but it’s not what you think. Selfish dating is characterized by daters putting their own needs, time, and mental well-being above all, both in their dating life and in general. Basically, the “selfish dating” mindset is: “If it doesn’t serve me, I don’t want it!” Despite the negative association with the word “self-centered,” selfish dating is not about being self-absorbed or rude to others. Instead, the selfish dating trend empowers singles to put …

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Singles Reveal Their Top Dating Turn-Offs – Avoid These “Icks”

Seeking Survey Results on Dating Turnoffs

Whether they admit it or not, everyone has a list of qualities they look for in a romantic partner – and some they prefer to stay away from. We’ve all been there – you’re on a date with someone who seems like a great match, but then they do that thing that you can’t stand, and you instantly go from heart eyes to looking for the closest exit. This pivot from insta-like to “ick” isn’t just limited to a first date experience. Lots of people have even ended a long-term relationship because of something their partner did that they just …

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Dating in 2023 – 9 Resolutions to Start Dating Up

Seeking Couple Dating in 2023

2022 has been real, but now it’s time to start manifesting an amazing 2023. We’re talking about going beyond the promises to get a Peleton and go Paleo — those resolutions are so 2019. And let’s be honest – Paleo sounds great and all, but no one wants a life without brunch at Bouchon. We’re talking about getting the most out of dating in 2023. Seeking is the world’s top luxury dating site, and it’s our goal to help you connect with a partner that helps you achieve your dreams of a luxury dating life. That’s why we’ve created the resolutions …

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4 Bad Actors in Online Dating – And Their Red Flags

Healthy Seeking Relationship

Chances are, you’ve heard some pretty wild dating stories over the years. Some fit squarely into the comedy genre, but others are pretty icky. Whenever you see those “red flags,” or warning signs that tell you something just isn’t right, it’s important to trust your gut and not move forward with the relationship. You may have been approached by one of the bad actors in online dating. Here are some seedy characters to look out for, as well as some suggestions for what to do when you are confronted with them. Romantic Russ Here is a new connection you barely …

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Seeking’s Year in Review – Dating Up™ Throughout 2022

Seeking's 2022 Year in Review

Here at Seeking, we turn our members’ dream dating lives into reality. As the world’s largest luxury dating site, we help our 44 million global members connect with like-minded singles to explore the world and elevate their dating lives. Whether they’re sitting backstage at a sold-out concert or dining on a private yacht off the coast of Monaco, Seeking singles are elevating their dating lives, setting their expectations high, and refusing to settle. And we truly love to see it. Let’s take a look at some of our “greatest hits” in Seeking’s 2022 Year in Review! Seeking Members’ Net Worth …

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Why It’s OK to Be A Picky Dater

Picky Daters who Met on Seeking

You’re probably used to people saying that you’re too picky when it comes to dating. Your friends might frame this as a bad thing. However, the truth is, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being selective. In fact, we encourage it, because we know those traits actually lead to better dating experiences all around. No matter what people might say, it is possible to find the perfect companion without having to make any concessions. Here’s why being a picky dater is a good thing: 1) Picky daters have high standards People might joke that your standards are “too high.” But …

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Main Character Energy – 2023’s Top Dating Trend

Once upon a time, changing yourself to impress a date was considered the norm. Blogs, books, and movies encouraged singles to dress differently, act a certain way, or pretend to be involved in hobbies they didn’t care about just to get someone’s attention. Those days are long gone, and have been replaced by “Main Character Energy,” the latest dating trend. Now that 2022 is coming to a close, the dating game has definitely changed, and so have the rules. From TikTok videos to Cosmopolitan articles, many forms of media are now encouraging singles to come as they are, and if …

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