Although Caitlyn Jenner has increased awareness to the transgender community, not everyone is well versed about the community.
Transgender is the state of one’s gender identity not matching the gender one was assigned to at birth. This creates a common issue of transgender people feeling trapped in the wrong body, and they often seek to transition from male to female, or female to male.
The transgender community is on the rise, and the team at SeekingArrangement has noticed a strong presence of transgender Sugar Babies in the Sugar community. We have come up with a guide to help you understand these Sugar Babies a little better.
You may have come across profiles that list the terms pre-op and post-op. The terms might be unfamiliar, but they aren’t difficult to understand.
Pre-op means the individual has not undergone sexual reassignment surgery (SRS). Although sexual reassignment covers a wide range of procedures, it generally refers to genital reassignment. But it doesn’t necessarily have to mean that. Sexual reassignment can also consist of hormone replacement therapy. In which sex hormones, androgens for transgender men, and estrogens for transgender women are taken to synchronize a person’s secondary sexual characteristics with the gender they identify with.
Post-op means after surgery, generally speaking after the sexual reassignment has been completed. Some people identify as “post-op” transgender, but some simply identify as male or female because they’ve completed the surgical process that has fulfilled their transition.
Surgery isn’t always desired or necessary, and transgender people can identify many different ways regardless of surgery.
While some Sugar Babies prefer to be more discreet, others include phrases and terms on their profiles that quickly identify them as transgender.
T Girl/ Boy: Short for transgender boy or girl. (This is a very popular term.)
Trans: Short for transgender or transsexual. Some transgender Sugar Babies may refer to themselves as trans man or trans woman.
MTF: A person who transitions from “male-to-female,” meaning the individual was assigned male at birth, but identifies and lives as a female.
FTM: A person who transitions from “female-to-male,” meaning the individual was assigned female at birth, but identifies and lives as a male.
As mentioned earlier, not every Sugar Baby feels comfortable being upfront in their profile. They don’t necessarily wish to keep it a secret, but prefer to disclose the information in a personal conversation instead. It takes a lot of courage for transgender Sugar Babies to be open and honest because of the high rejection they face, so be respectful if they choose to confide in you.
It it perfectly fine if you aren’t interested in transgender Sugar Babies. You should not feel guilty for not wanting to pursue an arrangement. Just be sure to express your true feelings in a respectful manner. The last thing you want to do is give a transgender Sugar Baby false hope. There is no reason to be harsh or rude about this topic, please refrain from using derogatory terms. It is very natural to feel frustrated, but remember how difficult it must be to disclose this particular information to a Sugar Daddy.
Perhaps, you aren’t turned off, but actually intrigued. Transgender Sugar Babies expect a lot of questions, and typically enjoy clearing up misconceptions and educating Daddies. Ease into your questions and be mindful of coming off too forward. Also keep in mind that there is no such thing as a dumb question. It’s a new world to you, and your ignorance will not be frowned upon.
Once you both are comfortable, you can eventually form an arrangement just like you would with any other Sugar Baby. In order to have a successful arrangement, you must keep an open mind. Transgender arrangements are not for everyone, and your Sugar Baby’s needs may differ from the needs that you’re used to fulfilling in other arrangements.
Transgender babies seek financial assistance too, but school and living expenses may not be their number one request. Transitioning is very expensive, and it’s not uncommon for them to seek a benefactor who is willing to help offset the hefty expenses. This could include hormone treatments, fillers, injections, breast augmentations, and of course the most expensive surgery, genital reassignment. Not all transgender Sugar Babies seek assistance with transitioning, but it is common.
SeekingArrangement should be a safe environment for both Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies, the website does not discriminate against anyone. Because of this, the arrangement possibilities are endless. You are destined to find exactly what you are looking for, and who knows, you might just meet a very special Sugar Baby along the way.
What is your number one question for a transgender Sugar Baby?
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