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Hushed for Seeking Arrangement

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How many of you have had to deal with DOA POT Sugar Daddies or Sugar Babies spamming your phones? No Sugar Baby or Sugar Daddy likes having to sound like a criminal on the run when they receive a phone call from an unknown number.

The Sugar Bowl is much like casual dating, every now and then you get a bad egg or experience a rocky break-up. It’s a hassle having to change phone numbers especially after giving it away to other POT Sugar Daddies or Sugar Babies. The other option isn’t any better, having a second phone can be hard to explain when attempting to be discreet.

Now, there is a free solution to all those pesky privacy and discretion problems. Hushed has partnered up with SeekingArrangement.com. It’s free to join for SeekingArrangement.com members.

When discretion is a must for your arrangements, trust Hushed to provide an easy and reliable alternative to having different lines. It allows you to get a private, local number to over 40+ countries–perfect for your overseas Sugar Daddies or Babies that you see during trips or when they are in your town. Sugar Babies and Daddies (Sugar Mommies too!) are able to not only receive calls, but send sms texts on their current devices. In case you miss a call, Hushed allows you to create a custom greeting. And with Flexible plans for 7,30,90, & 365 days, once you’re tired of a certain number, then you can delete it whenever you please.

So why rely on stone age technology for your discreet affairs? Get your Hushed number and happy Sugaring!

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220 Responses to “Hushed for Seeking Arrangement”

  1. M says:

    @Elizabeth
    I am in the same boat, glad to know I am not the only one.

  2. Lo says:

    I miss sex!aargh

  3. James.m says:

    Beach! Is that you? Just dropped by to see if any of the old gang was around. I see you and NC Gent. Not Midwest :( Not Anna Molly :(
    My email’s the same. Drop me a line. I’d love to hear from you.
    James

  4. NC Gent says:

    Hey BG – I will drop you a note tmrw so we can catch up – doing well here – have a hot sugar date in July!

    Content – I sent you an email with my number in case you don’t have it any more. I am really looking forward to drinking a some microbrews in a dive bar… pass the cheese curds ehh? I will try not to drink too much…..haha

  5. Damien says:

    Thanks everyone for the input on gifts by the way. I went with Tiffany’s and Godiva chocolate. Both were a big hit.

  6. flyr says:

    @ Eliz – Thanks for the comments, you also have some sage advice from others here.

    I have done 3-4 dates before having sex but it’s probably the exception rather than the rule. In your case I think it is about managing expectations and your comfort with sexual activities other than intercourse. If in the 4th through 6 th week you are both being well satisfied it might work very well.

    I think you need to be honest from the start. You may lose some prospects but you will have a far better chance of success and a long term relationship

  7. Beach_Girl says:

    Hello Sugars!

    NCGent~ Hi you, how have you been? you know you can always reach me at my email missmontreal1 at gmail..Good to see you are still keeping up with the blog 😀

    Content~There is always something to learn 😀 Glad to see you are well, do you like your new place now? I’ve been ok, work hard as always 😀

  8. Damien says:

    Elizabeth – I waited a bit over a month with the girl Im seeing. No idea how typical that is though. I’d be more concerned about the emotional side of it. That’s assuming I believed you which I don’t. I think initial trust would be your biggest hurdle.

    I have to say I’m curious to know what kind of responses that situation would get. White Knight protector type or a low life looking for a conquest.

  9. ContentSB says:

    @BeachGirl — Oooh not much is new….still figuring life out haha. I hear that never really goes away no matter how old we are :) How have you been?!

  10. ContentSB says:

    @Principium — So you’re an instigator, huh?? I’ll consider that a fair warning 😉

    @NC Gent — Well hey there, good lookin!! :) Is it weird that my dream sugar date is going to the Packers’ shareholders meeting…? Because it is. I mean really, what’s better than going to a dive bar in the wonderful town of Green Bay, eating some cheese curds, hanging out at Lambeau with Mr. Ted Thompson, followed by great sex with a handsome man?! Nothing is!! :) Miss our chats….might have to call you soon to catch up, and of course plan our date haha!

  11. SugarySpicey says:

    Elizabeth, I would think the concern of a potential SD is going to be:

    1. How long are you going to make him wait? If you need a couple months, you should expect to go allowance free (with a few nice gifts) during that time period, it’s only fair. If you don’t know him well enough to have sex with him, why should he know you well enough to feel generous and protective toward you?

    2. That you’ll get too attached. You can’t say that you won’t, post-orgasm oxytocin is powerful voodoo. Better to give your virginity to someone who can handle a little emotional clinging in the (highly likely) event that it happens.

    3. That you won’t be good in bed. There’s a lot of room between dead fish and porn start, but no man wants a dead fish. I remember my first time felt so weird (physically, not emotionally) that I held completely still just hoping that would end things soon. The good in bed part you can fix, with a lot of reading (don’t watch porn for tricks, nobody f*cks like that).

    I shared a couple of my tricks on my blog, If you click my name you can read them if you’re so inclined. Good luck.

  12. NC Gent says:

    Hey Content SB!!!! So good to see my favorite (and hot) Packers Fan! I think we have a sugar date on July 24th at the Packer’s shareholder meeting — no??

    Heya Beachgirl and Jersey Darling et al.

    Hope everyone is doing well. I lurk on here occasionally :)

  13. Jersey Darling says:

    @Elizabeth – Arrangements by nature tend to be NSA. Would you feel comfortable if you decided to get physical with your SD, you had sex, he decides you’re not a good fit and then doesn’t want to see you again?

    Because that sort of thing is quite common here…

  14. Elizabeth_11 says:

    Hi Flyr, thanks so much for the honest advice.

    I think my decision to be so honestly upfront while still in the early discussion stages is the problem… You can be too candid, I suppose! They probably do think it’s a scam.

    I think in future, I will leave discussion of my experience status until 2-3 dates in. If it gets that far, then it means he’s seriously considering the arrangement and has had more time to get to know me and form a better impression of my nature. Over emails/text/a first coffee date, I could be any old con-artist, as you say.

    I see SB/SD relationships as being like any other (although, perhaps unlike some SA users, I am aiming more for a medium-long term arrangement, not a 3-6 month thing). So yes, I would be perfectly happy with doing ‘other stuff’, as it were, during the build up. Chemistry is very important – I just don’t want to experience the ‘pump and dump’ I often hear about from other friends who are in the dating scene. Also gives me time to see what he is like sexually, too – if he’s too 5 shades of grey, for example, then I wouldn’t be the right girl for him.

    Even if I weren’t a virgin I am terribly old fashioned anyway (I don’t think I could ever have a one night stand or similar, for example) which probably hampers my chances with the men who want to start their arrangement with a night at a hotel right off the bat. Which is most of the men I seem to be encountering 😉

    It’s a patience game, I know. I’ll get there in the end.

    Again, thanks for your perspective. It was incredibly helpful, as I find it difficult sometimes to see things from a male point of view.

  15. Beach_Girl says:

    Hello Sugars 😀

    Content~ Hey girl! how have you been? how is life for ya?

  16. Principium says:

    ^^^ Guilty as charged! ^^^ 😀

  17. ContentSB says:

    @lil_tm — Yes, I’ve certainly seen a few women go boiling bunny crazy, but I think there are a few men out there who secretly love to instigate and watch the drama unfold before them…quite manipulative! :)

    Have to say I’m loving the funny avatars…seems like a fun group of kids commenting!

  18. flyr says:

    @elizabeth (assuming this is not a troll) “Hello everyone!

    I have a question for SDs on this site (but would also welcome suggestions from the ladies, too, if you have any wise words for me!)

    I am 23 and a virgin, but completely open and comfortable with the idea of losing my virginity to an SD if he is ok with the idea, and if we both connect.

    What I am having problems with is this: a lot of men on SA.com that I have spoken to, want to have sex immediately. I would not want to make an SD wait months, by any means, but I would like a little time (say, 4-8 weeks?) to build some trust and progress towards intercourse (as you would in a non-sugar relationship).

    Is this asking too much? (I am a little old fashioned and like the idea of building anticipation towards sex, but most men seem to want to jump straight in!)

    I have also spoken to a lot of men who see my virginity as a deal breaker… do all sugar daddies want sexually experienced, dynamite porno star SBs? (Nothing wrong with that of course, but it is frustrating when that’s all I seem to be running up against. Nobody seems keen on the idea of having to ‘train me up’, despite my enthusiasm!)

    Thanks in advance to all of you for any help you can give!”

    The assumption that guys want “porn star sex” is not necessarily true and many feel that pornstar sex has more in common with a political speech (both made for the camera) than great sex.

    I imagine a substantial number of otherwise great SD’s would have some reservations about sacrificing your virginity to SA

    Other SD’s would wonder if this is some sort of a scam and you will disappear before the big day

    There’s the question of what happens during your four week (which sounds like two month) workup period, is there sugar, a little sugar, is there sex in other forms?

    Imagine a boulevard lined with nice restaurants offering a variety of dining experiences, there’s a new one but the sign says kitchen under construction, open for appetizers only.

  19. flyr says:

    continued

    sometimes the… search by sign-in date…. is not displayed unless you scroll down.

  20. flyr says:

    @Diana ““Oh, and yes I’ve had more inquiries these past few days than usual… I have not changed anything in my profile nor my pics, so it’s a mystery to me. Maybe the fact that I’ve been online more?… I know somebody mentioned she had more messages in her inbox lately, was it Diana?””

    One of the search options is to sort by most recent sign-in which brings older profiles that sign in often to the top.

    One of the discussions from some time ago included the recommendation that SB’s make some change every few weeks for those who accept the default search option of sort by profile mod date

  21. Noob_SD says:

    @ lil_TM Btw, be sure and eat your broccoli and baked chicken for dinner and NO SNICKERS or Mickey D’s!

    Broccoli? Ever had deep fried broccoli? :)

  22. Noob_SD says:

    To all of you who responded/shared your thoughts to my note on the lady who sent me her nude picture

    I am going to cut that off with a white lie, but I do feel somewhat sorry to do that – the reality of the matter is that I have done my share of stupid things at her age. But anyway, life goes on.

  23. lil_tm says:

    @Noob..thanks for that vid, I haven’t seen that in forevah! 😀

    Btw, be sure and eat your broccoli and baked chicken for dinner and NO SNICKERS or Mickey D’s!

  24. lil_tm says:

    “Oooh who’s the current lunatic? There always seems to be one stirring things up around here”

    I haven’t seen any psycho men around here, but I’d wager there’s a femme or two that would boil your bunny if you crossed them from what I’ve seen in my short time here. Just a hunch.

  25. Noob_SD says:

    @ lil_tm Now close that refrigerator door and get on the treadmill!

    LOL! That is absolutely hilarious! Just came back from work and you made my day! But no way I’m getting on that treadmill!

    Now I am not sure if they play this song on VH1/MTV any more – I haven’t watched those channels in many moons – but if “You ain’t fat, You ain’t nothin’

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t2mU6USTBRE

  26. lil_tm says:

    Now close that refrigerator door and get on the treadmill!

  27. lil_tm says:

    @noobSD

    I tried to go the nice route, but you know we discussed how hard it was to lift you out of that chair and that you would try to take precautions to do better, so I snapped a pic of you last night when you weren’t looking because sometimes shame is what is necessary to get a person where they need to be.

    I hope you’re not upset with me.

  28. DianaSBinOC says:

    @sweetie-

    “Oh, and yes I’ve had more inquiries these past few days than usual… I have not changed anything in my profile nor my pics, so it’s a mystery to me. Maybe the fact that I’ve been online more?… I know somebody mentioned she had more messages in her inbox lately, was it Diana?”

    Yes that was me. I didn’t make any profile changes either and I’ve been having a spike in first contact messages from pots.

    Also about the P4P and “want my sugaring experience to be more than just money for servicing the SD”

    .- I feel the same way you do. I couldn’t get around being handed a portion for sex and dinner either. I would be more accepting of every two weeks because it’s the closest to allowance based arrangement without putting the pot SD in fear of the ” full allowance+ SB dash” scenario.

    The other pot I spoke to is going to have to find someone new. Way too many lies surfaced. He’s real on paper and matches up with google but there are far too many red flags that state he’s here to reap the benefits of sugar without providing any. The funny thing is that he’s more than capable of doing so.

    As much as playing detective proves to be fun at times, I can’t trust anyone that lies about too much stuff. I have to say out of all of the fakes I’ve come across on this site this guy really has an answer for even the most ridiculous lies. It’s strange because in a weird way I admire how far he goes to be deceitful perhaps more so because I’ve always valued honesty above all else. He actually wants to meet this Saturday for lunch/dinner but that’s so not happening.

    lol @ “That sounds awful, I know, no way I can deal with grandpa hands! ”

    I couldn’t do it either!! Wow the mental picture in my head now is just eww.

  29. ContentSB says:

    @Principium — Oooh who’s the current lunatic? There always seems to be one stirring things up around here :)

  30. Principium says:

    ContentSB: The Lunatic has taken over the asylum.

    @ Nicey: I’ll take letter F in that that alphabet soup 😉

  31. ContentSB says:

    Oh gosh, how could I forget one of my favorites, NC Gent?! I especially hope he comes out of hiding :)

  32. Elizabeth_11 says:

    Hello everyone!

    I have a question for SDs on this site (but would also welcome suggestions from the ladies, too, if you have any wise words for me!)

    I am 23 and a virgin, but completely open and comfortable with the idea of losing my virginity to an SD if he is ok with the idea, and if we both connect.

    What I am having problems with is this: a lot of men on SA.com that I have spoken to, want to have sex immediately. I would not want to make an SD wait months, by any means, but I would like a little time (say, 4-8 weeks?) to build some trust and progress towards intercourse (as you would in a non-sugar relationship).

    Is this asking too much? (I am a little old fashioned and like the idea of building anticipation towards sex, but most men seem to want to jump straight in!)

    I have also spoken to a lot of men who see my virginity as a deal breaker… do all sugar daddies want sexually experienced, dynamite porno star SBs? (Nothing wrong with that of course, but it is frustrating when that’s all I seem to be running up against. Nobody seems keen on the idea of having to ‘train me up’, despite my enthusiasm!)

    Thanks in advance to all of you for any help you can give!

  33. flyr says:

    @noob “Okay … random thoughts. I have this pot SB who sent me semi-nude pictures of herself. I never asked for them. Somehow, the lack of class is putting me off – she keeps texting me to try and get to meet.

    Don’t get me wrong – there are several profile pictures that I have come across that show a lot of skin tactfully – like bathing suits – without really appearing cheesy – I admire them.

    I’m going to break it off and move on …”

    You might look at the totality of the communications. If she’s been around for a while then you are probably right to step away . However, I have found some of the younger people outside of SA are much more casual about sharing photos ( not a really good idea)

    If you have some time invested to date I would listen very carefully to what she says and how she says it.

  34. ContentSB says:

    Ahhh! And BeachGirl!!! How are you?? Having a better year, i hope!

  35. ContentSB says:

    Hey Sugars!! Just popping in for a quick hi :) I want updates from my sugary friends! Tina? Dorky? Jesse? Stormcat? EnglishRose? Guru (although I know that’ll never happen! :)? Where is everyone???? Hope you’re all well!

  36. lil_tm says:

    “Jersey and RD, my instincts are saying no. I see what you mean, Jersey, it’d be good to get my feet wet in the sugar world, however he’s not the guy for me. I mentioned to him I wanted somebody whom I was ok to be with in public and otherwise, and honestly, I don’t see myself even socializing with him. He’s not bad looking, kinda cute… age wise he’s a bit older than I’d like, but his hands looked like grandpa hands. That sounds awful, I know, no way I can deal with grandpa hands! :(“

    sweetie-I think it’s okay for you to let him pass on by if he’s not what you’re looking for. We all have our little things we just can’t do..
    I can’t do bad breath, jacked up teeth or rooster necks. Ha! 😉

  37. lil_tm says:

    “^^^ Hunters (fishers by extension) & gatherers can become useful in a post apocalyptic world! ^^^
    In a post apocalyptic scenario, they can always feed you”

    haha, I know. And I actually enjoy those types and I enjoy going fishing, camping, etc with a man who knows what he’s doing but it just ain’t sexy to see a man standing with a one foot barracuda in his hands.

    But country boys are just nicer by nature, so they have that going for them. 😀 They know how to be a gentleman and how to treat a lady.

  38. sweetie says:

    Jersey and RD, my instincts are saying no. I see what you mean, Jersey, it’d be good to get my feet wet in the sugar world, however he’s not the guy for me. I mentioned to him I wanted somebody whom I was ok to be with in public and otherwise, and honestly, I don’t see myself even socializing with him. He’s not bad looking, kinda cute… age wise he’s a bit older than I’d like, but his hands looked like grandpa hands. That sounds awful, I know, no way I can deal with grandpa hands! :(

    Well, there you have it. Maybe next time.

  39. SugarySpicey says:

    Thanks Cunny, I’ll be sure to keep a mountain man in my back pocket for just such an occasion. He can be the J in my alphabet soup.

  40. Principium says:

    ^^^ Hunters (fishers by extension) & gatherers can become useful in a post apocalyptic world! ^^^

    In a post apocalyptic scenario, they can always feed you 😉

  41. lil_tm says:

    Ya’ll know what I find amusing? When the local SDs pose with a big fish they caught in their hands! I bet they don’t know that most women don’t find that attractive, but I bet they’re proud of it Lol

  42. lil_tm says:

    @BG-email sent :)

    “lil-tm On favoriting, Sometimes I do it, because I want to message the SB, but don’t have the time.”

    That makes sense, but it seems the ones who did it never message. :(

  43. Damien says:

    BG – Belated happy birthday from me too I hope you enjoyed the day!  Good luck with the workouts I hope you enjoy them.  Very nice of you to help her lil_tm. 
     
    Sweetie – don’t compromise and I’d say go with your instincts.  I think Jersey is right though, keep an open mind and see what the relationship would be.  If all he brings is financial means, and all he wants is servicing, then I agree to stay far away.  But maybe he’s fun, or sweet.  Charming or mysteriously compelling.  Maybe he has life experience that would interest or benefit you.  If none of that comes across in your conversations, next.
     
    NoobSD I know exactly what you mean and I agree it can be a turn off.  I certainly don’t mind seeing a beautiful girl in a bathing suit or tasteful lingerie but it has to be a part of an overall package I think for it to work.  When a girl sends me that right away and presses for a meet it just makes the whole vibe very transactional and hard sell. 
     
    The SB I am currently seeing only sent pictures you might see anywhere of her.  A nice sexy dress, a business suit, a face shot.  One picture of her in fitting shorts and a bathing suit top just to show she had a great body.  Done.  Everything else was personality and “do we fit” general talk which lead to a quick meeting. 
     
    Going forward when she mentioned she wears glasses for instance, and I said I bet that looked great on her, she’d send me a picture of her with glasses on.  Then later, maybe she’d be leaning over with some cleavage showing.  It was only after we finally got intimate (I think it was about a month in?) that she sent a single picture in tasteful lingerie, and then sexier shots.  Made it all feel much more special. 
     

  44. Beach_Girl says:

    Morning Sugars

    Frank~ Thank you 😀 I did have a hard time this weekend not smoking and having wine, but I’ve been smoke free for 21 days now 😀 I don’t eat more, but It seems like I lack energy for some reason. only one thing left like you said 😀
    Ray Manzarek had a great sound, I met him and he was awesome too. He will be missed
    Jersey~ great post girl!

    Noob_SD~ I think you made up your mind about pot SB. If you are turned off, don’t go through with it.

    Off to work, have a great day Sugars 😀

  45. Jersey Darling says:

    @Frank Thank you 😀

  46. Jersey Darling says:

    @NoobSD – Always good to hear a guy say exactly what you just said. I often wonder how much skin wins on this site, but I think it has a lot to do with what you’re looking for.

    While I find the naked body a beautiful thing, I don’t view it inherently sexual just by virtue of it being naked – it has to be shown in a sexy way. When done wrong, pictures like that turn me off too. But I also have a photographer’s eye and appreciate when someone puts thought into the composition of their photo.

    For some of my sexier pictures I send, I actually had a photo shoot with myself one day. Took time doing my makeup and hair just right, and I have windows in my bedroom that served as large softboxes for light. The pictures are a tad showier but still leave a lot to the imagination, but they definitely get the imagination going!

  47. Frank says:

    Super post Jersey

  48. Jersey Darling says:

    @Sweetie:

    There is an SD who is seriously interested, I just cannot see myself being intimate with him. I wish I were a pay 4 play, but I’m not. I want my sugaring experience to be more than just money for servicing the SD. Jersey, I know you’re on the same page, help please!!!!
    It’s tempting, however I know it’s not my style and I’ll feel terrible about it

    Sweetie, have you met him in person yet? If so, have you gotten down to the “brass tacks” of the arrangement and what it would be?

    Chemistry in person can develop without looks if humor, his personality, and his spoiling you turn into an aphrodisiac.

    My thoughts are, of course, if you think you’ll feel terrible about it then don’t do it. But if you haven’t done all of the above, don’t write him off yet if you really want to give it a shot because traits about him other than his looks are good.

    Some questions (to ask yourself, don’t feel obligated to share the answers here:
    – Why do you think you’ll feel terrible about yourself if you sleep with him?
    – How do you know you will just be servicing him? Perhaps he’ll actually wine you and dine you, or the sex will be good?
    – Do you lack confidence in the sugar bowl and need something to get your feet wet?

    The first SD I met was from SA. He was one of the first people who messaged me when I created an account when I had a heartfelt profile. He was attractive in his pictures, a total sweetheart, and had lost his wife so he didn’t want a deep emotional connection, just someone for companionship (dinner and otherwise). This is the the Daniel Craig lookalike I’ve talked about.

    He was a little boring to talk to but I’m a great listener, and he was sweet so I figured I’d try him. It took months before I decided to (we fell out of contact after meeting (distance) and got back in contact again. Why did I contact him again after a few months? I still hadn’t found what I was looking for and wanted to build my confidence in the sugar world. So I figured I’d try it out.

    We “did the deed” and sexually things were fine but there was no chemistry. I felt he was oddly emotionally detached during intimacy (much like I’d expect a John would be) even though he seemed to want to open up, but it turned me off. When we were done, I knew it wasn’t for me and couldn’t wait for him to leave.

    That said, I didn’t feel like shit about myself for it. It actually did exactly what I wanted – gave me the confidence in the arrangement world that I needed. I took a break after that, but when I came back, bam – I found my first real SD, and concurrently also met someone (else) off this site who just swept me away. “Daniel Craig” wasn’t my style, but he helped me create it and I don’t regret the experience because I know what it paved the way for. It also helped me determine and confirm what I do and don’t need (despite how sweet and good looking he was, I need that emotional connection!).

    For me, it made a world of difference to be able to approach negotiations and arrangement talks thereafter confidently by being able to say, “I’ve had an arrangement before” (albeit a super short one because I cut it off!) and “here is what I’m looking for.” Not sure how similar you are to me in that respect, but I needed that to get me started.

  49. Frank says:

    Beachgirl-belated Happy birthday wishes. I hadn’t heard about Manzarek’s death until you mentioned it. Loved the jazz sound he brought to the Doors. Think I will go listen to When the Musics Over now.

    And if you are quitting smoking you do have the tendency to eat more, so working out is a good thing. Also, when I quit smoking , I had to stop drinking for a while, so I guess the only thing left would be sex.
    lil-tm On favoriting, Sometimes I do it, because I want to message the SB, but don’t have the time. I know that once in awhile a SB will favorite me, and that will prompt me to look at her profile to see if she is a pot. So if I were you, and I was interested in someone who favorited me, I would message him and start the conversation.

  50. Noob_SD says:

    Okay … random thoughts. I have this pot SB who sent me semi-nude pictures of herself. I never asked for them. Somehow, the lack of class is putting me off – she keeps texting me to try and get to meet.

    Don’t get me wrong – there are several profile pictures that I have come across that show a lot of skin tactfully – like bathing suits – without really appearing cheesy – I admire them.

    I’m going to break it off and move on …

  51. Beach_Girl says:

    lil_tm~ I hope you got the new email… missmontreal 1 at g mail… I forgot the 1 before, I am tired, it’s been a long weekend
    Night sugars 😀

  52. Beach_Girl says:

    Sweeite~ I can’t wait, night girlie!

  53. Beach_Girl says:

    I think the favoriting is to email later, if they don’t… yeah, what are they doing?!?!?

    Sweetie~ Thanks, I hope it goes well. It will be a test to see if I do it every day. I don’t have much time some days, but I think it will get easier. The more you do it, the more energy you have

  54. sweetie says:

    Ladies, I’m done for the night. Sweet dreams!
    BG, I’ll send you a pic soon.

  55. sweetie says:

    Good luck, BG! You can do it.

  56. Beach_Girl says:

    lil_tm oups, it’s missmontreal1 at g mail lol… I forgot the one hahahh I’m so blonde lol

  57. Beach_Girl says:

    Sweetie~ I think when you log in often you show up more, I have no idea girlie!
    About the workout, yes, I will take it slow for sure, I’ve never done it so… I did look at the site Principium talk about and I will start that tomorrow. It will be a practice to workout with the computer or TV…

  58. sweetie says:

    Lil, yeah, the favoriting is pointless. Just send a message already or move on. Unless we’re being bookmarked!

  59. sweetie says:

    BG, thank you, love!
    About working out, don’t try to do it all at once, take it slow and pace yourself. Consistency pays off.
    😉

  60. Beach_Girl says:

    Sweetie~ If you can’t see yourself being intimate with him, don’t do it. I am not for p4p either and my experiences have been with amazing SDs that I wanted to get intimate with 😀

    lil_tm~ missmontreal at g mail , yes, email me 😀
    I’ve never trained before… like I said I did pilates, I do have the kettle bells but I work with my arms all day longs, it was too hard on my elbows, maybe I was doing it wrong. I need to tone up, I gained some weight and I just don’t feel as good you know?

  61. lil_tm says:

    Oh, and yes I’ve had more inquiries these past few days than usual… I have not changed anything in my profile nor my pics, so it’s a mystery to me. Maybe the fact that I’ve been online more?… I know somebody mentioned she had more messages in her inbox lately, was it Diana??

    sweetie I haven’t received any..odd because last week I received a ton. I guess there’s no rhyme or reason to it. Only a few guys favoriting me and I really don’t even see the point of that.

  62. sweetie says:

    Oh, and yes I’ve had more inquiries these past few days than usual… I have not changed anything in my profile nor my pics, so it’s a mystery to me. Maybe the fact that I’ve been online more?… I know somebody mentioned she had more messages in her inbox lately, was it Diana?

  63. lil_tm says:

    btw, beach girl. If you want me to burn the dvds and send them to you, I will. Not sure how you comfy you are with the idea, but if you want to, let me know.

  64. lil_tm says:

    “lil_tm~ Nope, I got kettle bells… that’s it. I will invest in the bands and see what the dvd’s say about weights. I usually do some workout at home, but not much.”

    Yay for kettle bells! Have you done crossfit? I wish I could! There closest gym that offers it is way too far. :(

    I wasn’t big either, but there’s always room for improvement. I feel a lot more agile, stronger, leaner and just all around better. Exercise, however you can get it, is a great thing. I don’t think p90 is for everyone, but it works for me. 😀

  65. sweetie says:

    Flyr “Re Google Voice – My vote would be no as the content is harvested, exploited and preserved.”

    What do you mean, what do you know about this?

    This is a moot point, still, please give your two cents, I need some reinforcement…
    There is an SD who is seriously interested, I just cannot see myself being intimate with him. I wish I were a pay 4 play, but I’m not. I want my sugaring experience to be more than just money for servicing the SD. Jersey, I know you’re on the same page, help please!!!!
    It’s tempting, however I know it’s not my style and I’ll feel terrible about it :( :( :(

  66. Beach_Girl says:

    Hello Sugars
    Wow, you are all so quiet this weekend!

    Principium~ thank you!

    Noob_SD~ thank you , too bad we missed all the photos to go with the dialog

    Diana~ I have no idea lol… i think i just typed what I would of said in real life.

    My thoughts go out to everyone in OK, and every state affected by the tornadoes, what a horrible thing. Very sad
    Ray Manzarek died today, so sad!

  67. DianaSBinOC says:

    @ BeachGirl- Why would anyone assume you’re big?

    @Treasured- Glad you see him more than an ATM actually I never thought you saw him any other way. :)

  68. FlyrIsSexy says:

    lol nice avatar

  69. Noob_SD says:

    @ Beach Girl: Noob_SD~ Are you changing your photos around? lol…

    Happy Belated Birthday BG …. I was just having a little tete-e-tete with lil_tm on the avatars …

  70. sweetie says:

    Is it kosher to vent here about non SA stuff? Well, here it goes!

    So frustrated with financial aid, it’s like a maze. And they only give you little bits just so it’s impossible to figure out anything. So glad I’m a tax payer…

  71. Principium says:

    @ Beachy: No you are not big (I’ve seen full length pic, for those who wonder WTF)

    On P90X: I’ve done it, but didn’t really get into it so much so to repeat it. Frankly speaking at my age, I find gyms and one hour workouts quite boring and I become dispassionate very fast. I like 20-30 min intense workouts (excluding at least 5 min of warm up & 5 mins of cool down) You can get quite gassed by just short & intense workouts but watch out for potential injuries.

    You can find other programs which utilize kettlebells and are more fun than P90X. For P90X you will need a few set of dumbbells (5 lbs, 8 & 10 or 15s) a few bands, a pull up bar (you can use your bands with it or use a chair for assistance) and will need a chair or two (one stool and one sturdy chair)

    Look up ZWOW on YouTube and if you like Zuzka’s stuff you can but her DVDs on Amazon for less than $20 (not sure if they ship to Canada though) In any case, her stuff is free on the Interwebs!

  72. Beach_Girl says:

    Principium~ Thank you, my birthday was great! I am not big, right? so I would think that toning up would be easier? Last Dr app. Told me my bmi was 19%. So, I have a little work to do 😀 I do love the wine and cake!!!

    Spicey~ hahahha Those cheetoh’s don’t make your ass look fat but they are making you listen to the blog lol…

    lil_tm~ Nope, I got kettle bells… that’s it. I will invest in the bands and see what the dvd’s say about weights. I usually do some workout at home, but not much.

    Damien~ Yes, june is around the corner… I can’t wait for the weather to get nicer!

  73. Damien says:

    Principium has it right. Abs are there you just need to get to a certain body fat for them to show. For women its higher than men. I want to say 15%? In any case abs are made in the kitchen .

    All of this reminds me I still have work to do on that front and its nearly June.

  74. lil_tm says:

    “lil_tm~ Thank you for the link, I bookmarked it 😀 Do I need the bands right away?
    I spoiled myself with 2 awesome diner with friends, I can’t afford any more presents for myself.. And I don’t have a SD right now so… I can only get the dvd’s right now. bands will have to wait a little bit”

    You have to have either band or weights. Most people have some weights sitting around, so hopefully that works for ya. :)

  75. emma says:

    Hi!I was just wondering if some of you SB’s out there could help me?Im new to this and want to find my first SD, im looking for one that wants more of a long term arrangement. The thing is most guys i come across on SA want me to go and meet them in London which is an hour train ride do i meet them or do they meet me?Also of course i know its about sex, but when do you give it? Im pretty sure the guy always wants it like the first date?! i just dont want to make a misstake?Thanks!!  x

  76. SugarySpicey says:

    Well maybe you need to inspect it in person, Cunny.

  77. Treasured says:

    @DianaSBinOC

    Define “regular relationship” 😉

    I guess not. And it will never be.

    But, for me “more” means that I actually don’t view him as an ATM and he has become really close.
    And, hopefully, he really likes me too. :)

    AND, I am discovering that I am actually a nice person 😀

  78. Principium says:

    @ BG: Belated Happy BD. For abs to show, one must drop below a certain level of body fat. It is much easier for younger people to stay lean as compared to when we get older. The core exercises are crucial to build a strong core and mid section. You abs will show when you drop around 8% body fat.

  79. Principium says:

    Spicey Nicey: We already had a discussion about Does This (Whatever) Make My Ass (Butt) Look Fat.

    The operative word is Ass. The rest doesn’t matter 😉

  80. SugarySpicey says:

    Listening to all you ladies talking about working out made me think I should do something, so I blogged about it instead and went back to eating Cheetohs.

    Does this high fructose corn syrup make my butt look fat?

  81. Beach_Girl says:

    lil_tm~ Thank you for the link, I bookmarked it 😀 Do I need the bands right away?
    I spoiled myself with 2 awesome diner with friends, I can’t afford any more presents for myself.. And I don’t have a SD right now so… I can only get the dvd’s right now. bands will have to wait a little bit

  82. lil_tm says:

    “lil_tm~ I could do an hour at this time of day… not a good time to workout…
    some days I could do an hour but not most of them
    If I can get abs like I saw on the videos, it’s going to be worth it. I’ve never really had abs that show… legs and arms yes but never the abs”

    Well if you’re not splitting it up everyday, you should be fine.
    There are days I only do half when I’m just not feeling it and my body and mind are exhausted and I’m still getting results. :)

    You can def get abs, but be prepared to work hard for it.

    Here’s a link to the bands I bought. They’re about $30 and once you get stronger, you can use more than one at a time to increase resistance.

    http://www.amazon.com/ProSource-48-Inch-Premium-Resistance-Exercise/dp/B005D7GJQE/ref=sr_1_7?ie=UTF8&qid=1369023419&sr=8-7&keywords=p90x

    Get yourself a bday present. 😉

  83. Beach_Girl says:

    lil_tm~ Bands? does it say when you get the dvds what kind of weights you need?

  84. Beach_Girl says:

    lil_tm~ I could do an hour at this time of day… not a good time to workout…
    some days I could do an hour but not most of them
    If I can get abs like I saw on the videos, it’s going to be worth it. I’ve never really had abs that show… legs and arms yes but never the abs

  85. lil_tm says:

    Oh..and get some weights and/or bands because you’re going to need em. I would skip the pull up bar until you get strong. :)

  86. lil_tm says:

    “LMAO! …. You are a good sport lil_tm …”
    😉

    “I went back to ebay for p90x I bid on another set, lets hope I get this one. I don’t know if I’ll be able to do 1 hour straight though, you think that matters?”

    No, I don’t. I think you can break it up if you have to. I’ve never done it that way, but I know someone who does and he’s in super shape.
    It comes down to how much of a priority you want to make it as well.
    I think an hour seems long, but a lot of that is stretching and it’s really over before you know it. Try to stick as close to the program as possible.
    I’m out of town and haven’t been able to do it for the past few days and I feel like crap!

  87. Beach_Girl says:

    Hello Sugars 😀

    lil_tm~ Thank you, my birthday was great :mrgreen:
    I went back to ebay for p90x I bid on another set, lets hope I get this one. I don’t know if I’ll be able to do 1 hour straight though, you think that matters?

    Noob_SD~ Are you changing your photos around? lol…

  88. Noob_SD says:

    Fine, I’ll give you a hint. Scratch your butt and you’re getting hot…

    LMAO! …. You are a good sport lil_tm …

  89. lil_tm says:

    “Okay … I’ll just go home. As soon as I find my chair …”

    Fine, I’ll give you a hint. Scratch your butt and you’re getting hot…

  90. Noob_SD says:

    Lol.. you are too funny! I’m guessing you are probably tired. Maybe we should just rest for a while.

    Okay … I’ll just go home. As soon as I find my chair …

  91. DianaSBinOC says:

    @gtt-envy

    “–Wow astrological signs are you kidding me? Brownie points are being deducted very rapidly for anyone who believes in that hogwash.”

    –buzz kill. Plus didn’t you leave sugar and get yourself a pro? Why does a sugar need brownie points from you? Geeze hold down the ” I’m so important that you need my validation” for a sec.

    @ Dorky-
    Superstitious are entertaining! lol, you guys sound like Tom Sawyer, who believed that you could remove warts by taking a dead cat to a cemetery at midnight.

    “They are entertaining until someone bases decisions on them. For example, did you know that a string of rattles from a rattlesnake tied around the ankle will keep a swimmer from drowning?”

    “It would suck to reach the end of your days, and discover a guy you rejected because you were superstitious about the month he was born in.was in fact “the one” (another superstition?)”

    If astrology didn’t have some bases in reality it wouldn’t actually be as popular as it is and for years way before my time. Again I never said I didn’t date someone because of their sign I just saw similar characteristics be them bad or good ones.

    What I find fascinating is how if you search out say murderers for example many fall under a certain sun sign. Why is that? Don’t know but it’s an interesting fact. We’re talking about different people from different walks of life that shared a similar desire.

    —@FatBastard-
    “I am a Capricorn using the sidereal date, and I would hardly call myself cheap. Just got my SB a pair of Nike Air Max running shoes (they were returned to the store due to a slight defect but a nice gift in any event).”

    “I am an Aquarius using the Tropical date. I don’t think I backstab people but I do like to poke girls in the backside with my penis, so maybe this astrology thing is accurate after all.”

    lol You don’t count because you’re a FatBastard.

    There are also the C. Jung and I. Briggs Myers personality tests as well. All these test do is provide some information on where you might need to improve, strengths , weakness and where your talents lie.

    Don’t worry gents you all have control over your decisions and your life:) See feel better now? Aww give yourselves a big hug:)

    Getting back to Sugar..

    @Treasured-

    “He is wonderful!! BUT, even though it started as a Sugar relationship, it has progressed to more:) So, now, he is just a Daddy:))))”

    What do you mean progressed to more? Are you in a regular relationship with him now? You seem so happy:)

    “I guess my trust in men is seriously jaded…”

    Sure there are probably more bad apples on this site then good but you’ve found a good one so enjoy him. He obviously adores you tremendously. :)

  92. lil_tm says:

    Happy Bday Beach Girl!
    I bought my p90 used from Amazon..it was about 80$. May wanna try that. :)

    “You did it! Thanks so much …. It took a while, maybe now we can go do something else?”

    Lol.. you are too funny! I’m guessing you are probably tired. Maybe we should just rest for a while. :)

    “Superstitious are entertaining! lol, you guys sound like Tom Sawyer, who believed that you could remove warts by taking a dead cat to a cemetery at midnight.”

    I guess being around people my entire life who practice Voodoo and what not, being superstitious is not that uncommon to me.

    Also, not every girl likes Tiffanys…I think it’s more about finding out what she likes and gifting accordingly. Pearls > Tiffanys or diamonds any day.

  93. Rosie says:

    Totally understand, Treasured. But it sounds like you have a good one so take it all in, enjoy every moment and try not to let your “jaded side” create doubt and drama. If you feel doubt creeping in, turn it around and do something extra sweet for your man instead of questioning anything. It’s a nice way to dissolve negativity. Trust me. It works! :)

  94. Treasured says:

    Rosie, thanks :)

    I AM happy. But at the moment I am not allowing myself to be too happy. I guess my trust in men is seriously jaded…

    But, with every day I trust him more and more :)

  95. Damien says:

    You’re welcome Sweetie, :)

    Jersey yeah jewelry is a good one. Shoes for example though I’d have no concept of what to get as a surprise.

    Uh oh Spicey sounds no bueno. Don’t text.

  96. Rosie says:

    You seem so happy, Treasured! I love sugar success stories! <3

  97. Rosie says:

    DON’T do it, Spicey! You’ll regret it later. If you want regret, go buy a gallon of Ben & Jerry’s. Hang in there. 😉

  98. Treasured says:

    He is wonderful!! BUT, even though it started as a Sugar relationship, it has progressed to more:) So, now, he is just a Daddy:))))

    One of the amazing gifts planned (well, just need to pick a date, already had a consultation) will be a nose job with a top London surgeon, and some minor cosmetic surgery:)

    And yes, he is wonderful!!!

  99. sweetie says:

    Spicey, don’t even think it, it’s not worth it. Chin up, dear!

  100. SugarySpicey says:

    All this talking of sweet SDs and gifting is causing a moment of weakness. I need to be pinned down so that I don’t text that passive-aggressive liar!

  101. Jersey Darling says:

    My nicest was for Valentines day. Got a surprise diamond and pearl necklace that I wasn’t expecting at all… I thought it was very thoughtful and it’s become my signature necklace to identify myself when my face is cropped out of a photo 😉

  102. SugarySpicey says:

    Trips are definitely the best sugar gift, but pricey, for little “thinking of you” tokens nothing is as sexy as jewelry or perfume, though I also quite like lingerie, and who doesn’t like shoes?

  103. Beach_Girl says:

    wanted to say Best SD was Aquarius. 😀
    Have a great day sugars

    😀

  104. sweetie says:

    RD, thanks for introducing Gustav Holst’s The Planets to me. Just listened to Jupiter… very tumultuous, I enjoyed the quiet part the most. More into mellow, myself.

  105. Beach_Girl says:

    Hello Sugars 😀

    Didn’t win the p90x, I will have to find another set

    I got trips as gifts. some clothes, never jewelry though…

  106. Damien says:

    FB I just got Nike Free’s for SB and myself 2weeks ago since we both needed new kicks. Perfect gift for me anyway. I love these things.

  107. Rosie says:

    @Diana & FatBastardo

    My most generous SD was a Capricorn. Not cheap at all.

  108. RDamien says:

    I’m Sagittarius, which I know zero about but just looked up because of this discussion. So cafeastrology.com says for Sagittarius: ” Ruler – Jupiter”.

    What is my favorite movement in Gustav Holst’s The Planets? Jupiter. So there you go. just got real.

    Spicey the Tiffany suggestion is perfect thanks. Treasured that’s some serious gifting.

  109. sweetie says:

    ^ hehehe, Bastardo, good to see you!

  110. FatBastardSD says:

    @DianaSBinOC

    I am a Capricorn using the sidereal date, and I would hardly call myself cheap. Just got my SB a pair of Nike Air Max running shoes (they were returned to the store due to a slight defect but a nice gift in any event).

    I am an Aquarius using the Tropical date. I don’t think I backstab people but I do like to poke girls in the backside with my penis, so maybe this astrology thing is accurate after all.

  111. Rosie says:

    Best SD gift I ever got was a business manager, publicist and personal assistant on a 6 month contract (paid for in full) to help me kick-start my business and put me on the road to financial security, which we all know, ultimately means FREEDOM. Although all my Loubies come in a close second.

  112. FatBastardSD says:

    @gtt_envy

    It is actually very good information for potential SD’s to know how prevalent belief in Astrology is among SB’s. It can explain a lot of the crazy SB behavior that we have come to know and love.

    Not to say that this applies to the fine ladies posting on this blog of course ;-).

  113. sweetie says:

    Wow, Treasured, that’s one generous SD. Happy for you, dear! :) Enjoy!

  114. Treasured says:

    Oh, and also a trip to London for 4 days with my kids 😀

  115. Treasured says:

    The most wonderful lately: Daddy gave me a 5* holiday, 2 weeks somewhere very lovely with my 2 kiddies 😀

  116. Treasured says:

    gtt – no one fits one mould, but there are certain similarities between astrological signs 😉

    Gifties…. Hmmm… Last one from Daddy wonderful heels with a beautiful red sole 😉 And matching handbag.
    Jewellery
    And two wonderful “What Katie Did” corsets, which I lost on the same day (forgot in a taxi). Daddy was not impressed 😀 hehehehe

  117. SugarySpicey says:

    Gtt – I may be with you, Virgo’s are supposed to be tightly wound, and that doesn’t fit me at all *sheepish grin.

    Damien – Good gifts – a Tiffany key pendant, they’re not very expensive (a few hundred $$) but nothing beets receiving a gift in that eggshell blue box!

  118. Lo says:

    gtt don’t be a buzzkill

  119. gtt_envy says:

    Wow astrological signs are you kidding me? Brownie points are being deducted very rapidly for anyone who believes in that hogwash.

  120. RDamien says:

    ^ lol Rosie

    So SB’s what’s some of the better surprise gifts you’ve gotten lately.

  121. Rosie says:

    My mum was a Virgo and dad was a Sagittarius so they always told me that made me a Vagittarius.

  122. Treasured says:

    In MY experience, LEO men are the best Sugardaddies (if you put up with the fact that they are always right 😀 )

    I am Gemini, and it is true: I have all personalities thrown in together 😛 Makes life so much more fun 😀

  123. DorkyGuy says:

    Superstitious are entertaining! lol, you guys sound like Tom Sawyer, who believed that you could remove warts by taking a dead cat to a cemetery at midnight.

    They are entertaining until someone bases decisions on them. For example, did you know that a string of rattles from a rattlesnake tied around the ankle will keep a swimmer from drowning?

    It would suck to reach the end of your days, and discover a guy you rejected because you were superstitious about the month he was born in.was in fact “the one” (another superstition?)

    bah humbug! 😛

  124. Noob_SD says:

    @ lil_tm: My friend? I believe I can pull it off myself.

    You did it! Thanks so much …. It took a while, maybe now we can go do something else?

  125. DianaSBinOC says:

    Happy Birthday Beach Girl!!

    Ohh and Liltm I was referring to the men for I haven’t had too much experience with women. However put in Aquarius and bac– and the rest auto populates “backstabbers”. Remember all signs share positive and negative traits. Also all people born within that time frame don’t exhibit all of the behaviors. You could have a rising in another sign or your moon could be have more influence on certain traits within your personality. My negative traits are lazy, blunt, blindly optimism.

    I think I’m glad I entered the sugar bowl later in life for that “blindly optimistic” characteristic would have gotten me in a heap of drama. Yes I would have been that ” this guy said he was going to wire my allowance this week”. That is so me because I’ve been that type of trusting in the past. To make up for my overly trusting nature I tend to over analyze now. It’s an extreme in the opposite direction but I’m a fire sign so we tend to not half ass anything:) lol

    When it comes to Taurus men I tend to get along with them best if they are 30 and below. If they are older I clash with them terribly.

    Cancer for me usually make the best male friends. I have no idea why but we just mesh once I get over their mood swings. Ohh and their mood swings are pretty intense. Just give them some space and they’ll return when they feel better.

    Libras are win!! I don’t care if they are considered boring. Give me boring , stable consistent and caring any day. They spoil like no other. They make great boyfriends and/or sugar daddies!!

  126. Beach_Girl says:

    Thank you Lo

  127. Beach_Girl says:

    Hello Sugars!!!

    Sweetie~ Thank you girlie, I had a blast tonight 😀 too much great food, awesome wine and great fun!

    I was talking about the P90 workout with friends tonight, I’d never heard of it. So I looked it up… Wow, I need that workout. I just bid on a complete set on eBay 😀 let’s hope I get it. Since I work at home (online) and on the road, I think it would be good for me to do.Although an hour a day is a lot… I’m sure I could do it, the results look amazing from what I saw!

    I am a Taurus 😀 and in Chinese astro a rat lol.. I got everything going for me lol

  128. Lo says:

    happy birthdaaay

  129. sweetie says:

    Almost forgot, today (Saturday) is Beach_Girl’s birthday!!!!!
    Happy Birthday, BG! :) :) :)
    She’s a toro!

  130. Jersey Darling says:

    @Diana – that’s quite a post!

    I’ve never taken signs seriously but have noticed one trend with myself. I tend to be drawn to Libra men – they’re so laid back, sociable, and easy to get along with. Then after a month, I find they’re too laid back for me and I want someone more decisive.

    Still, I’m drawn to them like a moth to a flame!

  131. Lo says:

    I never meet aquarian men either but when I do I wanna do them immediately. It’s that aloof vibe that gets me going.

  132. lil_tm says:

    Aquarius ( backstabber – do not tell them anything you will not want discussed openly, they tend to be great listeners but possibly taking notes lol, they also tend to give off a sexual creepy vibe.)
    Gemini ( multiple personalities–feels like you’re dating two football teams while they’re playing against each other ) You’ll have alot of fun with this type even if you’re not sure who he is that day.’

    Nothing could be further from the truth.
    We are loyal to the death. I am one and so was my husband and I can say with complete certainty that we will fight to the death for the people we care about and never ever ever stab someone in the back.

  133. lil_tm says:

    I’m Aquarius…laid back, go with the flow and a buncha other stuff you’ve never seen. 😉

  134. lil_tm says:

    “Thanks lil_tm! We’re almost there … Maybe you and your friend together can get me off this chair”

    My friend? I believe I can pull it off myself. 😉

  135. lil_tm says:

    “Is that Psylocke in your Gravatar lil_tm? How is P90 going for you. Never tried it myself but I go to a crossfit near me and it’s a similar approach I think.”

    Yep, that is Psylocke..love the X-men bc I’m just a nerd like that.

    I love the p90 because it works, but I don’t enjoy it on the days I just ain’t feelin’ it, ya know?

    A little more left to my first round and then I’m going to do doubles.

    It’s just hard because you kinda have to live/breathe/eat it. No out to dinner, out to drinks, etc. :(

  136. sweetie says:

    Lo “Gemini guys just feel unstable to me lol.”

    …because they are! They do have good parts, though. So, it’s not all bad, just impossible to be with them, hehehe!

    Regarding Libras guys, not sure if I’ve met any… Diana has made me curious about them 😉

  137. Lo says:

    I NEVER meet Libra guys. I crush on Sag’s but they’re impossible and I always attract taurus men but they’re so busy establishing themselves that never works out either. Gemini guys just feel unstable to me lol.

  138. sweetie says:

    Hehehe, too late. Finally decided to let it go, what a handful!

  139. DianaSBinOC says:

    @sweetie

    As a sag they are my opposite so I attract them quite a bit but I can’t really deal with the whole Dr Jekyll/ Hyde mash up. It’s exhausting!! Making up their mind? lol so true. One guy I dated literally passed all of his “decisions” through a friend like “so what should I do about this?” lol . Skip them and just date the friend :) lol

  140. sweetie says:

    Diana, the Gemini are quite something… couldn’t help but giggle when I read your post, so true! Shit, and they can’t make decisions for the life of them, aaaarrrrrrggggg (at least mine couldn’t).

  141. DianaSBinOC says:

    Sag here!! Haha:) My best match is Libra men. Love Love Love Libra men. They are so sweet, generous and tend to know my needs way before I have to even tell them. Air+ Fire combination:) Fire needs air to breathe.Air can also put out fire which is where things don’t work out:(

    The signs (male only) of what I experience with certain signs:
    Taurus (control and mind games really pushy for personal information ie nosy) Toddler of the zodiac so think of “The Terrible Twos”
    Capricorn(cheap as hell, needs to be the center of attention. great attention to detail and time. They tend to be attracted to a deal of extravagant living and lifestyle. He’ll notice the label on your shoes before he’ll notice your face.They are generally well connected because they desire being surrounded by an abundance of wealth and class in many forms.) ,
    Virgo ( too flighty hot and cold but great with money management, usually players or men that sample many women) ,
    Aquarius ( backstabber – do not tell them anything you will not want discussed openly, they tend to be great listeners but possibly taking notes lol, they also tend to give off a sexual creepy vibe.)
    Gemini ( multiple personalities–feels like you’re dating two football teams while they’re playing against each other ) You’ll have alot of fun with this type even if you’re not sure who he is that day.
    Leo ( thinks he’s knows everything but is really just a house cat on steroids-ego stroking strongly required ) Don’t even argue. Just say yes you are always right and throw catnip at his paws.
    Scorpio ( sex sex sex and more sex – you may need an oxygen tank bedside),
    Cancer ( sweet emotional squishy inside if you can crack that shell, beware of those claws because they are clingers. They also have a history of being terrible drivers or totally a car yet walking away with at most a scratch) ,
    Aries ( be ready for a temper tantrum if he doesn’t get what he wants he’s the infant of the zodiac so bring baby wipes and rattle ) He is also fun to be around just make him the center of the universe and you can’t go wrong.
    Pisces – (Dreamer , mellow, drifter) – I can’t say much about Pisces because I tend to meet them in passing. I tend to admire them greatly from a distance.
    Sag- ( free spirited doesn’t like to be tied down.When they commit it’s serious. They wander if they feel suffocated)

    Some don’t have these specific characteristics but many do. I used to hate when my mother would ask ” what’s his sign?”. Ugg I always felt like I was doomed once I knew. I even refused asking since I didn’t want it to cloud a great experience but then the characteristics started to display and I could usually pin point what they were after 2 tries. After that well…

    What’s Your Price has astrological signs and generally any male Scorpio profile will have something sexual in it. It never fails.

  142. lonomo says:

    Dorky it means you’re ruled by your genitals

  143. sweetie says:

    Dorky, it means “sweet, sweet, sweet your sting, is it real your infusion…”

  144. DorkyGuy says:

    scorpio, but i have no idea what that’s supposed to mean, except that i always get pumpkin pie on my birthday

  145. lonomo says:

    ooooh you tricky sag’s…I can never make you guys commit

  146. sweetie says:

    sorry, your

  147. sweetie says:

    Lo, got a Sagittarius in here, so you’re fire is covered.

  148. lonomo says:

    hahahah awww virgos and pisces, i might be the only fire here ;D

  149. Tina says:

    Lo: I’m a Pisces…..just say heeeeeere fishy fishy fishy…….

  150. Jeansandyshirt76 says:

    Lomono i’m a libra

    Hope everyone weekend is off to a wonderful start.

    Posted this on an old blog, should have posted it here to see what kind of opinions I get, new at being a SD, been in an arrangement for 12 months, starting reading the book guide to seeking arrangement last night, now I think we have a problem Huston.

    I’m looking to get a few opinions from SB who are in arrangements. I Entered into a arragement with a beautiful lady 12 months ago. She get an allowance of $4000.00 a month which usually turns into $6000, plus jewelry, hotels for her to travel, she drive a new car everything paid for, I give her money for new dresses to go out with friend at hight end clubs, spa retreats for her and her friends, cellphone paid for, gift card etc.. originally we agree to take is slow and she said she did want great sex as part of the arragement said she not looking for a relationship and an arrangement works great for her lifestyle and not something short term, which is what I also want to many fakes as we all know.

    I’ve offered to help her with budget and paying off bills cause she says she has some, she absolutely does not want to discuss anything about this, I’ve recently caught her lying to me about several things. Asking me for money to go see family, gave her money to fly home and stay in hotels. Then she at my house and it slips she didn’t go home to see family, went out partying with friends. I could care less would have given her the money to do that also if she could just be honest. When we go out for a evening dinner at a nice restaurant, she constantly glued to her phone texting.

    I’m thinking I’m being played, I’m going to be doing one of two things ending it or having a mature conversation with her, not sure which I should do yet.

    Just wondering if and how you got into and arrangement, was their a period of getting to know each other for 12 months and no sugar, not ever a hint of it, no kissing, no cuddling while watching a movie, always having seperate rooms in hotels while on trips. I’m pretty much just feeling like a bank machine and think it’s time to end it?

    So let here about it ladies I want your honest opinion on time to get to know someone.

    Thanks

    Jeanandtshirt76

  151. SugarySpicey says:

    Lo – find my post about my trip to Vienna, I talk about verifying an SD and my safety precautions at the bottom of that post.

  152. lonomo says:

    Thanks Sugar I’m excited to read. I laughed when I read the girlscout part because I’m definitely not one either. I don’t think you mentioned anything about safety..so as far as screening, just get his information and run it through a verification site ???

  153. SugarySpicey says:

    You too Beachy!

    LoLo – my Domme post is live for you. Just click my name and you’ll find it. May be TMI, but whaddayagonnado, it’s a rather personal question.

  154. Noob_SD says:

    @ lil_tm: haha! Considering how far I am in to p90, this shouldn’t be a problem. Glad to see all those aggravating push ups put to use!

    Thanks lil_tm! We’re almost there … Maybe you and your friend together can get me off this chair … :)

  155. Beach_Girl says:

    Hello Sugars!
    Have an awesome Weekend 😀

  156. Jersey Darling says:

    Found this link amusing:
    [img]http://www.buzzfeed.com/mattbellassai/the-creepiest-cats-you-meet-on-okcupid[/img]

  157. Treasured says:

    Hey all 😀

    Just a quick “hi” 😀

    Life is good in a Treasuredland.

    Daddy is uber, and I am being pampered and adored 😀

    Big kiss!

  158. Jersey Darling says:

    I am a virginal Virgo myself.

  159. lonomo says:

    well now that you mention it, the picture is taken from below me HAHA that’s what it probably is. Virgo huh? Whats everyone else?

  160. SugarySpicey says:

    LoLoLoLoLa – Sorry, got distracted by Friday night and then drifted peacefully off to sleep (a.k.a. – had too many beers at a rainy baseball game and worke up with my shoes still on).

    Virgo myself

  161. DianaSBinOC says:

    (especially from married SDs whose wives can’t meet their needs)

    I don’t think that their wife can’t meet their needs I just think they are afraid of what their wife would think about them. Plus for many it has a sexual link which would possibly be off putting to many wives especially since none of this was discussed prior to marriage.

  162. DianaSBinOC says:

    I’ll stick to google voice. It’s easy to set up and delete.

  163. Jersey Darling says:

    @Lo I used to wonder the same thing. I think there’s just a greater proportion of kink on this site (especially from married SDs whose wives can’t meet their needs or single SDs who want to expedite the process).

    It could also be the angle of your profile photo – that’s gotten me before.

  164. lonomo says:

    WHATS EVERYONES ASTROLOGICAL SIGN. Aries here.

  165. lonomo says:

    I’m getting more mistress requests, I wonder what part of my profile says domme??? Werd….anxiously awaiting Sugar’s blog entry…

  166. RDamien says:

    It is FILO & LIFO

    I fall into the LIFO I guess. I was here for maybe a month or so. Found someone and got off. If it doesnt work I’ll come back, or not. By then I may be ready for a more traditional approach. Although I think I’m hooked on the blog community.

  167. RDamien says:

    Morning all, I posted under the name I typically use on boards last night and it was moderated… whoops!

    Is that Psylocke in your Gravatar lil_tm? How is P90 going for you. Never tried it myself but I go to a crossfit near me and it’s a similar approach I think.

    S.E. Cupp is definitely hot.

  168. lil_tm says:

    “@ lil_tm: A little help to get me off my chair, please”

    haha! Considering how far I am in to p90, this shouldn’t be a problem.
    Glad to see all those aggravating push ups put to use!

    I’m going to do a 2nd round. We can do it together if you’d like? 😉

  169. Noob_SD says:

    @ Principium: This is the most giving and the least selfish bunch of women on SA

    Amen to that! They are generous with their feelings, time, lending an ear, offering assistance to someone – sharing their experiences. It makes me want to hang out here with them :)

    @ Rosie: My girl crush grows every time lil_tm posts a new gravatar!

    Yes! Something is growing each time she posts a new gravatar …

    @ lil_tm: A little help to get me off my chair, please ?

  170. DorkyGuy says:

    Totally agree about S.E. Cupp. She was on Bill Maher? Why would she debase herself by going there?

  171. sweetie says:

    Sounds about right, P. That was my impression.

  172. Principium says:

    ^ I said this completely ass backwards by the way.

    It is FILO & LIFO 😛

  173. Principium says:

    A Sweetie: I don’t know about the influx vs the out flux, but I do believe that FILO (First In, Last Out) applies anymore. I think that it has become more of a FIFO & LILO 😉

    In other words, many stale old accounts and short life span of new members, JMO.

  174. Principium says:

    S.E. Cupp reference was because she was on Real Time with Bill Maher.

  175. Principium says:

    A Icy: why would they be mutually exclusive?

    BTW, I dunno why but I happen to have the hots for S.E. Cupp! Now, I don’t share her political views or affiliation (I’m from Euro where we bleed blue blood) but I just find the woman really hot. Maybe I have something for women from Red States? 😉

  176. SugarySpicey says:

    PrinciClause – are those your guns in that picture, or are you just happy to see me?

  177. Principium says:

    Oh Icy, you read my mind and speaketh my lingo!
    AIFILAW
    😉

  178. SugarySpicey says:

    Oh Princi – I simply lure you in with little baubles, playing the long game 😉

  179. Principium says:

    I like this crowd. Very humble indeed. Puddin pie & wholefood gift cards added. Dear Joysee just wants HBO & Spicey can be bribed with little baubles. Who was it who said that all SBs were Au-digging biatches?! This is the most giving and the least selfish bunch of women on SA 😀

  180. sweetie says:

    What do you think is the percentage of SD/SB joining vs. leaving SA? How long does an average account last?

  181. lil_tm says:

    Isn’t that the truth Rosie? Every time I think I have a unique idea, I google it and someone has already thought of it. Dang computers. >:/

  182. Rosie says:

    “hmmm is it just me or does “yo yo yo” and “Rosie Wosie puddin pie” just not mix?” -Tina

    “Or could it be a great new creative idea? Hip hop meets nursery rhyme…
    Gotta try new things to find out what works, right? ;)” -lil_tm

    I think Run D.M.C. already beat us to it! Go to YouTube and search for “Peter Piper by Run D.M.C.” 😉

  183. Beach_Girl says:

    lil_tm~ too much wine 😀

  184. lil_tm says:

    “hmmm is it just me or does “yo yo yo” and “Rosie Wosie puddin pie” just not mix?”

    Or could it be a great new creative idea? Hip hop meets nursery rhyme…
    Gotta try new things to find out what works, right? 😉

  185. Tina says:

    hmmm is it just me or does “yo yo yo” and “Rosie Wosie puddin pie” just not mix? :)

  186. Tina says:

    rukidding: nope, most of the comments are not related to the blog topic. It is just how this blog flows. However, if anyone wants to discuss the topic, or any topic for that matter, they are not discouraged.

    BTW for those 2 or 3 newbies that posted on the previous topic, you were moderated, and looks like people missed your post. Please feel free to repost so the community can help.

  187. lil_tm says:

    “I had to scroll up and re-read my post and nearly died of laughter as I read it out loud in a radio announcer’s voice! Bwahahahaha! You’re a hoot! (A hot hoot, to boot!)”

    YO YO YO Wosie Posie Puddin’ Pie reporting you live from seekingarrangement.com! 😉

  188. lil_tm says:

    “TM – looked at a little Portishead and considered for the list, very sexy, I agree!”

    The song Glory Box by them is perfect sexin’ music.

    And since you like Bob Marley, try Stephen Marley-Hey Baby. I’m going put it on right now…love that song!

    Hey beach girl! Why are you dizzy. Don’t tell us you’re pregnant. 😉

  189. SugarySpicey says:

    TM – looked at a little Portishead and considered for the list, very sexy, I agree!

  190. lil_tm says:

    *uninhibited

  191. Beach_Girl says:

    Hello Sugars!!!!
    I am so dizzy lol… Hope you are all have a great night !

  192. lil_tm says:

    @Spicey..just finally caught up on some of your blog.
    Love the poem..
    As for anal, I’m not really into anyone being anywhere near my balloon knot most of the time, BUT there are certain men(not very many) that have gotten me so hot and bothered and feeling so inhibited, I would not say not to anything.
    There have been guys who enjoy eating that. That’s their prerogative. They sure aren’t doing it for me, but whatever floats your boat or finds your lost remote.

    Re: Music to knock boots to.
    For me, the perfect option is trip hop. It’s mellow, sexy, from another planet, etc.
    Think Portishead, esthero…and Melody Gardot is ALWAYS lovely.

  193. Rosie says:

    “I’m compiling wishlists and so far Joysee & Icy are penciled in.” -Princi

    Hey, now! What about Wosie Posie puddin’ & pie? I know I’m off the available SB list, but I can offer my wing-woman services. My man-frieeeeens say I’m the bestest at it! 😉

  194. Rosie says:

    “@ Rose..haha! When I read your first post of the night, it sounded like a radio show host in my head LoL.” -lil_tm

    I had to scroll up and re-read my post and nearly died of laughter as I read it out loud in a radio announcer’s voice! Bwahahahaha! You’re a hoot! (A hot hoot, to boot!)

  195. SugarySpicey says:

    Princi – It’s one of my favorite paintings, The Venus of Urbino by Titian. I stared at it for hours in the Uffizzi in Florence. She is unapologetically erotic and purported to most likely be a Ventian Courtesan that entertained the Duke of Urbino. The painting was given to his very young wife as an instructional model of feminine sexuality.

  196. lil_tm says:

    @ Rose..haha! When I read your first post of the night, it sounded like a radio show host in my head LoL.
    And thank ya for them compliment. xo

    @Prince…since your doing a wish list, don’t forget me & my Whole Foods gift card.
    I’ll send you pics of food porn. It’s a win/win, you see. 😉

    Speaking of toys, have any of the guys ever try a fleshlight? I know it seems like a joke, but if I had a weenie, I’d have to try it out…ya know, just out of curiosity. :)

  197. Principium says:

    @ Spicey: PrinciClause will consider your wish list for July.

    I’m compiling wishlists and so far Joysee & Icy are penciled in.

    Who is that Rubenseque woman? If that is you Icy, I’m sold… Hook, line & sinker.

  198. rukidding says:

    Just use Google. Having this app on your phone to preserve “discretion” seems counter-intuitive.

  199. Rosie says:

    Lol. I just tried to “LIKE” Jersey’s post re: google voice. Damn that facebook. 😉

  200. SugarySpicey says:

    ^ that is, if I can find a partner.

    *whistles nonchalantly to self.

  201. SugarySpicey says:

    Thanks Rosie! I was pretty self conscious about posting that one.

    Cunny – Santorum can no longer maintain first Googke position of his own name, even his Wikipedia page has been infiltrated. He will forever be the frothy by product of lube and love – anal style.

    P.S. Cunny, maybe some of those toys should be team devices 😉

  202. Jersey Darling says:

    Re: The Blog Post

    Or, you know, people could just use Google Voice which is free and they can hang onto the number for years without worrying about paying a fee.

  203. Rosie says:

    My girl crush grows every time lil_tm posts a new gravatar!

  204. Rosie says:

    Hey, hey, hey, sugars!

    Just popping in at the end of my day to give mad sugar props to Nicey-Icey-Pricey-Spicey for her latest blog post on a very touchy subject for many women when it comes to sex. Spicey – your post was so informative and filled with a lot of tips on how to put a woman at ease (literally and figuratively, of course) before letting the love rod in through the out door. Because in the end, we all want to make sure it’s going to be okay. Right, ladies? Wish I would’ve had access to something like that before my first Greek experience!

    “Oral sex makes your day, anal sex makes your hole weak.”

  205. Principium says:

    There’s a Larry Flynt smug shop (not Hustler, but another brand which I can’t remember now) is not too far which I may have to visit soon. I was going to get you anal beads, but reconsidering after reading the “Santorum” effect.

    P.S. glad to hear Rick Santorum’s name will finally live in stuff of legends. LOL!

  206. Ejs2511 says:

    Hi!

    I was just wondering if some of you SB’s out there could help me?
    Im new to this and want to find my first SD, im looking for one that wants more of a long term arrangement. The thing is most guys i come across on SA want me to go and meet them in London which is an hour train ride do i meet them or do they meet me?

    Also of course i know its about sex, but when do you give it? Im pretty sure the guy always wants it like the first date?! i just dont want to make a misstake?

    Thanks!! 😀 x

  207. SugarySpicey says:

    Cunny – you send me some products to sample, then I’ll blog a detailed review of each one.

  208. lonomo says:

    well you know me, I love TMI haha

  209. Principium says:

    Spicey: when are you going to write a blog post about “toys” to spice up sugar? I wanna go toy shopping soon.

  210. SugarySpicey says:

    LoLoLoLoLa- I’ll post it when I get home tonight. You can just click my name above and it’ll drive you to my blog, though last night’s post may be TMI. 😉

  211. SugarySpicey says:

    ^ SeekingLubricants – simulates actual female excitement, and you can put it on hours before you meet your SD. He’ll never know if you’re truly digging his lovin.

  212. Dashel says:

    Well that was quick for a new post.

    Tina: Thanks, I’m just trying not to over think things at this point. So long as I’m doing the right thing I’m not going to worry too much about what I cant control. Maybe. Probably not… :)

  213. lil_tm says:

    “It’s pretty lonely eating by myself as you can see”

    Lol!

  214. Principium says:

    A new blog topic already???!!!

    Let me guess what’s gonna be next to be peddled on this site, in no particular order to make your sugar experience that much more sweet & memorable:

    A- Diet pills which will whip you in shape just for the Summer and bikini season. No exercise or any other physical activity will be required.

    B- Topical lotion to make a SD last longer in bed, laced with the Blue Pill and some extra T for good measure, for your SD’s vigor and vitality.

    C- A new line of cologne and skin care products to make your SD instantly more appealing, classy, dashing & debonair.

    D- The SAhype, a new members only version of Skype only available to SA members who wish to preserve their absolute privacy and anonymity.

    Feel free to add…

  215. Noob_SD says:

    @ lil_tm Ok … You cook. But how about we take a ride in my boat … around the lake … how can you turn down a romantic dinner on the boat, watching the sun set ? :)

    It’s pretty lonely eating by myself as you can see …

  216. lil_tm says:

    Thanks Lo..and I know what you mean! I was wondering why she did that and then I heard she was in a really bad accident and that’s the result. :(

  217. lonomo says:

    nice pic lil tm you remind me of rose mcgowan before she had surgery on her face and made it look…different

  218. lil_tm says:

    “@ lil_tm Went stargazing without me, huh?
    Sorry about that … :) Let me make it up to you.How about I cook for you”

    It just so happens, I’m cooking right now.
    Pancetta wrapped chicken breast stuffed with goat cheese, roasted red pepper, spinach and pommes puree.

    You can cook next time. 😉

  219. lonomo says:

    FIRST—OOOOOOOOOOOH YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH BABY

  220. Angela says:

    All personalities and perspectives are welcome in the blog, while personal attacks and name calling are not. It’s inevitable that there will be disagreements but let’s handle it as mature adults with class to keep the dialog constructive and respectful. Please refer to the “Blog Etiquette” for more details. For the newbies, please take a look at the “Sugar Daddy Dating Tips” section on the right for a list of commonly discussed topics and the “SD and SB Blog List” section to see the perspective of other sugars. Now comment away and let’s enjoy the blog…

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