Lots of SeekingArrangement.com members have sent us letters expressing their amazement at how sugar dating has changed their lives.
What’s it like dating single Sugar Daddies? They’re more apt to want a relationship and more intimacy, their profiles usually talk about a relationship and intimacy. The single guys tend to get attached, not that the married ones don’t. One thing that men are stupid about is that they can misconstrue the impressions that their sugar baby is giving them.
What about married Sugar Daddies? Oh they usually just want to keep things discreet. The married one’s don’t want a little sugar baby in the bathroom saying ‘oh come and be with me and take me out to dinner’. The one who just left is married (referring to the US SD she’s visiting who left before the interview), that man would leave his wife tomorrow if I told him to. A lot of times when I see married men getting attached like that I just sort of drop them, because you know, they get confused. I don’t wanna be a home-wrecker, I just rather be a mistress, that’s more of a turn-on. When you’re with the married guy, you’re the other woman. You’re the one the married guy is thinking about when he’s in bed with his wife. If they leave their wives, it takes the fun out of it. I would rather be with a married SD than a single one.
Once this married SD and I were in bed and his wife called. She was wanting him to pick up some food from the Charlies on the way home. He got up and put his clothes on, and then he came over to the couch with me and started kissing me and saying he just wanted to stay with me, but then I said “your wife is waiting for you, you need to get back to her”. Then I walked him back to the bed with me and we played around again. That’s really bad of me, I know. I get a little pleasure out of being the mistress or whatever, I know it’s bad. He ended up staying for about 2 1/2 hours. She called about twice. I kinda like it when the wives call, the married ones, and you’re sitting their in your sexy outfit. It’s naughty, it’s controversial, and it makes people uncomfortable, and I like to make people uncomfortable – well, the narrow-minded people uncomfortable. If your husband’s coming to me as a mistress when he has a real girlfriend on the side, obviously you’re not doing it for him. They have all this bent up passion and they can’t wait to see you. Basically, they’re yours and you can do whatever you want with them.
What is it like dating Sugar Daddies in the UK? My opinion is that they don’t typically tend to go after British women. British women can be quite up-tight, they’re not as feisty, they’re not as opinionated as the women in the US. And a lot of British wives are so uptight. For UK guys, it’s not as important to be as chivalrous or kind like the guys in the US. It’s more accepted in the UK to have a mistress. They are so kinky you know, but it’s almost unemotional. In the US they wanna talk and cuddle, but in the UK they just wanna bite your thong and when they’re done with you they’re done, but here (in the US) it’s the complete opposite, they wanna cuddle and they wanna talk.
I tell my British friends they don’t understand how it is in the States, the men treat you with a lot more respect I think, but on another aspect you do have the super rich guys in the UK who want to fly you up to France or Spain, but they’re definitely not as attached, and they’re definitely kinky…” –Courtney
Have you noticed any differences between married and single sugars, such as their attitude, expectations, and length of the relationship?
What is your favorite ‘type’ of Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby?