Upon entering the Sugar Bowl you’ll immediately notice many different flavors of sugar to chose from. One of these savory flavors is that of the married variety. While the married Sugar Daddy may not be for everyone, there are important lessons that any Sugar Baby can take away from their insights.
Master the art of discretion. Without beating around the bush, this is the most vital lesson you will learn and it applies to all other lessons and arrangements, past and present. Learn to forgo wearing lipstick or perfume on dates, which can easily transfer traces of the evenings events. Refraining from showboating your gifts and our relationship publicly, especially in high-risk areas with the threat of running into family or friends. A little common sense goes incredibly far, and is ultimately rewarding for everyone in the arrangement.
Know what you want. Plain and simple, know what you want from your life and from the arrangement. Be honest in your profile and in person. Don’t waste time with uncertainty or insecurity. If it isn’t for you, that’s fine, but please respectfully step aside and find someone else who is on the same page.
Do not attempt to compete with the family. Save yourself the time of attempting to make comparisons to the current wife. The situation is always more complicated than anyone cares to get into, and you are the escape providing added sweetness to both of your lives, if you will. We ask that you discreetly maintain your stance as the escape instead of adding fuel to an already existing fire.
Balance the attributes of a true lady. Be patient and understand that there is no room for unnecessary drama — ever. Be flexible and understanding with your time, and remain cognizant of the boundaries and adjustments that will be made to accommodate both of you. When the arrangement has run its course, understand that when it’s over, it that’s that, and you must respectfully part ways and move forward with your lives.
Be about more than the money. There is nothing more difficult than trying to genuinely enjoy someone else’s presence and connect, only to gaze into their lovely eyes and see nothing but dollar signs. We understand what type of relationship this is and thoroughly understand the foundation. For the exchange of monetary compensation, we seek your undivided attention and time. Try to remain in the moment.
Dating a married Sugar Daddy may not be for every Sugar Baby, but for those who can handle the arrangement, the rewards are undeniably sweet.
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