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“Calling All Sugar Sponsors!”

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As you may know, SeekingArrangement will be hosting it’s very first Sugar Baby Summit, followed by a luxury mixer this June. In case you missed it, go check out the blog post teasing our next party for everything you need to know.

We are currently looking for brands, stores, and businesses interested in sponsoring the event. This will be the perfect opportunity for you to raise some brand awareness. If you’re searching for a presence in the Sugar community, we’ve got you covered! The venue will be filled with high profile guests, and many up and coming individuals in Manhattan.

Did we mention that there will be media coverage? SeekingArrangement is kind of a big deal… which means the media is always watching. There will be national and local outlets covering this event, and with a sponsorship your logo can be front and center for thousands of impressions.

Sponsorship Tiers

Diamond Package – $2,000

The Diamond Package is the best of the best. Daddies, think of it as equivalent to your Diamond membership on SA. This package comes with all the bells and whistles!

Diamond Package holders will have a reserved booth/table space during the Summit, perfect for displaying your brand. You will have the opportunity to include one item inside of our Sugar Swag Bags which will be passed throughout the event. This could be a coupon or any branded merchandise of your choice. We are also offering the option to add your logo and promotional offers onto party drink tickets, which will be placed in the hands of all attendees.

In addition to the swag bag item, we will display your logo on the Sugar Baby Summit and SeekingArrangement Party website. We are experiencing a high level of site traffic due to in-demand ticket sales. This is the perfect time to capitalize on the action!

Note: All Diamond Package holders will receive four tickets to the SeekingArrangement Party. We invite you to have a blast after a busy day of sponsorship!

Ruby Package – $1,000

Your next choice is the Ruby package. This package will not include a booth, but it will have many Diamond perks for half the price!

Just like Diamond Package holders, we will include your branded merchandise or coupons in our Sugar Swag Bags passed to all event attendees.Your brand will be listed on the event website, and our party drink tickets will feature your business logo and any promotional content you wish.

And to top it all off,  you will receive three guest tickets to the SeekingArrangement party held shortly after the Summit. Who says three’s a crowd?

Onyx Package – $500

The very last package is Onyx. Don’t let the price fool you, this package is great for those who want to get a taste of Sugar Baby Summit while still experiencing all that our Diamond and Ruby packages have to offer!

Onyx will include advertising space on the SA party website, as well as branding on the party drink tickets passed to all attendees.

Don’t forget the best part of every package… complimentary tickets to the SeekingArrangement Party! The Onyx Package will include two tickets for the perfect pair.

Contact Information

All three of our Sugar Baby Summit Sponsor packages offer potential supporters a great deal of exposure. We hope that the opportunity of national, and local media coverage will entice your brand to become a sponsor for next years event!

If you are interested in being a sponsor, please contact brook@seekingarrangement.com with a brief description of the business you want to sponsor the event, and which package of sponsorship you’re interested in.

More party information can be found via Eventbrite and our Sugar Baby Summit Splash Page. Tickets are on sale now, at the early bird price. Tickets will be going up after May 11.


Will you be there in June?

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1,609 Responses to ““Calling All Sugar Sponsors!””

  1. Meghan says:

    You help me I help you

  2. Amanda says:

    Very interesting, thanks for sharing.

  3. Razi85 says:

    i need someone who funded me for continue my education …..

  4. ToyJoy says:

    How many SBs get their SD to sponsor this trip? I’m Obviously new, please dont be too harsh.

  5. Cocov#6 says:

    Sounds fun, but do sugar daddies want good sugar babies wanting to grow or Easy Thots who run the streets with the funds they are given… I’m just asking and wondering… It’d be fun to rub elbows with some of the best! Learning, talking, and networking would be an expierence to hold for years to come. Coming in with an open mind not pretentious is how I roll and have yet to find a SD who wants the same and not a pocket hungry w****.

  6. puravidasurf says:

    Still trying to hitch a ride to New York lol…
    I guess I got what I wished for with the last SD (of two years) to be left in Costa Rica. Hey it is not the worst place to abandoned. XOXO blonde and pretty (fiery sweet on SA)

  7. LADY_Sub755 says:

    That would be quiet an interesting event to attend. It’s a shame it happens a week before my NYC trip. Hopefully better luck next time.

  8. Secret says:

    I’ve been on here for about a year and haven’t found a genuine, honest, non-controlling guy who will provide support, laughter, and a good time. Why is it so hard to find someone on here!? Is it because they are attracted to the escorts, barbies, and splendas?

  9. Hudson says:

    Nice to see some smart women posting comments, holding their own and not being belittled or called out their names. :)) enjoying these comments.

  10. nabeel khan says:

    i want relationship with one S.B doesn’t matter her age, distance but i want to continue my study, i am a student of mechanical engineering, at CECOS university pakistan.i am poor boy i cant’ support it. if anyone a=interested in me.. .. then contact with me i am ready for everything.. also searching for good job.. in america…
    Contact #: 00923157127470

  11. PrettyBoy23 says:

    I had an amazing relationship with one SD and then he passed away from a heart attack. It was the saddest day ever. I couldn’t even go to his funeral (obviously). That was a long time ago. Now I’m back and ready to find someone special. Does anyone have any helpful tips to find someone genuine, sane, caring, and generous?

  12. ss1959 says:

    @StruggleIsReal: “…my SD here, is also my Dom. My back is smarting quite nicely from the belt this morning.”

    I figured you were a sub from some other things you’ve written. My SB’s profile didn’t mention anything about D/s or SM, but there was something about the way she wrote that hinted at it. I guess when you’re in it you recognize it in others.

  13. Josh says:

    @Flyboy is actually @FlyGirl posting as a man.

  14. DominantSB says:

    LOL @FlyBoy oh gosh really? After making out with a stranger while surrounded by mounds of naked bodies I’d say “paradise of hot pussy” is a relative term :)
    Oh wow, someone’s moving in? Good luck darlin’! Sounds intense but eh, simplifies things time wise I guess?

  15. FlyBoy says:

    After a year and half (too much work :() absence from SA, I came back early this week. Thankfully, contrary to what I have been reading on the blog lately, I found the site to be exactly what it was before; a paradise full of hot pussy that is dying to be fucked by a wealthy guy. Nothing has changed.

    Alas, I have to go out tonight but I promise that I will write about the beautiful experience I had with a new SB earlier this week.

    Cheers :)

  16. GeorgiaPeach says:

    New topic folks 😉

  17. FunDude says:

    Josh was on Dr. Phil recently?

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SwPLx3mEaM4}}

    I like this guy

  18. Melissa says:

    @Dark
    I take it you don’t like pants?

  19. FunDude says:

    @Lady

    No guy paying a woman off to hang out with him has “won over” anything except the beta chump award.

    Going out with my 23 y/o hottie tomorrow night again to the bar and clubs in Western MICHIGAN.

    Hung out 4 times in the last week. Not screwing around these days.

    • Anonymous says:

      Maybe if you weren’t such an angry unreasonable beta chump, you WOULD get an opportunity to be screwing around.

  20. DarkHorseSD says:

    My dinner date was sans chemistry. She should up in pants after a great dress and gorgeous designed stockings for the Appraisal.

    Short and tedious to get through. Check was under 150 for what is usually a 250 place. 20 for a taxi. Bye.

  21. Denise says:

    @Peeps get away from that guy. He sounds exhausting. Problem is he’s putting way too much on your plate yet he’s the one that’s married. Tell him to try and find a backpage lady that offers outcall options.

    He doesn’t want a girlfriend but a cheap mistress. He pops into your life with his marriage drama and meager offerings? Gross.

    Ohh and cheap hotels? Just all kinds of nope.

  22. LadyScarlett says:

    @dirtylittlesecret, have been pretty busy, so only have had time to read the last few posts, so not sure I have gotten all the background info on your current SD, and please correct me if I have misinterpreted anything, but I would say your situation might be more the exception than the rule but does happen, and does not mean he is bi or a mamma’s boy. My long term sugar daddy from last year waited awhile for intimacy as well, not because he would not have right away, but he did not want to rush things(of course, he was long distance, so that is a difference with your situation), so our frequency of seeing each other had something to do with it as well…Anyway, he was new to the arrangement thing, and was a bit of ‘allergic’ to the idea of paying for me, then my reciprocating intimacy afterwards, in that he wanted it to be more like a regular relationship dynamic(but still an arrangement).He was generous, especially considering we rarely saw each other, but that was given in a more natural method as well. Some of these guys are like this, especially, if new to arrangements, as they do not want to feel like they are getting a ‘pay for play’, which is preferred for me as well..I do not like that dynamic either. Also, even though things are NSA and terms laid out, not all men want the sex to come ASAP, right after the allowance. Some are used to wooing a woman, and enjoy feeling like they won you over naturally, not because they just handed you cash or deposited money into your bank account that week. It also can be that he respects you feeling comfortable and is fine with you taking the lead for sex.

  23. DarkHorseSD says:

    I contracted ED from a Ukrainian SB a while back. Went away after a few months without her.

  24. DarkHorseSD says:

    Oh no. JudgementalSoul

  25. ShyLilly says:

    *stumbled (sorry)

  26. ShyLilly says:

    @All Hi, I’m new(ish) to the site and finally stubbled upon this blog. If you all don’t mind I have a quick question… Are there any specific red flags that you look for when you first begin communicating with a SD or SB? If so, what are the ones that stand out the most? I met a guy who was exactly what I wanted (my profile is short and to the point). We have met twice and had a strong connection – especially sexually (2nd date – I know I know), but I’m not sure if I should keep looking. Another guy contacted me who seems to have the same type of sexual desires, but he’s somewhat closed off in terms of discussing our arrangement. I’m not looking to necessarily discuss money yet, but I’d like to know how involved he intends to be – if that makes sense. I know most SD work hard for their money so I don’t want to waste their time between conferences, meetings, etc… Anyway, he says he wants to leave some things up for discussion when we meet tomorrow, however his first offer was to meet him at his apartment. Um no. Huge red flag for me so now I’m worried. Any thoughts on how I should proceed? Thanks.

    • Rick says:

      Really simple. First meeting should be in a public place.

    • EyesOnU says:

      Wanting to meet at his apartment is a huge red flag. He is not real about his wants with you; so I would just leave him hanging so he learns the lesson, LOL. Nah, but your instinct is right, your first meeting should always be in a public place, and over coffee, dinner, whatever. Drinks not so much either… that’s unsafe for you. If he is “uncomfortable meeting at public places” or “afraid of someone he knows seeing you two together” run! He just wants intimacy and then ghost you.

  27. Josh says:

    @StruggleIsReal

    “I’m not even sure about the laws here anyways.”

    No one worries about such things during the honeymoon period, which you are in right now. Not all women are evil. Most enter into such things with the greatest intentions for themselves and their man.

    HOWEVER, the more they interact with the man the more resentment continues to build for things he did but should not have done as well as what he did not do but should have done.

    When the time comes, all it takes is a $250/hour call to a good attorney who may be able to give free consultation based on how loaded your bf is.

    However, I have a feeling that this thing is going to be over in a few months. Moving together will cause the honeymoon to end sooner. Thoroughly enjoy while it lasts.

  28. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @gentleman- I did not think of that.

    Well, this just became interesting.

  29. Josh says:

    @Melissa

    “@Josh
    Lol! I know I’m usually more tactful. I just got back from taking him lunch. We talked, I apologized and when I left he was much happier”

    Good girl. I want you to keep the sugar flowing without interruption.

  30. KeKe says:

    @Peeps. .you should have gave us ALL the info up front! !!. No No Hell NO. This does not sound like a good match. Keep looking!

  31. KeKe says:

    @Peeps.. good luck with your SD and POT’s

  32. gentleman soul says:

    @peeps

    Yuck ! Run!! You are the Sugar Momma in this relationship

    @DLS

    I guess I’m crazy lucky with this POT.

    He wants a girlfriend Sweetie, and if that is what you want go for it and enjoy . This is not normal male behavior,even for a BF. He sounds sweet . Maybe he is bi.Frankly, looking at your picture I could not contain myself for long . Not that I am against developing a friendship 1st . But what he is doing is courting you trying to win you over so you will love him . He is a Momma’s boy and is looking for validation.He wants his Mommie to love him .

  33. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    We* satisfy
    Free* of his everyday

  34. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @gentleman- Really? I just saw him today for lunch and he gifted me again- this time way more than the last several times, and we are meeting for lunch again Saturday. I must admit- this lunch was super sexy. He had little cards in which he wrote naughty things for me to do during lunch. It was in public, so nothing extreme, but still erotic and a bit promiscuous.

    We usually meet during weekdays and weekends it’s his time with his kids. He takes it super seriously. He just showed me a blog which he had dedicated to me with a lot of sexual content on there. It’s named [myname]’s sexy mind. So I know we’re leading in that direction of intimacy.

    I guess I’m kind of his muse. He satisfy each other’s minds. He had some POTs on here that just wanted the sex and none of the playfulness in between. That seems to be really important for him- so he doesn’t feel like he’s paying for ass. And that I really want him when it’s time to play. He was telling me that through my emails and texts he’s able to be fee of his everyday thoughts and that’s what “the other girls don’t seem to understand.”

    I guess I’m crazy lucky with this POT.

  35. peeps says:

    @gentleman soul
    @KeKe
    “Set the mood up and he will get hard.

    No he wont KeKe . Men who have ED will not respond to a “real woman” administering to him. This is a common misconception that the guy can be cured . Proper medication should be able to normalize him unless he had radical prostate surgery and is one of the 25% who do not resume normal function.”

    Well, he gets a little hard then loses it…like goes totally soft…the first time we did it he got hard and came, I think he’s going through some heartbreak re: his ex SB and that was on his mind…I actually asked him last night after he could not orgasm/or even stay hard after/during my BJ which I know I am good at, and had no interest in intercourse, about his ex..and he said ” I think she wanted more sex actually…” which tells me what I need to know, it isn’t me, he just isn’t all into sex. he likes cuddling, holding and all that…I mean that’s ok if I am with a long-term BF but sorry if I am at the beginning stages of something I want passion.

    The other thing is I feel he is a bit clingy, he wants me to stay overnight, to cuddle him, to hug him, and I find that a bit artificial. He really wants to bond, and I only want to bond of there is good sex involved. It sounds like I am the man in the relationship LOL

    There are other issues too, he stays at this sort of not so great hotel where the rooms are very small and based on what he has told me about his ex, he used to pay the rent for his ex at a cheaper neighborhood and stay there a lot, they were very close, he had the keys, etc..he has hinted he wants to stay over at my place and to have a mistress type of relationship, where he leaves his stuff behind and I am his second home so to speak.

    However my living situation is such that I would want a bigger allowance for what he ultimately wants…my living situation is an upgrade for him and I am not wiling to risk a married guy staying over all the time,I don’t want my neighbors to know, I live in a nice building. He looks a bit old to be my real life boyfriend. He has more money but he is less educated than I am. It’s not worth it unless it’s a highly compartmentalized situation.

    He wants me and my apt as well, ultimately and that is not something I am willing to do for a married man unless 1. I really have great chemistry and 2. the allowance at least covered the market rent which it does not. I get the feeling he wants a situation where he can be in my life a lot, and I just don’t want that from a married man. I am ok with him being married – it give me freedom – but I don’t want a clingy “relationship” with a married man …

  36. Melissa says:

    @gentleman
    ‘Sounding a little hookerish girl.’
    LOL!!!

  37. gentleman soul says:

    @peeps

    “I’d rather keep the current low maintenance stable SD guy who gives less but also demands less and keep meeting others so I can have one or two on the side until I find the right match where I will be happy with just one.”

    Sounding a little hookerish girl.

  38. gentleman soul says:

    Just read through some of the convos . It’s hard to work and keep up
    @DLS
    How often would you guys see your SB/SD? Would you get/give money even with no sex? Not a large amount, but something? Am I the exception here having waited so long before sex? I’ve seen this guy four or five times in the last couple of months. I just want to wait until it feels right. He knows that. And I’ve never asked him for anything he just gives me money because he says he feels like it’s “the right thing to do.”

    See SBs 2x/week. NO money before an arrangement starts-ever. This is SA ,not [findalifepartnerdotcom]. You are SO the exception not having sex for so long ,or your SD is gay. Totally weird and unacceptable to an SD.

    @peeps
    I wonder how can you break up with someone without telling them that you like a lot of sex and you like it rough and he isn’t satisfying you…just WHAT will I tell him?

    Tell him that -you love sex and he doesn’t. You have different needs.

    @FlyR
    Re Daddy – it may be uncomfortable to some and a compliment to others – why not ask
    One to avoid Hun It’s hookerese for I don’t have time to learn names .

    I kind of like “daddie”. I agree with FlyR -don’t use Babe or Hon.

    @KeKe
    Set the mood up and he will get hard.

    No he wont KeKe . Men who have ED will not respond to a “real woman” administering to him. This is a common misconception that the guy can be cured . Proper medication should be able to normalize him unless he had radical prostate surgery and is one of the 25% who do not resume normal function.

  39. peeps says:

    @keke
    Yes you were right too:)))
    It’s best to keep what I have…I’ll give it another month:))) That way this won’t be a hasty decision…:) And by then I will know what, if anything, will have come out of the POTs I have met or will meet in the next week or so.

  40. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Keke
    Thanks girl, you’re right, and I can’t wait to get together either!!

  41. KeKe says:

    @Peeps..I gave wise advice!!! Lol

    @Struggle So happy for you and the move. Can’t wait for us all to get together. Yes. I’m lucky my lover doesn’t think I’m weird. Lol

  42. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Josh
    I know, it’s a little scary! I’m going to need lots of anti-sabotage reminders! For the record, it was his idea and request. I am really happy about it though. And don’t worry, I am not out for his money. If we ever call it quits, I would not go after it at all. His support and generosity is truly just a bonus in my life. I’m not even sure about the laws here anyways.

  43. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Josh
    Yes, but he got us a new place so it was both of us moving in together 😉

  44. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Peeps
    Of course sweets!
    I understand. I imagine you were also hoping to give it some time to let chemistry develop. Definitely a bugger that it hasn’t. But until you find just what you’re looking for, he definitely sounds nice and pleasant. I’d feel the same as you though.

    @Kenna
    Thanks luv! It’s been really nice! The most I’ve had I wear has been a light jacket. Today is a little cooler. Tomorrow is supposed to be really nice (70s)! I’m excited. We are having some of his friends over tomorrow to the apt and the roofdeck (which is beautiful!).
    How are you feeling? Are you going to find out the sex ?

  45. Josh says:

    @Struggle

    Did he move you in with him?

  46. peeps says:

    @StruggleIsReal

    You are so right. Yes I am keeping what I have although I am looking for someone else. He is very nice, I like his company but we just don’t have any chemistry. This has never happened with me before, where I have to think I am with another man to go through being intimate with someone. It’s not because he is older, he is quite fit, it really is because we have no sexual chemistry although he is very nice. It sounds like this is normal to him, he is a more passive, 100% vanilla, almost feminine man who is afraid to manhandle a woman lol.

    Anyway I appreciate the wise advice:)

  47. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle

    Glad the move went well! :-)… How’s the weather?

  48. DarkHorseSD says:

    So the lesbians are out on the cold?

  49. Melissa says:

    @Struggle
    I know :)

    @KeKe
    Oh you know this and that 😉

  50. KeKe says:

    @Melissa.. what did you do to make him happy. Lol

  51. StruggleIsReal says:

    @peeps
    Keep what you’ve got unless you find something that suits you better and has proven itself worthy of dropping a good dude. Unless you’re just repulsed by him… That is different entirely. If you’re attacted enough at least to have engaged with him, he can’t be all that bad. Either that or you just really need the money, in which case you should also keep him since he is providing something for you.

    @Melissa
    Aw well he cares for your safety :) That’s good!

  52. StruggleIsReal says:

    Hey guys!

    The move went so surprisingly easily and well, both GB and I were like “Wow, that was actually FUN!” Usually moving is so stressful and such an energy and time suck. Ours felt like such a breeze. And we did it ALL ourselves. I drove a uhaul from several states away, with a dog, stayed in a seedy motel halfway (for some reason I love doing this on road trips. I could have stayed somewhere really nice but I simply enjoy it. Hehe) packed and loaded/unloaded everything ourselves and everything. I’m a pretty hands-on chick and while I can certainly enjoy luxury (ahem, my new digs!), I like to do shit myself. We only need a couple more things until the apt is on point. I am love love loving it so much, especially being able to be with him. My mom also just met him and she is completely sold on him and he loves her. I couldn’t ask for things to be any better!

    So now I’m catching up on here. Didn’t go all the way back, but did that chick with the craptastic ‘tude take a hike? LoL

    @ss
    “I never really expected to find her here on SA, but somehow I did.”

    That’s so awesome! Love hearing happy pairings, especially from the site! I feel the same. My GB, who I found (well he found me technically) originally as my SD here, is also my Dom. My back is smarting quite nicely from the belt this morning. 😉

    @Keke
    ” I have masochistic tendencies so it’s really hard to find guys into it also. My Lover isn’t a sadist but likes to please me.”

    Lucky is right. I have never had anyone else who was I to it or could get into it either. I didn’t ever put anything about wanting a Sadist Dom in my profile because I felt it would draw some weirdos. Also I can’t sub to just anyone. I have always overpowered any male I have been with. I have one guy *try* to dominate me and I think I actually laughed in his face. I have to have such massive respect and admiration for them and basically have to be in love. I think there were nuances of sub language in my profile but still, I can’t believe I found what I did in my GB from the site. I never even expected to.

    @Dark
    “SBs: Would you rather have to find, meet and have sex with a string of guys 1-6 times each for 800 each time, or one long term steady guy for 400 each time?”

    $400/steady, for sure.
    I think that long term the money would be better with the steady offering less. But that is assuming that others are as picky as I am. I’ve met many (well, most actually) POTs that I simply won’t sleep with, regardless of money. Knowing I am into someone enough to sleep with him plus money offered on top of it would trump randoms offering more. Plus health benefits, security, ability to form an actual friendship that matters. Plus my own enjoyment would increase because we would get to know one another and what the other prefers sexually and also non-sexually, which would likely lead to me wanting more frequency, which would lead to more money.
    Also, I am not judgmental towards others about it, but for me, having so many sexual partners would damage me emotionally, especially with the money attached to it. Sex still feels very special and exclusive for me. That is enjoyable and healthy for me. Also I just won’t cum unless I am connected to someone emotionally on some level.

  53. Melissa says:

    @Dark
    One stable longterm SD

    @Promise
    Of course you would…

    @Josh
    Lol! I know I’m usually more tactful. I just got back from taking him lunch. We talked, I apologized and when I left he was much happier 😉

  54. peeps says:

    @DarkHorseSD
    Stable is better. Or rather, stable, non-demanding SD that gives room for extras on the side. Met a POT the other day who offers a lot (substantial/high) BUT expects a lot in return (3 meetings per week) and isn’t attractive at all. I’d rather keep the current low maintenance stable SD guy who gives less but also demands less and keep meeting others so I can have one or two on the side until I find the right match where I will be happy with just one.

  55. DominantSB says:

    @Josh is so cynical. I’m gonna send him a big tub of coldstone ice cream. I think he needs a bit of spoiling for a change, lol. :)
    I think my consolidation is because it allows me to draw lines in the sand as far as my life is concerned and my own personal desires. It also is a matter of mutual respect though I think in all things investment vs return should be examined.

  56. DarkHorseSD says:

    “You cannot eliminate sabotage from your interactions with men.”

    But Men can – eventually – be eliminated.

  57. DarkHorseSD says:

    I got it Uncommon..

    And more impressively, YOU got it :) I like it!

  58. DominantSB says:

    I honestly like consolidating my interest. I rather give a guy 100% and be fully into the dynamic we share than to have one guy getting 25%, another 15% etc, etc. Get my drift? But then I am not jealous or needy. All I require is communication. I think that is the most important thing in any relationship or friendship alike and where there is often a breakdown. You don’t have to play “gotcha” games. We’re not in high school anymore.

  59. DarkHorseSD says:

    Waiting to do an Appraisal.

    Dinner second date coming up.

  60. Josh says:

    @Melissa

    I was going to ask you how did you manage to sabotage the situation but then got busy with other stuff. So it was sabotage indeed.

    Women are relationship sabotage machines. Don’t feel bad. Embrace the fact. You cannot eliminate sabotage from your interactions with men. It is what it is. The best you can do is to mitigate risk.

  61. UncommonSB says:

    Pun intended.

  62. UncommonSB says:

    “Perhaps a mix of steadies and turnovers is the most efficient portfolio an SB could have?”

    LOL. Makes me think of stocks. I’d rather invest significantly in a company whose shares offer comfortable high yield dividends, than risk the OTC markets with millions of penny shares spread across start-ups that are often just pump and dumps.

  63. Promise says:

    @Dark I prefer steady. I don’t want to become used goods.

  64. DominantSB says:

    So to update you guys, I REALLY should have spent more time on this site sooner. After I left following my last comment, I saw this SD, let’s call him “super hottie” and I sent him some very honest compliments and I don’t know, was drawn to his energy.
    Well suffice to say we have been having some very intense and “open” exchanges since yesterday and I’m sort of excited about the prospects. Silly for me to be so impetuous but yea, I guess these things sort of “just happen”. And I’m extremely attracted to him so hopefully I get to attack his face with my face. :)

  65. DarkHorseSD says:

    So the favorable aspects of steady stable long term arrangements outweighs even a large increment of income for you, Southern.

    How do you other SBs view this? From different ages and other standpoints?

  66. SouthernSB says:

    @DarkHorse-The difference in income is huge, but then with 18 short ones I would have to be very careful in vetting and I would have to worry about STDs and becoming burnt out and jaded; or worse an entitled brat like the very attractive but “ugly” girls on Tumblr (not that I hate them). I want to keep something of my soul, and if I have to look at too many peniis I’ll stop worshiping them and if I stop that, blowing won’t turn me on anymore.

  67. Natasha Curr says:

    I just have to say I hear constantly that I am a Beautiful women either at work in public or at the bar by men and women.. I’m tall, exotic, German, Norwegian, Brazilian mix.. Yea sure I’m not busty but I can turn heads like no other women on this site im sure. Yet I barely get any messages from these so called Sugar daddies that are supposedly wanting hot young women.. Well News Flash Boys There is a gorgeous women here waiting…Where the hell are you at? Im starting to thing this site is a fake and all men on here aren’t real or they are just blind!!!

  68. Promise says:

    @Melissa I’d be mad at you too.

  69. Melissa says:

    and by a few I mean 3 and I had the bartender give me 2 cups of water after

  70. Melissa says:

    @KeKe
    Long story. Short version: Went out last night, had a few drinks and was going to drive home. He came and got me instead. He’s upset because I said he was overreacting and that he should calm down

  71. DarkHorseSD says:

    If you read this blog backwards, 418 posts ago it says ‘Josh is dead.’

  72. DarkHorseSD says:

    “When does it become escorting or downright prostitution? I don’t have the personality for a string of guys. Heck, I can hardly juggle two. A whole string just sound exhausting.”

    My inquiry allows for several steady SDs at one times. ie 3 steadies lasting avg. 18mo vs 18 short ones of 2 months each.

    Perhaps a mix of steadies and turnovers is the most efficient portfolio an SB could have?

  73. KeKe says:

    @Melissa. What happened?

  74. Melissa says:

    Welp my SD is upset with me, I’m just going to wait until he calms down a little

    @ss1959
    OK got it!

  75. ss1959 says:

    @KeKe: “@SS..you are lucky.”

    I am indeed!

  76. DarkHorseSD says:

    Perhaps the blog SBs that do the turnover arrangements for the higher rates can help with some of those parameters, Southern.

  77. SouthernSB says:

    “sounds”
    I hate it when I spell things wrong.

  78. SouthernSB says:

    DarkHorse-How many guys? One to six times each at 800 a pop? How much is a string? When does it become escorting or downright prostitution? I don’t have the personality for a string of guys. Heck, I can hardly juggle two. A whole string just sound exhausting.

  79. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Dark – Your lesbian scenario might have a better chance if she was bi…then she could find a co-baby situation and maybe both of them could get the apartment covered!

    Sorry…that was probably too much, but we had the discussion a few blogs back about the trend for “couples” profiles where there were multiple SBs listing on a single profile for the “double your pleasure” crowd.

    If another lesbian is looking for a roommate to help cover the cost of rent, she’s probably not going to let someone live for free…which leaves the recent graduate still looking for the 1k sugar to help with rent…still probably better to be a straight woman with a SD?

  80. DarkHorseSD says:

    Southern…how would the money likely compare long term in the two scenarios?

  81. SouthernSB says:

    @DarkHorseSD-One because any other way would make me feel degraded.

  82. KeKe says:

    @Dark….I know there are many benefits, I just named a few that are most important to me.

  83. DarkHorseSD says:

    “@Dark… Steady.. I like reliable income. One partner creates a better connection that leads to better sex for me.”

    So KeKe, you would take less cash overall from one guy vs several. There are many other benefits to a stable arrangement..

  84. DarkHorseSD says:

    What are the sugar opportunities for lesbians? I’m thinking specifically NYC, but generally interested.

    Example: Girl graduating college and moving into NYC. Wants to have an apt. rigt in Manhattan, but could settle for trendy Brooklyn neighborhood. Small studio will cost 1500-2800, depending on location and quality. Shared 1Br in Manhattan possible for 1200.

    Girl is lucky…she has a real job, but needs 2-3k sugar to live well in a nice place, 1k sugar would afford shared apt. and modest budget.

  85. KeKe says:

    @Dark… Steady.. I like reliable income. One partner creates a better connection that leads to better sex for me.

  86. KeKe says:

    @SS..you are lucky. I have masochistic tendencies so it’s really hard to find guys into it also. My Lover isn’t a sadist but likes to please me.

  87. DarkHorseSD says:

    Expected allowance…

    SBs: Would you rather have to find, meet and have sex with a string of guys 1-6 times each for 800 each time, or one long term steady guy for 400 each time?

    Which scenario would lead to greater total allowance over the course of a year or more? How would your costs compare in the two scenarios (not just financial.) With which do you make out better?

  88. Promise says:

    Sitting I class. Really nervous about my speech. Not just about saying it, but questions afterwards. Everyone knows that as soon as you talk about religion or politics people lose their shizz.

  89. ss1959 says:

    @KeKe, DD/lg = Daddy Dom / little girl. There’s a more thorough definition here: [http://daddys-doll.blogspot.com/2013/09/what-is-ddlg-dynamic.html]

    In our case I’m a dominant sadist and she’s a submissive masochist, so we’re a really good match for each other. I never really expected to find her here on SA, but somehow I did.

  90. SouthernSB says:

    @KeKe-Dominate Daddy/little girl. It’s a kink.

  91. SouthernSB says:

    Well when it rains it pours, am talking to two potential POTS one in FL and one in NC, and trying to ignore one from Washington St. who seems to think SA is Match.

  92. KeKe says:

    @Nubian…lol..Been there!

  93. KeKe says:

    @ss…. what is a DD/lg

  94. ss1959 says:

    @Melissa: “Question. Do SDs like when their SBs call them daddy?”

    I do, but mine is not a traditional SD/SB relationship; it’s a DD/lg pairing and thus “Daddy” and “Baby” are very appropriate.

    I really don’t know, but my guess is vanilla SD’s wouldn’t like it.

  95. NubianSB says:

    If I don’t find an SD soon, my vibrators batteries will run out of juice

  96. Promise says:

    @Dark well my mom birthed 4 boys before she finally had me, so in the future I’ll probably have tons. No need to worry. :)

  97. KeKe says:

    No @Dark…your being cloned now

  98. DarkHorseSD says:

    Good morning.

    Are male humans still being conceived?

  99. KeKe says:

    @peeps… I’m with Josh on this. Get a vibrator and call it a day. A sweet SD who wants to wine and dine you, who is not unattractive, not just using you for sex…problem… I don’t think so. Get more foreplay. Bring toys into the bedroom, do sensual massages, sexy lingerie,talk dirty. Set the mood up and he will get hard.

  100. FunDude says:

    The myth about women in science. Despite major affirmative action and preference for women in science, men are still dominant.

    {{http://edition.cnn.com/2015/04/13/opinions/williams-ceci-women-in-science/}}

  101. FunDude says:

    Another typical lying feminist Sarah Silverman being exposed then admitting to lying but calls her critics “maniacs”.

    {{http://www.nationalreview.com/article/416974/sarah-silverman-admits-she-made-wage-gap-story-then-calls-critics-maniacs-katherine?target=author&tid=1274245}}

  102. FunDude says:

    Good date last night.

    Bullshit feminist videos being debunked.

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m5bYpfghV3k}}

  103. IconoclastSD says:

    Hello all. I just started an incredible sugary relationship with someone I met through the site. Actually, I shouldn’t say “incredible,” because we almost didn’t get together until I could prove to her that I AM credible! It’s still early, but I can honestly say that we have great chemistry, both personal and sexual, and we just relish each other’s company. A few LONG phone conversations before our first meeting really helped us connect. I’ll give an update from time to time, but right now the future’s so bright…

    Also, I realize as I type this that there are probably those out there who think, “yeah, right, she really enjoys his company.” I’m sure there are SDs out there who are deluding themselves or full of themselves (or both) and just assume that their SBs are enjoying their company when it’s not a real connection. I don’t think that’s me. My SB is leaning on my shoulder giggling as I type this, and she seems to be enjoying herself.

    @Josh

    Ah the pretentious lead-in to a comment! It must be hard to shower in a glass house of pretension. Not that you’re wrong in what you said, but I rolled my eyes so hard at your first sentence that I think I sprained something.

    Ouch.

    My eyes hurt now.

  104. Promise says:

    Finally finished writing my speech!

  105. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @flyr- I wouldn’t say “under control” as I’m not putting all of my eggs in one basket. But for me it becomes a respect thing. I don’t want my POT to come onto this site and still see my profile activated- Especially when I’m not in the position to where I *need* them.

    The guy in my city has been the one who always contacts me. I generally don’t push seeing him but I will still respond to his texts/emails. He is genuinely sweet and chivalrous.

    The guy in Hawaii has been texting me increasingly more and more. I also know it’s his real number because it shows up on my iMessage. So I’m thinking he’s not the type of guy who is a serial dater on this site- Otherwise he would’ve started a burn number a long time ago.

  106. Josh says:

    Assume that he’s your husband and all those sexy thoughts will cool off. His money would start looking as your right, which he is withholding from you.

  107. flyR says:

    @DLS Sounds like you have the situation under control.

    It seems like a number of our resident SB are suddenly finding what the deserve…. Good for them

    flyR

  108. Josh says:

    @peeps

    Ah the pretentious sabotage.

    Very few women are really into sex at your age, and even fewer get orgasms through intercourse. Invest in decent vibrators and dildos, and enjoy the fruits of his hard working Benjamins.

  109. flyR says:

    @ peeps “I just have a hard time with this because I feel like I am lying. I feel like I am doing this for money which is partially true but it’s a TERRIBLE feeling to have if there is no sexual chemistry. I am not good at lying. I can’t sustain this much longer. I guess I will find a way to tell him soon and hopefully I will have another SD lined up soon when I do that…”

    Wonderfully honest statement EJECT

  110. flyR says:

    @ denise

    “Denise says:
    April 15, 2015 at 5:35 pm
    So I have a SD:) Last night was amazing! I’m just so surprised because I never expected that I’d meet the Real SD type on this site. My biggest concern was sex and the allowance part. I thought hmm maybe he’s another fake but he proved me wrong over and over again:) Sex was just OMG great! My mind kept thinking that it was going to be one of those “lay there and get it over with” situations. Instead it was “can we do that again?”. He’s everything I wanted and more.

    Mind=Blown”

    Yes – you escape the negativity and wonderful things happen …………..

  111. peeps says:

    @flyR

    Yeah he does pleasure me, that is not the issue. I orgasm extremely easily and quickly so that’s not the issue.

    The problem is I am not attracted to him.

    I mean I think he is attracted to me, he loves my boobs, he seems excited about everything, but his D*** just won’t get hard consistently and I am damn good at BJs…

    Last time, I kept thinking of my RL ex who was so handsome…for whom I felt genuine, true attraction to. My current SD is not unattractive other than being older but the sexual chemistry just isn’t there. He has told me sex isn’t the main thing for him, he loves going out for dinner, he loves my company, etc…I guess prior to SDs I was never a promiscuous person in that I had never been with anyone I was not truly attracted to and/or had romantic feelings for.

    I just have a hard time with this because I feel like I am lying. I feel like I am doing this for money which is partially true but it’s a TERRIBLE feeling to have if there is no sexual chemistry. I am not good at lying. I can’t sustain this much longer. I guess I will find a way to tell him soon and hopefully I will have another SD lined up soon when I do that…

  112. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @KeKe @ Kenna- glad to know my situation isn’t too good to be true.
    And yes, huge difference between intentions of being platonic and intentions of leading to intimacy.

  113. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @flyr, while that may be true, I’ve still got my flight and hotel booked for the second half of my vacation. I verified with the hotel that my name is on the reservation and he’s already put his card on file. He sent me the eticket for my flight.

    I’m not as concerned with the Hawaii guy. Only because I’m not as delusional to think it’ll go beyond just the small part of my vacation. I’m going in with zero expectations.

    The guy from my city has openly admitted that he’s met other POT SB from this site, but they turned out to be huge scammers. So I know he’s got a soft place for me as I return his texts and emails even while I’m not getting sugar.

  114. flyR says:

    “Oh she definitely had sexual relations with Mr.Sterling lol. I’m not saying there aren’t platonic SBs but I think most who say that are full of shi”

    Sterling was in a deposition , I think with some NBA attorneys , over their threat to take away the clippers franchise. With a gaggle of $800 -$1,200 per hour attorneys present and the court reporter dutifully recording ever word Trump went on a highly detailed account of an hour or so long blowjob received in multiple rooms of the residence.

    I think V averaged something like $ 2 mil year

  115. flyR says:

    @ DLSecret – Be aware that he might , at this very moment, be looking at other profiles and that Miss right now might just step to the front of the line and leave you in the dust.

  116. flyR says:

    Re Daddy – it may be uncomfortable to some and a compliment to others – why not ask

    One to avoid Hun It’s hookerese for I don’t have time to learn names .

  117. flyR says:

    Peeps – Never burn the dick of the SD you may have to kiss in the future. If you go make it sweet …. you have an IRL boyfriend who would be appalled. That way you have not hurt someone who has helped you. And you have a reason to return should you choose. Finally it’s just good manners. You go to a friends home for dinner and they went to a great effort to prepare a feast but it’s not tasty to you. You thank her for her efforts and generosity and head for the In and Out burger .

    Chapter 13 of the SB’s guide to more mature SD’s has the whole chapter devoted to training your SD to find pleasure in pleasuring you. You might even find that this adds a little more starch to the SD’s capabilities. For future reference it should also be part of your criteria……… Is this potential SD capable of and interested in providing me with great sex.

  118. peeps says:

    ok guys…I have a SD of about a month and a half…but have been meeting other POT SDs and have about 3 that could also become SDs although I have met 2 of them this past week and the other a while back but he’s been out of town and will return soon.

    Here’s the thing, the current SD is a very sweet man and a great person, but he is not all that into sex and I think he might have an ED problem. He’s mid 50s I think. I see him once a week but to be very honest I can’t do this without feeling some measure of sexual attraction. We are very mismatched libido-wise. I mean yeah all SDs are older, BUT…I don’t have a normal boyfriend and I also in this for sexual satisfaction…is that too much to ask????

    I am waiting to see what happens with the other 3, if I get an offer from one of them at least so I can break off with my current…I have never broken up with any SD – this is my first SD anyway – but I am just waiting on another offer to do so.

    I wonder how can you break up with someone without telling them that you like a lot of sex and you like it rough and he isn’t satisfying you…just WHAT will I tell him? I found another BF in real life? He seems to be depressed about a SB he had who left him recently…I am just looking for a polite way out…wondering how other SBs have managed the situation of breaking up with a SD for sexual reasons…

  119. KennaKenna says:

    @Beth

    How is calling your man “Daddy” ghetto? People from all walks of life are into the Daddy thing. I don’t call my man Daddy but have had a lover before who i called “White Daddy”, it drove him crazy.

    He’s a politician and grew up in a very conservative/known family and would not survive one day in the ghetto.

    People like what they like, don’t judge.

  120. BethSB says:

    Melissa says:
    April 15, 2015 at 8:08 pm
    Responses are a little late but I’m here now!
    @BethSB
    Uh I call my father ‘daddy’ and I’m the furthest thing from ghetto but to each their own. I do agree with you somewhat if you’re calling a significant other or bf or whatever daddy. Maybe because like I said I call my father ‘daddy’ I’m not comfortable using it with anyone else

    ……………………………..
    The ghetto statement doesn’t refer to addressing your father as daddy, sweetie. It was referring to calling your significant other daddy.
    Just to clear that up for you.

  121. Josh says:

    @DarkHorseSD

    “However, I have the weakness for those Russian skanks who left their life of 300/month full time job they have to blow the boss to keep back in Russia and know they are worth 15k a month.”

    When a woman say “I know what I am worth”, then you gotta totally take her word for it.

  122. ErikTheRed says:

    @Keke

    Your initiative may well have saved your relatuonship. I routinely surprise the SB on 1st date with a low 3 – figure cash gift, especially when I sense she is relatively new to this and has to overcome the jitters. No sex is expected in return. The fun is in the surprise. However, if the SB then suggests we do the same thing again the next time, i.e. a low-3 figure gift for her time having a dinner with me, she’d be quickly nexted. From my perspective, it’s a quick and inexpensive way of finding out her personality.

  123. Melissa says:

    Responses are a little late but I’m here now!
    @BethSB
    Uh I call my father ‘daddy’ and I’m the furthest thing from ghetto but to each their own. I do agree with you somewhat if you’re calling a significant other or bf or whatever daddy. Maybe because like I said I call my father ‘daddy’ I’m not comfortable using it with anyone else

    @Josh
    Some guys love it and like you said it could be cute.

    @ONSD
    I asked because of the message that Josh received and I saw some of the tumblr SBs calling their SDs that.

  124. KeKe says:

     big different between waiting to be intimate and being platonic.
    @Kenna.. True

  125. KennaKenna says:

    @KeKe @DLS

    Not uncommon at all. All of my past SDs gifted me before we were intimate. I also wait until I’m comfortable and somewhat sure of them, but they all knew it was going to lead to intimacy- big different between waiting to be intimate and being platonic.

  126. BethSB says:

    God damn it, I’m jealous. I want mind blowing sex too. @Denise

  127. DarkHorseSD says:

    I’m coming around to the concept that in college SBs might be much better than the rest of the 20s and of course it trends downhill with increasing age.

    However, I have the weakness for those Russian skanks who left their life of 300/month full time job they have to blow the boss to keep back in Russia and know they are worth 15k a month.

  128. Josh says:

    @Promise

    Start with “Fuck religion..”

  129. KeKe says:

    Religion is a great topic

  130. Promise says:

    I have a speech to write for class tomorrow. :( Not looking forward to writing or saying it. The topic I got was religion.

  131. KeKe says:

    @DLS…if you listen to blog SD’s. Sugar without sex is all fantasy we SB’s make up. But my Lover gave me several hundreds of dollars our first date. It was a different situation as we meet IRL but I think it happens more than some SD’s are willing to believe. I also know for a fact it our relationship would have continued that way until I felt comfortable doing more. But I was the aggressor when it came to more ( it had been a while for me).

  132. GeorgiaPeach says:

    Slow Day, must be cause it’s also Tax Day and Dr. FunDude is on a date with his ravishing 23 yr old blonde. LOL. Oh well. Getting late on the East Coast, think I’ll head for my book. Sweetest dreams ya’ll.

  133. rembodler says:

    Hahaha…
    ok, seems to be working. So.

    @FunDude – I wonder if anyone noticed how “FunDude” is an oxymoron, i.e. his character never says anything that is “fun”? Once you read one of the ramblings about BBWs, old women behaving badly etc., you read them all? No offence, FunDude… just an observation.

    I love women – otherwise I would not be on SA. My advice to “FunDude” character would be – if someone is not to your liking… just move on. There is plenty of fish to choose from. Women are wonderful and exciting creatures, I am still fascinating by them and cannot get enough.
    I have to agree with FD on one account – the ideal range for an SB is indeed 20-25 and in college (or just barely out of it). Then I can understand how a SB is soooo pretty, intelligent and independent – but still needs support, as she is not and should not be expected to have a full-time job. Once you are in your 30s…Jeez, if you are so intelligent and independent, why do you still need my money? Go do something with your life, use your “sassiness” for something other than whining “please no games!” on your SA profile…

  134. Josh says:

    @rembodler

    The bigges culprit to put your comment in moderation is a url or email address. If you want to post either of them then put [ and ] on each side of the url or email address and you wouldn’t be moderated.

    For example, [www.url.com] or [x@y.com]

  135. Promise says:

    @rembodler It’s typically comments with links that are stuck in moderation. I definitely don’t work for SA.

  136. rembodler says:

    Take 2 – attempt to comment.
    Last time my comment was “awaiting moderation” for two days. If this is still the case – I guess this will be my last comment. I will have to presume all of what i read here is SA staff talking to themselves. No one, in their right mind will use the blog where you have to wait to be approved for two days. By that time, whatever one wanted to comment on, would be pretty much irrelevant…

  137. Promise says:

    For the first time in years I listened to the songs from High School Musical. I can’t believe how long it’s been!

  138. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Thanks @Beth :)
    Congrats @Denise! If you don’t mind my asking, was the allowance talk/sex both on the first date or someone you’ve had a couple of dates with?

    What is the typical turn around rate on here? I was quite surprised I was able to get my flight/room booked for my trip so quickly. I literally had my profile up for two days and I just deactivated it again. I don’t feel right having it up if I already have a POT arrangement in line.

    Not only that, but I have a nice guy in my city which we’ve only gone to lunches with. I’m seeing him tomorrow and he usually gives me a few hundred just for lunch/dinner date- But we only see each other bi-weekly or so because we’re both so busy. I’m not opposed to having sex with him but he liked my suggestion of courtship so we haven’t gotten to the point where it feels organic to have sex just yet.

    He suggested we get to know each other through email and he would just give me a small allowance for the emails. And the allowance would increase depending on how erotic/often the emails are coming. He’s older (I’m guessing around late 40’s) so maybe that’s why he’s being so patient. He really is being such a gentleman and trying to make me feel comfortable as possible.

    How often would you guys see your SB/SD? Would you get/give money even with no sex? Not a large amount, but something? Am I the exception here having waited so long before sex? I’ve seen this guy four or five times in the last couple of months. I just want to wait until it feels right. He knows that. And I’ve never asked him for anything he just gives me money because he says he feels like it’s “the right thing to do.”

    I totally boned the guy who took me on the shopping spree, he paid my rent in advance also, so I’m not above sleeping with SD that quickly- We happened to have connected faster, I think because we spent more time together than just lunches. I’m just wondering if my above situation with the POT in my city is unusual.

  139. SouthernSB says:

    @Denise-Way to go girl!!

  140. Josh says:

    @Denise, congratulations…enjoy while you let it last.

  141. Denise says:

    So I have a SD:) Last night was amazing! I’m just so surprised because I never expected that I’d meet the Real SD type on this site. My biggest concern was sex and the allowance part. I thought hmm maybe he’s another fake but he proved me wrong over and over again:) Sex was just OMG great! My mind kept thinking that it was going to be one of those “lay there and get it over with” situations. Instead it was “can we do that again?”. He’s everything I wanted and more.

    Mind=Blown

  142. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Southern – I would expand to say any SB or mistress or even, with this ruling, escort who posts pictures of their benefits, brags on blogs about their benefits, uses names or even monikers that could be tied back to someone specific should be on alert!

  143. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Dominate – very good perspective…and spot on…with respect and communication, almost any problem can be worked out. Trouble is, most people demand more respect than they have earned and cannot communicate their way out of a wet paper bag!

  144. DominantSB says:

    I think my biggest problem both as a Dominant and as a woman is that I am less compromising than most. But I almost always “work things out” in the end by knowing where my boundaries are and carefully toeing the line while not crossing it. I think respect is the best currency there is and with it all things are possible. :)

  145. SouthernSB says:

    I saw @Josh’s comment too. I guess it got just a little too real in reality.

  146. SouthernSB says:

    VStiviano is the most moronic woman I have ever seen in my entire life. She had everything and she ruined it with her big mouth. Some people seem to have everything given to them and they fuck it up every time and others seem to work their butts off and just can’t get ahead. Just like the football player that’s going away for murder instead of picking up that 40 million dollar paycheck for playing a children’s game and my stupid step sister who is about to lose her house and her car because buying 400 dollars in cheap clothes and upgrading her cable is more important than paying her rent and electric.

  147. KennaKenna says:

    @Dominant

    Oh she definitely had sexual relations with Mr.Sterling lol. I’m not saying there aren’t platonic SBs but I think most who say that are full of shit.

  148. Josh says:

    I guess…I see “Your comment is awaiting moderation.” under my comment. 😉

  149. KennaKenna says:

    @ONSD I saw that comment too. Strangev

  150. DominantSB says:

    I don’t have those problems thankfully 😀 Nor do most mistresses, LOL. I wouldn’t classify her as a Mistress, just a “not smart” sugarbaby with pathetic standards. Not sleeping with someone and getting tons of cash is entirely doable without stepping on anyone’s toes or trying to blackmail.

  151. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Josh – did you get a comment deleted? I SWEAR there was a comment about mistresses or SBs…

  152. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Josh – yeah…don’t throw it in the face of the wife…or flaunt it online…all those pics posted by “SBs” could bite them in the ass if a wife becomes wise to the ways!

  153. Josh says:

    Good lesson for idiotic mistresses and SBs.

  154. KennaKenna says:

    So VStiviano has to pay back all that money? Poor girl but very interesting lesson for all mistresses out there.

  155. DominantSB says:

    So far I’m getting a lot of good info, this guy alleged he was going to Vegas for the weekend and it was for business and said I couldn’t go with him which I didn’t understand. Why not just meet and see how we click? What’s the harm? In my mind’s eye I wouldn’t be hindering his schedule.

  156. DominantSB says:

    Oh @flyR no offense taken at all. I have lived 32 long years with myself to be fully self aware. @BethSB, thanks luv. I live in the US currently, FL to be precise. @Gentleman Soul I won’t on the first date, the second is iffy but largely dependent on how well the first went and I’m into alternative forms of intimacy. I have only met one person from here and he was
    – not in a great place in his life, I might have more disposable income than him before long.
    – made very empty and hollow promises and was impressed easily by those with more money than him which was strange for me.
    -I think possibly had a substance abuse problem. He was sort of all over the place.
    To be fair though I haven’t given this site a ton of my time or attention so I’m the lvp (least valuable player) LOL. Gimmie some sugar tips if you can including “you’re doomed with that attitude missy” :). If a guy initiates contact should I be thrilled? That has been the case almost every time but usually yes, they live really far away, another state. Also should I have my face under private photos? I kind of have half of it cut off but from my lips down you can tell I’m pretty.
    I am seeking more of a mentorship thing though additional financing for my project is great too.

  157. Josh says:

    Telling your SB about an event, which happened in your life the year she was born is NOT the best idea. I have done that inadvertently with a couple of them and the results were not favorable.

  158. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Melissa – I don’t think I like being called daddy, especially when I graduated college the same year she was born!

    But, @Josh has a point…it IS all about the how more than anything…

    I prefer “lover” to “daddy”…or as student said…”it REALLY turns me on when you use my NAME because then I know you’re thinking of ME” I’d echo that sentiment (when she has my real name)

  159. Josh says:

    @Melissa

    It’s one of those what vs how type of deals.

    The 20-something girl who tried very hard to recruit me as her daddy, used to call me daadeee. That was adorable. Come to think of it, I liked a lot of things she did. I did not sign her up as a sugar baby and she disappear never to be found again.

  160. BethSB says:

    lol exactly, she can be his little getaway. Take good care of him when he’s with her.

  161. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – okay…that’s all I needed to hear…she gets a new phone ASAFP!

  162. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Beth – I completely agree…when a SD travels, he SHOULD be traveling with a SB, or to see a SB…why else would he travel (except with his family, and who wants that hahaha)…

  163. KennaKenna says:

    @ONSD yes get her new phone, it’s worth it. He loves it because he is in full control of it even though he’s so far away and can turn on/off when he wants- it actually says “Your lover has control”. Now, he’s instructed me to sleep with it every night he’s away.

    We both love it.

  164. BethSB says:

    Good luck Doll @DLS

  165. BethSB says:

    @ONSD yea I understand that totally, but for me it’s just the travel. I like traveling and an SD would be a better reason for me to travel often.

  166. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @flyR – AMEN brother…that’s the part that some SBs don’t understand, because they are too busy thinking they are the priority in the situation…

  167. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – SSSOOOOO GLAD TO HEAR!!!

    I bought one for student…I’m trying to get it connected with her phone so we can have fun when we’re not together, but her phone is too old…do you think it’s worth getting her a new phone?

    I know she enjoyed the fact my phone could separate the inner and outer intensity as well as pattern 😉

  168. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    A POT is paying for the second leg of my trip (e.g. airfare/ocean front hotel room). Hopefully it goes well because he travels often to my city. Wish me luck!

  169. BethSB says:

    Melissa says:
    April 15, 2015 at 2:32 pm
    @All
    Question. Do SDs like when their SBs call them daddy?
    ……………………………………

    Personally I won’t call anyone daddy. Not even my father.
    I think it’s kinda ghetto. No offense to anyone.

  170. flyR says:

    Travel time is a bitch . Unless it is fun travel for the SD or a great destination then it becomes very expensive in terms of time lost . For most men who are not retired but can afford to be in sugar spending 3 hours round trip makes the sugar expensive even if the allowance is zero.

  171. KennaKenna says:

    @ONSD I loveeeee the WeVibe. It’s soooo much cooler when we’re apart and he can do whatever even if he’s in a meeting haha.

    Thank you for suggesting that we get it.

  172. flyR says:

    @ Dominant “By the way guys, don’t knock the shoes. I have over 40 pairs of heels. It’s a girl thing. If a guy gives me time he’ll learn how awesome I am at stock advice as well, LOL. :)”

    With all due respect I’m sufficiently prejudiced to believe the more shoes downstairs the less upstairs. Willing to be convinced ( my Romanian assistant proved to be the exception) but as a general principle it seems to be pretty reliable. Ducking and running

  173. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Beth – there’s a difference…you’re on the SB side of the coin…you really have nothing to lose by traveling whatever distance to meet the SD, except the fact he might not cover your costs of travel.

    For the SD, if it can’t be tied to productive time, it’s a total loss of a day if it doesn’t pan out…if I’ve got business in her area, I’ll try to schedule a meet…if I’ve got consistent business in her area, I’m probably reaching out to find someone in that area.

    There’s also the vacation/conference mode…If I don’t have someone traveling with me on a trip, I have no problem looking for a p2p or if it’s a consistent spot, something more regular at a distance.

    Of course, right now it’s a lost point, since I’m too happy with my SB (who is asking when we get to disappear for a couple of days to get lost in a hotel room)…I’m too happy 😉

  174. flyR says:

    @ Josh “Here is an unsolicited message from a “student”. I wonder which collage she’s attending”

    Russian Mafia school

  175. BethSB says:

    @Josh she doesn’t even sound like a student. ~_^

  176. BethSB says:

    @ONSD & @Josh I respect your preferences and understand that you’ve both had some bad experiences with it but for me, being a newbie to the sugarbowl I’d give it a try, even just once.

  177. PI Wolf says:

    @Melissa,

    I do not like anyone calling me DADDY, male or female, regardless of age.

  178. Melissa says:

    @All
    Question. Do SDs like when their SBs call them daddy?

  179. SouthernSB says:

    @Josh-It sounds like she is an ESL student.

  180. Josh says:

    Here is an unsolicited message from a “student”. I wonder which collage she’s attending.

    SB: Hello daddy. I’m XXXX. I just got newly registered into this site. I’m seeking for a daddy who has the good mind and can pamper, cuddle and spoil his SB to the last. I love traveling, cooking, going to the movie, driving, camping, and dancing. My friend would always say that I’m funny with the good heart. A dad who can spoil and cuddle is all i care for.. While in return i give him all that he want from me with extra packages that he has not even come to think of. lol!.. Take care. Awaits your response.

  181. PI Wolf says:

    @Vitesse,

    That was quite a long post, regarding the fatness of many American women and the fact that men who have money (SD Qualified) are a notch higher in the Social Order throughout the world, and have many more women who aspire to be their Beneficiaries! 😀

    The truth is that the SD is The Buyer and the SB is The Seller. The BUYER decides what he wants to buy or rent, and how much he is willing to pay for! That is the simple truth.

    @FunDude,

    And if the SB really wants to meet the criteria for being a BABY, then there must be a minimum gap of 19 years. Because a man cannot be your DADDY unless he is of adult age (18) to have sex (legally) with a woman, which then takes at least 9 months for the BABY to be born. Hence, the 19 year gap minimum.

  182. Josh says:

    The last two times I drove 2+ hours, one turned out to be 25+ lbs heavier, the other turned out to be an escort.

    I blew off both of them…the BBW blamed me for wasting her time…the escort tried to reschedule me several hours later…I guess other clients had more preference.

  183. Josh says:

    @BethSB

    The more I work the sugarbowl, the less I want to “compromise” in certain areas. This is not real life relationship to “compromise”on logistics. The only thing I compromise is hotness vs. allowance.

  184. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Beth – I agree with @Josh…I wouldn’t drive more than 90-minutes for a first meet anymore…just hasn’t been worth it, and I like a bit of spontaneity to an arrangement…

  185. Josh says:

    @SouthernSB

    “If there were no men, I think that we would start international incidents over shoes, and cute lingerie.”

    If there were no men then ensure that before the last man is phased off, get him to design and develop self repairing robots to continue to create shoes for you…or hope that Klingon or some other species accept your pussy currency.

    In the absence of men, the shoe prices will drop to Payless pricing as there won’t be any animated bag of sperm to cash your pussy currency with Choo, Louboutin, Prada, etc.

  186. BethSB says:

    @Josh lol I’m willing to do it. Sometimes you just have to compromise babe.

  187. Josh says:

    @BethSB

    “It’s always “you’re so far away”. Gets frustrating at times. =\”

    I won’t travel even 3 hours to meet a woman anymore and you are talking about a taking a flight?

  188. BethSB says:

    @DominantSB hi Hun! Lol awesome. I’m a BRownSB as well and it’s a challenge to find SD in the Caribbean or one that would be willing to go the distance of coming to meet you or you going to meet them. It’s always “you’re so far away”. Gets frustrating at times. =\

  189. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @gentleman – I don’t give personal information until there’s that trust…I have had SBs openly give me her “real” name and bitch about me not giving her mine, then I Google the name and it’s NOT the profile I’ve been talking to…so I agree…it takes trust on both sides to give that kind of personal information.

    My policy is no real name until AT LEAST we’ve met for coffee…I want to be face-to-face before I reveal anything…if she doesn’t understand that, she’s not worth the effort!

  190. gentleman soul says:

    @DominantSB
    I feel like there is a double or triple whammy against me here.
    – I am brown sugar, in fact I have a home in the Caribbean.
    – I don’t hook up ever, despite being older.
    – I would like to meet just one person

    Dom ,you only have 1 strike love . By not hooking up do you mean the 1st date –or longer ?

  191. SouthernSB says:

    @Promise-I don’t tell my SBs my real name. I just use one of the myriad of nicknames I have been given over the years, seeing that no one has really been able to really pronounce my real name. It’s fun, I’ve had 6 nicknames over my lifetime so all I have to do is pick.

  192. SouthernSB says:

    @DominateSB-I was the one talking about the shoes. I know just how important they are, after all I’m a woman. If there were no men, I think that we would start international incidents over shoes, and cute lingerie.

  193. gentleman soul says:

    @Promise

    This might be a really stupid question, but do you tell your SD your real name? The Tumblr SB’s make it seem like you don’t.

    I do not tell my real name Promise ,but after a short while together it comes out. Trust has to be there for both . Do you tell your real name ? Several SBs wanted to know my name,rank ,and serial # before agreeing to meet me . I asked for the same thing from them and they were’nt interested. What’s good for the goose is not good for the gander .

    @ALL How do you search SA for a profile number that includes letters and numbers? I want to check out sexy DLS.

  194. DominantSB says:

    *waves hi to Beth* Saint Lucia Beth though my father’s family is from Martinique. My home is on Morne Fortune overlooking Castries on one side and the sunset over the horizon on the other. :)

  195. DominantSB says:

    By the way guys, don’t knock the shoes. I have over 40 pairs of heels. It’s a girl thing. If a guy gives me time he’ll learn how awesome I am at stock advice as well, LOL. :)

  196. flyR says:

    “”I am just trying to hedge my bets in the face of the impending doom.””

    You really should not worry about such things. DHS is buying another 62 million rounds of AR-15 ammunition to go the several billion they already purchased. What could possibly go wrong with arming all the TSA screeners with automatic weapons.

  197. BethSB says:

    @DominantSB what part of the Caribbean? I’m also in the Caribbean.

  198. DominantSB says:

    I feel like there is a double or triple whammy against me here.
    – I am brown sugar, in fact I have a home in the Caribbean.
    – I don’t hook up ever, despite being older.
    – I would like to meet just one person, I have 14% bodyfat, I really do work very hard to maintain my body.
    – Though I am fun, I am also driven and starting a network of online stores so I need someone who understands I need business advice/funding rather than a prada purse.
    – Only making this post to say hello to Josh *waves hi* :)

  199. Moon says:

    I just wanted to say hello, I am a newbie exploring this opportunity as I continue my education. I am open to any wisdom experienced SD/SB are willing to share with me. Thanks in advance!

  200. BethSB says:

    Everyone has their own preference and shouldn’t be condemned for such, unless it’s some grossly illegal/underage nonsense.

  201. BethSB says:

    Seriously, All the male and female bashing is getting so old.

  202. flyR says:

    @peaches “”@FlyR
    So, a couple of “DD’s” do it for you huh? LOL

    I do not discriminate other than having an absolute preference for natural and those which fall under the definition of happy.

  203. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    I’m with @flyR on the Wall Street issue…the “regulation” in the industry is meant to PREVENT competition with the BIGGEST of the BIG BOYS in the business, so that they can pretend to be “too big to fail” and lean back on their big bonuses at tapayer expense…all while “hiding” their income from taxation, and lobbying down the highest bracket of tax collected to support the Medicare and Social Security system…we could have a solvent Social Security system (intended to provide at least a minimum standard of living for workers without any real advantaged way to save for retirement)…nowadays, with the 401k and IRA plans easily available, there really should NOT be a need for Social Security, except that American workers would rather deficit spend during productive years and defer or decline savings for their retirement years…But, eliminating the top end cap on taxed Social Security and Medicare taxes would be a HUGE step toward solvency…then, all you have to do is get the politicians in line on an actual accounting method that doesn’t shift numbers in an effort to keep the masses fat, dumb and complacent so that the money is held for the actual bill due.

    Sorry…had to jump in a bit…

  204. SouthernSB says:

    @flyR-I am in total agreement with your assessment of the situation today. I am just trying to hedge my bets in the face of the impending doom.

  205. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FlyR
    So, a couple of “DD’s” do it for you huh? LOL

  206. flyR says:

    @Southern “”@FlyR-Social Security and the economy goes down the drain at least you and the rest of the 1% will be able to escape with your off-shore bank accounts. Me, I’ll be stuck here eating fish that I caught from the polluted rivers, and bartering my few last gifts that I got from my 70+ year old SDs.””

    I hear what you are saying but I have no intention of leaving. I also don’t consider myself to be among the financial 1%’s . More like the 25% or so of the population which believes that two dozen or so of the Wall Street Banksters should have been hung by their testicles and left in the street in 2008-2012 as a reminder to the others. Instead they bought their way out of jail by donating vast sums and taking insiders into no risk deals at the taxpayer expense. The lesson from the S& L crisis is that you cheat you go to jail ( Milken, Bosky, et al ) the lesson from the more recent is that you cheat, you donate, stockholder pay fine you collect $10, mil as you pass GO.

    Y’all need to understand that a lot of folks living high in DC would like to see an economic collapse because it advances their causes more effectively than the domestic terrorism of the 70’s . Sadly the most popular woman in America is part of the problem not the solution.

    I am not part of the 1% but rather someone who sees sugar not as a cost but rather as a business tool, increasing my productivity and smiles+plus all the other benefits. Recent research has shown that simply watching women’s breasts is as healthy for men as working out. If that’s true then watching breasts bounce in the candlelight must be the equivalent of a marathon.

  207. DarkHorseSD says:

    {Posting as An SB from Russia}

    Perhaps when woman herd from shoes in west and see. Nun in stores, saviat onion colapes

  208. DarkHorseSD says:

    ” Life would be no simpler without men, it would just be a world with a bunch of gossipy women who would be full of ridiculous drama over who had the best shoes.”

    Why do people confuse dogma with accomplishment?

  209. SouthernSB says:

    😉

  210. SouthernSB says:

    @FlyR-Social Security and the economy goes down the drain at least you and the rest of the 1% will be able to escape with your off-shore bank accounts. Me, I’ll be stuck here eating fish that I caught from the polluted rivers, and bartering my few last gifts that I got from my 70+ year old SDs.

  211. SouthernSB says:

    An all female society would never work, just like feminism is a fallacy. No one bitches about women more than women bitch about women. We put ourselves down worse than men ever could. You want to hear really nasty stuff, spend a little time in a high school with the girl’s cheerleading team or in a sorority house. Thin girls talk shame fat girls and fat girls shame thin girls and the sluts bitch about the virgins and the virgins call the sluts, sluts. There is no getting around it, it’s just human nature. Life would be no simpler without men, it would just be a world with a bunch of gossipy women who would be full of ridiculous drama over who had the best shoes.

  212. Josh says:

    Enough about feminism!!!

    Where is @RussianSB to get some interesting banter going?

  213. Josh says:

    @DarkHorseSD

    “Well, Josh, suppose Hillary morphs the Apology Tour into a Knee to the Balls tour and turns women world wide against their oppressors?”

    THAT ain’t happening. Feminism needs people like @flyR, which at least Confucius and Islamic societies have very few of…that’s half the world population right there.

  214. Promise says:

    “Everyone wants to be black, but no one wants to be black.”
    Modern day Feminism is a lot like this phrase, but switch out “black” with “equal”.

  215. DarkHorseSD says:

    Well, Josh, suppose Hillary morphs the Apology Tour into a Knee to the Balls tour and turns women world wide against their oppressors?

    P.S. Double f^ck iOS.

  216. DarkHorseSD says:

    FlyR, don’t worry. When the U.S. Defaults, there will be plenty money to pay everything else. 😉

  217. Josh says:

    @DarkHorseSD

    The caveat is that Western men would be no more. The non-Western men of whatever variety will soon overtake the drone and robocops and whip the feminists in shape.

    If it were the Muslim variety that overtakes the Western gynodom, then feminists will quickly adopt to that reality and use their loud mouths to extol the virtues of 1) burqa, 2) carrying Muslim men’s seeds and 3) walking around barefoot.

  218. DarkHorseSD says:

    Josh says:
    April 15, 2015 at 8:11 am
    @DarkHorseSD

    “Male humans will no longer be born in advanced societies 50-100 years from now.”

    What are you basing that on?”

    In the late 1980s, Paula Poundstone had a joke in her stand up act that men were Animated Bags of Sperm … I don’t recall all the context, but he message was understood and never forgotten by me that men really were of no necessity beyond the provision of sperm to create offspring. Women could do everything else on their own.

    The technology to produce human offspring without sperm is upon us, feminism needs to evolve and take hold for a few more decades, and there you have it…no more Males.

    I admit humanity is complex. I leave open many ideas and reasons for continuing to breed some males. Perhaps, for one, as sexual novelties to those into anthropology.

  219. flyR says:

    “”””Did anyone hear what that FAT FUCK Chris Christie said about Social Security?

    That fat pig wants to cut SS for a means testing at 80K and NOTHING over 200K in income.

    Fucking SS is becoming another welfare program!””””

    As practiced by recent administrations Socal Security is a ponzi scheme. We have added tens of millions to the disability rolls to get them of the unemployment rolls, given benefits to prisoners, provided increases without corresponding increases in income. A trillion dollars a year more cash goes to folks on welfare so no social security taxes are collected. An even bigger problem is the collapse of salary and wage income reported to the feds. It’s estimated that 40% of the people in LA are working for cash. The influx of legal and illegal immigrants has created a vast underground economy but without the tax revenues. For most the social security, workers comp, unemployment and other employer / employee taxes are much more than the income tax and the underground economy avoids all.

    Obama’s “temporary legal illegals ” will qualify for social security cards and three years of back income tax credits although they paid no taxes about $30,000.

    That’s why Social security and the entire economy are headed down the drain.

  220. Promise says:

    Feminism confuses me so much!Argh! I’m game for the whole equality thing, but as soon as gets real…..OMG I get it now. It’s similar to being black!

  221. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Josh – they would have a life-sustaining formula to keep men already born alive so they could shame them even further about their age, build and lunacy while they took the sperm to reproduce more feminine offspring 😉

  222. Josh says:

    I do think that manufacturing+service robots, drones and robocops can definitely reduce the need of men in western civilization.

    However raping men’s minds and ridiculing men, two of the most favorite female pastimes would be wanting in that societal setup.

  223. flyR says:

    The Dangers of Sugar

    The Daily Mail carried the story of one Sugar Daddy’s last moments when the 30s attorney told his SB,( in an effort to end the relationship) that she was really just hillbilly trash. She admitted to the police that after he roughed her up and insulted her , that her hillbilly instincts took over and she shot him a couple of times, and again to put him out of his twitching misery and one more time in the face because he always wanted a nose job.

    There’s a lesson in their somewhere

  224. flyR says:

    It’s ironic to hear the whines of American feminists about how women are “abused” in the USA while their idols have placed hundreds of millions of women from central Africa to the Chinese border at immediate risk of being taken at as young as 11 and used as sexual toys by hundreds of soldiers , stoned to death for wanting to go to school and burned to death for defiance. Of course they are never asked the difficult questions.

  225. Josh says:

    @DarkHorseSD

    “Male humans will no longer be born in advanced societies 50-100 years from now.”

    What are you basing that on?

  226. DarkHorseSD says:

    Imagine how far feminism can be advanced funded with the sugar acquired sacrificing for the cause.

  227. DarkHorseSD says:

    @Josh, ahhh..to bitch with money is truly bliss.

  228. DarkHorseSD says:

    I just finished translating RussianSB’s early posts in this article. I guess I moved to slow and lost her. Ahhh…regrets.

    “RussianSB says:
    April 12, 2015 at 7:03 am
    Where that 5th wave of feminism, when women will leave men after first sex, no-matter-what ?”

    What wave are we up to? Male humans will no longer be born in advanced societies 50-100 years from now.

  229. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Lainey – did I miss your revelation, or did you just announce the find and not reveal the details?

  230. Josh says:

    It makes sense that feminists should not be in the sugarbowl. They are strong women and should be able to support themselves.

    We should only see feminists who are either looking for subs or are genuinely into older men…without expecting any allowances.

    Strong, independent feminists should not have any need for men’s filthy money.

  231. Jj says:

    …”“man, bitching about something looks unsexy.” … huummmmm….
    …”woman bitching about anything…. looks like…. uhmm… just another woman ‘bitch’n'”….. just say’n…..

  232. Josh says:

    Stupid women need the crutch of feminism with them to give name to their convoluted thoughts, and self-esteem issues. Katie Kuric is dumb so she needs the feminism label to belong with other loud-mouthed idiots.

    Real, strong women don’t:

    [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xhktNOx_Le4]

  233. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “I am still slightly shocked about how women get upset when you treat them the same way they treat men.”

    There are sufficient number of men who allow themselves to be ridiculed by women that women are shocked when the tables are turned against them.

  234. Promise says:

    @FunDude the link isn’t working for me.

  235. FunDude says:

    Fucking judge judy is awesome.

    She is not a female lawyer, she is a LAWYER THAT HAPPENS TO BE FEMALE.

    She had no use for feminism.

  236. FunDude says:

    Great new video out of red pill philosophy schooling some ugly feminist:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pl7Z3OS9k-4}}

  237. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Literally later tonight.

    So Josh, can you explain why women get so upset when you hold them to the same standards as they hold men to?

    I am still slightly shocked about how women get upset when you treat them the same way they treat men.

  238. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “@Josh
    I am feeling my 23 y/o right now.”

    Literally or figuratively? 😉

  239. Josh says:

    No wonder she is not looking for upfront allowance from you. She’s smart enough to eye the long term rewards from your hard work. 😉

  240. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Good night last night.

    How was I being nasty Georgia about women? I just get upset from the hypocrisy.

    I really would not be as nasty as I have become if I didn’t see the constant misandry and double standards that some of the SBs are known for.

  241. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    I am feeling my 23 y/o right now.

    Just better be careful with her. She will impregnate in about 3 seconds lol

  242. Lainey says:

    I love catching people’s inconsistencies on the blog. LMAO

  243. Promise says:

    This is the sexiest song I’ve heard in a while. [[https://youtu.be/SraXuEUJxfQ]]

  244. Promise says:

    @VitesseSD You’re the only that remembered!

  245. Josh says:

    The plus side of being a man is that my age keeps increasing but my sweetspot for girls stay between 20-24. 😉

  246. VitesseSD says:

    You ok Promise?

  247. GeorgiaPeach says:

    Ok Folks,
    This old woman will hush and find her pillow now.
    Night to all. Thanks for listening.
    Thank you Dr Fun and Josh. Damn, to be 23 yrs old again. LOL I’d go blonde for sure. LOL

  248. Promise says:

    @VitesseSD :’)

  249. Josh says:

    I also live way below my means as well. I am a self-made man.

    I used to buy clothes from Salvation Army during my college days.

    Whenever I go to Goodwill to donate stuff, I check out their sales area as well. I don’t give a shit.

  250. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    I’ll just bet you do have a “sweet spot.” LOL

  251. VitesseSD says:

    @Promise
    20

  252. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    Ah, the “wisdom” of being older. LOL
    I knew I had you pegged. LOL
    Course, I may faint now that you actually agreed with something I said and you actually acknowledged it. LOL So, I’ll give you one more. Women are self-centered at times, just as men are. There are occasions that almost demand it, especially as adults. We have responsibilities – whether to our jobs, families, etc and sometimes those responsibilities demand that we look after ourselves (be “self-centered”) in order to accomplish what we need to do. You have a real load on your ass as a doctor, I know this. The responsibilities you have are enormous, many folks depend on you for your knowledge and your abilities to help guide them through the “wellness” process. There was a neurologist at Duke that was doing the “rotation” of seeing brain tumor patients. It was his turn to see my late husband. He walked in and you could tell he was exhausted, completely “wiped out.” It was about 9:30 in the morning. My brave husband spoke before the Doc could say anything and asked the Doc what the problem was, (since the Doc looked so tired). The Doc was shocked. He stopped examining my husb in mid-question/exam. He said to my husb, “you’re concerned about me, yet you’re the one with the terminal brain tumor? On gosh. Thank you, it has been a rough day already.” The Doc had been dealing with a pediatric patient with a brain tumor and it wasn’t going well. Now, to me, that was a time, when the Doc needed to take a few min and clear his head. Not that it was a bad thing to do in front of my husb and I, but I really felt so much for that Doc and what he was dealing with every single day, too. My husb and I were just dealing with his tumor, this Doc was dealing with multiple patients and multiple tumors. So, yeah, you (and a few others here. LOL) can be self-centered sometimes, when you need to be… and I will too.

  253. FunDude says:

    @keke

    I’m keeping an open mind

  254. Josh says:

    My sweetspot is 20-24.

    18-19 are risky with legal age nonsense. I do check ids of under 21’s anyway though. 😉

    No id, no sugar. Sorry kiddo!!!

  255. Promise says:

    @VitesseSD How old am I?

  256. KeKe says:

    Be still my beating heart! I’m shocked. How did she land you? @FunDude

  257. FunDude says:

    im not extremely particular about her physique. She should just like to work out and be thin.

    Nothing too crazy. Not asking for huge fake tits, plastic surgery or other crazy nonsense.

  258. FunDude says:

    keke,

    I’m going out with a 31 yo nurse on sunday

  259. FunDude says:

    I do live below my means though. I live in a cheap two BR apartment in Western Michigan.

    The only luxury I enjoy is my car, which I write off as a business expense.

  260. KeKe says:

    I don’t think FunDude would date over 30 any time soon. Lol

  261. VitesseSD says:

    @Promise

    Don’t worry, you’re right in my ideal age bracket!

  262. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    I agree with a lot of your last post. So who cares if Im being “self centered”?

    Men need to be more self centered these days. Are women not self centered?

    @Vit

    Good point. Maybe I should consider 18 lol

  263. Promise says:

    (nothing younger than 22 or over 35)
    My fangirl heart. ;~;

  264. KeKe says:

    @Georgia.. no I was saying I asked a dumb question. Lol

    I’m okay.

  265. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KeKe
    Sorry. I didn’t mean to upset you. You do sound a bit “down” though. Anything we can do to cheer you up?

  266. KeKe says:

    @Dark..yes. lol

    @Georgia..dumb question.

    @Promise. Yeah it was pretty popular. I never cared for it. It was too depressing. I hadn’t lost anyone important to me yet

  267. KeKe says:

    I care about offending the blog SD’s. I try to be respectful and appreciative of all advice.

  268. DarkHorseSD says:

    Can the blog be about me for the rest of the night?

  269. VitesseSD says:

    @FunDude
    “20 is too young for me unless you are quite mature.
    My bottom is probably around 22. Dunno if college age chicks are worth it.”

    Dude, you’re crazy. 18-21 should be what you’re aiming at assuming she’s in school. Consider the following:
    “Hi, I’m 18, I don’t want to get pregnant, I’m on the pill, pro choice yay! I want to finish my degree!”
    “Hi, I’m 25, I finished/dropped out of college, figured out that the american job market sucks, I’d totally want to get impregnated by a rich doctor, do nothing, and get child support and alimony!”

    18-21 isn’t because they’re hotter, its because they’re less likely to try to knock themselves up to keep you. The older the woman the more shenanigans.

  270. GeorgiaPeach says:

    *Ooops. doesn’t CARE who he “alienates”

  271. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KeKe
    “@FunDude…Do you care if you offend anyone or alienated everyones? Lol”
    Let’s all think about your question. Hmmmm. FunDude is a VERY well educated guy; obviously male, he’s 35 (so he says); VERY well built on the outside (and probably inside too. LOL) He is single, can see or date most anyone he wants. He is extremely particular about the “shape” of the women he prefers AND their age limits (nothing younger than 22 or over 35) Not sure he has a lot of “friends” but he’s apparently self-centered enough that he doesn’t really care. He makes and has lots and lots of money. Suspect he lives reasonable but not outlandish for someone of his “statue.” He’s a male. (Yeah, he is that.) He speaks his mind – quite a bit and usually on point – he knows what he likes and dislikes about almost every subject you can imagine. But he loves his Momma. Ok, tie all that up with pretty pink ribbon now. What have you got? An intelligent, reasonably young guy who is quite self-centered, doesn’t are who he “alienates” because he already knows things and because he “knows things” he doesn’t really care if he offends anyone. Make sense? And they talk about how crazy the females are. LOL

  272. Promise says:

    @KeKe yes. I want to know if the song was really that huge all that time ago.

  273. FunDude says:

    @Keke

    Not really. Do they care if they offend me?

    Anything that women don’t like is going to “offend” them.

    Do these women care about offending men? Of course not.

  274. KeKe says:

    @FunDude…Do you care if you offend anyone or alienated everyones? Lol

  275. KeKe says:

    @Promise..by Mariah Carey?

  276. Promise says:

    I have a question for everyone in their 30’s+ have you heard the song “One Sweet Day”?

  277. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    So then she shouldn’t get upset. If she is upset by what I write, then I have to question her perspective.

    She started up with my perspective. I never even addressed her.

  278. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    @RussianSB is NOT a feminist. She is not from the US. She is a REALIST.

  279. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    If she can’t stand the heat, then she better get the F out the kitchen.

    This isn’t some feminist friendly zone around here.

  280. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Yeah I guess lol

  281. Promise says:

    *freaky porn?

  282. Promise says:

    @FunDude *shyly raises hand*
    Might I suggest a hot bath, and some freaky ?

  283. FunDude says:

    Did anyone hear what that FAT FUCK Chris Christie said about Social Security?

    That fat pig wants to cut SS for a means testing at 80K and NOTHING over 200K in income.

    Fucking SS is becoming another welfare program!

  284. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “You mad “brah”?”

    A tiny bit. You chased @RussianSB away. I like her banter.

    Not All Females Are Like That. Some are more fun than the others.

  285. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    Actually, I’m impressed with you.
    When you did you decide to become the “gentleman”? LOL I hope she’ll appreciate your attitude and your “loving” generosity.
    BTW, folks who know me, know that my stress levels are over the edge when I announce I want to “chew on a doorknob.” LOL. They’ve learned to stay clear.

  286. FunDude says:

    @promise

    20 is too young for me unless you are quite mature.

    My bottom is probably around 22. Dunno if college age chicks are worth it.

  287. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Don’t want to push the banging her issue too fast. She appears to be high quality at the moment.

    Is it good to attempt that? lol

  288. KeKe says:

    @Dark…the age math? Did I get it wrong or something?

  289. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    You mad “brah”?

    Im not even signed up for SA right now.

    Ergo, Im not taking any SBs off the market. Im content with my female situation at the moment.

  290. FunDude says:

    @Dark

    Yes but the Asians will be running things in the future. America is basically on the way out over the next decade or two.

    No way it can stay on top considering its demographic, educational, economic, etc issues.

    Europe has it even worse with unrestrained Islamic immigration, low birth rates, socialism, etc.

    Germany is the only semi functional country but its demographics are atrocious.

    Meanwhile. the Chinese are locking up their feminists. They are too smart to allow that shit there.

  291. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “I need to decrease my testosterone levels ASAP. I either want to fight or fuck these days lol”

    Focus on fucking and leave the SD space for real SDs.

  292. DarkHorseSD says:

    “FunDude says:
    April 14, 2015 at 7:36 pm
    I am actually surprised America remains competitive considering how dysfunctional the political and economic picture is in America”

    Have you seen Europe?

  293. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    “I need to decrease my testosterone levels ASAP. I either want to fight or fuck these days lol”

    Ya think? LOL. We’ve ALL noticed that here! So, either find a punching bag at the gym or fuck the hell out of that 23 y/o you’re dancing with.

  294. FunDude says:

    I am actually surprised America remains competitive considering how dysfunctional the political and economic picture is in America.

  295. FunDude says:

    @Dark

    Im more ready to run thing than the clown we call our President, or Hillary, or most of the Republican jokers.

    What the hell makes them qualified to run anyway?

    Obama is a damn community organizer who never had a job in his life.

    Hillary is a “feminist” who depended on her Husband for her entire career. She has never worked in any real job.

    What makes Jeb ready to “run” anything?

  296. DarkHorseSD says:

    FunDude, don’t hate me, but you aren’t really ready to run anything. :(

  297. DarkHorseSD says:

    My assertion about not being able to do the age math correlating to not being able to get sugar may be holding true.

  298. FunDude says:

    I need to decrease my testosterone levels ASAP.

    I either want to fight or fuck these days lol

  299. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    I agree with your analysis about the real scientists basically getting FUCKED in the USA.

    MBA jokers are basically running the show despite them knowing jack shit about these trades.

    Physicians should be running medicine, engineers should be running productive corporations, etc.

    However, since I can’t beat them, I will join them lol

    “I only live in this WORLD I DIDN’T MAKE IT” – Tupac Shakur before becoming OnePac and then Deadpac

  300. DarkHorseSD says:

    “FunDude says:
    April 14, 2015 at 7:14 pm
    FUCK TAXES!”

    Yeah.. And f^ck iOS.

  301. KeKe says:

    @Kenna, honey you have been the energizer bunny! Your body is catching up to you

  302. FunDude says:

    Not waiting until the last minute. I had it done for awhile just putting it in the mail at the last minute.

    Like I said FUCK TAXES.

    Mercedes is black.

  303. KennaKenna says:

    Btw that “How much do you owe” was a rhetorical question.

  304. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    Haha… How much do you owe? And why did you wait until the last minute? Lol

  305. KennaKenna says:

    @Keke Today wasn’t the greatest honestly, I was lazy all day and procrastinated about everything.

    Tomorrow is a new day though.

  306. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    AW, tough day? So Sorry.
    BTW… Mercedes is moving their headquarters to HOT’Lanta. LOL All the way down here from NJ. They must like this southern atmosphere too! LOL

  307. KeKe says:

    @FunDude.. uh oh. You sound like my Lover. He said he paid the amount of a small car in taxes…Jeez!

  308. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Kenna @KeKe
    I’m with you two, hence my comment about what color is FunDude’s. LOL
    But guys are so easy when they are getting too uptight about issues. Mention cars or sports or such and off they go, yes KeKe, just like little boys and their toys. LOL

  309. FunDude says:

    FUCK TAXES!

  310. SouthernSB says:

    KeKe-My SA age is 50, but my real age is one year over.

  311. DarkHorseSD says:

    “SouthernSB says:
    April 14, 2015 at 7:03 pm
    What on earth are you complaining about? My SD would have to be 107 years old. What are the chances of that? I am already dating the 70 and up crowd.”

    You can always impose upon VitSD to produce a non-linear formula that works for you.

  312. KeKe says:

    @Kenna..nope and neither does my Lover. He drives a jeep. Lol

  313. KennaKenna says:

    @Keke it looks like you don’t care about cars too much too, yay!

  314. KeKe says:

    @Kenna how are you today?

  315. KennaKenna says:

    Am I the only one that doesn’t care about cars? Lol

    We have two Range Rover SUVs because they’re practical, and he just got his Bentley and Porsche shipped here from NYC. I couldn’t tell you the make or code for the car though lol.

    I am literally clueless about cars lol, anyways carry on with the conversation.

  316. KeKe says:

    @Josh what’s the difference MBA vs Ph.D

  317. Josh says:

    *instead of an MBA/Finance/Accounting joker.

  318. Josh says:

    Yes, I have worked in Germany. I respect Germans for their pure and applied science and engineering savvy. The trend in Germany is to make a Phd head of their operations instead of an MBA joker.

  319. KeKe says:

    @Southern..how old are you? If you don’t mind sharing?

    @Georgia Boys and their toys. Lol

  320. KeKe says:

    @Josh..so you agree with him?

  321. SouthernSB says:

    What on earth are you complaining about? My SD would have to be 107 years old. What are the chances of that? I am already dating the 70 and up crowd.

  322. GeorgiaPeach says:

    God you guys are so easy.
    All I had to do was mention Dr. FunDude’s CLS 63 AMG and now the male conversations is reverting to cars. LOL

  323. VitesseSD says:

    @Josh

    Performance wise, theres some good japanese cars WRX, Evo, GTR, but if you want luxury, japanese cars lexus/inf are pretty bad.

  324. Josh says:

    @Keke

    Germany is a giant and meticulous-humming manufacturing campus.

  325. KennaKenna says:

    @Darkhorse you learn something new almost everyday- had no idea what an “Atmosphere Model” was lol.

    My guy is in Vegas until Friday and will no doubt be out all night with customers/clients; when he asked if I have any rules… Maybe I should have said no atmosphere models?!?! Lol

  326. KeKe says:

    @Dark…Wow, to be in my 20’s again…

  327. KeKe says:

    @Josh..I can’t wait to tell my Lover that! He thinks German engineering is the best. Lol

  328. DarkHorseSD says:

    A definition:

    “Attractive women who are actually paid to be in a club and look attractive as their job because working bottle service, as a bartender, shot girl, etc. is clearly too much work…so atmosphere model is the new thing for these women!”

  329. Josh says:

    Euro to Euro, Germany makes better cars than the rest of Europe, and Euro to Yen Japan makes better cars than Germany.

  330. Promise says:

    LET’S GET HAPPY!
    [[https://youtu.be/JFgv8bKfxEs]]

  331. KeKe says:

    @Melissa Right! Lesson learned. But it’s hard we talk about everything but I will be more cautious in the future.

  332. KennaKenna says:

    @Vitesse you’re now my favorite person on blog for that formula…. Hahahahahaha im still laughing

  333. DarkHorseSD says:

    Atmosphere models in Vegas (one sort..)

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  334. VitesseSD says:

    @FunDude

    Yeah the CLS 63 is the better car by far. No idea why anyone would say otherwise *coughtheygotbribedcough*

  335. Melissa says:

    And learn not to over share unless he seeks it and even then…

  336. KeKe says:

    Lmao @Dark…I should have came on the blog the other night.

  337. KeKe says:

    I was just so surprised he said it. We are pretty into each other. It’s not just about sugar.

  338. DarkHorseSD says:

    KeKe, text him that you are coming over to sort his shit, after washing and ironing it.

  339. KeKe says:

    I KNOW!!!! I was so pissed at myself

  340. Melissa says:

    @KeKe
    No! Do NOT sabotage!

  341. KeKe says:

    @Promise. I did but damn I couldn’t believe I texted it! Damn do we women sabotage our shit.

  342. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    Keep it up and you will soon be looking for a new SD soon.

  343. KeKe says:

    @Darkhorse…he will either be in Germany anyway or madly in love with me, so it won’t matter.

  344. Promise says:

    @KeKe then say sorry.

  345. KeKe says:

    @Josh…I did some minor sabotaging a couple days ago. I over shared ( Sexy warned me) about how difficult my husband was being lately and he suggested we take a break to sort out our issues ( his…finding a job in the US…he wants to stay). I got mad and told him to text me when his life was sorted.

  346. Promise says:

    47? I hate math with a burning passion.

  347. DarkHorseSD says:

    “KeKe says:
    April 14, 2015 at 6:34 pm
    I’m 2 years too old for my Lover :-(

    And in a year you will be 2.5 years too old.

  348. DarkHorseSD says:

    The caveat to it all is that if you can’t do the age math on your own, you can’t get an SD or SB, as the case may be.

    You may need to go into atmosphere modeling.

  349. Josh says:

    @DarkHorseSD

    “Within 100 years the Male will no longer exist in our species.”

    Methinks that the Western and Japanense civilizations would implode and the geography will be taken over by population-savvy whoever.

    One possibility is that the feminists would proudly wear burqa, be ever pregnant, and the high heel industry would be outlawed by the Sharia.

  350. Promise says:

    @KeKe and Dark please no more math T~T

  351. KeKe says:

    I’m 2 years too old for my Lover :-(

  352. KeKe says:

    @Josh.. lol…okay I’ll remember that

  353. KeKe says:

    I think you we are supposed to x2 and +7 @Promise

  354. Josh says:

    *…please keep in mind…

  355. Josh says:

    When communicating with @FunDude please keep in my that he is NOT a real SD.

    He is a baby SD. He DEOS NOT represent the “real” SDs…the lower age of whom is at least 5-10 years older than @FunDude.

    He is one of the pretty boys who can get low 20-somethings without paying allowances.

    So don’t get your panties all in a bunch.

  356. KeKe says:

    58…hmmm I’d be down.

  357. DarkHorseSD says:

    Josh, I’m Human. Who wants a level playing field?

    All this talk is pointless. Within 100 years the Male will no longer exist in our species.

  358. Promise says:

    *26?!

  359. Promise says:

    @Dark 36?!

  360. DarkHorseSD says:

    New term: Expected SD Age..

    The Age at which you will finally land an SD, minus 7, multiplied by two.

  361. Promise says:

    @FunDude 20

  362. Josh says:

    Re: Women are more attractive than men.

    Look at animal kingdom. Species after species, male is better-looking than female. The concept that women are more attractive than man has to do with men opining with the goal of getting into her panties.

    Also, from the practical point of view, we keep ignoring the fact that women spend hundreds of hours of their own time and billions of dollars of their men’s money every year on their grooming and beautification. Men spend a fraction of time and money on their personal grooming and beautification.

    We will have level playing field when either women stop grooming themselves or men start grooming as much.

    Have you ever seen Lady Gaga without makeup?

    Here she is:

    [http://hollywoodlife.com/2013/07/24/lady-gaga-without-makeup-before-after-pics/]

    I rest my case. 😉

  363. FunDude says:

    Promise how old are you?

    Georgia, I don’t give a shit that they like the Maserati better. I like the CLS 63AMG better.

  364. DarkHorseSD says:

    Big time, we got frickin’ Csaba Csere posting.

  365. Promise says:

    @FunDude based on that math how old “should” my future SD be?

  366. VitesseSD says:

    @FunDude

    As long as I keep using that formula and it doesn’t give you the answer 18, its wrong, wrong I tell you.

    The Formula, corrected. ((Age/2 + 7)x0)+18

  367. DarkHorseSD says:

    When was the last time the ATM in Fatty’s avatar was serviced?

  368. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    April 13, 2015 at 9:21 pm (Ok, last one, I’m caught up now. LOL)
    “CLS 63 AMG” (FYI: Mercedes-Benz}
    So, Darlin, what color is this piece of metal/plastic ass vehicle you seem to enjoy? Baby Blue, I mean, blonde? LOL A late year model or did you go for one of the “younger” ones? LOL

    Since you seem to enjoy the research, I did a bit of my own. Here’s a wet taste of some goodies:
    • “2010 L.A. Auto Show has better fuel efficiency and lower emissions without sacrificing power — 55 more hp than the current CLS 63 AMG, to be exact.”

    • “Mercedes-Benz is recalling over 33,000 vehicles in the US in separate actions affecting two of its model lines.” Did yours get a recall? Perhaps she’s like some of your 30+ y/o ladies. LOL

    • “If you had to choose from the same category and price range as the CLS63 AMG and you had a choice between it and another car — which would you pick?
    Best Answer: The M5, the S6, a Maser Quattroporte.” Hmmm, a Quattro?

    • “Which has a smoother/softer ride.. BMW 750 or CLS63 AMG? “
    “Best Answer: I would guess the BMW 750 would be smoother. The CLS63 is an AMG model and the suspension is oriented towards being really sporty. You can put it in comfort mode but a sports suspension can only adapt so much. The BMW 750 on the other hand is not a “race car” version like the AMG so it’s going to have a ride designed to be smooth but like any BMW, it doesn’t compromise on handling.” I would think your answer would be a blonde 23 y/o. LOL

    • “Second Best: Mercedes Benz seems to always have an ever so slightly softer/smoother ride than its’ BMW counterparts. The BMW 750 is going to be the better handling car in my opinion but you’re just going to have to drive them both yourself to be the judge on how which is smoother to you. Source(s): E55 AMG Benz owner” Certainly not a gal over 30. LOL

    Thought I’d also help educate the other ladies here, since many of us have no clue what you’re talking about when you so casually say “CLS 63 AMG” nor do we care. If you haven’t figured it out, we tend to only care about “what color is it?” LOL Hmmm. Course, that could pertain to a lot of things, now couldn’t it?

  369. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Why should she run like hell? I am speaking factually about what men value largely in a sugar baby.

    @DarkHorse

    Traditionally, the rule is age/2 + 7. Therefore, 23 is appropriate for me.

  370. Promise says:

    @GP I envy her. She’s got an SD.

  371. DarkHorseSD says:

    Of course, when have I never not trolled.

  372. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    April 13, 2015 at 8:25 pm – (Sorry, I know this is late, but I’m catching up.) “@Russian Not bitching. Just telling the ladies whats up. You don’t like it, tough shit. Men like youth, beauty, “innocence”, education in real subjects, pleasant personality, etc.”
    As do many women, Honey. I would guess most of the ladies here would prefer our men, “Youthful, handsome, innocent, educated/intellectual, pleasant, mannerly and perhaps trusting.”

    I know all about your type. Believe it or not, I was actually 20 at one point, even a size 4, with lots of guys. Your comments are simply amusing to say the least. I just can’t decide whether we should all envy that 23 y/o or tell her to run like hell. LOL

  373. VitesseSD says:

    @DarkHorseSD
    “Women are more attractive than men.”

    Not sure if trolling. So I’ll leave you with this beauty:
    ]www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPDihaH2DjI[

  374. Promise says:

    @Dark ? 17?

  375. DarkHorseSD says:

    Half your age plus 7

  376. Promise says:

    @Dark It’s also a little sexist.

  377. Promise says:

    @Dark That’s very generous of you to say. Thank you.

  378. DarkHorseSD says:

    Women are more attractive than men.

  379. DarkHorseSD says:

    Josh says:
    April 14, 2015 at 3:44 pm
    @DarkHorseSD

    What kind of man is need to “deal with” American woman? 😉 ”

    Josh

  380. FunDude says:

    Women and the Wall

    Very good video for Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68OVHoZ8KaA}}

  381. SouthernSB says:

    Josh says:

    @DarkHorseSD

    What kind of man is need to “deal with” American woman?

    @Josh-Pacific Islanders of course. 😉

  382. Promise says:

    @FunDude I wonder if they’ll teach that at the Summit?

  383. VitesseSD says:

    @KeKe

    Mmmk.

    @FunDude
    “But late 30s and up women should be targeting mostly late 50s to 60s to even 70s men if they want a decent allowance.

    There will be a segment among those populations that would be willing to part with some money for them.”

    True

  384. FunDude says:

    @Vitanese

    Yes a lot of 50s and 60s Sugar Daddies will try to drip down below late 30s women.

    But late 30s and up women should be targeting mostly late 50s to 60s to even 70s men if they want a decent allowance.

    There will be a segment among those populations that would be willing to part with some money for them.

  385. Promise says:

    @Josh The last time I went on there was….I don’t even remember, but maybe the beginning of last month? It’s just something I noticed that they all had in common with there pictures. It confused me too.

  386. KeKe says:

    @Vitesse..that quote was for FunDude.. I actually don’t think you rant about the same thing constantly. :-)

  387. VitesseSD says:

    @FunDude

    “By definition, she can’t be a baby to a daddy around the same age. She is only a “baby” for men in their 50s to 60s if she is in her late 30s.

    The feminist bitches on here want men to overlook their flaws but demand perfection from the man.”

    I cant see myself with a woman in her late 30s even in my 50s 60s unless I’d been with her for 10+ years.

    No kidding about the demanding perfection. Dirty nails, its hilarious, the only reason that could matter would be if he was preparing her food or about to insert a finger or two. Looking under women’s nail polish its amazing how nasty their nails get. Pot, meet kettle. Kettle, pot called you black.

  388. VitesseSD says:

    @KeKe
    I just noticed some similarities in punctuation.

    I do have a habit of systematically proving my point in everything I write, everything has to be coherent and provable. Thank god I type fast. I tend to argue and debate the same way too, it drives women crazy (not in a good way).

    Oh well.

    Enjoy the walls of text.

    😉

  389. KeKe says:

    You are correct that a mid 30s SD is NOT in the same league as a mid 30s SB…. Agreed! I love when you talk and don’t just rant.

    @Vitesse. . Lol.. now do you honestly think I’m Scarlet? !

  390. FunDude says:

    @Vit

    Very good post.

    She will judge a sugar daddy by sugar daddy standards, which is fine.

    However, we can judge her by the standards a sugar baby should be judged by.

    By definition, she can’t be a baby to a daddy around the same age. She is only a “baby” for men in their 50s to 60s if she is in her late 30s.

    The feminist bitches on here want men to overlook their flaws but demand perfection from the man.

    You are correct that a mid 30s SD is NOT in the same league as a mid 30s SB.

  391. VitesseSD says:

    @KeKe
    “you mad or nah?”

    Nah, just amused by the ongoing absurdity.

  392. VitesseSD says:

    @Promise

    “This might be a really stupid question, but do you tell your SD your real name? The Tumblr SB’s make it seem like you don’t.”

    They dont share their names because the Tumblr SBs are mostly escorts calling themselves SBs to get money out of SDs.

    The absolute proof of this for me was when I saw some blog post by an escort, explaining how hard it was to keep all her SDs straight, and how she was using spreadsheets to keep track of facts about them.

    If a girl wants to sleep with 5-10 guys for money, not tell them her name, and uses computers to keep track of them, she’s an escort, not a SB. I have no problem with that, except for every aspect of it.

    My biggest worry about sugar is getting scammed by an escort pretending to be something she’s not and being exposed to the risk of god knows how many STDs.

  393. KeKe says:

    @Vitesse… you mad or nah?

  394. VitesseSD says:

    @LadyScarlett
    “And, your point is(even if true)? I am not an SD/ or sugar mommy, hehe….“

    This is the first thing you’ve said in this blog that is even remotely intelligent. The problem is some SBs seem to think SDs should be dating women their own age or close. If the SD wants to, thats fine, if an older SB wants to try her luck, go for it, but its not likely.

    The SBs also seem to think a SD should be attractive and fit. Don’t count on it.

    1. Studies and analysis of data has shown women severely underrate the attractiveness of men. The easiest to cite and reference is the OKcupid study.
    80% of men were rated as below a 2.5 out of 5.

    So considering the world is about equally men and women, if you want to pair up equally attractive people, the women will ALWAYS think they’re more attractive. I’m sorry, you’re just NOT. You’re human, you’re female, you have weird blobs of fat on your chest, this does not make you magically more attractive than every man on the planet. Men really need to stop using “you’re hot” as a pickup line, its gone to your heads. Trust me, if a man wants to get laid he’d tell you what you want to hear, not “I’ve seen 20 women more attractive than you today”.

    2. Women in America are OBESE
    I’ve done a longer post elsewhere, but the bottom line is, women are the half of America that is obese. Men are not on average obese in America, women are. Thats according to CDC stats.
    Sorry that man is more attractive than you are.

    3. Men being successful, wealthy and/or powerful is attractive. Men capable of being SDs fit into this category, it boosts their attractiveness.

    4. Women being successful is not a turn on. Not because men want women to fail but because most women who are successful are incapable of leaving it at work. They are bossy, manipulative, generally controlling, and cold. Lets take a poll of how many men here would be interested in dating an attorney in her mid to late 30s? Any takers?

    5. Age. Name one thing that is better about a woman who is 30 compared to a woman who is 18-21.
    Can you name one thing where I’d say, oh you’re right women who are 30 are generally better?

    If a man is more attractive (Fitter, leaner etc), more successful, and your age, why in the world would he want to date you? Maybe by some misguided belief that you have more in common, but get real. Unless you both spent 10 years traveling the world or doing something similar your shared experiences end in college. Years of working some desk job have not given you some sort of magical “people our age” connection that he does not have with anyone who’s finished puberty.

    A successful attractive man can always, always, always get a younger attractive woman. Now tell me why he should pay you? He has no reason to, because quite frankly if we were talking marriage most real SDs are out of a woman’s league. So if you’re around a guy’s age, and not literally a playboy playmate you’re out of your mind if you think you’re going to get a high allowance.

    Your only hope of getting an allowance at all is identical to your only hope of getting married at 30 something, get in shape, drop your standards, and keep dropping them until someone bites, then hang on.
    Yes you are not the SD, you’re the SB, you’re supposed to be the attractive one, so STFU about the looks and habits of people who’s lives you want to share. You are sitting there complaining about the messiness of some guy’s bathroom as if the guy would ever even give you a shot.

    Hey guys, guys, guess what! I’d never have sex with Taylor Swift, her lipstick is too red!

  395. Josh says:

    @DarkHorseSD

    What kind of man is need to “deal with” American woman? 😉

  396. DarkHorseSD says:

    I believe about 8 months ago RussianSB agreed with my view that the Russian Man is needed to deal with the Russian Woman.

  397. Josh says:

    @Promise

    “This might be a really stupid question, but do you tell your SD your real name?”

    Depends on if you insist on knowing his real name. None of my SBs know my real name directly through me. They can investigate by looking up my license plate number, if they have recorded it.

    “The Tumblr SB’s make it seem like you don’t.”

    If you keep reading Tumblr blogs, then either you are going to become like them, or you are going to bail out of sugar.

  398. PI Wolf says:

    @DLS,

    Suggestions:
    Do not smile or purse your lips, in your photos. It makes you look cheaper. Glad to see your profile, especially the photos. At least I have a face to connect with the name.
    Replace the Diamond and Cut with Rose and Thorns. Diamond makes an SD think you are too full of yourself, and Cut is a trigger word for Scissors to cut my penis? Yikes! 😀
    Your profile looks fine, mostly. You do not come across as ENTITLED or with an ATTITUDE. @Josh gave great advice.
    You asked Kenna a very good question (to which I have no answer) – Where & How to hang out, to meet POT SDs, In Real Life? She gave a very good answer. That is also a problem I have thought about – How do I approach a woman IRL and broach the subject of a mutually beneficial affair?
    Your link should be FORWARD-SLASH instead of BACKSLASH !!!

    @RussianSB,

    Keep posting. It is fun reading your post, for what it says and how it is said. English is a really fluid language, and the various ways it is used by English speakers throughout the world brings new meanings to what should have been an ordinary statement.

  399. Promise says:

    This might be a really stupid question, but do you tell your SD your real name? The Tumblr SB’s make it seem like you don’t.

  400. VitesseSD says:

    @RussianSB
    “man, bitching about something looks unsexy.”
    “Boys, who will bitch about woman will get presents from me – pink bra for everyone !”

    Ah, the core russian female manipulation trick. Doesn’t really work though. Imagine saying “man not giving me money looks unsexy. Man not in suit looks unsexy. Man not wearing pantyhose looks unsexy.“

    Man not care what you say is sexy. Man is sexy or not regardless of what you say. If you not find something man say sexy, keep to self. Russian woman best seen not heard, open mouth makes her unsexy.

    You want to tell an american man to act like a proper russian man and not complain? I have no problem telling you to act like a proper russian woman and stfu.

    Two sides of the same coin. Before any feminists come along and jump on me about this were you when she essentially told FunDude to shut up?

  401. Promise says:

    You guys it is so great outside!

  402. gold rock says:

    I want beautiful and careing sugar Momma.who care me and give me enough money for my servival and my university fee.i am dancer and energetic boy and do any thing.I fit in every type of environment but cleanness is my first purity I am very open mind and some time extremely extrovert but with friends not with everyone. .

  403. DarkHorseSD says:

    Thank you for your time, Russian, and as the Vulcans say, may your expected allowance match your avatar.

  404. RussianSB says:

    P.S. ( they never really go, yeah?)
    Boys, who will bitch about woman will get presents from me – pink bra for everyone ! To complite your image. Now I see – sexes are equal in US, congratulations !

  405. RussianSB says:

    Nobody want to discuss 50 shades, or geopolitics, boys bitching about girls. My brand-new SD hitting on promo girls. Leave you guys – find be in Bolshoi. Will show up soon – will be on long vacation in Europe and when have nothing to do. Now, spring, sunny day, sugar rush in a big city. Adios !

  406. Josh says:

    @RussianSB

    “Josh, subs ? Oh, at last, we start to discuss 50 shades of Gray !”

    Not really. I meant the non-BDSM kind of sub.

  407. DarkHorseSD says:

    “FatB’StardSD says:
    April 13, 2015 at 10:21 pm
    @LadyScarlett

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as you know…I may post a few exchanges on the blog to give people a taste of what SD’s go through.”

    .. And few have eyes big enough to behold you ..

  408. DarkHorseSD says:

    “RussianSB says:
    April 13, 2015 at 6:59 pm
    He can dislike, but pay a little respect. Everybody not 20 are old hague and worthless. I cannot even answer in the same manner – that younger easy women shoose unsecure men etc. Not polite, not fair to SDs who have grate yong SBs.
    And, when everything tip-top in your life , you love everybody and generouse to everybody. He definately have no reason to bitch about. I don’t take it personal , guys, really. Just Fatty looks nice and soft next to him. We all anonimous here, that is not reason to be jerks. I never respect trolling people. They live among us, hiding, pretend to be normal to poor their poison in the web hiding by anonimous status. Such people live very well in Stalin era.”

    Just like Pluto is the Trotsky of our planetary system.

  409. DarkHorseSD says:

    ” Child support will be the only long term issue for him.”

    😀

  410. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Hahaha. Well, most mothers are. But they have your best interest at heart. I know I can be bitchy to my own daughter is she’s not doing something up to her full potential.

    Just like you said don’t be a halfway ho, don’t be a halfway daughter! Hahah

  411. Lainey says:

    LOL @DLS I HATE working for her. She’s SUCH A BITCH! After I finish my Engineering Masters I’m going to work for my dad or at least shadow him and steal all his knowledge LMAO

  412. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Work is work. I wish I could work for my family and make the same income as working for someone else. Shit.

  413. Lainey says:

    @DLS right now I am on the West Coast. I’m between each coast regularly for work (I work for my momma. Lol) but may stop working soon to focus on school.

  414. Lainey says:

    @Keke My daughter was on the tit till she was 3 1/2 so she is EXTREMELY lactose intolerant. You don’t need dairy but if you use a little, my daughter likes Almond and Cashew milk. She HATES soy milk. I’ve found that soy milk leaves like a film in our mouths.. ICK!

  415. KeKe says:

    Again Nite!

  416. KeKe says:

    @Lainey…He already knows I’m a bitch at work. Lol. But never with him. He’s so damn sweet. He’s so easy to please that I want to go above and beyond for him.

  417. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Lainey, where in the US are you?

  418. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Awwww! Goodnight @KeKe! Sweet dreams :)

  419. KeKe says:

    @Lainey is that dairy free..the sorbet? If so post the recipe. My daughter is allergic to dairy.

    Night ladies. I’m two hours ahead of you!

  420. Lainey says:

    @DLS Oh shit.. LOL.. Its a GREAT name.. Lol. I’m CLEARLY biased

  421. Lainey says:

    @Keke LMAO. I dare you to tell your SD that next time you guys speak.. BUAHAHAHAHAHAH. Keep us posted on his reaction

  422. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    She is 7 :) I almost named her Lainey.

  423. Lainey says:

    @DLS thats because you’re smart!

  424. Lainey says:

    On a more positive note. Kid and I wanted dessert SOOOOO bad after dinner so we made homemade mixed berry sorbet and OMMFG… AMAZING!!. @DLS how old is your princess? Can’t believe mine will be 6 at the end of the month.. AAAAAHHHHHh

  425. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    They’re not* going to be like…

  426. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Lainey says:
    @DLS yea its like don’t “hallfway” brag about being a ho.. shit, go hard or go home. Rep your shit or shut up. LMAO
    ——————
    HAHAHAHA For sure!!! I never post any of the gifts or brag about the cash I get. I’m quiet about it. They just think I’m unbelievably good at my real job. If someone happens to see me in a picture with X,Y. or Z, and comment on it, I just thank them for the compliment and move on.

    They’re to going to be like, “HOW DID YOU AFFORD THAT?!” But it’s also because I don’t put it all out there for everybody to see. So to them, it looks like I treat myself occasionally. But they just don’t see the gaggle of shit I’m not pictured with.

  427. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey

    I really don’t know how someone can aspire to be a “bad bitch”.

  428. KeKe says:

    @Lainey… but I’m a bad bitch! Lol lol

  429. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    “Real women don’t call themselves dimes, barbies, or bad bitches because real mean don’t carry loose change, play with toys, or wife dogs.”

    PREACH!

  430. Lainey says:

    @DLS yea its like don’t “hallfway” brag about being a ho.. shit, go hard or go home. Rep your shit or shut up. LMAO

  431. Lainey says:

    @Kenna OMG I HATE the term “Bad Bitch” lmao..

  432. Lainey says:

    “But heaven knows I don’t have the booty to be sought after by an African.”
    @DLS BUHAHAHAHAHA I’m sure you attract many different types

  433. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    HAHAHAHA @Kenna. My friend was JUST talking with me about that two nights ago. He said he knows this girl and everybody knows she’s a high end call girl. Anyway, she was off to Dubai but she always takes solo pictures. Her IG friends will ask her, “Who are you going to Dubai with?” and she won’t ever answer back and just ignore the question.

    I don’t have a problem with girls who do that. It’s their lives. But it’s just so funny to display it, and then be all quiet about it as soon as someone calls you out.

  434. KennaKenna says:

    This is why even though I don’t use instagram and I don’t like TagTheSponsors bashing SBs, it’s funny to see all them being called out- a bottle girl flying first class on a 9k Emirates flight to Dubai but they’re “Independent” and “Bad Bitches” haha.

  435. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Lainey, I hear you. I was approached by some kind of head hunter (not even the actual guy who wanted me) and was propositioned to go over to the middle east. FUUUUCK NO! I already get scared walking down a questionable street in Southern California. Plus I have my daughter to think about. I’m not going to put myself in that kind of position.

    I hear Africa is the new Dubai. TONS of wealthy African men importing their sugar. But heaven knows I don’t have the booty to be sought after by an African.

  436. Lainey says:

    Lol @Kenna @DLS I’m sorry but that shit is scary. The possibilities of what could happen are endless.. Traveling to the Middle East and Africa to meet strangers.

  437. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Kenna… Those girls leave for a weekend and make like 50k tax free plus gifts and clothing. That shit is CRAZY!

  438. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Lainey “Now don’t get me wrong plenty may need a little taking off the top of that nose but outside of that I think my people are beautiful. Lol”

    AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! That shit has got me dead! I’ve seen a lot of them around the clubs, and like I said, we run in the same social circles. I think besides Anna who is married and married well, and Lara who is super sweet and so innocent… I’m pretty sure the rest of them are all high end call girls. Yes, I said it.

    And they all get pimped out by Anastasia LOL.

  439. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey hahahaha- they love Dubai.

  440. Lainey says:

    @Kenna SERIOUSLY! I have tens of thousands of followers and have never posted my cars, bags, or shoes. There is a lot to be said about not being a “LOOK AT ME” type of bitch. Although, I am the annoying bitch that posts tons of pics of her kid. Lol

  441. Lainey says:

    @DLS makeup/hair/fashion is NOT how they make their money. JUST SAYING! LOL

  442. Lainey says:

    @DLS That’s funny because Kim K is not middle eastern. The problem is L.A. When you have money and their are surgeons at every corner and white women that live by it at every turn then you are VERY likely to conform to that. Now don’t get me wrong plenty may need a little taking off the top of that nose but outside of that I think my people are beautiful. Lol

  443. KennaKenna says:

    @DLS I know a few of those girls too. Don’t get me wrong- I like nice purses and shoes but a lot of those girls live to post and “innocently” brag about their designer items on Instagram.

  444. FatB'StardSD says:

    @LadyScarlett

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as you know…I may post a few exchanges on the blog to give people a taste of what SD’s go through.

  445. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Lainey, I already know. I know tons of middle eastern girls. I’m in SoCal and there’s a very big community of them. They all look so plastic. I’ve have zero surgeries… Not that I wouldn’t do it, but I feel like I’m way too young to try to lift or tuck anything. There’s nothing to lift or tuck anyway.

    It has a lot to do with their insecurities with trying to keep up with the Western standard of beauty. They look at Kim K and idolize and want to be her. It’s crazy! And they’re mostly in the makeup/hair/fashion industry. I know a lot of those girls through my line of work. Especially the Glendale/Calabasas/Hollywood/LA group.

  446. FatB'StardSD says:

    @FunDude

    The only acceptable answer is you are looking for something to talk about with potential SB’s.

    [\img\]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bnlv1wd13fY[\img\]

  447. LadyScarlett says:

    Really? You cannot be that bad…I remember struggles posting on blog that you looked pretty nice…

  448. KeKe says:

    @Lainey. He’s pretty interested in continuing. We’ve developed feelings for each other. Totally unexpected. We were both thinking this would just be fun. He doesn’t leave until the end of December, so we have some time.

  449. FatB'StardSD says:

    @LadyScarlett

    I am not kidding about the SB’s reactions to my profile pictures either. You bitches can be vicious!

  450. Lainey says:

    @Kenna yea face and mouth are too important to trust a “rookie”. Lol

  451. Lainey says:

    @DLS you want to talk about surgeries? Check out Nikki Mudarris and Elnaz Haji. I love my fellow middle eastern women but am disgusted by the extent to which they change their faces and bodies.. ICK!

  452. FatB'StardSD says:

    @LadyScarlett

    If @RussianSB survived Stalin’s purges then she can handle the blog as well.

  453. LadyScarlett says:

    Fatbastard, he also loves reading the daily mail UK, and often posts links from there, but figured it was for his current events class at University of Chicago?

  454. KennaKenna says:

    @FatBastard

    Hahahaha, that’s funny!

  455. FatB'StardSD says:

    @FunDude

    Where the fuck did you come across these Meghan Trainor videos in the first place? Why are you watching videos aimed at teenage girls?

  456. UncommonSB says:

    @Fat Not true for everyone. It would be interesting to see how the most critical personalities on the blog present themselves, both SDs and SBs. I don’t recall ever seeing SDs post their link, only request them.

  457. Lainey says:

    @KeKe find out how often he comes to the states when he lives there or if he’d be interesting in continuing from a distance

  458. LadyScarlett says:

    @fatbastard, you are so silly :-p I hope the negativity didn’t scare RussianSB away…I like her…

  459. FatB'StardSD says:

    @UncommonSB

    The only important part of a SD’s profile are 3 special numbers, and these numbers have been reviewed endlessly by the blog SB’s since SA began.

  460. UncommonSB says:

    Genuinely curious, do the SDs also offer their profiles up for review and comment?

  461. FunDude says:

    @Lady

    I only accept naked photos, sorry

  462. flyR says:

    Who put the acid in the sugarbowl……………….

  463. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey I’m not gonna do it, too scared. I remember when I was getting the few veneers and crowns, I was going to go to someone in NY who was going to go to my regular dentist who was giving me a “good price”.

    He was like “NO, if you’re gonna fuck with your face or mouth, we’re going to do the research and you’re going to get it done by the best.”

  464. FunDude says:

    Josh you are saying like almost everyone is “beautiful”.

    Maybe you have the same opinion of beauty as Meghan Trainor.

  465. FatB'StardSD says:

    @LadyScarlett

    I used to keep a record of the less than complimentary things that SB’s have written to me after seeing my profile pictures. Whenever I started to feel some emotional attachment towards a SB I would go through the list to snap me out of it.

    If I was active on SA I would just be able to read some of the links @FunDude and @Josh post for the same effect.

  466. KeKe says:

    @Lainey Don’t forget to come back and brag. I want to hear all about it. I will have to live vicariously through you. My daughter has no interest. Lol

    And I tip my hat to you on how well you are handling the up coming separation with your guy. Mines is probably moving back to Germany at the end of the year. I’m very sad about it.

  467. LadyScarlett says:

    I am not beautiful, but ‘cute’, maybe….beauty is in the eye of the beholder, anyways, right? However, I will wear my tshirt that says, ‘This is what a feminist looks like’, and send you a selfie in my dirty bathroom, though, funnydud…

  468. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “@Josh
    I am not impressed by your opinion of a female’s “beauty”.”

    Fair enough. Hahahahaha

  469. Josh says:

    @Lainey

    Dang girl, I have stopped used gorgeous because of you. :)

    I like all kinds of women. I don’t know what I should use. She is pretty, beautiful, good-looking, whatever conveys the message.

  470. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Amrezy has gotten so much work done. Good lord. I wonder what she originally looked like.

    I don’t know her like that, but we’re in the same social circles.

  471. Lainey says:

    @FunDude CLEARLY has a thing for blondes

  472. FunDude says:

    “The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. She likes masculine admiration, however violently expressed, and is quite able to take care of herself. More, she is well aware that very few men are bold enough to offer it without a plain invitation, and this awareness makes her extremely cynical of all women who complain of being harassed, beset, storied, and seduced. All the more intelligent women that I know, indeed, are unanimously of the opinion that no girl in her right senses has ever been actually seduced since the world began;”
    ― H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women

    Got to go to bed shortly, got work in the AM

  473. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    I am not impressed by your opinion of a female’s “beauty”.

    Ergo, I would need to judge for myself

  474. Lainey says:

    @Josh is she actually beautiful or is she your ex-blanket term of gorgeous? Lol jk

  475. Lainey says:

    @Keke their recital is at the end of May.

  476. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “Has anyone actually seen Lady Scarlett’s profile?”

    Yes. She is beautiful. So don’t go there. That’s a nonstarter.

  477. FunDude says:

    “The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. She likes masculine admiration, however violently expressed, and is quite able to take care of herself. More, she is well aware that very few men are bold enough to offer it without a plain invitation, and this awareness makes her extremely cynical of all women who complain of being harassed, beset, storied, and seduced. All the more intelligent women that I know, indeed, are unanimously of the opinion that no girl in her right senses has ever been actually seduced since the world began;”
    ― H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women

  478. LadyScarlett says:

    Were NOT too shabby* sorry

  479. KeKe says:

    I wish I could see “the profile” everyone is talking about. *sigh*

    @Lainey… when does your DD perform her solo?

  480. Josh says:

    @KennaKenna

    If ain’t broke don’t fix it. 😉

    Sorry I could not stop myself here.

    Kidding aside, you’re beautiful. Wait for 15 more years AT LEAST before trying anything dumb.

  481. Lainey says:

    DOOOOOONT DOOO IT @Kenna!!. But then again you are right in Cali and I’m sure Hubby will be willing to pay for the BEST surgeon but please don’t go to any of them that the girls that you and I BOTH know look like crap got to. Lol

  482. LadyScarlett says:

    Fatbastard, I heard you were to too shabby, actually….from a reliable source, hehe.

  483. FatB'StardSD says:

    @LadyScarlett can have her fun just like the rest of us but if that guy is considered gross then I am going to have to get another job because I really need to up my allowance…

  484. Promise says:

    @Lady Stop messing with how my imagination pictures FunDude. :/

  485. FunDude says:

    Has anyone actually seen Lady Scarlett’s profile?

  486. KennaKenna says:

    @DLS yes!

    @Lainey I want a nose job but so scared it messes up my whole face like some people I know lol. I have some veneers but think mine look pretty normal, maybe I’m kidding myself??. @Josh?

  487. LadyScarlett says:

    @fundude, just imagine me as old as Betty White…for some reason, you being totally repulsed by me is somewhat comforting….

  488. Lainey says:

    Lol. @FatB’Stard Nope

  489. LadyScarlett says:

    No, I am early 20’s like all mid 30’s SB’s, lol!

  490. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    I figure she’s at least in her 40s. She is lying.

    That is why she won’t post her profile ID either.

    Lainey, the good thing about you is your consistency and lack of feminist hypocrisy. You call out chicks like her

  491. FatB'StardSD says:

    @Lainey

    My guess is you BF is a drug dealer or professional athlete…am I getting warmer?

  492. Lainey says:

    Oh @FunDude LOL. I think I must have missed that, but I will say that @YesPlsSir was 35 and Scarlett was older than her so she needs to hang up that “Mid 30s” lie she’s telling

  493. FatB'StardSD says:

    @RussianSB

    You will now force me to watch Gladiator looking for scenes where Russel Crow has dirty fingernails.

    I need to get rid of my competition…

  494. Lainey says:

    @FatB’Stard my BF did not come from money. He came from a single mother of four who worked in a factory. You’re more than welcome to try again though. :)

  495. Lainey says:

    @Kenna BUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. OMG. I have no idea why this semi young people do it to themselves. Thats like when we had the talk about the horrible plastic surgery on these young girls

  496. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Kenna @Lainey are y’all talking about Amrezy the makeup artist?

  497. FunDude says:

    LOL FatBastard

  498. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    Good for him. Happy to see successful guys in their 20s.

  499. FatB'StardSD says:

    @Lainey

    I stand corrected. Your BF’s parents giving him the money to buy you an expensive car is not his accomplishment either.

    Have a nice day :-).

  500. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Josh
    “I am trying to understand your cognitive skills here. In both cases the girls are either shaming or lashing out on men, and it is “all the same, but on the other end of the spectrum”?”

    I didn’t shame him at all. I just told him I couldn’t believe a man of his age with all of his money and accolades did know simple grammar.

    That was when he shamed me and started attacking my physical features and my integrity.

    Because I kindly sent him on his way I was all of a sudden too flat, short, and a gold digger.

    He didn’t think those things before I dismissed him. In fact, he was trying to communicate with me outside of SA.

    You can interpret it how you’d like. But it seemed much like the run-on sentence girl.

  501. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    I think she meant she was in her mid 30s and that I am “age shaming” her.

    She is a feminist. She believes she can shame or talk shit about any man but that anytime a man points out her flaws, that is “shaming”.

    Feminist hypocrisy 101

    Its ok to make fun of some 50 year old dude’s physique, nails, income, etc

    But DoN’T ever talk about Scarlett’s age or her lack of ID due to her fear of showing everyone how worthless she is. That is “shaming”

  502. Promise says:

    I have nothing interesting to say, but I want to let people know I’m here, and reading. So here’s a dancing Kirby. \(-.-)\ ~(-.-)~ /(-.-)/ (>’.’)> <('.'<) o('.')o

  503. Lainey says:

    @FatB’StardSD My boyfriend bought it for me, as it has been said many times already on the blog. The post was not about me so much as it was about men in their 20s

  504. FatB'StardSD says:

    @Lainey

    Your parents buying you an expensive car is not your accomplishment.

  505. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey

    I meant I have no idea how old she is*. But yes that annoys me about veneers too, they’re supposed to look real not like snaps on. I honestly thought Amrezy’s were snapons lmao

  506. Lainey says:

    @LadyScarlett stop trying to insert your bitter bitchyness where it is not needed. @FunDude knows I do not think he is old and nothing you say will make him believe otherwise so shut up and stop trying to start mess.

  507. FatB'StardSD says:

    I was also interviewed by a guy worth over $50M whose hands made the guy in the profile look like he was going to perform surgery in comparison.

  508. Lainey says:

    LMAO @FunDude I WISH we were Bill Gates!!

  509. LadyScarlett says:

    Yes, mid 30’s is soooo old! Lol! Here we go again, when someone cannot make a sensical argument or even witty comeback they go straight to age shaming. How typical….

  510. FunDude says:

    Also, I never called all guys in their 20s “losers”. I said a good amount of guys in their 20s and 30s don’t have any money.

    Zuckerberg is far from a “loser” even if he is a dork lol

  511. Josh says:

    @Lainey

    “I do recall one of the blog SB shaming the men for posting women’s profiles/ profile text. I hope it was not the same person that just discussed this mans profile.. Hmm”

    Thanks for lucidly pointing out the “subtle” difference. 😉

  512. Lainey says:

    BUHAHAHAHAHAHA @Kenna I hate you!. Its funny that we know of the same people.

  513. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    Everyone is Bill Gates online.

  514. Lainey says:

    @FunDude My post was not for you, but being that you chose to comment on it; My car is more expensive than yours and my BF and I are a decade younger than you. You may want to rethink the next time you call these younger guys “Losers”. Just saying

  515. UncommonSB says:

    *thought of

  516. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey LOL…. Well hers are not as bad as Amrezy’s own. I have no idea who she is.

  517. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    Probably was her. She is a hypocritical old feminist who is trying to be a sugar baby lol

    She is basically everything wrong with this society.

  518. UncommonSB says:

    @Josh Hmn. I just laughed out loud at the though of a ‘wall of shame’ sticky. No, it would not be nice at all, but entertaining without a doubt.

  519. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    The funny thing is that the person making fun of the guy is an old woman trying to be a “sugar baby”.

    She is too afraid to post her profile ID due to that fact

    @Lainey

    Yes I just spelled it a few times lol

    My car is a CLS 63 AMG right now. Big deal. Doesn’t mean much.

  520. Lainey says:

    I do recall one of the blog SB shaming the men for posting women’s profiles/ profile text. I hope it was not the same person that just discussed this mans profile.. Hmm

  521. FatB'StardSD says:

    @RussianSB

    Everyone has their tastes. I can manage the fat part but being a business shark is beyond me!

  522. Lainey says:

    @FunDude the person I tagged. We were talking about her last night. Did you figure out how to spell Maserati yet? Lol

  523. Josh says:

    YES, at times we post profile ids with crazy profile prose…

  524. LadyScarlett says:

    @Beth, There are a couple of people from blog, in NYC, I think….

  525. Josh says:

    @UncommonSB

    What’s the purpose of posting someone’s profile id out of the blue and instead of, say, talk about the profile, people go around talking about their looks and hygiene, and speculate about their income?

    How often do you see men posting some random woman’s profile ids and start talking shit about their looks and start speculating about their personal lives? YES, at times we profiles with crazy profile prose, which is not about the physical person but about their sugar delusions, and in many cases their contempt for the very men they are trying to extract allowances from. Big difference!!!

  526. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    Who cares about that stuff lol

    @DLS

    I think you handled that guy who pretended he was worth 50 million at 35 well. I have no problem with that.

    He was a fraud.

  527. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Fat.. A 2003 Dodge Ram Diesel is still worth 22k in the KBB. That’s a 12 year old truck, folks.

  528. Lainey says:

    “I have met guys who don’t wear a suit to work and make more than most “corporate executives”.

    My dad NEVER wears a suit. Just sayin

  529. Lainey says:

    @Keke The same dance mom was bragging today about her daughter being spoiled with designer brands. When she brought up Micheal Kors and H&M. I DIED!!. Not because there is anything wrong with it but she really needs to stop bragging to the wrong person. Meanwhile my child has a Louis Vuitton bag as a dance bag and wore her Dolce & Gabbana sneakers to Acro but I don’t speak on such things because its tacky. I usually smile and say things like “aww thats so cute!” She cut her eyes at me after dance as I hopped into my GL63AMG and she hopped into her jeep cherokee. This is the first time we have EVER ended up parked next to each other. LMAO. Ironic

  530. FatB'StardSD says:

    Some of you need to price out a fully loaded Ford Raptor pickup truck before you laugh at the “poor” bastard driving it!

  531. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Josh- That’s true, I don’t remember how you ended the conversation with her. Like I said, I normally don’t engage at all. I have tons of messages I don’t even reply to. I had a wild hair tonight, and he just rubbed me the wrong way.

    She didn’t have a superiority complex on top of being entitled. This guy did. I’m not justifying my unkind closure to him, but somebody needed to put him in his place. When I did it kindly he attacked my appearance and my integrity. So I thought maybe he should take a long look in the mirror before doing as such, and bringing up the Lord Savior Jesus Christ.

  532. BethSB says:

    @LadyScar I’d like to meet with a few peeps from the blog while I’m there, if possible.

  533. FunDude says:

    I’d love to see LadyScarlett’s profile to determine if she should be laughing at anyone on this website.

    People who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones lol

  534. UncommonSB says:

    “Making fun of men is women’s favorite pastime, and they don’t like it when the tables are turned.”

    I speak only for myself of course, and I do not typically engage in making fun of anyone. However, good hygiene is mandatory. I am automatically turned off by anyone who has photos in a dirty room, in rumpled clothing, or with unkempt hands/feet. If they can’t even take a few minutes to look clean in their profile pics… I’m thinking they’re are a serious slob. Don’t want to think about the disastrous pics that didn’t make the cut.

  535. RussianSB says:

    Fatty – Russel Crow in Gladiator, or Hugo Boss male models … But, never meet anyone like that (exept sport star, but we only flirt a little). So, I learn how to have pleasure from fat angry business sharks. Life is tough ! But I am flexible :)

  536. LadyScarlett says:

    “I have met guys who don’t wear a suit to work and make more than most “corporate executives”.

    That is very true….Most who have it do not need to prove to anyone, but this guy I posted is most likely a fake SD, just from both the horribly misspelled messages I also received from him. Although, I should not have posted it, really, not my style to post, but he is funniest profile I have seen so far on site.

    @Beth, ah, well NY is very good choice (:

  537. BethSB says:

    Why is there a Constant debate between males and females on this blog? I swear it’s monotonous and tiresome.

  538. Lainey says:

    Ugh and her veneers. Why do people pay for veneers just to look like they HAVE VENEERS in the end? Lol. I’ll never understand that.

  539. Josh says:

    @DirtyLittleSecret

    “As soon as you told her she wasn’t hot enough for that kind of allowance she started to shame you about inner beauty.”

    I am trying to understand your cognitive skills here. In both cases the girls are either shaming or lashing out on men, and it is “all the same, but on the other end of the spectrum”?

    Logically speaking it would be “all the same, but on the other end of the spectrum” if I had lashed out on her at the end, yes?

  540. BethSB says:

    @LadyScar I have so many family in most states, I’ not sure where I’ll settle. Maybe in NY.

  541. Lainey says:

    @Kenna Kym looks old around the eyes. DO you know how old she is?

  542. FatB'StardSD says:

    @RussianSB

    I hate to sound like @flyr with his stupid anecdotes but…

    I have met guys who don’t wear a suit to work and make more than most “corporate executives”.

    I understand you are turned off by the dirty fingernails. You are entitled to be attracted to gay male magazine models with manicures :-).

    Have a nice day :-).

  543. LadyScarlett says:

    Oh, gosh, so angry, funnyduddy….so angry…taper down on the steriods.

    @Beth, ah okay, where are you thinking of?

  544. RussianSB says:

    I show profile, because guy here with criminal agenda, or you want your innocent girl go directly to his hands? Morons acting like morons – poof before the date, or write as morons – in rude manner in first letter. I never discriminate by income. Some guys can give half of income to the right girl, and wii be happy to do that, if they are lonely and have no morgage and other responsibilities.if guy has wife and kids, he is not so free financialy.

  545. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    He tried to shame me* also.

  546. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “The hypocrisy is glaring.”

    Indeed. Making fun of men is women’s favorite pastime, and they don’t like it when the tables are turned.

  547. FunDude says:

    @Lady

    Your not a sugar baby either considering your age.

    Your just a big mouth feminist who has done shit with her life.

  548. BethSB says:

    LadyScarlett says:
    April 13, 2015 at 8:54 pm
    @Beth, no..don’t think everyone who posts is, but most are. Are you in UK?
    ……………………………………
    No, I’m in the Caribbean.
    Contemplating an August vacation to the USA.

  549. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Josh- I’m not going to go back to read over the last couple of blogs just to find it. I think it was the run-on sentence girl. You knew you weren’t interested to begin with. She contacted you first. While you knew you weren’t interested you still asked her questions about what kind of allowance she would be seeking. As soon as you told her she wasn’t hot enough for that kind of allowance she started to shame you about inner beauty.

    This guy also contacted me first. I had no interest but messaged him anyway. When I told him I didn’t think he had everything he claimed to have had he tried to shame we also. Saying I was flat, short, a gold digger.

    It’s all the same, but on the other end of the spectrum.

  550. LadyScarlett says:

    “FunDude says:
    April 13, 2015 at 8:51 pm
    @Fat

    The sad thing is that his physique is better than most of the SBs in their 40s and 50s.

    He also probably makes 150K/year more than LadyScarlett plus has a net worth about 2.5 million more than her.”

    And, your point is(even if true)? I am not an SD/ or sugar mommy, hehe….I really don’t think this man is making $50,000, much less $150,000, but hey, just a guess! 😉

  551. LadyScarlett says:

    @Beth, no..don’t think everyone who posts is, but most are. Are you in UK?

  552. FunDude says:

    @Fat

    Notice how its a sport to shit on some dude’s profile by SB’s like LadyScarlett or Russian.

    But I should keep my mouth shut about physique, youth, beauty, etc when it comes to women.

    The hypocrisy is glaring.

  553. RussianSB says:

    Fatty, you are right ! But this women take pictures at public bathrooms :)

  554. FunDude says:

    @Fat

    The sad thing is that his physique is better than most of the SBs in their 40s and 50s.

    He also probably makes 150K/year more than LadyScarlett plus has a net worth about 2.5 million more than her.

  555. LadyScarlett says:

    That is a redneck sugar daddy, dirtylittlsecret…the funniest picture was the chocolate milk glass with dirty fingernails in car….I have seen men like this in real life, I promise. With their big trucks with huge tires and all.

  556. RussianSB says:

    I guess, SA should filter just a little by pictures. He can be not rich SD, in a cheap suit, but at least in a suit ! Shold I make my pic sleepy in pyjamas with Mickey Mouse ?? Very sexy look. But SA will decline it as phedofillle attraction. So, why I shoul see that guy with dirty nails ?

  557. FatB'StardSD says:

    1. That guy is in very good shape compared to most American men of any age.
    2. Most people will never get a $175K/year salary or achieve a $2M net worth.
    3. The guy is not gay/woman so why the fuck would he care about cleaning his bathroom (which is still cleaner than the pigpens that many women live in).
    4. I am not a homo because I am talking about a SD’s profile.

    If this guy is gross then I hate to say it but @FunDude is justified in bashing the blog SB’s…

  558. BethSB says:

    Are all you guys located in the USA?

  559. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Lady- Holy baby cheez-its! That cannot be real life. What part of the US did he say he was from? I didn’t even read his profile.

  560. FunDude says:

    Russian lol

  561. Josh says:

    @DirtyLittleSecret

    “I’ve seen you do the same with girls on here based on what you’ve posted. Don’t give me that crap.”

    Give me an example or two of where I “do the same with girls on here” to see if you are comparing apples with apples?

  562. LadyScarlett says:

    “UncommonSB says:
    April 13, 2015 at 8:32 pm
    @RussianSB I like your directness and sense of humor. Your comments are a refreshing change from the tired old arguments.”

    Oh, she is great…so funny and clever wit. I love my Russian friend because she always has these wise sayings, like RussianSB…

  563. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @FunDude, no need to thank me, just being honest.

  564. RussianSB says:

    FunDude “That dude you linked to has a pretty good physique for a guy in his 50s.Im sure your physique doesn’t hold up compared to his Lady.
    So I wouldn’t be dismissing him so fast lol ” – obviously you are more into guys. Dear child, I am 80 yo, ballerina from Bolshoy, wearing couture and piuuutifil diamonds, I am way too old for you and not affordable. Till my last breath I will have 90 years old sugardaddies to spoil me.

  565. FunDude says:

    @Lady

    He probably has dick pics on viagra. You might be impressed

  566. FunDude says:

    Thanks DLS. You too

  567. LadyScarlett says:

    RussianSB…you got a glimpse of real live redneck SD tonight. I feel like there should be some sort of ‘you might be a SD redneck, Jeff Foxworthy joke…if you take a selfie and your dirty bathroom mirror and baby bathtub are in the background of even dirtier bathroom is your profile pic’

    And yes, I am scared to know what the private pics are…

    See guys, we have the bad apples, too ):

  568. FunDude says:

    I wish I was a rock star

    Fuck medicine or an MBA lol

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eoSFhHAh-vw}}

  569. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    And I* sent him off.

  570. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Josh, he was never perfect. That’s why I never approached him. Curiosity got the better of me so I messaged him back a couple of times before my suspicions were confirmed and o sent him off. :)

    I’ve seen you do the same with girls on here based on what you’ve posted. Don’t give me that crap. 😉

  571. UncommonSB says:

    @RussianSB I like your directness and sense of humor. Your comments are a refreshing change from the tired old arguments.

  572. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    From what I can tell @FunDude is good looking and pretty handsome. If he’s who I think he is, I saw like 3/5 of his face. Handsome.

  573. Josh says:

    @DirtyLittleSecret

    Humans are telling witness against themselves.

    What you wrote to the “douchebag” would come out of your mouth/keyboard when your oh-so-perfect SD turns into a “douchebag” at the time of your choosing.

    And yes, most women will cheer you with “you go girl” because that’s what women think that they must do in these situations.

    You need to learn amicable closure.

  574. RussianSB says:

    LadyScarlett, dude – wife, kids, low income, and he also hope that someone fall with his biseps ? And I am one , who unlogical after that ! He even has private pictures ? I can imagine !

  575. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    I’m almost 30 but I think I’ve held up pretty well for my age. If you take care of your physical appearance then age should be a non-issue.

    @FunDude I don’t think it has to do with the age that @Russian is sensitive about, I think it is more the blanket statements you have made about women of a certain age.

  576. FunDude says:

    That dude you linked to has a pretty good physique for a guy in his 50s.

    Im sure your physique doesn’t hold up compared to his Lady.

    So I wouldn’t be dismissing him so fast lol

    The only issue I have is that he is married and showing his face off on SA to everyone.

  577. BethSB says:

    LadyScarlett says:
    April 13, 2015 at 8:13 pm
    Maybe, I will just this once, though…I think it might be funnydud’s long lost bro-ther…he keeps messaging me, but I hate men that keep their nails and bathrooms so clean :-/

    e05f263d
    …………………………………………….
    I hope that’s not @Fundude, that guys is gross! His bathroom pic says a lot about him and those dirty fingernails.

  578. FunDude says:

    @Lady

    You need to take another class on shaming tactics.

    The small penis stuff has been played out for some time. Go back to “can’t get laid” argument. That is a little less old.

  579. FunDude says:

    Russian, how old are you?

    You appear defensive about age stuff.

  580. LadyScarlett says:

    RussianSB, you really can’t take funnydud’s seriously…I don’t think he is even real…Don’t let it bother you what he says. If he is real, then he might have steroid anger issues, and a little peen :-(

  581. FatB'StardSD says:

    @RussianSB

    “because you place women into goods categories…”

    A SD profile contains a description of Income, Net Worth, and Allowance. Are SB’s here complaining that there is not enough profile fields to describe a SD’s personality? We both know the answer to that question…

    Have a nice day :-).

  582. FunDude says:

    @Lady

    His physique destroys mine.

    Also, he makes about 150K/year more than you’re worth. So I think its a good deal for you.

    @Russian

    Not bitching. Just telling the ladies whats up.

    You don’t like it, tough shit. Men like youth, beauty, “innocence”, education in real subjects, pleasant personality, etc.

  583. RussianSB says:

    Bitching about thing – it is our lame right. No matter equal rights in US – man, bitching about something looks unsexy. You stubborn as mule. I wish you luck in your hard mission !
    On that site there are NO innocent girls, getting weird freaky mails make them cry and run away VERY quickly from the site.

  584. LadyScarlett says:

    Oh yes, funnydud’s..we have a date set up already…chocolate milk, then a tour of his trailer park, hehehe!

    I can’t decide who has the better biceps, though….hmmmm

  585. FunDude says:

    @Lady

    LOL He looks perfect for you.

    I still think he is too high of a level for you.

  586. FunDude says:

    @Russian

    If I keep my age preferences, youth preferences, used goods preferences, etc “secret”, then I expect women to stop yapping about money/assets/ “splenda” daddies, etc.

    Or is it only men who are supposed to keep our preferences to ourselves while women talk a bunch of shit about what they want?

  587. LadyScarlett says:

    Maybe, I will just this once, though…I think it might be funnydud’s long lost bro-ther…he keeps messaging me, but I hate men that keep their nails and bathrooms so clean :-/

    e05f263d

  588. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    ErikTheRed says:
    Focus your energy on the good prospects, and treat them well with all the patience and attentiveness that you can muster. No need to waste energy on helping the losers fine-tune their con games.

    I agree. It just gets frustrating when I politely decline and then all of a sudden he hurls off of these insults to me. I can be a hot-head to those who are disrespectful. I have to learn to laugh it off… Which I normally do. I just had a wild hair tonight.

  589. FunDude says:

    @Russian

    Women look at men as “goods” as well. Women size men up on money, resources, “being generous”, etc.

    Ergo, I can judge women just as aggressively.

    You just don’t like it when men judge women as aggressively as men as judged by women.

    I highly doubt she is banging anyone else. Im pretty good at this stuff. She isn’t experienced sexually, I can tell just from the kissing.

    She would have to be a very good actress lol

  590. LadyScarlett says:

    @dirtylittle, you do not need to post the whole link, just copy the number portion of his profile # above listed, and type that into another SD’s profile already listed…

    Hehe, Russian, I remember that escort guy from last time you were here! He is so creepy…

    I have an even better one, but hate to post profiles on here…

  591. RussianSB says:

    DLS, then just put member number in someone opened profile.

  592. RussianSB says:

    FunDude, because you place women into goods categories, what age and looks your mother ? In which category you will place her, by the way she is woman too, and love to feel attractive . By your posts your insulting 80% of blogging women here automatically.And women very sensetive about such questions.
    I am sorry about your father, and I am sorry that your ex is bitch. And probably, your innocent 23 doing some dude while she is innocent with you (maybe not) . Personally I at 23 think about sex 24/7. The more innocent girl I meet the more suspicios I get – show her to your mom and you will discover plenty interesting things. But, let’s be just a little more polite and tolerant to each other.
    And you get absolutely wright impression about me, exept I am not telling fairytales, the stories I knew, I have nor brain , nor imagination to made up. Fiction must be believable , while truth – not.

    keep your age preferences i your intimate dreams, ok ?

  593. ErikTheRed says:

    Focus your energy on the good prospects, and treat them well with all the patience and attentiveness that you can muster. No need to waste energy on helping the losers fine-tune their con games.

  594. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Link still isn’t working for me. But I’m not good on computers so it’s likely a user error.

  595. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    flyR says:
    @DLS

    I have no idea how SD conduct their conversations but that whole conversation seemed to be a little surrealistic, especially leading with his net worth and income, unless he was counting on that to get a freebee.

    Sort of like offering a lottery ticket. The expected value of $10 of lottery tickets is probably less than $7 but people play every day because they are willing to make bad bets on dreams.

    But DLS why would you care that he blocked you ?

    I assume you revoked the photo permission-
    ————————

    I didn’t care that he blocked me per se, I just found it funny because since he was the phony you’d think he’d wait for me to block him. I suppose he did it to keep some sort of power, who knows?

    I don’t have any provocative and/or bikini pictures in my private file, so it’s no big deal. Plus after you block somebody don’t the privileges get taken away? I’m not sure how all of this works.

    He was definitely trying to get a free ride. He displayed much interest and when he was finally shot down it was when the insults of my being too short and flat to have been good enough for him. Oh, and that I’m a gold digger :) All after he gave me his email asking to send even more pictures and my phone number. What a twat.

    I’m talking to a guy on another island and we are already talking about me island hopping to go see him. He got confused on the dates I would be in Hawaii and asked me to join him in Vegas next week (but I can’t because it’s during my vacation). So he’s seeing if he can throw together something for the second leg of my trip.

    The guy whose conversation I posted is far and few between. I normally have the P2P crap and men who want to send endless messages. But this guy took the cake.

  596. flyR says:

    dls I think you need to bring up your profile and then substitute only the end of the url

  597. FunDude says:

    Im too sexy for my shirt:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39YUXIKrOFk}}

    My ex from NYC called me Right said fred lol

  598. flyR says:

    @DLS

    I have no idea how SD conduct their conversations but that whole conversation seemed to be a little surrealistic, especially leading with his net worth and income, unless he was counting on that to get a freebee.

    Sort of like offering a lottery ticket. The expected value of $10 of lottery tickets is probably less than $7 but people play every day because they are willing to make bad bets on dreams.

    But DLS why would you care that he blocked you ?

    I assume you revoked the photo permission-

  599. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    The link didn’t work @Russian

  600. RussianSB says:

    Or a pimp -www.seekingarrangementDOTcom/member/e091f001
    Because he has big escort business in addition to travel agency.

  601. FunDude says:

    @Russian

    You are getting the wrong impression about me. I am truly a nice person lol

    Why do you think my mom would be upset with me?

  602. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Malpractice lawsuits above my insurance.

    With an irrevocable bypass trust, they are untouchable in the case of a lawsuit. Also 401Ks, etc are off the table.

    Anything that I accumulate outside of a 401K, I am placing into LLCs through Nevada where I will still control the charging order.

  603. RussianSB says:

    About morons. My filters are good, I don’t have my collection yet, not full house in my hands. Damn it. Have nothing to share with you, girls !
    But, it is true , that big money love silence, nobody interested to shout about them. And even if income is veryfied there no guaranty that you run into Mr.Scroodge.

  604. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    I see women sabotaging relationships through both mental and financial stuff.

    My ex had the “honeymoon” phase with me as well for about a year. Then things went downhill.

    She talked tons of shit, attempted to verbally abuse me (even got handsy but I was always able to control her physically very easily so she couldn’t do much), and felt very entitled to my money.

    I don’t get the benefit of this from an evolutionary or relationship perspective. She basically ruined a relationship that was probably her best chance.

    This isn’t to be arrogant but she can’t do better. So why ruin it?

  605. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “The trusts protect me from any malpractice as long as she is alive.”

    Huh! What does that mean?

  606. FunDude says:

    Its not like I had it “easy” in my 20s.

    Had to work hard, study, etc.

    Also, I have more “game” and “experience” in how to interact with women and escalate physicality. I am also in better shape in my 30s than 20s.

  607. Josh says:

    “But, why you spend your time in your brilliant answer? Girls, NEVER do that, they are jerking xxx even from negative responce. You are here not to entertain losers.”

    This is why I love reading @RussianSB’s posts. 😉

  608. FunDude says:

    @Fat

    I am also doing better with women in my 30s than 20s. Having more sex, meeting more women, etc.

    My 20s was medical school and less fun shit. Trying to make it up.

    Wasn’t the frat boy partier in the 20s due to having to actually work hard.

  609. rembodler says:

    Moderation.

    I tried to post back at 3pm and now it is 10.30. If it takes that long to approve posts I think I better let this forum to be populated by SA staff. Which must be most of you – as I doubt anyone will want to wait for a couple of days for their comments to show.
    I hope this long moderation is temporary…If not, I guess it is just SA staff talking to SA staff…for our entertainment.

  610. FunDude says:

    @DLS

    There are a lot of fakes on here. I have spoken about the fakes on the Tumblr page.

    @Fat

    She is 23 y/o NOT 20 y/o. I have kissed her but not banged her yet. She hasn’t been around the block much and I like that. She is very innocent, sweet, etc.

    I am actually dating her rather than an allowance situation.

    I am also going on dates with a 31 y/o RN who is blond and attractive but isn’t of the same caliber as the 23 y/o who has a better personality, maturity, etc.

    @RussianSB

    My mother agrees with my perspective on these issues. I have spoken with her about this in detail. I am close to my mother.

    Why wouldn’t she agree with my perspective? My father has died already. I have joint trusts with her.

    The trusts protect me from any malpractice as long as she is alive.

  611. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    I agree @Russian. I normally don’t have a profile up. Now I remember why :)

  612. RussianSB says:

    DLS, I know you don’t want to hold it inside, but we all should ignore such guys, if not – that site attract so many trolls that there will be no sense to use it.

  613. KeKe says:

    Lol @ Russian… your so funny!

  614. KennaKenna says:

    @DLS

    Hahahahahahaha! I now saw your earlier post, thanks for the laugh.

  615. RussianSB says:

    Fatty, you see, maybe not in direct ways, but FunDude make you work better. Than he make the word better. I don’t care idf he is real, I met in my life rich dumbies too.

  616. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Russian, I normally don’t engage. But this guy was so proud of his fake money that I had to burst his bubble. These guys think that women are stupid, and when they get called on then we somehow become gold diggers… It’s crazy.

  617. RussianSB says:

    @DLS. Moron – is a fate ! Now you know Kavvaian one ! Collection. With such interest to boobs you cannot be successful. But, why you spend your time in your brilliant answer? Girls, NEVER do that, they are jerking xxx even from negative responce. You are here not to entertain losers. Tomorrow you get 10 such letters. Trolls multiply somehow , if you react. Sorry for my french, but it is as it is.

  618. KeKe says:

    @Georgia you are awesome! I can’t imagine your son would be less so.

  619. KeKe says:

    @Russian. Haha. Love it and so true but after a few months he’s grown on me. Sometimes he can be nice. I hate when he starts ranting and I love to look at his gravators. Lol

  620. FatB'StardSA says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    To be fair @FunDude should be enjoying those young attractive girls (assuming he is who he says he is). It is wrong to fault those who can achieve more. We work with what we are given. If I want to be with a pretty 20 year old woman it will cost me an allowance, so it is my goal to make enough money to compete with a @FunDude. Life is not fair…

  621. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KeKe
    Thank you for your kind words. Having been alone after living with my guy for over 25 yrs, I can’t imagine how my Dad is feeling after a marriage of over 63, but we just do the best we can and move on. He is trying, but it’s hard. He’s 86 and being alone at this point in his life wasn’t what he expected either. I am a proud daughter in that I can help him, even in small ways. I call him every evening and drive the 8 hrs. each way to visit him, about every 6 wks. It’s not easy, but he and my Mom made a lot of sacrifices for me. It’s only right that as his daughter, I do what I can now for him. My hope and prayer is that I raised my son to be as good a son to me as my parents taught me. LOL. Thanks again.

  622. KeKe says:

    Lmao @DLS.. the can of alphabet soup bit.. Hilarious!

  623. RussianSB says:

    He can dislike, but pay a little respect. Everybody not 20 are old hague and worthless. I cannot even answer in the same manner – that younger easy women shoose unsecure men etc. Not polite, not fair to SDs who have grate yong SBs.
    And, when everything tip-top in your life , you love everybody and generouse to everybody. He definately have no reason to bitch about. I don’t take it personal , guys, really. Just Fatty looks nice and soft next to him. We all anonimous here, that is not reason to be jerks. I never respect trolling people. They live among us, hiding, pretend to be normal to poor their poison in the web hiding by anonimous status. Such people live very well in Stalin era.

  624. KennaKenna says:

    This Kym girl on Dancing with the Stars played her cards right and struck gold with Robert Herjavec, she looks really into him to.

  625. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Kenna, good idea! I would’ve never thought to say my friend just left or that she stood me up. Thanks! :)

  626. KeKe says:

    Lmao @Fat! He’s fighting the fight for SD’s everywhere.

    @Russian..never had any desire to read them.

  627. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Yes I got a little mean in the end there, but COME THE FUCK ON!

    What a douchebag. Then he blocked me. LOL.

  628. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Okay- I just have to share this. I’ve seen @Josh share some of his back and forth with SB, well, this is the other side of the coin. This is what SBs have to deal with.

    This guy was the person whom I was speaking with earlier. 35, claims to have a PhD, worth 50M, and makes 1M annually:

    SD: Request to view your private photos.

    SB: I’ve just given you access to my private photos, go to my profile to view them.

    SB: I’m going to warn you, while I’m skinny, I am in no way athletic nor do I love to work out :)

    SD: Do you like orgasmic energetic cardio vascular stimulating sex!? Aloha! M***

    SB: If you’re asking if I’m a deadfish- The answer would be no :)

    SB: So if you mind my asking, how did you acquire such a large sum at such a young age? I’ve known men in their forties and they have amazing jobs and haven’t been able to achieve as much success (but are still very successful). [*This was to see how he would respond, as I was already suspicious of what he claimed to be his income/worth*]

    SD: Because I have the body and looks that God gave me and the brains, discipline, pragmatiscim and work ethic. I used what I had and by age 22 I had earned my first million. Anything else you need to ask me in bed! Aloha,

    SB: Well if I’ll be in (this island) and you’re going to be in (that island), how do you propose I get into this said bed?

    SD: Until I know your worth it…you could always use a canoe or paddle board! lol Email me with pictures and tell me all about yourself with your cell number to: [email address] Mahalo, M****

    SB: Aww, that is cute. I already know I’m worth it. However, a man in his mid-30’s, with a PhD, worth 50M but can’t tell the difference between “you’re” and “your” raises many red flags for me. Thank you for your time :) I hope you have a nice day. Aloha!

    SD: Everyone from time makes mistakes even you. The only one that was perfect was our savior Jesus Christ! That said you should of figured out I was not interested in you. For starters you do not have big boobs and your too short. Then your 100% a gold digger. So that was a giant red flag for me. Hence my lack of interest. Best of luck and be safe always. God Bless you. Aloha!

    SB: That said you should have*** figured out I was not interested in you. For starters you do not have big boobs and you’re*** too short. Then you’re*** 100% a gold digger. So that was a giant red flag for me. Hence,*** my lack of interest.
    ———————-
    Darling, I would be hard pressed to be convinced that somebody of your intelligence was a self-made millionaire by the time he was 22. Especially while going to school and working on that PhD. Now, if you had said that you inherited the money, I would’ve believed you, because you don’t have to be smart to inherit family money.
    But being 35, worth 50M, can’t tell the difference between “you’re” and “your” or “should have?” That is some hillbilly shit right there.
    I looked at your profile. I didn’t favorite you. I didn’t message you. I didn’t ask to see more pictures. You made first contact. So your thinking the interest was not coming from you is a bit delusional. Kind of like how you make 1M annually, are worth 50M, and have a PhD. All delusions. I really hope you stay on your meds.
    And any one with peanuts for brains would have looked at my public profile pictures, saw I was small breasted, read that I was too short, and wouldn’t have contacted me asking for more pictures. You are a big phony, and sorry I figured that out. Your facade may work on that little island you live on, but I’m in the real world.
    I can eat a can of alphabet soup and shit out a more comprehensible sentence than the gibberish you’ve written. Thank you for blessing me with your Jesus stuff. I sure hope he doesn’t send you to hell for having pre-marital sex. That would suck. Have a great day!

  629. KennaKenna says:

    @Erik

    good idea!

  630. KennaKenna says:

    @DLS all I can say about IRL is don’t appear to be there looking. Presentation has alot to do with it, dress conservatively but still sexy and when asked why you’re there alone, say something like “your friend stood you up or she just left.”

    It’s funny, I have never reallyy looked IRL but was just approached, often in high-end bars or even the Whole Foods.

  631. FatB'StardSA says:

    @RussianSB

    “He is young, phisicly fit, successful, doing 20 yo (and without allowance !!!) – he MUST be quite happy creature.”

    @FunDude should be living a lifestyle most men cannot imagine. Perhaps he is fighting for those ugly men who never had success with women, much like Ghandi fought for the poor in India. I would be too busy enjoying a dream life if our positions were reversed to worry about feminism or BBW but @FunDude is follows a higher calling…

  632. RussianSB says:

    I mean, I did read 3 books.

  633. RussianSB says:

    It is good fiction story. But not life.

  634. KeKe says:

    @Russian same here. I’ve been cracking up reading the commentary here. Couldn’t really post. I was busy at work. I love your observation about FunDude. I don’t know why he dislikes my age group so much. I think I’m pretty awesome! . Lol

  635. KeKe says:

    @Russian… I could see that. But I think he liked the thought of corrupting Anastasia. Lol

  636. RussianSB says:

    Nice to meet you Keke!

  637. KeKe says:

    @Georgia Good evening! I haven’t really been on long enough to tell you how sorry I am to hear how poorly your dad is doing without your mom. You are a wonderful daughter taking care of him like you do…*Hug*

  638. RussianSB says:

    Those beauties in his office. Reasons – he spend all time at work, building a company. Emotions – they look perfect, and masters prefer perfect looks. He is oversmart his own age, so girls in 20 not interesting already. Maybe even older 5 years to be equel. Anastasia have a heart ! As if other people arround don’t !

  639. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @RussianSB
    I do like you. You are quite smart and clever. I’ve been wondering if Dr. FunDude had a mother also. LOL. He sure seems to enjoy those females of a young age. He must be quite the dominate kind of guy with the ego and smarts to go with it. LOL

  640. KeKe says:

    @Russian. .. Oops. Hi RussianSB. I’m new here. Nice to meet you !

  641. KeKe says:

    @Russian…who do you think gets Mr. Grey?

  642. KeKe says:

    @DLS..getting some strange. Lol..I almost choked on my coffee this morning, reading that. Lol

  643. RussianSB says:

    Josh, subs ? Oh, at last, we start to discuss 50 shades of Gray ! Our yong , gymnastic friend should know that in real world that skinny 20 yo girl never get Mr.Gray. Another cindarella story.

  644. KeKe says:

    It is surprisingly easy to do your own dissolution of marriage if everyone is in agreement. :-) #DoingItMyself

  645. RussianSB says:

    You know, fatty, you just play Dr.Evil, but he has issue. That is the difference.

  646. RussianSB says:

    He is not fun at all. Maybe he having fun.

  647. RussianSB says:

    Fatty, I figure it out from the blog – you say girls here feministic ? But my friends will give more poisonous remarks about everything. I am myself not very nice person, and I know my reasons to bith about. But, I still don’t understand why FunDude hate older women so much and write such ugly things about, does he ever has a mother ? He is young, phisicly fit, successful, doing 20 yo (and without allowance !!!) – he MUST be quite happy creature.
    Maybe his generation of men generally more agressive ?

  648. Josh says:

    It’s more like ungrateful bitches and grateful subs.

  649. RussianSB says:

    Josh. Let’s divide women into ungrateful bitches and grateful bitches ?

  650. FatB'StardSA says:

    @FunDude

    Very attractive women (such as RussianSB) are a global commodity and have the same mentality/attitude no matter what part of the world you look at. I don’t think RussianSB appreciates the situation of the ugly to attractive Russian woman.

    @RussianSB

    “Western girls more honest and open in relationship, while Russian girls can play games endless and be exquisite drama Queens”

    How many women have you dated to reach this conclusion? :-).

  651. RussianSB says:

    Verrrry romantic, but not very smart.

  652. RussianSB says:

    I mean, Russian girls – live their contry, carreers, seel appartments (sometimes) for situation where they are not citizens (it takes 5-10 years and everything can happens in between), have no job etc.

  653. Rob Taylor says:

    @Fundude I have to disagree with the POF vs SA comparison. I am in my late 20’s
    good looking get hit on at bars frequently,and I have no problem with allowances. The difference between POF and SA girls are time and convenience. Yes can I get a girl POF,yeah it might take me a week. On SA I can have two girls(not together) bent over my couch in 48 hours. SA girls typically just want a M&G,and Im young so half the time they skipped that because they feel more comfortable. POF girlstypically want to have drinks and dinner before hand,which can run along time.

    On PoF there is more competition so the girls at the 8-10 range have guys who are
    just as good looking hitting on them.

    POF girls tend to want to stay overnight and then text back and forth afterwards SA girls are not as high maintenance. SA girls leave when I want them to and I can go back to playing X box or watch Netflix. The allowance is substitute for the time and convenience relative to a civy girl that I meet at a bar or on POF/Okcupid. NSA in the real world is alot more un predictable than the sugar bowl.

    This is my logic as a good looking young guy to utilize the bowl. I typically only do the sugar daddy thing during the winter,because I dont like going out in the cold. In the summer Im out with friends so it looses its cost benefit.

  654. RussianSB says:

    Erik, exactly. It is not about to be pushy or demanding, but a little bit wise.

  655. ErikTheRed says:

    Good for you Kenna. Keep a journal of these happy thoughts. Reading them many years from now will help overcoming inevitable difficult phases at that time.

  656. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Kenna, obviously you’ve had success in the sugar world. I wanted to see you if you could give me advice on how to meet a SD IRL without coming off as desperate or a hooker.

    I know hotel lounges are an option but I don’t want to go alone. And being from a beach town EVERYBODY dresses pretty casually. So it’s hard to find a POT based solely on his looks.

    Any ideas?

  657. Josh says:

    @KennaKenna

    Many women are ungrateful bitches who drive pleasure in raping their man’s mind and wallet. When you respect your man AND his wallet, both are putty in your hands. He is not taking that money to grave. It’s either yours or your children’s.

    So keep him happy, and he will reciprocate in kind many times over.

  658. KennaKenna says:

    I hope this “honeymoon” phase never ends. This is truly the happiest I’ve ever been in life.

  659. ErikTheRed says:

    Exactly, Russian, when playing games at that level, one has to set aside silly notions of romance and drama that are more appropriate for the proletariat and middle class. The European Royals never married for romance per se before they became figureheads living off pensions. There were more important business at hand!

  660. KennaKenna says:

    @josh

    Yesterday, I was on Rodeo drive browsing and a purse caught my eye. I went into the shop, checked the price and was like “I like it but I don’t love it, I will probably use it 3 times this summer and then it’ll sit in my closet until next year(and they’ll be more purses then). He was insisting that I get it and I said “No, it’s okay- I don’t really want it” but him insisting made me wonder if I was sabotaging.

    Anyways this morning he told me you’re a cheaper fiance than SB, we started laughing in unison.

  661. RussianSB says:

    Josh, and Kenna. My friend was married to american golden boy from very good family, she been in sweet phase too, love etc. In addition mother-in-law gave her bentley as a wedding present ( I am not joking ). But , when my friend get pregnant, she spend time and 150$ to get a little consultation in which country she better give childbirth. They still happily in marriage. She was 30 and he 35 when they get married. Maybe my life is not over yet ? :)

  662. RussianSB says:

    Erik, not going into intimate details, let’s say Mrs.Putin very interested herself in divorce. But it is the biggest sugar gesture of the century – to give you girl the Olimpics !

  663. Josh says:

    @RussianSB

    @KennaKenna is in the honeymoon phase of her relationship. Nothing goes wrong in this phase. Shit will go down as soon as she starts her sabotage in the near or distant future.

  664. KennaKenna says:

    @Russian

    I’m not that close to her, but she calls me and tells me everything. Her man is my man’s friend of 20+ years. He went to both of his weddings lol and said he saw this coming even before they were married because his friend is an ahole and serial cheater- always chasing a younger one (or two.)

  665. Josh says:

    @DirtyLittleSecret

    You’re fine. Try to at least put a show of caring genuinely for your SDs and you would be fine.

  666. ErikTheRed says:

    Fundamental* not “fun dental”

  667. RussianSB says:

    Kenna, poor girl, I guess that you are sick and tired with details of this divorce.

  668. Josh says:

    Men oscillate between dumb and dumber. They either marry a worthless bimbo, or make her jobless in order to “raise family”. Shit goes down from there…

    Prenups must be air-tight, water-tight, shit-tight, etc., etc., etc.

  669. ErikTheRed says:

    Russia has less millionaires than the US, however, the percentage of youthful millionaires among millionaires may well be higher in Russia than in the US. Russia has experienced massive reorganization in the past 1/4 century due to fun dental changes in ownership of productive assets: two waves of oligarchs have come and gone. Creative destruction, it’s like the high tech industry in the US, except that is the case for almost every industry in Russia. It takes decades to amass fortune in most industries due to existing competition reducing profit margin; whereas in high tech and in Russia, creative destruction taking advantage of temporary lack of competition can make immense profit in just a few years!

    I don’t think Putin is treating his ex-wife poorly. I’m sure she is well taken care of. In fact, it is probably in the ex-wife ‘ s interest and that of her children that Putin is kept productive and properly fed on oxytocin (hormone produced during sex and orgasm), by the new gymnast girlfriend/fiance or by anyone else for that matter. Life would be much more difficult and more dangerous for the ex-wife if Vlad loses his touch and is toppled.

  670. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    You’d be surprised to know how many prenups don’t stand up in court.

  671. RussianSB says:

    Josh, I hope Guru is in better world, than blog !

  672. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    I was scared to put up my profile because I’ve seen y’all pick apart other girls on here before. Seriously… That is insanely scary.

    Since that didn’t happen, I’m going to guess my profile is fine.

    Although I haven’t gotten more than maybe 20 messages from different men on different islands. Most of which have been men playing games and probably just trying to get nude pictures out of me. I have met a few sincere sounding ones. But my profile hasn’t even been activated for 24 hours…. I need to calm my tits.

    I had this guy who said he is in his mid 30’s with a PhD, worth 50M, makes 1M annually, and can’t tell the difference between “you’re” and “your.” RED FLAGS EVERYWHERE!

  673. KennaKenna says:

    @RussianSB

    I know it can’t include child support/custody issues but you can say things like if she mothers 2 children, she will get this much more, etc or she will get house, etc(that’s what I meant by spell out).

  674. RussianSB says:

    Kenna, you should know in your position (end even have one hour consultation with attorney about your future), that pren up agreement never include kids.
    In any place.

  675. Josh says:

    @RussianSB

    I miss @SD Guru as well. I learnt a lot from him. I don’t know where he is now. :(

  676. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    Unless you spell out what exactly will happen with regards to kind in prenup, judge laughs at in in NYC(well that’s what my man told me.)

  677. FunDude says:

    @Russia

    Western women are more worthless than Russian women on average.

    The laws in the West are too biased against men that you have tons of fatty Western women claiming to be fabulous and demanding respect.

    Russian women at least are usually good looking, thin and feminine.

    I see tons of fat women in their 20s that are built like dykes

  678. RussianSB says:

    @Georgia, actually, all FunDude find out about Russia in the web is true. I am very surprised, because we have real informational war with western media last year. I live in very competitive local world, which make my senses even more sharp. By his logic, foreign men are “more easy” for me , same as 20 year olds for him. However, to attract Russian girl, you still need put a lot of efforts, those “misterious Russian soul”. Western girls more honest and open in relationship, while Russian girls can play games endless and be exquisite drama Queens. Problem is that they don’t read the article and don’t know, that in Russia 1 man:1billion women ratio :)

  679. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    So its her blackmailing him by threatening to leave with the kid to Russia. That isn’t the prenup issue though. That appears to have held well.

    Better to have the prenup.

  680. FunDude says:

    No problem fatty.

    Just don’t get the logic of her arguments. Trying to understand them.

    She appears to be a more traditional gold digger, which is a good thing compared to American women who are gold diggers of the feminist variety.

    All women are basically gold diggers with the feminist variety being far more toxic.

  681. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    Yes, alimony is temporary and child support will be issue but she is Stay at Home Mom who has never really worked a job. She is now used to a certain lifestyle because of him and told judge she cannot afford to live here comfortably on her own and with what was offered so she will move back to Russia.

    Of course she knows he doesn’t want this because they have a child together so he is forced to give her much more so that she can stay in NYC living comfortably.

  682. FatB'StardSA says:

    @FunDude

    No hard feelings…

    I realize you are a future MBA graduate and the urge to explain things to others who who do not need your help is overpowering.

    Have a nice day :-)

  683. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    How is a prenup pointless. It still protects the assets from before the marriage.

    Alimony should be temporary depending on the length of the marriage. Child support will be the only long term issue for him.

  684. FatB'StardSA says:

    @FunDude

    I am somewhat familiar with the conditions in Russia…

    @RussianSB

    “Fatty, I live in a more fair world. Russian women told to be beautiful. And Russian men – they are cool, but they all look the same, European boys are sweet as candy compare to Russians. So, to attract women they need to be super rich or super entertaining, or both.”

    You are an exception RussianSB, and out of my reach! A man has to know his limitations so I will leave the Russian super models for the sweet European boys…the other Russian women are more than happy to to be with someone who is far from super rich or super entertaining!

    Have a nice day :-).

  685. FunDude says:

    @Russian

    Can show it to whoever you want. Look at Vladimir Putin and all the rich oligarchs. They literally have harams of younger women on tap.

    Vlad just gave the boot to his wife for a model 30 years younger.

  686. KennaKenna says:

    I’ve always been intrigued by the Russians(many Russian women here), NYC men love them and some will only date Russian women,no other Europeans.

    My man has a good friend like that, he is now going through second divorce with Russian- she is taking him to cleaners and back! He had a prenup but in NYC it’s kinda pointless when you start involving kids and she is Stay at Home Mom.

  687. RussianSB says:

    But, FunDude, you did your homework well, now you know about Russia much more, than you knew yeaterday ! Well done !

  688. FunDude says:

    Russian women are superior to American women in many ways. Superiority is usually due to:

    1) Both societies are full of Gold Diggers but Russian women actually think they need to reciprocate for the Gold. They are more feminine, thinner, cook, etc.

    2) Russia patriarchal society vs Feminism being dominate in the Western world

    3) Excess of Russian Women compared to Men force women to be that much nicer because they have to compete for far fewer men.

  689. RussianSB says:

    Thank you ! I will show that to lonely (5 years) rich friend of mine to poison his life completely!
    “The men largely have the power in the relationships. Rich Men can buy multiple younger attractive Russian women easily.”

  690. KennaKenna says:

    Hey everyone!

    @Russian is that you in your gravatar?

  691. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Her perspective needs to be placed in the real world. If her tales compare favorably to the actual conditions in Russia, then I will listen to her stories.

    If they contradict the reality on the ground according to most sources, then I have to question some of her stories.

    @Promise

    Don’t be worried. Be happy like me lol

  692. RussianSB says:

    Fatty, I live in a more fair world. Russian women told to be beautiful. And Russian men – they are cool, but they all look the same, European boys are sweet as candy compare to Russians. So, to attract women they need to be super rich or super entertaining, or both.

  693. Promise says:

    @FunDude You’re both making me worry. :S

  694. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Dr FunDude
    You know we all, for the most part anyway, love you Sweetie. You are a handsome, dashing, smart guy. However, I doubt there is one among us who cannot google the same info you are. So enough already. I am enjoying the tales of Russia from Ms. Russian SB and find it quite fascinating to learn things from HER perspective. So, please my new blonde SB friend from Russia, please… continue. I want to learn more about you and your life there. And Dr FunDude, please tolerate this and perhaps find a few weights to lift or a treadmill to jog for a bit. 😉

  695. FunDude says:

    @Fat

    In Russia, it is worse for the women. They are at a major disadvantage due to lack of feminism, lack of men (10 million more women) and lack of rich men compared to the USA.

    The men largely have the power in the relationships.

    Rich Men can buy multiple younger attractive Russian women easily.

  696. FunDude says:

    The article clearly stated those were single women going to the clubs.

    Also, Russian men are routinely trading in their older female models for younger models.

    Putin just did it. Most of the billionaires do.

  697. RussianSB says:

    In big cities men-escorts are always more popular than women-escorts. Women in business making money, or their men making money, + gey. You can google that as well.

  698. FatB'StardSA says:

    @RussianSB

    “But, dear, there always must be allowance, no matter if you fat or skinny, smart or not..”

    I would love to think this is true…in my limited experience an allowance is primarily a tax on the older, ugly man and a subsidy provided to the younger more attractive man with the attractive woman playing the role of the government.

    You live in a different society, where the men are happier in their relationships with women!

    Have a nice day :-).

  699. FunDude says:

    @Promise

    Im always nice.

    I just factually win my arguments. In fact, there is no contest.

  700. RussianSB says:

    We have, at least 5 clubs like that. So, what. First, those woman marrying smart men, and THEN have a little fun.

  701. FunDude says:

    Another interesting quote refuting RussianSBs claim about fit men: “Some rich women are attempting a ­fightback. A new night club, Marusia, in central Moscow, has fast become a fashionable spot for women with money to search for good looking young men who can show them some tender care. Women pay between $300 to $2,000 and more to spend time with fit and handsome men to show them attention and, perhaps, love.”

  702. RussianSB says:

    Let’s call it FunDude mantra, 50 times a day he repeat that and it works. My fun days are over – I should be at cemetry. No sugar for me ! 20 yo more easy – what a grate news ! 18 yo even more easy… and what ? No, girls, we looking for men , that avoid easy ways, who ready to meet obstacles ! Right ?

  703. FunDude says:

    Also, there is an excess of 10 million Russian women compared to Russia men.

    Ergo, the sugar dating market is far tougher in Russia than USA.

  704. Promise says:

    Are you guys being nice?

  705. FunDude says:

    Great article coming out of Newsweek from last year concerning Russian dating market. Notice how the rich men are trading in women for much younger models due to the lack of suitable candidates among Russian men for women.

    {{http://www.newsweek.com/2014/11/07/russian-women-bemoan-lack-men-and-their-money-280696.html}}

  706. FunDude says:

    @Fat

    Maybe in Moscow there are extra billionaires/millionaires but throughout Russia the numbers are dismal.

    Furthermore, billionaires/millionaires in Russia are FAR MORE youth obsessed because they can be.

    There are huge age gradients between men and women.

    Russians will start looking at a woman as over the hill by 30.

  707. RussianSB says:

    And, yes, Fatty, real hot men always get laid. But they are only 0.0000069%, of population – so they are not competitive group.

  708. LadyScarlett says:

    ‘I am in shock, when man of 50 , write in profile “I am new to it “. Really ? Clinical case. Live whole life and never ever support anyone.’

    that is so true….

  709. RussianSB says:

    Sometimes even allowance doesn’t help :)

  710. FunDude says:

    Study out of Cornell proving there is a 2 to 1 bias in the favor of women for STEM positions:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=396&v=5f6rQfpd68o}}

  711. RussianSB says:

    Fatty, if she is student, she will leave him in a month !

  712. RussianSB says:

    But, dear, there always must be allowance, no matter if you fat or skinny, smart or not – as sign of good will and illusion of serious intentions. I am in shock, when man of 50 , write in profile “I am new to it “. Really ? Clinical case. Live whole life and never ever support anyone. Women, kids, not-very-smart members of family ? Real man work all his life and pay the bills, pay the bills and work. Idlers and loafers work out in gyms. But if you are man, you will pay for escorts, misstresses, wifes, because nothing is for free in this world.

  713. FatB'StardSA says:

    @FunDude,

    Have you ever been to Moscow or St. Petersburg?

    I can already guess what the answer to my question is…

  714. FunDude says:

    LOL Ladyscarlett calling out Josh being a big mouth on this blog but having no balls in real life.

    Is this true Josh?

  715. FunDude says:

    @Russian

    So you are arguing there are many 30 year old really rich men in Russia?

    Considering Russia has far fewer millionaires than American, how is that possible?

  716. FatB'StardSA says:

    @RussianSB

    “Man should be entertaining in breakes between sex, who need those gym-addicts ?”

    I have found that a woman’s romantic ideals are often at odds with her real pursuits. If what you wrote was true then I would never need to provide an allowance!

    Empirical evidence cannot be ignored!

    Хорошего дня :-).

  717. LadyScarlett says:

    ‘DirtyLittleSecret says:
    April 13, 2015 at 3:55 pm
    @Josh, oh stop, it was not meant to be a dig at you. You can be a little harsh in your delivery, that’s all. I’m more thick-skinned so I could be better able to handle your “style.” I’m just saying, by their response, they’re not used to being spoken to the way you speak with them.’

    Technically, he never ‘speaks’ to anyone, since I seriously doubt Josh ‘speaks’ to anyone the way he does on blog, in the real world, as there would be real life consequences… If he types he is a guru or ‘uber blogger’ enough, then it must be true..of course, ehehehe 😉

  718. RussianSB says:

    I don’t want to hurt your feelings, Josh, but I am very very very curious.

  719. RussianSB says:

    I mean , he still has his human half :) Josh – read in Moscow papers that you cut Spisey into spagetti ? Everything cannot be true … especially in papers… what is your version ?

  720. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @GA, this blog is interesting for sure. I already told @Josh while I don’t like his delivery, I agree with most of what he says. He yelled at me anyway :( Haha JK.

  721. RussianSB says:

    Josh was very sweet guy, it is blog turn him into monster. He will be gentle, if you ask him.

  722. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @DLS
    Hi there!
    I’m about 20 miles west of ATL, near Douglasville area, just off I-20.
    I’m the “older” one here. Very little to none, sugar for me. But I’m just here enjoying the conversation. LOL. It’s interesting to me to hear about the SA life, SB’s, SD’s etc and it’s been quite an education for me. I was just in Buckhead this aftrn. I had an appointment in that area an on Tuesdays, I work all day for a client (a business/law office client) in Decatur. LOL Yes, the Guru does have a mouth sometimes, but he means well and he’s smart as a whip about SA things. His advice is most of the time, right on target.

  723. RussianSB says:

    Thank you , GeorgiaPeach ! Josh is Guru ? What you did with old Guru, guys ?
    He is in Tibet, or in heaven ? Or finally married. WHAT YOU DO WITH MY GURU ?!

  724. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Josh, oh stop, it was not meant to be a dig at you. You can be a little harsh in your delivery, that’s all. I’m more thick-skinned so I could be better able to handle your “style.” I’m just saying, by their response, they’re not used to being spoken to the way you speak with them.

  725. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Buckhead*

  726. Josh says:

    @DirtyLittleSecret

    “meaning you have little tact sometimes when you want to get your point across”

    What made you ass-u-me that my style has “little tact”? It is very possible that your cognitive skills are currently lacking, however.

    Every Guru has his style. Appreciate it or loath it. You are under the protection of the First Amendment, so is this Guru. 😉

  727. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Georgia- Which part are you from? I loved in Bulkhead and Sandy Springs for a few years.
    How’s the sugar out there?

  728. Josh says:

    @Guru likes @RussianSB. 😉

  729. rembodler says:

    test

  730. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @DrFunDude
    I agree with Sir Guru Josh
    Ms. RussianSB is HOT, Smart and living in her own world of Russia. I suspect she knows exactly what she has to deal with and how to handle her own SD’s there. Be a love and hush. We all know you really want me anyway. 😉

  731. RussianSB says:

    So many main pics on SA of boys showing their six packs. What they want ? Discount ? Helloooo , it is all about allowances here. I doubt their brain abilities and success in business after such pictures VERY MUCH. I guess they send their body shots to escorts as well :). So, Fatty, don’t worry, we will charge those idiots properly, the same as you :)

  732. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Oh no, get your popcorn ready! I think there may be a rumble between @Russian and @FunDude.

  733. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Josh- Do you have any input on my profile? Even though you can be a dick (meaning you have little tact sometimes when you want to get your point across), I do agree with a lot of what you say. Even though I don’t necessarily like the way you say it 😉

    You’ve never done it personally to me, but sometimes I cringe when you say things to certain bloggers. Hahaha. It burns.

  734. RussianSB says:

    But you smarter ! You know what “place under the sun” mean. I suspect “A place in the sun” and “Desire under the elmes” you common too. Man should be entertaining in breakes between sex, who need those gym-addicts ?

  735. Josh says:

    @FunDude, you might want to cool it with @RussianSB.

    Her posts are a lot more nuanced than the batshit bloggers.

  736. FatB'StardSA says:

    @RussianSB

    “Fatty, I thought you were run by bus…”

    When you have as much mass as I do it is not a problem!

    [\img\]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o3SDZ9Gz-KE&t=1m30s[\img\]

    “Fatty, FunDude stole a lot attention from you. What you going to do with that ?”

    Women always say they want a nice fat guy like me but as soon as an asshole with biceps or a six pack shows up I become invisible! I will just have to give a bigger allowance :-(.

    Have a nice day :-).

  737. RussianSB says:

    @ Promice, do you think I can call “fatty” and wish that bus run him over SOMEONE I know only for 5 minutes. No, I am a good person !

  738. RussianSB says:

    DarkHorse, you will not believe ! Last 10 years people date through internet mostly, from serious relationship to escort search. So, we have already generation of couples with kids “!” , who met over internet. We have no choise anymore – to use internet for dating or not. You are in the game, or out !

  739. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Promise “Fatty?”
    Honey, she’s talking about the “FatB’StardSA” – they apparently have known each other for a while.

  740. RussianSB says:

    Of course, I am old fun of yours, Fatty.

  741. DarkHorseSD says:

    They still have Skype in Moscow? Where is Hangouts?

  742. RussianSB says:

    Fatty, FunDude stole a lot attention from you. What you going to do with that ?

  743. RussianSB says:

    Are you kidding – never lose your time, reading my posts, English not my native language. It is for someone who can read behind the lines, because lines are no good enough for reading.

  744. FunDude says:

    Russian dunno what the gibberish even means lol

  745. Promise says:

    Fatty?

  746. RussianSB says:

    Fatty, I thought you were run by bus, if I not see your comments ! Have a nice day, my love !

  747. RussianSB says:

    Why I need their wealth – they not going to give me yacht for birthday present. Of course, it is nice when your SD win place in society and under the sun, but I am in shadow. And we dance arround 5 per month :)

  748. FunDude says:

    @Russian

    Yeah guys with a good amount of money who are from 35 to 40 will “pay” for a 22 y/o supermodel. Thats about it.

    its illogical for younger, richer men to pay a big allowance unless the female is very special.

  749. RussianSB says:

    Your logic = popular opinion , that only old , fat, disgusting men pay. Of course they do. But there are plenty of cute, handsome and young SDs, and they also pay. The same allowance.

  750. RussianSB says:

    Ok, 30-35 range. 50-60 not so into internet – seating in luxury offices with sigars and old scotch, while secretary do paperwork. Never see any computer or tablet in such offices. They also not iPhone addicts.
    And I have no logic – I am blond ! But you can find plenty profiles of 35-38 men on SA.

  751. FunDude says:

    @Russian

    That is illogical that men in their 30s have as much as men in their 50s and 60s.

    Everywhere in the world, there are far more rich men in older cohorts due to the time it takes to build wealth.

  752. RussianSB says:

    FunDude, in my city, 30 y.o. boys more active in dating and generous. If you smart AND in world capital you will have everything at 30 or never will raise from your knees :)

  753. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    I prefer men in their 40’s. Always have since before I was sugaring. Dated my first 40+ when I was 24. Daddy issues, me thinks.

  754. FunDude says:

    @Russian

    Your logic is horrible. Men get more “difficult” as they get older but also are PAYING FOR THE SUGAR BABIES.

    Ergo, you have to deal with them because they are paying the money.

    When you pay for men, then you can talk.

  755. FatB'StardSA says:

    @RussianSB

    I would love to show you my penis in a Skype session. I can even make it look big for you with the appropriate lens. Let me have your contact information!

    P.S.

    You should have married that 30 year old IT wizard when you where in your 20’s!

    Have a nice day :-).

  756. RussianSB says:

    That’s true, men never lie about kids. But lie about age and height – same as women. Why ?

  757. RussianSB says:

    Cut+surgeon. If that combination, I think twice !

  758. RussianSB says:

    Dirty, he is a maniac ! Fraid will agree ! Diamonds can be “polished ” :)

  759. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @ONSD- Really? I thought it was clever and funny. Interesting 😉

  760. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @DLS – Damn girl…VERY NICE 😉

    My only input on text…get rid of the “I will also cut you” from the diamond reference…someone might take that literally and be put off by it 😉

  761. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Russian – I think I’ve gotten better at weeding out the fakes early on in the emails…like the one I talked to Josh about earlier today. I was thinking she might be a good referral to another Midwest SD that was struggling like @Dazed…but she turned out to be batshit crazy within the first handful of messages!

    Oh…for SBs…if you put “0” in the Kids section, don’t start talking about your kids in messages immediately…if you put “Single” in status, don’t start talking about bf,hubby,so,whatever…

    Nothing worse than thinking things could be easy to coordinate and then roadblocks jump up everywhere…not encouraging AT ALL!

  762. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    [https://www.seekingarrangementDOTcom/memberBACKSLASHe12985fc/view]

    Tell me what you guys think. I’ll likely only have it until my pending trip. Then I assume it will be deactivated again.

  763. RussianSB says:

    So, what, if I will see someone penis at skype , when I was upgrate to see someone face – I will survive somehow. Not been so lucky yet ! And why ?!!!

  764. RussianSB says:

    OnlineNewbieSD – my sincere congratiulation on finding SB in that mess. And who told it will be easy ? Web dating attract so many virtuals, who stoling our time and attention, that I offer to Skype immediately – to check that it is someone real behind the text. Bloggers, who remember “old times”, know that I was against skype sessions in the begining. But, now , I don’t want share my e-mail and phone number with fake personas.

  765. Promise says:

    @Josh earlier she said something about you needing counseling to be more relatable to women. Pink, or beige

  766. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Russian – I was having such a hard time finding someone @Sexy offered to start filtering for me and setting up the first meets…then @ATL mentioned trying to meet IRL and the benefactor card concept was born…while doing that twice, I saw enough profiles that interested me on SA I set up a couple of coffees and met “student”…I’m now a HAPPY SD!

  767. RussianSB says:

    I have the same problem, as you guys. Men in 50 not so easy as men in 40. And men in 40 not as easy as men in 30. The older they get, the more sassy biotch they turn into. Previous marriges, fooled by women many times before, bitching about ex-wife etc. So, ideal SD is 30 y.o. IT genius.

  768. RussianSB says:

    OnlineNewbieSD – you are my pride ! I hope on first date you send representative , not going yourself ?
    That’s not rally a joke – some serious people have assistant – to do the search and first filtering interwiev.

  769. RussianSB says:

    DarkHorse, if everything so bad … you can buy 20y.o. virgin in Somali for ever for 20$. And she will be very easy – FunDude !

  770. DarkHorseSD says:

    Trust that your phone is smarter than you where applicable.

  771. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Russian – every email I have attached to this site is a discreet email address…nothing connecting to my “real” life…even my ‘real’ profile is using an email address that is strictly for my sugar life…

  772. Josh says:

    @Promise

    “@flyr I can try relating to Josh, and I’m a woman.”

    What does that mean?

    “@Josh Thank You for the advice earlier.”

    YW. Keep learning.

    “What’s your favorite color?”

    What do you expect it to be?

  773. FunDude says:

    @Russian

    Those were my observations from the sample population of women. The women in their 20s have been easier.

    That is all I know.

  774. DarkHorseSD says:

    Russian, you mention 2000 table in Moscow and financial crisis. You understand.

    In financial crisis I find my self replace Russian SB with Ukrainian. I need recovery package!

  775. RussianSB says:

    OnlineNewbie, I hope you send e-mail to Josh from your descrete profile ?

  776. RussianSB says:

    Yes ! Just give 20 y.o. biotches to grow up a little ! Exactly !
    Dark Horse, baby, you enrich my vocabulary : ” And then they’d tow the sharks back to Purteen Harbor, boil them up, use the oil.”

  777. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Dark – love it…delicious…that’s how to roll!

  778. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Josh – just sent you an email…completely disgusted by an email interaction with a SB profile just now…

  779. DarkHorseSD says:

    I just hope FunDude isn’t the catalyst for personality change in women from their 20s to their 30s

    2pm was delicious.

  780. DarkHorseSD says:

    “Interestingly, the women in their 30s were inferior in both personality, demands, maturity, etc. They just were demanding DESPITE THEIR AGE. It is crazy indeed. They even acted flakey to “increase their worth”.”

    Jus giv dem 20’s bichazz ten mo yeahs.

  781. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Josh – I know you can look at SD profiles…look up OnlineNewbieSD…I set everything as the worst, but in the text say that I’m using it to help SBs find the perfect SD by bettering the profile text…I figure…the easiest way NOT to be reprimanded for breaking the TOS is to blatantly show you’re trying to help 😉

    Oh, and you’d be surprised…my profile was set to Practical and I routinely got the Substantial and High profiles reaching out to me…as bad as they complain about SDs not looking at what she wants for allowance, SBs will not read for it either. If they don’t search it out, they’re just as bad about sending messages to try to build the tension to exploit as much as possible!

  782. DarkHorseSD says:

    Russian, if you can tow a horse, I will offer twice.

  783. DarkHorseSD says:

    FlyR, this is why I have created Expected Allowance for discussion purposes here.

    Ok, you get 5,000 for a weekend trip… Your Expected Allowance is 850/mo …

    Uncle Jim died and left you 7,000. Your allowance is Substantial. Your Expected Allowance is $20/mo.

  784. Josh says:

    @ONSD

    So you have that in your profile?

    How about setting budget to minimal. No self-respecting SB will contact you with that kinda budget. 😉

  785. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Russian – I started the second profile because, even though I was going to my profile and then pasting the profile id of the person who requested help with her profile, my viewing her profile was showing up in her Viewed Me listing. I’m trying to be discreet…so…starting a new profile that clearly states I’m using it to help SBs with profiles was the next best thing…

  786. Josh says:

    @FunDude = Baby SD

  787. RussianSB says:

    Online Newbie SD. If prostitutes and profile duplicates flood the site, that it not reason for you to do the same. I hope, you not start your own escort service ? Second profile – it is jusg first step, you know :)

  788. Josh says:

    @RussianSB

    “I hope, when you will be 50+, you will not write such BS , FunDude”

    Hahahahahahaha!!!

    I guarantee you…he won’t.

  789. Josh says:

    @RussianSB

    “when man in his 50 date only 20 y.o. and telling everybody that young girls into mature men – that is ridiculous !”

    Correct…and it is as ridiculous as women in 30s claiming to be sexually more I teresting than those in their 20s.

    The only possibe exception are women in their 30s who have had good experience with men. Then they could be really hot if they keep themselves in good physical shape and know their keagle well. 😉

  790. RussianSB says:

    Josh, unfortunately, even if woman take your wallet, she can be still bitter.
    Ex-wifes.

  791. RussianSB says:

    Once , one 50+ guy write to me – you are so grate , pity that you are not 20 y.o. And that write to me guy who has grandchildren ! I hope, when you will be 50+, you will not write such BS , FunDude :)

  792. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    In certain cultures, 23 is “almost” expiration date. In those cultures, women and their families at that age become a lot more flexible with their demands past that date.

    If you read the ihatemen.org, the more the age, the more the number of failed relationships with losers, the more bitter women get.

    The benefit of sugar relationships is that women don’t get as bitter…the reason? They get to delve in men’s wallets…a major self-esteem booster.

  793. RussianSB says:

    FunDude, women in their 40es will charge even more, because Spa, cosmetologies , surgeons, kids education etc. Against logic, I know, but they cost more. Nobody gudge you, that you dating 20 year old – you are quite yong yourself. But , when man in his 50 date only 20 y.o. and telling everybody that young girls into mature men – that is ridiculous !

  794. Promise says:

    @FunDude You got laid didn’t you? 😉

  795. Promise says:

    @flyr I can try relating to Josh, and I’m a woman. 😀
    @Josh Thank You for the advice earlier. What’s your favorite color?

  796. FunDude says:

    Its almost like instead of admitting that they are getting older and their value is decreasing, women in their 30s actually PRETEND that their value is HIGHER THAN EVER.

    The game playing has been worse for many of these women in their 30s than 20s.

    I can’t objectively figure out why I would go for a female in the 30s at that point.

  797. FunDude says:

    @Denise

    Haven’t gotten “stood up” once. I’ve had women flake on texts but thats about it.

    @All

    Its funny to watch how many angry women are around when they hear you are dating women that are 23 y/o since I am 35 y/o.

    The last dates I had were with a 22 y/o, 23 y/o, 25 y/o, 31 y/o and 34 y/o.

    Interestingly, the women in their 30s were inferior in both personality, demands, maturity, etc. They just were demanding DESPITE THEIR AGE. It is crazy indeed. They even acted flakey to “increase their worth”.

    The 23 y/o is easier to get along with, texts me first thing in the morning, wants to hang out immediately, etc. She isn’t asking for an allowance or anything else. Crazy stuff.

    I find it amusing how many women will say that I am “robbing the cradle” because I am dating a 23 y/o female.

    I didn’t realize a female who is 22 or 23 is a “baby”.

    Find it amusing.

  798. RussianSB says:

    Worse, Flyr !

  799. flyR says:

    “Having several profiles is against policy of the site.”

    Is that like becoming an enemy of the state ?

  800. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Russian – yes it is…but so are “escorts” and “prostitutes”…we still see THEM in profiles!

  801. RussianSB says:

    Having several profiles is against policy of the site.

  802. ErikTheRed says:

    Haha, @Russian, yes it was car talk, as the Ghibli was brought up a few times. IMHO, paying $1000/mo for a car that usually sells for $250/mo in a different skin is not a much better strategy than just giving the money to a more worthy girl and helping her out during a phase of her life that financial help can make a real difference. The SD may even get a higher quality SB as a result.

    As for car – girl analogy, I want both intrinsic value / performance / functionality as well as extrinsic beauty. Since the girl may potentially last longer than the car, and I don’t have time to juggle multiple girls, unlike keeping multiple cars takes almost no additional time, I have tighter standards than buying cars . . . Although short term rentals matter less between no long term commitments.

  803. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @DarkHorse – I’ve already got one alternate profile on this site (so that when I provide profile advice to bloggers my “real” profile is not given away)

    But, I would consider building one if I knew I was going to be there regularly enough to want to enjoy my time…although, if student could travel with me I might just take her instead…

  804. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @flyR – that’s exactly where I was headed with the equation…in your situation, Sterling figured because he’s a dirtbag he’d have to pay $15k monthly…she looked at him and said, “hun, we’re talking six figures AT LEAST” and he said “okay” (primarily because he’s a dirtbag)…

  805. RussianSB says:

    Erik, I hope it is cars talk, not car-girl analogies ?

  806. ErikTheRed says:

    Ghibli is an exercise in the parts bin of Chrysler 300 / Dodge Charger. Even the engine is cast as a PentaStar then shipped to Italy for assembly. The 335i/435i twin can probably run circles around around Ghibli. Even my 7 seat SUV can probably pull greater lateral g’s than the base model Ghibli lease special thanks to not only AWD but torque-vectoring AWD.

    Each to his own I suppose. I’m paying close to the “Maserati money” every month for a car that looks like a glorified wagon/minivan, LOL!but can perform more or less on par with the base Ghibli, rides much better on highways more or less driving itself, seats 7, protects passengers really well in crashes, and can tow a horse trailer!

    I suppose each to his own. I tend to pay for intrinsic performance/functional characteristics instead of badge premium. Sure, probably not a good strategy for picking up girls, but also avoid the girls that are potentially more of a liability than asset in the long run.

  807. flyR says:

    @ online “Each person can come up with a number independently and if they agree, great…if not, that’s fine, just don’t be an ass about it not agreeing (that goes for both SB and SD!)”

    Sage advice. Would add that there is another issue in that the $ amount frequently is considered to be a measure of the “worth” of the SB rather than looking at the broader benefits of the relationship. It’s like Donald Sterling paying his SB something like a million a year. That’s $3,000 per month sugar allowance in a normal relationship and another $80,000 because he is such a looser

  808. RussianSB says:

    Joshy, boy ! Men-haters blog advices will work only with middle-class men. Rich boys attacked by beautiful lionesses. I often say that “rich man and honest woman will never meet each other. Because, honest woman never put out at first date, and rich man never offering twice “. :)

  809. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @flyR – I think most SBs on SA are more concerned about what is in her wallet NOW than in what COULD BE in her wallet over time. She keeps her profile on here when she’s not 100% satisfied with her situation and will jump at a chance she things she could have…once she gets a taste of the cash she wants, now THAT’S the going rate (like your beachfront example) that everyone must meet (regardless of the shortcomings of the SD – age, looks, build, etc.)

    It still goes back to a kind of formula where the characteristics of the SB AND the SD factor into location and cost of living to determine what each should give/receive in the situation. Each person can come up with a number independently and if they agree, great…if not, that’s fine, just don’t be an ass about it not agreeing (that goes for both SB and SD!)

  810. Josh says:

    Who hijacked @flyR’s moniker and posted a sensible comment?

  811. flyR says:

    @ Dark Horse

    One of the failures of most SB’s is to make an assessment of the probability that the relationship will have some endurance .

    It’s like a beachfront apartment owner saying you should sign a one year lease for $5K/mo because somebody offered me that for the month of August

  812. RussianSB says:

    Dark horse, mind the world clock and absence of allowance, of course :)

  813. Josh says:

    The “riot SB” reappeared. “Strong woman” is not part of her act. She is adorable. But she still knows what she wants…out of my wallet. 😉

  814. Josh says:

    @Lainey

    The good thing about the princess is that she is transparent. That helps her and hopefully other readers.

  815. Josh says:

    @Lainey

    “That “make him think he’s in charge” attitude is why relationships fail. Either you truly believe he’s in charge or you allow him to lead 90% of the time and HONESTLY discuss your “battle chosen” differences when NEEDED, not wanted (eliminates nag factor)”

    Wise words indeed.

    The dilemma for many women today is that they are in a hard and a rock place between what their grandmas are teaching them to how to control men and what the feminists are teaching them to do the same.

    Relatively speaking, grandmas had a better game. 😉

  816. Josh says:

    @flyR

    How many reclaimed soda cans Ronald Reagan was able to fill with cheap salt?

  817. Lainey says:

    @Josh the more you post from that site the more it sounds similar to games the resident princess used to play. Thank goodness for her she found the blog

  818. DarkHorseSD says:

    Expected Allowance IS

    “Will be” is not appropriate to the concept.

  819. DarkHorseSD says:

    Flyr… I expect she did both, temporarily for the first, however 😉

    Her Expected Allowance will be significantly less with the “better deal.”

    Don’t men do all those things you mentioned just to get chics and then end up homeless? 😛

  820. Lainey says:

    That “make him think he’s in charge” attitude is why relationships fail. Either you truly believe he’s in charge or you allow him to lead 90% of the time and HONESTLY discuss your “battle chosen” differences when NEEDED, not wanted (eliminates nag factor)

  821. DarkHorseSD says:

    Sundress is just one letter from undress.

  822. flyR says:

    “Having agreed to a more fulfilling relationship with nights out, fancy dinners and overnights, she kept angling back to booty calls and short meals of intermediate fare.

    Then the middle of the night text of a price increase!””

    two thoughts

    she found a better deal

    she did you a big favor

  823. flyR says:

    @dls “So I just reactivated my profile stating my location is in Kauai. I’m not sure if there are name SDs out there, but I just added a line saying I would be in town for a week. I wonder if that sounds hookerish.”

    Not if done tastefully.

  824. flyR says:

    Re Homeless

    In fairness to both

    Men who have done multiple real combat tours as EM have a high rate of homelessness

    Drug users have a high rate of homelessness and men are more frequent users

    Former prisoners have a high rate of homelessness – (high % drug users )

    Some years ago in one of the economic downturns we were involved with the recovery of abandoned buildings in LA . It was at the height of the crack epidemic , One of the tragedies was the number of 14-17 year old girls living in cardboard boxes in the alley behind one of the projects. Most were being pimped for car service. Few survived