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Opinion: Sugar and Taxes

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That time of year is almost upon us: Tax Day. If you are among the 20 percent of men and women who are chronic procrastinators, you probably have yet to file and pay any taxes owed to Uncle Sam. Maybe you just haven’t gotten around to it or are waiting to meet with a tax professional. Whatever your reason (or excuse) might be, with less than a month to go until the 15th of April, now is the time to discuss how Sugaring may affect the scope of your taxes.

Disclaimer: Any views or opinions presented in this blog are solely those of the author and do not necessarily represent those of this site, its ownership or management, or the IRS. This blog should not be considered legal advice. You should seek out the help of a licensed tax professional concerning your taxes.

What is a gift?

A gift is any transfer of property (including cash) given to another individual.

What isn’t a gift?

According to the IRS:

  • Gifts that are not more than the annual exclusion for the calendar year
  • Gifts to a political organization for its use
  • Gifts to charities
  • Gifts to one’s (US Citizen) spouse
  • Tuition or medical expenses one pays directly to a medical or educational institution for another person. Donor must pay the expense directly. If donor writes a check to the recipient and the recipient then pays the expense, the gift may be subject to tax.

Who pays the gift tax?

The donor pays the gift tax, which in this case would be the Sugar Daddies or Mommies. However, you may qualify for the annual exclusion if the total accumulative value of your gifts for each individual Sugar Baby is at or under $14,000.

Can I claim Sugar funds or gifts as a charitable donation?

No. The charitable donations exempt and tax credit can only be applied to qualified organizations.

The topic of income tax can be, well, taxing! Let’s take a little break. Do you ever wonder how we started paying for income taxes? It’s all Donald Duck’s fault.

I hope that gave you a little relief. Now let’s get back to business! There are other special situations where you may have to claim that bit of Sugar you received this year to the IRS.

What if I work for my Sugar Daddy?

If you are working within one of your benefactor’s companies, or providing services as a freelance personal assistant or nanny, you will need to claim that income.

Someone said I need to claim the money I receive from Sugar Daddies as income. Is that true?

No, you do not. Being a Sugar Baby is no different than being a girlfriend—albeit there are terms involved. If there were no services or goods rendered for the cash or property,  this money falls under the classification of “gift.”

There’s only three weeks left, so don’t forget to file your taxes. You can file for an extension,  but you’ll still be required to  to pay those taxes in the end.

 

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  2. jay says:

    If the sugar baby is a college student and you pay their tuition directly to the college/university than that money is not subject to being taxed.

  3. LadyScarlett says:

    “DirtyLittleSecret says:
    March 31, 2015 at 4:00 pm

    But I also wonder why somebody would want to get into an arrangement with somebody across the US? That part kind of bothers me. Should it be a red flag?”

    No way…There are women and men with long distance arrangements…that, in and of itself is not a red flag at all…It just depends on how he is going about trying to meet you, or have contact..

    Long distance arrangements are preferable to some..

  4. Eloquence says:

    The New blog is up my friends!

    By the way, Flyer, here is to you and your Human Life Sciences… youtube: Basement Jaxx-Never Say Never Ft. ETML

    You spoke it, so…Here you go. I hope it makes y’all laugh :)

    @ P.I. Wolf – I tip my hat in admiration and applaud you.

  5. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Well, we’ve been trying to get together for awhile. He invited me out east, but I laughed when he told me it was five degrees. No.
    Then he was in Vegas last month, I think for work because it was during the week. I wasn’t taking him as seriously then so I declined to go. He went on the trip anyhow.
    This time it was on a whim as we just threw together these plans this weekend.

    I’m not sure that it’s a one time thing, because it’s Vegas, there are plenty of girls out there. He just randomly started emailing me again out of nowhere (since last month) to tell me I was the only girl he was interested in. I imagine he was speaking to a slew of girls.

    By the way he speaks to me and the things he says, he makes it sounds like if there’s chemistry he wants to make it a regular thing. That’s why I question his intentions of making a girl across the US a regular SB.

  6. flyR says:

    @DLS He may be out here on business so Vegas seems next door.

    While I think the SB should demand protection from the obvious physical risks, I do not think being made whole to the last penny if it does not work out is ” fail”

    Understand that it may be a one time event unless he is a frequent visitor.

    You two rooms are good as is a flight home. But unless you live in some place like Santa Barbara or Monterey there are an awful lot of flights at a pretty low cost.

  7. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @Josh, thanks for the reply. It makes me feel better. I am very familiar with Vegas and he knows I won’t go if I don’t have some monetary protection before I board any flight.

    But I also wonder why somebody would want to get into an arrangement with somebody across the US? That part kind of bothers me. Should it be a red flag?

  8. Josh says:

    @DLS

    If you get the money, you are familiar with Vegas, and the last name of the POT is not Ivashchenkov, then you should be OK.

  9. FunDude says:

    Great show in Vegas

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O_GyDOR-XfQ}}

    Absinthe BIATCHES lol

  10. flyR says:

    It’s not just white males who suffer . The University of California has decided that there are too many Asians in the school so they have been subtly discriminated against.

    There’s no level of stupidity below which a college administrator can operate. Some probably saw the college administrator welcoming a terrorist group to operate and recruit on campus. Out at the University of CA they have what’s called something like Human Subjects Research Procedures . Something that sounds reasonable if I am going to be subjecting citizens to gamma rays, some exotic chemicals or new surgical procedures. But the policies were so broadly written that if I wanted to send students to interview a business leader I was supposed to file a plan and wait for it to be approved. The penalty was academic death.

  11. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Thoughts?

    I created a profile on this site a few months ago. I kept it active for a couple of weeks and then deactivated it. But while I was on there, I exchanged emails with some POT.

    Anyway, there was one guy from the east coast, while I reside in the west. He wants to fly me to Vegas this weekend (just Friday and Saturday because I want to be back for Easter). He said he would put some money in my PayPal account, but that’s only because I made it very clear that I wasn’t going to pay for a sitter, cab to airport, etc. to see him. Not only that, but some money for incidentals. I want to book a separate hotel room and have money for change of flight just in case something happens and it just doesn’t work out. He agreed to give me the money for all of this, although, originally he didn’t want to.

    My question is, is this a norma way to start an arrangement? I suggested he come out to my city (a pretty desirable beach town) but he wanted to do Vegas instead. Would I be crazy to go?

  12. PI Wolf says:

    First lesson given to us, on my first day in college, when I took up Nautical Science. Why are ships referred to, in the feminine gender?

    1. Her bottom is always wet.
    2. We ride on her.
    3. She needs a lot of paint to upkeep her.
    4. She needs the right man to handle her.
    5. When she gets to port, she heads for the b(u)oys.
    6. When in port, a gang of men surrounds her (longshoremen).

    Why did GOD create woman from man’s ribs?

    1. God did not create woman from man’s head, to be smarter or compete with him.
    2. God did not create woman from man’s hands, to be used.
    3. God did not create woman from man’s feet, to be stepped on.
    4. God created woman from man’s ribs – because that is where they belong – close to man’s heart.

    To all SBs, you are all aware of this phrase – NO MONEY, NO HONEY. I am sure that this is your motto as well. I have this motto, as an SD: NO HONEY, NO MONEY! The better the honey, the better the lubrication to make the money flow 😀

  13. KeKe says:

    @FunDude . Yay you :-)

  14. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    Ha, my last comment is awaiting moderation. Whoops. Does that mean that my language was too vulgar?

  15. KeKe says:

    @Kenna..oh wow. Good for you! I hate party planning.

  16. FunDude says:

    Man the ladies are rolling in

    YAY me

  17. KennaKenna says:

    And I’m throwing a Easter/Housewarming lunch for his friends/and their wives so that has had me busy as well but hope everyone is great!

  18. KennaKenna says:

    Did I tell you guys I love it here!!!! It’s so warm.

    He just decided we’re going back to NY(Hamptons area) for half of summer so I’m trying not to unpack too much. I’ve also gotten close to one of the engineer’s wife who recently just had a twin(9 weeks ago). This is her first so she is glad for the help and I’m glad for the practice.

  19. KennaKenna says:

    @ONSD yes I know, I have been flexing my kegels for years- it’s almost a must when Im all filled up.

    @Struggle glad you had a good time.

  20. KeKe says:

    Why thank you gentlemen! I do try to keep my man happy :-)

  21. Catcher-22 says:

    @Andy Martin: In what way is it the “Worst tax advice ever”. Please elaborate.

  22. gentleman soul says:

    @ Latin

    ” Squeeze the pelvic muscles for one second
    Release them for one second
    Do a set of five of these one-second contractions in rapid succession”

    Keke just reinforced this but be sure you practice your Kegels frequently with your man inside. Yes ,it DOES feel aawfully good to let your pussy do the massage

  23. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – listen to the kegel discussion…those exercises can aid in child birth!

    Also, COMPLETELY agree with @Josh…any woman who can kegel during sex is going to have a happy lover!

  24. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    “I use to do Kegels like crazy! I could do them during sex and drive my guy crazy.”

    This is one skill every woman must learn.

  25. BelleNoir says:

    @Latin thanks! I’ll definitely start working on that.
    @Dirtylittle… yes, I’m mostly mental as well. And like @latin says, I have to respect him all around, otherwise, nothing is flowing and it’s closed until further notice lol

  26. Catcher-22 says:

    @FatB. Thank you for livening up the monotony of this blog from time to time. Don’t be so shy about contributing your wisdom and humor more frequently.

  27. FlyBoy says:

    @FuckingCrazy:

    @VitesseSD says:
    March 30, 2015 at 4:14 pm

    Typo in my email, curse you gravatar!

    I have a comment that has been in moderation for 3 days now. If you made a typo in your email, how come you didn’t go into the moderation queue?! The only rational answer is; in your haste to argue with yourself you used a different (but approved) email address. Maybe you used the email of Lettuce … lol

    Also why doesn’t your web browser remember your email? The only rational answer, again, is; you are using more than one email address. lol

    Cheers :)

  28. a latin opinion says:

    KeKe says:
    March 31, 2015 at 7:40 am
    @Latin..No I don’t need the vibrator to have an orgasm but I like them anyway. Lol I use to do Kegels like crazy! I could do them during sex and drive my guy crazy. I slacked off on doing them since I wasn’t having sex. So I’m getting back into it. For me multiple orgasm are pretty easy when I’m into the person and if you don’t mind hitting all my kinks. Lol

    Yeahhhhhhh you go girl! Yes! That’s how you do it! Lol

  29. KeKe says:

    @Latin..No I don’t need the vibrator to have an orgasm but I like them anyway. Lol I use to do Kegels like crazy! I could do them during sex and drive my guy crazy. I slacked off on doing them since I wasn’t having sex. So I’m getting back into it. For me multiple orgasm are pretty easy when I’m into the person and if you don’t mind hitting all my kinks. Lol

  30. a latin opinion says:

    @keke hi! I see you have been busy today (in the real world lol). I post some things for you last night, when you can read it.

    @struggles “Football is a gentleman’s game played by hooligans, rugby is a hooligans’ game played by gentlemen” where do you went with your GB for this tournament? Match?. If it was in here inside the US, when you get more involved in the league you can maybe, be the link to introduced me to some nice prospect on the DMV area lol

  31. a latin opinion says:

    StruggleIsReal says:
    March 31, 2015 at 12:22 am
    @latin

    Was that just a blog love letter, a little bit? Because I’m missin’ my man, and will totally take it! hehe! I love you too pretty legs!! PS. What is that book/ packet that is on the left of your left calf?

    Yes lol I will always love you! Don’t forget about that!

    I took the picture the day I started “posting in here”, is the book I was reading that day, with my glasses on the top, Is a book about Taoist legends.

    @latin
    “Thank you, pretty legs, for the suggestions. I don’t seen any reason why I shouldn’t improve my pussy game. It’s the one thing I really don’t want to let up on, he and I always trying to please each other. He does to me, and I do to him, on all levels, and it is the sweetest and most pure reciprocity ever.”

    Awwwwwn LOVE IS IN THE AIR! LOVE IS IN THE AIR!
    [m.youtube.com/watch?v=NNC0kIzM1Fo]

    “I’m terrified to lose it, so I am always wanting to find new ways to impress him. I just never want to become complacent and stop trying. I got way too lucky to let that happen!”

    You are smart I know you mean this in a good way but this fear could be the beginning of a mistake (that thing @josh always said we women do to sabotage, don’t remember how he called now)

    Be grateful that you have him but not afraid of losing him, I mean, if you love him try to don’t sabotage, make mistakes but don’t let your self fall into the fantasy that he is in “some way yours and that you have to keep it”. He is your man and you are his woman, neither of you guys is anything close to “property”.

    The secret is to never forget that you guys are and should be FRIENDS first and foremost.

    If you want to keep a healthy friendship you:

    1.-respect your friend.
    2.-respect your friend space and time.
    3.-share the things you friend want to share with you (time,experiences, etc)
    4.-are there for you friend always, no matter how low or high state he is in, you are there not matter what because he is your friend.
    5.- you are not! I repeat you are not! The mother of you friend, let him be the man, let him show the way, let him be the heroe. (Don’t try to change anything on him)

    TWO VERY IMPORTANT PIECES OF ADVICE: (one from my awesome mom)

    *the man is the head of the house but you are the neck (he is the head that lead, trust him but also don’t forget that he needs to keep his neck happy and healthy in order for him to move better)

    *everybody can fall in love with all the positive aspects/features that he has. Be the only one who also fall in love with his down sides!.

  32. KeKe says:

    @BelleNoir.. EVI by Aneros hands free gspot massager..

  33. Josh says:

    @Denise

    “We’re doing a nice lunch date!”

    I am glad that you are doing a “nice lunch date”. Horrible lunch dates generally don’t work for the first date. 😉

  34. Josh says:

    Did I get that right @FatB’StardSA Proxy?

  35. a latin opinion says:

    DirtyLittleSecret says:
    March 31, 2015 at 12:08 am
    @latin Amen, sister! I just recently got out of a long term relationship. I love to fcuk and I cum very easily when I’m really happy with our relationship. I noticed that when we were having issues or when I was unhappy, my pussy would dry right up. Not the whole time, just towards the end of the sex… But when I’m really IN love I’m crazy wet from start to finish.

    I have no idea how to “make love” in the traditional sense. I’ll start off slow and sensual and then it turns into an all out fcuk-fest. I don’t know if it’s because I can’t stop talking dirty or what, or if I prefer to it on the wild side… But I can’t get off as much when it’s too slow.

    But I do feel that the intensity of the sex is much better when I’m in love with the man that I’m having sex with. Probably because chemically I’m just more turned on and ready to do anything to please him.

    YEAHHHHHH LOL! I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING. You should go back to post more frequently so you can help me out with the sex advice lol. I sometimes feel so akward for explaining that kind os stuff in a blog lol. But I think it can maybe help someone to be more concerned about owning her sexuality (which I think is very good)

  36. Josh says:

    @Denise

    “Don’t you know fat people don’t matter here”

    Hmmm, how long have you been here to tell others what matters “here”?

    “all women are lesbians to you anyways.”

    That is never going to work. Who’s going to pay bills then?

    “That’s what you tell yourself after you get rejected yet again.”

    No sweetheart, if one is rejected “here” he increases his budget. 😉

  37. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Josh – I’ve given ONE $25 Barnes&Noble Gift Cards with my benefactor business card…I’ve also approached one professional from a networking event.

    So – $25 B&N got me a coffee meeting (after some time and thought on her part); Coffee and a $50 card to the franchise got me a second meeting; the second meeting was at a public park that found us walking a trail and sneaking off-trail to explore a bit of each other and I’m sending her an e-gift card as a thank you for that time; I expect our next meeting will be extremely naked 😉

  38. FunDude says:

    @FatBastard

    “In other news I am glad you already have a sugar date this week. Maybe you can educate him on his white male privileged after sucking his cock!”

    Love to see that lol

  39. FatB'StardSA Proxy says:

    @Denise

    The site would not exist without privileged white fat men like me who spend money on pussy.

    In other news I am glad you already have a sugar date this week. Maybe you can educate him on his white male privileged after sucking his cock!

    Have a nice day :-).

    Have a nice day

  40. Denise says:

    @ FatB’StardSA Proxy says:

    Don’t you know fat people don’t matter here and all women are lesbians to you anyways. That’s what you tell yourself after you get rejected yet again.

    Anyways in interesting news.. I have a sugar date this week. I’m surprised that happened so fast. I assumed it would take several months but he’s eager to meet and so am I:) We’re doing a nice lunch date!

    Another pot contacted me from 3hrs away to tell me he spends $3k a month but $100 per day per sugar baby. He says he has a new SB daily. lol What was odd was that he kept trying to show me his other pot by loading her account into the chat over and over again. It wasn’t coming up properly but I was thinking “Why would I care who accepts $100 per day from him?” Isn’t that kinda odd?

    I would assume if he really had 30 dates with 30 different SBs he wouldn’t need to contact me 3hrs away.

  41. StruggleIsReal says:

    I can’t cite sources and don’t really care to at the moment, but I am almost certain that it has been repeatedly scientifically proven that a woman who is in love with her man will cum so much more/harder/intensely/frequently than one who is not.
    I am extremely cerebral and have never orgasmed with someone I was not at least somewhat in love with, except for when I was with a girl… but then again, girls tend to be more mentally inclined as well.

    Heretofore, the way to my pussy is through my head. I came to my current GB multiple times before ever even meeting him. His words and his ways just sink in so deeply… the physical is just another wonderful manifestation of it.

    I will totally admit though… I would love to be able to cum from just straight up hard fucking. This is why I am interested in learning more, always, even though I am completely satisfied, like a pig in mud, with my sex-life. Except the distance. That fucking blows.

    @latin
    Thank you, pretty legs, for the suggestions. I don’t seen any reason why I shouldn’t improve my pussy game. It’s the one thing I really don’t want to let up on, he and I always trying to please each other. He does to me, and I do to him, on all levels, and it is the sweetest and most pure reciprocity ever. I’m terrified to lose it, so I am always wanting to find new ways to impress him. I just never want to become complacent and stop trying. I got way too lucky to let that happen!

  42. StruggleIsReal says:

    @latin

    Was that just a blog love letter, a little bit? Because I’m missin’ my man, and will totally take it! hehe! I love you too pretty legs!! PS. What is that book/ packet that is on the left of your left calf?

    Rugby… WOAH! How much fun! An absolute riot to watch and enjoy… basically a big huge several days long party! I haven’t had so much fun in a long time! His friends told me I am now required to return every year… they said I’m officially “one of the guys”. :)

  43. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @latin Amen, sister! I just recently got out of a long term relationship. I love to fcuk and I cum very easily when I’m really happy with our relationship. I noticed that when we were having issues or when I was unhappy, my pussy would dry right up. Not the whole time, just towards the end of the sex… But when I’m really IN love I’m crazy wet from start to finish.

    I have no idea how to “make love” in the traditional sense. I’ll start off slow and sensual and then it turns into an all out fcuk-fest. I don’t know if it’s because I can’t stop talking dirty or what, or if I prefer to it on the wild side… But I can’t get off as much when it’s too slow.

    But I do feel that the intensity of the sex is much better when I’m in love with the man that I’m having sex with. Probably because chemically I’m just more turned on and ready to do anything to please him.

  44. a latin opinion says:

    Omg! Is so late! Have to work tomorrow! Bye

  45. a latin opinion says:

    @struggles

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    So do you like Rugby so far?

  46. a latin opinion says:

    DirtyLittleSecret says:
    March 30, 2015 at 11:36 pm
    @latin I live in SoCal so normally people from Mexico will call themselves Hispanics whereas People from South America (or sometimes Spain) are VERY adamant that they are Latin and NOT Hispanic.

    But I was also told all Hispanics are Latin but not all Latins are Hispanics, so I try to be respectful of people’s cultures 😉

    Awwwww you are so sweet! Don’t worry It is hard to get me offended, and thank you for all that information and for your respect as our culture.

    Is all mess up about the definitions, but I don’t card and the less time that you have spend in this country the less that you care about that stuff. (-:

  47. a latin opinion says:

    And finally @keke/@struggles/@noir and whoever more who care.

    I never got/buy anything to exercise my muscles you really don’t need it but since Americans need to buy stuff I will recommend something I will buy if I have to:

    [http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0034DLBB2/ref=pd_aw_sbs_hpc_2?refRID=1KH2KZ4WC3FZ1NDP5407]

    The other VERY IMPORTANT PARTS.

    *You do have to have a connection with this guy in some emotional level! This is extremely important!:

    IS NOT LIQUIDS/TRICKS OR EXERCISES a woman NEEDS TO FEEL ATTRACTION for the man in order to get weet but also NEEDS TO RESPECT/MAINTAIN RESPECT for the guy in order to keep getting weet everytime.

    *Do whatever it need to be done to be/make yourself confident! Not the lights, not the guy, not how you look! YOURSELF! you need to have inside your mind that you are f&*/# awesome! (For further advice in this matter reach out to @sexyrock)

    *And last but not least, you need to fall in love with sex! NOT THAT BS ABOUT “MAKING LOVE” learn instead how to change that for “HAVING WONDERFUL @$/^ SEX” or do as I and change it completely to “FUCK”. (Sex with the person you love is awesome but believe me wonderful sex can be reach without necessarily love someone)

    Again, the close you found your self to your inter animal the better.

  48. StruggleIsReal says:

    I already had weird sleep patterns (I only tend to sleep soundly when with a loving partner… I know, strange.) and this jet-lag is not helping! LOL

    @latin
    Thanks! I have heard of Dr. Berman and I’ll try your suggestions.

    @Fat
    Hahaha YEP. Welcome to the blog of whining bitches!
    (Bitches, in this case, being explicitly defined as members one sex hating members of the other sex to inordinate degree.)

  49. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @latin I live in SoCal so normally people from Mexico will call themselves Hispanics whereas People from South America (or sometimes Spain) are VERY adamant that they are Latin and NOT Hispanic.

    But I was also told all Hispanics are Latin but not all Latins are Hispanics, so I try to be respectful of people’s cultures 😉

  50. a latin opinion says:

    DirtyLittleSecret says:
    March 30, 2015 at 11:15 pm
    @latin Which part of South America are you from? I hadn’t been on here to read in a few months. You’re new on the blogs, yes? I’m reading all of your comments in Sophia Vergara’s voice. Lol.

    I love your name! Lol

    I don’t like to give any personal real information on the blog )-: sorry but I can at least tell you that you are not that much wrong lol (about reading it on SV voice lol, just that, not even close to looks, money of all that stuff, she is awesome and I’m super proud of her)

    Pd: how do you knew I was from South America?

  51. a latin opinion says:

    @keke/@struggles/@noir and whoever more who care.

    I’m will make a collage of different places so I can explain you a little bit more of how to improve your owm pleasure in sex (good thing he will also love it too)

    Exercising the “Love” Muscles
    By Dr. Laura Berman, creator of DrLauraBerman.com

    Strong Kegels can heighten your arousal during sex, enhance your orgasms, improve blood circulation to the genitals, and increase vaginal tone and lubrication. How’s that for motivation? So be sure to do Kegel exercises regularly as part of your sexual fitness routine.

    Here’s how to get started on your Kegel regimen:

    Start searching: First, make sure you’re targeting the right muscles. Since Kegel muscles are the ones used to stop the flow of urine midstream, you can use this technique to find them. (But don’t do it too often — unless your bladder is empty, this technique can be harmful.) You can also insert your finger into your vagina and tighten the muscles around it to locate your Kegels. Just make sure you’re not using any other muscles to do this, such as the muscles of your abdomen, inner thighs, or buttocks.

    .Empty out: Now that you’ve found your Kegels, you’re almost ready to start flexing. Before you start, make sure you have an empty bladder.

    .Get comfy: Next, find a comfortable place to sit or lie down to do your exercises.

    .Work it: It’s time to exercise! Start by tightening the Kegel muscles and holding for 10 seconds. Then relax them for 10 seconds.

    .Keep going: Do a set of five of these 10-second contractions.
    This routine actually works your slow muscle fibers — the ones that help you build long-term pelvic strength. It’s also important to work your fast muscle fibers, which react to sudden stresses like laughing, coughing, and sneezing.

    Here’s how:

    Squeeze the pelvic muscles for one second
    Release them for one second
    Do a set of five of these one-second contractions in rapid succession

    For a complete Kegel workout, be sure to do both of these exercises. Gradually work your way up to a set of 10 slow exercises, followed by a set of 10 fast exercises, and repeat the routine up to three times a day. You can also squeeze some extra exercises in during intercourse by tightening and releasing your Kegels around your partner’s penis — see what it does for arousal! (I love to do this! After I give them great sex and while he still inside me I love to show off and ask him how they fell?. Show them it wasn’t coincidence, that is was me the whole time squeezing his little friend lol)

    Whatever method you use — an exerciser or au naturel — try to do your exercises at set times each day, so they become part of your regular habits. Depending on how frequently you do your Kegels, you’ll probably see results within four to six weeks, with more significant changes showing up after about three months. The best thing about this sexercise is that no one needs to know you’re doing it! As you become more comfortable, you can do Kegels in the car, at work, or even when you exercise.

  52. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    @latin Which part of South America are you from? I hadn’t been on here to read in a few months. You’re new on the blogs, yes? I’m reading all of your comments in Sophia Vergara’s voice. Lol.

  53. a latin opinion says:

    @struggles I’m so happy for you! Hope you have enjoy rugby, is my favorite sport!, just being part of that sport say a lot good things about him (that and your being smart/kind/confident make me thing you guys are in fact a good match)

    If you guys stay together, you will fully understand this comment in a couple of months.

  54. a latin opinion says:

    Lol lol and lol the only comment that I enjoy was @atm FB proxy lol soooo funny.

    @muah I feel you, we are all differents, you are right. You are doing it great is all about getting to know your self as much as you can.

    @keke I like your SD it seems he knows his game, but again a vibrator is something I won’t personally recommend. Is about tighten the muscles and what I find it good for you to recognize whey they are and don’t see how the “vibration” in self will help you tight them.

  55. DirtyLittleSecret says:

    I just wanted to say hi. I pop in every now and again to watch all of y’all peck at each other like hens. It’s quite amusing.

    I’m sure you’re all going to try to haze me now, as I’ve seen that happen here often. And that comment from FatB’Stard was funny as hell.

  56. FatB'StardSA Proxy says:

    When did this blog become a forum for debate between a lesbian feminist vs PUA douche bag?

    Can we stick to talking about how to get cheap pussy? The SB’s can cry about the salt daddies as well since I am all about equal opportunity. Most of you cannot even manage to buy or sell pussy (the oldest game in town) using the site so WTF makes you think I want to read your idiotic rants about the cultural/economic problems facing the world today?

    Have a nice day :-).

  57. Josh says:

    Yes white men are privileged but white women are not non-privileged.

  58. Rebecca says:

    Wow, poor white men. They are really getting dealt the worst hand in life. I don’t know how these white men survive day to day when the world is out to get them. I really feel for them.

  59. FunDude says:

    @Denise

    They were getting preference based upon being women.

    Also, who says I don’t come from money?

    That is why they were PISSED that I got the merit scholarship. They thought a person with money shouldn’t get a scholarship despite MERIT.

    I just didn’t have CONNECTIONS so I never got any preference besides my actual brain power.

  60. Denise says:

    @FunDude-

    So your anger is really towards white women that have money since this pushed you out of opportunities because you didn’t have the financial backing? A friend of mine has also experienced the same where he was passed up for a paid internship position yet the privileged person gets it even though they clearly didn’t need the job. This happens quite a bit and this isn’t a feminist issue it’s a privileged issue. So sure you can sit back and blame those women but their wealthy white Daddies and all of their connections are probably to blame. If it’s not clear your anger is misdirected but you probably will not see it that way.

  61. FunDude says:

    I always find it amusing that women brag that they are now 50% of medical school students despite the reason WHY they have become half of the students.

    When you are given BLATANT favoritism for medical school spots, how can you brag that you have gotten 50% of the spots?

    Its not like they really earned it.

  62. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    I know. My son was denied initial entrance to Univ of VA with very high scores and that GPA of 4.57 because he “wasn’t well-rounded enough” – ie, he didn’t play football or had a lot of outside extra curricular activities. He studied. He took advanced classes, even a few college level classes. His goal was to work toward a PhD, not become a star football player or such, but UVA didn’t see it that way and when they only had openings for 5k students, and 15k applied, guess who didn’t make it in that first year? So, my son was a lucky one, he was able to sneak in at the last minute to the UVA “sister” university, Univ of Mary Washington, where he got his remaining basic college classes, stayed a yr and a half and then transferred to UVA to work on his major of Astronomy and Physics. It cost him an extra year to do that and us an addition year of tuition, since he was stayed as an undergrad for 5 yrs, though he did end up with 2 BA degrees. It was crazy.

  63. Denise says:

    @ John the other video was much helpful in explaining what has changed in society with men It’s Misandry-Intimacy by manwomanmyth

    Like the issue about prostrate cancer not getting the same sort of attention and support is primarily because men don’t think of their health like women do. Really good discussions brought up especially AngryHarry’s view.

  64. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Ive been out a few years. Don’t want to get into the exact details.

    Suffice it to say, it was very blatant.

    I remember an while I was on the interview trail at Georgetown medical school. This privileged White female who has a shitty score of 26 was giving the “tour”.

    Another privileged White female with an obviously garbage MCAT score asked the question “Can we still get into Georgetown with a low MCAT score”.

    The White female tour guide said “Of course, I got in with a 26 MCAT because the interview people saw my great interpersonal skills”.

    Meanwhile, I had a score of 34.

    Once she made that comment, I knew I was going to get wait listed. They couldn’t give a rats ass about merit or scores at that point.

    Fortunately, I got into another med school on a partial scholarship due to my MCAT score.

    That scholarship was done away with after my year because too many White males such as myself were getting them through MERIT.

    They made it into a “need” based scholarship for the next year.

  65. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    I am sure you have seen a lot of all this. How long have you been a practicing physician? In which field?

  66. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Tell your son to join the club unfortunately.

    I saw the major preference and affirmative action given to women in medical school admissions.

    Women with much lower MCAT scores were getting admitted over White/Asian male applicants.

    These women were often privileged from upper middle class backgrounds.

    The men getting discriminated against had NO connections.

    The Affirmative Action was blatant discrimination in the favor of already privileged women.

  67. ss1959 says:

    @Lennon: ” He thens goes on to say he wants me to be ‘solely dedicated to him and his needs’ and he wants to ‘completely consume me’.”

    He sounds like a Dom wannabe (not a real Dom) to me. My advice is to not get involved with this guy.

  68. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    My son has already experienced some of the feminist wrath, even when he was in high school, by the snippy remarks made behind his back, the polite, but “curt” turn-downs he received when he asked out a young lady. It was rough as his Mom to watch, even though I was given few details. And this was a student with a GPA of 4.57 his senior year, a class Valedictorian. Then it continued into his university years and even grad school. It’s been brutal for him. All I can tell him is to have patience and hope that the “right” lady is out there for him.

    And yes, Honey, we ALL know you prefer, thin, young, highly educated, well employed ladies. Good Luck.

    @Josh, Honey I can’t even imagine, but how about, “who are the most dangerous ANIMALS in the house? The Husband AND Wives.” Comedy or Drama? LOL

  69. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Machismo culture is very strong throughout Cali, Texas, etc.

    That is the likely form it will take in America.

    America will become a third rate power with China becoming the next superpower.

  70. Josh says:

    @FunDude, it was some kind of safety-related presentation.

  71. Josh says:

    If feminism continues, White man in Europe will totally forego children. Then Muslims will take over Europe through population. European feminists will start wearing burqas by claiming that it is their right to do so, and will switch sides wooing for alpha Muslims.

    I don’t see what type of patriarchy will make a sweep in the US though.

  72. KeKe says:

    @Georgia..No internet. No smart phone. You are going to be roughing it for sure. I don’t think I ever got your email. If you give it to me, I will for sure keep you updated on anything interesting. Lol

  73. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Which presentation was this?

    This is common where women can make stupid comments that make fun of/attack men in pubic.

    Its another feminist double standard.

  74. Josh says:

    Last week one of the BBW woman in her 40s made this comment in a presentation “who are the most dangerous ANIMAL around the house. The Husbands.”

    No one. I mean no one made a big deal about it.

    Just imagine what kind of hell would break loose if I a man made a comment in a presentation “who is the most dangerous ANIMAL in the house. The Wives.”

  75. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Going out in an hour for a drink with her.

    We have postponed a longer date until Wednesday night. She had a job issue come up.

    I like women that actually have an independent job and are young.

  76. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Your son will have to worry about divorce rape, child support rape, false domestic violence charges, false sexual harassment charges.

    He will have to navigate through an federal govt that gives blatant preference to women and minorities in both job applications and academia.

    Its gotten out of hand the level of feminist supremacy in this culture.

    The initial feminist ideas have morphed into STRONG female supremacy. Its pathetic to watch.

    Why would men continue to fight for a society that treats them in such a manner?

    Who will fight to prevent Islamic, Asian or patriarchal Hispanic cultures from taking over? The White birth rate has fully collapsed.

    Europe is going Islamic within a few generations and America will go Hispanic.

    That is the end result of feminism.

  77. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Dr FunDude
    I thought you were on a date and you’re posting here?
    Geez, pay your lady some attention! LOL

  78. FunDude says:

    @Vit

    Don’t worry about men hitting on Denise. She is likely an older BBW that doesn’t get hit on much.

    That is the typical feminist these days.

    They are actually angry that men “body shame” them and are out bitching that men should tolerate fatties like her.

  79. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @VitesseSD
    I don’t know where all this is going to end either. I guess at my age and with a son at that “ripe for the picking” age, I have concerns about how far all the Feminists crap is going. Sure, I believe in equal rights for logical things; certainly equal pay for equal work, but there are simply some jobs that a woman cannot perform, no matter how much she wants. And there are likely others she could do, but won’t, using the multitude of excuses that just seem to appear when the time is opportune. And this business of sexual harassment at work has gotten so far out of hand. Women are so vindictive, difficult in many cases to work with, and from my experiences they are the worst bosses ever. They can become petty gossips in a heartbeat and then deny that anything is wrong. I’ve been to HR departments more than once over a female boss who decided she simply didn’t want me around anymore, without any truthful basis or reason. I suppose I feel this way in part due to the era I was raised, Ozzie and Harriet, Lucy and Desi, even the “Clever Family,” but when and where does all this craziness end and we become civil again? We’re working against each other instead of working together for common goals. Makes no sense to me. God helps us all.

  80. FunDude says:

    @Denise

    How old are you?

    I have a feeling your an older BBW type of woman who has been indoctrinated at your local community college with feminist propaganda. The rape stat fraud that you are pushing is the typical feminist lying dribble that has EASILY been debunked.

    Next Im going to hear about the mythical wage gap.

    The new trend for feminists such as yourself are to deny they are feminists.

    Your arguments are right out of the feminist 101 books. You sound IDENTICAL to hardcore feminists.

    Ergo, you are a radical feminist regardless of your stupid statement that you aren’t a feminist.

    1) Breast CA: the VAST majority of research money is due to FEDERAL monies not “donations”. The discrepancy is due to feminist lobbying.

    2) Affirmative Action gives people with lower scores preference. Ergo, the INFERIOR candidate is getting PREFERENCE over the SUPERIOR candidate due to their GENDER.

    Its really that simple.

    The vast majority of males will not fight for a society that marginalizes them. That is the Achilles heal of feminist.

    Since men are the ones who create basically all wealth in a society and fight for it, the “average” male needs to get respect and a decent position.

    A society that gives women blatant preference won’t survive against competing Asian and Islamic societies.

    Why do you think the demographics are COLLAPSING among Whites?

  81. Josh says:

    @Denise

    “Some women feel the same way about men ie “hole diggers”

    Sure…that’s why even though men are going on strike from marriage, they are not going on strike from holes.

    The hardcore MGTOW are nihilistic. They not only don’t want to have anything to do with women, they want to go off grid so that their money is not stolen through taxes, and spent on women through welfare programs. They don’t care what happens to to the Western civilization.

    Personally, FWIIW, I don’t subscribe to the MGTOW philosophy. My interest in MGTOW is to learn about other men’s experience as to how women roll in various circumstance with men.

    I am MGPTOW. Men Getting Pussy Their Own Way. 😉

  82. VitesseSD says:

    @D

    “Some women feel the same way about men ie “hole diggers”. I could replace all of what you wrote and inserted “hole diggers”:) ”

    Sure and there’d be nothing wrong with asking yourself those questions.

    All straight men want sex, the question is does that particular man want more than just sex?

  83. VitesseSD says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    Honestly I dont know where it will end.

    The origins of women’s rights are quite noble. The vote, owning property, so on so forth. But the demands of feminism today are so far from the rights like “not being property” that a historical feminist wouldn’t recognize modern feminism. Demanding that a tv show have more female characters isnt women’s rights, its something, I’m not sure what, but its certainly not women’s rights.

    The sad part is its very difficult for a man to say, “no I’m against what you’re doing”, because women will say “you’re against women’s rights”, but feminism today has nothing to do with women’s rights.

    Denise is a prime example of that, in her mind men need her permission to hit on her. Somehow she cant grasp that sexual harassment is someone grabbing her breast, and that its not someone asking her to go for coffee at lunch. Certainly laws protecting her against one of those things are a good thing, but the other, not at all.

    I cant help but wonder when how and why employers became the judge and jury on whether or not behavior in the workplace is proper or acceptable. (The same goes for colleges). Certainly nobody ever gave them that legal power.

  84. Denise says:

    @ V

    ” I’ve come to terms with the fact that most women are gold diggers. Now what I care about is whether they’re honest gold diggers. Does she care about me or just the money? Does she want all of it or just what she needs? Does she appreciate what I give her?”

    Some women feel the same way about men ie “hole diggers”. I could replace all of what you wrote and inserted “hole diggers”:)

    Gold Diggers and Hole Diggers? Sounds like people are just digging and we hope they’re diggin’ each other:) lol

    Ohh and marriage and children? Men don’t even have to do that anymore. You can date forever ,just have girlfriends and even rent someone’s womb to have your children “no strings”.

    If anything this is a perfect time for a man to be wealthy and single!

  85. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @VitesseSD
    Thought I would toss this out to you.
    My 28 yr. old son is an train buff, started when he was 2 yrs. old with “Thomas the Tank” engine. I don’t know if you’re familiar with this children’s series, but it’s quite educational and enjoyable to watch as a PBS Show, plus it was fun to purchase all the “stuff” that was and is available. There are a multitude of trains, engines, other vehicles and accessories, all of which have appropriate names, i.e., Thomas, Henry, James, Annie, Claribel, Mavis, etc. the list goes on and on.

    My son has quite the collection from his younger years, even the series VHS tapes with Ringo Starr, George Carlin, Alec Baldwin, etc narrating. I was telling him about the chaos here this afternoon and all the “feminism” showing. He told me that there is a group of “feminists” that are now protesting against the company that owns the Thomas the Tank franchise because there aren’t enough trains, vehicles, etc. with Male names. Seems these women want more feminine names in the rail yard with Thomas. LOL Where will it end?

  86. Denise says:

    @V I have dated a few people at work when I was maybe 19-21. Once I realized that things could wrong or when I no longer wanted to be around someone I stopped doing it. What was worse for me was rejecting someone and having them behave inappropriately. Not a good time for either party. After that I just dated men outside of work and that’s when I connected with men that shared similar interests.

  87. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KeKe
    Not tried the Spin, yet, but plan to when I return. A bit of chaos the past couple weeks here and I’m trying to get things together to head for Virginia for a week long visit with my Dad. We’re leaving tomorrow evening as soon as I leave the office. (My son is picking me up and we’re leaving directly from there) I usually prepare food and other goodies for him, so I don’t have to cook too much, but have enough so there are left overs I can freeze for him. He’s not much of a cook and he seems to long for things that my Mom used to make. I cook a lot like her and prepare some of her dishes the same way, so I’m taking those with us also. (You know, the “Mom” comfort foods, like meatloaf, baked chicken and I’ll fix a roast turkey breast for Easter Sunday. Lots of veggies and only one dessert. LOL I try to watch the fats and salt for us and still have it taste like Mom made.)

    You won’t see me here much for the next week since my Dad has refused to get a computer. No internet, etc without going elsewhere for access. I’ll be lost. LOL But I will check in when I can – please email me if something “special” happens, since I’m not sure I’ll get access for SA from library computers and I don’t have a smart phone. LOL Let me know if you need my email address. 😉

  88. VitesseSD says:

    @Denise
    “See that’s your problem. They don’t care who you are or what you have.”

    Well, maybe you’d have a point if they didnt come running back if/when they figured out who I was, or see what I’m driving, etc.

    I’ve come to terms with the fact that most women are gold diggers. Now what I care about is whether they’re honest gold diggers. Does she care about me or just the money? Does she want all of it or just what she needs? Does she appreciate what I give her?

  89. KeKe says:

    Oops tried spin

  90. KeKe says:

    @Georgia..there’s someone for everyone. I believe that. What are you doing for the weight? Have you tired spin?

  91. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KeKe
    I did read about your date. I am so happy for you. I wish you many more good, fun times with him! Now, let’s find me one! LOL I’m working on the weight, but I can’t do anything about the age. Oh well…

  92. Andy Martin says:

    Worst tax advice ever.

  93. KeKe says:

    @Georgia. Awe. I wish I had a love story. Maybe next time…oh wait I’m never getting married again. Lol
    I commented earlier about my date. I’m not sure if you saw it but I had a great time!

  94. KeKe says:

    @Denise. I have to agree with you on the of not wanting to be like Islamic nations. I’ve worked with doctors who have volunteered to go to some of those countries to repair vaginal/anal fistula from young girls have repeated childbirth and starting too young. I would never want my daughter to grow up in a society that views women more as property rather than a person.

  95. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @VitesseSD @KeKe
    It was very romantic.

    We were working in a “high-end” department store at that time. I was a department floor manager and he was the store “detective.” It was weird to go out on a date because he was always watching folks hands. (To see where they put them in their pockets or such, stealing merchandise… LOL)

  96. Denise says:

    @V

    @Denise

    “Lol she didn’t screw herself out of dating you. If she says “why do you think you have a shot” it’s clear she’s saying I wouldn’t date you even if all the men died on the planet tomorrow.”

    –The odds that a woman who turns me down will end up with a better man are slim, very slim. She may think whatever she wants about herself and me, but at the end of the day I’ll see another 5 10 50 attractive women that day. She probably wont meet someone else like me if she lives to be 100. The women with that attitude have no idea who I am. They certainly don’t work for me. Besides I wouldn’t hit on women who work for me.

    See that’s your problem. They don’t care who you are or what you have. You hit on them and they aren’t attracted to you for whatever reason. Then you go on well she’ll never find someone like me. I doesn’t matter. For whatever reason you don’t matter to her and if you sleep with 20 attractive women no one cares.

    If I’m interested in a guy and he’s not into me I don’t say ” Well I can have 20 men … blah blah blah”. That just sounds like someone that doesn’t handle rejection well or has a fragile ego. If women are instantly attracted to you then it shouldn’t concern you what happens with that ONE woman that turns you down. Why does it even enter you mind ” she will not find someone better than me in 100 years”.

    I mean why would you even think like that? Someone’s not interested just move on.
    If you want to be happy then you have to allow people to find their own happiness. It may not be you but someone else may be their type. Wish them well and they will return the same in kind.

    What else? How about this, you tell ME where you think its ok to hit on someone. Go on.

    Dating site which you’re already on! On a site like this there are women that happen to be well to do yet have the same issues finding a mate that is in a similar tax bracket. Bars, Clubs, Lounge, Parties, MeetUp etc. , Singles Events etc.:)

  97. Melissa says:

    @Keo
    You’re so right! Self confidence is a major turn on. If man has confidence chances are I will stop and listen to what he has to say

    @GP
    That is romantic. In todays work place though I doubt a guy would pursue for that long

  98. VitesseSD says:

    Typo in my email, curse you gravatar!

  99. VitesseSD says:

    @Denise

    “You do know in Dubai if a woman kisses a man on a cheek she’s sent to prison?”
    You do know in america if a man kisses a woman and she decides she didnt want him to its sexual assault and he goes to prison?

    “If a woman reports rape she’s the one that goes to prison.”
    If a man reports an assault (and he fought back) he’s the one that goes to prison.

    Seems like different sides of the same coin to me. You condemn them but condone the same behavior here.

  100. KeKe says:

    @Georgia.. That is so romantic!

  101. VitesseSD says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    “Hmmmm.
    I met my late husband at our office. He pursued me for over a year. I was dating lots of other guys, but I gave him credit for continuing the chase. Finally, I stopped running, to take a view at exactly who was after me. He was at my apartment that night… and most every night thereafter… for almost 25yrs until the morning he died. Sometimes workplace romances do work, though just not long enough.”

    How romantic :-)

    Although pursuing a woman for a year at work today would probably be impossible, you’d get fired on day two. But what feminists want feminists get. (They dont seem to happy about it though, Q: Where are all the good men? A: Next office/cubicle.)

  102. GeorgiaPeach says:

    Hmmmm.
    I met my late husband at our office. He pursued me for over a year. I was dating lots of other guys, but I gave him credit for continuing the chase. Finally, I stopped running, to take a view at exactly who was after me. He was at my apartment that night… and most every night thereafter… for almost 25yrs until the morning he died. Sometimes workplace romances do work, though just not long enough.

  103. Denise says:

    @FunDude
    Denise your feminist arguments are getting stupider and more biased by the second.

    No I’m not actually arguing. Again with insults? Can’t anyone talk and explain their thoughts without insulting the other party?

    -1) Discrimination against middle class men who have no contacts to give preference to INFERIOR women with lower scores is not “leveling” the playing ground. You are a liar who openly supports discrimination against a group that has NOT benefited from connections.

    Huh? Nope nothing to lie about there. Wow for someone that seems to have alot going for him you really sound angry.

    What women are you referring to that are INFERIOR as you have happily capitalized. If they are just as skilled at the job as men why wouldn’t they be hired for the same work? AA was to give opportunities to people that were barred from being able to be hired on for these positions. Why would you call these women inferior for being able to do these jobs? I don’t understand that.

    – 2) Child Custody Laws used to give the primary income earner the sole custody of the child in the past. This was changed by FEMINISTS.

    Ahh so the person that works the most hours gets to take care of the children? You sure about that? So how do you take care of a 10 month old when you work 60 hours a week at an office? Hire someone right? Well it seemed best to let the mother take care of the children especially since she was a stay at home house wife to begin with.

    3) Divorce Laws in China, Islamic world, etc don’t give women any assets outside of the assets they brought into the marriage.

    Ahh so you want Western Society to be like Islamic nations? Ohh no.

    The Chinese supreme court specifically didn’t allow women to take men’s assets during a divorce. China’s economy is growing at over 8% per year and has far less illegitimate kids. They have a much lower divorce rate, etc.

    The feminist laws have lead to epidemic levels of single mothers, etc.

    No single mothers would still be single mothers. You forget society no longer frowns on children being born out of wedlock.

    -3) Randomly supporting unfair Breast CA as men caring about “boobies” is another feminist straw man.

    Donations are donations. You can’t control what people want to donate towards. So there isn’t anything “unfair” here since donations aren’t mandatory.

    Arguing with a lying feminist is usually worthless. That is why the Chinese and Islamic world are very intelligent in their dealings with these type of women.

    Seriously the islamic nations? You do know in Dubai if a woman kisses a man on a cheek she’s sent to prison? If a woman reports rape she’s the one that goes to prison. In some islamic nations women are murdered by their own family if they are raped. I mean really? That’s a sign of intelligence to you? I even watched a video of women going to the mall dressed in a hijab and still were sexually harassed by a group of men. I couldn’t believe it. I’m thinking so wait the only thing that was showing were their eyes and that still wasn’t enough?

    Also those men marrying 6 year olds and killing them through rape? Riiight that shows loads of intelligence right there.

    -I have come to the conclusion that the Chinese, Islamic and old patriarchal systems were the only functional male/female relations.

    Apparently not since male/female relations still work in our current society.

    There is no reasoning with feminist women who will push for further and further privilege against men.

    Lol privilege? What are you talking about? Women are not privileged. We’ve gone from having no rights to rights. It’s nice!

  104. KeKe says:

    @Vitesse.. I got to say the self confidence is a major turn on!

  105. VitesseSD says:

    @Denise

    “Lol she didn’t screw herself out of dating you. If she says “why do you think you have a shot” it’s clear she’s saying I wouldn’t date you even if all the men died on the planet tomorrow.”

    The odds that a woman who turns me down will end up with a better man are slim, very slim. She may think whatever she wants about herself and me, but at the end of the day I’ll see another 5 10 50 attractive women that day. She probably wont meet someone else like me if she lives to be 100. The women with that attitude have no idea who I am. They certainly don’t work for me. Besides I wouldn’t hit on women who work for me.

    So to recap, the world according to Denise. “Marry someone in your income bracket” lol, “Don’t hit on women at their work”, “Don’t hit on women at your work”.

    What else? How about this, you tell ME where you think its ok to hit on someone. Go on.

  106. KeKe says:

    @BelleNoir when I get hm I’ll look at the box

  107. Josh says:

    Stuff like this is fueling MGTOW

    [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RaIqyuPCWmY]

  108. Rebecca says:

    Fellow Sbs, have you ever been contacted by an assistant of John Deuss? He is an oil tycoon. I have only been able to correspond with the assistant. Her identity is real, but not for being an assistant, but a glam model.

  109. Josh says:

    @Denise

    “Who said I was a feminist?”

    A woman does not need to call herself a “feminist” anymore. Why? Because that reduces her chance of sweet talking a male slave to take back to the plantation.

    All she needs to do is to repeat the feminist arguments, data, talking points while still claiming she is not a feminist.

  110. VitesseSD says:

    Denise, will you just shut up and go back to whatever feminist blog you usually spend your time on? Nobody here is going to believe your made up numbers. You are not backing them up, you are not providing links, or any sort of evidence for anything you say. You quote (unverified) numbers that make things sound big but that when compared to actual reality are statistically insignificant.

    For example you quote 11,766 women murdered in america, over 11 years. That’s 1069 people a year.

    Now lets go and compare that to say workplace fatalities:
    ]https://www.osha.gov/oshstats/commonstats.html[
    4,405 workers were killed on the job in 2013
    93% of those fatalities were men.

    A man is 4 times more likely to die on the job than a woman is to get murdered. Why arn’t you campaigning for men’s workplace safety?

    But at the end of the day 4405 or 1069, against the population of america is insignificant.

    319 million. That’s america’s population.

    0.0003353% of american women get murdered every year. Thats the number you’re screaming about.

    Yes its sad, but theres not some giant vast conspiracy of men going around killing their wives and exes.

    The same thing goes for your rape numbers.
    Adjusted for population 255,000 women claim to have been raped in a survey. (Not taken to trial, not verified by investigation, CLAIM).

    Even then that is less than 1 in 1000. Its 0.079% Thats women claiming to have been raped. Its damn easy to say that it happened on a survey on the phone, whether its true or not is another question.

  111. Josh says:

    @FunDude: “Why do you think women initiate the VAST majority of divorces?”

    Denise: “Well it’s usually surrounding cheating in most cases in others it just that they no longer get along or communicate in a positive way.”

    Are you aware of a phenomenon called “proactive relationship sabotage” by women?

  112. Denise says:

    @V

    So yes, we say “maybe I have a shot” and when a woman rudely says something like “why would you think you have a shot with me” you mentally laugh, think well this girl just screwed herself out of dating me, and move on.

    Lol she didn’t screw herself out of dating you. If she says “why do you think you have a shot” it’s clear she’s saying I wouldn’t date you even if all the men died on the planet tomorrow. Again don’t hit on your co-workers.

    I don’t understand how you compare that to male and female bartenders flirting for tips. The know they’ll make more money if they’re flirtatious.

    Women being nice in a work place are just being nice. You will never get shot down at work if you don’t even hit on them. Leave the place of work as work and find someone to date outside of work. I don’t think you realize how uncomfortable that is when you have to reject someone you will have to see every single day. It’s not fun and makes work awkward because it’s all over that person’s face every time you see them.

    Who said I was a feminist? lol As I said I’m all for men’s right’s but hitting on women at work has no place in this. Keep your date desires out of the office. It’s not rocket science and no you’re not suitable for them as they so directly pointed out to you.

  113. FunDude says:

    Correction: Things will inevitably revert back

  114. Josh says:

    Women don’t want men for sex. They want them for their utility…sex is just a small part of that utility.

    That’s why I get a chuckle out of the guys who try to impress women with their size. I am some women are definitely interested in that, but most aren’t.

    However, if you have really big one then some women would want to try that toy just for heck of it. 😉

  115. FunDude says:

    Things will revert back to inevitably revert back to patriarchy within a 1 to 2 generations. This is inevitable.

    Throughout known history, no civilization that was based on feminist has ever lasted more than 2 generations without being defeated by a patriarchal civilization.

    Ergo, feminism will not last.

  116. Muah says:

    Just because a book says**

  117. Muah says:

    I never said I only had one orgasm. I said I was in the majority of women who rarely have orgasms during intercourse. I also said an orgasm doesn’t define good sex, for me at least. I’ve never been one to fuck for the sake of fucking – again if I want to get off that’s what my toys are for.

    I am old enough to know what I like, what I don’t like, how I am in general as a person and sexually. I prefer spontaneous, fun, intimate sex with someone I genuinely like as a person (and they like me in return of course) Warming up before sex would never happen for me because I would be bored and lose interest before even starting lol. Premeditated sex = yawn for this girl. Also, once I have an orgasm it’s not easier for me to have a second one… On my own or with a partner. Just because says that you can do this this and this, doesn’t mean it will work for me or that I even want to 😉

    I should note that I am a Pisces, maybe that has something to do with my tastes/how I am 😀

  118. FunDude says:

    Denise your feminist arguments are getting stupider and more biased by the second.

    1) Discrimination against middle class men who have no contacts to give preference to INFERIOR women with lower scores is not “leveling” the playing ground. You are a liar who openly supports discrimination against a group that has NOT benefited from connections.

    2) Child Custody Laws used to give the primary income earner the sole custody of the child in the past. This was changed by FEMINISTS.

    3) Divorce Laws in China, Islamic world, etc don’t give women any assets outside of the assets they brought into the marriage.

    The Chinese supreme court specifically didn’t allow women to take men’s assets during a divorce. China’s economy is growing at over 8% per year and has far less illegitimate kids. They have a much lower divorce rate, etc.

    The feminist laws have lead to epidemic levels of single mothers, etc.

    Wonder which works better?

    3) Randomly supporting unfair Breast CA as men caring about “boobies” is another feminist straw man.

    Arguing with a lying feminist is usually worthless. That is why the Chinese and Islamic world are very intelligent in their dealings with these type of women.

    I have come to the conclusion that the Chinese, Islamic and old patriarchal systems were the only functional male/female relations.

    There is no reasoning with feminist women who will push for further and further privilege against men.

  119. Denise says:

    @ FunDude

    Cool story about the “male dominated” society and claiming the MGTOWs are gay. Typical feminist shaming language.

    Actually incorrect. A man shouldn’t be ashamed of having sex with a man. If you think that’s shameful that’s your issue. I never said these men were gay. I said some of them are having sex with men to avoid women at all costs.

    There are MGTOWs that sleep with women often.

    In this male dominated society why is there:

    1) Affirmative Action for women in education and jobs

    AA was put in place to level the field and allow more women into the areas of work that they were previously barred from. Isn’t that obvious.

    2) Divorce laws favorable to women with House, Assets, Alimony, etc given to a woman who divorces using “no fault” laws.

    If the man is dating someone of a lower socioeconomic status then there is inequality in income and holdings. This puts the women (typically younger) in a state of not being able to support her offspring in the even the man in question decides to broom her for another women. These laws were put in place by MEN so they didn’t have to pay for another man’s problems. Society ( men that created these specific laws were looking to the future of their offspring) to make sure that some silver tongued dead beat didn’t come along and destroy the lives of their future family.

    3) Child Custody laws favorable to women. Vast majority of both child support and alimony goes to women. Men lose primary custody of children in most cases.

    In these cases this is just based on who the barer of children is. If men could conceive this law wouldn’t even exist. Women tend to be the primary caregiver in a child’s early years which is why women are more so favored as the primary care giver. Based on the bond the child has with the mother society in general believes it’s best to not break that bond. In other homes it’s the father that is the primary care giver which we’ll start seeing a change in legislation in the future especially with homes that have two mothers or two fathers.

    4) Domestic Violence laws favorable to women

    The number of American troops killed in Afghanistan and Iraq between 2001 and 2012 was 6,488. The number of American women who were murdered by current or ex male partners during that time was 11,766. That’s nearly double the amount of casualties lost during war. ”

    So umm yeah.

    5) Breast CA research funded at 10 times Prostate CA despite equal death rates

    Umm men’s obsession with boobies isn’t anyone’s fault. Apparently issues with breasts not only concern women but men a great deal. Hell, I can’ think of any law that ISN’T favoring women over men. Why do you think women initiate the VAST majority of divorces?

    Well it’s usually surrounding cheating in most cases in others it just that they no longer get along or communicate in a positive way.

    The Western world is run by feminist theory.
    No the Western World is run by Western MEN and some Western WOMEN.
    @ Gentleman

    I know this last part was meant for the men of the blog

    -Dunno going out with early 20s women right now who seem to be interested pretty heavily without exchanging money.

    =You’d be surprised how many early 20s women go for successful men in their 30s.

    20-30 isn’t a real age gap. I was referring to 20-40+ year gaps. If you’re in your 30s dating women in their 20s no one cares about that at all. Not sure why you thought someone would.

  120. VitesseSD says:

    @Muah

    If you already knew all that then, why only one orgasm?

  121. Muah says:

    @Vit
    Lol um yea I already knew all of that, but thanks… I am not living an orgasm free life, I’m just not in denial or oblivious to how my body works. It also doesn’t change the fact that I am still one of the majority who do not reach climax during sex. Personally, foreplay doesn’t do much for me – Unless it is me using my vibrator lol.

  122. VitesseSD says:

    @Josh

    “Hmmm. So you want to enjoy your time with the ladies and leave him here to wrote long-ass posts? ;)”

    I dont know why I bother. Arguing with a feminist is like arguing with a dolphin, they just dont understand a word you’re saying. Denise quotes an article, that quotes a survey, and somehow thinks a survey that doesn’t address false charges or ask men how often they were falsely accused of rape is somehow evidence that it doesnt happen.

  123. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Just finishing at work. Checking out the blog and going out to the bar tonight for a nice date tonight.

  124. Josh says:

    @Fundude

    Hmmm. So you want to enjoy your time with the ladies and leave him here to wrote long-ass posts? 😉

  125. FunDude says:

    @Vit

    Keep up the good work man.

  126. VitesseSD says:

    @Muah

    No need to wait till 30, jeez.

    Theres a few tricks to it, so here goes.
    (Viewer discretion is advised. Mature audiences only etc etc)

    Foreplay, get plenty.
    Have at least one orgasm from manual/oral stimulation before penile penetration. (One is the minimum not the target)
    (Here’s why: With every orgasm you have, you will get more sensitive and tighter, making following orgasms easier to get. The first one is the hardest and never fast, it should therefore ALWAYS be done through other means during foreplay.)

    Sex does not have to be penis/vagina only, use your hands while being penetrated.

    After your second or third orgasm more orgasms are very very easy. Its more a question of how many you can handle before you become too sensitive/sore/exhausted. To help this along your first few orgasms should be done in positions where you’re in control (on top etc). The later ones should be the other way around so he can help you when you’re getting tired and sensitive.

    Some women want to stop momentarily (due to sensitivity) between orgasms, some women want a man to push through when they’re feeling too sensitive, if the second is the case set up a safeword and discuss it beforehand.

    Position wise your goal should always be to hit the g-spot (inside your vagina within easy reach of your fingers on the side your belly button is on, theres a patch of skin that feels a bit different). Unlike the clitoris this requires significant pressure during stimulation, gently rubbing it won’t do much of anything. So during sex you should keep in mind what position his penis is in and try to have it push against your g-spot (say you’re doing cowgirl, leaning back will move the pressure to the right place.)

    Anyhow thats just the short version. Go to a bookstore or library and read all their books on sex. People have been writing about the topic for thousands of years.

  127. VitesseSD says:

    @Denise

    “You have the right to defend yourself against a woman hitting you. “
    No, if a cop shows up, when a woman hit a man and he hit back, it doesn’t matter who hit who first, the man is going to jail, she’s not.

    “The right to determine whether or not they will have children (birth control and abortions).”
    They in this case are men. Men do not have any right to say, no you will not abort my child, or to say, no I do not want a baby.

    “You always have the right to birth control since women can only get pregnant if a man impregnates her. Stop having bareback sex and you will never have this problem.”
    I always use condoms, but condoms can and do break. Women can and do poke holes in them. I was with a woman who lied about being on the pill as well.

    “Your penis, your sperm, your responsibility. Wear a Condom. “ Get it through your head, condoms are not 100%.

    “Were those assets acquired because of the wife’s support”
    No, unless the wife made the money herself, I don’t care how much she said “way to go” and “I support you” she did not contribute.

    “If you’re not marrying someone of a lower income level then these problems don’t typically happen and divorces are rather amicable. “
    Finding a woman with comparable assets/income is not bloody likely. Your solution here is “be poor and divorce wont hurt”? Even that is inaccurate, alimony and child support can be higher than a mans total income.

    “I’m not saying there aren’t some terrible parents that use their children as pawns on a battlefield but divorces can be messy. “
    Go read the statistics, this is the majority of cases not the minority.

    “So wait you want to rape someone underage and not pay for the offspring you created? Lol sorry you lost me on this one.“

    Nope I mean that the other way around.
    ]http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/05/nick-olivas-alleged-rape-victim-_n_5773532.html[
    “When Nick Olivas was 14, he claimed he had an alleged — and illicit — affair with a 20-year-old woman.
    Two years ago, when the older woman filed for public assistance, Olivas, 24, learned that he was the father of her daughter. The Arizona Department of Economic Security then looked for someone responsible for the girl’s financial well-being and tracked down Olivas.
    According to the state, he now owes $15,000 in child support, plus money for his daughter’s birth expenses and 10 percent interest.“

    “You can’t control teachers as you can’t control bullies. If a child girl or boy is being bullied they need to take it to a higher authority. I’ve never watched a teacher sit back and watch bullying and go cool!. Nope. “ let me repeat the critical bit of that.
    “I’ve never watched a teacher sit back and watch bullying and go cool!. Nope.”
    BECAUSE YOU WERE A GIRL.

    “Again incorrect. Are they receiving a lighter sentence due to the man being the instigator of a crime? That could be why. If the male perp has a wrap sheet that goes on for days and the woman hasn’t been in the legal system, they’ll obviously give her a lighter sentence. Again incorrect. Are they receiving a lighter sentence due to the man being the instigator of a crime? That could be why. If the male perp has a wrap sheet that goes on for days and the woman hasn’t been in the legal system, they’ll obviously give her a lighter sentence.“

    Where the hell do you get this crap? No men were involved in these cases, and even if there were men involved why should women get lighter sentences?
    ]http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/11/men-women-prison-sentence-length-gender-gap_n_1874742.html[
    “A new study by Sonja Starr, an assistant law professor at the University of Michigan, found that men are given much higher sentences than women convicted of the same crimes in federal court.
    The study found that men receive sentences that are 63 percent higher, on average, than their female counterparts.“

    “Incorrect. If he has 2 strikes against him, wouldn’t he be a fool for getting caught stealing a sandwich? I mean now he can eat three square meals a day but will have to “service someone”. Dumb Criminals are Dumb Criminals. Also he has 2 strikes and you have to do something seriously awful to get one strike but two? This isn’t some poor misunderstood guy. Maybe he raped twice and now will be enjoying the same abuse he inflicts on others. I say it’s great to see someone getting what they deserve. “

    ]http://www.rollingstone.com/politics/news/cruel-and-unusual-punishment-the-shame-of-three-strikes-laws-20130327[
    “Once California’s Three Strikes law went into effect at midnight on March 8th, 1994, it would take just nine hours for it to claim its first hapless victim, a homeless schizophrenic named Lester Wallace with two nonviolent burglaries on his sheet, who attempted to steal a car radio near the University of Southern California campus.
    Wallace was such an incompetent thief that he was still sitting in the passenger seat of the car by the time police arrived. He went to court and got 25 years to life. In prison, Wallace immediately became a target. He was sexually and physically attacked numerous times – there’s an incident in his file involving an inmate who told him, “Motherfucker, I’ll kill you if you don’t let me go up in you.” He was switched to protective custody, and over the years he has suffered from seizures and developed severe back problems (forcing him to walk with a cane) and end-stage renal disease (leading to dialysis treatments three times a week). And even months after California voters chose to reform the law, the state still won’t agree to release him.“

    You’re totally right, rape is the correct punishment for stealing car radios etc. You know what, rape should be the punishment for any crime! While we’re at it, why don’t we punish that 40% of women who falsely accused men of rape, by gang-raping them? Sounds fair to me! Cruel and unusual? Noooo, not at all. Oh wait? You don’t want to do that? Why? Because they’re women? Oh gee, I dunno, its what would happen to a man if her accusation of rape wasn’t disproven.
    But you’re right, getting raped over a car stereo is reasonable.

    “You do know the greatest threat to man is like heart disease right? The greatest threat to women is MEN.”
    ]http://www.cdc.gov/women/lcod/2011/index.htm[
    “1) Heart disease 22.9 2) Cancer 21.8 3) Stroke 6.1 4) Chronic lower respiratory diseases 6.0 5) Alzheimer’s disease 4.7 6) Unintentional injuries 3.7 7) Diabetes 2.8 8) Influenza and pneumonia 2.3 9) Kidney disease 1.8 10) Septicemia 1.5”
    Nope, men dont even make it into the top ten.

    “So wait you want to beat on a woman that verbally expresses her displeasure? I think you have bigger problems if you want to physically hurt a woman with your fists yet at the same time complain about boys bullying each other? So it’s only ok if it’s a woman? Again this is troubling to read. If you’re an adult and a woman is saying something to you that you don’t like leave. If she lunges at you then you can call the police and have her arrested.
    Dignity you say? Well men have to start there. You forget that men in general harass, threaten and push in women’s personal spaces without an invitation. When a woman demands that man leave her presence and respect her personhood most typically lash out with insults or threaten to physically do her harm. Even on regular dating sites most women are insulted when they reject a man which is why many women just ignore messages from men they aren’t interested in or they do that weird fade out. “

    Wait, hold on, I ask you to treat men with respect, (say not spitting on or yelling at men), and you somehow jump to the conclusion that I want to hit women? I’ve never hit a woman in my life. I’ve been tackled by a woman who literally jumped off a bed and started swinging at me when I broke up with her, but no, I’ve never hit a woman.

    “It’s only wise to approach women that clearly are interested. The problem is women are more than clear on who they’re interested in but the average guy keeps with the ” maybe I have a shot”.”

    Actually this is completely false.
    Every single waitress and bartender everywhere is shamelessly flirting with every customer for bigger tips. At work, its hard to tell if a woman is being friendly or wants more. Women are absolutely horrible at sending “signals” and men are worse at receiving them. Not to mention if its someone you don’t know, well is she going to give signals to everyone if she’s single? No of course not. So yes, we say “maybe I have a shot” and when a woman rudely says something like “why would you think you have a shot with me” you mentally laugh, think well this girl just screwed herself out of dating me, and move on.

    “Wow that last part of your statement was creepy. First and foremost. Work is WORK. I’ll say it again. WORK IS WORK. I can’t even believe you wrote women are alone because suitable co-workers are afraid to ask them out. Do you know how creepy that sounds?“
    Just a moment ago you were telling me to hit on women of my own age and income level, for most men that’s women they work with. I really don’t see what’s creepy about that, no.

    “You said SUITABLE as if you’ve determined what is SUITABLE for another human being. That’s the problem. You can’t project your wants on others and then say ” I know what you desire, what you’re thinking etc”. This is the number one problem. Stop thinking for women. They have their own minds and they know what they want. If they desire a mate they’ll find one and most of the men they work around are NOT suitable for one reason or another. “

    I’m sorry I think a woman with a shaved head and racist tattoos is unsuitable! I’m sorry I decide whether or not someone would be a suitable girlfriend before I ask her out. Oh wait, no, I’m not sorry. You’re right I’ll let women do all the thinking, like you’re asking me. Not. Enjoy being alone when you cant keep a man.

    “So to sum things up:”
    blah blah blah
    “Marry in the same tax bracket around the same age group so there aren’t issues when divorce comes up or don’t marry at all.” but “Don’t seek a girlfriend or wife from the largest pool of suitable women in the same age group and tax bracket”
    “Move to community property state” lol.
    “Do not expect women to acknowledge you just because you said “hello”. If you don’t say hello to men then you’re singling out women for attention.” Guess I can’t hit on women anymore. Is the extinction of humanity your fault? We cant say hi anymore, and just jumping on a woman and having sex with her is frowned upon.
    “If you are being bullied and the teacher isn’t assisting go to the principal and the police.” That road goes nowhere.

    That last one… wow you totally missed the point. But I’ll relink a relevant story.
    ]http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/09/05/nick-olivas-alleged-rape-victim-_n_5773532.html[

    Get it?

    So let me be clear.
    I don’t respect you. Do I respect the other women here? Yes.
    You however are a mindless feminist. You are proof of how f*ed up feminists have become.

    No man will ever be able to tolerate you for a prolonged period of time.
    You will end up alone.

    Let me leave you with these videos (Street harassment)
    ]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75aX9mlipiY[
    Protester assaulted by feminist didn’t defend himself, police ask him for ID.
    ]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBoT9mmtTO8&t=2m12s[

    Denise, you are scum. Not because you’re a woman, but because you are a man hating man bashing parrot for feminist propaganda who has never had an original thought in her life.

  128. Denise says:

    @Rape crime stats have proven that rape accusations are very commonly false.

    Incorrect. Also there seems to be a new term for rape called “non consensual sex”. Apparently there are men that rape women but aren’t considered the ” wait in an alley wearing a ski mask and pounce” types.

  129. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Muah
    Probably so.
    Girls often are the worst to each other. I can’t stand that henhouse crap that occurs so much.

  130. Denise says:

    @VitesseSD
    “-Bluntly your numbers are pulled out of some feminists ass, while the numbers I’m quoting are coming from law enforcement and the justice system.”

    Actually I wasn’t pulling my statistics from fem anything. I went with nationwide statistics. Pulled from the largest national anti-sexual assault organization.

    Every 107 seconds, another American is sexually assaulted.

    Here’s the math. According to the U.S. Department of Justice’s National Crime Victimization Survey (NCVS)–there is an average of 293,066 victims (age 12 or older) of rape and sexual assault each year.

    There are 525,600 minutes in a non-leap year. That makes 31,536,000 seconds/year. So, 31,536,000 divided by 293,066 comes out to 1 sexual assault every 107 seconds.

    The majority of sexual assault are not reported to the police (an average of 68% of assaults in the last five years were not reported).1 Those rapists, of course, will never spend a day in prison. But even when the crime is reported, it is unlike to lead to an arrest and prosecution. Factoring in unreported rapes, only about 2% of rapists will ever serve a day in prison.

    If you’re referring to strange rape. Stranger rape accounts for about 1/3 of rape crimes.

    About Rapists

    Approximately 2/3 of assaults are committed by someone known to the victim
    38% of rapists are a friend or acquaintance
    Frenemy takes on a whole new meaning.

    Most rape goes unreported because of the attitude that it didn’t actually happen.

    Also the baby chicks comment? That was uncalled for. I understand you’re passionate about this topic and so am I but there isn’t a reason to insult one another in the process.

    I will correct and state 2-8% but again this still leaves out 92-98% of real rapes most of which will never be reported.

  131. Muah says:

    @StruggleIsReal
    Sounds like that gal is extremely insecure. It always surprises me that men don’t see that – that it took bringing her around another female/other people to see how awful she actually is.

  132. Muah says:

    Perhaps, once I hit 30 I will come by orgasms far easier than I do now… However, until then I find myself among the 70/75% of women who are unable to orgasm during vaginal intercourse (and of that group, those who do – it may take 20+ minutes to get there) Fortunately, I am not foolish enough to define good sex by orgasm alone lol. It takes awhile to discover what you like sexually and building the confidence to express that, building confidence in yourself – it doesn’t necessarily have to do with being close minded. Sometimes when you do express what you like – the advice isn’t taken – which makes the sex even worse lol. I think KeKe mentioned that… Anyways, everyone’s sexual preferences are different as well.

  133. FunDude says:

    @Vit

    Correct. Rape crime stats have proven that rape accusations are very commonly false.

    UVA, Duke Lacrosse, etc are far from uncommon.

  134. Denise says:

    @Keke

    Thanks.I just saw the headline in google. That is so wrong. He was 14 and she was 20. He now has to pay 15k in back child support. If he can’t legally consent to sex how are they holding him to child support?

    Now this is something I would want to fight.

  135. BelleNoir says:

    Wait one second. Okay, so I thought I was having great sex at 1 orgasm *face palm* I need to look into more, now that I’m more sexually comfortable and confident. For me, I just know what I like in bed, and I communicate that. But I can definitely see where multiple orgasms are possible. The guys that I’ve been with just like the tightness and being with me, but I don’t really do anything special–I’m just into whatever it is that we’re doing (no tricks/skills/techniques). While I’m having way better sex then I used to, I clearly have more to learn! @KeKe, I have to look into this vibrating muscle toner! If you don’t mind my asking, what’s the name of it?

  136. VitesseSD says:

    @Denise I’m going to break up my reply into a few posts.

    “It’s stated that roughly 2.1% of rapes (that are reported) are false which means that a staggering 97.9% are true and still 97 out of 100 rapists never spend a day in jail. So yeah there’s that which is exactly why nothing is really being done about this 2.1% because the 97.9 aren’t being persecuted for their crimes.“

    Stated by who?

    []http://www.avoiceformalestudents.com/avfms-mega-post-10-reasons-false-rape-accusations-are-common/[]

    ‘Consider the words of veteran sex-crimes prosecutor Craig Silverman:
    “For 16 years, I was a kickass prosecutor who made most of my reputation vigorously prosecuting rapists. I am unaware of any Colorado prosecutor who put as many rapists away for as much prison time as I did during my prosecutorial career. Several dozen rapists are serving thousands of years as a result of my efforts.
    However, during my time as a prosecutor who made case filing decisions, I was amazed to see all the false rape allegations that were made to the Denver Police Department. It was remarkable and surprising to me. You would have to see it to believe it.
    Any honest veteran sex assault investigator will tell you that rape is one of the most falsely reported crimes that there is. A command officer in the Denver Police sex assaults unit recently told me he placed the false rape numbers at approximately 45 percent. Objective studies have confirmed this. See Purdue Professor Kanin’s nine-year study published in 1994 concluding that over 40 percent of rape allegations were demonstrably false.”’

    “Sgt. Sandra Tomeo of Plano PD told reporters for the Plano Star Courier that false rape accusations were “a common occurrence,” citing numbers indicating that ~47% of rape accusations made to Plano, TX police were demonstrably false [6].”

    “Speaking to the Warrington Guardian, detective Dougie Shaw said:
    We have anything up to four or five reports of rape every weekend but a large number of complaints turn out to be something else with some not thinking about the consequences of false allegations. But we always take allegations of rape seriously and do everything we can to gather evidence.
    Most weekends we also have a report from somebody saying their drink has been spiked with rohypnol – while we have had cases where women have been drugged these are extremely rare. We actually have significantly less genuine rape cases than those reported so it is important to consider the percentage of bona fide reports when looking at conviction statistics, which appear low because they encompass all reports “

    Bluntly your numbers are pulled out of some feminists ass, while the numbers I’m quoting are coming from law enforcement and the justice system.

    “Dr. Eugene Kanin is a retired sociologist at Purdue University. As an early Feminist he pioneered awareness and study of the concept of date rape. In the 1990s he authored a study on the prevalence of false rape accusations which concluded that 41% of the accusers – which were in fact all of the accusations made to the police department of a small metropolitan area over a ten year period–were false.”
    “A review of 556 rape accusations filed against Air Force personnel found that 27% of women later recanted. Then 25 criteria were developed based on the profile of those women, and then submitted to three independent reviewers to review the remaining cases. If all three reviewers deemed the allegation was false, it was categorized as false.
    As a result, 60% of all allegations were found to be false. Of those women who later recanted, many didn’t admit the allegation was false until just before taking a polygraph test. Others admitted it was false only after having failed a polygraph test “
    These aren’t women who were scared out of prosecuting these are women who failed lie detector tests or changed their minds about pressing charges when they discovered they would undergo lie detector tests.

    “A 1996 Department of Justice report documented that “in about 25% of the sexual assault cases referred to the FBI…the primary suspect has been excluded by forensic DNA testing” [13]. In other words, the DNA found on the accuser didn’t match those accused.”

    “As Edward Greer, J.D., states in the Loyola of Los Angeles Law Review, “no study has ever been published which sets forth an evidentiary basis for the ‘two percent false rape complaint’ thesis,” and that “without exception every scholarly or semi-scholarly source that utilizes the two percent false claim proposition can ultimately be traced back to Against Our Will.”
    Against Our Will is a book on rape by Feminist Susan Brownmiller that was published in the 1970s. Brownmiller claims that she was given the figure by a professional in the criminal justice system. We are given no evidence other than her word that this was ever the case.“

    If after all that, you still think its only 2% of men being falsely accused you don’t have the common sense god gave baby ducks.

    “There is a case where one woman is having to pay restitution for lying about being raped.“
    Oh, gee, one whole woman? She’s not even in prison.

  137. Denise says:

    t takes time and effort for a man to give a woman an orgasm. Any man can do it, as you pointed out lesbians can do it without a dick. The question really isn’t can a man give you an orgasm, its does he want to bother with the effort. If its a one night stand, where you will never see each other again, and the guy really doesn’t care, your odds of finding a gentleman who believes in “ladies come first” is pretty low.

    That’s the point. Exactly!. So this is why the ease of finding a sex partner for that average man is hard. If he’s interested in dating men that difficulty isn’t there.

  138. KeKe says:

    @Denise..I think Vitesse is referring to underage boys having sex and having to pay child support. Either with an older girl or in general, I think.

  139. KeKe says:

    @Struggle. Thanks hon! Showing off my weight loss. Striving for 10 more pds!

  140. Denise says:

    I knew that was going to be long. Sorry for the typos. What I initially thought VitessSD was going to state was the whole “selective service” required sign up for men when they turn 18.

    Men’s rights should have nothing to do with hitting on women at work. That’s not an actual right.

  141. KeKe says:

    @Latin my SD bought me a vibrator that vibrates when you do kegels correctly. :-) I’m training those muscles!

  142. StruggleIsReal says:

    @latin
    Thanks for the hug dear! You’re so sweet!
    I am definitely interested to know more about this technique! Do let me know more later, about what you mean by “weights”, “ancho” etc. hehe

    @KeKe
    Hello dear! Hot gravatar!

  143. a latin opinion says:

    Awwwww @struggles you are back! I had miss you! A lot (-: a huge hug for you honey.

    I will read all about your adventure tonight, is nice to see you again.

    About the 20, I already told them how. MASTURBATE! A LOT! DIGITAL STYLE FIRST UNTIL YOU BECOME ALMOST ADDICTED TO THOSE SELFIES AND THEN START TRAINING THOSE MUSCLES! WITH WEIGHTS NOT “ANCHO” PESADO PESADO! (i don’t know how to say that en English sorry, I’m about to drive)

  144. KeKe says:

    @Struggle Welcome back! So happy to hear about your GB. It’s always better to take the higher road. It makes her look ridiculous. It’s it nice to find a “unicorn”. Lol

  145. a latin opinion says:

    “See? That’s good sex but so many women arn’t even aware that’s possible. It’s sad, the only upside is if you’re the first man to do that for a woman”

    Disagree: you don’t do that for a woman, (if she is bad, she is bad man) is something she has to learn, she has to learn about her own body first, them you found a guy who also knows him self. The result is awesome sex! Have to go bye everyone.

  146. StruggleIsReal says:

    Hey guys!
    It’s been a minute! I hope all is well with everyone, in love, lust, and life in general.

    I just got back from an amazing trip with my GB.
    He. Is. Incredible.
    I want to write a book called “How to be a Perfect Fucking Man” in which I just describe him and how he is. I don’t mean to gloat… I just feel so damn lucky and thankful :)

    I got to meet and hang with some of his buddies and it went better than I could have hoped for. They are great guys, so much fun, and were very vocal about how much they liked me, which is only important to me because I want to please my man and make him proud, and of course because it’s that much more awesome that we can all genuinely enjoy each other when we hang out.
    Conversely, they all disapproved of the other girlfriend who was around. She could totally feel the disparity and made herself even more disliked by being needlessly and overtly rude to me for absolutely no reason. I am always amused by such things and don’t really take it personally. I simply deflected it- I honestly could not have cared any less- and my GB was increasingly disgusted by her cruel pecking and impressed that I didn’t engage it. We just laughed when her own boyfriend asked where he could find a copy of me somewhere. Good thing she wasn’t around to hear that part… LoL! Doesn’t seem she’ll be sticking around long, from the sounds of it. Too bad for her, because her boyfriend is a total catch!

    @ONSD
    Excited to hear how your meet goes today! Of course I hope it goes great! Very interesting that this IRL card-drop is possibly developing into something! *fingers crossed*

    @FunDude
    Did I read that you are going to U of Chicago Booth? That’s where my GB is getting his MBA.
    Glad to hear that you are getting some better prospects from the site! Maybe some of the flakes are flaking off for good, after having fulfilled their post-50 Shades curiosity, having realized it’s not for them. We can hope, anyways.

    @Kenna
    Looking good sweetheart! And no, I would never be able to notice that you have a bump, from the looks of your gravatar! Glad you are moved, although yep, unpacking does suck. Did you ever decide if you’re going to drive out there, or if you’re going to go the way of a driver, etc?

    @latin
    Wow… I have never orgasmed 20 times in one session. Multiple times, yes, but 20…. woah!

  147. KeKe says:

    @BelleNoir @Latin.. 12 yrs with the same person. He still doesn’t do what I like in bed. It took me a while to not be embarrassed about what I like and to tell him. Still he doesn’t get it. One conversation with my SD and he does it all.

  148. Denise says:

    @VitesseSD

    1. The right to send a woman to prison when she falsely accuses a man of rape. (What would have happened to him.)

    It’s stated that roughly 2.1% of rapes (that are reported) are false which means that a staggering 97.9% are true and still 97 out of 100 rapists never spend a day in jail. So yeah there’s that which is exactly why nothing is really being done about this 2.1% because the 97.9 aren’t being persecuted for their crimes.

    There is a case where one woman is having to pay restitution for lying about being raped.

    2. The right to self defense when hit by a woman.

    You have the right to defend yourself against a woman hitting you.

    3. The right to determine whether or not they will have children (birth control and abortions).

    Who are “they”. This comment sounds like you’re discussing cattle. You always have the right to birth control since women can only get pregnant if a man impregnates her. Stop having bareback sex and you will never have this problem. When you put birth control on the woman’s shoulder you give up your right. Your penis, your sperm, your responsibility. Wear a Condom.

    4. The right to keep assets they earned in a divorce.
    Were those assets acquired because of the wife’s support or did you get that on your own? I live in a community property state where it’s split down the middle. If you’re not marrying someone of a lower income level then these problems don’t typically happen and divorces are rather amicable. Trying to get that barely legal teen straight of a high school and into a year of college? Then you’ve just taken on a dependent unless her family already comes from wealth.
    In other words marry in your own age group+ tax bracket and problem solved.

    5. The right to see their own children. Shared custody is just that. If you’re sharing custody they you can see your children. If the wife is causing issues in this regard then the lawyer needs to get involved and have required visitation with “video and audio” going to show any and all issues. There also can’t be reports of domestic violence in the home at all. If so obviously visitation will be a problem. There may also be a concern with men harassing their wives rather than being ooh so interested in seeing their children.

    I’m not saying there aren’t some terrible parents that use their children as pawns on a battlefield but divorces can be messy.

    5. The right to not pay child support if they are victims of statutory rape.

    So wait you want to rape someone underage and not pay for the offspring you created? Lol sorry you lost me on this one.

    6.The right to not be physically bullied and have teachers look the other way “they’re just boys being boys” (if a girl was involved it’d never be allowed)

    You can’t control teachers as you can’t control bullies. If a child girl or boy is being bullied they need to take it to a higher authority. I’ve never watched a teacher sit back and watch bullying and go cool!. Nope.

    7. The right to equal treatment under the law (women are convicted far less frequently, and receive much lighter sentences)

    Again incorrect. Are they receiving a lighter sentence due to the man being the instigator of a crime? That could be why. If the male perp has a wrap sheet that goes on for days and the woman hasn’t been in the legal system, they’ll obviously give her a lighter sentence.

    7. The right to have male rape be something other than a punchline (a man steals a sandwich in california, 3 strikes law kicks in, mandatory life in prison, I guess being frequently raped for life over a sandwich is fair).

    Incorrect. If he has 2 strikes against him, wouldn’t he be a fool for getting caught stealing a sandwich? I mean now he can eat three square meals a day but will have to “service someone”. Dumb Criminals are Dumb Criminals. Also he has 2 strikes and you have to do something seriously awful to get one strike but two? This isn’t some poor misunderstood guy. Maybe he raped twice and now will be enjoying the same abuse he inflicts on others. I say it’s great to see someone getting what they deserve.

    8. The right to be treated with dignity by women. (Women ‘know’ men will never hit back no matter what they do or say, so they say and do unforgivable things).

    You do know the greatest threat to man is like heart disease right? The greatest threat to women is MEN.

    So wait you want to beat on a woman that verbally expresses her displeasure? I think you have bigger problems if you want to physically hurt a woman with your fists yet at the same time complain about boys bullying each other? So it’s only ok if it’s a woman? Again this is troubling to read. If you’re an adult and a woman is saying something to you that you don’t like leave. If she lunges at you then you can call the police and have her arrested.

    Dignity you say? Well men have to start there. You forget that men in general harass, threaten and push in women’s personal spaces without an invitation. When a woman demands that man leave her presence and respect her personhood most typically lash out with insults or threaten to physically do her harm. Even on regular dating sites most women are insulted when they reject a man which is why many women just ignore messages from men they aren’t interested in or they do that weird fade out.

    9. The right to seek a mate without being called “creepy” or a “perv” if the woman is uninterested. (Women do not hit on men, the only way a man can know if a woman is interested is to ask, doing so is not sexual harassment, one reason you’re alone is because suitable coworkers are scared to ask you out.)

    You have a right to seek a mate. What you don’t have a right to is to control have someone FEELS about you hitting on them. If it’s clear you’re not even an option in their mind then you are being creepy because you have ignored their disinterest.

    You can’t control how a woman responds to you hitting on her. It’s only wise to approach women that clearly are interested. The problem is women are more than clear on who they’re interested in but the average guy keeps with the ” maybe I have a shot”.
    Wow that last part of your statement was creepy. First and foremost. Work is WORK. I’ll say it again. WORK IS WORK. I can’t even believe you wrote women are alone because suitable co-workers are afraid to ask them out. Do you know how creepy that sounds?

    You said SUITABLE as if you’ve determined what is SUITABLE for another human being. That’s the problem. You can’t project your wants on others and then say ” I know what you desire, what you’re thinking etc”. This is the number one problem. Stop thinking for women. They have their own minds and they know what they want. If they desire a mate they’ll find one and most of the men they work around are NOT suitable for one reason or another.

    Work relationships are nightmares for most companies why? When things sour they impact the business focus. Also if you have a significant age gap from the women you’re trying to date at work they’ll think you’re creepy. Most young women ( not seeking a sugar daddy)do not date upwards of 20-40 years. They seek people in their own age groups that have similar views, desires, wants etc.

    Another issue is that you give people too much credit. If you see what happens when someone gets turned down for a date or interest, could you imagine what happens if this is someone that has the power to higher and fire? This is why most sexual harassment reports 1 in 4 women are sexually harassed at the workplace. Companies don’t want men trying to use work as their dating pool because it costs them MONEY! Most work environments are referred to as “hostile work environments” when the average man is rejected. Why? Many will talk to other male co-workers about their conquests which means everyone will know if he fails. Failure is not an option which is why a direct attack of the woman in question follows soon after.

    So to sum things up:
    Wear condoms
    Don’t be a dumb criminal
    Don’t hit on women at work
    Get behind legislation that persecutes the 97 out of 100 men that are raping so that the 2% that don’t can actually get women arrested for wrongly accusing them. Women rape too and men should not champion women taking advantage of young boys with “I wish that was me when I was in school!”. Again these are men overlooking women abusing young boys.

    Marry in the same tax bracket around the same age group so there aren’t issues when divorce comes up or don’t marry at all.
    Move to community property state
    Treat women with respect and don’t make inappropriate comments on their appearance.
    Do not expect women to acknowledge you just because you said “hello”. If you don’t say hello to men then you’re singling out women for attention.
    Do not ask women to “smile”. They aren’t walking entertainment.
    If you are being bullied and the teacher isn’t assisting go to the principal and the police.
    Custody Issues: Keep records up to date. Record all conversations and video record attempted visits.
    Don’t rape children and you will not have to pay for the offspring of said rape. <– I can't believe I had to type that out.

  149. a latin opinion says:

    BelleNoir says:
    March 30, 2015 at 11:08 am

    Unfortunately, many women do not learn these things until later in life, or because of a closed mine or ignorance, never. During the first 5 years of my sexual activity (I started late, not until 20), I did not enjoy it. I only did it to please my boyfriend at the time, which is why I only wanted it 2 or 3 times a month, if that. Heck, I would’ve been happy just remaining abstinent. However, around 25, I realized something had to change…and now I know what good/great sex is! lol

    I feel you girl! Lol my story is so much like yours, but for me was 6 long years with any knowledge of sex whatsoever from my part neither from his.

  150. VitesseSD says:

    @latin
    “Lol and awesome sex (the one I really enjoy/seek) is a minimum of 20 orgasms for session, 2 sessions at night and if spending the night together one morning session with a minimum of 7 (sorry I’m not a morning person/ I wake up too hungry lol)”

    See? That’s good sex but so many women arn’t even aware that’s possible. It’s sad, the only upside is if you’re the first man to do that for a woman odds are she’s going to stalk you if you eventually break up. (Actually I’m not sure getting stalked is an upside, but at least you’ll never get dumped.)

  151. a latin opinion says:

    Lol and awesome sex (the one I really enjoy/seek) is a minimum of 20 orgasms for session, 2 sessions at night and if spending the night together one morning session with a minimum of 7 (sorry I’m not a morning person/ I wake up too hungry lol)

  152. VitesseSD says:

    I wonder where Denise vanished to.

  153. VitesseSD says:

    @latin
    “For a woman who know her own sexuality “bad sex” is just 2 o 3 orgasms one night.”

    Very true.

  154. a latin opinion says:

    VitesseSD says:
    March 30, 2015 at 10:44 am

    It takes time and effort for a man to give a woman an orgasm. Any man can do it, as you pointed out lesbians can do it without a dick. The question really isn’t can a man give you an orgasm, its does he want to bother with the effort. If its a one night stand, where you will never see each other again, and the guy really doesn’t care, your odds of finding a gentleman who believes in “ladies come first” is pretty low.

    AT THIS POINT OF MY LIFE PAPI, if I want something I get it. If the guy took proper care of my mind, gave me the time to show he respect me, is kind to me believe me There is not such time as “don’t orgasm” in my book.

    For a woman who know her own sexuality “bad sex” is just 2 o 3 orgasms one night.

  155. VitesseSD says:

    @Promise

    I doubt many men would get married at all now days. Not because we don’t believe in commitment or monogamy but because its a giant risk with zero payoff.

  156. FlyBoy says:

    @Muah:

    There shouldn’t be double standards as to what women get away with – All that does is set gender equality back.

    The “double standards” is biologically built in. It will not go away. Men are not going to marry sluts no matter what anybody says.

    Whoring is completely incompatible with wifing, and that is the unvarnished truth.

    Cheers :)

    PS: Whoring is here defined as promiscuous sex with multiple partners. Whether money exchanged hands or not is immaterial.

  157. Promise says:

    @FunDude I want to be a traditional lady. 😀
    Would any of you get married at first sight? I honestly think I would.

  158. VitesseSD says:

    @KeKe
    Truth. Guessing games suck for everyone.

    @latin
    “Is simple, we women have the awesome gift of have multiple orgasms. And the farther you found your self from that reality the worst you are in bed (I’m not talking about satisfying the guy, I’m talking about you and what you feel on bed).”

    Not to mention, if she’s not satisfied, she won’t want more, if she doesn’t want more he’ll end up unsatisfied in the long run. Its just bad for everybody.

  159. a latin opinion says:

    VitesseSD says:
    March 30, 2015 at 10:44 am

    Try a real relationship sometime, don’t fake orgasms, show the guy what gets you off, and the odds are the guy will care enough about you to get you off all day (and night) long.

    Sleeping with tons of men hoping for an orgasm is about as logical as smashing the windows on 100 cars, and hoping one will magically start when you put it in drive. You need the keys.

    BRAVO PAPI! LOL BRAVISIMO!

  160. BelleNoir says:

    @keke & @latin: applause to you ladies as well. This is extremely true. Unfortunately, many women do not learn these things until later in life, or because of a closed mine or ignorance, never. During the first 5 years of my sexual activity (I started late, not until 20), I did not enjoy it. I only did it to please my boyfriend at the time, which is why I only wanted it 2 or 3 times a month, if that. Heck, I would’ve been happy just remaining abstinent. However, around 25, I realized something had to change…and now I know what good/great sex is! lol

  161. a latin opinion says:

    Muah says:

    I am quite certain that woman would want sex just as much as men – if they were satisfied/enjoyed themselves. There are many women out there that have no idea what good sex is – which is terrible! So the more bad/unsatisfying sex they have the less they want it…

    There shouldn’t be double standards as to what women get away with – All that does is set gender equality back.

    KeKe says:
    March 30, 2015 at 11:01 am
    @Vitesse. Great points. I don’t understand why women don’t tell men what they want. I don’t feel like having my guy play the guessing game. That’s one of the things my SD likes is that I am extremely open about sex. What I like and don’t. There’s no point in sex if it doesn’t feel good.

    WELL SAID GIRLS!

  162. a latin opinion says:

    @Denise I always try to keep positive sister, but you last comments just make me belive one thing about you… YOU (not everyone around you) YOU have a LOT to learn about sex.

    And sorry to say this but I think one of the reasons is that you don’t have an open mind. Which is extremely important in order to enjoy sex.

    Is simple, we women have the awesome gift of have multiple orgasms. And the farther you found your self from that reality the worst you are in bed (I’m not talking about satisfying the guy, I’m talking about you and what you feel on bed).

  163. KeKe says:

    @Vitesse. Great points. I don’t understand why women don’t tell men what they want. I don’t feel like having my guy play the guessing game. That’s one of the things my SD likes is that I am extremely open about sex. What I like and don’t. There’s no point in sex if it doesn’t feel good.

  164. BelleNoir says:

    *round of applause* @VitesseSD I couldn’t agree with you anymore than I already do!

    P.S. I know that I just jumped in this conversation, but that was stated very well!

  165. VitesseSD says:

    @Denise

    “Women get a bad view in part by the fact that if they slept with 20 guys in a week the chance of an orgasm is around maybe 0% or maybe even 0.006%.”

    By now I’m pretty sure you’re trolling, but, let me help you out here a bit anyhow.

    It takes time and effort for a man to give a woman an orgasm. Any man can do it, as you pointed out lesbians can do it without a dick. The question really isn’t can a man give you an orgasm, its does he want to bother with the effort. If its a one night stand, where you will never see each other again, and the guy really doesn’t care, your odds of finding a gentleman who believes in “ladies come first” is pretty low.

    Try a real relationship sometime, don’t fake orgasms, show the guy what gets you off, and the odds are the guy will care enough about you to get you off all day (and night) long.

    Sleeping with tons of men hoping for an orgasm is about as logical as smashing the windows on 100 cars, and hoping one will magically start when you put it in drive. You need the keys.

  166. FlyBoy says:

    Oh, so @VitesseSD is MGTOW too …. hahahahaha

    Look @FuckingCrazy: If you are going to create so many proxies, then have the fucking imagination to make some of them different from you. It might very well be fun, go ahead and try it.

    Cheers :)

  167. Muah says:

    that women*

  168. Muah says:

    @Denise
    Women know what women want duh :)

    I am quite certain that woman would want sex just as much as men – if they were satisfied/enjoyed themselves. There are many women out there that have no idea what good sex is – which is terrible! So the more bad/unsatisfying sex they have the less they want it…

    There shouldn’t be double standards as to what women get away with – All that does is set gender equality back.

    I personally want to kick the shit out of women who fake rape because that just makes it so much harder for actual rape victims to seek/obtain justice.

    When it comes to hitting a woman, if you are dealing with one of those trashy hood skanks who think it’s okay to yell and punch on a guy – just because he pissed her off – A quick punch to the face would be acceptable for sure lol.

  169. Denise says:

    Also “sluts”. Women get a bad view in part by the fact that if they slept with 20 guys in a week the chance of an orgasm is around maybe 0% or maybe even 0.006%. Add in pregnancy, sti/stds/, chance of orgasm and the first thing another woman thinks is ” are you ugly?”, “what’s wrong with you?”, “were you not loved by your father?”. Now if this same woman had several orgasms with each and every one of those men then women would say” wow damn you must have had fun!”. It would still seem a tad excessive and dangerous to sleep with that many men. In either case the question would always hang on “the orgasm”, possible std/stis contracted and of course pregnancy worries.

  170. VitesseSD says:

    @Josh

    “How many of the idiots are totally convinced that @VitesseSD = @Josh? ;)”

    No idea, but I’m starting to believe you about FlyBoy being a female.

  171. FlyBoy says:

    @Lennon;

    So I this POT just messaged me and I checked out his profile. On his profile the only red flag was he wasn’t clear on whether he was going to be providing an allowance or not. In one sentence he says he doesn’t want to do the allowance thing but in the next he says if he meets the person and hits it off with them then it is possible. I responded to his message and asked him to clarify. His response was ‘its possible after trust is earned’. Fair enough. He thens goes on to say he wants me to be ‘solely dedicated to him and his needs’ and he wants to ‘completely consume me’. That gave me pause. My initial thought was he seems controlling. I wanted to get other SDs take on this before I jump to any conclusions. Help!

    You are dealing with a wannabe player.

    ‘its possible after trust is earned’ is BS. Why does he need to trust you?! An allowance is a gift not a deposit that will be redeemed in the future.

    Let’s go out on limb and give the guy the benefit of the doubt and say; he really wants to give an allowance but he needs to trust you first. Then the question becomes; what does he means by “trust”? Does he mean that you will not take the allowance and “run”? If so, then rest assured you will NEVER earn that trust. Why? Because the “mistrust” is not caused by your behavior but by his insecurity. Therefore your good behavior (ie: showing up to dates again and again) will not negate his insecurity (ie: his belief in his inability to create and maintain attraction).

    Verdict: Steer away. He wants to fuck you without giving you anything, but he is not “man” enough to say it to your face nor smooth enough to make you want to do it.

    Cheers :)

  172. Josh says:

    How many of the idiots are totally convinced that @VitesseSD = @Josh? 😉

  173. Denise says:

    @FunDude

    Lunch break!

    Good video about how women don’t like sex as much as men

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gdr33aGnbas}}

    I can’t pull up the video either but it’s clearly incorrect and here’s why…

    Lesbian women are reported (out of all sexual orientations) to have the highest sexual satisfaction. Why is that? A penis is obviously not involved yet they’re actually very satisfied?

    In other words if every time I approached you for sex I told you ” you’re penis would never be involved” How excited would you be to engage in sex? Let’s say that out of every 25 times I’ll play with your penis one time. Hmm sounds fun doesn’t it? I think not.

    Also pregnancy? STIs? Seriously?

    I wasn’t really going to get into the blog discussion but I feel people are missing some major points on women’s sexuality.

  174. VitesseSD says:

    @FunDude

    “The only supposed double standard that works in men’s favors is men being “studs” vs women being “sluts” when they sleep with a lot of people.”

    That’s one of the biggest feminist lies of all.

    Imagine walking up to a woman and saying “I’ve had sex with 20 women this month” She’s not going to say “Ooooh you stud, take me now, right here on this table.”

    She’d be disgusted and walk away.

  175. VitesseSD says:

    @Denise

    “I’ve been reading the blog about the MGTOW movement and most of those guys went through pretty terrible divorces or really just expected the bad sex the woman was putting up with would continue. Also aren’t these men now sleeping with each other? I was reading another blog on the topic and thought are the MGTOW really sought after to begin with? I mean are these men highly desired? I even listened to a few of Sandman’s youtube vids and thought wow really? I’m all for men’s rights but I keep thinking in a male dominated society what rights don’t men have?”

    A couple of years ago ALL my uncles sat me down, and warned me not to get married. Every last one of them.

    The MGTOW thing is not some unique or rare thing, even guys who have never heard of it are becoming aware of how horribly the system is rigged.

    It has nothing to do with bad sex, it has nothing to do with homosexuality.

    Yes MGTOW are highly desired. I have seen plenty of relationships where women step in, spend large amounts of their husband’s money, and tell their husbands what they can and can not invest in. I’m talking about men who were successful, and who’s henpecking resulted in a significant loss of wealth.

    If a woman did not make herself wealthy, she has no place in a household’s finances.

    So the end result is MGTOW are far more likely to be able to take financial risks, invest well, save more of their money, and grow and maintain their assets. They do not have a wife who’ll demand a new car, a new phone, a new everything constantly. When a woman tells a successful man who subscribes to the MGTOW philosophy what to do with his money, she will most likely be told to go play with her dolls.

    Your question “are these men highly desired?” can be rephrased as “are successful men highly desired. The answer is yes successful men are highly desired.

    “I’m all for men’s rights but I keep thinking in a male dominated society what rights don’t men have?”

    The right to send a woman to prison when she falsely accuses a man of rape. (What would have happened to him.)
    The right to self defense when hit by a woman.
    The right to determine whether or not they will have children (birth control and abortions).
    The right to keep assets they earned in a divorce.
    The right to see their own children.
    The right to not pay child support if they are victims of statutory rape.
    The right to not be physically bullied and have teachers look the other way “they’re just boys being boys” (if a girl was involved it’d never be allowed)
    The right to equal treatment under the law (women are convicted far less frequently, and receive much lighter sentences)
    The right to have male rape be something other than a punchline (a man steals a sandwich in california, 3 strikes law kicks in, mandatory life in prison, I guess being frequently raped for life over a sandwich is fair).
    The right to be treated with dignity by women. (Women ‘know’ men will never hit back no matter what they do or say, so they say and do unforgivable things).
    The right to seek a mate without being called “creepy” or a “perv” if the woman is uninterested. (Women do not hit on men, the only way a man can know if a woman is interested is to ask, doing so is not sexual harassment, one reason you’re alone is because suitable coworkers are scared to ask you out.)

    Shall I go on?

  176. FunDude says:

    Also, notice that the vast majority of double standards work in female favor including:

    1) Women don’t want to be “traditional” or “ladies” but expect men to be “gentlemen”. Women don’t want to be pigeonholed into gender roles but love to keep men in those “traditional roles”.

    2) False Rape Charges with women never going to jail. Examples include Duke Lacrosse, UVA false rape charge, etc.

    3) You can “never” hit a woman because she is a “woman”.

    The only supposed double standard that works in men’s favors is men being “studs” vs women being “sluts” when they sleep with a lot of people.

    But even that is clearly NOT a double standard because men and women aren’t the same sexually.

  177. FunDude says:

    @Denise

    Cool story about the “male dominated” society and claiming the MGTOWs are gay. Typical feminist shaming language.

    There are MGTOWs that sleep with women often.

    In this male dominated society why is there:

    1) Affirmative Action for women in education and jobs
    2) Divorce laws favorable to women with House, Assets, Alimony, etc given to a woman who divorces using “no fault” laws.
    3) Child Custody laws favorable to women. Vast majority of both child support and alimony goes to women. Men lose primary custody of children in most cases.
    4) Domestic Violence laws favorable to women
    5) Breast CA research funded at 10 times Prostate CA despite equal death rates
    6) Women living longer than men

    Hell, I can’ think of any law that ISN’T favoring women over men. Why do you think women initiate the VAST majority of divorces?

    The Western world is run by feminist theory.

    @ Gentleman

    Dunno going out with early 20s women right now who seem to be interested pretty heavily without exchanging money.

    You’d be surprised how many early 20s women go for successful men in their 30s.

  178. gentleman soul says:

    @Lettuce

    do most SBs live in some sort of fantasy princess land???

    Well ,that is redundant for sure .

    @peeps
    @LettuceBeCereal
    You have to keep in mind that except for men up to mid-30s, younger women aren’t going be interested in older men unless there is incentive. THAT is what this is all about. n…older dudes gotta take the deal, they ARE not getting women young enough to be their daughters on personality alone. It is what it is.

    So True. I am 60+ and totally get it . I am very fit and muscled ,full head of hair, and no terminal wrinkles ,so am lucky enough to pass for 50ish. But I know the 22 yr old is not passionate about making out with me . But she is pretty grateful for the 2 hour session that wears her out . LOL It is like driving a ’58 Chevy roadster . It might look a little dated but the handling is robust .

    @FunDude

    She just can’t date older “creepers” who at successful and can be a very good match for her.

    Feminist logic 101

    normal” college girls think an older man(+30) who wants to date early 20s is a creeper . my own daughters say that even when I admire some nubile young lady”s appearance.

  179. KeKe says:

    Uhmm. @Denise. Did you say sleeping with each other O_O..well okay then. Maybe the sex was bad because they shouldn’t have been doing it with women. Just a thought

  180. Denise says:

    I’ve been reading the blog about the MGTOW movement and most of those guys went through pretty terrible divorces or really just expected the bad sex the woman was putting up with would continue. Also aren’t these men now sleeping with each other? I was reading another blog on the topic and thought are the MGTOW really sought after to begin with? I mean are these men highly desired? I even listened to a few of Sandman’s youtube vids and thought wow really? I’m all for men’s rights but I keep thinking in a male dominated society what rights don’t men have?

  181. KeKe says:

    @Vitesse I never understood bad talking the dad. I would never do that. What I like about my future ex is that I have no doubt he will be around as much as possible. We might be done but I really hope we can have a good relationship for our kids. But I have a good model to follow. My sisters are all really good friends with their ex’s. They come around and hang out at our family parties. My dad was great friends with my sisters mom and tried to be with my mom.

  182. KeKe says:

    @FunDude..I can’t watch it. Summarize someone?

  183. FunDude says:

    Lunch break!

    Good video about how women don’t like sex as much as men

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gdr33aGnbas}}

  184. a latin opinion says:

    @vitesse no problem papi! (-;

  185. Lennon says:

    @Vitesse
    I think he’s controlling. He sent another message when I didn’t respond. Something about him wanting me to be submissive, he’s a provider and I’m the beauty. Yeah I think I’m going to take your advice

  186. VitesseSD says:

    @latin

    Sometimes its hard to tell whats a joke and what isnt when its all text.

    *sigh*

  187. VitesseSD says:

    @KeKe

    Statistically the percentage of deadbeat mothers is higher than deadbeat fathers. Nearly twice as many women seek full custody and don’t want the father to have any contact with the child than the other way around.

    Around half of marriages end in divorce, that means half their children see their fathers once every two weeks or so. I’d expect it to be hard to form/keep a deep connection with someone who’s being frequently told how bad you are, that you only see twice a month.

    So thats where the fathers are, ordered out of the picture.

  188. a latin opinion says:

    @keke the ones I saw were women are so on first hand, I share some time with their and their kids, (now that I think about it, they all have just 1 kid). I’m completely sure there is men as good as this three women, maybe even better but I have not been in close contact with them. So I can’t comment on that. )-:

  189. a latin opinion says:

    VitesseSD says:
    March 30, 2015 at 8:18 am
    @latin

    “I’m 120 5’4 do I look bad papi? Do you think I can make it? Lol”
    Well, I havent seen any full pictures of you, but I have a feeling you’ll do just fine. Theres no absolutes with weight numbers, but I’m quite confident that if you put on 30 lbs you’d be less attractive.

    I just wonder why some people on this blog keep trying to twist my statements to extremes.

    KeKe says:
    March 30, 2015 at 8:23 am
    @Vitesse I think @Latin was joking. I also agree with what you are saying.

    @keke Thank you Darling, as usual you are right. (-;

    @Vitesse papi I was just kidding mi amor, life is better when is not taking too seriously. (-:

    I will most of the time post just positive things amor, (-: ok cariño?

    (Unless I post an opinion in which I try to be as respectful as possible.)

  190. KeKe says:

    @Latin.. Very sad. But you said mothers but where are the fathers

  191. VitesseSD says:

    @Lennon

    Sounds like a scammer to me. Saying “I don’t feel comfortable giving you an allowance until we are intimate” is different from “I don’t feel comfortable talking about an allowance until we’re intimate.”

    The “‘solely dedicated to him and his needs’ and he wants to ‘completely consume me’” stuff seems odd to me.

    Move on IMO.

  192. a latin opinion says:

    @keke Is part of the article @fundude posted. (I also think is very sad,but is real)

    Most of the american population is so much able to connect with his dogs/cats/pets than with his own childs. (At least in the part of the country where I live)

    But there is hope. So far, I have seen three different mothers with excellent parenting skills, you can see that their kids will respect them.

    Fundude Says:
    March 30, 2015 at 4:43 am
    The major risk that Western marriage has for men:

    {{http://www.fredoneverything.net/DontMarry.shtml}}

    Great articles on the SDs on here to think over.

  193. KeKe says:

    @Vitesse I think @Latin was joking. I also agree with what you are saying.

  194. VitesseSD says:

    @latin

    “I’m 120 5’4 do I look bad papi? Do you think I can make it? Lol”
    Well, I havent seen any full pictures of you, but I have a feeling you’ll do just fine. Theres no absolutes with weight numbers, but I’m quite confident that if you put on 30 lbs you’d be less attractive.

    I just wonder why some people on this blog keep trying to twist my statements to extremes.

    Fit is more attractive than out of shape.
    Slim is more attractive than fat.
    A model will have better luck finding a quality SD than an overweight “girl next door”, and will likely be able to get more from him.

    People can ‘deny deny deny’ all they want it doesnt change the truth.

  195. KeKe says:

    “Children, which she will persuade you that you want, on thought you probably don’t want. They are an ungodly burden until they reach adolescence, at which point they become ungodly monsters, before leaving for university and becoming ungodly expenses. Babies are cute, but they smell, make noise, and require constant attention”

    Yikes! Kids are hard and life changing. Clearly parenthood isn’t for everyone. I’d feel bad for theis person’s kids. They can since when they aren’t wanted :-(

  196. a latin opinion says:

    “Too many men marry the package, and only discover the content when it is too late.”

    That is what I believe, if you are a guy you should work hard to see and know EVERYTHING that is inside the package, before getting married.

    “Children, which she will persuade you that you want, on thought you probably don’t want. They are an ungodly burden until they reach adolescence, at which point they become ungodly monsters, before leaving for university and becoming ungodly expenses. Babies are cute, but they smell, make noise, and require constant attention”

    My humble opinion is that staments like this are part of the problem, you guys forgot how to connect, how to respect each other, in order to be in a “free country with free speech” most of the time you guys run over each other without respect or consideration for others. )-:

    “Conservatives rumble about the declining white population, the need to keep up with the Chinese, and the economy’s dependence on housing starts. You might respond, “Bugger off.” It isn’t your problem. You owe nothing to a society that stacks the deck against you. Eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow we die.”

    More of the same, just an apocalyptic vision, no solution, nothing to lead you solve the problem, very sad.

  197. KeKe says:

    @Georgia it was awesome! He cooked again. It tasted incredible, but I could barely eat. I just wanted to get to dessert. We had our box of goodies that I was excited to play with, with him but we never got to them. He said we should save it for when we need to spice it up. Right now we are still burning hot for each other. Lol I was able to stay the night so I woke up to some good loving! I won’t see him again till Saturday. He promised me dessert before dinner so I’ll eat. Hehe

  198. Lennon says:

    So I this POT just messaged me and I checked out his profile. On his profile the only red flag was he wasn’t clear on whether he was going to be providing an allowance or not. In one sentence he says he doesn’t want to do the allowance thing but in the next he says if he meets the person and hits it off with them then it is possible. I responded to his message and asked him to clarify. His response was ‘its possible after trust is earned’. Fair enough. He thens goes on to say he wants me to be ‘solely dedicated to him and his needs’ and he wants to ‘completely consume me’. That gave me pause. My initial thought was he seems controlling. I wanted to get other SDs take on this before I jump to any conclusions. Help!

  199. a latin opinion says:

    VitesseSD says:
    March 30, 2015 at 7:26 am

    “Can a SB who is more than 110 lbs get a SD? Possibly, does she have as much choice in high quality SDs? No.”

    I’m 120 5’4 do I look bad papi? Do you think I can make it? Lol

  200. KeKe says:

    @ONSD…Yay! That sounds really promising. It seems IRL might be easier for some of us than the SB/SD sites. I am also curious about how many you gave out. I think most young women are intrigued with the prospect of incredible sex with someone who has experience and willingness to make it good for them. Plus gifts and dinner/activities. It’s a win win with the right SD. Very excited for you.

  201. a latin opinion says:

    FunDude says:
    March 30, 2015 at 4:41 am
    Good video on the pros and cons of marriage:

    I like the video, it make me feel bad for men, again and again, although I didn’t see any “positive” aspect for marriage. It was really sad. )-: and I like the guy, he is sweet. (I love guys who are smart,sweet and than look like teddy bears)

    So sorry for you guys, the more that I read about it the more than I feel bad for you.

  202. VitesseSD says:

    @FlyBoy

    “The reason I posted the link is because some bloggers are arguing that any woman heavier than 110 lbs is ipso facto unsuitable for sugar, period. Because she is fat!!!!!!!!!!

    That is not true. Not even close. And ironically the total opposite of the truth. Women who look like models attract the worst kind of SDs. The weak, shallow and vain kind of SDs. The kind of SDs who couldn’t get these girls IRL so they have to ‘pay’ for them.”

    The weight discussion in the last blog post came about when a SB said something along the lines of what kind of SBs get trips like this.

    Can a SB who is more than 110 lbs get a SD? Possibly, does she have as much choice in high quality SDs? No.

    As for SDs being unable to get models? What planet are you on? Models have short careers, even models at the top end of their income bracket tend to spend everything they make. It is very rare to find a model who saves most of what she earns, and even those that do usually barely save enough to cover college tuition at a good school. If they can even get into a good school.

    The typical model’s retirement plan is to marry rich. So yes, most successful SDs on here could unquestionably easily get a gf/wife who is/was a model.

    As for those pictures of women you’ve posted, they are wearing a ton of makeup photoshopped/airbrushed etc. I’ve been around enough women to know what they look like under all that.
    Those women are not attractive, I doubt I could maintain an erection long enough to have sex with any of them.

  203. Josh says:

    How many benefactor cards have you handed out? What was the denomination of the card(s)?

  204. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Josh – this is the first benefactor card, where I was at a coffee place and handed her something as she was eating lunch with a friend…it took her a bit to respond, but she was flattered…she told me she was buying books for reading on spring break…had coffee with her and she was open to the concept…we met at the same chain place where I first gave her the benefactor card, so when we were done with the conversation, I gave her a gift card to the chain…after she used the card, she sent another message thanking me for the generosity and asking if we could see each other again…conversation since that ask has turned more toward expectations…she’s VERY reasonable in her goals, VERY interested in intimacy…so…today we’ll see if she’s as interested as she has written!

  205. Josh says:

    I am not going to comment on down fall of society, per se, but it is unfair to the children, first not to know who their father is and then not have their father part of the upbringing.

  206. Josh says:

    @ONSD

    Welcome back…

    How did you find her?

  207. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    Has anyone seen the show “Neighbors with Benefits”? I was flipping channels last night and saw the title in the guide and had to see what it was about…it’s Ohio’s Swinger Scene…

    So, we have a couple of shows about polygamy, Married at First Sight, now swinging…plus all the “Sex sent me to…” shows…do you think this is the second wave of the sexual revolution, the downfall of society or something else?

  208. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    I’m not even going to try to catch up on this…let’s just say I don’t think any of this article was worth reading…

    On a better note…getting together with IRL this afternoon…she’s NOT an allowance girl, she’s a gift and activity girl…meeting her needs with her own work, just intrigued by the prospect of being able to do a little shopping and having a decent “date” every now and again – all while keeping things discreet publicly…

    Oh, and this is the student, not the professional, who used the benefactor card to buy books for spring break reading…not the typical “school girl”, that’s for SURE!

  209. KennaKenna says:

    @KeKe lol no- the blog doesn’t count. He means creating a profile and actively looking for someone.

  210. Josh says:

    When SBs controlled this blog they used to accuse that majority of married men were here on SA to cheat on their wives.

    The reality is that most married men are here to get what their wives are not providing after getting comfortable in their marriages.

    When a woman gets comfortable in her relationship with a man, she is going to let go of her looks, reduce pitting out and will nag more than catering to his needs.

    Single men are here because they don’t want to wife up or girlfriend up. The denial of the MGTOW movement by women and manginas is fairly interesting.

  211. FunDude says:

    The major risk that Western marriage has for men:

    {{http://www.fredoneverything.net/DontMarry.shtml}}

    Great articles on the SDs on here to think over.

  212. FunDude says:

    Good video on the pros and cons of marriage:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xg04ryQ-71Q&list=FLPLvbpGVs2sPqFL6J9r0ABA&index=7}}

  213. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Kenna
    I’m really glad you like it there. That will help you get more comfortable and make it easier for you to get around, etc. Found a new OB Dr yet? Those things are hard to locate sometimes, but I’m sure your SD is helping as much as he can, please no travel as before, so that should help also.

    @KeKe
    SO???? How was it last night? All go ok for you and your SD?

  214. KeKe says:

    @Kenna did you ever find out if being on the blog was breaking the prenup?

  215. KeKe says:

    @Kenna. Yaay for you! I hope you have lots of help. Moving is hard work

  216. KeKe says:

    @FunDude…I meant how many SB’s do you plan on taking on. I do think @FlyR had a pretty good point. You should be able to find some beautiful intelligent girls at U of C.

  217. KennaKenna says:

    @georgia

    Yes, all moved. I’ve been here a few times before but not this exact town where we bought a house. I’m loving it so far though.

  218. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Kenna
    Hi there Lady. Or should I say “Mom”!!!
    All moved to west coast? Your real fun will begin now!
    But it’s fun to explore and go on new adventures. Have you been in this area much before?

  219. KennaKenna says:

    Hey guys… Hope everyone had a great weekend. Was busy unpacking all weekend and I’m still not finished :(

  220. Josh says:

    Here is the report posted by @FunDude few days ago, it is still generating fresh comments…

    [http://m.cnsnews.com/news/article/barbara-hollingsworth/bachelor-nation-70-men-aged-20-34-are-not-married]

  221. Josh says:

    @Erik

    I think that the younger guys are doing just that. They have no interest in taking that pussy home to end up cuckolding.

  222. ErikTheRed says:

    @FunDude @FlyBoy

    The antidote to feminist “logic,” women trying behave like male stud and time-shifted cuckolding is quite simple: insistence on most favored trading partner status. If the pussy/port is free to anyone else, then it is free to me; all other forms of trade involving this destination port is embargoed, period.

  223. Josh says:

    @Syrup

    Hmmm, so why did you want to pounce the @Guru?

  224. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    “@Promise Why are you “jealous” of them?”

    I thought you were a smart guy? DUH. Do we need to explain it to you Doc?

  225. FunDude says:

    @Promise

    Why are you “jealous” of them?

  226. FlyBoy says:

    @FunDude:

    A woman can hook up with random guys while drunk which is “cool”. She can waste her youth having sex with losers with no future which is considered “cool”

    She just can’t date older “creepers” who at successful and can be a very good match for her.

    Feminist logic 101

    100% right!

    Cheers :)

  227. Fundude says:

    A woman can hook up with random guys while drunk which is “cool”. She can waste her youth having sex with losers with no future which is considered “cool”

    She just can’t date older “creepers” who at successful and can be a very good match for her.

    Feminist logic 101

  228. Fundude says:

    The biggest obstacle for older powerful men dating younger women is “shaming” of younger women and older men from doing that type of relationship

  229. Fundude says:

    Flyr are there attractive women at university of Chicago? Lol

  230. SouthernSB says:

    Joined “Our Time” today. Wrote profile like a “SB” profile, got a few hits, but damn the men on our time are all less than affluent. I’ve come to the conclusion that the jobs in my area pay slave wages.

  231. Fundude says:

    @flyr

    I agree. Successful 55 or older men can still pull top quality women with the right combination

  232. Melissa says:

    SD just cancelled..welp no sex for another 4 days! :(

  233. Syrup says:

    @Josh
    Pouncing is not violence. I can demonstrate if you wish.

  234. flyR says:

    FD – At most grad schools , especially in the MBA programs there’s usually an abundance of young women working in administrative jobs, other grad students and undergrads wanting to upgrade their social life. A Saturday night when the highlight of the evening is something better than the arrival of the Round Table Pizza truck does wonders.

  235. flyR says:

    should have read women whom Kissinger dated

  236. flyR says:

    FD = “A 55 year old fat dude will have to pay more money to get with a 22 y/o hottie than an equivalent 35 or 40 y/o old guy that is in good shape.”

    All other factors being equal , absolutely. But what if all other factors are not equal. If you look at the men who Henry Kissinger ran with vs those who Bill Clinton had sex with Kissinger’s were far better looking, younger, vastly more intelligent and less likely to have read this month’s edition of Trailer Park Living.

  237. FunDude says:

    @KeKe

    I have a few prospects right now. Isn’t that normal?

    I get a lot of emails but I reject about 95% of them lol

    The profiles of some of the SBs are too off putting to even respond to.

  238. Promise says:

    @FunDude I’m jealous of your POTs.

  239. KeKe says:

    @FunDude “some of these ladies” how many SB’s you getting. Lol

  240. FunDude says:

    @Peeps

    I agree with your assessment. I am able to date some of these women without official allowances but I will still pay for gifts, travel, vacations, etc.

    I am quite enthusiastic about taking some of these ladies to Chicago when I start my MBA shortly. Or Cancun.

    I think the bigger the difference in ages/looks/etc the more the “allowance” has to be in terms of making up the difference.

    A 55 year old fat dude will have to pay more money to get with a 22 y/o hottie than an equivalent 35 or 40 y/o old guy that is in good shape.

  241. FunDude says:

    {{http://steroidanalysis.com/2014/08/update-mike-matarazzo-is-dead-but-blamed-steroids-while-alive/}}

    Another dead juice head. People need to stay clean when working out.

    Don’t worry if some dude is bigger and leaner. They are likely taking the sauce.

  242. FunDude says:

    {{http://metro.co.uk/2015/03/29/body-builder-given-three-weeks-to-live-vows-to-beat-liver-cancer-through-healthy-eating-5125701/}}

    Another juice head dropping dead shortly. These fools are dropping like flies.

  243. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    The double standard is rampant in women’s interaction with men. Women’s fantasyland ensures them the benefits part of equality and suppresses the responsibility part.

  244. peeps says:

    @LettuceBeCereal
    You have to keep in mind that except for men up to mid-30s, younger women aren’t going be interested in older men unless there is incentive. THAT is what this is all about. If you are complaining about this you aren’t hot enough to get hot women in real life. Some of the posters here like @fundude are actually young and attractive so they can complain…older dudes gotta take the deal, they ARE not getting women young enough to be their daughters on personality alone. It is what it is.

  245. FunDude says:

    I don’t think DontbeCereal= Josh

    They sound totally different in terms of grammar/punctuation/sentence structure and “jibe”.

    I agree also with those TUMBLR websites showing a bunch of very delusional SBs on there. His perspective is accurate.

    However, I am finding some higher quality women recently. My hope for the women on this website has improved over the last few weeks.

  246. KeKe says:

    @Josh..lol..I don’t know why I suggested that to you..On to the next SB then.

  247. peeps says:

    @LettuceBeCereal if one party gets upset…btw there is something like this for escorts, it’s called “eros review”. I used to read those, I always found it amazing. Men would go into A LOT of detail on what women did or did not do (details about sexual positions,enthusiasm “GF” experience, etc…) . If they looked like their pictures or not. I learnt several things from reading that, namely that men like variety, prefer enthusiasm and good sex to beauty alone, and really love sex. I didn’t realize men liked talking in such detail about their sexual adventures.

    The difference is that was about ESCORTS the difference being that it’s a bare-bones transaction. Personally when men ask for more pictures I always decline and lose interest. I am not an ESCORT (i.e. pay X and get Y) and I am not looking for that level of interaction. If you have a site like that, this is what this will really turn into.

    I have had a few very bad experiences here with men looking 15-30 years older than the pictures, just the other night I met a raging alcoholic…it’s part of online…I have heard similar complaints from men so we’re even.

  248. Josh says:

    @Syrup

    Why is that? Is violence against men not considered violence in your upbringing?

  249. Syrup says:

    Well some of us don’t even need this post. Still looking over here. Considering pouncing Josh.

  250. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    Maybe you can gift a small amount to show you intentions are serious. That you are real?”

    Not a bad idea. Should she give me blow job in my car before she leaves to make sure that she is real as well? 😉

  251. Josh says:

    @Promise. Return it. Otherwise you will be paying interest on it forever.

  252. Promise says:

    I need some advice; last week I got my 1st student refund check, and I have no clue what I’m suppose to do with it. Can I send it back to FAFSA, and maybe they could deduct from however much I’ll owe them? Or is it just mine?

  253. KeKe says:

    @lettuce.. but what if you pissed off a SB/SD because they were acting ridiculous and they gave you a false negative rating? How would you compensate for that.

  254. LettuceBeCereal says:

    Just had the best idea- why the f does SA not have a rating/feedback system ala Ebay so you can tell how legit a potential SD/SB is? Even a rating system with pre-set categories with people you’ve exchanged messages with (to avoid fake accounts pushing fake positive or negative stats)-
    Rate on scale 1-5:
    Respectful?
    Punctual?
    Photo matches actual person?
    etc

    Would save BOTH SDs and SBs a lot of time and effort.

  255. KeKe says:

    @Josh..oh..well I didn’t expect money on the first date but he did give me give me some. Maybe you can gift a small amount to show you intentions are serious. That you are real?

  256. LettuceBeCereal says:

    Damn it FlyBoy, how did you know??

    On a cereal note- I’m not Josh although I absolutely agree with some of his sentiments as it reflects my own experiences on SA with SBs. I was subscribed for about 4-5 months, with my last experience being where the SB completely flaked out of something she suggested herself after the first date. She confirmed throughout the week and radio silence on the actual day. Such rude, much wow. A courtesy “I can’t make it today because I’m not feeling well or not interested” would’ve been annoying but acceptable. The utter lack of respect and courtesy is ridiculous.

  257. FlyBoy says:

    @FuckingCrazy;

    LettuceBeCereal …. WTF ???? lol Do you think we can’t tell it’s you.

    @LettuceBeCereal:

    Sure, it’s not much money for a SD but do most SBs live in some sort of fantasy princess land???

    @Josh:

    The reality of the male-female interaction is that such interaction instantly activates fantasyland in women’s minds, and the promise of proverbial moon works a lot better than what a man actually is able and willing to deliver.

    @Josh:

    Women go about their business in real world just fine as long as they are by themselves. As soon as a man comes into their space, it transforms into a fantasyland. Nature of the beast, my friend.

    Therefore, wise men have learned since eons ago that a man operating in reality is not going to be able to woo a desirable woman. He needs to transform himself into the fantasyland and improvise.

    @Josh:

    As soon as a woman comes in contact with a man, she automatically gets transported to the fantasyland.

    Maybe you should go easy on fantasyland …. lol

    Cheers :)

  258. LettuceBeCereal says:

    Oh god I’m reading more from the Tumblr site…my jimmies are on maximum fucking rustle. More SB’s thinking that pay per meet initially is unacceptable because they expect a “real” SD to cover the monthly allowance from the first meet. ROFL.

    Here’s a thought to the SBs: when you can actually hold a legit job (one that you won’t be ashamed to tell your parents/friends) that pays enough to have the disposable income that some of these “cheap” SDs are offering- please ask the question of: Will I give away $3k to a complete stranger in the hopes that they won’t disappear with my money?? No? Great then as a SB, please wake the f up.

    So glad I haven’t renewed my subscription if this is the level of entitlement common to most SBs these days.

  259. LettuceBeCereal says:

    Saw some comments mentioning the fake SD and Splenda Daddy tumblr sites. Was bored and browsed some of the Splenda sections on Tumblr.

    Laugh out fucking loud. The sense of entitlement from SBs was INCREDIBLE. I’m sorry that a total stranger was buying you $200+ worth of stuff that you “totally didn’t need” but took anyway. Then they comment how obnoxious it was for Splenda daddies to expect intimacy for the price of an Iphone (which is around $800-900). Hahahaha what the fucking fuck, that $800 is probably more than what these self entitled dumbasses are getting for a week of work waitressing. Sure, it’s not much money for a SD but do most SBs live in some sort of fantasy princess land???

  260. Josh says:

    @flyR

    “Joshie – There are a lot of men on this site who are enjoying awesome sex with great women on allowances even you would think are acceptable.”

    Baseless assertion as you don’t know what “lot of men” euqates to what “awesome sex” means what “great women” means and what “allowances eve you would think are acceptable” means.

  261. Promise says:

    Ugh I just remembered I can’t go to the SA party in NY.T-T I’m to young. Won’t be 21 for about 8 more months. Hoping I can still go to the seminar though!

  262. flyR says:

    It’s often amazing that people who are the most unsuccessful in some major component in their life are generally those who are bitter, inflexible and unwilling to change their behavior.

    Joshie – There are a lot of men on this site who are enjoying awesome sex with great women on allowances even you would think are acceptable. The difference is that they subtly offer and deliver a shared experience which is rewarding, pleasurable, interesting, respectful.

    So long as you visualize the women you might meet as high mileage used cars which are just looking for an owner willing to correct or tolerate their defects you are going to be bitter. In sports coaches and recruiters talk about players being coachable. There are lots of potential players with the physical traits required to be successful who fail because they are incapable of changing their game. They blame the coach, they blame the other players, they blame the ref, the wave the racism flag, the address everything but the problem that appears every morning in the mirror.

  263. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    I don’t expect to go too far with her. She’s playing the upfront money for meet&greet game. :(

  264. KeKe says:

    @FunDude.. Yay, things are really looking up. I hope your search ends soon.

    @Josh.. Disney Princess with tattoos sounds hot! Good luck with her

  265. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Yeah some of the newer women aren’t morons demanding money for a “platonic” relationship. I’ve noticed that group has already worked its way off the website in the last few weeks. They don’t appear to last.

    The types I have been getting are p4p types and higher level women who appear to be serious. I like the later group mostly.

  266. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    It’s great that you’re getting better results. As I indicated few days ago, thanks to Brandon’s mom, the fresh crop of SBs is a lot better than the previous ones.

    Best of luck

  267. FunDude says:

    I haven’t posted here for 12 hours and there haven’t been many posts lol.

    Wow this blog isn’t that active.

  268. FunDude says:

    Things are starting to look up on SA. Got a few good prospects that I find acceptable.

    The guru is worried I am going to be taken advantage of by these women lol.

    Don’t worry guru, I can handle myself.

  269. Josh says:

    @Promise

    Disney princess, but with tattoos.

  270. KeKe says:

    @Promise WooHoo. You did that! I’m so encouraged! I want to be like Promise when I grow up! Okay I’m going to dig end for weight loss round #2

  271. Promise says:

    @Josh Barbie or Disney Princess pretty?

  272. Josh says:

    This 19 year-old is insistent on seeing me but at the same tine insistent on getting paid for the meet&greet. Most of the times I do pay for the meet&greet, but during the first meeting under arrangement.

    I have not nexted her yet because she is very pretty. 😉

  273. FlyBoy says:

    *You are not bitter.

  274. FlyBoy says:

    @FuckingCrazyGuru;

    Any time a man comments on how women roll, he is asked, “who broke your heart so bad that you are bitter?”

    I have been asked variation of this questions numerous times in the past year.

    You are bitter. You have been lobotomized by what you experienced.

    I don’t care how women roll, it’s how a man deal with it. Does he chuck the bitch to the side and move on to a better deal. Or does go on a whining tirade for the rest his life. The latter is not masculine behavior.

    Again Simple :)

  275. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy

    “The reason you think women treat men like that is because that’s YOUR experience.”

    Keep going in female circular logic. Similar comments are made to any man who comments on how women roll.

  276. FlyBoy says:

    @FuckingCrazyGuru;

    “Since you don’t know all men, we can safely conclude that this is how women treat YOU.”

    Once again, female “logic” strain. 😉

    -You don’t know all men. Fact.
    -You don’t know all women. Fact.
    -You didn’t conduct a scientific study with all the appropriate controls. Fact.

    So how did you reach your conclusions?

    Occam’s razor instructs us to adopt the simplest explanation. The reason you think women treat men like that is because that’s YOUR experience.

    Simple :)

  277. Josh says:

    @FlyGirl,

    Ass-u-me away as usual. Your writing style reminded me of @DorkyGuy, whom I had considered a woman writing as man at that time as well.

    It’s not necessary that a blogger in reality has a penis or a vagina. It is the strain that matters. You may have been raised by someone like @batshit. Who knows?

  278. Josh says:

    @Promise,

    These are formulaic shaming tactics used in various settings. You can see above @FlyGirl either does not know or is denying that she was using any such tactics.

  279. FlyBoy says:

    @FuckingCrazyGuru;

    You think I am @DorkyGuy because I know how to quote properly like him. That’s a mans logic …. lol

  280. Promise says:

    @Josh I remember a bunch of people saying something similar when they found out a peer was an Atheist.

  281. Josh says:

    Any time a man comments on how women roll, he is asked, “who broke your heart so bad that you are bitter?”

    I have been asked variation of this questions numerous times in the past year.

  282. Josh says:

    @FlyGirl

    “Since you don’t know all men, we can safely conclude that this is how women treat YOU.”

    Once again, female “logic” strain. 😉

  283. Josh says:

    I had a feeling that @FlyBoy’s idiotic style was familiar. Here is food for thought:

    [https://www.seekingarrangement.com/blog/how-to-be-sugar-daddy/#comment-381602]

  284. FlyBoy says:

    @FuckingCrazyGuru;

    You wrote that women treat men in the following fashion:

    Women today consider a man as a toy, clown, gofer, sperm donor, emotional puke bag, ATM, retirement plan or a combination thereof. Therefore, men who bring women in their lives on long-term basis are fool.

    Since you don’t know all men, we can safely conclude that this is how women treat YOU.

    You might have a PHD in classical Chinese poetry. You might be a billionaire. Hell you might have landed on the moon. Any of this is more believable than you having a scintilla of masculinity. And that @FuckingCrazyGuru is the honest truth.

    Night Night :)

  285. PI Wolf says:

    Interesting day for me today. In spite of the chilly temps, I walk down Michigan Avenue in Chicago this afternoon (aka The Magnificent Mile) where you have the malls and big name stores are (e.g. Macy’s, Neiman Marcus, Sax 5th Avenue, and Bloomingdales). I am noticing a pattern that the premium brands within these stores have at least one good looking woman as their salesperson. I mean, those that qualify for the $5k/month allowance, in terms of their looks and body shape/size (normal). And they range from 20s to maybe 40. The ones in their 30s seem to be quite luscious …. and I am wearing my eyeglass, so I can see them clearly. LOL. The thoughts that run through my head are all about evaluating their SB potential and how I can afford ALL OF THEM (hahaha) 😀

  286. FlyBoy says:

    @FunDude;

    Looks like Flyboy doesn’t respect the “guru’s” opinion around here on sugar dating.

    Well Doc, I can address him as @FuckingCrazyGuru if that should ameliorate his symptoms.

    What is up with that guru? I thought you ran this blog

    Oh, it’s still his blog …. lol

    Cheers :)

  287. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    There are male strains and female strains on the blog.

    Most male strains “respect” what @Guru as to say and some female strains do the same.

    For example, Lainey is female but most of the time posts as male strain on the blog, and @flyR and @FlyBoy claim to be men, but post as female strains.

    So be it. 😉

  288. Promise says:

    @Josh Thank you ://3

  289. FunDude says:

    Looks like Flyboy doesn’t respect the “guru’s” opinion around here on sugar dating.

    What is up with that guru? I thought you ran this blog.

  290. Josh says:

    @Promise,

    You done good girl. :)

  291. Promise says:

    @KeKe I was 163 originally.

  292. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    “How long would you say the honeymoon period last?”

    Until women get comfortable in the relationship.

  293. FlyBoy says:

    *Let me walk you through it slowly. Very slowly

  294. KeKe says:

    @Josh..so if they bring each other happiness why not move from sugar to long term? Do you feel it impossible to make the switch? How long would you say the honeymoon period last?

  295. FlyBoy says:

    @FuckingCrazy; You really can’t read, can you?

    Let me walk through it slowly. Very slowly.

    -I was addressing those who make blanket statements about weight.

    -You interjected your deranged nose in the middle. I told you it had nothing to do with your little “story”.

    -You accused me of deliberately shaming. I responded by pointing to what the weak, vain “men” themselves wrote. Again, and again.

    -Now, and only now, comes your stupid example about age difference. I didn’t even write anything in response to it, so how could you know if I understood it or not? …. Huh … lol

    Night Night :)

  296. Josh says:

    Continued…

    However, if the woman wants to just hook up without interfering too much with your life, then more power to you.

  297. Josh says:

    @FlyGirl

    “If I can get it IRL for free, why should I “pay” for it here. That’s illogical! If I am going to “pay” she better be something I can’t get out there.”

    The more you write, the more you sound like a female to me. What part of “dating with large age difference” do you not understand?

  298. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    @FunDude is WRONG.

    He must never take ANY relationship with a woman anywhere out of its honeymoon period right here in sugar. Women should enjoy their lives as independent human beings and let men enjoy their lives as independent human beings. The two should only come together when they bring happiness in each other’s lives.

    Women today consider a man as a toy, clown, gofer, sperm donor, emotional puke bag, ATM, retirement plan or a combination thereof. Therefore, men who bring women in their lives on long-term basis are fool.

    Of course the above is not applicable in ALL of the cases, exceptions exist and will exist, but the gamble is too risky in today’s legal framework.

  299. FlyBoy says:

    @FuckingCrazy;

    The straw man only exists in your addled brain. This is what I wrote:

    The reason I posted the link is because some bloggers are arguing that any woman heavier than 110 lbs is ipso facto unsuitable for sugar, period. Because she is fat!!!!!!!!!!

    This clearly shows that I was writing about those who make blanket statements concerning the sugar suitability of “Fat SBs”. It had nothing to do with your little concocted story.

    This is a very common shaming statement used by women on the blog often.

    If there is any shame here, then you ought to look somewhere else, after all I was not the one writing,

    If I can get it IRL for free, why should I “pay” for it here. That’s illogical! If I am going to “pay” she better be something I can’t get out there.

    This sentiment has been repeated ad nauseam on this blog.

    I amazes me that people come to SA blog and type illogical nonsense, just because they have fingers to type. Brandon’s mother does not like such illogical nonsense. 😉

    Ok I say it again:

    You should eat your chicken soup, take your meds, say your prayers and go to sleep. I am sure you will feel better tomorrow.

    Night Night :)

  300. FunDude says:

    all I know is there are a bunch of early to mid 20s women looking for real relationships with me recently and not just some sugar bullshit stuff lol

    I mean I would pay for gifts, vacations, etc.

  301. KeKe says:

    @Josh
    FunDude has said multiple times that if the relationship started out as Sugar but had the potential to turn into a long relationship he is not apposed to it.

  302. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “I find that a positive development.”

    I disagree with you. They want their hands in your wallet.

    ‘In the long term, a real “relationship” is much better for them.’

    For them it is, for you it is not. Under the current legal and societal reality why would you want to have a ‘real “relationship”’ and surrender your freedom to a woman?

  303. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Yeah fly’s comments about thin women is bullshit.

    However, I am getting women in their early to mid 20s that actually want a real relationship rather than some sugar dating thingie.

    I find that a positive development. In the long term, a real “relationship” is much better for them.

  304. Josh says:

    @Serena

    Sweetheart, you might want to ask this question of your CPA. I don’t think you want to ask such questions on this blog.

  305. Josh says:

    @FlyGirl

    “The reason I posted the link is because some bloggers are arguing that any woman heavier than 110 lbs is ipso facto unsuitable for sugar, period. Because she is fat!!!!!!!!!!”

    This is first example of staw man fallacy [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man] @FlyGirl just created an “argument” from thin air. The girl I met looked like my ex-girlfriend in shape. My ex was 5-6″, 135 lbs, 36C when I dated her. When I showed up at the date, the girl was out of shape and must have weighed around 150-155 lbs. Even if she was less heavy, she did not look good at all.

    “That is not true. Not even close.”

    Since you are working with a straw man to start with, I don’t know what that means.

    “And ironically the total opposite of the truth. Women who look like models attract the worst kind of SDs. The weak, shallow and vain kind of SDs.”

    The worst kind of SDs purposely go after models, really?

    “The kind of SDs who couldn’t get these girls IRL so they have to ‘pay’ for them.”

    This is a very common shaming statement used by women on the blog often.

    Sure…the dating trend in real life is for women to hookup with men their own age. If you are twice the age of a girl you want to date, you will have to come up with what attracts such woman. Women want men for their utility. So you offer her your economic utility, which’d better be higher than the utility of 20- and 30-something men who are banging these younger women with impunity without having any intention to settle down with them.

    With so many younger men going MGTOW and demanding women to pull their own weight, those older men who are willing to share their economic utility with those younger women will attract a good share of those younger women, at least on the part-time basis.

    I amazes me that people come to SA blog and type illogical nonsense, just because they have fingers to type. Brandon’s mother does not like such illogical nonsense. 😉

  306. Serena says:

    And to the SDs: do you include your SBs allowance whe n filing? similar to an employer? i would really love to know how all this works.

  307. Serena says:

    To the SBs: if you receive more than 14k a year (which I’m sure you do) do you claim it on your taxes? If yes, what do you put on there as the source of the money? If not, why? I read somewhere that breaking money up into smaller portions and putting it into several different bank accounts is considered money laundering.

  308. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy,

    I respect your male or female rights under the First Amendment. There’s nothing to respond at this time.

  309. FlyBoy says:

    @FuckingCrazy;

    You should eat your chicken soup, take your meds, say your prayers and go to sleep. I am sure you will feel better tomorrow.

    Night Night :)

  310. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy,

    I respect your male or female rights under the First Amendment.

  311. FlyBoy says:

    @Josh;

    Your posts have confirmed to me that you are fucking crazy. 😉

  312. Josh says:

    @LadyScarlett001

    “Erik, I can assure you that I have never privately emailed you…”

    Since we cannot expect truth from @batshit, let me see if @Elaine can respond to the correctness of the above statement. 😉

  313. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy,

    You posts are sounding more and more like written by a woman. 😉

  314. Josh says:

    @batshit,

    “Josh, i realize how important the blog is to you”

    I absolutely love the blog. It’s not hidden from anyone. It’s people like you who are obsessed with the blog and keep accusing others for the same.

    “but I KNOW what you are, and where you emailed from, as well as what I just stated as being fact. If it were not true..then, you would not be trying to discredit my character so much.”

    If you accuse someone and he responds, then his response mean that you are correct? It does not make any sense whatsoever. When you take an idiotic action, don’t expect people to react along the line of what you wish they had reacted.

    “I have an app that shows the city and state from the person opening your emails. This is not a mistake or a server showing up like a gmail or hotmail location.”

    As usual you have no clue what you are talking about.

    “I am not even discussing private content here, but what YOU are doing.”

    You continue to discuss private content and continue to deny it.

    “If you had left well enough alone, then I would not have called you out for it, but you just cannot stop insulting me, since you are trying to disparage me.”

    Let me get it right. You continue to accuse @FunDude and @GeorgiaPeach my proxy followed by “hehe”, and you expect me to leave “well enough alone”? Does that make any sense whatsoever?

    “Now please, just stop….I am not interested in going back and forth with this.”

    Then don’t. But I know you will come back to it again and again and again and again.

  315. FlyBoy says:

    @ErikTheRed

    Yeah, it’s a tough call between a 36D & size9 vs. a 32B & sizeXXS. It ultimately comes down to whose personality is easier to get along and which one is tighter.

    The reason I posted the link is because some bloggers are arguing that any woman heavier than 110 lbs is ipso facto unsuitable for sugar, period. Because she is fat!!!!!!!!!!

    That is not true. Not even close. And ironically the total opposite of the truth. Women who look like models attract the worst kind of SDs. The weak, shallow and vain kind of SDs. The kind of SDs who couldn’t get these girls IRL so they have to ‘pay’ for them. What do you think will result from that, an enjoyable relationship?!!! No sir, more like resentment from the moment go.

    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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    Cheers :)

  316. Fundude says:

    Typing on my iPhone 6 plus since I am not at home.

  317. Fundude says:

    correction: immature women in quotes

  318. Fundude says:

    @
    Ladyscarlett

    It appears your started shit with Erik because he liked women in their 20s. This is a common tactic of insecure women in their 30s who want the successful guys to not overlook them.

    They want to discourage those relationships by calling the men “creepers” and saying they only want “inmate women they can take advantage of”.

    That is totall and utter bullshit that these women need to push to prevent successful men from dipping down in age.

    It is clear Scarlett has some major psychological issues that should be addressed by a professional as well.

    Her usage of proxies and then attempt at projection is truly congruent with the mind of a psychologically disturbed woman.

  319. Muah says:

    Things sure escalated quickly…

  320. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KeKe
    “Uh was going to see how everyone was doing this evening. .. I’ll check in later.”

    CHICKEN. You’re missing out on far too much fun here! LOL. Hope things are going well with you and your SD. Don’t worry about things here. Think about where YOU ARE and YOUR SD. :)

  321. ErikTheRed says:

    @Scarlett,

    Unlike what you and your proxies ganging up on me and making multiple complaints to the host, I’m not interested in ganging up on you with anyone else. I simply reply to your attacks thrown at me; that’s been the pattern for many months by now. Even an old dog can learn new tricks, so we are told :-)

  322. ErikTheRed says:

    @FlyBoy

    Yeah, it’s a tough call between a 36D & size9 vs. a 32B & sizeXXS. It ultimately comes down to whose personality is easier to get along and which one is tighter.

    The irony is that it is probably easier for the guy to keep the one about whom he doesn’t give a sh*t, so he can keep coming up with fun things to do instead of worshiping her and enabling her to destroy the relationship. LOL

  323. KeKe says:

    Uh was going to see how everyone was doing this evening. .. I’ll check in later. .

  324. LadyScarlett001 says:

    Erik, I can assure you that I have never privately emailed you…you have nothing to do with this, anyways. you can insult all you wish, but I choose to ignore your nonsense that is nothing more than ganging up on me with Josh.

    Josh, i realize how important the blog is to you, but I KNOW what you are, and where you emailed from, as well as what I just stated as being fact. If it were not true..then, you would not be trying to discredit my character so much.

    I have an app that shows the city and state from the person opening your emails. This is not a mistake or a server showing up like a gmail or hotmail location. I am not even discussing private content here, but what YOU are doing. If you had left well enough alone, then I would not have called you out for it, but you just cannot stop insulting me, since you are trying to disparage me. Now please, just stop….I am not interested in going back and forth with this. You need to behave on blog.

  325. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Lady
    I don’t know how you think you have the info that my emails originate from the same location as Josh, but if that’s what you believe, they must be, right? Well, remember, you are the one who asked me to meet you for lunch or dinner in a couple weeks. You’ve been the one who is all sweet and kind and chatty with me lately. I did not instigate any of the personal email conversation with you. That said, I was willing to meet you and try to be a friend. Is that what you still want from me or do you want to continue to play these idiotic games here? Make your choice “Lady.” I’ve stayed on this blog for amusement, a diversion and because it’s something different and interesting to me. For the most part, I like it here, but you’re creating such chaos now, it’s difficult for me and likely everyone else to get back to the purpose of the blog – to connect and communicate similar issues or problems in a friendly manner.

    I don’t want to know the deal with you and Erik nor do I care, but either you need to let it go or move on some place else. And for the very LAST time, I am not Josh’s proxy nor do I want to be his proxy. I am also not a proxy for FunDude, FlyBoy, AmusedSD, Atlanta SD, Lainey, Kenna or anyone else on here. What I am is, a tired of listening to your rant about proxies, almost 62 yr old lady who just wants to hear other stories here, like Kenna’s pregnancy and FunDude’s exploits trying to find his “perfect” SB, KeKe’s fun SD dates and the trials and tribulations of UnCommonSB and the others. I don’t want to hear about the “difficulties” (to put it mildly) between you and Erik, so please, just stop. Ok? Just stop. If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything. And Erik, nice of you to drop in from time to time, but how about you consider the same when Lady Scarlett goes on one of her tirades.

  326. Josh says:

    *Once again as I have requested several times before, please don’t discuss the content of the private emails. I have perfect reasons for all the content of my outgoing emails. I am not dumb enough to say things in private to others without considering the consequences of their revelation.

  327. ErikTheRed says:

    @Scarlett

    One of your proxies email chatted with me a couple months ago. From there you should have known that I probably have a different location from Josh.

    Now as to how two people can show the same location in those apps, they could be in the same city (or co-locating in the same person, like some of your proxies), or the two people could be using the same mail service that is not a POP server but a display-only interface with all the mails retained at the central server.

  328. Josh says:

    @batshit

    When you started the proxy accusations because of your idiotic reasons including the email-from-the-same-city nonsense, did you think that I would just roll over and play dead?

    Once again, as I ha e requested several times before, please don’t discuss the content of the private emails. I have perfect reasons for all the content of my outgoing emails. I am not dumb enough to say things I private to others without considering the consequences of their revelation.

    However, your revealing of the same may be embarrassing to others and maybe you, which your druggie mind does not comprehend.

  329. LadyScarlett001 says:

    I have the emails that show gapeach’s emails are from the EXACT same city and state as Josh is.

  330. LadyScarlett001 says:

    I have the emails that show gapeach’s emails are from the EXACT same city and state…anyone who wants or cares, can email me and will show them. Why are you acting so weird about it, if it is not true? Like I said, I do not even care if you have ten proxies, until they are constantly rude to others daily.

    It is soooo obvious what you are doing now. Paint me as a batshit crazy druggie, which you KNOW is NOT true, so no one will believe you having all these fake bloggers. Yeah, that was pretty expected

    Are you that desperate tonight? No blog women to ask for ‘pussy’ pics from? Really Josh, I want NO part of you, even on the blog anymore. and it is weird that the blog is your existence. You are kind of scary, actually…

  331. ErikTheRed says:

    Nobody called me in. I’m not at the beck and call of anyone. I have not checked for weeks the throwaway email account that some of you have. None of you have any of my phone numbers. I’m a speed reader. I scan the blog from time to time; most of the time I find it unnecessary for me to add any comment. Please do not take my choice of silence to mean my absence or any likelihood of my tolerance of sh*t thrown my way.

    Cheers!

  332. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @LadyScarlett AND @ ErikTheRed and yeah, @ FunDude too!!!!
    Please, take all that discussion to another site, an email or simply elsewhere. No one here wants to hear your dirty laundry. And shame on you @FunDude, please don’t bring up their names like that again. It’s such a waste of time and energy to hash through all their “stuff” over and over and it gets nothing accomplished here. Geez. Let’s find another subject we can all enjoy or at least discuss in a sensible, humane way, please.

    So… have you heard how COLD it is right now in Atlanta? Got to freezing temps last night and is projected to get below freezing again. Where is Spring time and warm? :)

  333. Josh says:

    LadyScarlett001

    “I have her emails as proof…with YOUR city and state location, and computer ALL over them. Please, I apologized before I saw that..Please enlighten me why your city and state shows up, when she emails me?”

    Ask your psychiatrist. He “may” be able to explain better or change the drugs?

  334. Josh says:

    @batshit

    You are incapable of posting comprehensible sentences. What legal or otherwise drugs are you on?

  335. LadyScarlett001 says:

    I have her emails as proof…with YOUR city and state location, and computer ALL over them. Please, I apologized before I saw that..Please enlighten me why your city and state shows up, when she emails me?

    Nice, you call in Jacob to ‘gang up’ on me. This is not the first time. Funny, I have all the emails were you spoke very ill of jacob calling him ‘crazy and psychotic’. You are pathetic and schizophrenic too, apparently. Trying to disparage my character and paint me as some sort of druggie…anyone can see, or who cares enough, can tell what you are doing to deflect what you really are.

    Have fun blogging all evening on a saturday, causing trouble with all your proxies..

  336. ErikTheRed says:

    You mentioned your son here;

    You mentioned your preference for drugs here;

    You indicated your propensity to distribute with your own writings;

    You became agitated when you mistakenly thought someone was going to out your behavior.

    I can’t careless what Josh or Fundude does; there was no reason for you to launch into diatribe against me when you were in dispute with Fundude.

  337. Josh says:

    @batshit

    Now you are “seeing” both @GeorgiaPeach and @Josh in one city AFTER apologizing to and the setting up a meeting with @GeorgiaPeach.

    @FunDude is a doctor and @Erik is a sharp guy. Their assessment of your druggie status is gaining traction.

  338. LadyScarlett001 says:

    Fundud/Josh mentioned you, first, not me. you both belong in a nuthouse, not the blog…unbelievable…You know nothing of my son, and there is no custody question of my son, and never has been(that was all made up by your threats to out me and find my son’s school)..and to even bring up lies like that, or make up such egregious and false claims, in regards to him and drugs, and against my character is truly disgusting.. and reflects more on you, than myself.

    I do not even have words for the atrocious and despicable things things you both write here. and, under various ‘proxies’. I want no part of your sick games, I assure you that. Both of you need mental help…

  339. ErikTheRed says:

    @Scarlett / KMS

    If raping of your under-age son is taking place, then you are the rapist: because accessory to rape also makes you a rapist, including third-degree statutory rape

    Why did it ever become an issue? Because you outrageously accused my desire for genuine relationship with 20-something years old as “exploiting immature women,” which is a crime. By the same hyperbolic logic that you insisted upon, then your introduction of your own underage son to your SD’s would be sexual exploitation of minor and third-degree rape, which in turn makes you a rapist.

    Likewise, you are the one who persisted on endangering your son with your own behavior.

    Likewise, you were the one who initiated the complaints to the management; otherwise, they would not have been involved at all.

    Likewise, the previous discussion would not have become ugly and graphic if not for you and your proxies advocating gruesome sexual torture and murder of me. Funny someone replicating less than half the graphic violence that you and your proxy advocate would result in your complaints to the management.

    Likewise, I was going to let FunDude’s mention pass without comment, yet you just couldn’t help yourself launching into attacks against me. LOL.

    None of your distortions and misdirection are effective at an astute observer ‘ s conclusion from your own writings that you are a druggie. Your own use of drugs and propensity to distribute, plus consequential behavior in order to finance that addiction, are what’s endangering your custody of your child. Lashing out at others does not solve that fundamental problem. I doubt your son after growing up will appreciate a drug addicted temperamental mother who showed him to her SD’s.

  340. GeorgiaPeach says:

    *Yikes again. Typing too fast. How else can I MEET you and Atlanta SD…?

  341. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Lady
    I have no idea. I’m just minding my own business here, typing in this blog and texting to a hot dude on my phone, in a little place near Atlanta. You must realize that. How else can I need you and AtlantaSD for lunch on April 8? LOL. All I know about Josh is what he’s said here – that he lives in the Central Time Zone somewhere. LOL OK?

  342. LadyScarlett says:

    The EXACT same city and state, I meant.

  343. UncommonSB says:

    @FunDude “I agree. But why is there a complaint when a man calls out a woman? lol”

    People who feel it necessary to deceive others into meeting them are insecure, and insecure people don’t handle rejection well. So they’re likely to lash out in defense, try to make excuses, or desperately try to reel you in with a whole new line of lies.

    And it’s not gender specific to be an ass when faced with rejection. It’s hilarious how quickly some men can flip the switch from telling me I’m beautiful and have an awesome personality throughout a first date… to calling me every name in the book and saying how they can find someone so much hotter after I’ve decided I don’t want go out with them a second time.

  344. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    @Uncommon
    I agree. But why is there a complaint when a man calls out a woman? lol

    I don’t think I was “complaining” about when a man calls out a woman. I was just saying it works both ways. LOL And I’m with Uncommon, if I were to lie, I’d expect to be called out on it. Fair is Fair, right?

  345. LadyScarlett says:

    A lot from*

  346. LadyScarlett says:

    Question: How does an email get read and opened, from Gapeach, in the same exact city that Josh used to email me from a lot form…and the same computer?

    Interesting…and yes, I have an app for my email that tells me from what city and from what computer an email is read…

  347. Josh says:

    Rhetorical question…

    How does a troll feed herself?

  348. LadyScarlett says:

    Well, if you are not Josh, fundude, then you do not know what I look like, so that statement is illogical. And, really do not care if you find younger women as I would not date someone so annoying and ignorant, anyways.

    If you are Josh, like I suspect, then that statement is also illogical, unless you are paying very high amounts.

    Also, why would a Dr. care about any conflict on a silly blog, much less who instigated it or whatnot? Or, sane normal person for that matter…? Ergo, You should like, totally focus on your bro awesome international Cancun getaway, and not silly past blog fights from a long time ago.

  349. FunDude says:

    @Uncommon

    I agree. But why is there a complaint when a man calls out a woman? lol

  350. FunDude says:

    @Lady

    Actually I have gone on a few dates with women that are far hotter and younger than you recently. I have a few more setup in the near future.

    Ergo, you talking shit is meaningless.

    Also, I highly doubt you didn’t instigate that little conflict.

  351. UncommonSB says:

    @FunDude – Liars (male or female) don’t like to be called out. I don’t lie, so I’m not one of the complainers. If I were to lie, I’d have it coming, so I still wouldn’t be one of the complainers.

  352. LadyScarlett says:

    Oh wait, perhaps, you have things to do like ask other female bloggers for pictures and naughty pictures…my mistake…gotta get your thrills somehow, I guess :-/

    Uncommon, don’t take ‘their’ bait. He is very bored this afternoon and is looking for a fight on blog. As they say, ‘don’t feed the troll’.

    And, have had more than a share of SDs lie about their age by 10 years or more, uncommonSB….unfortunately, lying about one’s age on SA is common…on both sides, it seems.

  353. FunDude says:

    @Fly

    Im not particularly attracted to that woman in that pic.

    Ergo, I wouldn’t pay for it.

  354. FunDude says:

    @Uncommon

    No you should call him out about it. I don’t complain if you do.

    Why do you ladies complain if we call a woman out for lying?

  355. LadyScarlett says:

    “FunDude says:
    March 28, 2015 at 2:45 pm
    What happened between that ladyscarlett (KMS) and Jacob (EriktheRed ?).

    Looks like he accused her of being a druggie, etc.

    I have feeling that is a correct assessment. She appears to have “proxies” herself. That is why she claims everyone is a “proxy”.”

    Funny you should mention that, Joshdude. When I first started posting on this blog, I was often accused of being a ‘proxy’ of SugarySpicey’..I didn’t even know what that meant, until I started posting here. Then, after starting emailing with ‘Josh’ he would always ask me if I thought this person on blog was really a proxy of someone else. I thought that was crazy at the time, but apparently, that was projection.

    Nice way to try and stir shit again. Must be bored, since it is Staurday and you clearly have better things to do 😉 As far as Jacoby/Erik, funny that you keep bringing him up, and trying to stir up trouble, yet say nothing of him threatening to out me in real life, his sick mentioning of raping of my child, and other very disgusting things, after he was banned from blog, he would not stop until he tried getting me banned. If anyone is on drugs it is someone who speaks of raping children or outing people in real life from an arrangement site blog.

    Keep trying to disparage my character…it seems you have nothing better to do on a Saturday, hehe.

  356. UncommonSB says:

    @FunDude Interesting… so I should be cool and overlook it when a man lies, perpetually take one for the team, as a penance for other women who have lied?

  357. FlyBoy says:

    So this “Model” does not deserve top sugar because she is fat?!!!!!

    []http://tinyurl.com/p5pvx8o[]

    Get the fuck out of here!!! lol

    Cheers :)

  358. FunDude says:

    @Uncommon

    Yet you were rude to the SD’s that misrepresented themselves.

    Why isn’t a man allowed that same luxury towards a SB that lies?

    @Georgia

    Women have done that shit to me before. Nothing new.

  359. GeorgiaPeach says:

    *Yikes! TOO difficult. LOL

  360. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Uncommon
    I’m with you. Why be so anger at everyone all the time? I don’t think I’ve been to difficult here? Lord knows I could easily be anger at my circumstances, my life and those around me, but I try hard not to be. It’s just the hand I’ve been dealt. Time to move on to the next adventure. And Dr. Fun, I’m not trying to give you a hard time, I just try to see all sides of the picture. It’s not easy sometimes being one of the few half-sane females here in this room of (as Josh says) “Batshit crazy” ones. LOL. Besides, I just can’t get my eyes off your gravi. OMG…. 😉

  361. UncommonSB says:

    @Josh I’m not rude to men (or women) who are respectful. Why would I be? Life is too short to be angry and defensive all of the time. And to those who aren’t respectful, I usually ignore them altogether unless they are persistent and confrontational.

  362. Josh says:

    @UncommonSB

    With all the female rudeness against men I see in public, being rude to men seems to be taken as God-given right by women. What’s new?

  363. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    Sure, but do you have that “pretty thick skin” as Guru Josh says he has? I know you are quite the perfect specimen, at least from your photo, but what IF there were some slight flaw that a POT called you on? Mis-matched socks or something Would you give her an attitude or just brush her off as a fruitcake or such?

  364. UncommonSB says:

    @FunDude If I were to misrepresent myself, I’d deserve to be called out too. But I don’t, so I have nothing to worry about.

  365. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude and @Josh
    Hey, I was just asking. I could care less, but sometimes that shoe is on the other foot, rare, but it is. And don’t knock me, I’ve been on your sides lately. For the life of me I do not understand how an intelligent female can ask for an allowance without expecting to give something back in return. Men/SD’s are NOT made of $$, they work very hard in most cases, I’m sure.

  366. FunDude says:

    @Uncommon

    Yeah women have no problems talking shit to men.

    The only problem develops when the MAN talks shit to her about her inaccuracy.

  367. Josh says:

    @GP

    My “disappearing act” SB has put on about 20 lbs as well but she’s my SB already. We have shared-memories and she’s not greedy.

    This one negotiated top allowance based on false advertisement.

    As far as your specific question, I would have no problem as I have pretty thick skin.

  368. UncommonSB says:

    People lie all of the time online. It happened to me 4 times, and I walked out immediately after calling the guys out on it. I’m brutal about it too. If you’ll misrepresent yourself in obvious physical ways, I won’t trust anything else that comes out of your mouth. We’re done.

  369. FunDude says:

    Do you honestly think a woman would tolerate a guy who came looking fat when he put out pictures of him looking muscular?

    Do you think a woman would tolerate a guy who claimed to be making over 6 figures and turned out to be working at McDonalds?

    Please

  370. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    That is her right to do so. Women do shit like that all the time.

  371. FunDude says:

    What happened between that ladyscarlett (KMS) and Jacob (EriktheRed ?).

    Looks like he accused her of being a druggie, etc.

    I have feeling that is a correct assessment. She appears to have “proxies” herself. That is why she claims everyone is a “proxy”.

  372. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Guru Josh AND @FunDude
    Which brings the question, What would be your response if you were treated the same? That is, if a potential SB connected with you and she didn’t think you portray yourself as the same in your photos. She told you that you appear more skinny, have more muscles, etc that what she sees in the photos you sent her. How would either of you react to that?

  373. FunDude says:

    Actually excited about some of the ladies in their early to mid 20s that I am going out with shortly. Looks like there are some good prospects coming onto this site. Appear classy and not a pain in the ass lol

  374. KeKe says:

    @Josh
    You will be happy to know, I lost enough weight that I am smaller than my pictures!

    @Promise..The weight loss is awesome!!! What did you start at? I’m at a stand still. I’m 5’6 165. I would like to loss 10 more pds. I never looked good under 150. I didn’t get much male attention until I was 150 surprisingly.

  375. Josh says:

    It fascinates, but does not surprise, me how these women change their tone…from babe, honey, Sweetheart, etc.,…to screw off.

    Hahahaha!

  376. Josh says:

    No. I am not @FunDude.

    I am the @Guru. I told her that she is slimmer in the photo. Hahahah.

  377. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Did you tell her she was far fatter than her pics?

  378. Josh says:

    “Screw off. Never contact me again.”

    As if…

    My cool response to her, “Understood. Best of luck dear.”

  379. Josh says:

    She negotiated the highest amount I give any SB. Why did I agree? He body looked like my first girlfriend’s perfect shape.

    Now, after agreeing that she has “put on some weight” she is blaming me of “wasting her time”.

    I never lose my cool with these idiots. My response was, “you should update your profile photos.”

  380. Denise says:

    @LadyScarlette @ Flyboy

    Thank you both. I have that car salesmen type in my inbox that has pretty much given me 18 different sales pitches on offering me a bag of oxygen. He’s even thrown in a few of those lovely “prove yourself to me sexually and I’ll spoil you with my empty wallet”. Whatever happened to bowing out gracefully when someone says No Thank You several times. It’s creepy.

  381. Promise says:

    @Josh She sounded thirsty.

  382. Josh says:

    After insisting repeatedly that she did not lie, the SB showed up with 20 pounds more than her photos. She was ready to hit the sack but I was not. Next!

  383. a latin opinion says:

    @fundude I think the same, “no lleves arena al mar”.

    “Don’t bring more sand to the beach”, why would you get a woman when there is plenty? Is Cancun no?

    Just enjoy your self, young, american and in shape? You can save the SB money, hear your mother out (me lol)

    Just learn how to say this:

    *Por favor: please, use after everything you say/ask to pretty women.

    *Gracias: after they served you/help you.

    *Hola: hello, the very important part is to say it with a warm smile in your face.

    All the other lame stuff like, bonita señorita is just BS they always hear the same.

    The trick ia to make them think that you see them as special/different.

  384. Promise says:

    I only know one SB that faked her age. She was 17.

  385. Josh says:

    There’s only one group of women who bump their ages up on SA…teenagers.

  386. Josh says:

    Age is just a number works the other way around as well. If she looks like 30 she is 30.

  387. FunDude says:

    I have problems judging age these days. A lot of these women look like they are older than their stated ages. Many looks 30s when they state 20s.

  388. Promise says:

    I’m 5’6. I eat less carbs and more protein. For exercise I do Blogilates for 4 days a week, and go on walks the other 3 days. :3

  389. FunDude says:

    140lbs in isolation doesn’t tell me much.

    If she is 6 foot and 140lbs that is different than 5 foot and 140lbs

  390. SouthernSB says:

    Yeah Promise, what are you doing? Because I gained 30 lbs. It was all the fine dining I did with my old SD. Even working out at the gym every day for three hours while going out didn’t seem to put a dent in it. Oh course I do have something of a sweet tooth so it could have been that.

  391. FunDude says:

    @Promise

    How tall are you?

  392. Josh says:

    Nice going @Promise. What are you doing other than eating less?

  393. Promise says:

    Down to 140 lbs.

  394. Josh says:

    This is what you do when you go on vacation. You get heavy dosage of honeymoon with your favorite woman at home and schedule another heavy dosage immediately after your return.

    During the vacation you use the saved money and sanity to flirt with every woman that comes within 3-5 feet of you. In your specific case, you can utilize the saved gofer time to study.

  395. Josh says:

    The typical female (and mangina) response to such assertion is, “Josh, YOU may be turned into gofer, not the other ‘real men'”, which is hogwash.

    With the number of “yes dear” men you see in public places, it’s a norm not an exception.

    If you tried to assert yourself, she will withdraw her vagina from the equation and you’d be kicking yourself as to why the fuck you brought her along.

  396. Josh says:

    Not anymore. After a few hours she will turn you into her personal gofer. 😉

  397. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    So you never go on vacation with a female?

  398. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    I would not take any female to anything longer than a few hours and even then to a place I could uber her back home if sabotage raised its ugly head.

  399. FunDude says:

    @FLYR

    I went there last year with an ex. It isn’t a “swingers” resort unless you put on some armbands that show you are down for that.

    We never “swung” or were involved with any swingers asking us to “swing”.

    There was an age range from the 20s to 60s. Plenty of people in their 20s to 30s there.

  400. flyR says:

    FD ( If nothing else a long weekend with her prior to the resort. I also noticed comments that the crowd was older which might be uncomvortable for her

  401. flyR says:

    FD- tanking a new SB to a swingers resort …….. I would not take a new SB on a week sailing trip for the same reason but the resort adds some further risks including distance. Just my thought

    For the same you could probably take two new SB to a quiet resort

    I also look at about 15% negative or very negative as reviews as a red flag

  402. NubianSB says:

    Oh wow! Thanks @Denise @LadyScarlet. Yeah, I thought so. Definitely running!

  403. FunDude says:

    @FLYR

    Why is it risk to travel to temptation resort?

    @Denise

    Sounds pretty shady. Probably would play you and not give you much.

  404. FlyBoy says:

    @Denise;

    It’s very simple to block someone. Go to their profile, look to the upper right next to “Message” and “Favorite” and you will find a wheel like button. Click on that and choose “Block Member”.

    Cheers :)

  405. LadyScarlett says:

    “NubianSB says:
    March 28, 2015 at 6:47 am
    So I got a somewhat unsettling message yesterday on the site. Didn’t know what to make of it but I played along. Basically, first message to me wants to know if we are compatible with several sexual activities questions e.g Anal, threesomes etc. And he says he starts his arrangements at 3k for the first month, 4k for the second month etc up to 8k per month.
    His profile had a one line text and no photo so I asked him to post a photo. He asked for my email to send it and he’s cute.
    Is this normal?”

    Nubian, He should not be asking that sort if question, in a first email. He sends that email out to many, in order to see who bites, most likely…

    Denise, yes, it does. Click on their profile, top right hand corner, click the second drop down grey round
    icon to ‘block/report user’. That is how it appears on ipad/iPhone, anyways.

  406. Denise says:

    @Nubian- Run don’t walk away from that guy.

  407. NubianSB says:

    So I got a somewhat unsettling message yesterday on the site. Didn’t know what to make of it but I played along. Basically, first message to me wants to know if we are compatible with several sexual activities questions e.g Anal, threesomes etc. And he says he starts his arrangements at 3k for the first month, 4k for the second month etc up to 8k per month.
    His profile had a one line text and no photo so I asked him to post a photo. He asked for my email to send it and he’s cute.
    Is this normal?

  408. Denise says:

    Does the site have a block feature? How do you stop someone from messaging you?

  409. flyR says:

    @ FD Pretty risky destination for a newly recruited SB unless recruited for the mission.

  410. FunDude says:

    {{http://www.tripadvisor.com/Hotel_Review-g150807-d154428-Reviews-Temptation_Resort_Spa_Cancun-Cancun_Yucatan_Peninsula.html}}

  411. FunDude says:

    Want to bring a female to Cancun.

    Has anyone been to Temptation Resort in Cancun?

    Due to starting my MBA, I’ll be short on time but I want to try for a 5 day trip including a weekend.

  412. FunDude says:

    Have a couple of good prospects right now.

    A few women in their early 20s who are relatively attractive who appear to be EASY to get along with and a few aren’t even slutty party girls.

    We shall see.

  413. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Muah
    “@Georgia
    Crazy people are everywhere haha – It’s just like the SDs who meet SBs who are fine with intimacy but still do not wish to provide an allowance.
    And I do blame Dr Phil. Thanks to Dr Phil I often talk with a valley girl accent and expect gucci bags just because I am soo pretty and like older men love my company! (Yes I was typing that with a Valley Girl accent lol)”

    I don’t blame the good Dr. Phil either. I don’t particularly care for his show, but that’s just me. I’m sure there are those TV audiences he does help, I’m just not one who wants to air all my “dirty laundry” our there for public viewing. LOL. And I love the “Valley Girl” accent in your writing. You GO GIRL!

    You know it’s funny, when I first started on dating sites a few years ago, I was so sure I would find a younger guy, since I was 4 yrs. older than my “late” guy. Nope, hasn’t happened. I suppose for several reasons, including my own tastes and experience have changed over the years. The older gentlemen I’ve encountered seem to be more polite, better dressed to an extent, and not quite so “aggressive” as the younger ones I’ve dated. I have to wonder if it’s because they feel they may have one foot closer “in” or they have just learned through more recent experiences. LOL. Oh well.

  414. KeKe says:

    @Georgia.. I will see him in a hour
    Lingerie. .check
    Massage oil..check
    Box of goodies delivered to his house for us to play with..double check
    It’s going to be a fun long night
    Later my blog peeps

  415. flyR says:

    @ fundude – semantics counts for a lot……….

    I think most will accept something like – it’s premature to discuss an allowance prior to our meeting other than for me to assure you that I understand and economic component is foundational to the concept of an arrangement and I have had several very successful, long term arrangements.

    Once in a while I will get a question if we are both interested – Is a X arrangement within your budget? This is not like buying a home where the person gets 100% use and benefit of the house. However, if there is some minimum below which you are not interested under any circumstances let me know.

  416. Muah says:

    @Georgia
    Crazy people are everywhere haha – It’s just like the SDs who meet SBs who are fine with intimacy but still do not wish to provide an allowance.

    And I do blame Dr Phil. Thanks to Dr Phil I often talk with a valley girl accent and expect gucci bags just because I am soo pretty and like older men love my company! (Yes I was typing that with a Valley Girl accent lol)

  417. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    I am sure you are quite right for most and likely I felt similar when I was younger, simply because I thought he was “expected” to pay – different world then. However, now it’s different and I don’t like my dates to pay for me all the time, I always offer to split the bill or pay my share, it’s the polite thing to do. But I also enjoy having a gentleman come to my house and let me prepare food/drinks there for him too. I discovered a long time ago that “fantasyland” can be quite overrated and sometimes the costs far exceed what I’m willing to pay/put out. LOL

  418. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    “What’s the difference than my just demanding that you take me to dinner, for no reason at all, when I don’t even know you?”

    When a woman goes to dinner alone, she pays for her dinner.
    When a woman goes to dinner with her girlfriend, she pays for her dinner.
    When a woman goes to dinner with her girlfriend who may be making a lot more than her, she pays for her dinner still.
    But when a woman goes to dinner with a man, she expects him to pay for it.

    Why?

    As soon as a woman comes in contact with a man, she automatically gets transported to the fantasyland.

  419. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Muah
    Sure you can blame the good Dr. Phil for spreading the word, but it’s filtering to sites such and this and these “girls” are demanding allowances for simply showing up and looking pretty, expecting to give nothing to the guy in return, except she’s “cute.”

  420. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    “You’d be surprised how many women are SHOCKED that I am trying to determine their part of the “arrangement”.”

    And you’re surprised by this? I’m not from everything you guys have been saying. I can see that if I actually fit “your” profile perimeters, and I really wanted an arrangement with you, I’d have to be completely (as Guru Josh says) “Batshit Crazy” to demand or even ask you for an allowance before I explained how I could accommodate you and give you what you are requesting.

    I don’t understand how these supposed SB’s tell themselves they want an “arrangement” and not offer anything in return, for that allowance. What’s the difference than my just demanding that you take me to dinner, for no reason at all, when I don’t even know you? We have no connection or familiarity between us, that’s just nuts. Why would a female here demand an allowance and not give you anything in return?

  421. Muah says:

    There is more than one Dr Phil episode actually/

    You know I am sure there are some guys that do want platonic. However, I’ve never met one…

    Again, blame those shows. Most of the girls (on each of those shows) profess how they do not have intimate relations, they get all this money for just going to dinner, get gifts for spending time with guys – all because they are pretty and most of the girls aren’t even pretty. I mean, that sounds bad, but whatever.

  422. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “Some of them genuinely just want to hear that I will pay them an allowance before even meeting them without any conception of the parameters for an allowance.”

    It is called you-will-pay-me-and-I-will-not-call-you-creep-tax.

  423. Muah says:

    Josh check your attitude lol

  424. Josh says:

    @Muah

    “why would a man be on SA if he wanted platonic..?”

    Cuz spoiling a princess is what gentlemen do?

  425. Muah says:

    FunDude
    You can thank Dr. Phil, The Bethenny Show, 20/20, ABC, Tyra Banks, etc – for gals being so naive as to what sugar dating actually is.

    Common sense is not common – If all those clueless girls have to go off of are those TV shows, you should cut them some slack. Especially the Dr Phil episode – That one is terrible… The Bethenny Show is pretty bad too. I also read a blog by a lady trying out the sugar dating thing. She met a man at a bar got too drunk, he took her back to his office so she could sleep – and gave her $500 just because (allegedly).

    I’ve received money prior to meeting but I’ve never asked or expected. It’s rude to assume some guy you don’t know should just give you money… That’s common sense lol. I mean it doesn’t hurt to try to obtain a platonic arrangement but honestly, why would a man be on SA if he wanted platonic..?

  426. FunDude says:

    I have to love how women ask about the type of “arrangements” that I am willing to offer.

    I will say I am open to many different possibilities depending on the female I am making an arrangement with.

    I will also say there is no allowance until at least the first meeting where chemistry has been established and we can actually see each other.

    You’d be surprised how many women are SHOCKED that I am trying to determine their part of the “arrangement”. Some of them genuinely just want to hear that I will pay them an allowance before even meeting them without any conception of the parameters for an allowance.

  427. Josh says:

    The worst part about vibrators is that you can’t mind rape them?

  428. flyR says:

    @latin – I would be thrilled if the government would simply run a little more responsibly than the typical crackhouse.

  429. a latin opinion says:

    Have to go guys!-:

    XXOO

  430. a latin opinion says:

    Josh says:
    March 27, 2015 at 2:28 pm
    @latin

    “papi how about less wars?”

    If there are less wars then my statement would change to:

    “If more women went to less wars, women will manage to lose even lesser numbers of husbands, fathers and sons?”

    How about that? 😉

    And my stament will go like:

    “if the governments manage to do their jobs and don’t use our money as an Atlanta Housewife use his husband credit card, maybe just maybe, we will have less wars wich will decrease the amount of women and men than die for this reasons, plus will left less number of fathers, marriages and kids dealing with the loss of a family member.”

  431. a latin opinion says:

    Training* the muscles lol

  432. a latin opinion says:

    @keke

    Awww you are really pretty sweet, thank you? Lol

    Remember, trying the muscles, too much relaxation isn’t that good.

    (-;

  433. a latin opinion says:

    GeorgiaPeach says:
    March 27, 2015 at 1:59 pm
    @Latin
    I am so sorry. Perhaps sometime if “I head in your direction near Wash DC or such we could meet. I would really like that. I suspect you are a very fun lady and we could have a nice visit!”

    Yeahhhhh! Lets partyyyy, when you get around let me know. (-;

  434. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KeKe
    Calmed down some now? Find your Debt Card yet? Fingers crossed for you.
    What time are you meeting your SD?

  435. KeKe says:

    @Latin..I was going to say if you don’t know what a vibrator is then you’ve been missing out..then it dawned on me that the reason I have one is because “I’ve” been missing out. Lmao

  436. Josh says:

    @latin

    “papi how about less wars?”

    If there are less wars then my statement would change to:

    “If more women went to less wars, women will manage to lose even lesser numbers of husbands, fathers and sons?”

    How about that? 😉

  437. Josh says:

    a latin opinion says:
    March 27, 2015 at 1:59 pm
    Edited:

    Josh says:
    March 27, 2015 at 1:08 pm
    “Women lose the husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat.” Hilary Clinton.

    I have a solution for Madam President wanna be:

    “papi how about less wars?”

    If there are less wars then my statement would change to:

    “If more women went to less wars, women will stop losing even lesser numbers of husbands, fathers and sons?”

    How about that? 😉

  438. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Latin
    I am so sorry. Perhaps sometime if I head in your direction near Wash DC or such we could meet. I would really like that. I suspect you are a very fun lady and we could have a nice visit!

  439. a latin opinion says:

    Edited:

    Josh says:
    March 27, 2015 at 1:08 pm
    “Women lose the husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat.” Hilary Clinton.

    I have a solution for Madam President wanna be:

    “If more women went to war, women will stop losing as many husbands, as many fathers and as many sons? ;)”

    papi how about less wars?

  440. a latin opinion says:

    Josh says:
    March 27, 2015 at 1:08 pm
    “Women lose the husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat.” Hilary Clinton.

    papi how about less wars?

  441. a latin opinion says:

    @Georgia

    )-: hours away! I’m in the dmv area )-: too bad.

  442. a latin opinion says:

    Cuanto es bastante mas querido?. Quisera saber porque realmente me sorprende, tu te vez muy activo amorcito.

  443. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @latin opinion
    @Georgia that means yes or not? I ask you if you want us to meet while you visit your father.
    Oops! I’m sorry Latin. I would love to meet you while I am in VA. My time is limited though and I will be in the “Roanoke” area, which is toward the SW area of the state. Are you familiar with Roanoke?

  444. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KeKe
    @Josh..you ass! Don’t send me bad karma. Lol
    LMAO You give it to him Keke. LOL

  445. gentleman soul says:

    @ Latin

    Bastante mas querido justo, vamos a hablar el lenguaje del amor

  446. a latin opinion says:

    @gentleman

    Querido out of curiosity… how old are you then? If it lets than my scale, nothing I can do but if is more than 55, don’t worry neni I will be soft with you mi principe. I promise it wont hurt. (-;

  447. a latin opinion says:

    KeKe says:
    March 27, 2015 at 1:26 pm
    “@Latin ..On a positive note, I found my pocket vibrator.”

    Lol I don’t know what that is but if it put you in a positive mode, works for you lol

  448. KeKe says:

    Lol @Latin and @Gentleman!

  449. a latin opinion says:

    gentleman soul says:
    March 27, 2015 at 1:06 pm
    “@Latin

    SiSi ,Mucho ,Y No . But I’m just dreaming because you don’t have sex on the first date LOLOLOL”

    awwww so sweet! (-: I love a guy that listen queridito, ok for you I can settle for the third night, ok?

    Believe me I worth the wait, and since you learn spanish with you last one I will make you an expert in lets say some “more passionate” issues (-;

  450. KeKe says:

    @Latin ..On a positive note, I found my pocket vibrator.

  451. Josh says:

    “Women lose the husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat.” Hilary Clinton.

    I have a solution for Madam President wanna be:

    If more women went to war, women will stop losing as many husbands, as many fathers and as many sons? 😉

  452. gentleman soul says:

    @Latin

    SiSi ,Mucho ,Y No . But I’m just dreaming because you don’t have sex on the first date LOLOLOL

  453. a latin opinion says:

    @Georgia that means yes or not? I ask you if you want us to meet while you visit your father.

    @keke sorryyyyy )-: focus in something positive and fast! So you can stop all the bad vibe! Don’t let anything ruin your night!

  454. a latin opinion says:

    gentleman soul says:
    March 27, 2015 at 12:14 pm

    “@Latin

    Guapa ,Tu eres la chica que’ volveria a escoger como mi bebe”

    Well querido lets get down to business! (-;

    First step in the agenda, admit that I know more spanish than the one I want @latin to know.

    Second, how much spicy are you able to handle querido?

    Thirt, are you between 45 and 55? I don’t play around mi amor.

  455. KeKe says:

    @Georgia thanks for commiserating with me.
    @Josh..you ass! Don’t send me bad karma. Lol

  456. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    If keep at it, your car will die on the way back. So go to the store, buy a happy pill and pop it with a drink of your liking… 😉

  457. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @KeKe
    I am so sorry. I’ve had that scare before, only with a credit card. I left it at a gas station. I was lucky that someone turned it in immediately to the station folks and I was able to get back my card. I’ll say a prayer and cross my fingers that you get your card returned and all is ok. :)

  458. gentleman soul says:

    @Fiona

    ” Are one sentence messages better? ” YES ! Example :
    SD : Hi ! Thanks for noticing me How are you ?
    SB: I’m wonderful since you wrote .
    SD: Do you have sex on the first date ?
    SB:For you ,of course !

    That pretty much is an attention grabber and works for most of us .

    @Latin

    Guapa ,Tu eres la chica que’ volveria a escoger como mi bebe

    My last long term Baby was mexican and she was sooo passionate !!

  459. KeKe says:

    And my day has officially turned to shit. I lost my debit card.

  460. KeKe says:

    @Latin thanks. Lol. My translation was muy malo. Lol

  461. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Latin
    @Georgia did you read my post for you about VA?
    Yes, thank you Ms. Latin, I did read your posting. Thank you. I apologize for not responding sooner. My volunteer work has interfered with my viewing/response time here lately. LOL.

    Virginia truly is one of the more lovely and versatile states. We have all types of weather and terrain and each area is individually beautiful. Our state history abounds with intrigue, mystery and adventures. The politics are also an interesting aspect of our history, producing many fine statesmen for our country as well as many great heroes. I was born near in the western area of the state, in the mountains, and each time in my life, that I have left home, I find myself drawn back to those mountains, “the Blue Ridge” where you can find the “Blue Ridge Parkway” and the “Skyline Drive.” Of course, I’ve also been known to simply find some of the country back roads and find my own way around.

    The state also has some of the educational facilities in the country too, who can complain about “The College of William and Mary” or certainly, the “University of Virginia,” even Virginia Tech is now making quite the name for itself and the area once known as simply “pastures and farmland.” LOL. Yeah, I guess I sound like an ad for the state, but I do miss it. Georgia is ok and will likely remain my home now, but I won’t ever forget my life in Virginia, it will always be my “home.” And their slogan, “Virginia IS for Lovers” is also true. Sorry for the length, guess I miss it more than I realized. LOL

  462. a latin opinion says:

    gentleman soul says:
    March 26, 2015 at 3:25 pm
    @ KeKe
    @Gentleman..sex on the first date? You must be Rico Sauve..
    “intento con fuerza Mi Amor” .

    TRANSLATION: I TRY HARD MY LOVE.

  463. a latin opinion says:

    gentleman soul says:
    March 27, 2015 at 9:18 am

    “Latin ,you will make someone a wonderful exwife someday !!”

    LOL, esa estuvo buenisiiiima! Second ex wife querido, second ex wife.

  464. Muah says:

    FunDude don’t be such a crabby crab

    Number 1: I didn’t say decent shape. I said excellent shape.

    Number 2: Excellent shape is not a negative, it’s in fact excellent.

    I used to respond to messages from guys with fantastic abs – However, they all proved to be a waste of time. As in – They just want a hot, girlfriend type of experience… A girlfriend they don’t have to be faithful to nor provide an allowance to.

    Which is fine for some. I’m sure not all hotties (who claim to have $$$) are splenda but I don’t feel like taking the time to find out. Once bitten twice shy!

    Aww Vitesse :) you poor cuddly kitten! Lol.. IRL I prefer handsome men in great shape but they have to possess a great personality as well – healthy, motivated, career, smart, likes cheesecake (the list goes on).

  465. KeKe says:

    @FunDude. .No your assessment of females is correct. We like to look but most value the financial aspects that a man brings to the table more. Every thing else is a bonus. Personality goes a long way. I think that everyone can agree that pretty on the outside, empty inside can only get you so far.

  466. a latin opinion says:

    gentleman soul says:
    March 27, 2015 at 9:18 am

    No soy un Gringo Google gracias

    Since it doesn’t have comas (,,,,) I don’t know if you are trying to say “you are” or “you are not”

    I was excited )-:

    Nevertheless, Your spanish is good and you can say whatever you want but the level is higher than just google translate, plus “gringos” don’t usually call their self “gringos”.

    Just saying. (-;

  467. Josh says:

    @Latin

    “And I know the entire system is build so you f#$@ the guy but I didn’t.”

    An outsider sees right through it. But the entitled American women would deny any such thing is happening in the fucked up legal system.

  468. Josh says:

    @gentleman soul

    You are correct…there’s no way to tell. I would probably have gone along if she had not made a big deal about being discreet. Which led me to worry about my physical well-being. Which led me to inquire about the presence of a boyfriend. Which led her to being evasive. Which led me to look into her FB account…

  469. gentleman soul says:

    @Latin
    “shared intimacy with someone I respect and an allowance are the foundations of the relationship I am seeking.”

    @FlyR very well said. Absolutely ! And this is the essence of what I say to them .It works so much better .

    @Latin

    When I separated for the father of my daughter we make everything as an agreement, I didn’t ask him for anything. And I know the entire system is build so you f#$@ the guy but I didn’t.

    Latin ,you will make someone a wonderful exwife someday !!

  470. a latin opinion says:

    Lol my views are very particular most of the time, but on guys that are “too perfect on looks” I enjoy seeing them and even touching (sometimes),but I never ever take them home.

    (A man that I admire taught me that)

  471. gentleman soul says:

    @Muah
    Lol – Mind blown.
    So what happened with the ladies that gave in to first date sexuals?

    One I saw for a few months,but she just wasn’t my kind of girl , and the other wanted me to pay for her entire semester in one date . So we amicably parted ways . You know ,she was young and short sighted . She could have seen me weekly for a month and had it covered .

    @KeKe
    @Gentleman… translate. Lol.. I got intentions with my love? Lol

    What do you mean KeKe ?

    @latin
    @gentleman querido tu eres latino?

    No soy un Gringo Google gracias

    @Josh
    “I am not looking for money for sex situations. I am looking for SBs who stick with me in whatever capacity for a long period of time. But apparently she is escorting squarely for sex for money.”

    Each to his own . I can’t talk since I am married but I prefer that my SB not have an SO, BF,or have kids. IMHO most SBs have a BF/GF or are in between ,so it is hard to find a totally single girl who will be monogamous with you. Even if they say they are how do you know what they are doing when you are not with them 90% of the time ?

  472. a latin opinion says:

    KeKe says:
    March 27, 2015 at 8:58 am
    @Vitese..I think Latin was joking. I’m like Muah..I rather have an SD with a deep pocket and personality

    THANK YOU @KEKE you save me for writing. And please add me to that list (less the pocket part). I’m actually a sapiosexual (think that’s what they call it). Reason why I love @Josh the most.

    @josh I honor my word and pay my debts lol

  473. VitesseSD says:

    @Muah
    “I rarely respond to the SDs that are in excellent physical shape – Though they are very nice to look at, I doubt they would provide an allowance (etc) when they can get any silly girl for free. Perhaps I shouldn’t be so suspicious lol, I just hate wasting time. I’m far more attracted to personality anyways.”

    I’ve found this to be the case myself. Back when I was in university (living in the gym more or less), women rejected me frequently. When I asked women why they weren’t interested, if I got an answer it was usually along the lines of “you’re a player”. Nothing could have been further from the truth, my female roommates eventually asked me if I was gay because I was never bringing girls home.

    After university I got sick and couldn’t go to the gym for quite a while, suddenly women were throwing themselves at me. I was suddenly approachable, I guess I stopped fitting their mental image of a player.

    The absolute worst thing a guy can do if he wants women is look unattainable, physically intimidating/threatening or too good to be true.

    I saw this video way way too late.
    https:// www. youtube .com /watch?v=r5F1j4maykI

  474. KeKe says:

    @FlyBoy Thanks ♡!!

    @Josh..I think the SD is being an ass and he will possibly lose out on quality SB’s with this unnecessary game.

  475. FunDude says:

    @Muah

    So its bad to attempt to be in decent shape as well? Thats a negative for you?

  476. FlyBoy says:

    @Josh; You are defending no one since I am attacking no one.

    Only a politically correct, SJW, mangina equates words with weapons. Normal people such as @KeKe will merely ask for the use of another word! There is a world of difference between the two.

    You warrior you……….. hahahahahahha

    Cheers :)

  477. KeKe says:

    @Vitese..I think Latin was joking. I’m like Muah..I rather have an SD with a deep pocket and personality.

  478. FlyBoy says:

    @KeKe; Loud and clear :)

  479. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy

    “Oh, so the politically correct mangina is coming out, huh @Josh.”

    If defending certain minority is “politically correct” for you, then so be it.

  480. KeKe says:

    @FlyBoy.. You can use what ever word you want but in the gay community faggot is like nigger to blacks. My nephew is gay. He’s my favorite. I just don’t like that word. You are intelligent enough to come up with better insults.

  481. Muah says:

    @Josh – Yes, yes there is always more to the story. Based on what she provided dude sounds like a jerk. Of course messaging him back will not hurt any in the long run. However, being an ass just to see how someone responds is still being an ass lol.

    I just received this flattering message from an SD:
    “do you evr come to florida. would give you 7000 a day for hot times”

    Charming eh?

    @Vitesse
    I rarely respond to the SDs that are in excellent physical shape – Though they are very nice to look at, I doubt they would provide an allowance (etc) when they can get any silly girl for free. Perhaps I shouldn’t be so suspicious lol, I just hate wasting time. I’m far more attracted to personality anyways.

  482. VitesseSD says:

    @Fiona

    If the contents of that message you sent that POT SD isn’t too private, would you consider posting it here? Its possible you said something offensive or unappealing, and he’s giving you a second chance at a first impression.

    ‘Did she really mean that? Lets see if she says it again, here have some rope.’

  483. FlyBoy says:

    Oh, so the politically correct mangina is coming out, huh @Josh.

    Ok, my bad, my bad. From now on I shall be extra careful not to step on your fragile mangina feelings.

    Cheers

  484. Josh says:

    @latin

    “I was about to ask you where that left you? because I like you the most lol”

    I am your friendzoned idiot until you start giving me multiple, long overdue blow jobs. 😉

  485. VitesseSD says:

    @a latin opinion

    “Btw @fundude change his gravatar to show his personal view about the whole weight issue, I propose @vitesseSD and you should do the same lol, a picture is worth a thousand words!”

    Well, as flattered as I am that you want to see pictures of me, I make no claim of being a specimen of male physical perfection, I’m a slightly overweight former bodybuilder. If I had the time 3-4 months could get me ripped the way I used to be in my early 20s, but I am not in that stage of my life anymore. The catch is looks isn’t really what I’m supposed to be bringing to the table here is it?

    When if comes to SA you want a SD not a male SB. If I’m going to be going back to the gym twice a day 6 days a week, spending money on supplements, and having my life revolve around the gym and dieting/bulking year round (at the expense of any career), maybe you should be giving me an allowance and gifts?

    Why should I have to bring looks and money to the relationship if a SB only has to bring looks?

    If I’m bringing looks and money, then shouldn’t I expect that the SB be exceptional?

  486. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    @flyR has repeatedly insulted people who choose to follow non-heterosexual lifestyle.

    Now we have @FlyBoy joining @flyR.

    The word was used as an insult, and the joke is on @FlyBoy as I have voluntarily defended homosexuals on this board many times from such insults.

  487. FlyBoy says:

    What word do you want me to use?

  488. FlyBoy says:

    @Josh;

    It’s still better than a man living as women…. faggot lol^2

    Go back to your “reverse shit tests” …. lol

    Cheers :)

  489. KeKe says:

    Don’t use the word faggot. Please!!!!

  490. Josh says:

    @FlyBoy

    Whatever you say woman writing as man. 😉

  491. FlyBoy says:

    @Josh;

    The SD wanted to see how you react to his reverse shit test. He must be getting many women like you sending him messages.

    I do it sometimes when I like an SB and want to see how she will react to something like that. If she is going to blow me off, then sayonara. Reword your 10 sentences into what he is asking for and see how he responds.

    Oh, so you act like a woman?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Utterly fascinating. lol

    Is that the genesis of your hatred for women? Because they have a perfectly good pussy, and you don’t!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I knew something was off about you, faggot.

    Cheers :P)

  492. a latin opinion says:

    @JOSH

    AND YOU KNOW I MEAN IT IN A POSITIVE WAY (-:

    BTW In the @Fiona case I will have laugh and re done my answer as required just because I LOVE challenges.

  493. Josh says:

    @Muah,

    @Fiona can do whatever she wants to do. But I find it interesting that @Fiona shows up with her question, and the SD is declared a jerk by default without anyone reading @Fiona’s “ten short sentences” or knowing anything about @Fiona.

    Both SBs and SDs should be vetting either other out with some thoroughness instead of acting impulsively. In @Fiona’s case, it was not him who approached her. She approached him after reading and liking his profile. So vet him a bit thoroughly, and block him after a few messages if he happens to be a jerk.

    Now, if @Fiona is in her early 20s, is up there in looks, and the sugar package she has to offer, she can do whatever the fuck she wants to do. There will be more SDs lining up for the next few years. 😉

  494. a latin opinion says:

    Josh says:
    March 27, 2015 at 8:08 am
    @latin

    “I like @FlyBoy and FlyR.”

    Good for you. Women happen to like idiots. What can I say.

    Lol thaJosh says:
    March 27, 2015 at 8:08 am
    @latin

    “I like @FlyBoy and FlyR.”

    “Good for you. Women happen to like idiots. What can I say.”

    lol You rephrase was faster than me papi lol, I was about to ask you where that left you? because I like you the most lol

    Love you papi!

  495. Muah says:

    Josh, why would someone want to respond to a jerk unless they are desperate – and isn’t desperate a red flag? Telling someone their message is too long and try again in x amount of characters is a bit demeaning and not at all funny – especially when said SD has a long profile. FlyR and FlyBoy are not assholes, which is why they are likable…

  496. FlyBoy says:

    @Josh;

    You are a funny clown lol.

    Yes, I do not hate women. Hell, I don’t even what hating women is supposed to mean!!!! This is your mental illness, so quit projecting. We are not sick like YOU.

    I call bad, bad, whether it has a dick or a pussy. Ditto for good.
    Its called being fucking fair.

    Cheers :)

  497. Josh says:

    Actually I should have said, women do “friendzone” idiots for their utility all them times. 😉

  498. Josh says:

    @latin

    “I like @FlyBoy and FlyR.”

    Good for you. Women happen to like idiots. What can I say.

  499. Josh says:

    @Fionna,

    This is not Match.com. You cannot sit around ignoring men’s messages and brag to your girlfriends how many men send you messages on Match each day.

    The SD wanted to see how you react to his reverse shit test. He must be getting many women like you sending him messages.

    I do it sometimes when I like an SB and want to see how she will react to something like that. If she is going to blow me off, then sayonara. Reword your 10 sentences into what he is asking for and see how he responds.

    You can ALWAYS ban him later if he acts like a jerk.

  500. a latin opinion says:

    I like @FlyBoy and FlyR.

    @keke I feel your pain lol, you need magic to manage work, kids, try to look your best and dating, good luck today!

    @Georgia did you read my post for you about VA?

  501. a latin opinion says:

    Josh says:
    March 26, 2015 at 9:55 pm

    “Unless the mother has proven to be unfit to be a mother, anyone who tries to get 100% of custody out the hand of the mother is asking for trouble.”

    “By the same token, unless the father is unfit to be a role model in some capacity, the mothers who seek 100% custody are doing her offspring a huge disservice.”

    So well said, )-:

    Thank good my brain was bigger than my fears. In the end I have to stay here (the US) but she has a father and a mother in her life, I know that is way more important. (-;

  502. Josh says:

    I find it fascinating that both @flyR and @Fly”Boy” don’t miss any opportunity to put men down.

  503. FlyBoy says:

    @Fionna;

    Your way of mimicking the profile length is very smart.

    The 140 characters guy is a control freak. I bet writing his stupid demand took him longer than reading your original message. What does that tell you about him?!

    I say, tell him to fuck himself!

    Cheers :)

  504. KeKe says:

    @Fionna.. he sounds like a dick. You read through his long ass profile but 8 or 9 sentences is too long for him. Good luck that. I wonder if he copied and pasted some else’s info. He says they want an articulated SB and then complains when they are. ..NEXT!

  505. Fionna says:

    Does anyone have any tips on a good message length for a first message? I’ve usually done it in relation to the SD’s profile (so a minimal profile got three sentences max message and a long profile got a small paragraph). This SD was looking for an articulate, well read SB and his profile was LONG which I thought was great. I sent him a message that was under ten short sentences and he writes back he’s interested but that my message was too long and to do it again in less than 140 characters.

    Are one sentence messages better? What kinds of messages do SDs expect? Is short just for the initial message and then longer ones later? Or should I expect that SDs just want super short conversations? The last SD I had was super talkative, but now I’m not sure if he was just the exception.

  506. KeKe says:

    I got f#cking patients backed up and I needed to get home and wash my hair and get waxed!

  507. KeKe says:

    @Josh..there isn’t even a lot of snow. People just drive like f#cking morons when they know it’s icy, get into accidents and f#ck up my commute. It should only take me an hour to get to work not 2!

  508. Josh says:

    Chicago is one my favorite cities in America. Unfortunately it is stuck in horrible weather. :(

  509. Josh says:

    I finally read the article. Check this out:

    Someone said I need to claim the money I receive from Sugar Daddies as income. Is that true?

    No, you do not. Being a Sugar Baby is no different than being a girlfriend—albeit there are terms involved. If there were no services or goods rendered for the cash or property, this money falls under the classification of “gift.”’

    The IRS’ gift limit is $14,000. That means $14,000/12 = $1,167 per month, which is barely above the Minimum and at the lowest limit of Practical. 😉

  510. KeKe says:

    This Chicago traffic sucks, this weather sucks. I’m going to be late for work even though I’ve been on the road for 1 and a half hour. Which means I can’t leave early to go home and get ready to see my SD. F#ck Chitown

  511. KeKe says:

    @Josh.. just getting it started earlier for you. Bwaahaaa

  512. KeKe says:

    @Nubian.. age is nothing but number. 35 is the new 25..

  513. Josh says:

    @NubianSB,

    1. Know that you are past the wall, whether you accept it or not. You will soon read comments from one (or more) of the older ladies on the blog that, “age is just a number”, “I am getting chased by 18 year-olds”, “40 is new 20”, etc.

    2. You are competing with a never-ending, daily-replenished supply of 20-something SBs on the site.

    3. You need bring your A-game to the table.

    4. Best of luck!

  514. Josh says:

    @KeKe, @FunDude

    1. Narcissist boomers raised royalty-less princesses who are in search of the missing royalty factor.

    2. Many boys figured it out that the joke was on them.

    3. So they bailed and are staying single. 70+% of men 20-34 are unmarried, and most plan to remain that way.

    4. Now other narcissist boomers are providing the missing royalty factor to these penniless princesses through sugar.

  515. Josh says:

    @NubianSB,

    Please find grammar mistake/s in the following sentences:

    “I am well traveled, classy, easy going, enjoy intelligent conversations, absolutely abhors drama and any stressful situation, fun and outgoing.”

    “I am very sensual, sexual and passionate and I am looking for a man who enjoys taking care of a lady…someone who can make love to not just my body but also my mind.”

    Improve this run-on sentence:

    “I love Intense passionate sex….but it’s not all about the sex. I love to be spoiled…theater, fine dining, travel (would love to be your travel partner) but for all this to come together there definitely has to be some chemistry.”

    Remove this:

    “In return you will be spoiled and adored.”

    Your profile’s text sucks. Please ask @GeorgiaPeach if she finds interest in helping you in transforming it into a more interesting and playful text?

  516. KeKe says:

    @FunDude. Lol..Never thought about it but I can see how that would be annoying.

  517. FunDude says:

    Why do so many women have the title “princess” or “queen” in their profile title?

    You don’t see men writing “prince” or “King” in as their profile title.

  518. NubianSB says:

    Haha…my diction? Hmmm…if I was writing like an engineer it would be more technical. I doubt that would be endearing. I write with a natural flow of speech without rhythmic structure. ☺️but please enlighten me. Please feel free to point out the wrong diction…I’ll take no offense. I’m really enjoying and learning from this.

  519. Josh says:

    You need to really improve the diction in your profile sweetheart. It’s NOT impressive for an Engineer, who grew up in London. 😉

  520. NubianSB says:

    @Josh
    I could kiss you…thanks bunches

  521. NubianSB says:

    Bachelors in Industrial Engineering.

  522. Josh says:

    I am the @Guru. You will get some good feedback in the morning but if some of the moronic ones try to confuse you I will let you know.

  523. Josh says:

    What do you have bachelors Degree in?

    Also, remove the tit-for-tat sentences, such as, if you do this I will do that. Almost all women claim to not want transnational relationship, but their profiles suggest differently.

  524. NubianSB says:

    Wow!!! That’s very informative. I’m taking notes…thank you!

  525. Josh says:

    This is the lowdown:

    A 21 year-old White woman would do a lot better than a 21 year-old non-White woman, in the quantity of SDs she gets. It is up to her to filter out the good ones from bad.

    A 21 year-old White woman would do a lot better than a 41 year-old White woman, in the quantity of SDs she gets. It is up to her to filter out the good ones from bad.

    A 41 year-old White woman would do a lot better than a 41 year-old non-White woman. Neither of them would get a whole lot of SDs but since most SDs are White, they are more familiar with getting mind raped by White women.

    An SD/SB would with fake British accent would potentially do better than one without. But since the initial communication is in writing you need to spill the beans in your profile narrative.

    Your profile heading sucks. Keep sensual, bring submissive in. I am not sure but “Submissive, sensual Londoner” may do the trick. The profile should also make it clear that you are an educated yet submissive woman.

    Remove all explicit sex talk from the profile. Proofread the text to prove that you lived few miles away from the real Queen (who happens to owns lots of stolen jewelry, including 186 caret stolen diamond.)

    Your photos are fine. See if you can add more from London or from around New York. Your main photo is fine but acres of parking lot in to background is not exciting.

    More later…

  526. Josh says:

    Why do you want to put picture in the thingy? Have you given up on dick?

  527. CanadianSB says:

    <—————- How do I put a picture in this thingy ? lol

  528. NubianSB says:

    @Josh
    Haha…Didn’t know i was trying to be politically correct LOL
    Those are the words that have been frequently used to describe me. Just thought to use it as i couldn’t come up with anything else. Take it off?

  529. Josh says:

    PC = Politically Correct. Predominantly the female-pleasing media and political babble.

    Why do you have exotic, nubian and queen in your profile heading?

  530. NubianSB says:

    @Josh
    I’m not quite sure what you mean. What is PC? I’m not here to argue at all :-) Just need some feedback as i haven’t received any views on my profile since i joined

  531. Josh says:

    So you have the British accent going for you?

  532. Josh says:

    Are you asking the question to make some money, as soon as possible, or are you here to argue or feel good about PC things people may say that won’t translate into dollars?

  533. NubianSB says:

    @Josh
    I am both African and AA but grew up in London

  534. Josh says:

    Do you live in Manhattan or do you live in one of the boroughs?

  535. Josh says:

    Are you an African or an AA?

  536. NubianSB says:

    Oops!
    *works*
    *site*

  537. NubianSB says:

    @Josh
    I’m not very familiar with how the blog work but I’ve been a silent reader since i joined the sight
    I actually just ended a sugar relationship with an SD i met outside of SA.

  538. Josh says:

    @NubianSB

    How familiar are you with the blog?

    Have you had any sugar relationship in your live outside of SA?

  539. NubianSB says:

    Oh gosh! thanks @Josh
    @Latin Thank you so much
    @Josh Not sure how to post my profile but here goes…

    [https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/efa41cca/view]

    Just copied the address bar from my profile page. And I certainly am braced for the honest opinions :-) Please tell me if i posted it correctly

  540. Josh says:

    You must be trying to post the whole url. If you are then put the url in between [] then it will not send the post to moderation. This blog does not allow urls.

  541. NubianSB says:

    @Josh my profile name is nubianqueen1474

  542. NubianSB says:

    @Latin, @Josh…I responded to you but for some weird reason this particular comment is awaiting moderation. I didn’t know the blogs are moderated :-(

  543. Josh says:

    By the same token, unless the father is unfit to be a role model in some capacity, the mothers who seek 100% custody are doing her offspring a huge disservice.

  544. Josh says:

    “At the beginning we were both fighting for 100%, and believe me I was very nasty )-:”

    Unless the mother has proven to be unfit to be a mother, anyone who tries to get 100% of custody out the hand of the mother is asking for trouble.

  545. a latin opinion says:

    Josh says:
    March 26, 2015 at 9:17 pm
    @latin

    You seem to be an exception rather than rule. There is not reason for men to get married anymore and 70+% of men aged 20-34 are not married.

    Well… yes and no, in the money/alimony issue I didn’t care/was more like just get out of my life asap but for the custody issue it took me time, research, a very good man/human being as my lawyer and my asking to all divorce guys I could about how they feel/think/did.

    At the beginning we were both fighting for 100%, and believe me I was very nasty )-: (things I’m not proud of but…you should Never mess with a very sweet person like me, less than that try to take my kid away from me)

  546. Josh says:

    @NubianSB

    Please post your profile and brace yourself for honest feedback. LOL!

  547. Josh says:

    @latin

    You seem to be an exception rather than rule. There is not reason for men to get married anymore and 70+% of men aged 20-34 are not married.

    @FunDude

    We don’t know the details of this case. The woman claims to have worked within the family construction business. So we don’t know what’s what.

    Case in point, if you know about Shay Carl and his family, Shaytards, the whole dang family worked/works on their YouTube business. So if there is ever a divorce, which I hope they never get as they seem so cool together, the wife gets every bit of the money as Shay does. It’s only fair.

  548. a latin opinion says:

    @NubianSB there is a lot of people that can help you around here, most of them are already in bed I suppose, so don’t let yourself down and check tomorrow for their answers.

    Have a good night everyone.

  549. NubianSB says:

    Hi Guys,
    New SB here and I was wondering if anyone of you lovely seasoned SB or SD can view my profile and tell me if it’s OK. Just need some honest opinions. I’ve only been on the site for less than two weeks and haven’t had much prospects. Not even views and I’m a premium member so I’m thinking there may be something amiss in my profile.
    Much appreciated ladies and gents :-)

  550. a latin opinion says:

    FunDude says:
    “March 26, 2015 at 8:37 pm
    Luimarco gives another reason to not get married:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PD7oxbYAM-c}}”

    So sad man )-: I won’t do that, if I think I considerably helped him to build his fortune the maximum I will ask for is the 50% and I know I wont fight too hard. I know that if I see that he think I don’t deserve it I will let him have it without hesitation.

    When I separated for the father of my daughter we make everything as an agreement, I didn’t ask him for anything. And I know the entire system is build so you f#$@ the guy but I didn’t.

    He (like everybody) took my kindness for weakness and told me he will use his money to take my kid away from me and although things got REALLY ugly I manage to make him understand the best was an agreement and I received just help for child support and we share the custody 60/40%

    Is very sad there so bad people women and men.

  551. FunDude says:

    Luimarco gives another reason to not get married:

    {{https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PD7oxbYAM-c}}

  552. a latin opinion says:

    flyR says:
    March 26, 2015 at 5:51 pm

    “Although there is not much difference in intent or meaning there’s a world of difference between –

    I’m only giving you money if we are fucking

    vs

    shared intimacy with someone I respect and an allowance are the foundations of the relationship I am seeking.”

    @FlyR very well said.

  553. Josh says:

    SB: hey sweetie how are you? Do you ever travel to Vegas?

    SD: Not really dear but if your boobs are natural, I will make an exception. :)

    SB: Lol they look and feel real

    SD: Close enough but no cigar. :(

  554. flyR says:

    @ Denise – I would add a little self filtering in your description of you…….. I am here because there is not man in my life, I enjoy older men and an allowance will help me … ( add reason other than buying drugs or shoes) . A real arrangement that includes all of this appeals to me.

    I think it is fine to add in your description of what you are looking for something like .

    Please do not wast our time if you are not serious about a relationship which includes an allowance.

    Some of the folks here talk a lot about women sabotaging potential relationships. We can achieve the same results before the train leaves the station.

    Although there is not much difference in intent or meaning there’s a world of difference between –

    I’m only giving you money if we are fucking

    vs

    shared intimacy with someone I respect and an allowance are the foundations of the relationship I am seeking.

  555. Josh says:

    WTF!!!

    Are there more like her? :(

    I say this because the code word is not Diamond.

  556. KeKe says:

    Lol @PI

    @Latin.. I’m going to buy Rosetta Stone. :-)

  557. PI Wolf says:

    @Josh,

    That’s the woman who states her “code word” is on the 3rd line of the 4th paragraph. I read her long profile post, and guess what? The supposed code word IS NOT on the 3rd line of the 4th paragraph! It is on the 2nd line of the 4th paragraph! Hahaha – someone who can’t count! And toe word is ….. Diamond! LOL 😀

  558. a latin opinion says:

    KeKe says:
    “March 26, 2015 at 5:19 pm
    @Josh @Latin @Kalinda… I’m wish I spoke Spanish :-(”

    Awwwww you are so sweet. Is nothing more than a language, we all wish what we don’t have.

    I wish I speak Italian, Portuguese and Latin lol

  559. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    Use Google translate. That’s what I am doing. My Spanish is pretty rusty.

  560. KeKe says:

    @Josh @Latin @Kalinda… I’m wish I spoke Spanish :-(

  561. Josh says:

    This woman has long-ass profile and has the audacity to demand that the SDs must start their communication with her by writing a specific word of her dictate to acknowledge that they have read her profile already. Unbelievable.

    She contacted me from 1400 miles away. I amicably blew her off by simple “too far away dear.” She came back with her Cosmo-isque passive-aggressive game-talk.

    “How do you know I don’t travel to XXXX? I didn’t ask a question that too far away would be the answer. I asked about YYYY being your name bc YYYY runs in my family- my dad, grandfather and son.”

    So I asked: “Do you travel to XXXX?”

    Her response was: “Why not? Could be interesting”

    I bet this woman has been mind raping men all her life and now is way past the wall.
    So I gave her piece of my mind.

    I had not read your profile earlier as you approached me and I told you that you were too far away.

    You challenged me with the assertion “How do you know I don’t travel to XXXX?” which you negated with “Why not? Could be interesting” when I asked you if you did travel to XXXX.

    I just read your profile. I am not into women who are so much into telling me what they will or will not do. I did not work hard my life for women to demand stuff. You come with humility or you don’t. Simple as that. :)

    You are past the wall. See if you can charm a decent man to be with you at the post-wall life ahead of you. Otherwise, it might just be too lonely road ahead.

    If you have something to say, please continue in a civil manner without going batshit on me. 😉

    She did not go batshit but came back with: “Your name definitely isn’t YYYY.”

    I just gave her piece of my mind and all she has to say is that my name “definitely isn’t YYYY.”

    WTF!!!

    @FunDude, any guess what drug she may be on? 😉

  562. a latin opinion says:

    @kelinda08 si sama, si en algo puedo ayudar, no dudes en decirlo. (-:

  563. Josh says:

    Re: I know my worth.

    Can any SD confirm this trend…”princess” and “spoil me” are down, “I know my worth” is up.

  564. Josh says:

    No hay rima o razón en estas páginas del blog. Publique sus preguntas aquí. Si ya están contestadas señalaremos que hay o responder rápidamente aquí.

  565. Kelinda08 says:

    Voy a leer los mensajes anteriores en este Post, quizás encuentre respuestas que me sean útil.

  566. Kelinda08 says:

    Ese es el que uso josh, muchas gracias 😉

  567. Kelinda08 says:

    Thanks Keke, that I do, but in translating the meaning of the message is lost when translating almost guessing you want to communicate the message.

    I have some curiosities to succeed in the page.

  568. Josh says:

    [https://translate.google.com/]

  569. Josh says:

    @Kelinda08

    Gracias a Google, todo el mundo lee y escribe español aquí.

  570. Josh says:

    I absolutely, positively love honeymoon period with women. The best feeling in the world, right until the last second before the sabotage takes its ugly birth. :)

  571. KeKe says:

    Oh she is new to page? Anyone speak Spanish?

  572. KeKe says:

    @Kelinda..translate.

  573. Kelinda08 says:

    Hola, soy nueva en la pagina, alguien habla Español?

  574. KeKe says:

    @Josh..you don’t do love?

  575. Josh says:

    I have only tried sex on the first date one time, and succeeded. She was ready to head to hotel with me, but then I talked her out of it. We had an awesome run, until she got the LUV bug and I had to end it.

    Generally speaking, I don’t go for it. It is just too much of an effort to fight Cosmo if I am interested in having a long-term arrangement, which is what I like.

  576. KeKe says:

    @Josh Whoa! I can see why guys don’t want to date a separate girl such as myself. Lol. To be honest if my SD wasn’t still married he probably wouldn’t be interested. Lol

  577. Josh says:

    @gentleman soul

    “A beautiful Pot SB told me she was sexually abused and did not want a sexual relationship .”

    So if a man was financially abused at some point in his life, he should not pay an allowance?

  578. Josh says:

    I contacted this girl. She wanted to go off SA in her third email. Slight alarm went off…but I played along.

    After a lot of back and forth, she told me that she wanted to be discreet and could not meet in public for meet&greet. I asked why. She gave me a cockamamie reason. I asked her if she had a boyfriend. She said yes.

    I asked her a bunch of follow-up questions, such as, how long they have been together, are they living together, do they have any children together, if he knew she was on SA, if he would react violently if he found out, etc.? She said it was none of my business. Major red alert.

    I have no problem with women meeting me when they are coming out of a relationship, and the relationship was OVER. By this time I had researched her and knew that even though she claims to be single and zero children, she is in some kind of committed relationship with her boyfriend, and they had more than one child.

    I am not looking for money for sex situations. I am looking for SBs who stick with me in whatever capacity for a long period of time. But apparently she is escorting squarely for sex for money.

    So I am happy to have dodged the boyfriend bullet. Similar situation had happened to about a year ago, when an allegedly divorced girl was still married and I started receiving threatening calls on my Hushed number. I almost changed it but the guy backed off when I told him that I was going to call police if he did not stop calling me.

  579. a latin opinion says:

    @gentleman querido tu eres latino?

  580. KeKe says:

    WHAT?! @Josh… DETAILS, SIR!

  581. KeKe says:

    @Gentleman… translate. Lol.. I got intentions with my love? Lol

  582. Josh says:

    Phew!!! Just dodged a boyfriend bullet (pun intended)?

  583. gentleman soul says:

    @ KeKe
    @Gentleman..sex on the first date? You must be Rico Sauve..
    intento con fuerza Mi Amor .
    If I really like my Pot I will see her for a little bit so that she will be more comfortable . But only twice . After that I know she is playing me . I seek out sexual women. I do not want to counsel screwed up girls . A beautiful Pot SB told me she was sexually abused and did not want a sexual relationship . I tried to counsel her out of that mindset but she wouldn’t budge . Next !

    @Denise

    I just looked at those blogs and it’s frightening to think about how much risk many of the ladies take meeting these men in enclosed spaces. The sblacklist seemed like the worst.

    Yes ,there are a lot of scary people there . Look at the dead Google exec. The girls shouldn’t do it but I am not their conscience. And I know they will be better off for meeting me . A few dollars richer and love in their hearts .

  584. KeKe says:

    @FunDude.. common sense ain’t that common.

  585. KeKe says:

    @Denise.. I did like this one blog this girl had on keeping safe. Most was commom sense. Like always let someone know where your meeting…have a one word safe word for immediate danger to use on cell phone to get police. .I’ve read of girls getting raped. So sad.

  586. FunDude says:

    There is risk to meeting in a public place?

  587. Denise says:

    I just looked at those blogs and it’s frightening to think about how much risk many of the ladies take meeting these men in enclosed spaces. The sblacklist seemed like the worst.

  588. KeKe says:

    @Gentleman..sex on the first date? You must be Rico Sauve..

  589. gentleman soul says:

    FunDude
    The problem with FAKE SDs is that is decreases the status of REAL SDs.
    If a guy is full of SHIT about his income/assets, it makes it appear there are FAR more men that are rich on this website than reality.
    Ergo, women have to attempt to figure out who is telling the truth. It hurts the prospects of real SDs.

    Again ,a fake is a guy who won’t pay at all. A lying SD is redundant . A Pot SB discovers her worth by the amount she is offered, or accepts. The fact that a lying SD who overstates his income is irrelevant. What is relevant is his offer to Pot SBs . If you are a generous SD then you will look better having these low ballers in the pool . We want them there because the girls have to weed through all the dirtballs and assholes ,of which there are plenty. All of my SBs tell me about these disgustingly rude guys they have to sort through . When I come along and am a gentleman with them ,they are pleasantly surprised .

  590. Muah says:

    @gentleman
    Lol – Mind blown.

    So what happened with the ladies that gave in to first date sexuals?

  591. gentleman soul says:

    @FlyBoy

    I have had many SBs in the past. I have never directly or indirectly mentioned or implied sex to any of them. Not once.

    Each guy has his own game . Being married I can not spend too much of my limited free time courting multiple Pots hoping to get the arrangement I want and need . Therefore I always get around to the fact that I (Yes Muah) desire a sexual relationship and what I am willing to pay for the relationship. That way there is no ambiguity and we both know what to expect . In my area there are a huge number of coeds from a local University who state on their profile that they are not willing to be physical . I tried 2 of them who said that they would not on the 1st date . Well ,in spite of that they both changed their minds. But if they say no sex ever ,I have been 100% unsuccessful at penetrating that —er –resolve .So if they say no sex ,I won’t even contact them at all. And I notice that months later they are still on SA every day. A few I contacted again to see if they had any luck finding a sap–er nice guy to pay them to hang out. Nope ! Looking for that Unicorn I guess .

  592. FunDude says:

    The problem with FAKE SDs is that is decreases the status of REAL SDs.

    If a guy is full of SHIT about his income/assets, it makes it appear there are FAR more men that are rich on this website than reality.

    Ergo, women have to attempt to figure out who is telling the truth. It hurts the prospects of real SDs.

  593. gentleman soul says:

    @ Fun Dude

    The TUMBLR page was an attempt to “shame” men into accepting “platonic” relationships.
    It will fail miserably.

    For sure-still ,It would be embarrassing to show up on the page,especially if your real pics were used. Now I am sure that there are a lot of dirt bags on these sugar sites -to be differentiated from SDs requiring sex for their investment, or guys offering a lower than desired allowance

  594. Muah says:

    It’s only been mentioned 1300 times on this blog, that most SDs want an intimate relationship… Someone should mention that again I think, lol.

  595. FlyBoy says:

    All is fair in love and war. Guys use all kind of tricks to get a woman. Pretending to be rich is certainly a favorite out there. So I can understand a guy coming on here and using the implied promise of an allowance to try and get pretty girls. But what I can not understand is him complaining when his stupidly executed game fails.

    If one is going to fuck a woman from SA without giving anything he should at least have tight game. Demanding that a woman confirm verbally that sex will be offered is about as stupid, as stupid gets.

    If a woman does not fuck A, that doesn’t mean she won’t fuck B. It just means that A fucked his own chance of getting any. Winners become winners by examining and learning from their own mistakes. But for this to happen they must be able to acknowledge their complicity and not divert all the blame onto others.

    I have had many SBs in the past. I have never directly or indirectly mentioned or implied sex to any of them. Not once.

    Cheers :)

  596. FunDude says:

    @Gentleman

    I figure that the vast majority of men demand “intimacy” as a contingency for an allowance. This is a fundamental requirement for the VAST majority of SDs.

    The TUMBLR page was an attempt to “shame” men into accepting “platonic” relationships.

    It will fail miserably.

  597. FunDude says:

    @Muah

    Then quote those examples. I have quoted two of the COMMON examples.

    They basically boiled down to the guys not willing to pay an allowance without SEX. That is a totally legitimate perspective for the SDs.

    If a SB doesn’t want to be “intimate” as part of the allowance, she can just move on until finding a guy who is down for a “platonic” relationship involving an allowance.

    I figure that there are VERY few men willing to give an allowance without intimacy.

    Ergo, these women have made the TUMBLR blacklist page to “shame” these men into giving them an allowance without any intimacy.

    Also, I never said anything about “cheap” SDs.

    I have spoken about about 70% of SD profiles are likely greatly EXAGGERATED in terms of income/assets.

    That is irrelevant to making an allowance dependent on intimacy.

  598. Muah says:

    I think getting mad about a man not wanting to pay for platonic is silly, no doubt. However, if a man keeps talking with you – trying to convince you to have an intimate relationship. That’s not right…

  599. gentleman soul says:

    @FunDude

    The complaints on the “blacklisted” sugar daddy TUMBLR page are usually just that guys won’t give them an allowance because there is no intimacy.

    The complaints are mostly bullshit from the SBs.

    But the profiles of the SDs appear very suspicious for many of them in terms of assets/income, etc. That is why I found it interesting.

    All true . @Josh desires anonymity as do I ,therefore my demographic information is altered(untrue) -to protect the innocent LOL . Just because some of the profiles don’t “add up” doesn’t mean the SD is a “fake” . A real SD is any guy who pays for an SB’s company . The amount and quality of the company shared is variable ,but no less valid .

    Most SDs require sex as a necessary part of a sugar arrangement ,and will not pay one cent until “the panties hit the floor ” Others are OK with paying an SB to hang out and get to know her for a while . I am in the former camp .

  600. FunDude says:

    Correction: Reciprocity

  601. Muah says:

    @Lainey
    Maybe they didn’t – If someone disrespected you would you stay polite?

    Point is: Some of the stories – true or not – are valid.

    If a guy from SA gets mad at you because you decline $300 or less for sex – I’m sorry but there is something wrong with that guy lol. Or a “trial run”…

    Why would a woman ever want to sleep with a man who gets mad at them for not going home with them the first night? (Examples from Tumblr)

    Why should an SB not be upset when a POT SD lies about his income – lies about an allowance he can provide?

    FunDude – Didn’t you say that most SDs on this site are fake/cheap??

    And that was one example, where are the others from the page. Again other people CAN go out to tumblr and read for themselves lol. So you picking out one thing isn’t supporting your claim.

  602. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    You can be confident they DEMANDED a high allowance for a “platonic” relationship and no reciprocation on their part.

    When the guys said “bullshit” to that, these SBs complained on the TUMBLR page about them.

    Not impressive

  603. Lainey says:

    Lmao those bitches are silly and I HIGHLY doubt they “stayed polite”. Give me a break

  604. FunDude says:

    @muah

    Those are reviews directly from the TUMBLR blacklist SD webpage

  605. Muah says:

    I see that one is on tumblr too nvrm

    However, anyone else can Google SD Blacklist and see what the sugar babies are actually complaining about.

  606. Muah says:

    I just read that one. That was on a different blog. I am talking about the ones on tumblr.

  607. FunDude says:

    These dudes basically sound like me. These SBs basically want money to “hang out” which is ridiculous.

    Their complaints are mostly bullshit.

  608. FunDude says:

    Second typical review from TUMBLR Blacklisted SDs:

    “Salt storm in the DMV.

    So I’ve been talking to Jason for a little over a week and we seemed to really hit it off. Then we went out for drinks and desserts the other night. I actually uploaded a pic of the desserts.

    Everything seemed really swell and he wanted to see me again later tonight for wine at his place. I start talking about the details of an arrangement. He seemed fine at first with all the details until I got to the allowance part. He’d said a few days ago that he was fine negotiating an allowance but then today he totally flipped. He started asking like “You want me to PAY to hang out with you?” and was not happy when I said I wasn’t comfortable coming to his place just yet. “I don’t want an expectation of an allowance for a platonic relationship” “you want money without the promise of sex” and said I should want to be with him without an allowance. “Why would some guy pay you just to buy you dinner? That’s just stupid.”

    He proceeded to tell me it was a shame that I was so greedy and that I really screwed up and that I really fucked up. He started insulting me even though I stayed polite the entire time and even politely asked him to stop texting me because he was upsetting me.

    This is all without even stating any price or number, just the idea of money being involved.

    Basically, I don’t think this guy actually knows what an arrangement is.

    I’m actually dehydrated from how salty he is.”

  609. FunDude says:

    I agree with “Sam Katz’s perspective”. That SB was irrational in her perspective.

    He basically asked her why should he give her a high allowance and her response is that she knows her “worth”.

  610. FunDude says:

    This is the typical type of review on that website:

    “Please be on the lookout for a man named Sam Katz on SeekingArrangement.

    I had a few calls with Sam earlier tonight and everything was going fine. It seemed really promising. Then things turned sour he immediately started saying that he requires sex for the arrangement which was uncomfortable but not uncommon so I explained to him that that would not be happening. After that everything is fine again. Then after a while of talking he asks for a few more pictures of me. I send some, nothing risque.

    Mind you at this point we had already discussed allowance and everything, something that HE brought up.

    This man calls me back and starts asking why I think I’m worth the allowance that we discussed. I calmly explain that I know my worth and that I know I’m worth much more than that. He starts laughing and then starts saying how every sugar baby is a high priced escort and how no one cares about our personalities or who we are as people. At this point I politely tell him I disagree with him. He starts getting more worked up so I, much less politely, tell him that I disagree with him and that I thank him for his time and I hang up. Then this man calls me again and again and again.

    He is harassing me at this point. I can already feel that this man is very violent and I’m really glad I got out of it before I got in.

    So please SBs be careful not to get involved with this man.”

  611. Muah says:

    FunDude
    I don’t think you actually looked at these pages – I’ve only seen one girl complaining about the guy pressuring for sex… You are right most sugar babies don’t look at that – I didn’t until today.

  612. FunDude says:

    @ Josh

    The complaints on the “blacklisted” sugar daddy TUMBLR page (which I highly doubt works that well since the vast majority of SBs don’t visit that site) are usually just that guys won’t give them an allowance because there is no intimacy.

    The complaints are mostly bullshit from the SBs.

    But the profiles of the SDs appear very suspicious for many of them in terms of assets/income, etc. That is why I found it interesting.

  613. Muah says:

    If I were a shitty person I would have no one to blame but myself for landing on one of those pages.

    If you looked through the lists some are about the SDs lying about what they can provide, what they make, etc – some are about guys wanting sex without providing an allowance unless there is “chemistry”. Others are guys offering super low amounts and badgering the girls to comply.

  614. Josh says:

    @Muah

    “but there are a few I would like to put onto these tumblr pages haha”

    How would you feel if you are posted on a black list site for whatever reason?

  615. Muah says:

    @Latin
    I’ve Googled and I am entertained lol!! I’ve met decent guys and splenda on this site – but there are a few I would like to put onto these tumblr pages haha

    @KeKe
    From time to time I get the ol – “Hey baby I think you’re an escort let’s hook up for adult playtime” message. DELETE lols

  616. a latin opinion says:

    Lainey says:
    March 26, 2015 at 11:48 am
    “@Latin I haven’t agreed with @Scarlett in like EVER. She is older yet behaves like an immature school girl. It’s PATHETIC.”

    HOLY MOLY lol!

    SORRYYYYY @Lainey! This whole time I was confusing you with @Elaine lol!. Dyslexia get you in so many funny troubles lol so sorry. Now I understand why some times I didn’t recognize what you say. LOL SO SORRY!

    “@Latin everyone who is anyone on this blog already knows what I look like org what my body looks like. I no longer have a pic up because I didn’t think it’s appropriate for me to seek validation on my appearance when I am in a serious committed relationship. No other mans opinion should matter.”

    Got you, Totally understandable.
    (-:

  617. Lainey says:

    @Latin everyone who is anyone on this blog already knows what I look like org what my body looks like. I no longer have a pic up because I didn’t think it’s appropriate for me to seek validation on my appearance when I am in a serious committed relationship. No other mans opinion should matter.

  618. Lainey says:

    @Latin I haven’t agreed with @Scarlett in like EVER. She is older yet behaves like an immature school girl. It’s PATHETIC.

  619. KeKe says:

    I like tumbler. Some of thoses girls are some bosses. They are sexy and successful!

  620. a latin opinion says:

    Muah says:
    March 26, 2015 at 10:21 am

    “What is this Tumblr blacklist page in which you speak? I’ve never used tumblr but I am curious to see this blacklist lol”

    THERE IS SEVERAL OF THEM, just google “SD blacklist” that is just for dangerous/fake/bad guys.

    There is a “splenda sd list” with guys that are not necessarily bad/dangerous just guys that lie about how much they can actually afford and end giving the SB way less of what was initially arrange/promise/agree on.

  621. KeKe says:

    @Lainey..that’s such a great idea! He loves to cook. He considers himself a foodie. Lol. I’ll suggest it. Downside… I can’t cook, well I can but I don’t enjoy it. Lol. And he’s been working 10 to 11 hr days, he’s exhausted. He may not be up to it. I’m going to buy some massage oil and give him a good rub down and let turn into more. :-)

    @Dr.FunDude..Most of the guys who message me sound like they want a escort and a cheap one at that. So there must be a lot of truth to the tumbler account

    P.S. I love that Kenna and Lainey moved past their issues ♡ !!

  622. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Lainey
    It really was fun and nice last night. When FunDude popped up with that new gravi, you could almost see the screen split. He is gorgeous. :) All those muscles and that body. OMG. If I were younger… LOL

  623. a latin opinion says:

    Lainey says:
    March 26, 2015 at 10:54 am
    It amuses that a GROWN woman caters so much about how often someone else posts yet she was PATHETIC enough to make ANOTHER ID, under which to further attack her “enemies”, after being banned by the blog admins. So who REALLY is obsessed with the blog.

    @Lainey are you talking about ladyscarlet? This is getting crazy lol, I thought you were some way on her side?

    Btw @fundude change his gravatar to show his personal view about the whole weight issue, I propose @vitesseSD and you should do the same lol, a picture is worth a thousand words!

  624. Lainey says:

    I personally don’t think what @LadyScarlett said about the blog being more negative is true. If @Kenna and I haven’t spat in a week and all the ladies and fellas chat without getting too serious and heated, then how is it more negative?

  625. Lainey says:

    @Keke MAKE PIZZA! Cooking with a guy can get super hot. Lol. Or maybe I’m just a tramp. LMAO

  626. Lainey says:

    It amuses that a GROWN woman caters so much about how often someone else posts yet she was PATHETIC enough to make ANOTHER ID, under which to further attack her “enemies”, after being banned by the blog admins. So who REALLY is obsessed with the blog.

  627. Denise says:

    @Flyboy

    @peeps;

    @denise
    in terms of asking men what allowance they offer, just don’t. If they don’t have it posted, they only way to find out is what they offer YOU. It’s up to them, not up to you, to bring it up, in other words. If you have to ask, it’s a NO. I have “negotiable” posted on my profile and while I don’t mention numbers I do mention I am looking for an allowance to be part of the arrangement that is mutually agreed upon. That way you can turn off the guys who “don’t believe in allowances”. Sorry but you do have to make an effort and you have to meet people before discussing numbers because THEY will judge YOU as much as the other way around. Men can be generous but they are not fools.

    This is not a good advice.

    What if the “SD” doesn’t bring up the subject of allowances during the first date or the second date or indeed the third; What is she supposed to do? Get dolled up and go on endless dates until she finds the one who is willing to give her an allowance!!!!!! This would be a stupid strategy.

    Thank you for your comment. I actually saw peeps comment and thought “not only did it make no sense to go running around town meeting mostly men that have no intention of offering an allowance to any lady on the site, but it would also be incredibly time consuming.”

  628. Muah says:

    @FlyBoy
    I am suspicious of everyone who messages me, I won’t lie lol… However, if you believe such a high percentage of SDs are fake and/or cheap – How would a SB, such as myself, distinguish that via messaging/texting. I’m not sure if this blog is the best way to discuss this…

    @FunDude
    What is this Tumblr blacklist page in which you speak? I’ve never used tumblr but I am curious to see this blacklist lol

  629. a latin opinion says:

    @josh

    Papi te he dicho hoy que te amo?

    No? My bad…

    I love you papi.

    @Georgia let me know ok?

  630. Josh says:

    @latin

    “@josh you like to fight with her too papi, why you don’t show us that you can actually ignore her?”

    That is easier said than done sweetheart. Any man who tries to ignore these batshit is constantly harassed until he has to respond. I have seen it many times with psychopath, @y and now with @batshit.

    The @Guru does not ignore the problem…he handles the problem until it is either solved or does not exist anymore. 😉

  631. FlyBoy says:

    @FunDude;

    The topic can be brought up gently by HINTING at it. Kinda like sexual innuendos.

    She can ask the guy “what type of relationship are you looking for on SA”. I often ask this question to the SBs.

    Well that’s fine with me. I just don’t think that telling SBs NOT to ask is doing them a favor. They can and should ask the POT about the nature of the upcoming relationship.

    Its actually bad for the REAL guys because it makes it look like there are far more successful men on this website than there actually are.

    I bet at least 50-70% of the dudes on here are fakes. Check out the Tumblr Blacklist SD page

    That’s my point, Doc. If one is a REAL SD, then he ought to advertise it not be coy about it. This way he will have his pick of the best SBs on the site.

    The percentage of fake “SD”s should mirror the wider economy. Therefore I think it’s more like 90% fake and 10% real. Of the 10% most (probably as high as 85%) are low end (1.5K avg/mon).

    Cheers :

  632. a latin opinion says:

    @Georgia if you come close to the DMV I would love to meet too! (-:

    That way you meet one of your fans and we totally dump the whole “proxy theory” lol

    Let me know where you are going, VA is too big lol

  633. a latin opinion says:

    @josh you like to fight with her too papi, why you don’t show us that you can actually ignore her? Is clear for everyone you guys don’t get alone so just ignore each other and let the blog be full with other things beside your fights.

    In a more positive note, I’m again soooo proud of @fundude lol. @fundude I see you like my son with an american guy lol, I’m so proud of you! Is so rewarding to see how you manage to keep your believes but at the same time be open to others points of views!

    And how you avoid to be rude when you are treated in the same way. Ahhhh you are so sweet (I want to say cute but you make promise Don’t use those words lol)

    Good work! Next steep choose very well the women you will spend time with. In not time you will see back on every relationship you will build and all those women will see you as something positive/ as someone they are grateful they meet.

  634. FunDude says:

    Lunch Break time

    @Scarlett

    Stop being annoying and starting shit constantly on here. Thanks.

    @Keke

    What do you think? Maybe that TUMBLR page jaded me but I really believe it is a relatively high percentage.

  635. KeKe says:

    @Dr.FunDude 50-70%.. Wow that’s a lot.

  636. KeKe says:

    Oops he wanted to do dinner.

  637. KeKe says:

    @Scarlett… He is wonderful :-). He’s basically traveling a lot over the next month. We saw each other Sunday for Brunch (not enough time). We are hanging out Friday. He wanted to do, I rather do him. Lol. We decided on pizza at his place :-). After that it will be a while before we can get together again.

  638. Josh says:

    *Knowing how you roll sweetheart, I just saved myself 1/100,000,000th of my penny. 😉

  639. Josh says:

    “How many men, your own size, have you told to ‘go fuck themselves’, or whatnot, to their face, in REAL LIFE? yeah…”

    Tsk tsk tsk. Those are just too many words for the “man up” shaming language, which does not work on me. 😉

  640. Josh says:

    @batshit

    I think you have no ability to comprehend what anyone writes except going in 10,000 different directs in your posts.

    Yes @SunShineSD made highly idiotic remarks…but WHY? You crawled under @SunShineSD’s skin and he snapped. That’s why.

    I never went back in history and read psychopath’s blog posts. Another blogger volunteered a lot of information which SHE…HERSELF posted on the blog. She even acknowledged to @SDGuru that it was HER who posted that information.

    Know how you roll sweetheart, I just saved myself 1/100,000,000th of my penny. 😉

  641. LadyScarlett says:

    Yeah, I have emails that say otherwise about you feeling sorry for sunshinesd. How about your crazy blog fights with sugaryspicey, and the fact that you went back and read ALL her past posts. That was really weird and creepy…and, you think sunshinesd was a ‘nice’ guy to speak of the rape of my son and talking of outing me in real life?

    I suspect, it is pretty spot on to what gttenvy said, you do not feel very powerful or important, in real life, so you use blog to unleash your frustrations. It is pretty obvious with all your ‘go fuck yourself’ comments. How many men, your own size, have you told to ‘go fuck themselves’, or whatnot, to their face, in REAL LIFE? yeah…

    To call me batshit/crazy is your way to deflect and discredit my character to the new people on blog that I have called you out for your fake personas on here. You did the same to others…is pretty obvious. But anyways, I know you enjoy any attention, good or bad, so am done giving you your fix for the time being.

  642. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    If you bring a “fake” car that is a rental and don’t give them a real name, they can’t ever tell if you are a “real SD”.

    I can understand the concern of SBs on this issue. There are a lot of fake SDs on here.

    Its actually bad for the REAL guys because it makes it look like there are far more successful men on this website than there actually are.

    I bet at least 50-70% of the dudes on here are fakes. Check out the Tumblr Blacklist SD page

  643. Josh says:

    @LadyScarlett

    “Anyway, am not going to talk about this any longer.”

    I am not going to bet 1/100,000,000th of a penny on that. You will “talk about this” again and again and again…
    .
    .
    .
    .
    and yet again…
    .
    .
    .
    .
    and again…
    .
    .
    .
    Why? because you’re batshit. 😉

  644. Josh says:

    True. I felt sorry for @SunShineSD and I tried to stop you many, many, many times, but you would not stop. Women oscillate between crazy and batshit crazy. Your pendulum is permanently stuck on batshit crazy.

    I am the @Guru…on or off blog. Get used to it. 😉

    PS: Don’t worry, the resident mangina will soon show up to tell me why I am not a “true guru” because of blah blah blah…

  645. LadyScarlett says:

    Anyway, am not going to talk about this any longer. Many have left blog because of Josh’s nonsense now, and the blog is much more negative and hateful than it used to be. Thanks ‘guru’.

  646. LadyScarlett says:

    Yes, Josh, you always behave…even now, you keep bringing up sunshinesd, so that he will show up, and can cause trouble. You are unreal…

    As far as josh taing things off blog to calm things. BS, he is the one who asked me to instigate things with jacob/sunshinesd. yeah, what a peacekeeper. Josh uses outside blog communication to manipulate and intimidate, like with his, ‘dont mess with me, I control the blog, sweeheart’ lovely message.

  647. Josh says:

    @KeKe

    “Can we just play nicely? Lol”

    Such requests have been made by many many bloggers over the months. Many a times @SunShineSD agreed to stop posting incriminating comments. But @batshit would not return the favor.

    True, I take the blog seriously. That’s why I go off blog to communicate with volatile bloggers to keep them calm on the blog. @batshit does not give a shit about the blog. She will continue to make her idiotic posts and blame others for not playing nice.

  648. LadyScarlett says:

    oh gosh….My degree is in WTMWTG? Have you not heard? Nothing turns me on more than telling a man what to do at work, and in bedroom…hehe(that was trying to get under your skin, I must admit).

    Keke, how are things with your SD?

  649. Josh says:

    @LadyScarlett

    “And, opponents? hehe, you take blog waayyy too seriously, bro.”

    opponent = @SunShineSD.

  650. Josh says:

    *from inventing shit to maintaining it.

  651. Josh says:

    @batshit

    “more of a management position”

    Of course…duh…more and more women are coming into the “management” positions because the real work is done by men from inventing shit to maintain it. Women are graduating with degrees “soft” disciplines to “manage” men.

  652. LadyScarlett says:

    sure, ‘guru’, the one that is on blog day and night, constantly calling himself a guru with fake bloggers is not crazy at all…errm, yeah.

    And, opponents? hehe, you take blog waayyy too seriously, bro.

  653. KeKe says:

    Can we just play nicely? Lol

  654. Josh says:

    @batshit

    “you can call on your proxy bros and jacoby to help you out again, since I am so scary”

    Sweetheart, you’re not “scary”, you are batshit crazy.

    I must admit that you DO HAVE the uncanny ability to crawl under people’s skins, by going in 10,000 directions in your posts, and leaving your opponents bewildered. Such shenanigans don’t work on the @Guru though. 😉

  655. LadyScarlett says:

    Why yes, I have…I make my own schedule, have more of a management position and often telework, however, even with all that free time I have…still do not not post as much as you. But, as you say, that is your business how much you care to post. We know you will not stop posting…..that was not the point, anyways.

    Well, on a more positive note, it is kind that gapeach is going to meet for lunch..and will admit I am wrong about proxies, once we meet (:

  656. Josh says:

    Sweetheart, most SDs have enough money to do whatever the fuck they want all day long. Also, most of them work because they want to and because they get boku money to do what they enjoy doing…not because they have to.

    So get used to it.

    Work hard at your job and be careful posting to SA from your job. Employers do monitor employees computer activities.

    By the way, have you have any SD from SA in the one year you have been posting here?

  657. LadyScarlett says:

    yes, because ‘batshit’ people are not the ones posting day and night 😉 The batshit are the ones who are not on blog all day, hehe.

    I prefer goatshit now, actually…maybe, you can call on your proxy bros and jacoby to help you out again, since I am so scary 😉

  658. Josh says:

    @batshit

    @LadyScarlett is kind of like a ‘proxy’…haha.

  659. LadyScarlett says:

    A rental car is kind of like a ‘proxy’…hehe. makes sense…

  660. Josh says:

    Unless one or more of my SBs have investigated my license plate, so far none of my SBs know my true identity. I have been lazy to rent cars for sugar dates, which I am going to start doing pretty soon.

  661. KeKe says:

    @Kenna @Lainey.. I Google’d my SD. Lol.. I’m not taking chances. Lol

  662. KennaKenna says:

    Yess @Lainey. Full name is a must and I need to verify info.

  663. Lainey says:

    @FunDude that’s why I’ve always done sugar IRL. I could never really muster up the nerve to meet up with a stranger unless they were willing to give full name. I do background checks.

  664. KeKe says:

    @Dr.FunDude standing ovation for that acknowledgment!

  665. FunDude says:

    I find the interactions on SA to be somewhat difficult in many cases.

    Both sexes are have tons of fakes.

    I was checking out the TUMBLR BlackList page. You can tell there are ALOT of fake SDs on SA.

    There were guys whose assets/net worth compared to income made no sense without an inheritance. Many guys had nebulous careers such as “investor” or “self employed” where there could be no verification.

    There was one clown that claimed a 100 million dollar net worth but his profile was written by a man who was CLEARLY illiterate.

    The guy was only like 38 years old and claimed to be head of some “investment” group. He literally misspelled every 5th word in his profile.

    So I can see the perspective of some of the SBs on here after looking at the profiles.

    I “bitch” about the SB profiles because I was looking at female profiles mostly.

    There are MANY loser SDs on here that are clearly frauds.

  666. FunDude says:

    @FlyBoy

    The topic can be brought up gently by HINTING at it. Kinda like sexual innuendos.

    She can ask the guy “what type of relationship are you looking for on SA”. I often ask this question to the SBs.

    This way they can tell if the guy is looking to pay an allowance, just want to go on dates, pay for vacations, etc.

  667. Josh says:

    EVERY WOMAN considers a man as a toy, clown, gofer, sperm donor, retirement plan or a combination thereof, which are his utility function.

    I think I should add emotional puke bag and ATM to the list as well. That will cover pretty much all the bases.

  668. @FunDude Yeah lol I can tell we both are hot and bothered for each other. I’m just not as “open” or forward about it. I was thinking about the situation after I had responded to the other guys posts, and was able to re-evaluate things in more depth. I realized his quick switch in behavior after discussing mutual interest in a arrangement not having met in person yet, it unnerved me a bit more than anything because, I was expecting to need/have to be the seductress before anything. Showing/displaying to him that I’m worth the time and investment.

    Which I don’t mind at all playing that role, it’s just part of my nature to do so when interacting with someone I’m attracted to and interested in. But, like I said, he’s a pretty no nonsense person like me…I just had to realize as a female I had to work on my filter over the years lol Figuring out the when, how, why of being so comfortable with myself and sexuality and how I expressed my thoughts was a bit of a challenge lol. I explained this to him but, he just said he didn’t believe that a filter was necessary and so on and so forth. I think I’m getting it though…we both want to guarantee reciprocation, he wants me to be completely open with him since this is what we have based our relationship on, and because……..he REALLY wants to “shipwreck my boat” lol…

    I appreciate your feedback @FunDude! I get cha sir, crystal clear over here. “Swabbing the deck” and “battening down the hatches” for Friday …lol.. : > <3

  669. FlyBoy says:

    @peeps;

    @denise
    in terms of asking men what allowance they offer, just don’t. If they don’t have it posted, they only way to find out is what they offer YOU. It’s up to them, not up to you, to bring it up, in other words. If you have to ask, it’s a NO. I have “negotiable” posted on my profile and while I don’t mention numbers I do mention I am looking for an allowance to be part of the arrangement that is mutually agreed upon. That way you can turn off the guys who “don’t believe in allowances”. Sorry but you do have to make an effort and you have to meet people before discussing numbers because THEY will judge YOU as much as the other way around. Men can be generous but they are not fools.

    This is not a good advice.

    What if the “SD” doesn’t bring up the subject of allowances during the first date or the second date or indeed the third; What is she supposed to do? Get dolled up and go on endless dates until she finds the one who is willing to give her an allowance!!!!!! This would be a stupid strategy.

  670. peeps says:

    @fundude
    Daaaammnn you’re hot.

  671. peeps says:

    @denise
    in terms of asking men what allowance they offer, just don’t. If they don’t have it posted, they only way to find out is what they offer YOU. It’s up to them, not up to you, to bring it up, in other words. If you have to ask, it’s a NO. I have “negotiable” posted on my profile and while I don’t mention numbers I do mention I am looking for an allowance to be part of the arrangement that is mutually agreed upon. That way you can turn off the guys who “don’t believe in allowances”. Sorry but you do have to make an effort and you have to meet people before discussing numbers because THEY will judge YOU as much as the other way around. Men can be generous but they are not fools.

  672. FunDude says:

    goodnight everyone

    keep up the good work lainey

    hot alpha women aren’t intimidated by complaints because they know it doesnt apply to them

  673. Lainey says:

    @Rebecca 90% of @FunDude’s posts are TRUE. Only the ones who can relate to it get offended. Notice that I have NEVER been offended by ANYTHING Josh or Fundude have said. When someone is logical and objective they can accept it as the truth without being defensive.

  674. Lainey says:

    @Rebecca I’m an alpha. There is a difference between being submissive and knowing WHEN to submit. It’d behoove you to know it!

  675. FunDude says:

    @Rebecca

    And I’m sure about 99% of your posts are complaining about men.

    The difference is that I don’t take your complaints against SOME men personally due to it NOT reflecting on me.

    If some guy somewhere is a bad person, it has no relevance to me.

  676. Rebecca says:

    Fundude, 90% of your posts consist of bringing down women and saying they cause ~drama~, so don’t act like I’m the one being out of line lol.

  677. FunDude says:

    Ok I have to get to bed.

    Got to get up for work. I hate working late and having to get up lol. Then I have to workout like at 9PM lol

  678. FunDude says:

    @Rebecca

    You appear to be causing drama. Your argument is basically if I say something bad about a certain segment of women, that I am insulting ALL women. That is preposterous.

    It is the same concept for men. If women attack a certain segment of “deadbeat” men, that doesn’t mean its ALL men.

    I don’t get why some women take an complain about SOME women as an attack on ALL women.

  679. Rebecca says:

    Lainey, you’re so aggressive and angry on this blog. I have a hard time believing you’re submissive and don’t cause drama when in a relationship. Are you different irl? Honest question..

  680. Lainey says:

    Lol @FunDude its like a Taylor Swift song. #HoneymoonPhase

    “Find out what you want
    Be that girl for a month
    But the worst is yet to come”

  681. Lainey says:

    @FunDude don’t explain yourself to @Rebecca she is actually one of the women that DO SUCK

  682. Denise says:

    @Denise

    @FunDude-its like asking a female “what type of sex positions do you like”.

    You have to make small talk and be friendly before demanding/asking for an allowance.

    I think my question may have been misunderstood. I was neither asking for nor demanding an allowance. What I was seeking to find out was what they meant by negotiable. In other words what they offered in allowance this is of course after several messages back and forth discussing what we’re both seeking.

    Personally I actually prefer to talk for awhile on the site but meeting someone without knowing anything about what they offer seems time consuming and risky.

    Perhaps negotiable wasn’t the correct option to check off since that could just mean he’s generous with dinner and drinks.

    Thanks. I’ll update my profile.

  683. FunDude says:

    @Rebecca

    I didn’t say ALL women. I am complaining about a SEGMENT of women.

    Can you see the difference?

  684. Rebecca says:

    Yeah, women totally suck! Down with women!!

  685. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    It was very weird actually.

    Initially during the “honeymoon” period everything went well. We went on trips to Vegas, Cancun, Cali, etc. I took her during my conferences and for vacations.

    I also bough her some gifts like a Michael Kors bag, some clothes, etc.

    It went well until she started talking shit and making wise ass remarks to me.

    She made a comment like “Why didn’t you become a Neurosurgeon instead” or “that guy on TV has a great physique” to attempt to piss me off.

    Wasn’t logical but continued to get worse. Of course I won’t tolerate that level of disrespect. It was like “shit tests” on steroids.

    I paid 80% of the rent when we lived together which allowed her to lease a Mercedes.

    Money and tax issues were the final straw in our relationship. Very illogical and emotional situation.

    I truly believe many women are very emotional and NOT rational when it comes to relationships.

  686. Lainey says:

    No offense to the emotional blog SBs. LOL

  687. Lainey says:

    @FunDude LOL. Bitches sabotage that’s what they do. Relationships, Friendships, Familyships.. LMAO. Non-sabotaging women such as myself are few and far between. You have to find a woman who’s logic outweighs her emotions. Emotional bitches SUCK!

  688. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    After my ex girlfriend basically sabotaged our relationship, I decided sugar dating might be a better option.

    I was already basically sugar dating with her already, so it was a natural transition.

    Just trying to find a relatively attractive women who isn’t very difficult to get along with and sabotaging a relationship.

  689. Lainey says:

    @FunDude personality is different than intelligence and poise. VERY FEW men want a hot annoying bitch outside of banging her

  690. Lainey says:

    YAY @JoshiePoo.. Tell’im! Lol

  691. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    I agree. I rather have a relatively attractive female who was nice to get along with and contributed over a VERY hot woman who is annoying with nothing going for her.

  692. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “Men don’t work that way.”

    I am not sure about that. I will always take a less attractive graduate degree holder in STEM majors than much hotter waitress…not that there’s anything wrong with dating a waitress.

  693. KeKe says:

    @Dr.FunDude..your not wrong,surprisingly. .

  694. FunDude says:

    Channing Tatum is a moron. I don’t like him per se.

    I am using him as a status symbol. He is an A list actor. That holds more weight than a better physique.

  695. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Same concept.

    Clooney has a crappy physique compared to the Thunder Down Under guys.

    Yet women would take Clooney.

  696. Lainey says:

    I hate Channing Tatum

  697. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @FunDude
    I don’t know about Tatum.
    However, I’d take George Clooney ANY day.

  698. FunDude says:

    Also, I never said women weren’t shallow.

    They are just shallow on many levels compared to men being shallow on a few levels.

    Both sexes are very shallow.

  699. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Women are visual but not at the exclusion of many other factors.

    Explain why the vast majority of women would take Channing Tatum over the dudes in Thunder Down Under?

    On a purely aesthetic level, Tatum has an inferior physique.

    Yet the vast majority of women would take Tatum.

    Men don’t work that way.

  700. FunDude says:

    @Keke

    Am I wrong in my analysis?

  701. KeKe says:

    @Dr.FunDude..okay you have many valid points. I take my SD with his little beer belly over a broke gym rat any day.

  702. Josh says:

    “Men are visual”, “men are shallow”, etc., type of phrases, which are often posted on this blog, are coined by manginas.

    Women are as visual or as shallow as men, if not more.

  703. KeKe says:

    Men are more simplistic when it comes to “looks… Huh O_o…did you write that? !

  704. FunDude says:

    Women like Channing Tatum way more than guys with far superior physiques at “Thunder Down Under” due to Tatum’s status as an A list hollywood actor.

    Tatum’s physique is very mediocre when you see his beach pictures. There are tons of male strippers with far better physiques.

    Yet almost no female would take a male stripper with a better physique over Channing Tatums due to Tatums STATUS.

    If Tatum had low status, he would be nothing special.

    Women’s opinion is due to an amalgam of different male qualities added together.

    Men are more simplistic when it comes to “looks”

  705. FunDude says:

    @Keke

    That is why bullshit like “Thunder Down Under” has those clowns dancing around like dummies in stupid outfits.

    Its all entertainment like a clown. Sure they have nice physiques but they are still not considered high status and therefore are just a “play thing” for entertainment for most women.

    Now if he had a good physique and had status/education/money, then women would like him way more.

    That is why 50 shades of grey is the type of guy women really want.

  706. Lainey says:

    @FunDude Yea DUH! But how many of those dudes truly want “high quality”? Personally the guys who only have appearance to offer find “high quality” girls ANNOYING and do not want someone with their shit together until they are ready to settle down

  707. KeKe says:

    @Dr.FunDude
    Hmmmm I went to look at the bodies. Lol. Yeah I’m not into male strip clubs. I rather see a woman naked.

  708. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    I think physique is important. That is why I went to the gym tonight and work on it.

    I just believe that a loser dude that has just a good physique isn’t going to get a high quality female into a relationship. She will expect status/education etc.

  709. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Oh Honey FunDude
    Now I am sure you can handle all that traveling.
    Shame they don’t have you down here in Hot’Lanta though.

  710. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    I guess they structured it that way because they assumed people would be able to take time off in the summer.

  711. FunDude says:

    @KeKe

    Magic Mike was “popular” because it made women feel “empowered”.

    They can feel naughty like they assume men are at strip clubs.

    Women don’t really frequent male strip clubs outside of a bachelorette party or something.

    Men literally pay for sex and go to strip clubs regularly. Big difference.

  712. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    Its the executive program

    They have you come into Chicago in June, then London in July and then Hong Kong in August.

    Each are one week. Thats a lot in 3 months.

  713. Lainey says:

    @Keke yes my daughter would be annoyed. she’s like “Ballet is about discipline and striving for perfection” meanwhile I’m looking at her like “GIRL you’re 5 GO PLAY!”.. LMAO

  714. Lainey says:

    @FunDude thats a lie. Women and VERY visual they just “settle” if other qualities trump his looks. First impressions are important and females SEE with their eyes just like anyone else, but second impressions are EVERYTHING so we wait for you to open your mouth and determine if we like whats coming out and if its beneficial to us.

  715. KeKe says:

    @Dr.FunDude what women are you dealing with! We like to look too! That’s why Magic Mike was so popular!

  716. KennaKenna says:

    @FunnDude

    You’re going full time? I assumed you would pursue the Executive MBA/weekend program. All top schools will ask you to travel at least once for part of the program.

    I didn’t travel back to back weeks though. I went once in late winter and late spring.

  717. KeKe says:

    @Josh..Amen brother! Say it again. We girls like a good “toy”

  718. KeKe says:

    Well Dr. FunDude, you have the total package. No wonder you are always on the SB’s.

    @Lainey..Yaass honey. I’ve been fooled before. Women always wonder!

  719. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Yeah but women aren’t as visual as men.

    They don’t care about seeing a guy naked that much.

    That is why playgirl magazine totally failed lol. Only gay guys bought it.

  720. Josh says:

    @FunDude,

    EVERY WOMAN considers a man as a toy, clown, gofer, sperm donor, retirement plan or a combination thereof, which are his utility functions.

    Man’s dick is one of the many “utility” functions women look for in him. His dick comes under the “toy” category.

  721. FunDude says:

    If women cared that much about physique alone then they wouldn’t do sugar dating.

    Women care about a male’s physique if he is also successful.

    A physique might get a short term sex thing with some women but thats about it without status/success.

  722. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    Women don’t want to see a guys dick. Women aren’t that visual. Right?

  723. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    True. I never get why women think its appropriate to ask about income/assets/allowance, etc at their initial discussion.

    It would be the same as a guy asking a female about her blow job skills/sex skills/etc.

  724. Lainey says:

    @FunDude because most woman see a man with a decent body and wonder if he has a decent dick. Lets not pretend that womens minds don’t roam like mens minds.

  725. FunDude says:

    @Lainey

    Why would you think that?