9 years ago
Single Mom Seeks SugarDaddy

9 years ago
Single Mom Seeks SugarDaddy

We lend some advice to a single mother curious about Sugar Daddy relationships.

(Alana writes)

Hi, I was on your site and really like it.I have already made a profile and uploaded my pictures.Take a look if you want.

I am thinking about buying a 20 membership but I am really worried that this site is like all the others.million match, sugar daddie for me, etc…..I am a single mother, student, live by myself and most of all broke!!!!!!!Is there anything that you can tell me to put me more at ease with this.I don’t believe that these men will give $$$ in exchage for company, dates and yes I know “alone time”.

I hope I hear back from somebody.

Thank you for your time.

Alana

(SeekingArrangement writes)

After reading your message and viewing your profile, I cannot predict what your outcomes will be on our site. Thousands of single mothers are registered members, and many of them have been using the site successfully for months, and some for years.

A few questions you may consider asking yourself, are:

Do I know exactly what my expectations from this site are?

Do I know what kind of arrangements I want?

Do I know how far I am willing to go (literally and figuratively)?

Also, as with all online dating, the most important fallacy to avoid is discouragement. Discouragement results from a feeling of rejection, perhaps caused by noticing someone has read but not replied to your email, or that your page hasn’t been viewed as many times as you think it should have been, etc.

Discouragement is the main reason online daters fail at finding what they’re looking for, so my recommendation to you, is to avoid it like the plague. Perhaps the best option for you now is to use the site for free, and upgrade on a need-to basis.

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13 Responses to “Single Mom Seeks SugarDaddy”

  1. Lisa Marie says:

    I am a single mom of 2. I am recently divorced and living with my parents to get though right now tillI get back on my feet. I have my good days and bad. I am new to this site as well.
    I want something, not sure what yet, except for the company and help. ButI do need it to be known my kids come first. Father figure is not in the picture at the moment. So I am on my own in it aol beside the minimal help from my parents. Any advice or help?

  2. Happy Lurker says:

    Darkvixen,
    Name so well chosen, you really are a sly fox.
    You are young and have 2 kids. Then party life is over, no more sex and drugs and rock n roll.
    First you have to bring up these kids to maturity and be a role model.
    Mom is an SB, hardly shows responsibility towards a life task you have undertaken. Just bite the bullet and work your butt off to give these kids what they deserve.
    It now sounds they are a millstone around your neck.

  3. DarkVixen23 says:

    I have to agree with everyone on here. I’m new to this site but found that this is better than any other site that’s related out there.

    I’m too, young and a single mother of 2. I came on here because I have goals and dreams that I want to accomplish and need that extra “boost” to make them come true.

    And I agree, as women especially mothers, we have tendancies to put ourselves last and take care of everyone else and not ourselves (at least that’s what happened to me).

    Personally, I’m looking for a “change” just like BONNIEWINTERROWD said.

    But being new to this I would love to talk to other SB’s and learn about their experiences! :)

  4. BerkshireSD says:

    Wow this an old topic, but a good one. I would definitely like to meet a single mom.

    I am a parent too, and someone that likes children would be best for me. My last SB had kids and it worked out quite nicely for a long time.

    I have to admit to being a homebody, and when we were all together, that was the best part.

  5. sue says:

    hello webmaster/webmistree Can you provide more information on this? i sometimes read other websites that are on very similar subjects.

  6. lovey says:

    I have had a few potentials and they were nice enough, shopping trips etc… but diapers cant be bought with fine dining leftovers, lol

  7. BONNIEWINTERROWD says:

    i see this site as not being me tring to sale myself but looking for a change in my life

  8. BONNIEWINTERROWD says:

    i’m a single mother of 4 children only 2 live with me.i just want someone to take care of me for a change.

  9. confused says:

    Although I have no young children, I can relate to the slight disappointment on this site. However compared to the other sugardaddy sites that offer free memberships to women, this is the best. I have joined about 4 other sites that were free to women and oddly, in a week on membership, have not received even a profile view, but after checking out the site, there are very few active male members, I think only about 40 in my state, and few are active in the last month.

  10. peggy says:

    I am also a single mom looking for a sugar daddy. I understand where you are coming from. If anyone out there has any suggestions for me please let me know. Thank you.

  11. janice75 says:

    Dear Alana,hello my name is Janice,and i too am basically a single mother of two children.I can understand the frustrations of being broke!!On the Seeking arrangement site,they will give $$$and it can happen.Take your time in finding one,because i kinow that your child comes first,and we have to be careful.Let the men know upfront what you need,and go from there.If you come across one that does not keep his word,then move on.I met my sugar/d on the site and we are slowely but surely working on things.At first i had to remind him the he was not on e-Harmony!!so he really understood the nature of the site!!Ha!but he got it and everything is good.If you would like look me up on the site and i will give you my infor personally and maybe i can help!!Hang in there and go for the Gold cause silver just won’t do!!!janice.

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