Welcome back Sugars. I hope everyone thoroughly enjoyed the Labor Day weekend. Little bit of an update from our side of things: SD Guru dropped by the Las Vegas office last week! It is always a learning experience and a pleasure to speak with contributing members of the community. Which brings me to our topic of the day; Misconceptions in Sugar Dating.
Short First Meetings
“A Sugar Daddy invited me to meet for coffee as our first meeting. Should that be a red flag?”
Not necessarily. Sugar Daddies are business men. Why would a business man commit more than 20 minutes to an hour of his time when first being presented a new investment? You should view this in the same light. The first meeting is to measure chemistry and to “check out the product” a.k.a. to prevent getting “Catfished”.
Money Talk is Taboo
“I’ve heard through blogs and other SBs that SDs get turned off when you bring up money.”
Every person is different when it comes to this. As a rule of thumb, Sugar Daddies know what their end of a mutually beneficial arrangement entails. If one have develops a bad attitude when you try to discuss allowance, know that you are probably being played. Reply kindly with something like, “I enjoyed spending time together, but I am looking for an arrangement that involves financial assistance as this time.”
SB Privacy Is Less Sensitive
“These men sometimes have high profile jobs which is why they can’t tell us their real names for the first few meetings. Since a Sugar Baby usually don’t, then we should give more information freely.”
Trust is the main building block in any relationship. Without it, you have nothing. If you are looking to verify each other (if not already through the site), then agree on what information to exchange in order to do so.
What are other myths in Sugar?
Do you have any that you would like get cleared up? Share them with us!
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