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5 Essential Sugar Daddies

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Roll call! How many Sugar Daddies do you have? Now before you go naming Wall Street, Juicer, Mr. Clean, or Chicago, know that it’s about quality not quantity. Every girl needs five kinds of men in her life, but every smart Sugar Baby has these Sugar Daddies…

Globe Trotter

daddy who travels

More hotel attendants or concierge know his name than that of his own housekeepers. He has just as many passport inserts stashed as checkbooks. For the novice traveler, a Globe Trotter SD is a literal first class ticket to worldly exposure.

Daddy Warbucks

sugar daddy mentor

The mentor. Daddy Warbucks not only provides, but can help advance his Sugar Baby’s professional career. You can always count on him, not only in a time of need, but to be brutally honest.

Mr. Provider

sugar daddy provider

Just like there are women who love to turn men into their “projects,” Mr. Provider is the type of Sugar Daddy who wants his baby to have all the necessities: a car, proper lodging, and the latest fashion.

Virtual Lover

land more dates

Every woman loves attention. There’s an allure to being with a man, but being limited to seeing him on a screen or hearing his voice. It’s a stage to perform. It makes us feel wanted. It makes any Sugar Daddy feel special.

Mr. Spoiler

lavish parties

A smile is as strong as any other aphrodisiac. And Mr. Spoiler wants nothing else but to see his Babies smile. Lavish parties, trips, and spending escapades—almost to a vulgar level. But what girl doesn’t love to be spoiled rotten.

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250 Responses to “5 Essential Sugar Daddies”

  1. CoverBoy says:

    Well Im not new to being a SB(M) but I have not got any messages on here,I would love to meet a a cool guy off of here.I mainly get guys wanting to spend on me outside this site.The entertainment industry guys are ok but I prefer someone who hasn’t been with pinhead larry and dirty dan lol

  2. Bre says:

    Interesting.. Sounds like a lot to juggle and more like a full time job.

    On a serious note, I am fairly new to this and would love some girl insight on maybe some advice and men I should avoid? Is there a separate blog that maybe only SB’s can read? That would be so helpful. Aside from a couple good friends, (who think its more of a joke) there is no onther person I can really talk too. Aaaaah ladies help me :)

  3. WinterDays says:

    I have found exactly zero of these men on this site. More like,
    1) 60 year old fat balding loser who expects beautiful young women on this site to be his girlfriend and have sex with him for free. Gets angry and calls you a whore when you bring up the topic of money.
    2) Guy who wants to give you five hundred a month but expects you to have spend at least three hours a day, two days a week having sex with him plus unlimited sexy pictures and dirty talk whenever he wants it.
    3) Guy who seems perfect online and discusses an allowance that meets you needs but once you meet in real life he develops amnesia and suddenly turns into guy one or two.
    4) And my personal favorite, Mr. Wants to take you for a “test drive” before he will even discuss money.

  4. julie says:

    i’m wondering what types of sugar babies are out there? Can a single mom be a sugar baby?

    Kinds of sugar babies:

    1. the college girl, needs $ to get by.
    2. the bimbo, pretty but not much upstairs.
    3. the user… gives nothing back but somehow strings the SD along without sex foreverrr…
    4. the kept woman. does nothing. nothing. no hobbies, no schooling, no job…. might do adult work or be a wannabe model or actress. he’s hoping to marry a rich guy and be that wife all our sugar daddies cheat on with us. It’s a cycle, one day our husbands will have SB’s.
    5. the spoiled girl. has lived a life of wealth and is now seeking more wealth.
    6. business girl. looking for someone to set her up with her own gig so she can stop being an SB.
    7. ??? i welcome everyone to share.

  5. flyr says:

    @LO “flyr we’d be so good together…lol”

    two moths to flame

  6. DianaSBinOC says:

    @Alicia –

    Are you referring to not being able to log in because your acct has been blocked? This happened to me about a month ago but the SA admin was really great in getting my profile back up right away. It took less than 48 hours after I responded to their email.

    @ Jersey – it weird it was showing then disappeared then reappeared. Ohh did I post this last comment to the wrong topic? I can’t keep up either lol

  7. Lo says:

    flyr we’d be so good together…lol

  8. SugarySpicey says:

    Alicia – we’ve moved on to the next blog. It usually takes a day for the review to complete, it can happen completely at random or because a user reported you.

  9. Alicia says:

    How long does it take for the fraud department to investigate your profile? All I did was change my email address to an .edu email since I am now enrolled in college. Why did this happen?

  10. Angeleyes says:

    I have met some interesting guys on the but the most intriguing is my current SD who happens to be a little bit of each! Do to his business deals he travels extensively (with me by his side more times than not) he is a great mentor and has given me great career advice and introduced me to some great connections. After being on the site for almost a year and running into dead ends I am happy that I was patient and found someone who knows exactly what the site is set up for. Anyone else with lots of luck?

  11. CurvaciousVickie says:

    I’m enjoying reading everyone’s opinion. I’m not a new SB, but I’m not a pro. I could learn a lot more. I have a question… I’m 25 and I meet an older gentlemen outside of these social sites and he’s interested, would I be out of line to mention him being in a possible SD/SB relationship? (If I’m making any sense)

  12. Lo says:

    flyr what’s your sign?

  13. flyr says:

    Wow this blog is moving fast, it’s like walking out of the picture for a quick bag of popcorn and missing 2 hours of the movie.

    RE Discussions not following blog topic- The blog topic is like the scrap of paper tucked into the book as a placemarker that you often forget to advance. The conversation continues in all its amazing directions. When you finish the book you realize that the note was to return an important call.

    Re Google Voice – My vote would be no as the content is harvested, exploited and preserved.

    GTT – Sounds like you are a relationship for technical proficiency. The difference between a Ferrari on a 3 year lease and a weekend rate on a Hertz Mustang (with full insurance) As a word of caution, NEVER buy a used rental car, especially in a city that has a race track.

    Early reservations – We are gifted with a subconscious center that alerts us to stuff that our analytical filters ignore. Listen to the little voice and only disregard it when you have established that it is wrong or you can accept the consequences .

  14. Jersey Darling says:

    @Diana – Your post is still on the most recent topic.

  15. DianaSBinOC says:

    Wait did the astrological sign posts get removed? Why was that? Seemed like an interesting topic. I was waiting to hear from the SDs as to what was their experience with certain signs.

  16. DianaSBinOC says:

    @ Principium –
    “I used to be Mr. Spoilt myself but somehow managed to morph into a virtual lover. I blame DianaSBinOC”

    Haha I was just about to comment on the actual blog topic. I totally missed posting the sugar D’s I’ve had in the past.

    I would say the Virtual Lover has been the best and most generous thus far. The men that seem to want in person fun all seem to hinge on the “cheaper than the escorts I’ve paid for ” mindset. So I have yet to meet anyone off any of these sites. I didn’t really go looking for sugar when I found it in the past but these men happily found me elsewhere. That’s what initially tweaked my interest in joining a site that is specifically for mutually beneficial arrangements. A place where a woman could be honest about desiring a man that has more to offer than being “oral gifted”.

    Seriously that term will always creep me out.

    I started talking to two new pots this week so we’ll see where that goes. One I already know is lying about a specific detail so I’m wondering what else he’s lying about. I did give him an opening to come clean about something but instead he just went mute. I’m going to give him one more shot at coming clean and if he doesn’t well it’s curtains for him. The other seems like a total fake. Too many inconsistencies. I have to add that I’m getting many more contacts in my inbox this time around. I mean serious a spike in messages. I’m wondering is the sugar bowl drying up or do people really like my profile picture of my legs and chin?

    Correction I did have a bit of sugar from SA but it was all virtual yet again.

  17. Rosie says:

    “So do any Suger Mamma or Suger Daddy consider an arrangements with a married woman who is in an open relationship? Wanted to know before I decide to sign up. Thank you!” -Arlene C.

    Yes, there are married women on SA. I’m not sure how to do a search for it, but going back through old blog comments, I saw there used to be a married female blogger on here. Good luck!

  18. rukidding says:

    90% of these comments aren’t even about the blog topic. Wow.

  19. Noob_SD says:

    @ lil_tm Went stargazing without me, huh?

    Sorry about that … :) Let me make it up to you. How about I cook for you ?

  20. lonomo says:

    sweet, where can we find the link to your blog

  21. SugarySpicey says:

    Lo – I’m actually working on a blog post for it, I think there might be others who find it useful.

  22. lonomo says:

    yeah in terms of sex he’s definitely less creepy than any guy I’ve met on here I’m just not sure with the whole traveling thing etc. Spicey if you get a spare moment anytime today or tomorrow or whenever, I sent you an email about verifying subs and potential dangers surrounding domming

  23. SugarySpicey says:

    Lo – meet him, take it slow, and don’t have sex until you want to have sex. Everything doesn’t need to be a clear cut “arrangement” if you just protect yourself and don’t put out until you’ve been woo’d to the point of wanting to put out.

  24. EllenSugarB says:

    Lo, which guy? I cant seem to find whom you are referring to

  25. Tina says:

    @RDamien: good luck my dear! :)

  26. RDamien says:

    gtt_envy One date a month seems infrequent, but I guess it’s really not in this context. And it shouldn’t matter once you got to know each other. It’s just that initial period of getting acquainted that needs to be addressed.

    I was worried about the same situation you describe. Busy schedules dont allow for any comfort to build, but then I thought I’d be really put off by “acting” and/or discomfort. I ended up carving out time specifically to get to know someone and rolled the dice. We’ll see how it goes.

    Meanwhile please note I’m a rank amateur at all this! Just giving my take. Sounds like you enjoyed yourself so hopefully things work out for you. Good luck!

  27. Tina says:

    @Principium: what, you’re going to throw it out there and not pony up? I think the budding blogmance is in reference to YOU Romeo 😉

  28. Jersey Darling says:

    I wonder if anyone else here has cam experience? I’d be curious to hear how they feel about it.

  29. lil_tm says:

    “thanks lil_tm. I have had similar offers from people on this website for a skype encounter. You are much more brave than myself to have indulged. I’m always weary of such propositions as I fear the footage may end up going viral on the internet one day.”

    Well, that is an interesting point.
    I’ve always thought of that when it comes to sending risque pics and I’ve never done a video with a bf due to that fear, but I suppose this guy could have shared it with cyberspace.

    But like with so many other bullets I’ve been fortunate enough to dodge, it was fun while it happened! 😉

  30. Principium says:

    @ Miss Knowsy: That is something for me to know and for you NOT to know! 😛

  31. EllenSugarB says:

    thanks lil_tm. I have had similar offers from people on this website for a skype encounter. You are much more brave than myself to have indulged. I’m always weary of such propositions as I fear the footage may end up going viral on the internet one day.

  32. lonomo says:

    okay ummm what should i do about this guy? Should I meet him anyway? I’m just hesitant because this doesn’t sound like a straightforward type of SD

  33. Jersey Darling says:

    @Prince you never answered who had the budding blog romance!

  34. Principium says:

    BTW, not all providers are always totally acting. Just like anything else in life, many factors come into play. The sense of empowerment release the uninhibited and adventurous beast that lies within almost every woman.

    They exist in every walk of life, IRL, Sugar or Hobby. Yum!

  35. Jersey Darling says:

    @GTT, I’ve always thought based on your posts the provider route would be the best way to go for you. Try it a few times and see if it stays as good as the first time was.

  36. Principium says:

    @ GTT: that one sounds like a great Provider and you may want to consider making her an AFT provider, but before you get all carried away, remember the # 3 maxim of Hobbying: The four F’s.

    # 1 play it safe and don’t catch anything (applies to every realm)

    # 2 is don’t get busted by Uncle LEO. Finding one’s name as a john on Google search is a real B*tch.

    Sobering thoughts, but always need to be reminded & remembered!

  37. Tina says:

    OMG Dorky 717 *giggle* I say the phrase “go go gadget arms” often for something I do at my non-profit hobby………

  38. SugarySpicey says:

    GTT – those are actually great tips on how an SB should behave, it makes an arrangement so much more fun when the SD is put completely at ease. Thanks for sharing!

  39. Tina says:

    @gtt_envy: perhaps you should try to change the nature of your dates with your SBs? I can understand that you have limited time, but maybe a longer visit once a month, at least in the beginning, work out better for you? Also, what age range are you looking at? Perhaps going a little older might give you what you’re looking for in terms of sexual freedom.

    I’m not judging, do what works for you. Companionship is a wonderful thing, and as long as you are happy and finding what you need/want who is to judge?

    Are you looking for anything out of the ordinary sexually? Fetishes you might actually be trying to act out that you haven’t admitted? Or are you just looking for that true passion between two compatible people?

    Inquiring mind wants to know :)

  40. Tina says:

    1027 – ouch! Did you ever get the poster of the money one? I can’t remember the number…..crap…..

  41. gtt_envy says:

    I realized after a long time in the sugar world that finding the type of SB I’m looking for is almost impossible and I headed to delve into the world of a hobbyist last night.

    Given my travel, work schedule, and time with my son it’s always a challenge to find a SB that is game for my allowance of $1250-$1500/mo, 1 date a month, plus travel. Then if they cancel or it goes bad like she drinks too much and gets sick………..grrrrr then there went my once fun SB experience for the month.

    Regardless of communication there just isn’t enough face time and I started thinking and looking at expenditures. I spent $8749 in the last 3 months on a SB and looking back totally not worth it. It’s always the physical piece that is lacking the communication piece is always there for the most part. Once playtime began it usually seemed liked two giraffes trying to dance or there were major inhibitions. Drawing lines in the sand while attempting to be intimate can be a mood killer and add to the natural awkwardness that is already there.

    I attribute this to lack of a emotional connection, true passion on her part, and lack of time in general. So, I decided to change gears and played hobbyist for a night.

    Low and behold it was everything I was missing even though my brain knew it was a good case of acting on her part. There was no feeling out period or anything I had a drink……she gave me a massage we chit chatted felt very natural, she started to walk around the room turning lights off, and lighting candles, all while saying things like “These candles smell so good” “Where did you get them” once in the bed general caresses, kisses, I just kept thinking
    “Damn girl is on her game……..like white on rice!” etc etc etc this isn’t a porn blog so I’ll keep the rest for the imagination.

    No inhibition, no hesitance, no pauses, and it sure was fun…..way cheaper…..and I didn’t feel like I was coercing, going to fast, too far, it felt like two adults doing what adults do except she was 23 and I’m 37.

    My brain is still processing everything that went on and I’m still not sure how I feel about it. If I could just take my experience with her and put that in a SB that would be perfecto!

  42. DorkyGuy says:

    lol! they should have added “down by the river” to the end of the sentence!

    btw, 1027 is one of my favorites… 123 is up there too

  43. Tina says:

    Dorky: hey baby, wanna come back to my sex tarp? (xkcd 1101)

  44. Tina says:

    @Dorky: you live in a conundrum my dear! Love /hate relationships….such torture

  45. DorkyGuy says:

    LOL! So by extension, if I say I [b]love[/b] drama, what does that mean?

  46. Tina says:

    Hahaha too perfect for this blog: xkcd . com / 1124

  47. Tina says:

    @Dorky: here’s to hoping that your nerdy girl love interest is more Star Wars Episode IV, V or VI than Misery! EEEEESH!

    (and we love you too you nerd you!)

  48. DorkyGuy says:

    Tina, Jersey, love you nerdy girls!

    With my luck though, I’ll fall in love with a nerdy girl some day, and her idea of role play will be Kathy Bates from Misery.

  49. Arlene C. says:

    So do any Suger Mamma or Suger Daddy consider an arrangements with a married woman who is in an open relationship? Wanted to know before I decide to sign up. Thank you!

  50. Arlene C. says:

    So do any SM or SD consider an arrangements with a married woman who is in an open relationship? Wanted to know before I decide to sign up. Thank you!

  51. Tina says:

    I dunno Spicey. Perhaps TM and RD? JD and RD? Principium and himself and anyone else? If he’s referring to me and Dorky, that’s old news. I’ve had a blog crush on the Dorkster for something like 2 years now. Nerds of a feather geek together, after all 😉

  52. SugarySpicey says:

    Tina, my typing hand and I are developing a deep and meaningful relationship, as it appears are TM and her own. Perhaps it’s that?

  53. Tina says:

    @Principium: hmmm, to which blossoming blogmance do you speak? I see a few potentials……..

  54. SugarySpicey says:

    I know what happens when you’re wearing your business socks, Princi, it was #15 on my humping songs blog. 😉

  55. lil_tm says:

    “The hand ain’t what I’m looking for”

    I like a good, large hand attached to some nice, thick phalanges. yummy. 😀

  56. Principium says:

    Spicey, we ought to stop appearing and disappearing at the same time, or else peep may start talking!

    OK, off I go now… BZ day!

  57. Principium says:

    @ Dorky: “I can see Principium, advising the young padawan fellating his impressive member (an elegant weapon, for a more civilized age).

    As she struggles to take it all, he looks down into her tear-filled eyes, and in a voice that conveys centuries of accumulated wisdom, says simply: “Do. Or do not. There is no try.” ”

    You are by far the funniest creature. Touche Sire…

    On a separate note: I can detect another blogmance blossoming. Anyone else see that too?

  58. SugarySpicey says:

    ^ The hand ain’t what I’m looking for 😉

  59. lil_tm says:

    “last night I was Hand Solo”

    Hey…we’ve all either been there or are currently there. 😉

    It’s a matter of finding someones hand you prefer more than your own. 😀

  60. Jersey Darling says:

    @RDamien – It’s alright, I didn’t get to be Princess Laid :(

  61. Tina says:

    RDamien: no, no Jedi master, Sith Lord he is

    Dorky: and why is it that I just pictured you as a little green man with pointy ears? *giggle*

  62. RDamien says:

    Haha lil that’s a good story. Bonus points for Coming to America reference.

    I must be doing something wrong. Principium is a Jedi master and last night I was Hand Solo :(

  63. Mimi says:

    WOw! A Mr. Provider would be nice on so many levels. Then of course I definitly provide and return his favors back to him!!! Whats wrong with helping for the right reasons and intentions. I also don’t gety why people use people whereas I am not like that at all!!! Infact I have always been a wanna be player, yet just never had the heart, but then I’d get played on in the end!

  64. lil_tm says:

    “@lil_tm … it’s cool … I won’t spoil the party … you ladies continue the fun … good night”

    Went stargazing without me, huh? :)

    “I’m trying to think who Lil_Tm reminded me of? Hmmm?! Both Joysee & Lil have exotic looks.”
    It’s the green eyes and dark hair :)

    “Virtual Lover… uh whaaat??? Do you mean to tell me that there are SDs out there that will give us an allowance for nothing more than a mere virtual relationship? Please do share if you have had this experience and it has not been boring.”

    I’m not sure about an allowance, but I have had one experience.
    I was having a lonely evening at home one night with a bottle of wine and decided to get on chat roulette.
    Well, I came across a guy who offered to paypal me $ to Skype with him in a bra and panties. His point was that there was no risk for stds, etc doing it this way.
    Since I was pretty inebriated and feeling frisky..I did it.
    I actually had a great time. Danced a little, did a few naughty things…woke up the next morning and have heart palpitations as I tried to recall all the details Lol.

    Speaking of chat roulette, the first time I was one there years ago with some girlfirends, we encountered a guy who begged us to tell him what to do.
    So we kind of did the whole replay of when Eddie Murphy meets his Queen to Be in Coming to America.

    Bark like a dog, hop on one leg, etc..then we he started riding a broomstick across the living room, so I told him to shove it up his behind and he actually did it!! Sicko. That’s a crazy website. Everyone should do it at least once. 😀

  65. Lala says:

    I’m a new sugar B from Johannesburg. I haven’t met any SD’s yet on the site. I need a bit of advice.. I’m willing to travel and meet a SD but I’m not sure how safe it is to Do so and how do I know he’s not lying to me when he’s promising me anything? Please assist :)

  66. EllenSugarB says:

    …and one point for Dorky…

  67. Jersey Darling says:

    Dorky… are these the things you think when someone is going down on you?

    Don’t even try to wiggle your way out of this one, we know it is!

  68. DorkyGuy says:

    I can see Principium, advising the young padawan fellating his impressive member (an elegant weapon, for a more civilized age).

    As she struggles to take it all, he looks down into her tear-filled eyes, and in a voice that conveys centuries of accumulated wisdom, says simply: “Do. Or do not. There is no try.”

  69. FatBastardSD says:

    @Principium

    You need a new handle with that photo of yours. I suggest you use Darth SugarDaddy.

    “You will now feel the full power of my abs!”

  70. EllenSugarB says:

    James Johnson – “I’m not sure how to approach getting the 10k I need.” If you had been in an arrangement before I would simply say that this is the allowance that you received in the past. Since it seems as though you have not been in an arrangement – I would explain that you have budgeted your monthly expenses to be about $10k per month. Don’t be shy, it’s ok to state what you are looking for. It’s realistic not to expect it right away. Also, I agree that saying you need money a.s.a.p. is NOT a good idea for a number of reasons exceeding your not wanting to seem desperate. Further, I wouldn’t advise giving a stranger the kind of perceived power that comes along with your dependency on them. On the flip side, i’ve seen quite a few men be manipulated out of millions with no better an explanation than ,”but she was dependent on me.” Sad but true. But I don’t think we are trying to be that kind of emotional vampire now, are we?

    Also, I have a question…were you bisexual before, or did you decide to try relationships with men because you need money right now?

  71. Principium says:

    Just to throw this in: I can smell Beck(y)

    Nite all…

  72. EllenSugarB says:

    Jeansandtshirt….hopefully you come back to check our responses regarding your 12 month long $6k per month SB who lies incessantly and doesn’t have a sexually intimate relationship with you.

    I’m not going to tell you that she doesn’t deserve the allowance. I’m not going to tell you that she is full of it or not worth it. I’m not going to tell you to dump her and find another SB. I can’t say that I know enough details about your situation to make that judgement call. I WILL tell you to seriously evaluate, asses, and communicate your expectations of your SB with your SB. If she can meet and exceed what you are looking for, then I think thats great and I wish you two luck. If there is something lacking in the relationship, explicitly state what is lacking and how you would like to see things going between you two. Set a finite period of time for things to evolve into how you want them to be. If at the end of that predetermined period of time things are going great – wonderful. If at the end of that predetermined period of time things aren’t going as you would like them to be – then it is time to cut the cord.

    People will manipulate you – IF YOU LET THEM. It is much harder to be manipulated if you have clear boundaries.

  73. Tina says:

    Bedtime for me too

  74. Principium says:

    Trust & verify. That’s how I roll.

    OK Dames, I’m out. Gonna go watch a “movie” 😉

  75. Tina says:

    Alas, I’ve been told I’m addictive 😉

  76. Principium says:

    Tina, no need to stay. It’s purely NSA 😛

  77. Principium says:

    Older, French & Blonde? Is that code word for… Oh never mind. I’m just being baaad. Where’s Spicey?!

  78. Tina says:

    Sorry, there isn’t any city in Cali that I’ve thought of living in. I wouldn’t mind to visit, but wouldn’t want to stay.

  79. Beach_Girl says:

    Princip~ Where ever in Cali then… I can’t remember where you are at! geezzz I’m blonde, french and getting older :( lol

  80. EllenSugarB says:

    hahaha “between 17 and 70”

  81. Tina says:

    Yes dear, I’m in Austin

  82. Principium says:

    Why would you fly to LaLa Land when I’m 100 miles south of there?!

  83. Principium says:

    Austin TX? That is the only place in TX I’d ever consider living in. I bleed blue blood but I take the red pill 😉

  84. Principium says:

    How old would you like me to be?

    Chronologically I am almost 50.

    Mentally, it depends. I’d say between 17 to 70 depending on my mood.

    Physically: look wise, maybe low 40’s. Feeling like 80 😛

  85. Beach_Girl says:

    Princip~ I’ll give you and exam, but you have to fly me out to LalaLand 😀

  86. Tina says:

    Principium: come on down to the ATX, and it won’t be your prostate I’m examining!

  87. Beach_Girl says:

    If I say my age, people don’t really believe it..And I’m getting older too :( off to cry in a corner

  88. Principium says:

    So Tina, you wanna give me a digital exam via a via the latex gloves reference? Isn’t Fiddy the age I ought to be getting a prostate exam? Where’s your practice at?

  89. EllenSugarB says:

    hahaha….I lie about my age on the upside quite often, actually. i love to see people’s wide eyed reaction when they say “oh my gosh you look so much younger.”

  90. Tina says:

    tick tock Principium, it’s WAAAAAAAAAY past my bedtime!

  91. Principium says:

    What kind of a dud would lie about being 49 on the upside? 49 Y, 9 M, 29 D, 16 H, 24 M & 48 S… Tick Tock… Tick Tock…

  92. sweetie says:

    Ooooh, it’s on!

  93. Tina says:

    @Principium: Bring. It. On.

  94. Beach_Girl says:

    Principium, hahah yes, my 3$ pair of jeans… they are awesome! I was so excited lol…

  95. sweetie says:

    Yeah, Tina. Just mention boobs and he’s come out.

  96. Principium says:

    @ Tina: go on… Is this a dare or just a stare?

  97. Tina says:

    Sweetie, he’s ignoring my post at the moment 😉

  98. sweetie says:

    P, you’re getting inshpected by the twinkie. How’s that feel?

  99. EllenSugarB says:

    I think principium is younger than 49 and lying about his age…

  100. Principium says:

    BG, I saw your face photo on here. You sent me one when you went shopping for washing up powder and ended with a pair of denims 😉

  101. sweetie says:

    Live consultation, Tina, tell us every detail of the inspection.

  102. EllenSugarB says:

    * much not muck…lazy typing

  103. Tina says:

    Ahhh Principium, how well you don’t know me. I don’t make empty promises 😉

  104. Principium says:

    I’m seriously considering going virtual. White gloves et al!

  105. sweetie says:

    BG”* aren’t going back up… sheesh, I must be tired!”

    You know that was a Freudian slip…

  106. Principium says:

    I think Tina is goading me. My sword is purple(ish) :)

  107. Tina says:

    *snaps latex gloves* who’s first? 😉

  108. EllenSugarB says:

    Virtual Lover… uh whaaat??? Do you mean to tell me that there are SDs out there that will give us an allowance for nothing more than a mere virtual relationship? Please do share if you have had this experience and it has not been boring.

    Mr. Spoiler … barf. I don’t particularly like it when men lead with spoiling, or money as it seems slightly tacky. Spoiling and money will inevitably be a part of sugar, but when a SD leads with “oh look at how much I’m going to spoil you,” it’s muck like a SB leading with “oh look at how good I’m going to blow you.” Er…nevermind…lol

  109. Beach_Girl says:

    * aren’t going back up… sheesh, I must be tired!

  110. sweetie says:

    Tina, are you the doctor?

  111. Beach_Girl says:

    Principium~ you missed the pics… mine are going back up, sorry. But you already know what I look like :mrgreen:

  112. sweetie says:

    The boobs have left the playground. I’m sure they’ll be back on display just for you, P.

    By the way, what’s up with Russian? I haven’t seen her around in a while, missing her quite a bit. Russian, please come and play.

  113. Tina says:

    A green or red “sword” sounds like a condition a doc needs to see you for…..

  114. Tina says:

    dun dun dun dun da dun dun da duuuuuuuun

  115. sweetie says:

    Hehehe!

    P “I can be either Sith or a Jedi. Same sword, different cloak! So take your dick, er, pick “

  116. sweetie says:

    P, that selfie is hilarious!

  117. Principium says:

    I can be either Sith or a Jedi. Same sword, different cloak! So take your dick, er, pick 😛

  118. Tina says:

    yikes! That bet is definitely too rich for my blood! Nuh-uh!

  119. Principium says:

    Well, booo. I was trying to take a video of myself in the shower. I like to up the ante!

  120. Principium says:

    I’m trying to think who Lil_Tm reminded me of? Hmmm?! Both Joysee & Lil have exotic looks.

  121. Tina says:

    And Principium, dear, you missed them. Everyone had a pic up almost at the same time (with the exception of me)

  122. Tina says:

    Oh holy crap a Sith Lord is upon us……

  123. Principium says:

    Well, where are the boobs?!

  124. sweetie says:

    Looking at your gravatar and reading ” hahhaha, I always think what I shouldn’t lol…” is a perfect match. Those legs/shoes just fit in there perfectly.

  125. Beach_Girl says:

    Sweetie~ hahhaha, I always think what I shouldn’t lol…

  126. sweetie says:

    You’re welcome, dear.

  127. sweetie says:

    hehehe, let’s not think about that, BG.

  128. Beach_Girl says:

    Sweetie~ thank you 😀

  129. Beach_Girl says:

    Jersey~ you are very pretty… people like pretty!!! :mrgreen: god only knows what they are doing to your photos… lol

  130. sweetie says:

    JD, you’re one popular lady.

  131. Jersey Darling says:

    It’s all over Tumblr too… wow. My mind is blown. Posted on pages with 100+ notes on it!

    Thank god it’s a photo with my face obscured! Scary though! It’s even on other websites in different languages.

  132. sweetie says:

    Very nice, missy!!! Looking good, indeed!

  133. sweetie says:

    BG, thank you!!!! 😉

  134. Beach_Girl says:

    Jersey~ you got mail

    Sweetie~ I sent you the pic I had here 😀

  135. Tina says:

    Stupid Fruit Ninja game…..damn addictive!!!!!!

  136. sweetie says:

    Everybody showing theirs… naughty you!
    BG, I didn’t get to see you! :(

  137. Jersey Darling says:

    Beach_Girl do you still have my email address? Email me and I’ll tell you… if not it’s puffin 532 at gmail

  138. Beach_Girl says:

    Jersey~ how do you reverse search a photo? I am not tech at all….

  139. Noob_SD says:

    @lil_tm … it’s cool … I won’t spoil the party … you ladies continue the fun … good night

  140. Jersey Darling says:

    Woah! So I reverse image searched one of my corset images from back in my modeling days (I always do that before posting a photo here to make sure it’s not traceable to me) and it is ALL over pinterest! Gah! Glad my face was obscured…

    I think that’s enough pics for me for tonight!

  141. lil_tm says:

    “Now why would you say that? I have inner beauty .. And obviously I have room for lots of it :)”

    hmmm…I think you may have misinterpreted my comment : )

  142. Tina says:

    @JD: it’s what I do babe 😉

    @Beachie: ooooohhhh you a naughty girl!

  143. Tina says:

    : mrgreen :

    without the spaces, of course

  144. Noob_SD says:

    Then I will have to assume that woman in the pic with you is the perfect kind..the kind that doesn’t talk Now why would you say that? I have inner beauty .. And obviously I have room for lots of it :)

  145. Beach_Girl says:

    Tina~ both :8 lol… I don’t know how to make the green smile :(

  146. Jersey Darling says:

    @Tina you make it sound sexy!

    I have a couple corset photos, the trick is finding one that hasn’t been posted on another site already…

  147. Tina says:

    @Beachie: down where? The gutter or licking my cream filling with JD? hehehehe

  148. Rosie says:

    @Spicey

    lil_tm had a sexy corset photo up for a hot minute. Lots of sexy, sexy going on this blog today. I’m off to meet friends for a celebratory night cap to honor a friend’s job promotion. Have an awesome night, sugar sugars! :-*

  149. lonomo says:

    not my real hair color in this photo…please don’t everybody try and pile ontop of me at once

  150. Beach_Girl says:

    Damien lol…
    Tina~ Thank god, I didn’t want to be alone down there!!! 😀

  151. Tina says:

    JD: you can pull off my frock but only if you lick the cream filling first

    (there you go RD)

  152. RDamien says:

    *Cream filling joke goes here*

  153. SugarySpicey says:

    ^ But only if said Twinkie keeps those glasses on.

  154. Tina says:

    trying….to…..pull…..mind….from….gutter……not…….working…….

  155. Jersey Darling says:

    @ Tina – I’d love to remove the frilly frock and then eat the animated twinkie… 😉

    (get your minds out of the gutter!)

  156. Tina says:

    Hmmm, I wonder if there is a SD with a fetish for an animated twinkie in a frilly frock 😉

  157. SugarySpicey says:

    I missed another corset pic too? Damn! You bloggies move fast!

  158. Rosie says:

    @lil_tm

    Watch “Dead Giveaway – Charles Ramsey”

  159. Jersey Darling says:

    I’m sensing a corset trend! We could all have around of corset pics :mrgreen:

    @Tina I’m appreciating the variety! This is eye candy for sure and it’s interesting to see everybody’s idea of sexy

  160. lil_tm says:

    Nuh uh spicey..we’re just shell shocked at Jersey’s boobs..we’ll come to our senses in a few. 😉

  161. Beach_Girl says:

    Boobs!!! lol…
    yeah, my boobies aren’t all that… I want Jerseys boobs 😛

  162. SugarySpicey says:

    I missed all the fun, boo!

  163. Tina says:

    My boobs are scared of JDs….they’ve run off to hide so the French Maid is all you’re getting!

    And thanks Beachie :)

  164. lil_tm says:

    ““Hide your kids, hide your wife…and hide your husbands…” lil_tm, that was for you!”

    I’m going to force myself not to watch it because I know if I do, it’ll be in my head all night lol

  165. Beach_Girl says:

    Damien~ Thank you, is that you? you should smile, you look nice 😀

  166. Jersey Darling says:

    @RDamien – Thank you! Face+ boobs = power combo :)

  167. Jersey Darling says:

    I want to know how Principium gets us all to do whatever he wants in one sentence…

    You all have lovely boobies! The only thing that would make them better is seeing them more 😛

  168. RDamien says:

    Beach Girl I saw you for a brief minute, very pretty indeed!

    Jersey that’s your best pic yet, that I’ve seen at least.

    lil is getting hotter too. You’re all so photogenic geez.

  169. Beach_Girl says:

    Tina~ I think Jersey’s boobs puts mine to shame too, 😀 You do have nice eyes

  170. Tina says:

    Awww, thanks Beachie! I think my eyes are my best feature (although my boobs aren’t too bad, even though JDs put mine to shame)

  171. lil_tm says:

    “I like quite walks along the beach too”

    Then I will have to assume that woman in the pic with you is the perfect kind..the kind that doesn’t talk 😉

  172. Tina says:

    Hold up, wtf RD? Huh? ‘splain yourself mister!

  173. Beach_Girl says:

    RDamien~ You gonna be arm candy ? lol…

  174. Beach_Girl says:

    Tina~ looking good girlie!!! so pretty!

  175. Jersey Darling says:

    @RDamien – $100 a visit and I expect you to be ready at the drop of a hat!

  176. Jersey Darling says:

    You know you all are keeping me from going to bed because I don’t want to miss anything!

  177. RDamien says:

    Ok Tina convinced me, I’m going SB. I hope you girls are generous.

  178. Beach_Girl says:

    Thank you Rosie ..

  179. lonomo says:

    yeah P I’m thinking those girls might be the super high maintenance cliche SB type–
    Jersey ya it might be fake now that you mention it
    lil tm-I wrote about it in the last blog, we determined he’s legit as in charity function/museum/travel/business mogul type SD but we haven’t determined if he’s the allowance type of SD..lol. P thinks he’s more a potential boyfriend than an SD

  180. Beach_Girl says:

    Thank you Jersey girl…

  181. Rosie says:

    Lmao! Love Noob_SD’s gravatar! Pretty, Beach_Girl! What a sexy bunch we have up in heeeeaaayah.

  182. Tina says:

    Ok Beachy, just for you! Give it time to update……….

  183. Beach_Girl says:

    lil_tm~ I don’t think so… I love those shoes girlie!!! if I could get them I would…. 😀

  184. Rosie says:

    @lil_tm

    Omg. That situation with the fake married SD sounds horrible. I think all SBs should get google voice numbers. So easy to use and you can keep your true identity private until trust has been established! No one wants a crazy woman showing up on their doorstep at 2:00 AM with a hatchet! (“Hide your kids, hide your wife…and hide your husbands…” lil_tm, that was for you! Lol!)

  185. lil_tm says:

    Yay! Beach Girl joining in on the fun :) And yes, you’re better looking than those shoes. 😉

    @ Prince re: boobage. I’ll do it since we’re already hoeing ourselves out today lol

    @Tina-I love love love minions and that movie. One of my all time faves.

  186. Jersey Darling says:

    @BeachGirl Beautiful!

  187. Beach_Girl says:

    Tina~ thank you, but now it won’t change back… AHHHHHHHH!!!! lol I didn’t get to see you, not fair….:(

  188. Noob_SD says:

    Oops … my gravatar didn’tcome out right that time …sorry lil_tm … I had a nice picture of walking by the beach

  189. Noob_SD says:

    @ lil_tm I won’t be taking any classes soon, but I’m always thirsty for knowledge.

    I like quite walks along the beach too … :)

  190. Tina says:

    Why helloooooo Beachy you hot momma! 😉

  191. lil_tm says:

    “Told you guys lil was hot.”

    Thank you Mr. Sexy Back. Not too shabby yourself. 😉

  192. Rosie says:

    What the heck? is the blog posting comment section spazzing out on anyone else? I’ll try to post and it won’t post so I have to re-type.

  193. Tina says:

    I’m sorry my dears, but the pic was a limited time engagement. I’m actually quite shy about my looks, so I prefer to be as private as possible unless I know the person. Plus I take HORRIBLE pictures (IMO), so I prefer to be known in person instead of through pics.

    @RD: that was the best compliment you’ve had in a long while? My dear, you have an amazing physique, which should be admired vocally and orally 😉

  194. lil_tm says:

    “I think we all want different things, the way we present ourselves isn’t always the way we are…”

    This is true, although I try to be up front and honesty. I think the only dishonesty is putting my best foot forward, even though I have flaws that no one sees until they get to know me a little better. I don’t believe that is too bad.
    One of the last potSDs I was talking to turned out to be a fake. He said he wasn’t married. Well, one night he called me while I was working out so I missed it. Sent him a quick text. Later that eve, someone called me from the same area code, different number.
    The following morning he left me a VM saying his WIFE knew about me and the reason he knew was because she left a note next to his phone with my name and question mark.
    She obviously got my name from my VM message.
    Anyway, he wanted to talk to me so we could prepare lies in case she asked him and/or called me again.
    This was my second bad sugar experience. (remember member rubbing guy?)
    At least I found out before I even met him. No thank you..I don’t want the drama.

    Ain’t nobody got time for that! (wosie ;))

  195. James Johnson says:

    p.s this is a real post and I am not in anyway trying to get over on my SD he is cool and generous, we havent met. .and this is my first SD so I asked for help on how to approach an issue I am personally dealing with.. soo yup no Golddiggers over here ::))

  196. Rosie says:

    lil_tim

    Au naturale is fun too, but I think I have ADD because I get bored with my own hand. Lol! Hilarious about your friend! What the….??? People are funny! Loving the new gravatar, btw. Gorgeous!!

    I love that they used the Natasha Poly and Pierre Gérald spread from Vogue Paris for this blog post.

    Oh, I love how the blog photo is Natasha Poly and Pierre Gerald. Talk about a SB/SD couple!

  197. Beach_Girl says:

    ok, me for a few minutes 😀

  198. Principium says:

    @ Lo: these SDs seem to go for the epitome of male hypergamy, which is triggered by a woman’s youth & beauty (the latter is of course in the eye of the beholder)

    May I remind my hypergamous brethren of this quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson:

    “Beauty without grace is the hook without the bait”

  199. James Johnson says:

    @wosie – thanks for your feedback,”luckily I didn’t tell him I needed it a.s.a.p.” i think this SD is one of those rare types, he is really cool and I let him know I needed the money for tuition and living expenses, he still talks to me and is exited about meeting me so I don’t really think he may see it as a big issue.(Or at least I hope). I haven’t come off desperate, I’ve just been playing it cool waiting for the guy to send me to his state, so we can meet and discuss on a face to face basis. And as for my profile it just really the norm. at least I think it is.. here is part of it. “”Hey I’m James I am a funny, mature, intelligent, adventurous guy.I love to have fun going out to restaurants and eating really good food. I am a very witty and trustworthy person and I have really cool interests, I like going swimming, hiking, shopping, going to the beach and having fun playing pool, I am very outgoing I enjoy going out and trying new things and meeting new people. A couple of my favorite things to do is rock climbing, skydiving and kayaking. I like to be daring. I love traveling and going places. ” its longer I just don’t wanna bore anyone… thanks again ..I have been still revising it because I want it to be perfect..sucks i gotta wait 24 hrs tho..(this is the older profile. .I have my newest one pending)

  200. Principium says:

    I’m gonna do a brand new Gravatar later on with some man cleavage 😛

    Dare issued and & gauntlet thrown at the SBs who need to show us their boobage. Just because JerZee has enough for almost 5, does not exonerate the rest of you slackers!

  201. Beach_Girl says:

    lil_tm~ Heck no… I love those shoes!!!! LOVE! is that you in the pic or did you change it?

  202. Jersey Darling says:

    @Lo – That post is so clearly fake I wouldn’t give it any thought personally.

  203. RDamien says:

    jeansandtshirt76 says:
    “I’m thinking I’m being played.”

    You think? That cant be real.

    Told you guys lil was hot.

  204. Beach_Girl says:

    Lo~ I agree, there are many SBs that take generous SDs for granted. I think many SBs are too quick to dismiss some SDs as well. I know one SD who is an awesome person and one SB said he was a fake… I know it’s not so…
    I think we all want different things, the way we present ourselves isn’t always the way we are…

  205. lil_tm says:

    @ Jerzie. Thanks…much appreciated. :)

    Beach Girl-I know you’re better looking than those shoes. 😉

    @Lo. I agree that it is a shame. I see it all the time, although I don’t think it would happen to me because I prefer dominant men.
    Did you ever have that phone call from yesterday?

  206. Lo says:

    why is it that the most generous SD’s seem to end up with terrible SBs like the one described above? I mean since I’ve been on this blog that’s been my observation

  207. lil_tm says:

    “Lol! So true! I was out of the country on business, then when I returned, the BF left so it’s been almost two weeks for me! The Hitachi, Rocket Pocket and the Orgasmic Love Egg have been my bed mates lately”

    Well on the bright side, my potSD is finally coming to town next weekend, so that’s something to look forward to.

    I tend to go the au naturale route, but I don’t mind trying something new..
    I was asking a gay friend of mine today if the frontrunner in his spank bank changes or is always the same..he said he doesn’t ever spank his monkey with his eyes closed. I was like “what!”
    Is that normal?? LOL

  208. Beach_Girl says:

    Wow, are you all posting pics of yourselves?!?!?! I’m not sure I am brave enough, I am older than most of you here!!!! lol

  209. Jersey Darling says:

    @Lil, You are much prettier than the avatars you usually use! Thank you for reposting!

  210. Rosie says:

    “I tend to think it’s because most of are really getting any lately. Because if we were, we wouldn’t be here all the time haha” -lil_tm

    Lol! So true! I was out of the country on business, then when I returned, the BF left so it’s been almost two weeks for me! The Hitachi, Rocket Pocket and the Orgasmic Love Egg have been my bed mates lately! 😉

  211. lil_tm says:

    “I know! I can’t believe it. I’m on the edge of my seat. A lot of strong personalities here for sure. But in a good way. Keeps things interesting. (Even though I’m generally the peacemaker…with Princi!) Lol”

    I tend to think it’s because most of are really getting any lately. Because if we were, we wouldn’t be here all the time haha

  212. Rosie says:

    Going back to Rosie. Wosie feels too 5 yr old Bugs Bunny-Elmer Fudd-like. ❗

  213. lil_tm says:

    Ok Jerzie..one more time…really quick..just for you. :)

  214. Wosie says:

    “Don’t worry, RD. It seems fights break out pretty often here, so I’m sure you’ll get your chance to see the chaos ensue.
    Although it seems we haven’t had one in like….a week?” -lil_tm

    I know! I can’t believe it. I’m on the edge of my seat. A lot of strong personalities here for sure. But in a good way. Keeps things interesting. (Even though I’m generally the peacemaker…with Princi!) Lol

  215. Wosie says:

    @jeansandtshirt76

    Two words. Man up!

  216. lil_tm says:

    “Just wondering if and how you got into and arrangement, was their a period of getting to know each other for 12 months and no sugar, not ever a hint of it, no kissing, no cuddling while watching a movie, always having seperate rooms in hotels while on trips. I’m pretty much just feeling like a bank machine and think it’s time to end it?”

    I believe you are most certainly being played as this seems to be a one sided “arrangement” in her favor.

    Have you been stringing along all this while in the hopes that she will finally offer you some intimacy?
    I don’t believe, and I think most of the girls would agree, that holding out that long is the norm.
    Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but I don’t believe this girl ever plans on sleeping with you. I think she’s milking your kindness and generosity for all it’s worth.
    You seem so sweet. What a shame that there are girls who would take advantage of people this way.

  217. Wosie says:

    @James Johnson

    I can’t speak on the SM side, but those elusive 10K SDs do exist, but are very, very, very (did I mention VERY?)…rare. If you are asking for that type of an allowance, any SD/SM you meet willing to give you that, will want to know exactly what the money is for (living expenses, tuition, car payment, etc). To be honest, it doesn’t look good that you need the money a.s.a.p. Many SDs don’t want to get into an arrangement with someone in a desperate situation (especially for high amounts). If you’re coming across as desperate at all on your profile, that could be why you aren’t having any luck. It’s definitely okay to let your potential SD/SM know you need transportation to the airport.

  218. Jersey Darling says:

    @lil – nice deflection 😛 But until I see your pretty face I won’t be satisfied!

    @Rdamien – I do nothing on film, only in person! 😉

  219. Jersey Darling says:

    I posted my responses to both posts from new people on the last blog. If you guys missed them, you can go check them out there.

    (yes I’m still awake! Shh)

  220. Principium says:

    FWIW, post # 721 from the last blog: I just decided to be a good samaritan (don’t shoot me)

    “jeansandtshirt76 says:
    May 16, 2013 at 7:04 pm
    Gooday SD and SB, hope your all having a wonderfull day.

    I’m looking to get a few opinions. Entered into a arragement with a beautiful lady 12 months ago. She get an allowance of $4000.00 a month which usually turns into $6000, plus jewelry, hotels for her to travel, she drive a new car everything paid for, I give her money for new dresses to go out with friend at hight end clubs, spa retreats for her and her friends, cellphone paid for, gift card etc.. originally we agree to take is slow and she said she did want great sex as part of the arragement said she not looking for a relationship and an arrangement works great for her lifestyle and not something short term, which is what I also want to many fakes as we all know.

    I’ve offered to help her with budget and paying off bills cause she says she has some, she absolutely does not want to discuss anything about this, I’ve recently caught her lying to me about several things. Asking me for money to go see family, gave her money to fly home and stay in hotels. Then she at my house and it slips she didn’t go home to see family, went out partying with friends. I could care less would have given her the money to do that also if she could just be honest. When we go out for a evening dinner at a nice restaurant, she constantly glued to her phone texting.

    I’m thinking I’m being played.

    Just wondering if and how you got into and arrangement, was their a period of getting to know each other for 12 months and no sugar, not ever a hint of it, no kissing, no cuddling while watching a movie, always having seperate rooms in hotels while on trips. I’m pretty much just feeling like a bank machine and think it’s time to end it?”

    Hope he comes back and reads on here…

  221. RDamien says:

    Passionate people sometimes quarrel. Nothing a good motorboating on film cant resolve.

  222. James Johnson says:

    Thanks lil_tm, Im thinking so also, maybe I should go lower and see where I can get.

  223. lil_tm says:

    Do you like bird-watching, stargazing … I can help with that astronomy class, maybe?”

    I won’t be taking any classes soon, but I’m always thirsty for knowledge. 😉

    “So I’ve also learned from this post that I did indeed miss lil’s photo… damn”

    Didn’t look much different than the current one, and we’d much rather stare at your chest pillows. 😀

    “RDamien, there was almost a WWIII breaking out a few blogs back between Joysie & Spicey. I moderated a peace treaty of sorts which was termed clits & tits. You missed that one!”

    Don’t worry, RD. It seems fights break out pretty often here, so I’m sure you’ll get your chance to see the chaos ensue.
    Although it seems we haven’t had one in like….a week?

    @JJ. That is a heck of a lot of $$ to ask for. I’m not even sure how to approach that…maybe someone else does.

  224. Wosie says:

    RE: WWIII, Joisey vs. Spicey

    All I know is I recommended the blog to my SB girlfriend and she sent me and email telling me she hated the blog and there’s nothing but mean girls here. Lol. I used to love reading the blogs so I came and checked it out for myself. Sure enough. All out cat fights going on…tits, clits and fits! 👿 But lately, everyone’s been purrrrrrring nicely! 😆

  225. Jersey Darling says:

    Wait you said III…

    Okay, it’s my eyes playing tricks on me! I think it’s time for me to go to bed!

  226. Jersey Darling says:

    Actually Prince that would probably be WWIII for me… for anyone who’s been counting!

  227. James Johnson says:

    Well I have just started being a SB(1st week in)…Yes guys can be SB’s too. .But I have been on the website seekingarrangment.com and I must say I have seen a lot of SD/SM on the site, Many don’t have pictures and that’s hard cause I have a pic. The first night I set up my profile and got my pic approved I got an email from a then Pot.SD and we have been texting and talking on the phone and I should be going to meet him by next week, due to his travels this week. I’m not sure how to approach getting the 10k I need. He already told me “of course I will give you money but I haven’t given him the number amount because I am afraid, he will think that’s asking a lot seeing as we just met. He wants to fly me to his state and give me spending money and even put me in a hotel so I don’t feel like I have to do anything with him, spend a weekend together and informed me money isn’t an issue “at all” for him. So should I go for it and ask for the college tuition money The other issue is Even though I understand I cannot rush the process too much, I need the cash a.s.a.p. And what the reason might be that more people aren’t writing me back after they view my profile.? I want to continue this but the waiting around for POT’S to reply is kind of making me loose my enthusiasm about this, I really wanted a SM but settled for a SD because, he is really genuinely nice and we get along great…so far .. someone please who is experienced let me know some more tips, I have been doing all of my research from google.com to youtube.com and I want to do this. I need some advice, tips etc. Also I don’t have a car so It would be hard trying to get to a Airport, so is it too much to ask him for transportation to the airport, like a driver or a taxi. Am I thinking too much into stuff.? Help!

    Thanks!

  228. Principium says:

    RDamien, there was almost a WWIII breaking out a few blogs back between Joysie & Spicey. I moderated a peace treaty of sorts which was termed clits & tits. You missed that one!

  229. Principium says:

    I used to be Mr. Spoilt myself but somehow managed to morph into a virtual lover. I blame DianaSBinOC 😀

  230. Jersey Darling says:

    And I was just warming up my camera…

    Wosie – haha, I typically ignore the recent comments section except to check that I’m on the current topic every so often, or when I’m on my phone – it can be easier to get to the newest comments that way sometimes instead of refreshing the page. Mea culpa :)

  231. RDamien says:

    Principium almost had Jersey and Spicey motorboating, damn.

  232. Wosie says:

    I think Mr. Globetrotter fits in with Mr. Warbucks and Mr. Provider as they all are usually frequent travelers. Some SDs are all of the above wrapped into one person.

  233. Wosie says:

    Lol, Jersey. I was sitting here posting away wondering where everyone was, assuming you MUST have seen Lo, tm and Noob here already under Recent Comments(not really used to this blog format) went back and you guys were still chit chatting away in the last topic. You’re right, the convo was getting gooood over on the last one!

  234. Jersey Darling says:

    So I’ve also learned from this post that I did indeed miss lil’s photo… damn :(

  235. Jersey Darling says:

    Woahhh nm – defs not the first comment! My screen is playing tricks on me (I swear!)

  236. Jersey Darling says:

    Why do the new blog posts always come when the convo is getting good?!

    Wosie, I like how you waited to invite us until AFTER you got the first comment 😛

  237. Wosie says:

    In response to the blog topic. The following are the types of SDs I’ve had and my notes on each one based on my personal arrangement experiences:

    Mr. Provider

    This was my shortest arrangement (6 months). Wonderful man, but the provider type really wants you to be available to him always and I mean always! I’m not referring to just sex. I mean last minute dinners, trips and whatever it is he wants to include you in. Now, he will take care of you and every little need you could possibly have, but this type is happier with someone who wants to be a kept woman and not pursue her own things. Didn’t work for me.

    Daddy Warbucks

    My favorite type of SD (my longest arrangement: 18 months). Wants to see his SB accomplish her professional goals and will do everything to help her get there. He isn’t just interested in arm candy, but loves being with a beautiful woman who is also ambitious. He gives a generous allowance and also LOVES seeing his SB’s eyes light up with surprise gifts! He’ll tell you everything you need to know about business and will listen intently to your ideas and give feedback. This type of SD worked really well for me because they typically aren’t needy. They’re too busy jet-setting around the globe running their own businesses and will have a very set schedule to be able to spend time with you. This is especially nice to be able to keep NSA boundaries intact.

    Mr. Spoiler

    I had a Mr. Spoiler SD for a year and IMHO, this is what most women want in a BF too. This type of SD is good to have If you’re already doing well on your own (and don’t have the need to pay for college tuition or basic living expenses), but still not able to (or want to) buy your own Manolos, Louboutins, Hermes or take first class vacations to Paris or remote tropical islands, this SD will give you all those things and some. And if name-brand material possessions or traveling aren’t your thing, this type of SD wants to know what IS your thing and will make sure you have it.

  238. Noob_SD says:

    @lil_tm, Now I have to dust off that telescope in the attic ….

    Do you like bird-watching, stargazing … I can help with that astronomy class, maybe?

  239. Wosie says:

    I stepped away from my desk and missed Tina’s. :-( She only had it up for like, 22 seconds. The boys were the ones changing and rearranging gravies mostly.

  240. lil_tm says:

    haha Noob!

    You look a lot like the guy that lives across the street from me. 😉

  241. Noob_SD says:

    Well, I don’t want to be left out of the Gravatar party …Trying for the first time :)

  242. lil_tm says:

    in her maid outfit…as a minion…I’ll take it. lol

  243. lil_tm says:

    thanks wosie!
    Who did I miss?? I know Tina posted one..maybe she’ll put it back up. : )

  244. Wosie says:

    I second RDamien from the last blog – lil_tm is a hottie and a half!

  245. lil_tm says:

    Yay..a new blog!

  246. Lo says:

    my SD’s so far have been Mr. Nobodies

    jkjk

  247. Angela says:

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