9 years ago
Bad Experience Addressed

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SugarBaby wonders if SugarDaddy ‘Posers’ can infiltrate site

(Jessica writes)

Hello,

I recently joined your site, and was really excited about joining. I spent hours browsing prospective sugar daddies. However, my very first e-mail I got was from a guy who sent a nasty letter to me.

He put “Did you say 5’6″ and 180 pounds? That’s not curvy…that’s obese.”

I put “average” for my body type, as my personal trainer said I fall into the category of the average American. So, I was honest in my profile.

I am very upset at this letter he sent. I have read that a sugar daddy is supposed to make you feel special, and not abuse you. They are supposed to appreciate the beauty of sugar babies. This guy is certainly not one of them. I want to know if all sugar daddies at this site are like this. I don’t want to keep reading e-mails of abuse if this is the type of guys who are on here. I know some people have their preference for slim, and that’s fine with me…but they absolutely shouldn’t make contact with me just to say they are not interested in me and insult me!

I do however want to find someone that can appreciate my beauty; as I am very desirable by a lot of men. I would also like to enjoy the finer things in life….Things that I had read reviews about this site…what this site is supposed to be about. Are there a lot of sugardaddy posers on this site?

I don’t want to cancel my profile just yet. I did put a lot of time, effort, and hope in it. Your response is greatly appreciated.

(SeekingArrangement writes)

We have warned the member you reported, and upon any further reports, he will be removed and blocked from our site. Our site is indeed intended to be a place where all types of sugar babies and sugar daddies can explore the possibilities of arrangements together.

You must know that the overwhelming majority of Sugar Daddies on our site know how to treat a woman with respect, kindness, and dignity. Still, there are always a few bad eggs in the mix. There are numerous sugar daddies with preferences specifically matched for those of every weight, height, and ethnicity. Your experience was unfortunate, and doubly so, as it was your first.

We recommend you give the site a chance, and please put your good writing to use by contributing comments and feedback to our blog.

*****These are accounts of real members. Names of members appearing on this blog are not the actual names of the members who have written to the site*****

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  10. confused says:

    is there anyway to get rid of all this spam advertising on here. This is to comment about sd sb arrangements, not advertise.

  11. HunnyBabe says:

    I agree with Bob…i do think both ways u should stablish trust, and a good friendship…and after that everything else comes along…Rome wasn’t biult in 1 day right?, neither a relationship(no matter what kind it is)…another thing is: don’t act desperate…believe me guys smell desperation, so they obviously know that if u act desperate with them u might as well be the same with 20 other guys…take the time to get to know ur man, and let him get to know u too, let him get to see how much worth it you are, and why u are good SB material, let him see how beautiful u are, and how enjoyable the time can be next to you ;), be urself, don’t try to act like a pro, just be urselg, and u’ll find a good SD 😉

    xxx

  12. bob says:

    Confused:

    A few things to remember: Things work both ways on a site such as this. I myself am not looking to spend a lot of money on a sugarbaby RIGHT AWAY. Having personally experienced that some women on this site are just look to score an easy buck from a chump I’ll not provide any support till I see a sugarbaby’s willingness to make an arrangement MUTUTALLY beneficial. The old saying ‘once bitten twice shy’ comes to mind.

    Second – I rarely even look at emails from women who email me first unless there is something int he subject line that shows the mail is personal. Of the 100 or so initial contacts from women in my inbox right now, I’d guess about 90% of them are clear cut examples of cut and paste sent to as many men as possible. Why would I even consider spending the time to reply to someone who says she loves the photo of by green eyes in my profile, when I have baby blues and don’t even have a pic in my profile? This obviously may not apply to you, but be understanding that men get a lot of ‘spam’ emails from women here, and they may not take such emails seriously.

  13. confused says:

    I have came across several poser sugardaddies on this site. Some are not looking to spend any money on their sugarbaby but want alot from the sugarbaby. Some that have no money and lie on their profiles. Others that claim to want to take care of a woman but are not willing to travel to see her even it is only a couple hours. Others that do not have the time to persue a sd/sb relationship at this time but still have their ad up and are active on the site.

    I have made initial contact with several sugardaddies that have not had the courtesy to even respond back. I have met nothing but disappointment so far.

  14. RandyFlyer says:

    Jessica: On behalf of the great majority of us men on here that are gentlemen, please accept our apologies for a few who are not. There is no reason for this kind of behavior and I am glad you reported it. Further, I have come to learn that physical looks are only a small portion of the variety of inputs to how desirable a woman is including her smell, confidence, intellect and the big one: how sexy she believes she is. One of my best lovers was not considered to be a classic beauty — actually far from it. But WOW, was she sexy. I won’t list all the reasons her as I do not want to offend anyone but the point is made — it is not all body shape. Also, it sounds like you are working on improving yours further given your personal trainer commitment.

    Best of success finding a good match that excites you — and knows how to treat you as a gentleman!

    Take care, Randy

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