Married men are a different kind of Sugar Daddy. I am currently seeing a married man. At first I thought it was the best option, since I’d have more free time at night and on weekends, and it would put a concrete limit to any emotional escalation.
I am very attached to him now, but if I had to start all over again, I would choose a non married Sugar Daddy, here’s why:
If your Sugar Daddy lives with his wife, the only time you will get to talk to him on the phone is from around 10AM to 7PM on weekdays, and the occasional unexpected alone moments. Trust me babe, it gets really hard from 7PM to 10AM, or weekends, when you know he’s living his real life and you have no part in it.
When dating a married Sugar Daddy, there will always be the time where he tells you about his wife. The wife is like a third, silent person in your relationship with him. The duration of the relationship in a lot of cases depends on her not finding out about the arrangement. If she finds out, you can most likely forget about your Sugar Daddy. It is also possible that if she gets sick or has an accident, your Sugar Daddy will decide that he has to be there for her, and end your relationship. So although a single Sugar Daddy might be fickle because of personal tastes, a relationship with a married Sugar Daddy can be quite unstable.
* do not wear perfume when you meet him
* do not use his hairbrush
* if you have to walk in the street, walk at a small distance from each other
* do not make unreasonable requests
* do not suggest any changes (perfume or appearance) – she WILL notice
* NEVER leave notes he might want to keep
* do not call him outside his “out of home” time, even to leave a voice mail
(these are only things YOU can do, doing them does not guarantee that your SugarDaddy will do all the things a married Sugar Daddy should do to stay safe and not hurt anyone’s feelings)
Some married Sugar Daddies have to be careful with their expenses, as most of them have their credit card bills sent at home where they can be scrutinized and analyzed by their wives. This means they can’t easily do things such as buy plane tickets online, pay for your phone bill in a minute if you have a problem, buy you gifts online, take you on major shopping sprees (you can only walk around with so much cash), pay for hotel rooms, or even transfer money into your account. Of course, some are smarter and have a credit card whose bill is sent to their office and will use it to spoil you, but they don’t all have one already, and it might take a while.
If only Saks Fifth billed credit cards as “worldemail.com” 😀
Last but not least, the room for being spontaneous is greatly reduced in a relationship with a married SugarDaddy. Unless his family is on holidays at the other end of the world for a month, there is little chance you and him can act on whim and impulse together. This can be less fun, especially if you like spontaneity.
So here’s my little “article” about married Sugar Daddies 😀 Of course darling, if you have to choose between a married man you really like and a single man you like a lot less, go for the married one, but know what you’re in for before jumping in.
Good luck babe, let us know how it goes!
aww writing this post made me sad
(Stephan from SeekingArrangement.com Writes)
Thank you SO much for sharing ButterCup!!!
*Hands ButterCup the “SugarBlogger Of The Week Award”* You needn’t be sad Butter, we love you 😀 !!!
Are there any other Sugar Babies or Sugar Daddies who date married? What have you learned that might be helpful for others to know?
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