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Introducing Perfect Arrangement: A Different Kind of Matchmaking
  • Posted Jan 26, 2015

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Typical relationships aren’t for you because quite frankly, you aren’t typical.

We all join the Sugar Bowl for a variety of reasons. SeekingArrangement provides a targeted approach to getting exactly what you want. But knowing what you want is only half the journey. It takes time to find that perfect arrangement; time you don’t always have.

You know what you want, we know how to get it. Isn’t it time you let us do some of the work?

A different kind of matchmaking

Introducing PerfectArrangement, SeekingArrangement’s exclusive matchmaking service. Members are personally vetted by our thorough team of Makers to ensure all potential matches are exactly who they say they are. Our pool of Sugar Babies will be Verified by Cam, and all members will be background checked and vetted to make sure they are an ideal candidate for PerfectArrangement.

Other membership benefits include arranged first dates, private mixers, custom non-disclosure and pre-dating agreements, exclusive access to SeekingArrangement events and more.

Joining PerfectArrangement is simple and easy. First create an account on SeekingArrangement. If you’ve already got one – even better, accounts automatically transfer into the PerfectArrangement system. All you need to do is login to the PerfectArrangement system with your SeekingArrangement account.

Once you’re logged into PerfectArrangement, you’ll need to complete a compatibility form. This helps us “build” your perfect Sugar. Tell us exactly what you’re looking for. If you need assistance completing this form, Makers are available to provide support as needed!

Once the compatibility form is complete, a Maker will then be in contact with you.

 

Perfect Arrangement Features

All matches are based on each member’s specified preferences.

Introductory Package: 5 matches with first dates based on your preferences.

Perfect Ten Package: 10 matches with first dates based on your preferences.

Premium Package: One year unlimited matches with corresponding first dates.

  • Email and Phone Support

VIP Arrangement Package: One year unlimited matches based on your preferences.

  • Complimentary VIP table at all SeekingArrangement events during your membership.

Mixer Package: A personalized mixer with 10 Sugar Babies based on your preferences.

Custom Package: A Maker will help design a package to fit your preferences.

Free for Babies

Sugar Babies can join PerfectArrangement free-of-charge. A Maker will be in contact with each Sugar Baby as their preferences match that of a Sugar Daddy’s.

Let us do the work for you. PerfectArrangement makes finding the ideal arrangement simple and effortless. 

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1,539 Responses to “Introducing Perfect Arrangement: A Different Kind of Matchmaking”

  1. Jose Carlos says:

    “quite slender as you seem to prefer…”

  2. GradGirl says:

    @Vonnie…You may not be doing a thing wrong. Just be patient. There are many women on the site and many men. I for one try to send a “No Thank You” reply as you usually know right away when someone is not a match (No attraction, mismatched ideals, the list goes on).

  3. GradGirl says:

    Fantastic idea. Has anyone personally had a actual experience? I did the Video Verification, but I was already background verified on SA. I have never had issues with SA :-)

  4. Vonnie says:

    Why can’t I find anyone?They barely reply to my messages… What am I doing wrong???
    efa1198a
    Help!

  5. Exotic says:

    It’s really disappointing that one member here,calls women prostitutes for being SBs,and he is still a member here?And most importantly why SA is not doing anything about it?Or SA has no problem so long that member is only targeting non white SBs?

  6. Brian says:

    Went to sign up for the mixer. But they lowered the number of women from 15 to 10.

  7. Nikki says:

    How long does it take for a SB profile to be approved?

  8. Little miss sunshine says:

    ^^^ Completely agree.

  9. UK Sugar says:

    Why don’t you just make the changes to SA instead of making a brand new site? The people on here need to be vetted too, maybe even more so. More and more men are joining looking for quick fixes and hook ups, I don’t know about the women, but instead of making a new site, why don’t you fix the one that you obviously think isn’t good enough. If you thought SA was great, why would you need a new site?

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  15. @RookieSD @THEATLSD can’t blame a guy one bit and if pitchin’ a tent wasn’t bad enough I’ve got a freakin’ log cabin goin up over here. DAMN!

    @Strugs I know right? It’s like a piece of gristle, wanna just bite on it, shake it and gnaw for a bit. Aaaghhhh!

    @yougotta Soooo you’re “tailing” the heat . . it’s gonna be a close one (utters under breath – “and I’m still yer b!tch”)

    @Lainey Name Dropper 😛

    @Sexy Can I come join your new blog? I wasn’t invited sooooo lol

  16. Lainey says:

    FunDude says:
    February 2, 2015 at 5:38 pm
    @Kenna

    You will be the most accomplished woman I have ever seen lol.

    Well I know surgeon females (ENT) from John Hopkin’s and a PHD from London School of Economics who works at Booth.

    But you’re prettyclose

    @FunDude I spent majority of my adolescent summers @ JH. I originally wanted to be a forensic coroner. Don’t ask. Lol

  17. SexyRockstar says:

    new blog

  18. THEATLSD says:

    Maggie. On the way 😉

  19. MaggieS says:

    @THEATLSD: LOL!!!
    I’m waiting for your mail, Borat!!!

  20. @Kenna

    What is this “for a black girl” addendum? You have ass like “whoa”, Lady. Oil it up (as you’ve so nicely demonstrated), and own it!

    Also, I think that you should pitch the “black girl” distancing and qualifying all together. Embrace yourself unapologetically. You are lovely.

  21. Josh says:

    It seems that Brandon was able to give Al Sharpton some hush money along with a diamond membership. The brown sugar article is back.

  22. THEATLSD says:

    @all. SB. Check out my new banana sling gravatar. I’m so sexy. I was inspired by @Kenna.

  23. RookieSD says:

    “Effect”. I’m bad with those homonyms.

  24. RookieSD says:

    @ATLSD
    Ah yes the dreaded “pitch a tent” affect. I usually place my hand in my pocket to adjust things next door in the fun house.

  25. MaggieS says:

    @SirMix: @Kenna’s ass is out of contest…she will win everytime!!! hahahahaha!!! a perfect ass!!!

    @THEATLSD: email me: agalychnis23 on hotmail dot com, dear

    @RookieSD: thank you :)

  26. THEATLSD says:

    @RookieSD
    ” keep wandering towards their gravitars”

    Yea no shit. I’m at work can’t get up. BOING

  27. THEATLSD says:

    @MaggieS

    When I click on your name it goes to a Spanish version of WordPress. Do have something type/linked in the website box? The one down by your name and email. If you do, that will create a link on you name. You can also put your own profile link in there. You do not have to put anything in there and you can still post.

  28. StruggleIsReal says:

    Kenna’s gravatar gives me violently erotic feelings. LoL That thing is aggressive. Rarrrr :)

  29. RookieSD says:

    @SirMix
    Well put. I’ve had difficulty reading Kenna’s, Struggles, & Maggie’s posts cause my eyes keep wandering towards their gravitars.

  30. StruggleIsReal says:

    @English
    Hey now, that sounds like a fun email that @ATL got! I want fun emails! Hehe

    @Josh @FunDude
    Doing my damnedest to settle this thing once and for all. Haha I will say that if Fun is not Josh, they should for sure be best bro’s forever :)

  31. AAAaaaaannnnnnD The “Holeee Freakin Moleeee Now-THAT’S-A-Special-Kind-of-Ass” Gravi Award goes toooo . . . KENNA!!! Ladies n Germs . . That thing should require some kind of licensing or something. It literally looks like there’s a halo around it. DAMN!

  32. THEATLSD says:

    Englishismy3rdlanguage
    “@ATL- you’ve got mail tall guy;-)”

    Boy did I ever. I went to bed after posting. Woke up to that. :) :)

  33. FunDude says:

    @josh

    give struggle your profile id. she thinks my profile id is a proxy lol she told me she never saw yours

  34. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    @ATL- you’ve got mail tall guy;-)

  35. Josh says:

    Since I am in a “philosophical” mood, here is something to ponder.

    When it comes to woman, most men want real cunt and not the allegorical variety.
    When it comes to man, most women want allegorical dick and not the real variety.

  36. Josh says:

    @resop2

    “On the other hand, it would not surprise me to find out that Josh and FunDude are both members of “NO MA’AM” (a fictional organization on the show Married With Children, the name is an acronym for “National Organization of Men Against Amazon Masterhood”.)”

    Pretty lame assertions by an otherwise intelligent blogger.

    I did not know what NO MA’AM was until I read it above. I learned about MGTOW after I started posting here. As I have said many times on the blog, men oscillate between dumb and dumber.

    Whether a man is a dumb variety or the dumber variety, there is NO WAY IN HELL he is giving up on the pussy. 😉

  37. Josh says:

    @heather,

    Sure you made a step up, that’s commendable in some capacity, but you are NOT getting quality SD with what you got.

  38. heather says:

    @kenna I know :( its the best one I have right now, until I get a better phone. The quality of a full body picture with what I have now is really bad. But at least I made a step up :)

  39. Josh says:

    So much effort is being expanded to determine if @Josh=@FunDude. Like I give a shit. 😉

    @Struggle: I acknowledge @FunDude’s point of view because he bring MGTOW’s point of view, which is largely true and sad. It is sad because that “movement” is never going to work. Reason, men love pussy just way too much. 😉

    @FunDude: I like @Struggle because she is an ideal SB (regardless of her idiotic accusation of @Josh-@FunDude.) Ideal SB…because she is keeping her respective SD happy. She is hot, but it is neither here nor there. I have no intention of pursuing any of the blog SBs…but looking it hot asses does not hurt. Another thing I like about her is that every time I have asked to put her ass shot, she has graciously obliged.

    Similarly, I like @Lainey, @Kenna and @Sexy because they know how to keep their respective SDs happy AND are in possession of hot asses. 😉

  40. ErikTheRed says:

    Josh was innocent. I was busy with an exceptional prospect: a beautiful, athletic, highly intelligent and well-read girl attending one of the elite colleges, a 20yo virgin from a proper upper-middle class upbringing. I was quite tempted to quit sugaring for good and settle down, as she requested.

  41. KennaKenna says:

    @Erik thank you .

  42. ErikTheRed says:

    @Kenna
    Hope you get well soon. The weather is tough this year. We are approaching some kind of multi-decade cycle low in temperature.

  43. StruggleIsReal says:

    @LadyS
    Haha @Josh thanks!!

    @Midwest
    Hiiiii!! How’s it going with your pretty SB? Please help. Feed me sexy stories. I have 6 days till I will have some of my own. I love your honest sharing here. Hey bitter dudes, here is a real guy who is quite happy with his lot. See he stats as he lists. Nothing super crazy. Just a good guy, getting good tail 😉
    And YES @Sexy is holding out for @Lainey to post her butt. They claim they won’t fit in the gravi box :( Ok I will settle for half an ass!

  44. KennaKenna says:

    Okay, I’m definitely sick- runny nose, sore throat and fever! :(

  45. ErikTheRed says:

    I wish I was that luky 😉 I was either a figment of my parents’ imagination or barely born in the 70’s. LOL. There were some 1BR co-op conversions in the sub-$50k range as late as the mid-1980’s. By the time I was old enough to buy property, the prices for anything decent in Manhattan was already in the $100k-300k range. So I had to settle for a different city (that, and attending college); 6-figures was real money two decades ago. My point was that, for an SD older than me (40), perhaps in his 50’s or 60’s, the cost of living in Manhattan can be quite reasonable because he bought his home before the rapid real estate appreciation in the past 2+ decades. The city was a quasi-slum before the clean-up in the 90’s; may well return to that state of affair if De Blassio lets trash pile up in the streets again.

  46. KennaKenna says:

    @FlyR a PhD is an asset for funds like Renaissance Technologies, etc. or from a consulting point of view- NERA!

    Yes, a PhD is not an added benefit in the Investment Banking but quant funds love us and practically snatch us up before we even graduate.

  47. MaggieS says:

    @Midwest: thank you so much, and if @Sexyrockstar gives us a look of her booty, I will be even more embarrased 😛 I’m sure she has an amazing ass

  48. flyR says:

    @Kenna ““Manhattan has serious affordability problems,” said Mr. Braconi, the economist. In the last decade, the percentage of people who are paying “unaffordable rents” (defined as more than 30 percent of their income) has increased significantly, according to a report issued in September by the city’s comptroller.”

    The first problem is that the 30% ratio is a relic of the 60’s Ozzie & Harriet .

    In most areas where inclusionary housing is mandatory it has a very negative (for tenants) impact on rentals across the market. You have 100,000 apartments in the market and there are 110,000 people who want apartments, Joe builder looks at the market and finds he can build new apartments to rent at the current market rate of $4,000 per month. But the city requires that he build 20% highly subsidized units with 3 bedrooms and rent then at a rate that after operating costs generates $200,000 loss . Worse yet , the renters in the subsidized units decrease the other rentals in an amount that translates to a decline of $100,000 per unit. Thus no new units get built until the rent are much higher. Since rents rise with the market the entire market rents are raised by perhaps 20% so that a few people can have subsidized inclusionary housing. The middle class just does not get it- the extraordinary cost. Those who profit are the ones who owned buildings when the regulations were passed. I don’t remember the numbers but for every $1 of benefits to subsidized renters non subsidized renters pay $7 with the $6 going to existing landlords.

    @ Kenna – unless you are going to teach, do research or be the resident guru at some Wall Street firm I don’t see a Phd as a major benefit.

    One of the issues with today’s MBA’s is that many schools are taking younger students so there’s often less real world experience and maturity in the classroom. The continuing wars have reduced the flow of active duty and former military officers into the MBA programs. The positive is that the kids are really bright and they come from around the world.

  49. Ladyscarlett says:

    Let’s blame Josh for that@struggles. Thanks, sooo much, Josh! :-p

  50. Midwestsugardaddy says:

    I am glad that all of the blog sugar babies have such great rear ends!! I am impressed with all of you!

    SA has moved into the mainstream in the past year. All of the talk about post tax income is factually accurate. It is rare to find The high or substantial sd. Most of us are in the moderate or lower ranges.

    I can assure you that you can find some really good sugar babies in this range. I am an early 40’s SD in a mid sized metro area. My sugar relationships are in the moderate range. I do prefer to have a connection with my sugar baby. It definitely makes the arrangement work better for both of us.

    Stay focused on your search criteria if you are still striking out. You can also take a break if you are not having any luck.

    I want to see @sexyrockstar update her gravi with her great a$$

  51. KennaKenna says:

    @Heather I still think you need better photos but that’s just my opinion.

  52. KennaKenna says:

    @Erik the average cost of an apt in Manhattan for 2013 is 1.46million but you’re right if you bought a flat in the 70s and sold now- they’re now worth a ton more.

    My grandfather did the same, he bought various acres of land in Barbados for 2000/acre and now they’re worth in excess of 250k/per acre. Real estate in Barbados never depreciates.

  53. heather says:

    Well profile has been approved and, I guess its ok so far already got a couple of sd’s talking to me.

  54. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Josh @LadyS @YGBKM
    Like the call of the wild.

  55. ErikTheRed says:

    Cost of living in Manhattan is not very extreme if one owns the condo or co-op, especially a flat in recently chic neighborhoods like SoHo and Tribeca. Some family friends bought 2000sqft flats in the area for $10-30k each in the 70’s and sold for $2-3mil in the past decade. Their mortgage payments were literally lower than the condo fees, or even parking fees.

    Under the current high multiple and low interest environment, for someone with substantial income-generating assets, there are a number of perfectly legal tax-efficient ways of deriving cash flow much greater than taxable income.

  56. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie

    @English
    “I have a tiny butt”
    The statement seems to be false. I’m seeing some freight in the trailer…

    Let me rephrase- for a black girl, I have a tiny butt!

  57. THEATLSD says:

    Fundude
    “@Kenna
    Do you think MLPs are a good buying opportunity considering the drop of most MLPs at 70% in the last few months.”

    Dude, you are on the wrong seeking site.. Thats a question for seekingalpha.

    Also, you used ERGO twice today, therefore you are henceforth and forever banned from using it again.

  58. KennaKenna says:

    @English

    Woah! Hot gravi hun!

  59. THEATLSD says:

    @Struggles
    “Cue the Zamboni!”
    That’s funny right thar!!

    @Englishismy3rd

    atlsdintown-sa at yaho o dot com I don’t bite, no clenched teeth issues on this end. 😉

  60. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    @struggLe- @English
    HOTTIE! I love your gravi and that dress. I swear I think I could have the same one, or at least one quite similar. I think we’ll be cute working @ATL and playing Chess in our sparkly dresses. hehe
    @ATL
    [hugs you, directs @English to her knees and to get practicing…]
    Thank you darling:-) Mi thinks your gravi is absolutely, astoundingly gorgeous too…I’ll urge @ATL to rethink his offer of having you naked around me….if you know what I mean

  61. KennaKenna says:

    Monday night ritual- Watching Celebrity Apprentice with SD. I’m so glad Kenya Moore got fired.

  62. KennaKenna says:

    BioTech guys get paid regardless, a lot of venture capitalists out there who donate a ton to funding these companies. If they actually find a cure or something, then home run! If not, guess what? They still get paid.

  63. KennaKenna says:

    Yes @FunDude, MBA from Penn State.

  64. FunDude says:

    @ Kenna

    Does your friend have an MBA as well who went into venture capital?

    Might have to take that route after I do my MBA.

    Medicine is a problem in terms of liability if you already have accumulated assets as well, despite asset protection with LLCs, etc.

  65. MissLady says:

    People around here aren’t expecting the oil prices to go back over $85 this year

  66. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    I don’t think Oil has hit rock bottom now, I think it is a decent investment and a great place to look but I wouldn’t put a lot of my money in it. Energy is tricky so if it were me, I’d take a position and then watch the oil prices.

    The reason why I think oil prices still aren’t stabilized, because there is a over supply. The demand will catch up but I think the price per barrel will continue to drop until the demand catches up with the supply.

  67. FatB'StardSA says:

    Very poor editing on my part!

  68. FatB'StardSA says:

    @KennaKenna

    “We are speaking about averages!!!”

    It is interesting that you think using “averages” is a good argument. I am not a MBA graduate or Finance PhD student (or high powered NYC SD) so it is probably beyond my understanding.

    I am not an MBA graduate, I do not have a PhD in Finance and I am not a high powered Manhattan SD.

    I would think tha

  69. StruggleIsReal says:

    @ATL
    He shoots, he scores! Ding ding ding!!
    Cue the Zamboni!

  70. THEATLSD says:

    @Struggles
    “@ATL
    [hugs you, directs @English to her knees and to get practicing…]”
    Oh hell yea. I need to bank a load off her tonsils. Don’t want mess up that pretty dress.

  71. KennaKenna says:

    @ATL

    Thank you. You have to live here to get it. haha

  72. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude my very good friend is a doctor from Seattle turned into a biotech venture capital guy and is making tons. 600K sounds about right to start.

    Salaries here are crazy for anything Wall Street related.

  73. THEATLSD says:

    @fundude
    “Not illogical at all. If you are hot, you can get away with more shit in this world.”
    Can’t argue with that but all the blog SB are hot. So it’s a level playing field of hotness.

    @Kenna
    Wannabe Manhattenites. I called them “posers” when I lived there.

  74. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    Do you think MLPs are a good buying opportunity considering the drop of most MLPs at 70% in the last few months.

    It appears that oil prices are stabilizing, MLPs can potentially triple for things like Breitburn (BBEP).

    What do you think?

  75. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    I am sure it was healthcare related. He claimed he started at about 600K but had to fly all over the place. Dunno how accurate this information was from this dude.

    Kenna, since you will be the next Warren Buffet, I will have to defer to your knowledge on these issues.

    Do you want to be the federal reserve chair? You will have a better pedigree than Janet Yellen.

  76. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    Thank you. My SD make the jokes all the time that he hopes I’m not collecting many “MRS. degrees’ and get to work when he is ready to slow down his workload and be his Sugar Momma lol.

  77. StruggleIsReal says:

    @English
    HOTTIE! I love your gravi and that dress. I swear I think I could have the same one, or at least one quite similar. I think we’ll be cute working @ATL and playing Chess in our sparkly dresses. hehe

    @ATL
    [hugs you, directs @English to her knees and to get practicing…]

  78. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    Yes, then a Booth MBA makes sense. What type of consulting? If you want to make money, Wall Street is the place to be!

  79. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    You will be the most accomplished woman I have ever seen lol.

    Well I know surgeon females (ENT) from John Hopkin’s and a PHD from London School of Economics who works at Booth.

    But you’re pretty close

  80. FunDude says:

    @ATL

    Not illogical at all. If you are hot, you can get away with more shit in this world.

    The law of WOMEN 101.

  81. FunDude says:

    If Obamacare kills medicine, it will be a good backup, considering it is a top MBA degree.

    I know of someone who went to Columbia Business School and then into consulting on Wall Street. He was a physician as well.

  82. THEATLSD says:

    @Fundude
    Post me your ID. I want to determine why you have such a big mouth. Maybe you are really hot or something.”

    That’s well established here @struggles is smokin hot. Both SD and SB have ALL agreed on that. What does being hot have to do with speaking their mind and defending their opinion. That’s really illogical at its base.

  83. KennaKenna says:

    a MBA*

  84. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    Depends on what you ultimately want to do. I have an MBA from Booth but I’m the wrong person to ask because I think MBAs are now overrated and have become the new Bachelors degree. Hence why I am going for my PhD, just to stay 1 step ahead of my peers and future competition.

    I’m thinking about going to law school after as well, especially if I get pregnant later this year.

  85. KennaKenna says:

    I will say for my NYC babies- focus on the guys that are making upward of 500k per year- there are a lot of them in Manhattan.

    You girls may not be able to afford living in Manhattan but with the help of a nice SD- you can!

  86. FunDude says:

    @ kenna

    Is an MBA from Chicago Booth worth it for a physician?

    That is a good topic

  87. KennaKenna says:

    finished*

  88. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude I just told my SD about this argument and he laughed, he said he’d say at least 250k to live in Manhattan comfortably and he said that’s without a SB.

    The guy holding on to his rent controlled apartment is barely getting by and could not afford a SB. My idea of middle class/living comfortably and yours is obviously different.

    I will just say this- according to my income last year- I’m in the top 1% of Americans but yet I need a SD to live comfortably because I live in Manhattan. If I were in Minnesota or Houston, I’d be able to live it up.

    Anyways, you win, I’m finish talking about this!

    New topic anyone?

  89. RookieSD says:

    @English
    “I have a tiny butt”
    The statement seems to be false. I’m seeing some freight in the trailer…

  90. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    Where did they take Joan Rivers when she died?

    A lot of famous people came through there. But they were the very distinct minority of the population.

  91. FunDude says:

    @ Kenna

    Even newer luxury apartments have a certain threshold of subsidized apartments to get “approved”. They are trying to do away with the “projects” and bring those people into other Manhattan apartments.

    Thank you DE BLASIO!

  92. KennaKenna says:

    It’s the average apartment, including all apartments in Manhattan- just google it.

    Which hospital did you work at??

  93. FunDude says:

    Forgive my terrible grammar, typing fast.

  94. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    @ Kenna- @Maggie I have a tiny butt lol… It’s all about angles and posing for the camera 😉

    Yeah! yeah! You had me fooled too lol! There’s nothing tiny about your butt.

  95. KennaKenna says:

    And I was speaking about SDs, you can’t make 66k in NYC and afford a SB so therefore your point again MUTE!

    Rent Subsidies are grandfathered in and usually passed on. The new buildings are not rent subsidized.

  96. FunDude says:

    Average non subsidized rental apartment, which consists of only 50% of the total Manhattan apartments (at most) is 3900K

  97. FunDude says:

    Hamptons

  98. FunDude says:

    I also worked at the second highest ranked academic hospital in NYC that was located in Manhattan.

    Just working in the hospital, you can see in both the ER and patient rooms, the good majority of people weren’t exactly rich.

    We had the VIP rooms as well that had rich people overlooking central park. These were the distinct minority, The rooms weren’t even full most nights.

    I know this because I had to put I.V.s in some of the “rich” people due to the nurses being afraid or hear them complaining on the phone for 30 minutes lol.

    One rich divorcee who lived in a 26 million dollar house in the Hamptoms was quite unhappy due to her famous husband marrying a newer, younger wife.

  99. KennaKenna says:

    We are speaking about averages!!! The AVERAGE apartment in NYC is $3900, no matter how you slice it!

  100. FunDude says:

    professor

  101. FunDude says:

    @ Kenna

    It clearly states the biggest reason for such high rents wasn’t due to free market prices but from recent subsidizes that artificially keep the amount of rentals low.

    I have lived in Manhattan. I know of people who live in subsidized housing that make “middle class salaries” and live fine.

    If 50% of people are paying significant below market rent, they can afford it.

    It quotes an associate profession who makes 120K but lives in an 1800/month apartment due to subsidies. She is managing fine.

  102. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie

    WHen New Yorkers talk about “the city”, they mean Manhattan.

    For example, people living in Brooklyn will say “I work in the city” meaning Manhattan.

  103. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    From the same NY times article you quoted:

    “Manhattan has serious affordability problems,” said Mr. Braconi, the economist. In the last decade, the percentage of people who are paying “unaffordable rents” (defined as more than 30 percent of their income) has increased significantly, according to a report issued in September by the city’s comptroller.

    If that trend continues, it will feed the perennial panic that Manhattan’s middle class is on the brink of extinction, no longer able to cope with the city’s prices and fast retreating to its natural habitat, the suburbs.

    It is true that the middle class here is smaller than anywhere else in the country. It is true that price pressures from both real estate and the cost of living are not slowing down anytime soon. But it is also true that calamity has been forecast for over a century now.”

  104. RookieSD says:

    Well the “city” does include the other 4 other boroughs as well, at more affordable prices.

  105. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    According to NY time the AVERAGE Manhattan apartment is $3900 and 230k is middle class. Come to Manhattan, and get by on 66k and let me know how you do.

  106. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie

    People who can’t realistically afford to live in Manhattan but want to live here so badly that they will share a 500 sqft apt with 3 other people just to say they live in “the city”. I know a few like this.

  107. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    I just quoted a recent NY Times article from 2013 speaking about the “middle class” in Manhattan. It clearly defines approximately 50% of places are subsidized.

    Furthermore, people who bought before 2000 or had subsidies for many years, can easily be part of that 66K median salary.

  108. FunDude says:

    Struggle sent you an email

  109. RookieSD says:

    “Wannabe Manhattanites”?

  110. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude the Median is so low because of the wannabe Manhattanites that share a 1 bedroom apartment with 3other people. There are housing units that drive the median down as well.

    The people who make 66k in Manhattan are not getting by, they are struggling which only solidifies my earlier point.

  111. FunDude says:

    @Struggle

    That was my “gangsta rap” name for you. You can keep it.

    You’re our one and only “angry biatch”

  112. StruggleIsReal says:

    @FunDude
    I have repeatedly offered my email to you, so that we can suss each other out, and I will again.
    Email me at StruggleIsReal02 at gmail dot com. I will not post my profile here for personal reasons. Are you actually going to reply to me this time ? This is too exciting for me.
    Can I please keep the title of “angry biatch” though, no matter deeply you fall in love with me ?

  113. FunDude says:

    @ Kenna

    Sorry, I might struggle lol. Struggle is the angry biatch on here lol.

    Kenna, I have a recent NY Times article from last year. It discusses why the rents in NYC are so high. Quote from article “More than 280,000 units — nearly half of Manhattan’s apartment stock — is rent-regulated in some fashion. These apartments are either godsends to those who occupy them, or daggers that twist in the hearts of everyone else, left to pay market rate or compete for the borough’s remaining vacancies — 2.8 percent of the housing stock, as measured in 2011. But 30 percent of the residents of rent-stabilized apartments moved in more than 20 years ago.”

    Ergo, there is a shortage of rental apartments due to half of the apartments being subsidized.

    The annual MEDIAN income for Manhattan (family) is 66K. There are tons of “poorer” people in Manhattan as well. Manhattan has a huge gradient of wealth.

    @Struggle

    Post me your ID. I want to determine why you have such a big mouth. Maybe you are really hot or something.

    Josh appears to like your dumbass for some reason lol

  114. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude New buildings are not rent-controlled. Maybe my understanding of new and yours are different.

  115. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Rookie
    Hehe 😉

  116. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Fun
    Did you mean to direct that last comment at me, instead of Kenna?

  117. RookieSD says:

    “Amazeballs”

  118. KennaKenna says:

    FunDude says:
    February 2, 2015 at 3:53 pm
    @Kenna

    I am not a “proxy” of Josh lol. I have my own profile ID noted on this website. You can check it out.

    I highly doubt Josh would setup a fake SA account to accomplish a “proxy”.

    Also what makes me an “asshole”? Speaking the truth?

    The truth hurts Kenna. I haven’t personally insulted you, so I am curious why you find me to be an asshole?

    Is it because you are still some kind of rad feminist that thinks “women are always right, must side with them”? Female imperative?”

    Was this meant for me? When did I call you an asshole? I’m the one that was saying you are not @Josh’s proxy.

  119. KennaKenna says:

    @FatBastard

    “I would guess that Harlem and Washington Heights make up a descent fraction of the non commercial real estate in Manhattan.”

    How are you right? What do you consider a DECENT fraction?

    And to all NYC SBs who may be reading this, you do not want a Harlem or Wash Heights SD so as I was talking about SDs who can afford substantial allowances so your points are irrelevant!

    Oh you were right about one thing- “We travel in different social circles”- Yes, because I wont be caught dead in Harlem. I’m black and I’m still a bit leery of those areas.

    Have a nice evening @FatBastard!

  120. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    I am not a “proxy” of Josh lol. I have my own profile ID noted on this website. You can check it out.

    I highly doubt Josh would setup a fake SA account to accomplish a “proxy”.

    Also what makes me an “asshole”? Speaking the truth?

    The truth hurts Kenna. I haven’t personally insulted you, so I am curious why you find me to be an asshole?

    Is it because you are still some kind of rad feminist that thinks “women are always right, must side with them”? Female imperative?

  121. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Southern
    What one must do is to put her thing down, flip it and reverse it. :)

  122. FunDude says:

    Funny, the new “luxury” building I moved into a few years ago on the upper east side had a significant amount of rent controlled people that didn’t appear to work during the day.

    Must just be my imagination then.

  123. SexyRockstar says:

    This is how I explain why I want such a high allowance:

    “Bitch please, even the gay’s love me”

  124. FatB'StardSA says:

    @KennaKenna

    I would guess that Harlem and Washington Heights make up a descent fraction of the non commercial real estate in Manhattan.

    We travel in different social circles I think so there will be no common ground for our arguments*. For some four quarter pounders is a feast, while FlyR only eats free range organic yoga beef.

    *I am right and you are wrong though!

    Have a nice day :-).

  125. SouthernSB says:

    StruggleIsReal says:

    @SA
    A new blog, titled “ASS WEEK” would be so amazeballs right now.

    Or at least a blog on exercise and general upkeep of our amazing asses.

  126. FatB'StardSA says:

    It makes sense how a lot of SB’s come up with their allowance expectations. The average rental price in SF is about $3,200/month. So every SB in SF demands $5K/month (because if you are not living in Russian Hill or Presideo Heights you might as well live in a car).

  127. KennaKenna says:

    @FatBastard

    I was speaking about averages. Wash Heights and Harlem is a small fraction of the entire island of Manhattan. You name Harlem and Washington Heights and I can name many more neighborhoods like Upper East Side, Upper West Side, Murray Hill, East Village, Soho, TriBeCa, etc.

    And even Harlem rents have increased since it has been cleaned up in the last few years.

    Also, when you live and work in NYC, you pay a 3rd tax- New York City tax so making $200k,- you only take home about 120k.

  128. StruggleIsReal says:

    @SA
    A new blog, titled “ASS WEEK” would be so amazeballs right now.

  129. StruggleIsReal says:

    “Kenna says…
    @FatBastard
    I have pulled those quotes out of my ass?? ”

    With any luck!!!

    @Lainey
    Your derriere has been politely requested. ASS WEEK is in full effect and you are letting Kenna run away with it. WTF mate?! That thing is good though, I can’t even be upset about that.

    @Josh
    I wish there was a way to prove or disprove proxies. I really honestly have a hard time understanding that @FunDude is not your proxy, just the way he showed up, how you two mirror each other and interact… it truly is just hard for me to see otherwise. I really honestly don’t want him to be your proxy. The others… meh, I don’t really care about those. Fun has stuck around, and you have shrunk back. It kind of makes sense. I’m just being genuine with you. What I think certainly isn’t right, but I am just telling you how I see it. If FunDude wasn’t such an idiotic asshole, I wouldn’t even care. But it straight up seems that you have created him to do your more crass bidding, so that @Josh can maintain a more pleasant homeostasis.
    Regardless, it doesn’t matter. I have even grown to love our resident redundant turd, @FunDude. LoL

  130. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    Rent Control and Rent stabilization only exist for older buildings and for people who’ve been living in the same apartment for many many years. 34% of the apartments are pre-1947 and are rent stabilized($2500). Only 1.8% of the apartments here are rent controlled and then another 11% of the post 1946 apartments are also stabilized but at a higher rental rate.

    Please note that the $2500 is still higher than the national average and most of those tenants have been grandfathered in. The only way to find a rent controlled/rent stabilized now is to find someone who is moving and willing to give up their lease.

  131. FatB'StardSA says:

    @THEATLSD, @KennaKenna

    It seems I am wrong about Manhattan. I guess all of my Latino neighbors became investment bankers or left Manhattan.

  132. FatB'StardSA says:

    @KennaKenna

    I see your point. If you only consider the most expensive areas of a particular the city then that particular city will be expensive to live in.

    I have no doubt you will have a lot of success in the world of finance! No joke!

  133. KennaKenna says:

    @Lady no I work for a hedge fund, I love financial modeling and practically live in Excel.

  134. THEATLSD says:

    @Kenna
    Yes I try to use Bing. Google is evil.

    performance space, says: “My niece just bought a home in Atlanta for $85,000″
    If they bought a house actually in THE ATL for that they better have a Glock 9mm on hot. Which is loaded, round in the chamber and safety off.

    I used to live in NY. Your statements about rent and living in Manhatten are pretty accurate. (Hell just froze over)

  135. KennaKenna says:

    Oh and btw 1.46million is the average cost of an apartment in Manhattan- think about how much you have to make to pay mortgage and live comfortably- most people strive to own because they do not want to rent all the days of their lives.

  136. Ladyscarlett says:

    Perhaps, even if something was pulled out of Kenna’s bottom, then it would not be so bad? It is a nice bottom, after all….you work at Goldman, Kenna? I used to work at Bear….am kind of embarrassed to admit that, though, hehe. My good friend used to work in credit derivatives up in NYC :-/

  137. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    That is the “average” apartment price that is unsubsidized.

    When I lived in “luxury” apartments on the upper East side, for a 1 bedroom, I would have to pay 3500/month.

    However, a good amount of my “neighbors” were subsidized and had the govt pay most of their rent.

    There are also tons of rent controlled apartments, including multi million dollar Brownstones, where people have lived for generations and pay only 1,200/month.

    The artificially high Manhattan prices are due to a very large segment of the apartments being either subsidized or rent controlled.

    The recent numbers I read were significantly greater than 50% were rent controlled or subsidized.

    If it wasn’t for these things, the avg apartment price would drop by 2K.

  138. MaggieS says:

    @RookieSD: thank you sweetie, you’re so cute :)

    @JoeF: yes, that’s all mine, and I will do that, just for you, ahahaha!!!

  139. KennaKenna says:

    @JoeF

    Depends on the area, but if you want amenities like a doorman- at least 4k for one bedroom. Studios will be cheaper and you may find a deal here and there. I pay more because I have a full service building in a really nice area.

  140. JoeF says:

    Just out of curiosity. double grrr, not being able to edit typos is so annoying.

  141. KennaKenna says:

    Manhattan is so expensive that most new attorneys at larger firms, new IBankers at Goldman Sachs and new analysts at hedge funds/private equity have roommates to be able to afford living on the island. I know this because these are my peers and that would probably be me as well if I didn’t have my SD.

  142. JoeF says:

    @KennaKenna
    Just out curiosity how much does an apartment like the one you describe living cost to buy in New York these days?

    Definitely past my bed time over here on the old continent, good night everyone.

  143. KennaKenna says:

    @FatBastard

    I have pulled those quotes out of my ass?? Ask any Manhattanite what they think of Harlem/Wash Heights. Yes, a lot people in Manhattan have roommates- I live here, I know my stuff. Do a Craigslist search and see how many people are looking for roommates.

    I was specifically talking about SDs, not families- a family will move to Queens/Brooklyn?Westchester or Jersey where they can have a bigger place rather than live in a 1 bedroom apartment in Manhattan for same price. If a SD can afford to live in Manhattan with his family, I can guarantee you they are making more than 200k.

  144. JoeF says:

    @MaggieS
    If that is you in your gravatar Maggie you should definitively get some pictures taken from behind or the side in some tight jeans for your profile.

    Speaking as an ass man that gravatar photo is at least an 8 in my book.

  145. KennaKenna says:

    @FatBastard

    I do not live in a Sex and the City episode, I live in present day NYC! Do you?

    Taken from NY times:

    “Thank goodness the fiscal cliff deal only raises taxes on those making $400,000 (or $450,000 as a household). Because making $235,000 basically means you’re just middle class—if you live in Manhattan. A NY Times real estate feature ponders what exactly is middle class in Manhattan, and, as we all know in our hearts, it’s depressing. One woman, who rents out her apartment as a performance space, says: “My niece just bought a home in Atlanta for $85,000. I almost spend that on rent and utilities in a year.”

  146. FatB'StardSA says:

    @KennaKenna

    “Manhattanites don’t consider Washington Heights and Harlem Manhattan”

    “A lot of people living in Harlem/Washington Heights have roommates to offset the cost (sometimes 4 people in a 1 bedroom).”

    Two quotes you have pulled out of your ass (which is quite nice I have to admit).

    “Let me rephrase for you, you need to make at least 200k here to live like the average middle class person in America.”

    Replace “person” with “family” and you are getting closer to reality.

  147. RookieSD says:

    @Maggie
    Little Mama you have nothing to be ashamed of in your caboose.

  148. JoeF says:

    @KennaKenna
    Well I’m not a city boy and have never lived in a large metropolis so thank you for pointing out the facts of life to me. Knew NYC was insanely expensive, but didn’t think it was that bad.

    Have been spending a bit of time in Scandinavia lately and especially in Norway with all the oil money going into the economy I have seen some of the same effects there of what happen when you pump a lot of money into a small population/area, you get a vicious circle of high living costs leading to higher wages leading to even higher living costs repeated again and again until every thing but the industry driving the higher cost becomes uncompetitive and moves elsewhere.

    Makes you wonder if the Singaporeans are onto something with their Housing and Development Board, the lower housing costs and therefor living costs are probably one of the main reasons Singapore is so competitive in the world economy. Even if Singapore population density are just 2/3 of NYC and they do have a lot foreign workers driving down costs even further.

    The way you have set up your arrangement sound very smart, have considered doing part of what you describe in the past. Thank you for the lesson Kenna, I seem to be learning all kind of things tonight. You sound like one smart cookie.

    Is that you in your gravatar by the way? If so I’m in love with your behind, to bad you are all ready taken and out of my league.

  149. MaggieS says:

    @Kenna, I will try it someday :)

  150. KennaKenna says:

    @FatBastard Manhattanites don’t consider Washington Heights and Harlem Manhattan but my point still stands that the average apartment in Manhattan including Wash Heights/Harlem is $3900.

    A lot of people living in Harlem/Washington Heights have roommates to offset the cost (sometimes 4 people in a 1 bedroom). Let me rephrase for you, you need to make at least 200k here to live like the average middle class person in America.

  151. FatB'StardSA says:

    @KennaKenna

    So everyone who lives in Washington Heights and Harlem makes over $200K? Times have changed it seems.

    You sure you are not living in a Sex in the City episode?

  152. KennaKenna says:

    @Maggie I have a tiny butt lol… It’s all about angles and posing for the camera 😉

  153. MaggieS says:

    @RookieSD: @Kenna made me feel ashamed of my little ass… and you must be drooling, ahahahahahahaha!!

  154. KennaKenna says:

    @ATL

    You use Bing?!?!?!?

  155. THEATLSD says:

    @Struggles
    “Something just doesn’t sit well with me about that being your heinie.”

    What really doesn’t sit well is it only took like 3 seconds to find that after I Binged “Darth vadar butt”. Boom there it was. Scary shit man.

  156. Josh says:

    What I would appreciate is the end of the proxy “game”.

    It appears that certain individuals are getting their kicks out of blaming various independent bloggers contributions to me.

    I tried to explain, in good faith, that I am not blogging under various proxies but it seems that they get a kick out of my explanation as if they have put me in some kind if defensive position.

    No more. Go fuck yourself!

    If you think that those bloggers are my proxies. Deal with the @Guru’s ability to post around the clock and the wherewithal to maintain multiple real, paid SA accounts. 😉

  157. RookieSD says:

    @Struggles
    Kenna just upped the ante, Lainey can no longer stand on the sidelines and ignore this threat to her ass supremacy. She must respond…

  158. Josh says:

    The ass “game”, if that’s what someone thinks it is, does not end until @Lainey either posts her gravi or declares that she not going to for reasons of her own. Needless to say everyone is free to post whatever gravi they choose to.

  159. KennaKenna says:

    HAHA!

    When @Sexy or @Lainey upload theirs, it will put all our asses to shame lol.

  160. RookieSD says:

    It’s sooo oily too…

  161. RookieSD says:

    It’s sooo oily…

  162. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna just shut down the ass game. Officially. Damn Gina!!! Nice heinie!!

  163. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    Your gravi is so bubbly…

  164. MaggieS says:

    @JoeF: don’t worry honey, I’m here to learn, and thanks for your honesty, I’m not waiting to “catch” someone younger, not even one of my age, so…everything is ok, you’re a good guy :)

  165. sexyrockstar says:

    She asked for help months ago

  166. KennaKenna says:

    @Joe

    The average Manhattan apartment cost $3973 per month to rent. I have a one bedroom and pay more than that. You need to make at least 200k to get by here. 300k here is middle class.

    If a SD here is not making high six figures to seven figures, he cannot realistically afford a SB with a substantial allowance comfortably.

    SBs here need to learn it’s hard to convince any man despite his net worth to give you 10k in cash every month. All my SDs have been in the substantial/high range but I’d be lying if I said I got 10k in cash in my account every single month.

    For me, I don’t need cash and realized it’s easier and SD feels more comfortable if he pays bills/buy gifts. I convinced my SDs to get me a corporate rental apartment in a super nice building and they can claim it as a business expense at the end of the year. My current SD pays for my apt, and all living expenses which equals about 6500-7k per month. I use his UBer account to get anywhere I need to be and for the month- it’s usually around 1000-1500. I buy myself something really nice at least once per month(e.g. Chanel purse) with the Amex he gave me plus I shop for basics/dresses for dinner/surprises for him.

    So I don’t sweat him if he doesn’t wire me some cash one month, even though he usually does but it’s random and unexpected and always a nice surprise(usually 3k-5k).

    My point is a good SB does not make it feel transactional, does not demand cash and let’s her SD be generous on his own. If you nag a man for cash, he will find someone who won’t.

  167. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Sexy – Look at you, trying to play matchmaker 😉

  168. sexyrockstar says:

    @Chicago baby
    Trust me, fun dude can’t proVide you with what you’re looking for. You turned down the one sd I sent to you.

    Has your situation changed?

    This is why, ladies and gentlemen I get annoyed with people

  169. StruggleIsReal says:

    Oh no. @Josh @LadyS @YGBKM
    Nooooooooo please no.

  170. JoeF says:

    it would cost, grrr. Wish we could edit these posts.

  171. Ladyscarlett says:

    “1. If @FunDude were as whacky as the one whose name must not be mentioned, he would threaten to sue you.”

    I don’t think fundude is anywhere near that whacky, however, I think they both use the blog for their separate agendas, or sounding boards…

    Good call, though…if you write his name, then he will appear….

  172. flyR says:

    FD You missed the point that very rich and very powerful guys often go for the other than the best looking .

    The girl in Teddy’s car was probably a SA 5-7 .

    With Clinton it was not just Monica but others whom he dated, grouped, rapes no 10’s . Yes I am sure there were some 10 let in the back door of the white house

  173. JoeF says:

    @FatB’StardSA
    Oh and a big difference between NYC and S.Valley is that NYC has much better public transport system so from what I have heard much easier to get into work from areas where the living cost is much lower.

  174. JoeF says:

    @KennaKenna
    @Joe as someone who lives in NYC in the present day who makes more than 100k, I can totally understand. 100k does not stretch very far in NYC and forget about living in Manhattan unless you have a rent controlled apartment

    That was what I meant, thank you for putting it in writing better than me.

    @FatB’StardSA
    I might have over done my message a bit making a point to be honest, but my point still stands in the Silicone Vally 100K will not get you far compared to say the mid west.

    As a young SD in my mid 30’s I might have to join you in that lower class.

  175. Josh says:

    @Ladyscarlett

    “Haha, so let’s see….fundude+pimpinSD+probably others=Josh. Josh, how do you do it and work, too? Very talented hehe”

    I guess you missed Sabeen…

    1. If @FunDude were as whacky as the one whose name must not be mentioned, he would threaten to sue you.

    2. A true SD does not “need to” work. Others, including his SBs, work for/on him and he plays. 😉

  176. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Struggle – thanks for the “prayers”

    I’m trying to schedule next meet with one (we have a convenient schedule every couple of weeks). My hope is that we both have enough fun we’ll look for times where we can make it work easier and better! We’ve shared some fantasy, so I think it’ll work well…

    The other contacted a few times over the weekend…she’s more available, and closer…but there’s added planning with accommodation required. We have also shared a bit of fantasy as well as limits and I think we’re going to have some fun.

    STILL no discussion of allowance or support, except to continue being a gentleman…I’ve shared some gifts with both of them, after our second meet, and neither has disappeared…must be a good thing?

    Have a big week this week for business though…and an early start next week…wish I had more time…

  177. JoeF says:

    @MaggieS
    With fear of hurting you feelings, for me no. Sorry

    Thing is that you are a year older than me, and I’m have never been very attracted to Hispanic woman’s to begin with. I mostly go for white, asian or mixed woman’s.

    Had I been 10 year older it might have been different matter. But the wonderful thing is that out might be that 5 or 10 year older guy looking just for you.

    So don’t give up searching whatever you do.

    Ps! Love your new profile.
    PS!!2 Even if we matched, it probably would not have worked out as I a bit of a rolling stone changing countries every 2-3 years and could not provide you with the stability you need.

  178. gtt_envy says:

    Wow Fundude, you went on a rant there.

    Sounds very woman haterish!! you and Josh must have been Frat brothers.

  179. Ladyscarlett says:

    @struggles, will you be taking the Advil or pain pill next time you go, like I mentioned, next time? It is pretty bad, but the good news is that once the hair gets thinner, it does not hurt as much….

  180. Ladyscarlett says:

    @yougottabe…is the stew’s main ingredient beef or dash of misogyny?

    Politicians are in a whole other category, just like Hollywood or entertainment folks. Sometimes, what they offer(power, connections, favors), is more valuable than a strictly monetary allowance. You really cannot lump them all into same category. Also, comparing Bill Clinton or Kissinger to your average seekingarrangement fellow offering practical allowance, is redonkadonkculous.

    Haha, watched a disturbing movie about the casting couch awhile back, called ‘Starry Eyes’…interesting and can very much see the validation of the evil in this analogy.

  181. StruggleIsReal says:

    @YGBKM
    Haaaaai I have missed you. Is your ass a cheeto? Have you seen that cheeto Instagram account. Oh my gosh. It’s so great.

    @ATL
    Something tells me that is not actually your ass. Something just doesn’t sit well with me about that being your heinie. Hehe
    FYI Laser hair removal is like so UBER painful, but the great thing is that once it’s done, it’s done! And you have the rest of the day to be silly high on endorphins!

    @Online
    How are things with the ladies?
    I love ONSD for his diligence. God please grant him some immaculate and fun and deliciously appreciative pussy!

    @FunDude is @Josh.
    Some others probably are too. But who honestly cares? I’ll respond to most of his personalities, most of the time. I’ll keep my crazy all wrapped up in this one bloggie, but it takes nothing from me to address whoever on whatever plane about whatever they are expressing, unless it’s just mind-numbingly redundant. Honestly though, I just am tired of FunDude’s spiel. It’s just the same thing. Over. And over. And over. I don’t even disagree with him on a lot of what he says, but his agenda is fucking played out. Crusty and crackly and shriveled up. LoL

  182. JoeF says:

    Was meant to be in her 50’s woman

  183. KennaKenna says:

    @ONSD I hope you’re right because I have to go to work in the morning.

  184. resop2 says:

    @KennaKenna: I don’t really have an opinion on which bloggers are the same people. If I wanted a sock puppet to play with I wouldn’t give it a personality anywhere close to mine. It would be more fun to argue with it.

    So, I would suspect Sabeenqueen26 rather than FunDude of being Josh’s proxy, but that’s just me.

    On the other hand, it would not surprise me to find out that Josh and FunDude are both members of “NO MA’AM” (a fictional organization on the show Married With Children, the name is an acronym for “National Organization of Men Against Amazon Masterhood”.)

  185. SouthernSB says:

    Holy shit!! $99 dollars for a big hunking Teddy Bear? And you’re suppose to give it to your girlfriend for Valentine’s Day and she’s suppose to love it? Yeah right….you could get a cheap piece of jewelry for that price and it would be more appreciated.

  186. FunDude says:

    Lunch break for me at work:

    @ SouthernSB

    Pierce’s Bronson’s wife was HOT in 1994 when he first met her. He married her in 2001. She got really fat after getting married.

    All this proves is that women get FAT after marriage. This is due to it “being cheaper to keep her”. He didn’t date her looking that way.

    She looked like a 10/10 in 1994. Its a simple google search.

    You haven’t disproven me.

    @ChicagoBaby

    What is your ID on this website?

    @FLYR

    Continuing to make yourself look bad?

    1) Bill Clinton had tons of models on the side. He just banged Monica Lewinsky, never had any “sugar” relationship with her. Billy Boy was banging “sex slave” women through billionaire Epstein. Epstein never had any long term sugar arrangements with this really young women. He just paid them a fee for service type of deal. They didn’t get very high fees either.

    2) Weiner: was trying to fool around with HOT women that were much better looking than his wife. He never paid a high sugar payment for any of these women. Just tried to promise them some jobs or contacts.

    3) Sterling: banging a woman 50 years younger than him in some kind of “sugar” relationship. He bought her some gifts. She then tried to extort him, which didn’t work.

    4) Ted Kennedy: banged most 10/10 sugar babies (mostly escorts). Don’t know of him paying any consistent fee for any long term sugar relationships. Show me evidence of this.

    5) Kissinger: again got hotter, younger women. These were actual dating relationships rather than “sugar” relationships. He might have gotten them gifts, trips, etc but I don’t know of him giving them an actual allowance.

    You keep burying yourself man. Keep trying though lol

    You haven’t provided any evidence contrary to my assertions.

    Now back to work!

  187. Dazed-SD says:

    @yougot,, very nice Bum there woman !

  188. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – you’re probably not “sick” just still recovering from the BLAST that was that celebration after the game! I know after a good concert or ballgame I am usually a bit run down…

  189. @Kenna

    No, you’re not. He sends steamy proxy photos to SexyRock. Apparently his dildo isn’t purple.

  190. SouthernSB says:

    @Kenna-Nope, crazy like that cannot belong to just one person. FunDude and Josh are definitely two different people.

  191. KennaKenna says:

    I must be missing something here.

  192. resop2 says:

    @OnlineNewbieSD: preach it! Another couple things I would add is:

    * If a SB sends you a message but you can see that she never looked at your profile, block immediately.

    * If you are a SB who is fugly and a SB has sent you a message that starts with “hey handsome” then run don’t walk away.

    * If a SB is willing to nice chat with you until you mention the possibility of getting together and then she stops responding (even though she still logs on a lot) then block her profile so that you don’t have to look at her deceitful face.

  193. “Lainey says:
    February 2, 2015 at 10:05 am
    @SouthernSB she WAS a hot piece of ASS and BLEW THE FUCK UP after kids”

    Wow! That is beyond, “I had a kid, and woke up like this.” Whaaat the fuuuuuh happened?!

  194. KennaKenna says:

    Am I the only one who doesn’t think FunDude is Josh’s proxy?

  195. KennaKenna says:

    Back in NY, shitty weather and I am sick.

  196. @scarlet

    Yeah, I just lump ’em into one pot, and slow roast ’em. Proxy stew.

    I suppose they do deserve a decent grade for the effort.

  197. KennaKenna says:

    @FlyR

    You consider Weiner rich? There a difference being rich and being a well known politician.

  198. FlyR says:

    Rich guy SB standards

    The black swans

    Billy Clinton No trailer trash left behind

    Anthony wiener

    Donald sterling

    Ted Kennedy

    The list goes on

    The opposite end of the scale was Henry Kissinger who usually attended events with brilliant women who were also beautiful and very attached to him

    I did not get involved in sugar until after my divorce so I can not relate to the issue directly but from observations of friends and also offline with other sd intellect, attitude, sensuality and niceness more than compensate for the differences between an 8 and a 10 in sustained sugar.

    The 10 will get more calls and probably more relationships but they will often be shorter.

  199. Lainey says:

    @SouthernSB she WAS a hot piece of ASS and BLEW THE FUCK UP after kids

  200. “Chrissy says:
    February 2, 2015 at 8:01 am
    @ygtbkm
    I do not know what is going on in that gravatar but it does not look G rated.”

    “OnlineNewbieSD says:
    February 2, 2015 at 8:03 am
    @Chrissy…look close…it’s the old “squish your head” trick with what looks like a peanut…I had people asking if I was okay with my laughter!”

    “Ohh I thought the bottom was bruised and then there was a deformed phallic object. I was totally confused. I think zooming in had only confused me more.”

    Hahaha!! I chose the PG-13? rating. It’s a fingerling potato. Meat and potatoes rump roast, maybe.

  201. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “@FLYR
    If being an older clown who begs for pussy while being a “white knight” to older and less attractive SBs is being “successful”, then you’re the man.”

    Amen!!!

    AND advising men to so the same would be characteristics of a Pimping Grandpa who peddles SBs on SA. 😉

  202. SouthernSB says:

    @FunDude-Google Keely Shaye Smith, she’s Pierce Brosnan’s current wife.

  203. Ladyscarlett says:

    Haha, so let’s see….fundude+pimpinSD+probably others=Josh. Josh, how do you do it and work, too? Very talented 😉 hehe

  204. “PimpinSD says:
    February 2, 2015 at 8:30 am
    @YGTBKM
    What happened? Did your other gravatar finally jump out that window?”

    No, Daddy. She went to go fuck herself with that nice, firm, purple dildo of yours…just like you taught her. To your guidance, she’ll be forever indebted.

  205. gentleman soul says:

    Hi All ! Been a while since I wasted time on this blog.

    “I know for a fact there are high-profile SDs on here, so let them be on that site, while the average SD can be on here.” Yes ! Both of the guys registering for Perfect Arrangement will have all the SA girls to pick from 1st . When they find out neither picked them as his special baby they will be answering my email offers of $100 /Pop . Just kidding ,$150 to 200 works for almost all. $300 and they are mine .

    @LadyScarlett

    SA is doing well now because it has become overrun with middle class sugar daddies who are not really rich enough to afford this lifestyle, but are pretending and paying their dues each month all the same. And, the ones who would be able to pay the higher fees will be very few and far between, in my opinion…

    I agree! There will be few who will pay (maybe a couple) So us middle class drones will continue to keep most of you babies in Keds and other fancy baubles.

    @Georgia Peach

    I have this “old” body, but my mind keeps trying to tell me I’m back to my wild party girl age of 30 or so.

    Sweetie, you need to register as a Sugar Momma ,not Baby . Some young hot guy would love to get paid to take care of your needs . That’s what we older guys do .

  206. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @resop2 – I COMPLETELY agree…learned it the hard way when I first joined SA…

    Here’s a tip for any new SD profile on SA…if the opening message includes a number to text or another email address, she’s probably not a she (or if she is, she’s probably not looking like the profile you saw!)

  207. resop2 says:

    ^
    The first red flag for scammers: when the first thing they ask you to do is change mode of communication.

    (Changing mode of communication is not by itself suspicious, but run don’t walk away if it is the first thing they say.)

  208. ChicagoBaby says:

    @FunDude, you should email me.

    I am a lot of the things you describe and super cute. Just live downtown Chicago.

    yummychic17 at gmail.com

  209. THEATLSD says:

    @Chrissy
    “That picture would be much better if you would squeeze your ass into those panties.”

    Well thanks to @Struggles and @Englishismy3 laser hair removal tips. The Brazilians finally finished my ass, they went through 3 lasers and 6 tubs of numbing cream. Butt baby its smooooooth.

  210. flyR says:

    “the least successful SD’s are the most strident voices”

    The reference was not to economically unsuccessful, but rather unsuccessful in their SB relationships.

    As yesterday’s superbowl illustrated it is pretty easy to snatch defeat from the jaws (or lips) of victory …….

  211. Chrissy says:

    @ATL
    You should see me driving in DC with all those one way streets 😀 I swear I should just be given diplomatic immunity for being a Swedish pornstar.

    That picture would be much better if you would squeeze your ass into those panties.

  212. PimpinSD says:

    @YGTBKM
    What happened? Did your other gravatar finally jump out that window?

  213. THEATLSD says:

    @Chrissy

    Another blond moment. You should start logging those. Then write a book.

  214. Chrissy says:

    Ohh I thought the bottom was bruised and then there was a deformed phallic object. I was totally confused. I think zooming in had only confused me more.

  215. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Chrissy…look close…it’s the old “squish your head” trick with what looks like a peanut…I had people asking if I was okay with my laughter!

  216. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    I JUST checked to see when my membership runs out again (less than a week!)…on the main page, I saw a new “2-for-1” profile…I had to click to see, for a laugh, and I was NOT disappointed!

    Instead of being a single women…these two are described as “both single college woman”…really…ALWAYS the wrong usage!

    Then, what are they looking for? Paying for rent, car costs, traveling, extra shopping cash, etc. listing desired Expectation as “Practical”

    See, now these TWO obviously understand in this area $3k a month is more than enough for an apartment, entertainment and a functioning vehicle (doesn’t have to be a German import to get around town).

    But, I just LAUGH at the profile…really…really?

  217. Chrissy says:

    @ygtbkm
    I do not know what is going on in that gravatar but it does not look G rated. 😐

  218. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    WOW…blog has been busy! I wonder if SA will make us wait for a new topic for a while, since this is about the new service?

    I think ANY discussion about allowance expectations should be regionally focused, and it should be understood whether the allowance expectation is CASH or CASH+other.

    I’m not a billions SD, but I have experience…all of it Practical or less from an allowance perspective…three relationships over 2.5 years each…it’s a LOT more than money and sex!

    Also, I agree with the comment from @Kenna about “Sugar”…I would MUCH rather have a SB who has her life “together” than someone that continually experiences a train wreck in her life. I understand she might be paycheck-to-paycheck, may even have some debt or other obligations…but…do I think she’s going to use the allowance to BETTER her life, or continue a foolish lifestyle? If it’s the former, I’m all in baby…if it’s the latter, I’m not going to touch it!

    I agree with @Sexy, if I ask SB to step away from work, I would expect to cover her lost wages (but let’s make sure we understand the difference between pay and take home)…just as if I’m asking SB to get a sitter for kid(s), I would expect to cover any added costs for that…AND…if I’m asking SB to attend a specific function with me, I would expect to cover the cost of prep work (hair, nails, massage, etc.), attire, transportation, etc.

    The “QUALITY” SB knows how to optimize the situation early in the arrangement, making sure NOT to take advantage of the SD…showing appreciation for the added parts of the arrangement…helping the SD understand she’s WORTH MORE than what she is getting from the allowance. All of this helps the SD find other ways to show appreciation toward the SB!

  219. heather says:

    Finally profile approved

  220. @Chrissy

    Bahahaha! But plugs seem scary, but don’t tempt me! I should probably allow Lainey the honor, though ;p.

    K, Chrissy. Give me a min 😉

  221. Speaking of booty avatars…

    @Ladies

    Super hot!

    @ATL

    I died.

    @Josh

    I died twice, and people were VERY concerned that I was still laughing. Yes, dear…that IS why they were concerned.

  222. Chrissy says:

    @Y
    I cannot wait to see it! Does it involve butt plugs!?

  223. “THEATLSD says:
    February 2, 2015 at 5:09 am
    @Y

    How many cups of coffee you had this morning??”

    I don’t drink coffee. I’m high on FunGuy (fungi?). Not sure.

    @all

    Do you think you can handle my ass pic? Let me know when you’re ready 😉

  224. MaggieS says:

    @JoeF: do you consider someone like me an 8?

  225. KennaKenna says:

    @Joe as someone who lives in NYC in the present day who makes more than 100k, I can totally understand. 100k does not stretch very far in NYC and forget about living in Manhattan unless you have a rent controlled apartment.

    But on the other hand, one of my friends live in Houston, makes less than me and is living in the best apartment building there and having the time of her life.

    It all comes down to location.

  226. KennaKenna says:

    @SirMix thank you :-). Why do you say that though?

  227. FatB'StardSA says:

    A few comments:

    I have lived in Silicon Valley and NYC (Manhattan). While I am lower class of person than most on the blog anyone who thinks you will have to live in your car in either city with a 100K/year salary is a retard.

    A hair dresser/makeup artist can make as much money as the SD’s posting on the blog.

  228. JoeF says:

    @FunDude

    What I meant was 19-20 year old students that live in small towns with few high end SD; the hairdressers, makeup artists and secretaries often tend to be older even if they are still pretty and some live in areas where there are more high end SD. Also I tend to search in Europe these days so much less BBW’s, even if the Euro girls seem to be catching up.

    Personally I would take (and have done so in the past) a plain jane with a very slim body over a BBW any day, so can’t comment on 30 million dudes unless they have a fetish for that kind of girl.

    Agree that a lot of high net individuals are quite frugal even if the sales of things like exotic cars and smaller yachts does point in the other direction for some of them, drop that high end exotic and drive a Tesla or Mercedes E or S class or a BMW 5 or 7 series and use the money saved and make a arrangement on the low moderate/high practical level. What do you think will leave said millionaire with the best memories after 5 years?

    But look at it this way moderate is 0,1% to 0,2% of 30m a year. If capital gains on 30m over a 5 or 10 year average prospective does not cover that plus living expenses, inflation and some increase in their net worth than they should probably look in the their investment strategy. Or a to big part of you assets are tied up in your primary residence.

    I agree that a lot high net worth people probably spread money around several girls for shorter periods. Hence my question to you last night “Wonder how many of the moderate or substantial, not to mention high really are escorts? Or at least high end pay per meetings girls?” Since they probably only have a SD for part of the year, their actual yearly take home for sugaring is much lower. But it does create the myth among new SB that are not exceptional that they too can demand moderate and up and be in long term SD/SB arrangement.

    To quote you: To get a longer term relationship with a rich man, you need to be A plus in looks and pedigree for the vast majority.
    So on the low end of moderate probably a least an 8 with/or working on a graduate degree in a difficult academic subject/or attending an Ivy league school if in the US? As for high perfect 10 med school student/Ivy League MBA or LAW?

  229. MaggieS says:

    @yougottabekiddingme: mmmm… I would love to meet @Sir… he gets my attention :)
    @FunDude: I already told you what I think about you sweetie, but here there are some kisses for your day :* :* :* :* :* :* :*

  230. THEATLSD says:

    @Y

    How many cups of coffee you had this morning?? 😉

  231. Because…

    He’s “Her man”, of course.

    [cheers]
    Pee Wee, Pee Wee he’s her man. If he can’t lift it, no one can! 😀

  232. “FunDude says:
    January 31, 2015 at 12:20 pm
    @FLYR and Josh

    LOL FLYR isn’ a “pimp” unless that is by definition some pussy mangina that tries to be “sensitive” in getting women.

    Getting advice from FLYR on attaining women is the same as asking Pee Wee Herman how to lift weights.

    Not logical.”

    Anyone with a brain the size of ant droppings knows that Pee Wee Herman lifts weights with his peewee.

  233. “FunDude says:
    February 2, 2015 at 4:34 am
    Ok got to get to work! Freaking snow is bad!

    Be back later. This blog is very amusing to me!

    yougottabekiddingme says:
    February 2, 2015 at 4:34 am
    Pimps aren’t awake at this hour. Go to work, Josh.”

    Damn, I’m good.

  234. You know what I’m thinking, FunDude?

    I’m thinking that if you deflate about a pound of air from each of your balls (how many do you have?), you just might get better catches.

  235. Pimps aren’t awake at this hour. Go to work, Josh.

  236. FunDude says:

    Ok got to get to work! Freaking snow is bad!

    Be back later. This blog is very amusing to me!

  237. FunDude says:

    @Joe

    Many of these women are over 35 hairdressers with average to BBW physiques. A 19-20 year old hairdresser would be a significant UPGRADE.

    Also, most men with 30 million dollars don’t just throw their money around. How do you think they became worth so much? Unless they have an inheritance, they are usually quite frugal.

    Furthermore, they usually “spread” the money around getting multiple younger hotties to have fun with for short periods of time.

    To get a longer term relationship with a rich man, you need to be A plus in looks and pedigree for the vast majority.

    How many 30 million dudes are going for 35 plus year old BBWs? Come on, lets be realistic here.

  238. PimpinSD says:

    @YGTBKM
    Well look who’s back on the streets of the blog. Were you released on your won recognizance?

  239. JoeF says:

    @Sabeenqueen26
    I would agree with you if the this site was called seeking Silicon wally/NYC banker/London City banker or Swiss banker or even Texas oil millionaire.

    The name of the site is Seekingarrangment not Seeking millionaire.

    This site has gone first national and now international yet have kept the expectation levels of the areas above, where Moderate truly is just that.

    You can earn 100K a year in NYC and live miserably or in the Silicon Wally and live in the back of your car unless you are willing to commute for several hours each way. Yet in other areas of the US that would be a very high income just like FunDude said and the people with 30milions are few on the grounds, and that does not even begin to cover the rest of the world where there are areas where 100K goes a long way indeed.

    So if you Sabeenqueen26 live in a high net worth area close to your SD and have model or near model looks and are a graduate student then you probably deserve the moderate rates that SA list today and are a exceptional SB like a number of the ladies that post on this blog, the problem are all the high school level educated hairdressers, makeup artists, secretaries and 19-20 year old students that live in small towns and want that kind of money for a meeting a week just because they were the pretties girl in their high school class.

    What I was trying to say late last night (I live in Europe, not the US so might have been a bit sleep deprived when writing it) was that by keeping the expectation levels so high now that site has gone global is that they create unrealistic expectations for new SB joining up outside areas with a lot of millionaires.

    If I lived in a high net worth area and had 30 million and a lot of liquid capital I would see no problem with giving a high end SB (ladies like Kena, StruggleIsReal and possibly yourself comes to mind) in the same area moderate or higher monthly if it involved several meeting a week as their living expense in those kind of areas are high. But I live in a semi rural area and meeting an SB involves traveling on my or her part and not something that happens every day or even weekend, so yes I think the expectation levels are wrong for wast number of members of this site both SD and SB.

    Sorry this post got a bit longer than I meant, just venting from a non US based perspective.

  240. @Sir

    I love you back, SirSmooches. Kenna and Maggie have my blessings to royally rock your world ;).

    “FlyR says:

    Thus the peanut butter economics turn to jelly in the sunlight”

    Fuck me raw, please.

    “attired in an ebola suit lest one molecule of femininity come in contact with his body”

    Baah!!!

    “FunFude says:

    [Girls have cooties.]”

    “Josh says:

    [Girls have cooties.]”

    Hehe.

    “FunDude says:
    February 2, 2015 at 3:39 am
    @Sabeen

    I have shown my profile ID to multiple people on this website. You are anonymous without any evidence of your assertions.

    Therefore, your opinion is meaningless and will be ignored by me until I see any evidence for your claims.

    You give off the vibe of a phony”

    First, I thought Sabeen wrote this, and I was all, “Right on, girlie.” Then, I realized FunDude wrote it, and I was all, “WhyUtalkinToYourself? WhyUtalkinToYourself?” Lol.

    Ergo

  241. gtt_envy says:

    @Fundude, I’ve rarely found that to be true. Point taken though :)

    Best of luck in yours as well!!

  242. FunDude says:

    The sugar baby/sugar daddy “relationship” at the Superbowl has once again confirmed my assessment.

    Despite manginas opinions such as FLYR, look at some real life sugar relationships.

    The owner of the NE Patriots is 74 with a 34 year old SUPERMODEL for his “sugar baby”. She appears quite accomplished as well.

    Ergo, the arrangement falls well within my statistical analysis parameters.

    When FLYR can show me some rich dude dating a BBW or woman very close to his age that is average in a “sugar” relationship, please let me know.

    So far, all my analyses are almost ALWAYS confirmed. Look at any of the Hollywood ones where the older guys look at younger women.

    I have yet to see a real life “sugar relationship” where a rich guy goes for a BBW or much older woman. I am sure there are rare exceptions to the rule but they are called “exceptions” for a reason.

  243. FunDude says:

    @Sabeen

    I have shown my profile ID to multiple people on this website. You are anonymous without any evidence of your assertions.

    Therefore, your opinion is meaningless and will be ignored by me until I see any evidence for your claims.

    You give off the vibe of a phony

    @FLYR

    Your statistical analysis was moronic and added nothing of intelligence to the conversation. If you have a problem with my analysis, show me the error in my analysis.

    Don’t understand how it added to the conversation besides attempting to pretend that “unsuccessful SDs” appear to blog more?

    If being an older clown who begs for pussy while being a “white knight” to older and less attractive SBs is being “successful”, then you’re the man.

    It all depends on how you define “success”.

    And yes FLYR, if someone comes onto this blog and claims she gets “at least moderate” allowances from very rich men, I will want to see her ID for confirmation. There are tons of phonies on this website whose validity can’t be trusted without verification.

    @GTT

    If you want to give some woman 500 dollars before meeting her, more power to you. Makes you look like some desperate pussy she can take advantage of.

  244. @Kenna you are wise beyond your years. 😉

  245. flyR says:

    Sexy Rockstar

    Let me don my Joshian dunce cap for a moment and remind you that one of the three days should be thought of as a day off unless you are tied up in the dungeon . They all three count

    But leaving that irrelevancy behind let’s address our professional statisticians / amateur SD’s . There are roughly 300 million people in the country of which about 150 million are male. Perhaps 90 million of them are over 21. Of the 90 million males perhaps 100,000 are “on” SA . I apologize the the other former Brit colonies and the motherland for taking the analysis US centric. However, I believe that other than the Armenian Mafia scams SA is pretty USA centric. However , looked at on a worldwide basis what follows is actually an understatement

    That’s a pretty exclusive group. Without knowing something about the demographics of the SA male community it is hopeless to assign the demographics of 150 million to say 100,000. Brandon would have you believe that the SD in the upper right corner of the distribution.

    Thus the peanut butter economics turn to jelly in the sunlight

    It is ironic that the most strident voices here are the least successful SD’s. Demanding that you display your profile if you dare to challenge them . What ever happened to civil discourse.

    I’m also reminded of my summers flyfishing in Oregon. It’s not uncommon to encounter grossly over equipped visitors, huddled beside their rental cars or SUV’s whining about the lack of fish . With their $2,000 Orvis packages of gear they have struck out . The next door neighbor has a mess of healthy trout. If they had asked he would have shared the secret of trout fishing and sugar.

    You have to think like a trout. It’s sunrise and the trout is hungry, what do you want for breakfast and where do you expect to find it. Then you put that fly on your line and quietly drift it into the right place and it works.

    Sexy’s a pretty good example . She’s ok with drummer contributing whatever he can because he makes up for it in other ways. Another potential SD chasing her like a NY attorney chasing an ambulance, attired in an ebola suit lest one molecule of femininity come in contact with his body and negotiating from a posture of arrogance and it’s all about the money is probably not going to get very far unless the economics are simply overwhelming and even that is not guaranteed.

    Ironically a polite, thoughtful note to someone who professes a don’t write unless you are in an X range often brings back an of course I would be interested in a gentleman in the practical range, I just set the range high to discourage assholes.

    But make no mistake there are a lot of women of SA receiving substantial and greater allowances from grateful SD ( not me) despite their being over 30 and not the perfect 10 physically . What they do have is class and comfortable sensuality.

    One of the things that’s ironic here is that the most frequent posters are generally the least successful SD’s for a variety of reasons. Some who have been here for a while might remember Jack the MD, real estate investor and author. Low profile, focused and very happy so advance $10,000 for a weekend with someone he liked.

    I forgot her name but the AA SB from Texas who attracted very generous SD based on her multiple levels of attractiveness. The original Midwast who also had several very generous SD’s .

    In some ways it is like having consumers of Boones Farm wines trying to seak for the universe of wine drinkers.

    GTT I would not get your self so wound up in this. Remember that a lot of women get dumped early . Talk to her. If you feel comfortable, agree to give her notice or “severance” if you change your mind in exchange for exclusivity.

    Their levels of sugar are well above the average college student’s

  246. KennaKenna says:

    Sexy*

    Typing on phone after drinking all day= a lot of typos!

  247. FatB'StardSA says:

    @gtt_envy

    “I’m very selective……and that is my weakness once in my sights that’s the one I want. It’s not about finding another it’s about getting that particular one.”

    You know this SB is not going to be exclusive. If she is the one you want then learn to live with her seeing other SD’s at the same time, but don’t bitch about your situation later and pretend like you never saw it coming.

  248. KennaKenna says:

    @Sext

    Hahaha!

  249. sexyrockstar says:

    @fat
    If you make the girl feel like you “really care about her”, chances are she will be honest.

    @sabeen
    We’ve only had three dates and we are in love. I’m pregnant. It escalated quickly.

  250. gtt_envy says:

    @Fatty, you know as well as I it’s easy to find younger women to bang.

    I’m very selective……and that is my weakness once in my sights that’s the one I want. It’s not about finding another it’s about getting that particular one.

    I hear us principle is principle.

  251. FatB'StardSA says:

    @gtt_envy

    On second thought maybe you should take the blog SB’s advice. @Lainey makes a good point here:

    “@gtt_envy that’s not really fair. I don’t even meet SDs on SA but had to log in daily just to read my messages. She may be doing the same and not interested in many that contact her.”

    Your SB is just logging in to read her messages from POT SD’s describing how they want her to shit on them. You want your SB to get mentoring don’t you?

  252. FatB'StardSA says:

    @SexyRockstar

    “talk to her about it. Don’t be rude, and if you come off as
    “I want to make YOU happy, what am I doing wrong?””

    You should put this into your comedy routine.

  253. FatB'StardSA says:

    @gtt_envy

    “@Lainey, well I disagree. $$$$ changed hands she received a spa day egift $230 and $400 via PayPal before we met.”

    She assumes you are desperate for pussy and she figures she might as well look for another whale.

    “Planning a much bigger 2nd date…..so now feel iffy about it all.”

    You have confirmed you are desperate for pussy.

    Why you have not kicked this bitch to the curb is beyond me. Then again you are looking for advice from the blog SB’s

  254. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    Oh ok, understood resop. Got it.

  255. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    Kenna not at this point. No. But we have been together awhile.

  256. KennaKenna says:

    @Sabern if your SD told you he hit a rough patch and couldn’t give you your allowance for a month or two, would you end it?

  257. resop2 says:

    @Sabeenqueen26: There’s a reason why I didn’t pick up on the fact that you were being sarcastic: SB’s come on the blog on a very regular basis (at least 2-3 a week) asking for help on their profile. They usually get pretty good advise from many of the SD’s on the blog. (They don’t always appreciate or use the advise, but that’s life.)

    However, I have not seen any SD’s come on and ask SB’s to help them with their profiles. (If their have been, I am sorry I forgot them.) So, offering to help SD’s with their profiles is not likely to get any takers.

    (I myself have from time to time asked about various things to put into my profile, but I have not posted my id.)

  258. gtt_envy says:

    It’s all about communication and screening.

  259. gtt_envy says:

    Yes, only 2-3 times though over 5 years.

  260. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    Sexy rockstar developing feelings for someone after you have been together awhile is different. Am not sure how long u guys have been together but if he acted like he didn’t want to gift much, when u first met him then that is different story. I have had something similar happen to me before. It started out as sugar daddy but then he became a more serious thing and a very generous boyfriend.

  261. SexyRockstar says:

    @gtt

    Have you ever had an SB take that money and run?

  262. gtt_envy says:

    Yes, Fundude and I always do! I’ve been on the site for years and regardless of what this blog deems normal the normal is most guys are full of sh$t on the site.

    I talk everything before even meeting allowance, dates, expectations, hobbies, schedules, sex,we Skype or swap many pics,and then the meet is only to prove we are who we say we and personalities.

    A couple hundred to prove I’m not a pos endless emailer, pic boarder, or catfish is fine with me.

    We all do it different :)

  263. SexyRockstar says:

    @Sabeen
    If my SD wanted a legit relationship, no sugar. I’d stay. But, we broke rule number 1 of sugar: DO NOT FALL IN LOVE.

    whoops.

  264. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    Kenna, u make a good point. U are right. When I said needs, did not mean to equate that to literal sense. My lifestyle desire and needs, along with the mentor sugar daddy, I have now. I like having a sugar daddy that can be a mentor and guide. I have a job and am educated, whatever that is worth, since what I do for my career is outside of my two degrees right now, but sugar is not my only income. I really care about my sugar daddy but would not be with him if he was offering me $1,000 per month or pay per meet. Am sorry but only being honest. I responded earlier because of the guy who wanted to lower seekingarrangement allowances to $500 and $1,000 per month as average.

  265. resop2 says:

    Depressing statistics:

    I did a completely open search on a 25 mile radius from where I live. There are only 26 SB’s who have logged in the last week.

    I think there are only three types of SB’s on the site:

    1) One’s who tried the site, got hundreds of booty calls, and decided to leave the site. SB’s who have not logged in the last three weeks almost certainly fall into the category and probably 90% of the SB’s who have not logged in the last 1-2 weeks fall into this category.

    2) SB’s who are always online. These SB’s tend to be really picky and believe that at any moment a handsome prince is going to rescue them from their trailer park.

    3) Fresh meat. SB’s who have created a profile in the last seven days. Of the three categories, these SB’s are the ones most likely to return your messages, but will usually disappear quickly.

  266. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    I think all the statistical analysis fundude has done with seekingarrangement is why he has had so many successful arrangements.(That was sarcasm again)

  267. KennaKenna says:

    @Sabeen what do you consider your needs?

    A good SB has her needs taken care of on her own but uses sugardating for her WANTS! You may doubt it but most affluent SDs like women who have their shit together, and WANTS them not NEEDS them!

  268. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    I guess sarcasm is lost in translation on here sometimes. ‘Sigh’

  269. Lainey says:

    @FunDude you can’t use statistics to gauge what EVERY man likes. You missed my point ENTIRELY.

  270. resop2 says:

    @Sabeenqueen26: the sound of SD’s who want to hear your advice:

    crickets chirping

  271. SexyRockstar says:

    @Sabeen

    click on your profile. go to the url. you will see
    member/THISPARTISYOURPROFILEID/view

  272. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    Fundude, u never answered my question. Have you ever had an arrangement before?

  273. SexyRockstar says:

    …heh..
    “ssOOoo wut do I gotz ta do to be uh go0d sugaahhh babbii”


    <<_<>_>>

    “you better work bitch”
    -Britney Spears

  274. resop2 says:

    @FunDude: I think the gift tax kicks in at $14K, not $13K. However, yeah the tax implications are crazy for some girl who wants $10K a month.

  275. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    I am not all about the money, Kenna, but mentioned above that a long-term arrangement is multi faceted and requires more than just looks or just money. It is about a connection but I am not here to date a man who cannot meet my needs either.

    Ah, okay, so I have to tell you and show pictures of who I am to have you believe me, fundude and Josh? How about you boys post your IDs first then I will follow. I might even be able to help you guys out 😉

  276. SexyRockstar says:

    @gtt
    talk to her about it. Don’t be rude, and if you come off as
    “I want to make YOU happy, what am I doing wrong?”
    This will make her be honest. If she says she wants more money, then tell her to go fuck off. LOL. Until she can be trust-worthy, she won’t get more then what the two of you already agreed on.

    So, it will either be that, or she will tell you something, like the reason why I log on:
    –I enjoy seeing the men my profile attracts and then message me. I love these funny moments, LOOK at this message ((as I read how some guy wants to bang my eye socket or something stupid like that))
    –It is honestly an ego boost. You look at other women when I am not around, I can look at the men that want me.
    –Because I message my blog friends. Done and done.

  277. FunDude says:

    Night people.

    The real SDs and real SBs keep up the good work. Have fun and don’t stay up too late after Super Bowl

  278. FunDude says:

    @GTT

    Hitting the sack but shocked when I read your comment lol.

    You gave her money before you even met? WTF is that?

  279. FunDude says:

    Ok got to get to bed people. Got to get to work in the AM.

    Have a good night everyone.

  280. gtt_envy says:

    @Lainey, well I disagree. $$$$ changed hands she received a spa day egift $230 and $400 via PayPal before we met. The date was $500 and now a weekly allowance.

    We already talked the importance of exclusivity in the sugar world, stds, multiple partners aside from a significant other, seemed good.

    To continue to log in and change your profile pic seems Luke actively searching. Which kills all interest for me.

  281. FunDude says:

    @Sabeen

    Multiple people on this blog already have my profile. I am not afraid to post my info. You are the one who is afraid because we can all tell you are FULL OF SHIT

  282. resop2 says:

    What I want to know is did the player that won the super bowl drive off in a Hyundai?

  283. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    The gift tax over 13K is like a double taxation. Its crazy how much money it would cost a SD to gift over 13K in pre tax money.

  284. FunDude says:

    @Sexy

    LOL good point

    @Sabeen

    Josh already called you out on your ID. You will lose all credibility if you don’t post it. I want to see the female that gets men who have 30 million dollar net assets.

    @ Resop2

    There are tons of fake and unimpressive SB profiles on SA? NO WAY!! You must be making that shit up.

  285. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    Haha, so true sexy rockstar. Some of these guys just are clueless you know. They don’t have much luck in real life and like to argue on the internet, I guess?

    What income bracket are you in, fundude? Post your profile so we can see your looks and income, and us girls will tell you why you haven’t had an arrangement yet. Why are you on this blog? Just to argue with the girls? U seem like that type. More power to u if that is the case.

    Yes Gregg for long term you share what many sugar daddies want. Good looks and a good personality. But for long term there has to be more than just the looks.

  286. KennaKenna says:

    Funny fact- my SD had “Practical ” as his budget, but in time I’ve transitioned to what is considered a “High” allowance.

    Great SBs aren’t all concerned about the money like you @Sabeen!

    @FunDude yes most SBs don’t quite understand that you can’t move tons of cash without IRS knowing and being taxed. A lot of SDs have money but it’s alot easier for them to buy you a 5000 Chanel purse than give you 3000 wire transfer. I hate to agree with you but yes, I’ve run into that problem before. One of the ways around this is having SD pay you as if you were an employee.

    Another thing is I found some men would rather buy you something nice than give you the cash(maybe fear of you spending it on another man). My last SD bought me close to 100k in purses but would have never gave me that cash.

  287. SexyRockstar says:

    @Gregg
    please read my math breakdown.

    post your profile ID. Maybe you come off creepy as balls in your profile/messages

  288. SexyRockstar says:

    @Sabeen
    I know @FunDude, semi in real life. Us Sugar people gotta connect. Because…our “basic bitch” friend just would not understand. HAHAHA.

    He means no harm. He’s a cutie pie and young with a great job. He just doesn’t want a nagging girlfriend. And, trying to pick up drunk girls are annoying. I mean, have you ever tried picking up a chick when she is laying on the floor? Girls get reallllyyy heavy. HAHA.

    OOooohhhh, I am so sad over the fucking Seahawks loosing. Congrats @Kenna.

  289. Josh says:

    There was one chitchat girl here few weeks ago. Now we have a blahblah. :(

  290. resop2 says:

    @gregg: If you have a ton of money, are young and hot, live near a very populous city, and are willing to sort through a ton of SB profiles that are 100% fake then it is possible to achieve your objectives.

    However, if you live in a sparsely populated area and don’t like long distance relationships, it will be much harder.

    If you are older and not a male super model, then it will be harder.

    If you cannot afford at least $3000 a month, then it will be harder.

    If looking at 100’s of profiles of girls who are in “collage” who don’t want to say how many kids they have (or how many baby daddies) and are lying about their age and weight by a lot; if all this bores you, then it will be harder.

  291. gregg says:

    I am 37 so not super young but no super creepy old. Personality is more important that looks. I would take a 7 over a 10 if she had the right personality. I am average in looks ( people say I look like prince William but with hair). I am very observant at first as I believe being calm and collected leads to sound judgement. I do however like to travel and do sweet things on a whim.

  292. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    How would you know what level I am in. Why are you on this blog? Just to argue with the girls? U seem like that type. More power to u if that is the case.

    I see you problem. You assume I am not worth 30 million gentleman. You must be so wise to know all this. It will keep me up all night but will try and get over what you think 😉

    Agree with the sexy rockstar. That was my point above when I posted. The sugar daddies I have want to take care of me and keep me in a lavish lifestyle. They want to take care of my financial needs and have assisted with schooling and teaching me some about business, which is priceless. They are not doing formulas of my looks to allowance ratio. They want me for the package or they would and could get a hotter girl, I am sure. We have great connections and care about each other. If it were only looks then he would get bored, anyway. There has to be more and that in a long term sugar relationship, I think. We really want to improve each other’s lives. You are right sexy, fundude needs to stick with the quick bangs.

  293. Josh says:

    @Sabeenqueen26

    The more you continue your blah blah blah blah without posting your id, the more you will continue to lose your credibility, if there was some to start off with. 😉

  294. SexyRockstar says:

    @Gregg
    Think of it this way. Lets say ((for easy math shit)) I make 700 dollars a week at my job.
    So, if I work everyday, like those in the service industry, I make 100 a day.

    You want to take me to some lovely place. I live paycheck to paycheck. Will you provide me money that I now lose due to not working?

    So, against (easy math) you want Friday-Sunday trip to Vegas. Thats 3 days of missed work. Thats 300 dollars. Vegas is fun, but living to paycheck to paycheck…missing 300 sucks.

    So, there are, normally, 4 weeks in a month. 4 weekends. 300x’s4 (3 days, each weekend)
    That is 1,200 a month.

    Can you provide all travel expenses for a SB, PLUS, a minimum of 1,200 a month? Then, sure, you can find someone…
    …if you find a cheap SB who only wants a 1,200 a month allowance
    😉

  295. FunDude says:

    @Sabeen

    Post your ID. Talk is very cheap. I think all the SDs on here are curious to see how you are able to “achieve” such high allowances.

    Maybe we’ll be in awe of your greatness lol

  296. FunDude says:

    @Sexy

    You sound like you have a good arrangement then.

    I am speaking about the unrealistic expectations of a large segment of SBs on this website.

    If a woman falls into the top category of SBs, she has nothing to worry about.

  297. SexyRockstar says:

    @gregg
    Be prepared for a few things:
    -are you old..like, old?
    -are you only looking for a certain type of girl (blonde,brunette, red head…skinny, curvy, ext ext)
    -can you provide all travel expenses PLUS give the SB a cash allowance (you know, in order to travel, we gotta take off work. Thats loss of money)
    -are you attractive
    -do you have a personality?

  298. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    Agree with the sexy rockstar. That was my point above when I posted. The sugar daddies I have want to take care of me and keep me in a lavish lifestyle. They want to take care of my financial needs and have assisted with schooling and teaching me some about business, which is priceless. They are not doing formulas of my looks to allowance ratio. They want me for the package or they would and could get a hotter girl, I am sure. We have great connections and care about each other. If it were only looks then he would get bored, anyway. There has to be more and that in a long term sugar relationship, I think. We really want to improve each other’s lives. You are right sexy, fundude needs to stick with the quick bangs.

  299. FunDude says:

    @ Sabeen

    Why would a man with a 30 million net worth be even looking at you? A 30 million net worth is in the top .01% asset category in the USA.

    Are you in the top .01% level of women? I highly doubt it.

    Using “shaming” language about who is a “real sugar daddy” doesn’t negate my assessment.

    Your problem remains the statistical improbability of attaining such an arrangement. Considering you are unlikely to fall into the top .1% of women, you won’t achieve this.

    I know mathematics (like all hard sciences) are like a foreign language to you due to your low cognitive capacity, however, if you have even a modicum of logical ability, you will realize my assessment is accurate.

    Due to your low cognitive capacity, I believe it will be a dubious proposition to attempt to “explain” this further to you. Therefore, I am speaking to the other SDs and SBs who have the ability to assess the veracity of my arguments.

  300. SexyRockstar says:

    @FunDude

    There are all types of men who claim to be Sugar Daddies, as well as girls claiming to be Sugar Babies.

    Drummers “income” really doesn’t mean much. It’s his disposable income. If he runs out of that, then he can no longer “sugar” me. But as I mentioned. I could care less if he can’t give me, finically, what I want.

    He gives me everything I NEED.

  301. resop2 says:

    @Sabeenqueen26: I don’t see what the problem is.

    Yes, there are SD’s on the site that cannot afford a “quality” SB.

    Yes, there are SB’s on the site that few would consider quality.

    If this site was only for quality SB’s and the SD’s who could afford them then there would be 99% fewer people on the site and Brandon would be sleeping outside in a cardboard box.

    Now, the non-quality SB’s might not like the fact that the non-billionaire SD’s are only offering to pay for dinner and kick in babysitting money, but even if all of the non-billionaire SD’s left the site, all that will do for the non-quality SB’s is cut down their message traffic to zero.

    And, if all the non-quality SB’s left the site then the non-billionaire SD’s would also leave the site since there would only be maybe 15 SB’s on the site and all of them would have maximal expectations.

    So, we are stuck with non-quality SB’s and cheap-ass SD’s. That’s the way it is. There is no reason why good matches can’t come from this, that is if the non-quality SB’s wake up and realize that they are not fairy princesses and there are 8 SB’s for each SD so unless they are in the top 12.5% they are stuck without even getting the cheep-ass SD’s.

    My personal theory is that at least 80% of the ladies on the site come in with unrealistic expectations and leave and never come back after a week or so. I don’t really blame them when the first 100 messages they get are booty calls from the broke.

  302. gregg says:

    Hello everyone,

    I am trying this site out and wondering how successful have SDs been on here? I would like SB to travel with, dine out at nice places with, and would like things to be intimate. Are these unreal expectations?

  303. Josh says:

    @Sabeenqueen26

    Sweetheart, you may be getting $10,000 per month. More power to you.

    Post your id and we will know what you may be getting. Profiles don’t lie. 😉

  304. SexyRockstar says:

    And babe, love you, but maybe these girls can’t stand your attitude.

    Making women feel like shit is the quickest way for them to be like “fine, sleep with me but I am staying on my back the whole time, and hand me a crappy allowance just to get this over with”

  305. FunDude says:

    @Sexy

    I am speaking statistics for analysis. Since all behavior that is “generalized” requires statistical parameters to define the general metrics, there will always be EXCEPTIONS.

    Ergo, the bell curve with standard deviation parameters. Most people will fall within 2 to 3 standard deviations of the bell curve (95-99%).

    I am showing the difficulty that will be experienced in attaining significant “sugar” values.

    Even 1-3K is a difficult proposition, forget about “moderate” to “substantial”.

    If you can disprove my assertion, you are free to do so. There will always be exceptions.

    However, most life choices must be done with an eye towards probabilities.

    I can’t go through life expecting to win the lottery or become an A list movie star as my “career option”

  306. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    I agree with Lainey and that of .1% not being accurate and your assessment of a charge. Are you calling sugar baby’s allowances charges?

    You assume what u think should be is. Also moderate is not just $5,000. It is $3,000-$5,000.

    English is not my first language and am on my phone which is hard to type correctly sometimes.

    Who cares what you believe? If $3,000 makes you freak out so much then u are not a sugar daddy I would even look at, or bother responding to. That is what he might spend on my purse or outfit, so go figure. How many arrangements have u had, fundude? Sounds like not any, and I understand why.

    You think a man with 30 million or more net worth has a problem with giving a sugar baby $3,000 in cash? Don’t you know they have tax accountants and attorneys? One even help set me up my own side business, while in grad school so it was a business expense, anyway. Clueless man

  307. Lainey says:

    @gtt_envy one date regardless of what you spoke of does not warrant exclusivity, give her the benefit of the doubt. SBs need options because nothing is guaranteed in sugar. After the 3rd date and ONLY after allowance is in FULL effect, express your wishes. If she doesn’t agree, move on!

  308. FunDude says:

    @ Lainey

    Unfortunately, most income data shows family (joint) income parameters. It also gives an “average” salary for the top 1%, which artificially skews up the actual cut off point.

    If a few people earn 1 billion dollars in the top 1%, the will increase the avg income of the top 1% figure.

    Therefore, a “cut off” per capita income number is needed to determine the actual inclusion into the top 1% per capita.

    250K/year is within the top 2% of family incomes (>200K/ per capita is approximately the 2% cut off).

    So the 1% cut off per capita is around 300K or so. This income often includes capital gains, dividends, etc. that can fluctuate significantly year to year. So people who were previously 1% can drop to 5% or so depending on market fluctuations.

  309. SexyRockstar says:

    @FunDude
    You are looking for a quick bang, not a sugar baby. You haven’t allowed yourself to emotionally connect with someone enough to care about them in order to help them.

    Thats the sugar lifestyle. Finding someone you WANT to help and you WANT to have a connection with. As i said before:
    There will always be hotter women. There will always be a richer man. It’s the bond between TWO people, in a “mutually-benefical relationship” that holds everything together.

    Like I said man, I love you, but the sugar life isn’t for you. You have yet talked about how nice ANY of the girls you met, things that made you actually like them.

  310. sexyrockstar says:

    @gtt
    It was one date. You two are not in an arrangement.
    Honestly, 3 weeks before a first date? Of course she is looking. It comes off as that you may not have the time as she would like for her.

  311. Lainey says:

    @FunDude “top .1%” is not really true. Like @Kenna said, I may not be a 10, but I’m SOMEBODY’S 10!

  312. FunDude says:

    Analysis of “Moderate” Income”

    Moderate income= 5000/month of post tax money. 60K per year in total.

    Problems include:

    1) Significant Gift Tax Costs over 13K. Sugar Daddy is double taxed. He can’t just hand you 5000/month without the IRS noticing

    2) Sugar Daddy Requires income of at least 300K/year with minimal external financial obligations to “afford” this level of obligation.

    Percentages of males who make >300K/year (especially under 50) is significantly below 1% of the male population.

    Ergo, you would require being in the 0.5% to 0.1% of females in the overall population to justify such a high charge.

  313. FunDude says:

    @FLY R

    My statements about salaries are pretty accurate, even in mid sized cities.

    Between SS, Medicare Taxes, Federal, State and Local Taxes.

    Obama has bumped up marginal taxes even further with also increased Dividend and Capital Gains taxes.

    Unless you are making money through mostly capital gains or dividends, you will be taxed at approximately 50% at the upper income levels.

  314. FunDude says:

    @Sabeen

    You sound almost illiterate. I highly doubt anyone is paying you even 1-3K/month.

    Post your ID. Prove your assertion. I am highly skeptical of your proclamation of getting at least “moderate”.

    A woman who gets “at least moderate” would be in the top .1% of women in terms of looks in the overall society.

  315. flyR says:

    gtt why iffy I missed something

  316. Josh says:

    @Sabeenqueen26

    Cause and effect is lost on women, especially in the romantish arena.

    The point made by other blogger(s) was not that EVERY SB should get lower allowance. The point made was that only 1-3% deserve top allowances. The rest need to adjust their expectations downwards.

    We know why few SBs who post here get what they get…more power to them.

    Unless you post your profile id, the allowance you are allegedly getting is just that…alleged.

  317. gtt_envy says:

    @Lainey, talked for 3 weeks, 1 date, talked expectations agreed, had a pretty good time.

    Planning a much bigger 2nd date…..so now feel iffy about it all.

  318. SouthernSB says:

    Not happy with the fight after the game. Whatever happened to sportsmanship?

  319. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    I know you must be relieved, but I think im going to throw up all the good food I had tonight…

  320. KennaKenna says:

    Woohoo! Woohoo! This moment is unreal.

  321. Josh says:

    @Kenna congrats on the big night. 😉

  322. MaggieS says:

    guys…good night, this pretty ass has to sleep (it’s 10 pm here) and wake up at 4:30 am

  323. RookieSD says:

    Dummist play in the history of football!!

  324. RookieSD says:

    Dumb ass play!

  325. RookieSD says:

    What a catch!

  326. Lainey says:

    @gtt_envy so she was YOUR SB?

  327. gtt_envy says:

    How is it not fair Laney? If you say you are looking for 1 yet log in after you have started a allowance……seems like you are looking? Why reply to messages? I have like 83 unread messages.

  328. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    Yeah Lainey this seekingarrangement site is entertainment alone! She might wanna read all her crazy messages just like some of men surely do.

  329. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    Naw that is not what I was saying about you. U know the guys on here that are complaining about all the fat women yet they don’t wanna pay much allowance either or it sounds like that. It is the attitude u know? They want to have Brandon lower allowance amounts to $500 so they should ask Brandon about that, lol. Am sure it will balance out the perfect arrangement. Raise allowance on perfect arrangement and lower to $500 a month for seekingarrangement. What a genius!

  330. Lainey says:

    @gtt_envy that’s not really fair. I don’t even meet SDs on SA but had to log in daily just to read my messages. She may be doing the same and not interested in many that contact her.

  331. gtt_envy says:

    @Sabeenqueen, don’t assume that the low budget guys (like me) is due to being cheap etc. My allowance is $1500/mo plus gifts and fun dates, usually lol, but I also only seek 2 at the most 3 dates a month. It’s usually 2!!! So, the women I’ve seen are making at least $175/hr to have dinner, go to concerts, shop, and the more stereotypical things too.

    I don’t have the time to see a girl every 5-6 days. Work, kids, etc life is far too busy and I don’t think they are getting a bad deal at all.

  332. gtt_envy says:

    Another one bites the dust!! “Oh, I’m so glad I found you. I was about to delete my profile, so tired of the scumballs!! I’m looking for 1 SD!!”

    Yet she logs in everyday such a pity she was cool!! I can’t handle SBs who say they are looking for 1 guy yet log in hours everyday just looking for the next best thing.

  333. Sabeenqueen26 says:

    Really JoeF this is seekinarrangement, not seekingbargainrackbasementarrangement. If you want a no strings attached arrangement for less than $1000 or $500 a month then you are either seeking someone in a desperate situation, which makes you something else or are not going for quality. There is an awful lot of bitching and whining on here about the quality of women, but at the same time some of the guys obviously do not have the funds to support a quality sugar baby, or they would not be here complaining so much. So what is being said is you guys what an ideal SB at a cheap allowance or fair price, in your eyes?

    Sure there are unattractive women on seeking arrangement, but there are also plenty of men who are not real sugar daddies as well. You can either screen through and find what you want and offer her a nice addition to her lifestyle, while she enriches yours, or you can bitch and moan that the girls that you really want are not willing to accept your low amounts or meet your standards for the amount you are willing to offer. You can ignore the fatties and other women you do not like and the other side can do the same with you, if u are not what they want. The people who both have something to offer find each other, and the ones with unrealistic expectations usually do not on both the male and female side. Unless there is scamming going on but that is not my point.

    Seriously? You really think Brandon is going to lower allowance expectations and requirements? Dream on. I have been lurking for awhile but have never had an arrangement for under moderate and most have been much more. Especially after we have established that we are exclusive and plan for long-term. They would gift extra just because or if they knew I might have expenses coming up. It was about us both being there for each other. A sugar daddy, wait sorry, a REAL sugar daddy wants to help his sugar baby, and often asks what else he can do in addition to allowance like gifts, trips, shopping and such.

    If some of you guys think the site is too expensive with allowances over $1000 a month then get off site and go find a date on a non-arrangement site. I don’t think any man is a real daddy unless he can at least start at $3,000 a month if you guys see each other regularly. Less amounts are fine for certain arrangements but sometimes you might just want to call that a generous date. He is not a sugar daddy for throwing you $200 or $300 after a per meet thing. Not that there is anything wrong with that but site is for sugar daddies not wannabes. It is that simple, so if u guys don’t like it then we would rather the poor guys leave anyways tbh.

  334. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie shut up! A lot of football left…

    @Lainey haha not many players were traded… Hmmm

  335. Lainey says:

    @SoutgernSB because that’s the image her branding team gave her upon her re-release

  336. Lainey says:

    @Kenna HEY! No guessing. Lol

  337. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    Tom Brady’s getting happy feet cause that defense is starting to put some heat on his ass…

  338. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey Tim Wright?

  339. sexyrockstar says:

    I love missy!!!
    Go Seahawks

  340. SouthernSB says:

    OK why does Katie Perry always look like a 50’s housewife to me? No matter what she is wearing she always (to me) puts out that vacuuming in heels and pearls vibe.

  341. JoeF says:

    @FunDude Wonder how many of the moderate or substantial, not to mention high really are escorts? Or at least high end pay per meetings girls?

    The only SD that will be willing/able to pay those sums are probably the same that Perfect Arrangement are targeting.

    If you can afford to give Brandon 20 or 45 K than even high rates probably seems about right.

    SA would probably do new SB a favor if they adjusted expectation levels downwards so that there would more levels on the lower end. 1-3K is simply too wide a range since this probably where a lot of higher end arrangements are in practical terms. As Fundude math points to many new SB see the levels and don’t think it true what they mean in real life and surly they are worth moderate.

    Set minimal down to 500, Practical to 1000, Moderate to 2000, Substantial to 3500 and high to 5000 and perhaps make a new level called exceptional for above 5000. Then the bands would have meaning again. OH and find a new name for minimal, nobody like to be paid a minimal sum of money.

  342. flyR says:

    @ SB or as we see in development – quality, schedule , price
    pick any two

  343. SouthernSB says:

    @Lainey-Yeah that’s it. I loved that movie. Nobody can beat a good drag queen for a sense of style.

  344. Lainey says:

    @SoutgernSB “Thanks Julie Newmar” LOL

  345. Lainey says:

    In other news, forgot my ex got traded to Patriots recently. I think he saw it on my face when they mentioned him. Oh well, not really his business at this point.

  346. SouthernSB says:

    @flyR-So what you are saying is we should either go for a lower price point or go for more seasoned men if we want a higher price point. Makes perfect sense, it’s like they said in “To Wong Fu, Thanks For Everything” do you want style or substance?

  347. Lainey says:

    Getting my feet rubbed while he watches the game. Yeah, he’s a keeper. Lol

  348. AmusedSD says:

    @ Maggie
    The Metamorphosis (Kafka). It was Gregor Samsa that turned into a giant cockroach.

  349. flyR says:

    “””My argument is such: Since men who make >100K/year (especially in the lower age groups 30s, 40s) are less than 5% of the overall population, it isn’t that “easy” to find a good sugar daddy.

    To achieve even 1K/month arrangement, that requires 12K in post tax money.

    If someone makes 100K/year, after taxes he is left with approximately 60K. 12K/60K= 20% of his disposable income at a minimum. This isn’t considering his other obligations ( married, kids, etc).

    Men over 200K/year would be even rarer (especially among men in their 30s and 40s).”””

    The above rules of thumb may apply to late 20-30s in NY and other major cities but not to other areas . Also very highly dependent on SD spending and investments.

    The SD with a first and home equity loan ( used to be called second TD but that was associated with the financially irresponsible) at 99% of value is in a very different place than the SD with lower cost home and a 30% LTV loan because he bought the same house in a much better market. Same for alimony, child support , toys etc.

  350. StruggleIsReal says:

    Sorry, I meant an adequate response via email. Like, photos, real info, etc. (regarding @FunDude).

  351. StruggleIsReal says:

    “KennaKenna says:
    February 1, 2015 at 10:57 am
    @FunDude what’s your ideal woman? Someone like Struggle?”

    Oh wow. Hahahaha I seriously doubt that! @Josh/ FunDude can’t deal with a me! I love you @Kenna though! Slaying dragons left n right! No one will get a reply from @Fun. He is a proxy.
    And where the fuck is @Lainey’s ass?!!?!?!

  352. StruggleIsReal says:

    *beautiful

  353. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna is a 10. She is gorgeous, with a beatiful body and face, intelligent, and she has a really wonderful personality. No way am I letting her skip by with demeaning herself like that. Nope nope. No way, now how. Okay now I am back to catching up on the rest of the comments. xo

  354. MaggieS says:

    thank you @resop2 :*

  355. Josh says:

    @resop2

    Good feedback on @MaggieS’ profile.

  356. resop2 says:

    @Maggie – random notes on your profile:

    Do you mean “The Metamorphosis by Kafka”? Kafka was the author, not the one changing.

    Overall, the profile is much better than before, however, there is one element missing: If someone was your SD how would his life be better?

  357. resop2 says:

    @maggie – looking at it now.

    btw – I have 8 SB blocked now. Is that low or high for a SD?

  358. resop2 says:

    Non-worked sports are so 1980’s.

  359. MaggieS says:

    @resop2: hi!!! how are you? did you check my profile?

  360. resop2 says:

    @FunDude: Just curious, are you a member of “NO MA’AM”?

  361. flyR says:

    @ Maggie – I think the photos generally suck

    The one with the hat might be ok without the hat

    The church? photo – no

    Think simplicity in dress, hair and background

    You list your background as graduate degree and then indicate you are working on a grad degree if you are working on a second masters degree then mention that.

  362. MaggieS says:

    @FunDude: but still, I want to read it from you, I enjoy your “spicy comments”

  363. FunDude says:

    @Maggie

    Interesting profile. Good that you are going for a PHD. Good luck on SA, Miami is a big city with a lot of potential SDs

  364. FunDude says:

    @Sexy

    Actually I’m going to the gym shortly, then might hang out for the end of the Superbowl. Im basically busy catching up with my work over the weekend and some research project thing.

    Im a weird dude in that I really don’t care who wins lol.

  365. MaggieS says:

    @FunDude: ok, I sent you a message already and I think I got my answer by myself ahahaha!!!

  366. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Lack of awareness will cause extreme mental anguish for these ladies. Ergo, they will come onto this blog and complain how it is “unfair”. Nothing new.

    Men don’t complain when they can’t obtain a supermodel because they understand it is UNREALISTIC for most of them.

    It appears that a lot of women have are delusional in their expectations considering their own qualities compared to the qualities a man values.

    @Maggie

    Not that hard to figure out by search. Others have done it.

  367. SexyRockstar says:

    @Maggie
    he would slit my throat if I gave out his number. HAHA.

    I don’t even have my his profile anymore. I am sure he will message you some time this week. It’s Super Bowl Sunday. He is going to be watching football. My Sunday starts very shortly

  368. MaggieS says:

    @Sexy, he asked me to send a message in his profile, and I don’t know what is his profile, and…I have no phone now (it f*** died yesterday :( ), if I had, I would ask you his number right now and I would call him in a “hot line voice tone” ahahahahahaha!!!!

  369. Josh says:

    []https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/PROFILE NUMBER/view[]

  370. Josh says:

    @MaggieS

    Check your email.

  371. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “@Josh

    By definition, that is an illogical assessment on their part. Successful, well paid men can usually find higher level women in just the regular dating market, forget about the “sugar” market.”

    Women are not bothered by “logic” when it comes to romantish possibilities with a man.

    Take a brain surgeon with an A game in her profession. Put her in a romantish situation, she will act the same as a high school dropout.

    You’re in the medical field, where women make a lot of money as well. If you ever feel like it, then run some tests and provide feedback. 😉

  372. SexyRockstar says:

    I have his phone number, LOLOL.

    His SA profile doesn’t have face shots. He is a cutie tho. Would I sleep with him? Maybe. If the allowance was fat enough. LOL

    JK, love you <3

  373. RookieSD says:

    @Maggie
    “someone here has @FunDude profile’s number?”

    It’s in the Batcave.

  374. MaggieS says:

    someone here has @FunDude profile’s number?

  375. KennaKenna says:

    Thank God I have not ever had a douchey SD but I met a bitter/divorced/well known in financial industry POT(well known like on Wikipedia) but could not go through with it even though he offered me something in the High range so I completely understand you @Sexy.

  376. SexyRockstar says:

    Girls say “He was so cute, until he opened his mouth”

    Women say “he was so cute, until he opened his wallet”

  377. MaggieS says:

    @FunDude: what’s you profile number?

  378. FunDude says:

    Where do you place that “eb48b2f5” in the search portion of the website?

    I am not a seeking arrangement search expert lol

  379. MaggieS says:

    @Rookie, ok…let’s go!! :)
    @FunDude:again… here it is eb48b2f5

  380. FunDude says:

    @ Sexy

    Good job.

  381. FunDude says:

    @Maggie

    Message me on my profile. Then I can tell ya.

    @Kenna

    Dunno struggle. Therefore, I couldn’t tell ya lol

  382. SexyRockstar says:

    Eh, I had an allowance of almost 5K a month.
    You know what I look like.
    At the end of the day, I am beautiful, but my personality is honestly what makes me.

    I left him because he wound up being a total doucher. No money in the world would of made a difference. He was attractive and mid 40’s.

    It would take pretty much ALL the money in the world for me to leave drummer. I could easily juggle two SDs, but, eh. Drummer has my heart.

  383. MaggieS says:

    @FunDude: I’m still waiting for an answer… do you want more kisses??? ok, there they are :* :* :* :* :* :* :* :*

  384. flyR says:

    @Kenna –

    I predict a long afternoon for the softballed Pats unless the Seahawks only bring their first half game from the division championship.

  385. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    “@FunDude what’s your ideal woman? Someone like Struggle?”

    Now that’s funny!

  386. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    “@Sexy Pats need to win, if they don’t in afraid what will happen to my sex life. SD is hardcore fan and so damn excited about today- I’ve literally never seen him this hyper and excited.”

    Well you better find a way to ease his “pain” later on tonight…

  387. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude what’s your ideal woman? Someone like Struggle?

  388. KennaKenna says:

    I’m*

  389. FunDude says:

    @Maggie

    Don’t know your profile, so I couldn’t say.

    @ Kenna

    Kenna, I would be better off with that BY FAR than an older BBW. If I could get a good looking, younger, easy to get along with female with intelligence (and credentials or good job) that would be EVEN BETTER.

    The female would need significant accomplishments to overcome those other issues.

  390. KennaKenna says:

    @Sexy Pats need to win, if they don’t in afraid what will happen to my sex life. SD is hardcore fan and so damn excited about today- I’ve literally never seen him this hyper and excited.

  391. RookieSD says:

    @Maggie
    “@FunDude: just curiosity…would you take me to a coffee date if I was near to you?”

    I would if you wear that skirt and hit me with that beautiful smile.

  392. FunDude says:

    If you are “average” or even BBW or significantly older, if you’re looking for an “arrangement” for 1K/month, you should consider:

    1) Tons of sex
    2) 20 year age difference (at a minimum with the guy)
    3) Great attitude with no” entitlement” complex or “drama”

  393. KennaKenna says:

    So @FunDude you’d be happy with a hot, young, fit blonde who didn’t have a brain and couldn’t converse with you?

    Send me an email

    KennaKenna267 at gmail

  394. SexyRockstar says:

    @Kenna
    Pats will win, but I still want the Seahawks to win. Only because I do not want to hear annoying ass Packer fans saying “see the Hawks didn’t deserve to win against us. If we went to the Super Bowl, we would of won it.”

  395. MaggieS says:

    @FunDude: just curiosity…would you take me to a coffee date if I was near to you?

  396. FunDude says:

    @Sexy

    Good job sexy. That is why you’re not bitter or angry about my comments. No one should really be offended by my comments.

    It isn’t to be “offensive”. I am speaking just pure statistics here.

  397. KennaKenna says:

    Pats*

  398. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie

    Be quiet, the Pate will win!

  399. FunDude says:

    If they are avg (or below average), they should expect only p4p arrangements with older dudes. That is just reality.

    Mathematically speaking, obtaining an “arrangement” for 1k/month is a difficult proposition unless the female is in the top 3% (at a minimum) in attractiveness or have some other outstanding qualities that make up for their lack of attractiveness.

  400. SexyRockstar says:

    @Fun
    away from my allowance drummer gives me. Him and I do a lot of fun stuff together. Casino nights, dinners, shopping, he even got me the most amazing laptop ever, christmas gifts, and all of that jazz.

    I’ve never really asked him how much money he makes. But obviously, I am lucky enough to be “above average” and bring so much more to his life for him to validate what he gives me.

    I am also fucking amazing

  401. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    By definition, that is an illogical assessment on their part. Successful, well paid men can usually find higher level women in just the regular dating market, forget about the “sugar” market.

    I think the biggest issue is their lack of mathematical ability to determine how rare an arrangement for even 1K/month is going to be. The think there are an unlimited number of dudes who make enough money to do this.

  402. Josh says:

    @FunDude,

    “Why would guys pay that level of money for average women? Even worse for BBWs or other less desirable women?”

    You know “why” @FunDude? Many of these women think that men on this site are desperate for female attention, and that’s why they are resorting to “paying” for any woman’s attention.

    It starts with one SB lying to her friends about what she is allegedly getting for doing pretty much nothing.

  403. FunDude says:

    @fatbastard

    I am getting more attractive women messaging me from too far distances. They are out due to location.

    I have gotten some more attractive women locally. I am going out for coffee dates with them to determine their value in my life.

    I have no need to rush into an “arrangement”. There are tons who will do p4p if I just want “sex”, which isn’t even a big priority for me as well lol. Don’t want STDs.

  404. FunDude says:

    @ Josh

    I think I do enjoy coming on here a few times a day to bitch. I find it enjoyable and refreshing. Maybe like therapy?

    @ Kenna

    You have plenty of positive qualities such as your pedigree. You are also taking a significant age gap with your SD that is about 25 years. You are also getting into a serious, longer term commitment with him.

    Ergo, you have a very appropriate situation that is very logically consistent with my analysis.

    My argument is such: Since men who make >100K/year (especially in the lower age groups 30s, 40s) are less than 5% of the overall population, it isn’t that “easy” to find a good sugar daddy.

    To achieve even 1K/month arrangement, that requires 12K in post tax money.

    If someone makes 100K/year, after taxes he is left with approximately 60K. 12K/60K= 20% of his disposable income at a minimum. This isn’t considering his other obligations ( married, kids, etc).

    Men over 200K/year would be even rarer (especially among men in their 30s and 40s).

    The question becomes why do you feel “entitled” to an “arrangement” that with these men. This is a big commitment, even for a guy that makes 100K/year.

    These are rarer men (less than 5% for only 100k/year) who would need to spend a good amount of their income on you.

    What makes you feel “entitled” to this? You would have to add significant value to his life that would justify such a high cost.

    Forget about the ladies who are asking “moderate or substantial”. That analysis would be far worse. You’d have to be in the top .0001% of women to justify such cost.

    Please show me where I am wrong on my analysis.

    Why would guys pay that level of money for average women? Even worse for BBWs or other less desirable women?

    How can you make it up for him?

  405. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    The Seahawks defensive line will wipe Tom Brady’s ass across the field.

  406. Keo says:

    Go whoever wins me money

  407. Keo says:

    @Josh. “Babbling nonsense” I’m just taking pointers from you then.

  408. Keo says:

    @Sexy. It’s just messing up my Super Bowel plans. I honestly hate driving in the snow. My car slides every damn where

  409. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie noooo, go Pats!

  410. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    No, more like the Pats get that ass kicked…

  411. Josh says:

    @flyR

    “Kenna pretty much nailed it”

    I had thought that this Pimpish Gradpa (PG) only complimented specific females. But this guy gets a soft boner when an SB says the same things SDs say. 😉

  412. Keo says:

    @Kenna.. I don’t truly believe a perfect anything exist. I’ve liked curvy and slender women. I think chemistry is very important and being able to laugh at yourself and make lemonade out of lemons. Laid back and no fuss are my type who know how to sexy it up when warranted. I can’t stand look at me, it’s all about me women.

  413. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie hehe. No worries, especially if you had a distraction like that.

    You ready to see the Pats kick ass today?

  414. Josh says:

    @Keo

    “So why are you coming at me?”

    Because you’re babbling nonsense. That’s why.

  415. RookieSD says:

    my “A game”*

  416. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    “I was waiting for you to email me but you didn’t ”

    My bad. Last night I got distracted by my side piece, she had put in a request for one of my world famous full body rubdowns, and with all that ass talk on the blog I was ready to bring “A game”.

  417. flyR says:

    Kenna pretty much nailed it

    I know @FunDude can be a prick sometimes but he is right about some stuff. The truth is harsh, but this is a buyer’s market- it’s not a dating website and most men are here to find that fantasy hot girl that can Rock their world. You will not succeed if you don’t give your best:
    – write an amazing profile, take amazing, natural photos, after you get a SD- make frequent contact, don’t talk about money after arrangement was made, dress and look immaculately at ALL times around SD, fuck his brains out and be a good drama free partner. He will end up wanting to see you more and more, as often as he can and you’ll be his 10 even if you’re everyone else’s 7 or 8.

    No attitude, no stress, no self-entitlement and you’ll be successful.”

    Great advice, I would re-arrange the priorities

    Constantly refine your profile. Don’t be afraid to ask what caused somebody to respond.

    Always leave your problems at the curb unless it is a problem that the SD wants to help you solve. It must be solvable and the SD must want to participate. Women like to process woe and spread it around like a bonding agent, not for the cure but for the social. If you think that’s tough think again,

    I would modify the dress perfectly to always look good…and appropriate for the occasion.

    Try to understand what your Potential SD is looking for OR better yet decide what your best opportunity is and go after that. There’s opportunity across the scale from the near virginal to the teacher with a kink.

    Sell the sizzle not the cow…….. how will you change his life and how he feels

    For amusement watch one of the classic car auctions – what you are looking at is very similar to the sugar process. Men with discretionary income fulfilling their fantasies , often related to something they missed (they were too nerdy, too poor or working a job , to date the attractive girls during college or some period) Now they want to enjoy what the missed.

    Taking the car analogy a little further….. You’ll see someone paying a half a million for something that seems to be nothing special but it has value to him. Stretching the analogy further, highly modified cars often sell for far less than the same car in genuine original condition that’s been preserved and restored .

  418. SexyRockstar says:

    @Keo
    It really isn’t THAT bad on the account we’ve had a pretty easy winter. I’d rather have it be a week of shit vs all winter be snowing. Just drive slow. It’s not even that cold out.

  419. Keo says:

    @Josh I’m pretty sure I’ve already stated in multiple post that I agreed with that. Even my most recent post says “And there’s nothing wrong with that,IMO”. So why are you coming at me?

  420. **SB_UK** says:

    Well it’s been all go on here, a good read though 😉 sat on the train heading home had a lovely weekend. I need entertaining it’s boring travelling alone :-(

  421. KennaKenna says:

    @Keo what’s a 10 to you?

    I think @Sexy and @Struggle are 10s but they are both very different. Their personality stands out and makes them super awesome.

    My SD dated 12s before me and none of them lasted more than 3 months, when I asked why me? He said I fell in love with your big personality. Attraction gets you through the door, but it’s what you do and how you act that makes you stay there.

    I have a couple friends who are 10s but can’t seem to get it together. I’m the 7 or 8 and the one with everything they want and I’m thinking wow- if I looked like them, I wouldn’t have a millionaire SD, I’d have a billionaire SD.

  422. Josh says:

    @keo,

    “some guys come on the site expecting a perfect 10 also.”

    There’s nothing wrong with expecting “perfect 10” if he is willing to “pay” for that perfect 10.

    The guy in the photo above is up there in hotness scale. When was the last time you saw fat and bald 60 year-old guy OR fat and ugly X year-old woman on this website?

  423. Keo says:

    @Sexy. This weather though!

  424. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie that’s the angle and the pose lol…

    I was waiting for you to email me but you didn’t :(

  425. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    I’m seeing quite a bit of curvature in your gravitars…

  426. Keo says:

    @Kenna I totally agree! But I also think some guys come on the site expecting a perfect 10 also. And nothing is wrong with that IMO. Different strokes for different folks. It’s all about what makes the SD happy, however that person looks, behave or personality.

    I’m sorry @Josh, I meant @FunDude. Lol

  427. KennaKenna says:

    And another thing is what one man finds incredibly hot, another man may not be interested in. I’m black, talkative, skinny and not curvy- I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but that’s okay because there is someone for everyone.

  428. SexyRockstar says:

    @FunDude
    I love you man, and I am probably the only one that knows you’re not a proxy. But, take advice from all the advice you seen on here.

    There are millions of people on this site website. Doesn’t matter if you get a million messages. Quality over quantity any day

    I don’t have slutty pictures on my profile, therefore, I don’t get messages from men wanting escorts. I get about 3 new messages daily from men who are the type of men I want. Background verified, I even had a fling with one of the diamond members on here for a few months.

    You haven’t landed a sugar baby yet, and a part of me thinks you really don’t want one. You’re just on here to bitch about fat chicks. Fat chicks will always be trolling the internet…why don’t you search for actual hotties. There are some in Chicago. If you are serious about this lifestyle, then you should be willing to open up your search. Or try “free styling” IRL. I’ve offered to meet up with you and be your wing woman. Mama knows whats up.

    I want to help you as much as I can, because well, we are really close to each other so why the fuck not?

    Maybe Drummer would be nice and offer you his rejects LOL, just kidding.

    Love you bro.

  429. SexyRockstar says:

    @FunDude
    In order for you to find out if they are scammers, you should send them the money order they are going to ask from you and find out for yourself.

  430. KennaKenna says:

    Good morning folks!

    @Keo the worst kind of attitude you can have is an entitled one in sugar. Be confident but don’t act entitled. I’m a 7 or 8 but I bring it so I’m a 11 for my SD- I go above and beyond.

    I know @FunDude can be a prick sometimes but he is right about some stuff. The truth is harsh, but this is a buyer’s market- it’s not a dating website and most men are here to find that fantasy hot girl that can Rock their world. You will not succeed if you don’t give your best:
    – write an amazing profile, take amazing, natural photos, after you get a SD- make frequent contact, don’t talk about money after arrangement was made, dress and look immaculately at ALL times around SD, fuck his brains out and be a good drama free partner. He will end up wanting to see you more and more, as often as he can and you’ll be his 10 even if you’re everyone else’s 7 or 8.

    No attitude, no stress, no self-entitlement and you’ll be successful.

  431. Josh says:

    “If the ratio is 1:1 then why do you not have a QUALITY SB ?”

    I guess @FunDude is having more “fun” whining and venting on the blog compared to sifting through 7 blades of hay to find the next bright and shiny needle.

  432. Josh says:

    @Keo

    “Maggie said she wondered if all the guys were like @Josh.. And I don’t believe that every guy on the site is.”

    Maggie did not say any such thing about @Josh. :(

  433. FatB'StardSA says:

    @FunDude

    “However, the QUALITY SB ration to QUALITY SD ration is about 1:1 at most.”

    If the ratio is 1:1 then why do you not have a QUALITY SB ?

  434. Josh says:

    @Keo

    My apologies for the lack of clarity in my earlier post. You are correct when you suggested that there is a reason why men are here for arrangements.

    I was not agreeing with the whatever came before, “That’s why they like arrangements.”

    You have no much clue why men are here. Therefore, you are better off asking those who know AND have arrangements they are happy with, such as, @Lainey, @Sexy, @Kenna, and @Struggle.

    I hope that the above is clearer version of my tongue in cheek post from earlier this morning.

  435. Keo says:

    @Maggie said she wondered if all the guys were like @Josh.. And I don’t believe that every guy on the site is.

  436. Keo says:

    @Josh I’ve had an arrangement before..different strokes for different folks. Although I did appreciate all your advice ladies on this site.

    You wouldn’t date a 7 or 8 in looks who meet all your other needs?

  437. Josh says:

    @Keo, don’t mislead other SBs who are trying to learn.

  438. Josh says:

    @RookieSD

    Hahahaha!

  439. Josh says:

    @Keo

    You’re correct about the “That’s why they like arrangements” part. The rest you’re confused. But since you watched enough Oprah you decided to opine about matters you know nothing about.

    Please ask @Lainey, @Sexy, @Kenna, and @Struggle to elaborate “why” men are here to make arrangements with them and other women in general.

  440. Keo says:

    @Maggie.. I think most of the guys are pretty superficial about looks. They want a young perfect 10 with no drama. That’s why they like arrangements. I think the older the SD gets the more they are willing to take on 7 and 8 realizing maybe there is more maturity, discretion, or just more than meets the eye regardless of age.

  441. SouthernSB says:

    Ahhhh…..FunDude, so cheery in the morning. I’m not going to blow you any kisses due to the fact that I am a significantly older woman and my time or my affections on men who get their rocks off complaining that someone like me isn’t worthy to be in their presence.

  442. RookieSD says:

    Great Sunday morning worship service with Reverend FunDude giving the sermon. Preach brother, preach.

  443. Keo says:

    @Fun… Awe..I bet some of those girls are fun and adventurous in bed with great personalities.

  444. MaggieS says:

    @FunDude: ok…I’m not a scammer, I just live far away…and I don’t know if I look attractive for you, you have a very high expectations, so because of this I had to ask if all SDs here are like you…then, the guys started to help me with my profile, so…

  445. FunDude says:

    BBW= big and beautiful= fatty

  446. FunDude says:

    Also, people should look at median income stats throughout the nation. For instance, in Michigan, median income FAMILY stats are approximately 48K (Grand Rapids was 39K for FAMILY). Therefore, the per capita income of men of all ages in Michigan is about 35K at the median level.

    If women are looking for men with income over 100K, they are in the top 3-5% of the income bracket in Michigan. This is of ALL AGE groups. If you are looking at men in their 30s only, the numbers making over 100K are approximately 1-2%. Many of those men are married, have children, and have low disposable income.

    Men making over 200K would be less than 1% (particularly worse for 30s-40s) since usually it is men in their 50-60s.

    Ergo, if you are expecting an allowance of 1-3K per month, the man has to make at least 100K without any obligations towards a family, marriage, etc.

    Considering the number of men at this level are extremely low (probably less than 1% of the Michigan population, particularly for men in their 30s-40s), what makes you at that level?

    A female would have to be in the top 1% of her respective class in terms of attractiveness to warrant such a consideration. Yet, tons of BELOW average women are demanding such ridiculous numbers on this website.

    If you are below average or even average in looks, you should expect an AVG income dude. It really is that simple.

    Ergo, those women should expect sugar daddies at around 30K/year.

    Simple mathematics.

  447. Keo says:

    @Fun what is a BBW?

  448. FunDude says:

    @Maggie

    LOL yeah. Went out last night. Had a good time.

    Search my messages. Getting tons from hot women but in weird locations all over the world lol. Dunno if they are scammers?

    Have another 2 women I will be meeting up for coffee with to determine how I get along with them.

    I did a simple search this morning with my early morning coffee. Tried to see what constitutes “sugar babies” in Western Michigan. It was pretty bad for 90-95% of them.

    Even the younger ones were often really fat, or looked almost like crackheads that took too many drugs/tats/etc.

    I was thinking that the equivalent sugar daddy should be a dude making about 30K/year for these ladies.

    Whats the problem with this assertion? Dudes who make 30K/year need women too! Don’t discriminate ladies.

  449. MaggieS says:

    @FunDude: good morning, do you always wake up like this? here there are some kisses for you :* :* :* :* :* :*

  450. FunDude says:

    We need to start considering men who make 30K per year as Sugar Daddies.

    If we are going to consider significant BBW, older women, ugly women, etc as “Sugar Babies” then we need to consider men who make 30K as Sugar Daddies.

    Fair is only fair.

  451. FunDude says:

    It is definitely a “buyers” market for men on SA.

    However, if you’re a high QUALITY SB, you will definitely stand out due to the large segment of very mediocre SBs. Frankly, most of these women shouldn’t really be on a sugar baby website.

    Younger BBWs, significantly older women, etc Sugar Babies= Sugar Daddy that makes 40K per year.

    I guess you can call a guy a “Sugar Daddy” if he makes 40K per year as well if we are going to call the above ladies “Sugar Babies”

  452. FunDude says:

    Tons of BBWs and older ladies (40s-50s) on this website in Western Michigan.

    It might be true that the SB to SD ration is 8 to 1. I wouldn’t deny this fact.

    However, the QUALITY SB ration to QUALITY SD ration is about 1:1 at most.

    Unless you want a BBW, significantly older woman, or just a totally plain jane that has HIGH EXPECTATIONS, there isn’t a great variety of SBs in Western Michigan. Most of these chics are pump and dumps for me (at best), although I don’t want to get an STD.

    I bet Chicago is way better. I will be traveling there for an MBA in the future. Might try more out there.

  453. FunDude says:

    Just got some messages from Austin, Texas and Indianapolis from pretty hot ladies.

    I guess West Michigan isn’t really that good these days for attractive women lol. The women elsewhere appear much better.

    Anyone think MLPs are a good investment with low oil prices? Might be the time to buy.

  454. Josh says:

    PG = Pimp Grandpa…totally missed it earlier.

  455. MaggieS says:

    @Struggle…Spanish?? my profile isn’t in Spanish… hahahahahaha!!!! wait, check my number again: eb48b2f5

  456. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Josh
    Lolololol BG, completely 😉

  457. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Mags
    Hmmm when I click your name to go to your profile, it takes me to somewhere I can’t understand… all in Spanish. :(

  458. Josh says:

    @FLYR

    “@Struggles – Your bun photo is simply awesome. PG rated , shows you at one of your best views and the little tug is like the aroma of freshly brewing coffee – creates anticipation . No wonder you are off on a great adventurer”

    How about BG rated by Bad Grandpa? Or Pimp Grandpa or Pimpa for short?

  459. Dazed-SD says:

    @Maggie,,Nice !!

  460. Dazed-SD says:

    little jab,, not gab…:)

  461. Dazed-SD says:

    @English, really nice gravi,, and I understood what you meant, just had to give you a little gab about where you live ! LOL

  462. MaggieS says:

    thank you @RookieSD

  463. RookieSD says:

    @Maggie
    Nice up skirt with the gravi…

  464. MaggieS says:

    hi pretty ladies and gentlemen: my new profile is approved, so please take a look and tell me what do you think 😉

  465. StruggleIsReal says:

    @SirMix
    Hehe I do what I can 😉

    @flyR
    Aw thanks babe! I’m going to remain in that position and in a 3/4 angle to SD for the whole trip, at your suggestion 😉 Haha Also, I need coffee right now.

    @ATL
    Drinkin’ and posting… dangerous but I like it. You’re livin’ on the edge babe!

  466. Rebecca says:

    Rockstar: From what I read, the SDs don’t pick, the matchmakers do.

  467. THEATLSD says:

    “U can do it” Not I can do it.

    Note to self, don’t post after drinking all day :)

  468. THEATLSD says:

    @Englushismy 3
    Ok I’ve been drinking for awhile now so it took me like 30 minutes to figure out your gravatar. I thought it was a Rorschach test at first. Follow the examples of the other SB I can do it. I have faith in U!!!

  469. FLYR says:

    @Struggles – Your bun photo is simply awesome. PG rated , shows you at one of your best views and the little tug is like the aroma of freshly brewing coffee – creates anticipation . No wonder you are off on a great adventurer

  470. @Struggs lol playin’ Cupid eh? I’m in love with . .

  471. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Josh
    Hahahahaha omg. You get a million points for participating. Tomorrow I am finding a brighter one. I seriously heart you right now though.

  472. Josh says:

    @Struggle,

    This is the best ass shot I have for Brad Pitt from Troy. If anyone wants me to use a different one, then email it to me.

  473. Josh says:

    @MaggieS

    Looks good to me dear. 😉

  474. SexyRockstar says:

    @Reb
    they are probably waiting for an SD to be interested in you

  475. Rebecca says:

    Does anyone have any idea of when they’ll start accepting new members, specifically sugar babies? I imagine they have to wait awhile to get SDs who will pay those (outrageous) prices. I did a webcam verification 2 days ago.

  476. SexyRockstar says:

    @Heather
    when your profile is approved, let us know

  477. SexyRockstar says:

    I will do a butt if Lainey does one.

  478. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle my SD is so demanding and possessive, he will want to see me every weekend especially since he won’t be seeing me almost everyday like he is used to.

  479. MaggieS says:

    @Josh: this one???

  480. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    I used to live in LA and traveled back to east coast (Miami or NY usually) for work every week. It was so taxing on me.
    I’m thinking you can do it once a month. 2 other weekends he is with you in NY, and then you have one weekend to yourself/ for me hehe. Not so bad, right?

    @Maggie + @SirMix
    I love this. Please make this happen. :)

  481. @Strugs LOL you may peel me at any time. Seattle, Miss Maggie and I are good like that. Applebums for everyone.

  482. MaggieS says:

    @Struggle: I have to confess…that @SirMix is my fav one here :) he is soooo nice!!

  483. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle yes, come!!!

    Hopefully he’s not too demanding and makes me get on a plane every weekend. I’ve done the traveling every week thing, can be super exhausting, ugh! We’ll see, I guess.

  484. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    Ok… That’s not so bad. I know it’s a change though. Methinks the weekend or two without him will be fun girls’ weekends! I’ll come keep you company 😉

  485. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    Whoops. You forgot to email that to me.

    PS. I personally prefer that hot chicks post here on the blog, if at all possible, because hot gravatars make my world go ’round.
    And @Josh, ASS WEEK is coming up and I’m going to need you to vmchange your gravi to Brad’s azz, per favor. 😉

  486. heather says:

    Thank you all again just still waiting on getting the changes approved but I knew I needed the negative better to rip the bandage fast than to peel it off slowly. :)

  487. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle thanks luv. He will be here 1, probably 2 weekends and all others I have to fly out to be with him.

  488. KennaKenna says:

    @StruggleIsReal

    @Josh
    Funny you don’t tell the biggest whiner of them all the same.

    EXACTLY!!!!!

  489. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Josh
    Funny you don’t tell the biggest whiner of them all the same.

  490. MaggieS says:

    @Josh…do you want a close up??? jmmmm…let me check…
    @SirMixALittle: muack!!!! :*

  491. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    Aw babe, I can understand being frustrated with that news. So every weekend you won’t be with him unless you fly to him ?
    Hot gravi babes!!

    @SirMix
    You may possibly be my fave potato-head ever. Where do you reside ? Methinks maybe you should fly in the lovely miss @Maggie :)

  492. @Heather, killin time here and I read your profile (I think it was the right one) and the text was grammatically pretty awful. That’s a HUGE red flag for SD’s, assuming that they’ve made their money using their brains or have college degrees and whatnot. Spell checking at the very least would be prudent.

  493. KennaKenna says:

    @Josh sorry, I forgot you’re the boss of the blog!

    @Georgia Social Security Privatization and its effects on capital gains- Finance and Economics. Your son sounds like a smart guy.

  494. Josh says:

    Those who must vent may want to start their SB email based vent group. Thank you.

  495. Keo says:

    @Amused Doritos cases! Lol. Oh wow
    Lol

  496. AmusedSD says:

    @Heather
    “…but thank you anyways for the advice :) even though it was mostly negative”

    No offense, but the profile was really bad and wasn’t going to attract a SD at all. It’s a *good* thing you got such negative advice, so you could change it and make it better.

  497. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Kenna
    I’m trying to stay quiet here and just listen, but I wanted to ask, if you don’t mind… what is your PhD research/thesis about? My son is now doing the research/thesis toward a PhD in Astronomy/Physics. I was just curious.

  498. KennaKenna says:

    @Josh leave me alone, was trying to vent lol!

  499. KennaKenna says:

    @SirMix awww you’re a sweetheart, thank you!

    BTW ladies @SirMix is handsome and young looking… See some black girls can change some SDs’ minds… To my fellow brown ladies- it’s all about presentation!!!

  500. Josh says:

    @KennaKenna

    “I’m still bummed by SD’s news, but trying not to be a moody bitch. -_-”

    You have @Struggle’s email address, yes? 😉

  501. How precious is Kenna?!

    I’m still your bitch @yougottabekiddingme pinky promise

    But DAMN KK!!!! (drools all over keyboard as blood rushes away from brain)

  502. Josh says:

    @heather,

    From photos, to profile, to life circumstances to finances to geographical location, you have various uphill battles to win before you are able to get into decent sugar arrangement(s). Can you persevere through them all. Time will tell.

    At this time you are a prime target for low caliber “Sugar Daddies.”

    Sweetheart, it is what it is. :(

  503. KennaKenna says:

    I’m still bummed by SD’s news, but trying not to be a moody bitch. -_-

  504. KennaKenna says:

    @English awww thank you :-$

  505. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    @kenna K- That is one gorgeous gravi:-)

  506. KennaKenna says:

    @GeorgiaPeach thank you, the stupid gravatar thing wouldn’t let me crop out my face on my phone! *sprints to computer*

  507. heather says:

    @sexy I have already made changes to my profile including picture just waiting on aproval but thank you anyways for the advice :) even though it was mostly negative XD

  508. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Kenna
    WOW! You are beautiful!

  509. KennaKenna says:

    @SirMix :-)

  510. AmusedSD says:

    @Keo
    Yeah….I’m familiar with those cases. I know some DSS people who call those ‘Doritos cases’ as in ‘crunch all you want, we’ll make more’.

  511. @Kenna HotdiggittyDOLLLLL!!!

  512. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie email me!

    Kennakenna267 at gmail

    @SirMix you too if you wanna 😉

  513. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie 😉 I grew up on an island so I’m most comfortable in a swimsuit.

    Side note- My Dad used to make my sis and I wear a shorts over our bikini bottom until I was 15 so now I love showing off.

  514. Keo says:

    @Amused did she really have a photo of her kids! Fa real fa real. Lol

  515. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    @RookieSD
    Could you zoom the camera in a little further? That pic looks like a flyover shot taken by a drone.
    Hahahaha! You don’t want it zoomed in, It’s a monster my dear;-)

  516. MOe El says:

    In those situations the sugardaddy might end up being alot more long term then he might like and obligated with an allowance (court order). Too many risk that outweight the reward for what i’m looking for. But there is someone out there for everyone

  517. Keo says:

    Then I have to turn around and see the female having her 3rd miscarriage. Very depressing.

  518. Keo says:

    @Amused that she gave birth to! In my field I see people that were pregnant 7 or 8 times with like 4 kids. Disgusting.

  519. @Rookie The ass is the new Cadillac ahahaaaaa!!!!

  520. AmusedSD says:

    @Josh msBootyDo had 4 kids along with her mug shots too.
    At least she was 28 with 4 kids and not 23 with 4 kids.

    I’m not certain that’s a distinction worth making, though.

  521. RookieSD says:

    I do love me some Latina woman too.

  522. @Rookie I know right?

    Dunno why I like junk in the trunk so much especially since I was into athletic girls during an on the cuff of IBBF competitive phase not long ago. Those Colombianas (@Maggie) are like kryptonite to for this guy.

  523. RookieSD says:

    So young*
    Damn…

  524. RookieSD says:

    Sandler*

  525. RookieSD says:

    Adam Saddler looks so song in that video(granted it was twenty years ago) and he’s looking so old lately.

  526. @RookieSD
    @Strugs
    []watch?v=aHrzzdr0J_M[]

    :)

  527. Josh says:

    @RookieSD

    “That pic looks like a flyover shot taken by a drone.”

    Hahahahaha!!! Nothing about the photo per se…but bringing drone into the blog is hilarious.

  528. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    ^ led

  529. RookieSD says:

    @Englishismy3rdlanguage
    Could you zoom the camera in a little further? That pic looks like a flyover shot taken by a drone.

  530. Josh says:

    Re: Honesty.

    1. What percentage of women claim they are looking for “honest” men?

    2. What percentage of women want an “honest” answer to “do these jeans make my ass look fat?”

  531. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    You seem to have quite a few ass pics in your portfolio. Not that I’m complaining…

  532. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    SexyRockstar says:
    January 31, 2015 at 3:17 pm
    I wish I can participate in ass week.
    @Sexy-But I have a small tattoo on my butt 😉
    And plus, my ass is fat. @Lainey and I…our asses seriously will not fit.
    We are big-booty-cuties.
    ((twerks))
    ((Twerks right back)) I lead the way and mine fits

  533. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    @josh- you’re free to crack up as long as you take a selfie of your crack and share post here.
    * wink wink*

  534. KennaKenna says:

    @Heather listen to @Sexy, she knows her stuff!

  535. Josh says:

    @AmusedSD

    The mother of four is demanding too. 😉

  536. resop2 says:

    @Heather I know that I speak for a lot of other SD’s as well as myself when I say that a SB plus a SD plus a baby daddy is “too many dicks on the dance floor”.

  537. AmusedSD says:

    Just received a message from a msBootyDo with two pics that looked like mug shots.

    Ouch.

  538. Josh says:

    *and post here.

  539. Josh says:

    You’re free to crack up as long as you take a selfie of your crack and share post here.

  540. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    THEATLSD says:
    January 31, 2015 at 3:10 pm
    @Struggles
    “@ATL
    Maybe post a gravi of your self-described ass? hehe”
    Not until I have finished the laser hair removal.
    @struggles- This is proving to be more challenging by the hour, how do I refrain from cracking up? Lol!

  541. RookieSD says:

    Rise of the Planet of the AssMen

  542. SexyRockstar says:

    eeewww…ohio state.
    Due to Drummer being from Michigan, I hate Ohio State, but not as much as I hate ((shudders)) the Sox.

  543. Josh says:

    @MaggieS

    You need a closer ass shot dear. 😉

  544. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    @Dazed- So you are from Ohio ?
    *waves white flag* too many Michiganian’s here so I’m not making any claims lest….lol!

  545. RookieSD says:

    @Josh
    “If Lainey decided to join in, then your “excuse” will not be entertained sweetie.”

    Damn skippy…

  546. MaggieS says:

    thank you so much guys :) I made some changes, when they’re ready, I will let you know and you will give me your thoughts about it, ok?

  547. Josh says:

    Blur or Photoshop the tattoo. 😉

  548. Josh says:

    @Sexy,

    If Lainey decided to join in, then your “excuse” will not be entertained sweetie. 😉

  549. SexyRockstar says:

    I wish I can participate in ass week.
    But I have a small tattoo on my butt 😉
    And plus, my ass is fat. @Lainey and I…our asses seriously will not fit.
    We are big-booty-cuties.
    ((twerks))

  550. SexyRockstar says:

    @Josh
    If an SD of mine does not smoke, I would not smoke around them. The smell is nasty to those who don’t smoke.
    Drummer smokes, THANK GOD.

  551. THEATLSD says:

    @Struggles
    “@ATL
    Maybe post a gravi of your self-described ass? hehe”

    Not until I have finished the laser hair removal.

    Since ass week is starting.
    Y’all heard the expression “In there like swimwear”. @Struggles is the poster girl for that. If you don’t know what I mean y’all just have to trust me on that one. It’s a beautiful thing man!!

  552. Josh says:

    I agree with @Sexy on not putting children information. I don’t even know why SA has that question. It’s nobody’s business. As long as you can manage your children’s well-being while with your SD, who cares.

    However, I don’t agree with not listing your smoking habit. Unless you are willing and able to refrain from smoking several hours before the date, and are able to keep your smoke away from your SD, then you must declare your level of smoking.

  553. SexyRockstar says:

    @Heather

    NEVER MENTION YOU HAVE KIDS. Kids = drama to SDs. I have 2 kids and only my current SD knows I have them. So, saying ‘prefer not to say’ means you have kids, or you’re currently pregnant. Change it.

    In your about me section, you have NOTHING about yourself. list your hobbies. tell the SDs about you. keep it fun and flirty. but seriously. there are probably at least another 100 SBs within a 50 mile radius of you. Just remember, for every 1 Sugar Daddy, there at 8 Sugar Babies. This is a buyers market. And please, get rid of the term “under the sheets” this makes you sound like a cheap escort. It really screams “HEY PLEASE FUCK ME FOR 100 DOLLARS K THANKKKSSS”

    You need to fix your grammar and get rid of those run-on sentences.

    Your what I am looking for section:
    Despite you never doing this before, please don’t say that. You will attract the creepy men that will fuck you, and hand you a ten dollar bill for your time. Do you really have bad teeth? I am scared to explain the type of pictures you need. You have a lot of negativity in your profile. it seriously just reads like a bad Tinder account. You need to make yourself sound awesome, and speak the Sugar Daddies you want to attract.

    PICTURES:
    In your profile picture:
    you look like an Avril Lavine (or however the hell you spell it) and look like you just got done crying about Blink 182 breaking up and you are currently listening to a “Thats what I call music” cd from 2001.

    You need to have these:
    Picture with “fresh look” and beautiful hair
    Full body picture in a kick ass outfit that will show off your figure. Not saying nude or bikini, but when you go out looking your best, kind of thing
    A picture of you smiling
    and a General “Levis jean” look–commercial.

    Your headline is boring.
    Everything is boring.
    And maybe, if you are really not attractive, yet slamming body, get a job at the strip club.

    OH, NEVER MENTION YOU SMOKE!! I am a social smoker, I guess, but I don’t put that down. It’s a turn off.

  554. SexyRockstar says:

    @Heather
    Before I even look at your profile, I must warn you, I may not be the nicest person. I will be honest, but from what I am already reading about what you’re saying.

    I am 25, I have 2 kids…and I have custody of them. Therefore, if I was an SD and caught wind of your situation, that is a red flag. Having no job too? Geez. Sugar isn’t supposed to be your main source of income. You need SOMETHING. No body likes a girl who can’t even have a job. Being from a small town? Who cares? Go to school or something, or get an online job, or fuck, hit up a strip club.

    There will be someone who will think you’re a charity case and take advantage of that. So…sheesh. If you’re mentally able to handle banging guys for a quick form of cash by meeting them off of here, you may have luck. But, it won’t last. Maybe all you need is a few of those to get you on your feet before you can focus a real SD.

    But, let me see this profile :)

  555. MOe El says:

    i probably shouldn’t of did that

  556. MOe El says:

    I’m thinking her profile is e2492d77

  557. SexyRockstar says:

    …can someone send me
    @heathers
    profile ID? I can’t find it.

  558. SexyRockstar says:

    I am back and ave a few hours to kill to help out.

    Okay, so this heather person. I will look at your profile

  559. Josh says:

    @fly is a pimp. He peddles SBs on SA.

  560. MaggieS says:

    thank you for your advice @JoeF
    @Josh: I sent you information, check on your e-mail
    @FLYR: what do you say you’re doing??

  561. MaggieS says:

    I won’t never ever ask to @FunDude anything about my profile, ahahahahaha!!!

  562. JoeF says:

    @MaggieS
    While it was good you updated your profile when it comes to location, you might want to add that it where you want to go and not where you live to avoid confusion just like Josh advised Elita.

  563. heather says:

    I have a baby sitter for all of that

  564. FLYR says:

    Actually I’m just the media hack for the TGFU SB cartel run out of Bogata . It’s a diversification initiative of a well known agricultural based family enterprise.

  565. Josh says:

    @Heather, I looked up where you live.

    Never say never, but with your situation, I don’t see a whole lot of potential, and with one year-old, how are you going to travel, let alone international?

    I see continuous drama for the SD who arranges with you.

    From nicer photos to better profile, you need to convince the potential SD that you are going to provide him some fun times and not drama galore.

  566. Heather says:

    @Josh I have 2 kids my mom has guardianship of my oldest no boyfriend and as for no job I live in a small town and all the jobs are taken and no one has room to employ one more person and my youngest turns 1 in a week and I am trying to get her father to pay child support (he’s not a SD)

  567. RookieSD says:

    @Josh
    Thus spake @flyR the pimp.

    I notice the “Penguin” doing the occasional “drive-by” of the “Bat Cave”…

  568. Josh says:

    @heather,

    Do you have a boyfriend and/or kids?

    Why are you unemployed?

  569. heather says:

    @struggle cannot aford a passport and yes pending aproval I went ahead and redid it all and I got a new picture pending aproval so it will take a while

  570. FunDude says:

    @FLYR and Josh

    LOL FLYR isn’ a “pimp” unless that is by definition some pussy mangina that tries to be “sensitive” in getting women.

    Getting advice from FLYR on attaining women is the same as asking Pee Wee Herman how to lift weights.

    Not logical.

  571. Josh says:

    Thus spake @flyR the pimp.

  572. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude next year! That’s the plan!

  573. FLYR says:

    FD Asks Can anyone explain why I get messages from all over the place?”

    1) Some offended by your posts have posted your profile on “Farm Fresh Sugar” or SD’s Seeking Trannies

    2) If it is like the SD first screen on signin there’s a batch of pictures

    3) They are trying to harvest emails to use in porn marketing

    My question is if the women on SA are so bad, overly demanding , overweight and psycho , why are you here?

    Are there dogs on SA – yes

    Are there arrogant demands based on nothing more than fantasy – yes

    Are there intelligent, sexy, sensual women willing to accept reasonable allowances from quality men — YES

    Sugar is something of an obstacle course – whining that the wall is too tall, the pond too wide , the jump too high, the load too heavy leaves your where you are ……

    For a reasonably intelligent and respectful man of average looks there’s an abundance of great sexy women 5-20 years younger, who love great sex (surprisingly high number of college women have had a lot of sex but few if any earth rattling orgasms), have wonderful, slender, tight bodies, and extremely reasonable allowance expectations, high level of experimentation , for those whom they want to be with. Ladies first is never out of style.

    The’re not interested in being a sperm depository for an arrogant, dismissive, all business, whiny thug dressed in his ebola suit and renting a cheap hotel room by the hour.

  574. SouthernSB says:

    @FunDude-Oh and also ballet dancers, they never have money and they are in the best shape possible.

  575. RookieSD says:

    Maybe scammers?

  576. SouthernSB says:

    @FunDude-You need to stick to cheerleaders and Hooter’s girls.

  577. FunDude says:

    @ Kenna

    Going to have kids soon?

  578. FunDude says:

    @ Rookie

    I used to live in NYC. Now I am in an unremarkable mid sized city in Michigan.

    So I am not in one of those more “attractive” places. But I get women from NYC, Chicago, Eastern Europe, Taiwan, Alabama, Kentucky, etc messaging me.

  579. RookieSD says:

    @FunDude
    “Can anyone explain why I get messages from all over the place?”

    Well that seems easy enough to explain cause it happens to me as well. If you happen to live in or in close proximity to one of the higher per capita cities where there are a larger number of SDs and/or that area is also known as a fun town, ie. New York, Miami, LA etc. you are more likely to get messaged by SBs from less “attractive” locations.
    and or fun areas.

  580. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude late 40s

  581. FunDude says:

    Kenna

    How old is your sugar daddy?

  582. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle so SD just basically told me he has good news, bad news and really bad news.

    Really Bad News- his company needs him in Santa Clara at least 2-3 weeks per month. He says he will have to be there the better part of this year and maybe next year; he wants me to quit job, work on finishing PhD this semester and move to join him in May.

    Bad news- I will have to fly out every weekend he’s not here to be with him. He will only be in NY one week, possibly two weekends per month. We also have to push back my birthday plans because some mess he has to deal with here in the Cali office.

    Good news- we will celebrate my 25th birthday in Paris but at a later date and he’s still getting carriage house so I can live there while he is in SFO.

    I’m moody, sad and mind fucked. :-(

  583. FunDude says:

    Most of the hotties emailing me are significant distances away. I find that quite annoying.

    Don’t know why I get tons of messages from women all over the country and internationally.

    Can anyone explain why I get messages from all over the place?

  584. FunDude says:

    BBW= big and beautiful woman.

    That is what the fatties call themselves these days.

    Or often “curvy”, which is nonsense. “Curvy” is still relatively thin with big boobs and a butt. Traditional curvy women are HOT.

    If a woman is fat, regardless of age, she isn’t really sugar baby material, in my view.

    Fat chicks should go for unemployed men. Tom Leykis has a great video on this subject, just look it up on youtube.

    Tom Leykis explains that “God made fat women so that unemployed men could have a woman”.

    Truer words have NEVER been spoken. Bravo Tom Leykis.

  585. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle welcome to the good life SDs can provide!!

  586. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Fun
    What is “BBW” ?

  587. FunDude says:

    Preaching the man gospel on the blog on this blog daily. Someone has got to do it!

    @Struggle

    I have met people off of this site. Doing decently well on the intimacy part. Just nothing I would consider that “special” yet. Guess I have high “standards”. Terrible thing for men, I know.

    I am shocked how many younger women are fatties these days as well. Half of the women in their 20s are “BBW” these days. Shit is getting UNREAL

  588. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    I have been to both, but only for work, so I was not able to really enjoy the place. I am SO excited! And I always fly coach so this is kind of crazy for me!

  589. StruggleIsReal says:

    @SB HEARTS IN MY EYES!! Good stuff!

    @Heather
    Hun, your current profile, is it the one waiting approval ? Because it needs some serious help. But I don’t want to belabor the fact, if you are just waiting for the new version to be approved.
    But… help getting a passport ? Why can you not do this on your own ?

  590. KennaKenn says:

    @Struggle yes, for those long flights there’s a pod- I love Emirates too.

    Have you ever been to Asia? You’ll love Hong Kong and Tokyo is great. Traveling is the best thing you can do, it gives you a wealth of knowledge.

  591. Heather says:

    Thank you guys for the help :)

  592. Heather says:

    Made some changes in my profile I hope it’s good just waiting for the pending approval

  593. **SB_UK** says:

    And my ASS is back 😛

  594. StruggleIsReal says:

    @SB
    Tell crass POT that he better take it down a notch or BlogBootyFest 2015 will smother him. Wait, no. Don’t tell him that.
    And yes please. Bring up the rear, dear. Butts are YAY.

  595. StruggleIsReal says:

    *two

  596. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Chrissy
    All this excitement. What are too heinies to do ?! Let’s scooch them around on one another. hehe
    My brain is being incinerated by desire. Haaaaalp! haha

  597. **SB_UK** says:

    @struggle I had lunch with a POT yesterday, and a coffee with another today. Still talking to both and I had a nice time. Although the one from yesterday has been a little crude in texts since we had lunch yesterday. Oh I guss I best change my gravatar back to my ass then 😉

  598. RookieSD says:

    @Struggles
    Should have an ASS carnival. Just need to know where I can get tickets to get on the rides.

  599. Chrissy says:

    Oh I am too excited. My week of being in heat, forced porn watching, and “assignments” for being naughty can finally end!

    I feel for you @Struggle waiting so long to meet your SD, no wonder you are so freaking frisky!

  600. StruggleIsReal says:

    SD just booked me first class on Singapore Air to be with him in Tokyo & Hong Kong, end of March. There are doors on our pod. Doors. I didn’t even know there was such a thing on an airplane (other than the obvious). SA, I love you right now. God. He is amazing.

  601. StruggleIsReal says:

    @SB_UK
    Fun stuff!! Atta girl! Are you with SD? Or friends?
    PS. Tomorrow ASS WEEK starts here. You may as well go ahead and get your butt back up on the blog 😉

  602. **SB_UK** says:

    Having a great weekend in London :-) had a really bad head ache all day from drinking a bottle of champagne last night, not one of my best ideas 😉 don’t want to go home tomorrow am having to much fun :-(

  603. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    OMG. Let’s get frisky in his wine cellar. Feed each other some finely aged liquid. He can man the video and then I’ll shoot you two. HAWT. hehe

  604. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle I’m a wine lover, current SD got me into it. He has more than 1000 bottles in his condo, all the good stuff :-).

    He put an offer in on a new place with a wine cellar; I really hope he gets it because I love that place.

  605. MaggieS says:

    @Kenna, drink a lot of water and eat some bananas, it will help with your hangover sweetie

  606. StruggleIsReal says:

    Bring it @Lainey! Blog bitch shut the asses down!! hehe

    @Kenna
    Oh how fun!! I LOVE bubbly as long as it’s dry. OMG I cannot deal with a sweet wine.

    @Fun
    You seriously have found nothing here in all this time? As you can see, we all share and vent and do complain at times. However, you are the only one who appears to literally have no success. I have had success beyond my greatest expectations. Uuuuuughh I want him nowwwwww!

  607. RookieSD says:

    @FunDude
    “LOL I like to whine.”

    @Josh
    FunDude’s not whining, he’s preaching the word.

  608. Josh says:

    @Kenna

    Don’t you worry…there is room for all kinds of booties in the bootie garden started by the Guru. 😉

  609. Josh says:

    @FunDude

    “LOL I like to whine.”

    Really, I would not have guessed! 😉

  610. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie

    Yes, @Lainey will put us all to shame lol.

  611. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    “I’m loving booty week on the blog. Nice asses girls.”

    Making it rain on the blog. Just waiting for the “main event” when Lainey steps into the ring…

  612. KennaKenna says:

    Good morning folks!

    Had a blast in Scottsdale last night, I felt like I was 18 again. We went to a club, SD got us a booth and I drank way too much champagne so got a little crazy, now my head is killing me!

    I hate champagne, give me a nice bottle of wine anyday.

  613. KennaKenna says:

    I’m loving booty week on the blog. Nice asses girls.

    @Lainey I don’t have a car, but SD has a Range Rover and a Porsche. He has free parking and uses the SUV about once per week now. The Porsche just sits there until May and he uses it every weekend then when we go to to the Hamptons.

  614. MaggieS says:

    thank you so much @Dazed and @Rookie, I already changed it :*

  615. FunDude says:

    @Struggle

    LOL I like to whine. That is the purpose of this place. I come on here to whine basically lol.

    I’ll stop whining when I get some higher quality chicas lol. I have to keep rejecting them despite getting tons of messages lol

  616. Dazed-SD says:

    I like both also, but the one touching her ear should go first, then the hat.
    I really like the hat one too though it shows a more casual side and I like casual.

  617. RookieSD says:

    I like the pic with hand touching ear, I’m drawn to her smile, plus something about a woman with her head tilted slightly to the side excites me…

  618. MaggieS says:

    @Struggle, yes I am, that’s me, and I already thought about Miami, it’s the nearest point to my country…and thank you dear, you’re so sweet!
    @Josh: thank you sweetie, I will try with that one, I’m working on my profile as you told me yesterday

  619. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Josh @Maggie
    I like the ear-touch photo because I feel it says more about her. I do like the hat photo too. I like all her picutres. I think they offer a fair description of her and who she is. She needs much more profile text though. You and @Sexy are helping her on that, right ?

  620. Josh says:

    @MaggieS

    I just could not decide which one will do well; the one with hat or the one touching your ear.

    Both of them are awesome. @Struggle likes the one touching ear. That’s great.

    Let’s take a poll…what do SDs think:

    1. The photo with hat?
    2. The photo with hand touching ear?

    If you can’t get clear consensus then once your profile is touched up alternate the two photos on weekly basis until you figure out what the SDs reading your profile like.

  621. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Maggie
    Sorry, I just noticed your location. Yes, again, do as @Josh suggested and target areas in the US that are easily traveled to by you. Miami, etc. Is that you in your gravatar ?

  622. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Maggie
    You are a beautiful woman. Use the pic of you touching your ear as your profile pic (as @Josh suggested). The rest of the profile advice is fully covered by @Sexy and @Josh already. You’ll do well, I feel. I can tell you are full of life and positive energy.

  623. MaggieS says:

    eb48b2f5 hehehe sorry, this one

  624. MaggieS says:

    @Struggle: here it is again, but @Josh and @Sexyrockstar are helping me a lot with it

  625. StruggleIsReal says:

    @ATL
    Maybe post a gravi of your self-described ass? hehe

    @Rookie
    Haha. Thanks dear. My ass will be here a while (much to the dismay of many hehe) 😉

  626. StruggleIsReal says:

    Waiting for @Lainey’s ass to embarrass us all!! Break the interwebs!

    @ss1959
    Mmmmm I’m over your lap!

    @Maggie
    Oh fun babe! Hey, I missed the part where you apparently posted your profile ID. What is it, if you don’t mind sharing again? Or you can email it to me at StruggleIsReal02 at gmail .

    @Chrissy
    LOVE it!!!!

    @FunDude
    Sigh. Do you EVER stop whining?! Goodness babe.

  627. FunDude says:

    Reading another article on the “daily mail” about how some art guy is getting “divorced” and the judge is throwing out the prenup because she supposedly didn’t understand German (the woman is Scandinavian).

    This guy probably didn’t realize how shitty American divorce laws were. Unless you have ten witness, lawyers, etc then you prenup has no chance of standing.

    At least that billionaire has his prenup standing so far (dude in Chicago)

  628. FunDude says:

    I think the quality of some of the “sugar babies” is pretty bad. Some of these women are delusional to think men will pay them for “hanging out” or some other bullshit.

    Even if she is young and hot, I won’t pay her to “hang out”. That is worthless to pay for.

  629. MaggieS says:

    weee!!! @Chrissy!!! :)

  630. Chrissy says:

    In celebration of booty gravatar week I must oblige!

  631. FunDude says:

    Getting messages from people in Finland.

    Also, just got a message from a 21 y/o old that was average in looks. She says she will “cook, clean, do laundry, etc” but that SA “isn’t a pimp and I’m not a ho”. Got to love this stuff lol.

    DELETE that one.

    20 y/o Sorority girl who looks cute emailed me as well, Her profile states that she won’t have time to travel because “she has college and sorority stuff” to do. My profile clearly states I want to travel and have fun.

    Most likely delete. Just emailed her back that her profile was unacceptable for my tastes.

    Crazy times on seeking arrangement lol

  632. resop2 says:

    @FLYR: I think the reality is worse than you are describing. The Samsung service center that installed the new hard disk (and charged me big money for it) did not install windows 8.1 they installed windows 8. Worse, they did not save a recovery point before shipping it back. Since I do not have six months of intensive training in how to safely use windows 8, I was able to break the OS within 30 minutes and now I have no way to recover. It will probably cost MORE money to fix the incompetent job these idiots did on the install.

    (For those wondering what I did, I did the following steps: a) install classic shell so that I would be able to do anything at all on the crappy machine b) installed firefox so I wouldn’t need the malware IE c) I tried to disable IE and Media Player (more malware) at the same time. When the OS tried to make the adjustments it collapsed and gave me the black screen of death. I was able (after much research online) to boot back up in safe mode, but none of the recovery paths are open since they never made a recovery point. So, my machine is completely bricked and will need another windows install.)

    And, to make things even more vexing the service center is closed til Monday.

  633. ss1959 says:

    @StruggleIsReal: “I take the blame!!
    Who wants to spank me?! hehe”

    Bend over sweetie…

  634. MaggieS says:

    ohh…good morning to all!! 😛

  635. MaggieS says:

    girls, @Kenna gave us the bootie pattern, and I have to say it worked, I’m talking with a nice guy who was here on the blog, he is so cute!!

  636. RookieSD says:

    @Struggles
    That’s your best gravatar yet. Please don’t ever change it.

  637. THEATLSD says:

    @English
    Glad I made you laugh. And struggles and a few others. I was in a spunky mood yesterday.
    I hope you are copying and pasting @struggles lessons into a word doc. Then you can make a power point presentation out of it.

    “Milking it for all its worth” I love double
    entrendre’s.

    @Struggles. Yea babe karma seems to going the right way. (Jumps up and down and wiggles my fat hairy white ass. )

  638. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Lainey
    Do it!
    Haha I was trying to get away from it but it was requested to bring it back. I have to say, booties make a gravi!

  639. THEATLSD says:

    Interesting fact of the day fromTHE ATL to Columbus. There are 9 flights a day on The big D. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm

  640. StruggleIsReal says:

    @ATL @Online
    All our bitching last year was duly noted and attended to by the sugary karmic forces. :)

  641. Lainey says:

    All these booty avis. I’d post mine but it may not fit lol

  642. THEATLSD says:

    @ONSD
    “@ATL – Man, I step away and get tossed under the bus?”

    Bro. I was throwing your flaky SB under the bus. Yes I heard the news and think it’s
    awesome and about time.
    I have a good POT also right now. Im so damn busy it’s hard to set up anything except coffee or lunches.
    Keep it rolling bro!!

  643. Lainey says:

    @NY SBs do you guys have cars or even use them if you do?

  644. StruggleIsReal says:

    FYI, @Fat isn’t nearly as fat as one would think. He’s actually a rather nice looking fella. Don’t let him fool you 😉

  645. StruggleIsReal says:

    @English
    Haha @ATL made you LOL in class! Love it.

    But listen little grasshopper, you can’t crack up in the middle of a blowjob. You have to conserve your breath because once that swollen cock head is in the back of your throat, a girl can only sip air between thrusts. Laughing takes quite a lot of air and we have none to waste at that time.
    #DickSuckingLessons
    #LearningToSwallow
    😉

  646. JoeF says:

    @Tess

    While professional photos would be best a selfie taken in day light and from straight ahead would probably be better than what you have now.

  647. Dazed-SD says:

    @english, “I’m in the Midwest sweetheart…not too far from @ Dazed and @ONSD. There’s a rivalry between U of M and my uni…hope you are a football fan”
    So you are from Ohio ? 😉

  648. JoeF says:

    @Elita if you are still with us.
    As a lot of the other members her have said if you truly are the girl in pictures and are law student like you claim you have a lot of potential.

    I personally don’t like the whole Kardashian look you have got going, but your mind interests me quite a bit.

    To prove that you are for real you should add to your private photo section a photo holding up a sign saying “Elita@SA”, this show that other photos are not stolen even if they are modelling shots.

    But as I said in my last post your location and nationality makes for filling the following in your profile “Ultimately I am not looking for a pen pal type of relationship, but something that would quickly evolve outside the virtual concept” very difficult, especially if you don’t want to risk traveling.

    All is not lost, but you need to take your time. Chance are that if you first meet a SD you will land him so speak.

    Your profile does need some clean up as other have told, also you should change the main profile picture from a full body to a head shot to draw more attention, that black outfit photo you have up now is not helping you getting a POT SD on to your profile.

  649. sexyrockstar says:

    @englishismy
    I’m from Chicago. Drummer is from Michigan :)

  650. sexyrockstar says:

    @keo
    Email me babe.
    Guitargoddess1989
    At
    Yahoo

  651. FLYR says:

    @RESOP – Windows is like the SB you drifted away from a year ago and 30 seconds after she returned this week you discovered she was addicted to crack . But in both cases you are already in bed with a sick companion……

    One thing to be thankful for is that Microsoft does not make airplanes.

  652. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    StruggleIsReal says:

    @ATL @English @YGBKM
    English, where do you reside dear?
    I’m in the Midwest sweetheart…not too far from @ Dazed and @ONSD. There’s a rivalry between U of M and my uni…hope you are a football fan ( not that I know much about American football) or you won’t have a clue what I’m talking about:-)

  653. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    @ATL-I’m not one of @ONSD SB. I keep my promises. Give me an email and the world is yours. Including a jar of numbing cream. Do you use that before the clench teeth BJ?)

    Lmao!i burst out into my most unladylike laughter ( I was in class btw thanks) and now people must think I’m crazy….You’re going to milk this for all it’s worth aren’t you?

  654. Keo says:

    @Sexy ..Got it 😉

    Live in Lansing. Right at the border of Indiana. We should definitely hang out! Rivers Is like 45 minutes on 294. You and SD going anywhere for restaurant week?

  655. flyR says:

    @ heather – “Anyone wanna inbox me advice new to all this”

    Have not followed nor read your profile . You are marketing a fantasy to a most likely more mature man. “wanna” = delete unless you are looking for a 20’s highschool dropout or one of Suge’s now unemployed followers

  656. KennaKenna says:

    @Heather I don’t like your profile at all. Your “What I’m looking For” section makes you sound desperate, do not put unemployed as your education- are you in college? Maybe put student?

    Your photo isn’t a clear/flattering one either.

    Maybe @Sexy can help you tomorrow.

  657. heather says:

    Sorry again cheap 4sight tablet double pasted

  658. heather says:

    @josh sorry didn’t notice that I had to copy and paste my profile new to the blog deal

  659. KennaKenna says:

    @Sexy good luck, win that money girl!

  660. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Sexy…text me more about the MI trip…I’ll find a place serving Old Style 😉

  661. Josh says:

    I am going for fun times.

    The resident pimp @flyR may post his nonsense now. 😉

    Good night!

  662. sexyrockstar says:

    I’m taking the night off. Will help sometime tomorrow. I’m going out with my gays tonight.

    Another casino night! Mama go win money.

  663. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @ATL – Man, I step away and get tossed under the bus?

    “I’m not one of @ONSD SB. I keep my promises.”

    Did you miss the news? I have TWO right now that have passed a second meet and looking like a decision for me pending in the near future…

  664. Josh says:

    @heather

    The bloggers here provide free service to delusional SBs that flock to SA due to its cheesy marketing.

    If you can prove that you are not delusional and are indeed respectful of those who try to help you here, then post your profile id.

    If you are here to vent, whine or argue, then go right ahead. Your are not the first, and you won’t be the last.

  665. heather says:

    Anyone wanna inbox me advice new to all this……inbox sweetone on SA pretty please….I have had no luck on here and not sure as to what I am doin wrong :(

  666. Josh says:

    I often post this profile to demonstrate how to write a fun profile.

    About Me

    The top 10 reasons I have been rated as amazing:

    10. I am a firm believer in the benefits of lingerie instead of “comfortable” underwear.

    9. I tend to not nag or complain because chances are I am oblivious to and really don’t care about the “small stuff”. Besides, complaining is hard work and chances are you won’t change so why waste my time and try your patience.

    8. You will be excited to take me out in public and your friends will probably be jealous, because yes I always should look put together or at least just rolled out of bed hot, which ironically takes more time than nonbedded hot.

    7. You will never have to compete with me…unless we go bowling and in which case, it’s on.

    6. You will be surprised when I kiss you unexpectedly, a little too passionately and more than likely in unexpected places, in front of unexpected people.

    5. You will never see me roll my eyes at you, because I respect you. If I didn’t I wouldn’t be wasting my time with you.

    4. You will see me smile and laugh far more often than I frown and definitely more often than I cry.

    3. You will find yourself thinking seriously about my observations on life and current events, random events and as always celebrity gossip, because I am well informed and intelligent.

    2. You will never hold my purse at the shoe store. You will never even be at a shoe store, unless you’ve determined my shoes are inappropriate and have decided to buy me new ones.

    1. You will never hear the most dreaded words ever, “I’m not in the mood”. Those are some of the top reasons I’ve been rated as amazing, I have references and am more than willing to present a portfolio. So go ahead send me a message, I don’t bite…unless you want me to.

    What I’m looking for

    The arrangement is open for negotiation depending on our individual wants and needs. I am a XXXX for a XXX company that serves the XXXX sector. I travel frequently to

  667. FunDude says:

    @ Josh

    Finished at work. Going out tomorrow night to celebrate with some hot chicks tomorrow night to celebrate.

    Guess these hot chicks don’t exist because no SDs can get any hotties.

    She has shown me! I am only attacking fatter and older women because “I am bitter about hot women”?

    Don’t even understand the logic. Its too much to comprehend. She is too brilliant to understand.

    Shaming language on STEROIDS!

  668. Josh says:

    Clarification: If you do decide to send me an email, then I don’t want any identifiable information from you. So don’t include where you went to school, where you work, your real name, etc. I don’t need any of that.

  669. MaggieS says:

    @Josh: I’ll send you an e-mail right now, ok? maybe you will get someday a blowjob from me…who knows? hehehe

  670. resop2 says:

    Stupid SB profile of the week:

    A SB has a tag line of “I want to be your fantasy”, and has a picture that looks right out of a horror movie. The picture makes it look like she is thinking of where to bury your body after killing you in the most horrible way possible.

  671. Josh says:

    Then get rid of the photo with yellow top.

  672. Josh says:

    @StruggleIsReal

    “@Josh
    Should I put my butt back up ?”

    Yes dear…but only if you want to as well. 😉

  673. Josh says:

    @MaggieS

    Your profile is too short to work with.

    If you want my help, then either type a lot of stuff on your profile and I will edit it down for you OR

    Send me as much details about your personality, qualification, experiences and sugar expectations as possible to my email josh12390 at outlook dot com.

    The possibility of me ever getting a blow job out of you are limited, but the possibility of you getting thousands of dollars in sugar allowances are real. 😉

  674. MaggieS says:

    ehhmmm no, I don’t…why @Josh? I would love to, everyone has one here, but no, I don’t

  675. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Josh
    Should I put my butt back up ?

  676. Josh says:

    @MaggieS

    Do you ride motorcycle?

  677. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    “@Josh Darlin

    Well, you hit this one on the head.”

    I am the Guru. Learn and grow rich!

  678. MaggieS says:

    ahahahahahaha, good point @Josh!!

  679. resop2 says:

    I just got my new computer back after it’s hard disk failed. I am now trying to modify Windows 8 so that it is not an abomination. It is a nightmare. The Metro virus that is shipped with Windows 8 is making every installation nerve wracking.

  680. Josh says:

    @MaggieS

    I will help you sweetheart. You have demonstrated that aside from your geographical challenges, you could be a great SB for a lucky SD.

    Get rid of your main photo. Remove it entirely.

    Put the photo with the hat or the one in which you are touching your ear as the main photo.

    I will also edit your profile. It will not cost you anything but if you do make it to the US, you will owe me a blow job or two or three. Hahahahaha!!!

  681. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh Darlin
    I’ve been here reading all of this for a few days now. Learning so much. Quite interesting. I told myself I should keep quiet, but your last comment… “When it comes to male-female interactions, men all over the world oscillate between dumb and dumber. Whereas women oscillate between crazy and batshit crazy.” Well, you hit this one on the head. I am LMAO. Thank you for putting a needed smile on my face this evening…. even if I am probably old enough to be your Momma. LOL

  682. Josh says:

    @MaggieS

    Sweetheart, that’s not a new piece of information.

    Don’t blame Colombianos. When it comes to male-female interactions, men all over the world oscillate between dumb and dumber. Whereas women oscillate between crazy and batshit crazy.

  683. MaggieS says:

    ahahahahahahahaha!!!! I said it because of my own experience, ahahahahahaha!!! you should talk with a Colombian man to prove it, they are really stupid!!

  684. Josh says:

    @MaggieS

    “man in his 40′s behaves like a stupid adolescent sometimes”

    First things first…stop watching Spanish version of Oprah. Immediately. 😉

  685. Josh says:

    @Struggle, where’s your butt shot dear?

  686. MaggieS says:

    @Josh: I’m not looking for a guy of my age, or younger…sorry, but if a man in his 40’s behaves like a stupid adolescent sometimes, I don’t want anyone younger either…my search is for an SD after 45 until…maybe 60…

  687. sexyrockstar says:

    @keo
    Heh.I only worked with mancow for a year. If I say any more I will be outed. Lol.

    How far away do you live from rivers casino dear? I want a real life sugar friend

  688. Josh says:

    May not hurt. You can give it a try @MaggieS.

  689. FatB'StardSA says:

    @resop2

    “This way, SB’s don’t get hit on by people they think are gross…”

    I thought that was the whole point of SA. They should change the motto on the front page from “Where beautiful, successful people fuel mutually beneficial relationships” to “Where an ugly motherfucker like you can date a broke women who thinks you are gross”

  690. Josh says:

    @resop2

    How often do you see 60, 50, 40 something SDs in SA’s marketing? Their male models are in high 20s and 30s.

  691. MaggieS says:

    ok…now, about that brain stuff…I’m a biologist and I’m finishing a Naturals and Exact Sciences Teaching master’s degree, do you think it’s necessary to put this information on my profile? I thought I could seem too nerdy (I’m a nerd :p )

  692. resop2 says:

    @Josh: LOL

    Well, I don’t have high expectations for SA so I was trying to keep things a simple as possible.

    Unfortunately, I think if SA does implement this, when I do a search in my area I will get zero SB’s. They all seem to think that some 20 something SD is going to sweep them off their feet, not realizing that 20 something rich guy does not even need a SB, and certainly does not need a delusional SB like them.

  693. FatB'StardSA says:

    I am posting from a mobile device, the addiction is growing, will it reach @Josh proportions I do not know…

    @Josh

    “You can CATCH more flies with a pussy than a brain”

    Is that some sort of Venus Fly Trap pussy?

    [\img\]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P3pmwrtlDaY[\img\]

  694. Josh says:

    @resop2:

    The question should be fully qualified 😉

    “How old is too old for a SD for you even if he is willing to put you in his will?”

  695. Keo says:

    @Sexy Did you ever say which station you were on? I’m trying to place you

  696. resop2 says:

    @Josh: the flies/honey is a reference to?

  697. Josh says:

    []http://tinyurl.com/jw5wp3e[]

  698. Keo says:

    @Resop2 I think it’s a great idea

  699. Josh says:

    Catching flies with honey NEVER made any sense to me.

    The pussy version is infinitely more comprehensible.

  700. sexyrockstar says:

    @dazed
    Email me babe. I’ll be in Michigan on Thursday. Let’s pick up women!
    Guitargoddess1989
    At
    Yahoo

  701. Josh says:

    Dang I screwed it…let’s try it again.

    You can CATCH more flies with a pussy than a brain. 😉

  702. Josh says:

    @resop2

    You can attract more flies with a pussy than a brain, or can you? 😉

  703. resop2 says:

    I thought of something that SA could do that would vastly improve the experience for both SD’s and SB’s.

    For SB’s have as part of the profile “How old is too old for a SD for you?” and then make it searchable. This way, SB’s don’t get hit on by people they think are gross and SD’s can avoid SB’s who won’t appreciate them.

    Do you guys think this is a good idea?

  704. “Josh says:
    January 30, 2015 at 6:25 pm
    Now ask the same question of a delusional SB. She will give you an Oprah-ish answer, which will frustrate you for ever…”

    @Maggie

    Let me first ask…as I always do…

    Are you here to learn, or are you here to vent, whine and argue?*

    [A ygbkm original*]

    *hehe

  705. Josh says:

    For whatever it is worth, you may give Miami or NY a try. Start with Miami.

  706. resop2 says:

    @Maggie: As I have said before, your pictures do not need to be changed. You need to focus on finding out what is unique and exciting about yourself and then communicating it on your profile.

    As for your location, I can emphasize with your pain. There are not that many people within a 100 mile radius of me and most of the ones that are within 100 miles are looking at sugaring as their primary source of income, or are very young and have kids, or haven’t been on SA for four months.

  707. MaggieS says:

    @Josh: ok, thank you :)

  708. Josh says:

    Now ask the same question of a delusional SB. She will give you an Oprah-ish answer, which will frustrate you for ever…

  709. Josh says:

    No. Given your location, and especially age, that advise may not work. @Elita is almost half your age. Never say never, but not too many SDs are going to fly in a 30-something from a Latin country.

    And looking at the photo you asked me to use in your profile, you are still picturing yourself as a school/college girl. Snap out of it sweetheart.

  710. MaggieS says:

    ok @Josh…I thought about the advice you gave to @Elita yesterday…should I do that?

  711. KennaKenna says:

    @Josh

    BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

  712. Josh says:

    @MaggieS

    NO.

    The problem is not your photos or profile. The problem is your current location. How do you plan to address that?

  713. Dazed-SD says:

    @kenna, @Dazed is handsome :-). I’m pleasantly surprised,, oh thanks alot ! LOL

  714. MaggieS says:

    @Josh: hi, this picture in my avatar…that’s me 😉
    what do you think about that picture? should I put it on my profile??

  715. Josh says:

    @KennaKenna

    “I eat like 4 dozen at a time”

    Why stop at 4 dozon, go for 8-10 dozen if SD is paying for it. Eat 4 dozen. Stuff the rest in the purse.

    Don’t know about “aphrodisiac” but they are definitely cholesterol-isiac. 😉

  716. MaggieS says:

    well @Kenna…no, they aren’t, aphrodisiacs don’t exist. Energetic food or some specific food work like a booster, but food hasn’t that kind of “power”…all is in your mind

  717. Ladyscarlett says:

    @Josh, I feel like what I said what twisted around a bit…you know that post was directed at fundude, who came on blog bragging about not having to, or getting out of paying allowances to some of the hotties he has met on SA. He uses gaming lingo and speaks about men being unfairly judged by body type and ridiculous stuff like that, which is comical most of the time, hehe.

    I realise that certain men, on SA, or wealthy men in general, were shy in their younger days, had low self-esteem, social disorder, or could not get the girl they really wanted…So, fair enough, they SHOULD and CAN get exactly what they want now that they are successful, or have overcome shyness, ect….but there are also some of the bitter guys, here and there, who are hateful to young, hot, old, fat, short, tall women, ect….it is equal opportunity women hating.

    Anyway, am glad you made the point about the undesirable women entering the seeking arrangement space. They are not vetted for attractiveness ect…That is a weakness that I asked you about, in regards to SA….you also made the point about any man who can afford the $70 a month being able to advertise himself as an ‘SD’. Yet another weakness of SA, as many of the girls can attest to so many fakes being paying members, on SA. Will see how perfect arrangements works out for them. Time will tell, but their price point jumped dramatically…and shows even they know their quality on SA is not as good as it once was.

    Very good point…

    “As far as men with means…you don’t need to have millions to play the SD game. All you need is a decent disposable income every month and penchant for young pussy. Whether an SD is a billionaire or a hundred thousandaire, he pays the same $70/month. SA cannot sustain itself at the current price point by only catering to billionaires or even millionaires only.”

    As far as both undesirable men and women, on SA…

    So, my argument could be, just as an example….why would I care about an arrangement with some guy in middle management, making under a certain amount, who are married, and can only meet behind the scenes at some lower end hotel, sneaking around, when I can date guys making that much money in regular dating, BUT the men are actually single, more attractive, and do not have to sneak around and hide if we go out? What can some married guy, who probably cannot even gift much allowance because his wife would notice, and most of his disposable income is tied up in his wife’s leased Honda do for me or women who seek quality SDs?

    With that being said, if the man(SD) is single and attractive, and open to something more long-term, then a single and younger sugar daddy who makes less money could be acceptable, since he is earlier in his career, and not making as much income, or his net worth is not as high(this is just a hypothetical here)…yes, I can see that….and can understand. So, can understand this thinking, too.

    To me, the SD’s currently marketed to the average income Joe, who just wants to fu– college students for under $500 or $1,000 a month is not a real SD, in my opinion…..and most quality SBs do not want this either.

  718. MaggieS says:

    hi everyone how are you tonight? :)

  719. KennaKenna says:

    Wait quick question- Do you guys think oysters are really an aphrodisiac?

    I’m an oyster/clams/steamer (I eat like 4 dozen at a time) junkie and they do not affect my sex drive, I just LOVE them and have never understood why people say they are an aphrodisiac…

  720. KennaKenna says:

    @Dazed is handsome :-). I’m pleasantly surprised. 😀

  721. Dazed-SD says:

    @sexy. I’m in a little suburb outside Detroit. It’s so beautiful here ! 😉

  722. Dazed-SD says:

    @sexy about 3-1/2 hours

  723. Dazed-SD says:

    @kenna, now you have to tell the other women how good looking I’m even if
    you don’t mean it ! LOL

  724. sexyrockstar says:

    @dazed
    How far is new Buffalo from you

  725. Dazed-SD says:

    @kenna,, email on the way sweety

  726. KennaKenna says:

    @Dazed hehe!

    Email me, will you?

  727. Dazed-SD says:

    @ all,, see what Jack Daniels and Diet coke does to me,, shit makes me all mushy and shit ! LOL

  728. Dazed-SD says:

    @kenna,, Here all along I thought I was next in line with you, if you and your SD broke,, dam,, another slap to the face ! 😉 (or are we going to keep our love a secret ? ) LOL

    @ Lainey,, how many time I’m going to have to tell you to chill girl ? LOL

  729. StruggleIsReal says:

    I take the blame!!
    Who wants to spank me?! hehe

  730. KennaKenna says:

    Btw, I didn’t bring this up. Keo asked and then @Struggle.

    Sorry guys!

  731. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Lainey
    Goddamnitt. I was trying to fight with you. haha
    Any pointers are appreciated.

  732. Lainey says:

    @Struggles we already know I do regularly

  733. KennaKenna says:

    @Dazed SORRY!!!

    Of course, shoot me an email…

    kennakenna267 at gmail

  734. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Lainey
    Suck a dick.

  735. Lainey says:

    I didn’t sign up for fucking kumbaya. Email each other!

  736. Dazed-SD says:

    @josh, I know you have access to all the hot women’s profile because you are the @Guru,, ( I thinks thats how you spell it,,LOL) Chill my brother I’m just mess’in with the girls LOL

    @ kenna, what about me, we haven’t emailed yet !!

  737. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    It’s really fascinating to hear your experience. I hope you understand that I value your sharing it with me and others. I know it’s personal, and good for you for your overcomer’s spirit! It’s incredible what a good person can do in one’s life, especially in a young person’s.

  738. Lainey says:

    Lol @SoutgernSB @Josh we
    dont do stupid fairytales in my house. My daughter hates princesses and barbies. THANK GOD!

    Fairytales don’t exist, but manipulation does. I’m raising my very own Estella.

  739. KennaKenna says:

    @Josh @Struggle I used to be embarrassed about it and was teased all during high school but it pushed me to do AP classes and get out of there early. In college, I didn’t really tell anyone for fear of being a reject but they quickly found out when I had seizures in class or the middle of campus.

    Everyone was super supportive though, and then I met my first SD and he boosted my confidence and made me realize I should be proud of all I achieved despite the cards I’ve been dealt. So now I’m overconfident and a fighter but I’m proud of who I am even though I have epilepsy and mild CP so I don’t mind sharing.

    And the gossipers can talk, people have been talking about me since I was drooling in kindergarten and I’m still awesome! :-)

  740. Josh says:

    Hot off the press.

    Just got a message from a 50 year-old fatty (listed as Average of course) wanting Substantial allowance.

    I can’t read her message as I my membership expired, but I will wait for a few “hotties” to approach me before I renew it, if ever…

  741. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle it varies honestly, constant changing of meds- but I’ve been hospitalized every year on my birthday since my 16th birthday except last year. The last one was last summer but that’s because I was careless and did 2 all-nighters so rest was lacking.

  742. Josh says:

    @StruggleIsReal

    Can’t talk about others. I am sure that many gossip-prone women would be interested, but I am least interested. You may want to start group email going. Thanks

  743. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Josh
    Yes, I do.
    Would you prefer I email this with her? I thought others might be interested.
    @Kenna, if you don’t feel comfy sharing here, please do email me.

  744. **SB_UK** says:

    Well am in London met with a POT earlier half bottle champagne later am in hotel room thinking ill never get up for uni tomorrow hehe

  745. Josh says:

    *As far as men with means…you don’t need to have millions to play the SD game.

  746. Josh says:

    @Ladyscarlett

    “many of these ‘blokes’ are just bitter guys who could never get the hotties they always wanted, so they take pleasure in insulting women later in life, and they have to pay women to go out with them for a reason, you know? Most men with true means do not have time nor the desire to insult women on blogs all day, so do consider the source…”

    As I said earlier, cause and effect is totally out the window, when a woman’s own vagina or some other woman’s vagina is in the mix. @Ladyscarlett is one of the more intelligent bloggers here, but…

    Here are the key words and phrases:

    – bitter guys who could never get the hotties they always wanted

    – they take pleasure in insulting women later in life

    – they have to pay women to go out with them for a reason

    – Most men with true means do not have time nor the desire to insult women on blogs all day

    I am sure that some of the SDs could not get hotties they always wanted…there could be many reasons, such as, they did not have pick up skills OR they had self esteem issues OR they focused on making something out their lives OR they fell in love and got married to a non-hottie to raise a family. There could be numerous other reasons.

    NOW…if they took “pleasure” in insulting the current-day hotties, then it would make sense that they do that because of their bitterness. However, if they are telling older and fatter women to refrain from invading the potential hottie space then all they are trying to do is to hope to have an unadulterated hottie supply.

    They “have to pay women to go out with them for a reason” only holds true if “pay” is interpreted as money. The reality is that except for those men who have perfected the art of “fuck and bolt never to be seen again”, every man PAYS and PAYS and PAYS to have access to pussy. Whether as a boyfriend or a husband or a project, the man PAYS. Either through money or through getting a Phd in Patience-ology or withstanding mindfucks or in extreme cases by losing his life or limb for his woman; regardless of whether she was a hottie or a Jane Musky.

    As far as men with mean…you don’t need to hive millions to play the SD game. All you need is a decent disposable income every month and penchant for young pussy. Whether an SD is a billionaire or a hundred thousandaire, he pays the same $70/month. SA cannot sustain itself at the current price point by only catering to billionaires or even millionaires only.

  747. Josh says:

    @StruggleIsReal

    “@Kenna
    How often would you say that you have seizures? (Thank you so much for sharing dear.)”

    You have @Kenna’s email address, yes? 😉

  748. Josh says:

    @Ladyscarlett
    “many of these ‘blokes’ are just bitter guys who could never get the hotties they always wanted, so they take pleasure in insulting women later in life, and they have to pay women to go out with them for a reason, you know? Most men with true means do not have time nor the desire to insult women on blogs all day, so do consider the source…”
    As I said earlier, cause and effect is totally out the window, when a woman’s own vagina or some other woman’s vagina is in the mix. @Ladyscarlett is one of the more intelligent bloggers here, but…
    Here are the key words and phrases:
    – bitter guys who could never get the hotties they always wanted
    – they take pleasure in insulting women later in life
    – they have to pay women to go out with them for a reason
    – Most men with true means do not have time nor the desire to insult women on blogs all day
    I am sure that some of the SDs could not get hotties they always wanted…there could be many reasons, such as, they did not have pick up skills OR they had self esteem issues OR they focused on making something out their lives OR they fell in love and got married to a non-hottie to raise a family. There could be numerous other reasons.
    NOW…if they took “pleasure” in insulting the current-day hotties, then it would make sense that they do that because of their bitterness. However, if they are telling older and fatter women to refrain from invading the potential hottie space then all they are trying to do is to hope to have an unadulterated hottie supply.
    They “have to pay women to go out with them for a reason” only holds true if “pay” is interpreted as money. The reality is that except for those men who have perfected the art of “fuck and bolt never to be seen again”, every man PAYS and PAYS and PAYS to have access to pussy. Whether as a boyfriend or a husband or a project, the man PAYS. Either through money or through getting a Phd in Patience-ology or withstanding mindfucks or in extreme cases by losing his life or limb for his woman; regardless of whether she was a hottie or a Jane Musky.
    As far as men with mean…you don’t need to hive millions to play the SD game. All you need is a decent disposable income every month and penchant for young pussy. Whether an SD is a billionaire or a hundred thousandaire, he pays the same $70/month. SA cannot sustain itself at the current price point by only catering to billionaires or even millionaires only.

  749. StruggleIsReal says:

    @ATL @English @YGBKM
    English, where do you reside dear?

  750. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    How often would you say that you have seizures? (Thank you so much for sharing dear.)

  751. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle once I’m well rested, eat well and take my meds- I am fine.
    It gets tricky when I get sick and my levels are off and the meds don’t work. I’m great now but it was tough when I was 11-15, missed a lot of high school and meds didn’t work.

  752. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    You are stunning, lil stunner.
    What is your daily battle like, with epilepsy, if you don’t mind sharing ?

  753. THEATLSD says:

    @Struggles
    @English
    “Hey when are we getting together with @ATL for deep-throat / chess lessons ? Haha I would like it also if @YGBKM was there. She’s a pro at chess”
    “@YGBKM
    Chess lessons / deep throat contest. Let’s.
    @ATL …. ”

    Aaaaaaaaahhhhhh, hmmmmmmmmm well let’s see. An undersex guy with lots of testotone. Yes I will do it. I will take one for the team.
    Chess is perfect for the rest and recovery period. We don’t want Englishs jaw to get to tired. (for obvious reasons)

  754. @seekingarangement For the love of all that’s . . please mandate that users must agree and acknowledge that they’ve actually READ another member’s profile BEFORE they are allowed to initiate any form of of contact. Sooooo sick of having to field small talk with the 100 gals a day that write to me only to realize IT’S ALL IN THE F’N PROFILE!!!!!!!!!

    @yougotts nothing naughty unless you wanna count the flogging of the dolphin, ugghhh . . just work, work work work . . oh and work with a side order of work

    @FunDude lol, someone told you to F’k yourself?! If you figure out how lemme know homes. I could save a lot of aggravation if there was an effective protocol for that.

    @Josh It’s a man’s world? NOT! If only I’d been born with blonde hair and a vajayjay . . I’d run sh!t

  755. Josh says:

    Why the fuck this colleague had to do a “baby shower” at work?

    “Logic” is a foreign concept for women, that’s why.

    I totally ignored it but then she chastised me for forgetting it. I had to run to the store to get a damned card and then stick some money into the card to save face. :(

  756. Josh says:

    @SouthernSB

    “@Josh-PLEASE don’t mention that damned song in my presence I HATE that song!!! My granddaughter sings it all the time.”

    See “logic” has nothing to do with conversing with a woman.

    I did not even know that “Let it go” was a song but that was more important for you than the main topic of my response.

    It never fails. 😉

  757. Keo says:

    @Kenna. Easier to find someone who is perfect for us and not just perfect, right :-)

  758. SouthernSB says:

    @Josh-PLEASE don’t mention that damned song in my presence I HATE that song!!! My granddaughter sings it all the time.

  759. Keo says:

    @SouthernSB ain’t it the truth! Thank goodness for Frozen. Finally true love wasn’t able a man saving her!

  760. Josh says:

    @SouthernSB

    Sweetheart, cause and effect are truly lost on women, so it is better just to skip it.

    Fairy tales have been around for millenia…first in oral traditions then through books then through animated media. There’s nothing wrong with girls or boys to be fascinated by fiary tales, magic kingdoms, slaying dragons and what not.

    What’s detrimental is to give media and legal means to these young girls to kick, push or pull boys’ nuts.

    Again, logic and cause and effect don’t bother women. Let it go… 😉

  761. SouthernSB says:

    @FunDude-Don’t blame Oprah or Dr. Phil the damage starts in pre-school. Case in point, how many little girls want to be a Disney Princess, and how many little girls will grow up to be pretty enough to be a “Disney Princess?” Don’t blame this on the talk shows blame it on the writers of fairy tales.

  762. Josh says:

    @Dazed-SD

    Please probe “L***a*” if she is a virgin or she has a man in her life…and why does she want a platonic relationship? 😉

    My membership expired a couple of days ago, and it will be a while before I reinstate it.

  763. KennaKenna says:

    @Keo the meds work great now so hopefully I don’t get anymore. Yes, I LOVEEEEE him :-), we both have our issues and have grown to accept them, no one is perfect.

  764. Josh says:

    @Dazed-SD

    “(oh shit I shouldn’t have asked that, now the men are going to scramble like hell to find it,, sorry) LOL”

    Why do you think that I don’t have access to “L***a*”‘s profile? 😉

  765. Keo says:

    @Kenna. Poor thing! Even knowing what it is and having medical background didn’t prepare me for it. So I can imagine how scary it was for your SD. He sounds like a great guy.

  766. KennaKenna says:

    @Keo yip, meds everyday for the rest of my life. I have grand ma/petite mal, SD was freaked out/scared/shaken up the first and only time he saw me have one- he cried until I woke up and then I cried when I woke up and saw him crying.

    I thought he was going to bolt, and end things but he stuck around and that made me love him a whole lot more. It’s normal to me as I’ve had it all my life, sometimes 5-8 seizures per day, but can be very scary to other people.

  767. KennaKenna says:

    @Josh he is still going to end up owing but his company will also donate a chunk of money.

    All for good Corporate Social Responsibility. I’ll take it however it comes, I’ve always wanted to work/help kids that go through what I went through but don’t have the resources to help them be the best they can be.

  768. Keo says:

    @Kenna 3min!!! Oh wow. Do you have to take meds? I’m sorry to hear that Kenna. My friend mom has it. Ive seen grand mal’s. Very scary:-(

  769. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle thanks, I try but I’m no model like you.

  770. KennaKenna says:

    @Keo epilepsy, stop breathing for 3 minutes in the birth canal.

  771. Dazed-SD says:

    @sexy,, no one can steal from the original baby,, no worries ! 😉

    @struggle, didn’t you post your profile ID a few weeks ago ? your in California right,,if my memory serves me, she’s not as hot a you. 😉 but still hot as heck, ok not hell, but heck. 😉 (oh shit I shouldn’t have asked that, now the men are going to scramble like hell to find it,, sorry) LOL

  772. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Dazed
    Lemme see.
    Email me the ID
    StruggleIsReal02 at gmail .

  773. sexyrockstar says:

    @dazed
    Sounds like someone wants to be my proxy!
    I’m hot as hell and they must love rock n roll. Bitches be taking my style

  774. Dazed-SD says:

    @struggle,,I’m basing Hot as Hell by the pictures she posted, may not be her, but the pictures,,freaking NICE !

  775. StruggleIsReal says:

    @YGBKM
    Chess lessons / deep throat contest. Let’s.
    @ATL …. 😉

  776. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Dazed
    She should learn how to use her pronouns.
    Hot as hell? I doubt it.

  777. Keo says:

    @Kenna do you mind if I ask what condition were you born with?

  778. Dazed-SD says:

    @sexy, I found the perfect woman for you, except here are her expectations.
    Substanial allowance hot as hell, what she’s looking for,
    My ideal relationship would be a platonic one. I am looking for someone who is smart, witty, determined and driven. I want to meet someone with a good head on their shoulders. Someone who is passionate about life and learning new things. Also, you must love good rock N’ roll!!

  779. StruggleIsReal says:

    @ATL
    Hahahaha omg. I just laughed out loud. Had to explain to others. Thanks a lot. Hahaha

    @Kenna
    That’s awesome hun. And all your gravis look like they are from a magazine.

  780. I know I like your nipples, bruvva.

  781. Josh says:

    KennaKenna says:
    January 30, 2015 at 11:30 am
    @Josh he typically does not get any tax breaks, and always end up owing every year.

    As a super-duper finance educated person you do know that technically-speaking “owing” is better than getting “refund”, yes? 😉

  782. KennaKenna says:

    @YGBKM thanks hun 😉