As of late, I’ve seen an increasing number of Sugar Babies inquiring how to raise allowances, shopping budgets and such. An important thing to note before exploring this route is that an arrangement is an agreement set up by two people, the Sugar Baby and the Sugar Daddy. Whatever you agreed from the start is the conditions of the mutually beneficial arrangement. That includes how often you meet, whether or not trips are extra, what the allowance is and whether you get a shopping allowance or not. That being said, when changing one aspect of the arrangement then the correlating side needs to be adjusted as well.
Approach asking for a higher allowance like you would a raise at work. Think of the justification. Has the frequency of your meetings increased? Have you had to open up your schedule due to a change in his? Note that asking for an increase in allowance directly after receiving your first may be seen as unappreciative.
For Sugar Daddies, it should be the same. If your requirements have gone passed the original agreement, be the first to offer adjusting your Sugar Baby’s allowance. It helps rid the situation of any awkward negotiation and will put both of you at ease and free to carry on enjoying yourselves.
How you ask is part of the art. Keep in mind that the other person is not required to amend the agreement according to your needs. Rather it is a request to revisit the terms of the arrangement.
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