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Four Lessons From Fictional Sugar Babies

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Happy Friday, Sugar World! Big things are happening at SeekingArrangement this quarter, but that’s no excuse to rob you all of some fresh, new content. Seeing that it’s Friday night and I’m currently browsing through my Netflix queue, I thought we’d do something a little different.

So while you’re probably curious about what I am alluding to, I’m not going to tell you about our new matchmaking service or our upcoming event in New York…at least, not yet.

Instead, I thought we’d discuss some of the lessons brought to us by our favorite fictional Sugar Babies. After all, TV plot lines are always applicable to real life. Let’s get started.

Zoe Barnes of House of Cards

Source: http://www.fitsnews.com/2014/02/19/women-hate-zoe-barnes-spoilers-included/

Zoe Barnes, House of Cards (Netflix)
Type of Arrangement: Mentoring / Professional
Lesson: Don’t bite the hand that feeds you

Ms. Barnes went from a nobody to high-profile journalist in the matter of one byline thanks to her relationship with Frank Underwood. He fed her stories that no one else could get, while she shared her bed. But Zoe didn’t follow the rules of their arrangement. She began to want more and when she didn’t get it, she broke the rules.

 If your Sugar Daddy confides in you, don’t spill his secrets or threaten to use them against him. That never works out for anyone in the long run… right Zoe?

 

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Ashley Davenport, Revenge (ABC)
Type of Arrangement: Mentor / Social Status
Lesson: Don’t make your boyfriend’s daddy… your Sugar Daddy.

Ashley seemed to have a knack for making connections that elevated her social status. First by befriending millionaire heiress, Emily Thorne, then by dating men with access to power and wealth, each one more well off than the one before. In just a few summers she went from party planner to the Hamptons’ elite, to public relations executive at one of the biggest corporations in the country.

But Ashley broke one important rule. She chose to make an arrangement with the father of a man she was previously in a relationship with.

Burning bridges on your way to the top is risky. Ashley stepped over so many people to get to where she wanted to be, that she didn’t last long in her position. She found herself out of a job, and exiled from a community she desperately wanted to be a part of.

Remember, you should never tear down others in the pursuit of your ambitions. Sugar can help you get where you need to be, but it doesn’t have to be at the expense of others. Don’t choose your arrangement over your friends, or yourself for that matter.

 

New GIrl Nick Miller

http://imgkid.com/nick-miller.shtml

Nick Miller, New Girl (FOX)
Type of Arrangement: Traditional Sugar Baby-Sugar Mommy
Lesson: Don’t get complacent

When the storyline of Jess and Nick ended, Nick got an involved in an interesting new plot. Nick’s new girlfriend preferred to pay Nick to stay home with her, instead of have him leave her to go to work. While this sounds like the ideal arrangement for some, it’s never a good idea to become too dependent on Sugar. The complacency began to eat away at Nick as he realized he no longer felt the need to work towards his goals.

It’s important to remember that Sugar should be a supplement to your life, not the driving force. Have your own projects, and don’t forget about your ambitions even if the Sugar is that good.

 

Everyone is a Sugar Baby

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/07/31/how-to-get-away-with-murder_n_5635567.html

Everyone, How To Get Away With Murder (ABC)
Type of Arrangement: ALL
Lesson: Make sure the arrangement is mutually beneficial.

 There are all kinds of power arrangements on How To Get Away With Murder. Student sleeping with professor, lawyer having an affair with a cop, intern sleeping with a supervisor (times two), and even several cases of a law intern sleeping with a witness to get evidence. And while there are many different lessons we can learn from this show, there is one painfully obvious one: Don’t enter into an arrangement that isn’t truly mutually beneficial.

 I have yet to see a relationship end on HTGAWM on good terms. It’s okay to break the rules, but don’t break the law. Don’t become someone’s alibi, scapegoat or doormat. It just isn’t worth it.

 

What are some lessons you’ve learned from your favorite fictional Sugar Babies? 

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636 Responses to “Four Lessons From Fictional Sugar Babies”

  1. Rules, gotta have rules

  2. Biaa says:

    Hi everyone, anyone here found a SD or SB? Because I’m new here, and I don’t know really how about this :O

  3. Evie J says:

    @Englishismy3rdlanguage

    You seem to have really hit the jackpot. I would love some advice!
    I am certainly not clueless when it comes to men but trying to find a sincere SD on SA is damn near impossible for some of us. I have had shit luck on this site. I believe a lot of it has to do with the area in which I live. The men around here play a lot of games, lie about what they are willing to offer, and they all bail out at the last minute. I can screen screen screen til the cows come home and still, they lie lie lie. You never really know until it comes down to the wire. And it’s not just me. I have several SB friends who seem to be dealing with the same issues. They have had some short term sugar relationships in the past but ever since moving to this area, they cannot find one REAL SD!
    I have met 3 potential SDs in person just for coffee and conversation. All have been a bust. I then met one guy who I had a weekly ongoing arrangement with for a few months before he decided to get back together with his ex wife. So now I am back on the hunt. Yesterday, the 37th guy in a row cancelled our first date at the last minute! (Yes, I have been counting!! haha) We talk, sometimes video chat, for a few days or a few weeks, and then make plans and they always cancel! How do I start avoiding this?

  4. Evie J says:

    Did anyone happen to catch that movie Sugar Daddies on Lifetime a few weeks ago? All I can say is, “Wow.” They really made the SBs look dumb and the SDs look like evil, heartless, homicidal, wealthy men who are going to eventually rape and murder you. That movie really hurt the sugar bowl.
    So far the men I have met on SA are nothing like that. For the past year I have been a member, all I ever come across are men looking for cheap pay for play, men who are disingenuous about the benefits/allowances they initially claim to offer or even who try to talk their way out of having to give anything at all!, and the rest of them just ask for endless pictures and when they finally want to meet, they cancel at the very last minute. None of them seem to understand what SeekingArrangement is about. I can’t wait till I finally meet an actual sugar daddy who is serious about an arrangement or mentorship!

  5. Finessejess says:

    I’m glad I’m still on people’s minds :) how is everyone??

  6. Boytoy says:

    Mmmmmmmmmmm strange crowd!!!

  7. resop2 says:

    Hey, I like sex as well, but being a guy, so long as I have both hands, there’s always a three-way available.

    My recommendation then is to use the “Married but looking” status and mention that you want a “real man”. That should attract SD’s who aren’t afraid of no husbands and warn risk adverse SD’s to stay away.

  8. Keo says:

    @resop. I’ve been questioning if the SB life is for me since I made the profile. But I like sex and I’m not getting any at hm. If I’m going to cheat I might as well make it worth it.

  9. @Lainey

    I would love to live vicariously through your boobs…perhaps it’ll inspire mine to grow a tad. I just need about half a cup more!

  10. resop2 says:

    Keo: I don’t think that a SB should lie, but it is okay for a SB to emphasize the positive.

    However, in your case, I really think that you should seriously question if the sugar life is for you. Is it really okay to put a SD’s life in danger? On the other hand, maybe what you should do is be totally up front and try to flip the script by saying: “What I am looking for is a real man who isn’t afraid of some chump separated husband.” So SD might just be drawn to the danger.

  11. Keo says:

    Lol @resop… good point. So should I lie? I can’t post on the other blogs for some reason. I love but plugs. They make some really cool ones. Mines vibrates.

  12. resop2 says:

    @KennaKenna I haven’t traveled the Hershey Highway myself, but it is my understanding that people use “butt plugs” to condition their anal passages to make anal sex easier.

  13. resop2 says:

    @Keo – As a SD let me share what I feel if I see “separated” and “Discretion is my #1 priority.” in the same profile:

    “You’ll get your fool ass shot from some psycho ex-husband if you show up withing 100 yards of this SB.”

  14. Lainey says:

    @Sexy glad to hear you got your hurr did. I couldn’t be seen befriending a basic bitch for too much longer. Lol

  15. Lainey says:

    So since my boobs need 2 proxies and @Sexy is one, I will be casting for the other tomorrow @ 3 if anyone would like to audition.

  16. Keo says:

    @sexy. My guy moved out of state and since I wasn’t going to leave my husband he started dating someone there. We started off strictly sexual and it became more SD/SB. Saying I’m single feels dishonest. But I understand their take on things. I’d leave him in a heartbeat but my kids would suffer. I kinda decided to do this on a whim. I work two jobs and would love to get a nice savings account so I can quit one and spend more time with my daughter. But my son has ADHD, OCD. See’s a speech therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist and a reading specialist. Okay enough of my sob story

  17. Keo says:

    That was great! Very good constructive criticism. Yep. A total double standard. But it’s life . I’ll make the changes ASAP. Again thank you.

  18. Josh says:

    Are you taking a selfie of me?

    []http://www.msn.com/en-us/video/comedy/kids-answer-questions-about-taylor-swift/vi-AA8vuzD?ocid=mailsignout[]

  19. SexyRockstar says:

    or. it doesn’t need to work, thats cool too :(

  20. SexyRockstar says:

    I went to a party last Saturday night…..

  21. SexyRockstar says:

    OOhhh I see.

    Avatar change! Say hello to Miss Lita Ford

  22. **SB_UK** says:

    @sexy

    It’s about perfect arrangements, letting them do the search for you

  23. **SB_UK** says:

    @ladyscarlett

    I know what you ment though :-)

  24. Ladyscarlett says:

    Hey, SbUK..I used to live there, so just going by what I noticed, hehe. I had quite an earful if what some people over there thought of Amerricans, though, lol…nothing against you at all, and didn’t mean to make such a broad statement. Haha, maybe, the people I worked with and hung out with there were just giving me a hard time sometimes…;)

  25. **SB_UK** says:

    @sexy it was put on 13 hours ago has no comments on it, am just going to have a look now :-)

  26. Josh says:

    @**SB_UK**

    “@Josh

    Do you have that question typed out ready ?”

    I’d rather ask this question and see how the SB responds instead of wasting time in trying to help her, and then get idiotic arguments in return. :(

  27. SexyRockstar says:

    @SBUK
    wheres the blog?

  28. SexyRockstar says:

    few things:
    relationship status: married
    RED FLAG. I know, double standard that there are SDs who are married, but they want their money to go to their SB, not their SB’s husband who can’t support a good lifestyle.
    Children: Prefer not to say aka internet terms that means you have kids OR you’re currently pregnant. I have kids, I say I have none. Why? It’s none of my SDs business. Only my current SD knows I have kids. THATS IT.

    WHAT IM LOOKING FOR:
    Looking for a mutually beneficial relationship, be it long term or short term. (pick one or don’t say either one. it makes you look indecisive) I’ve been spoiled. I had the real deal and I’m not looking to settle for less.( don’t say this. men will want to know why you’re no longer with what you had before. It also sounds a bit ‘princess’ like) I’m not an escort ( only escorts say this, get rid of it) so if by negotiable you mean pay as you go cheap transactions I’m not your girl. ( some men will not do an upfront allowance once trust is built. pay per meet isn’t that bad. it allows trust to be earned. i do this for a month or so then move onto monthly allowances. honestly, what man will hand a girl a shit ton of cash at once?) Time is valuable so I won’t waste yours. Discretion is my #1 priority.

    Oh, and in your about me, you say something about no drama or don’t play games. get rid of that. comes off negative. people who say no drama or no games…usually play games and cause drama.

    You kind of look like Fantasia from American Idol in the one picture I can see so far. You look great for 35. Good luck on your search

  29. Keo says:

    And thank you.

  30. **SB_UK** says:

    Oh theres a new blog up

  31. Keo says:

    @ Sexy.. lol that makes sense.

  32. SexyRockstar says:

    A lot of AA girls come on here saying they have no luck because they are black.
    They have no luck because their profiles are shitty. I will take a look

  33. Keo says:

    LeArn. I misinterpreted what she said but even then I thought she was just being tongue in cheek and I tried to reply back the same way I wasn’t trying to be argumentative I didn’t realize I was coming Offhat way

  34. **SB_UK** says:

    @Josh

    Do you have that question typed out ready ?

  35. Josh says:

    @Keo

    Are you here to learn or to argue?

  36. Keo says:

    Profile ID 2883517

    @Sexy. I totally thought that was towards me because I actually said I’m not am escort in my profile and I’m black. I was thinking,” Damn that’s cold” lmao

  37. Keo says:

    Oh it’s waiting moderation. Why?

  38. Keo says:

    I thought I did Sexy?.

  39. Keo says:

    Okay. Fine. I’m a ghetto escort. How can I make it appear that I’m not one. :-)

  40. SexyRockstar says:

    No, I have no idea if you’re an escort. We’ve had people come on here and ask for profile advice and when we say “do this, not that because it is escort like” they flip out.

    They wanted advice, they got advice, and they got mad. So, again, are you going to post your profile ID or not?

  41. Keo says:

    Knew it. Feelings shredded.

  42. SexyRockstar says:

    babe. I get just as mad at FunDude as the next chick. He will learn eventually. He just got into sugar. I’ve pretty much explained why we get upset when he talks about girls the way that he does.

    I just don’t want the constant attacking. This is a blog about sugar. We should be supporting each other rather then fighting. Like I said before, it’s only really fun when an escort comes in here saying she’s not. We need to weed those people out because they will destroy what being a sugar baby is. People will really think it is a nice way of saying escort.

  43. Keo says:

    Was the an escort comment towards me?

  44. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    yougottabekiddingme says:
    January 26, 2015 at 1:56 pm
    Anal sex is something that I share every long now and then. I generally outsource it.
    Last time I visited my partner, I lost my recycled virginity, and was feeling extra naughty. So in the heat of the moment, I asked him to visit my naughtiest place. And then…I spent the rest of the day praying to Santa Claus that my sphincter constricted, and that I didn’t get hemorrhoids for Christmas.

    Lmao! Thanks for the laugh

  45. Sexy…Lainey’s boobs would need two proxies.

    By the way…

    I recognized your attempt to diffuse things with your Batman interjection yesterday, and I recognize your efforts now. So thank you for that.

  46. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    Thank you. Nothing more that an older, mature lady wants to hear is the word describing her, “Fat.” While currently, it is true, I am working on it, promise. I do want to make you proud. 😉 Geez I am learning so much here, more than many books I’ve been reading. I was interested in the earlier conversation about anal. I’ve read a bit about that too and even at my ripe old age, I’ve never experienced this, but do want to try. Am I the weird one? LOL

  47. SexyRockstar says:

    I got my roots touched up everyone. My hair is on motha-fuckn point

  48. SexyRockstar says:

    @Josh
    I’d hope so, I am a comedian :)

  49. StruggleIsReal says:

    @YGBKM
    I am in awe of you. Like woah. Love you chick.

  50. SexyRockstar says:

    @flyR
    guitargoddess1989 at yahoo

    email meeeeeee

  51. **SB_UK** says:

    @ladyscarlett

    “Racist insulting…no way, Brits think Americans are racist….they won’t even call ’7-11 Indians’, Indians, they say ‘Asian’ and lectured me about be politically correct, hehe”

    I’m a Brit and i don’t think Americans are racist! We say Asian because of the way our country is ran now, kids are not even allowed to sing bar bar black sheep any more, you get caught saying other words than ‘Asian’ you can be arrested for been racist. Our country and politics is a right mess at the moment. Even Scotland tried to leave us, they dont want to be ran by our government any more

  52. flyR says:

    @Rockstar – I do not think so …….

  53. Josh says:

    @SexyRockstar

    “It’s only fun when a ghetto SB-wanna be comes on here trying to say she’s not an escort.”

    Hahahahaha!!! You’re hilarious @Sexy

  54. SexyRockstar says:

    …I’m a proxy

    Of Laineys awesome boobs

    I mean…why can’t I be someones alter ego?
    @yougotta
    am I not cool enough
    :(

    i love you all, can we stop bickering :( :(
    It’s only fun when a ghetto SB-wanna be comes on here trying to say she’s not an escort.

  55. She’s all yours, babe.

    Anything in closing?

  56. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    “@Josh
    Ooops. Am I bad?”

    I don’t think you are “bad”. It’s not my position to declare people good or bad.

    You are fat(er) and old(er) compared to what SDs are looking for here. But that’s neither here not there.

    You seem to have good sense of humor though, and that’s awesome. 😉

  57. SexyRockstar says:

    @Keo
    post your profile ID. when you go to your profile, copy paste the numbers/letters that pop up in the URL

    member/XXXXXXXXX/view

  58. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    Ooops. Am I bad?

  59. Josh says:

    @GeorgaPeach,
    GeorgiaPeach

    “And here I thought only us “old folks” drank tea and spit it out! LOL”

    It was @StruggleIsReal who on January 26, 2015 at 11:41 am–in response to couple of my posts–said:

    “Hahahahaha I just about spat out my tea, twice!”

    So check your facts grandma…

    Oh wait, aren’t you my proxy as per our resident genius @yougottabeemcsquared? 😉

  60. SexyRockstar says:

    @flyR
    have you ever seen my profile?

  61. Keo says:

    Lmao.. You are too much. Ok
    Full plunge. How do I do it?

  62. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    I am so honored to be one of your proxies… that is if that’s a good thing.

  63. flyR says:

    Keo – forgot to add that you will also receive , at no additional cost, full psychological colonoscopy evaluation

  64. flyR says:

    Keo – alternatives

    ask the blog gods to send your email address to those whom you want to comment.

    cut and paste so we just see your about you and what you are looking for

    or the big plunge in which you let people see your full profile. The great advantage of this is that you’ll not only get comments on your profile but you will get

    * full sugar appraisal service although there is a bit of conflict in that it is asking the potential buyer what your home is worth.

    * comments on your self description , mostly snarky but some good assessments

    * comments on your goals

    * evaluation of your photos

    If you are strong this is good , it’s not the shark tanks but more like the piranha pond.

  65. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    “And I am so upset with you too – you haven’t emailed me at all.”

    As per genius @yougottabekiddingme, YOU my dear are one of my proxies. 😉

  66. Keo says:

    Can you promise to be gentle with me. Lol

  67. KennaKenna says:

    Hello Las Vegas! 😀

  68. SexyRockstar says:

    Keo…lets look!

  69. “I have sent you a couple of emails and you have not responded. What that means is that you want to continue your drama on the blog instead of amicably resolving any issues you have with me.”

    Your emails? Cowardly, manipulative, tactical…all while continuing to sabotage and attack here on blog. Fuck your closed door dealings. This actually isnt “my” drama. It’s “your” drama. The amicable thing to do is to stop hiding your bullshit beneath your olive branch.

  70. Keo says:

    I Almost want you guys to critique my profile but I’m scared.lol

  71. KennaKenna says:

    @gtt_envy I do *raises hand in the ear*.

    So far, so good. My safety is very important to me so I also want my SD to be tested with proof!

  72. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Josh
    “I just about spat out my tea, twice!”
    And here I thought only us “old folks” drank tea and spit it out! LOL
    And I am so upset with you too – you haven’t emailed me at all. 😉

  73. To answer your question, Southern…
    Josh’s obsession with your profile and body type is tactical…related to a project created to ridicule and feed into his/FunDude’s bitter woman bashing regarding “women’s logic”. A calculated agenda to kick a thrice dead horse, despite that the given has already been widely acknowledged. The similarity in name and older age was not a coincidence. The subsequent dialog regarding age, weight etc was Josh vocalizing his agenda vicariously through FunDude using the platform he created through his project…who is a spin-off parody of a known blogger. Josh, of course is now attempting to distance the two by randomly mentioning body type, and associating unrelated comments with “Santa Logic”. My “Santa” comment, by the way, was a throw back. Remember, babe…Im a step ahead of you.
    It’s one thing to state norms and known challenges in sugar, but Josh and his crony take it to a whole different level turning vicious and abusive. He seems to get off on it. Cowardly move trying to maintain a certain image and composure while FunDude does his dirty work, since FunDude doesn’t have a “reputation” to protect.
    Again…I don’t have a problem with proxies when they are not used to propagate a loaded agenda, and when they are not used at the expense of others.

    I imagine you’ve been busy behind the scenes working on allies. Ive called upon not a single person in my defense against your sabotage and attempts to rally allies, and instigate rifts between me and other bloggers. What’s your gripe now, Josh? You said one person believes what can be clearly outlined on the blog? I’d say you’re doing pretty well for yourself, dear.

    Try 8. That’s how many people addressed me during the span of this shit storm, most of whom were responding to your manipulations. Oh wait…9…Forgot about my new pimp. Still hasn’t emailed for a sample of this pure, uncut pussy, by the way. Perhaps this site should be called Seeking Coincidences, because boy does there seem to be an abundance.

    All you’ve done is respond with vile ignorance. But I suppose that’s all you really can do, being that your only rebuttals are personal attacks and bigoted repetition.

    I could’ve attacked just as viciously, but Ive tried to keep a level of civility. Thought about saying that you, your proxies, your third nipple FatBstard, and that nice firm dildo you like to pass around, can have this game alllllll to yourselves. But, no… Im not going to say that. Nope…Im not.

    But I’ll tell ya what I will say…

    Ive got some good news, and Ive got some bad news. I’ll give you the bad news first…leave ya on a peachy note.

    The bad news is that I really don’t care to have you sour my mood, so Im really not going to spend much more time stroking your cockosnorus. 

    The good news is that Ive recovered from my supposed drug addiction, psychosis, and childhood mental and sexual abuse, and now… Im open to a truce.

    I’ll pretend that your proxies are real, if you’ll pretend you weren’t raised in a barn…by wolves…wild, castrated wolves.

  74. gtt_envy says:

    Heated discussions as of late!! Question? Who demands exclusivity from their SD or SB? How has that gone?

  75. SouthernSB says:

    @Josh-who?

  76. Josh says:

    @yougottabekiddingme

    “Josh…you really, really suck at this.”

    Interesting…either I “suck at” what I write/do, or everyone is dancing on my tunes. Make up you mind sweetheart.

    Many bloggers (especially females) know that when things start heating up on the blog I communicate with them through email so that the blog is not cluttered with nonsense.

    I have sent you a couple of emails and you have not responded. What that means is that you want to continue your drama on the blog instead of amicably resolving any issues you have with me.

    So be it…

  77. Ladyscarlett says:

    @struggles, I’m thinking that Veronica might be a real live confirmed proxy….you think? 😮

  78. Ladyscarlett says:

    I meant, they lectured me to be more politically correct and thoughtful about what I called others….

  79. Ladyscarlett says:

    Racist insulting…no way, Brits think Americans are racist….they won’t even call ‘7-11 Indians’, Indians, they say ‘Asian’ and lectured me about be politically correct, hehe.

  80. StruggleIsReal says:

    What is happening on this blog?! I am so confucked right now. Lololololol

  81. StruggleIsReal says:

    LMAO
    Literally LOL’ed!!!

  82. I can’t wait to learn advice from the lucky, fictional sugar baby in “fifty shades of grey.” :)

  83. Josh says:

    @Ladyscarlett

    “Clever dry wit confuses many Americans…it’s okay, hehe”

    If racist, insulting humor = clever dry wit

    then you are correct.

  84. Josh says”

    ““Logical” argument with women is as real as Santa or tooth fairy.”

    SouthernSB says:

    ” Josh has saved my profile in some insane attempt to get me to delete my profile. I don’t understand what his obsession is with this, but he seems to get great joy out of putting me down under the idea that he is giving me “advice.””

    Southern…there was no “logical” reason for Josh to mention your body type. It’s just another of his pitiful tactics. Let’s call it “distancing”.

    Josh…you really, really suck at this.

  85. KennaKenna says:

    In Barbados, carnival is the one day any girl will let you dance with her but it’s not rowdy because it’s like $500/person so only those who can afford to do it are in the bands plus there is so much security, it has been name one of the safest/nicest carnivals in the world- and the way Bajans dance are close wining haha… SD will love it.

  86. Ladyscarlett says:

    “Josh says:
    January 26, 2015 at 11:37 am
    European Comedy Service has issued bad jokes advisory for all of UK as well.”

    Clever dry wit confuses many Americans…it’s okay, hehe :-p

  87. KennaKenna says:

    @Southern I was in the Labor Day parade in 2013 and 2014. SD came to watch me and was amazed.

    But Labor Day is no comparison to a real carnival in Barbados, Trinidad, etc. It’s so much better there, even the ones in Miami and London are better.

    I love Carnival, it’s in my blood though- been doing kiddies carnival from 5-12 and then regular carnival from 15-present in Barbados. I love to dance, drink and shake my little butt in my teeny costume haha.

    It’s really a lot of fun. I’m thinking about inviting SD and a couple of his friends(without their wives) for Carnival weekend in Barbados.

  88. SouthernSB says:

    😉 @Josh

  89. SouthernSB says:

    @Kenna-I don’t think he was looking at my profile either, but then again I could be wrong, in which case I have to say: Thank you @Josh, I love you.;)

  90. SouthernSB says:

    @Kenna-The Labor Day Parade in Brooklyn is fantastic!! You should check it out this year. Lots of great floats and costumes, music everywhere, if you want they have certain parts of the parade where the audience can “jump into” the parade. The parade goes right down Eastern Parkway, right across the street from the Brooklyn Museum. It’s a great time!!

  91. KennaKenna says:

    @Southern Josh wasn’t attacking you. Reread what he said.

  92. Chrissy says:

    @Josh
    Sorry for the miscommunication I am female and blonde. I meant of the normal holes for intercourse. I have used my feet plenty of times though. Evidently they are very nice! One day maybe I can footfist a guy.

  93. SouthernSB says:

    @Lainey-Josh will probably say I am morbidly obese. I am actually “American Average” I’m like Snookie back when she was in the Jersey shore but without the boobs, and I am twice her age. I don’t hide who I am, but I like to stay positive. Josh has saved my profile in some insane attempt to get me to delete my profile. I don’t understand what his obsession is with this, but he seems to get great joy out of putting me down under the idea that he is giving me “advice.”

  94. KennaKenna says:

    @YGBKM hahaha lol.

    He did bring me water to keep me hydrated even though I hate water and begged for juice.

  95. Josh says:

    @Josh

    “I think it is somewhere between athletic/slim/average but definitely NOT few extra pounds.”

    @SouthernSB

    “@Josh-I may be more than “a few extra pounds” according to you”

    What part of @SouthernSB is “definitely NOT few extra pounds” did you not understand? :(

    “Logical” argument with women is as real as Santa or tooth fairy. 😉

  96. KennaKenna says:

    Another question:

    Has anyone here ever been to a carnival? Think Brazil’s carnival? Most islands have an annual carnival. Or even the Caribbean day carnivals in the US?

  97. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    Ahhhh yessss! I love it! It totally wears you out, in various wonderful ways.

  98. @Kenna

    I would’ve need him to bring me in a few nachos with artichoke dip, maybe a chicken strip, and a couple sips of margarita during those commercial breaks.

    Would that’ve been sexy still? :/

  99. Josh says:

    @Chrissy

    “I am saving my anal virginity for marriage. It is my only holy hole at this point.”

    Hmmm, so you have been fucked in your nostril and ears as well? Weird. :(

  100. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey will check that out. Thanks.

  101. SouthernSB says:

    @Josh-I may be more than “a few extra pounds” according to you, but I am hella flexible, so I’m pretty sure I could do whatever the hell you are talking about. But as I said before, legs over the shoulders for maximum effect.

  102. Josh says:

    Are you taking a selfie of me?

    []http://www.msn.com/en-us/video/comedy/an-unwanted-selfie/vi-AA8wxKA?ocid=mailsignout[]

  103. KennaKenna says:

    Yessss @Struggle! It makes me weak honestly lol.

    One time SD tied me up in the bedroom while he watched a football game in the living room and came into tease me on commercial breaks haha. And then when game was over spanked/paddled me for not being quiet and then fucked me until I couldn’t take it anymore.

    I passed out for 13 hours after that, didn’t even eat dinner lol.

  104. Chrissy says:

    I am saving my anal virginity for marriage. It is my only holy hole at this point. 😐

  105. Lainey says:

    @Kenna they do have numbing lubes that’d be great for your first try

  106. Josh says:

    @Lainey

    “@Josh what exactly is @SouthernSBs body type?”

    I think it is somewhere between athletic/slim/average but definitely NOT few extra pounds. 😉

  107. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey I could see how anal could be fun for your guy, look at that ass hehe!

    Hopefully some day I’m brave enough to try it.b

  108. Anal sex is something that I share every long now and then. I generally outsource it.

    Last time I visited my partner, I lost my recycled virginity, and was feeling extra naughty. So in the heat of the moment, I asked him to visit my naughtiest place. And then…I spent the rest of the day praying to Santa Claus that my sphincter constricted, and that I didn’t get hemorrhoids for Christmas.

  109. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    You’re into BDSM ??
    Finding out that you and I are more and more alike…

  110. Lainey says:

    @Josh what exactly is @SouthernSBs body type? Lol

  111. Lainey says:

    @Kenna I LOVE anal. Hardly do it but love it. It only hurts at first then it feels great, not because the pain goes away but just because you’re totally into it at this point that it hurts so good.lol

  112. Chrissy says:

    Well I personally prefer married SDs since you know I love wearing used lingerie and my independence. All the married SD’s feel free to mail me your wife’s panties if you want some ass selfies 😉

  113. KennaKenna says:

    @Southern haha… If I drink, will that help?

    I usually try to have a few drinks before tie up/pain sessions with him but then sometimes I do something “bad” and the punishment comes out of the blue and surprises me.

  114. Josh says:

    @SouthernSB

    “@Josh-I don’t know about “holding both legs with one hand during missionary” but I’m more a woman who would just throw my legs over his shoulder.”

    Sweetheart, your body type is NOT “Few extra pounds” so you would not understand. Move on, this is not your area of concern… 😉

  115. flyR says:

    I’m out to make it with my midnight dream, yeah
    ‘Cause I’m a back door man
    The men don’t know
    But the little girls understand
    All right, yeah
    You men eat your dinner
    Eat your pork and beans
    I eat more chicken
    Than any man ever seen, yeah, yeah
    I’m a back door man, wha

    Actually not on my agenda but thought this little bit of cultural history was appropriate ………….

  116. KennaKenna says:

    @ATL you know I didn’t mean it like that. It’s just when I used to talk about single SDs and their generosity, some people doubted me including Struggle.

    My first SD was married and I cared for him deeply, really great guy and we’re still friends.

  117. SouthernSB says:

    @Kenna-I’ve done it, but I have to be in a certain mood (usually after multiple orgasms). You have to be really relaxed and have lots and lots of lubrication. It’s best if he goes slow at first and then bangs you like it’s going to be illegal tomorrow.

  118. StruggleIsReal says:

    I mean about sabotage theory?

  119. flyR says:

    Re Global Climate Change

    Of course

    there used to be glaciers down to mid America and

    there used to be dinosaurs in Alaska

  120. StruggleIsReal says:

    @ATL
    Why do you say that ?

  121. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle 😉 :-)

  122. THEATLSD says:

    @Kenna says
    ” they are generous, single SDs?”

    Thanks a lot. Throw the married SD under the bus.

    @Joshs sabotage theory alive and f**ling well.

  123. KennaKenna says:

    Is it pleasurable or just all pain?

    I like a bit of pain but not like crying pain.

  124. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    Lmao
    “I usually BACK OUT of it” hahahaah
    Sorry that was good.

    But I’m where you are at too with that. I want to, but haven’t, but am exactly where you are.

  125. Lainey says:

    Hmmmm had him go get some Lahvosh. #SnackTime! Question: Am I the only Middle Eastern SB on the blog?

  126. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    I’m all ears. If you really feel too scared to post here, email me if you’d like 😉
    Ps. Nice heinie. Vera Vera nice. I like.

  127. KennaKenna says:

    My question is*

  128. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey lol.

    My question was for SBs- Does anal hurt? Does it hurt really bad?

    I’ve wanted to try it for about a year but always back out of it.

  129. SouthernSB says:

    @flyR-I’m not crazy about pets, but my sister loves snakes.

  130. SouthernSB says:

    @Josh-I don’t know about “holding both legs with one hand during missionary” but I’m more a woman who would just throw my legs over his shoulder. Tell me how you hold both legs with one hand, because that sure as hell doesn’t sound like missionary to me, and I’ve tried just about every position at least once.

  131. Lainey says:

    @Kenna I’m pretty sure the prudes here are few and far between. Lol. Ask away

  132. **SB_UK** says:

    @Kenna

    yeah it’s Celcius here

  133. Keo says:

    Thanks @OnlineSD. I appreciate your help on prepaid card, cash and checking.

  134. Josh says:

    @flyR

    “@SB_UK

    I wonder if the forecast storm is the one that’s in New England /NY now.”

    Yes genius. The storm in the UK is measured in the same British units even though the rest of the world has smarted up to the French system of measures.

  135. flyR says:

    @Amirah – No comments from me on the pix They were gone by the time I looked.

    Further recommendations on SB profiles

    How much sugar would you like to receive from a SD in the next year?
    (if you are just looking for one nighters adjust accordingly or think of it as marketing a $300/day rental)

    How professionally should a product in that price range be marketed?

    The most frequent road to disaster in marketing (office buildings or sugar) is to start with what you need to get for the product

    If you want $2,500 per month that’s $30,000 for a year. If you were buying something for $30,000 would you be impressed with a note scrawled on toilet paper?

    Less is more
    2-3 photos
    three most important things which distinguish you from sugar alts
    assurance regarding common defects (drama, drugs, flakey, rules)

    How will I feel if I pick this product

  136. KennaKenna says:

    I want to ask a sexual question but I’m scared to ask here lol. I’m curious about it but most of my friends are way too prudish to talk about it with them lol.

  137. **SB_UK** says:

    @resop2

    I have just received this email too. I am not expecting anything from it, but if nothing else it will be funny to watch and read the comments.

  138. KennaKenna says:

    @Sb_UK -15 Celcius? I know you guys deal with Celcius over there.

  139. resop2 says:

    @flyR: Global Warming is not a phenomena whose ramifications can fit comfortably on a bumper sticker. Global Weirding has also been used to describe climate change.

  140. **SB_UK** says:

    @flyR

    I have just been reading about the weather in NY, it don’t sound good. We are expecting the worst weather our country has seen in over ten years. With lows hitting -15

  141. resop2 says:

    I got an email about a youtube sugar show. Will the be a disaster? Will they have to disable comments to prevent people from ripping the show to shreds? Or, will the show be useful? What are your expectations?

  142. flyR says:

    @SB_UK

    I wonder if the forecast storm is the one that’s in New England /NY now.

    Just after the NYT announced that snow may be a casualty of global warming it is snowing like the beginning of a new ice age.

  143. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Lainey
    Thanks girl! I will read up on the site you mentioned.
    I think I am going to bite the bullet and do it! Eeeek! I have a really high pain threshold so I think I’ll be fine. I will still pop a pain reliever beforehand though.

  144. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    Lainey says:
    January 25, 2015 at 10:41 am
    @SBs have any of you had laser hair removal? Or have thoughts on it.
    I mentioned in the previous blog that I had my first session on my bikini area…I wasn’t prepared for that pain:-( maybe that’s because I have low pain threshold nonetheless I would urge you to get a numbing cream….I’m loving the results thus far even though it’s only one session. Go to realself.com and read reviews and get yourself all geeked up on what to expect…

  145. StruggleIsReal says:

    “Josh says:
    January 26, 2015 at 11:34 am
    “The profile reads like you turned your purse upsidedown and dumped in on SA.”

    Sometimes @flyR does write profound stuff. This is one of them.

    @Amirah’s response…”And yeah my profile is chaotic but that what I am.”

    @flyR gets two virtual flicks of @Guru’s approval on his soccer balls.

    Josh says:
    January 26, 2015 at 11:37 am
    European Comedy Service has issued bad jokes advisory for all of UK as well.”

    Hahahahaha I just about spat out my tea, twice!

  146. Josh says:

    European Comedy Service has issued bad jokes advisory for all of UK as well.

  147. Josh says:

    “The profile reads like you turned your purse upsidedown and dumped in on SA.”

    Sometimes @flyR does write profound stuff. This is one of them.

    @Amirah’s response…”And yeah my profile is chaotic but that what I am.”

    @flyR gets two virtual flicks of @Guru’s approval on his soccer balls.

  148. **SB_UK** says:

    @flyR

    Hey it’s ok no need to apologise :-)

  149. **SB_UK** says:

    Not happy, i was suppose to be travelling down to London this weekend, but a huge severe weather warning has just sent out across the UK :-(

  150. flyR says:

    SB_UK – My eternal apologies

  151. **SB_UK** says:

    @flyR

    I had to read and re read that line about six times, thinking eh it’s not mine. LOL

  152. StruggleIsReal says:

    **I hope you *AREN’T* offended **

  153. Amirah says:

    I took down my photos now as FlyR said they sucks. And yeah my profile is chaotic but that what I am. But I will work on it. Thank you flyR once again.
    Josh you are such a nice person! thanks!

  154. flyR says:

    SB_UK I owe you an apology it was Am… profile . I was talking on the phone while doing that……….my error

  155. StruggleIsReal says:

    Alrighty @Amirah,

    Here goes.

    Profile pic: very unappealing. Not because you are ugly but just what you are wearing and how you present yourself. You look like a angsty emo kid with issues and bad hygiene.

    Your other pic is okay. Your hair is going to turn off a lot of SDs. You need better pics. Better posture, makeup, and lighting.

    Okay then I go to your age. 23 is a good age.

    Headline: Please punctuate and “say you’ll never leave me” sounds kind of scary to me. Your headline should say something about who you are, what you are looking for, what you offer, etc. That lyric or whatever it is says “RUN!!”

    Body Type: Few Extra Pounds
    This appears to be true. I’m totally not hating on you, but just being honest with you that this will be a bit of a deterrent. Just so you understand that you will likely receive less interest because of this.

    Occupation: This screams “RUN!” as well. Most SDs want a woman who has a good head on her shoulders and isn’t a money grab. If you can put something else here that is still true, like maybe “hopeful makeup artist” or whatever you hope to become one day, that might be better.

    About Me:

    I love animals too, but the way you come right out of the gates with it makes you seem like a crazy cat lady. Tone that down, don’t start your profile with it.

    Travel is great, but “learning about live of natives” first of all just sounds strange and also is not grammatically correct. Delete that.

    Please do not say you like being crazy. Just say that you “love to have fun”.

    After “psychology and philosophy” you need a period, not a comma.

    Please go through your profile and edit it grammatically. I can’t even address all of the mistakes. “dancing around THE house”, “in bed with A book”…

    Delete “I can’t swim!” , “What else….”, “I don’t like seafood, honey, beer, wine and cut flowers.” Like wow, just tell them all how not fun and romantic you are. LOL

    What I’m looking for:

    How do you expect someone to take care of you? Gifts, allowance? That’s just a really broad statement and sounds like way too much for what you’re offering.

    Delete “I’m not thinking about someone ‘for ever’.”

    Apply all the edits and your profile will at least be improved. You still are just going to have fewer messages and interest for various reasons, but this should at least help. You have a lot of “SHIT, RUN!” aspects to your current profile.

    I hope you are offended as I am only trying to help. No need to feed you bullshit if you are hoping to have success.

    I wish you the best, dear.

  156. **SB_UK** says:

    @flyR says:
    January 26, 2015 at 11:05 am
    “@SB UK The profile reads like you turned your purse upsidedown and dumped in on SA. It’s poorly written”

    Like i turned my purse upside down? It’s not my profile.

  157. **SB_UK** says:

    @Josh

    “Most important thing is if the SD can hold your legs with one hand during missionary or will he need both hands and maybe an assistant?”

    Now you have me giggling 😉

  158. flyR says:

    some day a major university will get a billion dollar grant to study why potential SB’s feel compelled to put a love for dogs or cats in their profile unless they are planning on entertaining at their home.

  159. **SB_UK** says:

    @Josh

    Oh i can imagine how they feel! When they get people opinions on here. Just cause I giggle don’t mean I don’t feel for them, with some of the comments that get put on here!!

  160. Josh says:

    @Amirah writes in her profile…

    “I can’t swim! What else… I don’t like seafood, honey, beer, wine and cut flowers.”

    Who gives a shit?

    Most important thing is if the SD can hold your legs with one hand during missionary or will he need both hands and maybe an assistant?

  161. flyR says:

    @SB UK The profile reads like you turned your purse upsidedown and dumped in on SA. It’s poorly written, confusing and screams that you don’t car enough to spend the time it would take to brush your teeth.

    Other than that it is pretty good.

    Lets make it simple

    Cute, adventurous, unique baby doll! . Intellectually curious, orally gifted, willing to share you with a girlfriend of your or my choosing. You should know that I do not drink beer or wine but do not mind if you do.

    might add another word or two

    What I am seeking

    “to be taken care of ” can mean 100 euro on the bedside table or a mansion in London….. “taken care of” reeks of weakness

    how about

    Looking for a gentleman to help explore my wild side while helping me live a little more comfortably and pursue my studies. Travel opportunities are a plus.

  162. Josh says:

    1. That’s a good enough reason to seek my opinion of other people’s profiles.

    2. You are cruel…because as you giggle, the profile owner may be having panic attacks of sort.

  163. **SB_UK** says:

    @Josh

    Your opinions on other profile’s has me sat giggling at my computer!! Way more entertaining than studying 😉

  164. Josh says:

    @**SB_UK**

    “@Josh awwwww!! I was looking forward to your opinion”

    Why is that? 😉

  165. **SB_UK** says:

    @Josh

    I did see them, but i think she has now taken them down

  166. **SB_UK** says:

    @Josh awwwww!! I was looking forward to your opinion :-(

  167. Josh says:

    @SexyRockstar

    “You’re not ugly, but seriously.”

    Are you able to see @Amirah’s photo(s)? I can’t.

    Who else can or cannot see her photo(s)?

  168. Josh says:

    @**SB_UK**

    ‘@Josh

    “Are you here for advise or to argue?”

    Hahaha! Where is your opinion of her profile?’

    Methinks…@Amirah is here to argue.

    That said, @Sexy has done an excellent job with the profile critique. So I don’t think if I need to add anything, and be part of @Amirah’s ultimate arguments.

  169. SexyRockstar says:

    You’re not ugly, but seriously. Please. Take pictures of you looking like you’re the most beautiful women on earth.

    Better headline
    “Dangerous Curves ahead 😉 ”

    This way, men know you are curvy but yet this is flirty sounding.

  170. **SB_UK** says:

    Anyone who asks people on here to look at a profile must be really brave! Ive seen some of the comments hehe it is funny to watch though :-)

  171. Amirah says:

    @ Sexy – Thank you very much for advice! This what you wrote looks much better. :)

  172. KennaKenna says:

    I love @Sexy haha… Very blunt and does not ‘beat around the bush’.

    I say scrap the entire profile, pics, everything and start over.

  173. **SB_UK** says:

    @Josh

    “Are you here for advise or to argue?”

    Hahaha! Where is your opinion of her profile?

  174. SexyRockstar says:

    and your headline is like something from a Fall Out Boy lyric. Change that.

  175. SexyRockstar says:

    I didn’t re-write it, because the writing in your profile sucks. I just cut out everything that made you come off annoying and needy. This way you come off as mature as I can possibly make you sound without totally re-writing your profile

  176. SexyRockstar says:

    Your profile should read this:
    I like being silly and going out and having a great time, but I also feel comfortable just sitting talking about things more and less serious. I’m interested in psychology and philosophy. I love intelligent conversations. I am a very sweet person. I can’t swim, so I would like to try it out at the beach. I like cooking and baking (and I was told that I am pretty good at it!) Oh! And I’m real bookworm, gamer and dreamer. Always looking for adventures, want to join? Someday I would like to learn horse riding and archery. Cute, adventurous, unique baby doll!

  177. Josh says:

    @Amirah

    Are you here for advise or to argue?

  178. SexyRockstar says:

    Lets start with “Interested In”

    Girls who want either daddy or mommy screams desperate. You’ve mentioned being with a ‘daddy’ yet there is no ‘mommy’ talk. Hardly any Sugar Mamas on here. So get rid of that.

    Occupation: Saying you’re a free spirt makes you sound like a dirty hippie. Change it to student or something. If you don’t have a job, go get one. Sugar is supposed to add to your life, not be your sole income.

    Your Pictures are unflattering. Stand up straight dear, do your hair and make up. I wouldn’t say you are Ugly…but you do not look like someone who, would. honestly, get a ‘high’ allowance.

    Get yourself a job and lower your expectations. Your writing in your profile makes you sound really demanding and princess like

  179. Amirah says:

    @Sexy yeeeah… just try to not be too not nice :)

  180. SexyRockstar says:

    Amirah do you want honest advice?

  181. Amirah says:

    @flyR – just click on my name and you will see my profile :)

  182. flyR says:

    @English thanks for sharing

  183. flyR says:

    Amirah……………. it is customary to provide a link to your profile or enough ID to search, saving us from needing to search a few million profiles to find you……… a suggestion that might help with your sugar pursuit, profile unseen…………. slow down, think , check act

  184. Amirah says:

    Hi! I joined not so long ago but I still didn’t find Daddy for me. Can someone look at my profile and tell meif something is wrong there? PLEASE help :) :* thanks!

  185. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    Was meant for @Struggles:-)

  186. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    just want to say that I am very, very happy with my lot in sugar right now. I have two amazing SDs from this site, ones that would absolutely piss some of the whinier SDs right off, and surely I would be labeled a “fantasy writer” if I shared details. I’m really thankful to SA for connecting me with them.

    >Joins the wiggle butt happy dance< I'm happy for you darling:-) you deserve it.
    And I'll see what I can do about the chess lessons…I know a little about a lot

  187. KennaKenna says:

    @Sexy

    Thank you :-)!

  188. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Lainey
    Agreed on both accounts, about @Sexy and about “athletic face”. So true. Usually she was a pretty cool chick to have around because she was kind of a “dude” in a way too.

    @Sexy
    Thank you luvbug. You’re soon going to be like my cousin. She literally looks younger than her daughter in high school. Honest to god. She’s not especially pretty but truly she just looks younger. It freaks me out every time I see them together. I feel bad for her daughter almost. LoL

  189. KennaKenna says:

    @Sexy

    That batman outfit! You’re gorgeous girl! :-)

  190. SexyRockstar says:

    @Kenna
    You’re adorable!!!

  191. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey

    HaHaha I know a couple.

  192. KennaKenna says:

    @Sexy responded to you

  193. SexyRockstar says:

    LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL.

    That made me spit out my red bull.

  194. Lainey says:

    Every time I reload this page and see Kate Mara (Zoe Barnes) she reminds me of the girl in high school that had a cute body but no matter how dressed up she got she always looked like she was going to play soccer. Lmao. We all know at least one. I call it having an “athletic face” Lol

  195. SexyRockstar says:

    When I actually have make up ON my face, I think I look older. Lainey has seen me with zero make up, so basically shit caked on.

    @struggles
    you look young too. you have a tight small body like an 18 something year old, you look 21, but thats about it

  196. SexyRockstar says:

    Thanks ladies. HA! You really know how to make me feel wonderful. LOL.

  197. KennaKenna says:

    @ONSD @Struggle thank you :-$

    I think it depends on how I wear my hair/makeup. Once I don’t look 30, I’m happy :-) I also think I look younger when I smile but then I think my cheeks look too fat -_-

    Yes @Sexy I thought you were younger, your partial face on your old gravatar looked really youthful.

  198. SexyRockstar says:

    @Kenna
    I will shoot you an email

    @struggle
    LOL, a child! Sometimes I think the blonde hair makes me look younger. I do it because, for some reason…God blessed me with beautiful thick ass hair, but because of that, I got treys :( So the blonde covers them up! HAHAHA.

  199. Lainey says:

    Lmao @Struggles that’s what I was thinking. I look at myself then I look at @Sexy and feel like a gma. Lmao.

  200. KennaKenna says:

    @Sexy I just realized we’ve never emailed each other. Email me of you’d like

    Kennakenna267 at gmail

  201. flyR says:

    “””I finally responded to a message with something like “I need you to understand, not paying for a first meet (other than the drink/entertainment) and not going to meet at a hotel for the first meet. Connection first, sexual chemistry second.”

    This was the response:

    “forget it you’re too uptight for me. I don’t have time for that s***”

    yes, she put “*” in the word shit…who’s uptight?”””

    Two thoughts

    You deserved the response , not for the thoughts but the words……. make it positive. There’s no sense that this might be a friendship based relationship which I think is what a lot of women are looking for.

    I have the same reaction to an email which stridently lists all of the things that are off limits, even if they are not on my want list.

    Second is that recruiting is like recruiting employees You need to process a batch at a time unless you are looking at a future position.

    Something like I would like to meet for coffee and of course it would come with no obligations or expectations on either of us other than a chance to become acquainted and see where that goes.

  202. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    You have the facial features, skin, glow of an 18 yr old, but with a little less baby fat (a good thing) which makes your feautures more beautiful and pronounced. You have a womanly sexuality though. It’s not so much a “look” but a presence. You are the perfect package. If I had to put a number I would probably say 23? However I think as you get older, you’ll find that your age look won’t progress as your chronological age does. Like you will probably look maybe 24 by the time you are 30. Some women are truly blessed this way. You are one of them. I’m not saying that to flatter you at all.
    Happy early birthday bebe!! Don’t feet about age. Like I said, you’re one of the few who will truly age beautifully (and slowly).
    I was just talking to my mom about my friend and her boyfriend. I was explaining that my friend is dying to settle down and have babies and I understand because she is 37 (I’ve always hung with people older than me.). My mom literally was shocked. She thought she was a least 10 years younger. And my mom has nothing to gain by saying that to me. In fact my mom can be a judgemental bitch. I’m always telling her to take it easy on people, especially women! LoL

    @Sexy literally looks like a child. A beautiful, hot one! LoL She is always going to look like at least 10 years younger than she is.

    @Fat
    I don’t post my profile here. Happy to email if you’d like. StruggleIsReal02 at gmail.

    @YGBKM
    Thank you lovely!!

  203. SexyRockstar says:

    @Online
    Maybe because I still have a round/chubby face. LOL

  204. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Sexy – there is no way you look 25…I actually think you look younger than @Kenna (from what I’ve seen). Maybe it’s the eyes for both of you…I can’t put my finger on it, but there’s something about your eyes that makes me think of you as younger than @Kenna.

    Neither of you should worry about your age…or your looks!

  205. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    I’ve had a profile pestering me for a bit…I wasn’t responding because I have two great second meetings this week and I didn’t want to seem greedy to start with a coffee with anyone else…I finally responded to a message with something like “I need you to understand, not paying for a first meet (other than the drink/entertainment) and not going to meet at a hotel for the first meet. Connection first, sexual chemistry second.”

    This was the response:

    “forget it you’re too uptight for me. I don’t have time for that s***”

    yes, she put “*” in the word shit…who’s uptight?

  206. SexyRockstar says:

    @Kenna
    I am 25. I feel it everyday. I hate being 25. It’s horrible. My body changed. I look old. I want to cry

  207. @Struggles

    You are lovely. I’m not at all surprised that things are going well for you :).

  208. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    I get a kick out of going through the search feature I have saved…here’s a new profile I just can’t get enough of 😉

    What I’m looking for
    Open not a greedy person but dont like cheap bastards either

    I don’t think she likes punctuation or apostrophes either!

  209. Hehe…

    Good morning, gents :). It appears that after a night of conjuring rebuttals in your restless sleep, you’ve awaken with erections for a lil more ygbkm. Oh the power of pure, uncut pussy. Naughty, naughty boys.

    Lemme make my way to my keyboard, and I’ll come back out to play. 😉

  210. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – you look early 20’s to me…your eyes give away being older than appearance (this is in depth, not wrinkles or bags hun, don’t fret!)…25 was the roughest birthday for me thus far, okay maybe 40 was tough too.

    At 25, my mother called me at 4:30am and started singing “Happy Birthday” badly and said, “How does it feel to be a QUARTER-CENTURY old?” I said, “How does it feel to have a son a quarter-century old?” She replied, “I’m fine with it…but are you?” damn her!

    She celebrated my 40th with a phone call informing me she possibly broke BOTH her ankles (and turned out correct)…I told her if she wanted to see me on my birthday she could have just called to have me over for dinner, hospitals and surgeons were not my idea of a celebration!

  211. KennaKenna says:

    My birthday is in a couple weeks, the big quarter century!

    SD told me since last year to take 3 PTO days so I’m thinking/hoping we go somewhere warm and get out of NY!

    I feel like I’m getting old and turning into an old woman… @Struggle @ONSD how old do I look? Be honest lol!

  212. FatB'StardSA says:

    @StruggleIsReal

    “I have two amazing SDs from this site, ones that would absolutely piss some of the whinier SDs right off, and surely I would be labeled a “fantasy writer” if I shared details.”

    Post your ID and I will tell you straight off of you are a fantasy writer.

    Have a nice day! :-)

  213. FatB'StardSA says:

    @Josh

    I was checkers champion in third grade (for three years straight) so @y will have a hard time predicting my next move.

    She has no idea what she is up against!

  214. KennaKenna says:

    I was just slightly freaking out that I’m going to miss all my shows this week.

    SD just showed me I can set them to record on the DVR right from the DirecTV app on the iPad. This is soooo cool, what would I do without him? :-)

  215. FatB'StardSA says:

    FlyR uses his testicles and a soccer ball to give a quick lesson in potential (energy?) and energy (force?). Unless FlyR is advocating kicking a man in the balls while he is down, I would think that the vast majority of testicles would have a greater potential energy (being 2-3 feet off the ground) than the soccer ball which is on the ground. I think the only conclusions we can draw is that FlyR pays his SB to kick him in the balls when he is laying down, or that FlyR has an extreme case of “low hanging balls” (such that they touch the ground). I refuse to consider the possibility that FlyR has such large balls that they touch the ground without any droop but FlyR can provide more details.

  216. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle

    I LOVE the “check your email” surprises. Yes, with good SDs you don’t even have to ask or insinuate, they just reward and surprise you.

    I’m glad you’ve seen what’s possible and usually just gets better with time and trust.

  217. StruggleIsReal says:

    Okay, that was supposed to be
    “Successful Sugar Vibes”
    En route to @Online.

    LoL

    Not sure why it edited that…?

  218. StruggleIsReal says:

    <*<**>*>
    en route to
    @Online
    😉

  219. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    You did, you did!
    You were totally right. I haven’t asked for or insinuated a single thing. It has been all at their own volition. It honestly has shocked me and truly does impress me. Not at all because I am materialistic, but it’s just been so thoughtful and kind. It’s a way that they show that I’m worth something to them and I totally feel it. I get it now, I get it! One won’t even say anything but , “Check your email.” And yeah, wow.

    I make sure to show them how thankful I am and I haven’t even been able to like I really will in the future for various reasons, and they are more than satisfied already. How crazy. I feel very lucky.

    *Wiggles butt back!!* :)

  220. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Struggle – I’m also VERY happy for you…I think it is a point to consider, when you hold out for the connection, good things happen!

    Send some of your positive energy my way…this is the week I get to see if my Sugar Karma has shifted…two second meetings…both wonderful women…neither have talked about expectations, other than me continuing to be a gentleman as we explore our connection further…I’ve thought about changing my gravatar to fit “We Shall See” as the quote for this week!

  221. StruggleIsReal says:

    @LadyS
    Going back to the laser hair removal conversation…
    I may have an SD buy me a package.
    Ok wait never mind. Maybe this is best left for email, for the sake of the men here. LoL

  222. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle yay!!! Remember I told you that they are generous, single SDs? :-)

    I’m so happy for you! *wiggles butt and does happy dance*

  223. Josh says:

    @FatB’StardSA

    “I think @y and @FlyR are proxies of the same person. Either that or they take the same medication.”

    Hmmm never contemplated the former, but the latter is a definite possibility.

    “If @y starts talking about salt and the OOADAOODA loop then we will know for sure what the situation is.”

    That would be the dead giveaway.

    “@y
    Could you please analyze me next. I am getting jealous of all of the attention @Josh has been getting on the blog.”

    Eat your heart out FB. 😉

  224. StruggleIsReal says:

    On another note, my poor SDs, who love me in heels, have to deal with me gimping around in a robocop-looking boot, because I broke my foot about a week ago.
    They must really love me. Hahaha
    Then again, it does render me rather immobile, so that could be beneficial for them as well. LoL

  225. KennaKenna says:

    @ONSD I had not thought of that. I’ve got a plan, I’m so tiny- lets just hope I find somethings that fits without it having to be tailored.

    A reason to shop is always a good idea :-).

  226. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Online
    I believe it was @LadyS who shared the link to that blog. It is like an SB review/ ratings site , right? Lots of SDs sharing how to exploit SBs and talking trash.
    While it sucks, it doesn’t completely surprise me that something exists like this. In one respect , I understand that people might want a “SB/SD Blacklist”, for the good ones to know who to watch out for. However the obvious here is that something like this is quickly and easily turned destructive and ugly by individuals with ill-motives.

    @Josh
    I understand that and don’t have a problem with it. Was just clarifying my personal stance :) And Santa is real damnitt!

    @All
    I just want to say that I am very, very happy with my lot in sugar right now. I have two amazing SDs from this site, ones that would absolutely piss some of the whinier SDs right off, and surely I would be labeled a “fantasy writer” if I shared details. I’m really thankful to SA for connecting me with them, @Josh for helping me edit my profile, and to all of you here who have listened and shared your own anecdotes and bits of wisdom.
    They are amazing men, both in their own ways, and I am completely floored by their generosity which has been far above and beyond what I expected or hoped for. While I am seeing both currently, there is a good chance that it will be dwindled to just one, as he and I are falling really really hard for each other, even beyond sugar. I am a little wary of falling in love, but at least he’s single. Anyways, it all remains to be seen but I am just really happy and grateful!

    I just wanted to share success from this site, because we do see a lot of people coming here for advice and support which can make it appear like nothing good comes of this, and of course there are just the incessant whiners who are here to bash others. Amazing things can come of sugar. Hold out for the good ones and be patient and genuine. This blog and it’s contributors has been an invaluable resource to me in helping me navigate my path, develop myself and a true understanding of what to expect, and it has also been a place for me to talk about sugar, as I don’t with anyone in real life.

    Thanks loves!!

  227. Josh says:

    @FlyR

    “A quick lesson in the potential. Imagine you flick your lovers testicles with your fingers . YUou are going to inflict a modest amount of pain. Now try the same action on a soccer ball.”

    How about on testicles as large as a soccer ball?

    “However, if you kick the ball it will go 50-100 feet or more indicating that a whole lot more energy (1,000 times) was applied to the ball.”

    1,000 times more energy? Are you kicking the ball stuck in molasses?

    Now a simple trivia…who can kick the ball faster? A short, bald guy or a tall guy with a mullet?

  228. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – I know you had the “perfect” outfits picked out for the events…but wouldn’t it be so much nicer to try some stuff on for your man, give him a bit of a show and make sure you are sporting the look that will help him know he is going to be the envy of everyone at the event?

  229. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Keo – there have been comments on past posts about how things can work for allowance…as a SD, I have given cash, pre-paid cards and treated for specifics on a shopping trip. It really is a comfort level with your SD…HOWEVER…I would NEVER advocate giving banking details to someone until after considerable relationship building…with routing and bank account information, it can be just as easy to PULL money as it is to PUSH money to a crook!

    I think there was a conversation about how you as the SB can get a pre-paid card in your name, the SD can get a pre-paid card in “no name” and give you the code from the card. You login to your card’s page and input the code from SDs card and bam, you’ve been paid 😉

  230. Josh says:

    @Struggle

    “I do believe FunDude is your proxy.”

    You have as much right to believe the above, as others have right to believe in Santa or tooth fairy, or whatever. 😉

    However, when someone goes on and on and on, that’s when they have to be countered at the blog.

    My lack of interest in responding in the past has provided credibility to such nonsense, or at least allowed others to just “tease” at will.

  231. KennaKenna says:

    @Keo is your pot SD married or single?

  232. KennaKenna says:

    Yes, he already told me I could get some stuff in Vegas but I had a whole Super Bowl outfit planned and others for parties/events we’re going to Friday/Saturday. All that stuff is in NY so that’s why it sucks.?

  233. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Struggle – was it you talking about the other blog for the wannabe SDs, or was it @YGBKM?

    I took a little time to read through…first from the most recent post for a few pages, then back to the first post for a few pages backwards. You’re right…I’m offended by the way these guys are using “sugar” to use some women. When the interactions are designed to take advantage of someone’s naivete with the lifestyle, and be what I would consider a total douchebag about pump-and-dumping someone right out of the gate it’s just wrong!

  234. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – I agree with @Struggle…if you’re in Vegas, I’m sure your man will make sure you have essentials taken care of so the two of you can enjoy each other…just remember, it is probably cheaper to ship your current clothes home than to buy luggage and check another bag 😉

  235. Keo says:

    Ummmm help Please? Lol

  236. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    I heard Vegas has a few stores. I think you’ll survive. Anyways, you don’t need many clothes there. 😉

    @Josh
    If you’re referring to yours truly as @YGBKM’s “at least one believer”, I haven’t said I find her to be right or wrong, but I do think it was a pretty interesting and “could be” true. I don’t know nor do I care to give it too much thought.
    I do believe FunDude is your proxy, but I have said this openly from the beginning.

  237. KennaKenna says:

    Shit, typed my email wrong… I Don’t even think it makes sense for me to go back anymore, it’d just be for a day, will just take 1 day PTO.

    The only thing is I don’t have anymore clothes :-(… It’s the one time I didn’t overpack! FML!

  238. KennaKenna says:

    @ONSD I didn’t even think of that, maybe they flew out this morning?

    They canceled incoming flights but outgoing flights until this afternoon are still going.

  239. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – I’m hoping the Pats get out of town before too much snow delays their preparation 😉

  240. KennaKenna says:

    Woohoo! My flight is canceled and we’re driving to Vegas for a couple days. 😀

  241. FatB'StardSA says:

    @FlyR

    “not to run it into the ground…”

    This has never bothered you before so why stop now?

    “A quick lesson in the potential. Imagine you flick your lovers testicles with your fingers . YUou are going to inflict a modest amount of pain. Now try the same action on a soccer ball. The ball hardly moves at all. However, if you kick the ball it will go 50-100 feet or more indicating that a whole lot more energy (1,000 times) was applied to the ball.”

    We now know that FlyR is really Bill Nye the “Science Guy”. With mentoring like the above quote why does FlyR even have to give an allowance?

  242. Keo says:

    How are you girls getting your allowance? Prepaid cards,cash,money into checking account? New at this and about to possibly set up my first arrangements. I’m stumped.

  243. **SB_UK** says:

    @ATL

    24 No way!! i dont look that young. Ohhh an English pub now that sounds fun 😉

  244. flyR says:

    not to run it into the ground but while Krav Maga always starts with a defensive act -the object is to neutralize (either physically or mentally) the bad guy in the briefest possible time as nothing is ever certain. Neutralizing may just be giving you time to escape.

    There’s a very sobering story which occurred near San Diego. In a monumental act of stupidity the police did not revoke the parole of a violent sex offender found smoking dope. Since most offenders re-offend and drugs reduce inhibitions it should have been an immediate trip back to the pen.

    one woman out on a hiking path was accosted and murdered and the perp was not found

    a year later another woman was killed in the same area. When the killing was publicized another woman came forward and told of a similar attack in the same area . The difference is that she kicked the attacker in the face breaking his nose. The shock gave her time to escape. She learned the kick in a brief lesson with her father. She ID d the perp but it was too late for the second victim. The key takeaway for a woman is that you don’t have to win the fight you only have to buy time to escape or make the perp feel it is not worth it.

    A quick lesson in the potential. Imagine you flick your lovers testicles with your fingers . YUou are going to inflict a modest amount of pain. Now try the same action on a soccer ball. The ball hardly moves at all. However, if you kick the ball it will go 50-100 feet or more indicating that a whole lot more energy (1,000 times) was applied to the ball.

  245. SexyRockstar says:

    @Online
    My cell-mate said that “I bet he made you just want to hit him”
    Then I realized how many people blame others for their actions. I just said no, I lost control of myself. I chose to hit em and yeah. I fucked their shit up real good. But No, no one made me want to hit that person.

    I have kids, gotta be a good example. But that sucks that your brother in law was actually being questioned.

  246. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Sexy – “looking worse than the other guy/gal” that happened to my brother-in-law…he had some martial arts training…some dipshit jumped him in an alley outside a bar…when the guy knocked him down, he quit blocking and just rabbit punched his face…when the cop found him in the bar he said, “you’re claiming HE jumped YOU?”…he was lucky enough to KNOW a couple of cops who knew the one questioning him…a couple of names dropped and he was believed over the other guy who had a couple of arrests for assault. Just a shame that being prepared could actually get you in MORE trouble!

  247. SexyRockstar says:

    @Petite
    I did wrestling for MANY years. My dad was a wrestling coach for a traveling team. I did very well. It’s probably why I am pretty short :(

    @Kenna
    I actually would feel very bad for punching a girl. I know how long it takes us to get ready and pretty so I guess I would feel bad. LOL. But yeah, long story short…don’t fuck with me. I am non violent, I let my sarcasm do the fighting for me. But, once I tell any ghetto folks i’ve been to 26th and California, I get street credit. I don’t brag about it, and being in there is something I would never wish upon my worst enemy. It took me awhile to get over random loud noises and people yelling. But, hey, I learned my lesson. If I am going to hit someone…make sure I always look worse then they do. But I enjoy my pretty face, so my fighting days are over.

  248. KennaKenna says:

    @resop2 I’m hoping my flight gets canceled. *fingers crossed*

  249. flyR says:

    @Kenna – Highly recommend Krav Maga for women … very different from most combatives in that everything starts from the defensive, someone is trying to do something that you do not approve of . Makes for a much more supportive class. Also stuff that’s easy to execute.

  250. resop2 says:

    The storm in the northeast has caused the airline to cancel one of my connecting flights tomorrow. Joy, joy.

    More lessons from fictional sugar babies: they would like to tell you but you have to email them on another site …

  251. flyR says:

    And Waddauknow FB comes out of the closet

  252. KennaKenna says:

    Game is over, I want another margarita and wanna go shake my butt in some bar lol…

  253. FatB'StardSA says:

    I think @y and @FlyR are proxies of the same person. Either that or they take the same medication. If @y starts talking about salt and the OOADAOODA loop then we will know for sure what the situation is.

    @y

    Could you please analyze me next. I am getting jealous of all of the attention @Josh has been getting on the blog.

  254. THEATLSD says:

    “@English
    “He’s is tall, has a good sense of humour and he’ll take us as shoe shopping, what’s not to love about him?”

    I see a gift in your future 😉

    “@UK_SB

    Been tall and a good sense of humour could actually win me over 😉 Am not a huge fan of shopping lol”

    A SB not a fan of shopping. That’s an oxymoron. Did I tell you there is a really good English pub in The ATL.

  255. THEATLSD says:

    @UK SB
    “If this is how it all works, it’s not looking good for me, turning 30 in a few montHS”

    No worries luv my current POT is 30

    As ONSD says 27-33, Is the respect age.
    BTW, you don’t look a day over 24.

  256. Petite says:

    @Kenna
    Hahahah! That’s adorable…
    I competitively wrestled throughout middle school and high school.
    I was undefeated in my weight class.
    (This is really not anything to brag about because there were like 3 people in the under 90….)

  257. KennaKenna says:

    @Petite

    “Yep, never getting in a fight with Sexy.
    I would probably be down for the count in the first punch :P.”

    You and me both lol. I took karate lessons in high school but I’m sure those moves would not work in the real world. I’d probably freeze and say “Please don’t hit me”.

  258. Petite says:

    @Kenna
    Universal Citywalk (right outside of Universal Studios) has a bar with a bull ;). Just let me know when you’re in town :P.

    And will do!

  259. KennaKenna says:

    @Petite yes you may be the perfect candidate. Try it and report back.

    If I’m ever in your area, we must find a bull and ride it together 😉

  260. Petite says:

    Yep, never getting in a fight with Sexy.
    I would probably be down for the count in the first punch :P.

  261. Petite says:

    @Kenna
    I’m down for riding with you 😉 😛

    And maybe I’ll check out this perfect arrangement thingy-ma-bobber. It’s been a while since I’ve been in the game…

  262. KennaKenna says:

    Game is not exciting to me because it doesn’t matter who wins so players don’t give their all plus no Patriots are playing.

  263. KennaKenna says:

    @ATL what is she wearing? White/greyish shirt by any chance?

  264. KennaKenna says:

    @Sexy

    I think background check is just for SDs so you may be good. SBs have to prove what they look like/SDs have to prove their income/status and that they aren’t sex offenders.

    That Person must have really pissed you off though, it’s good you can defend yourself- just remind me never to get in a fight with you lol.

  265. THEATLSD says:

    Funny thing, I’m watching the Probowl and the camera zoomed in on really hot looking light skinned black chick. She was sitting there looking bored typing on her phone. I’m thinking whats wrong with her. A field full of men in tight pants smacking each other on the ass, shes gotta be a little horny. I wonder if she swallows???

  266. SexyRockstar says:

    @Kenna

    Not sure if I will pass the background check. I am not a bad person, but I kicked the shit out of someone before and got arrested. Charges were dropped, but it still will show up I was arrested for it. I had to give up my FOID card for 2 years.

    I am not proud of it, but i’ve never ever hid it. Drummer and I crack jokes all the time about it.
    When a weirdo hits on me he says “DONT DO IT, YOU’RE STILL ON PROBATION”
    I seriously, legit cannot get into trouble for the next year. Then, I can go ahead and start hitting people again 😀

  267. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude some women prefer a cash allowance than to be spoiled with luxurious gifts- that does not make them an escort.

    They are just looking for a guy that wants to assist them in paying the bills. I like when a SD pays for my apartment, that’s what I usually say when they ask what I want lol.

    SDs wrote it off as a corporate rental/business expense so it was easier for them to gift that to me than the cash equivalent. I don’t need cash but I love to be taken care of.

  268. KennaKenna says:

    Curious*

  269. SexyRockstar says:

    @Josh

    Ladies going in the bathroom together. It has to be done. It’s like fucking Noah’s Arch. What if the place gets flooded? We need to be with someone who we can share outfits with and shit like that. dddduuuhhhhhh

  270. KennaKenna says:

    @Josh I’m curioua about the price too and do they keep matching until you’re happy with their match?

    @Sexy and other SBs from what I’ve read- it looks free for SBs, all you have to do is verify your photos by making a video showing your face and body.

  271. KennaKenna says:

    @Sexy yesss, they apparently verify the SBs look like what they say the do and verify the SDs are who they say they are.

    [link]https://perfect.seekingarrangement.com[/link]

    If you sign up, please let me know your results. Pretty please. I’m super curious lol.

  272. RookieSD says:

    @Sexy
    “#IAmRetarded”

    And #Dickwhipped, lol.

  273. Josh says:

    @KennaKenna

    “Wait, since when does SA have a matchmaking service? Any of you SBs/SDs going to sign up?”

    I “may” sign up if the price is right. I am tired of communicating with SBs directly on SA. Women have serious problem making decisions independently. The fact that they go to ladies rooms in number is NOT a cliche.

    SBs on SA have serious problem making decisions in vacuum.

    On other sites they are able to collectively laugh at their suitors with their girlfriends, but if the girlfriends are not SBs, then they just continue to waffle.

  274. SexyRockstar says:

    …I am, a RIT-tard

  275. SexyRockstar says:

    @FunDude

    It’s all the great stuff about a relationship, minus the bad parts.
    Until you fall in love. Then shit gets real.
    #IAmRetarded

  276. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    Yeah I figured this website was about that in the past. I thought the “arrangements” were largely just relationships where the guy paid for some trips, restaurants, etc like a more traditional relationship in expectation of possible longer term plans.

    However, a good amount of woman on here are basically escorts in behavior. Its really not a Sugar Daddy dating a Sugar baby in terms of a traditional relationship.

    It is often women who want to be paid to “hang out” and have sex without a real relationship.

  277. RookieSD says:

    “Do you like big cherries, small ones or medium-sized?”

    Choice D. All of the above…

  278. RookieSD says:

    “@Rookie it must be the margaritas”
    That’s okay I’m boozing it up too.

  279. SexyRockstar says:

    @Kenna
    They do?!?! I would try it, for sure

  280. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie

    Do you like big cherries, small ones or medium-sized?

    Hehe

  281. KennaKenna says:

    Wait, since when does SA have a matchmaking service? Any of you SBs/SDs going to sign up?

  282. SexyRockstar says:

    …i’m a special person

  283. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    “@Rookie do you like your cherries red and fully ripe, or firm and half-ripe lol”

    I prefer them the same way I like my bubble butts…juicy, firm and fully ripe.

  284. KennaKenna says:

    @Sexy

    Haha

  285. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie it must be the margaritas.

    @Struggle needs to come and take over.

  286. SexyRockstar says:

    …i’m a coupon

  287. RookieSD says:

    Look at Kenna playing mediator pro bono.

  288. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie do you like your cherries red and fully ripe, or firm and half-ripe lol

  289. KennaKenna says:

    @YGBKM if you stop accusing @Josh of having proxies, he’ll drop it. :-)

  290. SexyRockstar says:

    …im a proxy

  291. Josh says:

    @KennaKenna

    “@Josh just drop it!

    Please!
    Pretty Please!
    Pretty Please with a cherry on top!”

    @y has spent all day accusing me of typing using various proxies and she has at least one believer. Do you think that this madness will disappear if I “just drop it”?

    Teyya what. I will “just drop it” with “a cherry on top” if you can get a promise that such idiotic accusation will not continue any further…

  292. RookieSD says:

    I love the cherry on top…

  293. KennaKenna says:

    This probowl is a snooze fest, I wanna leave at half time but SD won’t let me. -_-

  294. KennaKenna says:

    @Josh just drop it!

    Please!
    Pretty Please!
    Pretty Please with a cherry on top!

  295. Josh says:

    @yougottabekiddingme

    “In case y’all missed it:

    Georgia replies in such a manner to validate “FunDude’s” redundant position. FunDude engages in such a way to reinforce his redundant position regarding “women’s logic”. Once that has been established, calls Georgia’s bluff despite the given. 3rd generation proxy, once removed, twice reinstated.

    Next move.”

    Are you saying that both @FunDude and @GeorgePeach are @Josh’s proxies? 😉

  296. KennaKenna says:

    @FlyR good SBs will find SDs quickly in NYC, I’ve had no problem

    All I’m saying is that there are sooo many young girls who flock to Manhattan looking for a guy to take care of them. There is serious competition and if all you have blog for you is “young and pretty”, that just simply won’t cut it.

    And also, a SD living in Manhattan and making 350k cannot afford to lavishly spoil his SD because cost of living is so high. But in another city, 350k is a nice salary and SD can splurge on his baby.

  297. SexyRockstar says:

    Eh, I live 20 min northbound of Chicago.

    I’ve had a fling with a diamond member on here for awhile. He was fantastic to me :)

    I haven’t had any issues at all trying to find anyone.

  298. flyR says:

    I’ll take exception to the generalization that cities like NY are the toughest. If you look out in the country say the CA central coast there are a number of colleges (including two of the best UC ) from Santa Barbara to San Luis Obispo (long distance but probably less travel time than Santa Monica to Pasadena in the afternoon.

    Out in the Phoenix area there’s the college students but also an abundance of young women (single or divorced) who are active participants in a competitive environment.

    I think you can make the case that most any area is tough but all you need is one SD.

    The difference is that the area does not have a lot of young professional SD candidates and the area is pretty conservative so not too many married pot’s , the wine industry rockstars are knee deep in enthusiastic groupies.

  299. SexyRockstar says:

    I will bang Seth Myers so hard. UUUGGHHHH sssooo hot.

    Sorry, I am watching Netflicks, SNL binge <3

  300. KennaKenna says:

    @StruggleIsReal

    @Rookie
    Haha From a different kind of bullish beating 😉

    Hahahahahahahaha! Good one!

  301. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    I want to say that if I were single again, I probably would not look on SA. I’d use the knowledge I have acquired and frequent the places I know the caliber of men I’m looking for hang out.

    But I wouldn’t necessarily be looking for an allowance situation, just a successful man with means.

  302. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Kenna
    I’ll ride with you girl. I ride horses and have had a few buckers. Still not a bull, and those things are quite different (I’ve ridden one before), but I think it would be fun to get dumped together. Haha

    @Rookie
    Haha From a different kind of bullish beating 😉

  303. AmusedSD says:

    @Fundude, yes SD wants a younger hotter SB. That does *not* mean college girls, though.

    Different people classify ‘young’ at different ages.

    Your overall point is valid, but not everyone wants someone 18-22. Plus different people are looking for different things.

  304. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    @Rookie hit the nail on the head! Pretty girls are a dime a dozen here. I think NYC is all about fitting in and blending in as well.

    SDs here usually want a SB that would not raise red flags if spotted together.

  305. RookieSD says:

    “Sounds like a tougher situation for SBs in the big cities”

    I would say that is particularly true in NYC simply because the disparity between rich and poor is greater there than anywhere else in America.

  306. **SB_UK** says:

    @RookieSD

    Thank you 😉

  307. RookieSD says:

    @SB_UK
    Your gravatar is mesmerizing…

  308. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    Sounds like a tougher situation for SBs in the big cities

  309. **SB_UK** says:

    @RookieSD

    Aching and sore for all the right reasons 😉

  310. RookieSD says:

    I thought women liked it when their vaginas were sore and aching…

  311. KennaKenna says:

    @YGBKM now I’m having second thoughts :-S…

    @FlyR I’d totally ride the bull with another girl, maybe Petite or Struggle hehe… I wanna be at the back though lol.

    The squishy balls wasn’t our fault. Blame the refs! Go Patriots!

  312. @Kenna

    Your entire body, including your vagina will ache. It’s nothing like the horsey ride outside the local grocer (how dare those patrons give me strange looks). I suggest riding on the lowest speed to start!

  313. flyR says:

    KENNA – It is fine to ride the bull after a few drinks but not after the Superbowl when the crowd has had way too much to drink and been otherwise over stimulated. I forgot the name of the Sunset strip bar with the bull but enough Martinis got two young ladies riding the bull together .

  314. flyR says:

    Kenna – anybody who is going to quibble with you about 1 degree is probably not going to be much fun. In a blog world it’s horseshoe and grenade accuracy only and usually much worse. 80 is fine

    BUT HOW DO YOU EXPECT TO WIN THE SUPERBOWL WITH SQUISHY BALLS………

  315. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    “@Rookie leave Brady alone. He will kick ass next week!”

    Nothing can save him from the “Legion of Boom”…

  316. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie leave Brady alone. He will kick ass next week! 😀

  317. “PimpinSD says:
    January 25, 2015 at 3:04 pm
    @YGBKM
    “Just tried a taste myself…I think you’ll like it. What’s your email address, daddy?”

    We can go down the rabbit hole together.”

    Which ever one you’d like, pimpin’.

    yougottabekiddingme2014 at gmail

  318. PimpinSD says:

    @YGBKM
    “Just tried a taste myself…I think you’ll like it. What’s your email address, daddy?”

    We can go down the rabbit hole together.

  319. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    “The Patriots are gonna win Super Bowl :-P!”

    Tom Brady going to get handled like he was a bitch in prison… The way the New York Giants defense did him in the last two Super Bowls he went to.

    And make that bull scream when you ride him…

  320. MissLady says:

    lol @ ygbkm, it’s my blue moon chance to play russian roulette with my digestive tract…

  321. “KennaKenna says:
    January 25, 2015 at 2:48 pm
    I wanna go to the bar a few blocks away and ride the mechanical bull after the game.”

    “MissLady says:
    January 25, 2015 at 2:49 pm
    mechanical bull, it’s all in the thighs…..but I hope you’ve got good alcohol control, it’s no joke when you’re tipsy….I’m just saying.”

    It’s a trap!!! Dooooont doooooo iiiiiiitttt!!! Lol

  322. @MissLady

    It’s a trap!!! Dooooont doooooo iiiiiiitttt!!! Lol

    @Kenna

    Don’t underestimate the potency of a margarita. Hehe. Glad you’re enjoying yourself there.

  323. MissLady says:

    mechanical bull, it’s all in the thighs…..but I hope you’ve got good alcohol control, it’s no joke when you’re tipsy….I’m just saying.

  324. KennaKenna says:

    I wanna go to the bar a few blocks away and ride the mechanical bull after the game.

    SD told me to do yesterday but I was too sober, now I’m all up for it 😀

  325. **SB_UK** says:

    @ygtbkm

    I was not impressed with anything about it, i won’t be getting another

  326. “**SB_UK** says:
    January 25, 2015 at 2:40 pm
    @ygtbkm

    “The McRib Is Back!!!”

    I had one of these today for the first time”

    omg. Lol. Haven’t eaten one of those in I-can’t-even-tell-you how long! Were you impressed with the faux grill marks and shaped bone??

  327. MissLady says:

    McRibs are back?? Must stop by and do my yearly ritual of the processed meat

  328. MissLady says:

    @kenna I have family who are stans, just getting in practice for the big game.

  329. KennaKenna says:

    @FlyR sorry

    @YGBKM that’s the margaritas getting to me lol.

  330. KennaKenna says:

    @MissLady I’m used to people booing the Patriots lol.i live in NY and New Yorkers hate all the Boston teams kinda like how Minnesotans hate Wisconsin and the Packers.

  331. @Kenna

    FlyR was saying that my mention of a high of 79 in Phoenix is a good gauge for anywhere in that region.

  332. **SB_UK** says:

    @ygtbkm

    “The McRib Is Back!!!”

    I had one of these today for the first time

  333. Wish I was pool side right now. I think I could work with 79 degrees.

  334. KennaKenna says:

    @FlyR so my iPhone is lying? What’s your email? I just took a screenshot of the weather app where it said it’s 79.

    Anyways, potatoes, PO-TA-TOES.

    I was just saying it’s warm here and everyone is outside relaxing before game.

  335. MissLady says:

    *boooo @ the Patriots* lol, couldn’t help it.

  336. “flyR says:
    January 25, 2015 at 2:28 pm
    There are SD s who think that 3 quarter pounders , cheese and large fries is a feast, others that think it is harmful for their self image if they eat at less than the most expensive place and others who dine at places where the food, wine, service, ambiance and price make them happy.”

    Speaking of those who prefer McDonald’s…

    I happened to catch a glimpse of a billboard the other day, and I’ll have you know…

    “The McRib Is Back!!!”

  337. KennaKenna says:

    The point I was trying to make when I said it is 80, it is significantly hotter than east coast so everyone is out at the pool/hot tub.

  338. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey according to my iPhone it is 79 in Gelndale, AZ right now! *shrugs*

  339. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie

    The Patriots are gonna win Super Bowl :-P!

  340. “Lainey says:
    January 25, 2015 at 2:16 pm
    Lmao it’s not 79 either. I’m going to assume you’re just looking up the predicted high for the day.”

    Lainey, the predicted high for the day is pure, uncut pussy.

  341. flyR says:

    Kenna for most any populated land within 50 miles of Phoenix is considered Phoenix unless you are buying a home…… Unlike LA or SF the weather is pretty homogenous

  342. flyR says:

    There are SD s who think that 3 quarter pounders , cheese and large fries is a feast, others that think it is harmful for their self image if they eat at less than the most expensive place and others who dine at places where the food, wine, service, ambiance and price make them happy.

  343. **SB_UK** says:

    @Lainey

    Thanks 😉

  344. KennaKenna says:

    @YGBKM yes I have a tiny waist (all those years of wearing a tunic belt in high school) but I wouldn’t consider myself “slim thick”.

    My sister is slim thick, she calls me top heavy and says I would look better with a full B but I love my boobies.

    My mom had really big boobs for her smallish frame and recently got a reduction because she thought looked top heavy after kids.

  345. “RookieSD says:
    January 25, 2015 at 2:20 pm
    “Bubble butt” is referencing more to the shape of the booty vs the volume of the booty.”

    Ah.

    Yes, then, it appears you have a bubble but. Little butts can be bubble butts, say the people.

  346. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    Once again F*** the Patriots.
    Haven’t watched the Pro Bowl since the late 90’s I think. The game doesn’t matter, therefore they play like it doesn’t matter.

  347. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie ooh! Ahhh, gotcha. See I’ve never had much of a booty for a black girl so I’m no butt connoisseur. Thanks for the tip/lesson :-)

  348. “Lainey says:
    January 25, 2015 at 2:19 pm
    “Just tried a taste myself…I think you’ll like it. What’s your email address, daddy?”

    LMAO @YGBKM I can’t with you”

    Lmao. Why not? Lol.

  349. “KennaKenna says:
    January 25, 2015 at 2:16 pm
    @Rookie I don’t think I have a bubble butt… Do you? I think it’s just a cute tiny butt.

    Maybe I need to look up definition of bubble butt later and then reevaluate my ass in the mirror and make comparisons hehe.”

    You seem slim-thick from your pic. Top and bottoms curves, slim waist! I think that’s the word that was floating around.

  350. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey ooh, @Petite’s photo gave me inspiration lol.

    Everyone was staring at SD and I when I asked him to take that pic yesterday at pool but he loves the attention hehe.

  351. RookieSD says:

    “Bubble butt” is referencing more to the shape of the booty vs the volume of the booty.

  352. Lainey says:

    “Just tried a taste myself…I think you’ll like it. What’s your email address, daddy?”

    LMAO @YGBKM I can’t with you

  353. KennaKenna says:

    Do you guys watch the probowl?

    I love football but somehow I don’t care about ProBowl, maybe because none of the Patriot players are playing!?!?

  354. Lainey says:

    @Kenna it might be because you’re leaning in your pic. Yes you have a cute tiny butt but you got “ASS” in that pic

  355. “KennaKenna says:
    January 25, 2015 at 2:13 pm
    @YGBKM I’m not in Pheonix. I’m closer to the stadium in Glendale so it’s 79 here.”

    Oh yeah, I know. Just had a quick Arizona reference because I have Phoenix and Tucson forecast in my phone still from my recent visit.

  356. Lainey says:

    Lmao it’s not 79 either. I’m going to assume you’re just looking up the predicted high for the day.

  357. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie I don’t think I have a bubble butt… Do you? I think it’s just a cute tiny butt.

    Maybe I need to look up definition of bubble butt later and then reevaluate my ass in the mirror and make comparisons hehe.

  358. Lainey says:

    **SB_UK** says:
    January 25, 2015 at 1:14 pm
    If this is how it all works, it’s not looking good for me, turning 30 in a few month

    Lmao @SBUK you’ll be just fine

  359. “PimpinSD says:
    January 25, 2015 at 1:43 pm
    @YGTBKM
    daddy…
    It’s called pussy. How much you want, Big Pimpin’?

    Well you should give me a free sample, a taste test. If your shit has high purity and ain’t been cut, we can deal.”

    Just tried a taste myself…I think you’ll like it. What’s your email address, daddy?

  360. KennaKenna says:

    @YGBKM I’m not in Pheonix. I’m closer to the stadium in Glendale so it’s 79 here. 😉

  361. @Lainey

    High of 79, currently 75 in Phoenix. It was warm and beautiful when I was there a few weeks ago.

    Yeah, my friend just wouldn’t give up. Luckily he didn’t have to pay for the services directly as the treatment center was one his clients.

    I think he kept going because he felt he had crossed the point of no return. Lol. Im going to call him and ask him if he ever finished. Will report back.

  362. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude

    As a SB from NYC(the city with the highest number of SBs on SA), I can tell you that you have to bring more to the table than good body and pretty face. SDs here have so many options so you must be truly unique to stand out, have success and keep the SD interested long-term.

    So much competition in the bigger cities, it’s CRAZY!

  363. RookieSD says:

    @Kenna
    “@Lainey you just love to pick on me… Don’t you?”

    I think she wants to spank that tight little bubble butt of yours…

  364. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – Sorry…I used to be like you, thinking salad was “safe”…after a couple of shows and seeing “behind the curtain” I critique the place differently before ordering ANYTHING!

  365. KennaKenna says:

    @Lainey you just love to pick on me… Don’t you?

    It’s actually 79 here… Sorry for the 1 degree discrepancy.

  366. Lainey says:

    @YGBKM @LadyScarlett @Struggle See I was thinking about it but like Scarlett said it works better fair skin/dark hair. I have olive skin/blonde hair. I’m definitely not trying to do 3 years of treatments lol

  367. Lainey says:

    It’s not 80 in AZ

  368. KennaKenna says:

    @ONSD why did you have to tell me that?

    Now I feel sick :-(

  369. FunDude says:

    @FLYR

    That will lower the value of all SBs regardless due to oversupply compared to number of SDs.

    There is largely a buyers market for SDs in most areas.

    What do the buyers value the most on average?

  370. PimpinSD says:

    @YGTBKM
    daddy…
    It’s called pussy. How much you want, Big Pimpin’?

    Well you should give me a free sample, a taste test. If your shit has high purity and ain’t been cut, we can deal.

  371. flyR says:

    The other argument about value is that there are so many 18-22 year old wannabe SB’s that the supply exceeds demand, especially if you are near several colleges.

  372. **SB_UK** says:

    @ygtbkm

    Thank you 😉

  373. “**SB_UK** says:
    January 25, 2015 at 1:24 pm
    @ladyscarlett

    I wouldn’t say i look 30, i still get asked for ID when i go to the shop

    @ygtbkm I think i still got plenty of time left yet”

    Yes, UK…I think so, too :). It looks like you’re doing pretty well for yourself! Cheers to that :).

  374. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – have you seen the restaurant rescue shows? It’s the salad that can be the MOST dangerous, since the line cook just threw some raw chicken on the flat top and then grabbed your leafy greens without washing his hands…then used the same knife to slice the veggies as he used to slice the raw fish…be careful!

  375. KennaKenna says:

    Completely off topic but SBs if you’re taking a vacation in the near future to a warm climate place, the hot tub/pool and bar area is a good place to meet a pot SD.

    I just met a guy who could be a good SD, who is also from NY but too bad I’m taken.

    Just something to think about…

  376. **SB_UK** says:

    @ladyscarlett

    I wouldn’t say i look 30, i still get asked for ID when i go to the shop :-)

    @ygtbkm I think i still got plenty of time left yet 😉

  377. FunDude says:

    LOL I am breathing fine.

    Im done with this topic. It is very clear that my analysis is correct despite the histrionics of the good amount of ladies on this blog.

  378. “FunDude says:
    January 25, 2015 at 1:17 pm
    I am not trying to be harsh ladies. I am just speaking about the current marketplace on sugar.

    How many women will “overlook” a jobless sugar daddy? Or a poor sugar daddy?

    Women don’t seem to “overlook” problems a man will have.”

    It’s ok, FunDude. Just breathe.

  379. MissLady says:

    Wow a decent article…..

    But I see we’re beating the same dead horse again…*parking for a few minutes, before I have to be put out to pasture lol*

  380. Ladyscarlett says:

    SBUK, there are other girls on blog over 30 with good success, but they don’t post their age, due to some nasty comments. I just don’t care what others think, and am proud of my age, or I would hide it. My guess is, judging by your photo, that most would have thought you early 20’s. Men don’t care about exact age if the lady looks nice…

  381. “**SB_UK** says:
    January 25, 2015 at 1:14 pm
    If this is how it all works, it’s not looking good for me, turning 30 in a few month”

    UK…best you sell that pussy while it’s hot. I know a pimp who buys it by the gram.

  382. FunDude says:

    I am not trying to be harsh ladies. I am just speaking about the current marketplace on sugar.

    How many women will “overlook” a jobless sugar daddy? Or a poor sugar daddy?

    Women don’t seem to “overlook” problems a man will have.

  383. Georgia,

    LadyScarlett is a lovely lady with a lot of knowledge to share in this realm. I’m sure there are lots of other things you two could discuss. Maybe teach each other a new thing or two. Wouldn’t hurt.

    I understand if you don’t want to post your email. You’re welcome to email me, and I’ll forward it along.

    yougottabekiddingme2014 at gmail dot com

  384. **SB_UK** says:

    If this is how it all works, it’s not looking good for me, turning 30 in a few month :-(

  385. flyR says:

    @Kenna ” I want to gain weight actually but I will almost always have a salad because I had food poisoning a couple times and realize a salad is quite hard to fuck up lol.” I think the odds are better with cooked food than salads if you are concerned about such things.

    Kenna – glad to see that you had some fun in AZ

  386. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    It takes a lot to put me into “tango” mode lol

  387. flyR says:

    Fun Dudie is like a kid who has never left the village. The truths of the village are extrapolated to be the truths of the world while in fact the real world is very different.

    For those stuck on arm candy there’s simply no substitute for the 18 year old, large breasted fresh candy. But in the vastly larger sugar universe there are a lot of women over 30 who are extremely sexy, far more sensually talented, often far more intellectually stimulating and who receive substantial allowances , enjoy long relationships and have fun.

    If your tastes run to the Monica Lewinsky crew than only young will do. It’s also likely that the predators prefer as young as possible.

    The sad part is when people who either do not know or are infected with hate try to tell over 30 SB’s that they have no chance.

  388. Ladyscarlett says:

    Once again, no one said it was the norm, but it happens. Sorry, but that is a fact.

    I am not debating this with you anymore because it is not fun, fundude…

  389. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @fundude
    You might be very surprised by what I could do for you, Sir. You seem to be in a faster dance mode right now. Bet I could put you into a “tango” before you know it.

  390. FunDude says:

    statistical analysis

  391. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    I doubt you would change my tune.

    @Lady

    The reality of the market remains regardless of your “personal anecdotal experience”.

    It is like saying “I got more for my 1999 Mercedes than 2014 Mercedes because the 2014 doesn’t understand its value”.

    Ridiculous. The market dictates value based upon equilibrium. The vast majority of people will fall within the bell curve at 2 Standard Deviations.

    Ergo, this is simple statistically analysis.

  392. KennaKenna says:

    @ONSD awww, well I’m heading home in the morning without SD and a blizzard is heading to NYC. If I were a bad girl, I’d call in sick and ditch work lol… But I’m not.

    No, I don’t birch about losing weight. I want to gain weight actually but I will almost always have a salad because I had food poisoning a couple times and realize a salad is quite hard to fuck up lol. Plus I really love all types of salads, especially the ones with avocados. I’m an avocado junkie and eat one everyday for breakfast when they’re in season.

  393. GeorgiaPeach says:

    And if I wasn’t confused enough before….I think I’ll stop and go re-write my profile, just to clarify a few things. And BTW, I didn’t say the 3 messages I got were worth my response, now did I?

  394. Ladyscarlett says:

    Fundude, Your reality isn’t mine, or what I have experienced, on SA. The type of SD you are, or are not, is not the type interested in me, and visa versa, so see no reason in arguing with you.

    You seek something else, but it is not correct that your ‘rules’ apply to every single person’s, on SA, experience. Trust me, they do not. Should be this, should be that, life and relationships are not a math formula that should be this or that, in every case. That isn’t life.

  395. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @lady
    Thank you. But hasn’t this merrygoround gone on long enough? Surely there are other subjects out there that could be discussed. LOL. @fundude, were it only possible for us to meet Sir. I might very well change your tune. LOL.

  396. FunDude says:

    It really isn’t that difficult to understand by simple economic modeling. The law of supply and demand is PARAMOUNT.

    Supply of younger SBs compared to Demand by Sugar Daddies < Supply of Older SBs compared to demand by Sugar Daddies.

    Simple mathematics confirms my analysis that older SBs will command a lower price value on the "sugar market".

    A 2015 Mercedes will command a higher value than a 1999 Mercedes. The "older" Mercedes might have other "qualities" that make it more interesting but that doesn't change the price point.

  397. FunDude says:
    January 25, 2015 at 12:42 pm
    @Georgia

    You’re the one who brought up the topic. The older ladies are basically complaining that Sugar Daddies aren’t that interested in them.

    Then, when I state the reality, they change their tune and claim there are all “kinds of sugar daddies” who are messaging them.

    Why complain in this blog then? If there are all these successful sugar daddies that are younger looking for OLDER WOMEN, then why post here complaints?”

    “FunDude says:
    January 25, 2015 at 12:50 pm
    @yougotta

    I am “arguing” this because all of the older sugar babies coming on this blog. They are bitching that their “profile isn’t getting the responses they want”.

    When they are told the truth about the difficulty of such an arrangement for an OLDER WOMAN, they go into denial.

    They often claim that “younger sugar daddies” are messaging them all the time and have “references” to prove it.

    Its like a merry go round.

    Older Sugar Babies shouldn’t come on here and bitch about it UNLESS they want an HONEST answer.

    That simple.”

    Bitches, bitches, bitches, bitches, double cunt, bitches! Yeah, bro.

    But what really happened (even though this whole argument is moot in that it was planted in its entirety)…

    “SouthernLady1n1M says:
    January 24, 2015 at 12:49 pm
    New here. Saw this site advertised in a magazine. Interesting place. Never thought about this before, until recently widowed. Are there many or any “older” SB’s here? Or perhaps the better question is are there any SD’s looking for older, experienced SB’s here?”

    I think you’ve somehow managed to confuse yourselves.

  398. Ladyscarlett says:

    Yes, have we not heard this over and over and over…is like a broken record. I wasn’t even going to comment, but feel bad for the peachgalady and others being so cruel.

  399. FunDude says:

    @Lady

    So women who have objectively lower SMP value should demand more from Sugar Daddies?

    If the demand for older women is lower, they should DEMAND a higher price?

    Your logic is ridiculous.

    By the law of supply and demand, they should expect LOWER arrangements.

    The demand for OLDER SBs is LOW, while the supply is HIGH.

    Ergo, the price should be lower.

    Demand for younger SBs is HIGH, supply is moderate/high.

    Ergo, price point is higher.

  400. StruggleIsReal says:

    @FunDude
    No one was complaining. Stop arguing about nothing. YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE COMPLAINING.

  401. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    I am tired of the hypocrisy of some of the older Sugar Babies on here.

    They are basically demanding men overlook their “age” due to other supposed qualities (which are likely bullshit, since most of these women are just as materialist and narcissistic as their younger counterparts).

    However, how many of these same women “overlook” a sugar daddy that has no money or no job?

    Lets be honest here.

  402. Ladyscarlett says:

    I agree with yougottabekiddingme fundude…we get that SA is marketed towards that demographic…

    I disagree that a woman older than 30 gets less than the college gals…I am surprised at some of the low amounts some of the younger college girls accept, or post about on blog, to be honest. I think they sell themselves short, but hey, at the end of the day it is whatever you feel comfortable accepting, and it don’t do the low offers.

    Many older women have established careers and would not compare their allowance to their wage working at the mall or a lower end job. I posted that John website, on usasexguides, on SBs, that spoke about just this. They claimed some of the older sugar babies were GPS and only accepted higher allowance amounts because they can, and were not desperate or in need of immediate funds as much
    as the younger girls.

    And before you say anything…I realise that the older SB must be attractive and in good shape, and/or look young for her age. I am not trying to argue with you, but just stating another fact. It happens, and with allowance amounts that you would never gift, but still doesn’t make it untrue or a fact for others.

  403. FunDude says:

    I always love how older women come on here and demand men “overlook” their age due to other qualities that men don’t value.

    However, I never see these ladies “overlooking” the fact that they want a successful sugar daddy to pay their way.

    Imagine if a sugar daddy came onto this website and said “I don’t have money for you but I have other qualities that you might like that are more important”.

    I highly doubt too many women on here would go for that argument.

  404. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Kenna – I hate you…no, I love you…no, it’s just jealousy…the heat, the pool and all I can do is look out the window at snow :(

    As far as salad goes…if she’s bitching about pounds to lose when she doesn’t need to, I’m annoyed. If she’s boxing about pounds to lose and she does need to I encourage, if she’s not bitching about pounds to lose and comments about a part of the salad she finds extra interesting she might just talk me into ordering the salad too (and I probably should be anyways)

  405. Josh says:

    Hot off the press…

    The proxy theme is alive and kicking. LOL!

    I have been asked by an SB to retire @FunDude.

    What do you say to that @FunDude? :)

  406. FunDude says:

    @Lady

    No being over 30 is NOT a benefit.

    It can be overcome by being very attractive, in shape, good personality, etc.

    However, age over 30 is ALMOST ALWAYS a negative for this website.

    I get tired of having to debate the obvious on here.

  407. Georgia,

    LadyScarlett is a great resource. You should definitely email her.

  408. FunDude says:

    @yougotta

    I am “arguing” this because all of the older sugar babies coming on this blog. They are bitching that their “profile isn’t getting the responses they want”.

    When they are told the truth about the difficulty of such an arrangement for an OLDER WOMAN, they go into denial.

    They often claim that “younger sugar daddies” are messaging them all the time and have “references” to prove it.

    Its like a merry go round.

    Older Sugar Babies shouldn’t come on here and bitch about it UNLESS they want an HONEST answer.

    That simple.

  409. Ladyscarlett says:

    In fact, I would say being over 30 can be a benefit, since the John-like fake SDs who are just looking for a one-dimensional type thing, or quick lay do not focus on the older SBs as much. Sure, you will get less messages, but the ones who are interested are more serious, sometimes. There are men looking for over 30… Probably not as many looking for over 40, and even less over 50 and 60, but can be possible, if the lady is attractive, looks good for her age, and the man is looking for something else or more than just the physical.

  410. Oh this is gonna get good….

  411. FunDude says:

    @Lady

    I never said it wasn’t “possible”. I said it was very unlikely. It would likely be a short term arrangement that consisted of far lower monetary amounts.

    Also, a mid 30s woman who is in very good shape and attractive, can still command an arrangement. I never denied this.

    There is a reason the WEBSITE markets the way it does. The owner of this website understands very well his customer base.

    He knows that he must show younger, attractive women to get Sugar Daddies to sign up. He clearly understands that using OLDER women as the models would lower his revenue dramatically.

    That is just fact.

  412. FunDude…

    It has already been established (5 trillion times) that the older sugar baby arrangement is not the norm. We get it…really, we do.

    How long will you continues to argue with yourselves?

  413. Ladyscarlett says:

    I dunno, fundude, do you want my past references? I actually have emails from young guys I could show you, from site. Maybe, you can email them and ask, hehe.

    You are missing the point, NO ONE said that SA doesn’t market to older men and college aged women. They most definitely do. But, have used site successfully and I am not college aged, well, I have a college account from grad degree, so maybe, that counts. What I am saying is that those types of arrangements are not the only types that happen.

    @gapeach, what is your email? I am in georgia, too, and in my mid thirties, so not the youngest SB around 😉 Having an arrangement is possible after 30, contrary to what others might say. In fact, I am not the only over 30 lady on blog, but am probably only one who will admit it, hehe. There are haters on blog regarding age, but you cannot base everything on what other’s beliefs are…there are always people telling you that you can’t do this and that. If you can, then why not?

  414. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    You’re the one who brought up the topic. The older ladies are basically complaining that Sugar Daddies aren’t that interested in them.

    Then, when I state the reality, they change their tune and claim there are all “kinds of sugar daddies” who are messaging them.

    Why complain in this blog then? If there are all these successful sugar daddies that are younger looking for OLDER WOMEN, then why post here complaints?

  415. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @fundude
    I have no idea, whether it would be popular or not. Perhaps that is something you might consider checking on. I thought this site was open to anyone who wanted to visit or join. Can’t you find something else to harp on besides me? Get over yourself Sir. There must be something more here that you would prefer than to discuss whether I can find a mature man to play with.

  416. FunDude says:

    @Lady

    Thanks for all the supposedly anecdotes that I can’t verify.

    Let me ask you a question. Why does this website EXPLICITLY market itself as OLDER sugar daddies paying for far younger women?

    Most of the marketing actually shows women who are COLLEGE AGED.

    Why don’t they market it using OLDER ladies? Surely, if OLDER ladies are so popular as you claim, why isn’t marketed that way?

    I guess the marketing people on this website are FOOLS who don’t understand what the Sugar Daddies are signing up for? They must not understand their own customer market?

  417. **SB_UK** says:

    @English
    “He’s is tall, has a good sense of humour and he’ll take us as shoe shopping, what’s not to love about him?”

    Been tall and a good sense of humour could actually win me over 😉 Am not a huge fan of shopping lol

  418. FunDude says:

    Those are the facts (correction from above)

  419. Ladyscarlett says:

    I had a 49 year old SD last year, who lasted a long time, but also a 28 year old and a 34 year old…They were all good SDs, but 34 year old was a cardiologist, and complete opposite personality of most doctors I know…he was so much fun and he was very generous….so, age/income isn’t always predictable, in regards to allowance gifted.

    Arrangements are no cookie cutter formula that is one size fits all. It depends on the woman, her appearance for her age, how she carries herself and what the man wants, or values in attributes of what he seeks. I have seen more than a couple SD profiles, in the past, stating that they would prefer the girl next door look, and not a Barbie or high maintenance woman. But hey, just like in regular dating to each their own. Men like all types.

  420. KennaKenna says:

    Question to SDs:

    When you take a woman out and she only orders a salad, is that a turn off?

  421. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    You didn’t “clarify”, you diametrically change your comment.

    Good luck. Your odds are extremely low on this website. That is the facts.

    Why do you think all the marketing for this website shows OLDER sugar daddies with far younger women?

    Do you think a sugar daddy website with OLDER women would be popular?

  422. FunDude says:

    If you want to date Sugar Daddies that are looking for OLDER WOMEN, they should make a different website than this.

    The whole thing is marketed for older Sugar Daddies looking for younger women.

    I highly doubt a website for Sugar Daddies paying for OLDER women they deal with NORMALLY would be popular.

    This type of website would always remain far more popular for sugar daddies than one featuring older women.

    Really that simple.

  423. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @fundude
    I’m not backtracking at all. I clarified, Sir. AND how do you know that being with me would not be an upgrade for a mature SD? You have no clue Sir. I might surprise you what I can do and would do.

    And in fact, I have already received 3 messages… 2 from a sweet 37 yr old gent and 1 from a 50 yo.

  424. StruggleIsReal says:

    @FunDude
    You are a breath of fart on this blog. All you contribute is whining. Shut. Up. Already.

  425. FunDude says:

    @Sexy

    You are being too emotional on this subject. There is an exchange going on with this website. Men are not looking to DOWNGRADE but UPGRADE.

    Do you honestly think men are coming on here to pay for older women to have a “friendship”. Come on.

    The whole damn website explicitly shows OLDER sugar DADDIES with YOUNGER ATTRACTIVE sugar babies.

  426. KennaKenna says:

    So as ya’ll know I’m in Arizona, it’s 80 degrees here so I am poolside on my third margarita.

    Former Cleveland Indian players are here because they had a fantasy week retreat here last week and they were hitting on me until SD showed up. They told him he hit a home run with me… And then he left to go to some NFL related thing and they resumed hitting on me…

    Men are funny hehe! I’m just enjoying the hot tub and weather in my thongkini.

    Carry on folks.

  427. FunDude says:

    @Sexy

    I’d take that bet. I GUARANTEE there is no guy in his 30s that will offer an significantly older woman an arrangement involving money.

  428. Ladyscarlett says:

    The leg hair seems to be the most stubborn because it is lighter hair…

  429. FunDude says:

    @ Georgia

    Ok so now you are backtracking and admitting you wouldn’t take care of a sick SD, like you claimed in a previous post.

    Previous direct quote: “I’ve been around long enough to experience and see things that true gentlemen enjoy, either it’s that martini waiting for him when he gets in or that nice hot shower where I can wash his back for him. I can provide the experience and knowledge that likely one of the nicest younger 19 yrs old cannot provide. When he’s ill, I know how to care for him, when he’s lonely, I know how to care for that too – and it is NOT always about the sex.”

    So previously you claimed you would “know how to take care of him when he’s ill, lonely, etc”.

    Ergo, you were disingenuous.

    I highly doubt there are many men who come onto a Sugar Daddy website to pay arrangements with women due to them being “friendly”. They can do this without going on such a website. This website is EXPLICITLY used for sugar daddies trying to UPGRADE.

  430. “FunDude says:
    January 25, 2015 at 12:10 pm
    Georgia you’re being disingenuous. Women don’t come on a sugar dating website as a SUGAR BABY to “take care of a sick man”.

    They come on here to be TAKEN CARE OF by a wealthier man. Stop the bullshit.”

    Lol. You’re really trying, aren’t ya.

    In case y’all missed it:

    Georgia replies in such a manner to validate “FunDude’s” redundant position. FunDude engages in such a way to reinforce his redundant position regarding “women’s logic”. Once that has been established, calls Georgia’s bluff despite the given. 3rd generation proxy, once removed, twice reinstated.

    Next move.

  431. SexyRockstar says:

    @FunDude
    Drummer is not 40 :)

    And watch, Georgia Peach gets a message from some hot 30 something who likes older women. Then she gets REALLY taken care of.
    ..on that note

    @Georiga
    Have you thought about being a Sugar Mama?

  432. Ladyscarlett says:

    I have it done, ygbkm. It works best on fair skin and darker hair. Although, they have lasers for the darker skin now, but from what I understand, fair skin and dark hair is the ideal. I was gifted 10 sessions last year, and have 4 or 5 left….it takes more than a few months for any hair(much finer now) to grow back at this point. And, as the sessions go on, less and less grows back because the folicle dies. It hurts like hell in the intimate/nether regions(think Brazilian), though…and the armpits hurt nbad, too. Am not into taking any medication, but would take a pain pill before each treatment, if I had one :-/ it works, though…not sure about years from now, but enjoy not shaving my pits or naughty areas.

  433. KennaKenna says:

    @Sexy you are one of the sexier size 10 girls, most girls your size are insecure, don’t carey themselves like you and don’t have your awesome personality. I think you are truly unique and a hard find.

  434. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Lainey
    I had some laser but couldn’t keep up with the appointments and schedule. I did like the results when I was able to, but there is amount if regrowth required and I just couldn’t deal with that.
    I keep thinking about doing it again but I don’t know.

  435. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @funDude
    Sir, You have totally missed my point on this. WHICH IS…. I’m not here to take care of a sick SD… that’s is just stupid on your part to think I would be. I am here just like many or most other SB’s. It’s been a while since I had any “attention” and I would enjoy and like that – just as I hope you enjoy the attention your young “flaming” females give you. What I am saying is that I am a mature lady looking for attention, friendship and if that works to more, then that would be great. He could count on me to be there for him. Geez. Get off that boat Sir – it’s sinking fast!

  436. StruggleIsReal says:

    @Sexy
    Well said.

  437. “Lainey says:
    January 25, 2015 at 10:41 am
    @SBs have any of you had laser hair removal? Or have thoughts on it”

    Missed this, ergo.

    Ergo, I think I remember Kenna mentioning laser hair removal, ergo.

    Have a Turkish friend, ergo, who was receiving his “last treatment” every time I talked to him over a 3+ year span. Ergo, I guess it works better for some than others. Ergo.

  438. FunDude says:

    @Sexy

    That is some kind of scam message that many women have gotten before. Dunno the purpose of that scam.

  439. FunDude says:

    @Sexy

    You have an arrangement with a guy in his 40s that is married while you are in your 20s. Your arrangement is very consistent with my above observations of male sugar daddy behavior.

    This is a woman who is older that wants a sugar daddy around her age. The chances of a man “paying for an arrangement” under such circumstances are very low.

    There has to be a MUTUAL benefit for both parties. If a man is paying for an arrangement, he has to be “upgrading” to some degree from his current ability to get women.

  440. SexyRockstar says:

    And here is a fun message I got from someone with no picture:

    Hi I am very much interested, I am not interested in lots of profiles i have carefully read your profile let me know please if you are interested. I can travel once a month to you so distance is not an issue my previous arrangement was long distance and it lasted for 18 months. Allowance: 1000$ per meeting or 4000$ a month your choice Arrangement will include (I am looking for ): Conversation Dining out Hanging out I can get a hotel location convenient to you and can always suggest which one suits you most. once a month meeting in person rest of the meetings via skype on mutually agreed times and days You have to have skype downloaded in your computer or in your phone if you are really serious to pursue this arrangement.First skype meeting would be a chat to get to know each other and if everything goes well and we both see a chemistry we can arrange the paid skype session the same day or after couple of hours @ 1000$.or later I am planning to visit you Feb 8 or Feb 15 let me know if and prior to my visit we can have couple of paid skype sessions as well if you are interested, if its ok with you ? We can talk ASAP on skype and get to see each other first, get comfortable and finalise this arrangement ASAP. If its ok with you can add me on skype (my skype name is *****), if you interested please send me your skype name and time when you are availble to skype and we go from there. I can transfer allowance via: wire transfer or google wallet email money transfer money gram Western union or when we meet in person whichever best for you Thanks

  441. FunDude says:

    Georgia you’re being disingenuous. Women don’t come on a sugar dating website as a SUGAR BABY to “take care of a sick man”.

    They come on here to be TAKEN CARE OF by a wealthier man. Stop the bullshit.

  442. SexyRockstar says:

    @SDs and SDs reading the blog who not post:

    Pretty sure that FunDude (I love ya man, but, reallllyyy) your views are a bit fucked up.

    Yes, Georgia Peach is old and heavy but, guess what? There are men on here with weird fucking fetishes that may get turned on by that. Some have pointed out that her audience IS low, but there is someone out there for everyone.

    And just because you’re 30 and attractive has NOTHING to do with your worth being worth more then a SB. You basically want to get laid. I’ve told you that you should go to Ashley Ma Dd Ison . com for that. Plently of women on there that will fuck you because you’re attractive.

    I am not saying that there are girls who are butt ugly demanding high allowances, but hey! I am not an SD I don’t have a strange fetish, but maybe they had an arrangement like that. WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE?!?!

    I am tired of people thinking sugar is paying for sex. It’s a HUGE part ((sex is)) but it goes way beyond that. A pretty face will only get you so far.

    I have curves and such, I am beautiful…but I keep SDs around because I am fucking awesome. Sex is mind blowing, I have a fantastic personality.

    There will ALWAYS be another girl thinner/hotter then your current SBs…has there will be always a man who is richer. What keeps an arrangement going is the bond two people develop. It always starts off as a purely physical, but then it moves into something deeper.

    Girls: men, are more then ATMs. And Men: women are more then sex objects. If you can find someone who will add an ACTUAL BENEFIT to your life…then yes. That’s success

  443. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    You are talking about a person you had a LONG TERM relationship with, children with, marriage with, etc.

    That is TOTALLY different than meeting a man off a sugar dating website.

    Are you honestly saying you would “take care” of some random dude on this website if he got sick?
    Please don’t make me laugh.

  444. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Fundude
    I was several years older than my late husb. He developed a brain tumor that by the time the surgeon got to him, it was a Stage 4 – Terminal. I was with him for 2 yrs, the last year, about 24/7. We had just reached the stage in our lives to have investments/savings built up, our son out of college, that it would be “our time and our future.” The last 8 mos I literally did not leave his side. We were married almost 25 yrs. I loved him every sense of the word and if another gentleman came into my life, and I felt the same, I’d do it all agsain in a heartbeat. Call it what you want, but if a woman truly loves her man, she’ll do what she needs to do.

  445. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    @SB_UK- why would moving to the US cross my mind, the UK is great. It has so much to offer 😉
    He’s is tall, has a good sense of humour and he’ll take us as shoe shopping, what’s not to love about him?

  446. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Also, young and attractive are TANGIBLE qualities that can be defined in the present.

    “Taking care of him when he is sick” is an INTANGIBLE quality that can’t be assured, regardless of your “promise”.

    Ergo, you are claiming to be superior due to being willing to “take care of him when he’s sick”. The veracity of that claim can’t be verified.

  447. FunDude says:

    Correction: ” The chances” not changes

  448. FunDude says:

    @Georgia

    Also, I rarely see women volunteering to “take care” of older men who become sick unless they have a very very long term relationship with them.

    Even with a long term marriage, the odds of a woman “taking care of a man when he is sick” is about 50/50.

    The changes a woman who goes on a sugar baby website is going to “take care of a sick man”, unless she can take all of his inheritance money that he would give his children, is almost NILL.

  449. Dani says:

    Since I watched it for the first time last night,I think that (Alfred Hitchcock’s) “Rebecca” qualifies. A young woman with no family and no where else to go marries an older wealthy guy out of convenience as a willing replacement for his ex-wife.

  450. FunDude says:

    @ Georgia

    Sounds like you want to date some guy around your age. I think you should consider other online websites for that.

    Richer older dudes on here are looking for an “arrangement” with younger women. They are using their money to acquire these “relationships”. That is the exchange.

    Platitudes of “taking care of the man” when he is sick is all nonsense. Sugar Babies are not going to be there when the guy “gets sick” or when the money runs out. It is that simple. She is there for the “arrangement”.

    You are speaking about a traditional relationship that men don’t pay allowances for. They might take you out to a restaurant or on a trip. If that is the type of Sugar relationship you are looking for in terms of a caring relationship, I figure that might be possible.

  451. AmusedSD says:

    My father is 78, has been divorced for 3 years, goes to the gym 4-5 times a week, owns a number of businesses and a lot of real estate and has a high net worth.

    To him, a young SB would be about 50.

  452. GeorgiaPeach says:

    Afternoon All.
    Just got back here. Took me a while to catch up. I am so happy I could add to your list of conversation topics here. I do have a couple things though… IS there a site for the “experienced, mature LADIES, who want to date mature gentlemen? If so, I haven’t seen. If you know of one, please advise. And true, while I don’t feel comfortable receiving an “allowance” or such, I do believe “arrangements” could be made to mutually satisfy each of us, without a monthly stipend.

    @ Josh
    I wanted to hear what he says about Granny Peach’s chances of success at SA, as everyone else has been pussy footing around the obvious.
    Josh, Honey Potty, Please read the above comments, darling. And BTW, who said my intentions were to remain “larger than necessary?” This Momma has every intention to get back to her fightin weight, Darlin…I am sure you’ll look forward to my next posting of photos when the time is right.

    @ Fundude
    Older and obese women are “demanding” men “accept” their body types. They are basically also trying to “shame” men into SD arrangements with them.

    It is almost to the point where these overweight and unattractive women almost DEMAND men having a SD relationship with them or they are “racist, fat phobic, etc”.

    Instead of making themselves attractive to men, they instead DEMAND men find them attractive and pay for them.

    SweetiePie, let this Mature, Experienced Peach tell you a couple things. I have NEVER demanded any male to find me attractive and pay. I mean EVER. I have never thought of a male as being racist, fat phobic or such either. What I look for in a male, here or elsewhere is one who has got enough common sense about him to realize the things I can offer him now. I’m well past child-bearing age – so NO problems there, no waiting or dealing with “monthly cramps” etc either. I’ve been around long enough to experience and see things that true gentlemen enjoy, either it’s that martini waiting for him when he gets in or that nice hot shower where I can wash his back for him. I can provide the experience and knowledge that likely one of the nicest younger 19 yrs old cannot provide. When he’s ill, I know how to care for him, when he’s lonely, I know how to care for that too – and it is NOT always about the sex. It’s about living and having the experiences of losing your best friend in the whole world and losing that daily dose of what made me like his most beautiful woman in the world – whether I was or not. And that, Sir, is what is seek. Some one genuine, sincere, mature and smart enough to know that when he has me, it’s with everything I have and more.
    I apologize for the length, but….and ladies, please don’t take what I say in the wrong way, I do believe there is a place for everyone where…and I also believe that there is an SD or sweet mature male who might just venture here for the fun of it and fine me – who knows? 😉

  453. “PimpinSD says:
    January 25, 2015 at 11:19 am
    Personas on this blog are delirious!

    @YGBKM
    Could you sell me a few grams of the controlled substance you’re currently experimenting with?”

    Yeah, daddy…

    It’s called pussy. How much you want, Big Pimpin’?

  454. @Lainey

    I follow.

    “StruggleIsReal says:
    January 25, 2015 at 10:56 am
    @YGBKM
    Wow. I actually followed all of that and have to say, rather eye-opening analysis.

    Maybe I’ll be pretty good at chess once I learn. LoL”

    It’s really all so petty and manipulative. As I said before, I don’t have a problem with proxies when they are not used to propagate a loaded agenda. Unfortunately, the proxies are vengeful when compromised, and resort to just about any means in protecting themselves. Seems far fetched as first glance, silly at best, but it’s totally a thing, and it’s evident here on this blog post.

  455. PimpinSD says:

    Personas on this blog are delirious!

    @YGBKM
    Could you sell me a few grams of the controlled substance you’re currently experimenting with?

  456. Josh says:

    @yougottabekiddingme

    “He’s actually a rather easy study.”

    Awww. 😉

  457. “FatB’StardSA says:
    January 25, 2015 at 9:59 am
    @y

    You have spent a lot of time studying @Josh. Are you one of those FBI behavioral analysis who study serial killers?”

    He’s actually a rather easy study.

  458. Lainey says:

    @YGBKM Josh isn’t using me because I don’t believe that you think that and you surely didn’t say it. To be used I’d have to agree that it was implied and as I stated, I dont believe it was or EVER WAS. So when I say don’t trip, its my way of reassuring you not to worry about it because I doubt anyone here is worried about it.

  459. FunDude says:

    correct: “is a chore”

    This website sucks. I miss half of my words or letters while typing lol

  460. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Very often finding those types of women in s chore due to their rarity. Putting some money into play can make that proposition more feasible, especially if the man is limited on time.

    I don’t want to go out to bars and nightclubs on a regular basis in the attempt to find those types of women.

    This website provides that much more easily and in a far less time consuming manner.

  461. “Josh says:
    January 25, 2015 at 10:50 am
    @Lainey,

    Every time someone agrees with me, say, in 3+ consecutive posts OR discusses topics, which I generally talk about, a few bloggers, even FB, start calling him/her @Josh’s proxy. That’s part of the blog trivia.”

    That would include me! :). I’ve also agreed with you before…without the disclaimer, “I hate to agree with Josh” even. Oh my…could I possibly be a proxy conjuring up other proxies to pin on you? What a climactic twist :D.

  462. Josh says:

    @KennaKenna

    ‘So what you’re saying is a “fit, handsome guy in his 30s” should not have to enter in an arrangement to date a “hot, thin blonde in her 20s”?’

    There has to be some reason WHY a rich, tall, “fit, handsome guy in his 30s” would pay for “hot, thin blonde in her 20s”.

    The following “may” be a few of them…

    1. The guy has no time to find such “hot, thin blonde in her 20s”.
    2. The guy has no time to date such “hot, thin blonde in her 20s” as a regular girlfriend.
    3. The guy is socially awkward to approach such “hot, thin blonde in her 20s”.
    4. Etc., etc., etc.

    Now start altering some of the physical characteristics, and it starts making sense WHY a rich, “short or “bald” or “unfit” man in his 30s would like to enter in an arrangement to date a “hot, thin blonde in her 20s”

  463. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    I didn’t say that. I am saying the bigger the disparity, the more likely there will be a bigger arrangement.

    Ergo, if I’m in my 30s, good shape, etc then a woman in her 30s shouldn’t expect me to be “paying her” for her company.

    If she is in her early to mid 20s and a very attractive blond (almost supermodel status), then I will expect to pay some money since that is a rare female that is in high demand.

    For the vast majority of women, taking her out to restaurants, trips, etc should be more than sufficient.

  464. StruggleIsReal says:

    @YGBKM
    Wow. I actually followed all of that and have to say, rather eye-opening analysis.

    Maybe I’ll be pretty good at chess once I learn. LoL

  465. Josh,

    Keep shoving wedges (not to be confused with wedgies). The people playing into your hand aren’t “voluntarily playing into your hand”. They’re blindly playing into your hand because they don’t realize you are playing a game. But I do :).

  466. KennaKenna says:

    So what you’re saying is a “fit, handsome guy in his 30s” should not have to enter in an arrangement to date a “hot, thin blonde in her 20s”?

  467. Josh says:

    @Lainey,

    Every time someone agrees with me, say, in 3+ consecutive posts OR discusses topics, which I generally talk about, a few bloggers, even FB, start calling him/her @Josh’s proxy. That’s part of the blog trivia. 😉

  468. “Lainey says:
    January 25, 2015 at 9:53 am
    If being one of the VERY FEW SBs on this blog that doesn’t operate on “woman’s logic” makes me a @Josh proxy, that’s alright with me. Lol.”

    “FunDude says:
    January 25, 2015 at 10:01 am
    Lainey appears to have some brains. Of course that other moron wouldn’t like her.”

    Haha. What game.

    “Lainey says:
    January 25, 2015 at 10:26 am
    @YGBKM I never even saw an implication in your posts. Don’t trip. I’m pretty sure you realize I’m too much of a bitch to be anyone’s proxy Lmao”

    Lainey…Josh planted and is using you like he did and will everyone else. Ain’t trippin’, babe.

    @NB&KYJ

    As for my supposed agenda, it has never been my position that younger, thinner, lighter are outside the most desirable norm. So again, please stop twisting my words to support the only arguments that bring you a sense of validation.

    “Women who are young and attractive are in far more demand. Ergo, they can expect more money for an arrangement. That is normal.”

    You must be a seasoned rocket scientist. Thanks for that.

    Challenge! How many proxies can one dude manage?

  469. RookieSD says:

    @Chrissy
    “I was let out of my cage to be fed in all the ways needed. Now all is better in life and we can put the condiments away.”
    Damn I had my condiment brush and you had my mouth watering, such a tease….

  470. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    That is what most relationships should be like unless there is a huge disparity in age/looks between the two people.

    However, there are many women that come on here demanding money to “date”, despite them not being that impressive in looks.

    Don’t get why they feel so entitled to money for going out on “dates” or “relationships”.

  471. Josh says:

    @resop2

    “@josh: about that awesome SD – all that money but can’t afford white space?”

    It was not him, it was me. Copy-paste ate the white spaces. :(

  472. Josh says:

    @yougottabekiddingme

    “I’ve laid it out there, told you exactly what he is doing, and what his very predictable next move is,”

    But whatever you wrote was “incomprehensible” so no one grasped it? :(

    “but still everyone plays into his hand.”

    Hmmm, now “everyone” is being played into @Guru’s hand? Do you mean “everyone everyone” or just a few among “everyone.” Do you want name name as to who exactly is voluntarily being played “into his hand”?

    “Call me crazy if ya wanna.”

    “Women oscillate between crazy and bat shit crazy.” Josh Guru.

    I don’t call you crazy, because that would be redundant. I just call you “incomprehensible.” Capisce? 😉

  473. Lainey says:

    @SBs have any of you had laser hair removal? Or have thoughts on it

  474. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude there are different types of arrangements that appeal to different types of women. Not every woman wants/needs $xxx amount per month.

    Some females on this site actually just want to experience dating a man of means and some spoiling.

  475. Josh says:

    FatB’StardSA

    “@y

    You have spent a lot of time studying @Josh. Are you one of those FBI behavioral analysis who study serial killers?”

    Hahahahaha. See sweetheart…this is why I call upon FB because he is able to write hilarious, yet comprehensible, prose, even though is no fan of mine. 😉

  476. Josh says:

    @y

    “@FunGuy

    My father is alive and kicking, genius. Clearly you missed the point…”

    If you started wring comprehensible prose, then people will stop missing “the point” :)

    “Josh, you’re gonna have to up your game, babe. I’m not only on to you, I’m ahead of you.”

    Awww, “isn’t that special”, as the Church Lady would have said? 😉

  477. resop2 says:

    @josh: about that awesome SD – all that money but can’t afford white space?

    @all: just curious about the legalities. Would it be illegal for a site to promote “subsidized dating” or would that be an escort site?

  478. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    Yes its called regular dating. Why should a man pay an “allowance” for a woman of his own age? That is ridiculous.

    The “allowance” is to make up for the disparity in youth and attractiveness of the woman compared to the man.

    It really is that simple economic exchange. The bigger the disparity, the more he will have to pay.

    If there is minimal to no disparity (or if the guy is actually of higher value than the woman on the dating market), I see no reason for him to pay for an “arrangement”.

  479. Lainey says:

    @YGBKM I never even saw an implication in your posts. Don’t trip. I’m pretty sure you realize I’m too much of a bitch to be anyone’s proxy Lmao

  480. KennaKenna says:

    @Lady hey there, welcome back to blogland!

  481. Chrissy says:

    @Rookie
    I was let out of my cage to be fed in all the ways needed. Now all is better in life and we can put the condiments away.

  482. Wow. Lainey, Scarlett…no.

    ““Josh says:
    First, @Alexis = @Josh?
    then, @Lainey = @Josh?
    Then, OnlineNewbieSD = @Josh?
    Then, @FunDate = @Josh?””

    “ygbkm says:
    Anyone else you wanna call upon?

    Clearly youre just throwing names out there at this point.”

    “Josh answers: Sure…@LadyScarlett is a good friend.”

    I didn’t say that you were proxies. Josh planted you to create the allusion that I am calling you proxies which everyone knows you are not.

    Such amateur level of play

    I’ve laid it out there, told you exactly what he is doing, and what his very predictable next move is, but still everyone plays into his hand.

    Call me crazy if ya wanna.

  483. KennaKenna says:

    @FunDude but not everyone likes thin and younger. I’m just saying that’s what SA markets- hot, young, thin, college educated girls who are looking for older companions.

    So I think when most guys join, they would be looking for “the product” that was marketed to them.

    She may have better luck elsewhere though.

  484. FunDude says:

    @Kenna

    It is good that you speak the truth to these women. They are in fantasy land. This doesn’t benefit them or anyone else.

    Attractive is “relative” but there are certain criteria that applies that are congruent with the considerations of the vast majority of males:

    1) Thin is better than obese
    2) Younger is better than Older
    3) Easy to get along with personality
    4) Good face is always a plus

    Really that simple

  485. KennaKenna says:

    I don’t think it is impossible for GeorgiaPeach to find a guy to spend on her, I just don’t think SA is the right place to look for it.

    SA markets to older guys who want to be with younger, attractive companions. Attractive is relative and even though I’m aware I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, I think older and overweight may have slim to no chances here.

    P.S Georgia you seem lovely, I just try not to prevaricate and always speak my opinion, even the harsh truths. Good luck.

  486. FunDude says:

    Lainey appears to have some brains. Of course that other moron wouldn’t like her.

    I am knocking certain types of WOMEN not ALL WOMEN. Its interesting how some women who are told off about their hypocrisy start crying about “speaking badly about women”.

    Typical feminist logic that tries to subvert the conversation into a “victim” status. Once someone becomes a “victim”, you aren’t allowed to be critical of that person.

    This is typical feminist behavior. It silences men’s critical opinions.

    It is OBVIOUS older and less attractive women will have to determine an “arrangement” that doesn’t include significant money being exchanged. The act of “exchanging” money is due to the man getting a better deal than he can normally obtain easily.

    Women who are young and attractive are in far more demand. Ergo, they can expect more money for an arrangement. That is normal.

  487. FatB'StardSA says:

    @y

    You have spent a lot of time studying @Josh. Are you one of those FBI behavioral analysis who study serial killers?

  488. KennaKenna says:

    @Rookie

    Hehe!

  489. Lainey says:

    If being one of the VERY FEW SBs on this blog that doesn’t operate on “woman’s logic” makes me a @Josh proxy, that’s alright with me. Lol.

  490. RookieSD says:

    @ Kenna
    Your gravatar is hauling some freight in the trailer…

  491. RookieSD says:

    @Chrissy
    “My abs are hurting. I need someone to rub BBQ sauce all over my stomach and lick it off.
    I cannot tell if the forced porn watching is putting me into heat or I am just really hungry.”

    I say it’s both…

  492. FatB'StardSA says:

    @Josh

    @GeorgiaPeach might have some luck if she is using SA as a dating site. An arrangement does not have to include money changing hands.

  493. Ladyscarlett says:

    Yougottabe…I am not in the age 60+ demographic 😉 my mom would still be in that age demographic, though, if she were alive…

    Is everyone a proxy now? I am confused ):

  494. Lainey says:

    Oh Lord. What have I missed?

  495. FatB'StardSA says:

    @y….

    “Now…let’s see what Josh’s next move is. For those of you he’s mentioned please know that you are being used as pawns in a poorly played game of chess. Ridiculous.”

    You are more entertaining when in your crazy state! Let me put on my tinfoil hat and help expose the SA blog proxy scandal!

    Are you suggesting that @Lainey is a @Josh proxy? :-0

    I don’t know if anything @Lainey says is true or if @Lainey is a real individual, or if in fact @Lainey = @Josh. I will say that the the claim that a early 20’s Kim Kardashian look alike (@Lainey) can get big dollars on SA is a lot more believable to me than many of the other blog SB stories I have read.

  496. Josh says:
    January 24, 2015 at 7:57 am
    “Don’t bite the hand that feeds you” is a very good advice to men. It does not usually apply to women as they do understand that conceptvrry well in situations where dick is not involved.

    For example, they follow government welfare rules to the tee, and rarely negotiate salaries in job situations.”

    “FunDude says:
    January 24, 2015 at 8:52 am
    Basically shows a bunch of stupid SBs that is typical on SA.”

    “yougottabekiddingme says:
    January 24, 2015 at 12:25 pm
    @Josh &@FunDude

    You guys whine like a uterus relieving itself of unfertilized ova.

    Or sewn foreskin.

    No analgesia.”

    “FunDude says:
    January 24, 2015 at 12:58 pm
    @yougotta

    Typical feminist shaming language doesn’t work on me.

    Go try that stuff on your mangina father or something.”

    Pardon the irony of satire.

    By the way…my father is dead. Cigarettes will get the best of yous. His cock, though, is on display at the International Mangina Museum. Some call him, “The Exception to the Rule.”

    My father[?]”

    “FunDude says:
    January 24, 2015 at 1:31 pm
    @yougotta

    LOL he sounds like a mangina bringing up a feminist slut for a daughter”

    “yougottabekiddingme says:
    January 24, 2015 at 1:38 pm
    @FunGuy

    My father is alive and kicking, genius. Clearly you missed the point that parents…along with children dont really need brought into comments.”

    K, so let’s do a recap here, yeah y’all?

    The comments started (as they often do) with woman bashing. ygbkm called the fine fellows out on it, and boy did that set their bigoted pants afire. Oh…I’ll remind you all of the “bitches, bitches, bitches, bitches, double cunt, bitches” rant that Flyboy Kegstand went on the other day, to which I replied, “That was lovely. Thanks for sharing.” Anyway…yesterday they decided to play the “shaming” card in response to my comment yet failed to recognize the irony and hypocrisy of their own shaming (no quotes) tactics in simultaneously playing the mangina card. What idiocy. Even going as far as attacking a presumed dead man’s mangina and his slut daughter. Laughing my fucking life away! Josh kept it going long after my father’s resurrection.

    Ok. So we’ve talked about their shaming of women’s social economic and intelligence status. We talked about his (he, they, him, them, their…all the same) shaming of men based on his ignorant interpretations and projections of binary gender and dominance assignment. Now, let’s move on to ageism :D.

    A post and profile created just the other day that is coincidentally similar to the name and demographics of a known marginalized blogger. Ain’t that something.

    Let the deliberate “elder abuse” begin. Oh, and just because the subject of abuse is “@Nothing” because the subject is a conjured proxy, it doesn’t minimize the attack on the demographic at large, more specifically within this blog. But let us not speak on that…it’s a “clever” distraction from the earlier guilty ignorance.

    Now it appears we’ve shifted to the fats.

    Next, perhaps, the handicapped, or maybe again the pigmented, foreign or mentally ill.

    Please notice that these merely serve as outlets for release of bitterness and poor attitudes toward women. It is beyond relevant discussion, it is beyond reason.

    Josh, you’re gonna have to up your game, babe. I’m not only on to you, I’m ahead of you.

  497. KennaKenna says:

    @Struggle thank you.

  498. **SB_UK** says:

    @Strugglels

    reality is so much better than the picture 😉

  499. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    Older and obese women are “demanding” men “accept” their body types. They are basically also trying to “shame” men into SD arrangements with them.

    It is almost to the point where these overweight and unattractive women almost DEMAND men having a SD relationship with them or they are “racist, fat phobic, etc”.

    Instead of making themselves attractive to men, they instead DEMAND men find them attractive and pay for them.

    Crazy times.

  500. FunDude says:

    Everytime I read the “dailymail”, they are attempting to show plus size women “models” as attractive. Men are ADAMENTLY opposed to this development but women are “demanding” men find this attractive.

    Women are pushing this fat physique brigade into the mainstream media, which is basically a joke.

    Yet the male models are expected to be in good shape. Notice how the “fat shaming” is only applicable to women.

    The hypocrisy is endless in the gynocentric Western world.

  501. Josh says:

    *Vitamin D deficiency?

  502. Josh says:

    @y

    Thanks for taking the comprehension pill. The last post was fairly comprehensible.

    “Maybe” you wanna get tested for Vitamin D? 😉

  503. Chrissy says:

    My abs are hurting. I need someone to rub BBQ sauce all over my stomach and lick it off.

    I cannot tell if the forced porn watching is putting me into heat or I am just really hungry.

  504. Josh says:

    Vagina and reality don’t mix very well.

  505. Let’s see how long the GeorgiaPeach diversion lasts.

    Oh what fun it is to watch people talk to themselves.

  506. “Josh says:
    January 25, 2015 at 7:47 am
    I don’t call FB as an ally. I call him because he has mind of his own AND is usually comprehensible.”

    “Josh says:
    January 24, 2015 at 9:43 pm
    Where is FB when you need him?”

    “Josh says:
    First, @Alexis = @Josh?
    then, @Lainey = @Josh?
    Then, OnlineNewbieSD = @Josh?
    Then, @FunDate = @Josh?”

    “ygbkm says: Teehee…what a pathetic call for allies. Elementary, babe. You can do better.”

    “Josh says:
    January 24, 2015 at 9:45 pm
    @OnlineNewbieSD

    “@Georgia – Ignore @Josh…”

    Hmmm, I had thought that we were friends?”

    “Josh says: The only exception has been @Sexy. She is awesome AND she’s been a great @Guru friend, but she has avoided the @Sexy=@Josh accusation for some reason”

    “ygbkm says:
    Anyone else you wanna call upon?

    Clearly youre just throwing names out there at this point.”

    “Josh answers: Sure…@LadyScarlett is a good friend.”

    FB comes to the rescue, but also throws a well-thought inquiry, and is consequently thrown under the speeding bus.

    Online plays right into Josh’s hand:

    “OnlineNewbieSD says:
    January 25, 2015 at 6:38 am
    @YGBKM – I’m sorry if you think I am a proxy for @Josh. I thought I disagreed enough with his points at times I could avoid that.

    @Josh – we are friends, I’m just trying to keep a new SB with a limited audience happy with the site.”

    Next move, babe.

    Oh…and you’ve already lost your incomprehensible post piece. Try the bishop this time.

  507. FunDude says:

    @ Josh

    I can’t believe the SD market is big for women who are significant older and overweight. I could be wrong but this is a basic problem in the sugar market.

    Why would a guy make an “arrangement” with a woman he could easily get without exchanging any money.

    Sugar is used to obtain significantly younger and more attractive women that is easily obtainable. It really is that simple.

  508. Josh says:

    I don’t call FB as an ally. I call him because he has mind of his own AND is usually comprehensible.

    I wanted to hear what he says about Granny Peach’s chances of success at SA, as everyone else has been pussy footing around the obvious.

  509. StruggleIsReal says:

    I need to learn to play chess.
    @English, do you know how? Swap you blow-job lessons for chess lessons?

  510. There is really no need for anyone to address GeorgiaPeach. She is being used as a diversion. Silly, silly.

  511. THEATLSD says:

    @RookieSD
    “I think his comments flew way over your head…”
    Kind of my forte last couple of days. :(

    Time for me to chill.

  512. “FatBstard says:

    A more important question is how did you view another SD’s profile on the site? Are you one of PriceySpicey’s alternate personalities?”

    “Josh says:
    January 25, 2015 at 7:00 am
    And now @PriceySpicey=@Josh.”

    Play-by-play

    Josh desperately calls upon FB as an ally, is displeased with part of his ally’s remarks, twists ally’s remark into a claim known to be false, discounts ally’s claim in its entirety.

    Next move.

  513. @Fatbstard

    Thank you, dear, for your constipated input. In all the time Ive been on blog, my previous post is the first of any such mention. I don’t want to insult anyone’s ability to pick up on what’s going on here. My point is, yes, I am smart enough to see the manipulative tactics being played.

    “A more important question is how did you view another SD’s profile on the site? Are you pretending to be a woman on the SA site?”

    Awww…look at you using your tink-tink.

    @online

    I don’t understand how you took anything I said to mean that I think you are Josh’s proxy. No wait…yes, I do…Josh planted your name. Lol.

    Amazing. Perhaps I’ll need to draw a play-by-play account. Ya know…like in a play book. Will need my keyboard again. Let me know though if y’all figure it out before then…save me the effort.

    Now…let’s see what Josh’s next move is. For those of you he’s mentioned please know that you are being used as pawns in a poorly played game of chess. Ridiculous.

    I’ll give you a little pointer. When providing a list in making a given claim, all points on the list must be true in order for the claim in its entirety to be true. The same applies for false claims. Josh has thrown out 6 (?) names, 2 of which are proxies. The other proxy he has not mentioned as a supposed association yet, but the proof is in the pudding. Way to create diversions, Josh. My father taught me better. Lol.

  514. FunDude says:

    @ Lady

    I am not Josh. What a stupid statement. Take your feminist shaming rhetoric elsewhere.

    @ GeorgiaPeach

    I don’t think there is a big market for significant older and fat women on SA. If men are paying, they have significantly higher standards. They usually look for younger and fitter women. That is my observation for the VAST majority of potential SDs.

  515. StruggleIsReal says:

    @English
    I’m in! hahaha Get ready @ATL!

    @Kenna
    I see you, boo! Hot gravi!!!

    “yougottabekiddingme says:
    January 24, 2015 at 1:10 pm
    @Sexy
    I gave up on New Year resolutions, and instead adopted dailyversaries. Everyday I say out loud the cliche line, “Today is the first day of the rest of your life.” And then I log on to the SA blog where the only friends I have hangout, where we collectively bask in the glory of having nothing better that we could possibly be doing with our lives.
    [sighs]
    Winning”

    BAHAHAHA Yes!

    @Carib
    Hmmm I actually was just viewed or favorited by someone in the Caribbean I think. I’ll have a looksie. But yes I would imagine that your odds of finding an SD there would be much less, but still worth trying.
    @Online offered some great advice about searching.

    @GeorgiaPeach
    Welcome to the blog. I would give advice but it’s all been well-covered by the lovely others here. Even @Josh’s response does offer insight to *some* of the response you’ll get here on SA. Your search may be difficult but I figure it can’t hurt to give it a try, if you’re into it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Good luck!

    @Josh
    OMG. I was messaged by that guy!!! Hahahahaha The profile text had me in stitches, as it does now!

    “**SB_UK** says:
    January 25, 2015 at 4:30 am
    @Atl why would moving to the US cross my mind, the UK is great. It has so much to offer ”
    Clearly, it does, judging by your gravatar 😉

  516. Josh says:

    And now @PriceySpicey=@Josh. :(

  517. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @YGBKM – I’m sorry if you think I am a proxy for @Josh. I thought I disagreed enough with his points at times I could avoid that.

    @Josh – we are friends, I’m just trying to keep a new SB with a limited audience happy with the site. I don’t know why, since she’s not my pot. Maybe it was just setting expectations without the dildo reference, maybe she reminds me of my mom and I want her to find someone too. But we ARE friendly on blog…I just didn’t see calling her a waste when she wasn’t hating on the site yet.

  518. RookieSD says:

    @SB_UK
    “@Atl why would moving to the US cross my mind, the UK is great. It has so much to offer ;-)”

    I think his comments flew way over your head…

  519. **SB_UK** says:

    @Atl why would moving to the US cross my mind, the UK is great. It has so much to offer 😉

  520. FatB'StardSA says:

    @Josh

    Where did you find FlyR’s profile?

    A more important question is how did you view another SD’s profile on the site? Are you pretending to be a woman on the SA site? Are you one of PriceySpicey’s alternate personalities?

  521. FatB'StardSA says:

    @yougottastfu

    Many blog SB’s claim to be a successful, educated (if you are willing to consider having a business degree as being educated) women. That said, a majority of their posts discuss their ability and desire to suck cock, which is an appropriate topic for the SA blog. Stop boring people who read the blog with stories about how smart you are or random psychobabble.

    Have a nice day! :-).

  522. Josh says:

    @Kenna

    Yes, he seems to be into “testimonials”. Hahahaha!!!

  523. KennaKenna says:

    @Josh OMG at that profile!!!!!

    Did he really include references? hahaha

  524. Josh says:

    @yougottabekiddingme

    “Anyone else you wanna call upon?

    Clearly youre just throwing names out there at this point.”

    Sure…@LadyScarlett is a good friend. She is very, very naughty though. 😉

  525. Josh says:

    This SD seems awesome…

    About Me

    PLEASE PRETTY PLEASE READ MY PROFILE. SAVE US A LOT OF TIME AND NEEDLESS EMAILS. ONLY LOOKING FOR ONE WOMAN. { NOT married.} I want to eliminate confusion on my definition of a mutually satisfactory relationship. Mutual is the key word, man and woman have to get something out of this, it is not all money one way. Simply, I am looking for more of a girlfriend/boyfriends friends with benefits that I financially take care of and she is secure long term. We all know there are a lot of hookers on here and fakes and flakes, I am none of these and not interested in those, so if you are in this category just please block me. Thank you. FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS ARRANGEMENT ONLY, if you write you like the finer things in life, seriously stop and think, who doesn’t. we all do and we all want to be spoiled but that means YOU have to give to get. it is not all about you. I AM REAL, I OWN THE 60 FT YACHT WORTH 2 MIL. SO YOU NOW KNOW I AM NOT A FAKE. I captain my own boat, navigate and have 3 boats total. [Pardon me Please, all the fakes on here SA DOES NOT STAND FOR SCAMMING ARRANGEMENT, a sb is not a predator in a thong. Wanting money up front is just a scam, seriously, no real SD is going to do that… and SD stands for sugar daddy not sugar dummy. There are rumors of lots of woman on here scamming to rip off and rob men for money, get a job. I am not an ATM. And women must realize if you say you want to take it slow, it means you do not take the money fast. LOL. And woman who want to be set up for rejection, i know you are proud of your implants but just showing a shot of this and later sending a face pic, don’t be surprised if you are rejected. Implant cleavage all looks the same!!! I AM SINGLE – NO KIDS. HAVE PLENTY OF TIME FOR FUN A REAL MAN SPOILS HIS LADY WITHOUT HER ASKING! AND A REAL WOMAN KNOWS NOT TO ASK. retired surgeon, i was a gynecologist, did over 1000 deliveries and over 3000 surgical cases. I don’t work, like yachting have a 60 ft motor yacht, travel, dining, movies, exploring other cultures and history, like to have fun, no drama. I am not into sports, but i am into movies. I am Understanding, loyal, easy going, with a good sense of humor, good and persoanlity. I take control of the finances. Like conversation and candle lights. Photography and music have been professionally involved with both. I live in West Palm Beach on 2.5 acre ranch house and have another house in Atlanta. Like ocean cruises. I AM D&D FREE, YOU SHOULD BE TOO. that means drug and disease free. No herpes. If you have this please seek medical advice.

    What I’m looking for

    Initially a NST trial period to see how we get along and if we bond, then a [LTR] regular exclusive arrangement. I am looking more for a girl friend type of arrangment that i financially support rather than just a sugar baby type of arrangement, so if you do not feel any conncetion then please try someone else. Relocation to florida would be at my expense if things go that way, but twice a month visits, round trip ticket and hotel my treat is fine too. I would prefer to show someone the finer things in life that they have not experienced before rather than someone who says they are ‘use to’ the finer things in life which sounds so snobby, doesn’t it? My lady should not work how can we go to hawaii for a week if you work? Why would you want to worry about expenses anymore? I want the same thing you want, i know that loyalty ,love, security,pampering, caring, respecting and treating you like a princess is what matters. i know your feelings and well being is what is important, and i share the same things you want in life, fun, happiness and excitment, financial security. I’m good at teaching investment, stocks, medicine and general business. I am not looking for one night stands, just one lady. No drugs NO diseases. I mean that so block me if you have diseases or do drugs, i am not interested. REFERENCES FROM REAL MEMBERS 1. Hi there u are a real gentleman u have the best profile i have ever read on this site thats the way to go, men should take lessons from u 2. First of all I have to say WOW….you sound like such an amazing man…its nothing to do with the money…you sound like you have a true heart and would never hurt a woman. I would love to experience watching the sun setting over the water as we just sit on the beach by a roaring fire…that is just one of my fantasies…I wish you the best of luck finding your dream lady…she will be such a lucky lady to have you on her arm and by her side. Take care Ron<3 3. I must say that I enjoyed your page and loved how straight forward and to the point you were. I can honestly say that there are not many guys who are like that on this site. 4. Ok lol I loved your profile and honestly I would be interested in meeting you. ..I never ever contact men on this site but I found you to be quite amusing. :) 5. You're the only guy with a profile that I felt captivated to read to the end. You seem, like a really great guy and someone I would love to get to know better! 6. Just finished reading your profile and you honestly make the other guys on this site look bad. You seem like an amazing person and extremely intelligent. 7. I can imagine your inbox. I'm sure it's bursting at the seams. I just had to say how much I enjoyed reading your profile. Your honesty is very refreshing. You also seem like a very passionate man 8. Your profile had me rolling on the floor laughing!!! I love that you know exactly what you are looking for. You're a dream and seem like a blast to be around. I could be on a plane this weekend if you were ready (Really tonight) Your profile is perfect. Don't hesitate to get to know me if your interested. I hope you find you a good one. Stay awesome! Take care. -B 9. Your profile made me laugh. So much truth to it, yet you have a great sense of humor. I wish you lived closer so we could hang out.You're a guy I'd love to get to know better, so if you ever make it to CA, please let me know.Have a fabulous 4th! For low information sugar babies in regards to the realistic value of a dollar, it is a fact that the president of the USA does not take home more than 20k a month after taxes so in reality no president of the USA could ever afford most of you on here with your expectations!!! PS: A WOMAN WHO DOES NOT POST HER FACE PICTURE ON A DATING SITE – make it private, serioulsy, you wouldn't buy shoes without looking at them first, would you?. and i know none of you would write a guy who doesn't have a pic posted. –and ladies, please no more pictures in bathroom toilets, lol.–

  526. Anyone else you wanna call upon?

    Clearly youre just throwing names out there at this point.

    You win the super sucky award tonight, dear. But there is always tomorrow.

    Anyway…walking onto the dancefloor. Will imagine your arms around me as Im groping my own ass ;). Damn…Im a sucker for your nipples…get me going every time.

  527. Josh says:

    “Teehee…what a pathetic call for allies. Elementary, babe. You can do better.”

    Sweetheart, every time anyone has agreed with me, he/she has been called my proxy. Even @FB alluded that @ONSB=@Josh. It is what it is. The only exception has been @Sexy. She is awesome AND she’s been a great @Guru friend, but she has avoided the @Sexy=@Josh accusation for some reason.

  528. “@yougottabekiddingme

    “My father taught me to play chess when I was just a 3 year old little slut*. By age 4, not only had I contracted my first STD*”

    Confused (with vertigo)…Are you telling us that you were mentally and sexually abused as a child?”

    Yes, dear. Thank you for recognizing my cry for help.

    “Josh says:
    January 24, 2015 at 9:50 pm
    @yougottabekiddingme

    “Proxy fucking overload.”

    Sure…

    First, @Alexis = @Josh?
    then, @Lainey = @Josh?
    Then, OnlineNewbieSD = @Josh?
    Then, @FunDate = @Josh?”

    Teehee…what a pathetic call for allies. Elementary, babe. You can do better.

  529. Josh says:

    *@FunDude

  530. Josh says:

    @yougottabekiddingme

    “Proxy fucking overload.”

    Sure…

    First, @Alexis = @Josh?
    then, @Lainey = @Josh?
    Then, OnlineNewbieSD = @Josh?
    Then, @FunDate = @Josh?

    I had thought that you were smarter than the rest, but alas!!! :(

  531. Josh says:

    @OnlineNewbieSD

    “@Georgia – Ignore @Josh…”

    Hmmm, I had thought that we were friends?

    You’re telling a @NOBODY to ignore @Josh. I am disappointed… :(

  532. Josh says:

    Where is FB when you need him?

  533. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach

    “Thanks. I want and should ignore @Josh, but he made me lmao. I haven’t been told I would get a “spanking” or my “ass whooped” since my husb passed. I miss that. LOL. But, I know. He’s all talk.”

    Your best bet is to find a nice, firm dildo and fuck yourself. You are wasting time a SA.

  534. Josh says:

    @yougottabekiddingme

    “My father taught me to play chess when I was just a 3 year old little slut*. By age 4, not only had I contracted my first STD*”

    Confused (with vertigo)…Are you telling us that you were mentally and sexually abused as a child?

  535. @Online

    My father taught me to play chess when I was just a 3 year old little slut*. By age 4, not only had I contracted my first STD*, but I was also something like a little chess master. Despite my syndromic vagina*, I passed all of my exit exams for high school in the 7th grade, and went to college with English, Math and Science scholarships under my cum-stained* belt. I also happen to be a point person on a site with over 7 million worldwide members, and have made it my intention to study people and human behavior on my own accord. And while this does come in handy with manipulating men into marriage, trapping their sperm for ovulation, or tricking them into making it rain on my golden pussy, it also comes in handy for reading and calculating people and situations very well.

    Thing is, I dont even think it takes having been a 4 year chess slut, or having academic accolades to figure out some of these folks. To be honest, I dont really mind proxies. I do, however, have a little bit of an issue with proxies being used at the expense of other people. Quite cowardly, in my opinion.

    In recognizing it, you have two choices…

    Leave it be, or call it, and have it turn on you. This has happened several times on this blog, right under everyone’s noses. It’s whatever, though. Rub it in like lotion. This is, afterall, just a blog.

    So, yeah…y’all have fun with that.

    Im off to dance :).

    ~ygbkm

    *fictional sarcasm…for those of you who mightve missed it.

  536. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Georgia – there has also been discussion about the “Negotiable” expectation on past blog topics…you may consider changing that to what you truly want (from my experience, every woman has an idea what she wants from sugar…especially when I contact one and she says something like “it’s obvious we’re on different pages from an expectation standpoint” when she lists “Negotiable” and I’m listing something specific)

    If you’re NOT focused on a specific allowance, you may have an idea about how much you’d expect someone to spend over the course of a month on shopping/meals/travel/etc…list the category where you expect spending to happen, then mention in your text what types of things you’d like to receive from the SD.

    Just trying to help while I can’t sleep 😉

  537. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @Online
    Thanks. I want and should ignore @Josh, but he made me lmao. I haven’t been told I would get a “spanking” or my “ass whooped” since my husb passed. I miss that. LOL. But, I know. He’s all talk.

    At this point, I will continue to chk back and will work on my profile more and find another photo. I do appreciate all the honest, good help here.
    Thanks again.

  538. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @YGBKM – Who is playing roles now? I don’t think @Fun = @Josh

  539. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Georgia – Ignore @Josh…

    @ATL and I will give you some SD perspective…you have a battle before you to find that guy, but the numbers from @ATL seem like you might be in a spot where you could find some luck! As a comparison, 50 miles from my location has a total of 7 50+ SBs as an audience!

  540. Proxy fucking overload.

    Im going dancing.

  541. THEATLSD says:

    @ONSD says:
    “@English, @Kenna & @ATL – thanks for thoughts and humor on end of last blog for teeth dragging.”

    Bro, I’ve been limp ever since English posted that clenched teeth remark. Buzz Kill.

  542. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @Carib – I do not travel to the islands, and I’m not a very trusting individual…I thought @ATL covered the issue enough…you’ll probably either need to find someone on your island, or a frequent traveler TO your island…but…you may just find someone willing to fly you to HIM for every meet – you might.

    Here’s my recommendation for anyone who wonders about their potential “audience”:

    Use your search feature…start with JUST your ZIP Code (or city)…take a note of how many SDs (or SBs I guess) total are that close…next, select any preferences you have for race, body type, expectation level, etc….see what your “real” audience is…now, choose the 10-mile feature and see how much the audience grows…next, choose the 25-mile…if you’re comfortable with an hour drive, take it to 50-miles, maybe even 100-miles if you’re still comfortable…finally, take a look at the ACTIVITY level of the prospects (make sure you’re sorting the list by Last Visit, not Newest Profile)…take a look at what’s there and focus ALL attention on those active within the last week on your first pass…after your initial messages, you can probably focus on those active in just the last day or couple of days!

    READ the profiles, make that first message comment on the profile, try to establish a connection…the “hey, baby” or “hi” messages aren’t going to connect with the best available, just the low-hanging-fruit…know what YOU want, and treat EVERY prospect as if it is the next BEST thing in your life…until they turn out to be a D-Bag, fake or flake…

    There, now I need to get some sleep…

  543. GeorgiaPeach says:

    @THEATLSD
    Thanks for the info. I do appreciate it – from most all of you. And yes, I know it is a bit cliché, but what the hey. I could find one much worse, I’m sure.

    @Josh
    Elder abuse, huh? Well, Darlin if you find one gray hair where the sun don’t shine, you are just welcome to search for it. It’s been a long time since I had to deal with a youngster like you. Bring it on “squirt.” I haven’t worn any granny panties yet.

  544. THEATLSD says:

    @Georgiapeach cliche but works.

    I did some research for you since you can not search other SB.
    There are 99 SB’s, 50 miles from your hometown, in the age range 50-60+.
    The oldest being 75 not 72. You are a kid compared to her. Online had good points and I would put a full body pic dressed in Sunday best or professional office attire. The best part is that you are honest about yourself.

  545. Josh says:

    @GeorgiaPeach (aka Granny Jones Peach)

    1. You are more than welcome to call me a “boy”, which is technically correct, but not necessarily ‘my dear “boy”‘, which would not fly.

    2. I give @y a lot of leeway because, she is really funny when she is in the right mood AND I like her regardless of her vertigo inducing prose.

    3. You don’t want to mess with the @Guru.

    4. If you think that you can get fresh with me, just because you are in cahoots with @y, then think long and hard.

    5. The @Guru will whoop your granny ass silly, even though I prefer NOT to do any such thing. That would be elder abuse. 😉

  546. [sighs]

    What repetition. Your questions, Josh, have already been answered, but since you missed it, Ill answer again.

    “1. I prefer that you respond to @Guru and @FunDude posts separately. I would really really appreciate that. Pretty please with cherry on the top.”

    Do know that I recognize that you are one in the same thought spewing curdled excrement interchangeably from one sticky keyboard to another.

    “2. I get vertigo reading your prose.”

    But of course, this is but more insensible prose.

    ” Any suggestions how to read your posts without the vertigo attack?”

    …remove the box from your head, take a train out of that small town mind of yours, read a book, and evolve a little, already.

    There is no rebuttal, so throw in the towel, cowboy. It’s a bit overused, anyway.

  547. Josh says:

    @Carib

    “Hello. Anyone gonna share some thoughts on my question?”

    Hit up the tourists. What else can I say. 😉

  548. GeorgiaPeach says:

    Dear @Josh,
    I don’t believe I have ever “fucking kidding” anyone – at least not yet.
    Is this something I should consider here, now? Perhaps I should start with you my dear “boy”

  549. THEATLSD says:

    @caribe I answered you. Make sure you hit they refresh button and sometimes you have to go back up to see responses and new posts.

  550. Carib says:

    Hello. Anyone gonna share some thoughts on my question?

  551. GeorgiaPeach says:

    Thanks to @ygbkme… My new name is GeorgiaPeach (formerly southernlady1n1m). LOL. I take ALL of your comments quite seriously and will redefine my profile. I appreciate your viewing and letting me know. After being married for almost 25 yr to the love of my life, being single and “without” is quite difficult. My new toys are getting the workout these days. I have already been to a couple of previous blogs and feel confident I can learn the lingo – it is a bit different, but I’ll know I’ll catch on. Thanks again… from a new Georgia Peach. 😉

  552. Josh says:

    @SouthernLady1n1M

    61 years-old, 5′-4″ and A Few Extra Pounds?

    You’re fucking kidding us, yes?

    Having said that, never say never…and “keep on truckin'” as my “Southern” female boss says… 😉

  553. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @SouthernLady1n1M – you have some typos in your profile, but there’s nothing “wrong” with what I read. You do have some things working against you, on this site though…number one is your age, I think you’re closer to the age of the person looking, and most SDs are looking for someone younger…number two is your body type, there are SBs that are larger and find SDs, because there is an audience, but it’s a smaller audience I think…number three is your photos, you really need to show yourself to let the audience looking for your body type how you might meet their taste…any of these could make your search difficult, the combination will test your ability to deal with the D-Bags that send you messages berating you for any of the three and the combination of the three, or react to your introduction message with disdain for your being alive at your age, or whatever other bullshit the guy wants to make you feel bad about…

    I wish you luck! Keep us posted — oh — and Iagree with @yougottabekiddingme about choosing a different name.

  554. THEATLSD says:

    @SB_UK says:
    ” I love giving oral sex, and i always swallow.”

    Luv, Has moving to the U.S. ever crossed your mind?

  555. Josh says:

    @y

    1. I prefer that you respond to @Guru and @FunDude posts separately. I would really really appreciate that. Pretty please with cherry on the top.

    2. I get vertigo reading your prose. Any suggestions how to read your posts without the vertigo attack?

  556. THEATLSD says:

    @southernlady
    Welcome to the blog, we really do love new blood here. Makes it more interesting.

    First @Y was suckered punched and is unleashing and rightfully so.

    BTW that’s tame, wait until you meet @Lainey. #iluvlainey

    Please stay around and read through the older blogs.
    As OnlineNewbie stated your concerns have come up before. You are definitely in a different dynamic on here. I checked your profile, you might find it interesting there is a women like 70 down in Jonesboro on here.
    If I were you I would add more to the “What I’m looking for” area. Your oneline statement there does nothing. Believe it or not SD’s will read it, they may think with the wrong head but but they know how to read and want to see know more.
    Be more specific and descriptive.

    Hang out here and expand your horizons.

  557. All the best, Ms. Georgia :).

  558. SouthernLady1n1M says:

    yougottabekiddingme
    Hi. Thanks! Great idea. Would also give me a change.
    I’ve used that SouthernLady thing several times on other dating sites.
    I like how your mind thinks. Thanks again.

  559. @SouthernLady1n2M

    Your profile is wonderful, and you seem lovely.

    Your blog user name, however, is similar enough to that of an established blogger to perhaps cause a little confusion. You might consider “GeorgiaPeach”, “BoaBelle”, or “SavannaLeaps” or something.

  560. THEATLSD says:

    @Caribe

    I think so. I have a SB that favorited me from Caymen Island. Not sure why.
    My take on your situation is depending on which Island you are on will make the difference. Some are just tourist type islands and some are hide you money banking type islands. If you can’t find some one local then go for someone that frequents the island. You can look for business men, pilots, bankers from the U.S. and Europe.

  561. SouthernLady1n1M says:

    Wow. I do not want to get on the wrong side of yougottabekiddingme. OUCH.

  562. THEATLSD says:

    @Fundude says:
    “@yougotta
    LOL he sounds like a mangina bringing up a feminist slut for a daughter”

    There are obviously not a whole lot of limits or lines to cross on this blog/site.
    Family, children, parents are definitely out of bounds. That was very uncouth.

  563. @Josh and @FunDude

    While I have made my way to my keyboard, I have decided that addressing you in this matter really isnt worth my keystrokes. So Ill keep it short for ya.

    Do know that I recognize that you are one in the same thought spewing curdled excrement interchangeably from one sticky keyboard to another.

    I liken your opinions regarding women to archaic snotshit. Despite the principles my father may have instilled, he’s still a son of a cunt, and I, residual afterbirth.

    In that, I’ll spare you my labia biased thoughts, and leave you instead with a link that might provide you a little framework from which your level of conceptualization might stem beyond the rudimentary given that “boys have penises, and girls have vaginas.”

    []http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cultural_hegemony[]

    Some call it feminism. I call it remove the box from your head, take a train out of that small town mind of yours, read a book, and evolve a little, already.

    But of course, this is but more insensible prose. Take it or leave it. It’s your own ignorance, kind sir.

  564. yougottabekiddingme

    How even?

    Ridiculous

  565. Carib says:

    A little off topic maybe but I was wondering if anyone thinks that I may be unable to find an SD on this site. Reason being I live in the Caribbean. I haven’t been on here long so it isn’t that I am frustrated just wondering.

  566. SouthernLady1n1M says:

    Got it: e8cb097c
    Thanks. I do need some help here!
    More than you realize. LOL

  567. SouthernLady1n1M says:

    A big “southern drawl” Thanks to ya’ll.

  568. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @SouthernLady1n1M – Sorry…there are some comments on past blog posts about a couple of the issues you mention.

    If you are over 30yo, you may have difficulty finding an SD, as most are focused on the college crowd (as has been most of the marketing for the site)…

    If you post your profile id, we are more than willing to provide some feedback on the text and pictures you have to help you, if needed, try to build a better profile. You find the profile id by going to your profile and looking in the address bar for the following: /member/XXXXXXXX/view – it is the “X” part that we need to be able to find your profile and provide the feedback…

  569. Petite says:

    Excuse me.. meant to type “a few older SBs on the blog”

  570. Petite says:

    @SouthernLady
    “Are there many or any “older” SB’s here?
    We come in all shapes, colors, and sizes. There are a few older SBs (I’m not sure what age range you’re interested in hearing from.)

    “Or perhaps the better question is are there any SD’s looking for older, experienced SB’s here?”
    Like Sexy said, there are no rules. While it may be easier for certain demographics, there is always someone looking for someone like you. The blog isn’t the place to meet an SD though– If you’re on the site, look around and see if you get any interest.

  571. SexyRockstar says:

    @SouthernLady

    Did not see your question. before answering any bland questions such as:
    -Am I too fat
    -Am I too old
    -Can I do this
    -How to be a sugar baby

    There are no rules with sugar. Men like certain things. You can do it. There are links on old blogs on SA on the right hand side of this blog page if you scroll up to answer most questions. If any of the other blogs do not answer your question, then please state your question. We will get back to you.

    If you need profile help and views, we will do that too.

    xoxo
    <3 Sexy Rockstar

  572. **SB_UK** says:

    Wow some idiot telling me no such thing as a sugar baby. That were all just escorts, girls who wantmoney and sell sex to get it

  573. **SB_UK** says:

    @ southern

    What was the question? I’m new here too :-)

  574. SouthernLady1n1M says:

    SO what does a newbie SB have to do to get an answer here? Obviously I am not a part of this clique. Geez.

  575. SexyRockstar says:

    OKay. I am off for possibly the rest of the night. Got my gig, then going to a downtown bar after. I am wearing the CUTEST effn thing ever.

    Red, strapless cocktail dress, tad be shorter then what I would normally wear on stage, but ehhh, give the people in the front row a chance to see some vag-godness….and the back has a bright blue zipper from the top of the dress all the way to the bottom. And, this is all paired with cute blue pumps that match the zipper. Hair is big bouncy curls. I’ll tell everyone how it went later.

    xoxo

  576. **SB_UK** says:

    @Sexy I love giving oral sex, and i always swallow. I don’t think it’s very sexy to gag or spit. It gives me a great sense of control too :-)

  577. SexyRockstar says:

    I really didn’t know that so many women have issues with swallowing. Men lick us all the time. It’s really not that bad. I get off on it.

    I enjoy giving oral sex. It’s like…ehh a slutty feeling that I enjoy. Hard to explain. Plus, being able to make a man ssoooo weak in the knees is pretty amazing. It can also allow a woman to be in control.

  578. OnlineNewbieSD says:

    @English, @Kenna & @ATL – thanks for thoughts and humor on end of last blog for teeth dragging.

    For the inexperienced, please buy a toy for practice, do NOT practice incorrectly on your man…never a good reaction to teeth!

  579. KennaKenna says:

    “NutButter and KYJelly”

    @YGBKM hahahahaha!

  580. Petite says:

    To be fair, you shouldn’t ever murder people…
    I mean… come on now…

  581. hockeychick18 says:

    hello ya’ll

  582. @Sexy

    Ok, fine.

    How about NutButter and KYJelly?

  583. In the meantime…

    []http://beta.diylol.com/memes/163-jesus-says/posts/323183-jesus-says-you-gotta-be-kidding-me-right[]

  584. SexyRockstar says:

    @YGBKM
    But I am Batgirl. None of them can be batman. Ggguuurrrlll did you NOT see my Halloween costume. My Boobs look cute in it! HAHA

  585. @Batman and Robin

    I think I’m gonna need a keyboard for you two. Be back in a bit, babes.

  586. Shells says:

    I love HOC and HTGAWM!!! I never really though about HTGAWM and the multitude of relations going on in the show as power arrangements as offered in the context of this blog entry.

    Too bad Zoe Barnes didn’t play it smarter or she might have made it out of season 1. LOL

  587. FunDude says:

    @Josh

    She’s a feminist in denial using shaming language.

    She doesn’t like men who drop the truth around these parts.

  588. Josh says:

    @y

    I had thought that your “smarts” was consumed on writing incomprehensible prose, which has its admirers.

    I am glad that you are “smart” enough to notice men’s “ignorance” too. 😉

  589. FunGuy, oh, FunGuy…

    Why would I bother wasting my time fooling people into thinking Im not a feminist when I could be peeling potatoes over a pot instead.

    [sighs]

    Failed logic.

  590. FunDude says:

    @yougotta

    Most angry feminists these days deny they are feminists.

    Nothing new. Feminist has become a bad word, so feminist women deny they are such a thing.

    Not fooling anyone sweetie

  591. @Sexy

    Perhaps I’ll ask my father to make a few cock molds. Lmao. Maybe they can serve as centerpieces at the next Sugar Ball :D.

  592. Bianca says:

    Good advice. Im new here and appreciate any information I can get.

  593. @FunGuy

    My father is alive and kicking, genius. Clearly you missed the point that parents…along with children dont really need brought into comments.

    His daughter, though, is not a feminist. His daughter just happens to recognize ignorance where ever she sees it. Ya follow, flyguy?

  594. SexyRockstar says:

    @YGBKM
    Your father was wonderful. I enjoy when you and I take the trip to see his cock on display. Such a waste. ((hugs))

  595. FunDude says:

    @yougotta

    LOL he sounds like a mangina bringing up a feminist slut for a daughter

  596. “FunDude says:
    January 24, 2015 at 12:58 pm
    @yougotta

    Typical feminist shaming language doesn’t work on me.

    Go try that stuff on your mangina father or something.”

    Pardon the irony of satire.

    By the way…my father is dead. Cigarettes will get the best of yous. His cock, though, is on display at the International Mangina Museum. Some call him, “The Exception to the Rule.”

    My father

  597. @Sexy

    I gave up on New Year resolutions, and instead adopted dailyversaries. Everyday I say out loud the cliche line, “Today is the first day of the rest of your life.” And then I log on to the SA blog where the only friends I have hangout, where we collectively bask in the glory of having nothing better that we could possibly be doing with our lives.

    [sighs]

    Winning.

  598. “Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    I’ll have a hard time keeping a straight face with @YGBM lol!”

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  599. FunDude says:

    @yougotta

    Typical feminist shaming language doesn’t work on me.

    Go try that stuff on your mangina father or something.

  600. SouthernLady1n1M says:

    New here. Saw this site advertised in a magazine.
    Interesting place. Never thought about this before, until recently widowed. Are there many or any “older” SB’s here? Or perhaps the better question is are there any SD’s looking for older, experienced SB’s here?

  601. SexyRockstar says:

    @Everyone
    Help me with some comedy material.

    I have a bit about New Years resolutions. Tell me. What were yours and how are they coming along…or not coming along?

  602. @Josh &@FunDude

    You guys whine like a uterus relieving itself of unfertilized ova.

    Or sewn foreskin.

    No analgesia.

  603. Englishismy3rdlanguage says:

    @lainey, Sexy, Struggle, and Y-
    Many thanks to all of you wonderful, beautiful ladies for the suggestions….with time I’m sure I’ll aquire the skills:-)
    @ATL offered to let me practice on him and he is willing to pay all transportation costs for the other SB to act as a professional “mouth-on” instructor…..any takers?i was thinking @Lainey or @ sexy but they’ll probably put me to shame…I’ll have a hard time keeping a straight face with @YGBM lol!
    What say you @struggle? 😉

  604. KennaKenna says:

    @JennSA I LOVE the article.

    I’m a big fan of House of Cards and HTGAWM and yes, Zoe was stupid. Trying to “out/mess up SD’s life” always backfire and never a good idea.

    If things end bad, just cut ties and move on.

  605. SexyRockstar says:

    Back to topic:
    We’ve seen MANY sugar babies break rules, and it’s pretty sad. I would never, in a million years, out drummer if things between him and I go bad. We’re also VERY good with our situation, as his wife will never find out about me.
    I would not gain anything from doing so. He isn’t “high profile” either, but think of it as a bully fucking around with someone. It doesn’t really truly make them feel better to see someone else put down by your doing.

    It’s also a great example of putting up the New Girl example. Some ladies really think that a man will simply just ‘pay’ for their company. No girl is that beautiful. I would hate to ever have to rely on a man for my whole being. I do, however, enjoy the idea of a man willing to help me. There is a difference.

  606. Keo says:

    Yeah I just heard about Ernie. Very sad.I’m married to a Sox’s fan *gags*.

  607. SexyRockstar says:

    @Jenn
    I have two Cubs tattoos. It’s just really really sad.
    I’ve never dated a Sox Fan. I don’t plan to either.

  608. JennS says:

    @sexyrockstar glad to hear you aren’t a dreadful white sox fan. My dad is in mourning as well, hitting him just as hard as Harry Caray. :(

  609. SexyRockstar says:

    Andddd Ernie Banks died. I need a lot of sugar hugs :(

    Cubs fan forever <3Seriously been crying my eyes out since this morning.

  610. SexyRockstar says:

    @Jenn
    I know Old Style isn’t lavish and expensive, but, bar HAS to have some. All these people on this blog have heard me talk about it forever now, they must experience it.

  611. SexyRockstar says:

    @Jenn
    Chicago please. As I live there :)
    Love the blog article babe

    • JennSAl says:

      @sexyrockstar @keo Hey I’m a Midwest girl! I’d love a Chicago event, I’m with ya’ll. I’ll see what we can do for 2016. As for UK and Canada.. It’s been 3 years since our London party and Toronto was in December 2013. So @sophia a London party is definitely on the horizon.

  612. Keo says:

    Is there a legitimate event coming to Chicago? And how do I keep up any information concerning it? Will this be sponsored by SA or members?

  613. FunDude says:

    Basically shows a bunch of stupid SBs that is typical on SA.

    Its even worse than this. Tons of SBs trying to get a month’s worth of “arrangement” then vanish, women wanting money to “hang out”, etc.

  614. Josh says:

    “Don’t bite the hand that feeds you” is a very good advice to men. It does not usually apply to women as they do understand that conceptvrry well in situations where dick is not involved.

    For example, they follow government welfare rules to the tee, and rarely negotiate salaries in job situations.

  615. Josh says:

    Don’t viciously bite the dick that fucks you? 😉

  616. THEATLSD says:

    The best lesson from this blog article is:
    “Don’t bite the hand that feeds you”

    That is so apropos.

  617. THEATLSD says:

    @Y
    You are the best 😉

  618. @josh

    I feel ya (you sexy nippled man you).

    A few have mentioned having an unofficial, low profile gathering.

    Maybe an NYC afterparty or side gathering.

    @ATL

    Gonna let you in on a little inside information (I know people who know people)…Atlanta is tied with the UK for 4th consideration. Keep the fur bus gassed up!

  619. THEATLSD says:

    The ATL dissed again. This is the playa/gangsta capital of the United F…ing States. The home of Slim/thick, Junknthetrunk and the buckhead princess. NO luv for the south. We could set up a seminar before the big gig, Southern can show us some gang signs and I’ll teach a weapons training class. Then we can rent the FUR bus and hit up some shit places with LadyScarlett as tour guide. For everybodys entertainment will have @Struggles, @Chrissy, @Y, @Lainey, @Kenna and our newest @SB_UK (cheeky monkey) tied up in back of bus. @English will hold class on swallowing, since she will have perfected the art by then. (no clenched teeth)
    It would be the best day every in the THE ATL.

  620. StruggleIsReal says:

    @JennSA
    Nice blog article! Thanks! Good points made.

    @Josh
    This article goes along perfectly with my most recent comment to you and your response (self-sabotage etc.).

  621. Josh says:

    I hope that SDs get some value out of these events. All I see is how SDs are ridiculed by the media, and SBs are either presented as escorts or oh-so-librerated-and-savvy young women, depending on whether you get Murdoch News or Oprah News to cover the event.

  622. **SB_UK** says:

    @Sophia

    i spend alot of time in London, would be good to attend an event there :-)

  623. Sophia says:

    @**SB_UK** It would be wonderful if there was an event in the United Kingdom I would definitely attend and interesting to meet other females like yourself never know what friends or Sugar Daddy one can meet more of a real life connection. Well if the owner of this site is reading my post. PLEASE DO TAKE IT INTO CONSIDERATION as there is an interest as people will attend. It’s like (Killing Kittens) sure most of you have heard of that swinging. They at times host events networking there is a market for all. I am not a professional in regards to marketing etc just posting my idea. PLEASE BRING ONE TO THE UK ***LONDON***

  624. **SB_UK** says:

    @Sophia I don’t think i have seen an event listed in the UK either :-)

  625. I’d love to see events placed in canada since its expanding or has for least 5 years here, would love to see more verification on SDS also, many on here are looking for for meet ups every week or so not even allowance based and looks more escort based plus seen some on here and it ruins for it for us who are legitimate and not escorts…

  626. Sophia says:

    Hello would there be an event sometime in the near future in the United Kingdom from us here at this side of the pond to benefit of the enjoyments of networking event. I very much look forward to a reply. I see many events listed but they all take place in USA.

    Sophia
    x

  627. omg…I have been addressed by a blog goddess. I will never wash my mind again…

    @Jenn

    Thanks for your reply. Keep the vision alive! We’re on board :). Well, except for Josh (it’s too far away from his lofty bachelor’s pad in the sky). But don’t worry…we’ll just kidnap him. Drag him in kicking and screaming…knowing that he secretly likes it. Hehe ;).

  628. Chrissy says:

    Booooo! Chicago :( I just want to inappropriately touch all my SB buddies. I promise not to spit on the carpet!

  629. JennSA says:

    We were pulling for Chicago @yougottabekiddingme, I swear! But alas, we are heading back to New York this time around. Chicago is our #3 city after NYC and LA… so it’s only a matter of time.

  630. Chicago!!! The next Sugar Ball is supposed to be in Chicago! Remember, SA?! I’m so not sponsoring peanut butter and jelly sandwiches now. And don’t try to convince me otherwise!

  631. Josh says:

    @Jenn,

    Good article. Thanks for putting it together and sharing with SBs. 😉

  632. Josh says:

    From last blog page…

    @StruggleIsReal

    “And good catch on not self-sabotaging! @Josh’s drilling it into us that we tend to self-sabotage proves useful!”

    You are welcome. I took almost a year of “drilling” but… it’s better late than never, right? 😉

  633. THEATLSD says:

    FIRST. AGAIN

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