You’ve purchased your ticket, you’ve bought your dress, just don’t forget to bring your dignity. The Fifty Shades of LA: Sugar Masquerade Ball is one month away–so what happens when you get there? What exactly do you say to a Sugar Daddy when you come across him, and how do you make sure you don’t go home alone? Here are a few surefire ways to snag your ideal Sugar Daddy.
The invitation says “dress to impress”, but everyone has different definitions of “impressive”. You only have one chance to make a first impression, so your appearance needs to be top-notch. Your biggest mistake is not going to be the price of your wardrobe, but rather how well you dress. The dress is classy-cocktail, which means leaving JUST enough to the imagination. Think clean lines and form fitting, meaning you should never be cutting off your circulation, or be at a major risk for a nip slip.
When taking your search for a Sugar Daddy offline and into the arena, be prepared for fierce competition. On the website, there are approximately 10-12 sugar baby members for every sugar daddy member in any given area. At this party the playing field will be a little more even, but still expect the women to outnumber the men at least 3 to 1. Just because the girls are all essentially competing for the same goal, doesn’t mean you have to be catty. It never hurts to make friends, compare stories and seek advice from your fellow Sugar Babies. No one understands this world better than they do.
A sugar party is a man’s game, and you will have to play offense in order to stay in it. You can’t bag a Sugar Daddy if you are on the wall all night, hoping to be noticed. You have to be friendly, engaging and approachable, all while remaining classy. That means that no matter how eager you may be, you never show it. Remember, this party is not a place to make transactions, it’s a meet and greet for potential sugar relationships. Never bring up the topic of allowances or money when getting to know a Sugar Daddy at a party, unless he brings it up first.
Just because the liquor is flowing and everything you put in your mouth is meant to turn you on, please practice a little self control. No one wants a Sugar Baby who becomes a hot mess in public. Eat, drink, and be merry, but do so in moderation. And remember ladies, an open bar does not equal open legs! But whatever you do after the party, is up to you… [Look out for a list of hotel accommodations near the venue this week in your email].
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