Many here have noticed that the first date with a sugar sets the tone for the rest of the arrangement, especially if the negotiation part was left for the face-to-face meeting… While chemistry is usually the biggest deal-breaker, other variables will either make or break the reality of a mutually beneficial relationship.
Top Arrangement Killers:
Change of heart – When a potential decides that sugar isn’t for them after all.
Over-complication – Too much focus is given on discussing the exact terms of an arrangement, which often leads to running around in circles and getting nowhere.
Discouragement – Many are not prepared for the sometimes brutal honesty of prospective sugars, and many become discouraged when their mailbox doesn’t fill up without much effort (especially good-looking SB’s used to being flooded with messages from daters on normal personals sites).
What makes or breaks a sugar arrangement for you?