There are all kinds of Sugar Daddy arrangements out there, but one aspect of a mutually beneficial arrangement that no sugar should neglect is appreciation – not just for the material sugar, but for the arrangement as a whole.
While even most newbie sugars know that being grateful goes a long way in making an arrangement sweet, many have reported a less than desired level of sugar gratitude…
“Unfortunately, generosity does not always beget appreciation, but rather greed. The phrase “no good deed goes unpunished” comes to mind . . .” – NYGent
The most important thing I’ve learned regarding sugar relationships that this is not about paying for sex but about giving and appreciation. Sex is a part of the relationship, but sex by itself is cheap and does not worth much. Conversations are part of relationship too, but who cares about conversations with people we don’t appreciate! – Margo
How important is feeling appreciated to you in a mutually beneficial arrangement?
Do you test potential sugars for appreciation/gratitude? If so, how?
Do sugars who show less appreciation get more benefits than those who show more?
Is having a ‘never satisfied’ attitude a way to get more sugar for less? Is this strategy OK in your book?
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