With the “50 Shades of LA” party nearing in September, we wanted to share some insight into approaching Sugar Babies in public settings. Let’s face it: not everyone is a natural extrovert. And it especially doesn’t help that women gather in groups at parties. Follow these guidelines and you will penetrate that circle of women in no time! (What else did you think we were talking about..?)
Women love surprises–but not when being approached. The last thing you want to do is start grinding on a group of unsuspecting women. You’re not a lion on the Discovery Channel– make your presence known before making a move. Approaching a group of women directly, rather than from the sides, exudes confidence–a quality that women admire.
When speaking to a group of women, it is best to address them as a whole. If you immediately focus on one girl, the rest will not follow. When introducing yourself, try offering the group a drink–and if they decline, simply address the scene. Ask what they think of the place, or inquire about the occasion. If you collectively engage the group, they will individually feel more comfortable.
The more you talk about yourself, the more you will come off as self-absorbed. While women appreciate a man’s success, they don’t want it “flexed” in front of their faces. Women value other essential qualities: listening, humor, and common interests–all of which can be expressed through engaging questions. For the best results, approach all topics with a balance of insight and inquiry.
Women will rarely tell you directly if they like you. However, their level of interest can be interpreted simply through their body language: if she finds a reason to touch you, whether it be a light brush on the arm or a pat on your leg, then you’re in the green. Find a spot to speak privately, reciprocate your feelings, and enjoy the night together.
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