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Sorting the Salt from the Sugar

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Unfortunately things aren’t always sugary sweet in the sugar world. In fact, it can get downright salty. How you handle the not-so-good catches, and signs to look out for pose half the battle.

Let’s break down the salt. A Salt Daddy fancies himself as a Sugar Daddy, yet there’s nothing truly sweet about him. Salty Daddies make false promises, are anything but a gentleman, and are far from truly seeking a relationship that is mutually beneficial.

There are generally two kinds of “salt” that you may encounter when wading through potential Sugar Daddies: The Rookie and Mr. Bitter

The Rookie

The first type is new to the Sugar Bowl and still learning how to navigate the waters with plenty of trial and error. He will typically meet you once and then completely disappears. Prepare to be stood  up hours before you get the chance to meet.

And don’t get me started on allowance — you’re in for a new level of awkward!  In general, this type is generally harmless and unintentionally salty. He’s still acclimating himself to the Sugar world.

Mr. Bitter

The other type is far from naive, and all bitter. You will need to hydrate after handling this breed!  They know the ins-and-outs of the Sugar lifestyle and work the system for their own personal gain. This type will blatantly disregard the mutually beneficial aspect of the relationship, and will leave you feeling as if they’re  all-in for themselves.  Avoid these Salt Daddies at all costs — there is nothing sweet about them!

Don’t let these descriptions deter you. We’ve included a  few pointers for handling the salty variety.

What To Look For

Over-the-Top Promises
You know when things are too good to be true. Don’t mistake a sweet tooth for a toothache.

Too Strong Too Soon
Bringing up more intimate aspects of the relationship too early in the conversation is a red flag. Asking for nudes before you even meet is no gentleman, that’s straight salt.

Demanding Intimacy
As with any relationship, intimacy grows and develops with time. If at some point in the relationship a Sugar Daddy starts demanding intimacy, it’s time to seek something far less salty.

Preventing A Heap of Salt

Settle Beforehand
Have your allowance arranged in advance. Avoid being greedy– but don’t act foolish and waste your time either. Time is money.

Stay Sweet
Always be sweet in any situation. It’s contagious and can sometimes turn even the saltiest attitude around. Even if he’s not behaving like a gentleman, you should always carry yourself as a lady.

Don’t Rush
Like any relationship, feel things out first to prevent rushing into a potentially dangerous situation. Your safety should be your own number one concern.

 

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2,531 Responses to “Sorting the Salt from the Sugar”

  1. Wtf says:

    Watch out for an Asian guy from NY!!! Saltiest idiot ever!! Got scammed by him, he was all nice telling me he will spoil me and searches for “one girl” only, fat liar. He also mentioned that he will invest in my future if he likes me. In fact I met him, in the first hour where we met he forced me to have sexual intercourse with me. He got me drunk also and I gave him oral without a condom…I am not sure if I have STDs now, I am hella scared!! I can’t tell my parents nor can I go make a blood test…At the end of the meet Watch out for an Asian guy from NY!!! Saltiest idiot ever!! Got scammed by him, he was all nice telling me he will spoil me and searches for “one girl” only, fat liar. He also mentioned that he will invest in my future if he likes me. In fact I met him, in the first hour where we met he forced me to have sexual intercourse with me. He got me drunk also and I gave him oral without a condom…I am not sure if I have STDs now, I am hella scared!! I can’t tell my parents nor can I go make a blood test…I got about 100 dollars (!!!!!!!) from him!! I will NEVER meet anyone from this site anymore, SO much scam.

  2. I would really love to join… I’m fun…sexy… and I love life.

  3. Only salt😭 says:

    I met a “DR” on here once and I drove an hour to meet him for dinner. He was super charming, smart, and funny. I thought oh wow this is great. How lucky could a girl be? He wanted to see me again the next day for lunch. Great!
    This was a two hour round trip drive and when I went to leave I thought for sure he would offer me gas money at least.
    Nope!
    The next day the same thing . We had lunch. He seemed very interested in me by paying me compliments, but again no gas money.
    I thought back on it and revealed a few things to my self that I hadn’t noticed at the time.
    We went into a boat supply store and he was scanning prices for the cheapest rope for his boat. 😱
    Also, he never mentioned what type of arrangement he was even looking for.
    The following day I mentioned the gas issue (was I wrong to?) and never heard from him again.
    It just seemed like a couple of dinner dates with Joe Shmoe.

  4. Mary says:

    Need some sweet sugar

  5. Mary says:

    Looking for the sweet lovable guy have a lot of love to give

  6. alexisjj says:

    Its not easy finding a SD….. :/

  7. Hellyia says:

    Well, after 2 years of being here (interrupted by few or long breaks) I still have not gone beyond messaging …
    Why? Apart from my country which is far behind the concept, the only contacts have merely ask for my “tariffs” … Yes, almost every corner of my SD search a cheap prostitute … I had engaging a contact, but when I was short a couple, he is away. However, he was married …

    In short, no SD until then contacted me to have “simply” commit a mutual relationship, and even why not get in touch if the heart tells us …

  8. Jaybird923 says:

    @Nickomis why would you want him to contact you again. The guy is an asshole. Hopefully you had enough common sense not to go through with the “audition”

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  11. Musical Lover says:

    @Nikomis, if a guy asked for “test drive” or nake pics, he is absolutely nuts !

    I do get requests from those weird guys and I just ignore them.

  12. Nikomis says:

    @Jaybird – re:your question about salty sugardaddies.
    Yes, in fact I recently was contacted by one “gentleman” who was interested in an arrangement, finally offered me a wonderful allowance in return for a situation where I would see him one or 2 times a week. HOWEVER, things went from sugar to salt when he added he wouldn’t give me anything until I “auditioned” first. (And he meant put out) Not only was I to have sex before he would consider me a SB & earn an allowance, but he demanded I sugar up & service a friend of his (and let him audition me) before he would even meet with me. Now, he has stopped contacting me all together. It’s so frustrating when you think you find what you are looking for only to be either scammed or ignored.

  13. sunnydays86 says:

    Girl’s like Erin BB giving the real sweet sugar a bad rep!

  14. SingAlong says:

    Sorting salt and sugar goes both ways.

    This girl Erin BB on SA messaged me and asked for a $25 online amazon gift card before she would meet.
    I knew it was probably as a scam. But what the hey, it is only $25

    It IS a scam… sigh…
    So many scammers on SA now.

  15. Phantom _L says:

    A forum is a good idea, can’t wait.

  16. HILOK says:

    Thank SA for posting this article. I should have read this article 3 months ago! So far, all I got was salt. All types of salt! Where can I get the real sugar???

  17. Goddess says:

    Happy this discussion was made. I am distractng myself from my laptop losing hours of work by posting, haha. This should be a sticky in my opinion. I think it’s a great way to promote healthy sugar relationships and help newbies on both sides find what they are seeking without getting jaded by the process.
    To be honest ladies, I recommend borrowing cash somewhere to go to one of these parties/events.
    I went to a party at a high end hotel this past weekend and the hotel manager asked me for my #. This guy flies to Chicago twice a week just to get his eyebrows done and well… he’s extremely hot. So yea, get out there and meet people and use the site to navigate the events. Also Nichole, grammar is overrated. I know a doc on this site who texts me like “u r a qt”, LOL.

  18. Hototrot says:

    I had a woman and husband contact me throught SA. The wife- not bad looking- was the one who wrote the message. She was really eloquent and sounded sincere. No salt to be found. Too bad I’m not bi or try.

  19. Jaybird923 says:

    There’s a new blog up in the original format. Maybe we should only discuss the actual blog topic on that one and use this one has our “forum”.

  20. CucumberOnLids says:

    Here’s something odd. Ok so there’s a SD that sent me a wink on WYP. Now I never know what to send as an offer there because honestly if you’re too low then once they unlock the date most guys are super creepy. If you send over an offer that they feel is too high it’s like you’ve insulted them. So this one pot sent over a wink and I sent over an offer. He declined so I winked at him. He responds with ” not interested”. I’m think well what the hell? What a childish response.

    Now obviously I’m on SA. Why does the guy add me to his favorites ?

    In other news the HerpesII Breeder found me here! Nooooooo. He just favorited my profile this morning and asked for pictures. Funny he was in North Hollywood on one site and now here on SA he’s in Sherman Oaks. Creepy McCreeperson. I blocked him so fast I worried about breaking my keyboard.

    Another WYP member sent me an offer of $65 but his profile clearly states ” Please don’t reject my offer even if it appears low”. ” I’m seeking a mutually beneficial arrangement etc etc.

    So I thought ok sure! He’s local, petite body type, well dressed etc. He responds to one message and then goes radio silent for a month. I messaged him a few more times but all he does is read my messages. He has recently favorited me here.

    I’m thinking umm games? Really?

    • CucumberOnLids says:

      Now I was a week into an arrangement last month so I honestly could care less since I was pretty damn happy with my SD or so I thought.

    • THEATLSD says:

      Cucie does WYP link to SA?

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        I think you have to have a separate profile on each site, just like you need a separate profile for OpenMinded…I think the only part of the “empire” that is linked is SA and PA.

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        Hey, I was thinking about your “Pussy Wagon” reference…I am in the market for a “mobile office” and was forwarded this link…all I could think was “Pussy Wagon” if you jump ahead to 5:20 hahahaha

        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LXZOCFOFwU0

      • CucumberOnLids says:

        Not in a way where you can see both profiles at the same time. You have to log into each site individually. I just remember their profiles because people tend to use the same pictures.

      • RussianSB says:

        People having multiply accounts even on SA to look for differnt type of arrangement + one to spy if their actual SB on-line or not :))))))))

    • OnlineNewbieSD says:

      I talked with a past pot recently (seems to be the time to try to rekindle things, since there have been three within the last week!)…she was out at a bar local to her and met a guy, clicked with him and decided to see where it led…she had mentioned not “sugar” but some financial issues she was encountering with her ex-baby-dady…the guy started treating her like crap, calling her names like boo-boo (reference to low-brow Honey Boo Boo), making fun of her feet (she admittedly needs a pedi, but see mentions of financial issues above)…she had a friend that knew she had been on SA and helped the friend register with a profile…as soon as she logged in, guess what profile was on the home screen for her friend? YUP, the guy she was “dating”…she confronted him about his profile language and her mentioned financial issues…

      I told her, if a guy can get it free, he isn’t going to sugar it – unless ALL HE DOES IS SUGAR…since she met him IRL, that’s OUTSIDE his sugar life…

      I see WYP as similar…it’s two different parts of his life…if he’s paying for a date, he’s not really looking for the on-going arrangement…now…maybe he uses it as a gateway to discussing on-going, but I doubt it.

    • FunDude718 says:

      The guy wasn’t interested enough in you to pay a certain price point.

      I see noting illogical about his action.

      In fact, it was very rational.

    • RussianSB says:

      Dear, it called on-line dating. Maybe 1 in 100 is real, treat it as such. Don’t analise this. Add to this guys who try to use girls there as free escorts with false promices etc. Because real escorts probably will not answer hundred of sick letters etc. Today one guy laugh at me when I answer ” not, I am not doing ANYTHING in bed”, so what ? Where else all that creepies will go with all that sick letters ? To dating site – can be declared to police. To escort sites – nobody will unswer them. SA is last resort for someone, be kind :)))))))))

  21. CucumberOnLids says:

    LMAO!

  22. Jaybird923 says:

    @struggleisreal:disqus @THEATLSD:disqus Remember the SB we were helping with her profile did any of you happen to take a look at the finished product.

  23. Jaybird923 says:

    Green eyes lucky you. I’m a dime a dozen according to him.

  24. Promise says:

    Imagine if was an SD that looked like Bjorn Andresen. Oh Lord…

  25. THEATLSD says:

    @Lady. You have green eyes. I didn’t noticed 😉

  26. StruggleIsReal says:

    Uuuugh Last night, after a wonderful day, I happily drifted to sleep to GB singing softly to me. Then I was suddenly awoken at 3am by a violent urge to vomit and have hardly been able to leave the toilet since. I literally just curled up and slept on the bathroom floor because I was having to up-chuck so much. I still can’t hold anything down, dry-heaving like crazy my throat is killing me, and I’m exhausted from being up all night. Safe to say I caught the stomach virus from him. Watch out friends! Wash your hands and stuff. This is NOT fun.

    • OnlineNewbieSD says:

      My upvote was to your recommendation to wash hands and keep it from spreading, not because of your situation!

      You’re sure it’s the stomach bug? (wink,wink)

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Pretty sure, just based on how it played out for GB and is playing out for me, and I pretty directly caught it taking care of him. Doh!

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Ohhhh gosh haha I just caught the wink wink there! Yes I am sure because it’s also that time of the month! Haha Oh god now I’m nervous because you called it on Kenna!

      • CucumberOnLids says:

        Wait you have the stomach flu at the same time? Gawd I’d want to die. I mean really ask for someone to make it quick. I couldn’t do both. One is horrible enough.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Yes double whammy! No kidding! And GB is just getting over his bout with it. We are one mopey household. LoL! I am in bed and doing absolutely nothing (other than keeping tabs on my nausea so not to make a mess. So far, so good.). I’ve just started sipping some ginger ale… Fingers crossed it stays down. Doubtful though. Oy.

      • CucumberOnLids says:

        Gingerale is really like liquid gold. I haven’t been sick like that since I was 8 so If it were me I’d be balling like a child. Strong you are sugar padawan. I really do hope you feel better.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        You’re a doll, thank you! What’s a padawan?

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        OMG…NO!!!!!!!! Don’t tell me you don’t know that word…you’ve just DESTROYED @THEATLSD:disqus and me! Hahahaha!

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Haha no I don’t! Oh no I’m scared!

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        It’s a Star Wars term…it’s a learner, a student…So…@cucumbersonlids:disqus considers you her student 😉

        You REALLY need to do some research…especially if you’re sick…the movies are available for digital download now 😉

      • CucumberOnLids says:

        A student of gingerale benefits. Other than that I’ll be sitting in a seat in the back row hoping no one calls on me:)

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        Although…being from Michigan…there really is ONLY ONE type of ginger ale worth it’s medicinal name…that’s Vernors!

      • CucumberOnLids says:

        Funny that’s the one I can barely tolerate. It tastes like there are pine needles swimming in it. I think they took it too far with “au naturale” .

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Oh noooo! Hehe I just googled it so now I am in the know. You nerds. Hehe 😉

      • KeKe says:

        He did!!

    • THEATLSD says:

      I was going to ask if you were catching it. Damn that sucks. Take it easy babe.

    • Lady Sage says:

      Rest honey. You have to stay hydrated! I hope you feel better soon. Damn flawed human design. We are a mess of a species.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Thank you! Yes it has been tough staying hydrated because every time I drink anything it just comes right back up. But GB is out getting me some ginger ale and pedialyte now.

        My mom did make me laugh though when I told her. She said every time someone mentions the stomach flu, she thinks of that line in the Devil Wears Prada– “I’m one stomach flu away from my goal weight.” Hahaha

    • CucumberOnLids says:

      Hmm sure it’s the virus or is it time for an Error Proof Test?

  27. CucumberOnLids says:

    One pot has me favorited but his entire profile is in all caps. When he contacted me I told him I read his profile in a booming voice similar to Gandalf’s “Thou shalt not pass!” . Apparently he didn’t get my humor so no response. Ooh well. lol

  28. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    Okay…something is fishy on SA…Either the economy is going in the toilet SOON, there’s some fake activity on profiles, or it’s summer and SBs wanna play…

    I went to my searches just to check numbers…where there had only been a HANDFUL of online profiles, there were 4 PAGES of online profiles!

    • OnlineNewbieSD says:

      Yeah, clicked through on one or two profiles that showed “online” in the search…most of them showed “Active” as hours ago…guess “Online” now means within the last 24 hours?

      If this is where SA is headed with basically lying to members, it’s going to be a hard sell in the future!

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Wow that’s crazy! Hmmm

      • Lady Sage says:

        I heard I show as online when I’m at work and not even by a phone or computer and haven’t been for 12 plus hours.

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        I actually clicked through to one that said 3 days on the profile page, but was “online” in the search results…not good!

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Yeah I wondered about that “online” status before. Hm

    • FunDude718 says:

      Likely due to:

      1) Very pro SB articles such as this one that basically tells women they will be paid big money for nothing in return.

      2) Anti SD climate is leading to your “discounted rate” of 33%. I’ve noticed many of the SDs are not resigning up at the current high prices. This is particularly acute due to the bad attitude displayed towards them from SBs and frankly these blog articles. I wouldn’t doubt this is decreasing the incentive of men to sign up for this website.

      3) Poor economy: probably part of it due to decreased levels of middle class jobs. However, I think this is less than factors 1 and 2.

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        They aren’t “new” profiles though…I didn’t see 4 pages of new profiles, maybe a dozen…it was profiles that were already on the system, but showed recent activity…

        There may be something more…like, SA realizes the ratio is no where near reality, the activity of the SB profiles isn’t even enough to keep things where they are (and we discussed this extensively in prior blog posts)…

        Let’s make sure it looks like there are a ton of active profiles…oh…and let’s do that while we try to entice more SDs to reactivate memberships at a reduced rate…

        I believe something needs to change if SA is still going to have the higher revenue members active and supportive…this IS the “middle market” site for the SD…high end go to PA…low end are probably better off with BP or Eros on a p2p basis

      • FunDude718 says:

        I doubt the ratio is that off when you take into account that most SDs are inactive because they aren’t paying to be a member.

        SBs might be more likely to be online due to the drying up of the SD market.

        There might not be many guys willing to pay for SBs these days.

        Ergo, the women have gone back online attempting to find another SD without success.

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        You may have a point with the ratio being off with “standard” SD profiles…but…if that’s the standard, they’re being offset with the drunken weekend SB profile started without ever logging in again.

        The issue I see is…when a search result says “online” and I click to the profile and it says Active “3 days ago” that’s not going to attract me to buy membership, no matter the discount!

      • FunDude718 says:

        Thats true.

        Its likely that the SD market is drying up due to the bad attitude of these blogs and shows like Dr. Phil coupled with SDs being hurt by a poor economy.

    • Josh says:

      It has to do with the idiotic business plan SA is following. You CAN’T continue to deal with men as if they were horny dudes to be exploited.

      The MGTOW phenomenon is creating a different male-female marketplace where men are making relatively better decisions in their own favor instead of the kinds of things Madame @flyR aspires for.

  29. Hototrot says:

    Swell weekend with current, off again, whatever he is at the moment. Relaxed and refreshed. Ready for my summer! It’s always nice to have a friend with a home in the country.

  30. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    Must be some issues with SA…just received a special promotion for 33% off Upgrading my membership…@THEATLSD:disqus are you still paying? Any others that were not paying receive the same offer?

    • THEATLSD says:

      @ONSD currently I am not upgraded. I did not receive that offer. YET. Probably will though.

      And in another news. My last SB sent a message to me via SA. Which I can not read and she knows that SD can’t read messages with out being upgraded
      Plus she has my email WTF??
      Makes me want to start drinking!!

      • Jaybird923 says:

        She probably deleted your contact info after you guys ended.

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        @Jaybird is probably right…if you still have her contact info (and an interest) you should just reconnect that way…you can always remind her that you can’t check the SA messages because you’re not upgraded…

      • THEATLSD says:

        ONSD I was thinking of doing that.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        I think you ought to.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Go for it. If she didn’t seem like the bitter type It’s possible that she might have lost her phone and this is the only way she can contact you

      • THEATLSD says:

        That’s possible but she didn’t seem like the bitter type that would delete it.
        I won’t be losing any sleep over it.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Are you going to reach out to her via email or text or anything?

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        Doesn’t mean she’s bitter for deleting things right after you were done with things…she might have been trying another SD…she might have thought, “if this new guy gets ahold of my phone and sees messages from another guy it might blow things with him”

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        @THEATLSD:disqus I was recently contacted by one of the first coffee meets I had through SA! We hit it off alright, but she poofed on me…her profile disappeared for a bit…I saw it reappear around the end of the year in my Search results, but didn’t reconnect with her…now…out of the blue, she reaches out to me again…although I did see unemployment claims went up with last report?!

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Oh lordie. She is getting nostalgic.

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        Nothing wrong with a little nostalgia, especially if it was a good experience before and could be another fun experience right now!

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Agreed!

      • THEATLSD says:

        Like yours that contacted you, some of these SB are realizing there are not a lot of good old fashion real SD that are some what sane and not creepy.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Yep exactly!

    • Lady Sage says:

      I get a free premium membership with my EDU student email address.

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        yeah, this underscores my point about the difference between the revenue stream created by SB profiles versus SD profiles…if they “give away” the premium service to the SB for having a .edu email address, the SD is the REAL revenue generator…”faking” online status will not KEEP the higher revenue member (neither will appearing desperate by discounting it if your target is the affluent!)

  31. KeKe says:

    OMG, when your BMI is 60%…. I’m sorry that shit isn’t cute!!!!

    • Jaybird923 says:

      Who are you referring to?

    • StruggleIsReal says:

      Yikes!

    • OnlineNewbieSD says:

      What do you mean? That’s “curvy” isn’t it? hahahahaha

      • KeKe says:

        If you mean circle than yes. Very curvy. Lol

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        Yeah, a bit sarcastic from me…but that’s what I feel sometimes when I click through an “average” profile and see full body pictures…I’m not thin, but it still comes back to the underpromise and overdeliver!

      • Jaybird923 says:

        The guys are doing the same thing their profile say athletic when they clearly are not. There are delusional people on both sides unfortunately I have no idea why people lie about their size.

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        Yeah, I didn’t mean to make it sound like it was just the SB profiles delusional about size, or age, or anything…it is the internet after all and you can be whatever you want when there is limited ability to verify details!

      • Jaybird923 says:

        I know you didn’t. :)

      • KeKe says:

        Well they might be average. The average female is 5’4″ 166pd. About a size 12.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Pretty soon that will be considered slim and athletic

      • KeKe says:

        Bwaaahaaa

    • FlyBoy says:

      I was talking to a doctor the other day about this problem, namely, very fat people and how to care for them in hospitals.

      I suggested he starts a company to make overhead cranes that can be installed in hospital rooms so nurses can use them lift and move the heavy ones. He laughed and said he’ll look into it.

      As a nurse, what do you think of the idea? lol

      Cheers :)

      • Jaybird923 says:

        LoL The sad thing is I don’t think you’re too far off base that’s the direction we’re headed in.

      • FlyBoy says:

        He told me it’s so bad that male nurses are now sought after just because they are physically stronger and therefore able to manipulate these land whales better than the females.

        Unfortunately, things are getting worse!

        Cheers :)

      • FunDude718 says:

        The land whale issue is getting WORSE.

        I don’t even want to discuss all the stories on this issue.

        Unfortunately, I will have to see a few more of these land whales today lol

      • FlyBoy says:

        God be you, Doc!! lol

        Cheers :)

      • Jaybird923 says:

        lol please don’t call them land whales. If I don’t reprimand you fundude will call me a hypocrite

      • KeKe says:

        Yes! I have to ask the doctors for help! I’m lucky all my docs are cool.

      • KeKe says:

        No he’s not! I’ve had patients recently who can’t even wash their own ass, that’s how big they are!

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Gross

      • KeKe says:

        Not a nurse ( medical imaging)but most of them can move, they might need a scooter to get around but they can usually move a couple of steps. The biggest problem for me was the table. We finally have a big bertha that goes to 500 pds. Any bigger and they have to go to the zoo depending on the exam they need.

    • FunDude718 says:

      BMI isn’t a percentage score

  32. THEATLSD says:

    Observation. Disqus is being out voted and a number of y’all complained BUT we have set a record with number of posts.

    Something to ponder along with Muahs ass.

  33. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    I think I’ve seen a couple of profiles that stated something similar…one was like, “I want a daddy with more than one baby”; another expressed a desire to make things more interesting with a variety of babies to share; then there’s the “two for the price of one” crowd we’ve already talked about in past blog posts…Oh, and the “OpenMinded” crowd that will now cross-reference from SA…

    You might find better luck by saying something more like, “listen, I work a lot…you work a lot…let’s find a mutual playmate we can both spoil” then there’s some buy-in from you on the entire situation 😉

    Oh, and I realize you may be joking…but there IS an audience for that strategy!

  34. RussianSB says:

    That IS a sugar profile ! Good one.
    ee531483.

    • Jaybird923 says:

      What part of taller than 5’9″ with blue,green or grey eyes don’t you understand? lol Is he a new POT Russian?

      • Lady Sage says:

        He looks like a fun man! Alas I am a 5’6 midget!

      • Jaybird923 says:

        2 strikes for me I’m 5’8″ and I have brown eyes.

      • RussianSB says:

        Profile is not active, and, probably with stolen pictures. But, that is example how sugar plaboy profile should look like :) In Russia I always respond to such profiles – they are not POT, those playboys , but it is the direct way to get into some cool parties :))))))

      • KeKe says:

        Sounds like a smart way to meet a SD IRL!

      • RussianSB says:

        It is ! I always tell you, girls, if you want to find someone nice – move your nice little asses :))))))))

      • FunDude718 says:

        The profile is fake.

        Only morons would take that profile seriously.

        He is a “big finance” guy with over 100 million dollars but travels all over the world randomly.

        He obviously doesn’t work much.

        On top of that, his spelling is truly atrocious. For a “PHD in finance”, he has a very poor command of the English language.

        Ergo, it looks like a fake.

      • KeKe says:

        She knows it’s fake.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        his profile says miami we have a big international population down there. It might explain the grammar

    • Josh says:

      FlyGirl copies stuff from profiles like that.

      And he’s pretty much rrequiring a runway model for you…hint hint Vogue.

      • RussianSB says:

        I mean pictures. Advertisement of sugar lifestyle .

      • Josh says:

        There you go.

      • FlyBoy says:

        I love the smell of beating on a retard in the morning :)

        Ok! If you think that profile is something worthy of emulation, then you are more pathetic than I ever gave you credit for.

        More importantly, if that profile is real, then it is gaudy and over the top cartoonish. Most likely it is not what it seems.

        Here are the red flags:

        1. He claims to be a PHD working in finance. The lingua franca of finance is English, so whether he is a native speaker or not, his profile screams “lack of education”.

        2. A substantial allowance is par for the course at these levels especially in a major metro such as Miami. However, he then piles on with “posh quarters” and a fully paid car. When do these extras start, after the M&G, two months into the arrangement, a year down the line!! Why talk about them in the profile?

        3. His insistence on a specific look is, if not a red flag, a pink one at the very least. Pedestalizing looks is sign of extreme beta thirst at best, but it could also be more sinister (see next point).

        4. Skype!!!! Here we have a clue who this guy is. He throws everything at the girl in the profile, and then demands that she ‘shows’ him on skype why she deserves it all.

        Verdict:
        Best case: He is a Skype pervert.
        Worst case: He is professional collecting amateur video for a pron site.
        Very small probability: He is a thirsty beta who just came into money and doesn’t know how to use it.

        Whatever he is, nothing in his profile is worthy of imitation unless of course one is a retard like you, then all bets are off.

        Cheers :)

      • RussianSB says:

        Frofile is fake, and not active. But FlyBoy, why they all crazy about you those days ?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Because he refuses to drink the kool-aid

      • FlyBoy says:

        lol
        Because I have a bad habit of pointing my finger at the crazy ones!!!

        Cheers :)

      • Promise says:

        Don’t use the ‘r’ word.

    • FunDude718 says:

      Profile looks fake as shit.

      Half of the words are misspelled.

      Highly doubt he’s a really anything that he claims. But take your chance lol

    • OnlineNewbieSD says:

      I thought it was fake from the moment I saw it…plus…you’ve heard SDs complain about pictures on SB profiles with groups, does the “playboy” pictures with multiple and different women actually ATTRACT a SB? I can’t believe knowing a guy is gallivanting with women all the time would be attractive from a disease risk standpoint?!

      • Jaybird923 says:

        It attracts the party girls who are into that lifestyle

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        Okay, so if I was looking for a party girl, posting pictures like that would attract more…do you think it would attract a “normal” SB prospect?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        No not unless she was desperate or if she has no other point of reference for how the majority of wealthy people live their lives. She might confuse flash with wealth and class.

      • RussianSB says:

        It is fake ! But pictures is inspiring !
        Pictures taken with such beauties ( probably they even not sleep with him , but are some stand-models from some exhibition, or show) – attract SBs. I see that girls spending on hair 500$ per month, and I believe they have 100$ for STDs test. If guy hiding his ugly , cheap pros, it doesn’t mean there is no disease risk :)))))

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        Completely agree…just because she THINKS he’s “safe” doesn’t mean he is…and…at least if the profile pics are like this, she’s going in with her eyes open to his philandering!

      • CucumberOnLids says:

        LMAO! It’s the same thing where a POT contacted me with a hidden picture where he’s having unprotected sex with someone. I thought is that really supposed to be attractive to me? I thought what a clod!

  35. GeorgiaPeach says:

    Good Night all. Early rise in the am and it’s supposed to rain… traffic will be another pain. Sweet dreams everyone!

  36. FunDude718 says:

    When is there going to be a new blog?

    This one is getting OLD

    • Promise says:

      They only post new blogs when Josh asks.

    • Jaybird923 says:

      Oh Fundude you were doing so well. I thought we had breakthrough yesterday, but you’ve regressed. SMH

    • OnlineNewbieSD says:

      See, I would rather they keep this one until they have the forums established…at least then we wouldn’t have to “continue” any running conversations on another post!

      However, at least with Disqus, we can be notified if someone responds to a comment from an earlier blog and we don’t have to continue clicking back to old ones if the comment number changes (or am I the only one that watches things like that?)

  37. FunDude718 says:

    Hebrew Israelites vs Lady Scarlett

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JHzGiGUj5SU

  38. FunDude718 says:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aj6OFIfG7TQ

    Black Israelites giving their opinion on women

  39. CucumberOnLids says:

    Don’t take the bait : Use ( –) and collapse the annoyance!

  40. Josh says:

    Genius quote of the day: “Oh wait that’s right you’re on a sugar dating site so you have to pay women for them to give you the time of day…”

  41. Karen says:

    I have been reading a little a few months and have noticed this same thing. Most of the postings are more like information that has nothing to do with the site and is chatter about silly unrelated topics.

    • Promise says:

      Yeah pretty much, but it’s still fun. :)

    • FormerlyMuah says:

      Knowing how to identify salt daddies is helpful, especially for newbies – but the blogs do definitely get off topic lol

    • FunDude718 says:

      Wow Karen, sucks to be you then.

      Shit, let me only post on topics that Karen approves of!

      I will get on the ASAP!

    • OnlineNewbieSD says:

      If you’ve really been reading, though, you would see there are nuggets of wisdom in even the most off topic “chatter”…plus, there are no forums yet to have actual conversations about other issues/topics in and out of Sugar, so, it happens here.

      Last point…if you are in Sugar, you may not have ANY outlet to talk to others about your lifestyle (due to marriage, community standing, public figure, negative repercussions at school or home, as well as many other issues)…because we tend to be a “private” lifestyle (no matter how “public” you are WITH your SD, you don’t wear a “Hi, my name is Sugarbaby” badge…people ass-u-me your a SB when seen in public with that successful older gentleman, but they don’t KNOW and it’s generally not ADVERTISED), this gives us all a way to connect and talk about issues topics that may be happening in life even if it has nothing to do with Sugar.

      Continue reading, commenting, asking, contributing, whatever…or…disappear like many others have done…it’s a GREAT way to make connections and get help, on whatever is happening in your life!

  42. Island Sugar says:

    The comments under this blog post are completely off topic. It is time-consuming sifting though 2000+ comments for helpful information :/

    • Josh says:

      Gee, are you sure about that?

    • Promise says:

      If you change your setting so that the comments are from Oldest to newest you’ll probably find some useful stuff there. Good luck.

    • CucumberOnLids says:

      What I find easier now is just to collapse certain member comments when I pop in. To the extreme right if you put your cursor over you’ll see two icons. One is a dash the other a flag. The dash allows you to collapse those comments so you don’t have to even read them. I wish there was a more permanent option like “blocking a user so you never have to read their posts”.

    • FunDude718 says:

      Wow princess, maybe we should just not talk about anything you don’t like huh?

      Shit, let me get on that one right away!

    • OnlineNewbieSD says:

      I could copy and paste my response to the similar comment from Karen…but I really don’t want to waste ANOTHER post for someone to sift through looking for helpful information…

      These comments are useful IF you use them properly…find some commenters that you like and follow their comments…ASK QUESTIONS…don’t just say it’s off topic, make a statement that’s ON TOPIC and get some feedback from those of us who will stay on topic when directed!

      Also, understand, there are those of us living Sugar that have no one to talk to about Sugar…this gives us a way to talk to people ALSO living Sugar (presumably) about whatever is happening in our lives…

  43. Kandee says:

    Well, I am pretty sure I just got genital herpes from my sugar daddy. I have to set up an appointment to be 100% certain, but I know herpes sores when I see them. I wish I could go back in time. I am feeling alone.

    • Josh says:

      Are you going to post his name, SA id, phone number, email address, photos here along with photos of your herpes?

    • Promise says:

      I’m so sorry. :(

    • GeorgiaPeach says:

      Don’t we all Honey, don’t we all… for other reasons, but you have no idea how much I would go back 9 years.

    • FormerlyMuah says:

      If you can prove it was him you can sue him for damages.

      • Kandee says:

        He denies having it, but he’s the only man I have been sleeping with for many months. He’s a very wealthy man… his lawyers will eat me alive.

      • Promise says:

        Can’t the 2 of you get tested or something?

      • FormerlyMuah says:

        I would still attempt to sue him. If you Google – There’s a woman who contracted Herpes from a man and won $500,000 in damages due to the ongoing medical treatment she will need + pain and suffering.

    • FunDude718 says:

      LOL maybe you should be more careful who you sleep with in the future.

      This is a good lesson.

  44. Josh says:

    I seems to me that all of the new voters are exclusively voting for the old format. That’s the only way the favored percentage for the old format would inch up.

    • Promise says:

      Speaking of the voting I noticed that you can kinda vote more than once. I voted on my phone. right now I’m on my computer, and the poll looks how it did before I voted.

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        I wondered about this…like there’s a FEW people that have voted multiple times to swing things to the old format…that’s why I asked Jeff if he had access to the details about the poll to see if it was heavily hit by people who weren’t contributing. If I were just trolling the comments, scrolling a single feed WOULD be easier than the conversation nesting on Disqus…but…as a contributor…being able to minimize a conversation I have no interest in is WONDERFUL!

  45. StruggleIsReal says:

    Bahahahaha

  46. StruggleIsReal says:

    Good luck with that. Have you ever had laser hair removal? How does it compare to that? I don’t have any tattoos or anything. Just curious.

    • Lady Sage says:

      I have had laser hair removal. It sensitive areas. This was intensely more painful and so damn expensive. I will probably have to do it 5 or so more times. It’s already an awful blister. I’m almost tempted to keep the tattoo. I’m going to time travel to 18 year old me and give her a spanking.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Oh my god! I had Brazilian laser hair removal and cannot imagine something being a lot more painful than that!! Sheeeeesh girl that sounds absolutely excruciating!!! No joke! A blister! Gah!

      • Lady Sage says:

        Today struggle, the struggle is real for me. Hurt McHurt pants I am. I think I will be happy. I was told 6 more times. I’m already dreading the next session.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Yes yes it certainly is!
        Sending you healing and pain-zapping vibes! With you in spirit. Owie.

  47. Jaybird923 says:

    I do hope so. I try to stay optimistic

  48. Hototrot says:

    I’m not a fan of tattoos or piercings, except the ears. Nothing sexier than clear, pretty skin. Although for some reason, when a man has a tattoo going up his neck that’s kind makes me rwarrrr! Like the tattoo Allen Iverson had back in the old days. But it suited him. If you’re not a rocker, rapper, athlete with a wild reputation, artist it just doesn’t work.

    • Lady Sage says:

      I agree. I was 18. Just finished boot camp and was drunk with my squad. We all got the same one. Nightmare lol

    • Jaybird923 says:

      I agree She should’ve publicly appoligized to him when it came yo light that she was wrong. Honestly I listened to the whole video but I stopped paying attention as soon as he said girls in high school where mean to him. Bias opinions

      • Josh says:

        So the only man who can opine on such issue is the one who had better treatment from women, but decides to complain anyway?

        Does that mean that white men who are demonized by feminists cannot complain because he is biased?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        No it means that anyone can voice their opinion but I choose to take what he’s saying with a grain of salt because his negative experiences with women will color his views

      • Josh says:

        I got it. If a man is abused by police, the judge should take his lawsuit against the police with grain of salt because his lawsuit is biased?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        That’s a ridiculous comparison and you know it. If you’re going to debate me bring your A game.

      • Josh says:

        Why should I bring my A game when the no-so-A game would do?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Aaahh Forgive me. You are right. Why bring your A game indeed. I keep forgetting your purpose in posting isn’t to have intelligent conversations. I won’t make the mistake of using logic and common sense in the future. I’ll just make ridiculous assertions and comparisons

      • Josh says:

        See I told you I didn’t have to bring my A game after all. :)

        Now please don’t try to backtrack by telling me that you were being sarcastic.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Me? being sarcastic? No sir. I don’t possess the necessary wit and intelligence to pull it off :)

      • Josh says:

        OK.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        LOL

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Why thank you Muah :) you are being flagged for some reason I can’t respond directly to you

      • Jaybird923 says:

        contact Jeff he should be able to correct it

      • Jaybird923 says:

        I can’t see your post anymore Muah I’m not sure how to correct. Try posting a message with @AdministratorJeff:disqus and he should see it.

      • MissPrincess says:

        I just created a new account lol

      • Jaybird923 says:

        That’s easier :)

      • FormerlyMuah says:

        Right. Obviously I angered someone lol

      • Jaybird923 says:

        You angered more than one person. The last time this happened he said if you get a certain amount of people flagging you the system automatically suspends your account until it can be reviewed

      • FormerlyMuah says:

        Oops my bad lol. Thanks :-) I like to create the illusion that I am just an ‘ass’ Haha get it?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Go it it. lol

      • Josh says:

        How about photo of your open skull as well?

      • Promise says:

        Josh! >:O

      • FormerlyMuah says:

        Opinions are one thing but wishing violence upon another person is entirely different. If he says something like that to an internet stranger, imagine what he would say in real life.

      • Promise says:

        That was definetly not OK.

      • FormerlyMuah says:

        When I first read the comment I took it as a threat! Especially since I wasn’t even talking about him or to him….

      • Josh says:

        Genius, the “photo of your open skull” was a play on your reference to your ass photo comment. Photo of an open skull would have proved lack of grey matter, but forget about that now. You have proven lack of it already.

        Do you know why men just want one thing from most women?

      • FormerlyMuah says:

        Cool. Go talk at someone who actually cares about what you have to say. Oh wait that’s right you’re on a sugar dating site so you have to pay women for them to give you the time of day…

      • Josh says:

        I am definitely on a sugar dating site.

        Are you on a sugar dating site, genius?

      • GeorgiaPeach says:

        Wow, the ladies here sure seem to think Josh as all this “power” here. LOL. I sincerely doubt it, but think as you will. LOL Josh just has his very own, sometimes outspoken opinions about issues he cares. I can’t see him having any control over what is blocked or flagged. LOL Ask Jeff Hamersly for yourself. LOL

      • Josh says:

        So if a cancer survivor starts a charity to cure cancer you don’t take her seriously and support her because she is biased against cancer?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        The fact that she had and survived cancer influenced her decision to start the charity in the first place. Our experiences influence both negative and positive actions and opinions

      • Josh says:

        Are you going to support her because she was “abused by” cancer or are you going to take her effort “with a grain of salt” because her negative experiences with cancer will color her views?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        NO I won’t support her because she beat cancer and it has a right to exist also. I won’t contribute money to help people do something like that. They are big meanies why can’t they just leave cancer alone. :(

      • Josh says:

        I just wanted to tease out your position by replacing “cancer survivor” with “mind fuck survivor”, and you are consistent in how you would deal with either. Thanks for participating. 😉

      • Jaybird923 says:

        You Annoyed me on purpose to see if I
        would pass a test? Is this the first of many or am I done. :)

      • Josh says:

        If you make dumb comments I will tease them out. If you don’t then you may be done. But don’t expect me to bring my “A game” as I don’t usually need it.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Duly noted

    • Josh says:

      The prime definition of creepy is any man who a woman is not sexually interested in.

    • FunDude718 says:

      Good video

  49. THEATLSD says:

    I be working so I can buy more sugar.

  50. Promise says:

    I’m getting my eyebrows tattooed.

  51. Jaybird923 says:

    I have one tattoo that I got when I turned 18 also. Most of the time I forget I have it until someone Yells out “oh my god you have a tattoo” for some reason people are always shocked.

  52. Jaybird923 says:

    @Online Good call with the advice on changing my expectations to practical.

    • THEATLSD says:

      Are you going to expand on that and possibly give hope to other SB???

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Sure ATL I had my expectation level set at negotiable. Online pointed out to me that a lot of SDs avoid profiles listed has negotiable for one of two reasons
        1)They don’t want to deal with SBs who put negotiable when they truly were not and had unrealistic expectations
        2) A lot of the escort/P2P play types are listed in that category.

        I took his advice and changed my expectations. I was doing more than ok before but after the change I noticed an increase in traffic to my profile and more people actually initiating contact.

      • THEATLSD says:

        Excellent!!! Once again proving our (bloggies) point. Listen, learn and make the right changes.

      • GeorgiaPeach says:

        Nice gravi ATL, give up on your yellow truck?

      • THEATLSD says:

        No. Taking a break from the “Pussy Wagon”. I wanted to go back to stay in sync with ONSD’s Han Solo Lego guy.

      • Promise says:

        Makes me wanna be in a Star Wars film too.

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        I’m betting that Episode VII kills it the first few weeks in the theaters…it will be the toy issue that keeps it there until the release of the next movie (which is not a part of the sequence)…if they get sexist with the toys (like the Marvel universe discussion) they may lose female fans — and nerd women have a LOT of pull at Cons!

      • OnlineNewbieSD says:

        I appreciate the return to “reality” with you @THEATLSD:disqus !

        Just proving, once again, brothers from different mothers 😉

      • Jaybird923 says:

        No Matter how good you’re doing there is always room for improvement

      • GeorgiaPeach says:

        And especially if you’re not doing well, there should be improvement and a willingness to learn and change.

    • StruggleIsReal says:

      Are you finding more interest with it set like that?

    • OnlineNewbieSD says:

      Glad I could help!

    • Promise says:

      I actually like this one. Could’ve been done better, but I still like it.

    • Josh says:

      Of course an idiot is waiting around in each room of the SBU to hnd out cash just cuz you have debt.

    • FunDude718 says:

      At least these sluts are hot!

    • OnlineNewbieSD says:

      This is funny…and let’s not miss the fact the blonde at the end looks like she’s lip synching to a voiceover…

      Yeah, they’re hot, but are they reality for what SDs are finding in search results? Not really, IMHO…and there’s no mention of the fact, again, the majority of arrangements include some intimacy…

      Here’s another issue…the guy they show doesn’t look like older than late 40s early 50s (at least he had grey hair)…

    • Lavish Vixen says:

      Yes, I remember seeing that before. Did you read the comments section? That is what public opinion tends to think of the site.

    • Josh says:

      Of course the idiot paid her $5000-6000 pounds just for the pleasure of moving up the relationship bases.

      THAT’S what SA promotes and no wonder we have to deal with the consequences of dealing with princess who want to be treated lavishly for absolutely NOTHING in return.

  53. Robert Rouland says:

    When am I going to see the article about the SB and her respect and responsibility toward her SD? I cannot count the number of times I’ve been burned – give money, and the girl completely disappears or flakes and makes every excuse in the world why she can’t see you. After giving one girl nearly $2000 with almost nothing to show for it, I threatened to sue her and take her to small claims court. I pointed out that our arrangement was clearly documented in texts and messages, and she agreed to provide me her time for my money. After I made it VERY clear I wasn’t kidding around, she refunded me a good chunk of my money. Now that’s a story worth telling for these SBs to read about.

    • FlyBoy says:

      Robert Rouland?!!!!

      Jesus H. Christ

      • Jaybird923 says:

        He’s the director for homeland security. you better lay off. you don’t want trouble with the government lol

      • FlyBoy says:

        HaHa!

        Nah! Me thinks, he is patient number 7 in ward X at the center for the treatment of severe psychosis.

        Cheers :)

      • Jaybird923 says:

        :) Don’t say I didn’t warn you. If we don’t here from you for a while I’ll assume you have been detained and you are being “encouraged” to answer questions lol

      • FlyBoy says:

        Oh my God! My imagination is running wild!

        HS: Now tell us FlyBoy; you have swindled by an SB before, have you not?
        FB: No, never actually, My exper…
        HS: Buzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
        FB: Please stop, please, no need for electricity, I’ll tell you everything!
        HS: OK FlyBoy, let’s do this again, shall we …

        Cheers :)

      • Jaybird923 says:

        LMAO “No need for electricity, I’ll tell you everything” Hilarious I can’t stop laughing

      • Josh says:

        It would be rare but certainly not impossible for a woman to be swindled by an SB thru this site.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Lmao!

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        When does it stop? It doesn’t. It never does.

    • FunDude718 says:

      Thank you for the contribution.

      I agree that these blogs need to be more “fair” in terms of speaking about bad Sugar Daddy experiences and the needs of Sugar Daddies

      • FunDude718 says:

        LOL watched that.

        That old guy is THE MAN!

      • Jaybird923 says:

        :) Of course you would think so SMH

      • FunDude718 says:

        He knew how to handle his business at IHOP!

      • CucumberOnLids says:

        Wow seeing that again… $24? That has to be the lowest allowance offered.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        $24 is a windfall Do you know how much you can buy at a fine dinning establishment like the International House Of Pancakes. See this is the problem with you SBs so unappreciative. SMH

      • FlyBoy says:

        For 24$ you can get at IHOP:

        A. Big steak omelette.

        B. A short stack of original buttermilk pancakes. Your choice of syrup.
        C. All you can drink coffee.
        D. All you can drink coke.

        And leave a big tip to boot.

        So there you go, you ungrateful bitches! lol

        Cheers :)

      • KeKe says:

        You forgot
        E. All of the above. Lol

      • FlyBoy says:

        I meant it to be a list. Maybe I should have used numbers.
        Yes, you can get all of that for $24 at IHOP.

        Cheers :)

      • CucumberOnLids says:

        Apparently you’re considered an “Entitled Princess” if you ask for $4 more instead of $3) We must know our place. ** I bow before thee” *Lowers thine head graciously* :)

      • Jaybird923 says:

        LOL There you go Bitches Thank you Flyboy for providing the facts to prove my point.

      • FunDude718 says:

        Damn fucking right!

        That dude is ALPHA as shit.

        Flygirl, take a lesson from him.

    • flyr says:

      How are you getting burned for $2,000 . Do you leave it on the sidewalk………………..

      If you just make the upfront stipulation that money and intimacy are congruent you’ll be fine. Happens once shame on her twice shame on you

  54. GeorgiaPeach says:

    Night all.

  55. FunDude718 says:

    Obama without his teleprompter:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wS8B1Qp5kQ

  56. KeKe says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    It was wonderful! We took a cooking class together. It was so much fun. My best friend came to meet him. She thinks he’s awesome. Can’t believe how cute and funny he is. She asked to be our regular 3rd wheel. Lol. I stayed over and well that is always amazing. Plus he made sure he was very well rested…It showed! Hehe Then he cooked me breakfast this morning. We went out for a walk. Just talking and discussing the future. We text everyday with some Skype every once in awhile so we can’t get enough of each other when we are together.

  57. FunDude718 says:

    Another good Mike Tyson interview:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_9qhMXrXXB8

    • KeKe says:

      What was the point of him bringing up the rape. Like EVERYONE doesn’t know about it. Ugh

    • Jaybird923 says:

      He deserved that I’m glad he called him out on it He was trying to embarrass him but he forgot that Tyson is f-ing crazy and got more than he bargained for

    • Josh says:

      I am no fan of Tyson, but I loved the way he turned the interview around on the idiot. The purpose of doing time for anything is for the society to let the man live his post prison time in relative peace AS LONG AS he is attempting to be a productive member of the society.

  58. This really is mostly common sense advice, most of what I’ve seen is just salt and immediate propositions with no interest in reciprocation. Some of us SB’s are truly open to other activities, but the horn dogs with no class ruin it for the really great SD’s on here.

    Take some time guys, slow down a little, smell all the roses, don’t just charge over them with a Panzer at full speed.

  59. Jaybird923 says:

    you forgot that he’s also a so-so husband. I think you should message him instead you don’t want to risk losing him.

  60. FunDude718 says:

    Tyson: I broke my back.

    Interview: What do you mean by that?

    Tyson: My back is broken

    Interviewer: What is broken, a vertebra?

    Tyson: Its spinal!

  61. FunDude718 says:

    Mike Tyson’s opinions on different intellectual subjects:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hu57oIv8SLM

  62. Jaybird923 says:

    Living on the wild side lol don’t get to crazy :)

  63. FunDude718 says:

    Newest Mario Petris video!

    Dude is a BALLER! He is throwing around big CASH tips at the end!

    Ladies, he can take you here if you don’t like CHINESE!

    I can get you his number! He’s in NJ!

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AWFPvYqhjWY

  64. JamieTX says:

    I haven’t read the other posts, so I’m not dismissing the disapproval of those who oppose this one. But what she shared is a reality. That doesn’t mean ALL daddies are like this.

    My experience with the newbies is that they are undecided and/or instantly attach money to sex. I blame society and the media for furthering the idea that we are all just hookers and johns without a loving or nurturing bone in our bodies. I blame the hookers and johns on these sites. And I blame the newbies for not thinking independently.

    I’ve certainly come across the bitter misogynist as well. Plenty of those.

    Johnny Harper, regarding your comment, “I guess its good business telling the sugar daddies (who are essentially the ones who finance this website) that they are worthless
    unless they unconditionally give money to Sugar Babies.

    Sugar Daddies should expect no reciprocity in terms of intimacy or anything else. Just give them money.”

    I really didn’t extract either from the post. On the latter, I believe she was referring to men wanting to discuss particular sexual acts/inclinations/preferences; not whether or not there would be intimacy. About 80% of the men who contact me here do just that, to the extent that I had to warn against it in my profile. And they STILL do it. It’s a real turn off.

    I’m sure the numbers are also quite high on low quality women; high enough that one of you could write an equally unflattering post about the bottom feeder SB’s that are all over these sites. They want money, but don’t want intimacy. They have all kinds of drama. They’re looking for a free ride. They have no jobs/career goals/ambition. They have warrants. Multiple daddies. Addictions.

    The one objection I have is the “time is money” comment. That furthers the idea that we are all hookers and johns. This isn’t a business, for some of us anyway. I have two jobs already. I’m not looking for a third.

    I think it is also important to acknowledge those who make it worthwhile. My two previous relationships were absolutely wonderful. I know I was lucky. They’re not easy to find but nothing worth having comes easily.

    • FunDude718 says:

      We are past that discussion.

      The current discussion topic is about the most alpha future Sugar Daddy in the world: Mario Petris!

      His video is below

  65. FunDude718 says:

    Just skip to 18:40.

    He drops the HAMMER on some chick who messed with him.

    He’s super alpha male personal trainer.

    Yes, he will also pick up your meal at the Chinese Buffet. Shit is running around 8 dollars these days!

  66. Jaybird923 says:

    @fundude718:disqus You’re starting to have a negative affect on me. I caught myself calling some one a fucking beta

    • FunDude718 says:

      I just presented the most alpha male on the planet. Mario Petris. Check out his video below.

      Start at the 18:40 mark. He makes sure people pay him!

    • Lady Sage says:

      Hysterical! Fun is the gift that keeps giving. I hope you had a excellent day?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        I had an enjoyable afternoon just got back from a BBQ. Good food, Great conversation can’t beat that. How has your weekend been? Exhausting?

    • KeKe says:

      He grows on you… He really does.

  67. Promise says:

    @OnlineNewbieSD How was your day?

  68. FunDude718 says:

    Why are you being mean about Mario?

    You don’t like good Chinese Buffets?

    Did you even watch the video? THE DUDE IS A STUD!

  69. FunDude718 says:

    Oh yeah, he might be kinda short!

    But he has a big penis and will take you to his favorite buffet!

    Thats an older photo as well. He is more pleasantly plump these days.

  70. FunDude718 says:

    Mario is an alpha male with money.

    He smacks people around!

    He is about 6 foot tall and all muscle!

  71. FunDude718 says:

    The next HOT sugar daddy for this website: Mario Petris!

    Dude is rich and a trainer to the stars! Dude smacks people around and all the women love him!

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xD7QlPI5k4c

  72. rembodler says:

    Good Manners for Young Ladies

    While a lot has been said about the profiles, I would touch upon some points that are clear to me, but have not come across strong and might not be obvious to the aspiring SBs. I am just an “average middle-class dude”, so take it as you please.
    1. Please do not put deceptive photos and qualifiers in your profile. Do not say
    “athletic” if you have trouble finding your waistline; do not put face photos and get offended if a POT SD asks for a full body image.
    2. The children…change your figure. Do not put the “before” photos in your profile and
    come as you are now, after you have a 6 month old waiting at home. Whatever your girlfriends say, you might not look exactly like you looked when you peed on that test stick.
    3. Reply to your SA messages within 24 hours. When you start an SA conversation, do
    not just drop it and disappear for a few days.
    4. Do not – despite what else you hear on the blog– do not negotiate any numbers before you meet the SD. Yes, you might waste your precious time and miss the episode of “19 kids and Counting”, if the offered allowance is not to your liking. However, negotiating the numbers in advance gives a very bad vibe.
    5. Do not question #4, just trust me. If your communication with a person is going
    well, you will not be disappointed and at least get a nice dinner out of it.
    6. If you went on a date and you did not go dutch, write/text a “thank you” note, even if you are not interested to take it further. This is just being civil.

  73. Nichole says:

    I am open to critiwue but if you make a comment about my profile please give an example, don’t just leave vague, negative things, Thank you

    • Josh says:

      Why should I. I told you that your profile sucks. If it continues to suck, then it is YOUR problem not mine. You are not paying me to give you any advice.

    • FunDude718 says:

      your profile is perfect!!!

      Just make sure that you expect the man to give you 2000/meeting and that there can’ t be any sex until you determine “chemistry”.

      Worst comes to worse, just bang some bad boy on the side for free!

    • StruggleIsReal says:

      Ignore Josh and FunDude. There was a time when Josh offered valuable advice. He did to me and I appreciate it.
      Things have changed since then. Listen to ATLSD, OnlineNewbieSD, honestly most of the rest here. There are an obvious few who are here for some other reasons which we don’t know or care about.

    • THEATLSD says:

      Nichole. First Jaybirds advice was good about the narrative especially “What are you going bring to the SD”. Also it’s to long and a run on paragraph. Shorten it up and break it into smaller paragraphs.

      Pictures.. You have too many and most are close ups. Dump the pic with the thing on your head and and the one in the car. You only need 4 at the most. Your profile pic is wacky its out of ratio. Keep the red dress but maybe take it again in better lighting.

      Next.. Lower your expection to Pratical. You are in a medium size city that won’t have as many SD that can do moderate or higher. Once you find a real SD and you prove yourself the money/gifts will improve over time. This has been proven many times over.

      Lastly, (don’t take this personal) and this has been talked about to 1000000000000 degree on here. AA girls have a harder time on SA. So you have to bring your A game. There are many AA SB on this blog who are successful but it took a while to get there. KEKE, Kenna, jaybird to mention a few.

      Be patient

      Hope this helps.

      • Nichole says:

        I’m not sure what you mean about my profile pic, it doesn’t seem out of frame when I view my profile?

        I put Moderate because I am willing to travel to California and I am transferring schools soon :-) but I will change it to Practical for now.

        I know what you mean about the last point! It’s so frustrating how long it has taken just because I have been almost consistently active for a year and I feel that I have a lot to offer, but that goes back to the first point you made about how I need to exude that.

      • THEATLSD says:

        Nichole. Your picture is stretched or the aspect ratio is off. I though it might be my phone but Struggles mentioned it also. You have a good education and back ground let that Flow out.

        Dress up in a nice dress or skirt with HEELS go to a nice restaurant that has piano and have a friend take a picture of you standing next to it.
        You need to ooze class to match your education and back ground.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        It would be awesome if she could find a place that would let her get on the piano like Michelle Pfeiffer in the fabulous Baker Boys

      • THEATLSD says:

        Ohhhh yea that would be perfect. 😉 In that red dress.

      • FunDude718 says:

        Come on man.

        I agree with almost all of that stuff except the Kenna part.

        Kenna is too high of a caliber for these other ladies to achieve.

        Look at her previous station in life compared to them.

        Apples and Oranges. They can’t replicate that.

      • KeKe says:

        What was her previous station? I’m curious. This would be new information for me.

      • THEATLSD says:

        Fun. It’s called HOPE. Something to aspire for.
        Go “big or go home” which is the ever lasting theme in the delusional world of SB.

      • Lady Sage says:

        You’re always kind and helpful. You need a reward!

      • THEATLSD says:

        Yes. I agree I need a reward!! 😉

      • Nichole says:

        I understand, I want to put what I can offer in the What I Am Looking For section, I just don’t know how to put it into words.

        I’m glad someone sees that it’s harder for black women on the site. I feel like it’s maybe taking too long to get there. I have been told my goals are impressive, the amount of travelling I have done is impressive, the number of languages, my current goals etc but still haven’t had an arrangement yet. Thoughts?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Nicole your profile has absolutely no personality. The grammar is off. Please remove goat herder from your occupation. That can be a fun fact you share after you make a connection. And if you’re moving to Cali put that in the profile not your headline.

        I like your username but your headline sucks. This is your chance to catch the SDs attention and you’ve failed. (Eloquent excited and flexible.) Come up with something else If you like to travel try “Globetrotter seeks companion” etc.

        About me section. Give them A glance at your personality. Any special skills talents that will be of value to the SD. Example: ” I give amazing massages and there is nothing I love more than to help the special person in my life relax after a long stressful day.
        You want someone to give you money but what does he get for it. Why should he pick you over the thousands of other girls on SA.

        The what I’m looking for section needs a lot of work.Don’t start that section off asking for money. Describe what type of arrangement you want and with who. Example: “I am seeking a long term NSA arrangement with an Experienced SD. Someone with whom I can form a genuine connection. Ideally I would like to meet 4 times a month. My schedule is very flexible and can easily be adjusted to work around yours. etc.”

        You really need to work on the pictures. They are edited badly, you have the camera to close to your face and the full body shot is distracting.

        I’m sure other will add there opinions these are just mines. Good Luck

      • Nichole says:

        I understand, it’s just hard to talk about myself and yeah, I get comma happy so I’m sure there are a lot of comma splices in my profile. In messages SDs have commented I am well spoken but I have a hard getting that and my personality across in my profile. I have some new pictures pending and will get one it with the full bodies. It is true, I do give great massages and enjoy cooking for people. I put the goat wrangler bit in their for humor, should I still take it out?

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Headline-
        Rather than SAY you are eloquent, just show it and leave the compliments for those who come across you. It comes off a bit self congratulatory.

        “Flexible”… I’m not a SD so maybe it is my yoga background, but I honestly thought you meant that you are bendable. LoL I realized though that it it means you are willing to meet the needs and desires of a SD. Leave that out of your headline (you do mention it in your “what I’m looking for”, that is enough.).

        Think of your headline as your “teaser”. Show something about your personality. Give a tiny taste of who you are.

        California plus the date… Leave this out as well. CA is a big state, for one, and secondly, it just seems a little desperate to be letting everyone know in your headline when and to where you are moving.

        Photo-
        Your main photo is stretched out or something. You look cute though. Just fix the sizing.
        Your second photo needs to be removed. You look drunk or something and the lighting is horrible.
        The red dress photo in the mirror is not helping you. I rarely understand mirror photos. Hand the camera to a friend and have her take a picture of you. Remember your face is in the picture too. (If one MUST do a mirror pic, please for the love of God, make eye contact with your phone camera, i.e. the audience.)

        Occupation-
        Goat wrangler? If you were funny throughout your profile, this would be super funny and hot to me. But I am guessing you are serious? You are moving to CA to be a goat wrangler?

        About me-
        You sound like a nice girl who is working hard and would be an enjoyable SB for the right SD. Overall, nice. I just think you need more personality infused throughout your writing.
        Your second sentence needs to be broken up into at least two, maybe three, sentences.
        I don’t know about including the bit about distance, unless you are specifically seeking a long distance relationship. Probably just leave that out and let the chips fall where they may.

        What I’m Looking For-
        Between this section and the previous, I just think overall you need to speak more to the SDs; tell them why you will benefit them. You do it a tiny bit but there needs to be a little less you and a little more them.

      • Nichole says:

        I have done a few of the edits so far and still having trouble with the wording.
        Headline: I’m have no idea what to put creative so far

        Photos: I deleted one or two and added in some new ones to start with and got rid of the red dress picture
        Occupation: I added Goat Wrangler for humor, not because I was serious. I’m moving to CA to transfer schools.

        About me: Thank you, I am glad you get that vibe from my profile, the biggest challenge thus far has been to show my personality through my writing and use the right words.

        What I’m Looking For: I completely reedited this section and try to appeal more the potential SDs as opposed to what it is I would like from them. Thoughts?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        I understand it’s hard to talk about yourself. I like to use an interview format. Get a sheet of paper make a list of questions? (Hopefully some of the SDs on here will give some examples of what they want to know about a SB.)
        Examples:
        1)What are your hobbies. 2)What is something special or different about yourself. 3)What will you bring to an arrangement. 4)Why should an SD choose you.

        when you’ve answered the questions you’ll have an outline to construct your profile and it helps you get a better understanding of what you’re looking for.

      • Nichole says:

        Okay, I’ll use these questions and others I can think of that may be applicable. So far the easiest of your questions to answer is #2, because I speak three languages and I have lived in different countries.

        I removed the goat thing and thought about what you said about lack of personality and humor. I would like to incorporate more humor but I do not know the difference between being humorous and ‘hamming it up.’ In writing my profile I do not know what my strengths are, I speak better than I write.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Hey Nichole the grammar is still off so I edited for you but much better job at getting your personality across. You have to space out the paragraph. I would use the picture with curly hair instead of the hat pic it makes you look older than you are.

        Since you are a premium member hide your join date The longer you’ve been on here the less interested the men are. No one wants what nobody else wanted. so if your profile says you’re new but your join date says 2012 they’ll wonder why you’re unsuccessful. I wish you all the best with your search. hopefully you find what you’re looking for.

        EDITED PROFILE

        My name is Nichole and I’m currently in school to become a dentist. (it was either this or goat wrangling). I enjoy reading, bicycling, watching movies and cooking (I’m currently learning how to make Indian food) I speak three languages. One is obviously English. If you can guess the other two, you win a special prize ; )

        I am here to find one great guy, who’s open to a Mentor/NSA relationship. If you’ve had problems finding someone who is honest and consistent in the past, then your search is over. I am adaptable and capable of transitioning seamlessly from a ball game to a ball gown. When in an unfamiliar situation I do not panic or shut down. I maintain composure and rally to make sure that I represent you and myself in a way that is above reproach.

        Although my current location is in Phoenix/Flagstaff, I will be transferring to a university in California on June 1. I am an open book if there’s anything you would like to know just send me message and I’ll get back to you.

        What I’m looking for

        I am looking for someone who is comfortable with a long term NSA arrangement. I would love if we could meet on the weekends 2-3 times a month. This way I’ll be able to give you my undivided attention. Trust me you want my undivided attention 😉 I like to make the people I care for happy. If you pick me that would be my number one priority … making you happy.

  74. Lela Bee says:

    I am done lol

  75. Lela Bee says:

    I would love to finally find a real SD but so far, I’ve only gotten “Johns”….I’m going to venture out of my state

  76. StruggleIsReal says:

    Ladies, I just discovered a great clothing website that I wanted to share. It is really cheap and apparently has great products.

    Hellomollyfashion.com

    I just ordered a dress and a romper (for about $100 total plus free shipping) as options to wear for a Napa garden wedding this coming weekend. I will let you know how they are when they come in :)

    Yes I know that isn’t much money and isn’t designer, but unless they are items I plan to keep and use forever, I love the best deal possible.

    Just thought some of you might like to check out the site!

    • FunDude718 says:

      That website doesn’t have any BBW MODELS!!!!!

      That is a FAT SHAMING WEBSITE FOR THIN WOMEN!!!!

      BOYCOTT THEM!!!!

      • GeorgiaPeach says:

        LMAO. Actually, I do wish I could do just that…. LMAO. LOL

      • FunDude718 says:

        Come on Georgia, where is the compassion for CURVY LADIES!

      • GeorgiaPeach says:

        Sorry, it’s going down the tubes so to speak. This shit is hard to get off… much more difficult to get the weight OFF than put on. Though mine was due to far too much stress coupled with other factors… but no excuses. I just know I’ll feel better and can do “more” with less weight on this ass. LOL

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Buy something cute for your girlfriend!

    • Josh says:

      What…no ass, no tits…Are those girls or boys with log hair?

    • GeorgiaPeach says:

      Hey Missy, cute shoes too! Not bad prices either… but Australia? Wow.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Yes but the shipping is free and super fast. I researched online about reviews previous to ordering.

    • CucumberOnLids says:

      I could kiss you on the lips right now! Love this site! I love the styles and the color options plus shipping is free over $70!

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Yes isn’t it awesome?! No problem, happy to share good stuff! I can’t wait to get my items in!

  77. FunDude718 says:

    Going to read my Book “Zealot” about Jesus written by Reza Aslan.

    Anyone read it?

  78. Josh says:

    Anyone who can engage with so many on the blog in a rapid fire fashion must be bowed down to.

    • FlyBoy says:

      Are you patting yourself on the back, now? lol

      Seriously though, you should take your meds!!!

      Cheers :)

    • Lavish Vixen says:

      Anyone who actually thinks something like that without having a laugh needs some serious mental assistance right there. It is a comments section of an article for seeking arrangement, not your Call of Duty game on the play station.

      Oh my, I just joined and hope this is not a representation of men on the site!

    • StruggleIsReal says:

      It’s easy when it’s just one personality, and I’m killing time while boyfriend sleeps off a stomach flu :)

  79. Nichole says:

    I have no idea what to say when it comes to the About Me section or how to vocalize what I am looking for in a brief, direct manner, but I did start working on the About Me section and here is how I edited it: I am currently in school to become a dentist, my inspiration
    to choose this field is to find the cure for oral cancer. I love to spice
    things up and I enjoy showing my appreciation for others and the possibilities
    are endless and I aim to please 😉 I speak three languages and have lived in
    places like Chicago, Hawaii, and Japan, so my passport is valid. I enjoy
    football, cooking for others, and taking on a new challenge. I am excited to
    see what opportunities this site may provide and I have the flexibility in my
    schedule if you don’t mind the distance). As I am new to this and looking
    forward to meeting new people, I would like to have a conversation with you
    before you request to see my private photos :-)

    • StruggleIsReal says:

      I would be so into you based on that info alone. Good job.

      • FunDude718 says:

        Unfortunately, you aren’t a sugar daddy, so you being into her is irrelevant.

      • GeorgiaPeach says:

        Nice Doc Fun LOL.
        Sorry Ms. Struggle, sometimes the Doc does come up with some cute ones.

      • FunDude718 says:

        Women like struggle think if she likes someone, that it is relevant to a sugar daddy.

        Sugar Daddies couldn’t care if Struggle finds someone impressive for a SD.

      • FlyBoy says:

        Struggle is not an SD, sure, but she is an SB. In other words, she has experience with sugar.

        What qualifies you to speak about the sugar bowl!

        Cheers :)

      • FunDude718 says:

        flygirl you aren’t a sugar daddy either lol

      • FlyBoy says:

        FunFaggot; I didn’t ass-u-me that you were not an SD! You confirmed on many occasions that you will not give an allowance to anyone here!

        Hell even your other deranged personality, ‘Josh’, admitted that it was you who wouldn’t do allowances!

        You are not an SD, ergo, your opinion on the bowl is garbage!

        Cheers :)

      • FunDude718 says:

        lol I can tell you aren’t even male.

        You try way too hard

      • Josh says:

        A sensible MAN does not “fly” the word “Faggot” around in a public discourse as you do…sweetheart. :)

      • RussianSB says:

        Maybe he is into boys ? Because with such hatred to women is difficult to create something.

      • FunDude718 says:

        must’ve been good at faking it last night with my 23 y/o girlfriend.

      • GeorgiaPeach says:

        So you did get “creative” huh? LOL

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Actually, one day I will look for my own SB, with my man’s approval, knowledge, and participation. She will be paid handsomely and we will make sure her life is better than it was without us. She will be mine and we will be his. I actually do have an eye for an attractive lady. No, I am not a SD, but managed to nab the best one out there and am in the best relationship ever with him now. I think I do have a fair perspective.

      • FunDude718 says:

        LOL cool story

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        LoL STUPID response to a legit response.

      • FunDude718 says:

        It doesn’t require any further response.

      • gottabey says:

        Cheers to you, lady :)

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Hey friend!

      • Nichole says:

        I’m flattered, thank you very much :-)

    • FlyBoy says:

      It’s excellent!

      Cheers :)

      • FunDude718 says:

        lol

      • Nichole says:

        Thank you! You;re a great coach, I’m about to start working on the What I’m Looking For section

      • Josh says:

        FlyGirl does not know jack. Your profile still sucks.

      • Nichole says:

        I’m going to put this articulately, Josh I’m started to get irritated quickly with your “criticisms” if you’re not willing to heklp and just say vague, useless things like, “your profile sucks” then say nothing at all. You;re not helping it just sounds like you;re being an ass. Be mindful that I am putting this politely

      • FunDude718 says:

        If you want an honest review, ask someone more critical like Josh.

        Struggles or Flygirl are kind’ve a joke on this issue and won’t get you any true analysis.

      • FlyBoy says:

        Be aware Nichole, that both Josh and FunFaggot are the same metal case.

        Ignore them!

        Cheers :)

      • Thus Spake Guru says:

        Ignore Josh the Guru at your own peril, and stay SD-less for yet another year.

      • FunDude718 says:

        you mad chica?

      • FlyBoy says:

        No FunFaggot :) I am having fun!

        Cheers :)

      • FunDude718 says:

        you sound mad

    • FunDude718 says:

      The only opinions you can take serious about your profile are actual proven sugar daddies or sugar babies with a track record.

      There used to be a whole group of SDs that gave advice on profiles.

      Ask Josh to hook them up with you.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        This coming from NOT A SUGAR DADDY. LMAO

      • Nichole says:

        I had a few SDs help me and they were a big help, and I know one of them said get better pictures and I’m saving up to get some professionally done

      • FunDude718 says:

        Thats good.

        You need someone who is somewhat critical to actually get something productive done.

        Josh seemed pretty good at it TBH

      • Nichole says:

        I see criticism but not productivity bc his comments are vague and he doesn’t provide examples

      • Jaybird923 says:

        They don’t have to be professional just wear something nice and have some one snap some clear pics of you in good lighting

      • Nichole says:

        Okay :-)

      • Nichole says:

        You’re right, I’m sure Josh and FunDude are the same person

    • Jaybird923 says:

      Good job People who are willing to accept advice and admit when they need help always do better. So many ask for help but when you don’t tell them what they want to hear they get upset. They are the one’s who’ll post on blogs about how it’s been over a year and still no arrangement.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        In what you’re looking for section try to put more about how you’ll be an asset to an SDs and less about what you want the SD to do for you

  80. Moonrisekingdom says:

    Good grief. Well said strugglesIsReal. Are there any moderators for this forum in the house?

    Jeff, the admin, I saw a few of your posts before on this thread. Can you please stop the posters FunDude718 and Josh from posting this inappropriate content? This is not an appropriate place for talk of rape, or making fun of tape and badgering of the ladies here.

    • FunDude718 says:

      Actually the conversation started with a woman who posted the PERSONAL information of a sugar daddy on here.

      How come you aren’t asking to get her banned for posting personal information of a sugar daddy who is being DEFAMED on this blog?

      She is basically accusing him of something very close to rape.

      Ergo, that is how the conversation started.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        No she didn’t that was Josh asking her why she hadn’t filed a rape charge. And you of course jumped on the bandwagon and start posting your stupid rape culture stuff

      • FunDude718 says:

        Josh was speaking about how her statement could easily be construed into a false rape charge.

        I concur with his assessment.

        Reread her comments. She is basically saying he almost raped her by bringing her to his apartment and pushing sex onto her.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Weird how you/Josh are so against rape yet you are actually trying to bring it into situations where it is a complete nonissue.

      • FunDude718 says:

        Have you not been reading the recent false rape accusations in the media?

        Do I need to post all of the most recent ones?

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        No. Make your own blog and post a link to that.

      • FunDude718 says:

        Don’t have to.

        Linked a great youtube video already.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        When do you start at Booth? I enjoyed some great classes this week with my boyfriend. You’re doing the part time program right?

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        FunDude. Funny how you reply to all else and not to this. You are so fake it’s just fun to watch. Go Josh! I commend your schizophrenia on, at the very least, constructing swiss cheese blog personalities to fill your time.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        still had nothing to do with this blog. Should people who make false claims be prosecuted yes. But you guys are blowing this out of proportion the percentage of actual rape cases far out weight the fraudulent ones.

        But I don’t you see you guys advocating for the rape victims who’s reputations are torn to shreds and are made to carry the blame for what happened to them because there skirt was to short or they were out to late and all the other nonsense defense attorneys use to get the clients off.

      • FunDude718 says:

        How do you know the amount of false accusations are far less than actual accusations?

        The stats don’t show that. Most rape accusations are DROPPED due to insufficient evidence.

        Its hard to tell who is telling the truth.

        All of the recent cases in the news have been FALSE.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Okay fundude. Since you want to be obtuse I’ll play along. Wow I didn’t know that. You mean ALL the recent cases in the news are false and no real rapes have occurred recently. I wasn’t aware of this new trend. Are all women reading the same Tumblr blog. How to fake a rape.

      • RussianSB says:

        Just ignore him, he live in that blog.

      • RussianSB says:

        Because they don’t care. They hate women so much, that sometimes I asking myself, do they ever have mothers or sisters ?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        It couldn’t have been construed has rape. She did not imply that she was all she said was she got ripped off. You guys are the one who took it in that direction and decide to make a joke of it.

      • FunDude718 says:

        It sounded like she was “VERY UNCOMFORTABLE” about being brought to his apartment where he pushed sex onto her.

        She didn’t elaborate further whether they had sex.

        She was crying about being “ripped off” as well, which is subjective and unsubstantiated.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        so being uncomfortable is equal to rape now? Give me a break

      • FunDude718 says:

        Actually, according to many feminists, it is equal to rape.

        A woman drinking alcohol and having sex is being “raped” as well.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Oh My God! You don’t say. Where do I Press charges because one time in 2006 my date bought me a drink I slept with that night I didn’t know I was raped thank you letting me know

      • FunDude718 says:

        Look at what the feminists are saying about rape on college campuses.

        If the female is “intoxicated”, she is by definition being raped when having sex.

        There is no standard for the amount one needs to drink to be “intoxicated”.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        If she is intoxicated she is in no position to give consent. And any man who sleeps with a drunk women Knows exactly what he is doing.

      • FunDude718 says:

        What about a woman who sleeps with a drunk man?

        Is she raping him?

        Also define “intoxicated”.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        If he is drunk and is not in a position to give consent then yes. He is being taken advantage of. There’s no double standard here. Wrong is wrong no matter who does it.

      • FunDude718 says:

        Yes there is a double standard.

        Feminists never accuse women who have sex with very intoxicated men as being RAPISTS!

        It ONLY applies to men!

        Another feminist hypocritical stance.

      • GeorgiaPeach says:

        Yes, but isn’t that like a double-edge sword here? If a man were to report he was raped, wouldn’t that be against his own “manhood” that he allowed himself to be raped by a woman? Men can’t have it both ways, either.

      • FunDude718 says:

        A man doesn’t have the option in the first place.

        So that point is mute.

        Typical feminist double standard.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Everyone come have a seat and watch Josh talk to himself. Lol. Truly entertaining.

      • GeorgiaPeach says:

        So, unbelievable as it might be, you would not “cry rape” if it happened to you?

      • RussianSB says:

        Why, maybe they have SD tumblr with scaring stories of agressive and harrasing wild sugar babies , who knows ?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        Boo hoo Poor fundude. Is that why you’re so angry did an Old BBW feminist rape you while you were intoxicated? We can start with this issue when we schedule your pro bono therapy session.

      • Karen says:

        Omg, LOL!!

      • RussianSB says:

        Brilliant !

      • FunDude718 says:

        How do we define intoxicated for a female?

      • Jaybird923 says:

        So you’ve never seen an intoxicated person?

      • Josh says:

        Sweetheart, women are even talking about “stare rape”. Where have you been living? http://www.avoiceformalestudents.com/goshen-college-declares-all-male-students-who-stare-at-women-are-rapists/

      • Jaybird923 says:

        For real. I wouldn’t even know how to begin pressing charges for that. I’ve been getting stare raped since I was 13.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Yep. You/Josh brought rape into it. She was sharing information. Most everyone said “this will get deleted” and expressed that in a positive way.

      • FunDude718 says:

        It hasn’t been deleted though.

        The guy’s name, address, SA profile, telephone number, etc are still available to be seen.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        I would say it is the weekend and it is only 11:07 in CA. Give it time.

      • FunDude718 says:

        Regardless, it is basically DEFAMATION and libelous that this stuff has even been posted for any period of time.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Mkay. Write to SA about it.

      • FunDude718 says:

        Its not my place to do that.

        It is specifically the place for the guy whose information has been posted.

        He probably doesn’t even know it yet.

    • Moonrisekingdom says:

      [rape] not tape.

    • Promise says:

      Usually when they’re not talking about that stuff they’re quite helpful.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Promise, we all know you are one in the same as josh and FunDude. You make this too easy.

    • Saphia S. says:

      I’m not accusing anyone of rape, I just need help and guidance, and I’ve tried reporting it to the site but I’m not getting help. I guess you’re right, it’s not important.

    • Promise says:

      I have 2 rules for the blog that I thought about, but don’t want to post them here.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Good. No one cares.

      • Promise says:

        You seem to be upset with me. Why?

      • FunDude718 says:

        She’s angry that you aren’t siding with her angry feminist perspective.

        That is normal for her type.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Feminist is a word. To me, feminist means “annoyed to bloody hell with FunDude and Josh”. I am a PROUD FEMINIST. lol

      • FlyBoy says:

        ROFLMAO

        Cheers :)

      • FunDude718 says:

        lol yeah you mad

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Yeah. Congrats! Lol

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Because you are clearly Josh. Your story doesn’t make sense. You are here to feed Josh and FunDude. It’s sick.

        I am going to use Josh’s own tactics of calling flyR and FlyBoy “women” CONSTANTLY. This way, everyone will know the ridiculous barf you and your faux gang spew.

      • Promise says:

        If you really feel that way about me then I think it would be in both of our best interests if we don’t talk to, or about another again. Good bye.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Nah. I will happily do as I please. I haven’t been ugly to you. I am a nice person, here to converse nicely with other nice people. Fortunately for me, I don’t need multiple personalities to prove myself to… myself.

      • RussianSB says:

        I also Josh for her ! Everybody is Josh ! Like in matrix – mr.Smith.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        My apologies for my suspicion of you yesterday, Russian. I have noticed a pattern that he does. He initially goes against his own to appear legit, then aligns himself with them/ them with him.

        With your sporadic posting and sudden many posts interacting with him, it seemed possible.

        Now I see otherwise and do hope you accept my apology :)

      • RussianSB says:

        Apologies accepted. But why are you care at all – I can be Josh or Hillary Clinton, or can even be a maniac in conflict with my 8 personalities – I will write and angrily respond to myself here. Calling man a woman here, or accusing in having multiple accounts, without proof … Josh is Josh (if only you know HOW different we are from each other, me and Josh , in real life) ! But he post more positive from the begining, now he is bitter and pessimistic. And you are so suspicious from the begining, what will be in one year, dear ?

      • Hototrot says:

        I don’t think so. I like reading your posts. Like poetry. A mash up of Russian-English that I don’t get off the bat, but always has some nugget of essential truth stuck within.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        See this is what I was talking about. you have two rule but won’t post them here. Then what the hell was the point of letting us know about them?

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Like the “AFF website” that “she” didn’t want to post after she mentioned it. Spineless fake virgin. At least you are more nice than FunDude. Can we get rid of him and keep you? I’ll even keep josh too. LoL

      • Promise says:

        Fixed it.

    • Josh says:

      Regret rape is made a joke by women themselves by a good number of them making false rape charges, then getting the women collective to support their “regret rape” joke. Sulkowicz one such example:

      http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/02/03/columbia-student-i-didn-t-rape-her.html

      To drive the point home. You invite someone over and give a material thing of value, say, a watch. Two days later you “change your mind on the gift-giving”, because of a reason important to you.

      Then you go ahead and accuse the recipient of theft, and get your friends to be your violent supporters. You can do such things only a few times until people catch on to the “joke”.

  81. Saphia S. says:

    One of the SD members on the site started harassing me and made racist remarks. This man has a hold of my number and I’m actually afraid that he will do potential harm. How do I deal with this?

    • Promise says:

      Is it your Google Voice number?

    • FunDude718 says:

      How has he “harassed” you?

      How did it come about that he got your number?

      • Saphia S. says:

        Well, I was stupid and I thought he was harmless, and he was a local member, so i gave it to him, which i know is a huge mistake. I never really had issues with people like this before.

      • FunDude718 says:

        How is he “harassing” you?

        Can’t you just change your telephone number or have his number blocked?

      • Saphia S. says:

        he keeps calling me a terrorist and saying really harsh and rude things, I’m just really freaking out

      • FunDude718 says:

        You haven’t given the course of events.

        Please tell us how it has come to harassment in the first place.

        Did you ever meet in person?

      • Saphia S. says:

        No I haven’t, but he won’t stop messaging me. We were talking and he asked where i was from, and I told him I’m american, but he refused to believe it because of my skin color and the way I look. I was born in Canada and grew up here in America. I was born here in America, therefore I have every right to call myself an American. He started calling me a liar, and has been making nasty racist remarks. I’ve never had an issue with any other member on this site

      • FunDude718 says:

        Why don’t you just have his number blocked then?

        No big deal. Just call your cell phone provider to have his number blocked.

      • Promise says:

        If you decide to keep using the site I would recommend using Google Voice in the future.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Lol. Great advice coming from the site virgin. Thanks for the tip though Josh.

      • Promise says:

        Please leave me alone.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        No thanks, Josh.

      • Josh says:

        How old are you sweetheart?

        Contact police and stop posting about this issue here. No one can help you except repeating commonsense stuff to you.

  82. StruggleIsReal says:

    Josh and FunDude, please take your constant negativity elsewhere.

    • FunDude718 says:

      By your definition, complaining about sugar daddies taking advantage of Sugar babies isn’t “negativity”.

      But sugar daddies who complain about either sugar babies or their stupidity is “negativity”.

      Ergo, you only consider “negativity” to be anything that doesn’t benefit sugar babies.

      • CucumberOnLids says:

        Self medicating does not make you a MD. Please find your nearest padded room and wait for further instruction.

      • FunDude718 says:

        Another stupid straw man argument from an angry feminist.

        I have listed above the reasons for my “negativity” towards Megan.

        If the reverse happened to a sugar baby, you would be up in ARMS that personal information was given out on this blog.

      • CucumberOnLids says:

        Everything you just posted after that went up was WAY OUT OF BOUNDS. If your issue was the information being posted then you could have stated just that. Instead you go on one of your usual psychotic tirades and then introduce rape jokes? Wow when you really want to fall you find the highest mountain to climb. Good luck with that broken neck. I figured you wouldn’t last 3 days before getting back to the crazy.

      • FunDude718 says:

        You angry feminist?

        We are making fun of false rape accusers. We didn’t say Megan specifically.

        Josh stated that this type of accusation that Megan is making often leads to a “false rape accusation”.

        Josh was correct in this assessment. This is often to case.

        Megan hasn’t done that yet but it wouldn’t be shocking that a claim could be made in the future if she doesn’t get what she wants out of “shaming” this sugar daddy she posted information about.

      • CucumberOnLids says:

        RAPE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS DISCUSSION!

      • FunDude718 says:

        Says who?

        Who are you do decide what we can talk about?

        Also, the topic is FALSE RAPE accusations. Not “rape” itself.

        Are you denying there is an epidemic of false rape accusations?

      • CucumberOnLids says:

        NOPE THAT IS NOT THE TOPIC! Ahh I get it now. Let’s try to bring up sensational hot button topics to rouse fear mongering and maybe the site will loose more female members. Maybe you’re a shill for some SA competitor site because all you do is insult women that aren’t in your specific body, age , allowance types. If it’s not that let’s post the word Rape in all caps several times in a few minutes to really get people going.

        Now I’m done talking to an attention whore. Find someone else to assist with your smear campaign.

      • FunDude718 says:

        They have far more to worry about losing QUALITY sugar daddies than angry entitled bitter feminist sugar babies.

        If you haven’t noticed, there is an OVERABUNDANCE of women compared to men on this website.

      • Karen says:

        You pretty much nailed it. Trolls live for attention and often use controversial topics to incite reaction and attack so as to get any attention, or try to hurt others.

      • CucumberOnLids says:

        Watch what happens. Both will show intense concern for SBs for awhile , asking probing question on wow how did this happen? It’s all to try to keep their asses of the chopping block. Watch the theatrical “care” and “concern”.

    • FunDude718 says:

      Also, she has listed the guys name, address, profile, etc.

      Imagine the ANGER from sugar babies if the reverse happened.

      What if some sugar daddy came onto this website and listed a sugar baby being a fraud who “stole his money”.

      He subsequently gave her SA profile, name, address, etc.

      Would you be accepting of this? Of course not!

      You would go after the sugar daddy who did it.

      You are just a typical hypocrite that is very one sided on these issues.

  83. CucumberOnLids says:

    @FunDude why are you laughing and making light of this situation? I don’t think it’s funny when SDs gets ripped off. It’s like this situation activated you back to the feminist rants. Also who said anything about rape?

    • FunDude718 says:

      We have warned women about this situation many times.

      Don’t know what else there is to do.

      Its due to greed on their part. They couldn’t be “taken advantage of” without monetary concerns.

  84. FunDude718 says:

    For the ladies claiming that some model with Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome is “obese” due to this medical condition should read the below citation:

    http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2861983/

    Ergo, the OBESITY of women with PCOS is far lower in other societies. This confirms the obesity is due to FOOD INTAKE rather than her medical condition.

    Also, morbid obesity can lead to PCOS.

    Therefore, it is the chicken and the egg. Obese women are more susceptible to having PCOS due to their OBESITY.

  85. FunDude718 says:

    Another great video from the same guy concerning “rape culture”:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fYo1ewgG94M

  86. Josh says:

    Let’s ass-u-me that Megan received $1300 after sleeping with the guy. Would she be on the 7th heaven?

  87. FunDude718 says:

    Great video thanks to PROMISE. I am going to repost this again due to its GREAT content:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=422&v=A2QB00ZXbpA

  88. Josh says:

    @Megan,

    Is there a specific reason (or reasons) you have not charged him for rape yet? Talk to @LadyScarlett, she will coach you in re-framing what happened to you into rape.

    • FunDude718 says:

      LOL HA HA HA HA

      So true. That is a fake rape charge gold mine!

      I mean he walked out on dinner with her!

      THATS RAPE!!!!!

      Lessons from Rolling Stones, Emma Sulkowicz, etc.

      • Josh says:

        There you have it…re-framing-consensual-sex-into-rape whore…http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/02/03/columbia-student-i-didn-t-rape-her.html

      • FunDude718 says:

        Yeah another fake rape.

        We have a FAKE RAPE CULTURE that is an issue.

      • Karen says:

        That’s sick to make fun of this girl for her bad experience. Whether she made a poor decision or not, there is nothing LOL about anyone being taken advantage of.

      • FunDude718 says:

        She shouldn’t be laughed at.

        That piece of garbage should be put in jail for at least 10 years due to her defamation of an innocent man.

        Unfortunately, we don’t charge these fake rape accusers.

      • Josh says:

        No one would have made “fun of this girl for her bad experience” if she had not posted personal information about some random man who is not here to tell his side of the story.

        However, since you seem to believe that everything a woman says should be believed until proven otherwise by a grueling dragging on the coals investigations of the male, you have problem with making “fun” of her “poor decision”.

  89. FunDude718 says:

    Interesting cartoon

  90. Megan says:

    I have had such a hard time on this site, the man I recently met up with promised me 1300 in exchange for a few hours of hanging out together. I drove to Marina Del Rey & should have left immediately because he sounded way too nice over the phone. He had me park my car in his gated car garage which I initially felt weird about doing but I went with it because I figured I wouldn’t have any issue getting it out. Needless to say this asshole pushed me into have sex with him when I felt VERY uncomfortable then asked me to walk across the street with him to have dinner at Cheesecake Factory & that he would give me the 1300 after we ate and that the bank was next door. He then told me to order a drink & that he was going to use the restroom. HE LEFT ME THERE & LEFT THE RESTAURANT & NEVER ALLOWED ME TO GET MY CAR OUT OF HIS GARAGE!!! HE NEVER GAVE ME THE 1300 HE HAD PROMISED. I HAD TO RUN ACROSS THE STREET & BANG ON HIS OFFICES DOOR & TELL THE MANAGER AT THE APARTMENT COMPLEX WHAT HAD HAPPENED AND SHE OPENED THE GATE FOR ME. Ladies please be aware of this liar & horrible human. His real name is Peter but he goes by “William”. His name on SA is “blessingsforyou”. Also the link to his SA profile is below! His phone number is (213)-290-4577. His address is 4245 Via Marina Marina Del Rey,CA. DO NOT MEET UP WITH THIS MONSTER HE COULD ALSO BE DANGEROUS!!!! DONT GET SCAMMED LIKE I DID!!!

    https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ed867b6b/view?conversation-sent

    • RussianSB says:

      Thank you for sharing.

    • RussianSB says:

      10 years was monk, looking for wife, asking for sex – don’t that confuse you, dear ? Why don’t you post him in all american anti-date sites ?

    • CucumberOnLids says:

      So sorry you experienced this. His address looks familiar as it’s possible he’s done this before.

    • Promise says:

      This comment might get deleted so I suggest you submit this to that Tumblr SD blacklist blog.

    • StruggleIsReal says:

      Yikes. Thanks for sharing. Will likely get deleted but do as RussianSB said and post on whatever relevant blogs there are.

    • Jaybird923 says:

      It’s good of you to share your experience with everyone and hopefully someone reading this will learn from your mistake. But this is unfortunately another case of women ignoring their instincts for the chance to make a couple of dollars.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Very true.

      • THEATLSD says:

        I was waiting for a SB to say that. Really going into a gated parking garage. No effing way.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        That was mistake number 2. Number 1 was agreeing to meet someone for the first time at his apartment. What did you think his intention was if not sex. You guys were going to play scrabble?

      • Josh says:

        “You guys were going to play scrabble?”

        😉

      • FunDude718 says:

        She was stupid enough to believe some top level TV producer worth over 100 million dollars would email some random sugar baby on this website.

        She also was stupid enough to believe he would give her 1300 dollars to “hang out”.

        I mean the whole thing looks so fraudulent on the surface only a moron would fall for it.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        I have to agree. I love how she takes no responsibility for her part in this. The big bad man pushed her to have sex even though she was uncomfortable. No you decided to sleep with him even though you were uncomfortable because you couldn’t resist the lure of $1300. Accept your mistake and be glad that the worst thing that happened to you was you didn’t get the money.

      • FunDude718 says:

        A guy who invites you to his apartment for “1300” dollars is definitely going to want sex.

        Do you think some top TV producer is going to be on SA with his face being shown?

        These dudes are fucking top level models, actresses, etc.

        Why play games on SA?

      • THEATLSD says:

        actually it was Words with Friends

      • Jaybird923 says:

        lol sorry duly noted. On another note I answered your question about the nutrients in sperm. I think you’ll get a kick out of the answer.

      • Hototrot says:

        You have to remember some people are still a very naive, not just money struck. I was pretty dumb and quite sheltered at 18. I’m shocked at some of the things I believed at that age. I had a professor in college who pulled a stunt on me during a study abroad trip. Wanted me to come to his room and I did! Until then I still saw most adults as authority figures and just took their word. Glad she didn’t get hurt though. Lesson learned.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        It was not naivety. Throughout her whole post she goes on about how things were weird or she felt uncomfortable but instead of walking away she just kept going along with the situation. If money wasn’t the motivation for disregarding every warning bell that went off what was?

      • Hototrot says:

        Yeah. She sounded a bit desperate and not too bright. Cheesecake Factory and $1300 at the end of the rainbow? She messed up but he should get put on blast too. What he did wasn’t cool. Preying on other people should not be rewarded. She took a hit and he should take a hit too by being exposed as a fraud. She’s not a real victim, but he shouldn’t get protection from her retaliation. Even Steven.

      • FunDude718 says:

        Can we post personal information about sugar babies that are frauds as well?

        I think we should post their address, names, phone numbers, SA profile, etc.

      • Hototrot says:

        I don’t advocate putting up anybody’s personal information. But, if you screw over people- be it male or female- there are generally repercussions. If a SD wants to identify a dirty dealing SB, who am I to say anything? If the person is spreading false information, there are proper channels to go about clearing yourself. We have a judicial system for a reason.

    • rembodler says:

      Megan’s post should be removed.
      While this may very well be true and I feel for her, this is a terrible precedent. Opens the possibility for abuse and score settling.
      real names phone numbers addresses have no place here.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        I agree that real info like that should not be posted. I am sure it will be removed.

      • FunDude718 says:

        The dude’s profile looks like a fraud.

        Just checked it out.

        I mean come on ladies, use your brains!

        The guy is 44 y/o and claiming to be worth more than “100 million” with more than “1 million per year”.

        He was in a “monastary” for 15 years before getting into being am media producer, yet became unbelievable successful despite starting late.

        Do you honestly believe some top level TV producer is going to be on seeking arrangement with his PICTURES clearly being shown?

        Top level TV producers have models, actresses, etc throwing themselves at him with offers of SEX constantly.

        He doesn’t need to play games with some sugar baby on this website.

      • FunDude718 says:

        http://www.zillow.com/homes/4245-Via-Marina-Marina-Del-Rey,CA_rb/

        This guy is worth over 100 million dollars but lives in a 1 bedroom and 1 bath condo?

        He must be slumming it.

  91. RussianSB says:

    In that site engine, same as in that blog , good money and care invested. Thank you , Mr. Brandon. And for someone site still doesn’t work.I think it is personal problem – don’t blame the site . That lifestyle not for everyone, but for little group of people.Rich , famous, beautiful.
    They have no problems using the site, only benefits, same as in real life meetings.
    If you not rich – you cannot afford financially support someone, because it is extra.
    If you not beauty – you not attract men.( Here , I think, every woman should go to the mirror and ask herself if she sexy, attractive and f…ble ).
    No, it is not the place filled with Santa Klauses, who want give huge allowances to every less-than-average girl just because they feel so generous, or are packed with money. (But, that happens sometimes here).

  92. RussianSB says:

    I still stick to the categories of men here.
    1. Real SDs, who don’t like to waste their time on endless dates – they can only say “Thank’s God, such sites exist “. Or, if they don’t likes the choise of ladies here, they deleting from the site and meet in real life.
    2. Guys who cannot afford allowance, and eaten up by envy to guys #1. They will critisize girls on SA, say that they are to old/fat/stupid or generally “not beautiful enough ” to even think of allowance.
    I agree that looks really matters in dating world. But, look arround, men marrying and giving allowance to all kind of women, sometimes really ugly or really crazy women.
    Those guys biotching about quality of women on SA , still stay registred during 10 years, visit their profile every day, and blog every hour.

  93. flyr says:

    @danhhhhhh dude man up this stuff is not that complicated

    First email yes I am a real SD who is comfortable providing sugar concurrently with the commencement of an intimate relationship . If this is of interest we should talk if not we should enjoy the silence. Look forward to your reply

    Real men don’t replicate the tribal rituals of liberal women – substituting whining and endless reprocessing of events for action. Sounds like the dance of 1,000 Hillary Clintons. You have 5 SB’s for every SD and probably 10 for every real SD. If you can not find a great arrangement the enemy is in the shaving mirror

    • RussianSB says:

      THAT was written logical.

    • Josh says:

      “man up”, “Real men”…

      Hahahahha…

      Such bullshit does not work on many men anymore, my dear Madame @flyR; a woman posting and trying to induce guilt in men in the old style shaming techniques.

      In the age of feminist “ewuality” the operative term should be “human up”, no?

      • flyr says:

        Joshie – You can do it or you can sit in mommies basement and whine whine whine . Waaaa Waaaaa Waaaa

        Life is so unfair to the lazy, arrogant, bigoted, incompetent and the stupid…….. If you can not find a quality SB here for a reasonable allowance you are either abusive , lame, or a combination thereof.

        As has been true for centuries is now true on the internet – empty wagons make the most noise………… You sound like the typical rioter life is unfair

      • Josh says:

        And you will insist that the above text was written by a man, Madame flyR?

      • Flyr says:

        Josie – When you are ready to put some cash behind your BS you’ll get some respect. In the meantime you’ll upgrade you SD game if you do something more productive like spending weekends picking up aluminum cans from the roadside and garbage cans.

    • StruggleIsReal says:

      Here here!

    • FunDude718 says:

      Why should men do the “man up” thing for independent powerful feminist women?

      That is just slavery.

      Illogical argument.

  94. flyr says:

    @struggle Hope all is going well…… you deserve it

    • StruggleIsReal says:

      Thank you dear! It is, and funny you say that because I really feel like I don’t deserve it / him.

      Okay well maybe just for right now. Poor babe is sick as a dog and man does his projectile vomit have some reach! He never gets sick so he has zero control over it either. Since last night I have just been helping him, consoling him, and mostly following him around cleaning up all the barf! LoL! Not sure what he has. Some sort of stomach bug or something ? He said his stomach felt funny about 2 days ago, and just last night the upchuck began.

  95. flyr says:

    Is Rem really Joshie in drag…………………..

    Nichole …… It often takes some time to find an arrangement that fits.

  96. Nichole says:

    I really would like to see myself do well on this site, I’ve been told my profile is impressive but I haven’t had my first arrangement

    • THEATLSD says:

      Nichole give us some more details or link to your profile maybe we can help. There can be multiple issues so you have to narrow it down.

    • StruggleIsReal says:

      Yep do as ATL said. If you want to do well and are willing to take some constructive criticism, I’d be willing to have a look and offer what I can.

    • Josh says:

      Your photos are fine. However, your profile text sucks. I am sure others will point out what exactly is wrong. Best of luck!

      • Nichole says:

        I agree but I don’t know how to shorten it and make it more direct

      • Jaybird923 says:

        You use way to many adjectives and it drags when one reads it.

        Get rid of the confrontational language it’s off putting “If I am too far for you please do not bother requesting to see my private photos, it’s counterproductive and annoying” change to something like this
        I would love a chance to get to know you before receiving a private picture request”

        and also your opening line doesn’t flow. “I am a ambitious college girl with the goal to work as a dentist to find the cure for oral cancer” try something like this I am currently attending school to become a dentist. My inspiration in choosing this field is to find a cure for oral cancer.

        You talk a lot about what you want/need from an SD but say nothing about you will do for an SD. Hope this helps

      • Nichole says:

        Editing it right now, thank you so much!

  97. StruggleIsReal says:

    Some of the posts are cute and fine. But most of them are downright… yuck. I appreciate SA for what it has provided for me, but the stiff that is being promoted is no bueno.

  98. StruggleIsReal says:

    On another note, I noticed that SA is on Instagram the other day. I checked it out unfortunately. I was honestly… Horrified.

    • Jaybird923 says:

      Yeah that instagram page is ridiculous. It’s all about what the SDs provide but nothing about what an SB should be providing. Very mercenary, materialistic, and superficial

  99. StruggleIsReal says:

    Pretty sure @RussianSB is @Josh . Jeebus this is getting boring.

    • LadyScarlett says:

      No, no…Russian is cool. She was around before Josh started posting. She is actually not one of his several silly blog personas…

      • Josh says:

        How dare you take my proxy away from me, you post-wall batshit crazy woman?

        There are Josh’s proxy that pre-date even Josh. Josh’s actually a proxy itself. Comprende?

      • LadyScarlett says:

        Uh oh, must have really bit him with that one…he brought out the ‘big alpha guns’ with his weapon ‘words’ of typical BS insults, hehe. Yawn, get new material, mr. Senior citizen who lives on the blog, twiddling away his golden years, pretending to be an actual SD, and has blog persona schizophrenia.

      • Josh says:

        Eat your heart out you hardly working, having to seek random men’s dole woman.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Guys guys! We’re all crazy! It’s not a competition!

      • Josh says:

        Speak for yourself and batshit if you want to include her.

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        I totally just upvoted my own shit. LoL

      • LadyScarlett says:

        Wait, you are against the male dole, yet post on sugar site everyday, day and night? I would have to say you possess more A-hole than any SD male dole, though…

      • Josh says:

        Who said I am against the dole? I am against the dole to non-deserving women.

        Your logic matches FlyGirl’s. Do you two compare notes?

      • FlyBoy says:

        Your statement was crystal clear; you were shaming an SB for wanting sugar. Pure and simple.

        Of course, like the little coward you are, you disown your statement and continue your comical ad hominem against everyone.

        What a pathetic little coward!

        Cheers :)

      • Josh says:

        Ah the FlyGirl of all women tries to teach the Guru how to write. Tsk tsk, what’s the world coming to?

      • FlyBoy says:

        Guru!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

        What a pathetic fucking clown!

        Cheers :)

      • Josh says:

        Genius! Shaming “an SB” is EXACTLY what I was doing. It’s your little female head that thought I was disowning my statement.

      • FlyBoy says:

        Is this your best?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

        Try again, troll.

        Cheers :)

      • josh says:

        Which best are you referring to? I have all kinds of bests…

      • LadyScarlett says:

        Wait, isn’t the ‘guru’ the self proclaimed ambassador against shaming, or shaming language….like someone else said…he sucks ): and, always calling you a female as well, trying to make others disregard your opinions…that is another hypocritical attempt at ‘shaming’.

      • Josh says:

        Once again, it’s your ass-u-mption that I am against shaming. I am shaming proof, and just point out sshaming language.

        I guess you like to make a fool of yourself.

      • FlyBoy says:

        Bingo LadyS!

        He and his idiots spend all day crying about feminist ‘shaming’ him and women ‘mind fucking’ him and, and, and ….

        Yet, what does he do? Of course, shame SBs for wanting sugar, shame all women by calling men, women as if that was an insult.. and on and on and on.

        Hey what can I tell you, trolls be trolling!

        Cheers :)

      • Josh says:

        Not “his idiots”, sweetheart… his proxies”, no? LOL!

      • Josh says:

        I love it when you write femalish to me.

    • Josh says:

      Of course. Who else could be as witty?

      You’re getting sharper by the day. 😉

    • LadyScarlett says:

      Actually, I was going to say that she is too witty and interesting to be a Josh character 😉

  100. Promise says:

    I think I found the British FunDude. :000 https://youtu.be/A2QB00ZXbpA

    • Jaybird923 says:

      @fundude718:disqus This is an example of a reputable video. It includes actual facts/statistics real life examples. Clear and concise explanations no name calling/bashing. Good find Promise

      • StruggleIsReal says:

        Wow I might actually watch it.

      • Jaybird923 says:

        You should I agree with it. He gets his point across in a way that only someone who wants to be antagonistic would find fault with. At least that’s my opinion. if you watch let me know if you agree.