Girl meets boy. Boy meets girl. If only it was that simple.
Motives behind Sugar vary based on what each Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby is looking for. Many look for a serious relationship with the option of marriage or something long-term in the end, others may be married and looking into a discreet arrangement. But more often than not, it is used as casual dating with a mutually beneficial twist.
No strings attached goes hand-in-hand with the Sugar Bowl like peanut butter and jelly. Some people prefer only having one, but most people like them together. What happens if the Sugar starts becoming more than an addiction? Instead of being a treat, you start needing it like insulin for a diabetic. What do you do when you find yourself falling in love with your Sugar?
1. Access what you are feeling. Are you really in love or simply infatuated by having someone: Sugar Babies- who is rich and treats you like a princess every time he or she meets with you; Sugar Daddies-who gives you undivided attention and satisfies you in every way.
2. Abort, dive in, or ignore. These are the options you will need to choose from. To abort would mean giving up your Sugar to avoid any awkward arguments or incidents. Diving in would require coming outright with your true feelings. Sugar Daddies keep in mind that if she “reciprocates” you MUST stop the allowance part of the relationship. Sugar Babies, it’s the same for you as well. If a relationship does evolve, then spoiling can resume after the trial a period of non-Sugaring. You can also ignore these feelings and continue on as if nothing is wrong. The latter usually never works and inevitably ends in sour or bitterness.
3. Execution is everything. If you have chosen to dive in and admit to having feelings, you will need a solid plan as to how to break it to your Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby. Choose a meaningful and private location where no one will bother you. Broach the subject at the end of the evening, but carry on the rest of the date as you would any other meeting.
4. The Sugar-less period. Good news! If you made it this far, then everything went well. This is by far the most difficult part, since you will have to undergo a period of time without the financial aspect of the arrangement. Continue to be mutually beneficial, however do not give or expect any money until you can see how each other reacts to this type of setting.
Have you ever fallen in love with Sugar? What happened?
What do you think a Sugar Daddy or Baby should do if they fall in love with his or her Sugar?
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