A wealthy male member recently mentioned how if he asked a potential SB to replace the word “help” with “pay” in her profile, then she would have to admit, logically, that what she was seeking was purely monetary (this member used the term “whore”).
But if you think about it, don’t a lot of us prefer to use vague or slightly ambiguous language in our profiles instead of overt and direct terms like “pay me” or “sex”, if only to allow for creativity, or to cast a wider net of potential matches?
It’s easy for someone to narrow a Sugar Babies or Sugar Daddies intentions to the lowest common denominator, but most of us here on the blogs know quite well that what motivates many of us isn’t purely transactional.
“If you want a situation that is “cash for goods” then so be it, but personally, I feel it puts a stigma on the SD/SB relationship that belittles it. Just my opinion. It’s not what I am looking for and I HOPE that it is not what this website is about.”
Would you rather have a SD pay your bills then buy you gifts? Are you unemployed or underemployed and seeking a SD to support you in this tough economy?
Does giving a SB cash or paying her bills make you anymore/less satisfied in the arrangement? Has your giving been effected by the economic downturn?
Has the bad economy made you bolder, or more specific about your expectations from a Sugar Daddy OR a Sugar Baby?
Have you changed your profile to be more vague? More direct? Why?
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