You might have noticed that there are a lot of new Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies in your area lately. We’ve had a lot of media exposure in the past few months, which have brought on a lot of new members. But like all dating websites, the bigger you get, the more likely you are to attract some bad apples. Now we’ve talked about bad apples before and we’ve talked about not getting taken. We have even discussed how to identify the true Sugar Daddies from the splenda variety. But the topic I want to bring up today, is why it is so important to kiss and tell.
Okay so maybe this title is a bit misleading. But safety is always going to be an important topic of discussion for online dating. As we have seen in the media lately, every dating website is susceptible to fraudulent and insincere users. In recent months, Match and Christian Mingle both had serious crimes committed by one of their members. The fact of the matter is, there will always be people who will misuse technology. In some cases, it’s sexual offenders, or violent men seeking victims through a dating website. While we don’t have a fool proof method of preventing these types of people from using SeekingArrangement.com, we do take more precautions than most websites to protect our members.
We approve all profiles inhouse and we have been urging everyone to get background verified, because we want to make sure that those who can not pass a background check are kept off our site. Your personal safety should be your highest priority, and unfortunately you can’t trust everyone you meet, especially on the internet. So you shouldn’t feel bad asking someone to participate in a background check so you know if they pass or fail (and daddies: you shouldn’t make them feel guilty for wanting to make sure).
If you report a member, even if you aren’t sure, you won’t ever be revealed to that member as the one who “kissed and told”. But it’s better to be safe than sorry, and we would rather weed out the bad apples sooner rather than later. So speak up, and don’t be afraid to kiss and tell.
What precautions do you take before going out with a SB/SD?
Ladies: Have you ever ignored, rather than reported suspicious behavior? Why?